Book of Gratitude by Aaron Lewis

BOOK OF GRATITUDE FOR DEAN SHARON STAHL

â&#x20AC;˘ With love from the Washington University Danforth Scholars

FOR DEAN SHARON STAHL

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saint louis, missouri SPRING 2015

BOOK OF GRATITUDE FOR DEAN SHARON STAHL

â&#x20AC;˘ With love from the Washington University Danforth Scholars

DEDICATION

Dear Dean Stahl, We Danforth Scholars, along with scores of other Washington University students whose lives you have touched over the past two and a half decades, have had the extraordinary privilege to be counted as your students and your mentees. When we arrived on campus, you welcomed each of us by name. When we were lost, you guided us. When we struggled, you hugged us. And when we succeeded, you celebrated us. No matter how busy you were, you always made each one of us feel important and special. You led by example, exhibiting the kind of warmth and respect that we could only hope to emulate. You showed us what it means to live with a purpose. Each of us holds special memories of our time with you, and words cannot express how much we have gained because of it. Thank you for helping to chart our courses in life, for teaching us the value of setting an example of leadership, and for empowering us to make a difference in the world. As we move through life, we will recall fondly the lessons you taught us through your words and your actions. And thanks to you, we will all forever live by a quote you taught us to hold dear: â&#x20AC;&#x153;To be my own self, at my very best, all the time.â&#x20AC;? We will always cherish the role you have played in our lives. With deepest thanks, The Danforth Scholars 9

DANFORTH SCHOLARS 1999–2018

Class of 1999 — Jon Rooze Dallas Wells Class of 2000 — Cheryl Axelrod Justin Bachman Felecia Bartow Leif Hauser Katharine Parsons W. Scott Saperston Class of 2001 — Eugene Choi Jill Downen Alan Harzman Rebecca Pontieri Shiv Taylor Tavi Yehudai Class of 2002 — Stephanie Baker Deanne Bell Orli Cotel

Class of 2003 — Jonathan Allen Jessica Banas Joren Bass Emily Bennett Brian Cordes Michael Hely Toyin Idowu Denise Manchester Williams Grant Miller John Pelikan Meredith Schwinder Sean Twomey Denise Williams Suzanne Thompson

Class of 2004 — Dino Adamou Anne Clark Baker James Brodman Becky Chmielewski Juliana Deur Jessica Fraser William Joyce Yoshihiro Kitai Michelle Miller Carolyn Moore Sarah Mullen Maria Ramirez Michael Wong Yun Zhu Anne Clark

Class of 2005 — Suzanne Barnard Alison Bates Courtney Berg (Prentis) Tracy Bremer Molly Brottmiller Kevin Carlberg Grant Cohen Brandy Cruesoe Constance Fazio Vincent C. Flewellen Craig Goergen Gretchen Guschke Taylor Lewis Guthrie Hartman Paige Hays Joanna Lankester Thomas Schmidt Rachel Scwhartz Laura Seger Anna Shabsin Jason Smith Teresa Sullivan Crystal Tipton Kate Tomlinson Mary Tomlinson Crystal Yates-White Tipton

Class of 2006 — Michael Browning Nicole Cortes (Solawetz) Martha Elster Michelle Fealk Valerie Gnaedig Gregory Halbreich Rajeev Jahagirdar James Jost Christin Lepus Lena Masur Kylie McElveen Melissa Miller Kelly Miller Alexandra Mislin Ebony Patterson Alex Reich Theodore Satterthwaite Meredith Schnug Jennifer Stone (Prosky) Rosie Wustrack Kylie Jordan

Class of 2007 — Matthew Amantea Kevin Ard James Brockman Carmen Brooks Katherine Cannistra Rebecca Castellon Jason Cox Daniel Delitto Matthew Dudzik Laura Kleinman Sarah Laaff Bryan Lee Joseph Lieb Scott Macher Elysia Mann Clare Masson Jonathan Muehlke Glynis O’Garro-Joseph Deniz Oran Kelley Robbins-Thompson Jeff Roy Geoffrey Salvatore Rebekah Sullivan Marshall Thompson Kelley Thompson Erica Townsend-Bell Xiaoping Wu Emily Dunn

Class of 2008 — Elisabeth Bradshaw (Burack) James Andrew Brantley Michael Chin Kimia Ferdowsi Kline Anna Finneran Jennifer Headley Darius Johnson Julie Kaplan Kristopher Kelley Josie Kressner Erik Mease Samuel Moen Michelle Moniz Brandon Morgan Ronald Nguyen Tori Pelz David Sanders Lainey Schifferdecker (Barb) Jeffrey Schomer A.J. Singletary Mark Sorensen Adam Steffen Rena Stern Kates Lilia Tyrrell Olga Vasilieva Rebecca Vincent (Griffin) Reynolds Whalen Rebecca Zaegal (Veto)

Class of 2009 — Kathryn Albro Lillian Andrews Ellen Bailey Michael Bevilacqua Andy Flick Rebecca Katz Mary Keohane Jennifer Klein Sarah Kunz Tiina Luning Adell Medovoy Erica Millspaugh Elizabeth Nells Jason Novack Mark Partridge Jennifer Philip Julie Rosenfeld Rebecca Schwantes-An Craig Sells Miska Shaw Brian Sinn Abby Stephens Teresa Teodori Lainie Turkish Lan Xu

Class of 2010 — Cameron Ball Kelly Diggs Andrews Elizabeth Elster-Tucker Mark Fahey Megan Goldsmith Ryan Grandin Andrew Hoekzema Samantha Kalish Stephanie McMechan Ben Paviour Becky Pengelley Jackson Pitts Marie Riley Chase Sackett Kira Sargent Jill Seward Priya Sury James Zhang Dora Oroian

Class of 2011 — Allie Altholz Patricia Bailey Lauren Barth Caitlin Chicoine Paul Fahey Anthony Fojo Julie Goldberg Livvy Jones Ellen Jones Caitlin McIlwee Martin Mintz Stephen Murata Leah Nixon Dustin Palmer Michelle Parthum Aycan Nur Sagir Jeremy Schlatter Alison Schroeder Claire Segar Harita Shah Jonathan Stitelman Matthew Story Patricia Yan

Class of 2012 — Donesh Ferdowsi Daniella Gafen Molly Gott Billy Griffitts Amelia Hetherington Kyle Huninghake Erica Jackey Stephen Johnson William Keyes Sam King Jonathan King Lexi Klein Abigail Korn Jimmy Mao Yifan Meng Martina Mok Gregory Osborn Matthew Painschab Elizabeth Riley Stefan Roberts Matthew Rosenfeld Daniel Ryskiewich Gregory Schwartz Joshua Segura Greg Sergay Rachel Simpson Jessica Star Erin Thimmesch John Harrison York

Class of 2013 — Laura Bauer Laura Belevica Deeksha Bhat Carmi Cioni Will Dahl Zachary Gale Grace Gaumnitz Mark Hartenstein Jennifer Head Erin Humphries Kevin Hurley Sander Kravet Zachary Lomis Erin McLear Kyle Newton Sarah Paleg Gideon Palte Steven Perlberg Julia Roberts Fiona Sloan Parker Spielman Alyssa Strubberg Ariel Wind Erin Wrightson Sasha Yan Anna Yoder

Class of 2014 — Eitan Babcock Arushi Bhalla Olivia Cosentino Sean Dula Rachel Fischer Rebecca Giordano Robert Gottlieb Jonathan Jackson Jordan Kelly Reagan Lauder Max LaVictoire Hillary Lynde Monica Meeks Ellie Park John Prewitt Sally Rausch Dylan Reid Ryan Sasse Sumeet Shah Dylan Simonsen Ian Suiter Elise Tanner Alice Turski

Class of 2015 — Prag Batra Rachel Bridge Elizabeth Chen Caroline Clark Danielle Clemons Cristina Clow Hamilton Cook Sheridan Frank Hannah Gould Michael Hoosier Clark Ingram Madeline Kleiner Emily Luken Ngoundo Magassa Brendan McIntyre Neveda Murugesan Sarah Plovnick Kathryn Reynolds Jared Skoff Breanna Swenson Kenneth Tharp David Wang William Wilder Vivian Zhu Vivian Zhu Brendan Ziebarth

