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Ashley Rudd explains why our county has everything you need to prepare for the month of love
February: the month of love. Whether you’re single, in a relationship… or a situationship … now is the perfect time to slow down, reflect, and appreciate the many forms of love that shape our lives.
Whether it’s cherishing time with loved ones or indulging in self-care, this month is all about finding joy in the little moments. It’s a chance to celebrate myself, my friendships, and the beauty of Cheshire while soaking in February’s magic and all the love it o ers.
I’m celebrating Galentine’s Day –spending time with my closest friends,
the women who inspire, support, and brighten my life. I’m thrilled to be hosting a Galentine’s dinner because there’s something magical about sharing a meal with those who bring out the best in you.
The evening will feature a playlist of songs that have soundtracked our friendship, a cheeseboard with selections from The Cheshire Cheese Company, and plenty of bubbly. I’ll be heading to Vin Santo in Chester for recommendations on the perfect bottles.
For a touch of elegance, I’m planning champagne coupes with delicate pink and red bows. You’ll find me on Pinterest, gathering all the dreamy hosting ideas.
After a season of hustle and bustle, taking time for myself is a priority. I’ve planned a much-anticipated self-care day at The Municipal Hotel & Spa in Liverpool. This luxurious spa o ers a tranquil escape perfect for recharging. From soothing massages to indulgent facials and time spent in the serene thermal suite, it’s a day of pampering I truly need. This experience is my reminder to slow down, care for myself, and leave feeling refreshed, rejuvenated, and ready for February’s promise of love.
No self-care day is complete without nature; for me, that means a beach walk with my Bullmasti , Trevor. He may be massive (and still growing into his paws), but he’s a big softy who can’t get enough of running up and down the shore. True love, indeed.
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Self-love isn’t just about grand gestures; it’s also about the small, thoughtful moments that elevate everyday life. This February, I’m treating myself to luxurious candles from OWEN DREW
To add a little sparkle, I’m indulging in stunning pieces from RANI & CO. JEWELLERY. I love that their pieces really lean into storytelling that celebrates iconic feminists, goddesses and feminine energies.
In the spirit of reflection, I’ll also be re-reading Dolly Alderton’s EVERYTHING I KNOW ABOUT LOVE . It is a heartfelt, witty exploration of friendships, relationships, and the different kinds of love we experience.
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15 FEBRUARY, MANCHESTER ACADEMY Grammy-nominated guitarist, producer and composer Cory Wong has announced a Manchester date that will conclude his hotly anticipated European tour. The gig follows the release of Wong’s widely acclaimed new album Starship Syncopation, which featured Metropole Orkest and came out earlier this year. manchesteracademy.net
27 FEBRUARY, EVERYMAN ALTRINCHAM
Classical ballet's most powerful tale of love, treachery and forgiveness comes to the screen via the Royal Ballet’s stunning production. Bringing together Tchaikovsky’s sensational score with the incredible imagination of choreographer Liam Scarlett and designer John Macfarlane, Swan Lake on the big screen will be an exceptional way to experience this ultimate ballet classic.
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8 February
NEW CENTURY HALL, MANCHESTER
Five-piece Kawala recently announced their upcoming project, the Kawala Collection, which was due to be released on 24th January. Consisting of nine tracks portraying Kawala’s diverse songwriting capabilities, from the sun-kissed ‘American Adrenaline’, upbeat palliative fanfavourite ‘What’s Up’, to the vibrant o erings of ‘Time Slipping Away’. newcenturymcr.com
28 February PARR HALL
Internationally acclaimed comedian Jimeoin is returning to Parr Hall with his new show, Who’s Your Man?! Nothing beats seeing the Irish observational joke-master live where his great craic, wide appeal and sharply observed sense of humour have had audiences in stitches across the globe. parrhall.culturewarrington.org
4-8 February
LIVERPOOL PLAYHOUSE THEATRE
Following a triumphant sold-out UK tour, Tracy-Ann Oberman is back to reprise her starring role as the first British actress to play Shylock in the critically acclaimed production of The Merchant of Venice 1936. Ambition, power and political unrest explode on the stage in this dramatic update. everymanplayhouse.com
17 February
THE LOWRY (QUAYS)
For the first time ever musical supernova Jazz Emu (The Guardian’s Breakout Comedy Act of 2023 and The Telegraph’s Funniest Comedian of the 21st Century) will be touring the UK with his hotly anticipated brandnew show, Knight Fever, alongside his full live band, ‘The Cosmique Perfectión’. Following his run at the Soho Theatre and Edinburgh Festival Fringe, this tour will feature brand new songs, and an appearance from the King himself. thelowry.com
elebrity chef James Martin will be celebrating a major landmark in 2025 when he heads out on the road with his all-new Live tour.
James’ fifth tour will include his 100th live show and comes after four sold out tours which have seen him cooking on some of the most famous stages in the country. In 2025, James Martin Live will see the popular TV chef creating mouth-watering dishes with a little music thrown in too. liverpoolphil.com
Day Fever is coming to Liverpool Camp & Furnace on 8 February, an ego-free good time event for all
Forget feeling like your clubbing days are behind you. Day Fever is a revolution, a joyous celebration where people from all walks of life come together to dance, laugh, and relive the magic of those late nights out. There’s no dress code, no egos – just pure positivity.
Early in 2024, a bold idea was born between friends, actress Vicky McClure, filmmaker and broadcaster Jonny Owen, and Jon McClure, frontman of Reverend & The Makers: a daytime clubbing experience that’s all about fun, freedom, and fabulous tunes. What started as a one-off event in Sheffield’s iconic City Hall Ballroom has exploded into a nationwide phenomenon. Fast forward to today and from 3pm to 8pm, thousands of partygoers from every walk of life are hitting the dancefloor at iconic venues across the UK to dance the day away at the "disco that doesn’t ruin your Sunday", with tickets selling out in hours across cities like Liverpool, Sheffield, and Glasgow. For many, Day Fever has redefined what it means to let loose. The event provides a safe, inclusive, and ego-free space where attendees can simply have a brilliant time.
“Travelling up and down the country and seeing so many people enjoying themselves has been such a joy,” says cofounder Vicky McClure. “Hearing their stories has shown us how important it is to just take a break from life and have a good dance!”
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Organiser of A-list events, Liz Taylor reflects on a life well lived - and why her home in Bowdon is just as exciting
Absolutely is nervous in the presence of Liz Taylor, founder of TLC Events. Not because of any primadonna behaviour – she’s nothing of the sort, in fact Liz is an engaging interviewee – but because of a particular skill she has. “I can spot a spelling mistake a mile away,” she smiles. Cue a second sub of this piece. It’s a statement that comes up when discussing Liz’s early life and how that evolved into running a company that organises luxurious events for the celebrity and business world. TLC Events’ portfolio includes styling the Kensington Palace Winter Whites Gala hosted by HRH The Duke of Cambridge (now Prince of Wales), o cial organiser of the Coronation Street 50th anniversary celebrations, and working with businesses such as Mary Portas, UEFA and Mercedes-Benz. And, it seems, this was all written in the stars. “An early school report once stated, ‘If Elizabeth was not so bossy, she might achieve a lot more!’,” the Liz of today laughs. “From a young age, I wanted to feel in control and be organised – and I’ve never shied away from that. Pocket money was non-existent in our house, and that is exactly what fuelled my drive in life. I had to earn everything for myself. I even snuck into Manchester for my Saturday job at Emma Somerset, a fashion
retailer. I loved selling, and I was great at it. That early experience taught me independence, courage, and the value of hard work.”
Fashion, initially, was the career direction Liz pursued, but things came to a head and she needed to make a change. “I was divorced, with two children to feed, no job, and £200 in the bank,” she says. “A friend asked me to help create a Cinderella-themed Bar Mitzvah at the Radisson Hotel in Manchester. Together, we created something extraordinary – something no-one had ever seen before. I was good at this, and word got out. The phone started ringing.
“In 1988, the event market was emerging and there were very few planners in the North West,” Liz continues. “I was a parent first, but I quickly realised I’d have to juggle a full-time job with raising kids and working unsociable hours. But I only operate at one speed: top gear. Determination and gut instinct drove me forward, and I found independence and fulfilment in the process.”
It wasn’t long before TLC Events was a market leader. “We o er events that people talk about. Events that are unforgettable for their daring creativity, cutting-edge innovation, meticulous detail, and world-class entertainment. You’re only as good as your last event, and that’s how you lead an industry.
“I started solo,” Liz adds about the evolution of the business, “then tried a partnership – only to realise I worked best alone. It was the right
“I am proud to work alongside such a talented daughter”
decision. I was in control of the whole business now and the year after the amicable buy-out of my business partner, TLC turned over £4 million. The hard work had paid o . I’ve always brought the same passion, innovation, and attention to detail to every event, staying one step ahead of the competition.”
The business has grown up alongside Liz’s own children. “I hired a nanny who stayed with us for nearly 30 years so I could provide for my daughters, Katie and Goldie, while showing them the value of hard work. When they were older, they even came along to events, mastering the art of napkin folding! I have regrets about missed moments, but I did what I had to do. My example paid o – they’re both strong, independent women with successful careers and happy families.”
So much so that Goldie is now a part of the business too, running TLC Events’ London o ce. “It started as a casual conversation, but felt like the perfect fit,” Liz explains. “Goldie’s kids were older, and she was ready for a new challenge. She’d built a successful career in
events and as a high-level PA, so she brought the skills, contacts, and understanding of the business just as our southern operation was taking o . Boundaries are critical. At work, she’s Goldie, not my daughter. I treat her like any other team member – though sometimes I have to stop myself from being harder on her. It’s a tricky balance, but we make it work. She’s earned her place on the team, and I’m proud to work alongside such a talented daughter.” Liz’s world continues to evolve at pace. In 2020, she launched Liz Taylor Consultancy, which encompasses her work as a successful media commentator, motivational speaker, podcast host, and consultant for hospitality and luxury brands. She was recently appointed as a Director of the Victoria Baths Trading Company and Special Advisor to the Victoria Baths Trust, and an Entrepreneur in Residence for the University of Central Lancashire, something she is clearly enthusiastic about.
“It lets me inspire the next generation. Finding young people with that spark and helping ignite it is incredibly rewarding.”
Home today is Bowdon, close to where she grew up in Hale, and even that has an element of razzmatazz about it. “I knocked down every possible wall and door,” she says with glee. “When I first saw it, it felt outdated and claustrophobic, with its blue 1960s carpet. I wanted space, light, and energy. Now, it’s one big open space. It’s mad and colourful and it’s 100% me.”
It sounds the perfect place for Liz to take stock and reflect on how far she has come. “Organising Coronation Street’s 50th birthday party was a dream come true,” she says on the highlights. “The event – a star-studded charity gala at The Hilton –had a golden and black theme, seamlessly interwoven with priceless archive footage.
“Another highlight? Rescuing Prince William’s Winter Whites Ball when it was on the brink of collapse – with just two weeks to pull it o . I called in every favour, navigated strict protocols, and built a magical winter wonderland for 400 guests. The ‘money shot’ says it all: Jon Bon Jovi, Taylor Swift, and Prince William singing Livin’ on a Prayer.” Job very much done.
See more at tlc-ltd.co.uk and liz-taylor-consulting. co.uk, plus listen to Liz’s podcast Events That Made Me on Spotify, Audible and Apple Musict
Absolutely catches up with Kevin Clifton and Faye Brooks about bringing the world of Chicago to the Liverpool Empire this month
Set amidst the razzle-dazzle decadence of the 1920s, Chicago is the story of Roxie Hart, a housewife and nightclub dancer who murders her on-the-side lover after he threatens to walk out on her. Desperate to avoid conviction, she dupes the public, the media, and her rival cellmate, Velma Kelly, by hiring Chicago’s slickest criminal lawyer to transform her malicious crime into a barrage of sensational headlines, the likes of which might just as easily be ripped from today's tabloids.
Strictly Come Dancing favourite turned theatre star and Liverpool local, Kevin Clifton, joins the UK and Ireland tour as Billy Flynn, coming to the Liverpool Empire from 10-15 February. We caught up with Kevin to chat all about life after Strictly, touring, and all that jazz.
Q You’re returning to the stage, this time playing the role of notorious lawyer, Billy Flynn. What drew you to the role, and how are you approaching the character?
A I think Chicago is one of the most wellknown musicals in the world, so when the opportunity to be a part of it came along, I had to take it seriously. The role of Billy Flynn is iconic – I got so many texts from people when I was first announced like, “wow”. Everyone knows the character! I always try to build a bit of a backstory to any character I’m playing, and for Billy Flynn I watched a lot of old school gangster movies, to get that inner world of madness, but outer world of confidence going on. I tend to usually play very physically energetic or flamboyant roles, but Billy is very much in control – he stands still, and things happen around him, as he’s in charge, commanding the stage. It’s a very di erent role for me to play. That’s probably been the biggest challenge for me.
Q You’re much-loved for your time on Strictly Come Dancing, competing in five finals over seven series. How does your work in theatre compare to the disciplines required for the competition? A I started out as a kid in the competition world, but I always loved going to the theatre, so I thought that theatre would be my destination eventually. I left the competitions in my 20s and went into theatre, and for me I much preferred it. I know I ended up on Strictly Come Dancing, which is essentially a competition, but I approached it as if I’m in the theatre – we’re all a team creating a show together.
I much prefer being part of a company, being on stage, all working together towards the same goal to create magic for an audience. I love the live element every night and going to a di erent city each week – the audiences all bring unique energies and react di erently.
Q Since your departure in 2020, you’ve leaned into acting (both on stage and screen). Do you still relish the opportunity
“We are there to entertain people, express emotions and to tell stories”
to dance where possible, or are you enjoying flexing a di erent skill?
A I went into theatre before I was on Strictly – I was on Broadway in 2009 and did my first West End show in 2010 – so for me it’s always been a thing. I’ve always been interested in acting and singing. I know people see me as a dancer, but I always consider myself as a performer and an actor first, it just so happened that dance was the main medium I was using. For me, it’s really all about storytelling and the characters.
