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iccardo Tarabelsi is no stranger to the local food and beverage industry. For over two decades, he has brought his expertise to the table, so to speak, at locations including the original Spezia at 26th Street and Western, The Country Club of Sioux Falls and Fernson Brewing Co. In 2018, Tarabelsi, who was born in Florence, Italy, and his wife Marybeth ventured out on their own and opened R Wine Bar in downtown Sioux Falls. It didn’t take long for the spot to become a favorite of both residents and visitors, with its Italian-inspired décor and menu. Over the past few years, it evolved from being primarily a wine bar with a few food offerings to a restaurant with wine – and even live music several nights a week. So, what would motivate them to take on another business venture? “That’s a good question,” Tarabelsi laughs when asked about Brix Wine Bar, which recently opened at Washington Square, and Maribella Restaurant, set to open next to the new wine bar later this fall. But, the opportunity to introduce a new restaurant concept into the vacant ground-level space at Washington Square across from the Washington Pavilion was the inspiration they needed. The wine bar wasn’t part of the original vision, but when Wine Time on Main announced its closure last year, the Tarabelsis simply expanded their plans. “The wine bar space was pretty much move-in ready,” Tarabelsi explains. “The furnishings were perfect for that mix of comfortable seating areas that provides a spot for someone to come in for a glass of wine after work or before a show at the Pavilion.” You can sit with a group of friends on one of the sofas and play cribbage on the custom-made and Brix-branded board, or there are several tables for two, along with seats at the bar. Brix kept the lighting and the wall décor, which includes a collection of wine barrel heads on one wall as well

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as a mural of Napa Valley, hand-painted by local artist Kevin Liberko based on a photo taken by Sioux Falls resident Paul Schiller. One of Tarabelsi’s additions to the décor is the bright red Vespa, a nod to his native Florence and, a trademark of the Tarabelsi’s businesses, as you can find a Vespa at R Wine Bar, and Riccardo announced there would also be one at Maribella. The wine cellar is framed by stones and glass at the end of the bar, allowing guests a peek at the extensive collection of both domestic and international varieties. What about the name, Brix? “Brix is an important measurement for winemakers,” says Tarabelsi. “You’ll hear it referenced as ‘degrees Brix,’ but it basically means the sugar content of the grapes. It helps a winemaker know when it’s time for harvest. We picked it, more than anything, because it’s just a cool wine word.” It was important to Riccardo and Marybeth, whose name is the inspiration

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for their Maribella restaurant, to create three unique experiences between R Wine Bar, Brix and Maribella. “The wine list at Brix is completely different from what you’ll find at R Wine Bar,” Tarabelsi says. “We have a more select grouping of wines by the glass at Brix, for example. We have 20 offerings by the glass at R, but just eight here.” What the clientele wants is an important part of curating a wine list, he explains. Considerations about the vineyard, old world versus new world and price point all go into the decision-making. At Brix, there are domestics from California, Washington and Oregon, as well as varieties from Italy, France, Germany, Portugal, Spain, New Zealand, Australia, Chile and Argentina – nearly four dozen varieties in all by the bottle. Pricing is reasonable as well, with a glass starting at $9 all the way up to a bottle valued at $1,000. When Maribella opens this fall, however, the wines served at the restaurant will be

100% Italian to go along with the full-scale, upscale authentic Italian dining experience. Currently, Brix offers a limited menu of small plates that includes charcuterie, a caprese salad, a flourless chocolate torte and Tuscan truffles, are delicious, small goat cheese balls garnished with pistachio and pine nuts. Guests will also want to experience the wine and chocolate pairings at Brix, featuring four 2-ounce pours with four different chocolates. For those wanting an option other than wine, Brix also offers a few local craft beers, soda and flavored San Pellegrino. “We couldn’t be more grateful to the Sioux Falls community,” Tarabelsi said. “We have enjoyed raising our sons here and joining the business community here. We appreciate our loyal guests who have supported R Wine Bar, and we are excited about adding Brix and Maribella to the family to create more unique experiences in downtown Sioux Falls.” Salute!

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There are so many great reasons for supporting the mission of the Washington Pavilion of Arts & Science, and whatever your reasons are, this evening is for you! washingtonpavilion.org Historic Walking Tour of the Warehouse District Siouxland Heritage Museums Thursday, June 2 • 6:30 pm Enjoy beautiful summer weather while learning about Sioux Falls sites you pass by every day! $5 per person over 12 years old, space is limited, call

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(605) 367-4210 to register. siouxlandmuseums.com Leading Edge Science Camp June 2nd, June 14th • 8am - 4pm Sanford PROMISE is hosting scholarship-based camps for students. Each camp provides hands-on immersive STEM experiences. Students from all backgrounds are encouraged to apply. Leading Edge Science camp is a full day exploration of bioengineering. We will explore the cross-over between biomedical research and

engineering and try out our own innovations. Grades 6-8 in the 2021/2022 school year: June 2nd or June 14 • 8am - 4pm. Link to register: https://bit.ly/36B0xVc The Good Night Theatre Collective Presents: A Culinary Cabaret June 2 & 3 • 7:30 – 9:30 pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. Good Night brings a whole new kind of cabaret to the dinner table. Enjoy a pairing of delicious little eats with a setlist of songs

selected for their appetizing titles. Kick off your summer with the very tasty A Culinary Cabaret. washingtonpavilion.org Fridays on the Plaza Fridays through September 11:30am – 1:30pm Enjoy several food trucks and live music during Fridays on the Plaza every Friday from 11:30am to 1:30pm starting May 27 and running through September 9. Surfin’ Safari at the Old Courthouse Museum Summer Concert Series Friday, June 3 • Noon to 1pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Surfin Safari will perform in the plaza behind the Old Courthouse Museum from noon to 1 p.m. Bring your lunch and enjoy the show! Concert will be held inside in the case of rain. (605) 3674210 or siouxlandmuseums.com 38th Annual Luverne Buffalo Days June 3 - 5 • Luverne, MN

“Beauty & The Beast” performances, car cruise-in, baseball tournament, Buffalo Days parade, shopping expo, quilt show, pie & ice cream social and so much more! Visit luvernechamber.com for a full schedule of events. June EastBank Block Party Friday, June 3 • 5:30 – 11:00pm 8th & Railroad Enjoy live music on a warm summer night at the June Eastbank Block Party. Catch up with friends over a cold drink, feast on great food truck fare, and entertain the kids with an array of yard games. Block party events provide a casual atmosphere that is familyfriendly and fun for all ages. Feel free to bring your own lawn chair. Kick back and enjoy the sounds of local and regional acts performing each evening. The Burroughs at The Levitt Friday, June 3 • 6:30 – 9:30pm Steeped in classic soul standards and outfitted with modern flair,

The Burroughs are a nine-piece band with a powerhouse sound that electrifies audiences. The band’s live performances are capped by choreographed dancing, soaring solos, and funky grooves, with the goal of moving the audience to a joyful celebration by each show’s closing tune. Sioux Falls Canaries vs. Cleburne Railroaders Friday, June 3 • 7:05pm Watch the Sioux Falls Canaries take on opponents from across the country at the Sioux Falls Stadium. Falls Park Farmer’s Market Saturdays All Summer 8am - 1pm Falls Park Farmers Market is the place to get your weekly supply of fresh flowers, vegetables, meat, and baked goods. Sip a cup of coffee, enjoy a burger, share a pizza. Plant your garden with lovely geraniums and heirloom tomatoes. Conveniently located at Falls Park near downtown Sioux Falls,

our market offers delicious food, healthy plants, natural soaps, surrounded by beautiful scenery. No pets allowed due to public health concerns. 21st Annual Siouxland Renaissance Festival Saturday, June 4: 10am - 7pm Sunday, June 5: 10am - 6pm W.H. Lyon Fairgrounds Come one, come all goode lords and ladies, merchants, yeomen, players, musicians, and peasants. Let us present to you the Siouxland Renaissance Festival! Here you can travel back in time to the glorious reign of Queen Elizabeth I. See the sights, hear the sounds, and taste the food. Learn what it was like to live over 400 years ago as you take part in our historically flavored festival. Tickets are available on our website siouxlandrenfest.com & at the Gate. $15 for Adults. $6 for Seniors/Children. Brandon Farmers Market at Wilde Prairie Winery Most Saturdays in the Summer

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The Clover Fold at the Levitt Saturday, June 4 • 6:30 – 9:30pm Levitt at the Falls Hailing from the collision of southeast South Dakota and southwest Minnesota, The Clover Fold is a six-piece songwriting cooperative of multiinstrumentalists whose personal tales and collective songs are forged in the lush humid heat of Midwest summers and quenched in the bleak bitter freeze of Great Plains winters. Original songs sharing unique perspectives on the age-old topics of life, love, and loss are richly layered in full harmonies while aspects of classic Americana, outlaw country, and traditional folk weave throughout.

