2011 May Lake Highlands

Education, I N te r rupted

Life’s struggles threatened them, but these students fought for success

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The Graduates

Though the odds were stacked against them, these students will graduate this month, and they have big things planned for the future.

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Dangerous electric panels (april 2011 lake Highlands Advocate)

when we bought our home in 2005, we had a Federal Pacific panel. we had it replaced for $1,850 within the first week of owning the home. that’s a small price to pay to keep my family safe.

—brian

i have the dreaded panel. i checked after reading a story in the newspaper. However, i can’t pay $2,000 to have it replaced!

—anne

the l ake highlanDs home tour (april 2011 lake Highlands Advocate)

the steele home in white rock Hills is fabulous. i’ve been there several times for social gatherings and they are great hosts as well. Fantastic pick for the home tour.

mia

a home tour on a wednesday morning? i’d love to go, but i work regular business hours. My wife and i recently had a baby and she would love to find an organization like this to get involved with, but it appears that (the sponsoring organization, the lake Highlands area early Childhood Pta is) designed for stay-at-home moms. i’d like to know about organizations that are more schedule- friendly for work-outside-the-home moms (and dads for that matter).

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THE TOURISTS

ALL OF US BENEFIT FROM A CARING GUIDE

During the past few years, we’ve visited quite a few colleges, preparing last year for our oldest’s decision and now giving our youngest a taste of what’s out there.

Speaking as the first in my family to attend college and as someone who didn’t visit the school I attended until it was too late to get into another one, these visits are a strangely numbing process.

There’s excitement, of course, about choosing a new home, and yet confusion and concern about making a mistake selecting the place where many of life’s crucial decisions could be formed, as if it’s possible to make the “right” life decision at 18 anyway.

Surprisingly, if you visit enough four-year colleges, the places start to run together. Public or private, expensive or not, many have or are building state-of-the-art student centers. And competition for students has spawned a surprising number of climbing walls, spin-class rooms, sushi restaurants and big-screen TVs — even many of the least expensive four-year colleges remind me of a cross between a sports bar and a cruise ship.

So after visiting lots of schools and trying, unsuccessfully for the most part, to view each spot through our potential student’s eyes, my wife and I concluded that there’s one thing that ultimately separates one school from another: the tour guide.

That’s right: A decision involving perhaps a hundred thousand dollars in educational “value” can boil down to whether a volunteer student tour guide was funny, entertaining, smart or simply a block-head.

In our travels, the schools judged most deficient were the ones that trotted out the most bored and disinterested tour guides, kids who acted (and sometimes even told us) they were a little too important to be leading a tour.

In fact, one tour guide spent a good portion of a 90-minute tour telling us repeatedly she wished they hadn’t called her in, but she was the only one in town and she wished she was still sleeping off the party from last night and this was a presumably high-achieving student at one of the country’s most highly rated private schools.

And the schools judged best by our sons? Often, it boiled down to tour guides who were enthusiastic, helpful and engaged. People who cared. People who went out of their way to make kids they’d never see again feel welcome, wanted and important. It wasn’t that they were the best advocates for their schools’ academics; it was that they were the most caring.

As it turns out, that same idea applies to stu-

dents featured in this month’s cover story. Many of them won’t be attending expensive colleges; in fact, most weren’t even on track to graduate from high school not long ago.

But if you read these stories, you’ll find there’s a “tour guide” of sorts who took an interest in these students, someone who helped guide them from

Competition for students has spawned a surprising number of climbing walls, spin-class rooms, sushi restaurants and big-screen TVs.

almost certain failure to almost certain success.

Someone — a teacher, a relative, a friend, a volunteer — convinced these students that their lives have value, that their efforts to succeed won’t be in vain, that if they focused their energy on accomplishments instead of bad breaks, they could break a cycle of misfortune and make something out of their lives.

Those of us who have been around awhile know that success in life isn’t as simple as just influencing someone in a positive direction. But for the most part, that’s where success begins. Most of us need a push from time to time, and it doesn’t take an expert to do the deed — it only takes someone who cares.

That’s how these teens found their way in life. And without an enthusiastic tour guide somewhere along the line, many of us wouldn’t be where we are today, either.

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What to Expect During Our Initial Visit

If you’ve been considering a remodeling project in your home, you may wonder . . .

“What would happen during an in-home visit with Bella Vista?” To answer that, we’ve simulated a visit with “Linda” who is considering a kitchen renovation. We begin with her call . . .

Linda: Our kitchen hasn’t been updated in ten years. It’s closed off from the rest of the house and isn’t very useful as a gathering place.

Jan (our Coordinator): Let’s schedule a free consultation for one of our partners to meet you and answer any questions you may have. He’ll talk with you about your needs and your taste in design, and he’ll give you some ideas and more information about us.

Lance (at the home, after the initial meet and greet): This is a tudor home and it looks like the kitchen was last remodeled in the late ‘80s. Today’s kitchens are more functional, especially as a gathering place. Who else lives in this home?

Linda: It’s just me, my husband and our daughter when she comes home from college.

Lance: Ok, so the design doesn’t need to incorporate features for children or seniors. What style do you have in mind? Do you like a more modern or a more traditional feel?

Linda: I like a classic look and I also want some modern design touches, and definitely more modern conveniences.

Lance: Even though your kitchen is outdated, the last remodel incorporated some of the original materials, which may be worth preserving. Are we working with things we already have in the kitchen, or is it a complete gut?

Linda: The kitchen would lose its original character without the hutch. I’d really like that area to be a focal point, with a nice backsplash.

Lance: Great, we can get a lot of bang-for-the-buck by livening up the hutch and doing something special with your backsplash. You can choose materials in our design studio and our interior designer can also take you to our suppliers to choose the tiles. You’ll be surprised how many options there are. With your hutch and an elaborate backsplash, I’d recommend painted cabinets to retain a classic look and feel. There are hundreds of styles of cabinets, and lots of popular conveniences like lazy susans, chef’s pantries, and pull-out drawers that I can show you. By the way, what kind of counter surfaces do you like?

Linda: Granite. I love the black with a little bit of shimmer to it. My husband loves the marbled look, but we’re both curious about what other looks there are in granite.

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lakehighlands.advocatemag.com after lHHs BaseBall win, a question: wHen to say wHen?

Our sports blogger Cory Mageors kicked off a hot-topic discussion after Lake Highlands High delivered a record-breaking baseball skunk to Samuell in March:

The 54-0 Lake Highlands High win against Samuell High caught flak from some, praise from others, apathy from another group and the attention of national press.

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By the National High School Record book, the score was a state record and is ranked in the top 10 nationally. So yeah, it’s a big deal.

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But considering these two teams didn’t even play last year, I don’t think this win was malicious in any way.

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Fourteen of the Lake Highlands 18 listed roster players had at least three at-bats. So not all of the starters even played the entire five innings. LHHS head coach Jay Higgins was inducted into the Texas High School Baseball Coaches Association’s Hall of Fame last year and doesn’t need a big win to validate his legacy as a coach.

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Granted, there were probably other options than getting base-hit after base-hit, like kneeling the ball on the two-yard line with seven seconds left in the game like Brian

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Westbrook, then with the Eagles, did against the Cowboys a couple of years back. When I left that game, I thought it was more of a slap in the face than if they had scored.

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What I did find interesting was that Samuell head coach Mike Peña said all 17 Samuell players showed up for practice the following day. They didn’t quit. They want to get better and never let that happen again. I think that takes guts.

Should there be a run-rule limit? I don’t know, should there be a run-rule limit on our failing economy? Are run-rule limits how the real world works?

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When he was just 29 years old, Clay Gould — a husband, father and coach of the University of Texas at Arlington baseball team died after a battle with cancer. A few years later his wife, Lake Highlands resident J UL ie Go UL d, embarked on a therapeutic project while pursuing a film degree — a short movie that would bring personal catharsis and, hopefully, touch others hurting from the loss of a loved one. This year, the finished short film, “8”, is making its way around the festival circuit, debuting and winning “best short” at March’s South By Southwest (SXSW) film festival in Austin. i t screened at the d allas i ndependent Film Festival and Sarasota Film Festival in April, and in Boston’s i ndependence Film Festival this month.

How did “8” come to exist?

In 2001, my husband died. At the time, our daughter Logan was 10 months old. This movie is a gift to Clay, Logan, myself and it’s for other widows. I’d always known I wanted to make movies. I’d tried other things — like being in front of the camera — but I went back to school at UTA two years ago, and I was encouraged to make something based on personal experience. It was a therapeutic project. Two other UTA guys, cinematographer Bret Curry and co-director Daniel Laabs, eventually got on board. GoT

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What is does “8” mean?

that was Clay’s baseball jersey number. Baseball was a big part of his life — he coached the Uta team. the film is about the anniversary of his death and how a mother (me) and a daughter (Logan, 9 years old now) commemorate it. Logan and i play ourselves — we considered hiring actors but decided it would be more special and personal this way. some of it is scripted, and some ad-libbed. We call it an experimental documentary for that reason. it’s shot mostly at the Uta baseball field in arlington. it’s about a daughter who is more interested in having a fun day, and a mother who feels a duty to use that day to teach the child about her father.

hoW mUCh does Logan knoW aBoUt her father?

she has always seen photos and watched videos of her dad. We have stayed close with the Uta coaching staff, and we still go to the baseball games. he’s always been around, just not physically.

hoW did she do With the fiLming? she did well — took direction well. We filmed in arlington in July and august, so it was a little uncomfortable.

What do yoU hope the aUdienCe WiLL take aWay from “8”?

i always wondered how other people dealt with grief and death. i realized everyone dealt with it differently, and i hope this will positively impact people who have had someone die. i have gotten some good feedback: people say it is visually beautiful, subtle and sweet.

the paneL at sXsW Liked the movie, yes?

yes, we received the Jury award in the short film category.

do yoU have more proJeCts in mind?

We — the same team that worked on “8” want to make a feature-length movie next. i have a lot of ideas, but i want to do something totally different this time.

—CHristina HugHes BaBB

continuing the vision

It’s a quiet afternoon in the King of Glory Lutheran Church basement, where shelves reach to the ceiling, holding hard drives, monitors, CPUs and motherboards. A few older gentlemen diligently tinker with desktop computers, taking them apart and putting them back together again. “Most of them had no experience doing this until they got here,” Gil Brand says. Brand is the president of Computers for the Blind, a neighborhood nonprofit of about 15 people who volunteer twice a week at the church at Hillcrest and LBJ, working to repurpose donated computers for the visually impaired. The group recently celebrated its 4,000th computer, shipping an average of 350400 per year. “We learned through trial and error,” Brand says. “There’s always someone sitting next to you who has done it 50 times.” Volunteers spend hours replacing parts, creating tutorials and loading special software such as Zoom Text, which enlarges type for those partially blind, and an audio program that reads words aloud from the page. The organization officially began in February 2001, founded by Lake Highlands resident Bob Langford. He went blind at age 15 after a Halloween prank gone wrong. He set out to make a difference for the visually impaired, not just locally but across the globe. In fact, most of the computers are shipped out of state. John Austin, one of the earliest volunteers, has refurbished 1,463 computers. “To talk to the people who receive the computers is very gratifying,” he says. “It opens new doors for them. They can do things now that they had to hire someone to do.”