Q Is there a piece of advice you’ve received or that you would pass on to anyone hoping to go into the creative industry?
A A piece of advice that I’ve always tried to live by is, “the point is not to do nothing wrong, the point is to do something magical”. I love that quote. I think sometimes we take so many lessons in technique and think we must deliver perfection and not make any mistakes, but it’s not about that, we’re there to entertain people, and express emotions and to tell stories, that’s the important bit. When I was teaching my celebrities, for example, on Strictly Come Dancing, I would always say that to them. It’s way more important to whoever is watching in the studio or at home, that they’re a ected by emotions. That is more important than if you can straighten your leg or point your toe.
Manchester’s Faye Brooks on returning to the role of Roxie Hart, staying disciplined and learning something new
Q You are well known for your awardwinning turn as Kate Connor in Coronation Street, however you’re no stranger to the stage. What is it about theatre that keeps you coming back?
A I love performing live. The stage is where I truly feel challenged as an actress. A place where I can play and really bring a character to life.
Q What are the main di erences between preparing for a screen and stage role, and do you have a preference?
A I think they’re equally challenging, I tend to do a lot of research for any role, but I suppose the di erence with TV is that you may get an opportunity to do another take whereas theatre is live, you only get one shot!
Q You previously played Roxie Hart to acclaim. Are you excited to revisit the role?
A I’m so unbelievably grateful to be returning to play the role of Roxie Hart. I adore her. Always have. Always will. She’s such an interesting character that I discover something new about her every day.
Q Chicago features the famed music of John Kander and Fred Ebb. How would you describe the
score, and do you have a favourite number to perform and/or watch?
A I think the score is timeless, unforgettable rhythms, toe tapping numbers throughout and the most stunning jazz melodies. My favourite number – and I love them all – is probably “Roxie” and “Me & My Baby”.
Q Touring a musical is no easy feat. How do you keep yourself on top form both physically and mentally?
A A lot of discipline. To perform every show to the best of my ability I must make sure I take care of myself, mind, body and spirit. I will be quite strict with my diet so that I’m fuelled e ciently not only to get through the show but to keep my immune system strong. Sleep is vital, and meditation for focus and peace of mind.
Q You were the runner-up on Dancing On Ice in 2021. Would you be open to any more TV competitions and/ or learning another challenging skill?
A I loved learning how to ice skate, I’ll forever treasure my time on Dancing On Ice. I’d never say no to Strictly Come Dancing, but for now I’m totally focused on performing onstage or acting for TV roles.
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Ben Elton is bringing his UK tour to Stockport and Chester this month, and it’s a show we all need to pay attention to
Ben Elton’s always had a lot to say. You don’t write countless sitcoms (including Upstart Crow, The Thin Blue Line, The Young Ones and Blackadder), pen 16 novels, four West End plays and four musicals if you’re not an ideas guy. And it’s fresh ideas which have always driven his ground-breaking stand up comedy routines, plenty of which will be being explored in Ben’s brand new stand-up tour – his first since 2019 (the previous one having been 15 years before that). The show’s called Authentic Stupidity, and it’s all about the ridiculous things we humans do and think.
“The tour title is a little joke about how we’re all saying that Artificial Intelligence is this great threat to humanity, which of course it is, but I reckon the biggest threat is actually Authentic Stupidity,” he laughs. “Never mind AI, let’s start by worrying about AS! But really all my tours could have been called Authentic Stupidity, because they’re always comic explorations
of the essential absurdity of existence. I think all good comedy is,” he explains.
“I’ve always done that in my routines. Sharing my own fears and joys and exasperations. Just being as funny as I can about the s*** that’s on my mind. Every part of my comedy is an exploration of human inadequacy,” he says, using Blackadder as one of his earliest examples “Blackadder thinks he’s so clever, but his vanity, his jealousy and his ambition screw him every time. We need to accept that we are not everything and that we don’t know everything. If we did that I think we’d do less harm to ourselves and to the planet. The world would probably be a lot nicer and safer if we all embraced our inner Baldrick!”
That’s not to say this is all misanthropy, though. “In some ways, the world is better now. I think younger people have started to accept that weakness is OK; that weakness is merely an acknowledgement that you might need help, that you aren’t necessarily the thing you want to be or that people expect you to be. All these things that we used to hide are coming out more.”
There are, of course, aspects of modern life that have emphatically not improved,
in his opinion. And while insisting he’s not a luddite, he’s acutely aware of where technology is going wrong. (His most recent novel, Identity Crisis, has some clever themes about how technology is deployed in the stoking of culture wars with nefarious intentions.)
“Personally, I would rather the internet wasn’t around because, although it’s ingenious and useful, it’s destroying democracy as we speak because we’re too stupid to tell the di erence between verifiable facts and undiluted arse porridge,” he says.
“And now we’ve invented AI, I mean how stupid is that? If a terrorist went on television and said, ‘We’ve come up with a machine that will literally make human beings redundant’, we’d send in MI5! We’d think this is a genuinely existential threat to the future of humanity. But because this is a bunch of tech bros and billionaires in California, we’re all just going, ‘Oh well, apparently it’s going to be able to write new Beatles songs.’”
So is he looking forward to his new tour? “Absolutely. Finding the funny has never been more important.”
“THE WORLD WOULD BE A LOT NICER IF WE EMBRACED OUR INNER BALDRICK”
Interestingly, Ben doesn’t think of himself as being a great comic performer; for him it’s all about his writing, which he’s repeatedly proven himself to be great at, ever since the cult sitcom The Young Ones hit BBC Two in 1982.
“Look, I think I can be pretty funny in my delivery, but it would be nothing without the material. I’m not a natural clown who can get a laugh just pulling a face.” He recalls taking his wife and then young children to the home of pal Rowan Atkinson, with whom he worked on Blackadder, The Thin Blue Line and Mr Bean
“Rowan was handing out the cakes and the cat was lurking nearby and appeared about to pounce. Rowan removed the fondant fancies and then without any knowledge of doing it, he did a little mime of an outraged cat,” he says. “For a moment, he inhabited the creature in front of him and the kids and us fell about. It was perfect. I couldn’t do that.
I could be funny in conversation, but my funny bones are all about the words.”
He’s doing himself down a bit though: he did a cracking job hosting the one-o revival of Friday Night Live – the variety showcase of comic talent – for Channel 4 in 2022. The show wouldn’t have won the Bafta against some sti competition if he wasn’t a great performer. The Guardian described his set as “bracingly topical and outspoken”.
It’s fascinating learning how a comedian’s early forays into stand-up can shape their persona. Those accustomed to today’s (relatively) polite audiences would blanche at the often-brutal atmosphere of the Comedy Store in London, where Ben – along with the likes of Rik Mayall, Adrian Edmondson, French & Saunders and Jo Brand – cut his teeth.
“Back then it was two shows a night, the early one at 10pm, then one at midnight, in a strip club in Soho. It was 1981, Brixton was in flames, Thatcher was starting her ten-year war on society and sometimes audiences were tense and angry,” he explains.
“People weren’t tuned into what we now call alternative comedy, which I would describe as the comedy of ideas, where you use your own principles and beliefs to form your own comedy. That’s certainly what I
did. People were used to comedians who told jokes and part of the joke might be about dealing with hecklers, so there was this idea that that was what a comic did – they dealt with hecklers. I hate hecklers. I’ve never heard a witty heckle. They’re mythical.”
If you’re on stage trying to make a point, to deliver a complicated idea using a ri that’ll reach a satisfying conclusion, you need people to listen. How on earth do you do that with some drunk being authentically stupid? “I developed what was probably an overly combative style just to shut the idiots down,” he says. “It took me a long time to get out of the shadow of the gong.”
But over a lifetime of hugely successful stand up he’s learnt to have faith in audiences – partly because they’re now paying to see him specifically, unlike in those days when they’d show up and be presented with a line-up of unknowns. “I learnt not to trust them, thinking that, if I paused, someone would shout out,” he says. “I can pause a little bit now, but I still don’t pause much because I’ve just got too much to say.”
Ben Elton will be appearing at Stockport, Plaza Theatre, on 4th February, and Storyhouse on 5th February. See more at benelton.live
The Lobster Man returns... Pop artist Philip Colbert takes on artificial intelligence with a new battle scene series
International pop artist Philip Colbert is back. Absolutely ventured down to London to see his latest exhibition at the Saatchi Gallery, the museum where he first introduced his paintings to the art scene. In this major solo exhibition, The Battle for Lobsteropolis, Philip’s lobster embarks on a journey through time, confronting artificial intelligence in reimagined historical battle scenes. Dubbed “the godson of Andy Warhol” by Andre Leon Talley, Philip’s work captivates with a bold mix of pop culture references tied
to geopolitics and current events. His visual style is hyper-pop, with the lobster – central to Philip’s themes and stories – confronting the dangers and complexities of the modern world amidst the barrage of mass and social media.
At the heart of this show are two monumental AI-assisted paintings, with Philip’s lobster taking on the tech world in epic face-o s. While AI experts caution that we are unknowingly heading toward a dangerous future, Philip’s perspective takes a more subtle approach to the impact of AI,
creating a world where art history and digital innovation are in constant flux. Instead of sounding an alarm, Philip engages with the conversation around AI and art, highlighting how our definition of art has evolved.
As AI-generated art challenges traditional norms in the art world, Philip’s works explore the ongoing tension between history and technological progress. He underscores this monumental theme by revisiting a 2,000-yearold masterpiece from Pompeii. In his new piece, After Battle of Issus Mosaic, he has reimagined
the iconic “Alexander the Great” mosaic, which is currently housed at the Museo Archeologico Nazionale di Napoli, where Philip also showcased his work earlier this year.
The artist reimagines the composition, relocating it to his dystopian Lobsteropolis – a realm that evokes both nostalgia and unease. The clash between Philip’s lobster and a rising army of AI avatars challenges viewers to reconsider the enduring influence of art history as it confronts the digital age directly.
The exhibition also features a series of sculptures that powerfully convey the intensity of the battle scene, inspired by classical mythological figures such as the Centaur, Minotaur, and Medusa. Philip’s unique reinterpretations of these iconic characters emphasise the timeless relevance of mythology and its lasting impact in the contemporary world.
Philip has been sketching lobsters as symbols of surrealism for as long as he can
remember. Even before he began his artistic career, he crafted a suit adorned with the pattern of his now-iconic crustacean. From that moment on, people began referring to him as the Lobster Man. Driven by his love for pop art and surrealism, Philip fully embraced this artistic identity, saying: “I became an artist when I became a lobster.”
Find out the latest on Philip by visiting philipcolbert.com
“COLBERT HAS BEEN SKETCHING LOBSTERS AS SYMBOLS OF SURREALISM FOR AS LONG AS HE CAN REMEMBER”
Cheshire o ers an enchanting blend of historical landmarks, picturesque landscapes, and charming villages
Whether you’re planning a weekend getaway, a special date, or just looking for the perfect setting to spend quality time with a loved one, Cheshire has countless spots that exude romance and o er a variety of activities. Here are ten of the most romantic places in the county, along with ideas on what couples can do to make the most of their visit.
Tatton Park is one of Cheshire’s most beloved stately homes, set amidst a sprawling 1,000-acre estate that includes formal gardens, lakes, woodlands, and rolling parkland. For couples looking to immerse themselves in nature and history, it’s an ideal location.
WHAT COUPLES CAN DO
• Stroll through the gardens: Tatton’s Italian and Japanese gardens are the epitome of romance, perfect for a quiet walk hand-in-hand.
• Picnic by the lake: Bring a hamper and enjoy a peaceful lunch by the tranquil waters of Tatton’s serene lake.
• Explore the Mansion: Discover the stately home’s stunning interiors and learn about its rich history.
• Go on a boat ride: Hire a boat and enjoy a private paddle on the lake, a charming way to enjoy the beauty of the estate together.
For couples who enjoy a combination of history and breathtaking views, Beeston Castle is the perfect place to visit. The ruins of this medieval fortress sit high on a rocky hilltop, o ering panoramic views of the Cheshire Plain and beyond.
WHAT COUPLES CAN DO
• Hike up to the castle: The walk up to Beeston Castle is both a romantic and adventurous experience. The view from the top is well worth the climb and provides a stunning backdrop for photos.
• Explore the grounds: The surrounding woods and fields are great for a quiet walk. Look out for wildlife.
“Chester is one of the most romantic cities in the UK”
• Have a picnic in the grounds: The wideopen spaces o er plenty of room for a secluded picnic, where you can relax and enjoy each other’s company.
Chester is one of the most romantic cities in the UK, and the Chester Rows are its heart and soul. These unique medieval galleries lined with boutiques, cafes, and tearooms make for a charming setting for a couple’s day out.
WHAT COUPLES CAN DO
• Shop for unique gifts: Wander through the Rows and browse for artisanal goods, antiques, or one-of-a-kind keepsakes.
• Afternoon tea at one of the tearooms: Chester is famous for its tea rooms, and there’s no better way to relax and enjoy the afternoon with your loved one than over a traditional cream tea.
• Take a horse-drawn carriage ride: For a truly romantic experience, take a horsedrawn carriage tour through the historic streets of Chester, soaking in the medieval architecture and picturesque views.
Delamere Forest is one of Cheshire’s most beautiful natural spaces, with miles of tranquil woodland trails, peaceful lakes, and scenic viewpoints.
WHAT COUPLES CAN DO
• Go on a forest walk: Wander through the dense woodland and enjoy the peace and solitude of the forest, stopping for a quiet moment by one of the serene lakes.
• Enjoy a bite to eat in the forest: There are several picturesque spots in the forest perfect for a relaxed lunch.
• Hire bikes or go horse riding: For a more active day, couples can hire bikes or go on horse riding trails, which provide a fun way to explore the area.
