Summer Wedding Planner 2013 by Albert Lea Tribune

the venue Wedgewood Cove

the invitation Church Offset Printing

the tuxedo Leutholds

the announcement Celebrations Party & Gifts

the gown Bliss Bridal

the decorating Accents Decorating

Engagements and wedding photos of local couples Find a useful to-do list How to communicate with your man

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With sunset’s setting over mature grasses and rolling green fairways, Wedgewood Cove Golf Course offers a beautiful, absolutely perfect location for memorable weddings. After all, a wedding -- the most special of all days -- deserves the most special of all locations, and few places can match Wedgewood Coves beauty. Regardless of the event – engagement parties, rehearsal dinners, weddings or parties – the staff at Wedgewood Cove will help ensure that your occasion will be remembered by all.

The Banquet Hall that seats 440 people, Ceremony Pad by Pickerel Lake, well designed and state of the art facility; the food is spectacular and the service is impeccable - all of which combine to create a truly special wedding for you.

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Ready to begin wedding planning? Let’s chat! We have over 15 wonderful wedding invitation albums including two of the newest from McPherson’s and Carlson Craft. From classic to modern styles -- Seal ‘n Send to Sep ‘n Send, we have them all. The invitations these companies provide are absolutely beautiful! Plus ... any wedding invitation order placed with us automatically qualifies for FREE napkins and custom imprinting equal to the number of invitations ordered. It’s our way to show appreciation for your business and take one more item off that long wedding “to do” list. Wedding reception accessory items are also a must have. Not only can we custom order just about anything you’d like, we have a team of very creative people that can assist you with planning to make your day extra special.

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Sparkles, spangles and color, new or vintage, whatever your preference in wedding shoe styles there’s one trend that every bride should get behind: comfort. “Pretty flats and even tennis shoes have been gaining popularity among brides for several years, and while those styles may not be to everyone’s taste, the concept of comfortable wedding shoes is good for everyone,” says Dr. Crystal Holmes, a doctor of podiatric medicine and spokesperson for the American Podiatric Medical Association.

While an APMA survey indicates that most women do emphasize comfort over looks when choosing dress shoes, brides may consider comfort less important than style on their big day. “Brides may think that since they’re only wearing their wedding shoes for a day, it doesn’t matter if the shoes make their feet hurt,” Holmes said. “But shoes that hurt your feet can cause long-term problems, and make existing ones even worse. Sore feet can put a damper on your wedding, reception and even honeymoon.”

The APMA offers some advice for choosing the most comfortable options in some popular wedding styles: Pumps: A classic wedding shoe, bridal pumps come in a wide variety of styles, colors and heights. When choosing a pump, be aware that pointy shoes place pressure on the toes and can aggravate problems like hammertoes and bunions. Choose pumps with deep, wide toe boxes that give you plenty of room to wiggle your toes. Keep in mind lower heels are better, especially if you’ll be in your wedding shoes for several hours. Ballet flats: Flirty, feminine and fun, ballet flats can feel more comfortable than heels. But very flat shoes can actually be harmful to your arch and heel. Opt for a flat that has a bit of a heel, a thicker sole, and plenty of cushioning and support. Avoid flats that bend in half or easily twist. Kitten heels: When it comes to good looks and foot-friendly design, kitten heels are the cat’s meow. Typically lower than one inch, kitten heels add a touch of height without placing undue pressure on the ball of the foot that higher heels can cause. They also tend to be a bit wider than the average heel, making them more stable and comfortable. Platforms and wedges: Towering platforms and wedges provide height, style and endless options. But wearing these higher styles requires brides to take extra caution. Platforms and wedges may compromise your balance and stability, and very high shoes can lead to ankle rolls and falls. Look for lower platforms and wedges that feature secure ankle straps. Cork bottoms provide some shock absorption and traction. Peep toes: Popular among brides who want to show off their pretty pedicures, peep toes range from towering heels to functional flats. Regardless of heel height, peep toes may cause your toes to slip forward or overlap, or may even push nail edges into the skin to form an ingrown toenail. Avoid peep toes that are too tight, and be sure they are free of seams near the toe area, as seams place further pressure on toes. Sling backs: Showing a flirty flash of heel, sling backs are dynamic and sexy — perfect for walking down the aisle and kicking up your heels during the reception. Look for a sling back with a lower heel that will be more comfortable for extended wearing. Straps should be snug but not too tight to avoid chafing on the back of the heel. Too loose straps may cause the shoe to slip off your foot, so a proper strap fit is important.

