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Hertfordshire PLUS THE HUB ON VERULAM

Visiting St Albans' social hotspot

MOTORING ON How Bentley transformed a Hatfield landmark

SIX APPEAL

Local must sees during Heritage Open Days

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SEPTEMBER 2023 CULTURE 12 AGENDA The top events in Hertfordshire this month 14 MARKUS BIRDMAN The acclaimed comedian comes home 18 THE HUB ON VERULAM Inside the St Albans social hotspot FOOD & DRINK 22 BROOKMANS Why this favourite is all about Herts 27 REVIEW The Bricklayers Arms in Flaunden FASHION & BEAUTY 30 THE STORY OF DIOR A unique insight into fashion royalty 34 THE SHOOT Autumn occasions with Suzy D Bushey 39 HEALTH & BEAUTY Special features look at di erent aspects of mental health INTERIORS 51 HERITAGE OPEN DAYS Six of the best in Hertfordshire to discover during this wonderful event 54 REAL HOME A Hertfordshire hamlet that has been completely transformed 59 TREND Why your home is pretty in pink EDUCATION SPECIAL 64 TALKING HEAD A 21st century education at Manor Lodge 73 JUST GOOD FRIENDS St Margaret's School show the importance of building your social circle
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Iwas once a very sociable person. I was out more nights than in, especially with plenty of press invites and openings to enjoy a glass of bubbly at. Office events, too, were always eagerly anticipated, and although I slowed down a little as the years advanced, I still considered myself to be a social butterfly. And then the pandemic happened. Don't get me wrong, I hated being in lockdown. There was nothing worse than being told where I could walk to and for how long, and boy did I crave a pint in a pub on countless occasions. Zoom meetings became the norm and, slowly, my brain started to think it wasn't all bad living my life within my own four walls.

We are, thankfully, back to the norm when it comes to going outdoors, but something inside of me has stopped me enjoying the finer things in life. I actually had a bona fide panic attack not long after lockdown ended when I was heading into town to meet friends.

Slowly, but surely, though my brain is being reconditioned, helped enormously by places like The Hub on Verulam in St Albans. This social hotspot has it all, from a thriving bar and screening room, to picturesque spots to get your work done with a smile on your face. I chatted to the co-founder for this issue and it made me realise that, yes, socialising with other people is indeed a wonderful thing.

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Celebrating strong prints, colours and hand-sewn embroideries, Raff ya offers contemporary clothes and accessories in modern, romantic design forms. Arabella embroidered dress, £195. ra ya.com

BEST FIT

A coral hue that suits all skin tones, Empreinte Cassiopée Papaya enhances the fi gure with the unique fit of Empreinte’s seamless lingerie. ameliesfollies.co.uk

CASE STUDY

July's fabulous, nimble suitcases come in all shades and lots of sizes, with practical features galore. july.com

SHELL PIECE

The Shell Scallop Platter is part of the Le Sol collection, cra ed with care in South Africa using three types of locally sourced stoneware clay with a handpainted motif. conranshop.co.uk

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CHARM SCHOOL

The Norwegian Lucky Troll is Crystal Haze's signature pendant. The colourful jewellery collection has a playful, 1980s feel that we love. crystalhazejewelry.com

CURVE APPEAL

The cream glaze, scalloped edge and practical handles makes this roasting dish deliciously different. Made from fi ne china it's a natural oven to table beauty. habitat.co.uk

FINAL CUT

PATTERN HOUSE

Christian Lacroix Maison has teamed up with Schmidt to launch this fi gurative feather-swirled motif for walls and upholstery. christian-lacroix.com

Allday Goods have partnered with one of Sheffi eld's last remaining knife makers to create these knives with handles made from local plastic waste in a variety of bold marbled colourways. alldaygoods.co.uk

RIDE OR DIE

British jewellery brand Rachel Jackson's Ride or Die collection is a fun, nostalgic array of smiley faces, rainbows and peace signs, perfect for summer. racheljacksonlondon.com

SUPER SERUM

Eighth Day's gamechanging serum is built around the notion that aged skin is wounded skin – and, given the right tools, it can be healed. Give it just two weeks to work, £270. harrods.com

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7 SEPTEMBER WATFORD PALACE THEATRE

If middle age has taught Jen Brister anything, it’s that optimism does not come naturally to her. In fact it’s fair to say that her cup is very much half empty and she’s making no attempt to fill it. Can Jen work against her natural instincts and finally see the light? Or will she stay the same old pessimistic naysayer she’s always been?

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SEPTEMBER'S HOTTEST HAPPENINGS

St Albans Feastival

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St Albans Feastival promises to be an incredible foodie experience where the central streets in the city centre will be filled with food and drink stalls, street entertainment, bars with live music, art and crafts activities, cookery demonstrations, and fun for all ages. St Albans has never been such a tasty proposition.

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Charity Concert

10 September

ALBAN ARENA

This forthcoming concert is looking to raise much needed funds for the RAF Benevolent Fund. It will be a rare and unique opportunity to hear one of the world's renowned and finest Military Bands in concert, the Central Band of the Royal Air Force. Their ceremonial duties are wide ranging, including the funeral of Queen Elizabeth II and this year during the Coronation of King Charles III. alban-arena.co.uk

MUSIC MUSIC

The Threepenny Opera

Until 6 September

ROMAN THEATRE

OVO present their rollicking new production of The Threepenny Opera at the Roman Theatre Open Air Festival. Adam Nichols, Artistic Director of OVO, says: “The Threepenny Opera is such a great story with some deliciously meaty characters and a wonderful score – all of which have continued to entertain audiences for nearly 100 years. We have an excellent cast who will be doubling up as musicians and I’m confident our production will work brilliantly.” ovo.org.uk

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Ruby Wax

15 September

AYLESBURY WATERSIDE THEATRE

Ruby Wax returns to the stage following her critically acclaimed, sell out tour, How To Be Human. See her in the darkest and funniest stage show yet. “The idea behind this show was based on the extreme journeys that I wanted to take in order to find an antidote to living a frazzled life,” says Ruby Wax. “Along the way I wanted to find meaning, peace, happiness. However, after some transcendent experiences, I ended up in a mental institution.” One not to miss. atgtickets.com/Aylesbury

THREE'S COMPANY

A trio of eclectic shows to enjoy at Watford Palace Theatre this month

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HERTS OPEN STUDIO

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VARIOUS

Herts Open Studios is the notto-be-missed opportunity to experience the world of art firsthand, to meet and get to know the amazingly talented artists in our Hertfordshire community. With many venues across the county opening their doors, there's bound to be something for everyone, with plenty to see, do and experience. hvaf.org.uk

This Month’s Must See

SUSIE DENT

10 September

Take a journey into the curious, unexpected, and downright surreal origins of the words we use every day. Susie Dent will retell the adventures that lie hidden within such words as lasagne (involving a chamber pot) and bugbear (a terrorising monster), and explain such oddities as the silent h in ghost and the mysterious disappearance of kempt, gormful, and ruly.

THE MAKINGS OF A MURDERER

13 September

Join The Scottish Detective, David Swindle, for a chilling, thrilling, night at the theatre. True crime fans, and those with a curious mind, can explore the cases, the circumstances and the detective’s perspective on what really went on, the early warning signs and the clues behind The Makings of a Murderer.

HERITAGE DAY

10 SEPTEMBER, HERTFORD CASTLE

As part of the national Heritage Open Days weekend, Hertford Town Council hosts its annual Hertford Castle Heritage Day event. The castle grounds will be transformed for the day and will include a small settlement of interactive medieval encampments on the main lawn, including a programme of entertainment such as fire breathing, falconry flying displays, storytelling and even re-enactment battle scenes. hertfordcastle.co.uk

ELO AGAIN

29 September

ELO AGAIN are back with their stunning ‘Re-Discovery Tour’ celebrating the truly universal music of Je Lynne and the Electric Light Orchestra. As the UK’s No.1 tribute show, ELO AGAIN provides you with the spectacular live e ect of ELO’s famous orchestrations, soaring strings and vocals.

