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Brenda Laura To Receive 29th Annual Lifetime Achievement Award The Gay Appreciation Awards Board of Directors has unanimously selected Brenda Laura to receive the coveted 29th Liftime Achievement Award on Saturday, July 23 at Oz, 800 Bourbon Street in New Orleans. This award will culminate the eagerly anticipated 29th Annual Gay Appreciation Awards Gala. Ms. Laura is a committed, passionate activist who in the 1980’s lead a coalition group to successfully reinvigorate Gay Fest New Orleans, and chaired this organization for 4 years, co-chairing Celebration for two years. Her efforts furthered the community by bridging the gap between women’s bars, tirelessly volunteering and fundraising for AIDS groups, and working with FACES, a pediatric AIDS support organization, and hosted fundraising parties to raise money for truck loads of gifts for those children who previously relied on the leftover donations from Children’s Hospital. Brenda has mentored countless young women struggling to come out. She continues this theme of love and acceptance by hosting parties that provide an environment and social network for these women! Brenda uses the proceeds from these events to fund her animal rescue, and furthers her community involvement by saving and finding homes for these precious pets. She is now running an animal rescue and has put together a board to create the first Louisiana Women’s Music Festival. Brenda is a partner in French Quarter Pet Asylum at 513 Dumaine Street in the French Quarter. The Gay Appreciation Awards thanks those in the Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Community who are often not recognized for the outstanding services and efforts they perform. This year the exciting event begins with “Walking the Red Carpet” emceed by Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLII Felicia Phillips as Joan Rivers, Tony Leggio, Jeffrey Palmquist and Derek Penton-Robicheaux from 7-7:45pm. This is your opportunity to "dress to the nines" in one or all of the official colors of Southern Decadence: amethyst (purple), ruby (red), sapphire (blue), or pearl (white). The grand marshals will choose the "best dressed" which will be awarded the first ever Red Carpet Oscar Award during the Gala. The Gala will follow from 8-10pm announcing the winners voted online by the readership of Ambush Magazine back in early June. GAA Board's Lisa Beaumann and Teryl-Lynn Foxx will emcee the festivities with entertainment including a production number from each of the Top 5 Show Club of the Year Finalists: Bourbon Pub & Parade, Corner Pocket, Four Seasons & Patio Stage Bar, The Golden Lantern, and Oz New Orleans; and last year's Entertainer of the Year Gia GiaVanni. Benefiting Southern Decadence 2016, VIP Table’s for 4 are available for $200 (contact Rip Naquin to reserve your table 504.522.8049 or ripna@ambushmag.com), or it's a $10 door donation. Top 5 Finalists include: Hair Circuit Party/Event of the Year: 17th Gay Mardi Gras Ball of the Year: Gay Easter Parade, Halloween 32, New Krewe of Amon-Ra, Krewe of Armeinius, Orleans Pride, Page Anniversary Party, Krewe of Petronius, Mystic Krewe of Lords Southern Decadence 44 of Leather, Mystic Krewe of Satyricon Hair Salon of the Year: Fee & Art's Neighborhood Bar of the Year: Cafe Revival Studio, Head Quarters, Mickey Lafitte in Exile, Corner Pocket, Four SeaNolan's, Rocket Science, Two Guy Cutting sons & Patio Stage Bar, The Page, The
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45th Southern Decadence Expected to Bring in Over 200,000 Participants According to the most recent online data, the 45th Annual Southern Decadence Celebration of LGBT+ Life, Music & Culture is expected to bring in over 200,000 participants in 2016 with another huge economic impact around the $200,000 mark for New Orleans. From June 16-23, the official website at www.SouthernDecadence.com brought in over 197,000 impressions, while it's Facebook page at www.facebook.com/
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SouthernDecadenceNOLA garnered a total reach of over 47,000 the same time period! In 2015, the 44th Southern Decadence broke all records bringing in over 180,000 participants Labor Day weekend. With an economic impact of a whopping $216 million, this was one for the history books. The end of summer circuit weekend is the 5th largest in the city following Mardi Gras, Jazz Fest, Essence Fest, and French Quarter Fest. Totals from this 44th Annual Southern Decadence celebration were added to the records kept by
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Oz bartender Jared LeBouef, Bud Light's Jordan Dauterive and Oz manager Glenn Fonte hold a banner which received over 1,000 signatures during NOLA Pride weekend which was sent to Orlando the following week. The accompanying letter said, "LGBT Community of Orlando: On June 17th thru 19th, the LGBT Community of New Orleans celebrated Gay Pride. Along with the entire world we mourned your loss. Please accept this banner of signatures to let you know that we are praying for those who lost their life and those who survived this senseless incident. As you preach love and not hate, your community stands as an inspiration to the world in the aftermath of this tragedy. And always remember that 'Love Will Conquer All.' One can only hope that politicians can put their differences aside and strengthen gun laws in the United States. We as a community should contact our local, state, and federal representatives if successful. They should name the legislation "The Pulse Bill" in honor of those pulses that tragically stopped and those that continue beating! All of our love and best wishes, ---Glenn C. Fonte, Manager, Oz, 800 Bourbon Street, New Orleans, LA 70116" (Photo by Rip Naquin)
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Catherine Gaither and Misti Ates were married in a beautiful ceremony at City Park Garden Study Center in New Orleans. The intimate wedding brought together family and friends from across the spectrum enjoying a massive wedding buffet and delectable cake provided courtesy of friends of the couple. (Photo by Rip Naquin)
The Corner Pocket in New Orleans celebrated its 34th anniversary and 9th Sugar Daddy Contest during NOLA Pride weekend. Dancer Daniel Echeverri won the dance contest making his sponsors Darwin Reed and Opal Masters Sugar Daddies of the Year. Photo: Darwin Reed, dancer Daniel Echeverri, host Barry Bareass, Opal Masters and last year's Sugar Daddy of the Year Clorox Bleachman. (Photo by Jeremy Weinberg)
Baton Rouge Pride celebrated its 10th anniversary as the largest Pride celebration in Louisiana recognized by Louisiana Governor John Bel Edwards making June LGBT Pride Month, and by Baton Rouge Mayor Kip Holden naming June 11 as Baton Rouge Pride/LGBT Pride Day. (Photo by Hubert S Monkeys)
The Big Easy Sisters lead the NOLA Pride Parade through the streets of the Marigny and French Quarter as one of this year's Pride Grand Marshals. They were joined by fellow Pride Grand Marshals Sandy Sachs, Robert L. Camina, and Breakout, Celebrity Pride Grand Marshal Debby Holiday, and Mr. and Miss Pride Eros Guillen and Vanessa Carr Kennedy. (Photo by Kim Welsh)
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the "official" dish ...from 4 www.SouthernDecadence.com. Since 1996, the celebration has had a 1 billion, 705 million dollar economic impact on the New Orleans economy, with estimated crowds now totaling over 1 million, 757 thousand. Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLII Tony Leggio, Felicia Philips, Jeffrey Palmquist and Derek-Penton Robicheaux are leading the 2016 celebration. Official Southern Decadence Sponsors to date include Presenting-Ambush Magazine,www.SouthernDecadence.com, SKYY Vodka; Platinum-Bud Light, Mike's Hard Lemonade, Gay Appreciation Awards, Crescent City Tour Booking Agency, Elizabeth Bouvier & Gary Vandeventer; Gold-The Golden Lantern, Bourbon Pub & Parade; Silver-Four Seasons & Patio Stage Bar, Cafe Lafitte in Exile, New Orleans Tourism Marketing Corp.; Bronze-Quartermaster: The Nellie Deli; and Pearl-Dawn Leggio, SDGM XXVII Errol Rizzuto, June Pennick, Alexis Grace, Cam Zimmerman, Bonita Folse/Solitaire, Fabulous Flowers LLC, Jay Crockett. You to can become a sponsor of the largest LGBT celebration in Louisiana today! All funds raised minus expenses will benefit the official 2016 Southern Decadence Charities: New Orleans Advocates for GLBT Elders (NOAGE) and Animal Rescue New Orleans (ARNO). There are several levels of sponsorship available including $5,000 Presenting, $2,500 Platinum, $1,000 Gold, $500 Silver, $250 Bronze, and $100 Pearl. Sponsorship forms are available at www.southerndecadence.com/2016/ NOSouthernDecadenceSponsors.pdf.