—EMILY TOMAN

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the (small) sopranos

The four fresh-faced girls sit giggling, bouncing and trying unsuccessfully to sit still under the bright dressing-room lights. They are similarly clothed in heavy, tattered rags, stockings (under which one can make out a trace of knee pads) and black beanies that only partially contain unruly locks. On this night, the children 10-yearold Chloe Gilpin, a student at St. John’s Episcopal, her sister Sophie, 6, who attends St. James Episcopal, and Highlander School students Emmie and Julia Rose Arduino, 10 and 8 years old, respectively — have just exited the stage of the Dallas Opera’s production of Boris Godunov. Collectively, the children have just crawled on hands and knees, begged for food, teased and robbed a crazy old man, and

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died, perhaps more than once. And they sang the four young sopranos belted out their lines so beautifully that the listener might question whether such bold song could emit from such a small person. They felt virtually no fear before the packed house at the Winspear and had a grand time playing the poor, starving and neglected children of 16th century Russia. When they deliver lines, they don’t really know what they are singing, says Chloe and Sophie’s mom, Beth Gilpin, who had a non-singing role in the production. Gilpin, along with Emmie and Julia Rose’s mom Natalie Arduino, who herself is a critically acclaimed mezzo-soprano, translate words for the young actors and explain the overriding themes of the opera, Gilpin says. “They don’t know what it feels like to be a starving child, or even know that there is such a thing,” Gilpin says. “Before they can play one, they have to understand.” The girls — all inspired by their talented mothers and, in the case of the younger ones, older siblings — boast lengthy résumés for their young ages: Chloe has seven operas under her belt; Emmie has three; Julia Rose and Sophie, two each. They sing for school and church choirs and act in school plays. The Dallas Opera, for children’s roles, uses kids who have had some stage experience, be it at school, church or some other form of theater. In opera, the roles of children are never gratuitous, says Dallas Opera media director Suzanne Calvin. “When children appear in opera it is always important,” Calvin says. “Boris Godunov was no exception.” Once they have been selected for an opera choir and perform well — as the older girls did in 2009’s Dallas Opera production of “La Boehme” — they will undoubtedly be cast in future productions. “Once you’re in, you’re in,” Gilpin notes. Calvin adds that it is not easy to find the right children for the job

the Gilpin and Arduino girls’ talents are a “proven commodity.” Generally, the girls appear in two or three shows per year. The nights can run late — they sometimes feed little Sophie chocolate to keep her awake — and the schedule is tough, but all involved agree that it’s well worth the hard work. They spend down time backstage doing homework and then playing board games. It’s different, but not exceedingly different from the way other families invest their time, Gilpin says. “Some families have kids who play soccer; we have opera kids.”

—CHRISTINA HUGHES BABB

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On any given day he might be reviewing a movie or a book, mulling over current events or pop culture, or revealing a personal experience, but all Mark Crotty’s blog posts lead to the main topic, education. And despite the fact that Crotty is the Head of St. John’s Episcopal School near White Rock Lake, his outlook on education is not as narrow as reading, writing and arithmetictype schooling. “It’s more about emphasizing that education is a human endeavor,” Crotty explains. “And because we are complex, we should be holistic in our approach to education.” That’s the philosophy behind the school that he has overseen for the past year, where he says the staff works hard to shape character and spirit as well as scholastics. Before St. John’s, Crotty worked at Greenhill School for 20 years. He started the blog (named “To Keep Things Whole”, a line from a poem by Mark Strand) as a way to let people get to know him and to reach more people — professionals, parents or students who are interested in education. He recently won recognition from the National Association of Independent Schools, which named his as a “blog to watch”, but he insists he doesn’t have all the answers. “I hope people don’t think I come across as someone who thinks (he) know(s) all,” he says. “I just want to ask questions, get people to ask questions and to contribute to a larger conversation about the purpose of education.” —Christina hughes BaBB

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THIS MONTH, LUNCH WITH LADIES at the Healing Hands Ministries’ “Hearts and Hands

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Luncheon” at Wilshire Baptist Church’s community hall on Friday, May 6. This event, scheduled for the Friday before Mother’s Day, is designed to bring mothers, grandmothers, daughters, sisters and friends together. Proceeds benefit the women’s and children’s programs of Healing Hands, where two-thirds of the more than 2,000 patients are women. Healing Hands Ministries is a non-profit clinic, which combines financial donations and thousands of hours per year in volunteer support to provide medical and dental care for families in Lake Highlands. According to founder and director Janna Gardner, the tough economy is boosting the numbers of new patients needing help, especially single mothers and their children. When they come to the clinic for cost-effective, quality, comprehensive healthcare, she says, they reduce visits to busy ERs. The clinic receives no government funding, yet saves taxpayers millions of dollars. Tickets to the luncheon are $30 and include a program, “Gathering Around the Table”, presented by Janet Denison. Guests will enjoy the “exquisite tablescapes” of 25 designers and community leaders. The event will be held from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. at Wilshire, 4316 Abrams at Mockingbird. For more information about attending, designing a table or becoming a sponsor, email Jane Waters at janewaters@hhmtx. org or visit healinghandsdallas.org.

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WHITE ROCK LAKE CENTENNIAL HALF MARATHON

$60-$70 Whether a runner or a spectator, there’s plenty to do at the Centennial Half Marathon, another event celebrating the 100th anniversary of White Rock Lake. The race starts at 8 a.m. and takes participants along 13.1 miles of scenery. Awards will be given to the top three finishers in each age group along with medals for first, second and third overall and in the masters division. Those who aren’t keen on running can enjoy live music and children’s activities at 9 a.m. in the circle drive of Winfrey Point where the race begins. Register and download a course map online. 940 E. Lawther, centennialhalf.com. —E MiLy ToMA n

05.01 MAY DAY CELEBRATION $100 Juliette Fowler Homes

Inc. hosts the May Day Celebration at the Dallas Arboretum. The gardens open at 9 a.m., and the three-course lunch is 1-3 p.m. Proceeds benefit the remodel of Worth Wing, which houses memory loss patients. 8525 Garland Road, 214.515.1340, fowlerhomes.org.

05.03-05.31 CONCERTS IN THE GARDEN $9-$17

The Dallas Arboretum presents its Concerts in the Garden series at 7:30 p.m. Tuesdays and Thursdays, including local Celtic group the Killdares on May 17. The series spans all genres throughout the spring and summer. Season passes start at $88 for members. 8525 Garland, 214.515.6518, dallasarboretum.org.

05.06-05.22 GIGGLE, GIGGLE, QUACK $14-$25

Dallas Children’s Theater presents the nationaltouring musical sequel to “Click, Clack, Moo: Cows that Type”. The barnyard turns upside-down when Farmer Brown leaves his city-slicker brother in charge. Showtimes run at various times FridaysSundays. 5938 Skillman, 214.740.0051, dct.org.

05.11-05.28 THE MYSTERY OF MIZ ARNETTE $10-$14 One Thirty Productions presents a Dust Bowl-era play, which follows a young girl whose life changes when a stranger enters the picture. Performances run at 1:30 p.m. 521 E. Lawther, 214.670.8749, dallasculture.org.

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05.21 CENTENNIAL REGATTA

FREE-$35 Open to all centerboard boats having a Portsmouth Handicap Rating and to Corinthian class sailboats, the Centennial Regatta runs 9 a.m.-5 p.m. with three races scheduled. Registration includes lunch. The event is free for spectators. 340 E. Lawther, 972.693.7271, whiterockboatclub.com.

05.28 WHITE ROCK ROWING SPRINT

CHAMPIONSHIPS FREE Visitors can watch rowers blaze down the 2,000-meter course during the White Rock Rowing Sprint Championship, 8:30 a.m.-2 p.m., hosted by the White Rock Boathouse. Tours of the historic Filter Building and boathouse will be available. 340 E. Lawther, 214.212.0477, whiterockboatclub.com.

NORTH DALLAS ANTIQUE MALL

12,500 sq. ft. of great shopping for antiques, collectibles, vintage, furniture, décor, retro, art, glass, fashion, jewelry, garden and much more.

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Birds of a Feather flock to Brumley’s for spring color and funky gifts. And a little bird told me you should always shop local! 10540 Church Rd. 214.343.4900

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05.29-05.30 CARRY THE LOAD $50

To raise awareness about those who have fought and died for our country, White Rock Lake will host Carry the Load, in which participants carry more than their weight in a backpack for as long as 20 hours and 11 minutes while circling the lake from 4 p.m. Sunday to noon Monday. Opening ceremonies begin at 3:30 p.m. Proceeds benefit organizations such as Heroes on the Water, Joe Foss Institute and the Fisher House Foundation. 340 E. Lawther, carrytheload.org.

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A guide to dining & drinking in our neighborhood

LET’S DO BRUNCH

TOM AND KAREN FLEMING, along with partner Carl Strelecki, opened Crossroads at Walnut Hill and Central on a Saturday last fall after some heavy cleaning and light remodeling to “make her look like a diner”, the couple recalls. Tom has a girl on the side. Her name is Rebecca Buns. To clarify, Buns is just an image — a mascot. A painting on the side of the building. “My wife calls her my girlfriend,” Tom says. The curvy brunette sits on a barrel of maple syrup inviting customers to “Get your hot sticky buns up front”. The gooey made-from-scratch buns at Crossroads already are famous, attracting sweet teeth from all corners of the city, but the pillowy eggs benedict, or its more-colorful brother, eggs flourentine with hash browns, or the three-egg Kalamata olive, feta cheese and sun-dried tomato frittata, are enough to turn any night owl into an early rising breakfast aficionado. “We have a growing legion of fans,” notes Karen. Look for more pops of art and quirk around the spacious diner, such as the giant-whisk chandelier, fashioned by Tom and steel artisan Don Kemp, or a painting of the Dallas skyline by Randy Stark, who also painted Miss Buns. —CHRISTINA HUGHES BABB

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Not really a coffee shop in the sense that Starbucks or White Rock Coffee is a coffee shop this place has a large menu featuring solid standard breakfast fare such as eggs, sausage, fruit and pancakes. Sit down. Stay a while. It’s that kind of atmosphere. NORTHWEST & FERNDALE 214.221.4659

It’s a greasy spoon classic with good coffee and a few healthy options such as the egg-white omelet. Chances are good that you will see one of your neighbors while you are here.

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Ah, the breakfast taco. It is all the rage these days. Unlike some posers out there, this place does the bt right, hand prepared and chock full of fresh veggies and fluffy eggs. Family to feed? Try 10 tacos for $12, or big fat breakfast burritos at two-fer $2.69. FOREST & PARKCENTRAL 214.361.2742

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The BEST BE E E AT S in our neighborhood

ASIAN MINT $$OD FB WB Our Highland Park location, The Mint, offers an array of Asian-fused cuisine, specializing in Bangkok style dishes. We feature farm fresh ingredients, beautifully presented, coupled with a chic atmosphere and friendly service. Happy Hour is 5pm6:30pm Mon.-Fri. – all beers and house wines are $3; $2 off appetizers, soups & salads. 4246 Oak Lawn Ave. 214.219.6469. The Asian Mint, along with its fused and sushi menus, also offers one of the best dessert bars in Dallas. 11617 N. Central Expwy. 214.363.6655. www.themintdallas.com

BACK COUNTRY BBQ $WB Over 30 years of Texas-style BBQ. Family dining - 8 different meats, variety of homemade vegetables. Complete catering & custom cooking. Beer, wine, margaritas. 6940 Greenville Ave. 214.696.6940.

TEX MEX GRILL $WB If you are looking for great Tex-Mex dining at reasonable prices try Tex Mex Grill and Cafe at the corner of Walnut Hill Lane and Plano Rd. Everything on the menu is quickly prepared using fresh ingredients. Offering a different lunch special each day, beginning at $4.99. Private Party room, seats 40 people. Adult beverages are limited to margaritas and beer. Catering beginning at $6.50 per person. New Hours: Mon- Sat 11 am - 10 pm, Sunday 10 am - 4 pm

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Specializing in American and Italian flavors. Choose from our signature pizza, sliders and fries, fresh salads and much more. We are conveniently located in your neighborhood.

Since 1980, we have offered the finest Chinese food in Dallas. Choose from our gourmet menu or convenient buffet.

LE JAJA DE JAUSYRAH ($12) FRANCE>

Mother’s Day is upon us, so here are a few thoughts giving Mom wine and serving wine for a Mother’s Day brunch.

First and foremost, if you know what Mom likes, to her. That means that if she appreciates white zinfandel, let her drink white zinfandel. You aren’t the wine police.

Second, don’t worry too much about pairing wine and food. You aren’t the wine police there, either. Mom likes red wine with fish or white wine with beef, she’s allowed to drink it.