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“An extreme situation always lends itself to a good story”

Platinum HEART

aking up in hospital during the middle of lockdown, having su ered a stroke and losing half his eyesight, was a pretty grim position for Hertfordshire-raised Markus Birdman to find himself in. But this terrifying experience was the start of a journey, one that led him to the semi-finals of this year’s series of Britain’s Got Talent.

“It was actually my second stroke. I had my first 12 years ago when I was 40, although at the time I didn’t know it was a stroke, something just felt o , it was a bit like walking around with a horrendous hangover,” explains the comedian, who grew up in Bishop’s Stortford. “This time around, I knew it was happening, which was really scary. It was a very harrowing

Wexperience and the psychological e ects were a lot worse than the first time.”

To help him come to terms with what Markus describes as a ‘harrowing and psychological di cult’ experience, he began joking about his strokes during his standup sets. One particular incident, which saw him sit on a naked blind man while going to the toilet in hospital because he was too blind to see he was already in the cubicle, tickled the likes of Simon Cowell, Amanda Holden, Alesha Dixon and Bruno Tonioli on the latest series ofBritain’s Got Talent, catapulting him into the live semi-final.

“It was an extreme situation to find myself in, but an extreme situation always lends itself to a good story,” says Markus, whose BGT audition also included dad jokes inspired by his daughter. “She’s very generous in allowing me to use her as inspiration. She’s got a really great sense of humour and it wouldn’t surprise me if she ends up a comic herself.”

While the 52-year-old’s appearance on BGT will have been the first time many will have heard his quick quips, Markus’ dark humour has been entertaining audiences across the globe for 20 years. He’s supported Jason Manford at thePalladium, has written for comedian and actress Jayde Adams, and was one of the very first British comics to have his own Netflix Special –Live in Amsterdam.

However, his entry into comedy was quite by accident. While studying Art at college, he joined a band, but spent more time talking to the audience between songs than playing music, so his bandmates suggested he try something di erent and he began doing live performance poetry.

“Unbeknownst to me, after seeing me do a poetry gig, a friend of my daughter’s mum entered me into a new act show on Channel 5 called ‘So you think you’re funny’,” he explains. “I didn’t really want

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to do it, but didn’t want to be a ‘bottler’ either, so said yes and ended up getting to the finals and going to Edinburgh.”

He’s since done 12 Edinburgh Fringe Festivals – his last show was nominated for a 2023 Chortle Award and forms the basis of his latest tour, Platinum, which stops in Hemel Hempstead this month.

“The show was called, ‘The Bearable Heaviness ofNearlyNot Being’, a play on ‘The Unbearable Lightness of Being’ by Milan Kundera, but the tour production team felt that might be a little heavy for Rotherham and Southampton (no disrespect to either), so we changed it to Platinum.

This was because when I had the operations following my second stroke, they inserted two platinum discs so I literally have a platinum heart. I’ve also gone a bit grey. I used to have a full head of really dark hair, but about a month after my first stroke, a streak of grey appeared – it was almost vampire-esque – so it’s a nod to that too.”

Joking about serious issues can strike a nerve, so how does Markus manage to strike the balance between laughing about his experience and being respectful to other stroke survivors? “I have been criticized,” he admits. “It was eye opening to see how many people commented on social media after

my BGT appearance saying I shouldn’t be joking about something so serious. But the positivity definitely outweighed the negative comments and I often get people come up to me after shows to thank me for talking about it, because it’s not talked about.

“When people ask me ‘how can you joke about a stroke’ I reply with ‘how can I not?’. My comedy has always been about me, my experiences of being a ‘son of a preacher man’ and parent to a teenage daughter, so why not my stroke?

“Talking about it has been good for my own recovery so, selfishly, I do it because it helps me, but if the knock-on e ect is that it helps others too, then I’m also incredibly proud of that.”

Markus Birdman’s Platinum will be at The Old Town Hall, Hemel Hempstead on 23 September. See more at markusbirdmantour.com

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“It was eye opening to see how many people commented on social media after BGT”
HE WILL BE PERFORMING IN HEMEL HEMPSTEAD THIS MONTH

Get to know… HANNAH PETROUIS

Q What originally inspired The Hub on Verulam?

A I founded the business with my partner Alex, and the concept was born out of our combined loves. For me it is community and unique experiences, and for Alex it is sport and travel. We wanted a place where we could bring the community together to socialise, learn, collaborate and celebrate.

Q Why was St Albans perfect for a venture like this?

A St Albans has such a strong community feel.It’s a vibrant dining market and given the proximity and commute time to London, there are a lot of residents who appreciate an elevated hospitality experience, in contrast to chain restaurants and big-brand co ee shops. Our building is the only one we saw in St Albans and it’s totally unique. We knew straight away that it was where we had to be.

Q From day one, what did you want to o er?

A A multi-use social space, unlike anyone had seen locally.We are proud to not fit into any stereotypical hospitality box – to be a place that surprised people and provided a talking point. Although anyone can visit The Hub and we are not a members-only venue, we o er a range of memberships categorised as Social, Working and Team/Family. Social Membership includes a free hot drink every time you visit, free film and sports tickets and discounts on food and drink. Working Membership includes unlimited WFH (Work From Hub) credits – we have a no laptop policy for non-members – and access

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to the Mezzanine workspace from 9am on weekdays, along with the Social Membership benefits. Finally, a Team/Family Membership o ers all of the above for up to 10 people. With membership prices starting at £25 per month, they have been very popular so far and we are continuing to evolve the o ering as the needs of our community evolves.

Q How would you sum up the first year?

A Definitely challenging and rewarding in completely equal measures.The first six months were particularly chaotic, before we slowly managed to gain some balance in our lives again.

Q What would you say have been the most popular elements with the local community?

A The activities for children are incredibly popular. We have toddler cinema in our screening rooms, baby club and mini mornings, amongst other activities. We’re also becoming well-known for our cocktailsand have an amazing bar team that have created a bespoke menu you won’t find anywhere else. Likewise, we are available for private hire, which is proving to be in high demand.

Q What’s new as we head into September and the autumn months?

A We’ll be running more regular children’s ‘mini morning’ events and have recently started Deli after Dark, which sees our deli now open as a neighbourhood wine bar with small plates at the weekends.Also, with the start of the football season, we will be screening lots of games of course.

Q Do you also live in St Albans?

A Yes, we have lived here for two years

and Alex grew up here so knows the city very well. For us and our young family, it has a good balance of rural and city.We love being so close to London and then coming home to the St Albans community which has been so welcoming.

Q How does owning The Hub on Verulam fit in with your family life?

A I’ll be honest, it took a while to harmoniously sync our work and home life! Alex and I are a team in every aspect of our lives. We have to be, and we are quite di erent characters, so balance one another out. Hospitality never switches o , so if one of us is at work on a Friday/ Saturday evening, the other is holding down the fort at home, and vice versa.

Q The Hub on Verulam aside, where else in St Albans do you enjoy visiting?

A For food we love Per Tutti (Italian), Dylans (Gastro), and Tabure (Mediterranean). They all o er di erent vibes, but are equally delicious and independent.For the experience, we love The Odyssey Cinema.

Q What are your ambitions for The Hub on Verulam?

A We’re still very much in our growth stage and learning every day from our customers and amazing team. Our plan is to keep doing new things, never sit still or be complacent, and continue to build our community.

