EDEN SASSOON | 04/2014/ Dawn McCoy & Felicia Waldman
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In a candid conversation, Eden Sassoon, reveals her relationship with her father, the Former actress Eden Sassoon is things that bring her joy and on the board of the Association her determination to create aof Celebrity Personal Assistants legacy of her own. and also oversees the LA branch
Edited transcript by Felicia Waldman from an exclusive video interview with Dawn McCoy
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What led you to LA and how long have you been here? Uniquely, I moved out to LA to be an actress! But I quickly realized my passion and talent lay in organization and managing people. That’s when I decided to become a professional Executive and Personal Assistant which evolved into House/Estate Management.
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I know you’re involved with the Association of Celebrity Personal Assistants, can you tell us about that? The organization has been around for over 20 years. The members are the gatekeepers to the Hollywood elite, VIPs, and captains of industry. The assistants do everything from making sure there are only blue M&M’s in a bowl to coordinate with the office colors (yes, I did this), to reading lines with Oscar winning actors, and everything in between. It has been an honor to get to know these hardworking assistants. I have served on the Board of Directors for the past six years and it’s been challenging but always worthwhile, and the relationships I have developed along the way as a PA/EM have been very rewarding.
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Dawn McCoy: Your dad is of course this iconic legend, Vidal Sassoon, and as a successful business woman yourself, along with your charitable endeavors, you are making quite a name for yourself. Eden Sassoon: It’s evolved from a really organic place from becoming a mother and sitting across from my father and him saying, “So what are you going to do with yourself?” And I looked at him and I’m like, “I’m a mom!” And I left that house and literally I went to therapy the next
exactly what I do now. So that’s how Pilates started. Changed my whole world.
So you had a vision and how did you put it into action? I think everything that I do comes from an organic visualization – I have a connection with what I call God, people call it higher power, whatever it may be, the universe; for me its my God – and I get this immediate gut feeling and all of a sudden it’s very clear what I have to do. And then you take the steps. You make it happen. You “You know, I’m a single sober mother. And, find the right team. That’s one that says a lot, those words right there: thing my father taught me is you are only as good as your single, sober mother at 40. Ok….why? you team. So if I don’t have that know where did that all come from? And team around me that’s gonna I’m not afraid to show all that.” build something, I can’t. There’s no way I can do it all myself. But I do a day, and I was like, excuse my language, lot of things and I’m like wow, at the end “S#*t! My dad asked me what I’m going of the day I’m like, I’m like Superwoman, to do with myself, what am I doing with [laughing] I mean it feels sometimes I’m my life?”, and I thought being a mom was superwoman. I mean sometimes I take it that, I’m done, and I sat back and I’m like, for granted but I just get up and do it again! One; I’m in therapy which means I got And I just think, alright! [looking up and some problems, of course, its life, but they pointing to the ceiling] I’m listening to you, need to be worked on, Two; what am I and how am I gonna make a difference in going to do? Being a mom for me is not someone else’s life. That’s it, that’s my goal. my everything. I love my kids and I can do It’s not anything else. I’m gonna build these all this, so I at that point, where does my businesses, it’s gonna come natural, but passion lie? And, I found it. At that point the intention is, how am I gonna make a in my life it was pilates. I was there every difference in someone else’s life? day, and I was, obviously because I’m single now, unhappily married, and pilates was my safety, it was my home. I went to bed looking forward to that next day of my journey, my physical journey and how I was gonna get through it, and just finding myself. And through that, there was a divorce, opening the business, and so much that came from just Dad saying, “What are you gonna do with yourself?” Coming from him, really it was very clear to me because he’s a man, there’s no B.S., there’s no joke, he looks you in the eye and its like “who are you? And what are you going to do? And how are YOU going to make a difference?” And he and I are very much alike and I’m like, “Oh G-d, ok here we go!” And that’s’
THE SASSOON LEGACY
You are already making a difference in so many people’s lives – your charity work on top of your two health and beauty businesses... I will go out carrying on his legacy. He, (Vidal), said to me one day, “You know, I wonder if it will be forgotten, or if I’ll be remembered.” and I’m like, “Uh, are you kidding me?” And its not because of hair, and its not because you’ve come up with an original idea, but, its who you are. You take the time, you stop, you talk, you listen…. he was blessed. And he followed through. And you know, growing up as his daughter, focusmag.us 9
EDEN SASSOON | 04/2014/ Dawn McCoy & Felicia Waldman
