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WILSHIRE BAPTIST’S SCHISM
SCHEDULE THE SEASON
‘NUTCRACKER’ FOR ALL
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You an make a difference in a family’s Christmas! Stop by the Y and pick an Angel off our tree to shop for. Unwrapped gifts are due back December 18. Visit our facility for more information about specific drop-off times and locations.
Join us for our annual Cookies with Santa event! We will be enjoying cookies, crafts, hot cocoa, and free pictures with Santa. This year’s backdrop is country Christmas themed, so grab your boots and cowboy hats and get ready to deck the halls y’all!
When: December 9, 6:00 - 8:00 p.m.
Where: White Rock YMCA Gym
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YMCA Personal Trainer Shannon Kaul, B.S, Nutrition and Fitness, shares her tips for staying healthy and maintaining your goals through the holiday season.
Even if it’s half the time you might normally devote to your workout, something is better than nothing! Just a 15 minute walk around the block can make a difference, and studies show that people who devote time to physical exercise tend to make healthier food choices.
In anticipation of treats and holiday splurging, ensure you have healthy meals and snack options at home. Make sure you are getting plenty of lean meats and vegetables, avoid adding butter and sugar when cooking, choose high-protein snacks like hard boiled eggs or Greek yogurt, and keep your unhealthy treats out of sight so you’re less likely to indulge.
Aim to have a small meal or at least a healthy snack before hitting that holiday party. If you aren’t starving by the time you get to the snack
table, you will be more likely to make controlled, conscious decisions.
Alcoholic and sugar-sweetened beverages often contain more calories and sugar than expected. Try having a glass of water between each serving, and avoid mindless sipping.
It’s easy to reach for hot cocoa or cider to quench your thirst, but remember that nothing can replace water. Also, if you are feeling hungry between meals, try drinking a glass of water – hunger is often a signal that you are dehydrated.
Half of your plate should be fruits and vegetables and the rest should be filled with whole grains and lean protein. Although this might not always be possible at your family potluck, you can still try to generally follow these rules of thumb: limit indulgent foods to a quarter of your plate, and fill the rest with healthier choices. Top tip: turkey, a holiday staple, is a great source of lean protein!
Getting the appropriate amount of sleep is es-
sential for any healthy lifestyle, regardless of the time of year. Studies show that the average person consumes an additional 300 calories per day when they are not getting enough sleep. Adults 18 years and older need an average of 7-9 hours of shut eye per night.
Every time you are tempted to indulge, ask yourself, “Is it really worth it to me?” If the answer is yes, allow yourself the freedom to enjoy the treat. If you are concerned about excessive weight gain, set a goal for yourself to limit weight gain to only a few pounds over the 6 week period between Thanksgiving and New Year. Make sure to regularly check in with yourself and ensure your indulgences aren’t getting out of control, but don’t restrict yourself so much that you aren’t enjoying your holiday time!
The White Rock YMCA wishes you a happy and healthy holiday season! For information about membership, programs, and rates, visit www.WhiteRockYMCA.org. Financial assistance is available.
I’m guessing Louis C.K. won’t be having a particularly joyous holiday season. Harvey Weinstein probably won’t be spending much time near any mistletoe. Kevin Spacey will likely have an uncomfortable amount of “me” time between now and the end of the year, too.
It’s shocking how quickly a life can change.
These guys are getting what they deserve, you could say, but the rapidity with which they were marooned by the rest of us is still breathtaking.
I know some of you aren’t particularly “holiday” people — you don’t care much for the Christmas story, perhaps, or you don’t get along with your family, or you don’t enjoy champagne and fireworks at midnight.
But there’s a certain sense of community created by the holidays, whether you love them or loathe them, and it’s a sad thing when someone has lived a life so fraught with idiocy or abuse that he or she is forced to stand apart during a time of the year when good cheer is practically mandated.
The specter of watching someone’s life collapse is hard to turn from when it’s broadcast so conveniently on every form of media in our paths. The ubiquitousness of the stories doesn’t forgive the time we spend tuning them in, but it’s easier to forgive ourselves for being spectators than it is to forgive them for being fools.
There are plenty of people out there with desperate illnesses or strikingly sad personal lives who see the holidays as a chance — a final chance, in some cases
to right past wrongs, to say a word of forgiveness long overdue, or just to hug someone who longs to hug back.
I’ve spent a good deal of my life a thousand miles from most of my family. For
a long time, I made it back for holidays, regardless of how long it took or how hard it was to get there. That sense of family and community wiped the slate clean each year, whether I deserved it or not, and helped me prepare to tackle what was ahead.
Perhaps I don’t have that much to atone for each season, in a relative sense, but any sin is one too many, according to a book I’ve partially read, and no effort to seek forgiveness is unwelcome.
So here’s hoping our holidays are spent with people who love and forgive us, no matter what we’ve done; and that we
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I’ve read that “the loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly.”
I suspect most of us have been to that precipice a couple of times, figuratively speaking, and we were lucky enough to be pulled back by someone in our lives who refused to let go. Here’s hoping we don’t find ourselves there staring blankly again someday, too.
Maybe we won’t be anyone’s savior this holiday season, but that doesn’t mean we can’t extend a hand or a hug or a dollar.
There are some real dirtbags out there, for sure. But the line separating us can be awfully thin sometimes, too.
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“There is an often misplaced causality involving bike-ability, which gives many people the wrong idea; they seem to think we don’t need bike lanes because nobody’s using them, but how can they be used if they aren’t there?! Complete streets can only benefit a community — it has been proven in cities all across the United States. Bicycle (and other non-motorized) infrastructure is severely under-funded in Dallas. This is a great bond measure and I look forward to it passing!”
“Dallas taxpayers just paid for and built a bike path that connects from White Rock Lake to Deep Ellum. We do not need special bike lanes along a route that parallels the existing Santa Fe Trail... the Santa Fe Trail will be over 8 miles long when fully implemented. There is no demonstrable need for two sets of bike lanes within 800 feet of each other, serving the exact same neighborhoods and locations.”
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SHORELINE SPRUCING
For the Love of the Lake invites neighbors to join its monthly Second Saturday Shoreline Spruce-Up at White Rock Lake. Meet at 8 a.m. at the nonprofit’s office to grab breakfast munchies, and the needed clean-up supplies.
For the Love of the Lake, 1152 N. Buckner, whiterocklake. org, 214.660.1100, free
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WINTER MARKET
Lake Pointe Church hosts White Rock Market, one of Good Local Markets’ many locations throughout the city. It offers fresh local produce, baked goods and crafts from 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. Good Local Markets, 9150 Garland Road, goodlocalmarket.org, 972.379.7097, free
DEC. 14
ADULT COLORING
Head to the White Rock Hills branch library and de-stress from the holiday hustle. Crayons and coloring pages are provided for some adult coloring time, from 6-7 p.m. White Rock Hills Library, 9150 Ferguson Road, 214.670.8443, dallaslibrary2.org, free
DEC. 16
MOANING MUSIC
Check out the Southern California band Moaning at Transit Bicycle Company on Lower Greenville at 7:30 p.m. One dollar from each ticket will be donated to Resource Center, an LGBTQ and HIV/ AIDS service organization in North Texas. Transit Bicycle Company, 1915 Greenville Ave., 214.219.2453, transitbikes.com, $8
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DEC. 20
TRIVIA
Yucatan Taco Stand hosts a tequila, tacos and trivia night at 8 p.m. with the world renowned PubGuys Trivia.
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DEC. 30
BOB SCHNEIDER
Finish off the year with Texas music favorite Bob Schneider at the Granada Theater on Lower Greenville. He is joined by Roxy Roca, Ryan Berg and the Velvet Ears. The show starts at 9 p.m.
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eeny mice, soldiers and young sugar plum fairies dance alongside a teenage Clara and Fritz in this growing holiday tradition, the fourth-annual “Nutcracker Short ’N Suite” at Woodrow Wilson High School.