Historic Walking Tour of the South End Cathedral District Siouxland Heritage Museums Thursday, June 9 • 6:30pm Enjoy beautiful summer weather while learning about Sioux Falls sites you pass by every day! $5 per person over 12 years old, space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register. siouxlandmuseums.com

Pioneer Day Camp at Beaver Creek Nature Area Tuesday, June 7 • 8am – 5pm Beaver Creek Nature Area East of Sioux Falls Kids 7-12 can go fishing, dip candles, make ice cream and play period games. It’s outdoor, educational, and an all-around good time! $35 registration includes program, meal, and snacks. Space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register in advance. INFO siouxlandmuseums.com

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Sonia De Los Santos at the Levitt Thursday, June 9 • 6:30 – 9:30pm Friday, June 10 • 10am Levitt at the Falls Sonia’s concert delves into her experiences growing up in Mexico and her migration north. Her original songs in Spanish and English are inspired by various Latin American rhythms like son jarocho, cumbia and huapango,

Paul Christian at the Old Courthouse Museum Summer Concert Series Friday, June 10 • Noon to 1pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Paul Christian will perform in the plaza behind the Old Courthouse Museum from noon to 1 p.m. Bring your lunch and enjoy the show! Concert will be held inside in the case of rain. (605) 3674210 or siouxlandmuseums.com Behind the Scenes Tour of the Old Courthouse Museum Friday, June 10 • 1:30pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Take a look behind the closed doors of the Old Courthouse Museum and see the current use of the building compared to its use as a courthouse. Free admission. Call (605)367-4210 to register. siouxlandmuseums.com Carrie Newcomer at the Levitt Friday, June 10 • 6:30 – 9:30pm Levitt at the Falls Carrie Newcomer is a songwriter, recording artist, performer, and educator. She has been described as a “prairie mystic” by the Boston Globe who “asks all the right questions” by Rolling Stone. Carrie is known for her musical depth, for her low and resonant

voice “…as rich as Godiva Chocolate” according to The Austin Statesman, and for the progressive spiritual content of her songs, poetry and workshops. Wilde Prairie Winery Spring Open House Saturday, June 11 • 12 - 5pm 48052 259th St., Brandon, SD Join the fun at Wilde Prairie Winery for their annual Spring Open House to enjoy wine, live music, Tacos de Gringo food truck, bounce house, alpacas, face painting and more. wildeprairiewinery.com Sioux Falls Step Forward to Prevent Suicide Event Saturday June 11 Raven Industries Outdoor Amphitheater 205 E. 6th Street/ Downtown Sioux Falls 8:00 registration (there is no registration fee for this event, however all participants need to register to sign the event waiver) We encourage forming teams and fundraising and/or donations to the event. 9am program starts with our 2022 Honorary speaker. Meagan Donovan Zerr will be speaking about her own personal story and her suicide attempts. 25th Annual Festival of Cultures Saturday, June 11 • 12 - 5pm Falls Park Attendees can enjoy sights, sounds, and tastes from around the world as we bring the community of Sioux Falls together for a fun day of celebration! Stroll through our local vendor booths, participate in interactive workshops where you can learn various cultural traditions and skills, taste a variety of foods from around the world at popular local food trucks, and enjoy musical entertainment and more on our main stage. D’Dat at the Levitt Saturday, June 11 • 6:30 – 9:30pm Levitt at the Falls D’DAT is an exciting multicultural, genre-expansive group fusing the uniquely American

musical traditions of the native southwest, jazz, funk and hip-hop. Combining the inspirational and heartfelt lyrics of James Pakootas with the hard-driving instrumental fire of award-wining trumpet player Delbert Anderson, the deep funk of international touring drummer Nicholas Lucero, and the expanding groove of Mike McCluhan on bass, D’DAT has carved its own path with high desert-forged influences and world-class musicianship. Fiber Fun at the Old Courthouse Museum Sunday, June 12 • 1 - 4 pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Do you like to knit, crochet, needle work, or dabble in any other fiber arts? Come join members from the Crossthreads Fiber Guild for an afternoon of Fiber Fun! Attendees can work on projects, ask for suggestions, and just enjoy the company of fellow fiber friends. INFO (605) 3674210 or siouxlandmuseums.com Sioux Falls Canaries vs. Gary Southshore Railcats Tuesday, June 14 • 7:05pm Wednesday, June 15 • 7:05pm Thursday, June 16 • 7:05pm Watch the Sioux Falls Canaries take on opponents from across the country at the Sioux Falls Stadium. Pioneer Day Camp at Beaver Creek Nature Area Tuesday, June 14 • 8am – 5pm Beaver Creek Nature Area East of Sioux Falls Kids 7-12 can go fishing, dip candles, make ice cream and play period games. It’s outdoor, educational, and an all-around good time! $35 registration includes program, meal, and snacks. Space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register in advance. INFO siouxlandmuseums.com Women’s Connection Brunch June 14 • 9:30 - 11:00am Best Western Plus Ramkota Hotel, 3200 West Maple Street Sylvana Airan, who grew up in

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Pakistan and came to the US as a student, will present the story of her life in Pakistan and America, and her meaningful experiences along the way. Sylvana is now an American citizen living in Lincoln, NE, and will demonstrate how to drape a sari and a burqa as part of her presentation. Tickets $14. Reservations and info (605) 334-5607. Life History Recording & Memoir Writing June 15 • 6- 8pm • $35 Instructional Planning Center You don’t need to be a historian to record a loved one’s history, and you don’t need to be a writer or designer to produce and print your own memoir. This onesession class will give you the skills and action plan to record your own life histories and pass them down as heirlooms for future generations. We’ll focus on the differences between oral histories, life histories and memoirs; how to find a focus and ask the right questions of your subject; and how to turn

raw interviews or memories into a readable story or watchable video. Registration is available online at ComEd.sf.k12.sd.us or call (605) 367-7999. Wilde Prairie Winery Burn n Brew Thursday, June 16 48052 259th St., Brandon, SD By Brandon Anytime Fitness. Check wildeprairiewinery.com for more information and to register. Kid’s Activity Day: I Dig Dinos! at the Old Courthouse Museum Thursday, June 16 • 9 - 11:30am and 1 - 2:30pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Learn about history and make your own crafts to take home. 15 minute sessions run throughout morning and afternoon times. Call to reserve times. Free admission. INFO (605) 367-4210 or siouxlandmuseums.com Chick-fil-A Daddy Daughter Date Night Thursday, June 16 • 4 - 8pm

Daddy Daughter Date Night is a special event for dads & daughters to spend quality time together and create lasting memories at Chick-fil-A. Start the evening at Clean Ride Auto Spa and drop off your car to be detailed, hop in a beautiful limo provided by Elite Limousine, and ride in style to Chick-fil-A Empire Place for dinner with your daughters! You will be served table-side at your reserved table, and have the opportunity to take some photos at selfie booth, all while enjoying live music! After you’ve dined and spent some quality time together, enjoy a ride in the limo back to your freshly washed and detailed car! Event is free to reserve a spot. The only cost to you is your meal! Sioux Falls Then & Now Program Thursday, June 16 • 6pm Irene Hall Museum Resource Center • 4300 N. Westport Avenue Join the Siouxland Heritage Museums for a special presentation of Sioux Falls:

