Whatever Has Happened To My Fair Lady? …How to handle a woman? An item for guys that www.sootmagazine.com
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There’s no doubt that achieving a balanced lifestyle can be tough for professional guys these days – and especially when it comes to relating to the female of the species! I often hear men who would like to meet that special woman say that they rarely know if a gal is single or interested in them – it seems the innate flirting response has gone missing! One outcome of this for many a male is that his life lacks the balance that a relationship with a woman brings and spends too much time focused on work – or at the pub – to the detriment of his health and wellbeing. Not so long ago a man’s role was clear. He was would take pride in being able to provide for the wellbeing of his wife and children. These days, however, a large percentage of women can expect to have careers in what was once a man’s domain and can provide for their material needs without the support of a partner. Yet most of those who are single would still prefer to share their personal life in a great relationship. So if you’re a man who is attracted to a woman, don’t assume she is not interested and available. Whether you meet her through business, via a professional matchmaking service, introduction agency or dating site or in the world at large be aware that the tendency for a woman to focus ‘as
if a man’ in her work role is likely to conceal feminine attributes that you can help to flourish as you get to know each other. If you arrange to meet after work, be aware that the demands of her day may have left her stressed and she needs to relax and unwind…and that listening to her as she does so will boost her feel good hormones! On a first date I strongly recommend you avoid conversations of any length to do with her work – or about past relationships. Talking about common interests such as travel, movies or music can help you to both to be at ease. Also be aware that all too often expectations lead to disappointment. Don’t look for what is missing in your initial meeting; focus on enjoying being in the present. If you have enjoyed your time together let her know that you will contact her within a few days…and do so! As Australia’s leading professional matchmaking service and consultancy since 1976, we can help you to understand the opposite sex as well as learn about your own needs in a potential relationship. Our search and introduction programs provide opportunities for you to gain insights into yourself that will increase your chances of finding – and keeping – the love you seek. Since 1976 our professional matchmaking services have assisted thousands of successful men and women to achieve their relationship goals. Why not you?!
Source: http://www.yvonneallen.com.au/whatever-happened-fair-lady/