Numerous “Nutcracker” performances are danced around the city every Christmas, but there is often a serious time commitment and cost involved in these intricate performances. Woodrow’s “Short ’N Suite” allows families to participate without spending every night for weeks rehearsing, and hundreds of dollars on lessons and costumes.
Students from all over the Woodrow Wilson feeder pattern are invited to sign up and dance a role in the performance, providing exposure to the arts for families who may not have access to high-level instruction. The tradition was begun by former Woodrow dance teacher Lisa Moya, and is continued this year by Monica Reyes, who is in her first year with the dance program at Woodrow Wilson.
The hour-long show is a good fit for families who may not have the time or attention spans for the full ballet, but the ornate costumes and quality dancers give the performance a sense of professionalism.
According to Michele Matney, whose daughter is a dancer at Woodrow, last year’s performance included 60 elementary students, 25 students from J.L. Long and nearly 100 high school dancers and she hopes to have at least that many again this year.
Tickets for the show help fund the dance program, and will specifically go toward dancers attending the National High School Dance Festival at Point Park University in Pittsburg this winter. While at the prestigious dance university, Woodrow dancers will perform and be evaluated for dance scholarships and summer intensives while attending different genres of classes. Usually, students have to pay around $1,500 for airfare, lodging and attendance, but because of funds raised by the “Nutcracker,” Matney hopes students will be able to attend the trip for as little as $300.
“Nutcracker Short ’N Suite” runs Dec. 7 and 8 at 7 p.m., and Dec. 9 at noon at Woodrow Wilson High School. On Dec. 9 at 10:30 a.m., neighbors are invited to the Land of Sweets Breakfast, where they can take pictures with costumed Nutcracker characters and Santa Claus. Tickets for the show range from $6-$10 and the breakfast is $5. Tickets can be bought online at woodrowwildcats.org or at the door.
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Edgar the Old English sheepdog rocks a pony tail like only he can. Owner Chris Youpa talks to Edgar like he’s a person, insisting that his furry hound understands 90 percent of what he hears. The dog was a familiar face when Youpa used to build sets for the Woodrow Wilson musical, considered a “semi Woodrow mascot.” Over the years, Edgar has developed a love for the patios at Mi Cocina, Chips, Truck Yard and Pints & Quarts. The 10-year-old tail-wagger is moving a little slower these days, but he still loves to walk around the lake and let his hair flow in the breeze for a ride in the truck or convertible. Edgar is a people pleaser, and when he is at the dog park, he spends more time visiting the humans than playing with other canines. “Everyone wants to pet him,” says Youpa, “and he knows it.”
This 56-foot Santa Claus sat atop the roof of Porter Chevrolet, and was designed by the same man that brought Big Tex to life at the State Fair. But this Santa has a tragic history. Roy Davis, a 46-year-old man who had been recently released from the hospital and told to take it easy, asked his boss at the crane company where he worked to borrow a crane so that
he could have his picture taken with the giant St. Nick for his Christmas card, and they said yes. He got his picture with Santa, but as he was being lowered, witnesses say he went limp and fell 35 feet from the crane, landing between the boots of the giant Santa, where he died. Now, all that remains of the dealership is a parking lot for Campisi’s.
avid Blewett could have let the most infamous moment in college football ruin the rest of his life, but he didn’t.
He was a member of Southern Methodist University’s team in the mid-1980s that went from being nationally ranked to receiving the “death penalty,” when the NCAA canceled its 1987 season. In many ways, the team never recovered, but the moment that took what Blewett loved most put him on a path of personal redemption that would change his future.
Blewett wrote a book about his experience on that fated team called “Pony Trap.” In it, he describes SMU football as a name that once inspired fear in its rivals. With nationally ranked teams, top-ranked recruits and a bevy of players heading to the NFL, they were a force.
According to Blewett, and an ESPN “30 for 30” documentary, it was difficult for any Division I football program at the time to land elite recruits without illegally paying the players on the side. Most of the payments were small contributions for food or transportation, but there were more sizable gifts being passed under tables as well.
The NCAA tried to crack down on these illegal payments, but it needed to tread lightly, as the organization received its power from the very universities it was tasked to police. If the NCAA wanted to make an example of a school that was cheating, SMU was the perfect candidate. It was a smaller school, lacking the power of more established entities, but was also successful on the field, rivaling established football schools such as the University of Texas in Austin.
When the NCAA communicated with a couple of disgruntled former SMU football players who had been paid (but not enough to keep quiet), the NCAA found its smoking gun.
“It was the perfect storm,” Blewett says.
The result was swift and hefty. NCAA canceled SMU’s season in 1987, the only time that has ever happened to a university, despite other cheating scandals. No one could have predicted the hurt. The program never reached the same level of success again.
“It’s zombie penalty,” Blewett says. “Here we are, 25 years later, and it’s still out there.”
Blewett says he was not one of the paid players, and was given the option
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to transfer to another school to continue his college football career, but decided to stay at SMU to finish his degree and double major in philosophy and finance. The weeks after the penalty, though, left him despondent and aimless.
Decades later, Blewett was raising his children (he now has seven) with his wife in East Dallas when he became aware of the “30 for 30” documentary made in 2010 by ESPN about the SMU cheating scandal. Blewett wasn’t part of the documentary (he never called the director back, wary of the media after his college years) and was not engaged
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with the university or team at the time. But his daughter saw the film, and had questions.
“I heard something bad happened there. Did you do anything wrong?” she asked.
The question planted a pit in his stomach that began to grow, inspiring him to seek redemption in a familiar place. He decided he would get back in shape, and attempt to use his remaining football eligibility to play for his alma mater. He only played two years in the 1980s, and if he got approval from the NCAA and SMU, he could play for the team again. He wanted to prove to himself and his family that he could do it, and while he knew that a 40-year-old man probably couldn’t compete for an entire season with college athletes, he saw a higher purpose.
In Blewett’s eyes, SMU never owned up to its sins and accepted responsibility, instead carrying on like the scandal never happened, shunning the players involved
“Here we are, 25 years later, and it’s still out there.”
and trying to outrun the problem.
“SMU needs to have a cathartic moment,” he says. “They need to say, ‘Here’s what we did wrong, please forgive us of our sins and let’s start over.’ ”
Blewett thought making the team would atone the university, both rectifying the past and symbolically welcoming a generation of players who were looking to reconnect with their old school.
Blewett worked for months and was in the best shape of his life, but in the end was not given an opportunity to play by the coach. He understood that he would be a distraction to a team trying to win games, but was still disappointed. There was a silver lining, however.
“There is nothing sad about this at all,” he says. “Throughout the process, I reengaged with friends, reengaged with the university and reengaged with my physicality.”
The experience led him to write his book, which tells the story from the players’ perspective rather than the media’s or the NCAA’s. He has since run for city council and has plans for more books in the future.
“When you try these things, even when you fail, you learn things and it makes you a better person,” he says. “I don’t have the fear of putting myself out there anymore.”
These days, Blewett works in real estate, raises his children, and stays busy volunteering at Stonewall Jackson Elementary and SMU.
He turned what could have been a shameful chapter into a transformative moment and doesn’t regret any part of it.
“I would go back to SMU again, even knowing all the stuff we went through,” he says. “It’s crazy when I say it out loud, but it’s true.”
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How does an entrepreneur with no formal baking or business education end up as the owner of a small macaron empire? Kelli Watts, of Savor Patisserie, explains: “It’s been the wildest ride of my life, that’s for sure. I had no idea what I was getting myself into.”
Watts grew up baking recreationally, but worked in fashion design and lived in New York, where the macaron craze already had hit. She began experimenting with baking them herself, leaning on her French background.
Macarons are not for your average Easy-Bake Oven operator; they are exceptionally difficult to perfect with a shell that toes a delicate line between soft and crunchy.
When she found the perfect combination of texture and flavor, she sold small batches to friends and family, who encouraged her to start a business. In January 2015, Watts quit her job at Neiman Marcus to open Savor Patisserie at The Shops at Park Lane.
