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Goodbye, John Guidelines for Writing a Dear John/Jane Letter

A Dear John/Jane letter is hard to write. The person you write to will feel hurt, so you’d better try to cause as little pain as possible. Meanwhile, you don’t want the reader to misinterpret it and to think you are saying you hope to have a chance to mend the relationship. Here are some do’s and don’ts when you write a Dear John/Dear Jane letter. 1. Start the letter by expressing thanks for what you have learned from your boyfriend/girlfriend and for the wonderful times you have spent together. 2. Mention some good points about this person and/or some positive things he or she has brought to you. 3. Always avoid criticism. Don’t write anything harsh or blame this person. Even when talking about his or her bad points, express them in a positive way. 4. Be firm and leave no doubt that you want to end the relationship. 5. Give one clear explanation of why you want to end the relationship and make it about you, not about the other person. 6. Ask for his or her understanding. Reread the article “Goodbye, John” to check () whether each guideline is followed and point out the evidence in the article. 

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Work with a classmate or in a group. Share what you find out. Use the following hints to express your ideas. In Paragraph 5 of the article, it says “ Please don’t take any of this personally. You’re truly wonderful and I’ll miss you terribly ,” so I think Sally makes it about herself, not about the smartphone (the content of the guideline).

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