The Promise Mar-Apr 2013 by Abel Montoya

Promise The

HOLY TRINITY GREEK ORTHODOX CHURCH WESTFIELD ^ NEW JERSEY

Mar.-Apr. 2013 ^ Volume 37, Issue 2

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Great Lent 2013 ■ THE REVEREND PETER DELVIZIS My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, reat Lent is that period in the life of the Church where the Christian is asked to enhance his relationship with Jesus Christ. Through certain spiritual exercises or askesis, we develop a stronger bond with Him and our fellow spiritual sojourners.

The word askesis comes from a Greek verb which means to exercise, to strive, or to contend with the dedication of an athlete. Askesis can be translated as “spiritual discipline,” “spiritual striving” or “spiritual training.” Listen to the words of St. Paul when he describes spiritual discipline: Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may obtain it. And everyone who competes for the prize is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a perishable crown, but we for an imperishable crown. Therefore I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus I fight: not as one who beats the air. But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection… - 1 Corinthians 9:24-27 The essence of askesis involves the struggle in our hearts between good and evil, God and Satan, the Kingdom and the world. Its prize is the new life in Christ. Its principles are the teachings of Christ. Its power is the grace of Christ experienced especially in the Eucharist and in personal prayer. Askesis is for all, not only for monastics. Each Christian is called to be a spiritual athlete who with his whole mind, heart and actions contends, within himself, family, and community, for the supreme priority of the Kingdom, believing that all the other necessary things will be given to us as well as by God. The tools of askesis that the Church presents to us are: prayer, fasting, almsgiving and confession. When used these tools provide spiritual growth by exercising the soul and by subduing the bodily passions. It amazes me how often a person can so carefully follow a doctor’s prescription for health and healing, yet not even consider the Church’s prescription for such. It is as if knowledge is totally absent from the fact that no medical miracle has ever kept someone alive in perpetuity. While the medical community is at a loss how to accomplish this, the Church refers us to the true Physician of

our souls and bodies. Our connection w it h t he d iv i ne life insures that we receive immortality from Christ. Thus, by following the spiritual discipline established by the Church, the faithf ul Christian will encounter Jesus C h r i st a nd m a ke provisions for the next life. For if you live according to the flesh you will die; but if you live by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body [the passions], you will live. – Romans 8:13 Lent is a grand journey that is therapeutic in nature. It is unfortunate that many do not seek the spiritual improvements offered during Great Lent. There are far too many whose passions make them sick, obese, and spiritually weak as they eat and drink their way to ruination. The spiritual couch-potato misses, time and again, the sacred training classes held every other day in the church during Great Lent for the healing and strengthening of soul. My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, strengthening comes through conditioning, regardless of whether we speak of physical or spiritual increase. A couch-potato may desire good health but unless you pick yourself up and go, improvement remains a dream that never materializes. Laziness dissolves intention through the thin air of excuses. I ask that together we form a troupe of spiritually health-minded people. Great Lent is the period of instruction calling each of us to askesis. On March 18, let us take on the spiritual disciplines so that we may celebrate Pascha with the stamina of the worthy. ^

Wait for the promise of the Father

Dates in the Life of Our Church March - April

SAT

Saturday of Souls 8:30 AM Orthros 9:30 AM Divine Liturgy 11:00 AM Baptism 7:00 PM Art Show

SUN

Cheesefare Sunday 8:15 AM Orthros 9:30 AM Divine Liturgy 11:45 AM Art Show / Jr. Greek Dance 12:00 PM Scout Meeting

MON

WED

MON

WED

THUR

FRI

4:00 PM Greek School

FRI

7:00 PM Akathist Hymn

22 SAT

23 SUN

7:30 PM Choir Practice / Sr. Greek Dance

Saturday of Souls 9:00 AM Divine Liturgy Sunday of Orthodoxy 8:30 AM Orthros 9:30 AM Divine Liturgy 11:45 AM Jr. Greek Dance 7:00 PM Great Vespers @ Evangelismos in Jersey City

MON

The Annunciation 8:15 AM Orthros 9:30 AM Divine Liturgy

WED

10:00 AM TOTs 7:00 PM Presanctiﬁed Liturgy 8:30 PM Theosis

THUR

4:00 PM Greek School 7:30 PM Choir Practice / Sr. Dance Practice

TUE

THUR

11 FRI

12 SUN

14 TUE

16 WED

THUR

8:30 AM Orthros

4:00 PM Greek School 6:30 PM Lenten Vespers

10:00 AM TOTs 7:00 PM Presanctiﬁed Liturgy 4:00 PM Greek School 7:30 PM Choir / Sr. Greek Dance 7:00 PM Akathist Hymn 8:15 PM Cultural Committee Event 8:15 AM Orthros 9:30 AM Divine Liturgy 11:00 AM Trinity Circle 7:30 PM NNJYC 10:00 AM TOTs 7:00 PM Presanctiﬁed Liturgy 4:00 PM Greek School 7:30 PM Choir / Sr. Greek Dance 7:00 PM Akathist Hymn