Are You Ready to Join Southern Decadence Fundraising Efforts? Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLII Tony Leggio, Felicia Phillips, Jeffrey Palmquist and Derek Penton-Robicheaux invite you to join their efforts in making Southern Decadence 2016 a success. All funds raised minus expenses benefit the official 2016 charities: New Orleans Advocates for GLBT Elders (NOAGE) and Animal Rescue New Orleans (ARNO). Events include: SATURDAY, July 9th... 10pm, 3rd Annual Johnny Passion’s Smatch Game with local entertainers impersonating celebrities including: SDGM XLII Philip Anthony as Sophia Petrillo, Electra City as Liza Minnelli, SDGM XLII Tony Leggio and Elizabeth Bouvier as Patsy and Edina of Ab Fab, SDGM XLII Derek PentonRobicheaux as Elton John, Tittie Toulouse as Johnny Passion, Catherine Gaither as Electra City, Errol Rizzuto as the “updated” Dark Lady, Princesse Stephaney as Marilyn Monroe, Nicole Lynn Foxx as Grace Jones, Miss Ebony as ???, and Frankie Fierce as ???; with contestants SDGM XLII Jeffrey Palmquist and Coca Mesa vs. Marshall Harris and Becky Allen; and special performances by Jupiter Phoenix as Adore Delano, Patsy and Edina (Tony Leggio and Liz Bouvier), and Marshall Harris and Becky Allen; benefiting Southern Decadence 2016 with auctions, $60 VIP Table’s for 4, $10 door donation @ Allways Lounge
THURSDAY, July 14th... 7pm, Southern Charm Meets Southern Decadence: Enjoy an evening of open bar, passed hors d’oeurvres, live music, and of course, a group of very charming pool boys splashing about for your entertainment! Wear your finest linen and bring your swim suit (or not) and enjoy a fun filled evening of Southern Decadence in a private courtyard just off of Bourbon Street with the Quistadors!!! Only 25 tickets will be offered at $100.00 per person, first come, first served (contact Jeff Palmquist or Coca Mesa for tickets) @ The Southern Decadence Grand Marshal XLII Jeffrey Palmquist & Coca Mesa Residence SUNDAY, July 17th... 2-4pm, Southern Decadence Sister Sunday Social: Brunch & Jukebox Drag Show, celebrate with Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLII Felicia Phillips, Derek Penton-Robicheaux, Jeffrey Palmquist & Tony Leggio featuring “Fab Stars, Fab Food, Fab Fun!” benefiting Southern Decadence 2016, and starring SDGM Felicia Phillips, Miss Louisiana Leatherette Vanessa Carr Kennedy, GAA Top 5 Entertainer of the Year Finalist Coca Mesa, Easter Grand Marshal XII Elizabeth Bouvier, Queen Armeinius Elect Ebony Ross, Easter Grand Marshal XVII Monica Synclaire-Kennedy, Eureeka Starfish & more surprise guests, $5 Door Donation @ The Friendly Bar WEDNESDAY, July 20th... 4pm, Southern Decadence Grill Off, Southern Decadence Grand Marshal XLII Jeffery Palmquist & The Page’s Bar Baron Willie Mackie invite you to a dual of BBQ with SDGMs Tony Leggio, Felicia Phillips & Derek Penton-Robicheaux cheering on the grill masters, $10 a plate to taste/judge including fixings (voting ballot with each plate) @ The Page SATURDAY, July 23rd... 7pm, Ambush Magazine presents 29th Annual Gay Appreciation Awards Gala with “Walking the Red Carpet” with Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLII Tony Leggio, Felicia Phillips, Jeffrey Palmquist & Derek Penton-Robicheaux 7-7:45pm, followed by the Gala 8-10pm announcing the Winners, benefiting Southern Decadence 2016, $200 VIP Table’s for 4, $10 door donation @ Oz New Orleans SUNDAY, July 24th... 2-7pm, Coming Home: Decadence Takes Biloxi, Join us for an afternoon in Biloxi welcoming Southern Decadence Grand Marshal XLII Derek PentonRobicheaux back home. Lynn Koval, the owner of Just Us Lounge, has opened her doors to greet each of you with a homecooked meal of BBQ, collard greens, and Potato Salad from 1:30 until everyone gets a plate. While you enjoy some refreshing beverages and this great food, lean back and listen to the sounds of Rewind 228, which has reunited the great talents of Lady Patrice Pickett and Johnny Fung. The band will be playing all your favorites from 2-5pm. Following, at 6pm, you will be entertained by some of the best entertainers the Coast has to offer with Estelle Suarez, Toni D, Nicole DuBois, and Merce...des Alexander storming the stage. DJ Powers will be playing the hottest hits and some classics for you all afternoon during the breaks and following the Drag Show. We will be having a 50/50 raffle, as well as general raffle for prizes including liquor baskets, food comps
and bar tabs from various businesses both in Biloxi and New Orleans. $40 Bus passes from New Orleans to Biloxi, and back, will be available for purchase, which includes admission to the venue, meal, etc. Only 47 passes are available so get yours today. Bus will leave promptly at 12:30pm from GrandPre’s, 834 N. Rampart St. Cover at the Just Us door without bus pass is $15 and includes the meal, admission for the band and drag show, and one ticket for the general raffles. Tickets $40 @ Just Us Lounge TUESDAY, July 26th... 7pm, The Quistadors present Southern Decadence “S”ingo with SDGMs XLII Jeffrey Palmquist, Felicia Philips, Derek Penton-Robicheaux & Tony Leggio, and your chance to win fab prizes at SD’s version of bingo (3 cards for $10), plus 50/ 50 raffle, auctions & more benefiting Southern Decadence 2016; arrive early at 6pm where you can order some great eats off the menu @ Cheezy Cajun SATURDAY, July 30th... 5-7pm, The Quistadors present “Mystic & Mystery: An Evening of Decadence” with SDGMs XLII Jeffrey Palmquist, Felicia Philips, Derek Penton-Robicheaux & Tony Leggio, with $10 Taro Card readings, $10 buffet courtesy of NOLA Poboys, Clover Grill & Le Fleur de Lis; plus raffles with great prizes & 50/50 raffle benefiting Southern Decadence 2016 @ Good Friends Bar SUNDAY, July 31st... 3-5pm, Sippin’ with The Sisters 2nd Annual Deviled Egg Competition benefiting Southern Decadence 2016 with SDGMs XLII Tony Leggio, Felicia Philips, Jeffrey Palmquist & Derek Penton-Robicheaux, $10 to Taste/Judge (Rules: 1. Must supply a minimum of 60 eggs (30 eggs cut in half) Grade A Large only; 2. Souffle cups will be provided by Cutter’s (solo cup P150 1 1/2 oz., eggs must be presented in souffle cups; 3. Must be presented on platters provided by Cutter’s - or equivalent - commonly referred to as a crawfish platter. If your eggs do not fit on the trays (for whatever reason-2 will be provided) you must provide the additional tray; 4. Competition starts at 3pm - there will be a grace period of 15 minutes only; 5. Competition ends at 5pm; 6. Winners will be announced as soon as possible thereafter; 7. Judging will be by public vote with ballots provided by Cutter’s to all tasters; 8. Your eggs must fit within the confines of the souffle cup - meaning - the souffle cup will serve as the base of your entry. You may fill the egg with whatever you desire, but it must fit in the cup. 9. There will be plaques awarded for the Winner and 1st Runner-up; 10. You must not place anything on the top of the egg that is not edible-(or in it)-for that matter-no statues or tiaras, etc.; 11. If you are late (after 3:15) you will not be eligible for judging (however, we will keep the eggs and enjoy them). If you do not sign up for the competition and just show up out of the blue - your entry will not qualify for judging (however, we will keep the eggs and enjoy them). @ Cutter’s WEDNESDAY, August 3rd... 5-8pm, Burgers and Dogs For Southern Decadence, Krewe du Royale Revelers’ Grand Reveler II Will Antill and Lord of Misrule Frank Perez will be grilling up juicy hamburgers and delicious hot dogs as well as serving up scrumptious potato salad and other fixin’s. $10 gets you an amazing meal
and benefits Southern Decadence, whose official charities are NOAGE and ARNO. ARNO is Animal Rescue New Orleans, the city’s only no kill shelter. NOAGE stands for New Orleans Advocates for GLBT Elders. None of us are getting younger and we all like pets. And we certainly like to eat! So come join us and support Southern Decadence! @ Cafe Lafitte in Exile Keep abreast of the latest information available in Ambush Magazine, your Official Southern Decadence Guide, www.SouthernDecadence.com, your Official Southern Decadence Website, or follow Southern Decadence at w w w . F a c e b o o k . c o m / SouthernDecadenceNOLA.
