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March 2019 Volume 18 • Issue 4


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Help Is On the Way: Queen City Concierge 8

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At Northern Plains Boxer Rescue, Every Boxer Counts! 10

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CALENDAR 22

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THE A LIST 48 66

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FOR KIDS

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AT HOME

At Home: The Jeff Koch Home 22

RECIPES Frosted Chocolate Cookies 32

MAN IN THE KITCHEN Here’s a Tip 34

The Art of Nurturing a Relationship 36

KNICK KNACKS OF LIFE

Low-intervention Birth Rooms Help Moms Relax 70

BEST BOOKS 72

mind–body–spirit TRAVEL

White Sands National Monument 54

Breast Restoration Helps Many Women Regain Former Selves 62

CUTE KIDS Submit Your Child’s Photo 74

BEST FRIENDS

Submit Your Pet’s Photo 76

HEALTH & WELL-BEING

HISTORY Wild Bill” and His Tamer 40

St. Patricks Day Crafts for Kids 66

PARENTING & PREGNANCY

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Springtime Landscaping Plans Help Get Through Winter Doldrums Away 44

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Help Is On the Way: QUEEN CITY CONCIERGE BY MARY MICHAELS | PHOTOS BY JULIE PRAIRIE PHOTOGRAPHY

Hang on. Help is on its way. I’ll be there as fast as I can.

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he Little River Band may have coined this phrase, but one local business has adopted it as its mission. If your “to do” list is longer than the number of hours left in the day, let Queen City Concierge help. Queen City Concierge is celebrating its first decade in business, and owner Ashlee Ferguson says even after ten years, they are learning new things about the concierge business to improve services for their clients. For example, while Queen City Concierge started as a business to help people with daily tasks like running to the

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post office, the dry cleaner, or even taking care of laundry or grocery shopping, they have evolved over the years and now have added services like estate sales and have opened a consignment shop inside Gift & Thrift, Vintage 2 at the corner of 10th Street and Bahnson Avenue. Even though the venture into retail was a new one, Ferguson says they have been enjoying it and, in fact, have already expanded their space within the shop three times since opening last August. “We are all so busy these days,” says Ferguson. “It seems like everyone is more

stressed and trying to juggle the things they need to do at work and at home. Our menu of services can help them find better balance.” One of the most popular services, she says, is home organizing. “Our homes are living, breathing things,” Ferguson explains. “They are where our families come together and bond over meals and games, where almost all important conversations and decisions are made, where we relax and entertain, and where we feel safe. Each home should be a reflection of its owners, so when a


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home does not function as it should, its owners cannot thrive as they should.” Ferguson adds that while it is easy to make a house appear clean, we all know what is behind doors and in cupboards and drawers in our homes, and that can weigh heavy on people’s minds. Queen City Concierge offers free consultations so their team can listen to the homeowner’s individual needs and make a plan to work within the client’s timeline and budget. Queen City Concierge can help with other tasks, too, such as meal planning and preparation, seasonal decorating at home or at the office, home or corporate event planning, dog walking, senior companion visits, help for new moms or helping to arrange moving or handyman services. And, this list is far from being allinclusive. There is nearly no limit to what is possible with concierge services (as long as they are legal and ethical). Ferguson recalls a recent situation where she received a phone call from an out-of-state client.

“She called me because her best friend had been in a terrible car accident and was being air-lifted to Sioux Falls,” she explains. “The woman was in ICU, had no personal belongings with her and was several hours away from home. Our client sent us a list of basic essentials, along with some comforts like a soft robe, to help with what appeared to be a long recovery ahead. We were happy to help, picked up the items as fast as we could and delivered them to the hospital.” Queen City Concierge offers monthly packages to clients as a way to maintain and manage their homes, or what Ferguson likes to call “Everyday Life Insurance” for life’s little surprises, like a kid forgetting their science project or coming home to a flooded basement. “Our clients count on us to be their everyday superheroes and problem-solvers,” she says. “Every interaction with our clients is confidential, and while we are not licensed therapists, there are times where we fill those shoes, too. That is all part of

the Queen City Concierge experience.” Ferguson says she started Queen City Concierge so she could spend more time with her family, and so her goal is to help others spend more time with the people they love, doing the things they love. On a day to day basis, people find themselves stuck at work when they really hoped to run to the bank or to go grab that gift for a family member’s birthday. Or, they put off date night because there is laundry to do, a sink that needs fixing or they just remembered they’re supposed to bring game treats the next day. Ferguson’s team wants to lighten their load. “Family has always been at the center of Queen City Concierge,” she says, “and anything we can do to help bring families together or get them through the tough moments in life is of the utmost importance to us. We love talking with clients about their lives and how we can help take tasks off their plate so that they have free time to take care of themselves and their families.”

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At Northern Plains Boxer Rescue,

Every Boxer Counts! T

he history of this fantastic organization began in 1997, as Clay County Boxer Rescue. As they transitioned to cover the whole state of South Dakota, they became known as South Dakota Boxer and then the current name of Northern Plains Boxer Rescue (NPBR). NPBR takes in boxers of all ages who are in danger of being put down due to lack of room at shelters. They also help families who have chosen to surrender their boxer. We work together striving to find a solution that would help them keep their boxer as a member of their family. To date, 1,600 boxers have successfully been adopted. The organization could not have accomplished this without the assistance of committed volunteers. The first and most important step towards adoption is that all boxers live in foster homes. This allows for better ‘behavioral assessment.’ NPBR is not about a family getting the best looking pick, but rather making a perfect match for the family and for the dog.

What keeps volunteers going are the success stories: Most recently, NPBR was asked to attend the closing of an Iowa ‘puppy mill.’ Six Boxers (along with numerous other breeds) had lived their life: breeding, living in filthy pens with little (if any) area to run and stretch, tainted water bowls (if there was water in them), along with shabby dog houses to protect them from the elements. Gunner was one of these dogs. He never knew what it was like to live in a loving home with toys or to have medical care. His foster mom could not bear the thought of him not being a ‘furever family member.’ His current picture tells it all. Kane was a stray. After the shelter had searched weeks and weeks for his owner to no avail, NPBR was called in to help. Once he was nursed back to health, it didn’t take long for this amazing boy to find the home he so richly deserved. Then there was Rufus. He was an extremely hyper and wild

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Northern Plains Boxer Rescue is always looking for volunteers who are passionate about the breed. Want to join the pack? Stop by one of our events to introduce yourself or email us at: npbr@everyboxercounts.com

pup, and in desperate need of attention and professional training. His perfect furever family came along and adopted him and they all got what they wanted and needed: a loving pup for their son and a professionally trained boxer. Another notable NPBR boxer story is that of Missy and Chance. They are a bonded pair who were confiscated by animal control when a concerned neighbor called regarding their welfare. Their scars ran deep, both emotionally and physically, with some that will possibly stay with them for a long time. The power of foster care is real. They are currently receiving the love, patience, and understanding they need from their foster family to help heal their scars. Chance is deaf and relies on his sister to be his ears. Missy struggles with esophagus issues, but with the right love and attention, she’ll have the strength to manage this. They are a funloving and faithful pair who deserve to find their ‘furever home.’ Northern Plains Boxer Rescue is fortunate to have many volunteers and supporters who offer their services in fundraising. Fundraising is very essential, as adoption fees rarely cover the cost of a boxer in rescue. NPBR would like to thank Kelcey Schroder Photography who sponsors their professional holiday photos, as well as Cliff Avenue Greenhouse who offered their store as the background for the photos for the last several years. Please visit http://www.everyboxercounts.com and Facebook Northern Plains Boxer Rescue to keep up on the events and fundraising throughout the states the group covers. The next fundraiser will be a milestone year event—the 10th Annual Boxers & Bikers Poker Run. It is scheduled for June 15, 2019. Registration begins at J&L Harley Davidson. A free party bus is available for those who want to leave the driving to someone else. Two categories of $500 for the best card hand, ribeye steak sandwich luncheon, silent and live auction, and raffle items. You will not want to miss this milestone year celebration.


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March Sioux Falls Stampede vs. Tri-City Storm March 1 - 2 •7:05pm Denny Sanford PREMIER Center. Tickets :(605) 336-6060 or email: info@sfstampede.com.

Wire Flowers for Jewelry or Decor March 2 • 2pm - 4pm Instructional Planning Center • 201 E. 38th St. Wire flowers are a highly requested technique around here! Create wire flowers using our own special pattern and techniques using wire working tools. Use your unique flowers as a pendant for a necklace or table centerpiece. Add chain

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to the edges to create an artsy necklace…or…embellish a glass cup with bead wraps, beaded sprigs, and your wire flowers for a decorative table topper. Materials included. $39 fee. Ages 12 and up. INFO (605) 367-7999. Stained Glass Art - Mosaic Gardens! March 4 • 6:30 - 9:30pm 3211 S. Prairie Avenue $139 / 4 Sessions Create a mosaic stepping stone, house number plaque, flower pot, or gazing ball bringing stained glass to your environment! Bring a design idea or develop a unique design with guidance. Learn

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key design elements with kiln-formed glass to take your design to the next level! Create your garden art! Materials included for one project of your choice. Retail Manager Pepper (of the feline type) will be at the studio. INFO (605) 367-7999. 2019 Sioux Falls Go Red For Women Event March 5 • 4:30 - 8:30pm Sioux Falls Convention Center Sioux Falls area heart and stroke survivors, physicians, and business and community leaders will join the American Heart Association at the Go Red For Women Event. The program will feature a

keynote from Amy Dee. Event attendees also will hear from other survivors and experts on ways that they can identify their risk for heart disease and stroke and will also get tips for preventing heart disease through simple lifestyle changes. The event will include a social hour, silent auction, and more. INFO (605) 360-2542. Salsa Dance Beginners ~ Solo! March 5 • 6:30 - 7:30pm Eugene Field Arts+ Elementary 501 S. Highland Ave. $45 / 4 Sessions No need for a partner to dance

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shading and color theory to create depth and impact on paper provided. Then, add watercolor art to your future journaling. Materials included - option to bring a journal. Ages 14 and up. INFO (605) 367-7999. KISS End of the Road Tour March 6 • 7:30 p.m. Denny Sanford PREMIER Center. Tickets from $39.50. Available at the KELOLAND Box Office, www.ticketmaster.com, or charge-by-phone at 800745-3000. 52nd Annual Sioux Empire Sportsmen’s Show March 7 - 10 Sioux Falls Convention Center $9 for adults, $2.50 for children ages 6-10, and free for children under the age

of 5. Hours: TBA. For more information visit: https://www. siouxfallssportshow.com/ Shamrock Ball! Celebrate with Swing! March 8 • 6:45 - 11pm El Riad Shrine • 510 S. Phillips Ave. $29/Couple $19/person Celebrate all that’s shamrock and GREEN with a special night out at a Big Band Dance featuring a LIVE Big Band along with a dance lesson to get you started on the El Riad Shirne’s premier dance floor. Your Swing lesson is from 6:45 - 7:30 p.m. with the Shamrock Ball from 7:30 - 11:00 p.m. Instructors available throughout the night to assist. Business casual to dressy attire is requested. Registration fee is per couple, but individuals are also welcome. Sponsored

by the Ballroom Dance Club Sioux Falls and the El Riad Dance Club. INFO (605) 367-7999. 3rd Annual Outdoor Living Expo March 8 -10 Expo Building at the W.H. Lyon Fairground The 3rd Annual Outdoor Living Expo will feature vendors that provide outdoor living amenities or services associated with outdoors, outdoor entertaining, lawn services, landscaping, and gardening. Experts in their perspective fields will be on hand to provide the latest in outdoor entertainment and maintenance products and information. A variety of seminars and hands on demonstrations will span the entire weekend providing