Then & Now. This presentation explores the history of Sioux Falls from the 1860s to 1910 by comparing historic photographs of the city in the museum collection to contemporary images. Space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register, $5. siouxlandmuseums.com Avey Grouws Band at the Levitt Thursday, June 16 • 6:30 – 9:30pm Levitt at the Falls Avey Grouws Band defies labels with their powerful Quad Cities sound, bursting with blues, roots, rock and soul. Their sophomore album, Tell Tale Heart, debuted at #7 on the Billboard Blues Album chart and continues to get rave reviews. Historic Walking Tour of Mount Pleasant Cemetery Siouxland Heritage Museums Thursday, June 16 • 6:30pm Enjoy beautiful summer weather while learning about Sioux Falls sites you pass by every day! $5 per person over

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Anastasia June 17 • 7:30 pm June 18 • 2 & 7:30 pm Mary W. Sommervold Hall Washington Pavilion Inspired by the beloved films, the romantic and adventure-filled new musical ANASTASIA is on a journey to Sioux Falls at last! From the Tony Award®-Winning creators of the Broadway classic RAGTIME, this dazzling show transports us from the twilight of the Russian Empire to the euphoria of Paris in the 1920s, as a brave young woman sets out to discover the mystery of her past. Pursued by a ruthless Soviet officer determined to silence her, Anya enlists the aid of a dashing conman and a lovable exaristocrat. Together, they embark on an epic adventure to help her find home, love and family. Sioux Falls Pride Parade & Festival Saturday, June 18 • 10am - 5pm Downtown Sioux Falls The parade will be held in downtown Sioux Falls along

8th Street from 10am-11am, and the festival will be immediately following at 8th & Railroad Center until 5pm. All are welcome at the Sioux Falls Pride Festival. This event is family friendly, and includes a kids corner during the festival along with a drag storytime in the morning. 21+ attendees can enjoy our beer garden at the festival and the official Sioux Falls Pride Afterparty later in the evening.

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Brody Ray at the Levitt Saturday, June 18 • 6:30 – 9:30pm Levitt at the Falls In 2018, Brody Ray auditioned for America’s Got Talent. The Kearney, NE native sang Jordan Smith’s “Stand in the Light” and explained to the judges that the lyrics mirrored his own life. Elaborating on his “struggles and battles,” Ray explained, “I actually was born female. I’m transgender.” Ray’s stunning performance inspired the judges and a nation-wide audience alike, who gave him both a standing ovation and a unanimous vote to

Wilde Prairie Winery Sunday in the Vineyard Sunday, June 19 • 2 - 5pm 48052 259th St. Brandon, SD Join Wilde Prairie Winery on Sundays during the summer months for live music and wine. Bring your lounge chair, blanket and friends. We will serve wine, wine slushies, SD beer, and other drinks. Child & Pet Friendly - Pets on a leash. Please no outside alcohol.

Hank Williams Jr. & Riley Green Saturday, June 18 • 8 - 11pm Denny Sanford Premier Center South Dakota Cattleman’s Foundation presents Hank Williams Jr. with special guest Riley Green.

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Wednesday, June 22 • 7:05pm Thursday, June 23 • 7:05pm Watch the Sioux Falls Canaries take on opponents from across the country at the Sioux Falls Stadium. Pioneer Day Camp at Beaver Creek Nature Area Tuesday, June 21 • 8am - 5pm Beaver Creek Nature Area East of Sioux Falls Kids 7-12 can go fishing, dip candles, make ice cream and play period games. It’s outdoor, educational, and an all-around good time! $35 registration includes program, meal, and snacks. Space is limited, call (605)367-4210 to register in advance. INFO siouxlandmuseums.com Rosemaling Demonstration at the Old Courthouse Museum Tuesday, June 21 • 1 - 4pm Old Courthouse Museum • 200 West Sixth Street Eileen Halverson will be demonstrating the Norwegian folk art of Rosemaling (decorative painting) in the second-floor hallway. Stop in any time for a demonstration or to ask questions! INFO (605) 367-4210 or siouxlandmuseums.com Inez Barlatier at the Levitt Thursday, June 23 • 6:30 – 9:30pm Levitt at the Falls Inez Barlatier is a multidisciplinary performing artist of Haitian descent, born and raised in Miami, FL. She joined her father’s band, Jan Sebon & Kazak International, at the age of 12 years old. Inez led her own band, Kazoots, and was also a member of Venus Rising: Women’s Drum and Dance Ensemble performing as a drummer, dancer and singer. With her ancestral contralto voice, Inez’s music is inspired by multicultural wisdom and rhythms. Stained Glass Seasonal Squares Series - Patriotic June 23 • 6 - 8pm June 25 • 10am - 6pm $155 • Art Glass Co-Op Choose to create one, several, or all these seasonal whimsical window art pieces as your

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decorating needs desire! Each panel starts with a 7” seasonally themed center square, then is accented with a bezel border and a stained-glass frame. Registration is available online at ComEd.sf.k12.sd.us or call (605) 367-7999. Historic Walking Tour of North McKennan Park Siouxland Heritage Museums Thursday, June 23 • 6:30 pm Enjoy beautiful summer weather while learning about Sioux Falls sites you pass by every day! $5 per person over 12 years old, space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register. siouxlandmuseums.com Ayiti: Stories and Songs from Haiti at the Levitt Friday, June 24 • 10 - 11:30am Levitt at the Falls Miami native, Inez Barlatier is a multifaceted performer of Ayisyen (Haitian) decent. In Ayiti: Stories and Songs from Haiti, she celebrates Haitian art and culture through energetic drumming and singing, colorful costumes and traditional dances, folktales and visual art. Songs and phrases in Creole explore themes of community and gratitude. Joined onstage by talented Ayisyen artists, Inez leads children on a journey to a land rich with history that has often been overlooked. Jami Lynn at the Old Courthouse Museum Summer Concert Series Friday, June 24 • 12 - 1pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Jami Lynn will perform in the plaza behind the Old Courthouse Museum from noon to 1 p.m. Bring your lunch and enjoy the show! Concert will be held inside in the case of rain. (605) 367-4210 or siouxlandmuseums.com Wilde Prairie Winery Evening in the Vineyard Friday, June 24 • 6 - 9pm Levitt at the Falls Enjoy live music, bring your lounge chair, blanket and friends. We will serve wine, wine slushies,

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Wilde Prairie Winery Sunday in the Vineyard Sunday, June 26 2pm - 5pm 48052 259th St. Brandon, SD Join Wilde Prairie Winery on Sundays during the summer months for live music and wine. Bring your lounge chair, blanket and friends. We will serve wine, wine slushies, SD beer, and other drinks. Child & Pet Friendly - Pets on a leash. Please no outside alcohol. Pioneer Day Camp at Beaver Creek Nature Area Tuesday, June 28 8 – 5 pm Beaver Creek Nature Area East of Sioux Falls Kids 7-12 can go fishing, dip candles, make ice cream and play period games. It’s outdoor, educational, and an all-around good time! $35 registration includes program, meal, and snacks. Space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register in advance. INFO siouxlandmuseums.com Historic Walking Tour of Phillips Avenue Siouxland Heritage Museums Thursday, June 30 6:30 p.m. Enjoy beautiful summer weather while learning about Sioux Falls sites you pass by every day! $5 per person over 12 years old, space is limited, call (605) 367-4210 to register. siouxlandmuseums.com Britnee Kellogg at the Levitt Thursday, June 30 6:30 – 9:30pm Levitt at the Falls Britnee’s love of country music started at six years old, when she attended a Johnny Cash & June Carter-Cash concert. Smitten from the first note, Britnee knew that she had found her chosen career. Today, you’ll find Britnee sharing the stage with the likes of Blake Shelton, Lee Brice, Kane Brown, Randy Houser and Keith Urban.

