2021_06_EtcMagazine_Volume20_Issue06 by Sara Sullivan

June 2021 Volume 20 • Issue 6

June Events Galore | Fresh Baked Snickerdoodles Hot Weather Pet Safety Tips

TRANSITIONAL SHADES

Illusion Shades

PRIVACY AND INSULATION

TandemTM blackout cellular shades

INSULATING BY DESIGN

Custom hardwood shutters

BLOCK HARMFUL UV RAYS

Solar shades significantly reduce energy costs

WINDOW COVERINGS SOLUTIONS FOR YOUR HOME OR BUSINESS

25% OFF

Selected Signature Series® Window Treatments* *Offer not valid with any other offers. Offer good at time of initial estimate only. Budget Blinds is a registered trademark of Budget Blinds, Inc. and a Home Franchise Concepts brand. Offer valid through 6.30.20.

Contact your local Style Consultant today! 5303 W. 41st Street 605-332-7265 • BudgetBlinds.com

<*Applies to selected Signature Series® window treatments by Budget Blinds.® Some restrictions may apply. Ask for details. At participating franchises only. Not valid with any other offers, discounts or coupons. Valid for a limited time only. Offer good at initial time of estimate only. ©2015 Budget Blinds, Inc. All Rights Reserved. Budget Blinds is a trademark of Budget Blinds, Inc. and a Home Franchise Concepts Brand. Each franchise independently owned and operated. Franchise opportunities available.>

June 2021

out & about CONCIERGE 9

Prairie Cocoa & Confections

CALENDAR June 2021 12

ET CETERA

Our Goal is Big… 20 Raising Funds for Local Pups 21 Levitt at the Falls 2021 Season Revealed 22

HISTORY Eliza Tupper Wilkesy 24

nest

RECIPES

friends & family

Fresh Baked Snickerdoodles 27

THE A LIST 28

PARENTING & PREGNANCY

What Moms Need to Know About the Postpartum Period 52 Outdoor Summer Crafts 54

AT HOME The Kelly McMaster Home 32

MAN IN THE KITCHEN Dad’s Day to Cook 40

VINO

BEST FRIENDS

Napa Valley Dreamin’ 42

Inspired by 2021 Graduates 44

Hot Weather Safety Tips for Dogs & Cats 58 Submit Your Pet’s Photo 60

KNICK KNACKS OF LIFE HEALTH & WELL-BEING

Self-care and Mindfulness Benefit the Whole Family 46

FOR KIDS

CUTE KIDS Submit Your Child’s Photo 62

BEST BOOKS 64

Sioux Falls’ Favorite Women’s Magazine Publisher

Graphic Design

Angela Efting Ellerbroek

Jen (Sandvig) Pfeiffer Design Loft, LLC

(605) 334-2479 email: etc.mag@sio.midco.net www.etcsiouxfalls.com www.facebook.com/etcforher

iStockphoto® used on pages: 8, 26, 40, 50 Pexels® photo used on page: 46

4 contents whole without written consent by the publisher. All articles and editorial material represent the opinions of the respective authors.

Entertainment Venue Something fun for everyone! Adult Escape Room Tickets $30.00+tax Kids Escape Room Tickets $22.00+tax Kids ages 3-6 just $5.00+tax

Axe Throwing Tickets are $30.00+tax for a 60-minute Session Smash Rooms Tickets pricing depends on how many players and package options

Smash Rooms & Escape Rooms

Axe Throwing

PIRATE SHIPWRECK

Summer Advertures your kids will remember! Come aboard our real life pirate ship and experience why people love escape rooms! Perfect for kids birthday parties ages 7+.

Banquet Room

WE HAVE 3 MORE ESCAPE ROOMS COMING IN 2021! Please contact us for more information. • 605.777.9401• Info@BlackIncEvents.com

Friday-Saturday

October 15-16

! w o N p u n g i S Email or call to reserve your booth now! etc.mag@sio.midco.net (605) 351-5515

Friday, October 15th 12pm–8pm Saturday, October 16th 9am–3pm Sioux Falls Convention Center The fifteenth annual expo for her is two days of shopping, entertainment, pampering and fun — designed especially for women. Sample foods & drinks, participate in FREE fabulous seminars, and SHOP! Treat yourself or start your holiday shopping — or both.

! n u f e h t n i o J

www.etcsiouxfalls.com

Sunday

October 17 Now Under the Same Ownership

magazine proudly presents

Email or call to reserve your booth now! etc.mag@sio.midco.net (605) 351-5515

Sunday, October 17th, 2021 12pm - 3pm | Sioux Falls Convention Center Tickets at the door

Brides Register Online! gonnagetwed.com/register

concierge 9 Prairie Cocoa & Confections

calendar 12 June 2021

et cetera 20 Our Goal is Big… to Ensure Every Senior Facing Hunger has Access to Nutritious Food

et cetera 21 Severance Brewing Co. Raising Funds for Local Pups

et cetera 22 Levitt at the Falls 2021 Season Revealed Our City, Our Music

history 24 Eliza Tupper Wilkes

out & about

Prairie Cocoa & Confections BY MARY MICHAELS | PHOTOS BY JULIE PRAIRIE PHOTOGRAPHY

ioux Falls has become well-known for its wide array of dining, shopping and entertainment options. It’s always exciting to see what’s coming next. Well, here’s a unique addition for you…a place to get Cake on a Cup. You read that right. Not cake in a cup, but cake on a cup. Go to Prairie Cocoa & Confections at 8th & Railroad to see this creation for yourself at downtown’s newest dessert bar. They start with a generous cup of their hand-crafted lemonade with fruit caviar and then top it with an entire slice of cake. The consistency of the cake is so perfect as it sits neatly on the cup’s lid with the straw coming right up through the frosting. It’s almost too pretty to eat and drink, but of course, you must taste it! So many of the menu items give a nod to Sioux Falls and the Midwest. The Big Blue Sioux cake on a cup has blue and purple velvet cake layers with such pretty frosting flowers and a mermaid tail coming out the top. The Prairie Sunset cake in a cup pairs peach and pink velvet cake with vanilla. While you can get a glass of lemonade or a slice of cake separately, why would you? Executive Pastry Chef, Creative Director and Owner of “Prairie C,” Keyes Clemmer, says she didn’t create the idea of the cake on a cup, but she has certainly put her own twist on it…. along with everything else that she brings to her new storefront and to the Farmer’s Market each week. Clemmer came to Sioux Falls from the East Coast, hailing from Boston originally, but most recently lived and operated a bake shop in New York City. Her influences, however, span the globe as she grew up as a dependent in the U.S. Army. Being a military family, she has lived in Japan, Germany and Brazil, but has also traveled to many other countries. The travel certainly influenced her culinary tastes and skill, and when you pair that with a creative mind, you get amazing edible art. Clemmer’s pastry creations are as beautiful as they are tasty, and she looks for her own way to present each one. For example, she makes cheesecake, but not necessarily in the traditional style of a slice. Instead, you’ll find little trifle cups in the bakery case with filled

etc. for her | June 2021 9

flavors such as a white chocolate raspberry cheesecake with lemon ganache or Ferrero Rocher cheesecake with Nutella ganache. Prairie C’s Hot Chocolate Cake has been a big seller since the shop opened in April, with its layers of chocolate cake and chocolate marshmallow crème topped with chocolate ganache and mini marshmallows. It has not been unusual for the shop to experience sellouts, and Clemmer and her team say they are so grateful for the way the community has embraced them. That team includes Clemmer’s new business partner, Courtney Weeldreyer, Director of Marketing and Events. A Lennox, SD, native, Weeldreyer has jumped right into the marketing and operations side of the business, and Clemmer is thrilled with their partnership. There seems to be no limit to their creativity, allowing them to explore different treats for different seasons. Over the holidays, Prairie C had a pop-up shop in the Jones 421 Building downtown where people could stock up on spooky treats for Halloween, festive fall cookies for Halloween and, of course, Santa cookies at Christmas. Even though so many of the treats are fun, Clemmer is a well-known pastry chef and does work with customers on special events and catering, including wedding cakes. However, she truly enjoys the whimsical side of baking as well. For example, during the Downtown Burger Battle in January, Clemmer got in on the action by offering a Slider & Fries at the Jones 421 pop-up shop. However, the burger was a round brownie on a cake bun with lettuce, tomato and mayo garnishes made from frosting. The side of fries (which really looked like the real thing!) was made from crinkled sugar cookies with red “ketchup” frosting. Clemmer has also created her own version of a charcuterie board – sweet charcuterie, that is. Picture olives, crackers, swiss cheese, brie cheese...all made from cookies. If you have cake and cookies, you’ll need something to drink, and Prairie Cocoa & Confections has an extensive menu with their lemonade varieties, along with “Dirty Sodas,” made with your favorite soda variety combined with flavored creams and syrups. They also have a full menu of hand-crafted mocktails featuring SEEDLIP distilled, non-alcoholic

10 out and about |

CONCIERGE

spirits along with RITUAL crafted, zero proof spirits – whiskey, tequila and gin. The Prairie Rose features SEEDLIP Garden, distilled with garden herbs, paired with rosehip elixir, rose water, cucumber and lime. The Prairie Flower combines RITUAL zero proof tequila, lime, cherry elixir and hibiscus. In addition to the drinks that include the SEEDLIP and RITUAL spirits, Prairie C has their own line of “P.C. Signature Mocktails” that are house-created for each season – like the Blueberry NOjito and Prairie-dise, which are perfect for the summer. The real signature drink for the dessert bar, however, is the Frozen Hot Chocolate…16 ounces of snowy chocolate in a frosted glass. In this case, “frosted” means rimmed with frosting and sprinkles! If you’re really daring, you can try the extreme version of the drink, which is topped with cotton candy, lollipops, candy, marshmallows and cookies. Clemmer calls it a “party in a cup.” While you can run in to Prairie Cocoa & Confections and pick something up to go, Clemmer created an environment she hopes will encourage people to stay awhile and spend time together. The industrial chic space has lightly whitewashed brick, hardwood floors and a great accent wall in the seating area created with a variety of painted doors. Hanging on the walls are canvas prints highlighting some of Clemmer’s past creations. What looks like a photo of dewy peaches is actually a collection of Italian peach sugar cookies. The photo of the fried chicken dinner? Look closely. The chicken drumstick is cake, the corn on the cob is popcorn-flavored jellybeans and that pat of butter is a sugar cookie. The business developed a strong following since starting out at the Farmer’s Market last year, and that also led to great partnerships with other local businesses like Candy Cloud Factory for cotton candy and The Shire, which produces handcrafted honey that is featured in several of Prairie C’s drinks. Prairie C is back at the Farmer’s Market again this year, along with their new storefront adventure at 8th & Railroad Center. Plan a trip downtown to visit the sweet folks at Prairie Cocoa & Confections.

etc. for her | June 2021 11

June

Historic Walking Tour of the Warehouse District Siouxland Heritage Museums Thursday, June 3 • 6:30 pm Enjoy beautiful summer weather while learning about Sioux Falls sites you pass by every day! $3 per person over 12 years old, space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register. www.siouxlandmuseums.com

2021

Strawbale Winery Summer Porch Series Thursdays through September 5 5 - 8pm 47215 257th St. Renner, SD. Head to Strawbale Winery every Thursday evening all summer long. Browse wares from local and regional artisans, enjoy the sounds of select musicians and sample the fare of local gourmets and of course Strawbale wines.

Please call ahead to check events for cancellations or postponements.

All in a beautiful country setting with glass in hand. Cost is $5.00 per person or $10.00 per carload. Admission is FREE to Wines Frequently members. 37th Annual 2021 Buffalo Days June 4 - 6 Luverne, MN Luverne school production of Grease, Cruise-In, Buffalo

Days Parade, Annual Baseball Tournament, Buffalo Days Expo, Quilt Show, Block Party. www. luvernechamber.com Curtis & Loretta at the Old Courthouse Museum Summer Concert Series Friday, June 4 • 12 - 1pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Curtis & Loretta will perform

Join Us for

Farmer’s Market!

