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We wish you and yours a very happy holiday season.

Know the facts about freestanding ERs.

Introducing Texas Health Emergency Room.

Texas Health now offers access to 32 additional freestanding Texas Health Emergency Room locations across North Texas. The freestanding ERs operate as outpatient departments of Texas Health Hospital. While we are excited to offer these convenient access points across North Texas, it’s important that consumers understand what they are, when to go, and when to seek care elsewhere. Here are answers to the most common questions we receive.

What is a freestanding emergency room?

Freestanding ERs are similar to hospital emergency rooms. They are open 24/7/365, including holidays, and the new Texas Health Emergency Room locations are staffed with emergency-trained, board-certified physicians. They also include on-site labs, and digital imaging suites that include a CT scanner, digital X-ray and ultrasound equipment. One difference is an ambulance will not take you to a freestanding ER.

What are some advantages of freestanding emergency rooms?

Freestanding ERs are always open and have little to no wait times. Texas Health ERs operate as hospital outpatient departments, which means that unlike some other freestanding ERs, they accept the same insurance that our traditional hospital ERs take. With multiple locations, freestanding ERs may also be more convenient than your nearest hospital ER.

When should I go to a freestanding emergency room?

Freestanding ERs can treat a variety of medical issues, including intense abdominal pain, head injuries, broken bones, poisoning, chemical exposure, moderate to severe burns, complex lacerations, non-healing wounds, eye and nasal injuries, moderate to severe respiratory distress, sudden difficulty speaking, sudden weakness, seizures, allergic reactions and other critical emergencies.

Should I go to a freestanding emergency room or call 9-1-1?

If you think you are having a heart attack or stroke, always call 9-1-1. If you are unable to drive or do not have someone to drive you, call 9-1-1. When you call 9-1-1, you will be taken to a hospital ER. Otherwise, freestanding ERs are an excellent choice in an emergency.

Is a freestanding emergency room the same as a freestanding urgent care clinic?

No. Freestanding ERs deliver care for critical emergencies. Urgent care clinics diagnose and treat minor illnesses such as the flu, headaches and sinus infections, as well as other non-life-threatening injuries, such as minor burns, cuts and sprains. Typically, urgent care clinics are not open 24/7, are not staffed by emergency-trained physicians, and do not have radiology equipment such as CT scanners or ultrasound machines.

How much does a freestanding emergency room cost?

Expect your cost for care to be what you would pay in our traditional hospital ERs. No matter your insurance, the cost of visiting a freestanding emergency room will be greater than a trip to an urgent care clinic or doctor’s office. For this reason, you should thoughtfully evaluate whether your injury or illness is a true emergency before choosing a freestanding emergency room.

These are just some of the questions we receive about freestanding emergency rooms. For answers to additional questions or to find locations, please visit TexasHealthER.com.

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OPENING REMARKS

By RICK WAMRE

Let there be peace …

“Let there be peace on earth” is a great line from a popular holiday song you probably know by heart. In fact, it’s a theme in lots of holiday songs.

Peace on earth is a great concept. Too bad it’s never going to happen.

There are just too many egotistical political leaders who enjoy lighting fires and then running from the blaze, leaving the rest of us to deal with the fallout.

There are just too many countries with superiority complexes, ours probably included, for peace to take hold everywhere spontaneously. Even when we have the best of intentions, we seem to get in our own way trying to make the world “safe for democracy” while some other world leaders are doing their best to make the world bend to their own often-twisted wills.

Even locally, peace in our time is unlikely.

Some of us won’t accept the fact that every cop isn’t a criminal. Some, rightly or wrongly, see conspiracies lurking at Fair Park, in every real estate development project, in “signature” bridges and in “world-class city” aspirations.

Most of us mouth the idea that we want what’s best for the city and for the country, but then we drill the guy next door on social media for having her/his own thoughts on one matter or another.

Is it really true that power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely?

Not having much power, not being a politician and not being overly concerned about what’s happening on the other side of the world, these are all questions I feel confident asking but not so confident answering.

So what about the other part of that “peace on earth” holiday song: “And let it begin with me?”

How can peace on earth begin with us when, for the most part, it takes just a couple of seconds for us to become cranked up about idiot drivers or online baiters?

Well, we have to recognize that everyone on Facebook, everyone with a TV microphone, everyone with a thought we don’t agree with … all deserve to be heard without being shouted down, online or in person. If the only voice we ever hear is our own, reflecting back to us over and over again through our choice of

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One thing I’ve learned in this job over the years is that there are lots of people in our neighborhood who think differently than I do. And guess what: They aren’t all crazy, and they aren’t all wrong.

Won’t it make our neighborhood stronger if people are willing to consider the fact that, individually, we don’t always have a corner on wisdom and knowledge?

Yeah, peace on earth isn’t going to happen. But peace on our block should be achievable. And desirable. And necessary. And just maybe it will radiate out from there.

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in our general vicinity

Is it really true that power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely?

“I would love to know how many churches actively seek out those with gluttony problems, or who ‘idolize’ celebrities... Or how about those who have divorced or committed adultery?

How about the alcohol abusers? How about the teenagers who are having premarital sex? Are they kicking these people out?”

‘Watermark Church ousts gay member’

“It’s rather sad that they chose to ignore the Jesus who befriended prostitutes in favor of the Jesus who makes people sign contracts to hang out with him.”

—GEOFFREY SNYDER

—JOHN CHROME

“As one who has overcome through Christ this very struggle, I agree with the staff to pray for a repentant heart.”

—ANDIE MICHELLE GONZALES

L A UNCH Out & About

DEC. 2

GET TIPPI

Former model and actress Tippi Hedren stops by the bookstore to sign her novel, “Tippi: A Memoir.” The event begins at 7 p.m. Barnes & Noble Lincoln Park, 7700 W. Northwest Highway, 214.739.1124, barnesandnoble.com, free

DEC. 3

PLAN A BUSINESS

Learn how to write an effective business plan during this one-hour workshop. The series is designed to help business novices become potential clients for Dallas B.R.A.I.N. and includes homework assignments. Forest Green Library, 9015 Forest Lane, dallaslibrary.org, 214.670.1335, free

DEC. 6

THE T-BYRD GORDON BAND

One of Dallas’ favorite society bands returns to the Pocket Sandwich Theater to perform classic Motown and modern hits. At 6:15 p.m., doors open for dinner.

Pocket Sandwich Theater, 5400 E. Mockingbird Lane, 214.821.1860, pocketsandwich.com, $15

DEC. 9

ACOUSTIC CONCERT

Austin-based singersongwriter Tish

Hinojosa stops by Uncle Calvin’s to showcase her hybrid Latino-folk-country sound. Randy Brooks, known for his 1979 hit

“Grandma Got Run

Over by a Reindeer,” also takes the stage to perform his punfilled songs.

Uncle Calvin’s Coffeehouse, 9555 N. Central Expressway, 214.363.0044, unclecalvins.org, $18-$22

DEC. 7

SEX OFFENDER AWARENESS

The Dallas Police Department provides facts about sexual predators from 6:30-7:30 p.m. This event is geared toward adults and contains sensitive material.

Audelia Library, 10045 Audelia Road, 214.670.1350, dallaslibrary.org, free

DEC. 17

FLEA MARKET

Peruse arts, crafts and books at Good Local Flea, an indoor market hosted by Good Local Markets. The one-day is event is open from 3-9 p.m.

Half Price Books, 5803 E. Northwest Highway, 214.379.8000, goodlocalmarket.org, free to attend

DEC. 27-JAN. 1

LONE STAR CIRCUS

Celebrate the 10th anniversary of the Lone Star Circus with performances by aerialists, jugglers and clowns. The Dallas-based circus fuses music and poetry with agility and acrobats.

Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman, dct.org, 214.978.0110, $27-$48

PHOTO COURTESY TISH HINOJOSA

FIRED UP OVER DIABETES

Christopher Row is the 11-year-old philanthropic entrepreneur you need to know

By EMILY CHARRIER

PHOTOS BY DANNY FULGENCIO

Precocious doesn’ t begin to describe C hristopher Row The 11-year-old has a maturity that ’ s almost star tling until his silly side emerges, betraying his true age. He’s just always been this way, e ven before he became responsible for managing his diabe tes, a task tha t requires four blood tests a day along with regular insulin shots. But responsibility has always been a part of his constitution; he started his first company when he was all of 8, picking up dog poop for neighbors.

“I called it the ‘Business Business,’ ” he smiles. He’s a planner, who’s already saving for his first car

But then came the summer tha t chang ed e ver ything. C hris topher was 10 and a t camp when he firs t noticed some thing was off “I was eating tons of candy at summer camp, but I still lost 10 pounds,” the St. John’s Episcopal School student says.

He then went on a road trip to the family ’ s vacation home in Ne w Me xico, where no ma tter how much wa ter he drank, he couldn’ t quench his thirst. His father took him to urgent care.

“At first we went to a doc in a box, and the y didn’ t know what it was, ” C hristopher e xplains in a stor y he’s clearly told more than once. After he was transferred

Christopher Row has his own candle-making studio.

to a hospital, a blood sugar test showed soaring levels and he was diagnosed with juvenile diabetes. During the five days he spent in the hospital, he immediately took charge of his own care, learning how to check his blood and administer his medication.

“In the hospital, they were teaching us what to do. My mom and dad were standing there looking at each other like, ‘OK, you do it,’ ” Christopher says with a laugh. “I just started doing it myself. I very much like being in control.”

Like any chronic condition, it was a transition that was hard to get used to. Christopher learned to carry a bag of gummi bears everywhere in case his blood sugar drops, and is diligent about always testing on schedule to keep his body in balance. It’s no big deal now, he says, and he even came up with an analogy that his doctor now uses when talking to other kids about diabetes.

“He told the doctor, ‘It’s kind of like having an imaginary dog. You have to

feed it. You have to take care of it,’ ” his mom, Kathy Row, says.

Soon after Christopher settled into life as a diabetic, he wanted to give back. Sitting in a German restaurant in New Mexico, he was entranced by the candle on the table and an idea was born. He

most popular. He even used his money from his “Business Business” to fund his next venture. He decided to go with soy, the cleanest-burning wax, which he put in simple tins and scented with citrus, spruce, lavender and lilac. There was some trial and error there — he wanted to be sure not to over perfume his product so it could only be smelled when burning. Then there was the issue of the wick.

decided to make and sell candles to raise money for Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF). When asked what drew him to candles, he offers a perfect kid response: “I like fire. Fire is fun to watch. It’s just a boy thing.”

