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THE ROCKET MAN ROCKS ON

Matt Tebbutt WEEKEND RECIPES

Time Travel in Malta

CATHY BARTROP RETURNS TO HER CHILDHOOD HOLIDAY ISLAND

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DAISH’S HOLIDAYS Self drive & coach inclusive breaks

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TRAVEL Time travel in Malta from Silver Travel Advisor

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TWITTERING ON By Angela Kelly

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Russell Hotel – Weymouth

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Somerset Hotel – Llandudno

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Daish’s Hotel – Isle of Wight

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Daish’s Blackpool Hotel – Blackpool

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Daish’s Blackpool Hotel – Blackpool

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Sands Hotel – Bournemouth

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Daish’s Hotel – Isle of Wight

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Barrowfield Hotel – Newquay

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Imperial Hotel – Eastbourne

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Devonshire Hotel – Torquay

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Hotel Prince Regent – Weymouth

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County Hotel – Lakes District

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Hotel Prince Regent – Weymouth

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Abbey Lawn Hotel – Torquay

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Devonshire Hotel – Torquay

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Daish’s Blackpool Hotel – Blackpool

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Esplanade Hotel – Scarborough

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Somerset Hotel – Llandudno

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Abbey Lawn Hotel – Torquay

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Barrowfield Hotel – Newquay

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Barrowfield Hotel – Newquay

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Imperial Hotel – Eastbourne

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Sands Hotel – Bournemouth

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Russell Hotel – Weymouth

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and most notably so in the past decade. Completed in 2015, the City Gate Project was a dramatic rethinking of the entrance to the city, conceived by Italian architect, Renzo Piano. It took many years of wrangling and the injection of some serious EU funding to finally make it happen but, it really has given the city a new lease of life.

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Time travel in Malta – Cathy Bartrop returns to her childhood holiday island

I was 9 yrs old in 1970 when my Dad, on his commute home from London, saw a small ad in the Evening Standard to buy an off plan, 2 bedroom holiday flat in Malta for an unmissable bargain price. Within weeks he was off on an inspection flight to view the property (still a building site) in the south coast village of Birzebuggia that, for my teenage years, was to become our family holiday bolthole in the sun. At the opposite end of the island to the better known tourist resorts of Sliema and St Julians, there wasn't a whole lot going on in sleepy Birzebuggia but I have cherished memories of long, sun drenched days largely spent swimming off the rocks at St Peters Pool and snorkelling in the crystal clear waters. As distractions, we occasionally ventured in to Valletta or Sliema for some shopping, had firework filled evenings at the many village Festas and never missed a trip to the Ta Qali craft village but, back then, my holiday focus was clear... call me shallow but, for my sister and me, our sole holiday objective was to develop the deepest possible tan to show off when we got home. SPF was unheard of - we would rub liberal amounts of olive oil into our skin and literally fry ourselves to a crisp. I still love the heat but now, age 60, I finally know better and my devotion to sunbathing is over! So I was thrilled to be invited back as a guest of Visit Malta in September this year on a filming trip with a very different focus ... to take a look at what else Malta has to offer, beyond the obvious appeal of sun and sea. Spoiler alert...it was something of a revelation. I began my time travel in Valletta. My memories of the capital are of a noisy, chaotic place where it was nigh on impossible to park and, to my young mind, full of boring, dusty looking old buildings. Clearly I was blind to its charms back then so was blown away by what this vibrant capital, the smallest in the EU, now offers. No surprise that the city has seen many changes over the past 50 years but physically

The old bus station is gone and the grand fountain, once swallowed up amid the chaos of traffic, has been restored to its original glory as the focal point of a wide piazza. This marks the pedestrianised route in to the city, following a bridge across the bastion walls leading to an inviting boulevard flanked by the limestone clad, angular shapes of the new Parliament building, the centrepiece of Piano's vision. Its smooth lines broken by intriguing, irregular blocks of 'eye-lid' openings in the stone. The design caused much controversy both for its construction cost and the visual concept. Locals, not without a hint of sarcasm, call it the 'cheese grater'. Modern design can often be divisive but, personally, I love the way it contrasts, yet compliments, the surrounding buildings. Adjacent to it, rising from the ruins of what was once the Royal Opera House (destroyed by Stuka dive bombers during WWII and subsequently used as a car park), there is now a magnificent open air theatre, pinned in place by the original Corinthian columns of the Opera House. And opposite, a row of beautiful, traditional buildings with the Malta's characteristic painted balconies. Collectively, these buildings set the tone for exploration of a city famed for multi-layered history but with its sights very much set on the future.

Parliament House Once they had repelled the invasion of the Turks in 1565, for the next 268 years under the Knights of St John, the money rolled in and Valletta was built within the safety of its fortified walls to rival other grand European capitals. The legacy is a city literally stuffed with fine Baroque buildings and prestigious palaces. Many of these buildings have now been converted for more modern purposes, in particular, as boutique hotels and restaurants. I stayed at the Domus Zamitello hotel, a charming, classic style renovation of a 17th century Palazzo. It has the most fabulous location, with a terrace bar overlooking the theatre and Parliament House.