“There was no sign at first,” she says. “People had to accidentally bump into the place to find it.”
When her lease on Park Lane was up, she moved to her Casa Linda shop in August 2016 and has been there ever since.
Savor goes against the grain by offering baking classes, where they teach patrons how to make the very cookies that are sold at the shop.
The Casa Linda location clearly has Watts’ designer touch. Black and white
DID YOU KNOW: Macarons are best when they have rested for 24 hours, giving the filling a chance to soften the shell for the perfect balance between crispy and soft.
décor is accented with colorful succulent centerpieces, and the cornucopia of dazzling macarons draw the eye through the glass display.
Watts has gone from a one-woman operation to employing 42 people. For a perfectionist such as herself, it was difficult passing on her recipe to another baker, but she has learned to delegate.
This season she is presenting holiday flavors like candy cane, eggnog, gingerbread and Mexican hot chocolate.
“All of these people are part of my little family,” she says. “It’s great to be able to affect their lives in a positive way.”
Macaron shops have become all the rage in Dallas lately, but with Savor expanding to its fourth location in Uptown this year, Watts isn’t worried about the competition. “I just keep my head down and work hard every day,” she says. “The more people know about macarons, the better.”
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’Tis the season for revelry, and our neighborhood’s watering holes do not disappoint. From spices to stouts, here are some of the seasonal specialties you can find this month.
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THRUJAN.
8 holidayAttheDallasArboretum,atraditionaltuneistakentonewheights.Called “12DaysofChristmasatNight,”theevent offersararechancetotourthearboretum afterdark.Theexpansivegardensglowwith thetwinkleofmorethan500,000holiday lights,whicharepairedwithclassiccarols forafestiveholidayevening.Theevent runsfrom6-9p.m.for$12.
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Bad Christmas sweaters — the gaudier, tackier and more three-dimensional, the better- are back. The Ugly Christmas Sweater pop-up shop offers an array of tasteless knits at 5531 E. Mockingbird Lane, #175.
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“A Charlie Brown Christmas” makes its return to the Dallas Children’s Theater. The family can enjoy Charles Schultz’s classic characters find the meaning of Christmas.
8 ExploretheUnitedStates, fromTimesSquaretothe GoldenGateBridge,during theTrainsatNorthPark, raisingmoneyfortheRonald McDonaldHouseofDallas.
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talesSantaClauswillsharefestive aboutthesnowyNorthPole andat10:30a.m.Monday-Saturday Center.noononSundayatNorthPark InadditiontoStorytime withSanta,hewillbeavailablefor portraitswithkiddos.
THRUDEC.21 KathyBurksandtheDallas Children’sTheatrepartnerto present“FrostyandFriends.” Thisversionwillbepresented entirelyinpuppetry.
DEC. 1-3Christmas and local history are intertwined at the Alexander Mansion., during the Dallas Woman’s Forum Holiday Celebration. The festivities also include a bistro, the proceeds of which benefit local charities. The holiday celebration is from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. with the bistro running from 11 a.m.-2 p.m.
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A traditional tale gets an unusual twist with “Joe Dicken’s Ebenezer Scrooge,” a musical adaptation of “A Christmas Carol.” This neighborhood classic marks its 36th year at Pocket Sandwich Theater. Shows are set Thursday through Sunday during the holiday season.
THRU DEC. 24
Neighbor Jeff Patton once again puts up a Christmas tree lot at the Mockingbird and Abrams, open daily from 9 a.m.-9 p.m.
DEC.3
theTakeintheHangingof cocoa,Greenwithcookies, vocaland instrumentalperformances at8:30p.m.atWilshire BaptistChurch.
DEC.
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The festive Light Up Lakewood, happening from 6:30-8:30 p.m. at Harrell Park, is sponsored by Lakewood Neighborhood Association as well as a number of neighborhood businesses. What started in 2002 as a simple customer appreciation event by Talulah and Hess owner Elizabeth Mast has turned into a community event that includes a visit from Santa, a petting zoo, a marionette show, toy soldiers on stilts, school choirs, bands and more. This year the event will remember longtime volunteer Vicki Thompson.
DEC.9 Schoolmaynotbethefirstplace yougotoshopbutthere’sareason togiveitatrythisChristmas. BishopLynchHighSchool’s ChristmasBazaarissetfor 9a.m.–4p.m.attheschool.
DEC. 5-24
DallasFortheeighthyear,Gingertown bringsdesign,engineering toandconstructionfirmstogether NorthParkcreateagingerbreadvillageat Center.Thelivebuild competitionbenefitstheChildren’s CraniofacialAssociation.
DEC. 9
Watcheveryone’sfavorite Christmascaperonthebig screenwhentheAngelika Film Center shows “Home Alone” at 10 a.m.
DEC. 16
andEastDallasneighborRickiDerek performancehisorchestraarebackforalive attheGranadaTheater.an“AMerryLittleChristmasShow”is alwaysold-fashionedholidayrevuethat placedrumsupnostalgia.Ittakes at8p.m.attheGranada, $30-$42.
DEC. 16-17
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LindaEstatestoraisemoneyforthe Guns&HosesFoundationofNorth supportTexas,whichprovidesfinancialtothefamiliesoffirefighters andpoliceofficerswhodiedin thelineofduty.
DEC. 16
Beapartofthere-creation searchofMaryandJoseph’sforaplacetostay duringtheLasPosadas celebrationat6:30p.m.at EmanuelLutheranChurch.
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KNEW TWO THINGS: THE VOTE WOULD BE CLOSE, AND EITHER WAY IT WENT DOWN, THEY WOULD LOSE PEOPLE.
Nearly 450 members voted, and 67 percent affirmed the church’s new direction.
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The church’s new, young pastor, George Mason, had taken the helm of Wilshire two years earlier after the retirement of longtime leader Bruce McIver. Mason, at 35, navigated his flock through that tenuous period and into its future.
Twenty-five years later, in November 2016,
Mason found himself and his church in a similar crisis. This time, the issue threatening Wilshire’s unity was the role of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people in the congregation.
They already were church members, but gray area persisted: Could they marry? Have their babies dedicated? Become leaders as deacons or even as pastors?
Once again, the decision would be the final straw for some folks. This time, nearly 950 ballots were cast with 61 percent of votes affirming the full rights of membership for those in their midst who identified as LGBT.
“Open to all, closed to none” became Wilshire’s new mantra.
And yet, now as then, hundreds of people felt shut out by the decision. In the aftermath of the 1991 vote, most people stuck it out despite their theological differences. This time, however, the bleeding began as soon as Wilshire’s leadership announced a committee would study the issue, and continued for 14 months until the vote elicited a hemorrhage. Three Sunday school classes of older adults disappeared altogether.
Months later, after the bleeding had stopped, the church counted its losses: About 250 members left, taking $700,000 of annual giving with them.
Mason, now 61, calls the experience “the biggest misjudgment of my ministry” — not in terms of the decision itself, but in terms of its consequences.
“I assumed that if we followed a deliberative process on this matter, that like these other matters, we would have had dissent, but we would not have had a major loss of membership or financial contribution,” Mason says.
“I was wrong.”
Note: Whites and blacks include only those who are not Hispanic. Source: Pew Research Center survey conducted April 12-19, 2016.
But they believed this was an issue that couldn’t be glossed over or kicked down the road any longer.
Over the years, it had bubbled to the surface, and now it threatened to rock the congregation.
Wilshire was known as a progressive church, but this change represented a line in the sand some members said they couldn’t cross. Their beliefs were sacred, and giving in would unravel a faith that, for some of them, had been a lifetime in the making.
was 1991, and after four decades of existence, Wilshire would allow women to be ordained as ministers.
A couple of months after Wilshire’s monumental vote, a schism unfolded at a different “church” across town. Uptown’s Kalita Humphreys Theater transformed into a sanctuary for the Dallas Theater Center production of “The Christians.” The play portrays the story of a megachurch led by Pastor Paul, who blindsides his congregation one Sunday with a sermon revealing his epiphany that hell doesn’t exist.