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education on sustainability topics. INFO (605) 941-3009. Superstar: The Songs, The Stories, The Carpenters March 8 • 7:30pm Historic Palace Theatre Luverne, MN $25 tickets Tickets on sale at the Palace Box Office 507-283-4339 or www.palacetheatre.us 2019 Summit League Basketball Championships March 9 - 12 Denny Sanford PREMIER Center. All-session passes for 2019, which include a ticket to each session of the 2019 tournament, are $185, $160, $150, $133, and $125. Passes will go on sale Saturday, March 3 at 10 a.m. at the KELOLAND Box Office, online through www. Ticketmaster.com, and chargeby-phone at 1-800-745-3000. Rock of Ages March 11 - 13 • 7:30pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. Nominated for five Tony Awards®, including Best Musical, Rock of Ages captures the iconic era that was the big bad 1980s Hollywood. Featuring the music of hit bands such as Styx, Poison, Twisted Sister and Whitesnake among many others, this Tenth Anniversary production features a dynamic new cast revisiting the larger than life characters and exhilarating story that turned Rock of Ages into a global phenomenon. INFO (605) 367-6000. 13th Annual Sioux Falls St. Baldrick’s Head Shaving Fundraiser March 14 • 4:30 - 8:30pm

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Pizza Ranch • West 41st St. Join us again this year at Pizza Ranch on 41st Street for our 13th Annual Sioux Falls St. Baldrick’s event, and whether you decide to shave your head, volunteer, or donate, we hope you’ll be a part of the excitement! Get involved and you’ll be giving hope to infants, children, teens and young adults fighting childhood cancers! Register today at www.stbaldricks.org/events/ siouxfalls2019 Sioux Empire Community Theatre Presents Steel Magnolias March 14 • 7pm - 9pm March 15 • 7pm - 9pm March 16 • 7pm - 9pm March 16 • 2pm March 17 • 2pm Orpheum Theatre 315 N. Phillips Avenue The action is set in Truvy’s beauty salon in Chinquapin, Louisiana, where all the ladies who are “anybody” come to have their hair done. Filled with hilarious repartee and not a few acerbic but humorously revealing verbal collisions. The sudden realization of the characters’ mortality affects the others, but also draws on the underlying strength— and love—which give the play, and its characters, the special quality to make them truly touching, funny and marvelously amiable company in good times and bad. INFO (605) 360-4800. Royal Tea Fundraiser & Silent Auction March 16 • 9:30am - 12pm Meadow Barn at Country Orchards 1690 Willow Street West, Harrisburg, SD A morning of tea where


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it’s always Wine Time on Main! From June to August there is only one place in Sioux Falls where you can learn about dinosaurs, perform in a musical, create pottery and build rollercoasters with your friends: the Washington Pavilion. The Washington Pavilion will be offering exciting summer camp opportunities for students ages 3-18. Join us for fun, creativity and learning this summer! cups overflow with friends in a beautiful country setting benefiting abused and neglected children in the Sioux Empire through your partnership with Royal Family KIDS Camp. Doors open at 9:00am, Tea Service begins at 9:30am Tickets $30 in Advance Event includes 3-Course Light Tea-Party Fare, Silent Auctions, and Raffle. Casual Tea Party dress attire. For those who love to host and/or decorate, sign up to be one of our Table Hosts. To enter the table contest or for tickets, call 605-582-2409 or email RFKCSiouxEmpire@ gmail.com St. Patrick’s Celebration of Traditional Irish Music Old Courthouse Museum March 16 • 3:30-6:30 p.m. Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Stop in for live Irish Music by the Dakota District Pipes & Drums and Maggie in the Meantime, live Celtic Steps Dancers, food and drinks, all ages. Admission is free. INFO (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com

St. Patrick’s Day Parade March 16 • 2pm Downtown Sioux Falls The festivities will officially kick off with the annual Painting of the Shamrock, which will take place at 11 a.m. at the center of the city, 9th Street and Phillips Avenue. The parade will be begin at 2 p.m. at the 13th Street and Phillips Avenue. INFO (605) 336-1620. Flick and FloatDespicable Me 3 March 17 • 2pm Midco Aquatic Center 1601 S. Western Ave. Looking for a fun afternoon? Come join us at the Midco® Aquatic Center for a floating good time watching a movie in the Sanford Health 50 Meter Pool. Whoever thought an afternoon watching a favorite movie could be so fun? Inner tubes will be provided. Participants will need to have an active swim pass or pay daily admission rates. No registration required. Movie for March is Despicable Me 3. INFO (605) 367-7665.

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Sioux Falls Stampede vs. Fargo Force March 17 • 7:05pm Denny Sanford PREMIER Center. Tickets :(605) 336-6060 or email: info@sfstampede.com. Rosemaling Demonstration at the Old Courthouse Museum March 19 • 1pm - 4pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Eileen Halverson will be demonstrating the Norwegian folk art of Rosemaling (decorative painting) in the second floor hallway of the Old Courthouse Museum from 1-4 p.m. Stop in any time for a demonstration or to ask questions! INFO (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com Freckleface Strawberry The Musical March 21 • 7pm March 22 • 7pm March 23 • 2pm & 7pm March 24 • 2pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. Freckleface Strawberry will do anything to get rid of her freckles – from scrubbing them with soap to caking on makeup... and even wearing a ski mask to school! Will her schoolmates realize that it’s her under the mask? Will Freckleface be brave enough to finally face her complexion in the mirror? With the help of her lovable schoolmates, including an amazingly talented ballerina, a cutie jock, a charming ditz and a totally kooky teacher, Freckleface learns that everyone is different – and that’s what makes everyone special. INFO (605) 367-6000.

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Kid’s Activity Day at the Old Courthouse Museum March 21 • 9-11am and 1-2pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Learn about history and make your own crafts to take home. 15 minute sessions run throughout morning and afternoon times. Call to reserve times. Free admission. INFO (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com 18th Annual Spaghetti Dinner and LIVE Auction Sioux Empire Lions Club Benefit March 23 • 4:30pm - 7pm Center for Active Generations (2300 W. 46th Street) This annual dining extravaganza event helps the Sioux Empire Lions Club raise funds to support many organizations locally, including The Banquet, Bishop Dudley House, and Meals on Wheels. Additionally, we also support many Lions programs including Dakota Lions Sight and Health, SD Lions Foundation, SD School for the Blind, Leader Dog for the Blind and Lions Clubs International Foundation Disaster Relief Program. Tickets can be purchased from Sioux Empire Lions Club members at their 1st Wednesday of the month Noon meetings at Active Generations, or at the door the day of the event. Cost of a ticket is $5.00. Children 5 years or under are FREE. INFO 605-941-9907. Greater Sioux Falls Model Train Show March 23 • 10am - 5pm March 24 • 10am - 4pm Multi-Cultural Center 515 N. Main Ave. $5 per person, children 12 and under, free


The Dakota Southeastern Division model railroad club presents this event to showcase model railroading at its best with multiple model train operating railroads on display. Several of the railroads are available for kids to operate. Vendors buying, selling and trading model trains and supplies. Fun for the whole family! INFO (605) 595-2634. Sioux Falls Stampede vs. Sioux City Musketeers March 23 • 7:05pm Denny Sanford PREMIER Center. Tickets :(605) 336-6060 or email: info@sfstampede.com. Starlab Inflatable Planetarium at the Old Courthouse Museum March 24 1:30 & 2:30 p.m. Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Discover the night sky, explore the constellations! Starlab is a program for adults and children over the age of 5. Not recommended for those not comfortable in the dark. Tickets only $2, program begins promptly on the hour with no late entry. Groups of 8 or more, please call ahead. INFO (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com Ceili Dance Program March 28 • 6:30 p.m. Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Ceili (pronounced KAY-lee) is an Irish social dance. Whether you are a beginner or an experienced dancer, Ceili dancing is a fun and energetic way to spend an evening. Get ready to dance at the Old Courthouse Museum! Free admission. INFO

(605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com Sioux Falls Stampede vs. Fargo Force March 29 • 7:05pm Denny Sanford PREMIER Center. Tickets :(605) 336-6060 or email: info@sfstampede.com. Corks & Collars March 29 • 6pm - 10pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. Join us for our 4th annual Corks & Collars fundraiser event. This event has become the largest fundraiser for SEPR and allows us to continue providing the best care possible for pitbull type dogs needing forever homes as well as building owner support programs within the Sioux Falls area. We will be taking over the beautiful Washington Pavilion for one night for the best evening of the year! INFO (605) 310-6122. Love the Ladies Expo March 30 9am - 4pm Grand Prairie Events Center Luverne, MN Shop, taste, mingle and play. Free brunch served 10am until gone. Seminars throughout the day. Gift card drawings, food & beverage tastings, 40 great booths with samples, drawings, discounts and more. Free admission. INFO www. luvernechamber.com Sioux Falls Stampede vs. Cedar Rapids Rough Riders, March 30 •7:05pm Denny Sanford PREMIER Center. Tickets :(605) 336-6060 or email: info@sfstampede.com.

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Presents

Friday, March 29th, 2019 6:00 pm • Sioux Falls Convention Center

Moms & Dads: Gather your aspiring Superheroes and join us for an evening of Superhero-themed fun for the Whole Family! We will have all all kinds of events for you and your kids like Lasertag, Virtual Reality Games, Obstacle Course, Dancing & More!

$20.00 Advance Tickets available at www.tiesandtiarassf.com


Presents the 3rd Annual

At the Sioux Falls Convention Center

Saturday, March 30th THREE SESSIONS FOR 2019! 3:30 Session: Geared for 3-5 year old girls, but any age may attend. 5:30 Session: Geared for 6-9 year old girls, but any age may attend. 7:30 Session: Geared for 10-13 year old girls, but any age may attend. Ties & Tiaras will again be an evening of Royal Entertainment for young ladies and their father or special mentor in their life. From the moment guests arrive at our splendid venue to their time enjoying princess-themed activities to even dancing with their favorite prince or princess character, they will feel like a member of the royal court.

Advance tickets available now at Sioux Falls CELLULAR ONLY Stores or at www.tiesandtiarassf.com


at home 22 The Jeff Koch Home

recipes 32 Frosted Chocolate Cookies

man in the kitchen 34 Here’s a Tip

vino 36 The Art of Nurturing a Relationship

history 40 “Wild Bill” and His Tamer

knick knacks of life 44 Springtime Landscaping Plans Help Get Through Winter Doldrums Away

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THE

Jeff Koch HOME

BY MARY MICHAELS | PHOTOS BY JULIE PRAIRIE PHOTOGRAPHY

J

eff Koch has moved five times in nine years. There are a couple of professions where that statistic is not unusual – the military and real estate. Koch is part of the latter. He joined his father, Dan, in 2001 and formed the “Sold by Koch” team within

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Ameri/Star Real Estate. Back in those early days, he listed a house near Tomar Park and thought to himself, “If this house ever goes on the market again and I’m in a position to buy it, I will.” It was 15 years later to the month, when he closed on the house and moved in.