Other renovations have created public spaces - MUZA is a great example, the new home of the national collection of Fine Arts. The 500 year old building was renovated as part of Valletta's 2018 City of Culture programme and houses a fascinating collection. But aside from the art, pleasingly, by using modern techniques like installing photo voltaic panels and intelligent LED lighting, the building is also now carbon neutral. Not everything has been modernised though, there are plenty of originals for history enthusiasts to relish. Casa Rocca Piccola for instance, a 16th century noble house which remains to this day a family home. Open to the public, it's well worth taking a tour. Like many buildings in the city it's relatively plain outside but, inside, you discover a maze of rooms on several floors centred around a shady courtyard garden. Below ground, you can also visit the bomb shelters where the residents would seek shelter from the relentless bombing raids the island suffered in World War II.You may well bump into the house's current custodian and resident, Nicolas, the 9th Marquis de Piro, a delightful octogenarian who clearly loves to meet visitors. He explained that the house was named after its first owner Don Pietro La Rocca, Admiral of the Order of St John in the league of Italy. As the Navy grew, so did the Admiral's status and so he built a bigger house, Casa Rocca Grande - making this one 'Piccola'. It certainly isn't small though and is packed to the gunnels with all manner of antiques, paintings, china, silverware and books collected by the De Piro generations since they took over the house in the late 18th Century. An original and fascinating slice of Maltese island history and local artistic endeavours.

standing temple in the world and, for that fact alone, really is a site to behold. The intrigue of the Neolithic period is that so little is certain. Guesswork is involved to answer the many ‘How’, ‘Why’, ‘What’ questions that instantly spring to mind. The fun of it is that, to some extent, you can make up your own theories, who is say they are wrong?! Aside from Ggantija, Gozo too has come on in leaps and bounds from the sleepy island that I recall. Its smaller, quieter than Malta for sure but has its own, very distinct appeal. Now accessible via a 45 minute fast ferry from Valletta, its very easy these days to see the best of both. I was fortunate enough to spend a good part of my day on Gozo in the company of local chef and restauranteur, Philip Spiteri. Time well spent as we toured around the island on a ‘shopping’ trip, gathering the pick of local produce. After five months of summer heat, the island looked parched but, when you are with someone like Philip who knows every inch of it, there is flavourful local produce to be found all year round...gorgeous fresh veg picked in a lush green valley irrigated by a natural water source, caper berries fresh from the tree for pickling, delicate creamy rounds of soft cheese, prickly pears carefully collected from their spiky bushes and of course, the catch of the day from the fish market, in this case, glorious blue-hued Lampuki and live clams. Back in the kitchen at his restaurant Ta’Philip, we saw the ingredients simply, yet oh so skilfully bought together to create a memorable and delicious Maltese feast.

Old or new, every building tells a story and there are plenty of museums to help unpeel the city's many layers of history, whether your interest lies in the Knights of Malta, the World Wars or Maritime history. Or to time travel back even further, the Museum of Archaeology is a real gem. The volume of Neolithic sites across Malta and Gozo is unparalleled in Europe and they include seven UNESCO World Heritage listed megalithic temples.Yet another aspect of this fascinating country that passed me by in my teens but which I now find genuinely mesmerising. If you can, plan on visiting the museum ahead of the sites. Most of the original artefacts found in the temples when they were excavated in the 1920s are displayed here and you will get the context and detail that will make subsequent site visits way more meaningful. At only 17 by 9 miles, nowhere is far to drive on Malta so beyond the capital accessing the Neolithic sites is easy.You can of course Philip and his Lampuki pie go by road but one of the nicest ways to explore is to incorporate Farm to table dining is always going to be a winner in my book. But them as part of a hike. The dual megalithic temples of Hagar Qim the idea of using the best locally sourced produce also permeates and Mnajdra for example sit within 500 metres of each other and all levels of gastronomy and Malta has another trump card - the can be explored on a trail that takes you across the cliff tops from emergence of a sophisticated fine dining scene. The island received Dingli (at 250m, the highest point on Malta) along the coast, around the Michelin seal of approval with the publication of the Michelin the temples and on to the Blue Grotto. Our attempt at the hike was Guide to Malta in 2020. The new 2021 edition unfortunately curtailed by a heavy downpour lists 5 one star restaurants and an additional 26 and, after 5 months of baking summer heat, the Fact Box: rated as ‘Bib’ and ‘Plate’ recommended. For landscape was looking very parched indeed. For general information on such a small island that is mightily impressive. However, the idea of walking the route in Malta go to As I tucked in to a divine and complex six Spring with a green, flower filled landscape and course tasting menu under star filled skies at the www.visitmalta.com/en. spectacular sea views is very tempting. Michelin star ION in Valletta (with panoramic For further details on holidays Ggantija views of the Grand Harbour) I couldn’t help but to Malta, to receive a quote or To see the mother of all the temples we headed smile at the memory of my childhood self for to book your holiday call to Gozo to visit Ggantija. As the name implies, whom the gastronomic holiday highlight would 0800 412 5678 quite literally a construction of gigantic stone. have been a trip to the Wimpey in Sliema for a Dating back to 3700 BC it is the oldest free Knickerbocker glory! 7

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TWITTERING ON BY ANGELA KELLY

Now, Dame Rachel de Souza, the Children’s Commissioner for England, is urging parents to “talk early and talk often” in an ageappropriate way. She wants children better prepared for this dark side of the online world. She also hopes it will make youngsters feel easier about raising difficult issues going forward. That message has not come as a result of an adult focus group second-guessing modern children’s dilemmas but from the Everyone’s Invited movement which allowed youngsters to air their views.