The show’s director, Joel Ferrell, spent a couple of months visiting local conservative and megachurches to get a better feel for their dynamics.
Wilshire’s clergy were among those he asked to participate in “Stay Late” conversations following each performance.
“The fact that Wilshire was a Baptist church dealing with an issue that had separated the church body made it interesting to me,” Ferrell says.
Typically 30 to 40 audience members stick around for Stay Late sessions, but for “The Christians,” the theater company saw crowds rise to 50 or more. Those who stuck around were “intrigued, passionate” and often had personal stories to share about schisms they had experienced in their own churches, Ferrell says.
“This play rings really, really, true,” Wilshire’s associate pastor, Mark Wingfield, told theatergo -
‘The distance between us is insurmountable’
ers at one Stay Late session. “It’s almost painful to watch because it’s bringing stuff up. And at the same time, you realize this kind of conflict is inherent from the very beginning of the church.”
Wilshire’s “splintering,” the term Wingfield prefers to “split,” was not about hell — “though some would say it’s felt like hell to have the conversation we’ve had about LGBT inclusion,” Wingfield says.
“Don’t be like Pastor Paul,” Wingfield quipped to the audience after the play. And yet, he added, “the reality is that even with a lengthy, drawn-out process that’s much more thoughtful than what Pastor Paul goes through, these difficult issues of faith can still be so controversial.”
Wilshire is hardly the first Dallas church to affirm same-sex marriage and ordination. Cathedral of Hope in Cedar Springs, known as “the world’s largest gay church,” has been around since 1990. Discussions and debate in mainline Protestant denominations — such as Episcopalians, Presbyterians and Methodists have impacted Dallas churches, too. Grace, Greenland Hills and Lakewood United Methodist Churches (UMC) in our neighborhood all are part of the UMC network of “reconciling” congregations who fully affirm LBGT members.
It’s the “Baptist” in Wilshire’s name that seemed to draw such shock from outsiders and such ire from within its denominational ranks. Texans are most familiar with the Southern Baptist Convention (SBC), an almost 170-yearold network of more than 47,000 U.S. churches. It’s the predominant Baptist force in the Bible Belt, which still loops around North Texas.
Dallas is home to more than 100 Southern Baptist churches, the best known of which is First Baptist Dallas, the Downtown church led by the Rev. Robert Jeffress. His proclamations from both the pulpit and the cable news circuit — that the Bible is unequivocal about the sinful practice of homosexuality — is representative of SBC doctrine.
But Baptists are a “hugely diverse group throughout history,” ranging from the likes of Martin Luther King Jr. to Jerry Falwell to President Jimmy Carter, says Ted Campbell, professor of church history at Southern Methodist University’s Perkins School of Theology.
That’s because in Baptist congregations, decisions are made at the local church level, which is different than hierarchical denominations, where edicts
come from on high and are passed down to local congregations.
“Each [Baptist] congregation can make up their own minds about the issues that face them,” Campbell says. “Congregational polity allows Baptists to have a degree of flexibility, despite their kind of legendary conservatism.”
Wilshire was part of the SBC until it stopped participating in 1990 and formally severed ties in 2000. It identifies instead with the Cooperative Baptist Fellowship (CBF), which tends to represent churches that are “progressive on social issues and traditional on forms of worship,” Campbell says.
The CBF split from the SBC in 1991 over scriptural differences, including the ordination of women. The SBC still maintains its long-held belief that the Bible limits pastoral roles to men.
“I do think you can draw a straight line from that vote to the latest one,” Wingfield says of the 1991 and 2016 votes, “and find a number of folks who acquiesced on the women in leadership issue despite reservations but hung on anyway, until the possibility of same-sex marriage was just a bridge too far.”
Jeff Patton attended Wilshire for 58 years. He sat in the same pew every Sunday. His parents and his grandparents were Wilshire members. His mother taught Sunday school. For 15 years of Mason’s tenure, Patton and Mason shared a locker at Lakewood Country Club. Patton considered his pastor a good friend.
But one day, “George Mason took it upon himself that we should start marrying gay people,” Patton says. “I’ve got nothing against gays at all, but gays don’t get married in a Baptist church.”
Wilshire’s clergy say the intent of the 14-month study was to ensure people had all the information they needed to make a decision and plenty of opportunity to have a voice. But for Patton and other Wilshire members with similar views on gay marriage, it felt like a long, drawnout campaign to change people’s minds.
“He pushed a little too far this time,” Patton says of Mason. “Something just went haywire in his head. I told him he had lost his mind.”
Patton had his own experience pushing the envelope at Wilshire. In 1968, when Patton was in high school, fellow
Woodrow Wilson High School student John Paul McCrumbly attended Wilshire with Patton’s family.
Woodrow recently had begun integrating, and McCrumbly, who is black, was ushered by Dr. Walter H. Patton to the second row of “a Southern Baptist church that never had a black person in it,” Jeff Patton told us for a 2011 story.
Patton does not see any parallels between the Civil Rights movement in the ’60s and the Gay Rights movement of late, at least as it applies to Baptist churches. Nor does he see parallels between the 1991 vote to ordain women and last year’s vote to ordain LBGT persons.
“There’s absolutely no comparison. You’re talking about apples and oranges,” he says. “Baptists do not ordain gay people. It does not happen. That is not a Baptist church.”
Campbell, because of his expertise in
Baptist
church history, has provided historical perspective to the discussion his own United Methodist Church (UMC) is having on gay marriage and ordination. His study and interactions have led him to believe that it is the “flashpoint issue” of our era.
“I think the direction right now is polarization. It’s not heading toward consensus at this point,” says Campbell, who says the United Methodists are seriously divided over these issues, and those divisions may take the form of denominational division by 2020. “The question in the UMC is, ‘Can’t we all just get along with each other?’ And the answer is absolutely clear — the answer is no.”
“A flashpoint issue becomes the standard for orthodoxy,” Campbell says, “and people go to their own sides and say, ‘I’m not going to budge on this.’ ”
After the vote, when Patton left his church of 58 years, he says it felt like family members had died. It was “betrayal,” he says.
“The church got stolen from the people who built it,” he says.
“I’ve got nothing against gays at all, but gays don’t get married in a
church.”
Of the more than 250 members who left Wilshire, Patton is the only one we found willing to allow his name to be used in this story. No one else is willing to be identified, he says, because “everybody wants to be politically correct and have 8,000 friends on Facebook, and I don’t do Facebook.”
After leaving Wilshire, Patton and his wife visited a few churches and landed at Park Cities Baptist Church, along with more than 100 other former Wilshire members, according to Wilshire’s accounting. One older adult Sunday school class moved to Park Cities almost en masse, Wilshire says. (Park Cities Baptist officials did not respond to an interview request for this story.)
The people who left tended to be older, wealthier and more conservative, Wilshire officials say. Of the roughly 250
active members lost, right around 200 of them were over the age of 50, and more than 100 of them were over the age of 70.
The stark generational divide on LGBT issues is not unique to Wilshire. According to a Pew Research Center study released in late 2015, “roughly half (51 percent) of evangelical Protestants in the Millennial generation (born between 1981 and 1996), say homosexuality should be accepted by society, compared with a third of evangelical Baby Boomers and a fifth of evangelicals in the Silent [or Greatest] Generation.”
The study also showed, however, that “acceptance of homosexuality is rising across the broad spectrum of American Christianity, including among members of churches that strongly oppose homosexual relationships as sinful.” Attitudes and perceptions have “shifted absolutely remarkably in the last five years,” Campbell says, which he attributes to the simple reality of “gay people’s willingness to publicly say that they are gay.”
“Basically, gay and lesbian sex has
“The question is, ‘Can’t we all just get along with each other?’
And the answer is absolutely clear — the answer is no.”
been a concealed subject in the past that couldn’t be talked about or admitted to,” Campbell says. But now, “people have the opportunity to get to know them and realize these are not frightening monsters — these are people just like us who have different sexual orientation than we have. Getting to know people has always been the key.”