he was my dad. I completely took him for granted for who he was as a man. He was just my dad. He wasn’t Vidal Sassoon the man. I didn’t get it. When he died I had to rearrange my thoughts, and look at him as Vidal Sassoon the man, and like… [choked up] that doesn’t happen, you know, he was blessed with this life, and really every day made a difference in so many ways. And not just the beauty industry. To me, those are the stories that keep going on and on and on in history, and they come from that place of love. I’m like sweating now [laughing] It’s wonderful you are continuing your father’s legacy, and taking it in your own direction, creating a beautiful legacy for your own children. I think if you’re just real and you’re organic and you’re not afraid, and for all the things that I’ve been through in my life, I’m willing to share them. You know, I’m a single sober mother. That says a lot, those words right there: “single, sober mother at 40”. Ok…. why? Where did that all come from? I’m not afraid to show all that and you know in losing people, my sister overdosed, and blah blah blah we all have a story, but people don’t share. People don’t express; how did you overcome that, why are you where you’re at now and that’s what they need to hear, you know? EDEN BY EDEN SASSOON
How is Eden by Eden Sassoon different from other salons and blow dry shops? What sets you apart? What sets us apart is we don’t call it a salon, we call it a finishing studio. Here’s a little story. So dad had an episode, ICU, etc, he thought he was going to die. “Eden, Can we go to lunch?” “Of course.” At lunch, his favorite restaurant, “You know this time I really thought it was it, and at some point you’re gonna be given a gift, and since I’m still here, I want see what you’re going do with it.” Ohhhhhh, here we go again! [laughing] So, here we go and you know “what are you gonna do with yourself ” again. Wait a minute, so now I’m a mom, I have a pilates studio, now you wanna see what else I can do. ‘Coz he knows there’s more to me than what I’m just giving. So, [smiling] I’m on another journey saying, [sighs] ok, one passion: fitness, I got that. What else is there? And at this point I’m at a blow dry bar, I’m not gonna say the name, in Beverly Hills, and I’m sitting there 10 FOCUS | A P R I L 2 0 14
and I’m looking around and I’m thinking, this place is gross. Really in my head I’m like, this place is gross. And these people are rude! I’m getting no feeling of….I’m getting nothing. I want to get out of here.
Can you finish blow drying my hair so I can get the hell out of here please? Excuse my language, but the energy was just way off, way off. So, its coming to me and, wait a minute…..I want to change the world. I love health, I’ve already done that, I’m a Sassoon! Hellooooo….I got it, I got it… Here we go. These blow dry bars are taking off. I’m going to do something different, I’m going to do it my way and I’m going to do it better. “What do women want?” A finishing studio where you can go you can get your nails and toes done, you can get your face done, and your hair done at the same time. You’re basically finished for an event, for the day, For whatever it may be, a date? Fast. Most importantly, it’s your experience that you have there. You don’t feel like you are in a salon – because I grew up in a salon, and I didn’t want to have that feeling anymore. So I built it out as sort of a Malibu, comfy, chic, exactly like my home. It’s relaxed and you immediately feel at home like this. With photos on the wall of my family and old pictures of my dad and my mom, it’s just very...inviting you into my life and my family. And people love it. If you’re going to work for the Sassoon brand, the “Eden Sassoon” brand, then you need to come from the same sort of heart space that I do. Otherwise, we don’t speak the same language. What’s next for Eden by Eden Sassoon? Everything. We are building… when
SASSOONWAY | 04/2014
I say carrying on a legacy, that means carrying on a brand as well. So, the Sassoon brand, and Eden by Eden Sassoon, will be everywhere. Products, The Finishing Studio definitely will grow fast. I’d like to go international. And everything for the greater good. A product isn’t just because people need another product. No. If we come up with something and we put something out there, then there is something behind that to give back. And more and more companies are doing that, thank God. So there is always thought behind what the next thing is going to be but there’s a lot. And it says it in the name, Sassoon is one thing, but Eden is another. And I always wonder why they chose “Eden”. I believe there’s a reason for everything. THIS TOO SHALL PASS
Outside of your Pilates and Finishing Studio, what keeps you going? Being sober, going to meetings, talking to people that inspire me or maybe need my inspiration…. waking up, taking the kids to school saying, “get outta the car so I can get to SoulCycle,” and sweat, and know that in my mind at that moment, ohh, what goes on in my mind in THAT class is like wow... is 45 minutes for myself. It’s a spiritual thing for you then? OHHHHH my God. Wow. There’s nothing else like… its pretty close to like the top. So I just keep going. I’m like this battery that just keeps going. What’s one word that describes your current state? Joyous. But the real meaning of joy. I think everyone should find their own real meaning of joy. But to me its way beyond, Oh! I’m joyous! No...no, it goes deep. If you don’t come from that joy, everything doesn’t come from that joy. You know, you’re kind of just hitting the surface. You are not a very surface person? No, [laughing] it would be hard to date me...I might be single for a long time. Well usually those are the people who have the most gifts to offer. Well we shall see. The love story will unfold. It’s hard to fill THOSE shoes Is there a quote, mantra, passage, or just a line that guides your life right now? “This too shall pass”. Everyone stays stuck.