That was two years ago. Several features drew him to this 1950s-era ranch home. With his love of the outdoors, the acre-and-a-half setting nestled in the trees near Tomar Park, with the river and the bike trail was perfect. And, there was certainly plenty of room


with over 5,000 square feet thanks to a couple of unique additions completed by previous homeowners. Once you step inside, you will forget you are in the middle of Sioux Falls. Rather, it has the feel of an updated house in the mountains – or at least

the Black Hills, which is one of Koch’s favorite places to go. His affection for his home state is evident from the large wood and metal “605” piece hanging in the entryway to all the natural finishes and representations of South Dakota wildlife throughout the home.

There was very little structural work that he wanted to do when he moved in. The big project was a kitchen expansion, which was accomplished by taking out a bedroom previously located next to the kitchen. While the previous space was finished in darker wood and had an island

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that only accommodated two stools, the modern re-creation of the kitchen added new white cabinets, granite countertops, heated tile floor, white shiplap ceiling to complement the living room ceiling, and an island that seats six at one end and still has ample space for kitchen prep. There is a small bar area with a wine refrigerator and a grey concrete counter with an old map of South Dakota stamped on it. A fun feature next to that counter is a built-in kennel for Tot, his labradoodle. One addition to the house, which goes straight back from the kitchen, essentially divides the backyard into two spaces. The yard space closest to the kitchen features an in-ground pool with extensive landscaping updates. Koch has a landscaping background and worked with

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room with a sitting area and dining area, as well as two walls of windows that look out to both backyard spaces – the pool side in one direction and a wooded area in the other direction, which is where Koch can watch deer, turkeys and other wildlife on a daily basis. A free-standing rustic wood bar with metal footrail stands next to a vintage arcade cocktail table where you can try your hand at games like Ms. Pac-Man and Galaga. The spacious room features wood ceiling beams and built-in shelves, as well as a traditional mounted bison head on one wall and a whimsical robot-like metal bison head on the other. The living room, which sits in the center of the home, is also furnished with rustic touches reminiscent of a cabin in the hills.

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Lights installed above the wood ceiling beams change colors throughout the day. One shelving unit in the living room holds memorabilia from several of Koch’s trips to Haiti. While he was there, he participated in mission work, evidenced by pictures, including one canvas print where he has a young Haitian boy on his shoulders. Koch has also spent a great deal of time exploring the country. To get to the other wing of the home, you enter the atrium, with a wall and partial ceiling of windows and a diverse collection of plants and trees. Sitting near the windows is a neon South Dakota sign that Koch found at a Tea antique store. “It wasn’t actually for sale,” he explains with a smile, “but I told them I really needed it for this room. It looks so great at night.”

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Holiday decorating is also easy in this room, he adds, because the trees are already there – he just needs to add the lights. “It is weird, though,” he says, “to have to pick up tree leaves inside the house.” This space truly brings the outdoors in,

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and while it isn’t unusual for “outdoorsy” people to have a deer mount on the wall, Koch also has a free-standing deer...and a bear, who is wearing a hat. Koch used century-old barn wood on the walls to give the bar area in the atrium

its unique character. Koch grew up in Sioux Falls in a house with a “real” woodburning fireplace, so the fact that this house had several, including one in this room, was another draw for him. He uses one bedroom just off the atrium


as an office, and it’s just a quick walk out to the yard through the sliding doors. The two-level master bedroom features a large seating area and fireplace on one side and a sizable built-in window seat on the other. Koch says that while Tot has a

comfy dog bed on the floor, the window seat is Tot’s preferred spot to nap. This space also includes a master bath with walk-in closet, separate water closet, large shower and corner tub, and a laundry area. Koch owns vacation rentals in the Lead

and Terry Peak areas in the Black Hills and, when they aren’t rented, he says he is out there once or twice a month. When he needs to be in Sioux Falls, though, he is perfectly content to be here in this hidden retreat in the middle of the city.

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Spring Style Refresh on a Budget ASHLEY HOMESTORE

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ays are getting longer, temperatures are warming up and basking in the fresh feel of spring is number one on everyone’s priority list. So why shouldn’t your home follow suit? A spring style makeover is a perfect way to bring the feeling of a fresh season indoors. By making simple, budget-conscious changes you can transform your home into a dream worthy space that demands to be showed off!


2 U pdate Smaller Pieces Start small! You don’t need to replace every item in a room to give it an updated feel. By swapping out just a few smaller pieces, you can achieve a completely different look while staying within budget. PRO TIP: Do you love staying up to date with the latest trends? Invest in new end tables, accent chairs or rugs, they’re a cost-effective piece that will lend a fresh feel to your space. Spring is the perfect time to start anew! 3 Bring the Outdoors, In! After setting a solid foundation for your spring refresh, it’s time to bring in the accessories! Don’t be afraid to incorporate pops of color through affordable accents such as vases, wall art, and greenery. PRO TIP: Take inspiration from the outdoors with simple additions such as artwork featuring fresh flower blossoms, or a grouping of succulents on your accent table. Bringing the natural beauty of the outdoors into your home will help showcase the best of the season!

So, let the fresh air in and follow these simple tips for a spring style refresh on a budget. 1

tart with a Neutral Foundation S A perfectly styled room starts at its foundation, whether it be the walls or the furnishings, establishing a crisp, clean tone will help your room say “spring”. Starting with something as simple as giving your room a fresh coat of paint is one of the least intimidating and inexpensive ways to update your space. PRO TIP: Do you have a small room that lacks natural light? Paint the walls a light color, it’ll help make even the tiniest room feel larger. Looking to make a bigger style commitment? Update the focal point in your room with a timeless linen sofa or sectional, like the Farough sofa and loveseat set (pictured above). Its traditional style elevates the look of any living space, while its linen-weave upholstery lends itself to a more relaxed feel. By choosing neutral furnishings, you allow yourself the flexibility to style your room for any season simply by flipping out a few key accessories. Trust us, you can never go wrong with neutrals!

4 C reate Visual Interest with Textiles Say goodbye to heavy winter textiles and hello to fun loving florals and perfect pops of colors. From rugs to throws, textiles are a feast for the senses. Upholstered beds make for the perfect focal point. When choosing a bed, consider what works best for your space. It is key to find a balance between making a statement, yet not overwhelming the eye. The Dolante upholstered bed (left) does this beautifully. Its neutral tones and delicately stitched headboard add the perfect subtle statement. Finishing it off with crisp white linens and a bedspread that is the right combination of pastel and paisley, makes this a look that is hard to resist! PRO TIP: Use varying colors, textures and patterns within your master suite to create a room that is rich in style for the spring season. 5 C lear the Clutter! Editing your space is essential. Make your home free from distraction by taking time to clear out the clutter. Whether it be your bookshelves, nightstand or that walk-in closet you have been meaning to tackle, spring is the perfect time to purge what you no longer need. If it doesn’t have a place or serve a purpose, it’s probably time to say goodbye. Consider donating unwanted home goods to a local shelter or pass them along to a friend or family member. PRO TIP: Focus on utilizing practical accents that serve a purpose such as mirrors, lamps and decorative storage. These are functional additions that will give your room an instant makeover. Getting rid of unneeded items will immediately freshen up your space and make the transition to spring feel that much more satisfying!


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HERE’S A TIP BY JIM MATHIS

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ate last year there was a well-publicized incident at a bar here in Sioux Falls; following an afternoon of beers and food, a customer left a one-dollar tip on a fifty-five dollar tab. To make matters worse, they scrawled an F-bomb expletive on the receipt above their signature. The server and her employer shared photos of the receipt on social media and a couple of TV stations and the local paper covered it. The server claimed the patrons had been pleasant and she was given no reason to expect the less than two percent tip. Given the public outrage over this isolated event I think most of us here on the prairie understand that tipping is not just a suggestion; servers, bartenders, cooks and hostesses count on the tips as a part of their income. The current minimum wage for nontipped jobs in South Dakota is $9.10 an hour. But for jobs that

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receive tips, the minimum is set at half that amount, just $4.55 an hour. A tip for that server or bartender is needed to bring them up to the real minimum wage, which is still extremely low. I think most people intend to tip fairly, but they may just underestimate what is appropriate. A few years ago my brother and his family were visiting our fair city, and we went to lunch at one of our favorite restaurants. At the end of the meal, my fiscallyconservative brother surprised everyone by offering to pick up the tab. While not being nosey, I saw that his tip was about ten percent, half what I normally give. I threw an extra ten dollar bill on the table to make up for the shortfall. My brother was a bit offended, but I explained while he may never eat there again, I’d be back in less than a week and I didn’t want his poor tipping to reflect on me. I’d


rather have my brother a little upset with me for a few minutes than have a really good server feel under appreciated. So what’s the right amount? My rule of thumb is twenty percent. Some will suggest twenty percent on the pre-tax portion, but in my mind that just complicates things. Start at twenty percent. I’ll spell it out so it sinks in; twenty percent. Yes, twenty, not fifteen, certainly not ten. Twenty. Why? They deserve it; remember that minimum wage thing? And it’s easy to figure in your head… ten percent times two and then round up. If the meal and service are exceptional, add a little extra. If something is a little off that night, round down. Just don’t be stingy with the tip. Plan ahead, if you can’t afford what you are ordering PLUS twenty percent, go to Taco Bell. They don’t expect your tip for their livelihood. And every now and

then, go nuts. Figure the twenty percent; then add another ten or twenty bucks. If you give your paperboy or hair stylist a little extra at the holidays, why not your favorite server? And I also take into account other things, like if I’m eating alone but taking up a fourtop table in a busy restaurant, I’d add a few bucks because the server is missing out on revenue from a larger party. If you’re using a gift card to pay for part of the meal, don’t forget to tip on that part as well. It’s easy to hand the server a fifty dollar gift card and forget that you had a hundred dollar meal when you only owe half that. But you need to tip on the whole amount. And if you’re paying the entire meal with the gift card, ask the server if you can pay the tip with the gift card as well. Believe it or not, some restaurants do not allow servers to take tips from gift card transactions. Ask in advance to avoid a bad situation. What about wine and cocktails? If you add a bottle or two of nice wine to your tab, you could easily rack up more in drinks than food. My thought is you should certainly tip on the full amount, drinks and all. Based on the response I’ve gotten from a couple of servers who’ve gotten substantial tips recently, I may be tipping on the high end. But what’s the difference between bringing a plate of food or a round of drinks? And once wine and drinks are involved, the server is likely splitting tips with the bartender and sommelier. Some restaurants in large metropolitan areas are experimenting with no-tip menus. In those cases, they’ve raised the price of the meals and pay higher than normal wages. I’ve not heard of anyone in the Sioux Falls area doing this, so unless you’re in New York, assume a tip is expected. While I encourage tipping and when in doubt I try to err on the high side, you do need to be careful not to go overboard. On a trip to the Bahamas my beloved and I enjoyed a truly exceptional meal at a restaurant called Greycliff. It’s a wonderful place in a three-hundred-year-old mansion that is believed to have been once owned by a pirate. After a great meal, with wine, dessert and a tour of their wine cellar, I was presented the check. I handed the gentleman my American Express card, added twenty percent and didn’t think twice. When we returned home, I realized that they had already included an eighteen percent tip, and I tacked on twenty above that. Clearly I made this young man’s day! Lesson learned. In a city like Sioux Falls with a really high number of restaurants, we need to be aware that a big part of our workforce and our community work in the hospitality industry. And since these cooks, bartenders and servers are helping to make your night out better, we need to be sure to reward them for their hard work. So leave a tip, tell them thank you and that you appreciate what they’re doing. Do yourself a favor, eat something good today. While Jim writes about food and culture for fun, between breakfast and dinner he runs ADwërks, an ad agency in downtown Sioux Falls.