Yet Campbell believes polarization will trump consensus for the foreseeable future because “that’s the historical pattern.” The church’s last flashpoint issue in American history was slavery, he says. From the 1820s through the 1860s, Baptists, Presbyterians, Methodists and other denominations “were all divided regionally and absolutely could not compromise until after the Civil War,” he says.
But even after slavery became illegal in the United States, churches had to decide whether to retain segregation in their churches or allow the new law of the land to inform their congregational polity. Some integrated, and some embraced Jim Crow. It could be argued that “the regional divisions still exist,” Campbell says.
He expects that church compromise on LGBT inclusion will have a similar timeline.
“Really, after one generation kind of dies off and fades away from leadership, you can move toward some sort of consensus,” Campbell says, “but we’re not there yet.”
The timing of Wilshire’s vote coincided with the tensions surrounding our country’s divisive 2016 election; Wilshire’s members cast their ballots on LGBT issues in church the same week they voted for president.
The Sunday after Wilshire announced the results, protesters showed up on its sanctuary doorsteps greeting worshippers with a bullhorn and signs declaring, “Sin Destroys Nations” and “Cleanse Your Hands You Sinners.” The following week, some neighbors responded with a counter-protest, holding signs referencing 1 Corinthians 6:14, “Do Everything in Love,” and “Thank You Wilshire for Loving All.”
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This shift in the law of the land was no doubt part of the impetus for Wilshire’s study, Mason says. Until the Supreme Court decision, churches couldn’t perform same-gender weddings because it was illegal to do so. Once they became legal, churches had to make their case upon religious convictions rather than the law.
And at that point, Mason had to come to terms with his own convictions.
In his office, months after the vote that splintered Wilshire, Mason reflects on how long it took him to change his mind on LGBT inclusion. It’s an issue
he grappled with for the entirety of his ministry.
“For many years, I went back and forth struggling with how hard a line to hold, how much grace to grant to people who were struggling with same-sex orientation,” he says.
Though Mason didn’t believe that gays and lesbians could control their affections, for decades he urged those he counseled to control whether they acted upon those affections. He told them that pleasing God and being fully accepted in the church meant bearing the cross of celibacy for their entire lives.
“That means they would never be able to have intimate relationships of love with another person the way the rest of 95 percent of the Christian world could,” Mason says.
“I realized how little hope that really gave, how little good news the church was offering to them, and I watched them live too often in futility, having to
“This is not a matter that we could continue to sweep under the carpet. Lives were at stake here. The witness of the gospel as we understand it was at stake.”
bear shame and often leaving the church. Increasingly, I believed something was wrong with that.”
Mason describes himself as a person who needs to be sure of something before he changes his mind. Over many years, he came to believe that biblical passages about homosexuality addressed people acting in sexually irresponsible and perverse ways, rather than in loving and caring relationships. That wasn’t enough, however, for him to build a case for gay marriage.
“But finally,” he says, “the weight of other biblical passages overcame my need for certainty.”
Mason references New Testament passages that talk about how Christians should not grieve the Holy Spirit, who is at work in people’s lives; that Christians should not prevent people from becoming a full part of the church because they hadn’t been circumcised, hadn’t eaten the right foods or had become eunuchs.
“All these things that were part of scriptural prohibitions, the early church discerned that the Spirit was at work in these people anyway, and they should accept them,” Mason says.
“Finally, I came to the conclusion that the authority of the Bible is not only in what it tells us to do or not to do; it is in how it helps the church to discern the will of God for today. The Bible shows us how the people of God made decisions in their day. The authority of the Bible calls on us to do as they did, not necessarily what they did.
“That became a new way of me being able to see the presence of Christ in my gay brothers and sisters and want to see them flourish within the body of Christ.”
Wilshire congregants who believed differently than Mason, who were upset with him for changing his mind, felt that he was judging them for not being enlightened enough. But it wasn’t an overnight process for him; it had taken a lifetime. To look down upon these congregants “would be intemperate on my part,” Mason says.
Some people criticized the church for acting too swiftly. Wilshire’s members would have come around within a few years, they believe, and the church could have avoided what felt like a bad divorce if the church had just waited until more people were ready.
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kids coming out who had grown up in our church, in our families.” They could be members, yes, and worship alongside heterosexuals, “but couldn’t do so honestly,” he says. “It was much more ‘don’t ask, don’t tell.’ ”
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This reality, combined with external factors such as the Supreme Court decision, necessitated a conversation that the church had been putting off for years, Mason says. Once that discussion began, “there are thousands of people for whom if we said ‘we’re not ready’ would be more deeply hurt than if we never took it up at all,” he says.
Another factor, Mason says, is that he’s no longer a spring chicken. At 61, he isn’t sure how much longer he will be at the helm of Wilshire. If “ready” meant waiting until after his retirement, “then we would be leaving the most contentious issue in the church’s history to a new pastor,” he says. “It seems to me that this is one I had to take, so to me, delay meant deny.”
“I feel for the people who have left because I believe that they loved their church and they trusted their pastor and the leadership over many years to lead with integrity, and many of them feel betrayed,” Mason says.
“I regret that. I wish it weren’t so. But this is not a matter that we could continue to sweep under the carpet. Lives were at stake here. The witness of the gospel as we understand it was at stake.”
Despite all of its losses over the past year, Wilshire is seeing glimmers of hope.
The church has welcomed 100 new members since last November, “which is a pretty high number for us,” Wingfield says. “All of those new members — to a person — know about our decision and have intentionally come to us either because of the decision or in light of the decision.”
The church hasn’t yet tracked the age of all newcomers, but typically they are younger than 60, which means that “all of a sudden, we have become a much younger church,” Wingfield says. “And yet, we still are a highly intergenerational church.” He recently presided over a funeral for an 89-year-old woman “who was one of the most vocal proponents of our inclusion efforts you could imagine.”
“We have lost some longtime leaders through this. And we lost some younger emerging leaders,” Wingfield says. But,
he says, “the losses we’ve experienced have caused others to step up and take leadership roles when they hadn’t seen a need to do so before.”
No clergy or staff members walked away from the church. Mason sought their buy-in before embarking on the study, knowing that financial fallout could put their jobs at stake. They were
Members of many Protestant denominations now more accepting of homosexuality
Percentage who say homosexuality should be accepted by society
aligned in their willingness to push forward, he says, and in some cases preceded him in their resolution.
The church budget did take a hit, dropping from $4.9 million in 2016 to $4.2 million in 2017. This reflects “a realistic projection of the financial shift going on,” Wingfield says. It also reflects the giving patterns of younger congregants, who aren’t as likely to tithe as regularly or as much as the Greatest Generation or even Baby Boomers.
The same is true for church attendance.
For 30 years, Wilshire’s active membership, or people who come to church at least once a year, has been relatively stable at around 1,500. It has dropped to 1,300 since last November, but because of church attendance trends, the gap
appears larger than that, Wingfield says.
“A pastor friend in Richardson who has not addressed this LGBT issue in his church recently commented to me about the number of Greatest Generation members he was burying,” Wingfield says.
“And he said this: For every Greatest Generation member I lose, it takes at least two new members to make up their attendance and three new members to make up their giving. That’s just the way it is these days.”
No same-gender weddings have taken place at Wilshire since the vote last November. There have been no baby dedications for same-gender couples, no practicing gays or lesbians ordained as deacons or ministers, either.
“So there have been no precipitating steps since the vote, except that we have now what we hoped in the vote, and that is hope for LGBT persons and their families, that they can live openly as followers of Jesus among us and worship and serve freely,” Mason says.
They are coming, he says, but they are coming hesitantly, cautiously.
“Many have been visiting since November and still haven’t joined because they’re still trying to believe that it’s so and that we won’t change our minds again,” he says. Yet, “we are seeing gay
the hardest stretch of Mason’s ministry, but “this was for Christians who are gay and lesbian and transgender and for their families and for the gospel’s sake. These are people who have known pain and rejection that I will never be able to match,” Mason says, adding that the temporary suffering of Wilshire’s staff and parishioners “is nothing compared to centuries of loneliness, alienation and rejection felt by LGBT Christians.