But Christopher approached his second business venture of his young life like a seasoned professional, spending hours researching how to make candles, what products to use and what scents are

“The hardest thing in my entire business? The wick,” he sighs. Always a perfectionist, he tinkered until he got just the right height, so it keeps the candle burning easily.

“They say the height of the flame should match the dent in the wax,” he explains. “Mine are perfect.”

He began slowly selling the candles to family friends and neighbors, which is when Leon Banowetz took notice. As the president of the advertising firm Banowetz + Company, whose clients include Stephan Pyles’ Floral Street Café and Floss Dental, he knew he could help

“I like fire. Fire is fun to watch. It’s just a boy thing.”

Christopher’s emerging business.

“I told him to come down and present his concept to our business team,” Banowetz says. He helped make sure Christopher was prepared down to the financials, which included figuring out the cost per candle, the target sales price and how much would go toward JDRF. Christopher describes the process as “long and mathy,” but worthwhile. The Banowetz team helped him find his name, Row Candles, along with a professional logo and packaging. They also built him a website where he can sell his candles online.

“I picked this look because it’s modern and very clean,” Christopher says, “like my candles.”

The project did require him to up his prices slightly to cover the cost of packaging his candles (design services were provided pro-bono by Banowetz). Candles retail for $10, much lower than the industry average, Christopher points out, of which $2 goes to JDRF.

“Just because our candles are cheaper doesn’t mean they’re of lesser quality,” he assures, calling mainstream candle companies “criminal” for what they charge.

Currently, he makes up to 20 candles at a time, most of which are crafted to order. He is eager to make his first contribution to the JDRF this fall. It’s a business he plans to stay in for a while.

“I’d like to retire doing this,” he says.

PHOTO BY DANNY FULGENCIO

Row’s candle-making process incorporates soy wax and four scents.

Find spruce, lavender, citrus and lilac candles for sale at rowcandles.com.

JOHN BEEMAN And the first family of White Rock

It’s been 175 years since John Neely Bryan launched the city’s first encampment on the banks of the Trinity River. During that first winter in 1841, he envisioned a town.

Recognizing the land’s economic potential, Bryan laid out the townsite of Dallas and set out to attract families to settle the burgeoning city with permanent residents. He eyed the closest settlement, Bird’s Fort, now in the area of Haltom City. One of the families he befriended there was the Beemans.

John Beeman must have been impressed with what he saw in that Texas settlement. He had moved his family from Illinois to Bowie County in 1840, then to Bird’s Fort the next year.

Bryan then brought the Beemans to what is now Dallas in January 1842 and, seeing its potential, John and his

half-brother James moved the family to the area. They first camped at a place they named Turtle Creek, but

soon moved on to White Rock Creek. James hunted buffalo in the vicinity. The family farm was on the southern branch of White Rock, where they built a blockhouse and later a homestead. The Beeman Family Cemetery is the last remnant of the south end of the farm, just south of Haskell Avenue, off Dolphin Road, at the end of Osage Street, north of the Jewish Cemetery Shearith Israel.

John Slate is the city archivist for Dallas who pens pieces on local history for the Advocate.

James Beeman, half-brother of John Beeman, was one of the first to settle White Rock Creek in 1842. This undated photo shows him in a canvas apron, likely used to protect his clothes while he butchered the bison he hunted in the area. (Photo courtesy of the MC Toyer Collection)

LIFESTYLES OF THE FURRY AND FAMOUS

Aussie and Skye — an 11-year-old mini Australian shepherd and 7-year-old Australian shepherd, respectively — don’t spend all their time sipping wine lakeside (fact: the wine is merely a

prop). They also enjoy daily walks and car rides around their Lake Highlands home, owner David Sassano says.

“Whether my partner, Don, and I are heading to Gecko Hardware for garden supplies or to TJ’s for a snow cone, they insist on hanging their heads out the window and greeting folks with a friendly bark.”

Aussie’s shiny mane and bewitching eyes have boosted her popularity on the photo-centric social media site Instagram, where, under Aussie_the_ mini_aussie, she has 4,200 followers and counting.

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MEXICAN GRILL

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MEXICAN GRILL

Enchilada’s

Voted by Advocate Readers as Best Date Night in Lake Highlands

Guests in for the Holiday? Bring them in to enjoy our Tex Mex specials and a signature margarita for a great time.

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PATISSERIE/BAKERY

Haute Sweets Patisserie

Treat yourself & the ones you love with the finest desserts, French Macarons, cookies, cakes & more. Award-winning chefs bring premium restaurant quality treats right to our neighborhood. Paleo & Gluten-free available.

Mon-Fri: 9:00am-7:00pm Sat: 10:00am-6:00pm

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THAI AMERICAN GRILL

Thai Opal

Happy Holidays from all of us at Thai Opal!!

We have infused the classical Thai cuisine with a modern ambiance. BYOB welcomed.

• Take out • Lunch Specials

• Now Serving Beer & Wine

6300 Skillman #156 thaiopal.com 214.553.5956

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Frozen in time

Norma’s Café has served classic comfort food for six decades

By ELISSA CHUDWIN

PHOTO BY KATHY TRAN

Chocolate peanut butter pie.

DID YOU KNOW: Norma’s Café sells so many Thanksgiving dinners every year, they begin preparing for the holiday a week in advance.

Norma’s Café owner Ed Murph has overseen the comfort food haven for half of its 60-year existence in Dallas. For the first three decades, he just was a regular customer.

Murph spent his childhood in Oak Cliff, where a restaurant called Bob McGhee’s Davis Café found its first home along West Davis Street. Murph’s family frequented the diner, and its inviting, community-oriented atmosphere is something he is dedicated to preserving.

“It was a neighborhood place,” he says. “That’s where everybody went. It was and it still is. It’s a place where people in the community come, meet, eat and socialize.”

Now called Norma’s Café, the business has added three locations since its inception in 1956, and its most recent venture is located right outside our neighborhood at Caruth Plaza on North Central Expressway. In all likelihood, this isn’t news to you, especially since Norma’s staff is quick to point out the restaurant’s phones rang off the hook until it opened in July. Marketing manager Katy Anderson says she had a woman ask when it would open so frequently that she personally called to tell the woman its opening date.

“We’re a smaller company, but everybody knows us around here,” says Bill Ziegler, director of operations.

Norma’s chicken fried steak and made-from-scratch milehigh pies are the menu items that make Murph the most proud, but he says his favorites fluctuate based on his mood. Even after three decades, the menu has enough variety that it hasn’t become old hat to him.

“I was raised on about 90 percent of the food,” he says.

A sign on the wall encourages patrons to eat dessert first, and it’s not surprising given their pies’ popularity. Bakers arrive at the café at 5 a.m. every day to make each flavor’s filling and topping, Murph says. The rolls and cornbread, used in their chicken and dressing, also are always homemade.

“The secret to good comfort food is it being prepared with that secret ingredient — that’s your momma’s and grandma’s love when she cooked it,” Murph says.

NORMA’S CAFÉ

Ambiance: casual, family-friendly diner

Price range: $7-$15

Hours: Monday-Thursday, 6 a.m.-8 p.m.; Friday-Saturday, 6 a.m.-9 p.m.; Sunday, 7 a.m.-8 p.m. 9100 North Central Expressway, suite 151, 214.361.8646 normascafe.com

The restaurant’s appeal doesn’t solely revolve around its menu, and that’s something Murph and Ziegler emphasize. Its longevity, in part, is thanks to the multi-generational families who have become regulars and the café’s staff, Murph says.

“The success of this place is directly in proportion to the people who work here. A lot have their own personality that shines through. It makes it neat.”

THE CONVENIENCE YOU NEED THE CARE YOU DESERVE

Enchilada’s ‘Tony’s Chicken’

Enchilada’s has been a Dallas staple since it first brought its signature style of TexMex to the city in 1979. For more than 20 years, it’s been under the leadership of Tony Waldrop, who cut his teeth working for the restaurant his family built on Northwest Highway. While that location has since closed, the restaurant is still serving up sizzling plates on Upper Greenville and downtown.

Back in 1999, we shared the recipe for Waldrop’s signature dish, “Tony’s Chicken.” It remains a favorite with diners because of its tangy flavor topped with creamy cheese and crisp bacon. As Waldrop told us, it all comes down to the marinade — whatever you do, don’t skip that step.

4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts

¼ pound bacon, cooked and crumbled

¼ pound Monterey Jack cheese, grated

MARINADE:

16 ounce bottled Italian dressing

1 cup fresh lemon juice

½ cup garlic powder

½ cup fajita spice (found on the spice aisle of most grocery stores)

Marinate chicken breasts for at least 24 hours, then grill over medium-high heat until done, approximately 15 minutes. Cover with bacon crumbles and top with grated cheese. Place under broiler until cheese melts.

Enchilada’s ‘Tony’s Chicken’

Home for the Holidays

by CHRISTINA HUGHES BABB

Some say it’s the most wonderful time of the year, and Lake Highlands offers oodles of ideas to make it feel that way. The neighborhood is brimming over with seasonal spirit — from Christmas concerts and Nutcracker performances to holiday markets and, of course, a visit to Scrooge at NorthPark Center. Here you will find the ultimate list of holiday celebrations, all within an easy 5-mile radius of our neighborhood, so you can enjoy the season without ever entering a freeway.

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The new in town

Wandering through airports, malls and crowded streets, Will Schutze quietly judges people. He asks himself, “What would Scrooge think?” He then finds a way to mock them.

This may seem like cause for concern, but Schutze is busy preparing for his role as Scrooge at NorthPark Center this month.

“Everywhere I go, I’m constantly walking and insulting people in my head, in that playful way, of course,” he says.

Wearing all black, the 30-year-old puppeteer will walk into the puppethouse stationed inside NorthPark Center and put the Scrooge puppet on his hand for his second season. He’ll hurl insults at children and spray them with water as a warning to get off his property. He’ll sarcastically compliment families’ thrifty tendencies, using the raspy old-man voice he has practiced for months.

Schutze will transform into Scrooge 10 times a day for the next month, and each time, he will remember his longtime mentor and Dallas legend John Hardman, who embodied Scrooge and his disdain of the holidays for nearly four decades. The character created by the longtime neighbor and puppeteer became a holiday icon in Dallas — it’s not Christmas until Scrooge’s sharp tongue begins to thrash, welcoming in the season as only he could.