Sales’ bargains that sometimes aren’t SALES are great, aren’t they? The possibility of a bargain or your longed for outfit suddenly marked down to bargain levels is a thrill. We can all get some amazing deals but there is a danger to grab at items in stores and believe you’ve got a real treasure – only for things to prove a little different. My friend Carol thought she’d hit the jackpot when she saw a lovely little sports’ skirt, ideal for playing badminton. Its price was very attractive so she quickly bought it and went home a happy shopper.

Frighteningly, this revealed wide-spread sexual harassment and abuse in schools, suggesting that online porn can influence reallife behaviour and attitudes when it comes to gender roles, sex and consent. While previously many of us would have suggested waiting until children become teenagers before broaching this one, Rachel de Souza wants parents to begin the conversation much earlier. Using the advice from teens and young adults based on what they wish their parents had known, she has produced a guide to help adults with this possibly tricky conversation. She doesn’t want this to happen all at once, though, but over time and in line with their developing maturity.

However, when she tried it on later, she found she could hardly get it over her hips. So, reluctantly, she returned to the store the next day with the item.

“My advice to parents and carers is to create the culture before the crisis,” she explained to a national newspaper. “Children have told us they want their mums and dads to create a safe, judgement-free space for them to talk about these issues.”

“I loved this skirt, but I can’t get it on,” she told the saleswoman. “I’m not surprised, madam,” was the reply. “This is a boob tube so you’re at the wrong end.”

She’s right. It’s definitely better to tackle this thorny subject before there’s a problem and establish a channel of communication that allows children to talk to parents.

Exit Carol from the shop, red-faced and now re-thinking her sales’ strategy.

Singer Billie Eilish revealed only recently the negative impact that watching pornography from an early age had on her. She started at 11 and it gave her nightmares and made subsequent dating difficult. There is a huge gap between what parents think happens and their own children’s reality. While only a quarter of parents believe their child has viewed pornography online the truth is that more than half of all 11 to 13 year-olds have.

Parents need to address porn children watch IT’S a sad reflection of the times that parents are being urged to talk to children as young as nine about online porn. Yet, this is sensible advice given the avalanche of porn available today on all forms of technology, including our children’s mobile phones and iPads. There has been concern for some time about the ease of access for children often browsing the internet unsupervised and the possible damage from the images they see. 14

This is a new world to all of us who grew up without smartphones but it’s one that adults urgently need to appreciate. Taking action now is the only way to protect our children properly and help them come to terms with this unsavoury area of life.

together information about him from Facebook and then took him to court. The result was £6,000 in compensation plus £1,545 costs. While prompting a small cheer from many other businesses who have been victims of trolls, the case is also a great step forward for fairness. Honest criticism should be generally welcome and offer any business the chance to improve. In fact, how else would they know someone had an unhappy experience rather than just voting with their feet?

Rushing into online reviews can be unfair – and dangerous! BUSINESSES can live or die by online reviews these days so rushing to TripAdvisor to record your opinion always needs careful consideration. Unfortunately, not everyone is so thoughtful - or honest - in this and the damage to venues in the hospitality industry in particular can be huge.

Malicious criticism, however, is totally unacceptable. It can ruin reputations and discourage potential customers and, obviously, that can be the motivation of some posters. Going onto TripAdvisor and other sites is commonplace for many of us these days. We want to share our experiences with others, to praise those that deserve it and alert the public to potentially negative experiences. Although everyone is entitled to their opinion, there is a pressing need for balance.

Steve Hoddy, the owner of Blackpool restaurant The Bispham Kitchen had enough after one TripAdvisor poster made a series of derogatory online statements about his venue.

If you go somewhere that makes Fawlty Towers look like a Michelin starred establishment, it’s reasonable to say what went wrong. Equally, if you get exceptional service, delicious food and a welcoming atmosphere, it’s right to share this, too.

The false and malicious reviews – including claims like “the owner stares at you weirdly” and that customers had been made ill – prompted him to turn detective and track down his troll.

Anyone who has been in business knows that dealing with the public means constantly treading a fine line. So it’s completely wrong to hurl unfounded anonymous criticism out into the ether.

Unhappily for this particular individual, Mr Hoddy has two law degrees and admirable determination. Over three years, he pieced

And, as this troll found, it can also come back to bite you in the rear.

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THE ROCKET MAN ROCKS ON NOT many British singers can claim a box-office smash hit film about their lives and No.1 hits in the 1980s, ‘90s and 2000s but Elton John can. Sir Elton Hercules John, to give him his full name (although he was born Reginald Kenneth Dwight), is that rarity in the pop music world: a star who has endured and whose fan base traverses all ages and types. He’s now 74, still successful, still productive and happy with the person he acknowledges he is. But it wasn’t always that way. As anyone who has seen his autobiographical film Rocket Man knows, as a youngster he was not always happy with who he was and the life he led. Music probably saved him so it’s no surprise to learn that he started playing the piano at the age of four. He was raised in Pinner in London and both his parents were interested in music. As a result, they exposed young Reggie to the popular singers of the day. When he first heard rock ‘n roll, he was hooked. He had regular piano lessons and music swiftly became the most important force in his life. He was educated locally and, at the age of 15 was hired as a pianist at a nearby pub. At 17, he left school and his A level studies for a career in music.