“If we can share in the sufferings of others so that we can share the joy of this, that’s where the hope is found.”
When Wilshire began its voting in November 2016, the weight of both the impending national election and the local church election hung thick in the sanctuary air.
people who feel for the first time in their lives that they can trust God and the church again. I don’t know how that is not evangelism.”
It has been a painful journey, probably
“We will vote in both cases on matters that have divided us,” Mason preached in his sermon that morning. “Some would rather move to Canada than live in a future in our country under the admin-
“We are seeing gay people who feel for the first time in their lives that they can trust God and the church again. I don’t know how that is not evangelism.”
istration of the one they didn’t vote for. Some would rather move to another church than live under the conditions of a future determined by a vote they didn’t support. But by doing so, we only prove that the way the world operates is the only way open to us.”
The world draws lines in the sand and refuses to join hands with people on the other side. The church should be different, Mason says. It should be able to unite amid differences of doctrine. But by that point in Wilshire’s journey, Mason had accepted his own naïveté that Wilshire’s people could come together.
He then spoke directly to those who stood across the line from him.
“I am aware that this may be the last time many of us will worship together. If you are one of those who have already decided that you are leaving, I have something to say to you.
“Thank you,” Mason said.
“Thank you for all the years of sacrifice and service. Thank you for the gifts of time, talents and treasure that you have given to make us the church we are today. And if you wonder how you will be remembered after you leave, I will tell you: You will be recorded among the saints of this church. No one wants to be judged on the basis of one decision or snapshot of time in a life. So we will bless you and miss you.”
When the sermon ended, Wilshire congregants rose to “pass the peace,” an ancient practice of the church that allows Christians to reconcile with one another before they receive God’s forgiveness at the communion table. “Peace be with you,” Christians say to each other, with love and forgiveness flowing through handshakes and eye contact.
Mason left his pulpit and walked down the platform steps to the front pew. He sought out Wilshire deacons who no longer recognized their church, and he passed the peace of Christ to them. He knew it likely would be their final exchange.
A little over a year later, Mason is still sitting in the tension. But he is, indeed, at peace.
“It’s entirely possible that when we all get to the end, they will have been right, and I will have been wrong,” Mason says.
“But how will we know now? And if you have to be on the side of love and grace, or on the side of caution that keeps people from experiencing the full dignity of their life in Christ in the church, which side do you want to be on?”
Giant balloons, marching bands, festive floats, celebrities in fancy cars — now that’s a parade to celebrate the season. There’s no need to travel up north. We heart you, New York, but Dallas has its own spectacular parade downtown, enjoyed by more than 400,000 spectators who line its route. But a few neighbors have a unique perspective, walking, driving and waving their way down Main Street as a piece of the parade.
Mel McDonald is Lakewood’s resident expert. He and his antique autos have been in every holiday parade since it began in 1988, as well as other area parades. As soon as he acquired his 1909 Maxwell Roadster in 1983, he offered the use of the car to the State Fair of Texas opening day parade, plus the parade thorugh the fair each evening.
That gig led to the Cotton Bowl/New Year’s Day parade, during which he has carried the likes of Cowboys Rayfield Wright and Emmitt Smith. When the holiday parade was first planned, McDonald and his vehicles came with glowing recommendations. McDonald eventually would add to his collection a 1911 Cadillac Touring Car, a 1914 Buick Roadster and a 1915 Packard Touring Car.
“It really is fun. People are in a good mood, glad to be there. They are all joyous affairs,” he says. “The only drawback is that we don’t get to watch them, except on video.”
Decked out in his top hat, long over-
coat and colorful tie, he suits his vehicles. Wife Jane is always alongside, and children Lyle and Elise have waved to the crowds since infancy. The kids are grown now, living on the East Coast, but they still make travel plans around the parade. New grandbaby Lillian will soon make her parade debut.
More often than not, McDonald and crew also carry costumed characters in the parade. Over the years, those have included Dennis the Menace, Clifford the Big Red Dog, Hello Kitty and Raggedy Ann and Andy.
“Carrying Mickey Mouse and Mrs. Claus was always a special experience,” recalls McDonald. “The kids along the route just went wild, and our kids, at young ages, were thrilled about it, too. Made for a pretty momentous show-and-tell at school on Mondays.”
McDonald also remembers a costumed character with a bit of a twist: McGruff the Crime-Fighting Dog. Most of the characters/celebrities in the parade have “handlers,” and McGruff was accompanied by a police officer. “I did notice that he was very particular about knowing all the arrangements during the parade and after we finished,” McDonald says. “He stayed close by and walked along with the car during the parade.”
These East Dallasites get behind the scenes at the annual Christmas paradeMcDonald was later informed that the person in the costume was an inmate from Dallas County Jail. “Not what we expected,” he grins.
Another East Dallas neighbor, Ryan Booth, is a relative newcomer to the parade but loves it just as much. A resident of University Meadows, Booth has been in several parades as part of the Ebby Halliday Realtors team. Those giant balloons that elicit oohs and ahhs from the crowd? Booth can tell you all about handling them.
The balloon handlers dress to match the balloon. “One year our balloon was Garfield, so we wore orange sweatshirts and had tails. Another year, we were Mr. Potato Head and we wore black hats with fake mustaches.”
He helps to inflate the balloons with a “huge helium tank machine.” Booth says, “It takes a team effort. Those suckers are really big. Some are three or four stories
tall. While the balloon is being blown up and after it’s filled, the volunteers have to hold it with ropes — otherwise, it would take off into the sky.”
And the weather can complicate matters even more. “If it’s windy, we need at least 25 people per balloon to hold it down and keep it from hitting buildings or trees.”
But picture-perfect weather doesn’t mean the job is easy. “Even if the weather is calm, we have to steer around buildings, light poles, and trees. It’s a work out.”
The crowd sometimes works them even harder with shouts to “spin,” which prompts the handlers to run in a wide circle to twirl the character.
One other job Booth has performed in the parade is holding the banner which introduces the balloon and sponsor. “I personally like holding the banner more or just standing to the side and waving because you can see more people and really get in the energy,” says Booth.
Booth, like many families for whom this event is a tradition, looks forward to the parade, regardless of his role in it. “As long as I’m involved in putting smiles on the kids’ faces, I’ll be perfectly happy.”
The Dec. 2 event runs down Commerce Street from Houston to Harwood this year, and steps off at 10 a.m. For more details at dallasholidayparade.com
A new dessert option is headed to Lakewood Shopping Center. Lakewood neighbor Chrissy Kuo quit her job in August 2016 to start Snow Baby after trying Taiwanese shaved ice overseas. It will also partner with Unrefined Bakery for gluten-free options, White Rock Coffee for their coffee flavor and local farmers markets for their fresh fruit.
Moving to Lower Greenville, the old Crown and Harp and Daddy Jack’s spaces have been combined and redone by the owners of Lower Greenville’s bourbon lounge and restaurant Feed Company into two concepts. Leela’s Raw Bar will be on the first floor and ABV Establishment will be above. On the lower level, Leela’s Raw Bar will serve seasonal plates and oysters and include a meat slicing counter with a wine bar. ABV Establishment will have more of a speakeasy feel, and will serve old-school cocktails and bar food. Across the street, in the old pawn shop space, a Wells Fargo is on the way as well as another dessert option. Creamistry is a California transplant that makes ice cream with liquid nitrogen.
What used to be Plum Yoga on Lower Greenville is now a bright space for coffee, books and gifts. The Merchant is now open at 1924 Greenville Ave., unique because everything in the store is for sale. The vintage furniture, decorations and signage throughout is all priced to move, as are the gifts that rest on top of them. The Merchant sells Portland’s Stumptown coffee, cold brew cans and novelty drinks as well as pastries from Dallas’ Empire Bakery. There are several tables, free wifi and plugs for those who need a quiet workspace on the busy street.