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Banana Bars BY JO MCCLURE

1/2 cup butter 2 beaten eggs 2 bananas, mashed 2 cups flour 3/4 tsp baking soda 1 1/2 cups sugar 3/4 cup sour milk (add 3/4 tablespoon lemon juice to milk and let stand 5 minutes to sour) 1 tsp vanilla 1/4 tsp salt 1/2 tsp baking powder Cream butter and sugar, then add eggs, milk, bananas and vanilla and mix well. Add the dry ingredients and pour into a 9x13 inch baking pan. Bake at 350˚ for 25-20 minutes or until it passes the toothpick test. Cool and frost with cream cheese frosting.

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At Home

in Southern Sioux Falls BY MARY MICHAELS | PHOTOS BY JULIE PRAIRIE PHOTOGRAPHY

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ucked away off a busy intersection at the south end of Sioux Falls, is a beautiful neighborhood filled with mature trees and walking trail access running through it for everyone to enjoy. That was one of the main selling points for a family to move to the neighborhood at the end of 2020. Before the couple and their two young children moved in, however, there was a little remodeling to do. “We bought the house at the end of 2020 and started renovations right away before we moved in,” says the homeowner. “Right away, we updated things like paint, the closets, the ceilings and flooring in all the bedrooms.” Of course, she laughs, once you begin one project, that typically leads to another. “For the paint color, we knew we wanted white to create a neutral foundation throughout the house. But, once we painted the walls white, we noticed that things like the can lights and all the outlet covers weren’t.” So, that added “update electrical and light fixtures” to their to-do list. The family also lived through three bathroom renovations…fortunately, not at the same time. One of those renovations involved some construction work between the office, located just off the entry, and the master suite. “The office was originally a bedroom that had a jack-and-jill bathroom connecting to the master bedroom,” the homeowner explains. “We closed off that wall and added built-in cabinets on the office side.” Throughout the home, they mixed a neutral color palette with natural textures like wood and wicker. “I’m not modern, but I’m not super traditional either,” the homeowner says. “I feel like if you open up a Pottery Barn catalog, that’s kind of my style.”

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Their goal with the home updates was to minimize the chance that what they selected would soon go out of style. With the bathroom updates, for example, they would send ideas to the team at Showplace Cabinetry. “When I would send ideas, they would be my guide and say, ‘Yes, that’s lovely, but it may be a trend that only lasts a couple of years.’ That is the benefit to working with professionals when making updates to your home.” The previous owners had recently done a few updates to the kitchen, including granite countertops and a tile backsplash, so that was another selling point to the house. “We have two young kids, so those finishes that are durable and provide easy clean-up are a huge benefit!” The open dining and living room space is bright and airy, with several large

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“When I would send ideas, they would be my guide and say, ‘Yes, that’s lovely, but it may be a trend that only lasts a couple of years.’ That is the benefit to working with professionals when making updates to your home.”

windows and sliders to the deck that bring in natural light and ample views of all the trees in their private backyard. Sliders from the kitchen and dining room open to a deck that has both a comfortable seating area and outdoor dining space, along with steps leading down to the backyard. While they are a busy family, the master suite provides a little respite for the couple. There they can steal away for a few minutes to sit on their private deck with a cup of coffee in the morning or catch a glimpse of the evening sunset. When they walled off the office space from the master bath, that allowed the couple to add in an extra long vanity in their bathroom – extra space they both appreciate. They chose a white and black theme in their bathroom, with white cabinets and black hardware, along with white subway tile with light grout in the outer space and white tile with black grout for the shower. The lower level of the home is multifunctional, with the kids’ bedrooms and play space, along with an updated bar and family room that is perfect for entertaining. “There was a bar here when we bought the house, but we decided to give it a refresh,” the homeowner says. “We went with white and navy cabinets and then

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“Coming from that more central part of town, he told me he didn’t ever want to live south of 57th. Yet, happily, here we are!”

used wallpaper to create a little accent wall. A Christmas present to myself was the ice machine on the counter. We use that all the time.” The kids’ bathroom is both cute and functional, with its animal-print shower curtain and an added door that can separate the toilet and tub/shower when multiple members of the family need access. Their son’s room has plenty of room to read or play, decorated with a fun accent wall painted with black triangles. Keeping the home’s nature theme going, a tall plant stands in one corner of the room, and then there is a wood stump that serves as a side table on the other side of the bed. These stumps, the homeowner says, were used as part of their wedding décor, so each bedroom has one. This bedroom also has a sliding door to the backyard. “We know we’re going to have to keep an eye on that as he gets older,” the homeowner laughs. Their daughter’s room is the perfect combination of pink and glam done in toddler style, with a white-framed bed, a crystal chandelier and a stuffed swan in a pink tutu on the wall. They used cute pink and grey floral decals to create an accent wall behind the bed.

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The most recent update to the home happened last summer, when they decided to paint the exterior. “We went with the white and black theme on the outside of the home. It’s not ultra-modern, but it did kind of bring the look of the house out of the ‘90s.” Whether it’s playing together out in the spacious backyard, entertaining friends or just working from the home office facing the street and watching the changing seasons, the homeowner said they couldn’t have picked a better place…even if the location isn’t exactly what her husband might have envisioned. “He grew up in more central Sioux Falls, and I was living on the very south edge of town,” she explains. “Coming from that more central part of town, he told me he didn’t ever want to live south of 57th. Yet, happily, here we are!”

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Accessory Update Freshen up your favorite spaces with some new home accessories! Whether it be your coffee tables, bookshelf, or kitchen island, a little refresh can help create a whole new look for your space! Stop into Houndstooth House to see our new selection of accessories. 201 W. 37th St. (605) 271-2278.

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The Indian Treaties

of 1851 BY WAYNE FANEBUST

n the summer of 1851, representatives of the United States government met with leaders of the Sisseton and Wahpeton Dakota Indians at a place called Traverse des Sioux, on the Minnesota River and after months of planning, scheming and negotiating, the Treaty of Traverse des Sioux was agreed upon. Lead by Minnesota Territorial governor Alexander Ramsey, and congressional delegate Henry Sibley, the federal government was in a much stronger bargaining position than its counter-parts. The tribal leaders were under duress due to dwindling numbers of game animals for food. The people were

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hungry and the chiefs felt that if the tribes refused to enter into a treaty, the whites would take their land. So after several days duration, with feasting to soften them up, the small band of Native Americans gave into the pressure and lies. Since few Indians could read English, an interpreter explained the proposed terms to them. Each tribal leader “signed” the documents by touching the pen, after which an X next to a name was written on the paper. When all was said and done, on July 23, 1851, the historic treaty went into the record books. Later, in August, the lower Dakota tribes, namely the Wahpekute

and Mdewakanton, entered a second agreement called the Treaty of Mendota. It was said that this treaty was more ruthlessly imposed as 64 chiefs made their X’s under threats of force. Altogether, the Dakota people — also known as the Santee Sioux — sold approximately 24 million acres of land to the United States government for seven and a half cents per acre. In exchange for selling countless acres of southern and western Minnesota territory, present day Iowa and South Dakota, the Dakota were given two reservations, each seventy miles long and ten miles wide on both sides of the Minnesota River. Two