He and some friends started a band called Bluesology which proved successful, backing touring American soul and R & B musicians like the Isley Brothers. In 1966, the band became singer Long John Baldry’s supporting band. In 1967, Reggie answered an advert in the New Musical Express by Liberty Records looking for new talent. He was given some lyrics by Bernie Taupin, who had also answered the advert, and so began a fruitful partnership that resulted in countless hit songs. Six months later, Reggie changed his name to Elton John and the duo joined Dick James’s DJM Records as staff songwriters in 1968. Over the next two years, they wrote material for artists including Lulu and Roger Cook. Unlike most collaborations, Bernie would write a batch of lyrics and give it to Elton to provide the music, resulting in many haunting, memorable songs. For their second album, thanks in no small way to Elton’s rich falsetto voice, they created Your Song which reached No.7 in the UK singles’ chart and No.8 in the US. The album named Elton John reached No.4 in the US Billboard 200 and No.5 in the UK albums’ chart.

Elton’s first American concert - at the Troubador Club in Los Angeles in August, 1970 - was a great success and his next album Tumbleweed Connection that year reached No.2 in the UK and No.5 in the US. Elton and Bernie then wrote the soundrack to the 1971 film Friends followed by the album Madman Across the Water, which again did well. This included hit songs Levon and Tiny Dancer and this time heralded a string of hit albums on both sides of the water. The album Don’t Shoot Me I’m Only The Piano Player came out at the start of 1973 and reached No.1 in both the UK and the US. This produced hits Crocodile Rock and Daniel, topping the charts in both countries. Goodbye Yellow Brick Road followed in 1973 and contained the US No.1 single Bennie and the Jets, along with the title song, plus Candle in the Wind and Saturday Night’s Alright for Fighting. Elton formed his own company, The Rocket Record Company and signed acts including Neil Sedaka and Kiki Dee. Instead of releasing his own songs through the company, though, he signed an $8 million contract with MCA and in 1974 they released Elton John’s Greatest Hits. In 1975, he was asked by The Who to take part in the film adaptation of the rock opera Tommy and to perform Pinball Wizard, which also became a UK chart favourite. By now, Elton was becoming known for his flambouyant costumes and fantastic specs as much for his music. Live audiences loved him, turning up in their thousands to see him perform. The ‘70s were undoubtedly Elton’s most commercially successful period but in 1977, he announced that he was retiring from performing and Bernie Taupin began collaborating with other people. He continued recording, however, and his next album included hit singles Part-time Love and Song for Guy. His 1983 album Too Low for Zero featured I’m Still Standing and I Guess That’s Why They Call It The Blues. And in 1990, he had a UK No.1 hit single with Sacrifice. He has collaborated on appearances and records with some of music’s most famous names including John Lennon, George Michael, opera star Luciano Pavoretti, Lady Gaga and Ed Sheeran. In 1997, he asked Bernie Taupin to revise the lyrics of their 1973 song Candle in the Wind to honour Princess Diana and Elton gave a poignant performance at her Westminister Abbey funeral. The song became the fastest and biggest-selling single of all time, eventually selling more than 33 million copies globally. Elton has also created music for hit musicals including The Lion King in 1997 and Billy Elliott in 2005. In 2003, he capitalised on

his popularity in America by agreeing to perform 75 shows over three years at Caesar’s Palace on the Las Vegan Strip. He shared performances throughout the year with Celine Dion – while one performed the other rested. In 2019, the film Rocket Man about his life answered many questions around his sexuality and won the singer many new fans. He has received all kinds of accolades and awards throughout his career – from a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame in 1975 to a CBE in 1996 and a knighthood in 1998 for his services to music and fundraising for AIDS charities. He registered his civil partnership with long-term partner David Furnish in 2005 and upgraded their relationship to marriage in 2014. The couple have two sons. Elton has had his share of health problems over the years but today remains a sprightly entertainer whose popularity has never really waned. As he quite rightly says:

“An overview of my career is usually … glasses …homosexuality …Watford Football Club … tantrums … flowers. But the music was pretty phenomenal, you know.”

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KIA e-Niro NOW we all love a winner and here is another one – the allelectric Kia e-Niro, which was the northern car journalist’s Car of the Year in 2020. Members of the Northern Group of Motoring Writers (including yours truly) voted the compact crossover as its top car beating strong competition in the final six from Renault, Mazda, Peugeot, Toyota and Volvo. Members judged the e-Niro to be a truly affordable electric car, with prices starting from a shade under £35,000. With a real world fully charged range of between 250 and 300 miles, excellent performance from its 201bhp electric motor, great handling and comfort they also decided it was as easy to live with as a combustion engine car. The equipment list includes touchscreen sat-nav, a reversing camera, smart cruise control, xenon headlights and heated leather upholstery plus 17-inch alloy wheels.

The e-Niro is Kia’s first purpose-built electric car and with a 64kWh 457kg battery, placed low down between the axles so as not to compromise handling, it has two and a half times as much power storage capacity as their Soul EV of five years ago. Members also felt it was a more practical family car than electric vehicles from other manufacturers. The e-Niro features adjustable control of the regenerative braking system so the driver can select how much of a braking effect the system has on the road. And the car has something called Predictive Energy Control, which uses its radar cruise control sensors to measure your closing speed to the car in front and automatically adjust its motor regen system. Also the e-Niro can charge up to 80 per cent on a normal domestic UK socket in less than 10 hours, with a DC rapid charger the same is possible in less than an hour. For more information see www.kia.co.uk

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Matt Tebbutt is used to spending his Saturdays cooking - as the host of BBC TV’s Saturday Kitchen, he’s never short of a fast meal idea or a meal for guests that will impress. Here he shares some of those recipes with us.