Every Saturday through Sept.! * Not July 3rd

10am-2pm

• local artists & artisans • handmade jewelry • furniture • photography • stones and crystals • reclaimed & re-imagined pieces • trendy clothing

27102 Albers Ave • Sioux Falls, SD 57108 I-29 Exit 73 then 2 blocks east. Hours: Mon-Fri 10-5:30 • Sat & Sun 10-4

12 out and about |

CALENDAR

The Bridges at 57th Street 57th & Western Avenue | Sioux Falls, SD (605) 521-5099 | www.rainnsalon.com

in the plaza behind the Old Courthouse Museum. Bring your lunch and a lawn chair and enjoy the show! Concert will be held inside in the case of bad weather. (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com EastBank Block Party June 4 • 6 - 7pm 8th & Railroad Center On the First Friday of the month, June through September, DTSF treats you to the ultimate block party experience. These events are located on the Eastbank of downtown Sioux Falls. Enjoy live music, food vendors, beer, wine, and shopping at some of the most unique stores along the boardwalk of the 8th & Railroad Center. Feel free to bring your own lawn chair. INFO 338-4009. Sioux Falls Canaries vs. Houston Apollos June 4-6 Sioux Falls Stadium. Watch the Sioux Falls Canaries

take on opponents from across the country at the Sioux Falls Stadium. INFO sfcanaries.com PorkPalooza June 4 - 5 • 5pm USD Discovery District 4800 N. Career Avenue Vendors to include BBQ food trucks & other food vendors. In addition to beer & seltzer options from Remedy Brewing Company, attendees may also purchase wine and liquor options hosted by the Red Rock Bar & Grill Raffle tickets available for purchase at the event for great prizes from community donors. Proceeds of event to benefit LifeScape. Moonlight Movies June 5, 12, 19, 26 8:30 - 10:30pm • Fawick Park Fun and FREE to do with your family on a beautiful downtown Sioux Falls summer night! Our free outdoor movies begin at dusk on Saturday evenings throughout

the summer months. The start time will vary; based on when the sun sets. Bring your favorite blanket or chair, and enjoy popcorn, candy, soda, and water available for purchase on site. No alcohol, smoking, or littering is allowed in the park. Parental discretion is advised; some movies may not be suitable for children of all age levels. Wilde Prairie Winery Spring Open House & Run for the Wine June 5 • 9am - 4pm 48052 259th St., Brandon, SD. Join the fun at Wilde Prairie Winery for their annual Spring Open House to enjoy wine, live music, food trucks, face painting, alpacas, bounces house and more. www.wildeprairiewinery.com 20th Annual Siouxland Renaissance Festival June 5 • 10am - 7pm June 6 • 10am - 6pm WH Lyon Fairgrounds

Summer Camps

Our

Come one, come all goode lords and ladies, merchants, yeomen, players, musicians, and peasants. Let us present to you the Siouxland Renaissance Festival! Here you can travel back in time to the glorious reign of Queen Elizabeth I. See the sights, hear the sounds, and taste the food. Learn what it was like to live over 400 years ago as you take part in our historically flavored festival. Come thrill to the spectacle of armored jousting. Marvel at our jugglers, dancers, musicians and other entertainers on our 8 stages. SD Artisan Fair by Midwest Handmade June 5 • 10am - 4pm June 6 • 10am - 3pm Best Western PLUS Ramkota 3200 W. Maple St. Concessions, children’s games, door prizes, FREE ADMISSION and of course handmade only shopping! Shop handmade small businesses from local to across the Midwest region.

OIN

are mmer the ca B m ES

Our camps are hands-on learning experiences that create memorable moments in a safe, fun environment, resulting in wonderful opportunities for students of all ages. They fill up fast so be sure to sign up early!

ENROLL TODAY! washingtonpavilion.org/summercamps 605.367.6000

etc. for her | June 2021 13

Dakota Dachshund Rescue Fundraiser Saturday, June 5th & Saturday, June 19th • noon to 2pm Severance Brewing Co. The Cascade at Falls Park 701 N. Phillips Ave #110 Bring your best puppy friend and enjoy grilled food on the patio! $1 of every beer poured from noon2pm will be donated to Dakota Dachshund Rescue

ANTIQUES, PRIMITIVES, COLLECTIBLES & MORE

Travel East on I-90 and take MN exit 5 for a

one of a kind shopping experience! 539 County Road 4, Beaver Creek, MN Sbeyenhof52@gmail.com Hours: Friday 1 - 5pm • Saturday 10am - 4pm Closed 4th of July weekend and July 23 & 24.

Sertoma Shine & Show Car Show Saturday, June 5 • 11am - 3pm The Alliance 1600 W. Russell St. Inaugural 2021 SERTOMA Shine and Show (a.k.a. Car Show), at SD Military Heritage Alliance. Open to the public free of charge, for both spectators and owners of items on display. Free well donation will be accepted. Raffle prizes will also be given away. Event will be fun for all ages, and the Alliance welcomes everyone attending the event. Sangria Sundays June 6, 13, 20, 27 • 1 - 4pm Strawbale Winery 47215 257th St. Renner, SD. Slow down and relax while enjoying the slower pace of the country life. Gather up your family and friends and head to Strawbale Winery for Sangria Sundays during the summer months for live music and summer wine! You will love their red sangria made from Strawbale Red Table Wine created from South Dakota’s grapes or sip their White Wine sangria made from Strawbale White Table Wine. Bring a picnic lunch and enjoy the beautiful summer weather! Good Earth Outdoor Concert June 6 • 4 - 5:30pm Good Earth State Park at Blood Run 26924 480th Ave, Sioux Falls Enjoy an evening at the park listening to music at the Good Earth State Park amphitheater. Ag Jamboree will perform and

14 out and about |

CALENDAR

the food truck on hand will be Watecha Bowl. The concert is free to attend with a park entrance license. Some permanent seating is available but audience members are encouraged to bring a lawn chair or blanket. Elevate Your Smart Phone Photography Monday, June 7 • 6pm $69 • West Sioux Studios Do you realize you’ve probably already invested $100s in a professional digital camera? It just happens to be hidden inside your smartphone! West Sioux Studios will help you learn to swipe, tap, and click all the right settings to elevate your family snaps, business captures, or just a pic of your dinner plate! Bring your fully charged smartphone with camera. Registration is available online at www.ComEd.sf.k12.sd.us or call 605-367-7999. Jump Rope Fun & Fitness Tuesday, June 8 • 4 Sessions 6pm $49 • Robert Frost Elementary Grab a rope and make the world your gym! Improve your cardiovascular health, coordination, agility, and balance. Get fit and lose weight! Do it all with the company, accountability and support of new friends and an experienced jump roper to help you correct common jumping mistakes and teach you a few cool tricks. Come to our fun weekly jump class and level up your fitness by participating in the month-long daily jump challenge! All fitness levels welcome! Please bring a water bottle and wear comfortable clothes and tennis shoes for this outdoor adult playground class. Rope will be provided and sized for you. Registration is available online at www.ComEd.sf.k12.sd.us Sioux Falls Canaries vs. Cleburne Railroaders June 8-10 Sioux Falls Stadium Watch the Sioux Falls Canaries

take on opponents from across the country at the Sioux Falls Stadium. www.sfcanaries.com Historic Walking Tour of Woodlawn Cemetery/ Rosehill Siouxland Heritage Museums Thursday, June 10 • 6:30 pm Enjoy beautiful summer weather while learning about Sioux Falls sites you pass by every day! $3 per person over 12 years old, space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register. www.siouxlandmuseums.com Wilde Prairie Winery Yoga & Wine June 10 • 6pm - 7:30pm 48052 259th St. Brandon, SD. Join Wilde Prairie Winery for a yoga class led by a certified instructor, followed by wine! INFO www.wildeprairiewinery.com The Good Night Theatre Collective Presents: An Iconic Cabaret June 10 • 7:30 - 9pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. Good Night will close out its fifth season with a wildly entertaining cabaret drawing inspiration from the all-time greats of music-dom, across a variety of eras, genres and styles! It’s An Iconic Cabaret! Mogen’s Heroes at the Old Courthouse Museum Summer Concert Series Friday, June 11 • 12 - 1pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Mogen’s Heroes will perform in the plaza behind the Old Courthouse Museum. Bring your lunch and a lawn chair and enjoy the show! Concert will be held inside in the case of bad weather. (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com Broad Cast Theatre Shows at Wilde Prairie Winery June 11 • 6pm 48052 259th St. Brandon, SD. Love, Loss & What I Wore. INFO

www.wildeprairiewinery.com Main Stage Ballet & Dance Academy Presents The Dancing Princesses June 11 • 7pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. Tickets available by calling (605) 367-6000. mainstageballet.com Ranky Tanky June 11 • 6 - 9pm Levitt at the Falls Ranky Tanky is a GRAMMY award-winning, Charleston, SCbased quintet, performs timeless music born from the Gullah culture of the southeastern Sea Islands. Their soulful songs are brought to life by mixing the low country Gullah traditions with large doses of jazz, gospel, funk, and R&B. Playful game songs, ecstatic shouts, and heartbreaking spirituals can all be found on their latest release Good Time, which won the 2020 GRAMMY for Best Regional Roots album. Festival of Cultures June 12 • 12 - 6pm Falls Park The Festival of Cultures is an annual event where all cultures come together for a fun day of celebration! Join us at Falls Park as we celebrate the diversity in Sioux Falls with live entertainment, delicious food trucks, and engaging and educational workshops! Enjoy live ethnic music, dance, and art while learning how to make traditional food and crafts. This familyfriendly event is free to attend. Sioux Falls Storm vs. Spokane Shock June 12 • 7:05pm Denny Sanford Premier Center Watch the Sioux Falls Storm of the Indoor Football League take on opponents from across the country at the Denny Sanford PREMIER Center. Lucas Hoge June 12 • 6 - 9pm

etc. for her | June 2021 15

Levitt at the Falls Some people are just born communicators and Lucas Hoge has that gift. Fans know this because Hoge’s new album Dirty South ascended to the No. 1 spot on the Billboard Country Album Sales chart during its debut week. Hoge’s title track “Dirty South” is also currently climbing the charts and gaining momentum on country radio. Wilde Prairie Winery Sunday in the Vineyard June 13 • 2 - 5pm Geoff Gunderson Wilde Prairie Winery 48052 259th St. Brandon, SD. Join Wilde Prairie Winery on Sundays during the summer months for live music and wine. Bring your lounge chair, blanket and friends. We will serve wine, wine slushies, SD beer, and other drinks. Pet friendly on a leash. Please no outside alcohol, INFO www.wildeprairiewinery.com

Good Earth Outdoor Concert June 13 • 4 - 5:30pm Good Earth State Park at Blood Run 26924 480th Ave. Sioux Falls Enjoy an evening at the park listening to music at the Good Earth State Park amphitheater. Jim Groth will perform and the food truck on hand will be the Kabob King. The concert is free to attend with a park entrance license. Some permanent seating is available but audience members are encouraged to bring a lawn chair or blanket. Siouxland Republican Women Sponsor State/ Local Speakers June 15 • 6:30pm 41st Street Pizza Ranch $5 admission for non-members. Contact: Siouxlandrw@gmail.com Pioneer Day Camp at Beaver Creek Nature Area Tuesday, June 15 • 8am - 5pm Beaver Creek Nature Area

East of Sioux Falls Kids 7-12 can go fishing, dip candles, make ice cream and play period games. It’s outdoor, educational, and an all-around good time! $35 registration includes program, meal, and snacks. Space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register in advance. www.siouxlandmuseums.com Sioux Falls Canaries vs. Milwaukee Milkmen June 15 - 17 Sioux Falls Stadium Watch the Sioux Falls Canaries take on opponents from across the country at the Sioux Falls Stadium. www.sfcanaries.com Jamey Johnson with Whiskey Myers June 15 • 5:30 - 9pm WH Lyon Fairgrounds Platinum-selling singer/songwriter Jamey Johnson, one of today’s most respected country music artists and Whiskey Myers will be playing at the W.H. Lyon

Fairgrounds in Sioux Falls. INFO 357-7377. Rosemaling Demonstration at the Old Courthouse Museum Tuesday, June 15 • 1 - 4pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Eileen Halverson will be demonstrating the Norwegian folk art of Rosemaling (decorative painting) in the second-floor hallway. Stop in any time for a demonstration or to ask questions! INFO (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com Kid’s Activity Day: Let’s Explore! at the Old Courthouse Museum Thursday, June 17 9 - 11am and 1 - 2:30 pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Learn about history and make your own crafts to take home. 15 minute sessions run throughout morning and afternoon times. Call to reserve times. Free admission.

Main Stage Ballet & DANCE ACADEMY

Dancing PRINCESSES

THE

— PRESENTS —

FRIDAY JUNE 11, 2021 AT 7PM WASHINGTON PAVILION - MARY W. SOMMERVOLD HALL TICKETS AVAILABLE BY CALLING: 605.367.6000

For more information: mainstageballet.com • 605.333.9816 • 2415 S Sherman Ave., Sioux Falls, SD 57105

SUMMER DANCE BEGINS JUNE 21ST for ages 3 - adult

16 out and about |

CALENDAR

FALL OPEN HOUSE

JULY 14TH and AUG 9TH

INFO (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com Sioux Empire Community Theatre Presents: Footloose June 17-19 & 24-26, 2021 • 7pm June 19, 20, 26 & 27, 2021 • 2pm Orpheum Theatre 315 N. Phillips Ave. A rebellious teenager moves to a small middle-American town where dance is forbidden, and encourages his classmates to defy the local pastor and call for a rock ‘n’ roll prom. A musical version of the 1984 film. INFO (605) 367-6000. Historic Walking Tour of Fort Dakota Siouxland Heritage Museums Thursday, June 17 • 6:30 pm Enjoy beautiful summer weather while learning about Sioux Falls sites you pass by every day! $3 per person over 12 years old, space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register. www.siouxlandmuseums.com

Lakota Hoop Dancer Dallas Chief Eagle June 18 • 10 - 11am Levitt at the Falls Dallas Chief Eagle Jr. is a recognized master of the Lakota hoop dance. Chief Eagle has worked as an artist in-residence and mentor through his Hoop dance studio in the All Nations Gathering Center on the Pine Ridge Reservation and throughout the state of South Dakota as a part of the SD Arts Council Artist Residency Program. Dallas will perform with an appearance by the Grandpa Rock Hoop dancers and the Lakota Drum Circle, celebrating the beauty and richness of the Lakota cultural tradition. Maggie in the Meantime at the Old Courthouse Museum Summer Concert Series Friday, June 18 • 12 - 1pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Maggie in the Meantime will

perform in the plaza behind the Old Courthouse Museum. Bring your lunch and a lawn chair and enjoy the show! Concert will be held inside in the case of bad weather. (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com American/Country Musician Bo DePeña June 18 • 6 - 9pm Levitt at the Falls Bo DePeña is an Americana/ Country musician from Laredo, Texas. Influenced by the likes of Townes Van Zandt, Freddy Fender, George Strait, Willie Nelson, Merle Haggard, and Asleep at the Wheel, Bo draws from the legends and his own experiences to delight fans with thoughtful lyrics and high energy shows from Texas to Colorado to Montana and beyond. His shows are full of stories, songs, and laughs. His high-energy performance will surely keep you dancing and singing along the whole night through!

