Give It Up

Fortunately, empathy is often a trait that comes naturally in children. Simple discussions with your children about being thankful for what they have and reminders about how others might not be as fortunate and what it really means to help others will be something they remember forever.

The Golden Rule reads, “Treat others the way you want to be treated.” These simple words are something children can understand. Ask your children how they would want to be treated if they were ever in a situation of need. Would they want the community to join forces and help them? Likely, they will answer yes. Talk to them about the importance of serving others in need who require a helping hand. Remind them that giving can mean anything from a hot meal and fresh clothing to a new toy or a friendly conversation.

The following are just a few ways for your family to let the giving begin.

› MONKEY SEE, MONKEY DO. Teaching your children the importance of giving takes more than an explanation. They look up to you. Show them how it’s done.

› DONATE CLOTHES. Sort through closets and drawers for clothes no longer in use. Reason with your children that a size too small for them will fit another child perfectly. The same goes for your closet. There are many thrift stores that will gladly take your gently used clothing.

› DONATE FOOD. Non-perishable proteins, such as canned chicken, tuna or jarred peanut butter, are crucial staples at most food banks. Other items such as baby food, diapers, condiments and personal hygiene products are also greatly appreciated. Have your kids check expiration dates on spare cans you may have in your pantry at home to prepare for donating.

A Giving Challenge

Here’s a challenge that will be fun for both adults and children. Turn all closet hangers around, so the hooks face the opposite direction than they usually would. Each time an article of clothing is worn, return the hanger to normal. At the end of six months, the hangers that are still out of place are the clothes you never wear. Donate them to someone who will!

› BUY FOR THE NEEDY. A trip to the dollar store is another great way to collect a few items to give away. A puzzle or a coloring book is enough to provide hours of play time. Have your son or daughter make a list of toys. Then, have them help you find the items in the store. They will be pleased to help. The dollar store is also a great place to pick up hygiene items for donation. Food banks and emergency shelters would be happy to accept shampoo, soap, toothbrushes, etc.

› DONATE OLD BOOKS AND TOYS. The perfect “need vs. want” conversation starts here. Sort through old toys and books to see what is still in use. Have your child make a list of his or her favorites and then another list of toys and books they haven’t played with in a while. Most kids will be delighted to know that the toys they don’t use anymore will make another kid’s day. Ask a few neighbors or teachers to see if they know of anyone who may enjoy a few “new” toys.

› VISIT RETIREMENT HOMES. Most retirement homes allow visitors. Get to know the elderly community with your child. Bring a deck of cards, a board game or a book, and spend an hour at a nursing home. After all, who doesn’t like a round of Go Fish? Check with local establishments for guidelines and hours.

› SPARE CHANGE. A lesson many parents want to ingrain into their kid’s minds is to treat everyone with an equal amount of respect. If you don’t feel comfortable handing a couple dollars to a homeless person, you may instead stop at the nearest convenient store. Let your child pick out a snack—crackers, dried fruit, a banana—and bring it to the person in need.

› HELP YOUR NEIGHBORS. If you know your neighbors well, encourage your children to volunteer to do yard work, check mail or walk their dog. Cooking a meal for an elderly neighbor with your child and helping your child deliver it is a great lesson in giving.