Greater New Orleans Foundations Launches LGBT Fund; Nonprofits Have until July 15 to Apply for Funding The Greater New Orleans Foundation announced the launch of the LGBT Fund that will channel charitable contributions to local organizations supporting the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community. “The Greater New Orleans Foundation is playing a vital role of raising awareness and support for organizations that represent the interests of LGBT communities,” said Cheryl Teamer, board chair of the Greater New Orleans Foundation. “This fund will allow us to better understand LGBT challenges in the community and find ways to address them.” Teamer also noted that no fees will be assessed by the Foundation to administer this fund, so every dollar can be put straight to work in our community. Nonprofit organizations serving Orleans Parish that are working to improve the quality of life for members of the LGBT community can apply for grants by midnight on Friday, July 15, 2016. The application can be accessed at http://www.gnof.org/ the-lgbt-fund/. The Foundation anticipates awarding 10 to 15 grants in the first round. The amounts will vary between $5,000 and $10,000. The winners will be announced in late August. For nearly a year, the Foundation has been raising money for the LGBT Fund from individual donors and national funders. “As the public response to the recent tragedy in Orlando has shown, there is great power in people coming together to take a stand against hatred and violence. Here in New Orleans, people are standing up for local organizations by making a gift to the LGBT Fund,” said Erin McQuade-Wright, vice president for donor relations at the Greater New Orleans Foundation. Additional contributions to the LGBT Fund can be made here: www.gnof.org/givenow. The fund was launched on the anniversary of the UpStairs Lounge fire, which was intentionally set in 1973 at a gay bar in the French Quarter and resulted in the death of 32 people. Until the recent mass shooting in Orlando, the UpStairs Lounge fire had been the deadliest known attack on a gay club in U.S. history. The Greater New Orleans Foundation is the community foundation serving a 13-parish Greater New Orleans metropolitan area. We design and lead initiatives that improve the region, connect donors to community needs, identify and support great nonprofits, and strengthen civil society.
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“A Pride Parade to Remember” The recent New Orleans Pride Parade capped off a very emotional week. I had traveled the previous weekend to represent the LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana and Ambush in the Baton Rouge Pride festivities. While there, I remembered my life in the closet when I was in high school in Baton Rouge. I remembered meeting my first lover at L.S.U. and how we would come to New Orleans on the weekends to drink at Lafitte’s. I remembered how careful we were to guard our deeply held secret. I remembered the fear of discovery. I remembered the self-loathing. I remembered the shame. And so to participate so publicly in the Baton Rouge Pride celebration, to think about how far I had come in my personal journey, well, it made me feel proud. Waking up Sunday to the horrible news of the massacre in Orlando injected a dose of sad reality into my pride: there were still people who wanted to kill me just because of who I am. On the ride back to New Orleans it occurred to me that our past is never too far behind us—and I wept. Upon arriving back home, I pulled myself together and went to activist Stewart Butler’s home for a StoryCorps / NPR interview that had been planned for weeks. Then I was contacted by Steven Mora and Chad Boutte who asked me if I would say a few words that evening at a candle-light vigil on the river they were organizing. I said yes and hoped I could make it through my remarks without breaking down in tears, which I did. The rest of the week was tough. Monday night was yet another vigil at St. Anna’s Episcopal Church. Throughout the rest of the week I conducted several gay history
book review Rabbit Rabbit. Deb Jannerson. Finishing Line Press, 2016. $14.49. by Frank Perez Years ago I attended a reading by the late, great Irish writer Frank McCourt. After the reading, McCourt entertained questions, one of which was from a young woman who asked what advice he would give to an aspiring writer. McCourt paused silently for a minute and looked longingly at the fledgling writer and said sardonically, “Have you ever suffered?” The audience chuckled but there was more than a kernel of truth in his remark; namely, that good, authentic writing, whatever the genre, stems from personal experience. After reading Rabbit Rabbit, it is clear Jannerson has suffered. What’s more, it is also clear that she has learned how to transform that suffering into poetic beauty. All that is to say this volume of poetry is delightful and worth a read. Rabbit Rabbit is New Orleans novelist Deb Jannerson’s first foray into poetry although readers might never guess it.
walking tours, which were especially poignant in light of Orlando. And then there were numerous interviews and requests for interviews. Then came Saturday and the New Orleans Pride Parade. I marched with the LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana, a non-profit organization of which I am privileged to be a part. As we were lining up, we were joined by some younger folks (Sean Ortolano and John Green) who had attended but never before marched in a Pride Parade. As we began walking, I thought of the first Pride Parade I marched in years earlier. At that time, the route seemed really long and I told myself ahead of time that I would peel off before the end and head to the bar. But as I marched, the love and energy of the crowds were absorbing and sustaining and before I knew it, I had marched the entire route. This year I almost didn’t march at all. I underwent spinal cord surgery earlier this year and while my recovery has been nothing short of miraculous, I’m still not 100%. And although I’m walking fairly well, I cannot do it for too terribly long, especially not in the oppressive summer heat. The truth is, I feel fortunate to be walking at all. Shortly after the parade began, I passed my cousin Trish who reached out and embraced me. I thought of the night she spent with me at the hospital when I was at my worst and I wasn’t even sure I would ever walk again. I knew then my decision to walk the parade was the right one. In fact, at that moment walking the parade became a mission of personal resolve and triumph—a mission that was reinforced with every face along the way of someone I saw who visited me in the hospital. Jannerson’s poetry is marked by a grace and maturity rarely seen in debut collections. Of all literary genres, poetry is probably the least read; yet, more poetry than ever is being published these days. The vast majority of it is fluff and drivel, which is why Rabbit Rabbit was such a pleasure to read. Good poetry is not only provocative and evocative, it is also absorbing; Rabbit Rabbit hits the mark on all three. This chapbook is essentially a meditation on the symbiotic relationship among memory, identity, and meaning-making. The poetry is pensively exquisite, at times quite stunning. Jannerson writes bildungsroman fiction and queer romance. Her work has been published by Bitch, Curve, Heliograph, Vertigo, Redlands Review, Bust, Nola Live, E·ratio, Ravishly, Cleis Press, Kore Press, BookByYou, A Room of Her Own, Deconstructing Glee, Crazy with a Side of Awesome Sauce, We Have a Fucking Right to Be Angry, and Women’s Review of Books. She is a two-time Short Lister and a three-time Finalist in the William Faulkner - Wisdom Competition for her new adult fiction. Jannerson resides in New Orleans.