SUN

8:30 AM Orthros

MON

SUN

8:15 AM Orthros

12:00 PM Parish Oratorical Festival

Sunday of the Holy Cross

FRI

9:00 AM Quiltathon

9:30 AM Divine Liturgy

7:00 PM Akathist Hymn

8:30 PM Theosis

SAT

11:45 AM Jr. Greek Dance

WED

FRI

7:30 PM Choir / Sr. Greek Dance

7:30 PM Parish Council

4:30 PM Greek School / Independence Day Celebration

7:00 PM Philoptochos Board Meeting

7:00 PM Akathist Hymn

8:30 PM Theosis

11:45 AM Jr. Greek Dance

8:30 PM Theosis THUR

7:00 PM Presanctiﬁed Liturgy

9:30 AM Divine Liturgy

6:00 PM Great Compline 7:00 PM Presanctiﬁed Liturgy

7:00 PM Choir Practice

SUN

Great Lent Begins 10:00 AM TOTs

6:00 PM Great Compline

9:30 AM Divine Liturgy 11:45 AM Jr. Greek Dance

22 WED

6:00 PM Great Compline 10:00 AM TOTs 7:00 PM Presanctiﬁed Liturgy 8:30 PM Theosis

Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church ^ Westfield, New Jersey

Holy Week & Paschal Schedule - See page 3

The True Meaning of Lent

reat Lent is a liturgical cycle in the life of the Church whose days are forty in number from before the commencement of Holy Week. Lent is the period of time for self-examination by the believer; of putting on the spiritual armor of the Militant Church; of applying the riches of prayers and almsgiving; of adopting deeply the meaning of repentance; of atonement and reconciliation with God Almighty. This forty day period of Lent is a period of abstinence from foods, but primarily from personal iniquities. Abstinence from foods (fasting) alone is a means of attaining virtue; it is not an end in itself. During the period of Great Lent one makes a special attempt to evaluate his calling as a Christian; to listen to the voice of the Gospel and heed its commandments; to accept the constant invitation to enter Christ’s Kingdom. It is an open invitation to everyone willing to enter; who believes in Christ and repents his iniquities; who makes an “about face” directly to Christ. This holy period awakens a man’s spirit through inspiration from Jesus Christ. All of these steps must have genuine personal meaning to avoid becoming merely a habit or empty ritual.

THE MEANING OF THE SUNDAY LITURGIES DURING LENT MARCH 24 - FIRST SUNDAY OF LENT - SUNDAY OF ORTHODOXY (JOHN 1:43-52).

This Sunday commemorates the return of the Icons into the churches, according to the decision of the Seventh Ecumenical Synod (787). The Church determined that this celebration would take place each year on the first Sunday of Lent, as the Sunday of Orthodoxy, starting March 11, 843. On this Sunday every year the triumph of the faith of Orthodoxy is celebrated with ceremony. The Icon of Christ, according to St. John Damascus, is a distinct affirmation and a reminder of the fact of His Incarnation, which has a vital significance for the salvation of the faithful, an affi rmation which prevails to this day in the Orthodox Church. The celebration of the day includes the procession with the Icon of Christ around the inside of the church with pomp and reverence. The Sunday of Orthodoxy calls upon the people to rededicate themselves to the deep meaning of their faith and to declare in unison, “One Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all”.

MARCH 31 - SECOND SUNDAY OF LENT - ST. GREGORY PALAMAS (MARK 2:1-12).

This Sunday commemorates the life of St. Gregory Palamas (14th century). The Church dedicates this Sunday to St. Gregory for his orthodox faith, theological knowledge, virtuous life, miracles and his efforts to clarify the orthodox teaching on the subject of Hesychasm (from the Greek, meaning quietness.) Hesychasm was a system of mysticism propagated on Mt. Athos by 14th century monks who believed that man was able, through an elaborate system of ascetic practices based upon perfect quiet of body and mind, to arrive at the vision of the divine light, with the real distinction between the essence and the operations of God. Gregory was dedicated to an ascetic life of prayer and fasting, which are practices of Lent. APRIL 7 - THIRD SUNDAY OF LENT ADORATION OF THE CROSS (MARK 8:3438; 9:1).

This Sunday commemorates the venerable Cross and the Crucifi xion of Jesus Christ. The Cross as such takes on meaning and adoration because of the Crucifi xion of Christ upon it. Therefore, whether it be in hymns or prayers, it is understood that Pag. 6

HOLY AND GREAT WEEK & PASCHAL SCHEDULE - 2013 APRIL 27 • SATURDAY OF LAZARUS 8:45 AM Orthros 9:30 AM Divine Liturgy 10:30 AM Tying of Palms APRIL 28 • PALM SUNDAY 8:30 AM Orthros 9:30 AM Divine Liturgy 7:00 PM The Bridegroom Service APRIL 29 • HOLY MONDAY 7:00 PM The Bridegroom Service APRIL 30 • HOLY TUESDAY 9:30 AM Liturgy of the Presanctiﬁed Gifts 7:00 PM The Bridegroom Service & Hymn of Kassiani MAY 1 • HOLY WEDNESDAY 3:00 PM Sacrament of Holy Unction 7:00 PM Sacrament of Holy Unction

MAY 2 • HOLY THURSDAY

9:30 AM Divine Liturgy of the Mystical Supper 7:00 PM The Holy Passion of our Lord Jesus Christ,