Comedian Aubrey Sweeney June 19 Historic Palace Theatre 104 E. Main in Luverne, MN. (507) 283-4339. 12th Annual 605 Summer Classic June 19 12 - 4pm 300 N. Cherapa Place The 605 Summer Classic is an outdoor event in downtown Sioux Falls that features more than 20 South Dakota breweries pouring some of their best brews. Sample your way through the wide variety of beer, as you enjoy musical entertainment from several artists. Food trucks and local vendors will all be on-hand. Mae Simpson Band Saturday, June 19 6 - 9pm Levitt at the Falls The Mae Simpson Band is pure energy and soul. The singersongwriter Mae, who hails from

Become a Member at Your

Washington Pavilion

s As low a mo. $5.99/

Keep the kids entertained all summer long! Become a member and enjoy benefits like: • Free admission to the Kirby Science Discovery Center, Visual Arts Center and Wells Fargo CineDome • 10% discount on classes, summer camps and birthday parties • Ability to purchase tickets to select shows before the public • Exclusive members-only events • And so much more!

605.367.6000 washingtonpavilion.org/membership

etc. for her | June 2021 17

South Carolina, has a huge voice and stage presence. She has brought together a collective of seven musicians who each bring a unique flavor to this powerhouse group. Blistering funk and dance music mixed with soul, blues, country, calypso, jazz, rock, and even a little hip-hop — bringing the crowd to their feet every time. Little Big Town June 19 8pm Denny Sanford Premier Center Little Big Town will be performing live at the Denny Sanford PREMIER Center — get your tickets now! Wilde Prairie Winery Sunday in the Vineyard June 20 2 - 5pm Elisabeth Hunstad 48052 259th St. Brandon, SD. Join Wilde Prairie Winery on Sundays during the summer months for live music and wine.

18 out and about |

Bring your lounge chair, blanket and friends. We will serve wine, wine slushies, SD beer, and other drinks. Pet friendly on a leash. Please no outside alcohol, INFO www.wildeprairiewinery.com Good Earth Outdoor Concert June 20 4 - 5:30pm Good Earth State Park at Blood Run 26924 480th Ave. Sioux Falls, SD Enjoy an evening at the park listening to music at the Good Earth State Park amphitheater. The Hegg Brother will perform and the food Truck on hand will be the Tacos De Gringo. The concert is free to attend with a park entrance license. Some permanent seating is available but audience members are encouraged to bring a lawn chair or blanket. Pioneer Day Camp at Beaver Creek Nature Area Tuesday, June 22

CALENDAR

8am - 5pm Beaver Creek Nature Area East of Sioux Falls Kids 7-12 can go fishing, dip candles, make ice cream and play period games. It’s outdoor, educational, and an all-around good time! $35 registration includes program, meal, and snacks. Space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register in advance. www.siouxlandmuseums.com

sites you pass by every day! $3 per person over 12 years old, space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register. www.siouxlandmuseums.com

Sioux Falls Canaries vs. Houston Apollos June 22 - 24 Sioux Falls Stadium Watch the Sioux Falls Canaries take on opponents from across the country at the Sioux Falls Stadium. www.sfcanaries.com

Elisabeth Hunstad at the Old Courthouse Museum Summer Concert Series Friday, June 25 12pm - 1pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Elisabeth Hunstad will perform in the plaza behind the Old Courthouse Museum. Bring your lunch and a lawn chair and enjoy the show! Concert will be held inside in the case of bad weather. (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com

Historic Walking Tour of the South End Cathedral District Siouxland Heritage Museums Thursday, June 24 6:30 pm Enjoy beautiful summer weather while learning about Sioux Falls

Goodroad June 25 6 - 9pm Levitt at the Falls “We’re just a group of guys who love to play music.” If you’d ask Allen Goodroad about what this

band is like, that’s what you’d hear. “We’ve come from all sorts of backgrounds to form this unique group that allows us to get away with playing anything.” Every band member is proficient in more than one instrument and members perform on a mix of guitars, saxophones, trumpets, trombones, fiddles, accordions, and keys. Expect a one-of-a-kind show. Sioux Falls Canaries vs. Southshore Railcats June 25 - 27 Sioux Falls Stadium Watch the Sioux Falls Canaries take on opponents from across the country at the Sioux Falls Stadium. Foreigner June 25 7:30pm Washington Pavilion With ten multi-platinum albums and sixteen Top 30 hits, Foreigner is universally hailed as one of the most popular rock acts in the

world with a formidable musical arsenal that continues to propel sold-out tours and album sales, now exceeding 75 million. INFO www.washingtonpavilion.org Wilde Prairie Winery Evening in the Vineyard June 25 6 - 9pm 48052 259th St. Brandon, SD. Bring your lounge chair, blanket and friends. Live music! We will serve wine, wine slushies, SD beer, and other drinks. Food trucks will also be present. Child & pet friendly. Please have pet on leash. Please no outside alcohol. INFO wildeprairiewinery.com Sioux Falls Storm vs. Bismarck Bucks June 26 7:05pm Denny Sanford Premier Center Watch the Sioux Falls Storm of the Indoor Football League take on opponents from across the country.

Dave Vanderlinde’s Big Birthday Bash Wilde Prairie Winery 48052 259th St. Brandon, SD. June 26 4 - 9pm Open to the public. Fat Kid Filly’s and lots of music! INFO www.wildeprairiewinery.com The Two Tracks June 26 6 - 9pm Levitt at the Falls The Two Tracks is an Americana quartet based out of Sheridan, Wyoming that creates music that reverberates with heart-felt emotion and that speak to the listener with honesty, conviction and integrity. Cutting undeniable grooves in the road of Americana music with their new release, Cheers to Solitude, The Two Tracks bend genres into a sound both unique and immediately familiar, laced with a hint of that “high lonesome” tradition.

Wilde Prairie Winery Sunday in the Vineyard June 27 • 2 - 5pm Billy Lurken 48052 259th St. Brandon, SD. Join Wilde Prairie Winery on Sundays during the summer months for live music and wine. Bring your lounge chair, blanket and friends. We will serve wine, wine slushies, SD beer, and other drinks. Pet friendly on a leash. Please no outside alcohol, INFO www.wildeprairiewinery.com Pioneer Day Camp at Beaver Creek Nature Area Tuesday, June 29 • 8am - 5pm Beaver Creek Nature Area East of Sioux Falls Kids 7-12 can go fishing, dip candles, make ice cream and play period games. It’s outdoor, educational, and an all-around good time! $35 registration includes program, meal, and snacks. Space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register in advance. www.siouxlandmuseums.com

South Dakota's delightfully unique winery Enjoy Our Wines: Fruit • Rhubarb • Grape • Honey Yoga & Wine

Broad Cast Theatre Shows

June 10th • 6 pm • Yoga taught by Certifed Yoga Instructors from Sanford Wellness Center.

Love, Loss, & What I Wore • June 11th • 6 pm

Spring Open House & Run for the Wine June 5th • 9 am • Fat Kid Filly’s Food Truck Music: Amy Ellsworth @ 9:30 am & Holly Vandenberg @ 1 pm Grand A Alpacas • Bounce House • Face Painting • Vendors

2 to 5 pm • Live Music • Food • Wine June 13th • Geoff Gunderson June 20th • Elisabeth Hunstad June 27th • Billy Lurken

Brandon Farmers Market

Evening in the Vineyard

Most Saturdays starting in June • 9 am to 2 pm Held in parking lot • 515 N Splitrock Blvd.

Sunday in the Vineyard

June 25th • 6–9 pm Amy Ellsworth • Kabob King

Dave Vanderlinde's Big Birthday Bash

June 26th • 4 to 9 pm • Open to the public • Fat Kid Filly's • Lots of Music

Hours: Thursday through Monday: Noon - 6pm 605-582-6471 | wildeprairiewinery.com | 48052 259th St. | Brandon, SD TASTING

Directions: From I-90 take exit 406 at Brandon, go 1 ½ miles North TOURS on Highway 11, then West on 259th Street for 1 ½ miles to our winery. SALES

etc. for her | June 2021 19

Our Goal is Big…

to Ensure Every Senior Facing Hunger has Access to Nutritious Food

BY FEEDING SOUTH DAKOTA

s the nation confronts our new realities of the global COVID-19 pandemic, seniors across the country, and in our state, are facing unprecedented health and food access challenges. Food-insecure seniors are more likely to develop nutrition-related health problems, which is particularly problematic given the unique health, financial, and nutritional challenges that can come with aging. Even with the support of existing senior programs, more work must be done to address this public health concern. Research shows that 5.3 million seniors (1 in every 14 seniors) are food insecure in our nation. What’s even worse, 1 in 7 South Dakota seniors are food insecure. That’s 14,678 adults aged 60 and over. That’s 14,678 adults too many! Feeding South Dakota can help. Feeding South Dakota, with the help and dedication of its agency partners, has administered the USDA’s Commodity Supplemental Food Program since 2001, coordinating the distribution of thousands of boxes of nutritious

More Music. More Variety. More Me Time.

kelofm.com

20 out and about |

ET CETERA

food each month to adults aged 60+ living on limited incomes in eastern and central South Dakota. The food provided is to supplement what seniors can purchase on their own or receive from other food assistance programs. The food boxes contain nutritious, nonperishable food items such as cereal, juice, canned fruits and vegetables as well as meats, grains, shelf stable or evaporated milk and also fresh cheese. Feeding South Dakota’s agency partners help to determine eligibility and registration of seniors that could benefit from this program. Since the onset of Covid-19, there is no longer a wait list to receive a box and we are looking to spread the word that this nutritious food is available…for FREE. The information is simple…free food for adults aged 60+ in need of food assistance. Visit https://feedingsouthdakota.org/our-programs/commoditydistribution/

The Cascade at Falls Park 701 N. Phillips Ave #110 •Sioux Falls For more information, please visit severancebeer.com

Raising Funds for Local Pups Dakota Dachshund Rescue Saturday, June 5th & Saturday, June 19th • noon to 2pm Bring your best puppy friend and enjoy grilled food on the patio! $1 of every beer poured from noon-2pm will be donated to Dakota Dachshund Rescue

Sioux Falls Area Humane Society Party AnimALE Mango Blonde Ale, a special brew for the Sioux Falls Area Humane Society will be released in June! $1 of every 4-pack of 16 oz. cans will go to the Sioux Falls Humane Society. Watch for beer tapping and fundraising dates and event details coming soon.

Sioux Falls Kitchen & Bath Let Sioux Falls Kitchen & Bath provide elegant custom cabinetry for your home.

Fine Custom Cabinetry and Millwork

27063 Henry Place, Sioux Falls, SD

605.368.9684 Check out our website at www.siouxfallskitchenandbath.com etc. for her | June 2021 21

Levitt at the Falls 2021 Season Revealed

Our City, Our Music L

evitt at the Falls is pleased to announce the return to live concerts at the Sioux Falls Levitt Shell and the full calendar for the 2021 season. The Levitt team has assembled an exciting season of professional artists to perform for 40 FREE concerts at the Levitt Shell in Falls Park West starting on Friday, June 11 and concluding on Saturday, September 11. The 2021 season, sponsored by Sanford Health, will consist of local, regional and national professional artists offering a variety of genres and musical styles. With 8 different musical series offered (Americana, Women of Song, Country, Garden Fresh, Homegrown, World Music, Rock & Blues and a Family Series), there will be something for everyone. “After a year of tremendous challenges for our community, we are so thrilled to bring news of hope and joy with a return to free, outdoor live music and community building at the Levitt Shell. We are grateful for the

22 out and about |

ET CETERA

support of our many sponsors and donors for investing in the power of live music and our mission,” said Nancy Halverson, Executive Director of Levitt at the Falls. Levitt concerts will be held each Friday and Saturday night of the summer from June 11 - September 11, with Thursday concerts added into the schedule in the months of July and August. Levitt events will include opening acts featuring local performers, a variety of food vendors, and drinks available through JJ’s Wine & Spirits. The lawn will open at 6pm each night with music beginning at 6:30pm. Additionally, Family Series performances for kids and youth groups will be held on four Friday mornings throughout the summer at 10am. The anticipation of the return to the Levitt is building in the community. “Music brings people together and builds community, and so it’s only fitting that the Levitt’s 2021 concert

series would provide the community the opportunity to get back together and enjoy live music after the challenges of the past year. The City is proud to partner with Levitt at the Falls to bring vibrancy, momentum and activity to Falls Park West and to our downtown,” said Mayor Paul TenHaken. Opening night on Friday, June 11 for Levitt at the Falls will feature the 2020 GRAMMYwinning quintet Ranky Tanky, who bring a fresh and inspiring jazz take to the traditional Gullah music of South Carolina. Described by NPR as “lively, soulful, honey to the ears”, the award-winning Ranky Tanky will open the Levitt season with a dynamic, notto-be missed performance. Closing night on Saturday, September 11 will feature Chicago’s LowDown Brass Band – an all horn band which leans heavily on dancehall and street beat rhythm, with the energy of conscious hip hop, jazz, reggae, and soul.