When Hardman lost his battle to cancer in 2015, Scrooge’s future at NorthPark became murky, until Schutze was asked to take over the role. He already had done a one-week stint at Scrooge when Hardman was in the hospital with pneumonia, so he was familiar with the technical aspects of the show.

But taking on a 38-year legacy of trash talk is no easy task, especially when it’s a constant reminder of what’s missing.

“It’s bittersweet because when I’m doing the show, I’m constantly thinking of John,” Schutze says. “But I find myself laughing at his jokes, and I feel like I can do that.”

Schutze now lives in Charleston, S.C., with his fiancé and cat, but he returns to Dallas twice a year for Scrooge Puppet

Theatre and the “World on a String” show at the State Fair of Texas.

Although anxiety crept in before his performances as Scrooge last year, he’s looking forward to seeing the smiles — and maybe a few frowns — on shoppers’ faces this season.

“I think it probably should have been a whole lot of pressure,” he says. “But just the show itself is a lot of pressure when you have an entire audience staring at a puppet on your hand, and your job is to insult them and make them laugh.”

Schutze first was introduced to puppeteering after graduating high school. Hardman’s wife, Patti, was his theater teacher at Woodrow Wilson High School; she later invited him to work on the “World on a String” show

at the fair, another one of Hardman’s projects. Seeing the marionettes hanging from the back room ceiling fascinated him, and Schutze found his niche without even realizing it.

“They didn’t even have to be performing. Just hanging there, they really spoke to me,” he says.

For

MORE SEASONAL CELEBRATIONS AT NORTHPARK

Hardman was the catalyst for Schutze’s career, which includes an appearance with his puppet show in Jon Favreau’s 2014 movie “Chef.” He initially moved to Los Angeles to pursue acting, but is now a full-time puppeteer in South Carolina. He’s even creates his own marionettes.

He’s memorized Hardman’s list of comebacks and insults, remembers his advice, but his larger-than-life personality has left the largest impression on Schutze. He says Hardman was performing around the clock, even if he was just sitting at the dinner table with his family and friends.

“I’ve always wanted to be like that. I’m more naturally shy when I’m not performing,” Schutze says. “And I always kind of think about John when I’m trying to channel that sort of energy and tell jokes and crack people up. He’s an inspiration in all ways.” —ELISSA

Scrooge at NorthPark

Visit northparkcenter.com for performance times and dates.

CHUDWIN

Explore the US from Times Square to the Golden Gate Bridge during the Trains at NorthPark. The Ronald McDonald House of Dallas fundraiser runs through Jan. 8. Santa Claus will share festive tales about the snowy North Pole at 10:30 a.m. Monday-Saturday and noon on Sunday. In addition to Storytime with Santa, he will be available for portraits with kiddos until Christmas Eve.

the seventh year, Gingertown Dallas brings design, engineering create a gingerbread village. The the Children’s Craniofacial Association.

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both ST. NICK and beloved FATHER JOSEF VOLLMER-KÖNIG, St. Pat’s church pastor. A mile walk/run begins at the church, Ferndale at Walnut Hill, at 9 a.m., and a 5k follows at 9:30, Dec. 10. Like most Catholic churches, St. Patrick’s holds a midnight Christmas Eve mass. One tasty tidbit about church pastor Josef: the 63-year-old former chef is a prizewinning gingerbread-house architect. A few Christmases ago, his commissioned gingerbread mansions brought in a few thousand dollars, he told us in a 2013 interview. He gave all the earnings to Catholic Charities.

Serious runners should switch out athletic shoes every 300 miles or so, to prevent injury by keeping those insoles bouncy (or it’s an ingenious marketing conspiracy). But some shoes, even after having traveled hundreds of miles, often remain in good shape for walking. Neighborhood resident KEN TROUPE a few years ago sprung the idea of collecting runners’ gently worn kicks and redistributing them to homeless folks in need of footwear. Now Dallas runners regular drop shoes off on Troupe’s porch or hold Shoe Guy shoe drives at running events. Like The Shoe Guy & Gals on Facebook for more.

The so-called “sweetest run of the year” takes place Saturday, Dec. 17 at 7 a.m. outside the BATH HOUSE CULTURAL CENTER at White Rock Lake. Entry fee is one batch of cookies, for trading. Runners loop the lake before the cookie swap, so just show up at 8:30 a.m. to skip the 9.2mile exertion. The post-run party is open to all and features eggnog, chocolate milk and more. Bring your used running shoes for The Shoe Guy (see above).

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12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS

The beloved carol “The 12 Days of Christmas” was first printed in England in 1780, but didn’t become the classic song we know today until 1909 in an arrangement by English composerFrederic Austin, who added the iconic “five golden rings.”

Over at the DALLAS ARBORETUM , they take the traditional tune to new heights. Want to see nine ladies dancing or seven swans swimming? The botanical garden sets up fanciful scenes with painstaking attention to detail, right down to the rhinestone-encrusted pears surrounding a rotating partridge.

Called “12 Days of Christmas at Night,” the event offers a rare chance to tour the arboretum after dark. The expansive gardens glow with the twinkle of more than 500,000 holiday lights, which are paired with classic carols for a festive holiday evening. Tickets are $12.

The historic DeGolyer House will be open on select nights, serving up robust meals like roast pork with raspberry chipotle sauce in a merry setting. The entire home is expertly decorated for the season, and this year will feature Claus Collection Santa Exhibit, a display dedicated to St. Nick in his many iterations. Dinners are $55 a person and reservations are a must by callingEmily Gavin at 214.515.6511. Tours of the home are available during normal garden hours.

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LAKE HIGHLANDS’ BRIGHT NIGHTS

For many, the ritual lighting of an evergreen tree, ideally a ginormous one, marks the beginning of the holiday season. Until last year, Lake Highlands did not have a tree-lighting ceremony to call its own. THE LAKE HIGHLANDS

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changed that, launching a late-November family festival that includes the illumination of a 30-foot fir, performances from Lake Highlands High School choirs, Santa appearances and free food from In-N-Out Burger. The timing was perfect, following 2015’s distressing discontinuation of the Casa Linda Plaza tree-lighting extravaganza, which had been a decades-long White Rock-area tradition. This free event takes place at Lake Highlands North Recreation Center, 9940 White Rock Trail from 4-6 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 27. The lighting is at 5:50 p.m., but if you miss that, fret not — the fantastic flora glows each evening at 5:30 until 2 a.m. through mid-January.

AN EVEN BIGGER TREE

The biggest indoor Christmas tree in the country, perhaps? Look just outside our neighborhood, at GALLERIA DALLAS, I-635 and Dallas Parkway. The iconic North Dallas mall annually showcases a 95-foot, ornamentand light- laden faux fir encircled at its base by ice that becomes a wildly popular winter break destination. “Millions of guests each year visit the tree,” Galleria spokesperson Kelly Hunter says. Pomp aplenty accompanies the annual tree installation, in the form of famous, champion ice skaters and a stunt-skating Santa known as Missile Toes. Friday, Nov. 25 at noon marks the first lighting of this season’s tree, but the month of December presents ample opportunities intended to instill in spectators bounteous holiday cheer: Olympians Johnny Weir and skating champs Ricky Dornbush and Ryan Bradley perform Saturdays, Dec. 3, 10 and 17, respectively. All shows are free, begin at 6 p.m. and feature young local and regional athletes. Each production closes with the flashy back-flipping Missile Toes lighting the Galleria Dallas Christmas Tree with what promoters call “pyrotechnic flourish.”

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MUSICAL EVENTS NOT TO MISS

1 Home to the annual HAIR METAL HOLIDAY, The Bomb Factory is located at 2713 Canton St., but we honor the venue and the event, a throwback metal-music bash, because the proprietors, Clint and Whitney Barlow, reside in Lake Highlands. The duo is credited with bringing Deep Ellum’s Bomb Factory and Trees back to life. Hair Metal Holiday, featuring SLAUGHTER, Kix, King’s X, Lynch Mob with George Lynch of Dokken, BulletBoys, Tuff, Pretty Boy Floyd and Lillian Axe — is Dec. 10 at 3 p.m. Tickets start at $30.

PARADE INTO THE SEASON

For the 44th year, RICHARDSON’S CHRISTMAS PARADE showcases bands and dance teams from Richardson ISD schools and benefits Network, a charity that helps lower-income families in the district. Floats and other acts travel north on Plano Road from Richardson Square to Apollo Road and end in the Huffhines Park lot. Festivities begin at 9 a.m., Saturday, Dec. 3. A tree-lighting ceremony and opening of Santa’s Village, which welcomes the public all month, follows the procession.

HOLIDAY HOME TOUR

“The Lake Highlands Women’s League Home Tour absolutely kicks off the holidays for me,” says reader Karen Clardy, a faithful participant. The HOLIDAY IN THE HIGHLANDS HOME TOUR this year falls on Friday, Dec. 2. Ticketholders peek inside four architecturally attractive neighborhood homes, all decked out for the season: 10905 Cactus Ln., 10025 Estate Ln., 6807 Hyde Park Dr. and 9552 Highedge Dr. Tickets are available at lhwl.org. Proceeds support the LHWL scholarships for Lake Highlands High School students.

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2 Christmas collides with pop rock when the White Rock area-rooted POLYPHONIC SPREE puts on its big show this month. The annual Holiday Extravaganza takes place Dec. 10 at 6 p.m. at the Majestic Theatre, 1925 Elm St. Visit theholidayextravaganza.com or call 214.670.3687 for details.

3 WORLD BEAT CONCERT DRUM SHOW brings rhythms from around the world, and it is free at Richland College. The Richland Percussion Group and Steel Band performs at 7:30 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 8 at Fannin Hall.

Dallas neighborhoods go all aglow each holiday season, and packing into the family SUV for a tour de dazzling decor is a time-tested tradition, but what if you could enjoy a bird’s-eye look at all that illumination in one 30-minute ride? Lake Highlands couple Connie and Ken Pyatt followed their passion in the 1990s when they opened SKY HELICOPTERS; now they operate the heliport, at 2559 S. Jupiter, from where you can launch the perfect December date night. Holiday lights tours fly over some of Dallas’ most impressively ignited

4 THE LONE STAR CIRCUS marks its 10th year of bringing it’s festive holiday “La Fête” showcase of acrobats and aerialists, music and mimes. You’ll want to get there 45 minutes early to take in the pre-show with music, poetry and more. The show runs Dec. 27-Jan 1, during which showtimes vary by day. Tickets are $21-$27 and available at lonestarcircus.com

neighborhoods — White Rock, Park Cities, North Dallas and the Galleria, Farmers Branch and Downtown Dallas. The 30-minute flight runs $375 for two people. Add a third for $59. And, when seeking the perfect gift for that aspiring pilot in your life, Sky offers a flight-simulator lesson/flight combo — for $159, receive 30 minutes of instruction followed by 30 minutes in-the-air practice in a controlled environment. Visit skyhelicopters.com for more information.