The Twelve Gospels and the Cruciﬁxion

MAY 3 • GREAT & HOLY FRIDAY

9 AM-3 PM Church open for the the Veneration of The Cross 9:30 AM Imperial Hours 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM Youth Lenten Retreat 3:00 PM Apokathelosis, Unnailing & Descent

from the Cross and Burial of Christ 7:00 PM The Lamentation Service at the Epitaphios

MAY 4 • HOLY SATURDAY 9:30 AM Vesperal Divine Liturgy 11:00 PM Resurrection Vigil & Paschal Divine Liturgy MAY 5 • SUNDAY THE GREAT & HOLY PASCHA 11:00 AM Agape Vespers The Promise ^ Mar.-Apr. 2013 ^ Volume 37, Issue 2

St. Theonas of Thessaloniki

Holy Trinity’s Special Saint

o you know why this Saint is so special? His name is St. Theonas of Thessaloniki and he lives at Holy Trinity. The Altar Table at Holy Trinity has a special enclosed section that contains the holy relics of St. Theonas of Thessaloniki. The church celebrates his life and repose in the Lord on April 4. Join the family of Holy Trinity as we remember him with a Presanctified Liturgy on Wednesday night, April 3. Holy T heona s , ou r venerable and God-bearing father, lived during the 16th Century. He was a son of the “Father of Lights”. – [James1:17] He was the builder, leader, and teacher of the revered Monastery of St. Anastasia of Rome a nd Me d ic a l He a le r (Farmakolytria, built in 1522, near Thessaloniki, Halkidiki, Greece; whose relics also are contained in the Holy Altar Table.) He became the most holy chief shepherd of Thessaloniki and Thessa ly. He was the boast of ascetics, the adornment of hierarchs, and the preeminent pride of all the Christians. From when he hailed on earth or who his parents might be or how came to be the hierarch of Thessaloniki, neither oral nor written tradition has bequeathed to us that information. Since the self-effacing Theonas loathed with all his soul earthly honor and status, he disclosed to no one either the identity of his homeland or his family. Although it is often said that he was also called by the name Lesvios, it is uncertain whether he was born from that island or rather a great spiritual confessor from there. Though we do not know his earthly city of birth, yet certainly he is a citizen of the “heavenly Jerusalem” – [Heb. 12:22] Much of what we know from his life and times has been mentioned in the life of the venerable Martyr Iakovos the New, who struggled on the Holy Mountain, in that place above Iveron Monastery known today as the Skete of the Hornorable Forerunner. Therein, it is written that our Holy Father Theonas was adorned with the dignity of the priesthood. He first dwelt at the Athonite Monastery of Pantocrator. He loved the habit of collecting prosphora and other edibles, which he took with him on visits to Father Iakovos. Not much time passed before Iakovos received martyrdom from the cruel orders of Sultan Selim (15121520). Before the sultan in Adrianoupolis, Iakovos gloriously triumphant over the tortures he received and took his repose on November 1, 1520. The saint’s body was taken to Simonopetra which was a small monastery on Mt. Athos at the time. The monastery housed

many precious relics and to the collection was added St. Iakovos the New Martyr. Larger buildings were needed for the relics as well as the many visitors who came to venerate them. Over 150 monks were gathered but St. Theonas was selected to lead the building project. Soon Theonas spiritual discernment and virtue were sufficiently equal to that of his teacher, St. Iakovos. Father Theonas set up a routine and monastic rule of the monastery. His disciples conducted their lives according to the ascetic rules handed down by St. Basil the Great. He would always strength his disciples through his words and actions. The saint had as his standard of living those words from the Gospel, which says, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength. And though shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. – Mark 12:30-31. His fulfilment of these two great commandments were demonstrated as follows: when he was in his ascetical retreat, he conversed with God and was inflamed with love for Him; and when he was in the midst of his disciples and spiritual children, he always exhibited and felt genuine love. Thus, he came to perfection by means of those two commandments upon which hang all the law and the prophets. – Mt. 22:40 After a revelation f rom a d iv i ne angel, Theonas was elected met ropol it a n after 1535 A.D. When the saint had become the hierarch of T hessa lonik i and all Thessaly, he desi re d to rescue as many C h r i st i a n s a s possible from the noetic wolves, in which endeavour he displayed himself to be a genuine disciple of t he C h iefshepherd Christ. His fame abounds but because of his humility no other testimonies other than his thrice-blessed sanctity exist. God attests to the saint’s status after his repose. His relics are splendid and deep colored as saffron. Fragrance wafts from the relics that have proved to energize and work miracles. His name alone invokes wonders. He is the dwelling place of the Holy Spirit and most pleasing to God. He showed himself even in death as a vessel that entirely is fi lled with divine grace. From his relics, the Church confesses him to be a saint most holy. His incorrupt relics may be venerated at the Monastery of St. Anastasia which he founded near Thessaloniki and here at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church. ^

Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church ^ Westfield, New Jersey

Philoptochos ■ AVI KIRIAKATIS, PRESIDENT

To aid the poor, the aged, the hungry, the needy, and the sick through charitable works performed with discretion, courtesy, and kindness.