2021 LEVITT AT THE FALLS CONCERT SEASON PRESENTED BY SANFORD HEALTH

Ring of Kerry | July 16

Miss Myra & The Moonshiners | Aug. 26

Nur-D | July 17

Jackie Venson | Aug. 27

Pert Near Sandstone | July 22

Taylor Scott Band | Aug. 28

Southern Avenue | July 23

Tonic Sol-fa | Sept. 3

Wild Earp | July 24

V the Noble One & The Knights Tempo | Sept. 4

The Steel Wheels | July 29 The Foxies | July 30 Esencia Latina Band | July 31

Farewell Angelina | Sept. 10 LowDown Brass Band | Sept. 11

Morning Performances for Youth and Families: 10am on select Fridays

*For the full concert details and artist bios, visit www.levittsiouxfalls.org* Rose Ann Hofland, Director of Communications and Community Engagement, Levitt at the Falls rhofland@levittsiouxfalls.org 605-595-8547 (cell)

etc. for her | June 2021 23

Eliza Tupper Wilkes

Sioux Falls Public Library

Eliza Tupper Wilkes BY WAYNE FANEBUST

he Dakota frontier offered difficult challenges and tempting opportunities to both men and women. The latter were subservient to the husbands and fathers, but women represented something new and daring, if they had talent and determination. Married women were almost always referred to as “Mrs. John Smith” as if they were an extension of their husband, and unable to escape the shadow of the man they married. And yet some women were able to stand out on their own. For example, a woman known only to history as Mrs. Warren Cowles was a very talented artist who sketched and painted scenery in both Vermillion and Sioux Falls. Her artistry was so pure and beautiful that she was actually mentioned in newspaper articles, praising her skills, without having to share the newsprint with her husband, who was a leading

24 out and about |

HISTORY

territorial official. Still there were some things among the many that a pioneer woman could not aspire to: hold political office and preach sermons in church. That was destined to change when Eliza Tupper Wilkes arrived in Sioux Falls, Dakota Territory, in 1878. A native of Holton, Maine, she was born October 8, 1844, the oldest child of Allen and Ellen Tupper. Information about her childhood is sketchy, but it is known that young Eliza fell under the beguiling influence of the Quaker Movement or the Religious Society of Friends, that started in England in the 17th century. The peaceloving Friends encouraged her to study the precepts of the Quaker faith, something she took seriously, and she was ordained as a minister May 2, 1871, in Rochester, Minnesota. It was an achievement that would have been impossible in other

Christian sects that did not believe in the equality of men and women. When the female minister arrived in Sioux Falls, she was accompanied by her husband and attorney William A. Wilkes. They may have been induced to come to Sioux Falls by Eliza’s parents, Allen and Ellen Tupper, who were living in nearby Canton. Allen was a Baptist minister and Ellen gained national recognition as an authority on beekeeping. They were simply elements of a remarkable family until something bad happened. That came in September of 1876, when it was reported in an Iowa newspaper that Ellen S. Tupper had been indicted by a grand jury for forgery and “uttering a false note.” The article teasingly referred to Mrs. Tupper as the “Queen Bee of Iowa.” The outcome of this criminal accusation is unknown to this writer, but it apparently

had no negative effect on Eliza and her husband. The virtuous couple wasted no time in becoming civic leaders in their adopted city. William, an Ohio native, established a law practice and a real state business in Sioux Falls, after having been an attorney in Rochester, Minnesota, and Colorado Springs, Colorado. He was elected to the position of County Judge of Minnehaha County in 1896. While he was active in political and public affairs, it was his wife who took the lead in becoming an innovator and a creative leader. Eliza was a founding member of the Ladies History Club, an organization devoted to promoting and preserving local history. It is known today as the Sioux Falls Women’s Club at its south Phillips Avenue location. Oh, and men are welcome to attend events as well. Pastor Wilkes also devoted her time to a project that made her unpopular with some men, namely the Women’s Christian Temperance Union, a group whose goal was the abolition of alcoholic beverages. She was also instrumental in starting the first public library in Sioux Falls. Eliza and her husband donated $50.00 to the local reading club that she and others created. It was a gesture that ultimately led to the building of the Carnegie Library. Her most remarkable and lasting achievement was the founding of the All

Souls Church that was built at the southeast corner of Dakota Avenue and 12th Street in Sioux Falls. She worked tirelessly to see that the project was funded and constructed. As a preacher, she was known for her devotion to the gospel of her faith, which included the belief that God exists in every person. Pastor Wilkes was also known and respected for her quiet, modest demeanor when she spoke. She was especially popular with young women who saw in her good character, a model for their lives. But the Sioux Falls church was just the beginning. Pastor Wilkes created ten more including Madison, Huron and Miner County in Dakota Territory; Luverne and Adrian, Minnesota, Rock Rapids, Iowa, Colorado Springs, Colorado, and Palo Alto and Alameda, California. In times of good weather, she would travel and conduct services in Luverne, Rock Rapids and Sioux Falls. She was an important ambassador for the All Souls religion. Once referred to as the “Angel of Liberal Evangelism,” she preached sermons that were welcoming, thoughtful and progressive, and seen by believers, as more warm and pacifistic than the older, more conservative forms of faith. Eliza and William were the parents of six children: five boys and one girl. Son Paul, the first born child, was talented too and at age 20, he set out become an

actor. His aunt, Kate Tupper, a university professor, whom Paul met while he was a student, supported him in his quest to perform on stage. Paul also attended an acting school in Chicago, an experience that led to roles in several plays. An acting career, however, was not in his future. He died rather young in 1911. In the early 1890s, the South Dakota pastor went to California, hoping that the climate would improve her health. Eliza continue to build on her reputation as a ground-breaker when in 1895, she became the first woman to give a sermon at the Stanford University chapel. The next several years were spent traveling between California and South Dakota, until 1909 when she retired, at which time, she made California her permanent home. Pastor Eliza Tupper Wilkes died on February 5, 1917, while visiting her daughter in New Jersey. Her cremated remains were returned to Sioux Falls for burial in the family plot at Mount Pleasant Cemetery, where her husband, son Paul and her parents are buried. Her ashes were interred but her grave was unmarked for decades. The grave marker pictured in this article was paid for by the church she helped to found. It was a long time coming and long overdue considering the many worthy contributions to life and learning that she made throughout America.

etc. for her | June 2021 25

recipes 27 Fresh Baked Snickerdoodles

a-list 28 at home 32 The Kelly McMaster Home

man in the kitchen 40 Dad’s Day to Cook

vino 42 Napa Valley Dreamin’

knick knacks of life 44 Inspired by 2021 Graduates

health & well-being 46 Self-care and Mindfulness Benefit the Whole Family

nest

Fresh Baked Snickerdoodles BY JO MCCLURE

Nothing is quite so inviting as the aroma of cookies baking, especially snickerdoodles. Anyone that is a fan of cinnamon would be thrilled with three or four of these cookies and a glass of cold milk on a warm June day.

Snickerdoodles 1/2 cup shortening 1/2 cup margarine 1 1/2 cups sugar 2 eggs 2 3/4 cups flour

2 teaspoons cream of tartar 1 teaspoon soda 1/4 teaspoon salt 2 tablespoons sugar 2 teaspoons cinnamon

Mix shortening, margarine, 1 1/2 cups sugar and eggs thoroughly. Blend flour, cream of tartar, soda and salt and add this to the creamed mixture. Mix 2 tablespoons sugar and 1 teaspoon cinnamon in a small bowl. Shape cookie dough into 1 inch balls and roll in the cinnamon and sugar mixture. Place 2 inches apart on ungreased cookie sheets and bake at 380˚ for 8-10 minutes. Cookies will puff up at first and then flatten as they cool. Makes 5-6 dozen.

etc. for her | June 2021 27

Summer Blooms Discover the beautiful blooms of summer on our new lines arriving weekly. The Dance Line. 2115 S. Minnesota Ave. (605) 335-8242.

Summer Wines Check out our delicious wines for summer and we now carry Brandon Honey! Wilde Prairie Winery. 48052 259th St., Brandon, SD. (605) 582-6471.

Ahoy Matey! Boat shoes for your little mates are the perfect way to kick off the summer! Get yours at Stride Rite. 2425 S. Shirley Ave. (605) 362-7728.

Summer Style Get the hottest in summer styles at a fraction of the price. Brand-name casual & business apparel, footwear & accessories for women. Style Encore. 3812 S. Western Ave. (605) 275-5592.

s k r a p Call Us for Catering! Whether a small party, or the wedding of the year, call us and we will help make your day special with delicious dishes! Bluestem Catering Co. Luverne, MN. (507) 449-7608, bluestemcateringco.com

arts es i t i l i b i They’re Back! poss Actually, Rubik’s Cubes never left! A frustrating and fun favorite since 1974. Get the classic styles and the brand new styles at Kidtopia. East side Dawley Farms location and the Bridges at 57th & Western. (605) 334-4825.

Committed to Excellence When it comes to education, the City of Luverne is committed to excellence. Through the Dollars for Scholars program, thousands of students have been gifted a head start on secondary education, putting the Luverne education system on par with some of the best in the country. Invest in your family by making the move to Luverne. You’ll love the life! For more information, call (507) 449-5033 or visit cityofluverne.org.

Vinnie’s Knot Chore Burger Enjoy this grilled all beef patty on a croissant square topped with homemade BBQ, queso cheese and delicious smoked beef brisket, finished with a bit of fried onions and served with your choice of fries or tots. Definitely KNOT a chose to enjoy! Vinnie’s Dang Fine Dine. 306 W. Hatting St., Luverne, MN. (605) 759-2244.

Amazing Food & Wine Enjoy a wonderful meal of simply amazing food and wine at Sterling’s. Our new menu is out and full of delicious delights. 105 E. Main St., Luverne, MN. (507) 449-0220.

Homemade Pies 7-10 different homemade pies daily! Just like grandma used to make. And you just have to try their famous sour cream raisin pie! Delish! Nothing is finer than 75 Diner! 920 S. Kniss Ave. Luverne, MN. (507) 449-8334.

Rebuild Broken Bonds Go beyond the surface with the only system that rebuilds broken hair bonds... healthy hair and are devoted to developing and maintaining sustainable products. Available at Rainn Salon and Spa. The Bridges at 57th & Western. (605) 521-5099.

So Much to Explore Shiva shells, crystals and so much more can be found at Stacey’s. Stop in the store every day or check out our Farmer’s Market every Saturday through September, weather permitting. Stacey’s Vintage Art Boutique. 27102 Albers Ave. I-29 south to Tea exit 73, then 1/4 mile east. (605) 213-0045.

For Any Occasion Make any occasion more beautiful with great table ware & stemware. Stop by Houndstooth House for all of your food & wine serving needs, from Reidel wine glass to beautiful dishes and servers, we have you covered. With wedding season approaching us, be sure to get registered at Houndstooth House, or pick up a gift for your favorite couple! 201 W. 37th St. (605) 271-2278.

Grease is the Word! Presented by Luverne High School. June 3 -5, June 10-12. Tickets available at the Palace Box Office (507-283-4339) or online at palacetheatre.us. They are $4 - students (up to 12th grade) and $6 - adults. Palace Theatre. Luverne, MN.

Try the Latest Technology Are you on the fence about investing in a new vehicle? Stop by our showroom and have one of our friendly sales consultants show you around! We encourage you to hop in and try all the latest technology and features for yourself. Papik Motors. Luverne, MN and Rock Rapids, IA. www.papik.com

Relaxing & Fun At Juliana’s, you will find a relaxing and fun shopping experience. Next time you stop in, take home a Nest Candle, like this Wild Mint & Eucalyptus scent and create a serene space in your own home. 196 E. 6th St. (605) 271-1824

Nostalgic Environment

Introducing the Class of 2022 VIP Senior Experience!

Travel East on I-90 and take MN exit 5 for a one-of-akind shopping experience! Creekside Antiques features Antiques, Primitives and Collectibles & more.... Bring a carload and browse in a unique, relaxing and nostalgic environment. Open Friday from 1 to 5 and Saturday 10 to 4. (Closed 4th of July weekend & July 23 & 24.). 539 County Road 4, Beaver Creek MN. Follow on Facebook.