City Crew, a new rowing-centric workout space, arrived in the neighborhood last month. The business converted what was Yoga Mart on Oram into a streamlined rowing room. Co-founder Molly Setnick, a Lakewood neighbor who used to run Crowbar Cardio, says the workouts will be focused on rowing, but will include yoga and circuit training as well.
BACK WHITE ROCK LAKE LOOP
Tens of thousands of runners will fill Dallas streets Sunday, Dec. 10, as they tackle the BMW Dallas Marathon, formerly the White Rock Marathon. The inaugural 1971 race included two loops around its namesake pond, but the course evolved to accommodate a boom in participation. By 2012, when the name changed, Dallas marathoners ran but a few miles along the shores of White Rock Lake. Participants have subsequently complained about long uphill miles and a departure from the event’s historic origins.
Organizers announced recently that a large portion of the 2017 marathon route returns to White Rock Lake with a full 9.3-mile orbit.
“As one of Dallas’ most popular training spots, the lake will deliver a home
field advantage for local runners and give our out-of-town participants a chance to see one of our city’s most stunning views,” notes marathon president Paul Lambert.
After a start at Dallas City Hall, contenders traverse Downtown Dallas, Victory Park, Uptown, Highland Park, Lower Greenville, Turtle Creek, Lakewood, Swiss Avenue and Deep Ellum, offering fans and spectators plenty of options for revelry and cheering.
Residents who deem the event an annoyance retain ample cause for customary grumblings about street closures, crowds and noise. Since 1997, the Dallas Marathon has benefitted Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children, to which it has donated more than $3.9 million.
After numerous crashes along Abrams Road, the city performed a speed study, ticketing 151 people in four days along the way. City Councilman Mark Clayton says that there will soon be additional lights and radar signs along the East Dallas thoroughfare, so everyone will know just how fast they are going.
The Katy Trail extension bridge is now complete over Mockingbird Lane. The bridge, which helps connect the Katy Trail to Ridgewood Trail, will allow cyclists and runners to travel from White Rock Lake to Victory Plaza by trail. The bridge also will be a part of a larger project called The Loop, which is more than 50 miles of trail connecting White Rock Lake, the Great Trinity Forest and Downtown, partially funded by the Circuit Trial Conservancy
A J.L. Long custodian was attacked near the portables one night last month. When the victim was able to escape, authorities were called and police scoured the area, while the Dallas Police Department AirOne helicopter searched the area via spotlight. The suspect was described as a black man but was not found. The custodian is in stable condition.
Dallas police also responded to a stabbing at the intersection of Apple Street and Swiss Avenue near Dallas Theological Seminary in Old East Dallas. The victi told police she was in a verbal fight with the attacker, whom she knew.
A night of drinking ended in tragedy near Casa View in East Dallas, when a man accidentally shot and killed his friend. Nuno Guillermo, 26, was shot as he approached a home in the 10100 block of San Juan Ave. The shooter said he didn’t recognize his friend Guillermo, and as he pulled a revolver from his pocket, the gun went off, according to a police report.
A woman was found with a gunshot wound to the head at the Villa Bonita Apartments near La Prada and I-30. Officers found her in the breezeway of the apartment complex, and she was transported to Baylor Hospital where she died of her wound.
What appears to be the same man was twice caught on video breaking into Lotus Yoga Dallas in Lakewood and Rainbow Land, a childcare center in Junius Heights
Abut $500 worth of property was stolen from Lotus, according to owner Jennifer Hensley, including a laptop and a small amount of cash, and almost nothing was available to steal from the childcare center. Employees take the laptop home every night after previous break-ins.
Jaclyn and BD Amend turned what neighbors love about our neighborhood into a whimsically illustrat-
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Ayear ago, the church I serve as pastor — Wilshire Baptist — took a historic vote to clarify that our bylaws provide for only one class of membership. We removed the longstanding practice of denying certain privileges of membership, such as ordination and marriage, from Christians who are same-sex oriented or transgender. (See Keri Mitchell’s story on page 36 of this edition.)
We have since used the phrase “Open to All, Closed to None” to describe our fellowship. That’s generally true, but it doesn’t mean we lack discretion. We don’t allow convicted axe murderers to work in the nursery or bank robbers to count the collection. Like most churches, we require belief in Jesus and baptism in his name as a membership threshold. Full inclusion also includes high moral standards, all of which now apply equally to all.
The decision to address the scope of engagement in congregational life of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Christians was not about welcome per se. The church welcomed LGBT persons to worship with us and even to join as members. The question was whether they would be treated as second-class citizens in their own church.
Not everyone believes that was the issue. Some who left the church after the vote, and even some who stayed, believe the point was whether we would hold fast to the Church’s historic teaching that marriage is only between one man and one woman and leadership is reserved for role models of traditional sexual mores.
The debate before the vote and the reaction after it often came down to those who quoted scriptures that seems to condemn all same-sex behavior for all time, and those who looked at gay Christians today in their church and families and said, “Surely those biblical texts cannot be addressing what we see in the lives of these people.”
Churches, like nations, are unfinished
projects. We are communities of real people seeking to live out our ideals toward, what Lincoln termed, “a more perfect union.” The Christian project for some is about preserving what is good from the past, while for others it’s about leaving things better than we received them. Conservatives remind progressives that every innovation isn’t an advance; progressives remind conservatives that tradition isn’t always truth. “We see as through a glass darkly,” St. Paul said. No one has all the light yet.
Like all churches, ours is a work in progress. Whether this change is progress or not is for God and time to tell, but
PARK CITIES BAPTIST CHURCH / 3933 Northwest Pky / pcbc.org
Worship & Bible Study 9:15 & 10:45 Traditional, Contemporary, Spanish Speaking / 214.860.1500
ROYAL LANE BAPTIST CHURCH / 6707 Royal Lane / 214.361.2809
Christian Education 9:45 a.m. / Worship Service 10:55 a.m.
Pastor - Rev. Dr. Michael L. Gregg / www.royallane.org
WILSHIRE BAPTIST / 4316 Abrams / 214.452.3100
Pastor George A. Mason Ph.D. / Worship 8:30 & 11:00am
Bible Study 9:40 am / www.wilshirebc.org
EAST DALLAS CHRISTIAN CHURCH / 629 N. Peak Street / 214.824.8185
Sunday School 9:30 am / Worship 8:30 am - Chapel
10:50 am - Sanctuary / Rev. Deborah Morgan-Stokes / edcc.org
ST. JOHN’S EPISCOPAL CHURCH / stjd.org
Worship: Sat 5:30 pm, Sun 8 & 10:30 am / Christian Ed Sunday Morning & Weekdays, see calendar on website / 214.321.6451 / 848 Harter Rd.
CENTRAL LUTHERAN CHURCH, ELCA / 1000 Easton Road
A Welcoming and Affirming Church / Pastor Rich Pounds
Sunday School 9:00 am / Worship 10:30 am / CentralLutheran.org
FIRST UNITED LUTHERAN CHURCH / 6202 E Mockingbird Lane
Sunday Worship Service 10:30 am / Call for class schedule. 214.821.5929 / www.dallaslutheran.org
GRACE UMC / Diverse, Inclusive, Missional
Sunday School for all ages, 9:30 am / Worship, 10:50 am 4105 Junius St. / 214.824.2533 / graceumcdallas.org
LAKE HIGHLANDS UMC / 9015 Plano Rd. / 214.348.6600 / lhumc.com
Sunday Morning: 9:30 am Sunday School / 10:30 am Coffee Worship: 8:30 am & 11:00 am Traditional / 11:00 am Contemporary
MUNGER PLACE CHURCH Come and See mungerplace.org
here’s the good news as I see it: LGBT Christians can now bring their whole selves to church. We are finding “them” to be “us” — no more “us and them”! We are all of us loved by God and called to live honorable lives of service to the Lord.
St. Benedict counseled his brothers to “welcome all as Christ.” We are learning anew what “all” really means; and we are being made new ourselves because of new friends who are finding their place in the pew and in our hearts.