Philoptochos 2013

he Ladies Philoptochos Society looks forward to a great New Year in 2013. We seek to treat ill children, aid the fragile elderly, assist students, offer friendship to the lonely and forgotten, support our men and women in uniform overseas and provide kindness to many more. The faithful stewards of Philoptochos express their love and dedication by practicing the beautiful lessons of our Lord. The women of our great Society wholeheartedly resolve with deeper promise and renewed spirit to aid and embrace those in need utilizing their collective resources. Let us embrace the gift of life and multiply our efforts to serve our brothers and sisters in Christ. May you and your families receive the blessings of the Lord, as He guides us to live our lives appropriately and to assume responsibility on behalf of those in need. The work we do in Christ’s Name goes to support many charitable organizations, needy families, and various research foundations in addition to the many requests we receive throughout the year. Last year through our various fund raisers we were able to distribute approximately $52,000.

Purchase of Philoptochos Center of Philanthropy

ith the blessings of His Eminence Archbishop Demetrios, the support of National Philoptochos Board, Philoptochos Chapters, and individuals nationwide, the Greek Orthodox Ladies Philoptochos Society purchased its permanent home, the Philoptochos Center of Philanthropy at 126 East 37th Street in New York City on Tuesday, November 27, 2012. The five story townhouse originally constructed in 1898 is located in the Murray Hill Historic District between Park and Lexington Avenues and consists of both professional space and residential units. Now our 81 year old Philoptochos Society will continue and expand efforts to help those in need.

Philoptochos Membership Drive & Vasilopita Luncheon

e would like to encourage all women in our community 18 years and over to become members of Philoptochos during our Membership Drive, January through April. This year the Vasilopita Luncheon celebration was outstanding with over 320 participants. Everyone came out to welcome the Children of St. Basil with Father Costa Sitaras and to honor and celebrate Irene Panagakos retirement of 26 years dedicated service to Holy Trinity - AXIA. Philoptochos raised over $4,700 for St. Basil Academy. We thank all who attended and especially our Co-chairs Nitsa Bruno, Janet O’Sullivan and their committee for this magnificent event!

Philoptochos Sixth Annual Fine Art & Photography Show

e begin our Art Show with wine & cheese art reception on Saturday, March 16 from 7:00 to 10:00 pm and Sunday, March 17th after Church services. We ask everyone to come out and visit the artists and see and purchase their beautiful art work. A portion of the art show will benefit the Hellenic Relief Foundation for needy Greek families. Co-chairs of art show are Nitsa Bruno and Avi Kiriakatis.

Quiltathon

any hands will be needed for the success of this Lenten project on Saturday, March 30th from 9-4:00 pm. Kindly sign up with Chairperson, Themis Ganifas and help us sew quilts for babies with aids.

Annual Fashion Show – “Radiance”

indly sign up to attend this beautiful event, Celebrating the Inner Beauty of Women, on Wednesday, May 15th at the Brooklake Country Club in Florham Park, Co-chaired by Debra Vlahakis and Kathy Maglaras.

A Word of Thanks

hank you to all who participated in the Christmas Card program. Special thank you to Cynthia Ladas and Mary Skiadas, Cochairs. The Bloomingdale Fashion Show, Chaired by Ellen Manos Athenson her committee and models, we express our deepest gratitude for an outstanding job. We thank Joanne Kallerges, Chairperson, and her committee for the delicious baked goods for our Home Bound parishioners letting them know they are always remembered and loved. This is a very loving and rewarding outreach. We thank Marina LoAlbo, Chairperson, and the Philoptochos VP for presenting a joyous evening of merriment at the Christmas Party. The representatives of YWCA of Eastern Union County for Battered Women were present and we donated $500.00 as well as many gifts for the battered women and their families. YWCA presented Philoptochos with a Thank You Certificate for outstanding support. On behalf of the Philoptochos Board and all the Philoptochos Members, we thank Father Peter and Father Gregory for their spiritual guidance and all the parishioners for their support. We wish our Holy Trinity Community a Happy and Healthy New Year.

Calendar of Events March 16-17, Saturday & Sunday - Art Show - Portion to benefit Hellenic Relief - Nitsa Bruno & Avi Kiriakatis Co-chairs March 30, Saturday - Babies Quiltathon - Bouras Center - Themis Ganifas, Chairperson May 15, Wednesday - Annual Fashion Show at Brooklake Country Club in Florham Park, NJ– Debbie Vlahakis and Kathy Maglaras Co-Chairs. ^ The Promise ^ Mar.-Apr. 2013 ^ Volume 37, Issue 2

SACRAMENTS & RITES CHURCHING Sun., Jan. 20 - Mikko (Michali) Son of Constantine & Maria Rose

Pg. 3 THE TRUE MEANING OF LENTEN

WEDDING Sat., February 16 Luigi Cicino & Joanna Polichronis

the Cross without Christ has no meaning or place in Christianity. The adoration of the Cross in the middle of Great Lent is to remind the faithful in advance of the Crucifixion of Christ. Therefore, the passages from the Bible and the hymnology refer to the Passions, the sufferings, of Jesus Christ: The passages read this day repeat the calling of the Christian by Christ to dedicate his life, for “If any man would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me (Christ)” (v. 34-35).

FUNERAL Sat., Dec. 29 - ^ John Dillon Jr.

APRIL 14 - FOURTH SUNDAY OF LENT - ST. JOHN OF THE CLIMACUS (MARK 9:17-31).