To that end, here are three wines that offer value and fit those criteria:

This French red isn’t quite the steal that it was in the old days, but still offers decent wine at a decent price. Best yet, it’s a fruity red wine that pairs with everything from roast chicken to roast lamb.

This is an odd white blend from Australia — riesling, sauvignon blanc and marsanne. It’s not sweet, despite the riesling, but clean and crisp with a bit of lemon fruit. It’s a shellfish and salad wine.

This is very well done

California chardonnay — oak for people who like that sort of thing, plus green apple fruit and enough acid to balance the fruit and the oak. The wine to treat Mom with.

—JEFF SIEGEL

WITH

YOUR WINE Roast chicken thighs with mustard, garlic and rosemary

Like roast chicken, but dislike how long it takes? Then try roasting individual parts. Thighs are the quickest, but you can also use breasts. Just let them cook a little longer. Any of the wines mentioned here would pair well.

Serves 4, takes about 40 minutes

8 chicken thighs

1/3 c Dijon-style mustard

1 clove garlic, minced

1/4 tsp rosemary, ground

4 Tbsp olive oil, divided salt and pepper to taste

1. Preheat oven to 450. Combine mustard, garlic, rosemary and 3 Tbsp olive oil in a small bowl.

2. Salt and pepper the thighs. In an oven-safe pan large enough to hold all the chicken, sauté the thighs, starting skin side down, in 1 Tbsp olive oil for about 3 1/2 minutes on each side, until well browned.

3. Put the thighs in the oven and cook for 10 minutes. Flip the thighs over so the skin side is down, and brush the mustard mixture on the thighs. Cook for 10 minutes, flip again, and brush the mustard on the skin side of chicken. Cook 10 or 15 minutes more until chicken is done.

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WHY IS RESTAURANT WINE SO MUCH MORE EXPENSIVE THAN WINE IN STORES?

This is one of the most controversial parts of the wine business, and there are many reasons. But, typically, restaurants charge three times what the wine costs the restaurant. And why do they do it? Because they can.

—JEFF SIEGEL

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test of strength

Some of life’s most important lessons are learned outside the classroom

Story by Christina Hughes Babb

Photos by Benjamin Hager and Can Turkyilmaz

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Some acquire their diploma easily. Others earn theirs against all odds. These graduating seniors didn’t let life’s blows keep them down. This month, they will cross the commencement stage knowing their tribulations made them stronger.

High school graduation is a milestone

It lights up the room and warms everyone in it. But she tells us about a scared, beaten, angry and sad middle schooler who couldn’t make friends — that was her up until age 13, when her father finally left the family.

The oldest of five children, she says she received the brunt of the abuse. She was forced to quit all extra-curricular activities including sports, which she loved.

“I wanted to be something. I knew I had a lot going for me, but he told me I would wind up pregnant before I finished high school, or that I would be in jail.”

She set out to prove him wrong.

When she was in seventh grade, she says, her father legally relinquished his parental rights. She attended Liberty Junior High in RISD and began joining clubs, including Advancement Via Individual Determination (see What is AVID? p. 35), where she made friends. In eighth grade, she returned to sports volleyball, basketball, track. She moved to Berkner High School and surrounded herself with a tight-knit group that included other AVID students and teachers. It was like a “nest”, she says, where she felt safe.

But then her father showed up. He tracked her down at school, and she says things went downhill fast. She had to transfer to Lake Highlands High School to break free.

Again, though, she found herself in a

precarious spot.

“I didn’t feel as welcome at first, even in AVID. I went into a shell. I didn’t have friends because of an injury I wasn’t playing sports, and I was working two jobs, mostly to keep me occupied because I still wanted to be productive.”

But then a school assignment required her to share her autobiography. She was honest and read her story aloud to her AVID class. After opening up, she says, life improved.

“I started to smile a lot; my grades went up. I started saying ‘good morning’ to people in the hallway,” she says.

A few weeks ago, the University of Houston sent her an acceptance letter. In her senior year, she has already started taking night classes at Richland Community College. She wants to follow in her mom’s footsteps and become a nurse.

Getting into college and graduating from high school feels good, she says, especially considering the setbacks.

“I haven’t had any kids,” she says, referring to her father’s mean-spirited prediction. “And it feels good being one step closer to proving him wrong.”

“I’d never want to consider a life without activity,” says avid runner and biker Gary Derheim. But a hip fracture nearly brought his sport to a screeching halt. At Baylor, Gary was treated with an advanced, new procedure called hip resurfacing. “Before the procedure,” he says, “they spent a lot of time talking to me about options, what was important to me. You need a good hip to ride like I do. The procedure was incredible. I was walking within days. Ultimately, I was able to do a 109-mile bike race, and I didn’t think about my hip once.”

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“It feels good being one step closer to proving [my father] wrong.”

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“I cried a lot, but it taught me that you can’t take things for granted,” says Broussard, who is now a senior preparing to graduate from Lake Highlands High School.

Then in 2005, Broussard who grew up in New Orleans lost his home when Hurricane Katrina hit. Along with his eight-monthspregnant mom and stepfather, Broussard evacuated his home the day before the storm.

“Our house was flooded, and we lost everything. My stepdad drove us out of the city. We stayed with his sister until we found an apartment in Lake Highlands.”

Looking back, Broussard says, being uprooted was a blessing in disguise. The New Orleans he knew was crimeridden, he says.

“My mom had taught me to stay out of trouble and focus on grades.” The message carried on when he moved to

BROUSSARD was 7 years old, his 29-year-old father died.

Dallas, he says.

Once he landed in RISD, he was able to enroll in Advanced Placement classes and, eventually, the AVID program, which helps students prepare for college.

He was pleased to find that, unlike many of his former New Orleans classmates, students in his new classes took school seriously.

His family mom Shannon Broussard Martin and stepfather Adrian Martin — as well as his “AVID family”, he says, helped him during tough times.

“It hasn’t always been easy. I got a lot of support at school, and my stepfather has been a great father figure. He taught me to be a man.”

AVID coordinator Corrie Myers taught Broussard in eighth grade.

“Like so many of the young people who came here following Katrina, he had a difficult time assimilating. AVID is there for the students who are selfmotivated and who are willing to do what it takes to progress and be successful socially and academically,” she says.

As soon as he arrived in Dallas, Broussard also latched onto sports. He played basketball in junior high and ran track and played football in high school.

“Coach Haynes (Brindley) stayed on me a lot,” he says with a grin. “He demanded that I keep my grades up.”

On the football team, Broussard played cornerback and made all-district his senior year.

In his habit of making the most of every opportunity, he plans to get a head start on college this summer at the University of North Texas, where he says he might study journalism.

His father would be proud of him, he says, and he’s excited to share graduation day with his mom and stepdad, 10-year-old brother Jarek, and 5-yearold sister Jyrah.

“Some of my family from New Orleans will [attend my graduation] too,” he says. “I can’t wait.”

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When they moved to the U.S. it would have been too difficult to bring her along at the time.

She accepted the situation for a while, but when she was 13, she realized she was missing something.

“My mom had a baby. I already had one sister I didn’t know, and I wanted to know my new sister. My parents sent me money and photos, but I was sad. I wanted to grow up with my sisters. One day, I just told them I had to come.”

Once she arrived in the U.S., things became scary, she says. She enrolled at Forest Meadow Junior High, a school with a population of about 600 students, without knowing a word of English.

“It was so hard. I didn’t know anyone. I really wanted to quit. But, look, I’m still here,” she says and sits up a little straighter.

She worked tirelessly to learn the language. She studied English magazines, looking up words one-by-one in the dictionary. In her RISD English as a Second Language classes she met others who were struggling and teachers who genuinely wanted to help.

“The teachers were so patient,” she says. “They tried to get to know me — I want to thank them.”

In high school, her 11th grade English teacher, Corrie Myers, helped her continue to build her confidence and prompted her to think about college.

“College hadn’t even crossed my mind. I had no idea how to do anything toward going to college, but Miss Myers and AVID showed me.”

Myers, coordinator of AVID, says she can’t take credit for Figuero’s success.

AVID is like a family, Meyers says, and the students help and support one another.

Myers says she was impressed with Figuero’s willingness to learn.

left her with a grandmother and an aunt in El Salvador.

WHAT IS AVID?

AVID stands for Advancement Via Individual Determination — offered to Richardson ISD students as early as fourth grade, the program prepares young people, albeit only those who are willing to work hard, for college. AVID is open to all students, but most often AVID members will be the first in their families to attend college, and many are from low-income or minority families, says Carrie Myers, the AVID coordinator at Lake Highlands High School. “AVID pulls these students out of their unchallenging courses and puts them on the college track.” Myers doesn’t hunt down students or push the program. “We have information meetings, and the most determined students will find me.” Once you are in AVID, you are part of a family, Myers says. “Some of these kids treat me like a mother, she says, noting that “Momma Myers” is her alias around school.

“Her English that first year grew by leaps and bounds. It was impressive that she learned so fast,” Myers says. “Some of the ESL students I meet want so badly to be here. They are so grateful for the opportunity to have what we have that they work very hard for it. That was Cindi — hardworking and eager.”

Figuero joined the League of United Latin American Citizens (LULAC) and is working toward becoming an American citizen.

“I have a document that allows me to legally attend school as long as I am working toward my citizenship; I am in the process of becoming a citizen.”

As for her sisters, they are glad to have her home.

“It was worth the struggle,” Figuero says. “My sisters, especially Fatima, who is 9 (years old) now — she introduces me to her friends — seem so happy that I am here.”

Figuero wants to be a nurse.

“I like to help people. When I was a little girl, I always used to pretend to be a nurse.” She plans to attend El Centro college for two years and then transfer to a four-year school.

For now, she’s grateful her journey will include walking across the stage at graduation.

“I went to last year’s graduation, and I just can’t describe the feeling that the idea of walking across that stage with my friends gives me.”

DANAIT TESFAYE has a gentle yet powerful presence.

Her body is small, and her features are delicate — except for her eyes, which are big, dark and knowing.

She speaks with perfect pronunciation and a confident pitch, and she listens to questions and explanations without a hint of fidgeting or jumpiness common in teenagers.

She seems shaken only when we talk about her father, a former Ethiopian politician who was imprisoned during the country’s civil war.

“I miss my dad,” she says, eyes shifting downward.

Through some long pauses and tears, she says that when her family lived in Ethiopia in the 1990s, a new government imprisoned her dad, Haile-Leul Eyakem, along with many other politicians, leaving her mom, Sisaynesh Beda, to raise Tesfaye and her brother, Abiy.

In 2006, the three moved to the U.S., leaving her father behind.

“At first, I was excited. We all knew about the American dream. We thought that’s how it would be here — a dream come true.”

Instead, her first couple years in Lake Highlands were a nightmare. She experienced culture shock, was hurting over the extended separation from her father, and was plagued by loneliness and fear in an unfamiliar environment.

“I was in eighth grade, and I knew no English. It was so hard. I would talk to my dad on the phone, and I cried so much every time.”

And life was different here, she says. Take snow, for example.

“The first time it snowed here, I was in shock. I knew about snow, but I had never seen it before.”

By the time she entered ninth grade, she says, her English had improved, but she still felt painfully shy. Other students made fun of her speech and, until she

joined the AVID club, she was still insecure.

“AVID is where I started to gain confidence. I felt welcome and made friends. They praised my English and gave me confidence, and it continued to improve.”

The American school system is different from that in Ethiopia, and Tesfaye says it wasn’t until she joined AVID that she understood how it worked.

“The AVID teachers became like second parents to us. I wouldn’t be here if not for them,” she says.

AVID coordinator Corrie Myers recalls that shyness from the first year she met Tesfaye.

“She was very quiet, very hard-working. She would basically hide in the back of the room,” Myers says. “But there was always something about her. I have seen her blossom — now, I see her in the hall with groups of friends, and it makes me smile.”

As Tesfaye worked her way through LHHS, she became involved in math, science, pre-health and multicultural clubs

she is an officer of the Africa Club — and student council.

She will enter Texas Women’s University in the fall. She is a legal resident of the United States and is working toward citizenship status.

