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June 2018
Summer Volunteering Summer Programs How to Keep Your Teen Engaged & Healthy this Summer
CONT Featured
16 summer, sunshine & community service
14 5 ways to get your teen moving
18 volunteering beyond the expected
21 ask the expert
31 games that don't require a controller
2
Health
22 read this if you have ever been bullied 30 teen's kitchen: muffins
32 student voice: if you need a reason to study abroad
36 3 steps to summer wellness
42 how to minimize being prey
42 life after tragedy
44 service to others 101
46 how to THRIVE if your life
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48 color street: summer fashion
E N T S Parenting
Education
30 30 8 don't let your teen sleep away the summer 24 international exchange: changed our family 32 serving as self care
10 summer is close, now what?!?
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18 infographic- online moocs 22 infographic- this summer, earn scholarships
25 resources
26 student accepted to MIT Women's Technology Program
36 building character through activities
27 infographic- Florida summer university programs
38 keep your kids safe this summer online WWW.UNMAZE.ME
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UNMAZED Letter from the Editor DR. AMANDA STERK Being a family of educators, we always look forward to the summer. It is a time to regroup, relax, and do some fun activities as a family that we normally do not get around to during the school year. For many families, this is a time of figuring out summer plans and how to keep teens busy. As a school counselor, I see how beneficial using this summer time can be. There are a variety of activities locally, statewide, nationally, and even in your own home
that
can
be
extremely
beneficial in igniting your student's passions,
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setting
for
slips by so easily, and while teens
This month I have been able to meet
academic success, and preparing
need to regroup and relax as well, it
with some amazing contributors who
them for their next educational steps..
is easy for them to stay in a rut of not
share a passion to help teens and
doing anything but watch T.V. and This month I was thrilled to see all of
their families. Every day I become
play Fortnite. So early on in the
the
come
more excited about the possibilities
summer, I suggest you sit down and
great
of UnMazed and how it is fulfilling a
find 3-4 big activities your teen would
the
vital
like to accomplish this summer, and
summer! for teens and parents! From
community.
start making some phone calls the
international travel to taking MOOC
first week to have it all set up. Then
In the next months you will continue
courses from Yale, to earning micro-
plan out a daily chore list that needs
to see the magazine and website
scholarships, this edition is packed
to
a
providing current, quality information.
with ideas for everyone.
Summer Contract, both sign it, and
Be sure to check ww.unmaze.me
stick to it. Establishing daily and
often for all the new articles!
educational
together
and
tips on
making
them
up
experts
share it
some through
be
accomplished.
Make
Reading through all the great tips, my
summer goals will help everyone
tip is this" Make a Plan! The summer
with the summer expectations.
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need
our
Have a great summer!
educational
JUNE 2018, ISSUE 3
Magazine articles and more can be found at www.unmaze.me Where Florida experts meet for teen success.
Contact us: We enjoy hearing from from parents, students, and educators throughout the state.. Send us your photos, letters, or comments to asterk@unmaze.me. Or visit us online: www.unmaze.me Do you want to collaborate? This magazine is designed for educators across the state to share their expertise on a variety of topics. We welcome those who would like to participate in creating this resource.
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UnMazed Where Experts Meet for Teen Success
Contributors SENIOR EDITOR
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Amanda Sterk, Ed.D., is author of College UnMazed: Your Guide Through the Florida College & University System. She currently works at Florida SouthWestern State College as Director of Accelerated Programs. Dr. Sterk has been an educator for 20 years as a teacher, school counselor, and administrator. She is founder of the Florida teen resource, www.unmaze.me.
Rob Hicks, M.Ed.,has worked in public schools for 16 years. He is a school counselor at Fernandina Beach High School and the Ogburn School. He maintains the "Getting My Guide On" blog about all things school counselor at guidey.blogspot.com and writes about local history. Ashley McNaughton is an independent college counselor and founder of ACM College Consulting, LLC. She has her BS in Business from Bucknell,, and Certificate in College Counseling from UCLA. Alongside her consulting work, she volunteers with ScholarMatch, a nonprofit helping high achieving, low income students get to college. www.acmcollegeconsulting.com. Jenny Meyers is passionate about teen health! After working for magazines like Women's Health, Compolitan, Seventeen, and Marie Claire, she brings her passion to her blog FITJUNKIE. She loves when readers connect with her! Dave Smith is Chief Executive Officer; Founder of the SAFE Steps™ and author of College Without Student Loans. He has helped over 1,400 families to obtain college education in a timely manner with zero or minimal debt. Website: www.thesafesteps.com Dean Peters started Pure Heart Children’s Fund in Managua, Nicaragua to feed over 200 children near the Managua city dump after visiting and seeing the hopeless situation in which the people lived. They also run a preschool for 30+ children. www.pureheartchildren.org. Sydney Nanberg is an anti-bullying activist, located in Miami Beach, Florida with a mission to educate students and parents on the effects of bullying. sydneynanberg.com. Dr. Sandra Buffkin believes wellness is multifaceted and enjoys addressing nutritional concerns and lifestyle management with others. Dr. Buffkin practices at Chiro Function in Altamonte Springs, Florida. Makenna Lutz is a student at the University of South Florida studying Business Advertising under the Zimmerman Advertising Program. She loves advertising and international travel, and is particularly passionate on how they relate to fashion, beauty, and lifestyle. Sarah Sparks is the founder of Create The Spark, LLC. Sarah inspires and encourages high achieving, career driven women, who feel stuck, tired, worn out, and pulled in many different directions to put a SPARK back in their marriage and relationships.. www.sarahsparks.love
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Do you have a passion for teens? Would you like to write for an innovative magazine written by educators across the state and country? Connect with us today! http://www.unmaze.me/collaborators-3/ CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Kim Muchmore lives in Cape Coral and is a mom of two daughters, 23 and 21, the youngest just graduated from the University of Florida. Their educational journey varied based on girl's ages, family travel and interests in Christian school, homeschool, hybrid school, Classical Conversations and extra educational opportunities like hosting summer exchange students. Tracey Malone is a wife, mother and Color Street stylist living in Naples Florida. She loves date nights with her husband, playground time with her son and all things Disney. She can be reached at EasyCuteNails@yahoo.com. Shilo Morton is an entrepreneur, marketer and writer, currently working her magic in digital marketing. Shilo worked as an artist, co-founding The Bored Collective, a performance art collective and founding Shine, representing over 100 artists. She now uses these experiences to teach and mentor new entrepreneurs on how to create their own businesses and make their dreams a reality. www.shilomorton.com Tamika Shine is a wife, a mother, esthetician, tax professional, active minister, and entrepreneur. Tamika's passion resides in her family's sports programming for children and educating others on credit, investing, life insurance, living wills, trusts, POA, establish a emergency fund, and to be ready for those "rainy days". Jennifer Murphy, MS, AS, has been working with Sex Crimes victims/Survivors for over 30 years. She if founder of Fabulous Faithful Freedom Fighters, Inc. Courtney Faunce is a mental health clinician at Lifescape Counseling Services, LLC,. She specializes in working with young adults and families utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) practices with a humanistic client-centered approach. Amy Johnson has been in education for 11 years., and is a Florida Gulf Coast University graduate. with a bachelors degree in elementary educationand a masters degree in educational technology. Amy is an educational consultant for Discovery Toys, so she could help children of all ages increase critical and creative thinking skills through play to better prepare them for their future. Plus, she gets to use the educational products with her son, teachers and students!
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JULY AUGUST
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FEATURED
Don't Let Your Teen Sleep the Summer Away
It may have taken some hard work
they want.
Summer
camps,
particularly
those
offered at college campuses, give
convincing my students to attend a camp, job shadow or take a class over
Students often come to me having a
students the opportunity to explore a
the summer, but all of them were
long list of occupations they are
subject they are interested in as well
thankful they did in the end. Why do I
interested in pursuing and they feel
as experience a bit of campus life.
ask them to trade in their sleep for
lost. I am not talking about a list of jobs
They often get to sleep in dorms, eat in
'work'?
all in the same field, I am talking about
the cafeterias, use the campus labs
things all over the board (think dog
and classrooms and meet professors.
trainer/accountant/doctor all at once)!