We can’t wait to celebrate your senior year with the Local Best Senior Portrait Artist. Professional Hair and Makeup, Free Family Portrait Session and a Free Cap and Gown Session. Plus tons of other perks for our VIPs! We can’t wait to spoil you for your Senior year! We also have a new program for High School Freshman and Sophomores. See our website for more info. Julie Prairie Photography 400 N. Main #203 DTSF Sioux Falls SD. 605.359.6640. julieprairie.com

Vintage Flair Looking to add a little vintage flair to your kitchen? Shop the Nauti Nice booth at I-29 Antiques and you’ll find that special piece you’ve been looking for. I-29 south to Tea exit 73, then 1/4 mile west. Open 7 days a week. (605) 368-5810.

More Color Choices! We have the cabinet colors that you are looking for! Handsome brown tones offer a warm feel combined with versatility in any decor. One of our newest brown tones is Tarragon. Visit our showroom today and ask one of our friendly designers about these new colors from StarMark Cabinetry. Today’s StarMark Custom Cabinetry. 600 E. 48th Street N. (605) 977-3660.

32 nest |

AT HOME

The Kelly McMaster Home BY MARY MICHAELS | PHOTOS BY JULIE PRAIRIE PHOTOGRAPHY

f you look at the Merriam Webster definition of junk, you find phrases like secondhand, worn, or discarded article… something of little meaning, worth, or significance…and old iron, glass, paper, or other waste that may be used again in some form. Kelly McMaster would probably say she subscribes more to that last one, as she has discovered great joy in discovering “junk” that can be used again in some form. McMaster has already had quite the journey in life, starting out as a Minnesota girl who went to college in Orange City, Iowa, then spent 35 years in California before moving to Sioux Falls just 14 months ago. She was trained in social work, she worked in sales and marketing for an assisted living, she experienced a divorce and found herself trying to navigate as a single mom of two sons… and you might say that junk saved her life. One of her first experiences was when she was living in a “white-walled apartment” out in California. She happened to see a blog about cottage living and saw pictures of rooms filled with color, character and vintage décor, and McMaster says she realized, “I have things like that!” She approached the building owner about being able to paint the walls and, after getting the go-ahead, she immediately went for colors like red and blue and apple green and started the transformation process. McMaster had lost her mom to cancer around this time, and she found that pouring herself into her decorating and finding fun items from junk shops and flea markets was therapeutic. And, she says, she wrote to the blogger to thank her for that inspiration. “I had written to her thanking her for giving me that first confidence boost to get up and get going again, knowing my mom wouldn’t want me just sitting around,” McMaster says. “Then, one day, I got a huge surprise when that blogger wrote me back,” McMaster says. “She was so glad that I had wrote to her, and she asked if I’d share some before and after photos with her.”

etc. for her | June 2021 33

After living in that apartment for several years, McMaster received a “tip” on a beach house that was going to be available for rent. It was her son who also lived in California that talked her into it, reminding her she had always wanted to live near the beach. “You think of California, and you think of living on the beach,” she says. “But in Laguna, living on the beach isn’t always affordable. This house had been family owned for years, it was paid for, and they didn’t need to charge a high rent. It never even got listed, because they relied on word-of-mouth to find the right renter.” She knew she wanted to do some work to the place, but the bigger concern was the amount of space – or lack thereof. The house was just 450 square feet. Obviously, the first question was, “Where do I put everything?” What McMaster said she learned was that “stuff is just stuff,” and sometimes living where you want to be is more important than what’s actually inside the house. So, she took time to sort through and keep what she really loved, knowing that the California climate actually allowed her to do a makeover of the yard and extend the living space from inside to outside. Once she had moved in and began to transform the little beach house into her own style, she started an Instagram account where she posted before and after pictures. “I don’t really know how all of these people found me, but they did,” she laughs. “They would comment on how cute something was or a color combination they liked. It was crazy.” That casual Instagram fun led to a magazine shoot for Cottages and Bungalows magazine…and a few more magazine features over the next few years. When a current job McMaster was in just wasn’t feeding her soul anymore, she quit – without a real plan – and just started an online “junk shop” to sell unique things to people who loved the flea market decorating style as much as she had come to love it. Then came another call from Cottages and Bungalows – this time with a job offer.

34 nest |

AT HOME

“It started with a few hours helping them plan issues, and then I was assigned stories and even scouting houses for them. My hours quickly doubled.” When her dad became seriously ill and was moved to a hospital in Sioux Falls, McMaster spent a lot of time flying back and forth. Then, with her two siblings, it was time to make end-of-life decisions for their dad. “It was stressful,” she says. “We had already lost our mom, and now our dad. The magazine had asked me to head up the holiday issue, which was huge. And then, I found out my little beach house was going to be sold. McMaster’s brother was in Minnesota, her sister lived just north of Sioux Falls, and her son and daughter-in-law were in the Minneapolis area. And the question from them was, “Why don’t you move back out here?” So, her sister flew out to California and drove back with her to her new Midwest home…arriving in Sioux Falls just in time for winter. McMaster found a place to rent in the All Saints Neighborhood – a lower level unit in a large early 20th century house that had likely been divided into its four separate living spaces during war time. The house itself still has all of the great characteristics from the early 1900s, such as the beautiful covered porch out front, hard wood floors and gorgeous woodwork inside. Certainly, the climate was a big change for McMaster, causing her to wonder a little bit about the decision she made. But then, she experienced a couple of other bumps in the road. While working on redecorating her new home, she broke her foot. The COVID-19 pandemic hit, causing a furlough from her job with the magazine. Once again, though, she channeled her parents’ spirit to pick herself back up knowing she needed to get back on track. She was now living near Touchmark at All Saints, so she walked over one day to see if they had job opportunities, since she had worked in that field before. As she was preparing her resume and getting ready to

etc. for her | June 2021 35

find a new opportunity, a call came from Cottages and Bungalows. “It was pretty unbelievable,” McMaster says. “It was my former boss saying they were able to bring me back on and, not only that, she wanted me to be assistant editor and head up two separate holiday publications. I went from sitting on my couch feeling sad and not wanting to do anything, to being more than busy and re-invigorated to get out there to hunt for more flea market finds.” McMaster took to Instagram again, asking people in the Sioux Falls for recommendations on where to find good junk, and she quickly had multiple replies and invitations to places to come explore. What she had brought with her from California, she explains, was “little.” “I was in that 450 square foot place,” she says, “and everything I had fit just right in that small place. So, I had small chairs, small tables. But now, I had this bigger space with tall ceilings. I needed things like a couch, drapes, lamps and a dining room table.”

Trinsic® Bath Collection Sleek Elegance of Modern Design.

The Delta® Trinsic® bath collection brings sleek sophistication to the bathroom, infusing both style and functionality into a complete line of fixtures. Shop Frisbees Kitchen and Bath Showroom for this collection and more!

4009 S. Minnesota Ave. • 605-338-6321 • FrisbeesInc.com • Mon-Fri: 7:30am - 6pm / Sat: 8am - 4pm

36 nest |

AT HOME

During one of her excursions to a local spot, she saw an old table just sitting out in the yard. On closer inspection, she discovered it was a vintage folding wallpaper table. She went in and asked the business owner about the table and a possible selling price, expecting for an answer in the hundreds. His response? Five dollars. After discovering the table, even folded, wouldn’t fit in her vehicle, McMaster learned about South Dakota hospitality. “There was another guy there who happened to live somewhat near me and said he would deliver it,” she says. “I couldn’t believe it. Not only that, on the day he brought it over, he carried it in and helped me set it up. I went to pay him the five dollars, and he wasn’t going to take it. I finally convinced him to let me pay him three.” All it took was a little bit of cleaning and sealing the wood top with a coat of clear wax to give the table new life. She added repainted white chairs around the table, along with a long bench that she painted white and recovered with a red and white checked tablecloth.

TODAY IS THE DAY

to start on your kitchen project! Visit the expanded showroom at Today’s StarMark Custom Cabinetry in north Sioux Falls and start your dream kitchen project today. Our friendly design experts will help you discover exactly what you want for your home. IN NORTH SIOUX FALLS 600 E 48TH STREET NORTH SIOUX FALLS SD JUST EAST OF THE AIRPORT DOPPLER BALL MONDAY– FRIDAY 8 –5 SATURDAY AND EVENINGS BY APPOINTMENT T 605.977.3660 / T 800.669.0087 TODAYSSTARMARKCABINETRY.COM 20-21 WINNER

VOTED LOCAL BEST FOR 13 CONSECUTIVE YEARS.

etc. for her | June 2021 37

Tall shutters that she updated with some blue paint stand behind an old, yellow metal shelving unit that is filled with eclectic dishes and glassware. The corner table in the dining room had belonged to her grandma and it’s decorated with a few of the many horse-related accessories in the house that include pictures or statues or even memorabilia from horse shows. “I have ‘best of show’ ribbons without even owning a horse!” The living room features an entire wall of built-in shelves that provide the perfect place for McMaster to showcase her knick-knacks, tchotchkes and treasures – books, clocks, ceramic lady heads, coffee cans (turned into planters), old toys and a pair of roosters that came from her grandmother’s lake cabin. “Those roosters are probably 90 years old,” McMaster says. “So much of what I have either came from my mom, my

38 nest |

AT HOME

grandmother or flea markets.” The furnishings in the room vary from a small floral chair to a larger side chair in a red and white stripe print. A more modern sofa in a neutral color provides a backdrop for colorful pillows that can be changed out with the seasons. A little white desk sits in one corner with a vintage typewriter on top. McMaster says that little desk was one of the first flea market finds she bought for herself after her divorce. “I just love the flea market style,” she says. “I love the colors, the variety and even the imperfections that give each piece its own identity. You don’t have to stress about everything being perfect. If something has a chip? That’s okay. If paint is wearing off? So what. You have the freedom to just find things you love.” The kitchen has a farmhouse feel with its white cupboards and butcher block countertops, along with whimsical touches

like antique spice tins, an old candy scale and vintage food boxes flattened and hung on the wall. She also has her grandma’s aprons hanging on a rack. Her space also features two bedrooms, the master bedroom and a guest room. She refers back to that first cottage blog she read back in California for some of the inspiration for her bedroom, recalling the pictures of a room in vibrant yellow. McMaster found bright gold drapes with a pom pom border, along with bedding that incorporates a little gold along with a striped bedspread. Piles of pillows add colors, florals and plaids. An old dress form in the corner proudly displays old jewelry, more “best in show” ribbons and even a metal crown. The guest room is also bright and cheery with a collection of embroidered and pom pom-adorned pillows on the bed and an eclectic collection of prints on the

wall from Shirley Temple and horses to an old movie poster with vintage tickets and an old Wrigley gum wrapper tucked into the frame. Life continues to evolve and change for McMaster, who talks about this “new season” that she is now entering. There are ups and downs, she says, and it’s important to lean into the things – and the people – that you love. After 14 years of companionships, McMaster had to say goodbye to her maltipoo Molly, which still has a profound impact on her. On the “up” side, however, after covering for her boss and another person during their maternity leaves, McMaster’s boss called to ask her to take over her role as editor of the magazine. “I have a whole new career now that all started with my love of junk, moving into that beach house and getting connected to Cottages and Bungalows just because of my casual Instagram posts,” she says. “When I

was out in California, I never thought, ‘Oh, I want to be in a magazine,” or even thought I would work for a magazine. I was a social worker and felt the value of that service to others, but still, there was this longing that maybe I had a different mission in my life. But, I never saw this coming.” Now, her work allows her the flexibility to work from anywhere. She can go visit her son and her friends in California and spend time working from there. She can travel to the Twin Cities to see her other son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter. Or, she can work from her couch where she can watch out the windows to the little spots she has created for birds and squirrels. With the weather finally warming up – much appreciated for this former Californian – she can also sit out on the porch swing and watch as activity picks up in her neighborhood. She can sit there by Mr. Owl, a connection to her time in Laguna.