Find out what's on and more at thehubonverulam.com

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FOOD & DRINK

COUNTRY TREAT

THE GROVE

This autumn, luxury Hertfordshire hotel and spa, The Grove, will launch a collaborative Afternoon Tea with Royal Botanic Gardens, Kew celebrating the very best of the British countryside. Available in The Grove’s Walled Garden restaurant, The Potting Shed, guests will be treated to an exquisite selection of sweet and savoury treats curated by Ryan Thompson, The Grove’s Head Pastry Chef, whilst enjoying the views. thegrove.co.uk

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PEACHY

How Hertfordshire is truly at the heart of the delightful o ering at Brookmans, as Peach Pubs’ Mitch Brummitt explains

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JIMMY BUTLER’S BBQ-GLAZED PORK BELLY, BLACK BEANS & SUMMER SLAW

Q Can you tell us a little bit about the history of Brookmans?

A Brookmans is an imposing presence at the heart of Brookmans Park, one of the original garden villages created in rural Hertfordshire. It’s set inside a fabulous 1930s building, now restored to create a gastropub with a great atmosphere in the centre of the village.

Brookmans started life as a hotel, The Brookmans Park Hotel, built in the 1930s with high pitched ceilings, skylights, wood panelling and fanlight windows. It was privately run for many years before being taken over by a national brewery chain in 2006. Various modifications were made including expanding the restaurant – today’s eatery is a spacious, high-ceilinged building at the heart of the pub with the original wood panelled walls – and turning the old pool room into a deli and afterwards a wine bar.

Peach Pubs took it on in autumn 2011 and completely refurbished the building to create a pub with a large island bar, light and airy eatery, two elegant private dining rooms, a garden room opening onto a terrace and a lovely garden.

Q Who are Peach Pubs?

A Peach is a collection of really great pubs, mainly in market towns in the heart of England, that serve good quality, fresh, honest food and drink in relaxed, welcoming surroundings. Its pubs are full of character. Each one is di erent, but Peachy in its own way. Guests who enjoy one of its pubs are welcome to try the others. The menu, the look and the people will be di erent, but the welcome will be just as warm, and the quality of the food and drink just as high.

Peach has 21 pubs across Oxfordshire, Warwickshire, Hampshire, Surrey, Berkshire, Buckinghamshire and Surrey, and also nearby in Bedfordshire and Hertfordshire, where it has The White Horse in Harpenden.

Q How would you say Brookmans has evolved over the last decade?

A When Peach took it on, there was a complete refurbishment to restore the pub whilst letting the character of the building shine through. Behind its grand, neoGeorgian front, Peach created a welcoming island bar, which is the perfect spot for

enjoying a great cup of co ee, a decent pint of beer or a glass of something sparkling. The look was refreshed again in 2018, with a chic new layout to the bar and eatery and new décor featuring rich teals, silver florals and twinkling chandeliers adding a touch of luxury and a fresh new look in the garden room with foliage patterns and palms. Bi-fold doors open onto the terrace which has comfy sofas and statement planting to set the scene for stylish al fresco eating and drinking. The gorgeous private dining room to the front of the pub is secluded enough for working as well as for exclusive gatherings over a delicious dinner.

I head up the team at the pub as General Manager, and I hail from a Hertfordshire family with a long and successful track record in providing great hospitality. Together we ran a group of successful bars, restaurants and nightclubs across London and the Home Counties, as well as several independent pubs including The Prince Edward in Bayswater, London, whilst I had my own pub, The Farmers Boy, in Hertford. I like to think I have brought a wealth of hospitality experience with me to the role, as well as a love of hosting and good food and wine.

Good food a-plenty comes from Brookmans’ kitchen, which is run by Head Chef Tom Brown, also Hertfordshire born and bred. Tom joined from The Farmhouse at Redcoats, where he honed his love of working with good seasonal produce before moving to The Manor of Groves Hotel in Sawbridgeworth to run their kitchen. Tom is widely travelled and has a particular love of seafood, fish and spice gained from his time in the States and Spain, all of which translates to fantastic flavour on the menu at Brookmans.

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Q Would you say you are an important part of the local community?

A Most certainly. Brookmans is at the centre of the village and the community and actively supports it as well as a number of local charities.

Q Do you make use of local Herts produce?

A Head Chef Tom Brown focuses on great quality seasonal produce for his seasonally changing menus, and some locally sourced produce on his specials boards – every day there are at least two special starters and mains and one special pud. Tom is currently working on 20 mile menu events that will really showcase the

best Hertfordshire produce – watch this space for more details coming soon.

Q What’s new on the menu?

A For summer there are lighter options such as artichokes with white beans and tomatoes and herb dressing plus garlic and paprika king prawns with Isle of Wight tomatoes and toasted sourdough, alongside treats including baked Saint Marcellin served with sultanas and red chicory. Start with Adriatic anchovies and gremolata or indulgent warm gougères with tru e cheese sauce. For a delectable lunch over a glass of organic Spanish rosé try the freerange chicken schnitzel with garlic and parsley butter, rocket, Parmesan and fries, or the goat’s cheese and courgette orzo with lemon and herb crumb. Deliciously di erent dishes for dinner

include pan-fried seabass with ratatouille and fennel salad alongside Indian-spiced sweet potato patties, emerald spinach, coconut and red onion salad. Heartier appetites will relish the classic fish pie packed with king prawns, hake, loch trout and smoked haddock, or the pub’s excellent Aubrey Allen burger. End on a high with a lovely summer pudding with blueberry compote and vanilla ice cream or a fantastic salted caramel and chocolate tart with crème fraîche and honeycomb. The pub’s cheese selection changes with the season and is served ripe and ready with chutney, apple and Peter’s Yard crackers. The summer selection features Finn, Clara Goats, Solstice, Cornish Gouda and Isle of Wight Blue.

Q Is there one particular dish that stands out for you right now – and if so, why?

A From the starter menu it would have to be the hand-picked Devonshire crab with cured salmon, apple and cucumber. It’s so light and tasty. It features hand-picked native white crab meat and beautiful Scottish Dunkeld salmon – it’s just great!

Q Ultimately, what do you hope visitors experience at Brookmans?

A Brookmans prides itself on treating guests in the pub as if welcoming them into its home. Big smiles and really great quality food. It is proud of its ethics, free-range meat, top-notch suppliers, only the very best ingredients and restaurant quality food in a lovely pub environment.

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The Bricklayers Arms

The Bricklayers Arms has been nominated for ‘Hertfordshire Dining Pub of the Year’ again by The Good Pub Guide – and on our visit, it’s a little wonder why.

The pub is set in beautiful countryside, with nearby country walks over the rolling hills of the Chess Valley. The outside may be great, but stepping inside was an experience like going back in time to a period pub, one that is tastefully furnished throughout.

The lovely atmosphere pervades every corner of The Bricklayers Arms. It’s a place that will put a smile on your face. There is also a lovely dining area outside to enjoy your meal.

On our visit, we had beautifully cooked food from their award winning chef. The menu is extensive and exciting and full of delicious dishes. The wines, bar and gin menu (a must try) are exemplary for a countryside pub.

For starters I opted for the Devonshire white crab meat, home cured salmon, chive cream, brioche. I followed this with

grilled pork tenderloin, chorizo rub, sticky ribs, apple cider jus, Dauphinoise potatoes, and fresh buttered vegetables. For dessert I had dark chocolate mousse, sea salt caramel with peanuts, whipped chocolate ganache, crispy chocolate sprinkles, with micro mint leaves.

My guest had pan-fried scallops, parsnip and white chocolate puree, pickled vegetables, and beurre blanc. For the mains they went for grilled halibut, samphire, grilled prawns, gremolata, Chardonnay cream, with Dauphinoise potatoes and fresh buttered vegetables. For dessert, they loved their summer pavlova, basil cream, strawberries, strawberry fluid gel, raspberry & champagne coulis, with coconut sorbet.