Class of 2016 — Yosef Ansarizadeh Sondra Anton Madison Blau Victoria Cooke Allison Dulman Ethan Fraser Kelly Hill Ellen Kaushansky Sophia Keskey Ian Lever Daniel Magee Matthew McElduff Chase McGrath Jake McNichol Alexandra Michaels Rachel Prensky-Pomeranz Jeremy Reisman Dennis Rim Kara Skjoldager Ellen Toennies Claudia Vaughan Bonner Williams Barbara Williams Nicholas Wurm Jesse Yang Jasmine Yang

Class of 2017 — Dahlgren Baker Michael Bannon Lauren Berger Sabrina Bidus Mary-Brent Brown Emily Duncan Justin Finkel Arjun Gandhi Mason Herleth Kristen Koyanagi Seth Lewis Jeffrey Marinshaw Alicia Morris Bisma Mufti John Nahon Megan Nicklay Liam O’Donnell Emma Quirk-Durben Emma Riley Brody Roush Grant Shillington Samuel Silver Meera Toolsidas Jessica Williams Ella Young

Class of 2018 — Kelly Andrulis Joshua Bircoll Michael Collins Devin Daugherty Adria Duncan Andres Fernandez Liam Fitzgerald William Hancock Shelby Hawkins Reuben Hogan Wade Johnson Jessie Kurz Monica Lim Rachel Mickelson Natalie Ng Alexander Ngo Karthik Rohatgi Connor Rudmann Nathan Schmetter Maela Singh Katherine Story

WITH LOVE FROM THE WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY DANFORTH SCHOLARS

“Thank you for all of your hard work over the years! WashU will not be the same without you :)” Tiina Luning, Class of 2009 “Thank you for being the reason I came to WashU!” Michael Hoosier, Class of 2015 “Thank you so much for everything you’ve done for the Danforth Scholars program! It would not have been the same without you!” Billy Griffitts, Class of 2012 “Thank you, Dean Stahl, for bringing together the Danforth Scholars and creating a warm, inviting atmosphere for us to get to know each other. I wish you many pleasant adventures in your post-retirement life.” Michael Hely, Class of 2003 “Many thanks for your years of dedication to WashU!” Michelle Parthum, Class of 2011, Law “Thank you for being there to pick me up during one of my lowest points.” Wade Johnson, Class of 2018 “Dearest Dean Stahl, I can’t tell you how much easier my transition to college was because of your support and encouragement. I feel so lucky to have met you and I hope that the post-WashU chapter of your life will bring you all the wonderful things you deserve!” Olga Vasilieva, Class of 2008 “Merci beaucoup et felicitations!” Mark Hartenstein, Class of 2013 “Dean Stahl, thank you for being an inspiration, mother figure, and a constant guiding hand. Without you, WashU would’ve never been a part of my life—for this, I am forever grateful to you. ” Bisma Mufti , Class of 2017

“Thanks so much for all you’ve done, Dean Stahl. The Danforth Scholarship was an amazing opportunity and really shaped my college career!” Grace Gaumnitz, Class of 2013 “Thank you so much for all you’ve done for me and the rest of WashU, Dean Stahl—I wouldn’t be where I am today without your love and support!!” Ellen Toennies, Class of 2016 “Dear Dean Stahl, If it weren’t for the Danforth Scholars and your leadership, I wouldn’t be graduating from WashU in a couple of months. I sincerely appreciate every piece of advice and each hug you’ve given me. Thank you for making my college experience.” Madeline Kleiner, Class of 2015 “Thank you so much for your warmth, your spirit, and your willingness to share your knowledge and experiences. I couldn’t have made it through freshman year without you and the Danforth Scholars. You’ve created an amazing community of students that will last for years and years. Thank you.” Shelby Hawkins, Class of 2018 “Thank you so much for everything you’ve done for the Danforth program; I would have never felt so immediately welcome into the WashU community if it hadn’t been for your unwavering dedication and kindness. We’ll miss you!” Meera Toolsidas, Class of 2017 “Thank you for caring; I will never forget the sweetness of your temperament and the zeal with which you help others.” Connor Rudmann, Class of 2018 “I have so appreciated the amount of time and effort you have put into working with the Danforth Scholars. Your warm spirit and reassuring smile have always made me feel at home here, and your passion for all you do motives me to be my best self at every stage of my life. Thank you for all you have done for WashU.” Alicia Morris, Class of 2017

“Dean Stahl, through direct and indirect means, you opened up doors for me and so many others that otherwise would never have been present. Thank you for your tireless dedication, generosity, sincere care, and successes. The WashU community is very lucky to have counted you as one of its top leaders!” Tavi Yehudai, Class of 2001 “Dearest Dean Stahl, my life would truly not be the same without having crossed paths with you. Your mentorship, kindness, and friendship have been without equal in my formation as a student, professional, and citizen of the world. You will be greatly missed, but your impact is eternal!” Nicole Cortes, Class of 2006 “Dean Stahl, Thank you for everything you did for all of us during the time I was at Washington University. Your compassion and encouragement are some of the things I will always remember and keep with me! Best wishes!” Erin McLear, Class of 2013

“Thank you for not only being a mentor and a role model, but for making WashU home and for being a fairy godmother to us throughout the years. No one else could have done the same.” Harita Shah, Class of 2011 “Thank you so much for all of your guidance and mentoring to myself and so many WashU medical students. I appreciate it every day. Enjoy retirement!” Rosie Wustrack, Class of 2006 “Congratulations on such an illustrious career at WashU, Dean Stahl! I am so happy that I was able to have you as a part of my college experience. I truly appreciate everything you have done for the Danforth and McLeod Scholars programs. I will miss you! ” Ellen Kaushansky, Class of 2016

“Hi, Dean Stahl! There is SO much I could write about how much I appreciate you and the work you’ve done at WashU. But let me share a quick story about a specific moment you provided me that has shaped my life since. In 2004, on the Danforth Scholar retreat at Camp Miniwanca, we did an activity where you asked us to take a piece of paper and write one word that defined us. You told us to remember that word and let it inform our approach to life and our college education. I chose the word “Creativity,” which I cut out with scissors and elevated on the paper to make a sort of 3D diorama. Ten years later, I am the founder and director of Performing Arts Abroad, a company offering study abroad programs, internships, volunteer opportunities, training/intensives, and group programs for music, theater, dance, and film in thirteen different countries. This year, in our fourth year of operation, we are sending more than 100 performing artists abroad. As I work with my employees to define our core values as an organization, Creativity remains at the very top of the list. Ever since that day on Lake Michigan, I return to this word and remember never to confine myself to that which has already been imagined. There is always another way to do things, and there are always possibilities just beyond the limit of current understanding and modes of thinking. Thank you for everything you have done for your students. You will never truly know the enormity of the impact you have had!!!” Reynolds Whalen, Class of 2008

“Dean Stahl, You have made a tremendous impact on my college experience. The Danforth Scholars is a beautiful community of students from a diverse set of backgrounds. We all have unique talents and interests. I thank you for fostering such a welcoming, inclusive community. I wish you the best of luck with retired life—not that you need it! I hope to one day have a career as fulfilling as yours!” Danielle Clemons, Class of 2015 “Thanks for everything, Dean Stahl!” Ben Paviour, Class of 2010 “Dean Stahl, Thank you for your belief in the ability of every Danforth Scholar to change our communities and better our world. I will always be grateful for the love that you put into making the program what it is.” Sally Rausch, Class of 2014 “Thank you for all your support and caring! ” Sean Dula, Class of 2014 “I’ll always remember what you did for me. Thank you, Dean Stahl!” Greg Sergay, Class of 2012 “Thank you for the beautiful program you’ve built that provides so much love and support!” Becky Pengelley, Class of 2010 “Thank you for all you do, Dean Stahl!! :)” Fiona Sloan, Class of 2013 “Dean Stahl, thank you for everything you have done for me here at WashU, and providing me with this wonderful opportunity to become part of the Danforth family. It was an honor to have you as both a mentor and a teacher. You will certainly be missed. ” Seth Lewis, Class of 2017