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IRISH VS. ITALIAN BY RICCARDO TARABELSI

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remember getting picked on in second grade by Joe Flaherty, Jimmy Fitzpatrick, and Breen Mahoney, no lie. Luckily, I had kids like Frankie Valentino and Tony Scarfo on my side. It was all about pride: you see there’s always been this feud, this rivalry between the Irish and the Italians in Boston that dates back to ever since I can remember. If you’ve never been to Boston, here’s a quick geographic tip: If you want good wine, go north; if you

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want good beer, head south. The North End of Boston is lined with cobblestone streets, narrow alleys, and Italian family-owned businesses like restaurants, cafés, barbershops, and bakeries. South Boston, or “Southie” (refer to the movie Good Will Hunting for a better picture of this neighborhood) is heaven for pubseekers and bar-hoppers. Again, most are owned by Irish families because these families in Boston have been around forever, and


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the rivalry is pervasive. So what do you do when you’re an Italian on St. Patrick’s Day? St. Patrick’s Day always reminds me of this old guy I used to work with in Boston- his name was Gino Porzio, no lie. Gino was rough around the edges and grew up in the old neighborhood: tough as nails, proud to be an Italian, and very outspoken. Without fail, every year on St. Patrick’s Day, he would never wear anything

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that even remotely resembled the color green. And again, without fail, an unsuspecting victim wearing a “Kiss me, I’m Irish” button on her green sweater would innocently ask, “Gino, why aren’t you wearing green today?” Gino would smile a little smile, tilt his head sweetly, and then unleash his rant about the Irish getting a holiday while the Italians never get any recognition for all of their accomplishments. And I’ll never forget this: he would always end it with, “I’ll wear green on St. Patrick’s Day, the day everybody wears green, white, and red on Columbus Day!” Luckily, everyone would laugh at these tirades because of how ridiculous he sounded, but he did teach me one thing: we should all be proud of where we come from. There’s this story about a proud Texan who was traveling through Italy and made a stop in Rome. He hired a private tour guide to drive him around Rome and point out some of the landmarks. Driving by the Vatican, the proud tour guide told the Texan, “The Sistine Chapel took 10 years to build.” The Texan responded, “That’s really nice, but it only took us 3 years to build the Astrodome.” The guide, slightly annoyed, kept driving to the next famous destination, the Trevi Fountain. “La Fontana di Trevi: It took almost 30 years to build this masterpiece.” The Texan retorted, “That’s really big, but it only took us 4 years to erect a 71-story skyscraper.” At this point, the Italian tour guide was getting aggravated with the Texan’s lack of respect for Rome’s historic sites. But as the Italian drove by the Coliseum, the Texan piped up, “Look at that! That’s one of the most awesome structures

The saying, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do,” is one that applies to St. Patrick’s Day as well. “When it’s St. Patrick’s Day, do as the Irish do” Have fun and be proud. Just don’t let your pride get you in trouble like it did for my Italian buddies and me in the second grade. I’ve ever seen! How long did it take y’all to build that?” The Italian casually replied, “What? That? It wasn’t there yesterday.” There is no one more proud than the Irish, on March 17th, who include the whole world in their celebration. This March, I will celebrate the pride I have of my Roman lineage through my maternal grandfather, Umberto. Some of the greatest architecture, art, history, and, of course, wine and cuisine live on in Italy’s capital, Rome, which also is the capital of the region of Latium, south of Tuscany. Memorable meals in the region of Latium include antipasti like frittata (Italian omelette) with potatoes and onions, stuffed eggplants, and breads grilled and flavored with garlic and oil as bruschetta or sliced and topped with meats, vegetables, or cheeses as crostini. Roman menus feature spaghetti

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alla carbonara, a dish whose sauce is made with egg yolks and cream, and is topped with pancetta, a fancy word for “Italian bacon.” Another favorite is Penne All’arrabbiata: pasta tubes with a hot sauce of tomatoes, garlic, and chili pepper. Arrabbiata literally means “angry”, and they say that when the Italian farmers go home for dinner, the hotter the Arrabbiata sauce, the angrier the wives are with their husbands. Pecorino Romano prevails among cheeses, made from the milk of sheep or goats, and is known for its bite, similar to that of Parmigiano Reggiano. Rome is also noted for gelato, Italian ice cream, and cream-filled pastries called bignoline, of which I could easily eat a couple dozen in one sitting. Meals often end with a glass of sweet sambuca liqueur, sipped with three coffee beans to munch on. White wines dominate Latium’s production and are led by the mythical Est! Est!! Est!!! from Montefiascone to the north. The Est! Est!! Est!!! di Montefiascone is one of the few wines of ancient origin whose date of creation is known: the year 1000. Up until that time, the wine produced from grapes grown on the slopes rising from the shores of Lake Bolsena to the town of Montefiascone was appreciated only locally and praised by travelers. However, in the year 1000 the Holy Roman Emperor Henry V marched on Rome at the head of a powerful army to settle some controversy with Pope Pascal II. Bishop Johan Defuk was one of the followers of the expedition, but he apparently was more interested in the sightseeing of the excursion than the politics. He instructed his cupbearer, Martin, to go ahead of him on the route, keeping

always one day in advance, and to select the inns where good wine was to be had by marking the word “Est!” (meaning: it is) next to the door. When he reached Montefiascone, Martin found that the usual “Est!” chalked next to the door of this one particular inn would not do it justice because the wine in this town was truly excellent. Since he had not arranged any other signal with his master, he decided to communicate his appreciation of the wine by writing Est! Est!! Est!!! on the door. The reputation of the wine was made on the day Bishop Defuk tasted the Est! Est!! Est!!! di Montefiascone. Captivated by the wine’s smoothness, the Bishop stayed in the town for three days. After completing his imperial mission, he returned to Montefiascone and remained there until his death. Buried in the town’s church of San Flaviano, the Bishop has been honored for centuries by the pouring of a barrel of wine over his tombstone every year. The saying, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do,” is one that applies to St. Patrick’s Day as well. “When it’s St. Patrick’s Day, do as the Irish do” Have fun and be proud. Just don’t let your pride get you in trouble like it did for my Italian buddies and me in the second grade. Carpe Vino! Riccardo, and his pride, can be seen at R Wine Bar on the East Bank of Downtown Sioux Falls, where he and his wife, Marybeth, are owners. When he’s not storytelling and serving good wine, Riccardo collects and creates stories with his wife and three sons, Dante, Berent, and Jaxon. Reach Riccardo at riccardo@rwinebar.com.

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“WILD BILL” and His Tamer BY RON ROBINSON

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is name was not Bill, he wasn’t all that wild, and he preferred gambling to gunplay, but he was one of the personalities who got trapped in a story not entirely of his own making. What is true and what is not is a matter of conjecture, but the facts seem simple enough: James Butler Hickok died while playing poker in Deadwood on August 2. 1876, at the hands of

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Jack McCall. He had been married to a circus owner, Agnes Lake, in March of that year before setting out to seek his fortune in Dakota. Agnes Lake seems in many ways to be the most authentic part of a questionable life. She was 50 when they married, and he was not yet 40, but in some ways he seemed much older. Hickok


himself seemed to have a difficult time, often, separating the truth from the many stories told about him. A seminal episode might suffice to give us some of the flavor of Hickok’s life. The story goes that in July of 1861, at 24, he was a clerk at Rock Creek Station, Nebraska Territory, when the former owner, Dave McCanles, appeared to demand payment for the business. The upshot was that McCanles was shot to death. It was claimed in an extravagant story in Harper’s Weekly that McCanles’ killer was Hickok, who was also credited with nine other killings during the incident. The story sounds farfetched because it is. For one thing, so far from “fighting like a man,” one documented account has Hickok hiding behind a curtain. Either McCanles was the first man Hickok ever shot, or McCanles was shot by someone else. In any case, Hickok, overcome with remorse, reportedly approached the widow and offered recompense in the amount of $35, all that he had on him at the time. Not long before, Hickok was called by the derogatory slur, “Duck Bill,” for his long nose and

pursed lips. A drooping mustache helped hide this curious feature but contributed to the somber mien he affected from that time forward. If he ever smiled, the event was never recorded on camera. Hickok was without question an accomplished gunman, as a scout wearing twin pearl-handled navy revolvers thrust butt forward in a belt bound around a long decorated buckskin shirt. His reputation as a gunman was no doubt further inflated by writers who sought out and often created celebrities, but his skill was real enough. The water is muddied, nevertheless, by exaggeration and outright fabrication. The truth is a rare commodity in the overheated atmosphere of nineteenth century celebrity, and when it emerges, as for examples when Hickok accidentally killed a deputy, or when he married a woman several years his senior, the details are often ignored or glossed over. It seems clear that Hickok didn’t take to “the show business” as easily as Bill Cody. His one foray on stage was with Cody and “Texas Jack” Omohundro in “Scouts of the Plains” by Hiram

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Robbins. The original script was amended when it was discovered that Hickok couldn’t learn his lies. His exhibition of gun play made up for his reticence, but even in the cast photo he seems “odd man out.” The experiment lasted about eight months, until June of 1874, when Cody went on to more “wild west” entertainment exploits and Hickok returned to the card tables and to the arms of Agnes Lake. Always courtly around women, Hickok seems especially so with Agnes. They met when he was marshal at Abilene, Kansas, in 1871. It was his duty to collect a fee of 50 dollars from the circus of which Agnes was the proprietor, but he seems to have succumbed to her charms almost immediately and refused to collect the fee. “Now if you fellows that run this town,” he argued, “knowed how to appreciate a good thing for the place, instead of charging Mrs. Lake a license, you would vote an appropriation to pay her for coming out here to show heathens a first class circus.” Agnes had become proprietor of the “Lake Hippo-olympiad and Mammoth Circus” following the slaying of her husband, William Lake, in August of 1869. Bill Lake was something of a genius in the circus business and had built the show into one of the most successful of those in the tent trade. His senseless killing left Agnes bereft, but with no option but to carry on, since the livelihood of so many depended on the show’s continuing success. She had already spent most of her life in the circus world, first in a slack wire act, then as an equestrienne. Obviously Hickok was taken with this unusual woman, and she seemed equally attracted

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to him. Nevertheless, they parted ways, caught up in their own careers. Agnes Lake could not be described as “beautiful,” given her plump face and cleft chin, but she was petite and self-assured, and no pushover. Hickok, an accomplished gunman and lawman, had little to show for his years as a folk hero. Unlike Cody, he seemed ill-suited to show business. His departure for Dakota so shortly after exchanging marriage vows may have been an effort to have something to match his wife’s hard-won wealth. There is no evidence that he accrued much either from the gold fields or from the poker tables. Hickok’s death at the hands of a cowardly nobody was the final irony in a story overloaded with irony. Hickok died without a chance, without a fight. But his death seemed authentic, as did his inability to “playact.“ Having lost two husbands to cowardly assassins, Agnes married no more, but gradually withdrew from the circus, adding lion taming to her accomplishments before folding her tent for good. Though her place in circus lore is assured, her love affair with James Butler Hickok is often overlooked. Fabulists preferred the entirely fabricated romance with Calamity Jane. Here as elsewhere, lies about Hickok won out over the more compelling truth. Ron Robinson told the story of Wild Bill and Agnes in his centennial musical “Aces and Eights,” an official entertainment of the celebration of South Dakota statehood.