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(1) Nicole Stotts of Albert Lea and Cole Thompson of Glenville. (2) Paige Seadlund and Jesse Larson, both of Albert Lea. (3) Amanda Leonard of Albert Lea and Neal Wenninger of Lafayette. (4) Christianna Johnson of Albert Lea and Eric Mullins of Appleton, Wis. (5) Liz Scheffler of West Allis, Wis., and Josh Kolling of Albert Lea. (6) Marta Behling, of Albert Lea and Casey Roser of Minneapolis. (7) Jennifer Bartholmey of Albert Lea and Logan Kahler of Fairmont. (8) Amanda More and Tim Evans, both of Albert Lea.

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(9) Patricia Salisbury of Plymouth and Paul Kleven of Glenville. (10) Bridget Nesse and Jerrid Schindle, both of Albert Lea. (11) Emma Anderson and Mark Habben, both of Albert Lea. (12) Marie Kahnke of Janesville and Patrick Hicks of Wells. (13) Hannah Gudal and Alex Stadheim, both of Albert Lea. (14) Kristin Behl of Plymouth and Jon Wadding of Albert Lea. (15) Naomi Sternberg and Josh Vu, both of Albert Lea.

A to-do list for brides-to-be

reparing for the big day means planning a multitude of details; everything from the flower arrangements to that something blue must be decided upon well in advance of the ceremony. Here are some tips to help ensure your big day goes off without a hitch.

The Big Decisions The decision to get married is the first of many big decisions you will be making in the weeks and months to come. Here are some things to consider right away: n Pick

a date. Talk with your fiancé and family (and your fiancé’s family) about potential wedding dates to ensure the important people in both your lives will be able to take part.

n Select

your guests. The number of guests you invite will directly influence the cost of your wedding.

n Set

a budget. Budgeting for your wedding is crucial, as this will have a great impact on every other aspect of your day, as well as your honeymoon. Plan for a little wiggle room for unexpected expenses.

n Choose

a location. Because most popular bridal spots are just that — popular — you may want to start searching for a location quickly.

n Organize

the bridal party. Make careful decisions about who you want supporting you leading up to the big day, and who will be displayed in front of everyone in your life.

n Pick

a style. Many brides choose wedding styles that are reflected in their save-the-dates, invitations, ceremonies, receptions and thank-you cards. Choosing a theme and color scheme in the beginning will help narrow down options later.

n Hire

a caterer. Take into account the dietary needs of your guests by offering a variety of menu options, including a vegetarian dish.

n Order

the cake. Whether you choose a large multi-tiered cake or cupcakes, remember to keep your budget in mind—and pick flavors you and your fiancé truly enjoy.

n Make

the announcement. Decide how you want to let the community know of your planned nuptials. Do you want to take professional engagement photos? Do you plan to contact your local paper? Will you include a link to a wedding day website on your save-the-date or your wedding invitations?

n Get

the gown. On your wedding day, everyone will be awaiting a glimpse of your gown. Listen to your instincts and choose a gown that “feels right” and reflects your personality and style.

n Dress

your party. Once you have chosen the wedding dress of your dreams, speak with your fiancé about his wishes for his suit, as well as the bridal party attire.

n Hire

a photographer. Choose your professional photographer wisely. With a walk down the aisle, father/daughter dance and toast, your father is sure to

The Big Decisions The decision to get married is the first of many big decisions you will be making in the weeks and months to come. Here are some things to consider right away: n Pick

a date. Talk with your fiancé and family (and your fiancé’s family) about potential wedding dates to ensure the important people in both your lives will be able to take part.

n Select

your guests. The number of guests you invite will directly influence the cost of your wedding.

n Set

a budget. Budgeting for your wedding is crucial, as this will have a great impact on every other aspect of your day, as well as your honeymoon. Plan for a little wiggle room for unexpected expenses.

n Choose

a location. Because most popular bridal spots are just that — popular — you may want to start searching for a location quickly.

n Organize

the bridal party. Make careful decisions about who you want supporting you leading up to the big day, and who will be displayed in front of everyone in your life.

n Pick

n Hire

a caterer. Take into account the dietary needs of your guests by offering a variety of menu options, including a vegetarian dish.

n Order

the cake. Whether you choose a large multi-tiered cake or cupcakes,

Wedding Day Details

Provide bottled water for your wedding party. To ensure no one gets over-heated, hide water near your bridal party during the ceremony for emergencies. n Choose meaningful gifts for your wedding party. Necklaces, earrings or bracelets are great for bridesmaids; cufflinks are perfect for groomsmen. n Create individual envelopes for tipping drivers, caterers, musicians, etc. Separate envelopes will help ensure you don’t forget anyone. n Plan for weather: In case of rain — Order a tent or choose a venue with indoor space for lastminute protection from the elements. Offer extra umbrellas to usher people from their vehicles to the venue. In case of heat — Place fans throughout the venue and provide plenty of water for guests. In case of cold — Space heaters can be placed throughout the space to warm up the room in advance of the event. n Over-estimate the amount of parking needed for guests. n