“I could not have attended Washington University without support from you and the Danforth Scholars Program. My WashU education and experience made me who I am today, and for your support in making that possible, I will be forever grateful. Best of luck to you, Dean Stahl!” Monica Meeks, Class of 2014 “You are one of the reasons I came to Washington University and I loved my time there. Thank you so much for all of the care you put into your students. ” Rebecca Slotkin, Class of 2012 “Dean Stahl, thank you so much for everything! You are incredible! ” Jennifer Stone (Prosky), Class of 2006 “Dean Stahl, I want to thank you for many of the wonderful moments I have experienced in Washington University in St. Louis. Your kindness and selflessness were driving factors in my decision to attend the University. Moreover, your guidance has been fundamental in achieving success in my classes and enjoying everything the school has to offer. Thank you!” Andres Fernandez, Class of 2018 “Dean Stahl, I fell in love with WashU when I attended the Danforth Scholars Weekend back in 2001 and met you. You were always so welcoming and I really looked up to you. WashU will not be the same without you. Thank you for everything you have done to help me in the past 14 years.” Molly Brottmiller, Class of 2005 “Thank you for your support and care through the years. I am grateful for what you contributed to my time in St. Louis.” Rajeev Jahagirdar, Class of 2006

“Thank you for all you did for us to make our WashU experiences so meaningful and powerful. I’m grateful to you and the Danforth scholarship for helping to shape my career at Wash U and beyond. Best of luck in your retirement!” Teresa Sullivan, Class of 2005

“Dean Stahl—you made WashU “Thank you for all of your hard more than just an educational inwork and support of all of the stitution for me, you made it home. Danforth Scholars over the years. Thank you for all of the warm hugs It made my life at WashU and and your genuine interest in my beyond much more rich and well-being and my future. I will fulfilling! Enjoy your retirement :)” feel successful as an educator if I Becky Chmielewski, Class of 2004 can touch even half as many lives as you have over the years. Wishing you all the wonderful times that retirement will bring! ” Olivia Cosentino, Class of 2014

“Dean Stahl, thank you so much for being there for the students of the Danforth Scholars program. I think I speak for all of us when I say that your care has meant the world to us and has completely shaped our experiences at WashU, and I speak for myself when I say I that I absolutely would not be where I am today without you. You will be dearly missed and always, always dearly loved. Visit often!” Claudia Vaughan, Class of 2016

“Dear Dean Stahl, ever since we first came on campus last March, you have been so kind, genuine, and supportive as we started our journeys here. You embody many of the values of the Washington University community, and I cannot express how grateful I am to have been able to listen to your wisdom, receive your warm hugs, and learn from your leadership and poise. I wish you the very best, Dean Stahl. I love you and thank you!” Monica Lim, Class of 2018 “Enjoy your newfound free time! P.S. It’s Missour-ee not Missour-uh.” John Prewitt, Class of 2014 “Thank you for everything, Dean Stahl” Max LaVictoire, Class of 2014

“The Danforth Scholars Program is one of the best things I have ever been involved with. I am so thankful to have been a part of it, and to have known you Dean Stahl, our fearless leader! We will miss you so much, but please know you have made a huge impact on each of our lives and will not be forgotten! My own self, at my very best, all the time—I live by it and always will.” Ali Dulman, Class of 2016 “The Danforth program helped me realize my potential in the world was greater then I ever had imagined. Thank you for believing in young students and inspiring us for greater things.” Paige Hays, Class of 2005 “The Danforth Scholarship program made it possible for me to attend this university, and it’s been the greatest four years of my life so far. Thank you for all of your help and support.” Emily Luken, Class of 2015

“Thank you for being an inspiration to us, always and forever!” Martina Mok, Class of 2012 “Dear Dean Stahl, I cannot express how much of a light you are in my life. Your joy and compassion are infectious to everyone you meet. Thank you for always being there, Dean Stahl, and always meeting me with a smile. I will miss you very much.” Emma Riley, Class of 2017 “My time in St. Louis wouldn’t have been the same without you, Dean Stahl!” Will Wilder, Class of 2015 “Dean Stahl, thank you for everything you have done for me, the Danforth Scholars Program, and the Wash. U. community as a whole. You helped make my experience at Wash. U. so meaningful, as I know you did for many others, too. I wish you the best in retirement!” John Harrison York, Class of 2012 “Dean Stahl, I had such a rocky start to my academic career and you convinced me that it wasn’t too late. Without your encouragement I don’t think I could have been anywhere near as successful in my years at WashU. Thank you for being the best advisor and an incredible person. ” Hillary Lynde, Class of 2014 “Thank you so much for always being there to listen and provide guidance. Best wishes and I hope our paths will cross again!” Sheridan Frank, Class of 2015 “Thank you so much for all you have done for the Danforth Scholars over the years. You will be missed, but we wish you good luck and a wonderful time in your retirement.” Mason Herleth, Class of 2017

“Hi Dean Stahl, I count myself immensely fortunate to have been given the opportunity to receive advice and support from you throughout my time at Wash U and after graduating. I greatly appreciate having you as a mentor and adviser, and I know I am not the only one who feels this way. Thanks for everything. I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide to do next.” Gideon Palte, Class of 2013

“Dean Stahl, thanks to you and Dean McLeod I chose to attend this school four years ago. Everything positive that has followed I graciously owe to your wisdom and leadership. Thank you.” David Wang, Class of 2015

“Thanks for always taking such great care of students, putting up with our pretensions and believing that we can (and will) learn how to be our best selves. ” Crystal Yates-White Tipton, Class of 2005

“Dear Dean Stahl, thank you for EVERYTHING. Thank you for your kindness, your warmth and your generosity, not only to us Danforths, but to the entire WUSTL community. I hope that you have a delightful retirement, and please come visit us always!” Jesse Yang, Class of 2016

“Thank you for everything, Dean Stahl! WashU and the Danforth scholars have had such a positive impact on my life!” Caitlin McIlwee, Class of 2011

“Dear Dean Stahl, your support at WashU and in the years beyond is my most precious memory of college. Thank you and please stay in touch.” Kira Sargent, Class of 2010

“Dean Stahl, when I began my WashU journey 5 years ago, you opened your heart and even your home many a time to my Danforth classmates and me. I truly thank you for your kindness and inspiration throughout the years because it allowed me to embrace my WashU experience immediately and fearlessly. Thank you for providing that home base for us, and congratulations on such a meaningful career.” Elise Tanner, Class of 2014

“Congratulations on your retirement! It was a comfort, a luxury, and more than anything else, a pleasure to get to spend my freshman year with you at the helm. Whatever is in store for the future, I know you’ll handle it with the grace and poise that you bring everyday as only you could.” Josh Bircoll, Class of 2018

“Dear Dean Stahl, when I first visited WashU as a Danforth finalist, I knew instantly that I had found my home for the next four years. That feeling was made possible by your enthusiasm and passion for the University, the Danforth Scholarship program, and - most significantly in my mind - the students you welcomed. I continue to admire the wonderful balance of warmth and motivation that you have shown your students. My memories of my time at WashU grow fonder each year as I gain more and more appreciation for the opportunities that the University continues to provide. I’ll never forget standing in my parents’ living room when you called to give me the good news that I had been awarded a full-tuition Danforth Scholarship. You truly are a deep root of all the wonderful things that followed in my life. Thank you for making the Danforth Scholarship program all that it has been and continues to be for me and for so many others.” Alex Reich, Class of 2006 “Thank you, Dean Stahl, for always believing in me. Your confidence is us and the opportunities you created helped make each of us successful. Thank you for everything!” Suzanne Barnard, Class of 2005 “Dean Stahl, it’s hard to think of only a few words to express how much your presence, support, and love meant to me during my time at WashU! As a transfer student halfway through freshman year, you swooped me under your wings and brought me to the Danforth program which I am forever grateful for. Your support and being a Danforth Scholar is a huge part of who I am today and I am so thankful. I know you and Dr. Stahl are probably looking forward to many exciting, relaxing years ahead and you certainly deserve it! Hope to cross paths with you again soon.” Martha Elster, Class of 2006