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Springtime Landscaping Plans Help Get Through Winter Doldrums Away BY LURA ROTI

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nowbirding isn’t part of my retirement plan. I’m too much of a homebody to want to leave my home and friends for months at a time. But I get it. Who doesn’t want a warm-weather escape when it’s 14 below zero? The other day, I was on the phone visiting with a South Dakota soybean farmer for an article I was writing. I asked him how his day was, and he responded, “Off to a great start. It’s 80 here in Arizona,

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so I’m sitting here on the patio drinking my coffee.” He and his wife left the soybean hauling to their adult sons and decided to spend a month or so in the sun. That day, it just happened to be so extremely cold here in Sioux Falls school was cancelled… A few days later my neighbor’s mom, a retired school teacher, gave us some hope when she shared Punxsutawney Phil’s prediction for an early spring.

Spring! I cannot wait! Planning for spring gets me through the tail end of winter. And, spring 2019’s to-do list is quite long. Beginning with landscape projects. Two years ago, my mom helped me design and start a cottage garden in our front yard. Last summer I finished edging it with brick. This summer, I have plans to add in more plants – specifically Queen Anne’s Lace and Bells of Ireland. These


are two flowers I will need to start from seed indoors. I accidentally threw my seed catalogs out, so my friend, Leah shared hers with me. When it seems winter will never end, seed catalogs and landscape books feed my soul. Filled with vibrant photos and plant descriptions that make me think – “of course this plant will thrive in my garden” – I peruse the pages dreaming about the day I can don my gardening

gloves and get to work. Even weeding sounds like fun midFebruary. I also plan to add some rose bushes and peonies to an area of the garden that receives full sunlight. And, two white, snowball hydrangea to my front porch flower bed. When it comes to flora and historic homes, I always think of roses, hydrangea, peony and lilacs. Although, the hydrangea I plant this

spring will be the first our 1888 Folk Victorian home has hosted (that I know of), we do have the most beautiful lilac bush. Possibly the same age as our home, this lilac has a unique shape, like a large umbrella. Its boughs create a lovely shade garden where Lily of the Valley, Astilbe and Solomon’s Seal thrive. Our daughter, Parker, named the area beneath the lilac the “The Bunny Festival,” because it seems to be their favorite shady hangout. Parker also loves to play under the lilac in the summer, tying baby blankets to lilac branches creating hammocks for her baby dolls. The Lily of the Valley and Solomon’s Seal were gifts from friends who shared their extras. I love hand-me-down plants. With plants about $12 each at a landscape store, not only are these gifts gentle on the pocketbook, they are a beautiful, yearly reminder of the giver. As a newlywed, I received the hostas that line my front walk and edge my backyard perennial garden as gifts from my motherin-law, Shon’s aunt and a co-worker. When we first moved into our home 13 years ago, apart from the lilac and a peony, our backyard was all lawn. So, when the hosta donations were offered, I decided to create large flower beds along one side of our privacy fence. Using a garden hose as a guide, my husband, Shon, created a gentle curve and he and I dug out the sod put down landscape fabric and a lot of mulch. I transplanted the hostas and dug in tulip and daffodils. Then, using old quartzite pavers a previous owner left behind, I edged the beds. Even before the grass turns green in spring, the yellow daffodils brighten our day. Over the years, other than reapplying

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mulch and thinning the hostas, we haven’t done much as far as backyard landscaping. Well, this spring, we have some big changes coming. First, we are creating another perennial bed of hostas, hydrangea and peonies. This bed replaces an old, concrete sidewalk that once led to our garage. The garage sits at the far edge of our backyard, about 25 yards behind our home facing the alley. We took the sidewalk out a few years back with intentions to replace it with brick. But putting in a brick walkway takes a lot of time and labor. Two summers ago, Shon replaced our front walk with brick, and determined we needed to find a different solution for the backyard walkway. Then, we paid a visit to our friends Tom and Kathy who were in the process of installing a quartzite flagstone walk in their yard. It looked amazing and much easier than laying bricks. So, this spring, at the same time I

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ranges. On January 18, 1933, under the Antiquities Act of 1906, President Herbert Hoover established White Sands National Monument to protect a portion of the dunefield, and 142,987 acres were set aside as well for the monument’s additional features of “scenic, scientific, and educational interest.” Since its official dedication day, White Sands National

Monument has continued to be a popular destination, seeing an average of 500,000 visitors per year.

Stop at the Visitor Center Begin your visit at White Sands National Monument in the historic visitor center, which is an excellent example of the Pueblo Revival architecture modeled after


includes binoculars, an animal track guide, a compass, a flashlight, Desert Survival Guide, guides to birds, insects, mammals, and snakes, and several other items that will enhance your exploration of White Sands. The visitor center is the only place you will find water, as there is none available in the dunefield. You will also find restrooms and two shaded picnic tables here. The nearest restaurants and gas stations are located in the town of Alamogordo, New Mexico, 13 miles northeast of the monument.

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the Pueblos and Spanish missions in early New Mexico. It is a Conservation Core project from the Great Depression, and along with its adjacent seven buildings, was officially designated as the White Sands National Monument Historic District in 1990. As you wander through the uniquely crafted building, you will find the park store and gift shop, the native plant garden,

and an interactive museum. Watch a 17-minute-long, award-winning orientation film “A Land in Motion”, which captures the beauty of White Sands and takes you through the history of how it came to be. White Sands Trading Company gift shop offers a wide variety of snacks and drinks, as well as souvenirs. You can borrow an Adventure Pack here as well, which

A variety of seasonally-available programs and activities are lead by park rangers, including the Full Moon Night, a Lake Lucero tour, Sunset strolls, Sunrise Arts, and Mothapalooza. Begin your day with the Sunrise Arts program, offered twice a year at sunrise in March and October. An artist’s paradise, the shadows and textures of the dunefield at this time of day is an inspiration for artists of any kind. A ranger will share tips on how to get the best view in the early morning rays for tourists and their cameras or canvases. Once the sun has risen, you may want to learn how the white sands formed by taking a tour to Lake Lucero, a dry lake bed that only fills with water when there has been plenty of rain or snow in the area. It is often called the birth place of the dunes. Rangers will share the geologic story of White Sands National Monument as you hike down to the lake bed and pass by thousands of selenite crystals, which are essential in forming the gypsum sand. About an hour before sunset, sunset strolls are offered daily through the gypsum sand dunes. Enjoy a leisurely, ranger-guided walk that provides a panoramic view of the sun setting over the Sacramento Mountains, while learning about the geology, plants, and animals living in the white sands. To end your day, consider attending Full Moon Night, offered only once a month from May through October, on the night before the full moon. Take part in an evening full

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of live music, special guest presenters, artists, and other ranger programs under the moonlight in the amphitheater, which is a 7-mile drive from the fee station. The beauty of the dunes shines bright beneath a full moon, and a ranger-led Full Moon Hike will show you firsthand which

nocturnal animals live in the area and how they survive in the dunes. Another program available at the Dune Life Nature Trail trailhead is the annual community exploration event, MothaPalooza, occurring in July. Join local moth expert Eric Metzler and staff for a family-friendly

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event celebrating the uniqueness of White Sand’s ecology. Beginning at 8:00 p.m., you will have the opportunity to explore interactive exhibits, followed by a moth presentation by Metzler about their habitats within White Sands National Monument. At 10:00 p.m., a moth


sheeting demonstration in the dunefield will show you some of the more than 40 species of moths that call White Sands their home. Junior Ranger activity books are available at the visitor center, as well, which features Riley the mascot leading kids through activities of four different age

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areas, parking areas, viewpoints, and opportunities to stop the car and get out to climb up and down the dunes. There are also many ways to stretch your legs at White Sands, with plenty of hiking options available. Interdune Boardwalk is a wooden plank path floating over the dune, allowing tourists to take an easy .4 mile round trip stroll including 10 exhibits with informative signs about the geology, plants, and animals in the area. The easy, .5 mile round-trip and family-friendly Playa Trail takes you through a dry lake bed, otherwise known as a playa. An Ice Age scene from 10,000 years ago can be found at the end of the trail, where you can learn about the giants that once roamed the area. Dune Life Nature Trail is a moderate, 1 mile loop hike at the edge of the dunefield, and involves climbing two steep dunes with loose sand. A familyoriented trail, hikers will meet Katy the Kit Fox and learn about her friends. Look for animal tracks from coyotes, badgers, birds, rodents, foxes, and reptiles. There are two other more strenuous trails for the more adventurous, including Backcountry Camping Trail, and Alkali Flat Trail. Both require hikers to climb over steep dunes and loose sand, however they are rewarding with the spectacular views of endless dunes and mountains.

Play and Picnic in the Sand The beautiful, soft sand at White Sands National Monument not only looks like snow, but it behaves like it as well. Sand sledding is a popular activity for children and adults alike, and is allowed in the loop portion of Dunes Drive, away from the road and vegetation. The best sled to use is a waxed, plastic saucer, which can be purchased at the park gift shop or brought along. Once you are tired out from sledding, enjoy a picnic at one of the more than 60 covered picnic tables, each with an elevated grill available on a first come, first served basis throughout the monument. The Primrose, Roadrunner, and Yucca picnic areas are named after several of the iconic plant and animal species that make the monument their habitat.

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urgical restoration of the body allows women to reclaim not only the way they looked in the past, but how they felt. In the face of life’s challenges like aging, bearing children or changes in weight, a woman’s bust may no longer look or feel the same. “Surgical breast restoration or reconstruction is never a cookie-cutter

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procedure, and even in the last 10 years, it has improved greatly, with innovations in terms of approaches and technique,” said Avera Medical Group plastic and reconstructive surgeon Mark Shashikant, MD. “In most cases, with the patients I’ve seen, there is a distinct appeal in returning to a feeling that they knew in the past.”

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Most patients are discharged the day of their procedure, and in many cases, they will miss about a week from work. In a few weeks, they can return to most activities.

“In most cases, with the patients I’ve seen, there is a distinct appeal in returning to a feeling that they knew in the past.”

surgical team and setting are important factors. All our procedures are performed in a hospital setting versus an office-based surgical center. This assures the same high standards our patients would get with life-saving procedures and assures your care is provided by board-certified Plastic Surgeons.” Both surgeons encourage patients to ask as many questions as they have during the consultation so that a thorough understanding is established before any procedure appointments are set.

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“We offer Vectra 3-D imaging, and this tool can really make sure we’re on the same page as our patient,” said Martin. “Vectra allows us to create an image that shows the way the patient now looks, and then together we can propose the approaches we can consider to help them achieve that reclamation of their body’s look. It removes any doubt or gray areas in the process.”

