Creating a Limitless Life Leveraging the Three R's of Success and Failure By Adam King
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Creating a Limitless Life Leveraging the Three R's of Success and Failure By Adam King I am utterly filled with gratitude for being able to share with you the secrets within this article. They have changed my life forever, and hopefully will enhance yours. The Three R's of Success and Failure These three points are the building blocks to the majority of our problems and solutions. They are: • • •
Resistance Resourcefulness Relationships
The First R: Resistance (The Direct Cause of Inaction) This first R, Resistance, is about the self sabotaging demon within us that can cause so much havoc, confusion and suffering. It is the person, the entity, the voice in our heads that forces us to doubt, fear, and remain inactive during times when action is all that's required. For Example. As I write to you, I can feel an almost unexplainable resistance trying to turn my productivity button off. It's telling me; "you don't know what to write, it's too hard, it's not going to be good enough, you're not sticking to the plan, is it even worth it?" What's happening is that as I continue to write, I am beginning to lose clarity as I move from an intangible idea, to a tangible outcome, i.e. thought to paper. This environmental shift causes resistance because my brain wanted a specific result (a perfect article) but, it didn't plan on the physical act of writing it. In other words, I started with a plan and became uncomfortable when I actually had to go through the process of organizing my thoughts, creating an action plan and executing it. So, how do I get past this you ask? I'm doing it right now.
Because I'm aware of this constraint, I'm taking away its power. With every new word I write to you, I gain clarity. And with clarity, uncertainty fades along with its friend, Resistance. All I have to do is write, reflect, and adjust. This realization alone allows me to find a place of acceptance with myself and with the process. It allows me to realize that the process itself has great importance to the overall outcome. Now all I need are tools to help me keep that power throughout this process.
The Second R: Resourcefulness (The Ability to Gain Certainty in the Now) Consider this; If I am able to first understand that my resistance and uncertainty is caused by a false outcome that I have created myself, then the next step is to become a master at resourcefulness. This not only allows me to get past this resistance, but it also gives me the confidence to continue my work towards a fulfilling conclusion. In fact, not being resourceful is a massive constraint all by itself. Because without it, I may not have the tools or perspective to deal with any problems resulting from my constraints. Here's some of those tools that have helped me write this article.  
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Learning to ask. Getting other people's opinion and viewpoints can give you perspective of your own situation. Another angle is sometimes all we need. Doing research. Research can show you what questions others are asking in order to gain perspective. This is powerful if you're stuck if you don't know what to ask in the first place. Sometimes the answers are the questions themselves. Applying other's knowledge. So many times I have needed to know how to do something. Build a website, add a widget to my wordpress blog, create an ebook cover and so on. The key is to realize that most roads you're looking to go down, have already been paved by someone else. In short, I can learn how to be resourceful by gaining the knowledge of others who have already walked down the path I am embarking on.
The Third R: Relationships (Nothing is Stronger than Good Relationships) Consider what we've talked about so far. We talked about getting past our own resistance by first becoming aware of it, and then becoming resourceful and building the confidence to see through it. For example, think about what I'm writing right now and why. Is it possible that I am working to build a relationship with you, personally, right in this very moment? If you said yes, you're 100% correct. However, most of us miss this invaluable lesson. What I am doing in fact, is offering you value through the reflection of my own experience but also through the awareness of your desires. I am showing you things I have learned along the way that have helped me succeed. But, and this is a hugely important point, I have strategically titled this article as well as chosen its contents for you, and only you. Why? Because I know that if I can reach you emotionally, then I have succeeded. This is how you build relationships that can become fruitful, profitable and fulfilling. I truly, sincerely want to help you. But, I also know this last R has a hidden secret. Here it is. Without you, I will fail. In other words, without truly and sincerely helping you and offering you something of high value, you will never offer anything to me in return. You don't get love by wanting it, you get love by giving it. Conclusion This article could have been titled, "How to Become the Person Others are Looking For"
One, remove your own fears, uncertainties and resistances. This allows you to become confident, focused and able to work within the moment. This attracts others to you because it gives them clarity, trust and faith. Two, become resourcefulness in order to work through your own challenges. This allows you to also help others through their own challenges because you have built an advanced ability to perceive. Three. Understand that by giving love first, it will, almost guaranteed, be returned to you. Give, and you shall receive. Sincerely, Adam King Creator of the Tessera Method www.TesseraMethod.com