“Dean Stahl, thank you so much for everything you have done for the Danforth Scholars program. Your warmth and love have inspired and encouraged all of us to be our very best, all the time, and your hugs will forever be legendary.” Natalie Ng, Class of 2018 “Dean Stahl!!! I feel very lucky to have met you and am so thankful for all that you have done for me this past year. You will be supremely missed.” Nathan Schmetter, Class of 2018 “Thank you so much for being an amazing advisor and mentor throughout the last few years. You have truly helped me feel at home at WashU. The Danforths will miss you!” Jessica Williams, Class of 2017 “Dean Stahl, you are incredible and an inspiration to all of us. You’ve touched all of our lives, and I wish I could properly express how much your commitment, dedication, and love has meant to all of us.” Stephen Johnson, Class of 2012 “Thank you Dean Stahl for being a familiar face away from home, an inspiring mentor, and a gracious leader to all the Danforth Scholars. Future scholars will surely be missing out without you! ” Livvy Jones, Class of 2011 “Dear Dean Stahl, I hope you realize the magnitude of your impact on my life, and how grateful I am for your mentorship. Because of you, my fears were replaced by some of the best memories of my college experience on the shores of Miniwanca. On one of those trips, you offered me some advice that I want you to know I remind myself of almost weekly: success is not a straight line, and if I allow my myself to veer off the “plan” and explore various opportunities and passions, my experiences will all come together in the end. I’m thankful your experiences led you to us! Happy retirement!!” Elisabeth Bradshaw (Burack), Class of 2008

“You have inspired me to be the best version of myself. Thank you for your never ending love and support. I am so excited for this next chapter of your life! ” Lexi Klein, Class of 2012

“Thank you for everything, Dean Stahl. You were a wonderful mentor! Craig Goergen, Class of 2005

“Thank you Dean Stahl for every“We’re going to miss you! Thank thing that you have done for the you for always being such a Danforth Scholars Program and for friendly face!” all of us scholars. Having gotten to Dahlgren Baker, Class of 2017 know you this past year has been the greatest privilege and honor, and I appreciate everything that you have done for me. Thank you.” Kelly Andrulis, Class of 2018

“This quick note could not ever express my unending gratitude for the powerful influence you have had on my college experience and life. Your love and wisdom improve everyone around you. Thank you for your years of service at Washington University. I know you will be missed, and never replaced.” Kristopher Kelley, Class of 2008 “Thank you for all your support and encouragement this past year! The Danforth community will miss you dearly. ” Adria Duncan, Class of 2018 “Dean Stahl, I’ll always remember you as the woman who made the phone call that changed my life. My experiences at Washington University continue to be significantly impacted by the love and compassion within the Danforth Scholars community, such an environment that was only fostered by your true passion and dedication for the program. It’s hard to imagine what WashU will be like without you, and without the hug and warm smile that we were invariably greeted with whenever we bumped into you on campus. But, like the many great leaders at our university that have gone before you—individuals such as Dr. Danforth and Dean McLeod—your presence will still be felt. You’ve given a part of yourself to this university and to the hundreds of Danforth Scholars that you’ve mentored throughout the years, and that will live on long after you’ve retired. Thank you for always listening, and for teaching us to be our own selves. I’ve learned that the most important thing for us to do is to love ourselves, for better or for worse, and to truly take ownership of both our unique talents and flaws. The bookmark that you gifted to me at Miniwanca last year is even inscribed with a reminder from Ralph Waldo Emerson to ‘make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you.’ I wish you all the best as you enter a new chapter in your life and continue to make the most of yourself.” Chase McGrath, Class of 2016 “Thanks for everything. We will miss you!” Justin Finkel, Class of 2017 44

“Thank you for helping me have “Dean Stahl, You and the Danforth an even greater experience at community have been the highWashU by being part of the light of my time at WashU; your Danforth Scholars. Enjoy the next kindness, guidance, and neverendadventures you have in retirement!” ing love you have shown myself Rebecca Pontieri, Class of 2001 and the rest of the scholars has been a unique blessing throughout the past three years. The reason why I came to WashU in the first place was to be a part of the Danforth community and to be able to continue growing under your leadership. Thank you for everything.” Sondra Anton, Class of 2016

“Dean Stahl, thank you so much for your years of dedication to the Danforth Scholars. The program wouldn’t be what it is, or my experience at WashU as wonderful as it was, without your hard work. Good luck in your future endeavors.” Becky Castellon, Class of 2007

“Thank you so much for everything that you’ve done for the hundreds and hundreds of students that you’ve touched. My WUSTL experience started with your phone call and it’s been a wild ride since then. I’m saddened to see you go, but I know that you’ll be just down the street if we ever need anything. You’re appreciated much more than you know, Dean Stahl. Thanks for continuing to be great.” Sam Silver, Class of 2017

“Congratulations Dean Stahl! Thank “Dean Stahl, Thank you for all you so much for everything you’ve of the support you’ve given me done for me and for the Danforth throughout my years at Washingprogram! You’re the best, and I ton University. I can’t believe it’s hope to see you soon!” been nearly 3 years since we first Sumeet Shah, Class of 2014 met, and what a great journey it has been! You are truly a special person, and you brighten the day of everyone in your path. You are a superhero without a cape. I hope the next chapter brings you nothing but joy.” Jeremy Reisman, Class of 2016

“Thanks for everything Dean Stahl! You will always hold a special place in my heart.” Jordan Kelly, Class of 2014

“I still have a voice message saved on my phone from you from March of 2013, personally welcoming me to the Danforth Scholars program. You will always be one of the most encouraging and warm people I’ve met at WashU, and one of the main reasons I felt so at home here so quickly.” Emily Duncan, Class of 2017

“Your warmth and leadership made WashU a home away from home. I’ll never forget that you hung one of my photos in your office!” Melissa Miller, Class of 2006

“I cannot tell you how much I have appreciated your mentorship, care, and support. You have touched my life in such a meaningful way, and I know that so many others feel similarly. I hope that as you begin the next phase of life, you remember what a powerful presence you have been in the lives of your students. Congratulations on taking the next step; we will all miss you and remember the wonderful lessons you have taught us.” Laura Kleinman, Class of 2007

““Dear Dean Stahl, thank you for all of the hard work and time that you dedicated to supporting the Danforth Scholars. You are such a diplomatic and graceful leader. “ Michelle Fealk, Class of 2006

“Dean Stahl, you and the role you have played in my life over the years have meant the world to me. “Dean Stahl, despite the apprehension and uncertainty that I sometimes carry into your office, I have never left your office without a smile on my face. Thank you for reassuring me and encouraging me to be the best version of myself.” Jared Skoff, Class of 2015

“Dean Stahl, it has been almost 15 years since leaving WashU, and the impact of your guidance, your support, and your fight for my success is not at all forgotten. When I transferred into WashU in 2000 I was nervous, but hopeful because through your eyes I saw the opportunities and doors becoming a Danforth scholar and pursuing my medical education there could open for me. I’ll never forget, ever, the words of encouragement, and the true actions—from setting me up with my first research lab position to bringing me into your home to meet your family and discuss my ambitions with your husband, Dr. Stahl—that made me realize that I could trust in you, and that you were undoubtedly invested in my success. How you have had the energy to devote to so many of your students is truly amazing, and please know that I am forever grateful for the role you played in my path. Now, as an Assistant Professor in Neuroradiology at The Johns Hopkins Hospital, much has come to fruition. I can only hope to emulate your example of encouragement to those students coming behind me - large steps to follow, but steps I am happy to pursue given the impact I experienced as a result of those same efforts made by you. Thank you Dean Stahl—I truly appreciate you and everything you contributed to my life. It was an honor to be a Danforth Scholar under your guidance. Wish you much love, and enjoyment of your future endeavors! Toyin Idowu, Class of 2003 “Dear Dean Stahl, a heartfelt thank you for your support and kindness during my years at WashU. I hope I can pay it forward.” Aycan Nur Sagir, Class of 2011 “I appreciate very much what you did to build up the Danforth Scholars program. It really enriched my college experience in a way that will stick with me for the rest of my life. Crucially, I made a connection with professor Bender, which led to some successful undergraduate research, which helped me get into grad school, to get a fellowship (NSF). Likewise, the Danforth Scholars lunch discussions were really important for me in terms of developing my ability to form and articulate nuanced opinions about a large variety of topics. This had a natural lead in to me being engaged in the dialogue surrounding feminism/diversity in science. And being able to engage with these issues has enriched my life. Also, I got my first exposure to feminism through meeting older Danforth Scholars who were studying it.” Alexander Anderson, Class of 2012 “Dean Stahl—thank you for making WashU and the Danforth program a warm home for all of us over the years!” Rebecca (Griffin) Vincent, Class of 2008