• Stay at a forest lodge: For a longer romantic retreat, consider booking a stay at one of the nearby forest lodges.
Arley Hall is a stately home in Northwich that boasts some of the most beautiful gardens in Cheshire. The gardens are the highlight of the estate, o ering a stunning array of floral displays, mature trees, and well-maintained walkways.
WHAT COUPLES CAN DO
• Stroll through the gardens: Arley’s Victorian gardens are an idyllic setting for a romantic stroll. Take your time to admire the roses, herbaceous borders, and serene ponds.
• Visit the Hall: Explore the grandeur of the Hall itself, with its elegant rooms and fascinating history. The Hall is often used for weddings, making it a particularly romantic venue.
• Enjoy a quiet lunch at the cafe: After exploring the gardens, head to the on-site cafe for a relaxed meal in a romantic setting.
Jodrell Bank
For couples who are fascinated by science and the stars, Jodrell Bank o ers a unique and romantic experience. This worldrenowned observatory is home to the iconic Lovell Telescope, one of the largest radio telescopes in the world.
WHAT COUPLES CAN DO
• Stargazing experience: Head to the observatory in the evening for a stargazing session. Whether it’s a special event or simply a clear night, there’s something magical about gazing at the stars together.
• Explore the exhibitions: Learn about the
universe, the history of space exploration, and the science behind the observatory at the visitor center.
• Attend a special event: Jodrell Bank hosts regular events, including evening talks, film screenings, and live music, which make for a fun and unique date night.
The River Weaver, winding through the beautiful West Cheshire countryside, o ers a tranquil and romantic setting for couples to unwind and enjoy the beauty of nature. Dutton Lock is one of the most picturesque spots along the river, with its charming lock house and the peaceful flow of the water.
WHAT COUPLES CAN DO
• Take a boat ride: Hire a traditional narrowboat and spend the day gently cruising along the river, enjoying each other’s company as you glide through the scenic countryside.
• Walk along the towpath: The path along the river provides a lovely, peaceful walk, perfect for quiet moments and conversation.
• Visit Anderton Boat Lift: A giant threestorey-high iron edifice on the banks of the River Weaver Navigation, this is one of the 'Seven Wonders of the Waterways'.
The Bridgewater Canal is a beautiful waterway that runs through Cheshire, o ering couples the chance to explore the countryside in a leisurely and romantic way. The canal path o ers scenic views and quiet spots to relax.
WHAT COUPLES CAN DO
• Take a canal boat cruise: Hop aboard a canal boat for a relaxing cruise through the Cheshire countryside. You can hire a boat for an afternoon, enjoying the peaceful waterway as you drift through the landscape.
• Cycle or walk along the canal: If you prefer something more active, cycle or
walk along the towpath, which o ers scenic views and the chance to stop at some charming pubs or cafes along the way.
• Enjoy a canal-side meal: Many of the pubs and restaurants near the canal serve delicious meals with lovely views over the water, making it the perfect spot for a romantic dinner.
Tegg's Nose
Cheshire’s Peak District o ers some of the most dramatic and beautiful landscapes in the county. Tegg’s Nose, near Macclesfield, is a popular spot for panoramic views over the Peak District and beyond, making it an
ideal romantic destination for couples who enjoy hiking and outdoor adventures.
WHAT COUPLES CAN DO
• Hike up Tegg’s Nose: The hike to the summit of Tegg’s Nose is a moderate challenge that rewards you with stunning views. It’s a perfect spot for a romantic photo op or simply to enjoy the beauty of the landscape together.
• Explore the nearby villages: After your hike, take some time to explore the charming villages of the Peak District, stopping at a cosy pub for a well-earned drink.
• Get rocking: With some amazing geological facts along the Tegg’s Nose Rocks Trail.
For couples who enjoy shopping, Cheshire Oaks Designer Outlet o ers a more modern yet equally romantic experience. Set against a beautifully landscaped backdrop, the outlet is one of the largest designer outlets in Europe, with a range of high-end shops and cafes.
WHAT COUPLES CAN DO
• Shop for designer bargains: Browse the stylish stores and treat each other to a new wardrobe, or buy something special as a memento of your day together.
• Enjoy a meal at one of the restaurants: Cheshire Oaks is home to a variety of dining options, from casual eateries to fine dining, making it the perfect place to enjoy a relaxed meal together.
• Take a romantic walk around the area: The surrounding area o ers scenic views, with lakes and nature walks perfect for a post-shopping stroll.
THE REACH
Situated in the city centre, just a 90-second walk from Manchester Piccadilly Station, The Reach at Piccadilly features a chic and captivating design, with 215 impressive guest rooms, eight suites and a ground-floor restaurant & bar - Lock 84 - which is swiftly becoming the hottest dining destination in town. thereachmcr.com
Award-winning chef Shaun Mo at reflects on a career that has taken him into some of the UK’s finest kitchens - and why his new role in Manchester is the icing on the cake
Shaun Mo at, a previous recipient of Manchester Chef of Year, has now taken the reins at Maya at Manchester’s LEVEN. Shaun is renowned for bringing his masterful spin onto the best of modern British dishes and to wide acclaim. Expect elevated bistro classics, beautiful brunch and the much anticipated Maya Sunday Roast, alongside an abundance of fresh and hearty winter creations in the Bistro and Dining Room. The food and drink are not the only lookers – the interiors merge the original industrial nature of LEVEN’s historic building with inspired details of art deco grandeur in some unexpected ways. Absolutely managed to find some time with Shaun over the busy festive period to find out more about his background and how that has inspired what he brings to the table at Maya.
Q When did you first develop an interest in cooking?
A I’ve always had a strong passion for cooking, a skill that was instilled in me and my siblings from an early age while growing up in South Africa. I remember my teenage years vividly, cooking alongside my best friend – who is now a chef in Australia. We would take turns cooking at each other’s homes, and it gave us a profound sense of purpose. It was refreshing to explore an unconventional path, allowing us to express creativity and consider it as a potential career.
Q How key was your involvement in Jamie’s Italian back in the day?
A During my time there, I was fairly junior in the team and received extensive training from the senior sta . By the time I left, I had
“In many ways, Jamie’s Italian served as a blueprint for numerous restaurants”
progressed to the role of Junior Sous Chef. It was an incredible place to work, setting a high standard for high street dining. In many ways, it served as a blueprint for numerous restaurants that operate today.
Q You worked extensively in London, such as at Berber & Q, which garnered a lot of praise. What were your ambitions with that?
A I initially joined Berber & Q to help with the setup, having known Josh [Katz, the owner] from his time at Ottolenghi a few years earlier. My housemate was also involved, setting up the bar side of things. I quickly developed a strong a nity for the project and ended up staying for nearly four years. It was an incredible experience overall. At the time, London’s food scene was
heavily focused on livelier, American-style barbecue, so being part of a movement that emphasized vegetable-forward cuisines from the Middle East and the Mediterranean was truly exciting. It opened up a lot of creative avenues in my approach to cooking.
Q What other London stints would you say you took plenty from, either good or bad?
A My time working with the team at Nest was truly invaluable. It was a cohesive and talented group across all aspects of the business. In my opinion, Johnnie Crowe is undoubtedly one of the best chefs in the country – highly creative and meticulous in curating both dishes and menus. Every detail is thoughtfully considered, from the pâtés to the service and the drinks o ering; nothing is ever an afterthought.
Q When did you first come up to Manchester and what was the lure?
A My partner is originally from North Manchester, where her family still lives. After we had our child, we felt a stronger pull to move up here to establish a better support network. Additionally, I had been in London for nearly 15 years by that point, so the change of scenery felt like a much-needed fresh start.
Q How di erent is the scene here compared to London?
A The hospitality scene in Manchester –and across the North – is truly impressive. There’s a vibrant energy and momentum, partly because it’s less saturated than other areas. This creates an excellent opportunity to refine your o ering, push boundaries, and genuinely make your voice heard.
Q How did it feel to be named Manchester Chef of the Year?
A At the time, I was genuinely overwhelmed by the incredible pool of talent nominated for the award – I never expected to be in the running. Winning is a true honour, and
“The hospitality scene across the North is truly impressive”
I’m deeply grateful for the support I’ve received from Manchester, especially in the relatively short time I’ve been here.
Q What attracted you to taking over the reins at Maya?
A During my time at Edinburgh Castle [the celebrated Manchester pub], I transitioned from a traditional restaurant environment to a more casual pub setting with an elevated dining experience. While it was a great opportunity, the operation was quite di erent, and I eventually felt ready to return to a restaurant-focused setting.
Q How key is local produce to you?
A Seasonality and locality are central to everything I do. Working with seasonal, locally sourced ingredients ensures you’re getting the best products at their peak, while also minimizing environmental impact. In today’s world, it’s easy to have produce from the other side of the globe in your kitchen almost instantly, but that comes with high air miles, intensive irrigation, and over-farming – practices I strive to avoid.
Q Are there 2-3 dishes you are really loving right now and why?
A The current menu is primarily vegetarianfocused, o ering a variety of options. One standout dish is a poached pear and walnut salad, which ticks many boxes for me – it’s a wonderful celebration of the season. It features deep purple bitter greens, the sweetness and crunch of the pears, and the richness of pickled walnuts in the dressing.
We’re also serving crispy deep-fried cheese curds paired with a pumpkin ketchup, a dish that’s been a hit. Until recently, we o ered a creation by our sous chef, Georgie: Cornish tuna tartare dressed with a fermented chili emulsion, placed atop a crispy hash brown, and finished with fresh spring onions.
Q How integral is the Sunday Roast menu to what you want to do at Maya?
A I believe a solid roast o ering is integral to any northern restaurant – it’s deeply embedded in the culture here. In my opinion, our roast is exceptional. We serve well-sourced, beautifully cooked meats, perfectly prepared sides, rich, flavourful gravies, and all the classic accompaniments that make a roast truly satisfying.
Q What else do you have planned in 2025?
A I believe there’s a lot to accomplish this year, with taking Maya from strength to strength being a top priority. We’re also planning a series of collaborative dinners with other restaurants and charities later in the year, aiming to bring unique and enriching experiences to the city.
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Delicious vegan-inspired meals from Grubby
Serves 2 35 mins
• 280g firm tofu
• 2 tsp gochujang paste
• 1 tbsp soy sauce
• 2 tbsp cornflour
• 1 red pepper
• 1 tsp sesame seeds
• 200g macaroni
• 1 vegetable stock cube
• 100g plant-based cheese
• 1 tbsp nutritional yeast
• 250ml plant-based cream
• 2 spring onions
METHOD
1 Crumble the tofu into small pieces and tip into a large bowl, along with 1 teaspoon of the gochujang paste and the soy sauce. Mix well, then sprinkle over 2 tablespoons of the cornflour and mix again. Set aside.
2 Finely slice the red pepper. Heat a drizzle of vegetable oil in a large frying pan over a high heat. Once hot, add the sliced red pepper to the pan and fry for 4-5 minutes until cooked. Remove from the pan and set aside on a plate.
3 Return the pan to a mediumhigh heat and add the tofu. Fry for 5 minutes, then add the sesame seeds and continue to cook for 2-3 minutes more until the tofu is golden and crispy.
4 Meanwhile, cook the macaroni in a large saucepan of boiling water for 8-10 minutes until tender.
5 To make the sauce, crumble the stock cube into a small bowl and grate in the plant-based cheese. Add the nutritional yeast and plant-based cream, along with the remaining tablespoon of cornflour and 1 teaspoon of gochujang paste. Stir in 150ml boiling water and season with salt and pepper.
6 Once the macaroni is cooked, loosely drain and return it to the saucepan. Pour over the sauce and cook over a low heat until the sauce has thickened slightly. Add the cooked pepper to the pan and stir through. Finely slice the spring onions.
7 Serve the macaroni in bowls, topped with the crispy tofu and spring onion slices.
and avocado pesto pasta with griddled courgettes and sun-dried tomatoes
Serves 2 20 mins
• 60g cashews
• 1 courgette
• 200g rigatoni or penne pasta
• 1 avocado
• Handful basil
• 1 tbsp nutritional yeast
• 3 garlic cloves
• 1 lemon
• 100g sun-dried tomatoes in oil
• Handful Rocket METHOD
1 Tip the cashews into a large saucepan of boiling water and simmer for 5 minutes. Meanwhile,
slice the courgette into 1cm rounds and set aside for later. Using a slotted spoon, remove the cashews from the saucepan and set aside in a bowl. Bring the pan of water back to the boil, add the pasta, and simmer for 10 minutes.
2 To make the pesto, peel and stone the avocado and add the flesh to a blender, along with the basil, cashew nuts, nutritional yeast, garlic, 2 tablespoons of olive oil and 150ml water. Squeeze in half the lemon and blitz until smooth.
3 Heat a good drizzle of olive oil in a deep-sided frying pan over a high heat. Add the courgette slices and cook for 2-3 minutes on each side until charred, then take o the heat.
4 Once the pasta is cooked, loosely drain and return to the saucepan over a low heat, stirring through the pesto, courgette slices and sundried tomatoes. Warm through for 2 minutes.
5 Spoon the pesto pasta into serving bowls and top with a handful of fresh rocket, and a good squeeze of the remaining lemon.
Serves 2 45 mins
• 500g new potatoes
• 150g radishes
• 1 onion
• 1 red pepper
• 1 tsp dried oregano
• 2 garlic cloves
• Handful parsley
• 30g walnuts
• 1 lemon
• 1 tbsp balsamic vinegar
• 200g tenderstem broccoli
• 200g pre-cooked Beluga lentils pouch
METHOD
1 Preheat the oven to 220C/200C fan/gas mark 7.
2 Roughly chop the new potatoes into 1cm slices and place in a saucepan of boiling water. Parboil for 4-5 minutes, then drain.
3 Meanwhile, trim the stalks o the radishes and cut them in half, cut the onion into wedges and slice the red pepper into thin strips. Combine these vegetables on a baking tray. Drizzle with olive oil, sprinkle over the oregano and season with a pinch of salt and pepper. Add the drained new potatoes to the same tray and toss together. Place in the oven for an initial 20 minutes.