They get the chance to explore a
feel
Where do they start? How can they
subject they may not have had in high
pressured to pick their career/course
possibly figure out what they want to
school or at least not enough of to
of study even before their senior year,
do at the young age of 16 or 17? The
make a decision on college majors.
exploration
self-discovery
answer is not simple, in fact there isn’t
Enjoying their one year of high school
opportunities are important. Although
that ONE thing they can do to help
biology is hardly enough to bet their
they may not come out of summer
them make their decision. However,
future on! Whether or not they loved
with an exact plan, the students will at
there are many ways they can develop
what they did at camp, at least the
least have a clearer picture of what
it further.
student will be
The
simple
answer
is
DISCOVERY. At
10
a
time
when
and
students
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one step closer to knowing what they
Volunteering for local organizations is
Don’t let the expenses and loss of
want or do not want to do in the future.
another way to help students explore
summer break freedom sway you or
They will also have generated more
their interests. Not only do they get to
your teen, these opportunities may indeed prove to be priceless. They
ideas about what qualities they want in food,
If students are thinking of doing these
should use their summer wisely and
modern labs, single dorms, residential
things solely for resume padding, they
they won’t regret it.
campus,
urban
are missing the much bigger, more
location…? These are all things that
important picture. They should do it
could be discovered at a summer
because it is a chance for them to
program on campus.
explore their options and discover an
their
future
college.
small
Better
classes,
interest they may not have known they If not a camp, a job shadow could
had. Do it because if not now, when?
easily
be
nearly
any
Even if they already think they know
may
be
what they want to do, there is no
interested in, their parents, neighbors
reason not to explore it further. In this
or friends probably have a connection
case, they are demonstrating their
in that field. Reach out and ask about
passion to their future college too. The
occupation
done. a
For
student
the possibility of a day or even a week of shadowing. The worst they can do is say no. This is the student's chance to get a glimpse behind the scenes and
schools love to see someone who actually knows what they want!
By Ashley McNaughton www.acmcollegeconsulting.com.
see the good, bad and ugly of the job. They thought they wanted to be a nurse
but
got
squeamish
seeing
blood? They thought they wanted to work in accounting, but got tired of crunching numbers and staring at excel? They thought they wanted to be a teacher, but it turns out they don’t even like kids? These are all things they
could
discover
through
job
shadowing or interning somewhere and are all things we should strive to help them discover before they spend 4 years studying. Volunteering for local organizations is another way to help students explore their interests. Not only do they get to see what these organizations do, they get the chance to give back to the community and boost their application. I
have
heard
many
stories
from
students who have gone on volunteer trips or spent time with a non profit and come out knowing exactly what they want to do. Of course this is not going to happen for everyone, but at least they are doing something good along the way.
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ACADEMIC
Summer is Close, Now What?!? This is the time of year that a lot of big decisions are being made on behalf of students. High school administrators are beginning to look at our master schedule for our teachers and students. We are looking
at
our
incoming
9th
graders wondering what type of new students we will have to grow into young adults, as well as simultaneous
seeing
off
our
wonderful seniors who have been with us for four years. We become family
as
we
go
Freshmen Drama
from to
the
College
Decision Day. It’s a bittersweet time
of
transition
for
many
students and parents as they navigate
the
What
is
Next" phase? The end of the year is always a good time to take stock of how the academic year went and to start planning what next year entails. I have met with many families in the last few weeks who are deciding what's next for them. As parents, this is a time to be actively encourage
involved
and
some
10th
Rising freshman: This is the
Rising
sophomores:
Rising juniors: This is a time a
time to do some research on
Congratulations on your first
lot of programs open up and
student academic interests.
year of high school! This is a
you need specific grade point
Many of you have picked your
great time to reflect on the
averages, standardized tests,
high
year,
and
school
and
and
redirect
your
interests and passions.
school
forms
and
applications to complete.
AP, IB, AICE. STEM, etc. But
Have you found those forms
there are many other school
QUESTIONS TO ASK:
and begun working on those
extra-curriculars, community
How did your freshman year
applications?
involvement,
go?
Are
programming that help you
Do you have to retake any
volunteer or internships that
determine what you enjoy
courses? In what areas were
could get help your college
and potential college and
you strong or weak?
application?
major.
How could you develop a
Did you develop a high school
schedule
your
schedule that showcases your
QUESTIONS TO ASK:
needs, whether it be more
strengths? For example, if you
Do you know all of the
rigorous courses or backing
are going into the medical
academic
off of the activities?
field, do you have plenty of
What were some of the things
science and math courses? As
offers?
(like classes or activities) that
a reminder- Junior Year is the
What are some of the after
really got you excited? And
last year college admissions
school activities offered and
how can you encapsulate that
can
when do they start?
passion for next year?
passion on your transcript. It is
classes
and
programs your
high
other
and school
that
meets
there
see
any
your
summer
growth
and
What type of student is my
a critical year to be sure you
child, and how can I best help
are lining up everything for
them navigate high school?
when you start applying to colleges!
to
positive
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possibly
academic programs, such as
changes.
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Rising seniors: this is time to begin the college process. Use the summer to finalize some of your college ideas. You should be, 1) taking the ACT/ SAT, 2) going on college visits, 3) volunteering, and 4)
researching
college.
(And
your
fit
How To Maximize Your High School Years with Academic Planning- Find out the top questions to ask your school to develop an academic plan that works for your student! Becoming a "T" Shaped Student- Colleges are looking for a certain type of student to be in their classrooms and on their campus, called a "T" Shaped Student. . Find out the secret formula in this article. Websites to Develop Your College to Career Path- Use the summer to research what college and careers are interesting to your student. This article links to some of the best websites out there.
remember:
knowing the requirements for each college/ program you want is very important to getting into the school of your choice.)
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As we all want to start slacking off with summer right around the corner, now is the time to do the opposite! Finish strong and reassess your goals for next year. Using this school year as a learning opportunity for next year
is
monumental
and
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5 WAYS TO GET YOUR TEEN MOVING Child and teenage obesity is an epidemic and as a parent it can be hard to watch your child fall down a path of unhealthy habits and prolonged inactivity. Thanks to technology, video games and iPhones, teenagers are sitting longer than ever and spending hours inside instead of moving their bodies. You know want to motivate your child into fitness, but you don’t want to cross the line and push them into anything they don’t want to do. Luckily, there are easy and gentle ways to encourage and integrate activity into your teens life without sounding the alarm. Here are 5 easy tips to help your teen get moving.
PUT FIT IN THE FAMILY
TRY A TRAINER
Take your TV time outside! Get your
If your teen wants to get started in the
teens moving by turning your family
gym, set them up with a personal
events into active adventures. You can
trainer.
go on hikes, visit cool museums, a
resistance three days a week will help
theme park, play a seasonal sport, or
increase muscle strength, endurance
something as simple as walking the
and fat loss. A trainer will guide your
dog after dinner together. Try to pick
teen through the gym and teach them
activities the entire family can partake
all the basics of fitness so one day they
in and try to make fitness fun a
can exercise by themselves. The right
weekend habit.
trainer will also make working out
Strength
training
with
enjoyable for your teen and well worth the investment. MAKE YOUR STEPS COUNT
ENCOURAGE
Walking is an underrated form of
SPORTS
The best way to get your child active is
exercise but just 30 minutes a day can
If your teen like watching sports, he or
to get yourself more active. Show them
increase
fitness,
she will most likely enjoy playing them
that you love going to the gym, going
strengthen bones and reduce excess
as well! Not only are sports a great
on walks and eating a balanced diet.
body fat! Purchase yourself and your
way to stay active, but they encourage
The more you prove to them through
teen
and
new friendships, structure and a sense
your actions that being and feeling
reach
of discipline that benefits young adults
healthy is great, the more they will
between 8,000 to 10,000 steps a day.
in all aspects their lives. If you find that
want to follow in your footsteps.