“Wishing you well in your retirement, and thank you so much for everything that you’ve done for our school and community. I’ll always look back with fondness and gratitude at the opportunities and experiences that I had through the Danforth Scholars Program.” Patricia Yan, Class of 2011 “Dean Stahl, I can’t thank you enough for all of your support throughout the past four years. You have given me so much good advice. Somehow, you always seem to know what the problem is and how to solve it before I even have a chance to explain it myself. I feel honored to graduate with you this year and I wish you the best in your retirement!” Sarah Plovnick, Class of 2015 “Dear Dean Stahl, thank you so much for everything that you have done for me, both during college and post graduation. You are such a caring and devoted individual and I am truly grateful to have been able to work with you. I wish you all the best in the future!” Laura Bauer, Class of 2013 “Hi Dean Stahl! Thank you so so much for being there for me for these phenomenal four years. From Finalist weekend, where my first memory was greeting you and getting my first, but certainly not last, warm welcoming hug in the Midwest to my advisee meetings, where you gave me reassuring advice and I would always leave with directional purpose, I have and will always appreciate your support and counsel in my life. Thank you! WU, the newest class, and I will miss you and I hope to still keep in touch with you, no matter where I go after graduation!” Elizabeth Chen, Class of 2015 “I want to be you when I grow up.” Kimia Ferdowsi Kline, Class of 2008 “Thank you for being such a kind, wise, and inspiring leader of the Danforth Scholars! I will miss you!” Emma Quirk-Durben, Class of 2017 “Thank you for believing in each of us so strongly. I always know no matter how many things go wrong or how many mistakes are made, you are there to support us and help in any way you can. From your hugs to the simplicity of your speech pattern, you emit so much warmth and love. It was a privilege to spend my first year at WashU with you, and I am so grateful to be a Danforth. Love you, Dean Stahl! ” Maela Singh, Class of 2018

“I’m sorry that you have to go, but I don’t think there’s anyone else more deserving of some relaxation than you.” Daniel Magee, Class of 2016

“Dean Stahl, you are truly an “Many of my fondest, most impact- “Thank you, Dean Stahl, for being amazing woman. Thank you for all ful memories and experiences from so wonderful! From your amazing the years of love you have given to college were shared with fellow ability to remember names and your students, and in particular the Danforth Scholars. The growth I your generous hospitality of Danforth Scholars. Your beautiful experienced as a result of these— welcoming students into your presence will be missed by future let’s call them teachable moments, home to your bright spirit on the students!” simply would not have been possihigh ropes course at Miniwanca Leah Nixon, Class of 2011 ble without the Danforth program. and the way you make each student It has shaped who I am today and I feel so special... I am so thankful continue to be humbled by the opfor you. Enjoy whatever gifts and portunities it has afforded me. My joys your retirement will bring!” heartfelt thanks go out to you for Becca (Veto) Zaegel, Class of 2008 your years of support and encouragement, Dean Stahl. May all the years ahead be filled with as much joy as you have brought to WashU’s campus. Congratulations! My own self, at my very best, all the time.” Ryan Sasse, Class of 2014

“Dean Stahl, you have been an incredible mentor for me and have really helped me mature into the man I am today. I can’t imagine what my life at Wash U would be like without you.” Ethan Fraser, Class of 2016

“Dean Stahl, it is with grace that you led me in my four years at WUSTL. One example stands out: I had failed Human Evolution and come to your office in tears, afraid my funding would be revoked. You looked at me with compassion and said, ‘Dear Taylor, do you think we brought you here because you excelled in “Thank you for encouraging me to be at my best! :)” science? Worry not. It is fine. You will be ok.’ Such Will Dahl, Class of 2013 words brought deep comfort to me (and my parents) and your assurance in my abilities to do many other “Thank you for being such a formative part of my Wash things (and never again science!) carried me to U experience. I will carry with me many memories complete my full WUSTL experience. With gratitude from the Danforth community and the lifelong motto for you, those words, and the ways your love endures to always be ‘my own self, at my very best, all the in the hearts of many a student,” time.’” The Reverend Taylor Lewis Guthrie Hartman, Class Brendan McIntyre, Class of 2015 of 2005

“Thank you so much for being such an amazing and caring soul. We’ll miss you!” Grant Shillington, Class of 2017

“Dear Dean Stahl, thank you for all of your love and inspiration. Every good wish,” Jackson Pitts, Class of 2010

“Congratulations on a wonderful career, Dean Stahl. You have impacted so many of us during our time at WashU and beyond. All the best in your future.” Erica Jackey, Class of 2012

“Dean Stahl, thank you so much for your years of dedication to WashU students and to the Danforth Scholars program. I cannot imagine my college experience without your influence. Your wisdom, generosity, and unending kindness are truly unique. Thank you for sharing them with us. Best wishes in your retirement!” Caitlin Chicoine, Class of 2011

“Dean Stahl, after almost 15 years since graduating from WashU, your passion for the student community still makes a strong impression on me.” Eugene Choi, Class of 2001 “Dean Stahl, a sincere thank you for your support and presence during my time at Washington University. We didn’t interact often, but whenever we did you greeted me with a smile, and genuine words of encouragement that I have always appreciated.” Erica Townsend-Bell, Class of 2007 “Dean Stahl, you have been an integral part of my time at WashU. All aspects of the Danforth Scholar experience, including wonderful dinners at your home, will remain some of my favorite and most memorable times in college. Thank you for everything you’ve done for the university, the Danforth Scholars program, and for me. Lots of love.” Alexandra Michaels, Class of 2016 61

“Thank you so much for being such an inspiration to me and to so many others, Dean Stahl! I know you will be sorely missed, but I am so glad that I had the opportunity to have you as my advisor through college! Thank you again for everything!” Ellie Park, Class of 2014 “The Danforth program was a huge part of my personal and professional development. I loved my time there so much that I’m coming back to WashU for residency this year! You were a great mentor and I wish you the best in retirement!” James Zhang, Class of 2010

“I can tell you exactly what I was doing when you called to congratulate me on my acceptance. I was sitting in the living room eating Triscuits and cheese while watching Spongebob Squarepants. It’s weird to think that was the start of one of the most amazing times of my life. I cannot image that part of my life without you, Dean Stahl. You are such a kind person and always see the best in people, even if they can’t quite see it themselves. You are a pillar of strength and a comforting friend who has built and maintained a spectacular community that has become another family to me. Thank you for everything you have done for us, giving us your time, advice, and cookies. Thank you for picking me to be a part of such an inspiring group. Thank you for loving us and teaching us to be our very best.” Sasha Yan, Class of 2013 “Dean Stahl, I so value your support before, during, and following my time as a student at WashU. Your warm encouragement and sage counsel helped me find clarity in many important moments—from choosing to attend WashU, (re)focusing my academic pursuits, and setting out on a path forward into my career. I am a grateful beneficiary of your work to shape the Danforth program as well as your advice and guidance over the years. WashU is a better place for your many roles within it!” Michelle Miller, Class of 2014

“Dear Dean Stahl, although it is hard to imagine a WashU without you physically on campus, I know that a part of you will always be there, carried by the students, faculty, and alumni whose experiences you helped shape and whose lives you touched. I am so thankful that I got to spend my 4 years at WashU under your wing as a part of the Danforth Scholars community. It is because of you that I—and all of us—felt immediately at home when we stepped on campus for Finalist Weekend, on our pre-orientation at Miniwanca, and for the rest of our time as both students and alumni (WashU will always feel like a home to me). I will never forget the example you set: the way you lead and interact with strength and confidence mixed with amazing warmth, humility, and genuine care for all of us (not to mention the incredible way you can make even the most awkward conversation topics seem like the most natural things in the world). Thank you, Dean Stahl, for everything you have done for me and for all of us—I wish you the best in this next chapter (and hope you get all of the rest and relaxation that you undoubtedly deserve).” Daniella Gafen, Class of 2012 “Thank you for all you contributed to Wash U and the Danforth program! You will be missed, and we were all blessed to have you in our corner. Enjoy retirement!” Abby Stephens, Class of 2009 “I have a deep appreciation for the opportunity to study at the Brown School of Social Work as a Danforth Scholar. Thank you for everything you did to make my time at WashU magical! My best to you as you pursue your next adventure!” Kelley Robbins-Thompson, Class of 2007 “Dean Stahl, you are a kind and caring role model of what it looks like to be a great leader in academics throughout one’s career. When I interact with students and other faculty, I try to remember your example.” Alan Harzman, Class of 2001