“When I moved to the beach house,” she says, “this old owl was sitting on top of a pole at the house. I actually felt a little sad to leave him when I was moving here to Sioux Falls, and I had mentioned that to the new owners who bought that house. One day, a box showed up here. I opened it, and there was Mr. Owl. They sent him to me!” Whether it’s debating about a job or trying to choose a paint color for your house, McMaster believes in the power of listening to your inner voice and going with your heart. “There is where you are and where you want to be, and there’s a space between the two. I have learned you can’t loiter in that gap. You have to keep moving, do what you love and do what you feel called to do.” If you’d like to keep up with McMaster’s flea market finds, you can follow @ cottagefleabythesea on Instagram.

etc. for her | June 2021 39

Dad’s Day to Cook BY JIM MATHIS

hen I was growing up, Mom ruled the kitchen, but when it was time to cook outside, Dad took over. Whether he was grilling burgers at home or cooking breakfast over a campfire, Dad showed me how to roll up my sleeves and get to work over an open flame. While I learned a lot of my cooking skills from Mom, Dad was the person who taught me how to grill. Perhaps there is a genetic connection beyond my father, too. My grandfather on my mother’s side was a barbeque guy. I remember going to his house in the Highland Park neighborhood in Des Moines for a Sunday afternoon dinner of barbequed ribs. And this wasn’t just a summer delicacy; he had a wood-fired barbeque in the basement of their old house. I was young enough at the time that I didn’t question the safety issues of an indoor barbeque, but looking back, it’s a small miracle that we didn’t all die of carbon monoxide poisoning. Despite the safety issues, the smoked pork he would produce was legendary. Only a grandfather would put

40 nest |

MAN IN THE KITCHEN

the health and safety of his family in jeopardy to produce those succulent ribs. But it was my own father who showed me how to light a charcoal grill and start a campfire. He spent the last several years of his life in a condo where he could only use gas or electric grills, but he still loved to cook a steak in the great outdoors. And he passed that passion on to me. On Mother’s Day, it is traditional to pamper your mom; serve her breakfast in bed and treat her to a dinner out. But for Father’s Day, I think most dads want a big, juicy steak. And he wants to cook it himself. Mom and the kids can be in charge of salads, side dishes and desserts. Dad will cook the meat. Your dad (or husband) may be different than me, so feel free to adjust the menu as needed, but here’s what I would want for Father’s Day. Let’s start with the beef. This is not the day to worry about dad’s health; give him a steak that is a little bigger than he

needs. I’m thinking a 16-ounce, dry-aged Angus ribeye sounds like a good place to start. If you want something smaller for yourself, ask the butcher for a filet that is about the same thickness. Even though they are different cuts, they will cook in about the same time. I like to season my beef a little. Simple salt and pepper is good, but in my mind, a little bolder is better. You could try a Montreal style seasoning which you can buy from the butcher or the grocery store or mix a little of your own spices to kick it up a little bit more, after all it is Father’s Day and he deserves it. Here’s a simple steak rub that I like. Steak Rub: 1 1/2 tablespoons Kosher salt 1 1/2 tablespoons brown sugar 1 tablespoon fresh cracked black pepper 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika 1/2 teaspoon garlic powder 1/4 teaspoon cayenne Mix it up and rub it on both sides of the steaks. This is enough for about four steaks. The sugar will help make a nice crust when the steaks are fired, the pepper, paprika and cayenne will give it a nice little kick.

On Mother’s Day, it is traditional to pamper your mom; serve her breakfast in bed and treat her to a dinner out. But for Father’s Day, I think most dads want a big, juicy steak. And he wants to cook it himself. About an hour before dinner time, dust off a lawn chair, turn on the garage radio and crank up his favorite music or tune in to a baseball game (or a ºß race if he is so inclined). Then with a couple of cold beers or gin and tonics in hand, send Dad out to light the grill. This is his time to relax. The dog may want to play fetch or the kids may want to play tag, but make sure he has time to make a good fire, sit and reflect, just the way his father and his father’s father did. And make sure his son has a chance to learn from the Master. It is his day. Let him cook. Do yourself a favor, eat something good today. Just like his father, Jim has made his career in advertising. And like his father, he loves to obsess over grilled meats.

201 W 37th Street, Sioux Falls, SD 57105 605.271.2278 info@houndstoothhouse.com Store Hours Monday-Friday: 10-5 If our hours don’t work with your busy schedule, call us to set up a time that works for you!

etc. for her | June 2021 41

42 nest |

VINO

Napa Valley Dreamin’ BY RICCARDO TARABELSI

ive years ago, I woke from a deep sleep, confused and disoriented. I quickly realized that this is what always happens to me the first night I sleep at a hotel. I looked over at my sleeping wife who was as tranquil as a lake in the middle of the summer. Still somewhat startled in the darkness of the night, I walked over to our hotel room doors that led out to our deck. I stepped outside for some fresh air and inhaled deeply; I was intently aware of my breathing. I had the knowledge that with each breath I took, I was drinking in Napa Valley air, the same air that blankets some of the most sought-after grapes in the entire country. At this point, I was fully awake, but it felt like a dream. As a former wine distributor, I had traveled to Sonoma a few times, but three years ago was my first time in Napa Valley. I had always heard that Napa was too commercialized and not as quaint and friendly as other wine regions in California. After spending four days in Yountville with great friends who hosted us, I can tell you, with complete confidence, there is no other place like it on the planet. First stop, Bouchon. In October 1998, four years after his successful debut in Napa Valley with The French Laundry, Chef Thomas Keller introduced Bouchon, offering authentic French bistro fare with Keller’s unfailing attention to detail in both ingredients and presentation. There are many things about this restaurant that are intriguing, from the antique light fixtures and the mosaic floor to the hand-painted mural. Upon arriving at my seat, I looked down to find a delicate piece of brown paper that unfolded like a simple origami square into Bouchon’s menu. The Keller touch here is unmistakable. Since its opening, Bouchon has consistently received the highest of accolades from both the food industry and international press. The restaurant has been awarded a one-star rating from the France-based Michelin Guide San Francisco, Bay Area & Wine Country, a three-and-a-half star rating from the Santa Rosa Press Democrat, as well as a three star rating from the San Francisco Chronicle. It’s a one-of-akind experience meant to be savored, and savor it we did. From the steamed mussels, to the fresh array of oysters, to the steak frites, the carafes of fine Cabernet Sauvignon from Napa Valley complemented our meals extraordinarily well. No trip to Napa Valley would be complete without a stop at Jessup Cellars tasting room, on the north end of Washington Street in Yountville. Calling it a “stop” seems inappropriate. Let’s call it a “stay” at the tasting room. Jessup Cellars offers a complete wine tasting experience, meaning, it’s not just about sipping on some really well-made wine. It’s about pairing selections with artisanal cheeses and nuts. It’s about wine education. It’s about

vine education. But it’s really about people. Jessup Cellars has one of the most knowledgeable and friendly teams in the business. By the end of our “stay,” we were hugging staff members like we were saying goodbye to relatives that were leaving too soon. As reluctant as we were to leave, especially after tasting through Jessup Cellars Pinot Noir, Zinfandel, Merlot, Cabernet, Table for Four, and Juel, it was time for our next culinary encounter at one of the most charming places in Yountville. As we entered Bistro Jeanty, we were greeted by a jovial man by the name of Roger. Roger’s mission is simple: he loves taking care of people. It was evident by his constant smile and swiftness in his movements that this man lives to serve. The chef and owner, Phillippe Jeanty, was born in the Champagne region of France and grew up around agricultural influences that surround the rural communities that grow and make champagne like Moët & Chandon. After moving to California in 1977, Chef Jeanty made a name for himself over the years, and opened Bistro Jeanty in 1998. Their tag line is the following, “In every day French life, it is the Bistro that is woven into the daily pattern of meals and celebrations. The Bistro is that little neighborhood restaurant where they know who you are, greet you warmly, and serve you satisfying foods that change with the seasons and define regional homey French cuisine.” I couldn’t agree more. The Pinot Noir we drank that night was a perfect pairing with my salmon, but the service is what kept me engaged in the atmosphere of the restaurant. Couple all of this with incredible company with whom to share the experience, and I again felt like I was dreaming. Add in properties like Bottega, Addendum, Pancha’s (a can’tmiss destination dive bar in Yountville, sitting between high-end tasting rooms and Michelin star restaurants) and an intimate farmhouse experience hosted by Handwritten Wines, I urge you to find a way to get to Napa Valley. Earning the unofficial title of “Culinary Capital of the Napa Valley,” Yountville is that great escape you’ve been looking for. And for an extra special treat, call Jessup Cellars beforehand at (707) 944-5620 to book a tasting and tell them you’re from South Dakota. You won’t be sorry. In fact, Jessup Cellars refers to South Dakotans as the “605s,” a term of endearment for all of their South Dakota friends. Start planning and get to the Napa Valley. Your dream awaits. Riccardo and his wife Marybeth are the owners of R Wine Bar & Kitchen on the East Bank of Downtown Sioux Falls where they serve many exquisite wines from the Napa Valley. Riccardo will be celebrating Father’s Day with Marybeth, and their three sons, Dante, Berent, and Jaxon. Contact Riccardo at riccardo@rwinebar.com.

etc. for her | June 2021 43

Inspired by 2021 Graduates BY LURA ROTI

hen Sir Edward Elgar composed “Pomp and Circumstance”, I wonder if he had any idea of the emotions his piece would evoke. As one of the many graduates who received her diplomas to this ceremonious tune, every time I hear it, I am overcome with memories. Graduation is a momentous occasion. And 2021 graduates have a lot to celebrate. In addition to their degrees, they overcame unprecedented obstacles, figured out creative ways to live their new normal and discovered how to stay connected with those they love and care about. These 2021 graduates inspire me. In February, I began working on an “In Their Own Words” series for South Dakota Public Broadcasting, where I interviewed high school seniors from across the state to learn about them and how this pandemic has impacted their senior year. Working with an amazing sound engineer, Steve Munsen, I interviewed students via Zoom. And the mature thoughts they shared with me, not only gave me quite a bit to think about, but made me quite optimistic for our future. Let me share a few of their thoughts with you. “Treat every day like we’re going to get school called off again.” Carlee Hetland, 2021 Roosevelt Graduate It’s amazing what you can learn from 18-year-olds. Because of the pandemic, most of the students shared that they gained a new-found appreciation for living in the moment and not taking activities or time with others for granted. When Carlee Hetland shared this with me during my first interview, I was in the midst of remote schooling our daughter, Parker, and had a bad attitude about juggling my workload while at the same time teaming up with my husband to help school her. After this conversation, I began to remind myself that this was a fleeting moment in my parenting career, and I needed to find the good to be thankful for. “We lost our homecoming football game. We didn’t get to watch our boys and support the boys and our senior boys didn’t have the chance to play in that game because our opponent got COVID and couldn’t come play. So, it’s just things like that that are really eye-opening.” Holli Jark, 2021 Warner High Graduate While adults were bickering about mask mandates, high school seniors I interviewed were encouraging their teammates to keep

44 nest |

KNICK KNACKS OF LIFE

up with CDC protocols, so they could keep their team healthy and not miss out on games due to quarantine. In fact, it was an interview with Warner senior and volleyball player Holli Jark, that inspired this series in the first place. I was struck by the commonsense way she and her teammates approached tough decisions, like staying home from large Thanksgiving family gatherings because they knew their volleyball team had a shot at making it to state. And they did. Their team placed second. “Growing up as Lakota, it’s taught in our ceremonies throughout our entire lives, that you need to make sacrifices for people, for your people, especially in times of need, like this pandemic and my sacrifice is staying home to protect my community.” Summer Romero, 2021 Todd County High School Graduate Another athlete I interviewed, Summer Romero gave up all sports, including rodeo because she did not want to bring COVID home to her younger brother who is high risk if he contracts the virus. With her family’s safety in mind, Summer instead poured her energy into her passion for training horses while remote schooling. Now that she is vaccinated, this graduate is back on the rodeo circuit before heading to Colorado State University to pursue her dream of becoming a veterinarian. Because these senior girls clearly understood why they were being careful, they were able to make tough decisions where COVID was concerned. After talking with these teens, I sat down and re-evaluated my goals. Now that I’m vaccinated, I have done it a second time. Today, catching up with friends and family is our top priority. If I have to choose between a house or yard project and getting together with friends or family, friends and family will win out every time this summer. Another 2021 graduate who inspired me this spring is my younger brother, Wayne Robison. Before he even graduated high school, he began his first career in the racehorse industry training and riding horses— he even rode as a jockey for a time. By 30, the work had taken a toll on his body. So, he began taking steps toward his second career and May 2021, with his wife and 10-month-old daughter by his side, he received his Doctor of Veterinary Medicine (D.V.M.) from Iowa State University. He has already begun his new career as a veterinarian in a small animal clinic in Bellevue, Neb. It’s not easy to start over. But he did. And today, if you ask him what he is most excited about, it is not his D.V.M. It’s his family. During his graduation party, I asked him to pose by his cake for a photo. He was holding his sleeping baby daughter. I said, “Wow, what a great party.” And his response was, “Isn’t she amazing?” I have a lot planned for 2021. I am trying to make up for all we missed in 2020. But thanks to these graduates, I am inspired to relish each moment and the people I get to spend them with.

etc. for her | June 2021 45

One of the biggest gifts you can give your child is a safe, calm, nurturing, responsive and secure relationship

46 nest |

HEALTH & WELL-BEING

Self-care and Mindfulness Benefit the Whole Family BY SANFORD HEALTH

Is your relationship with your child always calm, nurturing, safe, secure and responsive? If not, try more mindfulness and self-care.

s a parent, your job is stressful. Do you feel rushed for time to get children fed, dressed and out the door? When your child is “acting up,” how do you remain calm? Is it easier to be patient some days than others? Taking time to fill your own cup helps you cope with the challenges that come along with parenting. Children can feel when parents are tense and overwhelmed. Does your child’s behavior get worse or better when you are in a stressful state? Being a responsive or mindful parent means learning to manage your own stress. Mindfulness helps you become a source of stability and security for your child’s storms.