Thurs., Jan. 3 - ^ Louis Chergotis

This Sunday commemorates St. John of the Climacus (6th century) who is the writer of the book called The Ladder (climax) of Paradise. This book contains 30 chapters, with each chapter as a step leading up to a faithful and pious life as the climax of a Christian life. The spirit of repentance and devotion to Christ dominates the essence of this book, along with the monastic virtues and vices. He was an ascetic and writer on the spiritual life as a monk-abbot of Sinai Monastery. These steps of the ladder as set forth by St. John are to be practiced by the Christian especially during this period of the Great Lent. Each step leading to the top step of the ladder is the climactic essence of the true meaning of a Christian life.

BAPTISM Sun., Jan. 27 - Giavanna Rose Daughter of Constantine & Aurora Galaris Sun., Feb. 17 - Andreas Constantine Son of Constantine & Melissa Krikos

Sat., Jan. 19 - ^ Rigopoulos Halkias Sat., Jan. 20 - ^ Kelly Manos

NEW MEMBERS OF THE CHURCH Luigi & Joanna Cicino 25 Harpers Gateway Stouffville, Ontario L4A1P2 Canada Constantine & Aurora Galaris 415B Centennial Ave. Cranford, NJ 07016 Theresa Koliniatis 725 Walnut Ave. Cranford, NJ 07016 James & Christine Mastakas 2 Mack Dr. Hillsborough, NJ 08844

This Sunday commemorates the life of St. Mary of Egypt, who is a shining example of repentance from sin through prayer and fasting. She lived a sinful life for many years, but was converted to a Christian life. She went into the wilderness to live an ascetic life for many years, praying and fasting in repentance of her previous sinful life, and dying there. St. Mary’s life exemplifies her conviction about Christ, which motivated the changing of her life from sin to holiness through repentance.Her understanding of repentance involved not a mere change from small things in her life, but an extreme change of her entire attitude and thoughts. The Church commemorates St. Mary for her recognition of her own sins as an example of how one can free oneself from the slavery and burden of wrongdoings. This recognition of sin is imperative during Lent for the faithful as a means of self-examination and preparation for a more virtuous life in anticipation of the Crucifi xion and the Resurrection of Christ. Interestingly enough, although she lived her former life as a harlot, her new life in Christ changed her completely. Having given herself completely to divine pursuits, her forgiveness was so complete that the Church numbers her among the Holy Virgins. ^

TheÊ LentenÊ PrayerÊ ofÊ St.Ê EphraimÊ theÊ Syrian

Joseph & Maressa Musumeci 160 West 73rd St., #12D New York, NY 10023 Christos Pappas & Lisa Matsick 223 Bloomfield St., Apt 3C Hoboken, NJ 07030

APRIL 21 - FIFTH SUNDAY OF LENT - ST. MARY OF EGYPT (MARK 10:32-45).

Lord and Master of my life, cast away from me the spirit of sloth, idle curiosity, lust of power and vain talk. But give me, Your servant, the spirit of chastity, humility, patience, and love.

Evangelia Repousis 55 Gill Ln., #64 Iselin, NJ 08830

Yea, Lord and King,

Constantine & Maria Rose 352 Longview Dr. Mountainside, NJ 07082

For You are blessed

Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church ^ Westfield, New Jersey

grant me to see my own sins and not to judge my brother: unto the ages of ages. Amen. ^

Preparation for Holy Confession The Sacrament of God’s Forgiveness.

he gift of God’s forgiveness is received through private prayer, corporate worship, the discipline of fasting, charity and above all through the sacrament of Holy Confession. T he va lues of Holy Confession a re threefold. First, through this sacramental act of the ordained priest and the Christian believer, we have the assurance of divine forgiveness, according to the words of Christ. “If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven them; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained.” [John 20:23] Second, Holy Confession provides the opportunity to talk about one’s deepest concerns, and then to receive counsel and to be encouraged toward spiritual growth. Lastly, it is a time for the repentant to humble himself before the merciful God. Holy Confession is appropriate whenever an Orthodox Christian feels the need for it. It is also a part of our total spiritual preparation during fast periods leading up to the great feasts of Pascha, Christmas, the Dormition of the Theotokos and the Feast of the Twelve Apostles. However, Holy Confession is especially necessary when a serious sin has been committed, when habitual sin has overwhelmed a Christian or when a Christian has stopped growing spiritually and needs a reexamination of their priorities. We confess our sins to God and the power of forgiveness is God’s. However, the gift of God’s forgiveness, although assured, is not magical. It does not automatically spare us from spiritual struggle - the continual vigilance against evil and the unceasing warfare against sin. Holy Confession will bear fruits in the Spirit only when the believer hates evil, utterly rejects sin and patiently cultivates positive habits of the life in Christ. How can one prepare for Holy Confession? Preparation is a prayerful examination of feelings, thoughts, works, acts, attitudes, habits, values, priorities, goals, direction and way of life. Our entire existence should be lived in Christ. The goal of this sincere search of conscience under the light of the Holy

Spirit is to affirm our true selves in Christ. Pray and think about your confession over several days. Ask God to help you perceive your sins and make a thorough confession of them. Sometime before the sacrament of Holy Confession offer the following prayer of repentance:

“Oh Lord my God, I confess that I have sinned against You in thought, word and deed. I have also omitted to do what Your Holy Law requires of me. But now with repentance and contrition, I turn again to Your love and mercy. I entreat You to forgive me all my transgressions and to cleanse me from all my sins. Lord, fill my heart with the light of Your truth. Strengthen my will by Your grace. Teach me both to desire and to do only what pleases You. Amen.” Now, make a prayerful examination of your conscience regarding all things, reflecting on the Ten Commandments and the Beatitudes. Take paper and pencil and specify your sins so that you can make a thorough Confession, without confusion or lapse of memory.