1851 INDIAN TREATY On July 23, 1851, at Traverse des Sioux, near present-day St. Peter, Minnesota, 35 Sisseton and Wahpeton chiefs and headmen signed a treaty that had a profound effect on the future Sioux Falls. More than 24 million acres of tribal land, including all land east of the Big Sioux River, was ceded to the federal government and became available for settlement. In 1856 speculators arrived to survey the area, and a year later settlers founded the tiny village of Sioux Falls City, Minnesota Territory. The treaty granted the tribes annuities, $275,000 cash, and other rights. Unscrupulous traders claimed that they were owed large sums. After the chiefs made their marks on the treaty document, traders persuaded them to settle tribal debts by assigning away the cash payment. Starvation, hopelessness, and smoldering resentment over the loss of land and treaty cash eventually erupted into the Dakota Conflict of 1862. Following the slayings of Judge Joseph Amidon and his son William, Sioux Falls City was abandoned. Seven years elapsed before the town site was settled a second time. DEDICATED IN 2002 BY MINNEHAHA COUNTY HISTORICAL SOCIETY, CITY OF SIOUX FALLS, MINNEHAHA CENTURY FUND, AND SIOUX FALLS AREA COMMUNITY FOUNDATION IN HONOR OF ALEX JOHNSON

agencies were created: an Upper Agency near Sisseton and a Lower Agency further south. The goal of the federal government was to force the tribes to become farmers instead of hunters and gatherers. Although the Dakota were promised annuities and food, problems emerged from the beginning because at Traverse des Sioux, the chiefs had signed three papers, two copies of the treaty and the

third was a paper put forth by Joseph R. Brown, the leaders of the fur traders who claimed that they were owed money by the Indians. The terms of the treaty made it clear that 38 chiefs were to be given a “cash in hand” payment which the chiefs would then distribute to their people. Additionally, the remaining larger sum was to be held in trust by the government and the Indians were to be paid interest

6% annually in goods and cash. No money, however, was paid directly to the Dakota people. Instead, by way of a power of attorney, it all went to the traders who fully expected to receive it for debts that were outright fraudulent or ballooned to amounts that were actually owed by Indians. A lie had been made legal by the touch of a pen. After the money had been doled out

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to the traders, Governor Ramsey had the gall to demand receipts from Indians who never received a penny. The Indians and Dr. John Williamson who supported them, appealed to Ramsey in an effort to get the cash they were entitled to receive, but the effort went for naught. Ramsey persisted and forced one chief to sign a receipt. Ramsey also designated certain men as chiefs, all of whom provided receipts so the matter could be approved in Washington, D.C. Ramsey’s open and blatant deceit was investigated and condemned in ten counts but he was never brought up on charges. South Dakota historian Doane Robinson researched the ugly matter and wrote about it extensively. He called the proceeding “so unconscionable; so shocking to every sense of official integrity and to every

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estimate of the duty of a public officer charged with the protection of a helpless people, that it must forever remain one of the greatest national scandals.” It was the so-called debt owed to the traders that was deceptively inserted into the negotiations was the cause of unrest and anger that eventually exploded into violence. At no time was it explained to the Dakota, that the federal government was about to pay money meant for the tribes directly to the traders who were present at the negotiations. It would not be the only time that the U. S. government resorted to deception when dealing with Native Americans. The Dakota people understood that they had been cheated. They also knew that they needed a strong leader to guide them along the uncertain course of life.

That man would be Little Crow, a member of the Mdewakantons. Born in 1910, he was a man of high intelligence, one of the few of his people who learned to read and write in English. He had attended the gathering at Traverse des Sioux, getting the lay of the land and visiting his Sisseton relatives. Little Crow favored the treaty at the outset, for he believed it would benefit his impoverished people. But war was on the horizon, and his strong leadership would be tested in ways that would break a lesser being. Following the creation of the treaties, immigration into Minnesota Territory was steady and from 6,077 people in 1850, it increased to 172,072 in 1860. A crop failure in 1861, followed by a severe winter and a short supply of prey animals, caused extreme hardship and starvation among

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the Native Americans clinging to life on their tiny reservation. The next year, 1862, found increased tension between tribal leaders and the traders and Indian agents because the promised annuity payments were delayed. The agency warehouses were packed with food, but none was dispensed. When the agents were confronted by trial leaders, the situation grew ugly. One agent, Andrew Myrick, when asked what the Indians should eat, he famously said “let them eat grass or their own dung.” That kind of rhetoric was fraught with desperate and deadly consequences, for on August 12, 1862, four young native warriors killed five white settlers near Acton, Minnesota. That rash act set in motion a deadly conflict known as the Dakota War. Little Crow, with some

reluctance, decided to lead his warriors in an attempt to drive the white settlers out of the region. An attack was made on the Lower Agency, killing many people, including Andrew Myrick, whose body was found with grass stuffed in his mouth. The war was bloody and fierce, but relatively short-lived. In the weeks following the attack at the Lower Agency, white settlements were attacked and many people were killed or taken captive. Thousands of people were forced to leave Minnesota, giving up their land and possessions. When speaking to the state legislature on September 9, 1962, Governor Ramsey said all “Sioux Indians in Minnesota must be exterminated” or forever driven from the state. Then on September 23, 1862, the federal and state forces, assembled by Ramsey and led by

Colonel Henry H. Sibley, defeated Little Crow’s men at the battle of Wood Lake. Sensing defeat, Little Crow took his band of 150 to 250 stragglers into Canada. America was forced to deal with widespread carnage and destruction in the state of Minnesota. To a small extent, the war affected Dakota Territory, where two men were killed in Sioux Falls and the fledgling town was evacuated. The number of casualties among the settlers was 358, including women and children. Seventy-seven soldiers and 29 volunteer militia members were also killed. Before the year was out, 38 Native American men were executed in a mass hanging at Mankato, Minnesota. And Alexander Ramsey: the man whom historians have blamed in large part for the tragedy? He was elected to the U. S. Senate.

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“Take the time to move your meal outside. A little change of venue can go a long way towards making even a simple meal a little more special.”

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Seven Summer Upgrades BY JIM MATHIS

une is here and that means different things to different folks. For some it means a Friday afternoon exodus to the lake or weekend softball, soccer or baseball tourneys with the kids. My weekend retreat is the patio behind our house. Over the years, we’ve made several improvements to our backyard; pavers to expand the patio, a firepit for chilly evenings, landscaping to terrace the hill in the back, and we gained two additional patios in the process. Near the backdoor into the kitchen is the grilling zone. With music provided by outdoor speakers on the garage and afternoon shade from the garage and two maples in the neighbor’s yard, this is where it all starts. A few comfortable chairs with a view of yard and grills, close to the kitchen for beverage refills; from this spot I can multi-relax. It’s like multi-tasking things that help you relax; listen to tunes, play fetch with Tonic the dog, start a fire in the grill, and put my feet up. All in one spot at one time. I’ve got the summer figured out. So today I’m going to share a few ways to upgrade your summer.

Tune In

Wireless speakers are everywhere these days, so there’s no reason you can’t take your favorite tunes into the backyard with you. For me, I have an old school stereo receiver in the garage, it plays to speakers in the garage and on the patio. I can listen to the radio, CDs or I can connect my phone and stream music from Pandora, SiriusXM, Apple Music or any of the countless other online sources. And with a little upgrade I made during the pandemic, I can now stream to the Sonos speakers in the kitchen and living room and to the garage set up at the same time. So if I’m grilling outside and need to go in for provisions, the music is seamless inside and out. You might want to listen to a Twins game or a podcast instead of vintage Steely Dan, but whatever you choose, it will help increase your relaxation quotient.

aluminum chairs with scratchy webbing or one of those “Chair in a Bag” monstrosities, it’s time to invest in a couple of decent lawn chairs, the kind with a solid base and removable cushions (that you can protect from South Dakota weather). I also look for arms wide enough to balance a refreshing beverage. While you’re at it, add a footstool and side table. Comfort is the key! Another advantage to good outdoor furniture, now that we’ve learned to work from home, working from the patio is the next logical step. Make sure the wi-fi reaches out there, too!