The meal was accompanied with a beautiful Pouilly Fuisse wine. All in all, it was a wonderful experience in a delightful place, with delicious food and wine. The service was excellent by the very attentive sta . No question was too tricky, and they were only too happy to suggest what dishes to plump for, as well as the wine to accompany our food.

Absolutely fully expects to hear about another award win very soon.

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Dior by Raf Simons is the sixth in a series of publications dedicated to each of Dior’s illustrious artistic directors. It reveals the creative vision of the Belgian couturier, at the convergence of heritage and reinvention, the essence of Dior and an infinitely contemporary purity. The pages highlight the shared passions and precious a nities that unite Raf Simons and Christian Dior – architecture, art and gardens –through dress portraits by photographer Laziz Hamani and texts from fashion journalist Tim Blanks. An object of desire and history, inviting readers to discover the many facets of Raf Simons' style during his Dior years.

“I’m not romantic about the past, I’m romantic about the future,” said Raf Simons, artistic director of Dior’s women’s lines from 2012 to 2015, of his conception of fashion and couture. A reflection embodied by the wardrobe he dreamed up, fusing heritage and reinvention, the essence of Dior and an infinitely contemporary sense of purity. Through each of his collections, the models implicitly tell the story of his fascination for Christian Dior, with whom he discovered precious a nities.

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Models Antonina Vasylchenko, Daria Strokous, Kinga Rajzak, Alexandra Martynova, Zuzanna Bijoch, Nastya Kusakina, Esther Heesch and Jac Jagaciak wearing haute couture Autumn-Winter 2012, Vanity Fair US, September 2012. © Paolo Roversi/Art + Commerce

autumn-winter 2012-2013, he chose to reinterpret the iconic New Look silhouette, transformed into a sculptural pants suit. An architectural manifesto, resonating as a tribute to Christian Dior’s original vocation. Every season, Raf Simons multiplied the references to the passions he shared with the founding-couturier – including those for nature and gardens, design and art –infusing his creations with many di erent inspirations.

With Monsieur Dior, he also cultivated a taste for modernity and the desire to celebrate legacy through the prism of a constantly forward-looking perspective.

CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT

1. Look 44, evening dress in black organza embellished with multicolour feathers, haute couture Autumn-Winter 2013. Dior Héritage collection, Paris. © Laziz Hamani

2. Detail of Look 14, ensemble consisting of a top in embroidered pale blue façonné taffeta and trousers in pale blue taffeta, haute couture Autumn-Winter

2014. Dior Héritage collection, Paris. © Laziz Hamani

3. Model Élise Crombez wearing Look 33, couture

Autumn-Winter 2013, Dior magazine, Winter

2013. © Willy Vanderperre/Art + Commerce

4. Look 36, ensemble consisting of a coat in pale pink faille embroidered with metallic thread, a top in black cashmere and trousers in black wool, haute couture Autumn-Winter

2014. Dior Héritage collection, Paris. © Laziz Hamani

5. Detail of Look 4, ensemble consisting of a jacket in celadon silk satin and a skirt in navy blue wool and crepe over embroidered ecru tulle, haute couture Autumn-Winter

2013. Dior Héritage collection, Paris. © Laziz Hamani

6. Model Nicole Pollard wearing Look 32, haute couture Autumn-Winter 2012, Dior magazine, Fall 2012. © Willy Vanderperre

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“We must not forget the past, we must go beyond it,” declared Raf Simons. His Dior years thus foreshadowed a form of renewal for the House, marked by a poetic avantgardist spirit. This is an exceptional book exploring the many facets of Raf Simons’ style during his Dior years.

Dior by Raf Simons by Tim Blanks is published by Assouline, £150

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TIME TO TALK

Suicide is the intentional taking of one’s own life. There are many (potential) causes of suicide and these can range from or be exacerbated by existing depression or other mental health problems, to family circumstances and economic downturns.

Since the advent of lockdown we have seen a marked rise in the number of suicides – in England and Wales they increased from 10 deaths per 100,000 in 2020 to 10.7 deaths per 100,000 in 2021. This is 5,583 registered suicides; the actual number may be higher.

It is important to distinguish between attempted and successful suicide – the di erence is those that end up in loss of

life (actual suicide). Attempted suicide and suicidal thoughts are higher in women, but completed suicides are far more common in men and is the single biggest killer of men in this country. They are also more violent in nature – due to the fact that they are meant to work.

This month, on 10 September, it is worldwide suicide prevention day. However, we should always be awake to the possibility of this. There will (always) be telltale signs. If you notice your husband/son/brother behaving oddly, becoming more isolated, seeming low and depressed or even voicing suicidal thoughts, get them to seek professional medical help or call a charity such as the Samaritans.

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Hertfordshire trichologist Trisha Buller on dealing with hair loss

Hair loss can be the most emotionally devastating experience for anyone.

My journey in trichology has been an amazingly humbling journey, dealing with people's physiological challenges whilst trying to keep a normal everyday life of work, school and families, which can be very challenging.

Even shopping becomes a big deal, in case someone notices you have thinner hair or patchy loss, and the weather plays a major role because the wind becomes your enemy – it can move the hair exposing your

scalp, that’s the last thing you want. Dealing with this emotional issue can be made so much easier if you first and foremost can understand why. Speaking to an experienced hair loss specialist, such as a trichologist or a professional consultant who has studied the hair and scalp in depth, is the first step. Understanding your hair, lifestyle, medical and family history and nutritional lifestyle is the beginning of trying to find the causative factor. Hair loss has become far more prevalent in recent times, which can be due to compromised health issues, nutritional deficiency, stress and many other factors.

This has increased awareness of the big brands and in doing so has made far more available and a ordable options.

We now have available online hair systems or hair pieces, specific bespoke extensions, toppers for thinning crowns, and fringes for hair line recessions, just to mention a few. Hairdressers are becoming more familiar with hair loss issues and can often guide you in the right direction.

As long as you have the confidence in confronting your hair loss, early diagnosis and help is key, and talk to someone –there will always be help at hand.

So many celebrities we see on TV and social media posts wear added hair or full systems, the bad connotation of wigs has become a thing of the past and people are more sympathetic to the problem, and this in itself is comforting and really helps with self confidence.

The first time you notice a hair change an immediate sense of panic consumes you. Anxiety and an overwhelming sense of depression can quickly set in. This can exacerbate hair loss, so keep a clear head and seek a professional diagnosis.

Trichology promotes the study, research and legitimate practice in all aspects of the treatment and care of human hair and scalp in health and disease. According to the international association of trichologists, a trichologist is someone who is a certified professional to help people who have problems with their scalp and hair.

Remember, you are still you, beauty is skin deep, and real friends will love you for you and who you are.

If you are experiencing any hair and or scalp problems and need advice contact Trisha at trichology@trishabuller.com

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REP, founded a decade ago in Colorado by two gym-loving brothers, has risen to become

America’s most popular brand in the home gym market (with cost in mind). It o ers a full line of gym gear, all designed by in-house, weightlifting engineers. REP’s award-winning power racks, benches, functional training gyms, and more will soon be available for UK customers to try out and order in Fitness Superstore showrooms across the UK (11 stores). Fitness Superstore, founded in 1994, is the largest supplier of specialist fitness equipment in the UK and is proud to feature the largest fitness equipment showrooms in the UK. Fitness Superstore will also carry REP on its website, to be delivered throughout the UK and Ireland.

“Fitness Superstore are proud to exclusively represent this fantastic and innovative brand in the UK,” says Paul Walker, Fitness Superstore managing director and owner.

Ryan McGrotty, co-founder of REP, echoes that. He says Fitness Superstore and REP make a great partnership because both are sta ed by real-life fitness enthusiasts and professionals; they both o er a full range of equipment, and they both value creating community and making fitness accessible to all.