KING SCALLOPS WITH PICKLED GIROLLES AND SEAWEED BUTTER SERVES 2 100ml (3½fl oz) water 100ml (3½fl oz) malt vinegar 150g (5½oz) girolle or chanterelle mushrooms, brushed clean 4 tbsp olive oil 2 fresh corn on the cob, kernels removed 2 spring onions (scallions), chopped 6 fat king (sea) scallops with roe Sea salt and freshly ground black pepper For the seaweed butter 100g (3½oz) unsalted butter, softened and kept at room temperature 1–2 tbsp dried seaweed, such as nori or dulse, crumbled 1 heaped tbsp white miso paste

This makes a special starter, ideally around late summer when both sweetcorn (corn) and girolles are in season. Don’t be put off by the thought of seaweed butter. It’s there to supercharge the taste of the scallops by adding another layer of that all-important savoury umami flavour. METHOD You can make the seaweed butter in advance: put all the ingredients in a bowl and mix well. Taste and season with salt and pepper. Set aside.

butter. (Leftover butter will keep in the fridge for 3–5 days or wrapped in the freezer for 3 months).

Bring the water and vinegar to the boil in a saucepan over a high heat and bubble until the liquid is reduced by half, 2-3 minutes. Take off the heat, add the mushrooms and set aside to marinate for 1 hour.

Season the scallops with salt and pepper. Heat a dry frying pan (skillet) over a high heat until smoking hot, then add the remaining oil and the seasoned scallops. Cook on one side until golden brown (no more than 2 minutes), carefully turn the scallops over and remove the pan from the heat, allowing the scallops to rest in the pan.

Meanwhile, heat half the oil in a pan over a high heat and, when hot, add the corn kernels and cook, stirring, until soft (no more than 1-2 minutes). Remove the pan from the heat and add the spring onions (scallions) and 1-2 tablespoons of the seaweed

Spoon the cooked corn and spring onions into a serving dish, scatter over the marinated mushrooms, then top with the scallops. I like to drizzle the scallops with some melted seaweed butter before serving, if using, before adding the bun lid.

ROAST BUTTERNUT SQUASH WITH PANCETTA AND GRUYÈRE AND PARMESAN CREAM A rather decadent way to dress up a butternut squash. Bacon or pancetta and cheese seem to be regulars in my recipes, and I’m unapologetic on this point – they do make everything taste better!

SERVES 2 2 tbsp olive oil 4 slices of pancetta 1 butternut squash, peeled and sliced into 3-5cm (1-2in) thick pieces 1 rosemary sprig 1 garlic clove, finely chopped 300ml (10½fl oz) double (heavy) cream 100g (3½oz) Parmesan, grated 100g (3½oz) Gruyère cheese, grated Sea salt and freshly ground black pepper For the kale vinaigrette 50g (1¾oz) kale, trimmed and very finely chopped 2 tbsp red wine vinegar 3 tbsp olive oil 1 banana shallot, sliced into thin rounds

METHOD Heat the olive oil in a large pan over a medium heat and cook the pancetta for a few minutes to release the fat. Remove the pancetta from the pan and set aside. Add the squash, rosemary and garlic, to the pan with the pancetta fat, season with salt and pepper and cook for 20 minutes, stirring from time to time to make sure it’s not sticking. Set aside and keep warm. Bring the cream to the boil in a pan, then immediately remove from the heat and whisk in both cheeses until melted and thickened. Keep warm.

For the kale vinaigrette, using your hands, scrunch the chopped kale with the red wine vinegar in a bowl. Leave for 5 minutes to soften, then add the olive oil and shallot and a pinch of salt and black pepper. When you’re ready to serve, pour some of the Gruyère and Parmesan cream into each bowl, spoon in some squash and garnish with the kale vinaigrette, with the pancetta crumbled over in shards.

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Cooking this highly prized fish whole makes for a real celebration dish, and it looks great served in the centre of the table ready for sharing. With its firm white flesh, sea bass is also the perfect fish to roast with fragrant lemon thyme.

ROAST BASS WITH FENNEL AND LEMON THYME SERVES 2 1 x whole sea bass, minimum 1kg (2lb 4oz), cleaned, scaled and gutted 2 tbsp olive oil 500g (1lb 2oz) potatoes, peeled (use a waxy variety) 4 whole garlic cloves 1 bunch of lemon thyme 2 bay leaves 1 lemon, sliced 1 fennel bulb, trimmed and cut into 8-12 pieces 3 tbsp small capers, drained 3½ tbsp olive oil 150ml (5fl oz) dry white wine Sea salt and freshly ground black pepper For the salad 1 red chicory (endive), leaves separated 1 yellow chicory (endive), leaves separated Large handful of watercress Extra virgin olive oil Juice of 1 lemon

METHOD Preheat the oven to 220°C/200°C fan/425°F/gas mark 7. Pat the fish dry with paper towels and use the tip of a sharp knife to crisscross the flesh at regular intervals on both sides. Season the bass with sea salt and rub with the olive oil. Put the potatoes and the garlic into a large pan of cold salted water over a high heat and bring to the boil. Turn the heat down and simmer until the potatoes are just tender when tested with the tip of a sharp knife. Drain and, when cool enough to handle, cut into 1cm (½in) thick slices. Reserve the garlic cloves. Stuff the cavity of the fish with half the lemon thyme, the bay leaves and a few lemon slices. Arrange the sliced potatoes and fennel in the base of a baking tray with the reserved garlic cloves and the capers. Lay the fish on top and drizzle the whole dish with the olive oil. Pour in the wine and scatter over the rest of the lemon thyme and the remaining 26

lemon slices. Roast for 25–30 minutes until cooked through. The fish is cooked when the flesh easily pulls away from the bone when tested with the tip of a sharp knife. For the salad, in a large bowl, combine the two types of chicory leaves and the watercress. Dress with the extra virgin olive oil and lemon juice. Arrange the roasted potatoes, fennel and lemon slices on a warmed serving platter. Carefully lift the flesh from the bone and lay it over the potatoes. Grind over some black pepper and serve with any cooking juices from the baking tray, with the chicory salad alongside. WEEKEND: Eating at Home: From Long Lazy Lunches to Fast Family Fixes by Matt Tebbutt (Quadrille, £22). Photography: Matt Russell.