The Ten Commandments I am the Lord your God and you shall have no other gods before Me.

Has God been the source, center and hope of my life? Have I put myself, others or things before God? Have I failed to trust in God’s existence, love and mercy?

You shall not make for yourself a graven image in order to worship it.

Have I valued anyone or anything above God? Have I given to anyone or anything the love, honor and worship that belongs to God alone? Have I made an idol of any person, idea, occupation or thing?

You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain.

Have I blasphemed God’s holy name in any way? Have I sworn a false oath? Have I broken any solemn vow or promise? Have I cursed or used foul language using the breath of my mouth that God’s intends to be holy?

Remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy.

Have I worshipped regularly on Sundays

and major feast days and have I helped others to do the same? Have I worked unnecessarily on Sundays or major feast days or caused others to do so? Have I spent the Lord’s day in wholesome and edifying ways?

Honor your father and mother.

Have I loved and respected my parents as I should? Have I neglected them or failed to help them? Have I disobeyed them or caused them pain by my words or deeds? Have I treated all my family members with patience and love?

You shall not kill.

Have I caused the harm, injury or death of anyone? Have I wished my own or anyone’s harm or death? Have I been cruel to animals or destroyed any life unnecessarily? Have I killed the spirit or enthusiasm of another by curt or offensive language?

You shall not commit adultery.

Have I committed any immoral acts alone or with others or caused others to do so? Have I committed immoral acts in my heart? Have I viewed pornography through image or written text?

You shall not steal.

Have I taken anything from anywhere that was not my own or caused others to do so? Have I cheated anyone, or damaged or destroyed things that are not mine? Have I paid my debts or given to the poor in proportion to my means? Have I withheld time, talent or treasury from Christ’s Church?

You shall not bear false witness.

Have I given false testimony against anyone, spoken evil, told lies or spread rumors? Have I disclosed the sins and faults of another or made careless statements that are damaging to another? Have I engaged in idle gossip?

You shall not covet.

Have I looked with env y, jealousy or hatred toward the possessions, talents or achievements of others? Have I grieved that God has bestowed greater blessing on others than on me? The Sacrament of Holy Confession is heard upon the faithful’s request. Simply call Fr. Peter to arrange a time. ^

The Promise ^ Mar.-Apr. 2013 ^ Volume 37, Issue 2

Parish Life

LADIES PHILOPTOCHOS VASILOPITA 2013

Women of Philoptochos.

Fr. Peter and Fr. Costa with Presvyteres Victoria & Maria.

Mary Skiadas, Avi Kiriakatis, Joanne Kallerges.

Godmother of the Church, Frieda Anast.

Fr. Peter, Presvytera Victoria (2013 coin recipient) with Avi Kiriakatis.

Foti and Nick Panagakos with their wives Kristen & Judy.

Helen Bruno, Vasilopita Chair with Judy Panagakos.

Irene Panagakos Cutting of Vasilopita.

Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church ^ Westfield, New Jersey

Bill Dackis.

Ted Bozonelis, receiving for His All Holiness Bartholomew I, Ecumenical Patriarch.

Irene Panagakos, Vasilopita Honoree & Retiree. Panagakos family.

Notis Kotsolios, receiving for His Eminence Metropolitan Evangelos. Ted Demetriou, Parish Council President.

Fr. Peter with Helen Bruno & Janet Oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;Sullivan, Vasilopita Chairs. Sam & Irene.

Irene with co-chairs & Philoptochos President.

Fr. Costa with children of St. Basilâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Academy. The Promise ^ Mar.-Apr. 2013 ^ Volume 37, Issue 2

Parish Life

CHILDREN OF ST. BASIL’S ACADEMY & IRENE PANAGAKOS HONORED Fr. Costa Sitaras offering the homily.

n Sunday, January 13, the parish of Holy Trinity had a ver y special triple celebration. After the Divine Liturgy, the parish honoured St. Basil the Great with its annual cutting of the Vasilopita at the Philoptochos sponsored Vasilopita Luncheon. Our parish also welcomed Fr. Constantine Sitaras, Executive Director of St. Basil’s Academy, together with many children from St. Basil’s. Thirdly, the parish honored the many years of service of Irene Panagakos to Holy Trinity as she begins her retirement. As pictured, at the conclusion of the liturgy, Fr. Constantine spoke to the parishioners about the mission of St. Basil’s. After this, Fr. Peter presented a check from the parish in the amount of $1000 to assist the ministry of the Academy. Additionally, the Ladies of Philoptochos donate $3,277. Holy Trinity contributed $4,277 to St. Basil’s.

Fr. Peter with Fr. Costa.