This is a great way to see just how
your
active you are being and to keep you
competitive nature of team sports,
both
the
encourage them to try cycling, running,
cheapest and most convenient way to
golf or tennis. What might start as a
stay healthy and a simple day of extra
simple hobby could turn into a true
steps will do wonders for your teens
passion and skill!
body and mind.
a
challenge
cardiovascular
Fitbit
or
each
accountable.
pedometer other
Walking
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Try something new this summer! Cape Coral and Fort Myers, with locations coming soon to Jacksonville, Orlando and
Tampa,
competitive
are sport
seeing
a
hit
market:
the
new
Kickball. Once thought a sport only of PE class, kickball is becoming one of the nation's fastest growing sports.  "Kickball is becoming popular because a wide variety of skills can play. We encourage men, women, young and old to come out and get some exercise and then we have great opportunities to socialize after each game," stated Ryan
Caviness,
Founder
of
iKickballz.com."I started iKickballz after realizing we nee more unique ways to interact. We keep prices low and seasons to 8 weeks so it appeals to all types of people" says Caviness. iKickballz is being sponsored by two local restaurants; Cape Coral-Duffy's and Fort Myers-Marlin's Brewhouse. Link- iKickballz.com
Other Summer Activities
ASK THE EXPERT
SUMMER, SUNSHINE, AND COMMUNITY SERVICE With summer approaching, many of
So,
the daily demands on teenagers will
service? Well, in my experience this is
begin to fall away. This means more
the grayest of gray areas. It’s really
time to pursue other interests and/or
hard to put a fine point on this because
obligations they might not have time
the opportunity for community service
just need to be mindful of this and
for during the school year. For many
and activities within that realm are vast.
make sure to document the hours. If
students, one of these obligations is
Also,
as
you volunteer at the concession stand
collecting community service hours.
community service is in the eye of the
during your little brother’s baseball
beholder. That is to say, I suppose the
game, that might count. Just get
Now, I am not talking about court-
person most qualified to determine
someone to help you document it. If
ordered community service. That’s a
whether or not an activity would count
you still need more hours, reach out to
whole separate issue. I’m talking about
as a service hour is the individual who
the non-profit organizations in your
community service that is related to
will or will not accept it. In the context
community, especially in the areas that
high
appeal to you. Do you like animals?
school
I
counts
believe
as
what
community
qualifies
and
of schools, that is often a counselor or
scholarships. Currently only one state,
teacher. At my school, that’s me and I
Maryland plus the District of Columbia,
would say I’m very liberal in what I
explicitly require community service
accept as a community service hour,
for graduation. However, most other
but I would never venture to answer
See what you can do at the zoo, for
states
by
for someone else. Therefore, the key
example.
integrating hours into required courses
here is to ask ahead before you spend
organizations are always looking for
or by tying them to state-funded
a significant amount of time working at
more helping hands. Just ask what
scholarships like the Bright Futures
something you might not receive
they need for you to do.
scholarship in Florida. Even if you live
credit for.
highly
graduation
what
encourage
it
"The key is to ask Trust
me,
non-profit
Summer and other breaks from school
in one of the few states that make no demands for community service hours,
As far as where to find community
are great times to tackle community
they are never a bad thing to have
service opportunities, those are ample.
service requirements.If you start early
under your belt when it comes time to
I think that many teens do a variety of
on in high school and chip away over
apply to college or scholarships from
activities that would count as service
time, these requirements are usually
other organizations.
hours in their regular activities. They
pretty
easy
to
manage.
Try
to
document everything you do that can count, and you won’t be scrambling at the end of senior year.
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75 hours Hours needed for the Florida Medallion Scholars (FMS) Scholarship of Bright Futures (75% tuition)
100 hours Hours needed for the Florida Academic Scholars (FAS) Scholarship of Bright Futures (100% tuition)
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Do you think about giving back to the
Want to feel like you’re in Hollywood
community, while having fun, beyond
and gain some leadership and time
the requirement for credits or college
management skills? Volunteer as a
admission? Volunteering can be way
Guest Pathfinder and keep the throngs
more exciting and interesting than just
away from guest speakers as you
completing the required number of
escort them to the panel discussion
hours to graduate. SWFL SpaceCon, an
area. Maybe you’re into tech and crew
annual Sci-Fi, Comic and Gaming
jobs or engineering and set up. The
Convention, aimed at bringing together
Panel Set-up Assistant/Tech Support
fans and stars from all realms of
is the place to start to get real on-site
fandom for one exciting weekend, is a
experience with setting up events for
perfect example of alternative thinking
techs with both physical and electrical
when
volunteering.
builds. There are jobs for extroverts as
Choosing a cool place that taps into
it
comes
to
well, volunteer as an announcer and
your own interests is about more than
use those drama-class skills.
just clocking-in the hours. It can give
By: Shilo Morton, entrepreneur
you real-world skills and perspectives,
Costumes
and lead to long-lasting friendships
encouraged, so go in character! If the
with people who get you and are
idea of picking and sticking to one job
excited by the same things you are.
makes you want to yawn, then try a
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and
cosplay
are
General Assistant role. They will have
. The type of experiences you gain
and excitement with. One of the most
you running around doing anything
working across various fields make for
social places at SWFL SpaceCon is the
that needs doing all day long. There
a more well-rounded and interesting
game room, full of gamers, both board
won’t be any time for boredom in this
individual; the type of person who gets
and video, taking on challenges and
role. It will hone your expertise with
noticed for college admissions and
teaming
teamwork, communication and ability
real-world
Volunteering
to be a creative problem-solver who
graduation.
can think on their feet.
teamwork,
positions
that
require
There are previous
employment Skills
communication
like
and
after
up
for as
a
campaigns. Game
Room
leadership,
Assistant will give you a natural in to
adaptability,
make connections with other players
planning
are
as well as keep you in the thick of the
expertise as well, signing up as the
exactly the skills you need to succeed
Sign Language Translator will give you
in
the opportunity to finally show off your
school.
The social aspects are not
There are so many advantages to
ASL and KSL (Klingon Sign Language)
something to be overlooked either.
taking on unusual and fun short-term
skills.
Sometimes,
and
volunteer positions. Set yourself apart
hobbies can be very solitary in nature.
form your peers and meet new people
As a for-profit organization, you won’t
Spending time in the real-world with
while contributing to your community.
get high school credits for the work,
people as passionate as you are, will
These are the experiences that last a
but taking on these positions can be a
give
lifetime.
real resume builder when looking for
new friends, feel a part of a larger
summer jobs or internship placements
community
work
environments
you
these
a
interests
chance and
outside
to
meet
excitement.
of
make like-
minded individuals to share your ideas
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Summer Options
ONLINE MOOCS Strengthening Student Interests Online MOOC lIST
COURSERA Coursera has been the leader in MOOC courses, and universities like UPENN, Johns Hopkins, Standford, and Duke , produce multiple courses
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From Kaitlyn, 14 Hi Jenny! For some reason I am feeling super self conscious like more than I usually am. I have zero idea why, but I guess it is because of my weight. My whole life I’ve been told I am too heavy so understandably I just lack a lot of confidence. I just wanted to say this to you and ask what are ways I can feel more confident in myself and my body? Thank you! Xo Dear Kaitlyn, First, I want you to know that this is normal. Loving your body is one of the hardest things to do. It would be fantastic if we all woke up every morning put on an outfit and said Wow! I look so incredibly beautiful today! But unfortunately, many of us struggle with tuning out the pressures and societal standards surrounding weight and beauty. Is it normal to feel this way and it is important you recognize these feelings so you can work to cope with them. Your incredible body is meant to serve as a vessel to carry you all through a healthy and active life. It needs fuel, compassion, attention, and Kaitlyn, you can’t rightfully take care of something you loathe. The weight of your body is just ONE, tiny, little, miniscule factor in what makes you, YOU!. When you are feeling a lack of confidence in the mirror, think about the self that lies underneath. Think about all the amazing things and qualities people truly love you for, Kaitlyn. Go as far as making a list of things you appreciate about yourself and when you’re having a bad body day, take out the list and remind yourself that you are more than a number. If you can’t think of anything you love about yourself, ask your mom! Have your mom or even your best friend tell you all the things they love about you. Do NOT let any negative body thought make you feel less than the STELLAR being you are. Do not measure your selfworth by the size of your jeans. A number is a number. Kaitlyn, you have a whole lot more to give the world. Your weight will fluctuate all through life, but you regardless of that number, let your spirit fly high and strong. Give yourself the love and respect you deserve. With love, Jenny
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TEEN HEALTH Read This if You Have Ever Been Bullied I was bullied growing up. I was
Learn how to respond while remaining
constantly laughed at for everything I
yourself. Focus what you want in the
did. Kids would throw food at me. I was
future.
told I was fat and ugly… The list goes on and on. Being bullied contributed to
Be authentic. Be unique. Don’t let that
my
go. Trust me.
low
self-esteem,
anxiety
and
depression. Do you want to own your own Something that most people don’t
business? Focus on that. Do you want
know about me is that I have always
to be a teacher? Focus on that. Do you
had a drive to succeed in life. Even at a
want a family? Focus on that. Focus on
young age where I was tormented in
what brings you happiness and learn in
school. There was something that kept
the meantime.
me going and that is what I will be sharing with you today.