“Thank you, Dean Stahl, for truly making my undergraduate experience wonderful. From my initial choice of school to my graduation date (and beyond!), your involvement in my education not only helped build my life passions but also shaped the person I and all of my fellow Danforth Scholars have and will become. Thank you!” A.J. Singletary, Class of 2008

“Dear Dean Stahl, it has truly been a blessing to have gotten to know you while attending Washington University in St. Louis as a Danforth Scholar! Your dedication to the scholarship program and commitment to the well-being of all WashU students has been a constant encouragement for me while in college. Thank you for all that you have done for the faculty, the students, and the administration. WashU would not be where it is today without you. Most “Congratulations Dean Stahl!! You were such a source of all, thank you for all the little things you never of inspiration and wisdom during my time at WashU forgot to show: your calming words in the midst of a and I’m so excited for this next chapter of your and Dr. stress-filled medical school application process, your Stahl’s life. Thank you for everything.” willingness to listen to personal problems, and your Deeksha Bhat, Class of 2013 warmth-filled hugs that always brought comfort.” Jimmy Mao, Class of 2012 “Dean Stahl, I am so excited for this next chapter of your life. I’m sure you’ll continue to build warm, “Thank you for your incredible dedication to the inclusive communities where people can be their very Danforth program. Your warmth and kindness made best selves. WashU a true home for me and for so many others in the Danforth program. Wishing you all the best! ” I’m grateful that you helped me to adjust and re-adjust Rena Stern to college life with wisdom, compassion, and frank advice. Attending WashU in the Danforth Scholars “Dean Stahl, you have been an incredible source of community shaped me in innumerable ways that my inspiration for me throughout my time at Washington community benefits from every day. When I think of University. You have shown me how to be humble, WashU, you’re the first face that comes to mind. Thank understanding, empathetic, compassionate, witty, you for everything. ” relatable, and reflective. You have helped me through Dustin Palmer, Class of 2011 times where I struggled to know where I belonged and you have celebrated the fun times with me too. “Dean Stahl, words can not begin to express my I cannot begin to explain what an impact you have gratitude for your generosity. Your support throughout had on me. All I can say is that I feel so unbelievably my years at WashU made me feel like anything was fortunate to have met such an amazing person as possible. Being a part of the Danforth Community yourself. You have shown me the kind of woman I has been one of the greatest honors of my life. I feel want to become. Thank you so much for everything so fortunate to have been a part of such a bright and you have done for the Danforth family and the greater caring group of people. I think it goes without saying, WashU community.” that you were the heart and soul of the program. You Rachel Mickelson, Class of 2018 created a culture of respect and support which helped so may of us flourish. To me, you have have always “Dean Stahl, you are among the most wonderful people exemplified the very best of WashU. Your warmth that I have been lucky to know. Your commitment and kindness has helped and inspired so many of us. to those you love is unmatched. I cannot thank you Thank you for your immeasurable contributions to my enough for the impact you have had on my life. life and the University—you will be greatly missed.” Washington University has been fortunate to have you. Anna Finneran, Class of 2008 Thank you.” Kevin Hurley, Class of 2013 67

“Dear Dean Stahl, thank you so “Hi Dean Stahl, thank you so much “Dean Stahl, getting to know you much for the time that you’ve for your guidance and support has generally inspired me to act during my studies at Washington sincerely, and to live a healthy, taken to get to know me and all of University in St. Louis. Being wholesome life. It’s continually the energy you have put in to the Danforth Scholars program. I still part of the Danforth scholars amazing to see someone who program was instrumental during can execute the smallest details remember meeting you during my college years, introducing me of life so thoughtfully, and who finalist weekend and talking with to a fellowship of other serious (I imagine) is happier as a result. you at the dinner at your house. It academically minded students with Thank you for doing so much to was so great to know that I would a strong commitment to service. I make the university the wonderful have a support system at WashU, am now a teacher in Arlington, place it is for us freshmen now. and you really influenced my VA and work with a local church You have made WashU feel like a decision to attend. The Danforth ministry. I hope I can share some welcoming home, rather than just program has been so lucky to have another college.” you, and we will miss you so much. of the things I learned, in turn, with new students. Best wishes Karthik Rohatgi, Class of 2018 Thank you again and I wish you all on your retirement and thank you the best in the future.” so much for your dedication and Caroline Clark, Class of 2015 service to the university.” Jonathan Muehlke, Class of 2007

“It’s difficult to summarize in one note how much you have meant to all of us in the program. The word ‘guidance’ is really only a faint shadow of what you give to your students. The inspiration of a leader, the support of a mother, and the welcoming of a caregiver is just part of what you have imparted to each person that comes through the door. Much of what I have today is due to the Danforth Program and to your work. Best of luck with retirement and many hopes to see you again soon! ” Mark Partridge, Class of 2009

“Hi Dean Stahl, I just wanted “Thank you, Dean Stahl, for to say thank you so much for your dedication to the Danforth making the Danforth program program and its very fortunate so special. As I’ve grown and group of scholars. I attended experienced the Danforth WashU because of the Danforth program in more contexts (Finalist Scholarship, and that decision has Weekend, Minnewanca, Christmas made all of the difference in my celebrations, the Spring Break life. I will forever be grateful to Service Trip) I’ve always been you, the Danforth family, Brian, impressed by the true, honest, and the greater Danforth scholars kindness that Danforth scholars community. Thank you for all show. There are a lot of people you have done. Have a fabulous pleasers in the world and at WashU, and relaxing retirement. Please but the Danforths are not among let me know if you are ever them. Obviously this is by design. in Washington, D.C. I will be However, no application process practicing law there beginning this can ensure that only kind, genuine fall and would love to see you. “ souls are chosen for a program. Erin Thimmesch, Class of 2012 People need an example. For the Danforths that example has been you. So thank you, for showing us all how to be truly good people with truly good souls. You’re kindness and honest empathy will be missed. P.S. Shout out to Doctor Danforth, too. You da man!” Jake McNichol, Class of 2016

“I’m very grateful for everything you did to make the Danforth Scholars feel welcome, important, and cared for at WashU. Your mentorship ensured that I was part of a tight-knit community from day one, which made a world of difference as I was finding my way in college. I will always be grateful for your guidance; she played a major role in ensuring my experience at WashU was a rich one.” Kevin Carlberg, Class of 2005

“The experiences and relationships from the Danforth program ended up being by far the most valuable part of my education. However, your role was so much more than just leading the program. The way you personally cared about each of us, got to know us as unique individuals, and supported us through good times and bad meant so much more. Thank you SO much for your strong leadership and genuine care, and I hope you have a wonderful retirement. You have earned it!” Dallas Wells, Class of 1999

“Thank you so much for really helping me find my voice at Wash U and for making my time here so meaningful.” Ethan Fraser, Class of 2016 “Thanks so much for your kindness and support—I know your guidance and warmth have helped me become the person I am today.” Chase Sackett, Class of 2010 “I have fond memories of the love that always exuded from you. You made WashU a homey place just when I needed it most!” Josie Kressner, Class of 2008 “Dean Stahl, if there is one thing I am sure of, it’s that I will never be able to express how much you mean to me. The support that you gave freely over my three years, the absolute safety that I felt when I talked to you, and the time you took when you did not have another second, these are things I will always keep. My favorite birthday was spent at your house, when you all sang and we all ate cake. Truly one of the best memories. You gave me strength when I had very little, and I strive every day to show others this same support you showed me. I love you and will miss you.” Kara Skjoldager, Class of 2016 “Dean Stahl, you supported me through one of the scariest transitions of my life. You brought me education, companions, colleagues, and a career. Your example of scholarship, openness, and gentle kindness touched my life. Thank you so much for loving all of us! We love you too!” Cameron Ball, Class of 2010 “Dear Dean Stahl, it was a pleasure to get to know you during my years at WashU. Thank you so much for making the Danforth Program possible. Best wishes for your next chapter.” Deniz Oran, Class of 2007