This meeting covers all aspects of the procedure, including the use of the 3-D images, the likely recovery time and any other issue that may be in the patient’s thoughts. “The professionalism of the entire team, the high surgical standards of our hospital – these are critical aspects in making the decision,” said Shashikant. “Safety and the peace of mind that comes with a reliable

When surgery takes place, incisions are made in less-visible areas on the breast or armpit to reduce noticeable scars. The surgeon will then insert and place the implants in each breast and finally close the incisions. Most patients are discharged the day of their procedure, and in many cases, they will miss about a week from work. In a few weeks, they can return to most activities. “We encourage women who seek to reclaim the way they look and feel to consider their options, but to also realize that each patient-centered procedure we do in this aspect of our practice is unique – there are no two cases or two outcomes that are exactly the same,” said Martin. “You can feel confident knowing your breast restoration will be personalized exactly to your goal, from start to finish. When your outer appearance becomes marred, your inner self also is affected. We seek to help women who want to restore both sides of this balance.”

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Materials: Paper plate, craft paints in rainbow colors, paint brush, scissors, black and yellow construction paper, glue, hole punch, and ribbon or string. Instructions: Turn the paper plate upside down, then paint on rainbow-colored stripes. While letting the plate dry, cut out the shape of a black pot, and several yellow circles for coins. Glue the coins to the top of the pot to create a pot of gold. Once dry, carefully cut a spiral into the paper plate, beginning on the outside and working your way in. Punch a hole through the end of the rainbow spiral from the middle of the plate, and tie some string or a ribbon through the hole to create a hanging solution. Glue the pot of gold to the other end of the rainbow spiral and let dry. Hang from the ceiling for a colorful and festive decoration.

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Materials: Green and white construction paper, scissors, glue, and a black marker. Instructions: From green paper, cut out four small shamrock shapes for the hands and feet, and one large shamrock shape for the head of the leprechaun. Cut four strips from white paper, each about a half inch wide. Accordion-style fold each white strip. Glue the white strips to the back of the large shamrock shape, placing them where the arms and legs go. Cut two small white circles from paper, then glue the circles onto the large shamrock shape to create the leprechaun’s eyes. Use a black marker to fill the eye’s pupil’s, then draw a smile underneath the eyes. Glue one small clover shape to the end of each arm and leg. Make several of these little characters to create a family of cute, bouncy leprechauns.

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Lucky Rainbow Handprints

Materials: Craft paints in rainbow colors, 5 paint brushes, white, black, and yellow construction paper, glue, and scissors. Instructions: From black paper, cut the shape of a pot, then cut out several yellow circles to represent the gold pieces. Glue the yellow circles to the top of the pot, creating a pot of gold for the end of your rainbow. Glue the pot of gold to the bottom corner of a piece of white construction paper. One at a time, paint your child’s inside palm and fingers with each color of the rainbow, then make a rainbow, starting at the top corner of your paper, and ending at the pot of gold.

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ong gone are the days when women gave birth in a sterile hospital room while the anxious father waited outside. The past generation of new moms has enjoyed amenities more akin to a nice hotel. Now, Sanford Health has started upgrading its birthing suites to include low-intervention birth rooms that create a more home-like feel.

Erin Vande Lune, a certified nurse midwife with Sanford Health, said there are the seven main benefits to women looking for a more natural birth setting: Comfort: Research shows that when

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moms feel safe, comfortable and relaxed in their environment, their body is allowed to move in the physiological way that it was created to. These rooms help create such a setting.

again after the birth to allow mom and baby to begin bonding. A hook on the ceiling allows women to use a sling, or the open floor space offers plenty of room for use of a birthing ball.

Emergency care: In a low-intervention birth room, women can feel like they are in the comfortable setting of their own home, but have access to all of the resources that the hospital can provide should the need arise.

Tub: A large whirlpool tub in each room offers women the opportunity to labor and deliver in warm water maintained at a safe temperature for both mom and baby. Three sides of the tub extend from the wall to give nurses and other caregivers access so they can support moms or help them move a more comfortable position. Mood: The room’s aesthetics all work together to create a relaxing mood. Warm colors, artwork and adjustable lighting all

Multiple positions: The room is built so moms don’t have to lay on their back during labor. The bed becomes another tool because it can easily be moved out of the way during labor and moved back

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the goals and expectations that they have for their birth,” Vande Lune said.

Common Questions About Water Birth Is it safe to deliver a baby in the tub? Research says yes. Multiple studies have found that giving birth in water is both safe and beneficial to certain mothers and babies. The prolonged stay in warm water combined with the absence of gravity on the mother’s perineum will make the tissues more supple. This may have the effect of reducing the risk of pelvic floor tearing or trauma.

help create a calm atmosphere. A privacy screen can be used to block views and noise from the hallway. Nurse support: Women are assigned a nurse, as they are in a traditional or other labor room, but they respect the mom’s space. Nurses are trained in labor support, so if they can see that a mom is in an uncomfortable position or needs to try something different, they’re available to help. Other support: Sanford Health’s lowintervention rooms give women 24-hour access to a multi-discipline care team, with one midwife and one OB/GYN physician

always on duty. Both providers are keeping tabs of where women are in their labor process. That means they’re close if trouble arises with the mom or baby. The rooms are built with hookups for a newborn warmer and oxygen hookups hidden behind the artwork, if they’re needed. “We are so excited to offer our low intervention birth rooms as another option here at Sanford. We love that women have access to choose a setting that creates the sense of comfort that comes from being at home, while at the same time gives them access to all of the resources that the hospital has to offer. It is our privilege to be with them in labor and help to achieve

Can the baby drown? The answer is no. It’s important to note that in a water birth attended by certified nurse midwives, infants aren’t kept under water after birth. They are slowly brought to the surface by the mother or midwife. Many natural reflexes prevent the baby from breathing under water. The four main reasons newborns do not take their first breath under water are: • A mild lack of oxygen called hypoxia delays breathing. • Fetal lungs are already filled with fluid. • Infants have a dive reflex, holding their breath when submerged in water. • The hormone prostaglandin E2 restricts the baby’s ability to breathe immediately after birth. Which moms can deliver in water? While water can be beneficial for almost every mother in labor, some women can be excluded from delivering in the water under specific circumstances. To deliver in water, a woman must: • Be at least 37 weeks gestation. • Have a head-down baby. • Have no medical risks, such as excessive vaginal bleeding, maternal fever, nonreassuring fetal heart rate, preeclampsia or thick meconium fluid (baby’s first bowel movement). • Have only one baby in utero.

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THESE ARE JUST SOME OF THE WONDERFUL BOOKS FOR CHILDREN WE HAVE COME ACROSS THIS MONTH. WE HOPE TO SHARE WITH YOU SOME YOU HAVE NOT SEEN BEFORE AND ALSO INTRODUCE OTHERS BEING RELEASED IN THE NEAR FUTURE. ENJOY.

Windows by Julia Denos Before your city goes to sleep, you might head out for a walk, your dog at your side as you go out the door and into the almost-night. Anything can happen on such a walk: you might pass a cat, or a friend, or even an early raccoon. And as you go down your street and around the corner, the windows around you light up one by one until you are walking through a maze of paper lanterns, each one granting you a brief, glowing snapshot of your neighbors as families come together and folks settle in for the night. With a setting that feels both specific and universal and a story full of homages to The Snowy Day, Julia Denos and E. B. Goodale have created a singular book — at once about the idea of home and the magic of curiosity, but also about how a sense of safety and belonging is something to which every child is entitled. Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs candlewickpress.com

Loving Hands by Tony Johnston Hands wave hello, hands hold, hands heal. Hands say, I am here for you always. In simple, stirring rhymes, author Tony Johnston pens a timeless ode to parenthood. The small moments and quiet scenes that make up childhood — learning to clap, planting a garden, waving goodbye on the first day of school — fill the pages of this gentle tale, capturing the reassurance and love that parents hand their children every day. Warm illustrations by Amy June Bates show a young boy reaching for his mother’s hand as he grows older and more independent . . . until, perhaps, he can be the one to offer love and support with hands that say, I am here for you always. An eloquent look at the passage of time and the power of connection and care, this book is a heartfelt gift for loved ones at any and all milestones in life. Ages 4 yrs - 6 yrs candlewickpress.com

I’m Afraid Your Teddy Is in Trouble Today by Jancee Dunn Have you ever wondered what stuffed animals do while their companion humans are at school? What if a teddy bear invited all his stuffed animal friends over? Imagine the wild party that might ensue, complete with jumping (a little too hard) on the bed, coloring on the walls, dressing up in Mom’s clothes, having a bubble-bath sliding contest in the hall, sledding down a “cushion mountain” on a cookie tray. . . . As adorable as it is raucous, Jancee Dunn’s whimsical tale of freedom and fun comes to vibrant life in Scott Nash’s colorful illustrations. What do your toys do when your back is turned? Mischief — and a bit of wish fulfillment — are in play when a ringleader teddy bear throws a very memorable party. Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs candlewickpress.com

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Bird Builds a Nest A First Science Storybook by Martin Jenkins It’s time for Bird to build her nest! Follow her as she pulls a worm out of the ground, lifts some twigs that are just the right size, and pushes the twigs into place. Uh-oh! One of the twigs falls to the ground! But after a day of hard work, Bird’s nest is ready and waiting. Can you guess what it’s waiting for? Using simple, clear language and beautiful illustrations, this engaging story is the perfect introduction to physical forces for very young readers. A final spread with some simple questions promotes discussion with parents, teachers, or caregivers and encourages readers to think about the concepts introduced. Ages 4 yrs - 6 yrs candlewickpress.com

A Day at the Dinosaur Museum by Tom Adams Discover everything you want to know about dinosaurs in this novelty-packed book that feels like a natural history museum. Explore topics ranging from paleontology to different species of dinosaurs and how they behaved in this interactive guide. It’s the perfect way to learn more about these prehistoric creatures! Ages 7 yrs - 9 yrs candlewickpress.com


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The Secret Kingdom Nek Chand, a Changing India, and a Hidden World of Art by Barb Rosenstock After the partition of India in 1947, Nek Chand Saini settled in the city of Chandigarh, with nothing but stories brought from his homeland. Dismayed at his stark new surroundings, Nek began collecting river rocks, broken glass, and cracked water pots found on the roadside. He cleared a section of jungle and for seven years he stockpiled odds and ends. They were castoffs and rubbish to everyone else, but to Nek, they were treasures. He began to build a labyrinth of curving paths, mosaics, and repeating patterns: his very own tribute to the winding village of his youth, a hidden land of stories. Nek kept his kingdom secret for fifteen years, until a government crew stumbled upon it and sought to destroy it. But local fans agreed in awe: the Rock Garden had to be protected. Ages 7 yrs - 10 yrs candlewickpress.com

The Great Grammar Book by Kate Petty Want to turn grammar into a game? Name the pictures to get a handle on nouns. Spin a wheel to see verbs in action. Flip some flaps and put a few adjectives to work, creating some silly characters in the process. And what do pronouns have to do with looking in a mirror — or prepositions with walking a dog through a pop-up park? There’s nothing fusty about learning the basics of grammar with this jam-packed fun house of a lesson book, republished with a colorful new cover. Ages 7 yrs - 10 yrs candlewickpress.com

AND THEN, WE LAUGHED a Memoir of Hope & Healing

South Dakotan Delaine Shay has recently published a memoir that is a compelling story of loss, perseverance, inspiration, laughter, and healing. In 1953, when Delaine was not yet three, her dad accidentally backed over her four-yearold brother Billy with a grain truck. Little did she realize that from that point on, she would try to live his life as well as her own. Survivor’s guilt gnawed at her for decades; she didn’t feel that she had worth just being herself. Delaine was a thin, scrappy girl who found solace with her sisters and a friendship with her neighbor Kenny; she inherited him from her brother. The two climbed trees and buildings and got caught smoking by their older Gestapo sisters. Life changed when Kenny started school and she was once again left behind. Fear of abandonment followed her throughout her life. Many more losses occurred. Even President Kennedy’s death was wrenching.