If you have been bullied, I understand the pain that comes along. The anxiety,
To anyone who has ever been a victim
depression and low self-esteem. I’ve
of bullying, I could sit here and tell you
been there. You can lose confidence in
to just ignore it, be who you are, stand
who you are. You may not see the
up for yourself, but I know how many
point in going after what you want in
times you have probably heard that.
life. It may be hard to keep going.
While ignoring it, standing up for
Keep reading though.
yourself and remaining true to who you
When it comes to getting a job out of
are is something that you MUST do, I
college or even starting your own
want you to understand something
business, you will not succeed if you
else as well.
are a copy. People like people who are authentically themselves. Who offer
In the real world, you are going to face
something different, and who are not
Because being uncomfortable is what
many challenges. You are going to
trying to be cool because they are
gets you to the next level in life. You
have to take risks. You are going to
scared.
are going to have to take risks in life
have to do things outside of your comfort zone in order to get ahead.
and challenge yourself. Look at how You are at an advantage.
You are going to face rejection.
will already have the experience.
In order to get what you want in life,
You are already out of your comfort
you need to learn how you handle
zone. If you are being bullied or have
these challenges. Learn this now.
been in the past, you are out of your
Learn this today. Learn how to handle
comfort zone. When someone puts
negativity and learn how to respond to
you down, they are putting you in an
these challenges mentioned above.
uncomfortable situation. Embrace it.
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much easier it will be for you since you While bullies are running away from their insecurities by bullying you, they are helping you gain the strength that you might not realize you have until later in life. You have more power than you know.
Understand that bullies are either suffering emotionally or are afraid of being judged. It does not make their actions right and there is no excuse. Imagine the people that bully you or have bullied you. Picture them. They
15%
of Florida teens were bullied on school property in the last year
are too afraid to be themselves. It may not seem like it, but they are. While it might not make a difference for them right now in their every day life, in the real world, it will. They will be less likely to take risks and they will be more likely to stay in their comfort zone. The tables will turn. I’ve seen it happen. Rather than fighting the negativity and
12%
of Florida teens were bullied on online in the last year
developing more anxiety and bad feelings, I want you to realize your power in this situation so that you can see your future a bit differently. See the advantage that you are at. See the possibilities for yourself in life. See the possibilities for now. How much you will grow. How much this will teach By Sydney Nanberg, sydneynanberg.com
you.. Follow
my
journey
on
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IS H T
SUMMER EARN SCHOLARSHIPS
Raise.Me
Club or Sport
Create an account at Raise.me. It will ask for your information and will have you select several colleges you are interested in.
Consistent participation in sports and clubs makes you a better college candidate. Earn
Enter Grades If you have high school grades, it will ask for the type of class and grade in the class. Enter in the year to received the grade, the course title, teacher's last name, and your grade.
Earn an A or B You can money for each course you earned an A or B, the higher the course work (honors, AP, Dual Enrollment etc) the more money.. Earn $10-1,500
Work Experience Colleges understand many students have to work to help their families, causing them to forgo extra-curriculars. Earn. $713,000 work experience.
College Exams Taking college exams, such as the PSAT, ACT, and SAT, allows colleges to see your academic potential at their college. Earn $173,000.
Volunteer
Summer Progams
Colleges award students who do community service because it shows compassion, strong character, and leadership. Add the hours you volunteered outside of school. Earn $60-7,500.
Many colleges offer Pre-College programs, that include orientation, a campus tour, opportunities to meet other students, and even attend classes. Earn $100-2,500.
Leadership Colleges want students who take on leadership roles because you learn to communicate, motivate, and lead others, Earn between $10-$4,000 per award.
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Visit a College Visiting a campus gives you an opportunity to meet and learn about the college, and they get to know you as a student. Visit a college, earn $100-4,000.
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INTERNATIONAL EXCHANGE CHANGED OUR FAMILY
F family!
By Kim Muchmore, EF Education
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or eight summers our family
international
has had the opportunity of
leaving town. It started with Angel
hosting
from
from Taiwan and Iris from Hong Kong
different countries and we
and has grown to a total of 16
have loved being a part of the
international daughters. Standing at
amazing world of being a host
the arrival party with my own two
My girls have been able to
daughters and husband, we held signs
students
experience different cultures and make
friends
without
ever
welcoming our new family members
"The day they leave is the hardest." welcoming our new family members
hanging out and being a part of the
we have the pleasure of hearing their
as we anxiously awaited meeting our
family.
success stories as they graduate, head
first
off to college and sometimes come
students with Education First (EF).
short-term
foreign
exchange
For my girls, it was like a three-week
back for visits. The girls came into our
slumber party and a great way to end
home for a short time, but they stay in
Being a volunteer host family is an
the summer! It was great meeting
our hearts forever!
experience I would recommend to
other host families and seeing the
everyone! Families with small children,
different
dynamics
teens or empty nesters can all be great
hosted!
There
singles,
staycation
host families for a summer exchange
of
those
were
who
For
anyone
looking
for
adventure,
fun
wanting
grandparents, families who had small
experience
children or an only child who loved
student but nervous for a full school-
come and be a part of the American
having a big brother or sister. Many
year commitment, or anyone who is
experience.
the
families with teens liked hosting for a
community minded and has a heart for
excitement on arrival day with all the
fun way of earning community service
volunteering and an interest in youth
families cheering and waiving signs as
hours as well as the opportunity
and
the big buses roll in. As we wait, we
to travel over and visit their student in
opportunity!
see the student’s faces all looking out
their own country. We had friends who
Spain, Austria, France and China will be
the window to see their new families .
hosted boys from Spain one summer
in Lee and Collier County this July!
My girls used to take part in an
and the following summer their sons
They all have insurance, speak English
international pen-pal program and had
were hosted by the families in Spain!
(different levels) and have local staff
always loved checking the mailbox to
We’ve stayed with our student in Paris
support.
see if they received a letter from a
and one in Barcelona!
can
feel
cultures,
this
an
to
student! The students are so excited to You
hosting
a
is
an
exchange
amazing
Students from Russia,
There are two types of exchange
friend on the other side of the world! Our students have come from Hong
student programs you can participate
Kong, Taiwan, France, Spain, and
in based on your family’s lifestyle. The
July for just a few weeks, it was the
Austria
a
first is the program that the students
excitement of an international new
lasting memory in our hearts.