Today when Tesfaye sees other students struggling with issues she has faced, she tries to help them.

“I advise them to be strong and to not give up. You can’t go back,” she says. “I tell them not to be afraid to speak — if people laugh at you, laugh with them.”

Her family is anticipating her graduation.

“My mom is excited, but she doesn’t want me to go too far away.”

When her father learned she had been accepted to the university, he was impressed, she says. Her tears well up again.

“He just said, ‘wow’. He says he’s proud of me.”

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For two and a half years, she lived in Malaysia, hiding in a small house with 19 fellow refugees that included her own family of seven.

When she was 17, Lang says she and her family fled religious persecution in Burma. Before they could move on to a new life, they had to be recorded as legal refugees. During the process, which took about 32 months, they were forced into hiding.

Despite being in an uncomfortable, uncertain and often frightening situation, the teenager was irreversibly optimistic. While in limbo, Lang began to teach herself English by reading books.

“I knew America was the land of opportunity,” she says. “I wanted to be a pediatrician.

In my [original] country, even if you were smart, you can’t go to school unless you have money and a [certain status]. But now, I would get the chance.”

Nothing would stop her from taking advantage of the opportunity.

When she arrived at Lake Highlands High School, she understood English but didn’t speak it well. Counselors, as is policy, placed her in English as a Second Language (ESL) classes.

She says she fought them tooth and nail.

“I had many, many conversations with the counselors; I was supposed to be in ESL for two years, but I finally got into regular classes.”

From there, she says, she pushed herself hard enough to make the most of high school, enrolling in all Advanced Placement classes.

“I had to work harder than most, I think. I had to constantly study the dictionary.”

Myers says Lang tracked her down, determined to take advantage of the AVID program.

“She sought me out,” Myers says. “She is extremely motivated.”

Lang is a finalist for a highly competitive Dell Scholarship — she would be the first LHHS student to receive the honor.

One of the most exciting days of her life in America, she says, was receiving the Lake Highlands Exchange Club’s Character Counts award.

“Everyone said it was the best award you could get in Lake Highlands. My family came — I was so happy.”

She still ponders the vast difference between her Burma origins and her life here, where she lives with her brothers, sisters and parents at Newport Landing Apartments.

“There, we had no cars, no electricity, no cooking. The government didn’t support education. In schools, there was physical punishment, and people paid money to pass tests.”

Months ago, she began frantically filling out every college scholarship application she could find — dozens upon dozens of them. At the time of our interview she was waiting to hear what she might receive.

“I applied for all of the scholarships in the counselors’ office. Where I go to school will depend on the scholarship, but my first choice is Baylor.”

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is a tiny ball of energy.

“I wanted to look nice for you guys,” he says, firmly shaking the Advocate photographer’s hand. “It’s my dad’s suit.”

Back when he was young and naïve — ninth grade — he wore sagging pants, he says.

“I regret the way I acted during ninth and some of 10th grades. I let my grades drop. When I started thinking about college, my attitude started to change, and I started dressing differently.”

Today, he’s the vice president of the Africa Club and Mu Alpha Theta and is president of the UIL Science Club. He has a 3.4 GPA (at the time of our March interview), and he’s a cross country and track star. He won the Lake Highlands Exchange Club’s Character Counts award. He’s on course to attend college at the University of North Texas, Oklahoma State or Baylor University, where he will study aerospace engineering. He has good friends, and he speaks English eloquently.

But the road to this place took some detours.

Until 2006, Tamene lived in Ethiopia with two siblings and his grandparents. His father, a member of the Ethiopian Army, was arrested and only narrowly escaped death. His father in 1998 was allowed to move to the U.S. after being offered a diversity immigrant visa, granted by the Department of State to people from countries with low rates of immigration to the U.S. Tamene eventually joined his father here. He never knew his mother, he says.

His early days at Forest Meadow Junior High were some of the worst of his life, he says.

“I hated school. I didn’t speak English at all. I was made fun of for the way I talked. I didn’t want to go to school. I just can’t describe how bad I felt,” he says.

When he moved to the Lake Highlands Freshman Center, he desperately wanted to fit in. He wanted to be a part of a team. So he joined the football team.

“That was a bad decision,” he says, laughing heartily and shaking his head. Football was physically tough and confusing for the thin ninth grader.

“I didn’t know the plays; I sat on the sideline all season,” he says. “It was miserable, so next I tried soccer.” At the time, he says, he didn’t care about school. He just wanted some friends and to be involved in something.

“In 10th grade, the track coach asked me to start running. I hated running. On the first day, some of the girls continued on page 41

EYOBE TAMENE wears a grey suit slightly oversized for his rangy frame.

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Founded in 1953, St. John’s is an independent, co-educational day school for Pre-K through Grade 8. With a tradition for academic excellence, St. John’s programs include a challenging curriculum in a Christian environment along with instruction in the visual and performing arts, Spanish, German, French, and opportunities for athletics and community service. St. John’s goal for its students is to develop a love for learning, service to others, and leadership grounded in love, humility, and wisdom. Accredited by ISAS, SAES, and the Texas Education Agency.

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6464 E. Lovers Ln. Dallas / 214.321.1275 / www.StPaulAcademy.com Grades 5-8. This is a rare opportunity to participate in coeducational, non-denominational private school exclusively for middle school students. In order to maintain a small, nurturing community of learners where students can grow and develop their talents and skills, enrollment is limited to 100 students. We offer a balanced and challenging curriculum that prepares students to enter high school with a strong academic foundation and the confidence to be successful, life-long learners. Contact us at info@StPaulAcademy.com for pre-registration and other information.

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9727 White Rock Trail Dallas / 214.348.7410. 2 Years through 5th Grade. 45 years of successful students! Our accelerated curriculum provides opportunity for intellectual and physical development in a loving and nurturing environment. Character-building and civic responsibility are stressed. Facilities include indoor swimming pool, skating rink, updated playground, and state-of-the-art technology lab. Kids Club on the Corner provides meaningful after-school experiences. Summer Camp offers field trips, swimming, and a balance of indoor and outdoor activities designed around fun-filled themes. Accredited by SACS. Call for a tour of the campus. www.WhiteRockNorthSchool.com.

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even beat me,” he says, still smiling.

But he continued to improve. “Running changed me,” he says.

He still struggled in school.

“It was hard at home. There were five of us living in a two-bedroom apartment, and it was hard to study. I started to give up. I failed classes in 10th grade.”

But then AVID coordinator Corrie Myers noticed him. Even in a crowded reading class, Tamene stood out.

When the kids finished their work, most of them chit-chatted with one another — not Tamene.

“He sat next to a bookshelf crammed with random sundry titles, and when he finished working, he reached back and grabbed a book,” Myers says. “Sometimes he would come up and ask to borrow one, but he mostly sat quietly and read.”

Tamene says he might have just been waiting for someone to notice him.

“When I realized she thought I was smart, it felt good. I wanted to impress her,” he says. “I didn’t even know what an AP class was, but Ms. Myers said I had to enroll in them if I wanted to join AVID.”

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He wasn’t sure he wanted to put in that sort of effort, but a fellow student, Kevin Nduke, who would become his best friend, convinced him to enroll in AP classes and AVID, saysing it would help Tamene get to college.

“I hadn’t even thought about college,” Tamene says, “but I did it. The first AP class, the teacher asked me a question, and I didn’t know the answer. I felt like the stupidest kid in the room, but Kevin convinced me to stick with it.”

Tamene’s father — who after being laid off took a job at 7-Eleven where he works long hours — encourages him too.

“In Ethiopia, my grandfather was a teacher. My dad regrets not going to school, and he encourages me to work hard so I can be successful.”

Today, on the Lake Highlands track team, Tamene is second only to Meron Fessahaie, a three-time District 9-5A gold medalist.

Fessahaie is his friend. But, he says, “my goal is to beat him.”

He hopes that someday he can motivate other kids the way his friend, Kevin, motivated him.

Homecoming

These alums now stand at the head of the class

High school is a time of memories, growth and learning, but most of us, if we had the opportunity, would never return to our former high schools. After graduating, we leave high school in the past and dive head first into the future.

However, several alumni have traded in their backpacks for briefcases to return to their alma maters as faculty. Read about what motivated these former students to reenter the classroom in a very different role.

Story by Ashley Hudson

Photos by Benjamin Hager

MISTY BENSON

English teacher and head girls’ soccer coach Class of 1996

SCHOOL DAYS: Benson says it had been her dream to come back to Lake Highlands High, even before she was a student at the school.

“High school was such an awe-inspiring thing that every little girl couldn’t wait to get to,” she says.

She played soccer as a student, both with the school and on club teams.

“High school was filled with the obvious heartbreak between friends and first loves — the rite of passage most of us incur — but it was also filled with a great sense of community and support,” Benson says.

THE JOURNEY BACK: After graduating from high school, Benson attended St. Edward’s University, where she continued her soccer career. She then came back to Dallas, where she taught and coached at W.T. White, then taught and coached at two different schools in Houston for five years.

She was heading to teach at another school when she got a call from Lake Highlands.

“I basically dropped everything I was doing and came down and did my interview, got the job, picked up my life and, in a matter of days, moved my whole life here.”

This is her fourth year teaching and coaching at the school.

“I wanted to come back to coach the girls’ soccer team because it was such a huge part of my life and one of my biggest passions — then and now,” Benson says.

WHAT’S CHANGED: “There are a lot more kids running around here,” Benson says.

New additions to the building, including the freshman center and renovations to the stadium, also have taken place since her graduation.

But “Lake Highlands is still pretty much Lake Highlands,” she says, with “a wonderful sense of tradition” continuing at the school.

RELATING TOTEACHERS: Benson says she works closely with one of the teachers who taught her: senior AP English teacher David Wood, whom Benson describes as “legendary in Lake Highlands”.

“It’s interesting being on the other side of the desk, and it’s fun jabbing him that he’s older since I’m now here,” she says.

SHARING WITH STUDENTS: Benson has pictures and things that relate to her high school days in her office and in her classroom.

“My kids love those pictures of me from high school,” she says.

The students like to watch videos of her high school soccer games as well.

“I think it offers a relatability to them that I’ve been here, but I’m still some old crazy woman to them,” she says.

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Jennifer s car B rough

English teacher, Class of 1983

SCHOOL DAYS: “I went to Lake Highlands Elementary, Lake Highlands Junior High and Lake Highlands High School, and everyone in my family has, too,” Scarbrough says. She says she has watched nieces and nephews go through the Lake Highlands schools as well. As a student, she played soccer and track. “I played my whole life,” Scarbrough says.

THE JOURNEY BACK: After graduating from high school, Scarbrough attended SMU, where she played soccer, but she left and graduated from the University of Texas at Dallas.

Right after college, she wrote for the University of Arizona newspaper, but she had always wanted to teach.

“Everyone said, ‘Don’t teach — you won’t make any money,’ ” she says.

She came back to Dallas, earned her teacher certification, and then began teaching in Dallas schools — Dallas Can Academy, R.L. Turner and Flower Mound Marcus. She heard about an opening at Lake Highlands, and “I kind of wanted to be back with family roots,” she says.

WHAT’S CHANgED: Lake Highlands had a smoking section when Scarbrough was a student. She says she doesn’t smoke, but “you could walk by

and you would see teachers and students smoking and talking together.”

Scarbrough also says she wasn’t able to wear shorts to school.

“Now when my sister went here, — she’s 11 and a half years older than I am — [the teachers] would make [female students] get on their knees, and they would take a ruler to see if their skirts were long enough,” she says.

Scarbrough also remembers classes that are no longer offered, such as mythology, a course on all of Shakespeare’s work and a course on automobile tune-up.

LONg TIME COMINg: “I found an old diary, my sixth-grade diary, that said that I wanted to come back and teach English and be a coach,” Scarbrough says.

“But I had my years off, obviously. I said when I was 18, I was going to come back. Maybe it was a second-grade diary,” she says, “but I laughed about that.”