Our parishioners turned out in force to show its support and love to Irene Panagakos who took retirement on December 31, 2012. She served the parish of Holy Trinity with dignity and love for 26 years. There are many reasons why she is so beloved but none is greater than the image of faith that she projects. She never considered her position as a job but rather as a ministry to Christ’s Church. ^

Fr. Peter offering $1,000 check to St. Basil Academy.

Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church ^ Westfield, New Jersey

Parish Council - 2013 President’s Message

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AGAPIOS KYRITSIS, PARISH COUNCIL PRESIDENT

Dear Holy Trinity Family,

t has been my honor to attend and serve Holy Trinity over the last 15 years. Now serving as Parish Council President, I am deeply humbled by the opportunity and responsibility that goes along with it. First, I would like to acknowledge Fr. Peter for his love and leadership of Holy Trinity. I look forward to reinforcing and bonding the parish council together with our spiritual leader in doing God’s work primarily by continuing to build upon the

pillars that have made our community what it is today. Those foundations include a strong stewardship program, a vibrant youth program, committed volunteers for all of our ministries, experienced leadership, a loving fellowship amongst the Holy Trinity family, and a strong outreach program that helps defi ne our character as a church. The Parish Council will continue to serve our “family” with love and devotion as good stewards that God, Father Peter, and the community expects from us. I am excited for our community and I am counting on everyone’s love and support. Thank You. ^

Holy Trinity Choir A Plea for More Choir Members

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KATHRYN ATHANASOULAS, CHOIR DIRECTOR

n the November Promise, a plea for more choir members was presented. The results of that plea were as follows: George Lykogiannis and Steven Xenakis heeded the call and we are delighted to have them as members of the choir. Two other men may join later and we will announce them when they make the commitment. Karen Coulis, a new soprano, joined us just before the plea. She is very much welcomed. We thank them all very much. But we still need more sopranos. If you are out there please come forth.

THE SPIRIT OF LENT CONCERT The 23rd annual concert of “The Spirit of Lent” will be hosted by the beautiful new St. George Church in Ocean, formerly Asbury Park, on Friday April 26, 2013 at 8:00 PM directed by Kathryn Athanasoulas accompanied by organist Hope Demitry of Trenton. Choir members from Holy Trinity as well as choir members from other New Jersey parishes will participate. This concert is sponsored by the New Jersey District of the Eastern Federation of Greek Orthodox Church Musicians (EFGOCM). Our Angel Choir, Byzan-“teens” and youth from St. George, Trenton will also join the adult choir in several beautifully arranged hymns. Traditionally Westfield has been well represented in these concerts as singers and audiences. We thank them very much and hope that they will continue to do so. Tickets are $10 and children under 12 are free. Boosters will also be available from choir members. A portion of the proceeds will be donated to the Metropolis of NJ Philoptochos Hurricane Sandy Disaster Relief Fund. ^

MINISTRY TO OTHERS • HOLY TRINITY OUTREACH

ou might be pleasantly pleased and surprised to know that the parish of Holy Trinity does a lot in order to help others. Our parish accomplishes so much by first following the great commandment of Christ to love one another. By supporting those in need, we reap upon ourselves God’s great and rich blessings. With your generosity, already Holy Trinity has dispersed over $9,665 in donations in two months time with special collections.

Jan. 27, 2013, Holy Cross School of Theology 75th Anniversary, $ 1,546.00

Dec. 25, 2012, Agape Fund The Wounded Warriors Project, $ 996.00

Feb. 17, 2013, GOYA Chocolate sale to benefit Louis Martin Religious Education Fund, $ 350.00

Jan. 13, 2013, Vasilopita Luncheon, St. Basil Academy, $ 4,277.00

Feb. 24, 2013 St. Gregory of Nyssa Greek Orthodox Church, Victim of Arson , El Cajon, California $ 1,500.00 ^

Feb. 3, 2013, IOCC, Souper Bowl Sunday, $ 496.00 plus canned goods to Westfield shelter. Feb. 10, 2013, Philoptochos, Go Red For Women, American Heart Assc. $500.00

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ATHLETIC SEASON 2012-2013 ■ JONATHAN SAVORGIANNAKIS, ATHLETIC LIAISON he Athletic season for 2012-2013 was very exciting. Our 3 teams include girl’s volleyball and junior/senior basketball teams. Our girls worked hard to advance to the playoffs. They ended the season in 4th place. We congratulate them on a great effort. The junior boys had another successful season. With some new recruits this year, they went into the playoffs in 2nd place. They played Holmdel for the championship. They played an excellent game and took 2nd place, only being defeated by 1 point. They were awesome!

The senior boys had a phenomenal season that carried through into the playoffs. They played championship game as professional from beginning to end. I am proud to call this team my friends! Congratulations on an undefeated season and 1st place in the playoffs. I want to thank all our coaches for their dedication, encouragement and support. Zenon Christodoulou, Evans John and Ellen Conti coached the girl’s volleyball team, and Pete Boutsikaris with Peter Tarhanidis coached the junior and senior basketball teams. Congratulation to all the athletes. GO WESTFIELD! ^

T he Ladies Philoptochos Annual Fashion Show Save t he Date! 013 Wed., May 15, 2

Brooklake Country Club, Florham Park, NJ “The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It’s the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows and the beauty of a woman only grows with passing years” - Audrey Hepburn The exquisite and bright light that shines within each woman is the light of Christ. This reveals the glory of God in the same way the brightness of the sun shows itself and it is this brilliance that she radiates unto others. The brightness that glows from the depths of her soul serves as a beacon of love, hope and perseverance to her family and all whom she loves. This gift personifies the radiant and beautiful Ladies of Philoptochos. This year’s fashion show will feature fabulous donated basket raffle items, an exciting specialty jewelry raffle, silent auction and more. We hope to be joined by the young ladies of our youth group who are the future of our Philoptochos Chapter! Style Matters by Leslie will present the fashions of The Red Carpet from Short Hills and Lord & Taylor of Westfield.