“Dear Dean Stahl, from Miniwanca to graduation, thank you for being such a big part of my Washington University experience. Sometimes all I needed to get through a tough day were your kind words or stopping by the Women’s Building or Cupples II for a hug. Wishing you and Dr. Stahl the best in the next step on your journey!” Dylan Simonsen, Class of 2014 “Dean Stahl, your ability to wrap students in love and support was such an important part of my experience at WashU. You are able to see the strength of each student and foster their passion and very best self. You helped me realize that being a Danforth Scholar was not just a four year experience in St. Louis but a lifetime commitment to the world around me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.” Samantha Kalish, Class of 2010 “Dearest Dean Stahl, my experience at WashU and as a Danforth Scholar wouldn’t have been the same without you! Thank you for everything! You are truly one of the kindest, most caring, and compassionate people I know, and you have touched the lives of many. I wish you all the best. Please keep in touch!” Lainie Turkish, Class of 2009 “Dear Dean Stahl, you were the best part of my Wednesdays in the Women’s Building going to dance class. Knowing you’d be there, if only to pop my head in and say hi was one of the things that made WashU feel like home. Thank you for everything you did for us. I have the greatest friends and memories from WashU because you thought that I was deserving of something which I can only describe as one of the biggest blessings in my life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.” Sam King, Class of 2012 “Dear Dean Stahl, congratulations on your well deserved retirement this year. Justin and I sincerely want to thank you for all you have done for us and the Danforth program. We wish you all the best in your future endeavors. We will miss you!” Madison Blau, Class of 2016

“Dearest Dean Stahl, Congratulations on your retirement! What a wonderful occasion, and I am delighted to contribute to this album to commemorate your commitment to Washington University and the Danforth Scholars Program. Your retirement is so well deserved. After the dedication that you have provided to your community, it must be so exciting to be able to focus on yourself and your family. I am sure you hear it frequently, but please let me echo the words of my friends and former classmates, that my time at Washington University was exceptional and that my experience as a Danforth Scholar made a tremendous impact on my life, both personally and professionally. I love that the program held service in such high esteem—its commitment to “personal integrity, selflessness, a commitment to community, and a dedication to leadership and academic excellence.” As an international public health worker, every day I continue to live out this mission statement, providing leadership and vision to ensure that people around the world, in the hardest-to-reach places, have access to health care services regardless of ability to pay. While I certainly was committed to service before matriculating to Washington University, my time there as a Danforth Scholar reinforced this passion and I am forever grateful for this opportunity. Though it has been many years, I fondly remember seeing your kind and smiling face around campus, whether it be at weekly seminars during freshman year, delicious dinner events you graciously hosted at your home, or simply walking around the beautiful flower-lined paths on main campus or the South 40. Comforting moments like those made me feel so integrated, so at home at Washington University, and so proud to be a member of its community. Thank you, Dean Stahl, for welcoming me into this community. You are remarkable and appreciated and I wish you absolutely the best going forward.” Sarah Laaff, Class of 2007

“Thank you for letting me live out my dream. You always have been there to reassure me that I do belong here and that no matter what happens, this community is a place I can call home. ” Katherine Story, Class of 2018

“Dear Dean Stahl, I’ll miss you “Thank you so much for the time lots, but I know I will also carry and effort you invested in the Danforth Scholars and in me. I your patience, understanding, and couldn’t have enjoyed WUSTL as humor with me as I move from much as I did without you. You’ll St. Louis to wherever my life will be far more than missed in the take me. Thank you for everything you’ve done in my undergraduate community, I am sure. I hope career, in the years you’ve been a to write more personal letters in part of Wash U, and for reminding the future as my life in medical us of our own selves, at our very school begins and progresses. For best, all the time. Hugs and best now, know that your unwavering wishes for the future!” compassion has been one of the first and greatest happinesses of my Vivian Zhu, Class of 2015 college career and my adult life.” Ian Suiter, Class of 2014

“Dean Stahl, thank you so much for leading by example every day. Your humility, unconditional kindness, and intrinsic motivation to make our community better are characteristics that would be hard to teach traditionally, but I feel that you have taught me about them in every interaction we have had. Thank you and thank you to Dr. Stahl for all of the individual moments in which you chose to spend your time helping us become our own selves, at our very best, at all times. I look up to you immensely. Best wishes for the next phase in your life! ” Kathryn Reynolds, Class of 2015

“Dear Dean Stahl, thank you “No combination of words could so much for being the core of ever do justice to how amazing you my wonderful experience as a are. My life has undoubtedly been Danforth Scholar and as a student changed for the better because of at WashU. You make me feel at my knowing you, and for that I home even though I’m 8,000 miles am forever grateful. From running away, and walking into you on the scholarship program that has campus always makes my day. Your completely defined my college support, guidance, and affection experience to being there with have helped me grow as a person, a hug during spontaneous onand I will sincerely miss being a campus run-ins, you are always the smiling face and word of minute’s walk away from you.” encouragement that helps make Arjun Gandhi, Class of 2017 me a better friend, community member, and person. Thank you for everything you’ve done for me. Love you, Dean Stahl!” Bonner Williams, Class of 2016

“Dean Stahl, you gave me an amazing opportunity, and I am certain that it has drastically altered my entire life’s trajectory. You have always been so kind and understanding, and although I’ve only been here a year I can’t imagine the program without you. You lifted me up.” Devin Daugherty, Class of 2018

“Dear Dean Stahl, I am so incredibly grateful for the kindness, patience, and care you have shown me. You and the Danforth family have inspired me to challenge myself everyday to be my very best, and to always show others trust and love. Thank you for helping me become the confident and loving person I am today. Enjoy your retirement – you deserve it! And know that you will be greatly missed by the Danforth and WashU community. Thanks for everything.” Reagan Lauder, Class of 2014

“Dean Stahl! Thank you for all that you did to make my experience as WashU as meaningful, formative and special as it was. When you greeted me on the first day of my WashU journey, I knew that I was at a special place. I remember how you made me feel when I first stepped on campus. I felt like I already had a family here, and I did. I can think of so many examples of how you made me feel comfortable and welcome and cared for during my four years on campus, and I am so grateful for that. Going to your office or seeing you around school or having dinner at your home was always such a great experience for me—whatever I needed, you were able to help me out. Whether I needed to talk through a problem, wanted to share an accomplishment or just needed a hug, you were there for me. Thank you so much for all you have done for our Danforth Scholars family. You were such an important part of my WashU experience, and I know that is true for countless others. We have all been so fortunate to have had you be such a big part of our lives. Wishing you all the best in your next step!” Martin Mintz, Class of 2011

“Thank you for everything you have done. You have made the Danforth program become such an important part of all our lives.” Jessie Kurz, Class of 2018

“Thank you, Dean Stahl! Good luck and best wishes for a wonderful retirement! ” Allie Altholz, Class of 2011

“Thank you for being such an amazing advisor and mentor. We will miss you greatly!” Dennis Rim, Class of 2016

“Dear Dean Stahl, I wish you a happy and relaxing retirement, and I wish so much that I could be there in St. Louis to see you now! I am sending you all my love from Sydney, and I remember every day in this city that I would not have this amazing opportunity if it weren’t for you and everything you do for us Danforths. You are an incredible human, and I feel so blessed to have entered the Danforth community with you guiding us. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your patience, your willingness to help and your compassion that has led this campus in the past few months. I hope that you have the most wonderful travels ahead of you, and that you can visit WashU once in awhile. Thank you, so much. For everything.” Jesse Yang, Class of 2016