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Heritage Open Days

St Albans School

Abbey Gateway Tours

St. Albans School, Abbey Gateway, St. Albans, Hertfordshire, AL3 4HB

The Abbey Gateway is one of the oldest ancient monuments that the city of St Albans has, dating from 1365. From 1871, it has been the home of St Albans School, and this tour will show you the interior and outside of this building. The Abbey Gateway has seen many historic events, such as the peasant's revolt, and the dissolution of the monasteries. They will provide guided tours for 15 people at a time around the Gateway, and there is a museum that shows the history of St Albans School.

EVENT TIMES

Sunday 17 September: 11am-4pm

Scott’s Grotto

Scotts Road, Ware, Hertfordshire, SG12 9JQ

This landmark is an 18th Century Grotto and Summerhouse hidden in a residential road in Ware. It is a series of six interconnected chambers decorated with thousands of shells, fl ints and pieces of coloured glass. It extends 67ft (20m) into a chalk hillside. Above the grotto, on top of the hill, you can also discover the summerhouse, which in its day would have commanded a wonderful view over Ware. Scott's Grotto was extensively restored in 1990 and is a Grade I listed site, and the summerhouse and gardens are Grade II*.

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Sunday 10 September: 2pm-5pm

Piccotts End

132 Piccotts End, Hemel Hempstead, Hertfordshire, HP1 3AU

This is a rare opportunity to see early 16th century wall paintings, recently featured on Celebrity Antiques Roadtrip. The paintings include images of Christ in Majesty, the Virgin Mary, the Baptism of Jesus, St Clement, St Peter, St Katherine and St Margaret. These were painted in 1527, just before the Reformation, as a statement of Catholic support at a time of religious turmoil, and are the only such surviving examples in the country.

EVENT TIMES

Saturday 16 September: 11am-3pm

Sunday 17 September: 11am-3pm

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Amersfort

Amersfort Hall, The Common, Potten End, Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire, HP4 2QF

Amersfort, a fine Arts and Craft house and garden, was designed by Ernest Willmott and planted by Gertrude Jekyll. This introductory talk and guided tour of the gardens gives visitors a rare opportunity to see Ernest Willmott's early 20th century design and garden layout, with its steps and terraces, a great deal of which remains intact. You will also learn of the colour scheme which Gertrude Jekyll planned for the all-year round e ect. The aim of the design was to blend into the surrounding countryside.

EVENT TIMES

Tuesday 12 September: 10.30am & 4pm

Panshanger Park

Panshanger Park, Tarmac Trading Ltd, Panshanger, Hertford, Hertfordshire, SG14 2NA

Go and explore areas of Panshanger Park not usually open to the public. Panshanger Park has seen many changes over the last 250 years. From a large country estate landscaped by Capability Brown and Humphrey Repton, to a gravel extraction site and now a country park great for wildlife and for visitors to explore.

During this Heritage Open weekend, you can see the old stable block that was part of the Cowper estate in the early 1800s and a working stable until 40 years ago. Now o ces, you can still see the original stalls and tiling as it was when accommodating horses. There will be information about the history, geology and wildlife of the park.

EVENT TIMES

Saturday 9 September: 10am-4pm

Sunday 10 September: 10am-4pm

St Albans Clock Tower

The Clock Tower, Market Place, St. Albans, Hertfordshire, AL3 5DR

Step back in time with a visit to the only medieval town belfry in England – marvel at the medieval great bell, Gabriel, relish the rooftop views and be entertained and educated by a miniexhibition, “Starring the Clock Tower in film and TV”. Climb the 93 steps of the spiral stone staircase to the top of the only medieval town belfry in England and enjoy the magnificen t views of the Cathedral, the historic city of St Albans and the beauty of the surrounding countryside. This is a unique chance to enjoy one of our favourite landmarks.

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Saturday 16 September: 10.30am-5pm

Sunday 17 September: 10.30am-5pm

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Q What was your original brief?

A This property needed a full refurbishment and modernisation throughout including a large extension to accommodate a new kitchen, and dining/living room. On the upper floor we also reconfigured space to make a more substantial master en-suite and dressing room, which was more in-keeping with a home of this increased size and stature.

Having previously lived and raised four of their children in a modern family home, the client was excited by the idea of bringing the architecture and period features of the home to the fore while giving us a relatively

blank canvas stylistically. The single most important goal for the project was to create a warm, welcoming and comfortable home for their families to gather during festivities.

Q What excited you about the project?

A While the kitchen, living and double dining extension to the home is certainly the heart of the home, the entrance hallway is where the drama and initial impact of the home hits you as you walk in.

With an abundance of unique features, from panelled walls, intricate ceiling cornicing, an imposing arched pillar detail and a double

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Hertfordshire designer, Cherie Lee, takes us behind the scenes of a stunning transformation of a hamlet located between Welwyn and Hertford

height original stained glass feature window, this irregular shaped space was a huge asset to the property, so we were really keen to make sure that this space was suitably impactful as you stepped into the home. The lack of symmetry to the space meant that we had to create a visual centre point to the hallway. We achieved this by incorporating a pedestal table with an oversized dried floral arrangement to further create a sense of drama and grandeur to this already impressive space. We opted for a pair of glass pendants, one hanging above the pedestal to help balance the space, which has worked well.

Q What was the biggest challenge?

A The biggest challenge in this project was incorporating two distinct dining tables for formal and informal dining while maintaining easy proximity to the kitchen. The close proximity of the tables within the layout of the home posed a design challenge. However, we resolved this by enclosing a formal dining space in a corner of the new extension. Accessible through glazed timber doors from the kitchen and separated from the hallway by an internal semi-glazed wall, this cosy and elevated dining nook with a bespoke banquette seat created a sense of occasion.

Q How did you decide on a colour scheme for the property?

A The colour scheme for the property was decided based on the client's desire for soft natural colours that would create a harmonious, restful, and calm atmosphere. The client had raised and seen four children leave the family home, so they were eager to embrace a colour palette with pale natural tones, which would not have been practical during the earlier stages of raising young children. Earthy tones of beige, green, and grey were chosen throughout the house. However, in the kitchen, we did

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manage to incorporate a pop of coral to add a touch of interest to that specific space.

Q There’s some great looking furniture...

A We source furniture from all over. Some of the key pieces within the home include: Kitchen sofa and pouf, Oka; Dining table chairs and bar stools, &tradition; Kitchen, Humphry Munson; Formal dining table from Roche BoBois; Sofas, George Smith; Marble pedestal, Menu; Co ee table, antique; Table and pendants, Soho Home.

Q The bathroom looks like a real escape – what was the idea behind it?

A The concept behind the bathroom design was to provide a luxury hotel-like experience. By reconfiguring the upper floor, we transformed the small existing bathroom into a spacious and private master suite. Taking space from a long hallway and reducing the size of the existing family bathroom, we were able to create a separate entrance to the master suite, complete with its own hallway, dressing room, bedroom, and a generously sized bathroom. A tranquil space was achieved by incorporating a statement William Holland freestanding bathtub, which acts as a focal point and sets the tone for the bathroom. Now, secluded from the rest of the house, we successfully crafted a master suite that acts as a peaceful sanctuary within the home.

Q The kitchen looks great for entertaining.

A The kitchen is designed to be the heart of the home, the key place to congregate, socialise and entertain. When not entertaining, the counter stools on the island make a handy perch for socialising with the chef or for casual dining, or if they wish to create more of an occasion the informal dining table in the kitchen works well for relaxed dining.

Using shaker style cabinetry, we created that warm embracing country home feeling in this modern extension. For convenience

an induction hob was specified rather than a range cooker complemented by top of the range Gaggenau appliances; however, to give that country farmhouse feel we housed the hob in a more traditional range style enclosure with a foxed mirrored splashback. The overall look is comfortable, pared back and calm.

Q What other rooms can you tell us about?