4 To make the dressing, crush the garlic and finely chop the parsley and walnuts. Cut the lemon in half. In a small bowl, combine the balsamic vinegar with 2
“Vegan twists on comfort food favourites: this is plant-based food that packs flavour and taste”
tablespoons olive oil and a pinch of salt and pepper. Add the garlic, parsley and walnuts, and squeeze in half the lemon. Mix and set aside for later.
5 Once the veg has been roasting for 20 minutes, remove the tray from the oven and add the broccoli and lentils. Return to the oven for another 15 minutes, or until everything is golden and crisp. Once it’s ready, remove from the oven and pour over the dressing. Mix and serve with a good squeeze of the remaining lemon.
“Diners are guaranteed to experience the genuine flavours of Italy”
Wholesome and delicious Italian food is always on the menu at San Carlo
anuary may be over, but many of us are looking to keep up the healthy diet and are looking for some lighter options this month.
In true Italian style, San Carlo uses only the finest and freshest seasonal ingredients, allowing these to shine. From 22 spectacular seafood dishes to the freshest antipasti, unrivalled grill specialities such as the tomahawk steak and a broad range of masterfully prepared meat, pizza, and pasta recipes, these dishes are designed to engage all of your senses and are cooked to order by each restaurant’s individual team of talented chefs.
San Carlo’s menu embraces the essence of Italian cuisine, o ering dishes crafted with fresh, wholesome ingredients. Each recipe highlights the rich flavours of Italy, with a focus on authentic and sustainable produce. The restaurant prides itself on sourcing ingredients from reputable Italian suppliers, ensuring the highest quality and true taste. San Carlo’s commitment to provenance guarantees that diners experience the genuine flavours of Italy, bringing the heart of Italian gastronomy to your table with each delightful bite.
Healthy menu options include soups such as classic Minestrone or slow-cooked lentil and vegetable, while simple salads including chicken, tuna and bu alo mozzarella are perennial favourites. Pollo Marinato is a popular dish of flattened chicken breast
with a caper, butter and lemon sauce, while Tonno e Lenticchie is a delicious charcoal grilled yellowfin tuna served with tomato lentils that goes well with baby spinach sauteed with garlic oil and chilli. Dessert spans delicious gelato and San Carlo’s famous pistachio or Italian style millefeuille cakes, tortes and mousses. All desserts are made daily in the patisserie kitchen. San Carlo also o ers more than 150 wines to suit all tastes and pockets. Salut!
Find your nearest San Carlo by visiting sancarlo.co.uk
The best zodiac-inspired pieces, whatever your sign...
By CARLY GLENDINNING
LIONHEART
18K Yellow Gold and Diamond Pendant, £4,934 lionheartjewelry.com
HEAVENLY VICES
14K Yellow Gold, Malachite, Emerald, and Diamond Gemini Zodiac Pendant, £3,350 heavenlyvicesfinejewelry.com
EDEN PRESLEY
14K Yellow Gold and Diamonds Taurus Pendant, £1,530 edenpresley.com
ERIN FADER JEWELRY
14K Gold Fill Over Brass In The Stars Zodiac Necklace, £POA erinfaderjewelry.com
BRIONY RAYMOND
18K Yellow Gold Jumbo Aurora All Diamond Scorpio Zodiac Medallion, £5,491 brionyraymond.com
SHAHLA KARIMI
14K Yellow Gold and Diamond Aries Zodiac Reveal, £1,875 shahlakarimi.com
HALLEH
18K Yellow Gold and Diamond Cancer Zodiac Necklace, £5,150 halleh.com
V E
Platinum and Diamond Libra Constellation Necklace, £2,600 jessieve.com
AURELIA DEMARK
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JO MALONE
Jo Malone's Red Roses
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EDITOR’S PICK
PHILIP MARTIN’S®
Made using an innovative, patented and certified plant-based formula, Philip Martin’s Maple Wash brings super dry and frizzy hair back to life with ultra hydration, £11. philip-martins.co.uk
ODILE PARIS
Pioneering French clean beauty brand Odile Paris has launched the Glow Elixir. This powerful serum targets all signs of ageing – reducing wrinkles and boosting collagen, £135. odileparis.com
BIBBI PARFUM
Cult Paris-based fragrance house Bibbi Parfum has launched its first candle collection. Inspired by founder Stina Bibbi Seger’s Scandinavian heritage, the unique scents weave nature, mystery, and ancient stories into every burn (310g, £95). bibbi-parfum.com
The care expert heads out on a UK tour this month
There are few people that know more about skin than Caroline Hirons. And now, the UK’s leading skincare expert is going on her first ever tour this month. Join her, as she brings her hugely successful podcast - Glad We Had This Chat - live to theatres. As with the podcast, the Glad We Had This Chat Unfiltered tour will be a one-stop-shop for all things beauty, skincare and beyond. And Caroline will be chatting to a di erent special guest (they will be announced soon) live on stage at every show - not only about their skincare regime, but about life too. Plus, in the second half of the show, there will be an audience Q&A with Caroline and an exclusive on-stage skincare demo. The evening promises to feature Caroline’s trademark mix of frank, honest and funny conversation – an unfiltered experience. Caroline says: “As I’ve said before, the podcast has been a labour of love, in the best possible way. But I’m thrilled to be taking it to the next level and around the country with this brand-new tour. Expect entertaining guests, discussing anything and everything, with a healthy dose of beauty chat in between, before we get into the questions that you want to ask about your skincare routine. Hope to see you there!” Born in Liverpool, Caroline’s success comes from honest and science-backed knowledge, and she’s utilised that to launch her own brands, including Skin Rocks, the awardwinning skincare range and app.
CAROLINE HIRONS
See her on 12th February at Liverpool St George’s Hall carolinehirons.com
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DERMATOLOGY M Nourishing Cream, £135 dermatology-m.com
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SKINCEUTICALS
P-Tiox Anti Wrinkle Serum, £130 skinceuticals.co.uk
EDITOR’S PICK
AUGUSTINUS
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INSTITUT ESTHEDERM
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ONYX
The Onyx 'The Works Set' seriously ups your workout game. As stylish as it is supportive, I went for a springy 8mm yoga mat in powdery blue with a matching ball, weights, blocks, and resistance bands, £234.93. onyx-fitness.com
Specialist training brand WIT has launched its debut apparel line. The four piece capsule collection includes this classic fit crop training tank, which is so comfy you'll be wearing it on-repeat, £34. on-running.com
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Carly Glendinning tries FOLD, a brandnew at-home foldable reformer bed
R.A.D®
As versatile as they are stylish, the R.A.D ® ONE trainer is cushioned for plyometrics, stabilised for li ing, durable enough for rope-climbs, light-weight enough for gymnastics – all whilst being comfortable enough to wear as a daily trainer, £130. rad-global.com
Reformer Pilates has massively blown up in the past year, with studios popping up faster than you can say “upside down elephant”. Some are so exclusive, you have to get up at the crack of dawn to book a space, and it’s not uncommon for a single class to set you back £30. Taking place on a bed-like machine, we’re all crazy for the full-body workout – which promises strength, flexibility, coordination, and a honed physique. Getting out for classes isn’t easy though when you’re a toddler mum, so I’ve been practising Pilates every day at home instead. I’ve seen
great results on the mat, but recently I’ve been feeling ready to take my workouts to the next level. Enter the newly launched ‘FOLD’ reformer bed. Beautifully crafted from premium Canadian maple wood and upholstered in sleek beige or black leather, this seriously stylish piece of equipment o ers a studio-quality workout in the comfort of your own home. The compact design is a huge part of the appeal, and as the name implies, it’s easy to fold and stow away. My FOLD bed arrived pre-assembled and all I had to do was attach the head and shoulder rests, loop bars, and the padded double loop straps. Also included was a box, jumpboard and a starter bundle
with a Pilates mat, Pilates circle, Pilates ball, 1kg dumbbells, plus three months complimentary access to the FOLD app. The app features workouts for every level – from beginner to advanced. It’s super easy to use and the expert instructors make the workouts fun. There’s also the added benefit of being able to chat to other members of the FOLD founding community. I’ve been hooked from the get-go, and I’ve used my bed so much that I’ve actually hardly needed to ‘FOLD’ it away at all.
Original FOLD Reformer bed £1,899.99; access to the FOLD app £9.99pm after initial three months. foldreformer.com
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WONDERING PEOPLE X ROOST
Wondering People is an art collective described as ‘shaking up the art world’. They’ve sourced original and editioned works by up-and-coming British and international artists, creating a platform for discovering unique pieces. It’s a discerning curation of artworks, each chosen for its distinctive aesthetic and approach. theroost.com
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Influenced by the relaxed artistry of the Bloomsbury Group and the knockedback tones of the 1940s, this season’s paint colours strike a relaxed yet elegant note. For schemes that are perfectly poised between personality and liveability, try a muted base of easy to-live-with tones, whether soft blue, ochre or tobacco. benjaminmoorepaint.co.uk
THE ROOST
The Sandra placemats have an intricate design that brings a touch of timeless sophistication to any tabletop. Each piece is handcra ed by talented artisans in the tiny town of Usiacuri, Colombia. theroost.com
KIT KEMP DESIGN STUDIO
Kit Kemp Design Studio and Schotten & Hansen have launched the Munich table, a fully functioning art piece that can evolve over time. The magnetic insert is made up of individual wooden veneer pieces that can easily be li ed out and changed for an alternative design. kitkemp.com
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Sketch butter dish, £40 scp.co.uk
TIFFANY
Tiffany's new dinnerware revives 'Comtesse de Grignan', a Tiffanyexclusive porcelain pattern that appeared as early as 1961. The Grignan pattern is named a er a commune in south eastern France, which is known for its lavender. tiffany.co.uk
BUSTER + PUNCH
Buster + Punch teamed up with Staub in an unlikely marriage between French culinary tradition and London industrial design. The result is this black Cocotte with stylish brass handles busterandpunch.com
Charlotte Findlater on how her team crafted this luxurious master suiteone that even James Bond would be impressed by
The brief was to create a master bedroom suite that would be glamorous with significant amounts of pink and gold to feature, but not dominate. The client loves the colour pink but was unsure how this colour could be incorporated into the bedroom without making it overtly feminine – we did need to take into account her husband, after all!
This room had previously been used as a master bedroom and leading o was a huge en-suite that felt very cold. Our challenge was to divide this space up to provide our clients with a dressing room whilst still retaining a two metre shower,
luxurious bath and his and hers sink unit.
Our starting point was the layout of the space. By moving the bed onto the back wall we were able to incorporate a bespoke Emperor bed, something our clients had always coveted.
Blocking up the original doorway into the en-suite allowed us to utilize the depth of the doorway and commission bespoke joinery incorporating deep drawers and a space dedicated to the hanging of shirts.
We created a new opening into what would become the dressing room and divided the original en-suite into two sections, the larger lighter space facing out to the beautiful gardens with a stunning feature bay window that we used as the focus for the luxurious Mother of Pearl bath.
Our clients required more space to house their clothes. Our solution was to
convert the loft space to create optimum storage, commissioning a bespoke automated staircase that operated by the simple push of a button, seamlessly descending from the ceiling in the dressing room – very James Bond!
The thread we used throughout the home was the consistent use of the colour green, our client’s favourite tree is Willow, so we selected a stunning wallpaper for the walls in the bedroom and continued this into the dressing room. A blush pink chaise lounge was incorporated into the large bay window so our client could relax and recline, observing the beautiful Lakeland backdrop. The curtains continued this subtle pink shade, which was echoed in the stunning silk rug and used for the colour on the bespoke commissioned dressing room
cabinetry, designed by us. Opulent lighting added the sense of glamour along with the art deco inspired bedside tables. At the push of a button a TV appears from the chest at the end of the bed, which was a bespoke commission from our in-house carpentry team, then silently disappears back into its housing in order not to dominate the space.
This project showcases our ability to marry clients’ unique preferences with our ethos of sophisticated, sustainable, and thoughtful design. By carefully balancing bold colours with neutral tones and integrating bespoke elements, we transformed the master suite into a space that reflects luxury, comfort, and personal style, all while adhering to sustainable architecture principles.
The Charlotte Findlater ethos
All designers have a signature style and design principle which sit at the heart of their work. Our obsession is the interplay between people, built environments and nature. Expect natural materials, spaces that boost well-being, and handcrafted statement pieces. The design world and trends change at high speed, but it’s time to slow down. And to step away from damaging mass-market consumerism.
Our design ethos centres on considered designs that reconnect people with nature.
I have written before about our approach to biophilic design, so considering the project featured here involves some inhouse craftsmanship, I wanted to add a little more about this side of the business.
Craftsmanship delivers quality. You see it when someone has created an object with passion, care and attention to detail. It can take a whole career to hone and refine a craft and reach that level of quality. Ease, cheapness and speed can dominate our lives, especially in a world of short attention spans and consumerism. That which is beautiful is more and more di cult to find. Craftsmanship in design has a rich legacy. Time-honoured skills pass from generation to generation and from craftsman to craftsman. It needs celebrating.
The Charlotte Findlater team has worked with a broad range of artisans and craftsmen over the years. Watching them bring our ideas to life is always a real pleasure. Our clients seek exclusivity and superb quality, so we engage artisan crafters to create something unique, and at times extraordinary. Bespoke staircase design, ceramics, art, furniture and joinery applications. Each project showcases unique skills and reflects the maker’s commitment to their craft.
Craftsmanship often preserves traditional techniques. It brings an understanding
of tools and materials. It’s a way to use resources with care rather than exploiting them. This all leads to sustainable pieces, which we cherish for years. Thoughtful, crafted items have the power to elevate the ordinary. There’s a beautiful relationship between craftsmen, materials and nature, which we find fascinating. We are passionate about collaborations that bring designs to life. From initial discussions to the end result, it’s a pleasure to watch. Connecting our clients with talented artisans is central to our work.