George Mason is pastor of Wilshire Baptist Church. The Worship section is underwritten by Advocate Publishing and the neighborhood businesses and churches listed here. For information about helping support the Worship section, call 214.560.4202.
LAKE POINTE CHURCH – WHITE ROCK CAMPUS Classic Service at 9:30 & Contemporary Service at 11:00 am lakepointe.org / 9150 Garland Road
NORTHRIDGE PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH / 6920 Bob-O-Link Dr. 214.827.5521 / www.northridgepc.org / Sundays 8:30 & 11:00 am Sunday School 9:35am / All Are Welcome
PRESTON HOLLOW PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH / 9800 Preston Road
8:15 am Chapel, 9:30 & 11:00 am Sanctuary, 5:00 pm Founder’s Hall
Senior Pastor Matthew E. Ruffner / www.phpc.org / 214.368.6348
ST. ANDREW’S PRESBYTERIAN / Skillman & Monticello Rev. Rob Leischner / www.standrewsdallas.org
214.821.9989 / Sunday School 9:30 am, Worship 10:45 am
UNITY ON GREENVILLE / Your soul is welcome here! 3425 Greenville Ave. / 214.826.5683 / www.dallasunity.org
Sunday Service 11:00 am and Book Study 9:30 am
Churches, like nations, are unfinished projects
The Christian project for some is about preserving what is good from the past, while for others it’s about leaving things better than we received them.
ed adventure in “Goodnight Lakewood.” They decided to tell their story through the eyes of their children. “Goodnight Lakewood” takes readers around White Rock Lake, visiting with monk parakeets, a duck wedding and, of course, the local coyotes. The rhyming couplets keep the story moving and the colorful illustrations will keep children engaged.
Neighbors in Hollywood Santa Monica say they want to change their zip code so that they can make an argument to be included in Dallas ISD’s District 2. The HSM newsletter reads, “Our neighborhood does not have a voice in electing the DISD Trustee who represents our zoned public schools as we are in DISD Trustee District 9. Changing our zip code will help us argue that we should be in DISD District 2 when DISD Trustee boundaries are redrawn.” Those pushing for change are currently getting feedback from their neighbors and researching the process required to change the zip code.
The company behind the stalled development at 4217 Swiss Ave. is suing the City of Dallas in federal court for revoking its permit. Last month, a stop-work order was put on the partially constructed property after the Peak’s Addition Homeowners Association took the city and the Board of Adjustment to court and won. Peak’s Addition argued that the permit issued to build the mixed-use development violated the residential proximity slope for the historic area, meaning the building was too tall and too close to the street. Encore Enterprises is the parent company of EMF Swiss Avenue LLC, who is the plaintiff in the case. EMF argues that the permit was legally obtained, and that the judge did not require to city to stop the work. Corporate Counsel Jonathan Rector wrote in a statement to the Advocate: “The city made the irrational and unnecessary decision to issue a stop work order, making a mockery of the well-established process for obtaining approval for development in Dallas and sets a dangerous precedent if it is allowed to stand.”
Mourning Light Service
December 13th at 6:15 p.m. in Family Hall
A service of healing and wholeness for those who mourn during the holiday season. Holy Communion offered.
Christmas Eve Service
December 24th at 6:00 p.m. in the Sanctuary Carols, Candlelight & Communion
“Sing Noel” December 3 · 10:30 am Worship of Lessons & Carols by local community college choirs
December 6
Soup Supper 6 pm, Live Nativity 7 pm
December 10 · 10:30 am Worship
Bach Cantata; “Sleepers Awake” by Central Sanctuary Choir
December 10 · 3:30 pm
Bach Cantata; “Sleepers Awake” at Museum of Biblical Arts 7500 Park Lane
December 13 and 20
Soup Supper 6 pm, Vespers 7 pm
Christmas Eve Candlelight Worship 7 pm
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AT ODDS WITH YOUR COMPUTER? Easily Learn Essential Skills. Services include Digital Photo Help. Sharon 214-679-9688
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1. Get grounded — Reduce the rushing. Draw your energy inward.
2. Feed your soul — See what foods are in season. This season is all about hearty, nutritious and warm foods.
3. Find your rhythm — Sticking to meal and bedtimes help create balance and will ground you.
4. Don’t lose your glow — Dry skin is all too common, so break out the moisturizer.
5. Treat yourself — Self massage will soothe the lingering stress. Start with the soles of your feet and work up to your head. Now you’re ready to embody the season.
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Is the city finally making headway on some of its biggest issues?
It’s the end of the year, and I’m torn. Thanksgiving and Christmas are upon us and I am conflicted as to how to evaluate this past year in our fair city. Is it better to look at 2017 through the mindful lens of Thanksgiving gratitude? Or should we take a cue from Santa and drop some coal into a few Dallas stockings? Do we count Dallas’ many blessings? Or list who’s been naughty and nice?
A naughty and nice list sure would be fun, but this has been such a good year for Dallas, why don’t we start with the good stuff?
The first goodest stuff, the bestest stuff: The death of the Trinity Toll Road. Almost 20 years after voters narrowly approved a vision of lakes and parks in our floodway, and a full decade after voters narrowly defeated the toll road referendum, the Dallas City Council finally voted to kill the Trinity Toll Road once and for all. The road had delayed our park for a generation. With the toll road gone, we can finally move forward in building an accessible, natural and flood-hardy Trinity Park.
Next up on our gratitude list is Dallas’ City Manager TC Broadnax. Broadnax has been shaking things up at 1500 Marilla since he came to Dallas in February, bringing in a slate of top professionals from across the country to run Dallas City Hall. He’s completely overhauled several city departments, including housing, economic development, and transportation. His new police chief has initiated a top-to-bottom review of the police force. With his focus on process, transparency and community engagement, Broadnax
has brought much-needed change to our city government.
Dallas also can be grateful that our city is moving in a new direction when it comes to transportation and mobility. It started with last year’s CityMAP, an incredible project led by the Texas Department of Transportation that evaluated improvements to downtown Dallas highways. CityMAP wasn’t just trying to figure out how to move more cars faster. It evaluated how different
highway scenarios impacted inner-city neighborhood redevelopment, community preservation, economic growth and walkability. It’s a remarkable first step in re-engineering central Dallas highways for future generations.
In other positive transportation news, the Dallas City Council shook up the Dallas Area Rapid Transit board, selecting a group of Dallas representatives who are pushing DART to focus on smart, pragmatic transit priorities, like overhauling our inefficient bus system. And the recently approved $1.05 billion City of Dallas bond package includes $20 million to construct the Loop Trail, which will connect more than 50 miles of offstreet trails in central Dallas. That’s going to be a game-changer.
Some of our city’s most challenging financial and legal issues also were put to bed this year. Thanks to some great leadership on our city council, the police/ fire pension crisis has been averted, and it also looks like we’ll finally see some resolution to the police pay referendum lawsuit that has loomed over the city for years. Some closure and finality on these issues is important to our city’s financial health as well as to the morale of our first responders.
Lastly, our city can be grateful for the great strides the Dallas ISD has made over the last year. For the second year in a row, DISD added three new national Blue Ribbon schools, leading the state both times. Over the last four years, district has reduced the number of schools rated “improvement required” from 43 to 13. The school district also made great gains in the state math assessment, and under DISD’s Teacher Evaluation System, the district has been able to retain good teachers while losing those less qualified.
There’s so much good stuff to be grateful for in our city over the last year that I’ve run out of space. What a wonderful problem to have.
I guess we’ll have to wait until January for that naughty list. In the meantime, may your holidays be merry and bright.
Angela Hunt is a neighborhood resident and former Dallas city councilwoman in East Dallas. She writes a monthly opinion column about neighborhood issues. Her opinions are not necessarily those of the Advocate or its management. Send comments and ideas to her ahunt@advocatemag.com.
A naughty and nice list sure would be fun, but this has been such a good year for Dallas, why don’t we start with the good stuff?
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