OLD CONNECTIONS: “Every once in a while I’ll find a book, a really old book, and I’ll open it up and find somebody — a friend,” she says. “Once I called one of my friends. I said, ‘I found your book from high school in my classroom.’ ” Scarbrough says she has coached the children of former teammates. Usually she doesn’t tell her students that she graduated from Lake Highlands, but sometimes she tells them in passing.

“They’re amazed about some of the changes,” she says.

Bo B Williams

English teacher and tennis coach

Class of 1975

SCHOOL DAYS: While in high school, Williams was involved in a variety of activities, including football, basketball, baseball, student council, drama club and the drum corps. “I had fun in high school,” he says.

THE JOURNEY BACK: Williams says he never thought he would be a teacher. But after changing majors five times in college, he landed on education.

After graduating, he participated in the Teacher Corps, a post-graduate internship that sends teachers into multicultural situations.

Williams says the program was the “best training grounds for a teacher because you learn quickly how to work in difficult situations.”

In 1982, he began teaching at Westwood Junior High and three years later moved to Lake Highlands Junior High in order to work closer to home.

He began teaching at Lake Highlands High

School in 1995. Williams says working at his alma mater was a “natural choice” and “very desirable.”

WHAT’S CHANGED: When Williams attended LHHS in the early 1970s, the honors classes were more “exclusive”, he says. “Only 60 kids were allowed in the classes, so there was no open enrollment for that.”

Now, he says about 200 students, roughly three times as many, participate in Advanced Placement classes.

He says the average number of years faculty members stay at the school has also changed.

“(Before), many of the teachers stayed here for a great deal of time,” he says. “Now, it’s a more transient population.”

TELLINGSTUDENTS: “I do let them know that I’m a graduate of this school.” Williams says. “I don’t go far with that because I know they don’t really care.”

ENJOYING IT: “I love it here. It is still a very strong and great place to teach,” he says.

“The students are still wonderful. The faculty is great. I can’t imagine a better environment to be in where there’s such a diverse population that has as much harmony as this one does.”

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Based on the book by DOREEN CRONIN and BETSY LEWIN

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TALK OF THE TOWN

Lake Highlands High School debate over the past couple of years has gone from so-so to shining. It’s an amazing story, LHHS’s executive assistant Karen Clardy says.

Clardy became nervous when a parent marched into the school and asked for the principal.

“I thought, ‘Oh, no’,” she says. “But it turned out he wasn’t upset about anything. He wanted to thank [Principal Peggy Dillon] for hiring Hunter Wood,” which didn’t surprise Clardy too much.

“He has made such a huge difference.”

Wood, who two years ago joined the school and formed the competitive debate team with students from his speech class, says it was rough going at first.

“We got shellacked at the first couple of tournaments,” he says.

In the fall, though, things started to gel, and with every small success, the team’s confidence grew.

“And the more confident they got, the more success they had. It’s all about making them believe in themselves and cultivating self-esteem,” Wood says.

The confidence has to be running over today.

Earlier this spring the team had a mind-blowing showing at the National

Qualifying Tournament. With 60 teams competing, LHHS took three of the four nationals-qualifying spots.

“I know the kids seemed ecstatic. For me? Truthfully, it might have been one of the happiest moments of my life,” Wood says.

The students revere their coach and teacher.

“I attribute my success to him. He is a talented debater — he won awards in high school — and he has taught us so much,” says Sasha Butt, a junior who qualified for the national tournament, which takes place this summer.

She believes debate makes her a wellrounded person. “It gives you speaking and research skills and confidence in front of people,” she says. She hopes to take those skills into her future career as an attorney, she says.

Parent John White, whose son, Jon, transferred to LHHS this year from Highland Park and will debate in nationals, says the team’s recent successes have been astounding. “I am just completely impressed with this coach, and these results were incredible.”

As a result of the team’s newfound glory, Wood has seen a rise in interest in his class.

“I’ve had 25 kids or so call — it’s grown three-fold for next year.”

—CHRISTINA HUGHES BABB

Teacher Hunter Wood has turned the LHHS debate team into fierce competitors. BENJAMIN HAGER

The new kids on the high school debate scene are smashing the competition

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THE LOWDOWN ON WHAT’S UP WITH NEIGHBORHOOD BUSINESSES

Kathy Hughes, a well-known hairdresser at Medallion Barbers at Abrams and Northwest for more than 30 years, passed away recently following a battle with cancer. Lake Highlands resident Chad Medaris says he’s sure he speaks for all of her regular customers when he says she will be missed. “She is the only person who has ever cut my son’s hair, and she’s cut mine for over 15 years,” he says. “Over the years, I have run into so many people who know and love Kathy I think you will be surprised at how many lives she has touched.”

The eighth annual Hoops in the Highlands tournament 1 brought in an estimated $25,000 benefiting Lake Highlands, White Rock, Wallace and Northlake elementary schools, along with Lake Highlands Junior High.

The Metro PCS White Rock Marathon recently presented a check for $560,000 to the Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children. The more than 3,000 participants helped raise the funds, which will help the hospital that treats, free of charge, children who need expensive medical procedures. The December 2010 marathon garnered almost $200,000 more than the previous year. Since 1997 when the hospital became the main beneficiary, the race has brought in $1.8 million to Scottish Rite.

After being open little more than a year, the Stone Elephant Bar and Grill 2 at Skillman and Abrams closed its doors leaving nothing but the note on the door that reads, “Centro Properties Group, landlord, has retaken possession of these premises due to non-payment of rent or other violations of the lease agreement.”

Neighborhood fashion designer Carissa Brown , founder of Carissa Rose Bratique Helene

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(carissarose.com), which specializes in fashions for full-busted women, is a top finalist in the “Texas Next Top Designer” competition. “Most salespeople have no idea what life is like for full-busted women,” says Brown. That’s why she began in 2008 designing and producing clothes made especially for women with a narrow rib cage (28-40 back size), but with double-D and up cups. “When you have this shape, it’s tough to find woven button-up tops that fit and don’t gape, and need constant pulling and tugging and fixing in order to hide your bra.” Since then she has appeared on “Homemade Millionaire” with Kelly Ripa on TLC. Brown says she started the business as a tribute to her curvaceous mother, Helene Rose, whose motto was: “Stand tall and walk proud.”

Wildcat Automotive recently celebrated a year in business at 9660 Audelia, near Walnut Hill. In celebration, owner Rico Padilla is offering 10 percent off any automotive service to Advocate readers — just mention that you saw it here. From 1995-2000, Padilla worked at the shop that now houses Wildcat Automotive. In 2001 he bought the gas station across the street. “Then, a year and a few months ago, I bought and opened the shop I used to work at,” Padilla says. “I’ve now worked at that corner for about 16 years.”

The Store in Lake Highlands 3 just announced that Joan Reedy, daughter of famous handbag designer Vera Bradley, will visit the boutique at Northwest Highway and Ferndale, on May 13. Call 214.553.8850 for more information. —CHRISTINA

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Worship 10:50 / Bible Study 9:30 / Tim Ahlen, Pastor / 214.341.9555

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“The church made me fat.” I can see the headline now.

A new study by researchers at Northwestern University has concluded that “people who went to church or church activities at least once a week were more than twice as likely as people with no religious involvement to become obese.” While the researchers did not delve into what church activities were more likely to produce bad eating habits, they pointed to the broad social networks that churchgoers foster. These lead inevitably to more planned activities that include food and drink.

Can you say potluck supper? Fried chicken. Mashed potatoes. Casseroles of every imaginable concoction. Biscuits and gravy for the deacons’ breakfast. Hot dogs and French fries for kids. Pies and cakes. Homemade oatmeal raisin cookies (isn’t oatmeal good for you?). Never have been to a church that took its nutritional cues from the FDA pyramid or bought from a Whole Foods supplier. Oh, and lots of salt.

So, it’s not hard to figure how our figures get out of shape over time with all this comfort food. And it’s true that religious people tend to eat together when they gather. The Lord’s Supper isn’t to blame, as you only get a morsel and a sip. But Table fellowship points to table fellowship, as the meal becomes a love feast. The same is true for Jews who celebrate weekly Shabbat supper with family, and Muslims who break the Ramadan fast with the Feast of Eid. Sharing food symbolizes common life and friendship. It’s hard to hate someone you break bread or pop a cork with.

The study also acknowledges the findings of others studies that church- (read temple or mosque) goers live longer and are happier than non-goers. Old, fat and happy — that’s us.

We could do better. We could remember that vital physical food is meant to hint toward eternal spiritual food: “Man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.” We could practice fasting as a rhythmic remedy to over-feasting. Fasting teaches us to depend less on the bread of earth and more on the bread of heaven. We could remember that our bodies are the temple of God and keep them worthy of their true owner.

But I’d like to believe that people would do church studies someday on weightier matters than weight.

For instance, are people who attend religious services more likely to forgive than those who don’t? Are they more committed to welcoming strangers and being good neighbors? Do people who go to church lie less and tell the truth more? Do they find more meaning in their work? Are they more apt to adapt to changes in culture than those who find their identity and security in tribe or clan or club? Do religious people make better workers and deal more honestly and fairly with employees? Are they more

likely to marry well and stay married?

Unfortunately, some of those studies have been done, and we don’t fare all that well in those, either. But for all our failures, where do these very ideals come from? They have arisen more from our religious traditions than from any other source. We should live up to them better, but the fact that we know we should and that others count on us to is half the hope. The other half is that we do.

So, yes, I can see the civil suit now: Overweight man sues church for causing his obesity. Don’t think that would make it to trial, although it would make the papers. But wouldn’t it be great to see someone put us on trial for inciting justice, or stopping a war, or mending a feud, or advancing the discussion between science and faith, or modeling new strategies for health care?

We see glimpses of these coming from churches, too. No headlines yet.

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I T ’ S PROBABLy NOT SURPRISING THAT CHURCHGOERS TEND TO BE FATTER

Never have I been to a church that took its nutritional cues from the FDA pyramid or bought from a Whole Foods supplier.

George Mason is pastor of Wilshire Baptist Church. The Worship section is a regular feature underwritten by Advocate Publishing and by the neighborhood business people

community

THE EXCHANGE CLUB OF LAKE HIGHLANDS will host a Dallas mayoral candidate forum on May 9 in conjunction with the Lake Highlands Area Improvement Association. For more details, visit lhexchangeclub.org.

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ZEIN NAKHODA, A 2007 LAKEHIGHLANDS HIGH SCHOOL ALUMNUS, joined AP science teacher Dr. Ken Taylor to publish a paper, “Effective Torsion and Spring Constants in a Hybrid TranslationalRotational Oscillator” in The Physics Teacher magazine. The paper credits Nakhoda as the first author and Dr. Taylor as the second, indicating the significance of the student’s role in performing the experiments and advanced mathematical calculations, and writing the manuscript.

BROTHERS RICK AND CHRIS KOPF OF LAKE HIGHLANDS competed in the Grand Mountain Elk Traverse, a 40-mile crosscountry ski race between Crested Butte and Aspen in Colorado. They finished the race in only 15 hours, climbing close to 7,000 vertical feet.

LYNDSEY JONES, A 2008 LHHS ALUMNA, released her first CD, “What A Day”, incorporating talent from other LHHS classmates. The album has graphic design from Ryan Paige Rommel, 2008 Wildcat Wrangler, and cover photography by Robin Davis, 2007 Espree and Wrangler. Jones composed the title song “What A Day” with help from Jacob Andrews, 2007 Wildcat football quarterback. She sings accompanied by her father, Jeff Jones, who plays guitar on the CD and for Wes Niles and the Texas Skeeters.

NATHAN BUCKI, LHHS SOPHOMORE, won the statewide Overall Award of Excellence in the PTA Reflections Program for his literature entry, “The Stars of Life”, qualifying for the national competition. This year’s contest, with its “Together We Can” theme, drew nearly 70,000 entries from students all over Texas. Bucki’s winning submission was one of 1,900 pieces that advanced to the state level, and 900 students received recognition.