We
are gone Monday – Friday, 8-5 for
friend but one they actually could
still contact, I get
happy birthday
class and activities. This is best for
meet in person! We could see our
mom posts on my Facebook page and
working families, as your days are still
student’s
introduction
when my older daughter got married,
free. For families who have a stay-at-
letter, what their parent’s occupations
three students traveled back to be at
home parent, or one that is off during
were and what the student’s hobbies
the wedding!
the summer, or an older teen that
and interests were.
drives, the immersion program is a
We provided them with a welcoming
great way of your family having more
We participated in the academic based
home, an extra plate at the table and a
time with the student as they do not
program where they have language
bed of their own. They provided us
have
and culture classes in the morning, and
with a glimpse into their life, culture,
requirements are an application and
planned activities in the afternoon.
language and just what it’s like being a
references, meals, a bed (students can
They explore our beaches, shop, ice-
teen in a different part of the world.
share a bedroom with a teen that is
skate, bowl, bike Sanibel and even line
Our family gets the opportunity to be
within 3 years age range and same
dance! We get to see our community
ambassadors for our country, share our
gender), transportation to a designated
through a fresh perspective. My girls
community and expand our hearts.
bus stop (for daily classes/activities)
loved going on the afternoon activities
and a safe, welcoming environment!
with the students and meeting the
The day they leave is the hardest,
friends of their host sisters. Evenings
but the experience enriched our lives
To find out more about hosting, visit
and
like we never expected and will never
www.efhomestay.org, or call 239-340-
forget.
5164.
When
we
exchange
spent
heard
about
students
that
profile,
weekends playing
are
summer came
family
games,
in
time,
watching
movies, cook-outs with friends and just
and
they’ve
all
left
Although we thought the
daily
classes.
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family
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COMMUNITY
FSW Student Accepted to MIT Women’s Technology Program are
It’s wonderful to see Elizabeth take
chosen college majors in engineering
counting down the days. For FSW
advantage of this opportunity, said Dr.
or computer science. Another 21% have
student
that
Martin McClinton, Dean, School of Pure
majored in science or mathematics,
countdown is for a different reason.
and Applied Sciences, FSW. The goal
with the remaining 11% in a variety of
She is one of only 40 women to be
of this program is to further encourage
fields.
accepted to the Women’s Technology
women to pursue careers in the math
women to pursue careers in the math
Program in Electrical Engineering and
and science areas.
and science areas.
Summer
vacation. Elizabeth
Students Swiersz,
We emphasize
science and engineering at the high
Computer Science (WTP-EECS) held at
school to all of our students, said Dr.
MIT this summer. There were 696
About WTP-EECS
applicants nationally for those 40
The
coveted spots. The ones selected have
Program in EECS (WTP-EECS) is a
women to pursue careers in the math
demonstrated outstanding academic
rigorous,
and science areas.
talent in math and science.
academic and residential experience
science and engineering at the high
where female high school students
school to all of our students, said Dr.
explore
engineering,
Brian Botts, principal, FSW Collegiate
very fulfilling to me, said Swiersz. I’m
computer science, and mathematics
High School, Lee. Our students learn
very interested in the either civil
for EECS through hands-on classes,
to conduct research, use technology,
engineering or architecture.
labs, and team-based projects in the
communicate
summer after 11th grade.
collaboratively,
She’s a junior at FSW’s Lee Collegiate
critical and creative thinking. These
High School, the only STEM accredited
Since WTP-EECS was launched in
skills, and others that students like
charter school in the state, and a full-
2002, 626 students have attended and
Elizabeth learn, serves to help them
time dual-enrolled student at FSW.
over 64% of WTP-EECS alumnae have
take full advantages of opportunities
I like problem-solving because it’s
MIT
Women's fast-paced
electrical
Technology four-week
Brian Botts, principal, FSW Collegiate
We emphasize
and and
work demonstrate
Website: http://wtp.mit.edu/ BY THERESA ARAQUE FROM FLORIDA SOUTHWESTER N STATE COLLEGE
like the WTP-EECS program.
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HEALTH TEEN'S KITCHEN: ALLERGY-FREE: SUN BUTTER BANANA CHOCOLATE CHIP BITES BY: jENNY MEYERS
Ingredients: 1 ripe banana 1 egg 1/2 cup sunflower seed butter 1 tbsp pure vanilla 1/4 tsp dairy free dark chocolate chips 1 tsp cinnamon Instructions: 1. Mash your ripe banana until smooth. 2. Mix all ingredients together in a bowl until smooth. 3. Pour into a non-stick or lightly greased muffin pan 4. Bake at 350 degrees F for 2025 minutes.
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Games that DON'T require a controller
Summer is here! Why not use games as a source of creating essential lifelong skills with your family. There are many games that do not require a controller and can have positive impacts on children's lives..
What would your child like to be when they become an adult? Believe it or not, this one question will set a precedence towards your child’s future
career goals. It all begins with your
1. Critical Thinking and problem solving
child’s imagination. By igniting a spark
2.
in your child’s imagination at a young
Leading by Influence
age
3. Agility and Adaptability
you
open
up
numerous
Collaboration
Across
Networks
and
opportunities to develop their focus,
4. Initiative and Entrepreneurialism
versatility, visualization, and creativity.
5. Effective Oral and Written Communication
These driving factors have a boundless impact in the way your child thinks and achieves goals later in life.
workforce we must equip them with necessary skills to jumpstart their occupations.
Tony
Wagner,
President and CEO of the Institute for Responsive
Education,
7. Curiosity and Imagination Discovery Toys has multiple games
To better prepare your child for today’s
future
6. Accessing and Analyzing Information
completed
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and toys that integrate these skills while being fun and engaging for the whole family. For more information feel free to email me at Jamy.31@yahoo.com or visit Discoverytoys.com/Ajohnson.
Apple to the U.S. Army and reviewed the research on the skills most needed in the workplace. He discovered there are Seven Survival Skills that all children will need to master in order to be successful in the 21st century workforce.
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STUDENT VOICE
IF YOU NEED A REASON TO STUDY ABROAD
You’ll never have this much freedom
College is known for the freedom it provides. You are able to set your own rules and do near anything you please without parents looming over your shoulder, but don’t quite have to worry about a full time job, pets, or kids just yet, either. This is the one surefire time you have to travel for extended amounts of time.
You’ll learn more than you ever could in a classroom You’ll learn more than you ever could in a classroom While it’s one thing to open a book and read about the cultural differences between nations, but another entirely to experience all that they have to offer. The term It’s a small world, is tossed around a lot, however, the world is so vast that there is no end to the amount of information you can learn. In addition to learning about other people, you can learn a lot about yourself, as well. Studying abroad will change you in ways you'll never imagine.
You’ll learn more than you ever could in a classroom You’ll learn more than you ever could in a classroom While it’s one thing to open a book and read about the cultural differences between nations, but another entirely to experience all that they have to offer. The term It’s a small world, is tossed around a lot, however, the world is so vast that there is no end to the amount of information you can learn. In addition to learning about other people, you can learn a lot about yourself, as well. Studying abroad will change you in ways you'll never imagine.
Study Abroad has a direct impact on employable skills Study Abroad has proven to increase employable skills such as independence, adaptability, language competencies, and networking capabilities. Employers look for these skills when hiring people because they make potential hires stand out among people with the same degree. Not only will you be gaining an experience of a lifetime, you’ll also be increasing your chances of finding a great job after college.
Your life is forever changed I have made it my life's mission to see the world. The colors of culture and the excitement of new experiences have always drawn me to travel. However, as a college student, I know first hand how difficult it can be to afford it. Luckily, there are lots of ways to avoid an exuberant price tag.
Look for Direct Credit programs Schools often offer two types of credit for studying abroad-Direct and Indirect. A direct credit is offered when the program is taught by professors from the student’s home college. The curriculum is that of the home college and therefore there isn’t the issue of credits not transferring over. In addition to a typically smoother experience, direct credits open the door for much easier financial aid. Whatever aid you can expect to receive for that semester should you have stayed at home is applied to the study abroad program. Look on your school’s study abroad page or talk to a study abroad advisor to see which programs offer which credits.
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Talk to Financial aid….often The Financial Aid office can be a scary and often times frustrating place. Most students avoid going like the plague, but going in several times a semesterespecially when planning a trip abroad- could save you hundreds of dollars. Some colleges sneak an extra incentive into visiting Financial Aid by allowing students who speak to an advisor a chance to receive extra funding. Check with a financial aid officer frequently to learn of any new funding opportunities.
See if your school offers a study abroad scholarship The financial aid office offers a plethora of options for you to find funding through the university, but there are often other smaller scholarship offices within your college that are willing to help students fund their study abroad trips as well. Search your college’s website to see if they offer any major-specific scholarships. Traveling in college is an absolute must-and funding should never hold you back from those experiences. The opportunities and insight and memories you gain from going abroad are invaluable. Take advantage of every chance you get to see the world.