Watch the mail in early March for your invitation! THE FASHION SHOW IS THE LARGEST FUNDRAISER OF THE YEAR FOR PHILOPTOCHOS AND AN EVENT THAT OUR ENTIRE COMMUNITY CAN HELP WITH. HERE ARE SOME WAYS: • Attend the fashion show (and bring a friend) •Place or solicit an ad in the Ad Journal • Make a monetary donation for the gift basket rafﬂes • Purchase rafﬂe tickets Proceeds from the Grand Raffle this year will be donated to The Wounded Warrior’s Project and The Greek Children’s Fund. All other proceeds will directly benefit the numerous service programs and charitable causes that Philoptochos supports. This is sure to be a spectacular celebration filled with love, fellowship and sisterhood. With the help of our dedicated committee members, the generosity of our community and your support, our success is a guarantee. It is our joy and honor to chair this important event. We appreciate your support and confidence in us. This is a wonderful opportunity to get involved. We are still seeking additional help, so please reach out to us if you are interested. All are welcomed! “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:16

Debra Vlahakis & Kathy Maglaras

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T.O.T.S. Trinity Orthodox Toddler Social A reflection…

■ ARIANA CHIARAVALLOTI he start of a New Year brings to mind new beginnings, New Year’s resolutions and change. Sadly, renewing our efforts to get closer to God does not always appear in our lists of New Year’s resolutions.

This year, I think making a New Year’s resolution of taking more time to have God in our lives should top everyone’s list. In return, with God in our lives all the rest will find a way of just working itself out. At our first January TOTS meeting, Father Peter taught the children about the Epiphany and the importance of water in their lives. He then blessed the children with holy water and had them kiss the cross. It is wonderful that our young children are learning about the important holidays of the church. ^

Cultural Committee ■ BARBARA MANOS mmediately following the Salutations on Friday, April 12th, there will be refreshments and a reading and interactive discussion of “ The Sapphire Elixir” a novel by Frank Voutsakis, moderated by committee member and author Celia Kapsomera. Set in the aftermath of the The Treaty of Lausanne, (1923), the novel tells a complex tale which is as rich as the region and examines the ethnic, religious and cultural potency of the characters. Though the novel is not autobiographical, the author’s interest is personal and historical since his family had settled along the coast of Lake Vaginitis in Macedonia, where the lake becomes a source of livelihood and bitter disputes and the silent protagonist in the stage of characters.

Mr. Rousakis has earned degrees from Villanova and Widener Universities and has taught philosophy and Ethics at Rosemont College and currently practices law. He is a composer and devotee of the western musical tradition and believes in the power of art. We welcome the community to take part in this transforming voyage that spans 50 years of neglected Greek History ^

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■ SANDY MOURATOGLOU & ANDREA BLASI “Hey Mom, the way to your family’s hearts is through their stomachs!” Have you noticed that many times, no matter how many other beautiful rooms in your home, family and friends seem to gravitate toward the kitchen? We still have a variety of wonderful cook books to help you make your kitchen fragrant with the aromas of foods that show how much you love them. These cook books have special recipes for the Lenten season. BUT WHAT ABOUT THEIR “SPIRITUAL HEARTS”? Quote from the Orthodox Study Bible: “…Mind (Gr. nous) here is more than the intellect; it is the highest faculty of human nature, encompassing the mind and heart. With this faculty one sees and comprehends God.” Among the multitude of treasures Fr. Anthony M. Coniaris’ My Daily Orthodox Prayer Book. Lent is a time of fasting for the body and feasting for the soul! Here are a few: The Ladies Philoptochos Society of The Greek

Orthodox Church of the Holy Trinity, Charleston, South Carolina’s POPULAR GREEK RECIPES, “GREEK LENTEN FOODS”, “FASTING IN THE GREEK ORTHODOX CHURCH”, “LENTEN MENUS”, and “PRAYERS”. St. Nectarios American Orthodox Church’s A LENTEN COOKBOOK FOR ORTHODOX CHRISTIANS, “THE LIFE OF OUR R IGHTEOUS FATHER AMONG THE SAINTS EUPHROSYNUS THE COOK”, pages 6-9; and “ON FASTING”, pages 10-14. Rev. Nicon D. Patrinacos’ ALL THAT A GREEK ORTHODOX SHOULD KNOW, “The Importance of Physical and Spiritual Preparation for Communion by Way of Fasting and the Sacrament of Penance”. The Elder Cleopa of Romania’s THE TRUTH OF OUR FAITH VOLUME ONE: “ON FASTING”, pages 141-151; and VOLUME TWO: ON THE CHRISTIAN MYSTERIES, “On Preparation for Communion for the Holy Mysteries” ^

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