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Alice Crawley’s new rug collection for Layered takes inspiration from Hong Kong and Saigon, with a touch of the British country house
By EVE HERBERT
Arecurring theme for Swedish design brand Layered’s new collection by British interior designer Alice Crawley is bamboo. It’s a material Alice frequently returns to in her projects and which has become a signature in her design aesthetic. This fascination is clear in the collection’s patterns, where the bamboo silhouette has been integrated in two di erent ways – both as an elegant border and as a more abstract pattern.
Alice Crawley is a distinguished interior designer with a background in fashion from Saint Martin’s and 14 years of experience living in Hong Kong and Saigon. Her design philosophy is based on the belief that every room should have a unique character and life. Alice’s work is renowned for blending Western aesthetics with Eastern design, bringing originality and vibrancy to every space. “I remain inspired by the decade I spent living in Hong Kong and Vietnam,” says Alice. “The patterns and themes revolve around my love for all things chinoiserie and bamboo, blending Asian design elements with English heritage style. I have also taken inspiration from my beloved antique Chinese daybed, which has been reinterpreted as a border on our Indochine rug,” she adds. Together with Layered, Alice has worked to create a cohesive capsule collection
that represents the Anglo-Asian style. Alice strategically utilises the colour palette to create a balance of muted and bold tones. The colours have been carefully selected to bring life and character to each environment without overwhelming it.
“Throughout the process, I learned so much about weaving techniques and how texture can carry design details as beautifully as colour. I felt like a kid in a candy store when I visited Layered’s headquarters and showroom in Stockholm, diving into their fantastic colour library and feeling all the textures,” says Alice. “I spent a lot of time working with the colours, combining muted blues and pinks with rusty reds and woody browns to create a calm but distinct e ect that works in most settings.
“Designing my own rug collection has always been a dream, so when the opportunity to collaborate with Layered arose, I couldn’t let it pass,” she adds.
“I’ve long admired their exceptional collections, commitment to quality, and their ability to o er accessible price points. Working closely with their design team was an incredibly rewarding experience. Together, we refined my ideas into a
Dragon,” Alice smiles. “The tea house is surrounded by bamboo forests, and the way the light shone through the bamboo shoots always mesmerised me. I used to think how amazing it would be to design a print or pattern based on this abstract and beautiful scene from nature.”
The collection o ers a rug for everyone, with interesting and usable colour combinations. From the calm and simple Indochine rug to the versatile Bamboo Stripe and the geometric Bamboo Forest, there is something for every room and occasion. For the Bamboo Stripe and Bamboo Border rugs, a cut pile was chosen for a sharp and clean finish. The Indochine rug has a contrasting border pattern of tufted loops in a slightly higher pile. “I’m thrilled with the end result of this collection,
“I felt like a kid in a candy store when I visited Layered's HQ”
cohesive capsule collection that captures the essence of my style, blending SouthEast Asian influences with English heritage. Throughout the process, I’ve gained invaluable insights into weaving techniques and the importance of texture in design, as it can be just as impactful as colour.”
A major source of inspiration for the collection has been Alice’s memories from walks with her dogs on Sunset Peak in Hong Kong, where she passed a magical old Chinese house surrounded by bamboo forests. The light shining through the bamboo shoots inspired Alice to create patterns based on this beautiful natural scene. “It literally is like something out of Crouching Tiger Hidden
having journeyed from moodboards to final samples to create rugs that feel both elegant and playful, bold yet calm,” Alice says. “While the designs make strong use of colour, they remain versatile and practical. My guiding principle was to avoid creating anything ‘too cool’ or overly arty; if I couldn’t envision how or where to use a rug in my own home or design projects, it simply didn’t make the cut. I believe there’s truly a rug for everyone in this collection. From the calm simplicity of Indochine to the versatile Bamboo Stripe, which could work anywhere, I’m confident these pieces will bring character and warmth to any space.”
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Carpe Diem Beds unveils new releases to continue the narrative of luxury, comfort, and innovation
“The new Iconic Collection transcends the ordinary, where luxury meets functionality,” says Helen RK Jensen, VP Brand, Carpe Diem Beds
Asignificant moment for all interior lovers and sleep enthusiasts is here now as Carpe Diem Beds has launched their most extensive collection to date. The unveiling goes beyond the introduction of The Iconic Collection, encapsulating an array of bespoke o erings that redefine the essence of luxury, comfort and innovation.
every bed from Carpe Diem Beds. And now, the floating sensation is a part of the design. The Iconic Collection beds contain the patented Contour Pocket system, providing unparalleled support and that weightless feel deeply rooted in the brand’s DNA. Each bed is meticulously crafted, reflecting Carpe Diem Beds' dedication to quality and design.
In the pursuit of creating beds that transcend mere functionality, Carpe Diem Beds embodies a philosophy where style and comfort unite. The company has made it their mission to make sleep a priority by transforming bedrooms into the heart of the home. Carpe Diem Beds has long been synonymous with creating havens of tranquillity. Their upcoming release is no exception, as they are committed to making their beds as beautiful to look at as to sleep in. With bespoke craftsmanship, Carpe Diem Beds elevates bedrooms into sanctuaries, providing the perfect place to unwind.
Every bed component is selected for its unique qualities; bed frames are crafted from solid, slowgrowing Nordic pine, and fabrics are meticulously chosen from renowned brands. Each bed, crafted in Sweden, is a masterpiece of exceptional artistry and is signed by the bedmaker.
Imagine the serene and picturesque archipelago on the West Coast of Sweden. With the rhythmic whisper of the waves, the crisp sea breeze, and the wild heather growing among the rocks. This tranquil landscape was the inspiration for Börje Thuleskär, the founder of Carpe Diem Beds. On a balmy summer day wandering the Island of Stora Kornö, Börje spread out his picnic blanket on a meadow of heather to lay down and rest. As he closed his eyes, he experienced a floating sensation and a feeling of weightlessness. Since that day, that weightless feel is found in the comfort of
The Iconic Collection includes four bed models, each named after islands in the archipelago on the West Coast of Sweden. These bespoke beds can be customised from 44 fabrics in the classic and exclusive fabric collection. Kungsö is a continental bed that combines innovation with an elegant and modern design. It is not just furniture; it is a focal point that elevates the entire room’s atmosphere. The design is based on the centred leg piece, creating a floating visual e ect that is both striking and captivating, making it a truly exceptional piece of design.
Hällsö Walnut consists of a handcrafted walnut frame, where the natural variations of the wood make each bed unique. The wooden frame’s timeless, classic charm elevates the bedroom’s design, emphasising the tailored quality of Carpe Diem Beds. The floating style of the centred leg piece further accentuates the walnut frame.
Hällsö Upholstery is a frame bed with an elegant, fabric-padded frame and the innovative floating design that defines this unique range. The frame seamlessly complements modern interior styles. Vindö adjustable bed is the existing and most exclusive bed in The Iconic Collection. Vindö o ers a luxurious, floating design synonymous with the rest of the collection. This adjustable bed allows you to control your body’s position and indulge in relaxing massages, making it a one-of-a-kind experience. With the added convenience of a light feature, Vindö is the epitome of luxury and comfort, setting a new standard for adjustable beds.
Carpe Diem Beds has launched new fabrics as well as the brand’s first collaboration with Danish textile brand Kvadrat. The new fabrics are inspired by the calming colours found in Lysekil’s archipelago and feature 22 exclusive designs. Altogether, Carpe Diem Beds now o ers 44 bespoke fabrics from Designers Guild, Romo Group, and Kvadrat, enabling customers to personalise their beds further. The new additions elevate Carpe Diem Beds' existing fabric brand mix and allow the brand to cater to a broader design audience who are looking for that Scandinavian feel.
With The Iconic Collection, Carpe Diem Beds invites you to embrace a floating sensation that transports you to the tranquil shores of the west coast of Sweden. Envision the serenity, feel the calm, and let every night become an unwinding retreat. This collection is more than just beds; it’s a masterpiece that invites you to seize the day, starting with a night of unparalleled sleep.
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It’s a new year, so no better time to improve your sleeping habits, say the experts at Jensen Beds
Whatever 2025 holds in store for you, sleeping is essential for your well-being. Just like you want your phone to be at 100 percent in the morning, your body should also be recharged to meet a new day. And where to start to get back to 100? Consistency. Our bodies are smart and easily adapt to new patterns. So, one way to optimize your sleep is to aim for consistency. It improves the body’s repair process each night, both physically and mentally. Going to sleep and waking up at the same time every day, even on weekends, could actually prevent mental health issues and depression. Here are five tips to help create a healthy daily rhythm
which will make your nights better and allow you to perform better during the day.
Have fixed times for going to bed and waking up, eating breakfast, taking a walk in daylight and eating an evening meal.
Try sleeping less for a period to avoid lying awake in bed. If, after this, your sleep is more uninterrupted, try going to bed slightly earlier every night until you get into a good sleep rhythm.
3.USE
One hour before bedtime you should dim the lighting and turn o all screens such as TVs, computers, e-readers and
smartphones. The light tricks the brain into believing it is day. You enhance the body’s daily rhythm if you use the night to sleep, and the sooner you fall asleep, the better.
4.USE
Turn on the light in the morning, open the curtains and take an early walk in the daylight. This will give your body’s internal clock a good start to the day.
Remove the stresses of everyday life in di erent ways. Prepare for the following morning by putting out clothes and packing a backpack or case. Rest and read a book or browse a newspaper. A shower or a massage can also work wonders.
Jensen Beds’ mission is to help people sleep better, so they can perform at their peak. For more than 75 years, they’ve strived to make beds that adapt to your body and increase the quality of your sleep. But they don’t stop at making quality beds. They o er you a complete range of accessories and products, together with the routines that improve your sleep health. This includes guiding you to better habits throughout the di erent phases of your wake/sleep cycle: Wake-up, Awake, Wind down and Asleep. Get in touch with them and find out how you can sleep well.
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By PENDLE HARTE
BRINGING YOU closer TO THE CARIBBEAN
Scattered across nine idyllic Caribbean islands discover 18 breathtaking resorts, designed exclusively for adults. Each resort is nestled along the shores of the most exquisite beaches, boasting crystal-clear waters and powdery soft white sands. Experience unparalleled luxury as you float effortlessly in captivating infinity pools or dive into a thrilling new watersport. And when it’s time to relax and unwind your luxurious private sanctuary awaits. The beauty of the World’s Leading All-Inclusive Resorts is that everything is included, allowing you the freedom to indulge in endless possibilities or simply enjoy the serenity of paradise.
Looking to get away with your loved one this Valentine's? And after some much-needed Vitamin D? Then Greece is the answer. Inside this section, we head to Kos and immerse ourselves in local history, plus venture to Crete for a family holiday that ticks all the boxes.
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Finding historical richness and incredible natural beauty in the Dodecanese
Words SANDY CADIZ-SMITH
The alluring island of Kos is the third-largest of the Dodecanese Islands, just three nautical miles from Asia Minor. It’s an island of historical richness and incredible natural beauty, held in the azure embrace of the balmy, crystalclear Aegean Sea. It’s known as the birthplace of Hippocrates and is home to picturesque villages with winding streets lined with cascading bougainvillea and colourful shops, myriad olive groves, and fabulous beaches.
We’re heading to the Grecotel LUXME Kos Imperial on the island’s northeastern coast, a short and scenic drive from the airport. It’s not long before we step into the cool, vast marble lobby. The views are breathtaking across tropical gardens and a glimmering lagoon towards the sapphire sea.
The welcome is warm and the drinks are cool. We’re served glasses of bubbles and exotic juices to quench our thirst while we go through the quick and simple process of signing up for our stylish LUXME bracelet. The hotel’s Luxury Made Easy package makes for the ultimate in relaxed holidays with all food and drinks included in the upfront price. It’s the bracelet to heaven.
Admin done, we are escorted through the stunning gardens filled with tropical plants to our large suite overlooking emerald lawns, one of the many pools, and the sparkle of the sea. It’s beautifully cool with a large veranda, giant luxury bathroom with walk-in shower and vast bed dressed with the crispest of linens. There’s a fridge full of chilled drinks of our choice and a fully stocked hot beverage area. Everything we need to make us feel at home.
Which we soon do. Wandering through the lush gardens is a serene experience with winding pathways shaded by olive and palm trees leading to a wide range of facilities. We find sparkling pools, secluded relaxation spots, and terraces to soak in the beauty of the landscape. Best of all, there’s a large beach lined with sun loungers overlooking the crystal clear waters towards the hazy hills of Turkey on the opposite shore. For the energetic, there’s a gym, Pilates, yoga and aqua aerobic classes, two indoor pools for serious training and a spa.
Being somewhat food focused we’re excited about the incredible array of culinary options and get our restaurants booked at check in. All the eateries have terraces designed for taking in that breathtaking view while we devour equally breathtaking dishes, including fine dining (think lobster and foie gras), Italian and Greek specialities, a hot-stone experience and our favourite venue of all on the edge of the beach for Asian delights. Evenings end back in the bar for an ouzo nightcap (when in Greece) and some fabulous entertainment. There’s live music and dancing, and we even take part in the weekly trivia quiz. Magical nights to savour before we retire to the luxury and peace of our sanctuary.
“The waters are balmy, the breezes are light and the cocktails delicious”
We wake up to perfect blue skies and after a magnificent bu et breakfast Greekstyle, spend our days beach or poolside. The waters are balmy, the breezes are light and the cocktails delicious and refreshing. We swim and snooze, treat ourselves to blissful massages in the spa and meander through the colourful gardens as a sense of tranquility washes over us.
To get more of a feel for this stunning island, we visit vibrant Kos Town, just a short drive away. It’s a bustling capital with abundant historical sites and seemingly endless shopping opportunities. We visit the gorgeous indoor market to stock up on local herbs and spices and souvenirs, explore bougainvillea-draped side streets and enjoy a chilled Mythos overlooking the harbour.