Delaine felt that nobody knew what was going on and she feared for our country. She was taught to believe in God, that Jesus died for our sins and believed that one day when she died she’d be in heaven with Billy; but meanwhile, life was a minefield with worries about what was going to happen next. She dabbled in drinking alcohol and at sixteen she was in trouble - the suicide of a close uncle triggered her need to drink even more - to numb the pain and try to forget. It quickly turned on her and she began hating who she was. At times she wished it had been her that died instead of her brother. More traumas led to dangerous behaviors, to the point that her very life was at risk, all the time trying to cover up her fears with a smile while dying inside. On October 3, 1986, after years of struggling, she realized, with the help of her husband and a friend, that she was an alcoholic. The next morning, she had a clear sensation of being cradled as a baby in the arms of her Heavenly Father. Meeting others with the same problem and same solution was a godsend and continues to be so. A child-like humor came back with a robustness that delighted her! A magnificent hope and healing came from her new relationship with God, and being able to tell her story to others through writing and sharing this compelling book. And as she points out, her life and her story are accompanied with laughter. Always laughter. And Then We Laughed, a Memoir of Hope & Healing was published by Xulon Press in November 2018. This is Delaine’s first book. She lives in Sioux Falls with her husband Owen and their dog Sophie. She is an Addiction Ministry Advocate, Speaker and Spiritual Director. Contact her on FB at Delaine ShayAuthor and delaineshayauthor@gmail.com. The book is available locally and at bn.com. Come to Barnes & Noble on Saturday, March 23rd to hear her talk and sign books.

I’m in Charge! by Jeanne Willis This romping, rhyming story from award-winning author Jeanne Willis is all about a little rhino who likes to make the rules! When Rhino finds a tree bursting with fruit, he isn’t about to share it with anyone — after all, he’s in charge around here! But it looks like things might be about to change. With brilliant illustrations from Jarvis, this hilarious toddler-tantrum tale is all about being bossy and learning to listen to others. Ages 2 yrs - 5 yrs candlewickpress.com

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Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com Setter Bootcamp Date(s) & Time(s): August 9, 9am - 11am/12pm - 2pm 9th-12th Grade $59 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 605-322-FAST Our Bootcamps focus on a high number of repetitions and movement drills to get players physically and mentally ready for their school seasons. Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com Attacking I Date(s) & Time(s): August 1, 8:00am-10:00am 4th-6th Grade $39 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 57032 Phone Number: 605-322-FAST Focus on healthy arm swing mechanics, effective approach, and off-speed shots. Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com Name of Camp: Attacking II Date(s) & Time(s): August 1, 10:30am-12:30pm Ages: 7th-8th Grade Price: $39 Location: Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 57032 Phone Number: 605-322-FAST Focus on healthy arm swing mechanics, effective approach, and off-speed shots.


Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com Outside Hitter (2 days) Date(s) & Time(s): August 1-2, 1-3pm 9th-12th Grade $59 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 57032 605-322-FAST This is an advanced camp for OH/RS players. We will focus on passing, digging, attacking, and blocking – all crucial aspects of these positions. Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com Middle Blocker Date(s) & Time(s): August 2, 10am - 12pm 9th-12th Grade $39 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD Phone Number: 605-322-FAST This is an advanced camp for Middles that focuses on attacking footwork, blocking, and eyework. Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com Hitting/Blocking Bootcamp Date(s) & Time(s): August 8, 9am - 11am/12pm -2pm Ages: 9th-12th Grade $59 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 605-322-FAST Our Bootcamps focus on a high number of repetitions and movement drills to get players physically and mentally ready for their school seasons. Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com First Contact I Date(s) & Time(s): July 31, 10:30am-12:30pm 4th-6th Grade $39 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 605-322-FAST This camp focuses on fundamentals of serving, passing, & digging. This camp provides a high number of reps for each skill. This is a great camp for all positions!

Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com First Contact II Date(s) & Time(s): July 31, 8am - 10am 7th-8th Grade $39 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 605-322-FAST This camp focuses on fundamentals of serving, passing, & digging. This camp provides a high number of reps for each skill. This is a great camp for all positions Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com First Contact III Date(s) & Time(s): July 31, 1-4pm 9th-12th Grade $49 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 605-322-FAST This camp focuses on fundamentals of serving, passing, & digging. This camp provides a high number of reps for each skill. This is a great camp for all positions.

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Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com First Contact Bootcamp Date(s) & Time(s): August 9, 9am - 11am/12pm - 2pm 9th-12th Grade $59 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 605-322-FAST Our Bootcamps focus on a high number of repetitions and movement drills to get players physically and mentally ready for their school seasons. Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com High School Prep Camp (2 days) Date(s) & Time(s): August 5-6, 9am - 12pm/1pm - 3pm 9th-12th Grade $119 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 605-322-FAST These camps provide high level/intense training to get ready for your upcoming school season. These camps include TWO required sessions per day (2 days). Players will get a high # of reps, fundamental training, positional training, and competitive drills within these camps. These camps are a great way to get in shape and sharpen your skills for your upcoming school season/tryouts!

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Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com JH 4v4 League – Option 2 Date(s) & Time(s): July 16, 23, & 30, 7:00pm-8:30pm (Tuesdays) 7th-8th Grade $59 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 605-322-FAST Teams of 4-5 players are formed on your own. Individuals may register to be placed on a team. Teams will be coached by our staff. Each night they will do training and competition. This is a great option to receive a high number of touches and have a TON OF FUN! Skills training is involved in this program!

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Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com Summer Youth Academy - VolleyTots Date(s) & Time(s): July 15, 22, & 29, 4:15pm-5:15pm (Mondays) K-2nd Grade $39 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 605-322-FAST Our Youth Academy meets once per week. These academies have a focus on ALL SKILLS fundamental training. Younger age groups are also introduced to basic athletic movements & hand-eye coordination drills. Our Academy is a fun way to learn volleyball!

AVERA SPORTS KAIROS ELITE VOLLEYBALL Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball offers training opportunities for athletes from 2 years old through 12th grade. These camps, academies and lessons use proven skill-building techniques to boost volleyball athletes to their best performance level.

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Avera Sports Kairos Elite Volleyball kairoselitevolleyball.com Summer Youth Academy – Level I Date(s) & Time(s): July 15, 22, & 29, 5:30pm-6:45pm (Mondays) 3rd-4th Grade $39 Perfect Practice – 300 West Industrial Road, Harrisburg, SD 605-322-FAST Our Youth Academy meets once per week. These academies have a focus on ALL SKILLS fundamental training. Younger age groups are also introduced to basic athletic movements & hand-eye coordination drills. Our Academy is a fun way to learn volleyball!

Swan Lake Christian Camp Summer Youth Camps Dates throughout the summer Ages Pre-K thru High School $25-$240 Viborg, SD • 605-326-5690 All are welcome to come and make great friends while experiencing a memorable week of camp on the shores of the quiet and beautiful Swan Lake. Just 45 minutes from Sioux Falls, youth experience Christ though daily chapel, outdoor quiet times, life giving campfires and nightly cabin devotions. Fun activities throughout the day include archery, crafts, swimming, canoeing and recreational games. www.myslcc.com Inspiration Hills Camp & Retreat Center Entering Grades: 1st-12th Cost: Varies per camp (Located 35 miles south of Sioux Falls) Contact: ihills@inspirationhills.org; 712-986-5193; inspirationhills.org Inspiration Hills Camp & Retreat Center is a Christian camp that serves over 1,100 campers each summer! We host summer camps, family reunions, colleges, youth groups, high schools, retreats, birthday parties, graduations, and more! A full service campground, and year-round lodges, cabins and private rooms create an array of accommodations for many different occasions.

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Sanford POWER SanfordPOWER.com Sanford POWER Camp Date(s) &Time(s): June 3 – August 2; times scheduled individually 5th – 12th grade Price: Varies Sioux Falls, SD • 605-312-7800 The POWER sports performance program offers athlete development training for all ages and skill levels at the Sanford Fieldhouse. We provide individualized and small-group training programs for athletes in all sports to improve strength, speed and ability along with reducing the incidence of injury. Sports nutritionist on staff to answer questions and for individual consults. Sanford POWER Riggs Premier Football Academy sanfordsports.com Football Academy Date(s) &Time(s): Varies Grades K – 12th grade Price: Varies Sioux Falls, SD • 605-312-7800 Comprehensive football programs for players of all abilities in Grades K-12 at the Sanford Fieldhouse. We offer individual and group workouts plus flag leagues. Two of the most popular options: The South Dakota Junior Football Camp for Grades 2 – 8 (July) and the Flag Football Camp for Grades K – 6 (Aug.).

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Sanford POWER Basketball Academy SanfordPentagon.com/basketball Basketball Academy Date(s) &Time(s): Varies K – 12th grade Price: Varies Sioux Falls, SD • 605-312-7920 Comprehensive basketball program for players of all abilities at the Sanford Pentagon. We offer single-day camps and workouts, weekly workouts and week-long camps. Sanford POWER Volleyball Academy SanfordPentagon.com/volleyball1 Volleyball Academy Date(s) &Time(s): Varies


K – 12th grade Price: Varies Sioux Falls, SD • 605-312-7920 Comprehensive volleyball program for players of all abilities at the Sanford Pentagon. We offer single-day camps and workouts, weekly workouts and week-long camps. Sanford POWER Baseball and Softball Academy SanfordSports.com Baseball and Softball Academy Date(s) &Time(s): Varies K – 12th grade Price: Varies Sioux Falls, SD • 605-312-7800

Comprehensive baseball and softball program for players of all abilities at the Sanford Fieldhouse. We offer single-day camps and workouts, weekly workouts and week-long camps. Sanford POWER Golf Academy SanfordPentagon.com/golf Golf skill camps Date(s) &Time(s): Varies 6th grade – adults • Price: Varies 605-312-7800 This summer the Sanford Power Golf Academy will be offering a completely new golf experience, SKILL SPECIFIC TRAINING. These one and two day camps will take you on an intensive deep dive into ONE golf specific skill that is unlike anything you have

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witnessed. You will get a first hand look at “Tour Professional” knowledge that is rarely made public. If you want to hear the real truth about improving your golf skills, this is for you. Skill Specifics Camps to be offered this season: • SPEED and DISTANCE: Learn to incorporate special swing techniques, practice routines and fitness training specifically designed to increase your clubhead speed. • MASTER PUTTING: Learn the special techniques, practice drills, green reading skills and mental toughness that great putters over the years have developed. • COURSE MANAGEMENT: The best golfers get the most out of their game. Why? Because they have the knowledge and a built in system to maximize their percentages and play the odds. Learn the system that will limit mistakes and improve your scoring. The First Tee of South Dakota www.thefirstteesouthdakota.org June 3 - August 8 Ages 5 -17 Cost $65 - $124 (financial aid available) Elmwood Golf Course, Sioux Falls thefirstteesouthdakota@yahoo.com or (605) 367-7092 ext 109 The First Tee of South Dakota is a golf and life skills youth development program that uses golf as its context to build character, instill values, and create healthy habits in youth. Participants will learn the fundamentals of golf through our tiered learning program working on all areas of golf such as chipping,

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putting, approach and full swing. In addition to learning golf through fun games and activities, participants will be exposed to our life skills curriculum which include nine core values and nine healthy habits. Some of our life skills include meeting and greeting, managing emotions, resolving conflicts, building go-to teams, setting goals and more. Scholarships are available as well as clubs are provided for this who need. To see more listings, days and times, visit our website at www.thefirstteesouthdakota.org

Victorian Girl Day Camp Tuesday, July 30 • 9am - 4pm $25 registration includes snacks and crafts, girls should bring lunch Pettigrew Home & Museum 8th & Duluth, Sioux Falls Space is limited; call 367-7097 to register www.siouxlandmuseums.com There are many activities happening at the Pettigrew Home & Museum this summer. On Tuesday, July 30th, girls 8-14 can attend the Victorian Girl Day Camp from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Girls will learn about Victorian tea parties, play indoor and outdoor period games, take a tour of the historic Pettigrew home, and learn what it was like to be a Victorian girl! Registration is $25 and includes snacks and crafts. Girls should bring a sack lunch.