But this parade was about so much more than just my personal struggle. It was about more than just publicly declaring my personal pride in being gay. It was about Orlando and how the horrible shooting there a week earlier demonstrated more than ever the necessity and importance of Pride Parades. Marching in that parade was a declaration that not only are we proud of who we are but also that we are not afraid. As we marched I saw parents with their children lining the parade route. Several times I reached out to tell them that I wished when I was a kid that my parents had brought me to a Pride Parade. What a difference that would have made! But times were different then. I thought about how times have changed for the better but also about how much more they need to change. As previously mentioned, we had some first time marchers in our group. I took great delight in introducing them to Mark Gonzalez, who was also marching with the Archives Project. Gonzalez (along with Charlene Schneider and Richard O’Connor) founded Gayfest in 1978. Gay Fest produced the
first Gay Pride Parade in New Orleans in 1980. As the parade approached the intersection of Decatur and Iberville Streets, I began to think of the Up Stairs Lounge (located a block away) and the 32 people who died as a result of the arson there on June 24, 1973. What would those men have thought if they could have seen this Parade, this public display of pride? Could they have even imagined it? The 2016 Pride Parade was the largest in New Orleans history, due, in no small part, to the massacre in Orlando a week earlier. The crowds were, for the most part, supportive and enthusiastic. There are, however, always exceptions. As we made our way down upper Bourbon, I heard a frat guy type on the sidewalk make a derogatory comment questioning why they don’t have Straight Pride parades. If I could have talked to him I would have told him to be thankful they didn’t need one. If Orlando teaches us anything, it’s that Pride Parades are still just as necessary now as they ever have been.
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The New Orleans Krewe... Women's Football Team In the South, there is one thing that we can all just about agree on, and that is our love of football. It doesn’t matter if its pee wee football or the New Orleans Saints or LSU Tigers, we will be there cheering for our favorite team. I’m excited to inform those of you who do not know, New Orleans has its very own semi pro, full tackle, women’s football team. The New Orleans Krewe is getting ready for its second year and without a doubt, this is going to be the season that makes a statement. Nichole Doyle, team owner, founded the team on the premises that all women should be given a chance to play and become empowered by doing so. One of the things that impressed me while speaking with Nichole is, there are no labels concerning the ladies that play for the team. It doesn’t matter if you are a lesbian or straight, if you can play football and have the tenacity it takes, then playing women’s football is definitely an option you may need to consider. Nichole played tight end for The New Orleans MoJo before becoming owner of The New Orleans Krewe. Being a team owner has been a dream of Nichole’s for years and through hard work and perseverance, it has become a reality. Perseverance is a much needed trait to have when you are trying to make a success out of a women’s football team. Unfortunately, women’s football does not get the press or support that other football teams are fortunate to have. The Krewe is the third women’s football team that has tried to make a go of it here in New Orleans. Years ago, it was The New Orleans Blaze followed by The New Orleans MoJo. Some may speculate that the lack of interest is because women’s football is considered not to be as exciting and physical like men playing football. Well, if that’s your opinion, I suggest you go see The Krewe play one of their games at Muss Bertolino Stadium. There games are hard hitting and exciting. It would be a great outing and something different to do with your family or friends. If you are up to traveling, The Krewe will also be on the road to Texas to play other teams in their division. Houston, San Antonio and Austin are just a few of the cities that can also boast of having their own women’s all tackle football team. On August 27, 2016 for 12:00pm, at Buffalo Wild Wings in Metairie, there will be an informative type meet and greet with the owner, Nichole Doyle and current players. They will be on hand to answer any questions concerning all you would need to know about becoming a part of The New Orleans Krewe. Conditioning for the team will be through out the months of October, November and December. Janurary 2017 will begin their team practice. The Krewe is looking for not only new players, they are also are in need of team sponsors, volunteers and fans. It takes a village to make a team a success. We don’t think twice about showing support to our furry friends, so let’s step up and show The New Orleans Krewe some love. I, for one, am looking forward to attending their home games with the missus. Let’s all get on board and cheer our very own women’s football team on to victory! If you are interested in learning more about The New Orleans Krewe, be sure to “like” their Facebook page or check out Instagram at http://instagram.com/nolakrewefootball.
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Hot Happenings The 4th of July has been celebrated and the summer sun beats down. But the heat is no reason to stop the events, festivals and parties in New Orleans. Here are just a few things to do! Wednesday, July 6, 2016 Please joins month’s CommUNITY Speak Out - f or LGBT Self Defense Series from 7 – 8pm at 741 Bourbon St). I Shop LGBT and Louisiana Equality Foundation are presenting a special LGBT Self Defense Series brought to you by Close Combat and Fitness. Orlando has brought fear to the front of our minds. We do not have to live in fear. Louis Charron is the Owner of Close Combat and Fitness, Louisiana Director of IKMF (International Krav Maga Federation) and a 2nd degree Black Belt in Tae Kwon Doe. He has over 15 years of Combative Arts Training and more importantly has extensive experience training others. As part of an International organization, like minded instructors in the International Krav Maga Federation have banded together (after seeing numerous LGBT members come into their studios) to discuss and train the defenses against attacks that are focused against the LGBT community. This series is designed for individuals with no martial arts training that have concerns about personal safety at home, while out having a good time or attending an event. You will learn how to defend against single and multiple attackers, weapons defense and much more. The organizations motto is “so one may walk in peace”. This training will be a 4 part series that you can watch live on Louisiana Equality Foundation’s Facebook Fan page as well as participate at the Speak Out. It is presented in an open forum format so you will be able to ask questions, talk about concerns and give “what could I do” scenarios all while being live on the Fan page. Check out Louisiana Equality Foundations Page for time and dates on each part of the series beginning next week. Thursday, July 7, 2016 The Honor Thy Mother Series presents Wendy Ho at the Three Keys Lounge in the Ace Hotel (600 Carondelet) starting at 8pm. Wendy Jo Smith, better known as the foul mouthed, hilarious singer/comedian and rapper Wendy HO- is the number one “female drag queen” in the country and a Billboard top 10 comedic recording artist. Her music has been covered by queens worldwide; chances are if you’ve been to a drag show, you’ve heard her music. She most recently was the only biological female cast member on The Divas of Drag Tour proving it doesn’t matter what’s under your dress a QUEEN IS A QUEEN! Also on the bill, fresh off they’re Draguation at Cycle 4 of the New Orleans Drag Workshop, Is the Bermuda Triangle of Drag. Kedavra, Jassy, and Slenderella are HOT FOR DRAG right now.!!! Come see this inspirational and HUNGRY girls as they give it all they’ve got.