Get a Good Grill

I’m a fan of the Big Green Egg, but a few years back the good folks at Consumer Reports ran a side-by-side test of the Big Green Egg and the far less expensive Weber Kettle grill. They concluded that for most grilling tasks, the Weber held its own with the Big Green Egg. If you’re going to smoke a brisket or a pork butt, the Egg is probably the way to go, but for burgers and pork chops the Weber works great. So here’s my advice: Think about how often you grill. If you’re like me and cook outside at least two or three times a week, spend a little more and get a good one. If you’re only going to grill hot dogs on the Fourth of July, then save your money. But that’s just crazy talk. No one would grill only once a year, would they?

Invest In the Best You know the old saying, “you are what you eat.” And don’t you want to be the best you can be? Well, then get off your wallet and buy the best food you can afford. Want a steak? Upgrade to dry-aged or prime-grade beef, it’s worth it to pony up a few extra bucks. Are you into grass-fed American Bison? Go for it. Think of it this way, a really good steak from the butcher shop costs about the same as dinner at a steakhouse, but you’ll get a much better steak at home. The same goes for chicken, hamburger and hot dogs. Buy the best and it still costs less than going out.

Invest in Comfort If you’re going to spend any time outside this summer, get yourself a proper place to sit. If you’re still sitting on folding

Something Completely Different If you find yourself falling into a routine of the same burgers,

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chicken breast and pork chops, break out of your rut by trying something new and different. Challenge yourself to try one new protein on the grill this summer. Bison or veal, lamb or lobsters, duck or tuna; you might just find a new favorite. I tried goat chops a few years ago and it was really good! Ever cook pizza on the grill? It’s great and you won’t heat up the house like cooking it in the oven. What about grilled fruit? Watermelon, pineapple even peaches (not my favorite fruit) caramelize wonderfully after a few minutes on the grill. Or grill heads of romaine lettuce for a few minutes to add a little smoky flavor to your salad. As Julia Child famously said, “Don’t be afraid!”

Stay Hydrated Hanging in the backyard can be hard work. Remember that part about multi-tasking? Well, with all this relaxing, it’s important to stay hydrated. Your beverage of choice could be beer, wine or rum and Coke. Or you might prefer an iced tea, lemonade or Arnold Palmer. For me, I’ll reach for a gin and tonic; it cures a thirst and protects against malaria all in one glass. My beloved has become a fan of the Jamison and Ginger Ale, with a couple of dashes of

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Angostura bitters. Whatever your beverage of choice, make sure to keep plenty on hand.

Dining Al Fresco Since we’ve finished the backyard projects, we’ve been making much better use of the table and chairs out there. We’ve gone from once or twice a year to a couple times each month. The area once occupied by the dog kennel has become our outdoor dining area. On a warm summer night, it’s easy to sit out there after a nice dinner and a talk well into the evening. My advice to you: find a space for a table and a few chairs. Take the time to move your meal outside. A little change of venue can go a long way towards making even a simple meal a little more special. That should give you some ideas to start your summer right. Now turn up some tunes, mix yourself a nice cold drink and do yourself a favor, eat something good today! Jim is the founder of ADwërks, a marketing and advertising agency that occasionally conducts business from the patio.

Happy Father’s Day, BY RICCARDO TARABELS

don’t know much about the bond that exists between a father and a daughter since I only have boys, but I do know that my father-in-law was a man who treated his daughter like a princess, protected her when she needed protecting, and let go when she needed her independence. It’s truly a remarkable bond. With my boys, they are always trying to emulate me, and we try to create experiences that create great memories. There’s nothing else like it in the world. Jaxon, my 18-year-old, loves live concerts;

Wine

I even go to the heavy metal ones even though I know my ears will be ringing for the next 24 hours. Berent, my 19-year-old, recently proposed to his girlfriend and wanted me to come with him to the jewelry store to pick up THE ring to make sure everything was perfect for his fiancée. Dante, my 21-year-old, asks about wine and cars all the time, two of our shared passions. Here’s the point: the best Father’s Day present I receive every year is becoming my sons’ idol more and more as they grow. To be their role model,

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mentor, coach, friend, Dad, is the greatest gift I could ever receive. Now it’s my turn to give a gift to you all the Fathers out there. If you are a Mom reading this, please pass this on to your spouse as he’s taking a drink of his ice-cold beer this summer. Maybe a glass wine is just what the doctor ordered. Dutch researchers followed 1,373 men for more than four decades, noting their eating and drinking habits. Men who had about 20 grams of alcohol daily — equivalent to a half a glass of wine — had 2 1/2 years added to their life expectancy at age 50, compared with men who didn’t drink at all, according to research published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health. Men who consumed only wine had twice as much added longevity. “In this study, 70 percent of all wine consumed was red wine,” the researchers, led by Marinette Streppel of the University of Wageningen in the Netherlands, said. “This suggests that the cardioprotective effect of wine could be due to a protective effect of polyphenol compounds in red wine, but other explanations cannot be ruled out.” Polyphenols are chemical substances found in plants such as tannins and flavonoids. Deep red wines like Cabernet and Zinfandel have a lot of tannins, which is a natural preservative found in the skins of red grapes. The research, dubbed the Zutphen Study after the Dutch town from which the participants were recruited, followed men born between 1900 and 1920 and examined them several times between 1960 and 2000. So what does all of this mean? Well, according to this study (and please keep in mind that I’m not a doctor or a researcher, and this is just a study which only proves a theory based on a small select group of observed individuals) you might be able to add years to your longevity by drinking red wine! I like this study.

If you haven’t heard, red wine is beneficial for you on lots of different levels: 1. Reduced Risk of Death from Nearly All Causes: According to studies from France, UK, Finland, and Denmark, moderate consumption of wine is more beneficial than that of beer or spirits.

2. Heart Disease: One of the well-known and most studied benefits of red wine is its heart protective effect. Moderate consumption of red wine on a regular basis may be a preventative against coronary heart disease. Scientists believe the red wine reduces the risk of coronary heart disease by reducing production of low-density lipoprotein (LDL) cholesterol and boosting high density lipoprotein (HDL) cholesterol.

3. Blood Clots: Red wine produces anticlotting, or antithrombotic, action. Light to moderate consumers of wine have lower levels of protein fibrinogen which promotes blood clot formation.

4. Atherosclerosis: Red wine may prevent the initiation and progression of atherosclerosis (hardening or “furring” of the arteries). Atherosclerosis starts when blood vessels begin to lose their ability to relax. Both the alcohol and polyphenols in the red wine appear to favorably maintain healthy blood vessels by promoting the formation of nitric oxide (NO), the key chemical relaxing factor that plays an important role in the regulation of vascular tone.

5. Hypertension: Excessive alcohol consumption is generally considered a risk factor for hypertension. However, there is some evidence of favorable effects of red wine on blood pressure. Two glasses of red wine (250 ml), taken together with the meal, lower post-meal blood pressure in hypertensive persons.

6. Kidney Stones: Red wine intake reduces the risk of kidney stone formation.

7. Alzheimer’s Disease: Moderate wine drinking correlates with a lower risk for Alzheimer’s disease. Researchers found that resveratrol, a red wine polyphenol, produces neuroprotective effects.

Happy Father’s Day to all of you wine drinkers out there. As my Dad would always say, “Life is like a sled dog team: If you’re not the lead dog, the scenery never changes.” Carpe Vino! Riccardo and Marybeth have three sons, Dante, Berent (fiancée Molli,) and Jaxon, and they own R Wine Bar on the East Bank of Downtown Sioux Falls and Brix Wine Bar on Main Ave in Downtown Sioux Falls. They love meeting new people and connecting with old friends at their establishments. Contact Riccardo at riccardo@rwinebar.com.

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A TRIBUTE TO PARKER’S DAD O

nce a week after school, our 11-year-old daughter, Parker, changes into a leotard and checks to make sure her ballet slippers and contemporary dance shoes are in her ballet bag. Once she’s ready, she lets my husband, Shon, know and they head across town to her dance studio. Taking Parker to dance lessons is a tradition I began with her when she was three years old, and Shon has continued. He began taking her to dance lessons when I started pursuing my master’s degree four years ago. It gave me an uninterrupted evening to study and complete assignments. And it gave him an evening out with a group of men who refer to themselves as the “ballet boys.” They hang out while their daughters are at dance practice. Over time, a few men without daughters in ballet joined the weekly gathering. Even though I received my Master of Mass Communications degree May 2020, I continue to utilize Parker’s ballet practice evenings as uninterrupted time. Today, I use the time to grade assignments for an online writing class I teach for the University of Sioux Falls.

