M I C H A E L S H O WA LT E R
GUYS CAN BE CAT LADIES TOO
A B R A M S I M AG E N E W YO R K
CONTENTS Introduction A Note to Wives and Girlfriends A Pictorial Glossary of Basic Terms
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CHAPTER 13 CHAPTER 14 CHAPTER 15 CHAPTER 16
Part One: Beginner Cat Cat? What’s that?
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CHAPTER 1 CHAPTER 2 CHAPTER 3 CHAPTER 4 CHAPTER 5 CHAPTER 6
What Is a Cat? What Is Not a Cat? What Are Some Other Things I Should Know? Can Cats Do That? Why Is It So Cute When They Stick Out Their Tongues? How Will I Know When I’m Ready for a Cat?
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CHAPTER 7 CHAPTER 8 CHAPTER 9 CHAPTER 10 CHAPTER 11 CHAPTER 12
Choosing Your Ideal Cat Mate So You Have a Cat What’s in a Name? Getting Your Cat Fixed How to Pet Your Cat Roommate Issues
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Part Three: Advanced Cat Your cat is your life.
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Part Two: Intermediate Cat Get yourself a cat.
Communication Issues What if My Cat’s a Boy Cat? How to Bromance Your Cat What if My Cat’s a Girl Cat? Becoming BFFs Hair and Fashion Introducing Your Cat to Important Humans, and Other Animals Shopping for Two Your Cat, the Ultimate Wingman
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Cat Cribs Stepping Out Five Ways to Tell if Your Cat Is Rubbing Itself on Someone Else’s Leg Are You Spending Too Much Time with Your Cat? Could You Possibly Spend More Time with Your Cat? Toughing It Out Responsible Cat Hoarding Cat Lady Guy Fundamentals Are You a Cat Lady Yet?
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PA R T O N E
BEGINNER CAT What is a cat? Sounds like a silly question, right? But for so many men, it is a legitimate query. We are conditioned from an early age not to ask questions, and for that we pay the price as ignorant, yet curious, adults. This book removes the stigma and encourages you to ask away. Let’s start with the basics.
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What Is Not a Cat? A.
Now that we know the basics of what is a cat, let’s take it a step further and look at what is not a cat.
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- \'kat\ not a cat — noun \'nät\ \'a\ a. anything that is not a cat b. a dog, a person, a chair, a toaster strudel, a case of beer, a football, a hoagie—none of these things are cats c. anything else that is not a cat HOW CAN I BE SURE IT’S A CAT OR NOT A CAT ?
It’s perfectly natural to confuse cats for not-cats and not-cats for cats, particularly if you are new to cats, or really stupid. The easiest way to tell if something is a cat is to review this simple checklist: G.
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1. 2. 3. 4. 5.
Does it meow? Does it have a tail? Is it really cute? Does it like hiding inside bags? Is it a cat? If you answered in the positive to any of the above, especially #5, then the thing in question is most likely a cat.
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CHAPTER 4
Can Cats Do That?
Do feed your cat twice a day—morning and night.
For an average-sized cat (around 8 pounds), this translates into approximately ⁴⁄5 cup of dry food and 6 ounces of wet food.
If you can’t feel your cat’s ribs, your cat is overweight.
CATS CAN KNOCK THINGS OVER
KNOCKING THINGS OVER FACTS
Now we should be familiar with what cats are. In this next chapter we will begin to learn about what cats can do.
The most likely reasons why cats knock things over are (a) to get their persons’ attention and (b) because it’s fun.
CATS CAN SLEEP
Instinctually, cats toy with their prey—by knocking things over they are potentially acting out their biologically natural inclination.
SLEEPING FACTS
Wild cats and domesticated cats will sleep from sixteen to twenty hours a day. Cats are always on alert, even during sleep.
Cats are crepuscular, not nocturnal, meaning their activity peaks at dawn and dusk.
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CATS CAN EAT
CLIMBING INTO BAG FACTS
EATING FACTS
Cats like feeling cozy and secure, and small spaces (such as bags) offer this snug sense of enclosure.
Healthy, active adult cats require approximately 30 calories per pound of body weight a day.
Cats derive security from believing that no one can see them. bag
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