Friday, July 8, 2016 Hello New Orleans it’s Time again for another installment of THE MARVELOUS SHOW at GrandPre’s (834 N. Rampart St.) starting at 10:30pm. No theme just good old fashioned smoke and mirrors produced by Eureeka Starfish. The Cast of Characters this month are Eureeka Starfish, Liberaunchy, Kedarva, Logan Faust and hosted by May Hemmer. The cover is $10. Saturday, July 9, 2016 One of the most anticipated fundraisers of the year!! Johnny Passion’s 3rd Annual Smatch Game for Southern Decadence will take place at the Allways Lounge (2240 St. Claude Avenue) starting at 10pm. It’s a blend of RuPaul’s Snatch Game, Match Game and Family Feud all rolled into one! The star studded event will be filled with lots of laughter and celebrity impersonations ... Starring your host and emcee, Misti Ates (Johnny Passion SDGM XLI)... cohost Persana Shoulders, plus the star studded cast and performers... Anthony Leggio (SDGM XLII)... Elizabeth Bouvier.. Felicia Phillips (SDGM XLII) Philip Anthony .. Tittie Toulouse (SDGM XXXV) .. Electra City SDGM XXXIV .. Catherine Gaither .. Frankie Fierce (SDGM XLI) .. Lana O’Day .. Jeffrey Palmquist (SDGM XLII) .. Princesse Stephaney.. Derek Penton Robicheaux (SDGM XLII) .. Marshall Harris.. Becky Allen.. Errol Rizzuto (SDGM XXVII).. Miss Ebony (Queen Armeinius Elect).. Jupiter Phoenix .. Coca Mesa and Nicole Lynn Foxx.. That’s alot of our local celebrities that will be together on one stage! You do NOT want to miss this event! VIP tables for 4 are only $60.00.. Make your reservations today as they will go Super-fast!! VIP includes admission for 4 to event.. inclusion in a special drawing .. and preferred seating! Donation at door is $10.00 and all monies from door, auction items and tips will be donated to Southern Decadence 2016. Saturday, July 9, 2016 The 10th Annual San Fermín in Nueva Orleans festival featuring hundreds of Roller Derby athletes from around the world to chase you and your friends around the Crescent City in an homage to the great encierros of Pamplona. Get tickets and more information at Nola.Bulls.com. A portion of the proceeds from the event will benefit Beth’s Friends Forever and Animal Rescue New Orleans (ARNO). Doors open at the Sugar Mill (1021 Convention Center Blvd.) at 6:30am. Join bright and early at The Sugar Mill for a warm-up session, the Procession of San Fermín at 7am, a flourish of magnificence from The Very Right Reverend Deacon Doctor Brother Pastor Pope Andrew Ward, and The Running of the Bulls at 8am sharp. The fiesta will rage on with performances from Quickie Mart, Vivaz, aerialists and other spectacles. Saturday, July 9 and Sunday, July 10, 2016 Four Sweater Vests (a division of See
‘Em On Stage) presents DREAM ROLES CABARET at the Ugly Dog Saloon (410 Andrew Higgins Dr.). This show is back for its second installment with an all-star cast of New Orleans’ talent. The theme of the evening is titled ‘Heroes and Villains’ and proceeds will go toward funding the SEOS Community Outreach division’s mission of producing and performing free shows for children. General admission is $10, and there will also be a 50/50 raffle! The shows starts at 8pm on the 9th and 9:30pm on the 10th. Sunday, July 10, 2016 Cool down from the summer heat in the way of old New Orleans, by taking a cruise on the Steamboat Natchez on the mighty Mississippi with the Krewe of Armeinius. Rollin on the River: A Steamboat Natchez Adventure is from 6 – 9pm at the Natchez dock. At this event entitled enjoy live jazz, hors d’oeuvres, and the exclusive comfort of the private newly renovated Captains Salon aboard the Steamboat Natchez. This one time only event is one you won’t want to miss. Enjoy their very own private cash bar in the Captain’s Salon, while indulging in a wonderful spread of delicious bites. Proceeds go to support the Krewe of Armeinius but this event is more about socializing and enjoying the city. Space is very limited so please reserve your tickets today and must be reserved ONLINE before cruising. To buy tickets, go to https:// armeinius.ticketleap.com/boozin-andcruisin/dates/Jul-10-2016_at_0600PM. Ticket gives you access to the VIP newly renovated Captain’s Salon aboard the Steamboat Natchez. You’ll be able to explore the entire boat at your leisure. Please note this is a party and we will have hors d’oeuvres but the ticket is not for dinner in the upstairs dining room. Tickets are $55. Thursday, July 14, 2016 Enjoy an evening of open bar, passed hors d’oeuvres, live music, and of course, a group of very charming pool boys splashing about for your entertainment at the Southern Charm Meets Southern Decadence! Wear your finest linen and bring your swim suit (or not) and enjoy a fun filled evening of Southern Decadence in a private courtyard just off of Bourbon Street with the Quistadors!!! Only 25 tickets will be offered at $100.00 per person, first come, first served (contact Jeff Palmquist or Coca Mesa for tickets) Southern Decadence Grand Marshal XLII Jeffrey Palmquist & Coca Mesa Residence. Friday, July 15, 2016 Named the third best Bastille Day celebration in the world by Reuters.com, Bastille Day Fête is excited to announce its new home at the New Orleans Museum of Art (1 Collins Diboll Circle). Now in its fifth year, the celebration will be bringing even more of its French flair to the people of New Orleans. The events will take place from 4 – 10pm. 2016 event highlights will include: – An exciting line-up of local musicians – French and English tours of the museum – French cooking demonstration in Café NOMA – French inspired kids’ activities in partnership with the brand-new bookstore, The French Library In addition, Bastille Day Fête is taking the celebrations onto the grounds of City Park with activities including pétanque
demonstrations and contests, kids’ activities and French-inspired food trucks! And to top it off, dogs are invited too…dress up your pup for the annual French Dog Contest where all dogs are welcome to show off their French spirit and win prizes. Outside activities are FREE! $5 entry to NOMA and free for NOMA members. More information at http://bastilledaynola.com. Sunday, July 17, 2016 The Lords of Leather are hosting their fabulous Luau Pool Party from 1 – 5pm at 3026 North Rampart in the Bywater. Tickets are $15 tickets in advance, $20 at the door! Come for an afternoon of burgers, hot dogs, snacks, drinks (yep, those kinds of drinks too) and a cool/refreshing swimming pool! There will also be auction items available, and, the $1,000 Cash Winning Raffle Ticket will be drawn! ($10 raffle ticket(s) are available now and/or at the event prior to the drawing). Exact location of the event will be shared closer to the event date. Proceeds go toward Bal Masque XXXIV! Sunday, July 17, 2016 Come out for some great MEAT and BUNS as the Krewe of Amon-Ra serves up Burgers and Buns at Good Friends Bar (740 Dauphine Street) from 3 – 6pm. There will be entertainment, auctions, raffles, and of course Burgers & Buns! $10 Donation to the Krewe! Saturday, July 23, 2016 Are you ready for the Gay Community’s Ultimate Award Ceremony, the Gay Appreciation Awards? The event takes place at Oz (800 Bourbon Street). This year will feature the new “Walking the Red Carpet” from 7-7:45pm emceed by Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLII Felicia Phillips as “Joan Rivers,” Jeffrey Palmquist, Tony Leggio and Derek Penton-Robicheaux. Dress to the nines in your fav 2016 Southern Decadence color: purple, red, blue or white, or a combination. The SDGMs will choose the “best dressed” which will be awarded the Red Carpet Oscar Award during the Gala. The 29th annual GAA Gala runs from 8-10pm and the 2016 winners of 21 awards voted on by the readers of Ambush Magazine are announced at this event. VIP Tables with four seats are $200 and are very limited. Proceeds minus expenses benefits Southern Decadence 2016. Contact Rip Naquin for table reservations at ripna@ambushmag.com or 504.522.8049. Door admission is $10. Sunday, July 24, 2016 Join the Southern Decadence Grand Marshals at Coming Home: Decadence Takes Biloxi, an afternoon in Biloxi welcoming Derek Penton-Robicheaux back home. Lynn Koval, the owner of Just Us Lounge (906 Division Street), has opened her doors to greet each of you with a home-cooked meal of BBQ, collard greens, and Potato Salad from 1:30 until everyone gets a plate. While you enjoy some refreshing beverages and this great food, lean back and listen to the sounds of Rewind 228, which has reunited the great talents of Lady Patrice Pickett and Johnny Fung. The band will be playing all your favorites from 2-5pm. Following, at 6pm, you will be entertained by some of the best entertainers the Coast has to offer with Estelle Suarez, Toni D, Nicole DuBois, and Mercedes Alexander storming the stage. DJ Powers will be playing the
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a community within communities by The Rev. Bill Terry, Rector St. Anna’s Episcopal Church, New Orleans Email: fr.bill@stannanola.org
Faith I have faith. I suspect one way or another most do. It may be a brooding faith in the failure of someone or something. Or, faith may be in virtuous pursuits that show the goodness in someone or something. I have to have faith because without it this world would be bleak. At least faith is those things that are hoped for without the evidence to prove them. I pulled up to a stop light after a rainy day. There was a man dressed poorly and he was begging. He had an umbrella and he was in a wheel chair and he had no legs. No matter how one views this scene he was poor. I was two lanes over and could not quite get to him to drop a few dollars off. A car pulled up next to me and next to the beggar. They stopped short as many of us do trying to avoid contact with the poor. I was in a good mood and started talking out loud in my own car, “Aw come on man, give the guy a buck” and “you can do it he’s poor and broke give him a dollar or two.” Sure enough the car slowly inched forward and the driver gave the old boy a buck or two. Just as that happened another car stopped in the crossing and a man in a nice suite jumped out of his care with a giant Burger King bag and a giant drink and gave