MARK WINGFIELD, LAKE HIGHLANDS RESIDENT AND ASSOCIATE

PASTOR OF WILSHIRE BAPTIST CHURCH, recently returned from a six-week sabbatical during which he undertook a national research project on the best practices of traditional Protestant congregations. His research group included Methodist, Presbyterian, Lutheran, Baptist, Reformed and Congregational churches in Houston, Atlanta, Chicago, Indianapolis, Iowa, New York City, Los Angeles and San Diego. Wingfield will be turning the findings into a book, and will be giving an overview of the project, open to the community, at noon and 6 p.m. on Wednesday, May 4, at Wilshire, 4316 Abrams.

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VICKERY MEADOW LEARNING CENTER needs volunteers June 6-30 for its North Dallas campus, 6329 Ridgecrest. Opportunities include: adult classroom teacher, activity club teacher and preschool assistant. Vickery Meadow provides literacy services to non-English speaking adults and children. For information, contact Amy Glover, adult program director, at volunteer@vmlc. org or 214.265.5057 ext. 12.

LAKE HIGHLANDS NORTH HOA recognized Bob Sands for 11 years of dedication to the Crime Watch program. He assisted with the installation of Crime Watch signs and safety mirrors, and kept the neighborhood informed via newsletters and the HOA website. Sands has volunteered for 20 years every week at the Dallas Arboretum and been active in St. Patrick’s Church organizations.

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ARTISTIC GATHERINGS

Art Classes For All Ages. Casa Linda Plaza. 214-821-8383. www.artisticgatherings.com

LEARN GUITAR OR PIANO Professional Musician. Fun/Easy. Your Home. UNT Grad. Larry 469-358-8784

PIANO LESSONS & TUNING SERVICE

Patty and Bill Cherry 214-503-8563

TUTORING ALL SUBJECTS Including Algebra 2/ Chemistry. In Your Home. Jennie. 214-597-6925

VOICE TEACHER with 38 years experience. MM, NATS, MTNA www.PatriciaIvey.com 214-324-5625

LISTEN - SPEAK READ - WRITE

Spanish Classes for Adults & Children

Spanish Immersion Preschool Ages 2-5

DallasSpanishHouse.com 2 14-826-4410

ChiLdCare

LOVING, CHRIST-CENTERED CARE SINCE 1982

Lake Highlands Christian Child Enrichment Center

Ages 2 mo.-12 yrs. 9919 McCree. 214-348-1123.

empLoymenT

AIRLINES are hiring. Train for high paying Aviation Maintenance Career. FAA approved program. Financial aid if qualified. Housing available. Aviation Institute of Maintenance. 866-453-6204

ALL CASH VENDING ROUTE Be Your Own Boss. Local Vending Routes. 25 Machines/Candy. $9,995 1-877-915-8222

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serviCes for you

AT ODDS WITH YOUR COMPUTER? Easily Learn Essential Skills. Services include Digital Photo Help. Sharon 214-679-9688

CONFUSED? FRUSTRATED? Let A Seasoned Pro Be The Interface Between You & That Pesky Computer. Hardware & Software Installation, Troubleshooting, Training. $60/hr. 1 hr min. Dan 214-660-3733 or stykidan@sbcglobal.net

GALAS BY GINGER Extraordinary Parties, Unforgettable Memories. www.galasbyginger.com 214-683-0103

YOUR COMPUTER GEEK Let Me Solve Your Computer Problems. 25 Yrs. Exp. Hardware/Software Issues/Install. Network

serviCes for you

organizing

ORGANIZE & REJUVENATE

Enhance Your Home And Life. Linda 972-816-8004

professionaL serviCes

ACCOUNTING, TAXES Small Businesses & Individuals. Chris King, CPA 214-824-5313 www.chriskingcpa.com

BOOKKEEPING NEEDS? Need Help Organizing Finances? No Job Too Small or Big.

Call C.A.S Accounting Solutions. Cindy 214-821-6903

ESTATE/PROBATE MATTERS Because every family needs a will. Mary Glenn, J.D. maryglennattorney.com • 214-802-6768

NEED HELP WITH YOUR TAXES & ACCOUNTS? Personalized Accounting and Tax services for individuals/small businesses. Competitive rates. Eddie Geraghty, CPA 469-230-9701

PROFESSIONAL WEDDING VIDEOGRAPHER

All Budgets Welcome! Jason Snyder: 214-642-8221. Airport | Private Parties

DFW $55 | Love Field $42 214.361.5007 FiveStarLimos.net

teeing off

The Lake Highlands Varsity golf team competed at Firewheel Golf Course in the Sachse Invitational in April amid windy and wet conditions and later headed to the District 9-5A tournament. From left to right: b obby Ladtkow, m ichael m iller, Kyle Kennedy, Coach Chris Cole, David g reen, taylor Whorton and Stephen Allen

A voiCe for the voiCeLe SS

Steve m arsden of Lake Highlands was sworn in as a Dallas CASA volunteer in the 304th District Court, Judge Bill Mazur presiding. Dallas CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) is a nonprofit with volunteers who advocate for the best interests of abused and neglected children in the foster care system. As a CASA volunteer, Marsden will serve as a voice for children who have no one else to speak for them.

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Professional services

Website Design Flash Demos

Graphic Design RibbitMultimedia .com 214.560.4207

Mind, Body & sPirit

HEALTHY WEIGHT LOSS Motivational, Compassionate & Confidential Sessions Offered To Those Wanting To Lose Weight & Gain A Healthier Lifestyle. Dr. Nicole Mangum, Health Psychologist. 214-692-6666 ext. 311

SILVER STAR FITNESS Specialty In Senior Fitness. Moneyback Guarantee. www.silverstarfitness.com John 972-800-8031

WEIGHT LOSS CHALLENGE

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Pets

BIRDDOGCATFISH Caring For Pets In Their Own Home With Familiar Sights, Smells & Routines. Dog Walks, Vacations, Overnights. Beth. 469-235-3374

POOP SCOOP PROFESSIONALS Trust The Experts. 214-826-5009

POSH POOCH CLUB IN DALLAS Introducing our convenient Pet Food & Treat Delivery Service. Right to your doorstep! Ready to feed. Check out PoshPoochClub.com for our delicious selection... or call 214-265-5960 for a pet nutrition consult.

Dallas’ First Doggie Daycare

Mon-Fri 7am-7pm, Sat 8am-6pm, Sun 12pm-6pm 6444 E. Mockingbird at Abrams www.deesdoggieden.com • 214-823-1441

Pets

Buy/sell/trade

DONATE YOUR CAR Free towing. “Cars For Kids” Any condition. Tax deductible. outreachcenter.com 1-800-597-9411

SAVVY CONSIGNMENTS Eclectic Furniture & Accessories. Great Gifts. Affordable Pricing. 214-660-8700

TEXAS RANGERS BASEBALL SUITE Share this prime suite on a partial basis (sets of 5,10 or 20 games) during the 2011 season. Our suite is located directly behind home plate, and each game includes 16 tickets, three parking passes, game day programs, private bathroom, air-conditioned seating, three televisions with cable channels, and a great view of the game and the Ballpark. Great for birthday parties, anniversaries, family reunions and client appreciation events. Email rangerssuite@gmail.com or call 214-560-4212 for more information.

We Pay $$$ for Kids Stuff!

Children’s Clothing – Youth Size 16 Furniture, Equipment, Toys, Books and More! Payment on the spot for all items accepted 6300 Skillman St @ Abrams Rd, 214.503.6010

estate/GaraGe sales

ESTATE SALES & LIQUIDATION SERVICES

Moving, Retirement, Downsizing. One Piece Or A Houseful. David Turner. 214-908-7688. dave2estates@aol.com

real estate

LAND LIQUIDATION 20 acres $0 down. $99/mo. Only $12,900. Near growing El Paso, TX. Owner financing. No credit checks. Money back guarantee. Free Color Brochure 800-755-8953 sunsetranches.com

A FAMILY TRADITION FOR 60 YEARS Quigley Heat & Air 214-526-8533

CARPENTRY & REMODELING

BOB

CO., INC. Builders/ Remodelers.214-341-1155 bobmcdonaldco.com

CHAMNESS SERVICES A/C & Heat Sales & Service. Res/Com. Serving Dallas 21 yrs. 214-328-0938 TACL003800C

FOR QUALITY, QUALIFIED SERVICE CALL 214-350-0800 ABS AC & Heat TACLA28514E

LAKEWOOD HEAT & AIR Servicing Dallas

20+ years. 214-682-3822 TACLA28061E

WINDOW AC TUNE UP Repair, Cleaning, Etc. Buy/Sell 214-321-5943

214 -299-9069

Service - Repair - Replacement

BO HANDYMAN Kitchens, baths, doors, cabinets, custom carpentry, drywall & painting 214-437-9730

DREAM CONSTRUCTION Home Remodeling

Interior/Exterior. www.DCHCRM .net 469-360-0152

ERIC CANTU CONSTRUCTION

Affordable Remodeling. Kitchens, Baths, Additions, Cabinetry & more. 972-754-9988 EricCantu.com

HANDY DAN “The Handyman” To Do’s Done Right! www.handy-dan.com 214-252-1628

KENS RESIDENTIAL REMODELING 214-886-8927. kenscontracting.com

KITCHEN AND BATHROOM SPECIALISTS

JCI Remodeling: From Simple Updates to Full Remodeling Services. Competitive Pricing! JCIRemodeling.com 972-948-5361.

PREVIEW CONSTRUCTION INC.

BLUE RIBBON Heating & Air Conditioning 214-823-8888

HardiPlank 50 Yr. Cement Siding, Energy Star Windows. Kitchens-Baths-Additions & More. 214-348-3836. See Photo Gallery at: www.previewconstruction.com

RODZ HOME IMPROVEMENT All Home Repairs, Add-Ons, Rehabs. 214-952-8963

SQUARE NAIL WOODWORKING

Cabinet Refacing, Built-ins, Entertainment/ Computer Centers. Jim. 214-324-7398 www.squarenailwoodworking.com

TK COMPLETE REMODELING Carpentry, Doors, Paint. Window Clean 972-533-2872

972-216-1961

www.SherrellAir.com

TACL-B01349OE

APPLIANCE REPAIR

APPLIANCE REPAIR SPECIALIST

Repair, Sales. 214-321-4228

JESSE’S A/C & APPLIANCE SERVICE

TACLB13304C All Makes/Models. 214-660-8898 Serving

15.00 OFF - HOUSE CLEANING BY DEBBIE Free estimates. References. 972-333-7942

CLEANING SERVICES mcprofessionalcleaning.com 469-951-2948 A MAID 4 YOU Bonded & Insured.Park Cities/M Street Refs. Call Us First. Joyce. 214-232-9629

ALTOGETHER CLEAN 214-929-8413

We’ll Clean Your House & It Will Be Your Favorite Day! Bonded & Insured. Free Estimates. www.altogetherclean.com

CLEAN FREAKS Since 2005. Free Estimates. DallasCleanFreaks.com Call Today! 214-821-8888

DIANE’S CLEANING SERVICE Residential & Make Ready. Free Estimates. 214-549-5299

MESS MASTERS Earth friendly housecleaning. 469-235-7272. www.messmasters.com Since ‘91

SUNSHINE HOUSE CLEANING Cleaning To Perfection. Reasonable Rates. Insured/ Bonded. 214-490-6659

CLEANING SERVICES

THE MAIDS 4 Person Teams. Bonded & Insured. www.maids.com Free Estimates. 800-843-6243

WANTED: HOUSES TO CLEAN

20 yrs. exp., Reliable, Great Prices, Excellent Refs., Free Estimates. No Crews. Sunny 214-724-2555

WINDOW MAN WINDOW CLEANING.COM

Residential Specialists. BBB. 214-718-3134

ELECTRICAL SERVICES

ACCURATE ELECTRIC All Jobs.TECL# 27297. Steve. Accurateelectrician.com 214-718-9648

ANTHONY’S ELECTRIC Family Owned/Operated. Insd. 19 Yrs Exp. TECL24948 214-328-1333

DALLAS ELECTRICIAN- SINCE 1975 214-340-0770 EL 00957 kirkwoodelectric.net

LENTZ SERVICES Your whole-home lighting/ electrical resource. Lic/Insd. 972-241-0622

FENCING & DECKS

#1

EST. 1991

COWBOY

FENCE & IRON CO.