“Thank you for just being the best.” Liam O’Donnell, Class of 2017

“Dear Dean Stahl, thank you for making the Danforth community my family, and WashU my home. I’ll always remember freshman year convocation. On your way out, in front of all the thousands of people, you stopped to give me a hug and a kiss. I had only met you a few times and that moment started off my WashU experience in such a special way. I’ve so very much enjoyed all the wonderful and cozy dinners at your house, and I don’t know what other administrative figure would let themselves be pressured into taking a picture squirreling not only one time but multiple times. Your presence will be dearly missed next year on campus, but your spirit is instilled within the Danforth community. Thank you for everything you have done for us and all of campus. Enjoy your next adventure!!!” Rachel Prensky-Pomeranz, Class of 2016

“Thank you for being so many things to so many students over the years! You were such a wonderful example of a strong female presence in an often male-dominated work culture. You maintained your poise and grace while commanding respect from all of your peers. As I continue in my life and professional career I still look to you as an example of how to do it all. Your kind words and welcoming spirit made the transition to college from a small farm town much easier and you gave me the confidence to feel like I belonged. Thank you for everything you have done for me and for so many others like me. ” Kylie McElveen, Class of 2006

“Dear Dean Stahl, I remember when I first met you, as a prospective student in March 2012, you greeted me, as you always would, with an inviting, warm hug. At first, I remember feeling a little surprised that this scholarly dean was hugging 18-year-old prospective students that she had never met before. But maybe that was a ‘normal college thing’, I tried to justify. I soon realized that it was very much not a ‘normal college thing’, but rather a ‘special WashU thing.’ Your warm embrace would come to symbolize for me not only the importance the Danforth community, but also the family community at WashU. During sad and challenging times, when our Danforth family needed you most, you were always there for us, waiting with open arms. You would be willing to drop all your important obligations, which seemed like they numbered in the hundreds of thousands (maybe millions), to cater to our every need. And during festive and happy times, you would be the first one to sing our praises and congratulate us. Whether it’s your frequent dinner invites, your friendly smile, or your inviting hugs as we would pass each other through campus, I always felt like you treated me as more than just a student. I was a friend, a mentee, a son (notice how I didn’t say grandson!). You wanted to get to know me, and the rest of the students, by name, and by story. I remember, when I returned to Camp Miniwanca as a Junior this past year, I tried to pass on what it means to live as a Danforth, just like so many of the older counselors had shared with me. It’s about being humble, yet confident. It’s about being a kind and genuine person. It’s about being determined to be a positive impact in the community. It’s about striving to be my own self, at my very best, all the time. It’s about living like Dean Stahl. At the center of our Danforth community, you have stood, and your spirit is something that I try to embody each and every day.” Ian Lever, Class of 2016 83

“My first interaction with you was when I was pulled out of my AP English class and told that a Dean from WashU had called and needed to speak with me immediately. I had already applied and been accepted to WashU early decision and was absolutely terrified that something terrible had happened. I thought maybe for some reason my offer of admission had been withdrawn or something bad was going to happen, because why on earth would a Dean be calling me? I walked down to my college counselor’s office and called the Dean back. You answered and said, “I’m going to make this really quick because I’m at a traffic light and don’t want to be pulled over! You’ve been selected as an alternate for the Danforth Scholars Program and we’ll be flying you out next weekend!” I was so excited! You seemed so friendly and obviously I was ecstatic that I had the opportunity to get a scholarship. That following weekend at WashU was everything I wanted it to be and more. You were so welcoming and made me feel like WashU was a home that I already had. Throughout my time at WashU, you have continued to make sure that was the case. Even when my freshman year turned out to be much more difficult than I expected and I ended the year having no clue what I was going to do with my future, you were right there to help guide my way. You assured me that, no matter what, everything would work out in the end and that you would be there to support me the entire time. You, as always, were right. Each semester you checked in on me and always offered guidance when you could. You even offered to let me stay at your house when my roommate troubles seemed like they would be too much to handle. No matter what difficulties I faced, you were always there with a warm heart and open arms. You definitely give one of the best hugs ever, hands down. Dean Stahl, you have been one of the most influential people I’ve met at WashU and I can’t imagine how my life would be if I had not met you. Thank you for everything that you have done for me, and the WashU community as a whole. I do not think that this community would be the same without you. You’ve inspired me to “be my own self, at my very best, all the time” because I truly believe that you embody this motto. I wish you the best in your future endeavors and hope that our paths may cross again!” Sheridan Frank, Class of 2015 86

“Thank you for answering my phone call after I walked out on my first physics exam. Thank you for everything. Your presence was a gift to your scholars and you will be missed.” Amelia Hetherington, Class of 2012 “Dear Dean Stahl, congratulations on this new chapter and wishing you all of the best! Thank you so much for all you’ve done for me, the Danforth Scholars program, and the entire WashU community. You made the Danforth Scholars an incredibly close community and special part of each of our lives. You have played such a tremendous and influential role in shaping my and all of my colleagues’ lives and inspiring each of us to live our lives at our own best, all the time. We are so appreciative of all of your kindness and guidance and we think of you often!” Julie Rosenfeld, Class of 2009 “Dean Stahl, I feel very fortunate to have had the opportunity to get to know you during my time at WashU. I will always remember your generosity of time and support in our academic careers. Your care and attention to us all made each one of the scholars feel so at home while on campus. Enjoy your grandkids and your retirement!” Geoffrey Salvatore, Class of 2007 “Dean Stahl, I can’t put into words what you and the Dan-fam have done for me. Thank you so much for always being such a kind and generous presence in my life these past two years. It’s been so incredible having someone as inspiring and thoughtful as you really shape my WashU experience. From the moment I stepped off that shuttle to WashU and you knew my name and all about me, I was so blessed to have someone as caring as you in my life. Thank you for all the times you thoughtfully hosted us in your beautiful home. You are such an incredible person and I’m going to miss you, my wonderful and unexpected encounters with you in the DUC and around campus, but I also know that I’ll be seeing you often!” Lauren Berger, Class of 2017

“Thank you for being here for us these last four years!” Cristina Clow, Class of 2015 “Dean Stahl, you’re my second mother—there’s no other way to say it. Thanks for keeping me in line, helping me grow up, being my sounding board, and— of course—getting me up in the morning! You could never appreciate all you’ve done for me. Thanks for everything. You’re a true role model.” Andy Flick, Class of 2009 “Dear Dean Stahl, thank you so much for being the heart and soul of the Danforth Scholars for so many years. My experience at WashU would have been completely different if it hadn’t begun with the wonderful and reflective Miniwanca trip and multiple dinners at your lovely home. I am so grateful to have met you when you came to visit my school when I was a junior and even more privileged and downright lucky to have the pleasure to be in the Danforth scholars program spearheaded by you for these past two years. Thank you for embracing us all with open arms and an open heart and for truly embodying the spirit of kindness, compassion, consideration, character, and strength that is WashU. I know you will always be the heart of the Danforth scholars, our grandmotherly-mascot of sorts, and we will always keep you in our hearts too. I can’t thank you enough for the impact you have made on my WashU career and for the impact you have made on me as a person. I hope to always uphold the values and true character of the Danforth Scholars wherever I go. Thank you so much for your guidance, your understanding, your nurturing, your devotion, and your love.” Kristen Koyanagi, Class of 2017

“Dear Dean Stahl, you were an empowering presence from the moment I met you. My parents still remember your phone call when I was in high school and found out I received a Danforth scholarship. They still ask about you, and I reply that I am sure you are continuing to brighten the lives of so many people, young and old. Now that I am 32 I realize just how rare people like you are in the world. You evoked a sense of the importance of family and groundedness in addition to the importance of doing good, hard work. As life gets more and more hectic, I often return to Dinners at Dean Stahl’s house—the first time I was away from home, feeling very lost—and yet feeling so immediately welcomed because of your warmth. Thank you for all that you are, and for all you have given to me and so many others. May you enjoy your next adventures to the fullest!!” Anne Clark Baker, Class of 2004 “Your passion and dedication have been such an inspiration to me. Thank you for your guidance, care, support and, of course, hugs!” Megan Nicklay, Class of 2017 “Dear Dean Stahl, couldn’t imagine my Wash U experience without you. The course of my life was changed for the better that night you called to tell me I was a Danforth finalist! Congratulations on a beautiful legacy! A million thanks yous and best wishes.” Carmi Cioni, Class of 2013

BOOK OF GRATITUDE FOR DEAN SHARON STAHL

â&#x20AC;˘ With love from the Washington University Danforth Scholars