Taking Care of Yourself Benefits Everyone Finding ways to nurture yourself, calm down and respond patiently and kindly, helps not only you, but your child. Your child will respond to your calmness by thinking: “OK, I can trust my parent to be in control, this is a safe environment.” Children who feel safe, develop better. They are more curious and willing to explore. One of the biggest gifts you can give your child is a safe, calm, nurturing, responsive and secure relationship. Your child needs this in order to thrive. When you feel better, your child feels better.

What are some new ideas to try to reduce your stress? • Develop your own nurturing self-care routine – breathe, bathe, nourish, move and sleep. • Reach out to a friend – talking helps. • Sprinkle self-care throughout your day.

Top Five Tips to Stay Mindful as a Parent 1. Really listen – It’s easy to let the focus stay on our own goals when interacting with our children. Instead focus on

what your child is really trying to say. Pay full attention to verbal and non-verbal cues. 2. A ccept yourself and your child’s feelings – Acknowledgment of all feelings, even the negative ones, is crucial. If you can accept a feeling without being overwhelmed by it, you can RESPOND with patience, rather than REACT out of frustration and anger. 3. Show empathy – Imagine how your child might be feeling during a difficult moment. If your child is upset, how can you respond in ways that acknowledge they are upset, but also show love and limits? 4. Pause and breathe – How do you manage your own feelings and reactions in the midst of a baby’s crying or a toddler’s defiance? The first thing to do is…nothing! P-A-US-E. Pause for a moment and take a few deep breaths. This helps calm the body and clear the mind. 5. Show compassion – Instead of judging and blaming ourselves or our child, we can stop to realize that everyone struggles and these feelings are normal. Self-compassion means recognizing that parenting is a process of learning what works and what doesn’t. Be kind to yourself. Remember, being present with yourself and your self-care needs is just as important as meeting the needs of your child. Mindfulness helps us to create a calm, safe, responsive, nurturing and secure relationship. This is the key foundation to early learning and success. Mindfulness matters.

etc. for her | June 2021 47

GRAB & GO

Buying your first new vehicle CAN be nerve-wracking, but not at Papik Motors. We take the time to understand your needs and concerns, and work hard to find you the best vehicle within your budget.

Stop in T O D AY !

M O N D A Y- F R I D A Y 6:30AM-6:30PM S AT U R D AY 8:00AM-3:00PM • HO T C O F F EE • CO L D B EVER AGE S • HO T B R EAK FAS T

CALL US FOR

Catering!

That newg cfaorr is waitin

• LUN C H S PEC IA L S • TA K E & B A K E M E A L S 602 E MAIN ST. • LUVERNE, MINNESOTA USE SOUTH ENTRANCE

Visit us in Luverne or Rock Rapids Or, browse wwwpapik.com

We Make it Easy!

Luverne, MN • 507-283-9171 Rock Rapids, IA • 712-472-2595

It’s a

good city

to retire.

I wouldn’t move

any other place.

Mary Lutmer Retired

Whether you’re a busy professional or a social retiree, the city of Luverne has a lot to offer and is a community you can be proud to call home. Friendly people, a thriving social atmosphere, and a healthy economy make up the heartbeat of Luverne; come see for yourself. You’ll love the life! For more information, call 507.449.5033 or visit cityofluverne.org.

smell you!

www.luvernechamber.com • www.cityofluverne.org • (888) 283-4061

We’re Open! Masks and Social Distancing Required

Upcoming Events: “Best Burgers West of the Rock River” WINNER OF: ty Rock Coun

2020 le Burger Batt ve Lo e W 2020 nge Pork Challe 2021 Chili Cookoff

Hours: Mon & Tues: 9am - 2pm Wed - Fri: 9am - 2pm & 5pm - 8pm Sat: 11am - 2pm | Sun: Closed

306 W. Hatting Street | Luverne, MN (605) 759-2244

• Movies - on most weekends without live performances • “Grease” presented by Luverne High School - June 3-5, 10-12 • Comedian, Aubrey Sweeney - June 19 • “The Game’s Afoot” presented by the Green Earth Players August 20-22, 26-29

(507) 283-4339 | 104 E Main Street in Luverne Check back often for the latest updates! www.palacetheatre.us @ palacetheatreluv

@ palaceluverne

Nothing is Finer than 75 Diner!

Simply Amazing FOOD & WINE

Try Our Famous am Sour Cre ie! P in Rais

Breakfast All Day! Daily Lunch Specials! 920 S. Kniss Avenue www.75diner.com | 507-449-8334

COME TASTE OUR

NEW MENU!

Tues-Thurs: 11am-2pm • 4:30-10pm • Bar Menu at 9pm Friday: 11am-2pm • 4:30-11pm • Bar Menu at 10pm Saturday: 11am-11pm • Bar Menu at 10pm Sunday & Monday: Closed

CALL FOR RESERVATIONS! 105 E. MAIN ST., LUVERNE, MN. (507) 449-0220

friends & family

parenting & pregnancy 52

What Moms Need to Know About the Postpartum Period

for kids 54 Outdoor Summer Crafts best friends 58

Hot Weather Safety Tips for Dogs & Cats

best friends 60 Submit Your Pet’s Photo cute kids 62 Submit Your Child’s Photo best books 64

What Moms Need to Know About the Postpartum Period BY AVERA WOMEN’S HEALTH TEAM/PREGNANCY AND BIRTH

The blessing of a newborn baby is reason to celebrate, but some new moms may not realize the physical conditions that can accompany childbirth. Even in a normal delivery, a woman’s body experiences a certain degree of trauma, which can lead to a number of treatable postpartum conditions: • Urinary issues and infection • Painful vaginal tears and injuries • Breast infection (mastitis) as well as other breastfeeding difficulties “One main idea all moms-to-be should realize is that their pregnancy and birth is unique – it’s not going to be like your best friend’s, your mom’s or your aunt’s delivery,” said Jacob Thomas, MD, Avera Medical Group OB/GYN specialist. If troublesome symptoms occur, don’t hesitate to contact your provider. “You don’t have to wait until your follow-up appointment,” Thomas added. For example, a urinary tract infection happens in an estimated 2 to 4% of all deliveries. This can leave you with symptoms such as painful urination, cloudy or foul-smelling urine or difficulty

52 friends & family |

PARENTING & PREGNANCY

emptying your bladder. But it can be quickly resolved with antibiotics. “It’s important to recognize and report symptoms like this right away, so we can get you on track to feeling better sooner than later,” Thomas said.

Understanding the “Fourth Trimester” The months after your child’s birth, sometimes called the fourth trimester, are often spent getting to know your baby, but after-birth care for moms is important. While the term “postpartum” often focuses on behavioral health and issues related to depression and anxiety, pregnant women and new moms should not overlook the physical realities of this time after delivery. “Big changes come to a woman’s body when she gives birth, and postpartum wellness should be a big part of the care she receives,” said Avera Medical Group Urogynecologist Matthew Barker, MD. “If there are injuries or complications, we need to identify and treat them early, so they can get back to normal in a timely manner. Some of these problems show up right away, and others do not.” New moms who deliver by C-section usually have follow-up

appointments about two weeks after delivery. That timeline is the same for patients who have more-severe tears during vaginal births. Women who experienced a vaginal delivery without complications often see their OB provider about six weeks after the baby is born. But pain or other symptoms can be ongoing – even after these early follow-up appointments.

Specialized Help for Postpartum Symptoms Postpartum trauma should be addressed within the first few weeks after delivery. One in 10 women experience pelvic floor symptoms in the first six months after pregnancy and delivery. A specialized Postpartum Wellness Program at Avera Medical Group Urogynecology can identify and treat ongoing pelvic floor disorders and helps women prevent more serious symptoms. This clinic provides care for symptoms including: • Wound breakdown • Accidental loss of gas and stool • Urinary incontinence • Third- and fourth-degree obstetrical tears • Obstetrical fistulas • Postpartum urinary retention • Pain with intercourse • Pelvic pain Evaluation through the Postpartum Wellness Program provides access to a variety of specialists including a fellowship-trained urogynecologist, colorectal surgeon, pelvic floor physical therapists, wound care specialists, women’s health psychologist, and sexual therapist. “We will assess healing and the function of various systems in that part of a patient’s body, and it could include CT or MRI imaging if needed,” said Barker. Treatments may include physical therapy, dietary recommendations, medications, specialized wound care or surgical intervention.

SUMMER,

y a P e W h CforasYour

Women’s Styles!

3812 S Western Avenue | Sioux Falls 605.275.5592 | style-encoresiouxfalls.com

! e T i m n Su

Postpartum Care and Breastfeeding Educating moms on the basics of latching on and positioning can help them when it comes to breastfeeding their newborns. Among breastfeeding complications are swelling, redness or a breast infection (known as mastitis). “An important point is that moms keep feeding with the affected breast, as that can actually help to reduce these conditions,” said Thomas. He said creams as well as physiotherapy might be prescribed to address these issues. Avera also offers specialists who can help moms who have concerns. Thomas stressed that good communication with your provider up to – and past – delivery will help you get answers quickly. If you are having any issues, call your OB provider or your primary care provider to discuss any questions you have.

2425 S. Shirley Avenue | 362-7728

etc. for her | June 2021 53

s t f a r C r e m m u S Outdoor BY JESS WEISCHEDEL

Mason Jar Lanterns

Materials: Glue, food coloring, wide-mouth mason jars (save the lids for the next craft!), tea-lights, a plate, and a paintbrush. Pour about 1 tablespoon of glue onto a plate. Mix 3-4 drops of food coloring in your choice of color with the glue, until it makes a desirable shade for your lantern. Paint the outside of the mason jar, making sure to hold it by the opening so you don’t get food coloring on your fingers. Let the mason jars dry, then set them outside and light your tealight for a beautiful deck decoration. Feel free to add some glitter or other decorations to the mason jar, and use multiple colors for various effects.

54 friends & family |

FOR KIDS

! e m i t r e Summ

Getting kids to put down their electronics and play outside is a no-brainer when your backyard contains a slackline!

WE HAVE THE BESTEST TOYS EVER!

Dawley Farms: Mon – Sat 10–8 • Sun 12–6 Bridges at 57th: Mon – Fri 10–8 • Sat 10–6 • Sun 12–4

2115 S. Minnesota Ave. (605) 335 -8242

m o o l B ARE IN!

The Dance Line, Inc.

New r e m m Su s

Activewear, Shoes, Accessories

for your little peeps!

Painted Story Rocks

Materials: A collection of flat rocks, paint, and small paintbrushes. Help your kids tell their own stories by creating story rocks with different themes. For this craft, we went for a theme of the sea. Think of various elements you can use to help tell a story, and paint them on to some flat rocks you might find on a walk, or in your backyard. Let the rocks dry, then encourage your kids to tell stories using the various characters and elements they see on the rocks. Note: If you find that paint and paintbrushes are too difficult for some of the rocks, there are also nifty paint markers available for smaller details and for painting your storytelling pictures.

(605) 335-8242 • thedancelineinc.com

Monday-Friday 10-5 • Saturday 10-2 • Closed Sun

etc. for her | June 2021 55

Brilliant Butterfly Feeder

Materials: Colored paper, toilet paper roll, straw, pipe cleaner, string, pom poms in bright colors, scissors, hole punch, glue, Scotch tape, packaging tape, wide mason jar lids, paper dixie cups, sugar and water, a ripe banana, and half of an orange or lemon. (For the base of this feeder, you can use a variety of recycled materials that have a similar shape. For this particular one, we used the lids from our mason jar lantern craft, and the bottoms of some dixie cups. However, plastic milk jug lids and part of the jug would work, or other items too. Think outside the box!) Wrap the toilet paper roll in your choice of colored paper, and glue in place. Once dry, punch a hole about 1.5 inches down from the top of the paper roll on opposite sides, so that you can push the straw through both holes. Cut petals out from colored paper in your choice of color, then place them onto a strip of Scotch tape. Tape the petals around the paper roll, about 2 inches from the bottom, then repeat this step and tape it around the base. Peel the petals down to create the look of a flower. Using packaging tape, cover and secure 3 wide mason jar lids together to form a base for your butterfly feeder, layering just the outside edges of the lids at the middle of your base. Use packaging tape to adhere the paper roll to the base. Next, cut the bottoms from 6-7 paper dixie cups, enough to create a circle around your paper roll, on top of the base. Tape or glue these together, and secure to the base with packaging tape. Secure the pipe cleaner onto each end of your straw, forming an arch that will allow for hanging the feeder. Tie a string to the top of the pipe cleaner arch, then add the piece of lemon or orange to the top of the paper roll opening. Add pom poms in bright colors to each of the dixie cup bottoms. Add some ripe, mashed banana to the top of the fruit, and around the pom poms in the cups, creating what look like little pastries for the butterflies to enjoy. Next, make your sugar water by boiling 1 part sugar to 4 parts water. Let cool, then add to each dixie cup, letting the pom poms soak it up. The butterflies will love this delicious treat!