Kristin will be offering yoga calm sessions for kids Monday evenings from 5pm - 5:45pm. Session 1: Ages 5 - 7 February 25, March 4, 11, 18, 25 Session 2: Ages 8 - 10 April 1, 8, 15, 22, 29

Tea Time Mini Day Camp Pettigrew Home & Museum 8th & Duluth - Sioux Falls Wednesday, July 31 • 1pm - 4pm Come to the Pettigrew Home & Museum to learn about what it meant to be an American child growing up over a century ago! We will learn about manners and etiquette, make a Victorian craft, tour the historic home, and enjoy tea and treats at our own tea party. Call (605)367-7097 to register. $15 registration.

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Camp Leif Ericson Sioux Falls Family YMCA Ages 4-15 Dates: Session 1: June 3-8 June 10-14 Session 2: June 17-21 June 24-28 Session 3: July 1-5 July 8-12 Session 4: July 15-19 July 22-26 Session 5: July 29-Aug 2 Aug 5-9 Session 6: Aug 12-16 Or June 3-Aug 16 Since 1920, our Sioux Falls Family YMCA camps have provided generations of campers with a safe, meaningful and life-changing outdoor camping experience. Children return year after year to enjoy our beautiful camp property, nestled along the forested shoreline of the Big Sioux River. While camp is close to home in the heart of Sioux Falls, it feels like a world away. Although our facilities and location are terrific, we know that it’s our counselors that ultimately make the camp experience so special. camp@siouxfallsymca.org (605) 336-3190 www.ymcacampleifericson.org Summer Nature Camps at the Arb(oretum) Mary Jo Wegner Arboretum Sign up for 10 weeks of nature camp for your child starting June 3 until August 15 (no classes week of July 1) From 10 am to Noon—Includes snack and crafts Price= $50.00 for 10 weeks Classes are Limited Size Monday— Grades 3-4 (Fall 2019)

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Tuesday— Ages 3-4-5 (by start date) Wednesday-- Grades 1-2 (Fall 2019) Thursday— 5th to 8th Grade (Fall 2019) Topics to include: Animals of South Dakota, trees, environmental resources, prairie life, water for all, insects and reptiles, birds of the Arb, mindfulness in nature, history of East Sioux Falls, quartzite geology, archeology, photography, nature scavenger hunts, geocaching, gardening for food, music in nature. 1900 S. Perry Place • Sioux Falls, SD (605) 367-4414 info@maryjowegnerarboretum.com

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South Dakota Basketball Network 805 N. Harlem Avenue • 605-371-6697 Spring/Summer Skill Sessions Wednesday skill sessions start Wednesday April 3rd and end Wednesday July 24 3rd - 5th Grade: 4:15-5:15 6th - 8th Grade: 5:15-6:15 Workouts will consist of ball handling, shooting, footwork, finishing, defense, full court drills and position work. Cost: $300. for the whole summer or $75 per month.


and Design Entrepreneur programs. 2701 South Minnesota Avenue. For more info call: 275-9728, check our website: www. idtsd.org or “Like us” on FACEBOOK.

Career Prep in Design – At Any Age Project: Design Boot Camp Ages 9 - 17 The Institute of Design & Technology of SD It is never too early to explore or to follow your passions for a career in design at The Institute of Design & Technology of SD. Register early for PROJECT: DESIGN BOOT CAMP Career exploration in design for ages 9 - 17. Follow your passion and prepare for a career in design. Choose from our Interior Décor

Back to Summer: Ignite Summer Program Boys & Girls Clubs of the Sioux Empire www.BGCSiouxEmpire.org M-F 6:30am - 6pm (Brandon & Harrisburg) 5:45 am - 6:30pm (Sioux Falls) K- Age 12 Full time (4-5 days) $135/child Part Time (1-3 days) $98/child

Experience Summer Fun at Your Washington Pavilion Our camps are hands-on learning experiences that incorporate visual arts, science and performing arts. We utilize the unique talents of our teaching staff to create memorable moments in a safe, fun environment, resulting in wonderful opportunities for students of all ages. Our summer camps fill up fast so be sure to sign up early!

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Warwick Workouts www.warwickworkouts.com Next Level Skills Camp July 8-10 2nd-8th Grade Price: TBD Avera Sports Center • 605-391-6653 The Warwick Workouts Next Level Skills Camp is for athletes that want to improve as a player on BOTH sides of the basketball. This camp will focus on the game of basketball as a whole, both offensively and defensively. This camp will look to get athletes out of their comfort zone with ball handling, finishing, and shooting drills. The Warwick staff will work on full court transition drills, competitive 3 on 3 and 4 on 4 situations, and rebounding drills. Next Level Skills camp will also breakdown defensive concepts such as how to properly guard the ball, where to be in help side, and proper close outs. This camp is designed for athletes who want to take the next step as a complete basketball player.


The First Tee of South Dakota uses golf to build character, instill values, and creates healthy habits in youth.

For more details about our programs, please call 605-367-7092 ext 109 or e-mail thefirstteesouthdakota@yahoo.com or visit www.thefirstteesouthdakota.org

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Warwick Workouts www.warwickworkouts.com Playmaker Camp July 22-24 3rd-10th Grade Price: TBD Avera Sports Center • 605-391-6653 The Warwick Workout Playmaker Camp is designed for players looking to enhance and expand their basketball skills, decision making and overall basketball IQ. Warwick Workouts www.warwickworkouts.com Coach’s Eye Shooting Clinic July 15-17 5th-12th Grade Price: TBD • Avera Sports Center 605-391-6653 Concentrated and focused all on shooting mechanics. Footwork, shot pocket, rhythm and timing of your shot. Video analysis and daily progression of shooting technique.

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Warwick Workouts www.warwickworkouts.com 2-Day Skills & Competition Camp June 10-11 or June 17-18 Youth, Grades K-5 Price: TBD Avera Sports Center • 605-391-6653 Fun 2-day camp that focuses on shooting, ball handling and passing in a competitive atmosphere.

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Great Plains Zoo & Delbridge Museum of Natural History ZooCamp 2018 www.GreatZoo.org June – August Ages 4 – 11 Price varies 605-367-7003 Get ready for a summer camp experience your child will never forget. With half-day and full-day themed camps, summer ZooCamp has an adventure waiting for everyone! Each camp is customized, but all include games, songs, crafts, snacks, train or carrousel rides, tours of the zoo and animal encounters.


Lifescape Skill-Building Camps: · Social Skills: Ten-week group to build social awareness/ interaction skills with peers. Dates TBD. · Handwriting: Occupational therapists work 1:1 with students to improve positioning, formation, and other components of printed

or cursive handwriting. Call for 1:1 scheduling. · Breakfast Club: A peer-based feeding therapy group, helping picky eaters increase accepted food choices. Dates TBD. Location: LifeScape Rehabilitation Center, 18th & Grange, Sioux Falls, (605) 444-9700, info@LifeScapeSD.org Price varies; some covered by insurance.

ADVANCED OFFENSIVE PLAYER DEVELOPMENT CAMPS AND CLINICS Warwick Workouts, Powered by Avera Sports, provides basketball players with high-intensity offensive skill camps, clinics and workouts that incorporate a progression of skill sets designed to challenge athletes at every level.

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Players work in small groups or one-on-one with a trainer.

An overall skill camp focusing on ball-handling, finishing drills, shooting and competition.

This is the most intense skill-development camp in the Midwest. Invitation only.

Summer Development League (Grades 4 – 10) A program focused on fundamental skill development, teaching team concepts, and a 5-on-5 league through multiple summer sessions (Sioux Falls only).

Specialty Summer Camps (Grades K – 8) 18-ASPI-10049-REV0219

Elite Offensive Skills Camp (High School – College)

Multiple summer camps are available that focus on improving skills through dribbling, shooting, finishing and competitive drills.

School Clinic (Grades K – 12) Warwick Workouts trainers travel to schools to conduct customized camps and clinics.

WHERE CHAMPIONS TRAIN Visit Avera.org/sports or WarwickWorkouts.com, or call 605-391-6653 to learn more.

Advanced Offensive Player Development Camps and Clinics Powered by Warwick Workouts

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Camp Bravo: All-Ability Performing Arts – Presented by LifeScape & Black Hills Playhouse, Jr June 16-21, 2019 Location: Joy Ranch near Watertown, SD Ages: 9-21 Price: Register before April 15: $475; after April 15: $500. Campers of all abilities explore movement, music, and performance--–all adapted to meet participants’ individual needs. The week ends with a performance of Rockin’ Robin Hood for family and friends. Horseback riding, wagon rides, pontoon rides, archery and camp fires are also offered, all in a completely accessible environment. Staff are trained and experienced in working with campers of all abilities. Nurses are on site for special medical needs. Family accommodations are available upon request. Details: (605) 444-9631 or www.LifeScapeSD.org

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Washington Pavlion Join us for fun, creativity and learning this summer! Experience hands-on learning that incorporates all the fantastic opportunities the Washington Pavilion has to offer in visual arts, theatre, music and science! Your kids will continue learning, creating and exploring through the summer in our fun, safe environment. Utilizing the unique talents of our teaching staff we create special summer memories for students ages 3-18. Call 605-367-6000 or visit washingtonpavilion.org to register today! Ages 4-15


SUMMER NATURE CAMPS AT THE ARB(ORETUM) Sign up for 10 weeks of nature camp for your child starting June 3 until August 15 (no classes week of July 1) From 10 am to Noon—Includes snack and crafts Price: $50.00 for 10 weeks Classes are Limited Size Monday—Grades 3-4 (Fall 2019) Tuesday—Ages 3-4-5 (by start date) Wednesday—Grades 1-2 (Fall 2019) Thursday—5th to 8th Grade (Fall 2019) Topics to include: • Animals of South Dakota • Trees • Environmental Resources • Prairie Life • Water for All • Insects and Reptiles • Birds of the Arb • Mindfulness in Nature • History of East Sioux Falls • Quartzite Geology • Archeology • Photography • Nature Scavenger Hunts • Geocaching • Gardening for Food • Music in Nature

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