We marvel at the place where Hippocrates, the ancient healer, taught under the shade of a plane tree and take a boat trip for a di erent perspective. As we skim the crystal sea taking in views of rolling hills, rugged coastlines and charming whitewashed villages, it’s time for reflection and relaxation. Hippocrates can undoubtedly rest peacefully knowing that his glorious island home in the sun continues to inspire and soothe.
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Carly Glendinning explores two familyfriendly resorts in Crete: Phaea Cretan Malia and its sister hotel, Phaea Blue
Holidays, once you have children, are more about spending quality time together as a family, than hitting OOO and getting to relax. Well at least that’s what I thought –until my husband and I visited the Phaea collection in Crete with our three-year-old in tow. The largest of the Greek islands, Crete is known for its natural beauty – with four breathtaking mountain ranges, two national parks, and miles of golden coastline. The stunning scenery makes the perfect backdrop for the stylish Phaea Cretan Malia resort, a member of Design Hotels, and its elegant sister hotel, Phaea Blue, a member of the Small Luxury Hotels Collection.
Family-owned and run, Phaea Cretan Malia has become a favourite for those with young children. Its warm, eclectic décor blends design-led furniture with curated artworks, appealing to parents who don’t want to give up on style just because they are travelling with kids. With a cosy, boutique vibe, the resort never feels overcrowded. Everything – rooms, restaurants, pools, and beach – is within easy walking distance.
Our room is cosy and stylish, with Cretan blue tiles and crisp white sheets. There’s a cute day bed set up for our daughter, but
of course she wants to sleep in with us, and luckily there’s plenty of space in the double. Overlooking a private garden, the room has everything from eco-friendly toiletries, to easy access to the pool – ideal for nap breaks and sunscreen top-ups.
The hotel has two heated pools and my husband and I take turns to splash about while the other lounges on the canopied daybeds. At the second pool, my daughter is excited to discover a cute ice cream parlour called ‘The Crush’. The beachfront location o ers a private area with loungers, and there’s also a mini spa, and a gym where I enjoy morning yoga.
The Little Explorers club (ages 3–12) o ers drop-o care, while Tiny Explorers (ages 0–3) requires parents to stay. It’s like a stylish Montessori nursery, with activities including cooking, dance parties, and movie nights. The best bit is that you can drop your kids o and pick them up any time between 10am-5pm. This allows my husband and I to get some (rare!) time to ourselves.
The hotel has five restaurants, a traditional Cretan co ee shop, and a main bar. The restaurants showcase the very best of Cretan cuisine. Breakfast at Mediterraneo features a family-friendly bu et. At Mouries, Chef Lefteris Iliadis prepares traditional Cretan dishes with ingredients fresh from the hotel’s organic garden. Other highlights include Levant-inspired sharing plates at poolside Mezze, Chef Athinagoras Kostakos’ authentic Italian cuisine overlooking the sea at Almyra, and cocktails at The Beach Shack. All of the restaurants o er a kids’ menu.
Just a short drive west of Phaea Cretan Malia is Phaea Blue in Elounda. An intimate hideaway, the vibe is understated elegance and quiet luxury, with stylish décor and second-to-none service. The resort is spread out, and we only really see other guests at the restaurants. The hotel has an impressive app, with an online concierge ready to answer your every query day-or-night. We use this to arrange Club Cars to take us from our room to the restaurants, and down to the beach.
With a private and secluded feel, our palatial Junior Suite is perfect for families. There’s a cosy lounge area set up with a bed for our three-year-old, a main bedroom overlooking the private heated pool, a huge bathroom with a roll-top bath, double sinks, and a double shower, and a separate en-suite. The décor is plush, with lots of extra special touches including a portable B&O Beolit speaker, and the sta deliver traditional Cretan snacks to our door every afternoon.
With a sweeping mountain backdrop, we could easily relax on the private sunloungers on the beach, or flop by the main pool all day. However, there’s plenty to see and do in the local area. The hotel’s concierge can arrange exclusive experiences – from private wine tasting to lessons in Greek cuisine. One afternoon we enjoy a traditional Caique experience, cruising the turquoise waters of the Aegean Sea. We have a champagne lunch onboard, and swim straight o the boat.
There’s also lots of other opportunities for relaxation – including spa treatments, a gym, and a movie area snug.
There’s a small kids club at Phaea Blue with a cute little garden playground. There’s a daily programme of activities, but it’s quiet when we visit in September, so we don’t end up leaving our daughter. It’s great to have the option though if you want some time to relax.
There’s two main restaurants at Phaea Blue: alfresco dining at Anthós and the beach-side Blue Door Taverna. A refined approach to traditional Cretan cuisine, we enjoy sharing dishes from award-winning Creative Consultant Chef Athinagoras Kostakos at Anthós. Ingredients are sourced from the resort’s organic kitchen garden, and also from carefully selected regional farms. From breakfast to dinner, the dining experience is extra special,
but the sta are so warm we always feel welcome with our three-year-old. Once an old fisherman’s stone house, you feel like you are dining in a family home at Blue Door Taverna. Delicious dishes are inspired by timeless traditional Cretan cuisine, and the service goes above and beyond.
Rooms at Phaea Cretan Malia start at £126 including breakfast if booked through Design Hotels; designhotels.com
A Junior Suite with Pool at Phaea Blue starts at €625 per night; phaeablue.com
We rented travel essentials from Tiny Explorers for our trip. The genius service allows parents to borrow items such as the cabin-friendly Stokke Babyzen Yoyo3, the Maxi-Cosi travel car seat, and the inflatable Flyway Kids plane bed. This was a lifesaver and made travelling with a three-year-old much easier. tinyexplorers.co.uk
A holiday to Casa Amore, Tenerife, will be one you will never forget
“Many who experience this haven of indulgence cannot wait to return”
Nestled in the sun-drenched paradise of Tenerife, Casa Amore is the ultimate escape where luxury feels a harmonious blend of elegance, fun, and personalized service that creates unforgettable memories for every guest.
Casa Amore Tenerife is the perfect choice for celebrating life’s most cherished moments, whether it’s a milestone anniversary, a memorable family gathering, a luxury golfing holiday, or simply a once-in-a-lifetime getaway. Honoured with The Luxury Villa Lifestyle Award in 2022, 2023, and 2024, Casa Amore is a beacon of excellence and refinement – a distinction that reflects the unparalleled service and amenities awaiting every guest.
LUXURIOUS AMENITIES TAILORED FOR ULTIMATE INDULGENCE
Every stay at Casa Amore grants complete access to an array of world-class amenities:
• Relax and rejuvenate in the private sauna, outdoor Jacuzzi, heated swimming pool and invigorating ice bath.
• Stay active in the state-of-the-art gym or unwind in the serene massage room.
• Ignite the night in your very own private nightclub, complete with karaoke and a fancydress room for unforgettable themed evenings.
• Savour culinary delights with a full board service, o ering exquisite breakfast, lunch, and à la carte dinner prepared by a Michelin-trained chef and sous chef.
• Delight your senses with unlimited premium soft drinks, snacks, and draft San Miguel beer.
• Their Arcade and Games Room is for those who love a touch of nostalgia and endless fun. Enjoy a range of classic and modern arcade games, challenge friends to air hockey or pool, and create lasting memories.
• Enjoy Live Entertainment and Themed Nights. Casa Amore takes celebration to the next level. Experience the thrill of a glamorous casino night or dance under the stars at their chic white party, or be enchanted by live performances featuring talented singers, saxophonists, comedians, magicians, and exhilarating fire-breathers – all designed to make your stay truly extraordinary.
No detail has been overlooked when it comes to comfort and convenience. Their villa boasts eight sumptuous en-suite bedrooms, providing luxurious accommodation for up to 14 guests. Whether gathering by the fire pit under the stars or soaking in the sun-kissed ambiance of Tenerife’s year-round warmth, Casa Amore is a haven where extraordinary experiences unfold.
At the heart of Casa Amore lies a dedicated team of 14 professionals whose sole purpose is to elevate your stay. From the moment you arrive, a private driver and luxurious 8-seater Mercedes V-Class Avantgarde are at your disposal, ensuring seamless transportation for all your adventures. For larger groups, a BMW X3i with a driver enhances the convenience. The full-time housekeepers provide impeccable
daily service, including evening turndown, while the concierge team caters to every request with warm, attentive hospitality. Returning guests are the greatest testament to the magic of Casa Amore. With an impressive 90% return rate, many who experience this haven of indulgence cannot wait to return. From the spectacular amenities to the personalised touches, it is the people who bring the spirit of Casa Amore to life, creating an atmosphere filled with joy, laughter and memories.
Planning your next dream holiday? Casa Amore are delighted to o er a special early bird discount for 2025 o -peak stays. The standard 7-night price of £25,900 can now be yours for an exceptional value – rates range from just £18,995 to £22,000 for up to 14 guests. Prefer a shorter escape? Five-night stays are available at reduced rates on select dates. This is your chance to secure the ultimate luxury experience at an incredible value.
Blessed with a subtropical climate, Tenerife is a destination where the sun shines brightly all year. With stunning beaches, breathtaking volcanic landscapes, and vibrant local culture, there’s no shortage of beauty and adventure. Casa Amore is your gateway to this island paradise, where every day o ers endless possibilities – from scenic golf courses and thrilling water sports to serene moments by the sea.
When you choose Casa Amore, you’re not just booking a villa – you’re embracing an extraordinary way of life. It’s a world where luxury meets fun, where impeccable service blends seamlessly with vibrant experiences, and where every guest feels part of the Casa Amore family.
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At Stonyhurst, they empower their boys and girls to be the best that they can be, shaping leaders of the future who carry a sense of purpose and a desire to make the world a better place. This is abundantly clear when exploring what they have to offer at Sixth Form, which is built on innovation and creating an atmosphere that builds confidence (and friendships). Read more about the school on page 125. stonyhurst.ac.uk
Celebrating over 40 years of handcrafted education at Abbey Gate College
In 1977, Abbey Gate College opened its doors as a testament to the vision of a group of families seeking the ideal educational environment for their children. Founded in Chester, this institution was not merely a school, but a finely crafted project, meticulously developed with passion and dedication. These pioneering families aimed to create a place where children could flourish, not just academically, but as individuals with unique potential and character.
Today, over four decades later, Abbey Gate College remains true to its founding principles. The essence of the College – a commitment to nurturing individuality and fostering personal growth – continues to shape the experience of every student who walks through its doors. This commitment is not just a philosophy, but a lived reality within the community.
Similar to a handcrafted piece that stands out from mass-produced replicas, Abbey Gate College prides itself on o ering an authentic educational experience that celebrates each student’s distinctive strengths and passions. Just as no two pieces of fine craftsmanship are identical, no two students at Abbey Gate College are alike, and that’s precisely the beauty of their approach.
Recently, the College received a poignant gift from one of its inaugural pupils – an original school blazer bearing the timeless insignia of Hugh Lupus, proudly handembroidered on the breast pocket. This blazer is more than a piece of uniform; it symbolises the enduring legacy of their handcrafted development and the deep connections forged within their community.
Additionally, they uncovered a piece of history within the walls of Saighton Grange – a section of hand-blocked wallpaper from the Bird Room, from when the
Not merely a school, but a finely crafted project, meticulously developed with passion
Grange was a family home. This exquisite wallpaper, now displayed in the College Reception area, serves as a tangible reminder of their appreciation for artisanal craftsmanship and attention to detail.
At Abbey Gate College, they empower their students to stand tall, not just conforming to societal norms, but surpassing them. They leave the school’s care with a sense of pride in their unique abilities, prepared to make their mark on the world with confidence and authenticity.
As they celebrate 45 years plus of educational excellence, they invite their community to reflect on the values that have guided them since their inception. Abbey Gate College is more than an educational institution; it is a testament to the enduring power of personalised, handcrafted education – an education that enables students to reach their full potential.
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Ireland rugby international Donncha O'Callaghan was inspired by his own track record of embarrassing scrapes for the plotline in his new children’s book
Well, he may be a rugby legend – part of the Six Nations Grand Slam of 2009, with four British & Irish Lions caps and 17 seasons for Munster under his belt – but Donncha O’Callaghan is also celebrated among those who know him for disasters on the domestic front. So, when it came to a fitting subject for his new children’s novel, he had plenty of material. In fact, you could say that Disaster Dad is art imitating life.
“I’ll be honest with you,” he says. “It is more truth than fiction. That was probably the idea for it.” He is refreshingly frank about the embarrassing fails that have punctuated life o the pitch – and, he says, his kids relish that side of him. “For all of my life, I’ve managed to get into embarrassing situations. Since my kids have arrived, they see the absolute joy in having an embarrassing dad.
“I know it will come, the day when they turn purple and run away from it, but at the moment my own kids have probably heightened my sense that it’s OK to be a little bit silly, to get things wrong – to meet them on their level,” he says. “Embarrassing things happen and when they see it happening to you they learn it’s OK to laugh at yourself.”
Disaster Dad distils that into a comic romp of a read. Our narrator is Finn, son
of a rugby playing father who is – to put it mildly – challenged by the practical aspects of life. Mum is the capable one, so when she goes on a trip to Boston and leaves dad in charge of Finn, Emma and Carl the dog for a whole seven days, it’s not a question of what can go wrong, but how much, how often, how bad.
From the smudged and illegible master plan (that would have told them everything required to make it through the next seven days in one piece) to a wild kitchen decorating plan, it’s a comedy of fails. Then there’s Operation Birthday Surprise. While Mum intervenes by text from Boston to ask Finn to ensure his dad doesn’t build the treehouse she made the mistake of saying she wished
she’d had when she was a child, she does return to a garden full of noisy chickens – something she never ever yearned for. As she says to Finn when he hugs her in the airport arrivals hall: “You survived!”
While the child characters of the novel are not Donncha and Jenny O’Callaghan’s – they have two daughters and two sons – that spirit of 'in it together' in Disaster Dad is definitely something carried over from their home life.