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12 HOUSES MARK 12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS

One Lake Highlands cul-de-sac is known for its 12 days of Christmas display, which for more than a decade has enchanted sightseers with maids a milking, dancers dancing, swans a swimming and all the rest. Visit throughout December at TIMBERHOLLOW CIRCLE in the Oak Highlands neighborhood.

NUTCRACKERS TRADITION

The nutcracker has been a symbol of the Christmas season since they were first presented as gifts of luck and protection in Germany in the 15th century. The holiday ballet of the same name, however, didn’t become a holiday tradition until more recently. While it was first danced in St. Petersburg in 1892, it wasn’t until the San Francisco ballet debuted the show on Christmas Eve in 1944 that it became an American holiday tradition. Here in the neighborhood, the KATHY BURKS THEATRE OF PUPPETRY ARTS is also taking on Peter Ilyich Tchaikovsky’s classic and spinning the tale with an age-old art form: puppets. This year will also be the 20th anniversary of the family friendly event being performed at the Dallas Children’s Theater Nov. 18 – Dec. 21. For deaf viewers, a special performance will also be held in sign language on Dec. 4 at 4:30 p.m. Both performances will be held at the Rosewood Center, 5938 Skillman. Get tickets and more info at dct.org.

Snow in Dallas, if it comes, usually doesn’t arrive until after Christmas, but

in 2012 — by some meteorological magic — the city awoke on Dec. 25 to a wonderful white-flake blanketed world. In Lake Highlands, dozens of families, after tearing into presents, attending to various holiday traditions and church services, took advantage of a rare opportunity. Heading to our neighborhood’s highest peak, FLAG POLE HILL,toting cardboard, trashcan lids and boogie boards, snow deprived Texans took part in the pinnacle of snow-day ritual — that is, sledding

down our slushy “mountain.” If you’re fortunate enough to see snow at all this winter, you are required to give this a try — we suggest helmets, especially for beginners.

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bed trailer brimming with giddy, candy cane-stoked kiddos — it’s a recipe for a wild, memorable JINGLE RIDE in the White Rock Valley neighborhood. Amazingly, the gifts are from, not for, most of the children in attendance. They bring them for families in need, identified through nonprofits such as Pamper Lake Highlands and Feed Lake Highlands. This year’s ride takes off the evening of Dec. 17.

LIVING BETHLEHEM

With no crib for a bed and in a manger not far away, a Baby Jesus proxy lays down his sweet head. Our area is home to two thoroughgoing live nativity scenes, complete with The Holy Family, Three Wise Men and fabled farm animals.

WILSHIRE BAPTIST , Abrams at Mockingbird, transforms its entire community hall into a Bethlehem marketplace, offering crafts, instrument demos, food and costumes of the day. The immersive event is free during the Advent season. Visit wilshirebc.org for times. ASCENSION

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offers live reenactments of the nativity story every 45 minutes beginning at 5 p.m., Sunday, Dec. 18.

OUR VERY OWN SANTA

During his offseason — approximately January through November — you can call him STAN GARINGER . At home in Lake Highlands, he wears casual khakis under a blue T-shirt, his bushy grey-white beard grazing the collar. When he shakes your hand and smiles, you’ll swear that, behind wire-rimmed spectacles, there is a twinkle in his eye. During December, when he sports the familiar red and white suit, you might spot him at the St. Pat’s Shamrock Jingle Bell Run, J.J’s Café, Top Golf or Whole Foods, with eager tots on his knees and in line at his feet, waiting to spill their holiday wishes.

HANUKKAH HOOPLA

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“We were trying to figure out a way to give back to the community … and what better way than shop and play,” says Ashley Bundis, the marketing services and program director of the JCC.

At the inaugural event, get a head start on holiday shopping. Parents can peruse jewelry, clothing, home décor and other wares, while children can create DIY arts and crafts. Two kids launching their own businesses debut their products at Hanukkah Hoopla, too.

The menu includes latkes, of course, but also expect food typically found at festivals, like Dippin’ Dots. Indoor and outdoor activities ranging from game trucks to train rides are part of the afternoon festivities. In case the kiddos become overwhelmed with all the excitement, Jewish Family Services is staffing a quiet room to help them calm down.

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ELF, SCHMELF

An entrepreneurial Lake Highlands couple presents a little friendly competition for a certain ubiquitous pixie, with their 2015-initiated endeavor, which offers a positive alternative to “threat-based Christmas toys and stories like ‘The Elfon theShelf.’” It’s rooted in a beautifully illustrated book called “THE SPIRIT POST,” and it “uses positive motivation to encourage kids to do acts of kindness daily,” according to co-creator Amelia Cardenas, an immigration lawyer. Her husband and project partner Arik is a photographer. The Spirit Post uses not elves but cuddly messenger owls to deliver notes about good deeds to Santa and his team. The famous Elf, contrarily, is more of a snitch, reporting kids’ bad deeds to Santa. (We’ve seen it in action, and, in Elf’s defense, it keeps impressionable-aged children in line). Amelia wrote the book, which contains the backstory about a Christmas-spirit shortage at the North Pole. Artist Jessica Lanan illustrated it. Packages include the book, a plush snowy owl and a notebook for recording messages, and isavailable on Amazon.com

MAKE YOUR MARK

Members of large families or anyone who has trouble keeping track of whose stuff is whose, as well as drinkers aiming to keep tabs on their beverages, will appreciate the work of KRISTY and SARA CRAWFORD, purveyors of all things embroidered. Personalized Styrofoam cups, comfy moccasins, casserole carriers, school supplies, bibs, blankets, T-shirts and the ever-popular pick-a-pattern koozies, each with a precisely stitched name or initials, are all items available from the mother-daughter team at twofunnygirls.com

FESTIVE FEET

Lake Highlands resident TOM BROWNING a few years back quit his day job to focus fulltime on his pedi-project, Foot Cardigan. Browning is one of the five founders of this subscription-based sock-of-the-month club that launched last summer. Customers sign up to receive (or give) a randomly chosen pair of “delightfully unusual” socks in the mail for $9 a month. For $17 a month, you can get a subscription for yourself plus one. “For the price of two lattes a month, you get something fun,” Browning says. “You can wear them with uniforms, pants, shorts and, unfortunately, sandals. We neither judge nor condone that.” The guys offer three-, six-, nine- and 12-month subscriptions. At footcardigan.com

MEMORY MAKER

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BEVER perfected the craft of creating personal mementos. She uses finger, palm and feet prints to create keepsakes for parents, pet owners and gift givers. She’s just about perfected the art of wheedling wiggly babies into handing over their paws for the cause. Once prints are secured, she uses them as the centerpiece for one-of-a-kind objects. As holidays approach, Christmas ornaments are the No. 1 seller, she says. “Some moms come back year after year for a new ornament. Others are just totally giddy to have one that says, ‘First Christmas 2016.’ Moms love to document everything their kids do. I have a cute baby-footprints design that I call: Mistle-toes.” She also makes mittens displaying handprints and footprint-stamped stockings. Your imagination is the only limit to what can be done, within reason, of course, at pintsizedprints.com

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IT’S PERSONAL

More personalized made-in-the-hood ornaments hail from the hands of Lake Highlands mom KATIE FUERST. Faithful shop-local advocates say ornament shoppers need look no further than Fuerst Editions. “What I love about [Katie’s] ornaments is: They are beautiful and so well done. She custom makes each one so they are all unique. And she’s a neighbor and I love supporting neighborhood businesses and friends,” reader and neighbor Krista Curnutt says. Fuerst even hosts painting parties for members of the senior class at Lake Highlands High School (or, more likely, their moms) to customize ornaments with prospective college colors. “I’ve ordered from her for the past couple of years,” Curnutt says, “and what is so nice is that as each of my children move from activity to activity, and high school to college, and so on, I can add an ornament to my family holiday tree that is unique to them and what is going on in their lives.”

TACKY TOPS

It will appeal to two groups of neighborhood residents — senior retirees, especially retired teachers, and hipsters, those millennials who embrace, and sometimes abuse, irony. It is the bad Christmas sweater — the gaudier, the tackier, the more three-dimensional, the better. Members of both categories populate our neighborhood, and still more reluctantly will participate in those Ugly Christmas Sweat-

THE DO’S & DON’TS OF CHILD CUSTODY DURING THE HOLIDAYS

The holidays can be an incredibly stressful time, especially if you’re a parent who has gone through a separation or divorce. Handling the holidays with a restructured family forces you to rethink some of your plans and expectations. Here are some guidelines on how to handle your situation this year to maintain the cheer.

DO review your child custody agreement ahead of time. If you have one in place, review it now. It is very common to rotate annually. Your order may also specify drop off and pick up times. It’s easy to forget the details. That’s why you should review it before it’s too late and someone gets upset. If it isn’t laid out, make a clear plan with the other parent ahead of time.

DON’T put your children in the middle of disputes. You may not agree with the other place your kids in the terrible position of having to choose between parents. If it doesn’t go your way, try to accept the situation and choose to make the best of it. DO discuss holiday plans with your children. Once a plan and schedule has been

of time so they can anticipate what their holiday will look like.

DON’T be afraid to start new traditions. Instead of trying to replicate all your old traditions, create something completely new. For example, have a Christmas Eve game night or eat cookies for breakfast. It gives your kids something to look forward to and less time to dwell on the past. But you don’t have to eliminate all old traditions either. If possible, try to make them happen.

This holiday season put your energy into making it a great one for your kids. Things may not go exactly as you had wanted, but try to handle it with grace and sanity.

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er parties and themed days at the office. Thus the typical thrift stores are in short supply of tacky holiday wear. Thankfully there is THE UGLY CHRISTMAS SWEATER POP-UP SHOP, which offers a concentrated inventory of tasteless Santa and snowflake emblazoned knits. Find it all month at 6333 E. Mockingbird, suite 141.

