Volume 12
June-August 2011 Summer Edition
Issue No.4
Are you Being Bullied Around? In This Issue:
Stop the Bullying Living Green for our Earth Chili Cook Off! Driving N Texting Beware of Your Neighbors Helping Others – Volunteer! What’s Been Happening? Summer Reading: 4 Teens My Top 10 IPod Hit List My Movie Reviews - Transformers3 - Rise of the Planet of the Apes Beiber Fever <3 Latest Family News: - Baby Boomers - 2011 HS Graduates - Rising graduates (2012) - Awards - My Granddad’s Fishing Spree - New Home / Relocation - 2012 Multi-Family Vacation Mo’s Corner: - My Random “Small Talk” - Growing Pains Special Thanks! - Miss Kelli-Ann Mom’s Soap Box Moment - 3 Letter Word: ILY - Our Kids & Social Networking Birthday Shot Outs
A Few Topics for Next Issue: Family Fall Festival Sporting Events Vacation/Trips with photos Recipes to share and more..
Bullying isn't a thing to play with; whether it's in the lunchroom, classroom or online, bullying is out there. Kids are being intimidated, abused, and harassed every day and that’s not good. Did you know that an incident of bullying occurs every seven minutes? Hmmmm…neither did I because you really don’t hear too much about it, but it is happening in and around us. Probably right before your eyes at school or on the internet and you don’t even realize it. I’ve actually been bullied twice over the past few years. One was a friendship problem that started to turn into a big problem. That type of bullying was called “ Relationship Bullying.” Relationship bullying is when you’re being refused to talk to someone ,excluded from groups or activities ,spreading lies or rumors about someone and making someone do things he or she doesn't want to do. In Elementary, someone decided to spread a rumor about me against my best friends and they all believed it and started being mean towards me. Called me names, wanted to pick a fight, turned others against me and so on. This went on for a few days until the assistant principal stepped in and talked with each of us to get to the bottom of it. My parents told me to ignore them and focus on school, that’s what I was there for anyway (to learn); not for friendship and if it continued to talk with the teacher. But that was kinda hard to do. I did however start to learn more about the word, friendship. The other bullying I experienced was Cyber-Bullying. Some anonymous person (that’s what their name was) keep writing bad things about me that were lies. I couldn’t figure out who it could have been and why they were saying the things they said. I admit….it bothered me so I showed my mother and she told me to stop using that particular site and to ignore what they’re saying because it’s not true. If I continue to let it bother me then they’ll continue to write more stuff….the best way to deal with cyber-bullying or any other kind of bullying is to IGNORE those unwanted negative mean people and report it. I just wanted to use my situations as an example that I didn’t realize I was being bullied until now after I’ve read and researched about bullying. There's also 3 other types of bullying; Verbal-Bullying, LGBT Bullying (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender), and Physical-Bullying. If you’re ever in one of this situations and feel you can’t handle it on your own, get some help from an adult (parent, teacher, counselor or even the police if it gets too serious). Read more on bullying and start to recognize some of the warning signs so you can be more aware and provide some help to the person being bullying. Everyone should be able to live their life free from fear and be proud of who they are. I don’t know if you recall the story back in 2006 when a 13yr old girl named, Megan Meier killed herself because of being a victim of cyber-bullying. Google it and see for yourself, while you’re at it….take a look at all the 2011 cases that occurred on FACEBOOK due to Cyber-Bullying. It’s getting crazy and no one should be a victim nor a static of this. So take a stand to Bullying…..End Bullying now! Bullying Hotline 1-866-4-U-TREVOR (488-7386).
Living Green to SAVE our EARTH During the last two months of school, I had to do a project on saving the earth that put me into doing some community service. I began to start really recycling more and took to my neighborhood along the WO&D bike trail and picked up litter that people tossed on the ground during their walks, jogging, or biking rather then put it in the trash where it belongs. I learned that litter kills the earth and it’s supposedly illegal to litter, but I don’t see anyone enforcing the law on litter. We’re putting dirty toxins in the ground and hurting the animals and plants. The most simple thing I think we all can do is to just throw your stuff in the trash where it belongs and recycle what you can. So if you have plastic or glass that’s recyclable look for a recycle bin. If everyone helps by keeping their community clean, we can live in a better environment and help save this earth. So get out there and HELP!