How to Attract a Guy How to Attract Guys by Understanding Them First The battle of the sexes has been raging on from quite some time. And we are not talking about just simple conflicts stemming from gender differences. We also need to look at how we see and treat the opposite sex just so we can understand this conflict fairly well. For much of their chagrin, men will always be mystified by women. And that’s because it is easier for them to call women as complicated and, in extreme cases, unstable. Think about how many of them will look at women as highly emotional, if not irrational, to some point. That can be true, since women will admit time and again that they don’t really know exactly what they want from their guys. But this is not to say that it’s only women who have problems.
In the same way, spouses, colleagues, girlfriends and fiancés will say pretty much the same thing about their male counterparts. Men are as much a mystery to women as women are to them.