it to the man. I thought wow. There is hope … I have faith and experienced this connection of giving and receiving through the lenses of faith. The next day I was sitting on the stoop outside of church. I am kicked out of my office for a few hours each afternoon so kids from the Treme can learn cello. Of course they learn much more than that. I thought this situation would really be a burden but I found that I enjoyed stoop sitting. I used to do it a lot with a good cup of coffee a cigarette and folks passing by and dishing out pleasantries. We are after all southern and we do such things. As you can imagine I usually get hustled a dozen times a day for a buck, food, or a cigarette. There is usually some story that goes with it. Some, I am sure are true, others…not so much. But I still enjoy stoop sitting. While I was sitting a guy came walking up, kind of fast with intention, my inner voice was, “Aw man.” He shook my hand and said, “I just wanted to thank you for all your prayers a couple of years ago. I’ve been sober for 30 months, got my driver’s license, and bought a truck: Thank you Father for your prayers.” At the same time a rather large woman on a bike rode by
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ing this year. I was honored to be asked to speak to this wonderful group of individuals whose main purpose is to support the LGBT community as it gets older. Sometimes it feels like we are a youth driven community, so it is easy to see how as you get older, you can feel left out. NOAGE was created from a steering committee of concerned residents and older adult service providers to address the challenges facing LGBT older adults in the New Orleans area. LGBT older adults often face discrimination when seeking medical treatment, have a higher rate of poverty, are sometimes isolated after the loss of a significant other, and often feel the need to go back into the closet when living in a long term care facility. The unique challenges faced by LGBT older adults require a unique response. NOAGE also works to increase the cultural competency of providers through trainings and workshops facilitated by NOAGE volunteers. As advocates on behalf of the LGBT older adult community, NOAGE is committed to ensuring that all LGBT older adults can live their best lives with the dignity and respect that they deserve. It was a wonderful evening meeting some incredible people and watching the fabulous Nathan Lane and Robin Williams in one of my all-time favorite films. On Wednesday, Frank Perez, Jeff Palmquist and Coca Mesa hosted a fundraiser for Southern Decadence which included a reception at Jeff and Coca’s home and Frank’s Gay French Quarter walking tour. This entertaining and educational event was very cool. If you have not been on Frank’s tour, I highly recommend it. His witty and touching delivery of the gay history of the city keeps you mesmerized the entire time. I love that this year we are doing so many different styles of events for
hottest hits and some classics for you all afternoon during the breaks and following the Drag Show. We will be having a 50/50 raffle, as well as general raffle for prizes including liquor baskets, food comps and bar tabs from various businesses both in Biloxi and New Orleans. $40 Bus passes from New Orleans to Biloxi, and back, will be available for purchase, which includes admission to the venue, meal, etc. Only 47 passes are available so get yours today. Bus will leave promptly at 12:30pm from GrandPre’s, 834 N. Rampart St. Cover at the Just Us door without bus pass is $15 and includes the meal, admission for the band and drag show, and one ticket for the general raffles. Link to bus passes - https:/ /decadence.ticketleap.com/coming-homedecadence-takes-biloxi/dates/Jul-242016_at_0200PM
Party Down Except for the heat, summer in New Orleans is awesome. The parties, festivals and special events happen seven days a week. My two weeks was filled with fundraisers, Pride events, a wedding, movies and Bianca del Rio. Quite an interesting two weeks all the time working like crazy with thousands of delegates in town for IPW. I did not just burn the candle at both ends; it felt like I also lit it in the middle. There’s much to talk about so let’s begin on Tuesday with the NOAGE movie night membership drive event at the Broad Street Theatre. The New Orleans Advocates for GLBT Elders held their membership drive at a free screening of the classic movie, The Birdcage. NOAGE is one of the charities Southern Decadence is support-
and I said “After-noon how ya’ doin?” She said, “Blessed” and I said “you are blessed.” She rode on…WOW. This past week, as I said, St. Anna’s is hosting its summer program for the children of the Treme. It’s crazy here and the kids lack discipline and good manners. They haven’t been taught them, many of them, and so we can’t expect them. In fact in some ways that is why we are doing this program. To bring hope, faith, and yes good manners into the lives of some children. So the kids were going nuts and Mother Superior otherwise known as Parish Administrator Luigi, dressed in black cassock began to intervene to settle the kids down and insure that our altar area was not destroyed. One little girl stubbed her toe and wouldn’t get a band aid until Mother Superior found a “Mickey” band aid then it was all ok. You should have seen the warmth when Luigi told me the story. Faith in the transformative power of love and care for others. Faith is the confidence that justice and goodness are always possible. Faith. These unrelated events I believe are all related. They are a compellation of what the world looks like through the eyes of a believer, one who has faith. My eyes and heart don’t always experience this kind of world but when I am open to it there is a fundamental shift in how I perceive people and their interactions.
often by hurt that they miss some of this good stuff. I credit my faith in a loving, giving, sustaining God to the lenses through which I experience this world. When it is a pissy world I am not walking with God. When it is a lovely, caring, fun place I am walking with God. I hope that I walk with this faith this professed savior more than I don’t … it makes this world so much more delightful. “May the peace of God which passes all understanding keep your hearts and minds in the knowledge and love of God.” Be blessed, love freely, care deeply and “Walk in love as Christ loved us.”
It seems like a lot of people go around so motivated by goals and ambitions and Southern Decadence. The following day, my friend Laura Tennyson and I went to Grand Krewe wine shop in the Marigny for a very special Pride wine tasting with celebrity drag star Neon Burgundy. The wines that night were delicious and Neon kept the audience wowed with a spectacular performance. Pride weekend started with all kinds of fun at the Bianca del Rio show at the Joy Theatre. Gary Vandeventer and Elizabeth Bouvier were the VIP host sponsors and it was quite the exclusive treatment. We got to sit at a table in front of the stage and see the queens up close and personal. Bianca was her always funny and biting self. Darienne Lake, Aggy Dune, Milk and Kasha Davis all brought their vitality and unique performances this evening. I am so proud to see a New Orleans native doing so well for himself. Afterwards a group of us met up with Bianca at small private gathering upstairs at Oz that before long turned into a crazy party. I ended my evening with a nightcap at Lafitte’s in Exile, then a nightcap to the nightcap at the Phoenix before calling it a night. Saturday was the Pride block party by the Phoenix which started the day’s festivities for me followed by catching the Pride Parade at the very beginning, while everyone was all fresh and pretty. Sometimes by the end of the parade, things can go awry. The parade was huge this year due to the heartfelt response of the community to the Orlando shootings. The empty float was a beautiful touch and it was so nice to see so many of our allies come out in support of the parade. Now the key is to keep them supporting our community from this day forward. Sunday through Tuesday I was in IPW zaniness. From events at the Louisiana Superdome to the Hilton, my dance card was filled with work, work work. I came up for air on the following Friday when I helped
several others in the hospitality community organize the NOLA Beats for Orlando fundraiser at the Sugar Mill. My day started early along with co-Southern Decadence Grand Marshal Jeffrey Palmquist with doing a spot on the morning show for WWL about the event. Then during the event Derek joined us as we emceed the afternoon of music, food, drag queens and reflection. The balloon release was such a moving moment as a singer belted out “You Are So Beautiful.” And the queens who participated, Coca Mesa, Tara Cards and Princesse Stephaney were just fantastic. I was honored to stand on the stage with Jeff and Derek and be part of this event. Love was in the air and in the gardens at City Park as Misti Ates and Catherine Gauthier tied the knot. It was a lovely ceremony that brought many in the audience to tears (Persana Shoulders, I did not think you had those emotions in you). It was just a magical evening to watch these two lovely people join in holy matrimony. This is what we are fighting for, the right to love. The food, the cake, the little bottles of vodka as a party favor (best favor ever!), the music (thanks to Dee and Stephanie) and of course the happy couple all made for a lovely and memorable night. But of course after several glasses/bottles of champagne, Frankie Fierce and I decided to hit the French Quarter. We started by taking in a few minutes of the Gumbo Review at Mags 940 then jumped over to the Storyville Boys at GrandPre’s. After a jaunt to the Corner Pocket followed by a little libation or two at the 700 Club. Next up was a pass through to say hi to some friends at the Rawhide and ended with martinis at Good Friends. Needless to say by that time I was done and so was my liver. What a great night! Sunday was a day of rest and relaxation on the couch. Until next time, stay decadent!