A LOVE STORY TO REMEMBER

When a vicious attack shattered his world and memories, she pieced him back together

Story by EMILY CHARRIER | Photos by DANNY FULGENCIO

They had known each other just nine months. She had only met his mother once, but now she stood clutching the woman’s hand over a hospital bed. Patty Pace had a choice to make. She could either commit to her new boyfriend’s recovery, a road with no guarantees, or she could walk away and go back to her busy life as a pastry chef and wedding cake designer.

“What kind of a person breaks up with a boyfriend because he got attacked?” she thought to herself. “There was doubt at times of whether I could do this. But I had to do it. I would want someone to do the same for me.”

But it wouldn’t be easy — the violent beating shattered his skull, leaving his memory and personality fractured. There were days he didn’t recognize her. Days he was angry and frustrated and looking

to lash out. Days she questioned whether she could continue on as his caretaker. But, as in all good romance novels, love endured the chaos.

“I think we’re just so lucky to have each other,” the Lake Highlands High School grad says. “Not everyone is lucky enough to find their best friend through something like this.”

Pace met Adam Palmer at a friend’s Christmas party during the 2013 holiday

Lake Highlands’ Patty Pace gave boyfriend Adam Palmer a fighting chance after he was the victim of a brutal crime.

season. It wasn’t love at first sight.

“When we first started talking, he was cocky. I don’t do cocky,” she says. But as the night went on, she saw a yang to her yin. “I am a really serious person and Adam was light. He’s the life of the party.”

The two started dating, casually. She loved his easygoing nature; he fell for her drive and passion. Then came the night of Sept. 11, 2014, when everything would change for Pace and Palmer.

The details are fuzzy between Palmer’s memories and police reports. Although Palmer initially had no recollection of the attack, he says his memories came flooding back a few months later, which can happen with recovering brain injuries.

Palmer stopped to cash a check, proven by a receipt time-stamped for 9:28 p.m., then headed home to take his puppy out before meeting a friend. Palmer works at the Aldredge House on Swiss Avenue and had just pulled up to the caretaker’s unit out back when he was attacked from behind. He says he was beaten by two men and was able to fight back, at first.

“And then two more guys came up,” he says. “One had a pistol.”

Palmer was beaten extensively with fists, the gun and a piece of firewood. He says he’s confident he would have been killed if the friend he planned to meet hadn’t driven up, causing the attackers to flee with his wallet and car keys.

According to the police report, Palmer was found at 9:45 p.m. clinging to the security bars on the garage door, bleeding from his ears and complaining that he couldn’t hear. Emergency services rushed Palmer to Baylor University Medical Center, where a coma was induced while doctors waited for his swollen brain to recede.

To date, police have not caught the men responsible for the crime.

Across town, Pace was in her Lake Highlands home when the phone rang.

“He just said, ‘Emergency, 911. Adam’s been attacked. Get to the hospital,’ ” she recalls. “I remember thinking I didn’t even know how to contact anyone. I didn’t have numbers for his mom or his dad or his brother.”

When she finally saw Palmer, he was comatose, machines sprouting from his mouth and nose to keep him breathing. “They told us to talk to him, so we did,” she says, remembering long hours in the hospital room with his mother, each holding one of Palmer’s hands. “We were just waiting, waiting, waiting.”

Palmer was confused and scared when he woke up two days later, pulling at the tube in his mouth. He had no

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idea what happened. He couldn’t remember his 30th birthday party that occurred a week before. He couldn’t remember large chunks of his childhood.

“My mom, my girlfriend and another friend were there, and I had no idea who they were,” Palmer says. “I had what’s called facial blindness. I couldn’t recognize them.”

Memory loss is one of the most common symptoms associated with severe head injuries, but no two cases are alike. Palmer had fractures on both the right and left sides of his skull, causing extensive damage to his frontal lobe, which controls both old and new memories. His top vertebra was broken. His ear canal was ruptured, resulting in severe hearing loss and permanent damage to his equilibrium.

“Nothing works right anymore,” Palmer laughs dryly.

Palmer’s family lived outside the city, and he was eager to stay close to his friends and his work, even though it would be months before he was back on the job. Pace considered what it would be to take him back to her family’s Flag Pole Hill home.

“He has all these medical problems. Can I really move him in?” she asked herself. “My mom, my grandmother and I just made it work. They were supportive because they knew I needed to do this.” The three Pace women made a schedule to account for Palmer’s 24/7 care, which they tracked along with other vital health information in a binder by his bed. Palmer couldn’t walk, the damage to his inner ear threw him off balance. He was bedridden for weeks. It was months before he could walk unassisted. Cognitively, he lost his ability to easily retain new information; he now relies on endless Post-Its and reminders in his smartphone to keep track of his daily life.

“When he tried to start doing things for himself,” Pace remembers, “you’d literally have to call him, text him and make him write it down — multiple times. It was the only way he’d keep track.”

As with many head injuries, the attack sent Palmer’s moods spiraling. Once described as unflappable, he was now prone

to fits of anger and despair.

“He gets set off really easily and you have to calm him down,” she says. “It’s been really hard on our relationship.”

It was like getting to know a new person, she says — a man who only vaguely resembled the man she once dated.

“He’s not the same person he was,” she says. “But he’s an amazing person. We’ve grown a lot. You get to know people in a

really intimate way when you’ve seen each other at your most vulnerable.”

For months, the Pace family handled Palmer’s care themselves at their Lake Highlands home, but it became clear his progress was stalling. Pace implored Palmer to obtain further professional care. He sought a variety of physical and occupational therapies at Parkland Memorial Hospital, a helpful if halting experience, interrupted when he didn’t have the funds to pay.

“Every time he has any extra money he’s at Parkland paying his bill down,” Pace says.

Not only did the attack ravage his body and psyche, it devastated his finances. Lacking medical insurance, he

Adam Palmer, sitting in stairwell where he was attacked, still struggles to regain his health and memories.

“He has all these medical problems. Can I really move him in?”

racked up six-figure medical bills at Baylor, with additional ongoing medical expenses at Parkland. A GoFundMe account raised around $1,300 for his recovery, not nearly enough to keep creditors at bay, although it remains open for donations. It’s another thing that has to be considered before their lives can move forward.

“That’s not something that’s going to deter me from marrying someone,” Pace says. “I don’t see it as Adam’s debt, I see it as the attack’s debt.”

Palmer is still at the Aldredge House, with added security, but he dreams of becoming a Dallas Police officer. He can’t pass the physical exam, at least not yet. He’ll need hearing aids and surgery to fix damage to his left eye that makes it difficult for him to see. He still battles the insomnia and anxiety that comes with post traumatic stress disorder.

“It’s going to be many more years before I’ll be OK,” he says through tears. “I’ll never be 100 percent.”

The couple is struggling to find the new normal in the wake of violence, but Pace longs for a day when they won’t be defined by Palmer’s condition.

“I’m ready for our lives to get back to us and away from all these medical problems,” she says. “We’d like to move forward. We’d like to get married and have a kid one day. But right now it’s one day at a time.”

Palmer says despite all he has lost, he has gained a partner for life in Pace.

“I couldn’t ask for a better girl,” he says with a smile.

Lakewood Early Childhood

PTA would like to thank these wonderful companies and individuals for making the 40 th Annual Lakewood Home Festival a huge success.

4 0 Y EARS 40 YEARS

By GEORGE MASON

Get woke

Preachers traffic in words. And because language changes, it’s fun and challenging to keep up with new words and new meanings of words that appear in our cultural lexicon. Like “woke.”

Being woke is a way of talking about becoming newly aware of circumstances you once were asleep to. Being woke has its roots in the Black Lives Matter movement. Usually it refers to a white person who awakens to the realities of racial, gender or sexual inequalities that exist in the structures of our everyday lives. Most of us who get woke have an encounter with some injustice that sparks a new or fresh or changed understanding of our previous thinking. The Twittersphere is full of hashtags on the subject, such as #getwoke or #staywoke.

Christians know the verse from Romans 12 that calls us to a different way of seeing: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern what is the will of God — what is good and acceptable and perfect.”

The “world” St. Paul talks about is the way things are organized that is contrary to the divine intent for human flourishing. If we want to participate in the redemption of all things, we need to get woke to God’s desires for the world. We need to be able to discern what is good and acceptable and perfect. And that takes having our minds renewed.

As a pastor, I have been amazed at walking beside people with brain injuries. A young adult friend who had a mountain biking accident suffered a severe head injury. Two young children were in a recent car accident and suffered head trauma. In each case, the brain went to sleep for a time while it tried to heal. Doctors sometimes induce a coma in order to give it the necessary rest to recover. When they wake it up, there is

work to be done to connect new neuropaths that will allow the mind to work again. The brain needs to be retrained to do the things necessary for the person to walk and talk and function normally. Similarly, we are called to a lifelong practice of mind renewal that allows us to see how asleep we have been to God’s will for the world. When we awaken spiritually, we are not immediately healed. We still want to return to the patterns of seeing and conceiving the world that keep injustice in place. Getting woke and

WORSHIP

ANGLICAN

ALL SAINTS EAST DALLAS / allsaintseastdallas.org

Sunday worship 5:00 pm / Live in God’s Presence. Live Out His Love.

Meeting at Central Lutheran Church / 1000 Easton Road

BAPTIST

PARK CITIES BAPTIST CHURCH / 3933 Northwest Pky / pcbc.org

Worship & Bible Study 9:15 & 10:45 Traditional, Contemporary, Spanish Speaking / 214.860.1500

WILSHIRE BAPTIST / 4316 Abrams / 214.452.3100

Pastor George A. Mason Ph.D. / Worship 8:30 & 11:00 am

Bible Study 9:40 am / www.wilshirebc.org

BIBLE CHURCHES

NORTH HIGHLANDS BIBLE CHURCH / nhbc.net / 9626 Church Rd.

Sun: LifeQuest 9:00 am / Worship 10:30 am / 214.348.9697

Wed: AWANA and Kids Choir 6:00 pm / Student Ministry 7:00 pm

DISCIPLES OF CHRIST

EAST DALLAS CHRISTIAN CHURCH / 629 N. Peak Street / 214.824.8185

Sunday School 9:30 am / Worship 8:30 am - Chapel

10:50 am - Sanctuary / Rev. Deborah Morgan-Stokes / edcc.org

LUTHERAN

CENTRAL LUTHERAN CHURCH, ELCA / 1000 Easton Road

Sunday School for all ages 9:00 am / Worship Service 10:30 am

Pastor Rich Pounds / CentralLutheran.org / 214.327.2222

FIRST UNITED LUTHERAN CHURCH / 6202 E Mockingbird Ln.