214.692.1991

SPECIALIZING IN Wood Fences &Auto Gates

cowboyfenceandiron.com

Willeford

floors Superior Quality: Installation Refinishing

Repair

MAIDS AND HOME SERVICES

carpet · windows · lawn

972.495.3478 beckncallmaids.com

Since 1983 · satisfaction guaranteed $10 OFF all services $20 OFF top to bottom package

COMPUTERS & ELECTRONICS

214-321-1110 I.T. ROADMAP Tech Support Home or Business computers repaired. Virus, Internet, wireless, slow, All fixed! Brad or Amy

BILL’S COMPUTER REPAIR

Virus Removal, Data Recovery. Home /Biz. Network Install. All Upgrades & Repairs. PC Instruction, No Trip Fee. 214-348-2566

CONFUSED? FRUSTRATED? Let A Seasoned Pro Be The Interface Between You & That Pesky Computer. Hardware & Software Installation, Troubleshooting, Training, $60/hr. 1 Hr. Min. Dan 214-660-3733 Or stykidan@sbcglobal.net

CONCRETE/ MASONRY/PAVING

BRICK, BLOCK, Stone, Concrete, Stucco. Gonzalez Masonry. 214-395-1319

CAZARES CONCRETE Concrete retaining walls, Patios, Driveways, Removal, Sidewalks. 214-202-8958 Free estimates.

CONCRETE, Driveway Specialist Repairs, Replacement, Removal, References. Reasonable.

Chris 214-770-5001

EDMONDSPAVING.COM Asphalt & Concrete Driveway-Sidewalk-Patio-Repair 214-957-3216

FLAGSTONE PATIOS, Retaining Walls, BBQ’s, Veneer, Flower Bed Edging, All Stone work. Chris 214-770-5001

MASONRY Brick/Stone Repairs. Don 214-704-1722

STAMPED CONCRETE Driveways, Patios, Walk Ways, Acid Staining, Resealing. 972-672-5359

MASTER ELECTRICIAN Lic #TECL 55703. Resd/Comcl. Bonded. Contr Lic# TECL23423. Trinity Electrical Services. David 214-802-0436

SWITCH ELECTRIC Lic. #E19800 24/7 Calls 30 yrs exp. Federal panel chgs. 214-629-0391

Prompt, Quality Services. Days, Evenings & Weekends. 34 Yrs Exp. TECL 24668

TH ELECTRIC Reasonable Rates. Licensed & Insured. Ted. E257 214-808-3658

WHITE ROCK ELECTRIC All Electrical Services. Lic/Insd. E795. 214-850-4891

‘07, ‘08, ‘09, ‘10 CONSUMERS CHOICE AWARDS Making

TECL20502

972-665-8399

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Phones Answered 24/7

FENCING & DECKS

#1 COWBOY FENCE & IRON CO. Est. ‘91. 214-692-1991 www.cowboyfenceandiron.com

AMBASSADOR FENCE INC. Automatic Gates, All Fences. Decks. Since 1996. 214-621-3217

AUTO GATES $2500

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469-878-4450. cc’s accptd

CREATIVE METAL SOLUTIONS LLC

Automatic Gates, Fence, Stairs, Stair/Balcony Railings, Wine Cellar Gates. 214-325-4985

KIRKWOOD FENCE & DECK

New & Repair. Free Estimates.

Nathan Kirkwood. 214-341-0699

LONE STAR DECKS Decks, Arbors, Fences, Patio Covers, TREX Decking & Fencing. www.lonestardecks.com 214-357-3975

STEEL SALVATION Metal Specialist. Welding Repairs, Design, Metal Art, Unique Crosses. Local Resident Over 40 Yrs. 214-283-4673

Decks, Pergolas, Arbors & Fences

Serving Dallas Since 1977 Reasonable rates

214-435-9574

Art Deck-O artdeck-o.com

"You Know Us"

Locally owned and operated since 1980

www.northlakefence.com

214-349-9132

FIREPLACE SERVICES

CHIMNEY SWEEP Dampers/Brick & Stone

Repair. DFW Metro. Don 214-704-1722

FLOORING & CARPETING

Installation, Repair, Refinish, Wax, Hand Scrape. Residential, Commercial. Sports Floors. 25 Yrs.

STAINED & SCORED CONCRETE FLOORS

New/Remodel. Res/Com. Int/Ext. Refin. 15 Yrs. TheConcreteStudio.com 214-320-2018

STAINED CONCRETE FLOORS

New/Remodel. Staining & Waxing. Int/Ext. Nick Hastings. 214-341-5993

SUPER QUALITY WOOD FLOORS

Jim Crittendon, 214-821-6593

WORLEY TILE & FLOORING

Custom Marble Install. 214-779-3842

WWW.STUARTSVF.COM 214-684-3667

Int./Ext. Decorative concrete & plaster. wrfloors@sbcglobal.net

We

DOOR

GARAGE

GLASS,

EAST DALLAS WINDOW CLEANING Power Wash. Free Est.Dependable. Derek. 214-827-7661

LAKE HIGHLANDS GLASS & MIRROR

LANDMARK ENERGY SOLUTIONS 214-395-9148. Specializing In Replacement Windows/Doors.

Carpet

Tile

214.277.8222 InfinityWindows.com Fiberglass Replacement Windows 8x Stronger than Vinyl Looks and Feels like Wood Installed Exclusively by Amazing Siding & Windows Also Featuring James Hardie Siding with COLORPLUS® Technology TO ADVERTISE CALL 214.560.4203 JUNE DEADLINE MAY 11

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Handyman ServiceS

A NEIGHBORHOOD HANDYMAN

Electrical, Plumbing & Carpentry. Call Tim 214-824-4620; 214-597-4501

A+ HANDYMAN KARL

All Home Repairs, Remodels, Maintenance, To-Dos. 214-699-8093

AAAEEE! NEED HELP? FAST! Repairs/Remodel. Chris, Rick. 214-693-0678, 214-381-9549

ALL JOBS BIG/SMALL

38 years exp. Ron Payne 214-755-9147

ALL STAR HOME CARE Carpentry, Glass, Tile, Paint, Doors, Sheetrock Repair, and more. 25 yrs. exp. References. Derry 214-505-4830

BO HANDYMAN Kitchens, baths, doors, cabinets, custom carpentry, drywall & painting 214-437-9730

HANDY DAN “The Handyman” To Do’s Done Right. www.handy-dan.com 214-252-1628

HANDYMAN SPECIALIST Large, small jobs, repair list, renovations. Refs. 214-489-0635

HOME REPAIR & MAINTENANCE

Small/Large Jobs.Steve Brandt. 214-440-7070

HOMETOWN HANDYMAN All phases of construction. No job too small 214-327-4606

HONEST, SKILLED SERVICE With a Smile. General Repairs/ Maintenance. 214-215-2582

RENT A MAN HANDYMAN

One call does it all! 214-289-0307

WANTED: ODD JOBS & TO DO LISTS

Allen’s Handyman & Home Repair 214-288-4232

HouSe Painting

ABRAHAM PAINT SERVICE A Women Owned Business 25 Yrs. Int/Ext. Wall Reprs. Discounts On Whole Interiors and Exteriors 214-682-1541

BENJAMIN’S PAINTING SERVICE Quality Work At Reasonable Prices. 214-725-6768

PHILLIPS PAINTING Interior & Exterior; 14 Years Serving Dallas. Free Estimate and 3-year Warranty. We Do Faux! PhillipsPainting.com 972-867-9792

RAMON’S INT/EXT PAINT Sheetrock, Repairs. 214-679-4513

RONALD’S PAINTING SERVICE Home Exteriors & Interiors. Drywall Repair. Cabinet Refinishing. Specialty Textures. 17 yrs. exp. 214-455-8121

TOP COAT Professional. Reliable. References. TopCoatOfTexas.com 214-770-2863

VIP PAINTING & DRYWALL Int/Ext. Sheetrock Repair, Resurfacing Tubs, Counters, Tile Repairs. 972-613-2585

WHITE ROCK INTERIORS Paint & Remodel References. Mark Reindel 214-321-5280 Painting · Remodeling

NAT-90143-1

interior deSign

A LADY’S TOUCH WALLPAPERING

Texture, Paint & Repair. 27 yrs. exp. Free Est. Call Martha 972-712-2465; 972-832-3396

DESIGNER CONSULTATION 1 Hr. Session $95.

Trained / Reg. ASID Designer Carl 214-288-3298

INTERIOR DESIGN / CONSULTING

Carolyn Contreras ASID

Licensed/Exp. 214-363-0747

JUDY BUELL, ASID

• Custom interior design & renovations

• Updates with existing furnishings

• Consultations - TBAE #390 - 214-342-0841

KIM ARMSTRONG INTERIOR DESIGN www.interiorsbykim.com

Licensed/CID/ASID 214-500-0600

LILLI DESIGN Residential Design & Renovations

NCIDQ Cert. 10 yrs exp. www.Lilli-design.com Katie Reynolds, RID 214-370-8221

KitcHen/BatH/ tile/grout

A KITCHEN & BATH Remodeling Company. One Call Does It All! 214-574-9182

FENN CONSTRUCTION Any Tile Anywhere. www.dallastileman.com 214-343-4645

214-870-3939

www.amistadcsc.com

BRIAN GREAM

PAINTING & RENOVATIONS LLC

• Interior/Exterior • Drywall

• Rotten Wood • Gutters All General Contracting Needs

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www.certapro.com

HouSe Painting

1 AFFORDABLE HOUSE PAINTING and Home Repair. Quality work. Inside and Out. Free Ests. Local Refs. Ron 972-816-5634 or 972-475-3928

#1 GET MORE PAY LES

Painting. 85% Referrals. Free Est. 214-348-5070

A TEXTURE & FINISH SPECIALIST

Since 1977. Int/Ext. Kirk’s Works 972-672-4681

inSulation/ radiant Barrier

LANDMARK ENERGY SOLUTIONS

214-395-9148. Radiant Barrier, Insulation. Free Quotes

SAVE UP TO 40% on your energy bills! Insulation, Radiant Barrier and Weatherization. Instant quotes at Millsquote.com 214-879-9881

HANDY DAN “The Handyman” Remodels

Done Right. handy-dan.com 214-252-1628

STONE AGE COUNTER TOPS

Granite, Marble, Tile, Kitchen/Bath Remodels. CJ-972-276-9943 cjrocksthehouse1@verizon.net

TOM HOLT TILE 30 Yrs Experience In Tile, Backsplashes & Floors. Refs. Avail. 214-770-3444

Natural Stone & Quartz Silestone / Caesarstone 20 Years Experience 214 293 9323 bjones2517@gmail.com

lawnS, gardenS & treeS

$25 OFF - ALL ABOUT TREES, INC. Removals, Pruning. Certified Arborist. 972-697-3956

25% OFF TREE WORK IN MAY Roberts Tree Svc Insd.10 yrs exp. 214-808-8925

A BETTER TREE COMPANY • JUST TREES Complete tree services including Tree & Landscape Lighting! Call Mark 214-332-3444

A&B LANDSCAPING Full Lawn Care, Landscaping, Tree Trimming, Fireplaces & Stonework. Lic #0283917- Degreed Horticulturist 214-534-3816

ALTON MARTIN LANDSCAPING Spectacular Curbside Appeal! Installations & Maintenance Programs available. Excellent refs. 214-760-0825

AYALA’S LANDSCAPING SERVICE

Call the Land Expert Today! Insured. 214-773-4781

B.J.’S LANDSCAPING Complete Lawn & Garden Maintenance. Seasonal Color/Perennials. Certified. 16 Yrs. Exp. Res/Com. 214-336-4673

BLOUNTS TREE SERVICE Trim, Removal. Refs Avail. Free Ests. 44 yrs exp. Insured. 214-275-5727

BUSSEYS LAWN CARE

Weekly Service $30 Most Jobs. 214-725-9678

CASTRO TREE SERVICE Quality Work at Great Rates. Free est. Insured. 214-337-7097

CHUPIK TREE SERVICE

Trim, Remove, Stump Grind. Free Est. Insured. 214-823-6463

COLE’S LAWN CARE • 214-327-3923 Quality Service with a Personal Touch.