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At the recent AC²: An Intimate Evening with Anderson Cooper & Andy Cohen, the crowd at the Saenger Theatre seemed to be made up mostly of two groups, gay men and female Real Housewives fans. Addressing this early on in the program, Cooper gave an apologetic shout-out to the “straight husbands and boyfriends” of the latter group who allowed themselves to be dragged to the show. He needn’t have as there was some- for—a backstage view of all the Real Housething for everyone to savor in this nearly two wives. hour long chatfest. While I enjoyed Cohen’s breathless Journalist/author Cooper and House- discussion of the part-Shakespearean comwives producer/late night talk show host edy, part-Greek tragedy world of the HouseCohen first crossed paths about 25 years wives, I preferred Cooper’s account of how ago when friends tried to set them up on a he was named the Pussy Willow Prince of date. But when the celebrity-obsessed Buffalo’s Dyngus Day celebration (google Cohen brought up Gloria Vanderbilt, for the improbable details); a clip of him Cooper’s mother, Cooper recoiled. Years diving in search of the dangerous Nile later they became pals and have been crocodile; and, especially, his serious inhanging out around the world ever since. sights on his uncommon life’s path. Promising “Deep Talk and Shallow Tales”, AC² offers both with Cooper providing more of the former, Cohen a healthy helping of the latter. Ambling onto the stage with a hurricane (Cohen) and a Hansen’s sno-ball (Cooper), Cooper averred that they had “no idea what to expect. It’ll be like we’re all out drinking together.” Which in our liquidfriendly city was probably a more literal description than other places their AC² tour has taken them. Andy Cohen & Anderson Cooper in AC² After mentioning Trump, at the Saenger Theatre Obama, and the tragedy in Orlando, Cooper did comment that “PolitiBest of all was the rarely told 2005 tale cians answer the questions they want to be of the two ACs’ vacation in Dubrovnik and asked rather than what was asked.” And what Cooper was up to the night before he when the topic turned to Katrina and Coo- flew out to New Orleans to start his coverper stated “It was a privilege to be here [for age of Katrina. I’m not gonna say more it], one of the great honors of my life”, the except that Cooper’s “new friends” that he raucous audience became hushed at “met” that evening were the least of it, and Cooper’s moving sincerity. that it’s so wild that even though you know Amid the friendly ribbing and wonder- how it ends (after all, Cooper is right there ful dishing between the two ACs, the self- on stage telling all this), you’re on the edge deprecating Cooper described how he stood of your seat, wondering “How is he gonna out as a “pale newt” on the beach in Rio make it out alive?” during a trip there while Cohen, left alone Throughout the evening, the casual on the gay playa and busy looking at the camaraderie between Cohen and Cooper “passing packages”, managed to allow a is evident, and they play off of each other backpack to be stolen. Which wasn’t as bad very well echoing such classic buddy pairs as a nearby baby which had also been as Jerry Lewis and Dean Martin or Oscar purloined. and Felix. One senses that if they were in About halfway through, the focus the same high school, Cohen would be shifted from Cooper to Cohen starting with named “Class Clown” while Cooper would clips from his 40th birthday when friends be the valedictorian. Perhaps most satisfyread his letters home from summer camp, ing is their acknowledgment of their gaycertainly among the gayest missives ever ness without it being an overriding concern, written by a lad. Still evincing the enthusi- a welcome and almost inconceivable asm of a 12-year-old and unlike the more change for celebrities of their status from 30 stay-at-home Cooper, it came as no sur- or even 20 years ago. prise when the man-about-town Cohen Having appeared in 20 cities so far and said “I didn’t move to New York City to though the ACs do refer to notes to keep sleep.” them on track, the entire show has an offAfter stories about Scott Baio, Tori the-cuff feel to it. That said, having seen Spelling, and a clip from Cohen’s talk show, some promotional clips, while I don’t think Watch What Happens: Live, in which he the show is too heavily scripted, if certain asked Shaquille O’Neal the one question parts might be oft-told tales, they keep the you wouldn’t think would ever be asked of delivery fresh enough to make it all seem a man on anything but cable access TV, spontaneous. AC² finally got around to what clearly a [continued on 31] majority of the audience had been waiting
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matters of health HIPAA Waiver in Orlando Shooting In an interesting twist to the situation in Orlando, the White House approved a HIPAA waiver. Just what does that mean? HIPAA stand for the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act. It protects the privacy of health information and if you have called a hospital to find out information about someone and only been told that the person is there and that’s all they can tell you, you experienced the protections it provides. It restricts the sharing of medical information only to those the patient approves. But in the case of the victims in Orlando, most could not give that permission. The law does have provisions to allow health care providers to share the information with next of kin or spouses, if the person is incapacitated but many of those waiting to hear of their friends or partners were not next of kin or spouses but still were “family.” According to an interview aired on Orlando’s NewsChannel 10, City Mayor Buddy Dyer announced that the issue was being addressed in an unusual way — by the granting of a HIPPA waiver by the White House to Orlando Regional Medical Center, the hospital where many of the victims were being treated. This was possible because there’s a clause in the law that allows the secretary of health and human services to waive portions in certain exceptional situations. “The CEO of [a] hospital came to me and said they had an issue related to the families who came to the emergency room. Because of HIPAA regulations, they could not give them any information,” Dyer said, according to NewsChannel 10.
looked at some of the reasons for not sharing the information. The findings suggest that bisexual men often anticipate strong judgmental reactions from their partners and families. Many report staying quiet about their past in order to avoid rejection and problems in their current heterosexual relationships. Participants believed that their family, friends, and female partners held stigmatizing attitudes toward homosexuality; and had prior experience with negative reactions to disclosure. “Our findings suggested that non-disclosure of sexual orientation among behaviorally bisexual men is often used as a strategy to avoid anticipated stigmatizing responses from their social network such as ridicule, rejection, and victimization,” said Dr. Eric W. Schrimshaw, one of the studies authors.