Sunday Worship Service 10:30 am / Call for class schedule. 214.821.5929 / www.dallaslutheran.org

METHODIST

LAKE HIGHLANDS UMC / 9015 Plano Rd. / 214.348.6600 / lhumc.com

Sunday Morning: 9:30 am Sunday School / 10:30 am Coffee

Worship: 8:30 am & 11:00 am Traditional / 11:00 am Contemporary

PRESBYTERIAN

LAKE HIGHLANDS PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH / 214.348.2133 8525 Audelia Road at NW Hwy. / www.lhpres.org

9:00 am Contemporary, 9:55 am Christian Ed., 11:00 am Traditional

NORTHRIDGE PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH / 6920 Bob-O-Link Dr. 214.827.5521 / www.northridgepc.org / Welcomes you to Worship

8:30 & 11:00 am / Church School 9:35 am / Childcare provided.

UNITY

staying woke takes deliberate attention. We have to relearn what it means to be human and to be neighbors who look out for one another.

Right after those words from Romans, the apostle tells us not to think of ourselves so highly, but instead to “love one another with mutual affection and to outdo one another in showing honor.” To be woke, then, is not to insist on our own privilege, but rather to look out for the welfare of others.

Let’s get woke and stay woke.

George Mason is pastor of Wilshire Baptist Church. The Worship section is underwritten by Advocate Publishing and the neighborhood businesses and churches listed here. For information about helping support the Worship section, call 214.560.4202.

UNITY OF DALLAS / A Positive Path for Spiritual Living 6525 Forest Lane, Dallas, TX 75230 / 972.233.7106 / UnityDallas.org

Sundays: 9:00 am Early Service, 11:00 am Celebration Service

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BIZZ BUZZ

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WHAT’S UP WITH NEIGHBORHOOD BUSINESSES

OPEN NOW

Cedra Pharmacy opened its combined retail pharmacy, medical spa and vitality bar at 9669 N. Central Expressway. The New York-based company was founded in 2014 and offersmedical-grade services and products.

MAKING CHANGES

The White Rock Lake-area building that Lucky Dog Books once occupied will be revamped by Jeff Brand of Brand Capital Partners. New landscaping, seating areas, wall murals and a “clean crisp exterior” all are part of Brand’s agenda. Meanwhile, Lucky Dog Books owner John Tilton has yet to decide the used bookstore’s fate.

The Shoreview Shopping Center, at Ferndale and Shoreview, is soon to be empty. It’s lone tenant, Antioch Community Church, plans to relocate to a larger center at the Catholic Charities building on the 1-635 service road.

COMING SOON

Nonprofit senior care and living community C.C. Young is constructing a 10-story residential tower slated to open in 2018. The$84 million building replaces an existing structure in the corner of the lot overlooking Northwest Highway and is expected to include 221 units for assisted living and Alzheimer’s patients.

Cajun seafood restaurant Papa’s Crabs is moving into a long vacant space on Skillman near Royal Lane.

PAY IT FORWARD

Located just across Central Expressway, Communities Foundation of Texas gave a $1.5 million W.W. Caruth, Jr. Foundation Grant to train paramedics, police officers and mental health experts to respond as a team to behavioral health emergencies.

Secure, covered parking 8th floor panoramic views over Lakewood and Downtown Includes use of kitchen for details call 214.560.4212 or email rwamre@advocatemag.com 6301 Gaston Ave. / Dallas, TX 75214

You can be here

EDUCATION

Richardson Independent School District continues to clash with the City of Dallas over the district’s proposed school at White Rock Trail and Walnut Hill. Homeowner group We Have a Voice has been vocal in opposing the construction of the school, but demolition continues. Meanwhile, the City of Dallas has indicated it will refuse to grant a construction permit on that site because of its active deed restrictions. If the city rejects the plans, it’s up to district officials to decide if they’re prepared for a court fight with the city.

Richardson ISD Chief Financial Officer

Tony Harkleroad is retiring this month after 25 years with the district. “Financially, we are much stronger now than when I started,” he said during an interview with the Advocate. “I think that’s always the goal – leave it better than you found it.” But it may not be the end of his career with RISD entirely, he hinted “Maybe I’ll run for school board.”

PEOPLE

Wildcat Haley Harman, an outside hitter and captain for the girls volleyball team, signed her letter of intent to play at Texas Tech University. Middle hitter Grace Bateman pledged to Southeastern Louisiana University.

RELIGION

Pastor George Mason’s Wilshire Baptist Church near White Rock Lake recently made news statewide after its congregation voted to treat all of its membership equally, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. The measure, which passed with a 61 percent majority, leaves the church at odds not only with some longtime members, but also with the Baptist General Convention of Texas, an organization with which Wilshire has partnered for 65 years. “Our church knows that there are consequences of our decision. We think there will be many positive consequences for being able to say to the LGBT community that they are welcome here fully, in Christ.”

HIGHLANDER SCHOOL

9120 Plano Rd. Dallas / 214.348.3220 / www.highlanderschool.com Founded in 1966, Highlander offers an enriched curriculum in a positive, Christian-based environment. By limiting class size, teachers are able to build a strong educational foundation to ensure confidence in academics, athletics, and the creative and performing arts. Highlander offers a “classic” education which cannot be equaled. Monthly tours offered; call for a reservation.

HOLY TRINITY CATHOLIC SCHOOL

3815 Oak Lawn Ave., Dallas 214-526-5113, htcsdallas.org For more than 100 years, Holy Trinity Catholic School, has been committed to the religious, intellectual, emotional, social and physical growth of each student. This commitment is carried out in a nurturing atmosphere with an emphasis on social awareness, service to others, and religious faith in the Catholic tradition. The Immaculate Heart Program at Holy Trinity School was initiated to fully realize our school’s mission of developing the whole child by meeting the needs of one of the most underserved and underperforming groups in catholic schools, children with dyslexia.

LAKEHILL PREPARATORY SCHOOL

Leading to Success. 2720 Hillside Dr., Dallas 75214 / 214.826.2931 / lakehillprep.org

Kindergarten through Grade 12 - Lakehill Preparatory School takes the word preparatory in its name very seriously. Throughout a student’s academic career, Lakehill builds an educational program that achieves its goal of enabling graduates to attend the finest, most rigorous universities of choice. Lakehill combines a robust, college-preparatory curriculum with opportunities for personal growth, individual enrichment, and community involvement. From kindergarten through high school, every Lakehill student is encouraged to strive, challenged to succeed, and inspired to excel.

THE LAMPLIGHTER SCHOOL

11611 Inwood Road Dallas TX 75229/ 214-369-9201/ thelamplighterschool.org

Lamplighter delivers serious education wrapped in the wonder of childhood. The Pre-K through fourth grade years are fleeting, but filled with pure potential. What we, as parents and educators, ignite in these primary years establishes the trajectory of a child’s future. Lamplighter helps set children on a path toward rewarding lives as forever learners. The independent, co-educational school promotes academic excellence through innovative curriculum that merges fine arts with language arts, math, environmental science, social studies, physical education, and Spanish

SPANISH HOUSE

Four East Dallas Locations / 214.826.4410/ DallasSpanishHouse.com Spanish Immersion Program in East Dallas! Nursery, Preschool, Elementary and Adult Programs available. Our new dual-language elementary campus is now open at 7159 E. Grand Ave. Please visit our website at DallasSpanishHouse.com for more information.

ST. JOHN’S EPISCOPAL SCHOOL

848 Harter Rd., Dallas 75218 / 214.328.9131 / stjohnsschool.org

Founded in 1953, St. John’s is an independent, co-educational day school for Pre-K through Grade 8. With a tradition for academic excellence, St. John’s programs include a challenging curriculum in a Christian environment along with instruction in the visual and performing arts, Spanish, German, French, and opportunities for athletics and community service.St. John’s goal for its students is to develop a love for learning, service to others, and leadership grounded in love, humility, and wisdom. Accredited by ISAS, SAES, and the Texas Education Agency.

WHITE ROCK NORTH SCHOOL

9727 White Rock Trail Dallas / 214.348.7410 / WhiteRockNorthSchool. com 6 Weeks through 6th Grade. Our accelerated curriculum provides opportunity for intellectual and physical development in a loving and nurturing environment. Characterbuilding and civic responsibility are stressed. Facilities include indoor swimming pool, skating rink, updated playground, and stateof-the-art technology lab. Kids Club on the Corner provides meaningful after-school experiences. Summer Camp offers field trips, swimming, and a balance of indoor and outdoor activities designed around fun-filled themes. Accredited by SACS. Call for a tour of the campus.

ZION LUTHERAN SCHOOL

6121 E. Lovers Ln. Dallas / 214.363.1630 / ziondallas. org Toddler care thru 8th Grade. Serving Dallas for over 58 years offering a quality education in a Christ-centered learning environment. Degreed educators minister to the academic, physical, emotional, social, and spiritual needs of students and their families. Before and after school programs, Extended Care, Parents Day Out, athletics, fine arts, integrated technology, Spanish, outdoor education, Accelerated Reader, advanced math placement, and student government. Accredited by National Lutheran School & Texas District Accreditation Commissions and TANS. Contact Principal Jeff Thorman.

CLASSES/TUTORING/ LESSONS

ART: Draw/Paint. Adults All Levels. Lake Highlands N. Rec. Ctr. Days: Mon & Wed. Students bring supplies. Nights: 1xt month workshop, supplies furnished. Jane Cross. 214-534-6829,

CREATIVE ARTS CENTER More than 500 adult art classes/ workshops from metal to mosaic! www.creativeartscenter.org

VOICE TEACHER with 40+ years experience. M.M. LSU www.PatriciaIvey.com • trilletta@msn.com • 214-769-8560

EMPLOYMENT

AIRLINE MECHANIC TRAINING Get FAA certified. Approved for military benefits. Financial aid if qualified. Job placement assistance. Aviation Institute of Maintenance 866-453-6204

OFFICE ASSISTANT NEEDED for Lakewood Residential Real Estate Co. Peachtree/Quickbooks knowledge preferred, will train. Flexible. 15-20 hrs. Depending on experience. Salary $10-15/hr w/90 day probation. Email resumé: hegwoodjamie@gmail.com

PET SITTERS, DOG WALKERS reply to http://www.pcpsi.com/join

BUSINESS OPPORTUNITIES

GREAT PUBLICATION BUSINESS FOR SALE

Well-established, Central TX, glossy, lifestyle magazine. Circulation 10,000 & growing: Hill Country, Waco & beyond. Huge potential. Email graceTX1030@gmail.com.