56 friends & family |

FOR KIDS

Homemade Kite

Materials: Colored paper, lightweight ribbon or streamers, black marker, straw or bamboo skewer, string, hole punch, tape, and a large popsicle craft stick. This kite is so simple and works wonderfully! First, fold one sheet of colored paper in half. Next, mark about 1 inch from the top fold, and 1 inch from the bottom on the opposite side. Draw a line to connect them. Fold the top layer so that the crease mark is on the line you drew. It should be at an angle. Turn the kite over, and fold the top down to match the crease you just made. Flip the kite back over, and place a long strip of tape on the fold, connecting the two front flaps. Secure a straw or skewer across the top of the kite, taping it down from corner to corner. Turn the kite over, and mark with a black marker about 2 inches from the top, and about .5 inch down from the middle fold. Punch a hole at this mark. Turn the kite over again, and tape some ribbon or streamers at the bottom of the kite. Taking some long string, wrap it around a large craft stick. This will be where the extra string is kept while flying the kite. Next, tie the other end of the long string to the hole you punched. Now you have a cute, homemade kite to fly on a breezy day!

etc. for her | June 2021 57

Hot Weather Safety Tips for Dogs & Cats P

ale-coloured dogs and cats are vulnerable to sunburn; particularly their ears, noses and sparsely haired areas. Sun damage can lead to skin cancer which may require extensive surgery – even amputation in severe cases. The best prevention is to keep your pet indoors when the sun is strongest, between 11am and 3pm. Alternatively, cover vulnerable areas, or regularly apply a sunblock product specifically for pets that doesn’t contain zinc oxide or PABA. Seek prompt veterinary advice if your dog or cat’s skin looks sore, crusty or scaly. Your pet needs access to clean water at all times, ideally in a large bowl filled to the brim. Older animals, particularly cats, are

vulnerable to dehydration. Don’t forget your dog needs fresh water if you’re at the beach – drinking seawater is likely to make your dog ill. Grooming is important, especially for longhaired animals. A tangle-free coat will protect your pet’s delicate skin and keep them cool. Some animals may need their coats trimmed – seek advice from a professional groomer.

Dogs in Hot Cars Dogs succumb to heatstroke quickly. They cannot sweat in the same way that people can and cannot keep cool as easily as we can. Never leave a dog in a hot car, even for a moment. “Not long” is too long.

the best

10 lbs.

you’ll ever gain.

adopt today. www.sfhumanesociety.com | 605.338.4441 | 3720 East Benson Road

58 friends & family |

BEST FRIENDS

es | logos d more

Never leave a dog in a hot car, even for a moment. “Not long” is too long. you may need to defend your actions in a court. Call the police using 911 and tell them what you intend to do and why. Take pictures and/or videos of the dog in distress and the names and phone numbers of witnesses. If you see a dog in distress inside a car, official advice is to dial 999 immediately and ask for the police. A dog in distress in a hot car is an emergency and the police will advise you what to do based on the situation. Depending on the severity of the situation, the police may attend and break into the car to gain access to the dog, or they may advise you to do this. If you decide to break into a car without proper justification, this could be classed as criminal damage and

Heatstroke in Pets Animals can suffer fatal heatstroke within minutes. Never leave your dog (or any pet) alone in a car – even with the windows open, and avoid exercising during the heat of the day. Signs of heatstroke include collapse, excessive panting, and dribbling. If you suspect your animal is suffering, remove him to a cool place, wet his coat and contact a vet immediately. Avoid overcooling, especially small pets.

@thosetempletoncorgis

thank you

for supporting

local business

JUNE HAS GONE TO THE DOGS

(605) 376-7430 | jp.design@midco.net www.DesignLoftSD.com Over 20 Years of Graphic Design Experience

with a special beer release and events to support Dakota Dachshund Rescue and the Sioux Falls Area Humane Society! Dog-friendly taproom with water bowls + treats 701 N Phillips Ave • Next to Falls Park

Visit severancebeer.com/events for details! etc. for her | June 2021 59

Each month we will choose and feature cute pets. Your pet could be next, so send in a picture today. Email your photo – just one per pet – to etc.mag@sio.midco.net. Please make sure they are high-resolution photos (the highest setting on your camera). Include in email: pet’s name and owner’s name. Pet owners must own the rights to all submitted photos.

Remy, best friend of Riley Musil

Bauzer best friend of Courtney Russenberger

60 friends & family |

BEST FRIENDS

Ash, best friend of Courtney Russenberger

Belle, best friend of Dallas Jopling

Harriet, best friend of Rochelle Pierson

Sierra, best friend of DJ Buthe

Nala, best friend of Riley Musil

Jonathon, best friend of Jenn & Casey Efting

POSITIVE

IMPACT Schulte Subaru received a

DISABILITY FRIENDLY RECOGNITION PROGRAM AWARD from Business Resource Network and the Sioux Falls Disability Awareness and Accessibility Review Board.

THINK SUBARU! Pictured in back L-R are Sarah Jo Jorgensen, Disability Awareness and Accessibility Review Board, Sarah and Mike Schulte, owners; front, Vicki Stewart, Business Resource Network.

BE SAFE

STAY POSITIVE

BE KIND

etc. for her | June 2021 61

Anna Lilly

Miya :: 6 MONTHS

:: 2 MONTHS

Savannah

:: 3 YEARS

EACH MONTH WE WILL CHOOSE & FEATURE NEW CUTE KIDS. YOUR CHILD COULD BE NEXT, SO SEND YOUR PHOTO TODAY. Email your photo to etc.mag@sio.midco.net – just one per child. Please include the following information in your email: child’s first name, age, birth date, parents or guardians names, address, email address and phone number. Please make sure they are high-resolution photos (the highest setting on your camera). Parents must own the rights to all submitted photos.

Email your photo to etc.mag@sio.midco.net

Shay :: 2 YEARS

Mae Taryn with

Sydney

:: 8 YEARS

:: 2 YEARS

Taziah & Taliyah :: 13 & 3

YE A R S

Best

Books

THESE ARE JUST SOME OF THE WONDERFUL BOOKS FOR CHILDREN WE HAVE COME ACROSS THIS MONTH. WE HOPE TO SHARE WITH YOU SOME YOU HAVE NOT SEEN BEFORE AND ALSO INTRODUCE OTHERS BEING RELEASED IN THE NEAR FUTURE. ENJOY.

Bears at the Beach by Shirley Parenteau Whee! Yellow and Fuzzy lift their shovels to start building a sandcastle so tall it will reach the sky. Floppy and Calico are ready to mold the towers. Big Brown Bear helps them pack the sand tightly—but still the towers collapse when the buckets are overturned. Oops! The sand is too dry! What will happen if they move really close to the water? With Shirley Parenteau’s rhyming verse and David Martin’s irresistibly cute illustrations, little readers are invited to join the bears for some trial and error—and creative cooperation—on a perfect day at the beach. Ages 2 yrs - 5 yrs candlewickpress.com

The Boy Who Knew Nothing by James Thorp On the faraway island of Solo Capoo lives a boy who knows nothing. Not his As and Bs, not his twos and threes, and certainly not the name of the strange pink creature he finds one day in the dress-up box. His father says it’s a sleepy giraffe, which seems wrong, so the boy sets out to discover the answer. But if all the wisest people in the land can’t tell what the creature is, how is a boy who knows nothing supposed to find out? Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs candlewickpress.com

Masters of Disguise: Camouflaging Creatures & Magnificent Mimics by Marc Martin Now you see them, now you don’t. Cloaked in a riot of color, pattern, and texture are a dozen animals—from chameleons and polar bears to Gaboon vipers and mimic octopuses— that have mastered the art of fading into the background. Fact-packed pages segue into clever and beautifully illustrated seek-and-find spreads that put readers’ newfound knowledge of each creature and its ecosystem to the test. In a timely and visually arresting novelty book for nature lovers of every stripe, Marc Martin jets budding conservationists around the world to artfully expose the secrets of animal camouflage. Ages 4 yrs - 8 yrs candlewickpress.com

Annie Lumsden, the Girl from the Sea by David Almond Annie Lumsden has hair that drifts like seaweed, eyes that shine like rock pools, and thoughts that dart and dance like minnows. She lives with her artist mother by the sea, where she feels utterly at home, and has long felt apart from the other girls at school. Words and numbers on the page don’t make sense to her, and strange maladies have been springing up that the doctors can’t explain. Annie’s mother says that all things can be turned into tales, and often she tells her daughter stories about the rocks she paints like faces, or the smoke that wafts from chimneys, or who Annie’s dad is. But one day Annie asks her mother for a different tale, something with better truth in it—and on that same day a stranger in town, drawn to the sight of a girl who seems akin to the sea, helps Annie understand how special she is. Featuring Beatrice Alemagna’s expressive illustrations, this enchanting coming-of-age tale by the award-winning David Almond borrows from lore and flirts at the edges of mystery. Ages 7 yrs - 10 yrs candlewickpress.com

64 friends & family |

CHILDREN’S BOOKS

Out of the Blue How Animals Evolved from Prehistoric Seas by Elizabeth Shreeve Clear and inviting nonfiction prose, vetted by scientists—together with lively illustrations and a time line—narrate how life on Earth emerged “out of the blue.” It began in the vast, empty sea when Earth was young. Single-celled microbes too small to see held the promise of all life-forms to come. Those microbes survived billions of years in restless seas until they began to change, to convert sunlight into energy, to produce oxygen until one day—Gulp!—one cell swallowed another, and the race was on. Learn how and why creatures began to emerge from the deep—from the Cambrian Explosion to crustaceans, mollusks to fishes, giant reptiles to the rise of mammals—and how they compare to the animals we know today, in a lively and accessible outing into the prehistoric past that boils a complex subject down to its lyrical essence. Ages 6 yrs - 9 yrs candlewickpress.com

Atticus Caticus by Sarah Maizes Snap your fingers to the beat as a boy introduces us to his beloved (and oh-sorecognizably feline) cat. Whether Atticus is lying in the sun or stealing a sip from a water glass, sharpening his nails on a favorite chair or settling in for the night on his boy’s head, this cat will win your heart—and maybe inspire you to improvise a few riffs of poetry about your own animal friends. Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs candlewickpress.com

Wild Is the Wind by Grahame Baker-Smith Cassi watches a little swift dive and swoop in the still air. In the rising sun the world seems to be holding its breath. Then a small breeze stirs the leaves in the trees, and as the wind grows bolder, a whiff of danger sends small creatures running for cover. Across the ocean, the wind awakes with a fury, whipping the waves and cresting each one with wild white horses. And further on, around the still eye of a hurricane, clouds are carved into a great spiral, howling with stormy power. All this is witnessed by the swift as it finally comes to nest on the other side of the world, where the great wind has abated. Ages 4 yrs - 8 yrs candlewickpress.com

On the Farm by David Elliott From the bull to the barn cat to the wild bunny, the farmyard bustles with life. The rooster crows, the rams clash, the bees buzz, and over there in the garden, a snake — silent and alone — winds and watches. David Elliott’s graceful, simple verse and Holly Meade’s exquisite woodcut and watercolor illustrations capture a world that is at once timeless yet disappearing from view — the world of the family farm. Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs candlewickpress.com

Maisy at the Farm by Lucy Cousins Who doesn’t love visiting a farm? Maisy sure does! She has fun helping with all the chores— collecting the eggs, riding a horse, feeding the baby lambs, driving a tractor, picking some apples, and more. When her busy day is done, she even lends a hand putting all the animals to bed. Little ones are invited to join their favorite mouse on an interactive adventure with the help of flaps to lift and tabs to pull throughout the story. Celebrate thirty years of Maisy by joining her on the farm! A sparkly anniversary edition of the classic pop-up book has flaps to lift and tabs to pull on every page. Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs candlewickpress.com

Sophie’s Seashell Scramble by Educational Insights Down on the ocean floor, Sophie the otter is collecting pairs of seashells. She’s hoping to find two of each kind—purple shells covered in triangles, green shells with squiggles, red shells with squares, and yellow shells with dots—and she needs little readers’ help! Inspired by a popular game, and with plenty of flaps to explore, this fun, sturdy board book in the Sneaky Snacky Squirrel series strengthens matching skills as well as color and shape recognition. Ages 0 mos - 3 yrs candlewickpress.com

etc. for her | June 2021 65

SIOUX FALLS Levitt at the Falls

September 18, 2021

A TREASURE CHEST FOR FOUND & NOSTALGIC OBJECTS, NAUTICAL ODDS & ENDS, CLASSICS AND SO MUCH MORE!

I-29 TEA EXIT 73 • WEST 1/4 MILE • 46990 271ST ST. TEA, SD (605) 368-5810 • OPEN 7 DAYS A WEEK • 9AM – 5PM FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM!

NAUTINICESD

u o y e s u a c Be rve it! dese

“A girl should be two things: sexy and fabulous!” — Coco Chanel

• day to night • denim • cocktail dresses • shapewear • fine Italian leather • accessories

2021_06_EtcMagazine_Volume20_Issue06

Articles inside

Inspired by 2021 Graduates

Napa Valley Dreamin

Eliza Tupper Wilkesy

Levitt at the Falls 2021 Season Revealed

June 2021

Raising Funds for Local Pups

Fresh Baked Snickerdoodles

The Kelly McMaster Home

THE A LIST

Dad’s Day to Cook