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Pets Corner
from SE22 June 2021
by SE Magazines
Does Your Dog Have An ‘Off Switch’?
Pets Corner with Leonie St Clair | www.londondogstraining.co.uk
The dog that does not know when to switch off and settle can be a menace. We all know the type; once engaged in an activity he enjoys your dog will not stop pestering, whether he is leaping around, barking, whining, nudging you or pacing. If the the owner gives in and resumes the desired activity then the dog learns the ‘demanding’ behaviour gets him a ‘rewarding’ outcome. A common example is the dog that gets frenetic playing fetch and cannot settle or switch off after the game and may bark, whine or persistently jump up for more. Of course, the only thing that stops that behaviour is another throw of the ball and a catch-22 soon develops. The owner starts to dread playing any games with a ball and the dog loses out on vital enrichment and team work. Most dog owners, especially owners of highly driven working types, should view teaching impulse control as an essential doggy life skill. Teaching the young dog to learn to switch off on cue is a vital part of the broader journey to greater self-control. Learning that a resource (attention, treats, toys, exercise or a game) is no longer available and the dog has to wait until ‘next time’ and quietly settle and switch off until then, can be helpful in so many ways. The first step is to choose your cue word or phrase: ‘enough’,’ all gone’ ‘that’ll do or ‘finished’ are all options. I also like to use a hand signal, like a crossed hands gesture, along with my verbal cue. One way to start is to teach the cue on a simple ‘find’ exercise. If you try to first introduce this on a high energy ball game or tuggy, your dog could end up getting frustrated, which will hinder learning. Start with a calmer activity to establish the cue.
How To Teach A ‘Switch Off’ Cue
• Have another family member or friend gently hold your dog while you place a few bits of kibble a couple of feet in front of the dog. • Go back to the dog and say ‘find’ and gesture to the kibble. • Your dog is close enough to see and smell the kibble and will go and gobble it up. • Repeat a few times. • Now use your cue word ‘finished’ make a crossed hands gesture where your dog can see you, and walk away. • Place a chew or similar in your dog’s resting place. • Ignore any whining, barking, pacing or nudging. • When and if your dog goes to their resting area, lies down and starts to chew, give quiet, calm praise. • Keep practising with short training sessions at different times of the day and in different contexts. • If your dog gets very excited around food then use the lowest value food items you can. Once your cue is established, start to introduce it with different activities. If your dog is very persistent at ‘fetch’ then try using the cue in a short duration garden or indoor game first. Once your dog has had a few goes but is not hyped up, give your cue, pocket the toy and put it away, well out of reach. Ensure there is a treat or chew in the dog’s settle area. Do not give in to any sort of demand from your dog. As and when they settle- and this may take a while- give quiet praise. Slowly build to more high arousal sessions.
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Sunday 13 June: Open Gardens in Dulwich
2pm - 5:30pm. 1 Court Lane Gardens, 118 & 142 Court Lane, SE21 7EA
Three stunning gardens are opening for the Mark Evison Foundation. All three gardens back on to Dulwich Park, and between them have wildflower meadows, a swimming pond, a circular vegetable bed, plantings and a pond for wildlife, herbaceous borders, roses at their seasonal best, interesting species planting and a blue plaque. There will be tea, home-made cakes and plant sales at 142 Court Lane. Combined entry is £8 - start at any of the gardens.
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Monday 14 June: Dulwich WI Monthly Meeting
7:30pm - 9:30pm. We meet on the second Monday of each month - currently on Zoom - but usually at Dulwich Hamlet FC Clubhouse Bar.
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PLEASE NOTE that all this information was correct at the time of going to press. However please do check details ahead, as the lockdown may be extended and this could affect some events.
6.30pm – 8.30pm. 108 Turney Road, SE21 7JJ
Visit beautiful Dulwich gardens and support local charity Link Age Southwark! Now restrictions are easing, Link Age Southwark are delighted to be involved in a number of upcoming Open Garden events hosted by local supporters, in aid of the charity. www.linkagesouthwark.org.