SERVICES FOR YOU

AT ODDS WITH YOUR COMPUTER? Easily Learn Essential Skills. Services include Digital Photo Help. Sharon 214-679-9688

COMPUTER HELP! Viruses, Data Recovery, Upgrades, WiFi Problems, Onsite Tech. 214-533-6216 WebersComputers.com

CONFUSED? FRUSTRATED? Let A Seasoned Pro Be The Interface Between You & That Pesky Windows Computer. Hardware & Software Installation, Troubleshooting, Training. $60/hr. 1 hr min. Dan 214-660-3733 / stykidan@sbcglobal.net

MCCLELLAND GUN SHOP Clean, Repair, Restore. New/Used Guns. 214-321-0231 McClellandGun.com

NEIGHBORHOOD ENERGY EXPERT Helps you earn rewards for free energy, travel points & more. Call Elaine today for a free electric bill review. 214-500-3667 Make the Switch & Save!

LEGAL SERVICES

A WILL? THERE IS A WAY! Estate/Probate matters. maryglennattorney.com 214-802-6768

PROFESSIONAL SERVICES

ACCOUNTING, TAXES Small Business & Individuals. Chris King, CPA 214-824-5313 www.chriskingcpa.com

BOOKKEEPING NEEDS? Customized To Your Needs. Payroll, W-2,1099. C.A.S. Bookkeeping Services. Cindy. cascastle@sbcglobal.net 214-577-7450

LEGAL ISSUES? The Law Office Of Lauren C Medel, PLLC. LaurenMedel.com. 972-773-9306

LICENSED PHYCHOLOGIST Academic, behavioral, ADHD, emotional testing. Children, adolescents, adults. Therapy. Dr. Katherine Pang 214-531-7624 lighthousepsychtesting.com

Perfect Holiday Host

The pressure can be unbearable, so entertain and enjoy with these tips.

1. Don’t buy the hype. Life is never the way TV portrays, so focus on being present, not perfect.

2. Celebrate your own way. Who says you need a full turkey dinner when Chinese take out is what you crave?

3. Be selective and attend the events you really love, don’t feel pressured to go to everything.

4. Alcohol isn’t needed to make the holidays merry — it can fuel tensions.

5. Know that family and friends don’t change, and you can’t make everyone happy. Take a deep breath and enjoy the season!

PROFESSIONAL SERVICES

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PET SERVICES

DOGGIE DEN DALLAS Daycare, Boarding, Grooming, Training. 6444 E. Mockingbird Ln. 214-823-1441 DoggieDenDallas.com

HOUSE CALLS OF DALLAS Personalized Care For Your Pet/ Home. Everything from Traveling/or away for the day. Insured. 214-704-6621.housecallsofdallas.com

BUY/SELL/TRADE

CARS/TRUCKS WANTED!!! All Makes/Models. 2000-2016. Any Condition. Running Or Not. Top $$$ Paid. Free Towing. We’re Nationwide. Call Now. 1-888-985-1806

RANGERS, STARS & MAVS

Share front-row Texas Rangers, Stars & Mavs seats. Tickets are available in sets of 10 games (sets of 2 or 4 tickets per game available). Participants randomly draw numbers prior to season to determine a draft order fair to everyone. Call 214-560-4212 or rwamre@advocatemag.com

ESTATE/GARAGE SALES

CLUTTERBLASTERS.COM

Estate Sales, Moving & DownSizing Sales. Since 2001. Ph/Txt Donna 972-679-3100

ORGANIZEANDREJUVENATE.COM

Declutter/Files/Feng Shui. 972-816-8004

OVERWHELMED? CALL All Points: “A Solutions Company” AllPointsEstateServices.com • 214-802-2781

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AC & HEAT

CLEANING SERVICES

CINDY’S HOUSE CLEANING 15 yrs exp. Resd/Com. Refs. Dependable. 214-490-0133

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APPLIANCE REPAIR

JESSE’S A/C & APPLIANCE SERVICE

TACLB13304C All Makes/Models. 214-660-8898

USED APPLIANCES FOR SALE Washer $125. Dryer $89.1 yr. Warranty. Repair. 972-329-2202 Serving

CABINETRY & FURNITURE

SQUARE NAIL WOODWORKING

Cabinet Refacing, Built-ins, Entertainment/ Computer Centers. Jim. 214-324-7398 www.squarenailwoodworking.com

CLEANING SERVICES

A MAID FOR YOU Bonded/Insured.Park Cities/ M Streets Refs. Call Us First. Joyce 214-232-9629

AFFORDABLE CLEANING Insd./Bonded. Move In/Out. Routine Cleaning. Reliable. Dependable. Residential/ Commercial. References. 28+yrs. Delta Cleaning. 972-943-9280.

AFFORDABLE, PROFESSIONAL CLEANING

$100 off 1st clean for new weekly/bi-weekly clients. Staff trained by Nationally Certified Cleaning Tech. Chemical-free, Green, or Traditional Cleaning. WindsorMaidServices.com 214-381-MAID (6243)

ALTOGETHER CLEAN

Relax ...We’ll Clean Your House, It Will Be Your Favorite Day! Bonded & Insurance. Free Estimates. 214-929-8413. www. altogetherclean.net

AMAZON CLEANING

Top To Bottom Clean. Fabiana.469-951-2948

MESS MASTERS Earth friendly housecleaning. 469-235-7272. www.messmasters.com Since ‘91

TWO SISTERS & A MOP

Move in/Out. Reliable/Dependable 20 Yrs Exp. 214-283-9732 twosistersamopmaidservice.com

WINDOW MAN WINDOW CLEANING.COM

Residential Specialists. BBB. 214-718-3134

COMPUTERS & ELECTRONICS

BILL’S COMPUTER REPAIR

Virus Removal, Data Recovery. Home/Biz Network Install. All Upgrades & Repairs. PC Instruction. No Trip Fee. 214-348-2566

CONCRETE/ MASONRY/PAVING

BRICK & STONE REPAIR

Tuck Pointing / Crack Repair. Mortar Color Matching. Windows,Doors, Cracks Etc. Don 214-704-1722

BRICK, BLOCK, Stone, Concrete, Stucco. Gonzalez Masonry. 214-395-1319

BRICK, STONEWORK, FLAGSTONE PATIOS

Mortar Repair. Straighten Brick Mailboxes & Columns. Call Cirilo 214-298-7174

CONCRETE REPAIRS/REPOURS

Demo existing. Stamping and Staining Driveways/Patio/Walkways

Pattern/Color available

Free Estimates 972-672-5359 (36 yrs.)

CONCRETE, Driveway Specialist Repairs, Replacement, Removal, References. Reasonable. Chris 214-770-5001

EDMONDSPAVING.COM Asphalt & Concrete Driveway-Sidewalk-Patio-Repair 214-957-3216

FLAGSTONE PATIOS, Retaining Walls, BBQ’s, Veneer, Flower Bed Edging, All Stone work. Chris 214-770-5001

ELECTRICAL SERVICES

ANTHONY’S ELECTRIC Master Electrician. TECL24948 anthonyselectricofdallas.com

50 Yrs. Electrical Exp. Insd. 214-328-1333

ELECTRICAL SERVICES

BRIGHT LIGHT ELECTRIC • 214-553-5333

TECL 31347 Brightening Homes and Businesses

EXPERIENCED LICENSED ELECTRICIAN Insd. Steve. TECL#27297 214-718-9648

LAKEWOOD ELECTRICAL Local. Insured. Lic. #227509 Call Rylan 214-434-8735

TEXAS ELECTRICAL • 214-289-0639

Prompt, Honest, Quality. TECL 24668

TH ELECTRIC Reasonable Rates. Licensed & Insured. Ted. E257 214-808-3658

WHITE ROCK ELECTRIC All Electrical Services. Lic/Insd. E795. 214-850-4891

EXTERIOR CLEANING

G&G DEMOLITION Tear downs, Haul. Interior/Exterior. 214-808-8925

FENCING & DECKS

#1 COWBOY FENCE & IRON CO. Est. ‘91. 214-692-1991 www.cowboyfenceandiron.com

4 QUALITY FENCING Call Mike 214-507-9322 Specializing in Wood, New or Repair.

AMBASSADOR FENCE INC. EST. 96 Automatic Gates, Fences/Decks, ambassadorfenceco.com 214-621-3217

FENCING & WOODWORK oldgatefence.com charliehookerswoodwork.com 214-766-6422

HANNAWOODWORKS.COM Decks, Pergolas, Patio Covers. 214-435-9574

KIRKWOOD FENCE & DECK New & Repair. Free Estimates. Nathan Kirkwood. 214-341-0699

LONESTARDECKS.COM 214-357-3975

Trex Decking & Fencing, trex.com

All Wood Decks, Arbors & Patio Covers

NORTHLAKE FENCE Locally owned and family operated. Celebrating 36 years of service. 214-349-9132 northlakefence.com

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COWBOY FENCE & IRON CO.

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SPECIALIZING IN Wood Fences &Auto Gates

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FLOORING & CARPETING

DALLAS HARDWOODS 214-724-0936

Installation, Repair, Refinish, Wax, Hand Scrape. Residential, Commercial. Sports Floors. 30 Yrs.