“We’re kind of run like a team,” he says. “Jenny and I call the shots, but we have their backs as well.”
While Donncha O’Callaghan’s rugby career gave him a place in Ireland’s hall of fame, and he has attracted more fans as an RTÉ 2fm’s breakfast show presenter and a coach on the TV show Ireland’s Fittest Family, he believes that for children, the really important heroes and role models are those closest to them.
“Of course I wanted to play for Ireland, but it wasn’t an aspiration,” he says.
“I wanted to be like the boy who won the Senior Cup, who was only maybe five years older. If you’d told me I’d play for Ireland I’d have said 'I can’t get there'.” Similarly, his own children have been just as excited about a recent Irish schools' hurling competition at last year’s Olympic and Paralympic Games because they are in awe of the achievements of young people. Of course, as children of a rugby great,
there’s sometimes the expectation that the junior O’Callaghans will be sporting standouts – but that’s never their father’s expectation or hope. “I just want them to go out and have fun and enjoy it,” he says. As to whether he’d encourage them to try for the world of elite sport, the answer is yes –but with a caveat. “Of course, if you want to make it in sport, great, but you’ve got to be a champion too at school, in your work.”
His own children are of an age where they can laugh about the things that go wrong. That’s good – he says – it’s important for children to understand getting it wrong is nothing to worry about. “You don’t want to shield or guard them – there’s a big bad world out there as well – but there’s also the importance of making it light and making it fun and making a brilliant childhood.”
Donncha O’Callaghan is happy to be the butt of the comedy in Disaster Dad, but he also knows that humour can help children pick themselves up, and learn to try, try again. “Be resilient, always back yourself,” he says. “That’s a kind of mantra around our house. Give it a go, back yourself. If you fall short, fair enough, but we always encourage them to have a go.”
Disaster Dad, by Donncha O'Callaghan, written with Karen Owen and illustrated by Jenny Taylor, is published by Bonnier Books, £11.99
Launched in September last year, Talamo is a dyslexia screening test that is a ordable, scalable and accurate – a game changer for earlier diagnosis
Jamie Wace had a patchy time in education and then, at 15, he got a private dyslexia screening test at the suggestion of his school and discovered he had dyslexia. He says this was a “Genesis moment” that changed his own approach and educational outcome. “My motivation was really poor, so I didn’t work very hard,” he says. But once he knew he was wired a bit di erently, it changed his mindset.
“I took charge of my own learning.”
Fast forward a few years and Jamie was thriving in Fortune 100 companies working in technology. Then he stumbled back across dyslexia as a topic and, when he looked at the technology still being used in the field, he felt there was potential to do things di erently and improve outcomes for young people and their parents, while also supporting hardworking schools and their SENCO teams.
One huge problem identified was the cost and availability of testing – waiting lists are
long and assessment tests typically range from £350-£1,000. These two factors mean many children don’t get checked as early as they should, and this a ects self-esteem and school success. There are also those who may be harder to spot – as Jamie could testify from his own late diagnosis. “One statistic jumped out at us – which is that 80% of dyslexic students don’t have their diagnosis before they leave school,” he says. “This was a bit of a lightbulb moment.”
He and co-founders Sophie Dick (an entrepreneur with a background
“It’s trying to take something that was reserved for the few and put it across as a universal right”
in designing for companies such as Delta Air Lines and BMW) and Leo Dick (design, data and product whizz with past clients such as Dyson and the British Museum), then began the process of redesigning screening to be faster, cheaper, accurate and scalable.
The process has taken two years and, on the way to launch, Talamo was tested on 1,400 UK children across 18 partner schools, including two specialist dyslexia schools. Results so far show a 94% accuracy rate.
The Talamo screening tool is fully digital and uses content adapted from formal assessments, including Riverside Insights Woodcock-Johnson, with whom Talamo developed a strategic agreement, plus
proprietary assessment material. “We’ve adapted a lot of that test and included some of our material as well as it has to be used in a fully automated session.” AI plays a big part, enabling fast personalised recommendations at the end of the test.
The ideal, says Talamo, is for the test to be taken in a whole-class session led by a school under exam conditions to ensure accurate results (and no cheating). With this approach, the cost of the test is typically around £12 per child. Some parents may wish to get the screening test outside a school setting with their child –currently, this is £69, but Talamo aims to reduce an individual test to £50 over time.
The test is ideally taken in Year 3 or 4. “We’d test even younger, but we wouldn’t feel confident with those results,” says Jamie. Senior school entry at 11 is another obvious testing point, but the screening can be undertaken at any age from 7-16. What’s important about the design of Talamo is that it’s easy for the children to use – clear and engaging screens and instructions, also not too long a test – and the report generated is aimed at the lay person, not specialist. “We describe it in plain English.” The aim is, of course, to make it clear for parents, as well as teachers and SENCOs and, while highlighting the dyslexia risk is the critical thing, the report generated also includes useful learning profile information – visual reasoning, verbal reasoning, processing speed, and
so on – and easy-to-follow guidance on what to do if a learning need is flagged.
“Most children will get something and, even if they’ve scored really highly, they still get some metacognitive guidance,” says Jamie. He believes this is really important, as many of the elements in the cognitive profile and follow-on recommendations are areas where small adaptations and more awareness may make a sizeable di erence. Just as important, children get insights into their own style as learners. Instead of feeling stupid when they can’t seem to grasp something everyone else in class gets, a child can recognise that it’s just a specific need they have as a learner – such as a working memory issue – and then they can be helped (and help themselves) to find a workaround. “I see it a lot of the time when the kids take the test. A lot of the time it’s a motivational issue, and a lot of that is tied to their self-esteem.”
Talamo is still in the post-launch phase, so Jamie says he and his co-founders are looking forward to feedback from children and teachers so they can further improve the test. He believes it’s the scalability that’s important, and the fact that it may potentially make life a lot easier for children and SENCOs. “The main thing for us is the accessibility aspect of it, it’s trying to take something that was previously reserved for the few and try to put it across as a universal right for everybody.”
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Arooftop garden in Warrington which aims to inspire the community to be more eco-friendly has won two prestigious awards. For starters, Culture Warrington and Golden Square’s Sky Garden scooped Gold at the International Green Apple Environment Awards at a glittering ceremony in Kensington Palace, London.
The annual event recognises, rewards and promotes environmental best practice around the world and saw Sky Garden compete against more than 1,200 other entries. It won Gold in the ‘Retail Community Partnerships’ category for the positive impact it has had on schools, community groups and families with fresh produce grown by a team of dedicated volunteers.
The accolade came just weeks after Sky Garden was certified as ‘Thriving’ by the
Warrington’s ‘secret garden’ wins two major awards in recognition of its positive impact on the local community
RHS in the ‘Britain in Bloom: It’s Your Neighbourhood Awards North West’ in Bolton. It was in recognition of how the charity Culture Warrington works with volunteers to bring the community together through a series of events throughout the year, such as the annual Harvest Festival.
Amanda Moore, Culture Warrington’s Education and Sustainability O cer, leads on the Sky Garden project that was launched two years ago. It is often referred to as Warrington’s ‘secret garden’ because it is tucked away on the top floor of Golden Square’s car park – but anyone can visit at any time during the shopping centre’s normal opening hours.
Amanda says: “The Sky Garden project has been fantastic to dream up and work on. Obviously, the work up here isn’t just about awards and recognition, but at the same time it is really good to know that people have heard about the garden and value the work
we do. It’s definitely been a busy time with two award ceremonies in one month, but we couldn’t be happier with how it’s turned out.”
The site is a ‘living addition’ to Warrington Museum’s natural history o er and is used for well-being and educational projects, with the aim to make the town centre a more biodiverse place to work and live and showcase what you can do with a small green space.
Amanda adds: “It’s hard to remember sometimes that the garden started as a bare patch of concrete. We’ve grown a lot and had some great times along the way. School workshops, harvest festivals, drawing classes, willow weaving and wandering Green Men being some of my favourite things.”
If you would like to learn more about the Sky Garden and volunteering opportunities, email Amanda at amoore@culturewarrington.org
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provide safe environments that encourage independent, open-ended, and natural learning. Our ‘planning in the moment’ approach allows children to choose where, what, and how they play. This autonomy helps them become deeply engaged in their play and make significant progress. For example, in our Reggio-inspired ‘Atelier’ arts area, children are not given a set theme, but are encouraged to explore their own creativity with materials such as wood, paint, clay, and textiles.
Karen Kilkenny, Head of Chapter House and Queen’s Kindergarten, discusses their natural spaces and child-led authentic learning
When you step into our Early Years setting, you’ll see happy, curious children who look forward to coming to school each day. We believe that children learn best through an inquisitive and exploratory approach. Play, for our youngest learners, is not just fun; it is a serious tool for development. We love watching children challenge themselves, work together, communicate, negotiate, lead, follow, and, most importantly, laugh together. Our EYFS teachers and practitioners have a deep passion for Early Childhood education. They understand that the experiences and relationships children
form in these early years are fundamental to shaping the rest of their lives. Positive relationships are central to our approach, and we continually work to set the stage for meaningful learning and connections. One approach that has inspired us is the Reggio Emilia method, which views the child as infinitely capable. This has helped our children surpass the personal, emotional, and social development milestones of previous cohorts.
Through research and trial, we have gained valuable insights into early brain development, the importance of healthy attachment, and the interconnectedness of developmental areas. We have also discovered how crucial authentic learning is for young children. We constantly audit our play spaces to ensure they
Our indoor spaces are noticeably di erent from typical EYFS settings. Gone are the plastic toys and pre-made playdough pots, replaced by calming, natural environments with wooden furniture, soft furnishings, and a welcoming atmosphere. These spaces act as a ‘third teacher’, creating a nurturing, magical environment that fosters exploration and learning.
We focus on key EYFS skills like communication, language, literacy, mathematics, understanding the world, and personal development. Children have repeated opportunities to practice and master these skills through play, with ambiguous resources allowing them to interpret and engage with their experiences in a meaningful way.
Outdoor learning is a core element of our approach. We believe that spending time in nature is essential for children’s well-being. Our outdoor environment is one big play space. Afternoons spent in our onsite forest, where children follow their interests by climbing trees and building dens, are the highlight of their week.
Chapter House, for children aged 3 months to Year 5, is part of Queen Ethelburga’s Collegiate. Known for its state-of-the-art facilities and excellent extra-curricular programmes, the school was rated ‘Outstanding’ in all EYFS areas in 2023. Queen’s Kindergarten was also named a Top 20 nursery for Yorkshire and the Humber in 2024.
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“Young people are more likely to be talking to each other – we need them to be really good advice givers”
Helping young people to recognise and avoid unhealthy relationships is a challenge but we need to start the awkward conversations early, says domestic abuse expert Paula DeVaux
By LIBBY NORMAN
Dtomestic violence accounts for what percentage of violent crime? Answer: 41%.
This, along with 11 other hard-hitting questions, is part of a multiple-choice quiz designed by the teenage relationship education programme Escape the TRAP. Other quiz questions focus on behaviour young people are more aware of. For instance: 'One in three teens say they are text messaged how many times an hour by a partner inquiring where they are?'. The answer: 30 times an hour. While the first statistic is obviously shocking, the second is also a loud alarm bell. “Coercive control is the bookend of domestic abuse. You’ve got coercive control within the relationship and then post break up the risk of stalking,” says Paula DeVaux. “If people are waiting for that first incident of violence, we are missing
all those incidents of coercive control.”
She says we need to let young people know how such obsessive behaviours work. “There is always a pattern, and the pattern is always coercive control. Extreme jealousy and checking up on someone –those are the triggers, the warning signs, for our young people to recognise.”
Paula knows a lot about relationships that turn dangerous. She is a former probation o cer who specialised in helping to rehabilitate domestic abuse perpetrators. During her career in the service, she also supported victims and children and was seconded to train front-line professionals across Norfolk. These days, she delivers training in the public and private sectors, and that includes workshops and talks within independent and state schools. She’s also a facilitator for specialist programmes, including Escape the TRAP, the eightweek course designed by psychotherapist Cathy Press (TRAP stands for Teenage Relationship Abuse Programme).
Working to support young people has become a big part of Paula’s professional life, but she also has personal motivation as witness to domestic abuse throughout her childhood. This was not something she revealed during her earlier career, but now she sees it as something of a superpower, especially when it comes to reaching young people.
She is particularly concerned by the mixed messages children and teenagers face – both in popular culture and on social media – alongside the negative impact of the Andrew Tates of this world. “Our young people are saturated with this. He’s just one of many when we look at all the unhealthy and harmful influences. It’s important that we explore this with our children and give them the opportunity to talk about it.”
As well as the risk of modelling the bad influences they see there is, of course, the perennial issue that many young people will, at some point, gravitate to the loudest voice in the room – often the
bad influence. “Children are attracted to someone who’s a someone. We need them to know that being respected isn’t being feared.” Then there’s understanding the di erences between care and control within relationships – especially romantic ones. “There’s a massive confusion between jealousy and love which our young people have – a 'well, you can’t love me enough if you’re not jealous'.” So, the 30 texts in an hour question from that Escape the TRAP quiz is really pertinent to this age group.
Just as young people confuse jealousy and love, they are (like adults) often quick to victim blame while excusing the perpetrator. “It’s important that we support young people to recognise that it’s not about mental health, substance misuse, ADHD –it’s not caused by those things. Those things might make it worse, but none of those things cause domestic abuse,” says Paula. “If we collude with that then we are doing a real disservice to all of those people that are dealing with those issues on a regular basis. There are lots of people that have had those experiences and have never been abusive or violent in their relationships.”
Explaining that there’s never a justification for abuse is vital. So too is
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clearing up the misconception about what an abuser is like. In her sessions with young people, she often explodes the preconceptions by pulling up a slide showing baddies from famous films. She then goes on to explain that perpetrators are individuals who look and sound like us. They come from all walks of life, and they may be male or female. What they have in common is this set of controlling behaviours we can spot.