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We have heard several stories of the families of Orlando victims finding out at the same time that their family member had died and were gay and now are hearing that perhaps internalized homophobia might be one of the factors in the shooting. A study published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior found that many bisexual men who are in heterosexual relationships tend to hide their sexual identity and history. The study
A recent study published in the Journal of Adolescent Medicine examined the barriers faced by transgender youth and their caregiving in accessing gender-affirming care. The researchers found that several areas of barriers including 1) few accessible pediatric providers are trained in gender-affirming health care; 2) lack of consistently applied protocols; 3) inconsistent use of chosen name/pronoun; 4) uncoordinated care and gatekeeping; 5) limited/delayed access to pubertal blockers and cross-sex hormones; and 6) insurance exclusions. The researchers made the several recommendations to address these barriers: mandatory training on genderaffirming health care and cultural humility
New SLT Artistic Director Michael E. McKelvey helms the production and I don’t expect any startlingly new interpretations; after all, a show that’s all about the 1920s could hardly be re-set in the 1980s? Or could it be, with a chorus of Material Girls? Millie is followed by another Tony winner, Big River (July 28-31), Roger Miller and William Hauptman’s adaptation of Mark Twain’s Huckleberry Finn. Last seen here eleven years ago, River has never been a musical I’ve cherished but, hopefully, McKelvey, who’s directing the show, might get me to change my mind. Also at Tulane, the New Orleans Shakespeare Festival expands its playwright circle with The Illusion (July 23Aug. 6), Tony (Angels in America) Kushner’s adaptation of a 17th century Corneille comic play. Expect a father, a prodigal son, a sorcerer, and plays-withinplays as love is searched for and, possibly, found. As part of NOSF, on July 27 The NOLA Project will present By Any Scenes Necessary: Hamlet, for which this “band of brothers”—and sisters!—shall improvise their way through the Bard’s most famous play using audience suggestions. I missed last month’s version of Macbeth but a friend who saw said it “was hysterical—I laughed so hard I cried.” Prior to that, the Projecteers debut Exterior. Pool-Night, a backstage look at the making of a Hollywood motion picture being filmed in New Orleans where nothing is going right. Written and directed by Andrew Larimer, and similar to his brilliant production of Adventures in Wonderland, EPN will have audiences traveling along with the actors as the play breaks into three separate storylines before returning to the pool of the title.
This immersive experience takes place July 14-31 at the Aloft New Orleans Downtown hotel, and offers a post-show pool party—just pack a swimsuit, or wear one to the show! I’m not sure if a bathing suit is right for The High Priestess of Dark Alley at Le Petit (July 7-24), but I can tell you it’s about two sisters, one robbed of her sexuality, the other defined by it, who do battle with their domineering mother over the men they love. Writer/director Jackie Alexander returns with his latest work after his accomplished Brothers from the Bottom played at NOCCA last year. I’ve heard good things about The Company, St. Bernard’s new community theater at Nunez College, and am looking forward to their Urinetown, the subversive winner of three Tony Awards (though it lost Best Musical to Thoroughly Modern Millie). Satirizing the legal system, capitalism, social irresponsibility, populism, bureaucracy, corporate mismanagement, municipal politics as well as the Broadway musical form itself, Urinetown plays July 14-17 and should be the perfect thing to see just before the Republican convention. After the convention, you should be ready for Niagara Falls, Justin Maxwell’s tale of political corruption, ghosts, and deep longing. Though set in upstate New York, this world premiere will undoubtably resonate with local viewers. It plays from July 21 to August 6 at The Theatre at St. Claude. Of course, if you’d rather forget about politics altogether, some romance from Tennessee Williams might be just the thing. Head to Dillard University’s Samuel DuBois Cook Theatre between July 22 and August 7 for The Tennessee Williams Theatre Company’s production of The Rose Tattoo in which the Sicilian
No Sex Ed Doesn’t Prevent Education The results of a recent survey conducted by GMFA, a gay men’s health organization in London, found that almost half of the gay and bi men surveyed learned about sex through porn. Of the over 1,000 men surveyed, 82 percent said they got no education about gay sex in school. About 41 percent reported learning about anal sex through porn and 34 percent reported learning about oral sex through porn. About 13 percent of respondents said they had unprotected sex after watching bareback porn.
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trodding the boards ...from 26 Unquestionably spontaneous were the responses to audience questions at the end. One that stood out was Cooper’s response to a lady who asked “What makes New Orleans special?” He used as an example the high school his father went to, Francis T. Nicholls on St. Claude. Originally named for the former Confederate general and governor of Louisiana, it was renamed in honor of the abolitionist Frederick Douglass in the 1990s. Driving by the school while he was covering Katrina, Cooper noted that under the new name, the old one had remained chiseled in the stone. “Anywhere else it would’ve been erased. That’s the extraordinary thing about New Orleans,” he replied eloquently, “it’s a city of memories.” Let’s hope Andy Cohen and Anderson Cooper return again soon to add more memories to New Orleans.
Coming Attractions It may be summertime and the living may be easy, but many theaters have been working hard readying shows for the coming weeks. Here’s a look at some of them. If you’re in the mood for traditional musicals traditionally done, head to Summer Lyric Theatre at Tulane where Thoroughly Modern Millie will be running July 7-10. This 2002 Tony winner for Best Musical is based on the 1967 Julie Andrews/ Mary Tyler Moore/Carol Channing film. Millie tells the story of a small-town girl who comes to New York City to marry for money instead of love—a thoroughly modern aim in the flapper era of 1922.
for providers/staff; development of protocols for the care of young transgender patients, as well as roadmaps for families; asking and recording of chosen name/ pronoun; increased number of multidisciplinary gender clinics; providing cross-sex hormones at an age that permits peer-congruent development; and designating a navigator for transgender patients in clinics.
Online Tools to Find PrEP Prescribers A CDC study published in 2015 estimated that one in three nurses and primary care providers have not heard about PrEP. In addition, many providers refuse prescribing PrEP to their patients so finding a provider can be challenging. The Greater Than AIDS campaign has set up a guide of providers but checking it out, the number of Louisiana providers is sparse, listing only two. Check out the link http://www.greaterthan.org/getprep/ and if you know of other sites, send me the info to include here (jackcarrel@gmail.com).
Family Rejection & Negative Health Issues for Transgender Community In a recent study published in the LGBT Health, researches at the City University of New York found that rejection from family members can have a significant influence on the health of transgender people. Having experienced high levels of family rejection was associated with almost three and half times the chances of suicide attempts and two and a half times of substance misuse, compared to those who experienced little or no family rejection. Having experienced only moderate levels of family rejection was associated with almost twice the odds of suicide attempts and over 1.5 times the odds of substance misuse. The authors reported that the rejection might be a direct factor in the negative health outcomes or it might be a barrier to transgender people accessing the social support they need to deal with their life stressors.
Closing Thoughts I can not close this issue’s column without some thoughts on the senseless murder of 49 gay and lesbian community members in Orlando and the impact on our health. Several shorts in this installment refer to the impact of rejection and homo/transphobia on our well being. The question I hear over and over in these last days is what can we do? Rev. Bill Terry speaking at the recent vigil at Saint Anna’s Episcopal Church gave one answer and that is we must speak up. In times like these I am always reminded of the words of Audre Lorde, “I know that my people cannot possibly profit from the oppression of any other group, which seeks the right to peaceful existence. We diminish ourselves by denying to others what we have shed blood to obtain for our children. I cannot afford to believe that freedom from intolerance is the right of only one particular group. I cannot afford to choose between the fronts upon which I must battle the forces of discrimination, wherever they appear to destroy me. And when they appear to destroy me, it will not be long before they appear to destroy you.” Jack Carrel, MPH has worked in HIV, STD, and LGBTQ health for over 30 years. Currently he is a doctoral student at Walden University, a consultant in grant writing. He can be reached at jackcarrel@gmail.com.
widow Serafina delle Rose, whose husband’s death has left her a devastated recluse, is reawakened to life by a handsome stranger. By then, a certain well-known lady who once worked at the Rose Law Firm will have become the first woman nominated by a major political party for President of the United States. Maybe a new rose tattoo might be just the thing to celebrate.
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