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SERVING AS SEL As a parent of two teens myself, I understand the difficulties we have with time for ourselves and feeling like we just aren’t a taxi-service. One way to think about reconnecting with your teen, your spouse, or even yourself is to think about volunteering. Remember when we were kids? We all wanted to be 'that person' when we grew up. Things as simple as going out to eat was an adventure. Beaches and
forests
were
filled
with
wonderment. Every new kid we met was going to our best friend forever. Basically, everything was great and exciting. We were passionate about life! We were going to change the world and champion noble causes. We were going to be heroes and
impact others! Then LIFE actually
DESPERATE to find something new to
happened......
talk about! VOLUNTEER!! There is power in volunteering.
Now we are older, more fatalistic and sadly realistic, the world has taught us
Volunteering gives you the power of
that she is NOT our playground. In
choice: YOU choose to BE the kind of
short, it is not as much fun as it used to
person you want to be.
be: Our friends have all gone their own
become 'that person'. You can literally
ways. Bosses are mean. After work we
change your life overnight by making
come home and watch tv. Wives are
that decision.
bored,
kids
are
bored.
You CAN
Even
conversations become boring because
Volunteering is mentally healthy: They
there is nothing new in your life,
say the best cure for depression is random acts of kindness.
I don't
Does that sound like you? Do you find
believe that. I have given many bums
your life boring and going in circles?
my shoes, only to see them walking
Do you feel like you are not in control?
around barefoot the next day. I saw a
Do you want more power in your life?
person I bought a donut for trade it for
Do you want to make new friends and
a cigarette. If you are counting on
rediscover passion? Are you
random acts of kindness as a step to a
LF CARE better
psyche,
mistaken.
you
are
woefully
Volunteering is different
How
do
you
choose
a
good
organization to volunteer for? 1. Take baby steps
than just randomly being nice to someone.
Volunteering is powerful
because you are working in harmony
1. Is it in line with your passion? If it
2.
isn't, then don’t do it.
commitment
They
will
appreciate
a
3. Work at different areas and listen to
with a lot of kindred spirits for the same objective. The power is that you
2. Are they elusive and sneaky when
other volunteers
WILL
you try to contact them? If so, walk
4. Ask for success reports
away in slow motion.
5. Socialize with co-volunteers
see
governments,
results.
People,
systems
etc
are
off-site
positively impacted by the hard and working
3. When you do contact them and all
6. See the beneficiaries
together, on their own 'dime' for the
they want is your donation, not your
7. Find joy in the simple things.
greater good.
blood, sweat and tears, let them talk to
joyous
work
of
people
Volunteering will help you to help reignite
your
passion
in
your
life;
small
your hand… and please for the love of
Once you find the perfect place to
all that is good and pure in life, DO
volunteer, let it personify who you are.
NOT WRITE THEM A CHECK.
A cause and a direction in your life that YOU can influence will empower every
Volunteering helps that passion to grow. Volunteering connects you to
When you find the perfect ONE to
facet of the rest of your life and the
people like you! People with your
volunteer for, under promise and don’t
lives of your family.
passions.
over commit. Good luck fellow volunteer.
By Dean Peters, Pure Heart Children's Fund, www.pureher atchildren.org
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STEPS TO SU
1
Summer’s Here! Schools Out! School
is
out
which
GO OUTSIDE!
An estimated 85% of the American fun
public is deficient in Vitamin D. Vitamin
summer days are ahead! With all the
D is important to help fight against
excitement of summer it is important
infections, colds, flu, prevent chronic
to have a wellness plan in mind. For
diseases, and helps your immune
many
mean
system fight bacteria and viruses. By
unstructured days, which can often
going outdoors and spending time in
lead
the sun you will help keep your vitamin
summer to
means
days
prolonged
hours
on
technology. Research shows that the
D level in therapeutic range.
average American spends 93% of their life indoors.4 The average teen spends
·By going outside you can help prevent
around 9 hours a day on some form of
childhood obesity, diabetes, asthma,
social
strong
vitamin D deficiency, and ADHA. All
correlation between increased social
media.
There
is
a
have been tied to spending less time in
media use and increased depression
nature and more time indoors leading
and anxiety.3 So help your teen find a
to a sedentary lifestyle.
healthy balance and still enjoy their summer vacation! Here are some tips
The Centers for Disease Control and
to ensure you and your family have a
Prevention suggested limiting screen
healthy summer vacation.
time to 1-2 hours per day. The
·Take
your
exercise
outdoors!
American
Heart
recommends
no
more
Association then
six
Research shows that physical activity
teaspoons of added sugar a day.5 This
outdoors for as little as five-minutes
can really sneak up on you if you are
leads to improved moods and self-
not actively watching sugar intake.
esteem. Try substituting with coconut sugar. ·The US Department of Health and
Coconut popsicles or coconut ice
Human
cream is great for summer days. The
Services
recommends
minutes of physical activity a day.
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the release of sugar and contains less
Chiropractic care offers your family a
remember to live well! For more health
sugar than most popsicles. When I
solid foundation for wellness and
and wellness tips please visit Dr.
think
parties
preventative health care. Chiropractic
Buffkin’s
immediately come to mind. Pizza is
care improves sleep, behavior, attitude,
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one of my favorite foods. Instead of
and the immune system function.7
of
summer
pizza
website
at
ordering pizzas try a cauliflower pizza crust instead!
Your nervous system controls every cell and organ in your body. By making
Remember moderation is key! The
sure your spine is properly aligned you
best way to shop for groceries is to
allow your nervous system to function
stay along the perimeter of the store.
optimally.
Reduce
consumption
of
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grains,
processed foods, and sugar.
Enjoy your summer vacation and
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CHARACTER
Through Activities
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As a mom of four, entrepreneur, and
especially single-parent homes, when
than just another fun hobby, but these
wife to the president of a youth
it comes to playing the role of football
activities build their character in so
organization, Osceola Panthers, I help
mom, soccer mom, or all-around
many ways. As they enter in to young
oversee
carpooling mom or dad.
However
adult years, these will be some of the
cheerleaders ages 4-14. For the last 16
difficult it may be, extracurricular
most crucial years of their lives as the
years, our Osceola Panthers has
activities are truly essential to a child’s
peer pressure starts and their bodies
impacted
the
growth. While some parents consider
start to change. They need a haven to
community with our programs, and I
it a privilege, and they take their kids
keep them in a positive state of mind.
feel privileged to be on the journey
out of the activity as soon as they start
This is the best time for them to get
with the families we serve. Our goal is
having behavior problem; I consider it
involved in something that really
to keep kids off the streets and afford
a need. Programs like this could be a
interests them. There are so many
them a place to go and belong.
kid’s only outlet out of a bad situation.
valuable life lessons these activities
Extracurricular
activities
bring
out
teach
I know It is no easy task to get the kids
characteristics
in
kids
that
managing
to and from practice. I totally get the
sometimes as parents we don’t even
confidence
day-to-day task of parents
realize they have. It becomes more
collaborating and working together,
some
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football
families
in
and
our
them,
like; their and
prioritizing time,
and
building
self-esteem,
BY TAMIKA SHINE, entrepreneur and contributing to the community outside of academics. Another added benefit is that these activities
look
great
on
college
applications. It lets the institutions know how involved they have been,
Inspire
and that the students are hardworking and dedicated to their goals. With hard work and the right type of coaching, students reach their desired goals
and
continue
to
push
themselves as an individual and as a team. Learning to be able to work as a team is a great skill to learn that prepares them for the real world when it becomes essential that they work well with others. Studies had shown that there is a strong
connection
between
extracurricular activities with good grades,
positive
strengthened
behaviors,
work
habits.
and Being
involved improves a child’s whole outlook on life.