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BY LURA ROTI

I am so grateful to Shon for stepping up and taking over this task. It’s one of many Parker-related activities he eagerly shares with me. He enjoys being involved in Parker’s life. He enjoys being her dad. Before we had Parker, I assumed he’d be a good dad. My first clue was the fact that when it came to pregnancy, if it mattered to me, it mattered to him. He didn’t hesitate to attend the 13-week-long pregnancy class I signed us up for. Yes, there were shorter classes available, but it seems I never take the simple route! He still has the bathrobe with the “Avera Women’s” monogram he won in a drawing during the Maybe a Baby workshop I took him to. (To prevent any teasing from the “ballet boys,” I need to clarify, that he doesn’t wear the robe. We keep it for when my mom comes to visit.) In my experience as a new parent, the minute I knew I was pregnant, the reality of parenting began to set in. I had nine months to prepare. For Shon, I think it hit him the day Parker was born. In fact, a few nursery to-do tasks, undone the day she was

born, Shon completed within her first week of life. Parker stole his heart. And not just in the easy moments. In the early months, when she was fussy, he’d put her in the Baby Bjorn front pack, turn on his favorite music and dance around the house. She’d quiet down immediately…as long as he kept dancing. Eleven years later, she remains the apple of his eye. Together the two of them love reading Where’s Waldo books together. It’s his Christmas tradition to buy her a new Where’s Waldo book.

They love watching funny animal videos on YouTube together. And when she wanted to recreate a day at Hogwarts for her 11th birthday party, Shon aided me with Potions Class a.k.a. slime making. And while I set up the snack bar for a birthday viewing of Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone, he led the Herbology class, helping all eight of her friends transplant a plant into a pot of their own. After the girls settled into their movie, Shon confided to me, not for the first time, that compared to boys, “girls are so loud.” While I am the more nurturing parent, he is the more fun parent. While I can become anxious or even a bit of a helicopter, he reminds me that she is 11 and needs her freedom. Recently a friend asked Parker if she could come with her to her brother’s middle school track meet. It was a school night. Track meets run late. I wanted to say, “no.” But, Shon said, “yes” without hesitation. Because if it’s important to Parker, as her dad, it’s important to Shon.

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a Second Opinion After Cancer Diagnosis Is Worth Your Time BY JARETT C. BIES, AVERA HEALTH

f you’re newly diagnosed with cancer, a second opinion may confirm recommendations, bring other treatment possibilities to light, or offer peace of mind during a turbulent time. Avera Cancer Institute in Sioux Falls offers consultations for a second opinion for all types of cancer, that include a full review of your diagnosis and medical history from an entire team of cancer experts – in one setting.

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Avera’s cancer experts give key reasons why a second opinion is worth considering. Reason 1: Peace of Mind A second opinion can relieve some of the anxiety that comes with a cancer diagnosis. “If you have any doubts, you should definitely get a second opinion,” said Katie VanBeek, Director of Avera Breast Health and Radiation Oncology Services. “When you’re empowered with information and support, it can help you feel better. The extra knowledge will help you move forward with confidence — and that’s what your team wants for you. “Don’t worry about what anyone else will think,” she added. “As a patient, you’re the priority. Make sure you choose treatment that provides the best possible outcome for you.”

Reason 2: Different Treatment Options You can expect high-quality care and technology wherever you seek treatment but there might be small differentials you’ll learn about by getting a second opinion. Avera’s second opinion opportunities have helped younger patients with more aggressive forms of breast cancer, said Tricia Merrigan, MD, Avera breast cancer surgeon. “Neoadjuvant chemotherapy is an option patients may only learn about after coming for a second opinion,” she said. “At Avera, we strive to offer the latest in cancer research. Without a second opinion, patients may not realize they could be a candidate for clinical trials or innovative therapies.” Other patients have learned about intraoperative radiation therapy or IORT, a radiation treatment that happens at the time of surgery that can shorten the course of radiation treatments after surgery for early-stage breast cancer patients.

Reason 3: Sharing Information Does your oncologist have support while creating a care plan for you? How your cancer care operates could also vary. Avera Cancer Institute is an accredited cancer network — that means you get the same quality care, no matter which of our six locations you’re treated at. This is in part due to our approach, which includes multidisciplinary teams that meet to discuss patients’ treatment options. This ensures your doctor can use the collective knowledge of the entire Avera team to create a personalized plan for your type of cancer.

“Every day, our providers work together as a cohesive, multidisciplinary team, doing what’s best for each individual patient,” Merrigan said. “We’ve designed specialized teams so patients benefit from an entire group of experts – not just one outlook.”

Reason 4: Added Services Because cancer is complicated, you’ll have a large team and a number of support services available to you. These can make a difference in how you get through the day-to-day stress of treatment. Avera’s specialized team includes: • Licensed social workers • Genetic counselors • Experts in available clinical trials and research • Cancer navigators • Registered dietitians Navigators serve as expert guides throughout the course of care. “The days and weeks after receiving a cancer diagnosis can be an overwhelming time,” said Avera Breast Cancer Navigator Nancy Terveen. “We help by taking care of all of the records and setting up the appointments.” Another support is the Navigation Center, a call center that’s answered 24/7 if you or a loved one have questions about anything cancer-related. Avera’s navigation system was created to put the patient first, knowing that questions and symptoms can occur any time of day.

Reason 5: You Meet with the Team at One Time Second opinion consultations give patients the rare opportunity to meet with and receive personalized treatment recommendations from medical oncologists, radiation oncologists and cancer surgeons — all in one visit. The experts come together to answer your questions and discuss possible treatment. Patients also learn about a variety of cancer support services, including: • Counseling and support groups • Genetic testing and counseling • I ntegrative medicine services such as acupuncture, aromatherapy and massage

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Paper Airplane Toss Materials: Posterboard, scissors, salad bowl, pencil, black marker, letter-size paper, tape, and small paper clips. On a large sheet of poster board, trace some circles from an upside-down salad bowl where you will want to cut out the goals for the airplane toss game. Carefully cut the holes out, and decide if you would like to make them all the same size, or extend some to be a little bit bigger of an opening. Assign how many points each hole is worth, and decorate the poster board however you would like to, letting your kids do the fun parts and use their imaginations. Set the poster board aside. Now it’s time to make your airplanes.

There are several ways to make a paper airplane. Here is an example of an easier method: 1. With the paper in a vertical format, fold the top corners into the center of the paper. 2. Fold the corners of the folded paper inward to meet the center’s edge. 3. Next, fold outward toward the center on both sides. 4. Then, fold the sides inward again. 5. Unfold the plane a little bit to loosen it up a bit and allow it to glide easier. 6. Place a small paper clip wherever you think will help the plane stay together, if necessary. Test out various spots to see what works best when thrown. 7. Write “Happy Father’s Day” on the airplane that you want to give Dad (or Grandpa). This will be his card, which will lead him to the poster board game you made and a challenge to a Paper Airplane Toss!