HASTINGS STAINED CONCRETE New/Remodel. Stain/Wax Int/Ext. Nick. 214-341-5993. www.hastingsfloors.com

Proudly serving DFW since 1999 Install · Refinish · Repair · Wax · Clean 214-543-7404 · dfwwoodfloor.co

GARAGE

ROCKET

UNITED

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GLASS, WINDOWS & DOORS

EAST DALLAS WINDOW CLEANING Power Wash. Free Est. Dependable. Derek. 214-360-0120

JIM HOWELL 214-357-8984 Frameless Shower Enclosures/Custom Mirrors. Free Estimates

LAKE HIGHLANDS GLASS & MIRROR

frameless shower enclosures • store fronts replacement windows • mirrors 214-349-8160

ROCK GLASS CO Replace, repair: windows, mirrors, showers, screens. 214-837-7829

HANDYMAN SERVICES

ALL STAR HOME CARE Carpentry, Glass, Tile, Paint, Doors, Sheetrock Repair, and more. 25 yrs. exp. References. Derry 214-505-4830

HANDY DAN The Handyman. ToDo’s Done Right. handy-dan.com 214-252-1628

HANDY MANNY PAINTING/HOME REPAIR Int./Ext. Manny 214-334-2160

HANDYMAN SPECIALIST Residential/ Commercial. Large, small jobs, repair list, renovations. Refs. 214-489-0635

HOMETOWN HANDYMAN All phases of construction. No job too small 214-327-4606

HONEST, SKILLED SERVICE With a Smile. General Repairs/ Maintenance. 214-215-2582

WANTED: ODD JOBS & TO DO LISTS

Allen’s Handyman & Home Repair 214-288-4232

Your Home Repair Specialists

Drywall Doors

Senior Safety Carpentry

KITCHEN/BATH/ TILE/GROUT

FENN CONSTRUCTION Full Service Contractor. dallastileman.com 214-343-4645

MELROSE TILE James Sr., Installer, Repairs. 40 Yrs. Exp. MelroseTile.com 214-384-6746

STONE AGE COUNTER TOPS Granite, Marble, Tile, Kitchen/Bath Remodels. 972-276-9943.stoneage.dennis@verizon.net

TK REMODELING 972-533-2872

Complete Full Service Repairs, Remodeling, Restoration. Name It — We do it. Tommy. Insured. dallas.tkremodelingcontractors.com

TOM HOLT TILE 30 Yrs Experience In Tile, Backsplashes & Floors. Refs. Avail. 214-770-3444

LAWNS,

PLUMBING

A2Z PLUMBING 214-727-4040

All Plumbing Repairs. Slab Leak Specialists. Licensed & Insured. ML# M36843.

AC PLUMBING Repairs, Fixtures, Senior Discounts. Gary Campbell. 214-321-5943

ANDREWS PLUMBING • 214-354-8521 # M37740 Insured. Any plumbing issues. plumberiffic69@gmail.com

Sewers • Drains • Bonded 24 Hours/7 Days *Joe Faz 469-346-1814 - Se Habla Español*

ARRIAGA PLUMBING: General Plumbing Since the 80’s. Insured. Lic# M- 20754 214-321-0589, 214-738-7116, CC’s accepted.

M&S PLUMBING Quality Work & Prompt Service. Jerry. 214-235-2172. lic.#M-11523

NTX PLUMBING SPEC. LLLP 214-226-0913 Lic. M-40581 Res/Com. Repairs & Leak Location

THE PLUMBING MANN LLC All Plumbing! Since 1978. Family Owned. RMP/Master-14240 Insured. 214-FAST-FIX/ 214-327-8349

WE REFINISH!

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LAWNS, GARDENS & TREES

We Residential/Commercial · Licensed/Insured

POOLS

Small & Odd Jobs And More! 972-308-6035

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HOUSE PAINTING

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Sheetrock Repair, Resurfacing Tubs, Counters, Tile Repairs. 469-774-7111

KITCHEN/BATH/

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Complete Kitchen And Bath Remodels. Tile, Granite, Marble, Travertine, Slate. Insured. 214-563-5035

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AYALA’S LANDSCAPING SERVICE

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CHUPIK TREE SERVICE

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HOLMAN IRRIGATION

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LSI LAWN SPRINKLERS “Making Water Work”

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TRACY’S LAWN CARE • 972-329-4190

Lawn Mowing & Leaf Cleaning

LEAFCHASERS POOL SERVICE Parts/Service. Chemicals/Repairs. Jonathan. 214-729-3311

REMODELING

AM

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PEST CONTROL

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Prices Start at $85 + Tax For General Treatment.

Average Home-Interior/Exterior & Attached Garage. Quotes For Other Services. 214-328-2847. Lakewood Resident

BLAKE CONSTRUCTION CONCEPTS, LLC Complete Remodeling, Kitchens, Baths, Additions. Hardie Siding & Replacement Windows. Build On Your Own Lot. Insured. www.blake-construction.com 214-563-5035

FENN CONSTRUCTION Full Service Contractor. dallastileman.com 214-343-4645

O’BRIEN GROUP INC. Remodeling Dallas For Over 17 Years www.ObrienGroupInc.com 214-341-1448

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ADVOCATEMAG.COM/SOCIAL FOR LOCAL UPDATES JAN.

DEC. 7

Wanda Marie Sims was born January 7, 1928 in Royce City, TX and died October 20, 2016 in Dallas at age 88.

Her generous spirit, heart, and love of family, friends, and life define this lovely lady. She leaves a legacy of fond memories with all whose lives she touched.

OBITUARIES

HONORING NEIGHBORS

She was devoted to her husband, children and grandchildren her entire life and always available for her friends. She led a full and fruitful life with love for God and family coming before all else.

Wanda never met a stranger and always got to know the people around her. Even while sitting in a waiting room, she would leave with the life story of the person sitting next to her.

Never one to hold back, she had passionate strong opinions. Proud to be an American, she sincerely loved her flag and her country and installed a flag pole in the yard. She was extremely concerned when they moved to a gated community which did not allow flags to be flown.

She and husband Joe loved to travel the United States and had almost visited each of the 50 states. They loved to work in their yard and always had the most beautiful landscaping in the neighborhood. People would always

stop their cars to tell them how pretty the yard was.

She is preceded in death by husband of 66 years Joseph Sims and brother John Wesley Hayles; survived by children Joseph P. Sims of Grand Prairie and Deborah Brown of Dallas; grandchildren, Blake Sims of Dallas and Allyson Sims of Los Angeles; sister, Anna Jo Baxter of Cooper TX.

Memorial service was held 11AM Monday, October 24, 2016 in the Chapel of Sparkman/Crane with a reception to follow at the funeral home. Please visit www.sparkman-crane for additional information. Memorials may be made to the charity of your choice.

REMEMBER AND HONOR YOUR LOVED ONES WITH THOSE WHO KNEW THEM BEST—OUR NEIGHBORS.

To learn more call 214-292-0962 or email obituaries@advocatemag.com.

WANDA MARIE SIMS

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TRUE CRIME

MYSTERIOUS DEATHS

The Dallas Police Department can’t seem to figure out how 63-year-old Jon Pappas died. The Oregon native was found unconscious in the 4400 block of Greenville Avenue near Mockingbird Lane in mid-October. He was transported to Presbyterian Hospital, where he was pronounced dead. “At this time, there is limited information in regards to this unexplained death,” law enforcement said. As of press time, police had not provided any updates in the investigation, but anyone who saw Pappas between 3-9 a.m. on Oct. 18 is asked to call Detective Isom at 214.671.3701.

The age of Anthony Zavala, who was shot and killed walking across a breezeway of a north Lake Highlands area apartment community

9:30

The time he was shot one lateOctober evening 9747

Forest Lane is the address of the apartment complex where he died

OUR CITY

By ANGELA HUNT

Suburban swindle

Why are we building highways and rail lines to nowhere?

On the surface, regionalism sounds like a reasonable, noble pursuit: neighboring cities working together towards common goals that benefit the larger area, affecting outcomes that none could achieve alone.

But in Dallas there has been a significant downside to regionalism that is more than just a trade-off between small sacrifices at the local level in pursuit of a greater good that will nonetheless benefit our city. No, we’re getting the short end of the stick compared to our suburban neighbors and the fault lies squarely at the gates of Dallas City Hall.

Regionalism in Dallas is all about transportation planning and spending, and here is what transportation regionalism has wrought for our city: Dallas neighborhoods have been bifurcated and torn asunder by bloated, steroidal highways that carry mostly flow-through traffic. Our regional transit system is one of the least efficient in the country. Dallas’ population remained flat between 2000 and 2010 while the region grew exponentially. Dallas’ working poor are forced to choose between enduring hours of labyrinthine, inefficient bus routes to get to work or investing in cars that swallow up a huge chunk of their paychecks.

I discussed these problems with Patrick Kennedy, a young, smart urban planner who agrees that regional transportation policies are choking Dallas. He said part of the problem is that the folks who dole out federal money for the region have created a self-fulfilling prophecy that encourages more and more sprawl.

Regionalists detest a “fix it first” policy, where they improve the deteriorating infrastructure that already exists. Instead, they like to build new, multi-billion dollar

highways. This requires them to anticipate where future population growth will occur. They don’t know. They can’t know. But they pick an enormous cow pasture north of Dallas as a growth center because that will mean they’ll have to build a huge, billion-dollar highway to it.

So they build a huge, billion-dollar highway to it, and lo! A city arises from the flaxen fields! The regionalists pat themselves on the back for their remarkable prescience, when in fact, they ensured the fulfillment of their prophecy through their highway construction.

They pick an enormous cow pasture north of Dallas as a growth center because that will mean they’ll have to build a huge, billiondollar highway to it.

As the regionalists’ population projections keep moving farther and farther from Dallas, our city loses residents, jobs, industry, corporate headquarters and good schools to our northern neighbors.

Dallas Area Rapid Transit — or DART — is equally culpable. DART builds and operates light rail and bus routes. It’s a regional system funded through a onecent sales tax from Dallas and a dozen other nearby cities.

The problem with DART is that it has prioritized the size of its system over its ridership. More DART riders would mean we’re taking more cars off our roads, improving our air quality and making

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our streets and highways more efficient. But because DART relies on sales-tax revenue as its primary funding source (instead of fares), they have no incentive to increase ridership through better, more frequent transit service.

Additionally, DART is prioritizing the suburbs to the detriment of Dallas, putting inefficient projects like Addison’s Cotton Belt rail line ahead of Dallas’s “D2” subway line downtown. Addison argues that they’ve waited patiently for years to get rail. But if we’re being real about this (and let’s be real, shall we?), Dallas contributes more to DART in one year than Addison has in three decades. D2 would dramatically improve the capacity and efficiency of DART’s larger light rail system, while few people are projected to ride the Cotton Belt line. We can still do the Cotton Belt, but let’s do D2 first.

The fundamental problem with regional transportation planning in North Texas is that the needs of our suburban neighbors have taken precedence over the needs of our city and its citizens. Regional cooperation is no doubt necessary. But if we want to keep Dallas strong, if we want to grow and flourish as a city, we need our mayor, our city councilmembers, and those representing Dallas on the DART board and Regional Transportation Commission to commit to putting Dallas first, without question and without equivocation.

Angela Hunt is a former Dallas city councilwoman. She writes a monthly opinion column about neighborhood issues. Her opinions are not necessarily those of the Advocate or its management. Send comments and ideas to her ahunt@advocatemag.com.

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