And I unstuck myself... in every moment, is every moment. Be very present, and very involved. and then you just kind of live this life. What accomplishments are you most proud of? You know one would think I’d say my children first but I’m not going to. “Being sober”. How long? It’s been over a year.
In addition to being your dad, he was also your mentor... One hundred percent, my dad is my Congratulations. mentor. He is, hands down in every way. Thank you. And the addiction’s been lifted. Which is kind of odd, but who he is as a But it’s the work and the truth and the man, I aspire to be every single day of my honesty that I put into my life – but I always life. And pretty much live up to it. I really have. You’re not really truthful if you’re still, just let go, and be present in the moment, and of course its a “We are building… when I say carrying on daily, you know... a legacy, that means carrying on a brand as Its going to be my well. So, the Sassoon brand, and Eden by Eden lifelong journey. So Sassoon, will be everywhere.” I’m blessed to be given him as a father to be given those gifts. you know, kind of masking an addiction… so I think sobriety is a big thing. I think You are, and it sounds he also felt very without that, for me at least, things don’t blessed to have you as a daughter. evolve as planned. The way that I live my I was reading some bits and pieces of his life is very clear, and for people to say, wow. book today and he was going through the She’s no joke. That’s it. There’s nothing to kids, no disregard to my brothers and sisters cover up, there’s no pills, there’s no grabbing because they are amazing, but he would go for alcohol, there’s no smoking… you know into each kid and there was my sister, then you might find me going to two classes at my brother, then… “and my darling Eden... SoulCycle or taking an extra pilates class, or she’s the most like me.” [teary]. maybe indulging in pizza. A friend texted me the other night and said, “how are you There’s no higher compliment. If your dad doing?” and I said, “Amazing. In loss we was here with us right now, what do you evolve.” and he’s like, “in loss???” And, think he’d say about you, or to you? in losing my father and my relationship at One of the last things he said, I went over the time, I could have gone any which way and I was crying and I had this fear, and he possible. I sometimes think how does that said, “Wait, I didn’t raise you like this. Go happen? I know exactly how it happens, get ‘em. You can do this.” And I said, “What and I know exactly where I am today, and I if I fail, what if I lose everything?” He said, know exactly how to get through something “Then you start over.” I’m like, arghhhh, like that. And anything’s possible. you make this and then this, and now this?! I did it. And I did it, and I did every day, [laughs] Ok. I got it dad thanks. F and I chose to make the right decisions, and I moved forward, and I did it at the About the interviewer: time when I was also opening the business, Dawn McCoy is the and having the kids, and breaking up with founder and editor of a relationship, and deciding to stay single, BeautyFrosting. A former and stop drinking, and get rid of smoking. makeup artist for Trish I mean, I made all those decisions. And it McEvoy, Bobbi Brown comes back to that one thing that he tried and Giorgio Armani and to teach me all the time. Discipline. Period. former personal shopper End of story. Because you choose and then for Barbra Streisand. that’s it. How do you want your life to be? www.beautyfrosting.com Every single day.
FUN STUFF What is your morning ritual? So before, it used to be wine, and now I don’t do that anymore. I love my music but I get my one song addiction, so I put on the same song over and over again, and it just keeps me in this same mood, and I’m like alright, we gotta do this, but still I do the hair, and I don’t do much, I’ve learned to keep my natural curl, so I take a towel and I shake it up, and I keep the towel on it so it keeps the curl in it. Clip the bangs back,and let’s get into the face. And then I kind of create this canvas of what am I feeling? And so depending on where I’m going and who I’m meeting, I usually put on this sexy song, oh its so good its Miguel his new song, uhh...it really gets you, I’ll tell you, and I heard it in SoulCycle so you can imagine! You find so many good songs there, and you ask them, you can’t leave without asking. So my face, it just comes from this emotion – what am I feeling, what do I want to express? It usually comes down to really good lashes and a gloss…. and some cheek. Beauty Tips ‘Baby Pout’ by Smashbox. ‘Egyptian Magic’, there’s a bottle everywhere in this house, that I use for everything. It’s kind of like an olive oil, vaseline base, and I use it as a moisturizer. I use it in my hair, I use it on my hands. I use it everywhere, absolutely everywhere. 5 products you can’t imagine your life without? Egyptian Magic, SoulCycle, Lululemon, and Nike by far. Because every single day of my life is spent with Lululemon, Nike, SoulCycle, Egyptian Magic...and my vitamins. SoulCycle Love Can Initiative Charity Ride, hosted by Eden Sassoon. 3/3/14
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