A In this home, the living room speaks to me the most. The rustic co ee table infuses the space with texture and vitality. Along one wall, three mirrors not only provide an additional glimpse of the lush garden landscape, but also serve to amplify the natural light. A trio of wall lights hung above each mirror delicately enhances the ambiance by dispersing soft, ambient light throughout the space. The living room emanates comfort, understated sophistication, and a serene elegance.

Q Do you have other exciting Hertfordshire projects in the pipeline?

A Absolutely! We have just refurbished a medieval barn in the Hertfordshire countryside into our new design studio, so Hertfordshire is home for us.

This summer we are completing an epic three-year, 7,000 square foot, six bed family home which we completely remodelled. It was initially two houses that have been amalgamated into one stunning home, it’s been the most fun to work on. The clients are young ex-Londoners who have fully embraced the joy of country living, but wanted to keep an urban twist to the scheme. The outcome is so chic and exciting, it’s going to be almost heart-breaking to hand it over but the photographs will be amazing, we can’t wait to share more.

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GREAT OUTDOORS

Manor Lodge is a school that truly believes in its ethos that every child deserves a childhood and this is seen throughout the school every day.

Outdoor Learning is built into all lessons across the curriculum and is a place where they aim to inspire curiosity, creativity and wonder. Turn to page 64 to find out more.

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Thinkingoutside the box

Absolutely Hertfordshire meets Alyson Lobo, Head at Manor Lodge School, to discover how pupils are embracing 21st century learning methods

Q How long have you been the Head at Manor Lodge and what originally attracted you to the role?

A I have had the pleasure of being the Headteacher at Manor Lodge School for the last six years. I was attracted into Headship by my desire to change the way we view education. My passion has always been the harmony between striving for academic excellence whilst embracing the very essence of childhood. My passion for the early years inspired me to believe that we should be harnessing the natural curiosity we see in the very young, and celebrating it right through the primary years, both inside and outside of the classroom.

Q In a nutshell, describe your school…

A Manor Lodge has moved away from the doctrines of a Victorian classroom and is now a school where the outside and inside classrooms mingle. Our modern, vibrant and flexible spaces mean that the curriculum can dissipate across disciplines, in which free exchange of ideas are encouraged and where

a teacher is not merely a provider of information, but a guide who immerses children on the road to understanding through dialogue, not monologue.

Q What do you do that you feel makes you di erent from other primary schools?

A Our school really does embrace outdoor learning to the full. If you take time to amble in our extensive grounds you will find a range of gardens nestled in the surroundings: The Woodland Garden, the Forest Garden, the Japanese Garden, the Reading Garden, the Pond Garden and our new additions this year: the allotment,

our beehives and Coronation Orchard. These spaces integrate seamlessly with our traditional curriculum.

Q How privileged do you feel to oversee your pupils’ early journey in education?

A It is our aim to bring joy to childhood experiences by enabling our children to feel safe and secure in an environment where each voice is heard and wellbeing is nurtured. This brings me immense joy and makes me feel privileged to be the Headteacher at Manor Lodge.

Q How do you approach the curriculum?

A Our approach to the curriculum is one in which academia and wellbeing are of equal importance. We are proud of our forward-thinking curriculum that inspires intellectual curiosity within each child, promotes academic excellence and individual achievement.

Q How would you say lessons evolve as pupils move up through the years?

A Throughout the years we champion the traditional curriculum in tandem

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with the creative curriculum in order to prepare our children for a rapidly changing world. We encourage a child to have their own ideas, to be innovative, communicative, collaborative and to be able to solve problems. This principle holds constant throughout the whole school particularly as they move into the later years where they are prepared for the rigour of the 11+ system.

Q How key is the pastoral to you?

A Creating an environment where children feel safe and listened to means everything to me. Schools have a responsibility to embrace childhood and inspire a lasting feeling of belonging and create memories that last a lifetime. A strong pastoral undertone creates a strong foundation for children as they move gently into adulthood.

Q Do you make full use of your setting when it comes to learning outdoors at Manor Lodge?

A Underpinning everything is our philosophy of ‘learning without walls’. We have brought the outside world in and the inside world out. By embracing modern and relevant technology both inside and outside the classroom we have broken down boundaries and have created a bespoke learning environment.

Q What are you looking forward to most when the new school year comes around in September?

A The excitement about the promise of things to come. It is a fresh start for all, with new teachers, new classes and new friendships. manorlodgeschool.com

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HELPING HANDS

One expert from York House School writes about how assistive technology is impacting learning in schools today

Actively participating in everyday lessons at school can be di cult for some children, especially for those with learning di culties. In particular, reading can be a struggle for pupils diagnosed with dyslexia, and in some cases, the simple act of listening to others and concentrating in class can be an even bigger challenge. The e ective use of Assistive Technology (AT) in

schools is, however, growing in recognition for supporting those children facing barriers linked to their neurodivergence. In fact, AT can be empowering for all learners, not just for children with SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disability) because it removes cognitive and physical barriers to learning and mobility – and elements of AT are already built into most devices as standard today, making it more intuitive. AT includes software, devices and equipment that can help pupils to work

around the learning challenges they are facing – whether that be dyslexia, autism or physical disabilities. If appropriate AT is carefully implemented for each specific need or disability, it could help to create a more level playing field for students across the board. Plus, with developments in the technology advancing rapidly, it is also becoming easier to use than ever before.

The power of AT in the classroom has been championed by committed educators for many years. However, developing these attributes as a mainstream and standardised culture is progressing and appetite is growing steadily. Used correctly, AT furnishes all pupils with the independence to access learning support, succeed in their academic studies on an even keel, and work in a learning

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environment that is more adaptive and inclusive for all. Teachers who embrace AT have also discovered that children who have used AT in the classroom have significantly reduced their frustrations, anxiety and fears around learning.

The technology helps children to develop a clearer understanding of their capabilities, but in a way that celebrates di erence and removes pre-conceived limitations to learning. This in turn helps to boost confidence as well as increase overall happiness and wellbeing, making learning in the classroom a more enjoyable experience.

As with any evolving technology, there could be challenges to the implementation, but access to quality IT support is vital in giving teachers the confidence in AT and its ability to achieve high level outcomes for pupils. With the right access to sta training, and the wealth of free online guidance that is available, teachers will need to have an open mind when it comes to the implementation of AT in schools.

For over a century, children have been expected to have handwritten work presented in books as a way to prove they are learning. The emphasis has very much been on that formal presentation

and no real consideration of the negative impact on children with, for example, dyslexia. We are now in an age where the understanding of the positive impact of using AT is becoming more evident and embraced more frequently. The more teachers become familiar with pupils presenting their work in less traditional formats, the better, because those initial barriers will soon fade into the distance.

In the future, if we learn from the innovations, research and excellent practice of those who are committed to educating us all on the power of AT, we will have AT embedded into schools and in every lesson. Children will have the correct support using AT enabling them to learn independently and in ways that remove glass ceilings related to their learning. Children will be using voice to text tools freely, recording their work digitally by means of videos, texts or images. When this becomes normal practice in schools, an inclusive environment will be achieved whereby all children are reaching their optimum level.

It is essential that schools embrace a fully inclusive culture, one that supports and celebrates the wider community and the diverse world we live in. At York House we have adopted a range of AT as

we believe it benefits all of our children. That said, it is essential that the most e ective use of the technology is identified first – and that we seek to remove specific learning barriers on an individual basis.

Some of our most impactful technologies include image-based text, voice to text, text to voice, scanning pens and templates that structure the writing process.

Quite simply, these kinds of technologies have unleashed learning potential and have made a huge di erence to those children who would have otherwise been limited by their disabilities and challenges. The independence and the success that AT can provide young people is something that has to be a priority in a world of true inclusivity.