After the Honeymoon

Open wedding gifts and keep an accurate list of each guest in correspondence with their gift. n Write thoughtful, personalized handwritten thank you cards. n

The Big Day Bridal Kit Supplies • Bobby pins, elastic hair bands • Hairbrush • Hairspray • Panty hose • Nail file, nail polish, remover • Baby powder • Makeup • Stain remover • Tissues • Sewing kit with scissors • Ballet flats • Pocket mirror • Extra post-earring backs

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Static cling spray Antacid Pain reliever Bandages Deodorant Dental floss Eye drops Bottled water Breath mints Duct tape — for last-minute dress fix-ups and to adhere to the bottom of slippery dress shoes

How to talk to your man An Albert Lea therapist gives couples tips for working through issues By Michelle Haacke

men because men often compartmentalize their issues. The woman’s perception is that men Men must be from Mars, because sometimes it feels like don’t express their feelings. “That’s just how the majority we are worlds apart when trying to communicate with them. of people are wired,” she said. “Educating both sides is the And feeling that way is pretty normal, according to Teresa M. key.” Anderson-Krull said the three Anderson-Krull of Albert Lea. An individual and family thera- biggest differences couples experience are related to sex, pist with 25 years of experience, she has developed a niche money and parenting. Often, it’s all of the above. For examfor couple’s therapy over the ple, the most common parentpast decade. ing issue she sees is letting the Because intimacy and emochild sleep in mom and dad’s tions can drive women, it can bed. Ironically, this coincides be a struggle to communicate with sex issues. Not sleeping with together is one of the biggest mistakes a couple can make. “The

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quickest route to getting into a discussion is to ask about sex, because that answers 50 other questions,” Anderson-Krull said. “That’s where the discussion starts.” However, if there is no intimacy in the relationship, there won’t be much of a discussion. Women crave touching, kissing and cuddling, yet they view sex as another chore and often close themselves off to it. Men, on the other hand, are much more apt to open up and communicate afterward. To overcome this obstacle, Anderson-Krull encourages women to change their thinking: think about intimate time with your partner as something to relieve stress and enjoy.

“Think of it as maintenance and insurance — plus it’s good for you,” she said, pointing out that sex helps release endorphins that make a woman feel good. Time is yet another roadblock for couples. When both the husband and wife are working full time and raising children, there simply aren’t enough hours in the day. By the end of the day when they are alone, they are simply exhausted. The solution? Date night. Anderson-Krull encourages women to put it on the calendar and keep the date. “You don’t have to have money,” she said. “Put the kids to bed early and stay in. Do some dancing or enjoy a glass of wine.” Time management in the home is important. AndersonKrull encourages women to set aside family time, couples’ time and time out with girlfriends. Keeping their own identity keeps them interesting and gives them something more to talk about. The same goes for men. Money issues can be handled just about as swiftly. The biggest financial issue Anderson-Krull sees is that only one of the spouses is doing the bills each month while the other one is complaining about a lack of money in the account, or spending more than they have. She recommends that couples take turns doing the bills or do them together. A joint account for the bills with individual accounts for each spouse is also effective, as it’s good for a woman to have her own account and maintain her own credit rating. Plus, this gives a wife and husband each a little of their own money to use

and takes about 15 minutes. A woman’s hair appointment is usually one to two hours, so it all works out the same.” Anderson-Krull pointed out several things women can do keep communication on track with their spouse. One common mistake women make when trying to communicate with her husband is choosing the wrong time of day to have the discussion. Hitting him with a heavy conversation right when he walks in the door after work is not going to be productive, Here are six simple ways likely escalating the argument. to let your woman know To this, Anderson-Krull said you love her: you should simply ask him when a good time is to talk Compliment her. She and set the expectation of how cannot read your mind, long it will take. so tell her if you think Once the discussion starts, she looks nice. another productive technique for women is to try and agree Give her a kiss or hug with something the man says. without implying sex. This validates his self-worth and makes him more open to communicating. “Men will listen better if they Help her with things. feel like they’ve done something Nothing tugs at a womright, so you can bridge off an’s heart strings like seeing a man washing that,” she said. Another common mistake dishes or playing with made by women and men alike the children. is blocking out what they know to be good and true. As life and Send her a text mesissues can cloud your reality sage. Let her know into a different perception, think you’re thinking about back to when you first met. her. “Do a checklist,” she said. “What did I find attractive when Flirt — it was cute we were dating and why did I when you were dating! marry him?” These tips will give couples a good start, but the important part is to have patience and to Use humor. Women stay positive so the good comlove it when a man’s munication you have can conbeing silly. tinue.

for hobbies and fun. “Men will never understand why a woman spends $100 on her hair every couple of months, and women get tired of trying to explain,” she said. “With regards to this argument, I like to say a man’s haircut usually costs $12 to $18 every four to six weeks

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