Thursday 17 June: Filmmaking 101: Directing with Aidan Largey
7pm - 9pm. What does a director actually do? What makes a good script? Why is editing so important? Over the course of this year, Bell House Films will answer these questions and many more with its series of ‘Filmmaking 101’ events. Every month, an industry professional will host an online tutorial, where they will delve into the fundamentals of a specific filmmaking discipline. www.bellhouse.co.uk
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Monday 21 June: Introduction to Mindfulness with Self-compassion
7pm - 8pm. Have you thought about exploring mindfulness but are not sure if it’s for you or what to expect? Why not join us for this introductory session. Mindfulness is a way of staying in the moment and developing a kind and non-judgemental awareness of ourselves and our surroundings. It is not about trying to change the way things are but about accepting things as they are - the pleasant and unpleasant - and being able to respond to life’s ups and downs with greater freedom. The session will include two mindfulness practices, alongside overview of mindfulness and opportunity for discussion.
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Monday 21 June: Yours Cheerfully by A J Pearce
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7:30pm - 8:30pm. From the bestselling author of Dear Mrs Bird comes a sequel, Yours Cheerfully. An inspirational, funny, moving and uplifting story of courage at the height of World War II.
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Tuesday 22 June: House of Music by Kadiatu Kanneh-Mason
7:30pm - 8:30pm. Seven brothers and sisters. All of them classically trained musicians. One was Young Musician of the Year and performed for the royal family. The eldest has released her first album, showcasing the works of Clara Schumann. These siblings don’t come from the rarefied environment of elite music schools, but from a state comprehensive in Nottingham. How did they do it? Village Books are holding this event as part of Independent Bookshop Week.
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Wednesday 23 June: Wake Up to Lyme
7pm - 8pm. This online talk will focus on tick bite awareness in the UK, the effects of lyme disease and how to prevent it. Lyme disease is now endemic throughout the UK, so awareness of ticks and how to prevent a bite is very important! Lyme disease can be an insidious illness if not diagnosed & treated promptly. Prevention is key to keeping yourself and your family safe. There will be time for questions after the presentation.
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Thursday 24 June: Spotlight On... Jess 7:30pm - 8:30pm
Mozart Symphony No. 35 in D Major, K.385 (Haffner) Glazunov Concerto in E flat for alto saxophone & string orchestra Nyman Saxophone Concerto, Where the Bee Dances London Mozart Players return to Fairfield Halls in June for an electrifying concert alongside saxophone star Jess Gillam and Ruth Rogers director.
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Friday 25th – Sunday 27th June: Pub in the Park
Live music from Beverley Knight, Gabrielle, Basement Jaxx and more. Michelin-starred food created by Tom Kerridge, Matt Tebbutt, Atul Kochhar and more. Check website for timings and to buy tickets. Dulwich Park, Dulwich SE21.
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Saturday 26 & Sunday 27 June: Much Ado About Nothing
2pm & 5pm. War heroes Don Pedro and his soldier-boys turn up at Governor Leonato’s house hoping for a well deserved rest … but when has that ever worked out? Claudio loves Hero; Benedick despises Beatrice (and the feeling is mutual she will assure you). Pedro’s pals are either obstinately love struck or in denial of their emotions allowing the Don’s half-sister Donna Juana and the beastly Borachio to hatch a plot to tear their worlds apart. But never fear! The local neighbourhood watch are on call to intercede swiftly and bring them to justice ... right?!
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2.30pm – 5.30pm. Garden Safari at 102, 108 & 110 College Road, SE21 7HW.
Dulwich gardens will open to the public with all proceeds of tickets, refreshments and plant sales going towards Link Age Southwark's work with older people and people living with dementia in the community. Information and tickets in advance: www.linkagesouthwark.org
Monday 28 June: Fiji Fusion June Supper Club
6:30pm - 10:30pm. Try this brand spanking new menu created by David Datt. This event is ticketed at £45 each for three courses! Park’s Edge Bar & Kitchen, 49 Norwood Road, Herne Hill, SE24 9AA. www.realhoxtonchef.co.uk
Tuesday 29 June: “The Wood That Built London” Book Talk
7pm - 8pm. Local author C. J. Schüler will discuss his forthcoming book, The Wood that Built London, to be published by Sandstone Press in October 2021. www.bellhouse.co.uk
Wednesday 30 June: Cooking with Scissors
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