It is likely that AT will change the lives of future generations, especially as access to it becomes increasingly mainstream. Today, many features are embedded within devices from blue chip technology providers such as Apple, Google and Microsoft. As these technologies evolve and improve, new opportunities will come to the fore. It is therefore vital that we equip our pupils with an independent growth mindset. We can’t possibly know what future careers look like for our pupils or even what kind of digital lifestyles they may lead one day, so we must instil a culture of agility, adaptive evolution, and one that continually moves forward and strives to nurture pupils with the skills necessary for the 21st Century.

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“Children will have the correct support using AT in ways that remove glass ceilings from their learning”

PLANET fantastic

Award-winning eco-education at Hertford Barns Day Nursery

There was cause for celebration at Hertford Barns Day Nursery in Cole Green as proud children and colleagues learnt that they had received the top accreditation in the international Eco-Schools scheme.

Following a sustained environmental project and curriculum of sustainable focus topics involving children of all ages, pre-schoolers from the countryside setting were delighted to scoop the prestigious Green Flag, which is awarded for exceptional environmental awareness and conservation practices.

The initiatives, which include creating habitats for local wildlife in the paddock to encourage biodiversity and making masterpieces using natural and recycled materials, are designed to promote the development of personal, social and emotional life skills, all whilst introducing children to basic maths and science messages ready for school. In the idyllic outdoor space, pre-schoolers tend to seasonal herbs and vegetables all-year round, which are then

used in meals by talented nursery chefs to extend the learning experience from plant to plate, as well as promoting the importance of good nutrition to healthy lifestyles.

In the grounds of the stunning character building and converted stable block, children take part in litter picking sessions to encourage care for the planet and good citizenship, as well as nature scavenger hunts and insect observations in resident bug hotels, armed with magnifying glasses. Using fishing nets, children learn about the e ects of ocean pollution whilst scooping litter from special water trays to rescue the marine life and discover life cycles first-hand with real creature encounters. Hertford Barns also has its own dedicated Eco-Committee, which is led by a devoted Eco-Representative and made up of a number of pre-school children.

Spacious classrooms are home to stimulating learning spaces, state of the art ICT, toys and equipment, messy play stations, ‘role play’ areas and purpose-built facilities including a children’s shaker style kitchen for cooking and baking activities, with days planned around personal interests. The nursery also boasts a comprehensive school readiness programme, with topics ranging from phonics to self-care.

Childbase Partnership has recently been named ‘Early Years Provider of the Year’ by Keep Britain Tidy for earning the Eco-Schools ‘Green Flag’ award in every single nursery setting, a record-breaking sector first.

For more information, call 01707 392999 or email hertfordbarns.nursery@childbase.com

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CLOSE ENCOUNTERS

The Head of St Margaret’s School in Bushey on helping your child navigate friendships in senior school

Starting senior school can be an exciting yet challenging time for children, especially when it comes to navigating friendships. As parents, it's important to find the right balance between o ering support and allowing your child to develop their independence.

friends. But when children limit themselves to a small circle of friends, they may miss out on the opportunity to connect with a more diverse range of people who could bring new perspectives and experiences into their lives.

In school, the desire for a best friend or a close-knit group can be particularly strong. It's natural to want to feel a sense of belonging and to have someone you can rely on. However, it's important to remember that friendships are never static, they evolve and change over time. Just like the fantasy dinner party game, when you choose five people deceased or alive that you would most like to share a conversation with, di erent situations may call for di erent

Sometimes, we naturally drift away from certain friends, often when our interests or priorities shift. This doesn't mean that we no longer value or care about them, but rather that we may benefit from the support and connection of others who align more closely with our own common interests, goals or aspirations.

Thinking of friends as a garage full of cars can be a helpful analogy. Just like di erent cars serve di erent purposes, di erent friends can provide di erent types of support and companionship. Some friends may require more attention and care, while others may

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be more dependable in certain situations. It's important for children to have a variety of friends who can meet their diverse needs and o er di erent perspectives.

While caution is necessary when it comes to interacting with strangers, especially from a safeguarding perspective, there can also be value in being open to unexpected connections. Engaging with strangers, but in a safe environment, can lead to unique and meaningful experiences. Whether it's striking up a conversation with another child outside of your school on a residential trip or connecting with another child in a completely unfamiliar setting, such as joining a new sports club, these

encounters can be exhilarating and liberating. The beauty of connecting with strangers lies in the fact that there are no consequences. You can be open and honest without fear of judgement or repercussions, as you may never see them again. Additionally, strangers can o er a fresh perspective, free from preconceived notions or biases. They can provide an unfiltered view and understanding of who you are and what you're going through. While close friendships are undoubtedly important, it's essential for children to recognise the value of expanding their social circles and embracing connections with a wider network of children. In doing so, they will open themselves up to new experiences, diverse perspectives, and the potential for personal growth. So, the next time your child finds themselves in a situation where they feel like a stranger, don't be afraid to reach out in a safe way, and make a connection. You never know what meaningful experiences and friendships may come from it

All change

1 Remember to stay in your lane: Adolescence is a time when children crave independence, yet they may still need guidance and support with their relationships. It can be diffi cult to know when to get involved and when to step back. Schools o en work hard to keep parents connected to their child's learning and school experience, as communication with your child may be limited to a simple "fi ne" when asked about their day. Provide fi rm boundaries, be a good listener, and offer support and advice when your child asks for it. Instead of telling them who to be friends with, use language that offers choices and encourages them to make their own decisions.

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Establish a comfortable space for conversation: Find a location where your child feels more comfortable opening up about friendship matters. This could be in the car, while walking the dog, or anywhere that allows for a less intense conversation. Teenagers o en need to vent and externalise their feelings, so provide them with ample opportunities to do so. It's important to remember that venting is normal and doesn't always indicate a serious problem. A er listening and empathising, ask your child what they would like you to do with the information they've shared. This helps gauge the seriousness of the situation and whether action is necessary. Avoid matching their levels of drama and respond accordingly unless there is a genuine concern for their physical or mental wellbeing.

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Emphasise the diversity of friendships: Remind your child that it's possible to have different kinds of friendships, and that these relationships naturally change over time. The pressure to fi nd a "best friend forever" can cause sadness and disappointment. Help your child understand that having a range of friends for different situations is healthy and normal. Encourage them to embrace meeting new people, as sometimes it's easier to connect with strangers. Model this behaviour by having diverse friendships of your own, with varying levels of engagement and maintenance. Show your child that it's okay to have different friends for different experiences.

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“Di erent friends can provide di erent types of support”
Here are some top tips to help your child with friendships during this transitional period

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Fun is an essential ingredient at Hertford Barns Day Nursery and Preschool where the care and education opportunities for each and every child are as extraordinary as our colleagues who provide them.

Availability may be limited in certain age groups or booking patterns Please call 01707 392999 or email hertfordbarns.nursery@childbase.com Hertford Barns Day Nursery, Cole Green, Hertford, SG14 2NL www.childbasepartnership.com FOR CHILDREN AGED 6 WEEKS TO 5 YEARS OPEN 7.30AM TO 6.30PM We look forward to hearing from you Nursery Places Available

World of Experience

RMS may be one of the oldest girls’ schools in the country, but they o er a truly 21st century approach to learning

Founded in 1788, RMS for Girls is one of the oldest girls’ schools in England. The school moved to its current Rickmansworth location in 1934 where it is situated amidst 315 acres of stunning green parkland, and yet just a short walk to Rickmansworth train/ London underground station.

With so much space, RMS o ers extensive facilities such as a sports centre that also houses a fitness suite, dance studio and squash courts; an indoor heated swimming pool; an Astroturf pitch; a six-hole golf course together with multiple tennis and netball courts and cricket pitches. There are separate departments for art, textiles and photography, as well as a dedicated performing arts centre that includes a recital suite, a green room and a recording studio. The younger pupils enjoy

the Forest School and all pupils have access to the planetarium.