While Paula’s sessions with children focus mainly on the teenage plus age group, she delivers age-appropriate advice to all ages. For younger children, the advice focuses on friendships. “When I go into primary age schools – and I talk to children as young as reception age – I talk to them about what being a lovely friend means. What does that look like and what does that feel like? If we get that foundation right, that paves the way for all those other relationships to come,” she says.
“If anyone in your life makes you feel sad or bad, they’re not your person – and that’s what I teach. The
• Your Best Friend – advice for young people supporting friends yourbestfriend.org.uk and #friendscantell
• The Mix – charity and 24/7 helpline giving under 25s advice themix.org.uk
• Childline – charity and 24/7 helpline, plus website with useful friendship/ relationship advice childline.org.uk
• SafeLives – charity working to end domestic abuse safelives.org.uk
people in your life that are your go-tos, they are your biggest cheerleaders.” The importance of these conversations is in teaching young people to recognise their own worth – their right to be who they are – and also to help each other recognise toxic situations. “Peer acceptance is a huge deal, and young people are more likely to be talking to each other before they talk to an adult about any of these issues, so we need them to be really good advice givers to each other.”
25% OF GIRLS AGED 13-17, and 17% OF BOYS, have experienced physical force in a teen relationship. 72% of girls and 51% of boys have experienced emotional violence, including constantly being ‘checked up on’. University of Bristol and NSPCC 2009 research
1 IN 5 WOMEN and 1 IN 10 MEN have been victims of stalking. The London Stalking Review 2024
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In the year end March 2023, there were 1.6M VICTIMS OF STALKING. Suzy Lamplugh Trust
* Police-recorded cases of violence against women and girls increased by 37% BETWEEN 2018-23. National Police Chiefs’ Council and College of Policing joint report
While young people may not understand the complexities of coercive control behaviours, they are well able to understand the principle that no friend should tell them what to wear, eat, say or do. “I let them know that if you’re ever doing anything because you think you should or you have to, not because you want to but because you’re worried if you don’t there’s a consequence and you’re scared of that consequence, then that is not OK. That’s the moment where often they’ll be looking at each other or looking down – you can see those lightbulb moments.” She never forgets that in any setting the early intervention may help both potential future victims and perpetrators change course.
Di cult though it may feel, especially when we want to protect children and stop them growing up too fast, Paula counsels parents to start the conversation early, and to keep dialogue going. “Don’t avoid those awkward conversations and think they are too young for it. They are not. And if we don’t talk about it, they’ll go to social media or Google.” Meanwhile, she believes every school should provide a specific programme to help children navigate those first romantic relationships in safety and with their self-esteem intact.
“It’s a life skill – I’d argue it’s as essential as learning how to swim.”
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surprising number of students choose their A-levels unaware of the longterm impact on future study and career if they get it wrong,
writes Jess Harris
Lily is doing the wrong A-levels. A Year 13 student at a leading girls’ school, she has realised that the subjects she has chosen aren’t right for what she wants to study at university. When she took her GCSEs, she was keen on humanities and textiles and opted for history, psychology and fine art for A-level. But she now realises she wants to study something to do with Life Sciences and she can’t do that without biology A-level. She is not alone. Which, the UK consumer choices group, reported that 28% of more
than 1,000 university applicants aged 18–19-years-old said, when surveyed, that they wished they had chosen di erent subjects. And only half of students surveyed felt well enough informed about how the subjects they had studied could a ect their choice of degree and university.
“It would be really helpful if our education system started with the desired university degree and worked backwards,” says Amelia Buckworth at Quintessentially Education. “If we started with where students want to end up, we could ensure they have clear academic pathways. Instead, students narrow their subjects in Year 9 when they choose
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their GCSEs and again at A-level.”
Of course, some students know early what they want to study at university, but many others are unsure. Even for students who have a clear idea of where they are heading, Amelia advises doing the research. “Di erent universities and courses have distinct subject requirements. Being aware of these di erences early on will help ensure that students' chosen GCSE and A-level subjects do not become a barrier to pursuing a certain academic interest, or a particular university.” For example, a BSc in Economics at LSE requires an A* in Maths, but a BA in Economics at SOAS does not.
By far the largest number of A-level students we support are those who dropped maths after GCSE without realising they needed an A-level in the subject to go on to apply to their desired STEM course at university. For those who are unsure when they embark on choosing GCSEs and A-levels, Amelia suggests keeping all options open. It helps to research a selection of subjects to gauge the entry requirements. It might also be wise to choose one or two ‘facilitating subjects’ –
academic A-levels that top universities prefer. For those students who have started A-levels and realised they aren’t the right subjects, it’s important not to panic. If you’re only a term in, think about switching just after the winter break. This is school dependent, but we have supported students who have changed an A-level subject after one term. Alternatively, if you have your heart set on a particular course at a particular university, you could explore taking on another A-level. “We only advise students to take four A-levels in particular circumstances,” says Amelia. “But if picking up a fourth helps you get on to the course you want to do, then it makes sense.”
It can also be a good idea to broaden your university horizons – there are so many courses to choose from, all with di erent entry requirements. Another option is foundation courses, which take up to one-year to complete, typically have lower entrance thresholds and may help get you to your destination point. These can be studied at a university or at another location (for instance an FE college), but are designed to help access university. Amelia doesn’t recommend banking on this route, but adds that successful completion enables many students to continue on to the course they are interested in. Most important of all is to do your research. “It doesn’t matter if you don’t know what you want to do at university, but make sure you get good advice,” says Amelia. “Ask your school for advice on how to keep every pathway open, and there is always secondary expert support available, too.”
Jess Harris is the Director of Quintessentially Education. See more at quintessentially.com/education
• Get honest teacher feedback on how you're likely to perform before choosing A-levels.
• Bear in mind those 'facilitating subjects' that keep more HE options open (History, Geography, English, Modern and Classical Languages, Biology, Chemistry, Physics, Maths and Further Maths).
• Be wary of A-levels with overlapping curricula – for instance Business Studies and Economics – if you are taking three subjects.
• Consider Art or Music as a fourth subject, rather than one of your three subjects, if you’re unsure of your course direction.
• Assume you will like a subject at A-level just because you liked it at GCSE – research the syllabus.
• Narrow your options by choosing subjects considered 'so ' by some universities. Examples may include General Studies and Global Perspectives.
• Take all new subjects – three, or even two, entirely new areas of study might be overwhelming.
• Avoid studying a Modern Foreign Language (for instance, Mandarin or Spanish) as one of your three core A-levels if you are already a native speaker – it may be seen as a 'light' option.
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Stonyhurst College has made a transformative investment in its Sixth Form (Higher Line) provision, creating an environment that caters to the evolving needs of young adults and prepares them for future success. This initiative blends a structured curriculum with opportunities to encourage independence, embodying Stonyhurst’s ethos of nurturing "men and women for others".
The newly designed Sixth Form spaces o er dedicated study areas and relaxation zones, collectively referred to as "Playrooms" – a nod to the school’s Jesuit heritage and emphasis on drama. The Poetry (Year 12) and Rhetoric (Year 13) Playrooms feature contemporary designs inspired by university environments, combining traditional touches like Chesterfield sofas with vibrant, modern aesthetics. These spaces promote collaboration and adaptability.
Collaboration is a cornerstone of the new Higher Line provision. Assistant Head Edward Allanson explains: “Today’s pupils
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Stonyhurst’s dedicated Careers department enhances university and career preparation through expert advice, engaging assemblies, and connections to a robust alumni network. Pupils explore various pathways, including apprenticeships and global opportunities, guided by industry insights to make informed decisions.
need to adapt to dynamic workspaces, often collaborating in shared environments. The Higher Line areas empower pupils to work e ectively in groups, promoting independence and leadership.” Pupils also benefit from access to Stonyhurst’s impressive historic libraries and modern facilities, encouraging a spirit of autonomy in their studies.
Stonyhurst’s diverse curriculum o ers three exceptional pathways: the International Baccalaureate (IB) Diploma Programme, A-levels, and the Cambridge Technical Diploma (CTEC) in Sport and Business. These options provide unparalleled flexibility, allowing pupils to pursue tailored educational journeys.
The IB programme, a hallmark of Stonyhurst’s global outlook, equips pupils with the skills and knowledge to excel on an international stage. This commitment to excellence is reflected in the school’s recent achievements, including the Class of 2024’s remarkable average of 145 UCAS points – equivalent to three A grades at A-level. Additionally, Stonyhurst’s
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Boarding at MSJ extends far beyond academics. Boarders benefit from an extensive co-curricular programme that includes sports, music, drama, creative clubs and outdoor pursuits, ensuring a well-rounded education. Weekend activities are designed to be both fun and enriching, ranging from cultural trips and adventure outings to school events and workshops. Examples of trips include
Lights at Blenheim Palace, Llama Trekking, SnowDome and Karaoke. These experiences help girls build resilience, confidence, and a strong sense of independence.
At the heart of the MSJ boarding experience is exceptional pastoral care. Their experienced and dedicated sta work closely with families to ensure every girl’s needs are met. Regular communication, coupled with a genuine commitment to each child’s wellbeing, helps parents feel reassured that their daughters are in safe and caring hands.
MSJ fosters friendships that last a lifetime. Living and learning together creates a strong sense of camaraderie among the girls, instilling values of teamwork, empathy, and mutual respect. To discover more about Malvern St James, contact the Admissions team today.
Email msjadmissions@malvernstjames. co.uk or call 01684 892288 to find out more. Fees: Day: £10,107-£26,088; Boarding: £32,364-£53,424 pa (based on full boarding).
Next Open Morning: Friday 7th March
By LINDA LAMB
When couples separate, an important consideration is the ongoing education of their children. If private education was agreed in the past or is an active consideration now, the recent government budget may result in a change of position. The imposition of VAT and business rates on private schools has already resulted in some smaller schools announcing closures. At the other end of the spectrum, a few of the a uent schools are passing the full increase on to the parents they know can easily a ord these higher costs. This leaves the middle ground where some of the parents have decided to put
their funds into the private education of their children and live a modest lifestyle. Traditionally, there were scholarships if prospective pupils have a particular talent such as sport, drama or academic, and reduced fees for talented pupils who cannot a ord full fees. With the increased financial pressures, private school fee reductions will likely end or be much reduced when divorcing couples finalise their finances. This is usually in a court order which is either by agreement, called a consent order, or by order of a judge after a contested court hearing. There may be provision in the order for the ongoing payment of school fees and all the additional expense of private education which includes uniform and school trips. With these likely increased fees the parent responsible for paying
them may no longer be able to a ord the costs, making a variation of the order a likely consideration. The sooner this can be discussed the better. If direct discussions are di cult the parents should use family mediation, when the finances of both parents would be considered to see if the school fees and extras are a ordable and to discuss what should happen if not.
If you are currently separating and considering private education, full financial disclosure is vital to consider whether this is a realistic long-term option. The court considers private education a luxury and will prioritise the basic needs of both parents before considering private schooling. Once in private education it causes considerable upset for children if they have to be removed at a later date because the school fees have become una ordable. In addition to leaving behind friends, favourite teachers, or losing access to beloved activities and extra-curricular opportunities, there is also the possibility that the new school does not o er the same subjects, leading to a change in courses. Family mediation is a useful method to have discussions about private education and consider the joint finances to check if it is a feasible and long-term option. LSL Family Law provides a variety of support services for divorced and separating couples, including mediation. Should you have concerns about these upcoming budget changes, you can speak with one of our highly trained resolution accredited solicitors who can provide you with support on potential next steps.
Linda Lamb is the Director of LSL Family Law and has 25 years’ legal experience. Find out more by calling 020 3880 8309 or visiting lslfamilylaw.co.uk
why everyone is talking about…
The past will come alive at Parr Hall as part of Natural History Museum’s first theatrical tour later on 2025
Dinosaurs will be roaring to life on Parr Hall’s stage later this year as part of the Natural History Museum’s first touring show. The familyfriendly experience, for children aged three and above, will combine the Museum’s world-leading expertise with theatrical magic from Mark Thompson Productions.
At Dinosaurs Live, audiences can expect an enthralling deep dive into the vast and ancient history of our planet, as well as coming face-to-face with extinct species which will come alive on stage through astounding animatronics, including a Tyrannosaurus Rex, Triceratops, Stegosaurus, Diplodocus and fearsome Velociraptor. There will also be plenty of fascinating insights about how our planet has changed over hundreds of millions of years.
Ever since the first dinosaurs were described in the 1820s, they have sparked the vivid imaginations of children and adults alike. Nearly six million curious minds flock to the Natural History Museum every year to find out more about the brilliant beasts that used to roam our planet. However, the Museum will be bringing its expertise to Warrington for two shows on Saturday 13th September, as part of a growing tour of more than 60 venues.
Maxine Lister, Head of Licensing at the Natural History Museum, says: “With 370plus world-leading scientists, the Natural History Museum is a hub for pioneering research and, as such, we continually look for new ways to connect our audiences to stories about our natural world.
“Dinosaurs Live promises to be the perfect gateway into a fascination with the prehistoric, suitable for all the family. This is the first time – since it opened in 1881 – that the museum has created a touring theatrical production of this scale, that will be taken outside our iconic
venue and onto stages across the country.”
Promising an adventure like no other, the team at Mark Thompson Productions –specialists in children’s entertainment – have been working closely with the Museum’s palaeontologists for a prehistoric production of mammoth proportions. Mark Thompson himself says: “We’re delighted to be partnering with the Natural History Museum in their first ever theatrical live show. Dinosaurs Live is an opportunity to take one of the world’s most respected organisations to theatres around the country and introduce audiences to the wonderful work that has led to the Natural History Museum being one of the UK’s most prized assets.”
Dinosaurs Live comes to Parr Hall on Saturday 13th September, and is on sale now. Call the Box O ce on 01925 442345 or visit parrhall.culturewarrington.org