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Home & Interior Trends for 2022 With the start of the new year underway, many of us will be considering whether it’s time to give our homes a well-deserved make-over. Trends set to take centre stage this year include bright and bold interiors, natural materials and nature-inspired tones and luxury outdoors spaces to socialise in. Colour Trends Neutrals will take a bit of a back seat in 2022 as people start to experiment with colour again, but the palette will stay very close to hues you’d find in nature. Especially with shades of green. We’ll relish brighter colours that give us hope for a return to normality. Comfort and multifunctional space As working from home for many stays part of our everyday lives, bedrooms (along with other rooms in the home) have become increasingly multifunctional, with space for a work area, exercise, and that all-important sense of relaxation. In 2022 it’s predicted popular bedroom interiors will include comforting neutral tones, and textured wall coverings or panelling used to add a sense of luxury to sleep spaces.

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Streamlining your home in 2022

THE events of the last two years have made many of us consider what’s important to us and streamline our lives – and the same applies to our homes.

Lockdown has meant more time spent at home which has underlined how we want to improve our lifstyle and just make life simpler and more comfortable. So, in 2022, there’s the opportunity to carry out plans to make life better and easier - and it begins at home. For a start, take a look at the space around you. It’s a safe bet that most of us have gathered together far too much stuff, a large proportion of which we just don’t need. So now is an excellent time to DE-CLUTTER. Do this a little bit at a time but an easy start is to make a list of 10 things to get rid of from anywhere in your home. Identify a box, basket or area to gather the items you’re getting rid of and gradually add to it. Don’t let the task overwhelm you; de-cluttering can be spread out so you could do a small amount every day. Just identify the main areas that need de-cluttering. Have you got duplicate items in your kitchen, for example? This is a good place to start and you definitely don’t need two of everything, from mixing bowls to kitchen utensils. Keep your favourites and get rid of the rest. Make three separate piles: items you could take to a local charity shop, those for recycling and rubbish for throwing out.

As soon as you start making a space, you’ll feel better about individual rooms and want to streamline more. And keeping on top of it as a lifestyle. ensuring that items are put away, surfaces are clear and re-set and your home always looks fairly tidy, will continue to make you feel better.

Is the EXTERIOR of your home looking sad and in need of a coat of paint? Does guttering need cleaning? Changing your FRONT DOOR makes a surprising difference to the look of your home. It’s the first thing visitors see so a contemporary, welcoming front door brightens up the whole of the outside. Ensure your HALLWAY continues the warm welcome. If it’s looking gloomy, it could be a combination of lack of light and dark flooring and walls. Invest in good lighting and paint the walls a lighter shade, complemented by flooring that is both practical and attractive. De-cluttering should also happen here. It’s very easy to have boots and coats getting in the way in the hallway. Either find somewhere else handy for them or invest in a cupboard or other storage area to get them out of sight. Re-arrange your FURNITURE as this can make a huge difference to your living area and can simplify the overall look of your living room.You’ll also be surprised at the space you now have which can make relaxing time so much better.

Clear off surfaces and make spaces on countertops, tables and other furniture where books and clutter mysteriously gather, cleaning as you go. Decide what is really essential and put away items in drawers and cupboards. Check out paperwork, get it up to date and shred and throw out into the recycling what you don’t need anymore. Go through your clothes and anything you’ve not worn for more than two years either goes on ebay, the charity shop, recycling or the bin. Take a long, hard look at your FURNITURE. Do you have items that are simply cluttering up space unnecessarily? Charities like Emmaus and the British Heart Foundation take furniture to sell on for funds so your de-cluttering can help someone in need. 29

HOME | 50 PLUS MAGAZINE Changing SOFT FURNISHINGS can also alter a room and doesn’t need to cost a fortune. If you’re handy with a sewing machine, or know someone who is, go to mill shops or outlets and buy enough material for matching curtains and cushion covers – even the odd throw.

– add a natural look to any area. They’re also a good-value way of improving any room.

This new colour scheme can liven up the most traditional room and help make it a lovely place in which to spend time.

Making your WINDOWS, DOORS and CONSERVATORY more energy-efficient not only makes them cosier and weather-resistant all year round but is also more cost-effective.

RE-DECORATE walls and either change or cheer up the paintwork. Even a fresh coat of white gloss can make rooms gleam and change the whole aspect of a living space. Consider the latest wallpaper, too, to add a modern twist to your room even if you can’t afford new furniture. New FLOORING can change the look of a room. If you’re lucky enough to have good floorboards, invest in a sander and then varnish them afterwards. Add some sumptuous rugs and you’ve got a cosy, glowing room.

While energy bills are obviously in the news and could be a problem this Winter, it’s still worth planning on all the ways to insulate your home and help cut the bills.