RMS welcomes girls from Nursery to Sixth Form. The broad and varied curriculum together with a co-curricular programme o ering 100+ activities ensures that every girl discovers her niche and thrives. The cosmopolitan boarding community provides a happy and supportive home to flexi, weekly and full boarders, and the extensive daily bus service provides easy access for day girls.

The Prep School, known to the RMS community as Cadogan House, o ers an exciting and stimulating environment. The Early Years Lead works closely with the Head of the Nursery to ensure a smooth transition from Nursery to Reception. All sta at RMS appreciate that every girl is unique and they take time to get to know every individual and are fully committed to bringing out the best in every girl. All year groups benefit

from a broad range of academic and co-curricular opportunities ensuring full use of their extensive grounds and facilities. With the aim of continually improving their o ering, Sixth Form facilities have been extended this year with the introduction of a co ee shop, a wellbeing room, a new futures (careers) centre and a conference room.

Pupils at RMS are challenged daily and the learning style inspires pupils to dig deeper, often resulting in futures they had not imagined. As experts in girls’ education, RMS understands how girls prefer to learn. The school ably guides, supports and nurtures, and provides the opportunity to expand horizons. RMS pupils are encouraged to think critically, creatively and collaboratively. Above all, RMS girls are happy and balanced and will become the best version of themselves.

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THE STUNNING GROUNDS THE ARTS ARE IMPORTANT AT RMS

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The latest from schools across the county

Forward thinking

RMS for Girls likes to think differently and, as experts in girls’ education, seek to bring out the best in every pupil. Located in 315 acres of parkland and yet just a short walk to Rickmansworth train/ London underground station, RMS welcomes girls from Nursery to Sixth Form. The broad and varied curriculum, together with a co-curricular programme offering 100+ activities, ensures that every girl discovers her niche and thrives. The cosmopolitan boarding community provides a happy and supportive home to flexi, weekly and full boarders and the extensive daily bus service provides easy access for day girls. In addition to numerous sports facilities and a Forest School, RMS boasts a performing arts centre with a green room and a recording studio. The school even has a planetarium! RMS pupils are challenged daily with a learning style that inspires them to dig deep, o en leading to futures they had not imagined.

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Spotlight on the Arts

The essential contribution the arts make to the health and wellbeing of us all is well documented. While art subjects are under pressure in some schools, that’s certainly not the case at St Edmund’s College, recognising that the best education seamlessly blends STEM and arts subjects, and that music and drama can build leadership, interpersonal and empathy skills.

Thomas Veasey, Head of Musical Theatre at the school, says: “At St Edmund’s we have a thriving and talented music and drama department, which forms a central part of our academic and co-curricular timetable. Students can also benefit from one-to-one London Academy of Music and Dramatic Art (LAMDA) lessons. In addition, each year, pupils can participate in numerous

Take a bow

Tring Park School for the Performing Arts has announced the retirement of its long-standing and accomplished Principal Stefan Anderson, following a distinguished 21-year career at the school and over 40 years in education. A er a rigorous selection process to find a worthy successor, the school is pleased to announce the appointment of Simon Larter-Evans (pictured), effective from 1 September 2023. Simon explains why he was attracted to the role: “Tring Park School is a vibrant hub of extraordinary talent. I’ve known of the school for decades and am aware of its reputation of being a real centre of excellence for young performers, with a wonderfully strong sense of community that people carry for life. I wanted to be part of that. My aim is to build on the already fantastic achievements the school has, from performing across all vocational disciplines, to the excellence in academics, together.” tringpark.com

productions. These range from small studentled performances to whole-school productions such as our recent ambitious staging of Legally Blonde – The Musical. The show featured complex dance, acting, and singing techniques, which proved a huge hit with the audience.”

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akview Lodge Care & Nursing Home is a well-established part of the local community in Welwyn Garden City. Residents enjoy a wide range of daily activities designed to have a positive impact on their thinking, feeling, awareness and mood. Sta regularly involve residents’ families to help create special lasting memories for them to cherish with their loved ones.

Their team of Wellbeing Coordinators are dedicated to getting to know their residents and supporting them to continue enjoying their hobbies and interests.

OFrom music and movement sessions to arts and crafts, gardening, baking, and much more, there’s always something exciting happening at Oakview Lodge.

Country Court’s ‘Make a Wish’ initiative has seen residents from Oakview Lodge enjoy special outings and activities; from boat trips and book launches to o -road driving and lots of family tea parties. They aim to grant as many wishes as possible to create special memories for residents and their loved ones.

At Oakview Lodge Care & Nursing Home residents enjoy nutritious homecooked meals made by their wonderful Chef Manager and kitchen team. The catering team adapts their menus to accommodate residents’ requests and various dietary needs. The team also

ensures residents celebrate special events in style. Personalised cakes are homemade for every birthday or anniversary. The team is always on hand to create wonderful dishes to match any special occasion.

The home has built up a wonderful reputation locally with their families and within the community of Welwyn Garden City. As a home, they host lots of community-based events like summer fetes and champion breakfasts, and they continue to plan more meaningful events for their local community to enjoy.

Everyone is welcome to join residents and sta at their ‘Companionship Café’ on Monday 11 September from 2pm–4pm. There will be a warm welcome for anyone coming along, so pop by for a chat, freshly made cake, and refreshments.

For more information about Oakview Lodge Care & Nursing Home, please contact Customer Relations Manager kelly Rowson on 07494 115 393 or email kelly.rowson@countrycourtcare.com

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Bentley Hatfield

H.R. Owen Group has launched its new showroom, built on the site of the former de Havilland aircraft factory

H.R. Owen has o cially opened the doors to its brand-new Bentley Hatfield showroom. The new flagship site is the first in the UK to feature Bentley’s new experiential design concept, elevating the showroom experience with new levels of luxury and innovation.

Bentley Hatfield features a showroom space that is both open and luxurious, and intimate and cosseting. Away from the large glazed frontage and warmly lit floor displaying the latest range of Bentley models sits the Mulliner Commissioning Studio. This sanctuary features high-definition screens, paint samples, leather swatches and fine wood strips as inspiration for the bespoke process of co-creating your new Bentley with Mulliner. This co-creation process is revealed to great e ect with a new range of Mulliner-created models available exclusively through Bentley Hatfield, known as the de Havilland Collection. Bentley Hatfield is built on the site of the former de Havilland aircraft factory where legendary models like the Mosquito and Comet Racer were built. The bespoke ‘de Havilland Collection’ feature Tornado Red accents in homage to the red paint of the de Havilland Comet Racer, winner of the 1934 England-Australia air race. Inside, the subtle exterior theme is emphasised with a bespoke Mulliner colour split across the front of the cabin that pairs a Hotspur red main hide with a Beluga secondary hide, contrasted by Mulliner White piping.

The all-new 110,000 sq/ft H.R. Owen facility that houses Bentley Hatfield is also home to three service centres, including a cutting-edge Bentley Aftersales site that brings ultimate customer service and convenience. Every

Bentley brought to Hatfield enters via one of two ‘Drive Through Lanes’. The registration is checked by ANPR, while six 4K cameras operated by BodyGuard® inspect the entire exterior of the car.

Ken Choo, H.R. Owen CEO, says: “H.R. Owen has a long and illustrious history retailing Bentley vehicles, and the launch of Bentley Hatfield marks an important milestone in that journey. Our new automotive retail complex – the culmination of Berjaya Group founder, Vincent Tan’s vision, to create the ultimate luxury car facility – is the perfect location for Bentley Hatfield. Not just because of its cutting-edge design and facilities, but also because of the rich aviation history between the former de Havilland site and Bentley’s factory in Crewe, which produced the Merlin engines that powered the de Havilland Mosquito.”

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