DALLAS K.D.R.SERVICES • 214-349-0914

Lawn Service & Landscape Installation

PROFESSIONAL FABRICATION & INSTALLATION 214.358.8595 SOLIDSF COM

GREENSKEEPER Spring Clean Up & Color. Sodding, Fertilization. Lawn Maintenance & Landscape. Res/Com. 214-546-8846

HOLISTIC TREE CARE

A Full-Service Tree Care Company Chuck Ranson, Certified Arborist c.ranson@sbcglobal.net 214-537-2008

HOLMAN IRRIGATION

Sprinkler & Valve Repair/ Rebuild Older Systems. Lic. #1742. 214-398-8061

MOW YOUR YARD $27

White Rock Landscaping 214-415-8434

PARADISELANDSCAPES.NET 214-328-9955

Installations of Fine Gardens, Patios, Paths & more!

• Tubs, Tiles or Sinks

• Cultured Marble

• Kitchen Countertops

GRANITE COUNTERTOPS KITCHEN & BATH WE REFINISH! www.allsurfacerefinishing.com 214-631-8719

RONS LAWN Organic Solutions. Not Environmental Pollution. Landscape & Maintenance 972-222-LAWN (5296)

SPRINKLERS, LANDSCAPING, Stone Work, Drainage. Installed and Repair. Call Kevin at 214-535-3352,Lic#7840. www.bigdirrigation.com

June deadline May 11

PesT conTroL

A BETTER EARTH PEST CONTROL Keeping the environment, kids, pets in mind. Organic products avail. 972-564-2495

MOSQUITO SYSTEMS

Pest Control #9989. Live Animal Removal. JDubDesigns.com Home Construction Services. Sprinkler Controller Repair. 214-794-4089

McDANIEL PEST CONTROL

Prices Start at $75 +Tax for General Treatment

Average Home, Interior, Exterior & Attached Garage Quotes for Other Services

214-328-2847

Lakewood Resident

PLumbinG

ANDREWS PLUMBING • 214-354-8521 # M37740 Insured. Any plumbing issues. 24 Hours/7 Days. plumberiffic@yahoo.com

Sewers • Drains • Bonded

*Joe Faz 214-794-7566 - Se Habla Español*

ARRIAGA PLUMBING: Repairs, Remodels, Water Heaters, Stopages. Ins’d. Lic 20754 214-321-0589, 214-738-7116

BLOUNTS PLUMBING REPAIR Rebuild or Replace. 44 yrs exp. Insured. 214-275-5727

FIXXER PLUMBING #M38904. BBB Accredited. www.fixxercompany.com. Call 214-534-1468.

JUSTIN’S PLUMBING SERVICE

For All Your Plumbing Needs. ml#M38121 972-523-1336. www.justinsplumbing.com

M&S PLUMBING Quality Work & Prompt Service. Jerry. 214-235-2172. lic.#M-11523

REPAIRS, Fixtures, General Plumbing. Senior Discounts. Campbell Plumbing. 214-321-5943

SPECK PLUMBING Licensed & Insured C 214-562-2360 • H 214-660-8378

STAGGS PLUMBING • 214-521-5597

No Repairs Too Big or Too Small Master Plumber. M-17697

Slab Leak Specialists – inquire about reroute instead of jackhammering

• All Plumbing Repairs • Licensed/Insured 214-727-4040

ML-M36843

M-36580

Astro Plumbing

20 Years in the Plumbing Business Full Service Plumbing Company

Drains Augered • Slab Leaks • Water Heaters I can beat any estimate you get FREE estimates over the phone Call Michael • 214.566.9737

MPL36677

PLUMBING SERVICES

• Water Leaks

• Electric Sewer Drain Cleaning

• Repair/Remodel

• Water Heater

• Gas Piping

• Video Camera Inspection

• Shower Pans 214-808-9262

Most Major Credit Cards Accepted to advertise call 214.560.4203

Pools

ADAIR POOL & SPA SERVICE

1 month free service for new customers. Call for details. 469-358-0665.

MICHAEL’S POOL SERVICE

Maintenance & Repair 214-727-7650

WHITE ROCK POOL CLEANING

Friendly Service & Repairs. 20 yrs experience whiterockpools.com David 214-769-8012

LEAFCHASER’S POOL SERVICE

Parts and Service. Chemicals and Repairs. Jonathan Mossman FREE ESTIMATES 214-729-3311

Roofing & gutteRs

A&B GUTTER 972-530-5699

Clean Out, Repair/Replace. Leaf Guard. Free Estimates. Lifetime Warranty

ALLTEX ROOFING SYSTEMS: 972-740-8602

We Repair and Replace. High-Quality & Affordable!

Roofing

& gutteRs

GUARANTY ROOFING 214-760-3666

Re-Roofing/Repairs/Gutters/Green Options. Free Estimates.www.guarantyroof.com

PLATINUM ROOFING Metal & Non-Metal Roofing, Windows, Painting, Gutters. Fully Insured. NewMetalRoof.com 972-310-9721

Allstate Homecraft Roofing

• Roofing & Remodel • Additions • Licensed/Insured Over 1,000 Satisfied Customers in the Lakewood, Lake Highlands, Preston Hollow, Park Cities Areas

• Free Estimates 214-824-0767 allstatehomecraft.com

APPROVED ROOFING

We check out good!!!

Larry Trotter ( 972 ) 742-3071

Deal directly with owner Free estimates

www.approvedroofing.us

Roofing & gutteRs

BERT ROOFING

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THE WINDOW AND DASHBOARD WERE BROKEN.

What may be a minor crime can often be quite a headache. Sometimes it’s the aftermath of a crime that can cause someone the biggest problem.

Take Eric Samuelsen for instance. Samuelsen is a guy who needs his truck. He works hard running his own business repairing and restoring old furniture.

“It keeps me busy,” he says.

The Victim: Eric Samuelson

The Crime: Burglary of a motor vehicle

Date: Sunday, March 20

Time: Between 6 p.m. and 8:30 a.m.

Location: 9600 block of Queenswood

His work is also the type in which a sedan or car just wouldn’t work. He has to haul furniture and supplies to and from his shop to his customers’ homes. His 1997 Ford pickup is a huge part of his business. So on March 20, a run-of-the-mill car breakin turned into quite a hassle for him as a small businessman.

“I opened the garage door, and I immediately noticed glass near the driver’s side door,” he says. “They specifically broke in to steal the stereo.”

That stereo, he says, would barely fetch a few bucks at a pawn shop, but the damage to his car (including the dash and window) would have cost him $2,600 if he did not have full-coverage insurance. And thankfully, he says he always takes valuables out of his car, so nothing else was stolen.

“It’s crazy,” he says. “I was angry, but there’s nothing you can do about it.”

The biggest issue with the theft, however, was that he temporarily was without his truck while it was being repaired.

“I do work in customers’ homes and in my own house,” he says. “Being without the truck for a week was pretty rough. If you’ve got furniture to go pick up, it makes it really tough not having your truck.”

Dallas Police Lt. Mackie D. Ham of the Northeast Patrol Division says Samuelsen is smart in removing valuables from his vehicle.

“Burglary of motor vehicles is one of our top property crimes in Dallas,” Ham says. “Property crimes account for over 80 percent of our overall crime. We stress at every opportunity for citizens to not leave anything of value where it can be seen.

“Most criminals who wish to break into vehicles just walk around looking into the vehicles until they find something of value. There is a very good chance that if there are no valuables inside of a vehicle, your vehicle will not be targeted.”

For stereos, Ham always recommends removing a faceplate if possible. Criminals target anything of value that they can easily sell or pawn, Ham says, and stereos make easy targets.

“Most criminals need cash to support their drug habit. This is why they are out committing daily property crimes.”

—SEAN CHAFFIN

NUMBER OF THEFTS THAT OCCURRED OVER FOUR DAYS AT THE KOHL’S DEPARTMENT STORE IN THE 5700 BLOCK OF NORTHWEST HIGHWAY 5

NUMBER OF THEFTS THAT OCCURRED DURING THE SAME PERIOD AT TARGET LOCATED IN THE SAME SHOPPING CENTER 3

1

SOURCE: Dallas Police Department

NUMBER OF OFFENDERS WHO ACTUALLY GOT AWAY WITH STOLEN MERCHANDISE

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Let’s talk turkey: There is no more fat to cut from our school budgets.

For years we have watched the Richardson ISD Board of Trustees and principals deal with cut after cut. Sometimes the cuts forced good ideas, like the staggering of bus schedules. Sometimes they forced painful losses, like popular arts programs or language classes. Some great teachers now travel from campus to campus (without added compensation) to teach a language or run the school libraries. The schools now work smarter and harder.

Before I continue, I want to make a distinction between this budget discussion and the bond package currently pending in the May 14 election. To be clear: Voting “yes” will not raise taxes. It will allow the district to use money set aside in a bond fund for needed repairs to buildings. The result will be to remove pressure from the operating funds, which do affect taxes. So if taxes worry you, you definitely want to vote yes on the bond package.

Back to the operating budget.

In early April, the RISD board posted an online survey asking for stakeholders’ input on budget cuts ranging from an estimate of $20 million to possibly $37 million. The estimate is based on bills being floated by the Texas Legislature to make up for the state budget deficit. Final RISD budget decisions will be made in June. (Online survey data already has been compiled, but the board still welcomes feedback; call 469.593.3500 or email to

katherine.mckinney@risd.org.)

Clearly, more than one area in RISD could be cut, as some of the proposed program expenses don’t even add up to $1 million (example: field trips, $493,255 annually).

How about administrative expenses? This includes custodial/maintenance/lawn care. If you have ever visited a school, you know how important these services are, and you know a cafeteria needs to be maintained daily. (Not to mention bathrooms.) Why is landscaping important? Whether or not you have kids in school, a poorly maintained landscape would quickly make a neighborhood look run down, and that affects the value of homes.

What about furloughing employees one extra day, saving $952,675? (Again, this is less than $1 million.) Here I want to put in a word for hardworking teachers. In my experience with RISD, our teachers are dedicated professionals who deserve every penny they are paid for their challenging, important work. Remember, their loss is also our loss, because they would be on the job one less day.

I can’t list all the proposals (increasing class-size ratios, cuts to sports programs, fine arts — the usual hard-hit treasures) but each of them strikes at a fundamental service. This is not fat; it is muscle and bone.

PTAs have stepped up in past years with countless volunteer hours, providing an unpaid work force upon which schools have become dependent. It’s not realistic to expect PTA fundraisers and volunteers to make up for an unnecessary round of painful budget cuts.

Consider bus transportation for magnet school programs: annual expense, $280,956. The magnet schools provide stellar programs both for neighborhood kids and the volunteers who choose to attend. Here in Lake Highlands we have a great high school, but if a kid wants to take Latin or German, he or she can get those subjects at Richardson High School, along with a choice of magnets including science, law, theater, culinary arts and more. Bus transportation is an added incentive for parents to make the decision to send their child to a magnet school.

Why do I say unnecessary? The Texas Legislature has the option of tapping the rainy day fund. Also, during a crisis, the district can review tax opportunities. By eliminating the optional homestead exemption (most Dallas-Fort Worth districts have already done so), they could raise $5 million. While this may hurt, it would be a lot more effective than poundfoolish solutions like targeting bus service or teachers’ workdays.

If crisis is also opportunity, we must be open to innovative solutions. What about the possibility of a temporary tax assessment? This would require an election — but I believe it would have a chance of passing. Heck, call it the 2011-2012 budget prop. We all recognize the importance of good investments. There is no greater investment in the future of Lake Highlands than in maintaining the excellence of RISD.

It’s not realistic to expect PTA fundraisers and volunteers to make up for an unnecessary round of painful budget cuts.