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1-Minute Clothespin Tag Materials: Clothespins, markers, glue, pom poms, googly eyes, and anything else you think would help to create characters out of the clothespins. (Decorating the clothespins is not even necessary to play this game. However, it makes the process much more fun for the kids, and the gift much more personalized for Dad.) The kids can turn their clothespins into whatever characters they want to create, using markers, paint, glue, and other materials. Encourage them to think of a theme that Dad would enjoy playing tag with. Some ideas for themes include fishing, cops and robbers, members of your own family, superheroes, and sharks. Give the clothespin characters to Dad on Father’s Day, with a request to follow the kids into the backyard to play 1-Minute Clothespin Tag! Here is an overview of the rules of the game: Object: To collect as many clothespins from other players as you can in one minute. 1. E ach player gets 3 clothespins to clip onto their clothing. (Clip them in a place where they won’t cause any damage or unwanted shifting of the clothes). 2. E veryone stands in a circle and chooses someone to be the leader. 3. When it is time to begin, the leader says “Go!” and starts a timer that is pre-set for 1 minute. 4. E ach player chases and dodges the next, as they try and collect clothespins from one another’s clothing. When a player collects a clothespin, they pin it onto their own clothing. 5. T he person wearing the most clothespins at the end of 1 minute is the winner of the game. 6. L evel up the game by turning on a bubble machine, changing the time to 5 minutes, or dressing up in funny costumes. 7. T he possibilities are endless, and the memories are priceless. 8. D on’t forget to take pictures!

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THESE ARE JUST SOME OF THE WONDERFUL BOOKS FOR CHILDREN WE HAVE COME ACROSS THIS MONTH. WE HOPE TO SHARE WITH YOU SOME YOU HAVE NOT SEEN BEFORE AND ALSO INTRODUCE OTHERS BEING RELEASED IN THE NEAR FUTURE. ENJOY.

A Good Place by Lucy Cousins Bee, Ladybug, Beetle, and Dragonfly are looking for somewhere to live. And each has a different want: Bee loves flowers, Ladybug prefers leaves, Beetle is fond of dead wood, and Dragonfly likes ponds. But every time they find what seems like the perfect spot—with beautiful flowers, a tiny pond, some dead wood, or gorgeous green leaves—they discover it’s underfoot, near traffic, or otherwise not safe. Will these four friends ever find a good place? Lucy Cousins brings her bold artwork and endearing characters to an inviting story that leads to a dazzling conclusion, showing children that even in an urban environment, encouraging wildlife and natural ecosystems can create a healthy and beautiful habitat for all of us. From the creator of Maisy, a joyful picture book with a gentle environmental message finds four insect friends in search of a good place to live. Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs candlewickpress.com

A Dragon Used to Live Here by Annette LeBlanc Cate Noble children Thomas and Emily have always known their mother to be sensible, the lady of the castle—if anything, a bit boring. But then they discover Meg, a cranky scribe who lives in the castle basement, leading a quirky group of artists in producing party invitations and other missives for the nobles above. Meg claims that she was a friend of their mother’s back when the two were kids—even before the dragon lived in the castle. Wait—a dragon? Not sure they can believe Meg’s tales, the kids return again and again to hear the evolving, fantastical story of their mother’s escapades (while putting their fussiest penmanship to work) and get caught up in a quest to reunite the onetime friends. Ages 7 yrs - 10 yrs candlewickpress.com

I’ll Go and Come Back by Rajani LaRocca When Jyoti visits her grandmother halfway around the world, she is overwhelmed by the differences between India and home. At first she feels lonely and out of place, but soon, despite a language barrier, she and Sita Pati are able to understand each other. They form a bond— looking at books together, making designs with colored sand, shopping at the market, playing games, eating chapatis, and sipping warm milk with saffron to bring sweet dreams. When it’s time to part, Jyoti doesn’t want to leave, but then she remembers that in Tamil, people don’t say goodbye, they say “I’ll go and come back.” Sure enough, the two reunite the next summer when Pati visits Jyoti in America, and it’s Jyoti’s turn to make her grandmother feel welcome. Can they create some special memories that will last until the next time they see each other? Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs candlewickpress.com

A Day for Sandcastles by JonArno Lawson The creators of the acclaimed Over the Shop evoke a perfect summer beach day—and themes of creativity, cooperation, flexibility, and persistence—all without a word in this sun-warmed, salt-stained delight of a story. A busload of beachgoers spills out onto the sand for a day of fun and frolic. Three siblings begin work on a castle, patting and shaping the sand as the sun arcs over the sky. Time and again, their progress is halted: a windswept hat topples their creation; a toddler ambles through it; the tide creeps close, and then too close. Meeting each demolition with fresh determination, the builders outdo themselves time and again, until the moment arrives to pile back into the bus for home. An authentic portrait of sibling cooperation—and glorious inspiration for creative people of all ages—A Day for Sandcastles channels the thrill of surrendering expectations on the path to infinite possibility. Ages 4 yrs - 8 yrs candlewickpress.com

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Air Miles by John Burningham; Bill Salaman Miles was a difficult dog until he got his own motor car. But now he is growing older, and new challenges are arising. He doesn’t chase balls like he used to. His legs hurt whenever he takes walks. And sometimes he doesn’t hear when Norman calls him. So when Norman learns that Mr. Huddy’s small airplane is in need of a pilot, Miles takes to the skies. In a deeply moving, ultimately uplifting picture book, the star of Motor Miles returns in a story that will resonate with readers who know what it’s like to say goodbye to someone they love. Based on an idea by incomparable picture-book creator John Burningham, the text for Air Miles was completed by his longtime friend Bill Salaman and lovingly illustrated by Helen Oxenbury, John Burningham’s wife. A poignant exploration of love, loss, and possibility, inspired by the last story idea from the legendary John Burningham. Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs candlewickpress.com

Peppa Pig and the Great Race Daddy Pig has a surprise for Peppa, George, and Mummy Pig. But they’ll have to hurry to the fairgrounds to find out what it is. The car is the quickest way to go, but when it breaks down, the family has to figure out another way—and fast! Bikes are too slow, and Miss Rabbit’s fire engine isn’t available. Can they take the bus? How about Grandpa’s train, or a digger, or the ice cream truck? It’s a race against time as Peppa and her family use all manner of vehicles to reach their destination—and Daddy’s big surprise. It’s well worth the trip! Peppa and her family race to the fair to discover Daddy Pig’s big surprise in a story tailor-made for little fans who love vehicles. Ages 2 yrs - 5 yrs candlewickpress.com

Maisy Goes on a Nature Walk by Lucy Cousins Hooray! Maisy is packed up and ready to go on a nature walk. Everyone is excited when her friends meet up at the park entrance. They’re surprised at how many plants and animals live at the pond, from lily pads to ducks to ladybugs, tadpoles to fish and dragonflies. When they head into the woods, they find the animals to be shy—is that a deer, or even a fox? Looking closely at leaves and under logs helps in spotting small creatures like ants and earthworms. And when they hear birds high in the trees, Maisy uses binoculars to get a better look. Little ones on their first nature adventure and seasoned hikers alike will be happy to share their experience with their favorite mouse and her pals. Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs candlewickpress.com

Anna Hibiscus by Atinuke Anna Hibiscus lives in Africa, amazing Africa, with her mother and father, her twin baby brothers (Double and Trouble), and lots of extended family in a big white house with a beautiful garden in a compound in a city. Anna is never lonely—there are always cousins to play and fight with, aunties and uncles laughing and shouting, and parents and grandparents close by. Readers will happily follow as she goes on a seaside vacation, helps plan a party for Auntie Comfort from Canada (will she remember her Nigerian ways?), learns firsthand what it’s really like to be a child selling oranges outside the gate, and longs to see sweet snow. Nigerian storyteller Atinuke’s debut book for children and its sequels, with their charming (and abundant) gray-scale drawings by Lauren Tobia, are newly published in the US by Candlewick Press, joining other celebrated Atinuke stories in captivating young readers. Ages 6 yrs - 9 yrs candlewickpress.com

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Each month we will choose and feature cute pets. Your pet could be next, so send in a picture today. Email your photo – just one per pet – to etc.mag@sio.midco.net. Please make sure they are high-resolution photos (the highest setting on your camera). Include in email: pet’s name and owner’s name. Pet owners must own the rights to all submitted photos.

Friday, best friend of Amanda Long-Stanley

Horace Grant, best friend of Kenny, Amanda, River & Jude

Jack, best friend of Mike and Pam Stolen

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