It gives them the
sense of competitiveness for higher education opportunities, keeps them active, and promotes good health. It is our job as parents to be able to identify our child’s strengths and weaknesses and help them to live fulfilling lives. With all the benefits of extracurricular activities, summer is a great time to fit the right fit your child. I would encourage all parents to reconsider helping your child to be the best version of themselves by getting them involved today.
Believe
PARENTING
Keep Your Kids SAFE This Summer Schools out!! Or just about to be.
When I grew up in the 70s & 80s we
Everyone is ready for the summer
played outside all day and most of the
break
the
night. We had bikes and tree forts, the
students in your home. As working
to
happen,
beaches and lots of hot summer nights.
parents we have so many concerns
We played hide & seek and kickball
regarding our kids and their, seemingly,
with a dozen neighborhood kids. It also
unlimited amount of free time. Who are
meant lots of time to get into mischief
they
What
on occasion. Sadly, those times are
activities or camps or vacations are
long gone and kids are more engaged
planned? Do you hire a day sitter or a
with their devices & WIFI than the
day care or home sitter? The questions
neighborhood
can be endless. Here is a particular
purpose of this particular article and a
question I would like you to keep at the
reminder to parents that even though
forefront of your mind as you are away
we are not on top of our kids 24/7
from your children and they are at
there are lots of things we can do to
home with or without supervision. Who
help educate them about the dangers
are they talking/ chatting with online?
of online activity, and more specifically
Who are their friends ? Who do they
predatory behavior.
spending
time
especially
with?
pals.
Which
is
the
hangout with online?
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AVERAGE HOURS TEENS SPEND ON MEDIA SITES EVERY DAY Here are some startlingly statistics from
online child safety advocates:
4. Talk to them about the tricks that
1. 95% of all Americans between 12
predators use to manipulate and
and 17 years old are online.
groom kids to lure them from the
2. One in five U.S. teenagers say they
safety of their homes into the arms of
have received an unwanted sexual
monsters.
Behaviors
solicitation via the Web.
predators
are
3. In 100% of the cases, teens that are
sympathetic,
victims of sexual predators have gone
building
willingly to meet with them.
especially to kids that have family problems,
a
exhibited
often
understanding relationship
spend
time
by
lending
a ear,
of
trust,
alone
and
While not a fun topic, during summer it
unsupervised, lack self-confidence and
is even more important for parents and
self-esteem, and are isolated from their
teens to be alert to these dangers. Here
peers. They might offer goods, such as
are some tips to look for if you think
games, give rides, or buy treats and
your
in
gifts as tokens of friendship. Scheduling
something that could be anything from,
a church or community Kid & Parent
might not serve them well to grooming
Trafficking 101 from Fabulous Faithful
them from a predator.
Freedom Fighters, Inc. is helpful in
child
might
be
involved
facilitating this meaningful and needed 1. BE PROACTIVE! Warn
kids
of
conversations. These can be scheduled
potential dangers (age-appropriate) of
locally or globally through the internet.
online
activity
before
something
happens.
5. There are safety apps that parents
2. Teach your kids about sex. Teach
can install on Android and iPhone
them your values and your beliefs.
products that monitor a child’s mobile
Then keep talking to them about sex
phone activity and sends alerts of key
and what is healthy and appropriate.
phrases, key words and videos by
Just talk straight to them. You might
alerting
think it is hard but talking about them
registered mobile devise. Also making
being sexually violated by a predator is
anonymous accounts on Instagram,
a lot harder.
Twitter, Facebook and Snapchat, etc. to
parents
through
their
quietly monitor your kid’s social media 3. Trust your gut. You know your child.
postings.
If you are seeing changes in your teen’s attitude,
I can not stress enough how important
language, demeanor or the company
it is to keep track of all the activity your
they keep- pay attention-ask questions.
teen’s are participating in online.
Don’t interrogate. Just be curious. If you
behaviors,
feel like there is a problem, there might be a problem.
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PREY
· Trust your gut! That knot in the pit of your stomach & the voice in your head are good indicators of danger. Listen to that. · Tell a parent or one trusted friend what you are doing and where you are at all times. · Make sure your social media posts are on private settings. DO NOT ACCEPT INVITATIONS FROM MEN YOU DO NOT KNOW!!! 8/10 IT IS A PREDATOR!!! · Don’t be afraid to talk to your parents, a trusted friend or adult if you feel like you’ve gotten in over your head. It’s ok. We would rather you be honest & alive then to lie and die. · Traffickers and predators target runaways. Find a better way to get help than running away to deal with your problems.
We live in a world where we have
is no one size fits all remedy to this
access to information with a click of a
pain and no google search that will
button.
everyday
provide relief. As a mental health
It is important to understand that we
problems are met with "There is an app
counselor, I can tell you sometimes
individually experience a traumatic
for that." Our days are scheduled to the
thee answers you are looking for are
event, meaning my experience will be
minute, our lives are planned step by
not exactly clear, apparent, or easily
different from the next person. So if
step, and time is our greatest currency.
prescribed.
there were 5 people who were there at
With all of this access and freedom to
So what defines trauma? When we
the same exact time, the same event
choose, is there possibly an illusion
have been affected, hurt, damaged,
will
that we are safe from tragedy? In
heinously
dreams
experiences. Some may walk away
hindsight, is there always something
shattered… What happens when we
unscathed while others will need time
we could have done differently?
become the victim?
for recovery. This is also one of the
There are moments in our lives we
A traumatic event is an occurrence that
extremely isolating and lonely. It can
simply cannot explain and more so
is deeply distressing and according to
be difficult to receive help when we
difficult to fully understand. When we
the American Psychiatric Association,
know no one else experienced what
experience loss and the overwhelming
an event(s) that involved actual or
you have experienced.
burden
physical
threatened death or serious injury, or a
damage can sometimes be a fraction
threat to the physical integrity of self or
of the pain we feel. After trauma, there
others, and which involved fear
Solutions
to
helplessness, or horror.
LIFE AFTER TRAG beaten
down,
have
created
5
different
reasons why being a victim can be
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of
tragedy,
the
Sometimes we may even refuse to be
EDY
11%
14%
26%
of Florida teens have experienced sexual dating violence in the last year.
of Florida teens who report they have felt sad or hopeless in the last year.
labeled as a victim as this word
lives. This choice is made every
conveys a sense of loss or weakness.
day and sometimes one minute to the
We may deny our trauma altogether in
next. Like a muscle in our bodies, we
fear that to admit being a victim would
exercise this choice to regain strength.
mean that is who we really are;
When we are resilient after trauma, we
helpless.
own our stories and we choose hope over fear.
It is my belief that, we as humans cannot avoid tragedy. We cannotÂ
I am writing to tell you, there is life
control every aspect of our lives no
after loss. There is peace and meaning
matter how advanced we as a society
in this world, you will find purpose, and
become. The essence of our being iour
you will be the author of your narrative.
ability to adapt to negative change and
Being a victim is a momentary label
to find peace after tragedy.
used
to
solidify,
"Yes,
I
have
experienced unavoidable tragedy." The Clinically, Resiliency.
the The
term
is
Trauma
moments in your life after "I was a
healing
process
victim" will be your decision.
requires us to choose what we do with our pain and what we make of our
By Courtney A. Faunce, M.A., Registered Mental Health Counselor Intern IMH 16553
of Florida teens who report they have seriously considered attempting suicide in the last year.
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Why
cooperate in more diverse situations.
Social benefits – Volunteering engages
volunteerism important? It has a
is
Community
Volunteerism also provides a service
students with the community, creates
number of important benefits.
to those who need it most. Here are
special bonds with the people being
· Engaging in community service
some of the common benefits of
served, and increases social awareness,
provides
participation in a community service
responsibility, accountability, and impacts
program:
their work ethic.
opportunity
students to
Service
with
become
or
the active
members of their community and has
· Psychological benefits
a lasting, positive impact on society
· Social benefits
Cognitive benefits – Volunteering helps
at large. Being part of something
· Cognitive benefits
students
bigger helps students fit in and see
Let’s take a brief look at each of these.
knowledge, grow from new experiences,
the
cCommunity
service
or
develop
their
personal
better interpersonal
volunteerism enables students to
Psychological benefits –Volunteering
acquire life skills and knowledge that
increases overall life satisfaction and
they wouldn’t necessarily have an
helps
about
Participating in community service not
opportunity to get. Communication
themselves because they are helping
only makes a difference to the people
skills in general are gained as well as
others. It has also been shown to help
being served, but also makes a difference
taking and giving direction, better
decrease stress and ease depression.
to every student’s career
questioning techniques, and realtime
problem-solving
skills
are
learned. Many service opportunities promote team-building skills that will serve students well for the rest of their lives. Working with a team or group outside of a classroom situation is a much different experience which broadens a student’s ability to get along and cooperate in more diverse situations. Volunteerism also provides a service to those who need it most. Here are
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feel
good
communication skills.