Consider double or even triple glazing to reduce draughts, cut down on external noise and lessen any build-up of condensation. This is also a good time to think about always turning off lights and heaters we don’t need, using the tumble dryer less and buying energy-efficient items like kettles.

Or, take a look at the latest carpets and flooring and choose a type to suit the area you want.Your local carpet retailer is a wealth of knowledge so explain your needs and they will offer plenty of ideas. Better LIGHTING can transform any area. There are all kinds of lights available now that can brighten up a dark area and offer you extra space. LED light bulbs can both help with the bills and add that modern glow, not to mention being better for the planet. And while we’re on the subject of “going green”, PLANTS around the home – whether they’re hanging plants or in well-placed pots

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What is Chiropractic Care? When we talk about chiropractic care, it's important to understand that the nervous system and spine are integral to your long-term health. The spine should move in a certain way and continuously during the day. As humans, we sit too much and don't move enough. It starts to affect the function of the spine and can impair brain function. And since the brain is the master system of the body it can begin to have a negative effect on those areas.

"I'm in pain can chiropractic help me?" At last the shortest day is behind us and with it brings the glimmering hopes of spring.When the good weather allows, it’s tempting to spend all day in the garden. However, a little caution and self-care can help to prevent a lot of gardening related injuries. Gardening is a fantastic form of exercise, but as with all activities it’s better to build up slowly. Here are my top tips to keep you happy and pain free in the garden this spring. 1. Have a warm up before you start. A 10-minute walk with some gentle shoulder rolls, or slowly marching on the spot can help get your body moving. 2. Breaking sessions down into 30 minute chunks and taking time to rest between can really help prevent niggles and stiffness the next day 3. Lower backs and knees are particularly susceptible to gardening related injuries. Simple steps like sitting on a stool rather than constant bending, or using a kneeling pad can be of great benefit. Additionally, if lifting heavy things don’t be afraid to ask for help or do two trips instead of one. 4. Be aware of your posture when pruning hedges, especially if they are overhead height.Try and keep your shoulders relaxed to prevent extra strain on the neck. 5. As the warmer weather comes keep hydrated with plenty of water 6. If you are feeling any pain afterwards use an ice pack wrapped in a towel for 10-15 minutes on the affected area. As Chiropractors our role is to ensure your body is pain free and performing at its optimum. If you are struggling, or simply fancy a ‘check over’ this spring, please get in touch to see if we can help.

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Preparing your Garden for Spring Planning is the key to success in the spring garden says garden writer Julia Heaton. Sunshine days of summer may seem an age away but spring certainly isn’t. So now is the ideal time to get some basic jobs out of the way in preparation for the new season and the pruning, planting and seed sowing ahead. Here are some of my essential tips to give you that all important head-start. Get to grips with tools If you didn’t clean your hand tools (rakes, spades, trowels) properly on their last outing go ahead and remove any remnants of soil from the heads using a bristle brush. Leave them to soak in a mix of water and 10 per cent bleach for around half an hour, then dry them off and wipe down with an oily rag before storing. As well as cleaning in water and detergent any bladed tools – like pruning knives, secateurs and garden shears – will benefit from sharpening and oiling so they provide nice clean cuts and stop the risk of spreading disease between plants. This will also make your tools easier to use and ensure they last, saving you money in the long term. There’s also garden machinery, like the lawnmower, to check over. The latter needs to be in good working order and safe so make sure electric cables aren’t worn or chafed and that blades are clean and sharp. If you have a petrol mower it’s a good idea to drain any fuel off as it will have deteriorated during the cold winter weather. Remove slugs and snails Don’t wait for pests to make a meal of your perennials. As temperatures in the ground start to rise hunt down slugs and snails emerging from hibernation and eggs preparing to hatch.

Look for groups of tiny yellow and white eggs in sheltered places like underneath stones, shrubs or in the crown of perennial plants. Then leave them unprotected in the sunlight so that other wildlife can feed on them. Beer traps are one of the many options for dealing with the adults.You could also create some dark, damp, places where they’ll love to hide out during the day – then all you need do is collect them. There are also deterrents like crushed egg shells, copper tape and coffee grounds. Consider also introducing plants that slugs avoid like agapanthus and Dicentra spectabilis. Test the soil Once you’ve done a soil test you’ll know which plants will and won’t flourish in your garden. Tests from garden centres will tell you the pH level of the soil (whether alkaline, neutral or acid) so you can adjust it accordingly and make a more informed decision about what to grow.

Deal with weeds Annual weeds, like meadow grass and groundsel, are easy enough to pull-up but perennial weeds, such as couch grass, bindweed and dandelions, need careful handling. There are different types of weedkiller that you can call upon, depending on the area you want to treat. In densely planted borders though it’s probably better to do the job by hand. Just ensure that you remove as much of the root as possible, so there’s no chance of them resprouting. Feed beds and borders Add some nutrients, by way of a general fertiliser, to mixed borders of trees, perennials, bulbs and shrubs. General fertilisers come in various forms including granular. This just requires sprinkling evenly throughout the border, according to the instructions on the box, and forking in. The latter is important as concentrations of fertiliser lying against plants can burn them. Go ahead and mulch Once you’ve weeded and fed borders add a mulch. This is a layer of well-rotted garden compost, mushroom compost, bark or bagged soil improver and is one of the best things you can do for your plants. When spread an inch or more thick on the soil surface it acts like a barrier, depriving weeds of the light they need to germinate and trapping moisture so that plants have plenty to call upon when temperatures rise. All you need to do is leave nature to take its course as it rots down, improving structure and providing nutrients. Give pots a dressing Container plants can’t always be repotted. If you’ve got a shrub, fruit tree or perennial growing in compost that’s a year old or more then a layer of fresh compost will be beneficial. Scrape away an inch or so of the old compost from the surface and replace with fresh. Plant roots will soon feel the benefit as creatures and microbes gradually integrate old with new.

Clean fencing and paths If your patio or paths are regularly in the shade then it can lead to a build-up of moss and green algae during winter, making it slippery and unsightly. If it’s not too bad then soapy water and a brush should do the job. Otherwise use a patio, path cleaner or pressure washer to despatch it. There are also specialist cleaners for wooden decking. Check out fencing and other wooden structures like gates and pergolas and deal with any rot or winter damage. A power washer will help remove any dirt, moss or mildew and when completely dry freshen up with a couple of coats of wood preservative or paint. Install a water butt If you haven’t already got a water butt it’s worth installing one in the long run. Use a diverter kit to siphon off rainwater from a downpipe on the side of your house. Harvesting rainfall is environmentally friendly and rain water is the better than tap water for plants. Ericaceous types, like camellias, particularly benefit as tap water is often more alkaline. Just as importantly, installing a few butts is good for your water bill too. Go shopping Finally, take a quick inventory of what’s already in the shed and what you’ll be needing. Everything from compost and seeds down to pots and feed. This is also an ideal time to plan the summer-flowering bulbs you’ll want to plant in early spring. Having a proper shopping list will help you focus on exactly what you want to accomplish this year. Before undertaking any gardening tasks see page 31 for tips on how to keep happy and pain free in the garden this Spring from Marple Chiropractic Clinic.

Clean out shed and greenhouse Sweep down floors and surfaces. Tools in the shed should be hung so that you can get to them easily. The less clutter on the floor the better. Wash down greenhouse windows inside and out with disinfectant. This will ensure that plants get enough light and also destroy any potential homes for pests and diseases to lurk in. Make sure all pots and seed trays from last year are clean too. Then leave the door and windows open to help the space dry off. Remember also to check glass for any damage and replace panes if necessary.

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HOW TO ACCESS YOUR SURVIVOR MINDSET IN CHALLENGING TIMES

The last two years have taught most of us how resilient we can be, but many of us are wondering how we will cope with further challenging times that we may face in 2022, especially if we are already feeling exhausted. Difficult or stressful times can affect our responses, behaviours and beliefs. Our basic survival responses are instinctive, but we each have a preferred response to threat, whether it’s fight, flight, freeze or appease, as a result of learned past experiences and other factors, which means we are likely to behave in a particular way. So how can we access our survivor mindset to cope with the bumps and twists and turns in the road ahead? Believe that you can cope. A survival mindset means we have a solid faith that whatever the situation is, it is survivable, and our brains begin to take charge in dealing with problems. The opposite to this is a victim mentality which can halt us in our tracks and will have an impact on our ability to make logical decisions, solve problems, manage stress, feel motivated and collaborate with others. Deal with conflict so you can focus on the job ahead as a team. International mediator and conflict specialist, Jane Gunn says: “Any conflict, or anything that threatens our needs and interests, values, attitudes and beliefs, is reacted to as if it were an immediate threat to our survival. But if there is a culture of transparency, honesty and respect then conflict flare ups can be diffused early (but not swept under the carpet) leaving the team to work well when we most need them to. Rest is vital after stress. Neuroscientist and business psychologist Dr Lynda Shaw says: “When we experience danger or stress, the Sympathetic-Adrena-medullar (SAM) axis quickly responds

releasing adrenaline and noradrenalin. Our heart rate increases and our ‘fight, flee or freeze’ response is activated. Whilst the HypothalamusPituitary-Adrenal (HPA) axis is slightly slower to respond, it will then be triggered to release cortisol from the adrenal glands. Cortisol is useful in the short term because it helps the brain’s use of glucose for energy, but it is toxic if it continues for too long. What is important is that we need the Parasympathetic Nervous System (rest and digest) to take over from the Sympathetic Nervous System (fight or flight) to find calm again when any immediate threat is over. Look after yourself well, take time to step away from stressful situations, prioritise good quality sleep and try and enjoy stress-busting exercise. Communicate effectively and listen deeply. Jane Gunn says: “Learn about, understand and acknowledge every aspect of problems arising at work. Poor communication is at the heart of many relationship breakdowns, conflicts and disputes and leads to talent loss, poor productivity, low morale and loss of sales.” Take a wider view: “We interpret everything we see, hear or experience in business according to our pre-existing view of the world but everyone understands the world in their own way We all have our strengths and knowing what yours are and playing to your strengths, and then knowing when you could benefit from the help of others is key to good survival in difficult times.” Show empathy to others. “Put yourself in the other person’s position and understand why they see the world and their specific problems in that way to build trust and relationships. Trust in those around you and encourage others to trust in you”. Be positive to build your resilience. Dr Lynda Shaw says: “Keep stress in check so it doesn’t become an added danger to you physically and mentally. Know you can be resilient. Build a plan, be adaptable, flexible and nimble. Whilst not everything can be controlled, a lot can be. Be positive – all challenges come to an end.” Stay social. “Our social needs are treated by the brain in the same way as physical needs such as food or water. Business leaders need to build this into hybrid working in the future.” www.janegunn.co.uk and www.drlyndashaw.com

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