RESOURCES Volunteer Opportunities: LOCAL
STATE
Feeding South Florida Broward.Org Cape Coral Parks & Rec United Way- Lee County Jupiter, Florida Goodwill of SWFL Clean the World- Orlando
prospects.
Service
networking
tool,
is
can
a help
Habitat for Humanity American Red Cross Volunteer Florida Florida State Parks Florida State Fair Florida Juvenile Justice Florida Department of Children & Families
great
that the aim of the cause is making a
build
difference.
relationships with local businesses, and offers exposure to potential
3.
employers. Students are able to build
interests and skills with the needs of
Find
ways
to
integrate
their resumes with work-related skills
others. It’s important for them to
prior to their graduation.
ensure that while they are helping
others they are improving their own
We know that community service
skills, enhancing their resume, and
and volunteerism are a good thing, so
creating
here are four (4) tips to pass along to
ultimately help them.
connections
their
that
will
students to help them maximize their 4. When possible, they should involve
service efforts:
friends or family members in their 1. Whenever possible align their
service. An experience shared is
service to issues, people, and causes
doubly enjoyed. Whether a task is
that they care about. It’s only natural
fun or not, serving alongside family
that they will care about some things
or friends makes for a better time.
more than others, and that’s OK.
So, we know that service to others is
Service is not simply a matter of
important on several different levels,
choosing the right thing, but also
and that it has benefits to those being
choosing what’s right for them.
served as well as to the server. The benefits far outweigh the efforts
involved but there are ways to take
2. Serve groups, organizations, or
better control of the entire process.
causes with transparent aims and
In short, serving others is truly a win-
results.
win activity that every student should
It
will
feel
better
and
create better outcomes when they can
see
that
what
be involved with!
they’re
accomplishing and
By Dave Smith, CEO & Founder of SafeSteps, www.thesafesteps.com
HEALTH
How to THRIVE in Your Life Are you tired of not doing what you desire? Are you tired of listening to everyone else’s advice on how you should or shouldn’t live your life? Are you
fed
up
with
other
people
squashing your dreams? You know there is more to life. You know what you desire. Yet, you don’t want to hurt other people’s feelings by doing what you know is best. I get it. I have been there. Done that. Got the tshirt! There comes a time, a turning point, when you realize enough is enough. You are tired of shrinking your dreams. You are tired of playing it safe and small. You realize it is time you are in the power seat of your life and it is time to THRIVE. The only question remaining is how, right? Isn’t it always the how’ that stumps us? Well loves, today’s your luck day. I am sharing with you how to Get in the Power Seat and THRIVE. I outlined how to THRIVE in the following paragraphs in a simple, easy way, so you can remember each guiding step. Each letter in THRIVE represents the steps you take to enable your life and dreams to grow, blossom, and shine bright for the world to see. Here it is: T- Trust Trust yourself. Trust yourself with all might.
You
are
capable
of
conquering your fears. You are brave and
powerful
beyond
measure.
Trust yourself in the simplest of things you choose to do. Start simply by
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would realize 98% of our thoughts,
you would do when you said you
feelings, and emotions are not our
would do it. If you told your sister you
own. If we were honest with ourselves
were going to call her tonight. Call her
we would realize we want more. We
tonight. If you feel you don’t have time
deserve more. We want to stand up for
to chat with her or something else
ourselves. We want to shout from the
came up, call her anyway because you
roof top just how beautiful we really
said you would. Simply follow through
are… but we are afraid of what other
with what you said you would do when
people will do and say, so we stop
you said you would do it because this
ourselves. Be honest with yourself.
action will build trust within yourself.
You’re more loved than you know.
your
following through with what you said
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H- Honest
R- Respect
Be honest with yourself. It is easy to
Respect yourself. Each time you don’t
believe what other people have told us
do what you know is right for you, you
our
feel
tell yourself that you don’t respect
what they share with us is the truth. If
entire
life
because
we
yourself enough to follow through with
we were honest with ourselves, we
what you want. It can be as simple as
watching the TV program you want to
tone of the day and live a more
watch. It could be going for a walk
intentional
when no one else in your household
appreciate yourself, the more others
wants to go. Or maybe you choose to
will appreciate you. The more you
go to the pool, sit alone, and read a
value yourself, the more others will
book when you have been afraid to do
value you.
anything alone your whole life. These
E- Empower
are just examples of how you can prove to yourself you respect yourself.
life.
The
more
you
Empower yourself. Step outside of your comfort zone. Shake off the fear
I- Intentional Conversations
of what others will think of you. Their
Have intentional conversations with others. Don’t just talk to hear yourself talk. Don’t text or read a book at the dinner table or when you are with another person. Be purposeful with your conversations. When you have intentional conversations, you set the expectations conversations,
and
tone
allowing
of the
the other
people to trust you and reciprocate the action.
Intentional
conversations
eliminate assumptions being made on your behalf and other’s. They can be loving, yet direct and to the point. You set the tone and purpose of your conversation. A lot less heartache will occur
when
you
have
emotions and reactions are of no relevance to your existence. So who cares if you haven’t worked out in years?
Do it for you! It will be
empowering. Who cares if you haven’t gone to the movies alone? Do it for you! It will be empowering. Who cares if you haven’t ever had a significant other in your life? Experience this life the way you want to experience it. Do it for you! It will be empowering. Who cares if you haven’t ever traveled to Vietnam? Do it for you! It will be empowering. Whatever you choose to do, BE in the power seat of your life! Trust me. IT IS EMPOWERING!!
intentional
conversations!
The reason we stay the stay the same
is we don’t believe we are capable of
V- Value
the change we want. Most of us seek
others
Value yourself. Appreciate yourself. Be
hoping someone will believe in us until
grateful for all the positive attributes
we are able to believe in ourselves.
you possess and share with others
Know that I am here for you. I am
around
the
believing in you, even if I don’t know
morning before my feet hit the floor, I
you. You have someone in your corner
simply state Thank you.’ I am stating
cheering you on, believing in you,
thank you to me, to the home I am in,
uplifting you, and hoping the best for
the people around me, to the Universe,
you always.
to God, to all wonderful experiences
coming into my life. By simply valuing
Here’s to YOU, THRIVING in your life!
myself,
you.
this
For
instance,
very
in
moment
wakefulness, enables me to set the
of
approval
because
we
are
By Sarah Sparks, at Create the Spark
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idea – switch out the traditional white tip for a gold metallic or even black! I love the layered French that has been popping up
year’s color is Ultra Violet which is a Why, hello there summer! It’s time to shed the
beautiful and rich purple. Our version is
winter clothes, bare some skin and prep those
called Saigon Queen. I love this color
nails for all the summer fun to be had! Just like
because anyone can wear it and it can
you refresh your wardrobe, shoes and hair it is
easily be combined with some of the other
time to give some thought to your nails.
trends this year such as glitter or metallic
Whether you prefer short nails or stiletto, I
accents. Glitter has been seen mixed with
have some ideas that I’m sure you will fall in
black and even prints like leopard this
love with. In full disclosure, I am a stylist with
year.
Color Street which offers 100% nail polish This year almost anything goes – 2
more and more. It’s a fun and subtle way to add a small pop of color. When it comes down to it, this year is all about having fun and exploring all the amazing things you can do with nail art. There’s no right or wrong way to do it as long as you’re having fun. After all, it’s just nail polish! Now pardon me as I go change up my nails – a purple and gold combo are calling my name!
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