Encounter December 2017/January 2018 by Anglican Diocese of Newcastle

ENCOUNTER DECEMBER 2017/JANUARY 2018 | ISSUE NO. 474

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KEEPING CHRIST IN CHRISTMAS

Meet some of our own Christmas heroes and angels who are keeping Christ in Christmas

AN UNEXPECTED GIFT

CHRISTMAS APPEAL

Bishop Peter reflects on the gifts of 2017 as well as the new gifts to expect at Christmas and into the new year

Samaritan's CEO Peter Gardiner encourages us to give the gift of joy to local children in need this Christmas

REFLECTIONS

An Unexpected Gift BISHOP PETER STUART bishoppeter@newcastleanglican.org.au

here have been many gifts to the Diocese as a result of Case Study 42 of the Royal Commission. We were invited to look closely at our life as a Diocese. We have made changes to ensure that we are safe and healthy for children and vulnerable people. Our journey of change is ongoing and is well underway. Amidst the personal turbulence of being an institutional witness to the Royal Commission there have been a number of lifechanging gifts through which I am different and minister differently. One of the consequences of the Commission process has been a gift to my prayer life. I found myself

deluged by words â&#x20AC;&#x201C; my words and the words of others, words on a page and words spoken. I found the formal daily services of the Church to be another sea of words. I was reminded of the practice of Christian meditation and contemplative prayer. This approach has few words and has enriched my prayer. The intention of contemplative prayer is that we open our hearts and minds to God. It begins with a simple yet profound commitment to intentionally spend time in God's presence. Every word, thought or sensation that we encounter in that time is specifically offered to God. Each is then let go. The person at

prayer surrenders themselves again and again to God, who we know by faith is close to us, closer than our thinking and our breathing. For me, the practice of this prayer begins with one of the readings of the day, some intercessions that emerge from that reading and some things that are deeply on my heart, the Lord's prayer and a collect for the day. The heart of that time of prayer for me is captured in the words of Richard of Chichester: Thanks be to thee, my Lord Jesus Christ, for all the benefits thou hast given me, for all the pains and insults thou

"As we refresh our memory of God's loving action by singing carols, watching Christmas plays, gazing at nativity scenes, we are invited to stand in awe at the enormity of God's embrace of all that he has made."

REFLECTIONS hast borne for me. O most merciful redeemer, friend and brother, may I know thee more clearly, love thee more dearly, and follow thee more nearly, day by day. Amen. I had not expected that the demands of 2016 and 2017 would give me such a gift. This has been a special outcome along with the many blessings of that time.

The Gift of Christmas As I think about this gift, my mind is turned at this time of year to the amazing gift we celebrate at Christmas. The turning point of history, from the Christian perspective, is that God has acted to ensure that we are aware of his love and blessing. God beckons to humanity in love with the desire that all he has created might flourish in relationship with him. To achieve his desire and purpose, God entered creation. The Word became flesh and dwelt among us. God became vulnerable – to teach us vulnerability. God became a servant – to call us to loving care. God bore in himself the pain of sin and separation – to enable reconciliation and hope. God, in love, embraced death that he might lead us to life. As we refresh our memory of God's loving action by singing carols, watching Christmas plays, gazing at nativity scenes, we are invited to stand in awe at the enormity of God's embrace of all that he has made. As we reach out our hand to receive the bread and wine in communion, we are invited to recall that in these signs God has promised to reach towards us and grace us. The temptation for Australians is to rejoice in the beauty of this land and our relative prosperity without any acknowledgement of the source of our blessing. A theological framework is airbrushed from so much of our public conversation. As we reflect on God's blessing revealed in Jesus through the Christmas season we recall that all we have is a gift from God. The themes of Christmas and the wonder of creation point us to God if we have eyes to see it. We are

reminded of God's desire for us to be at one with Him and to be at one with us.

The Gift of a New Bishop By the time you are reading this there is a good chance that you are praying for the person who has been called to be our Diocesan Bishop. In our way of being Christian, we look to a Diocesan Bishop to be our chief pastor and chief shepherd. They are amongst us as a leader and a teacher. I am writing this ten days before the Election Synod as the Diocese is deeply engaged in prayer and discernment. Bishop Greg called on the Diocese to face the past and shape a healthy future. During the twelve months that I have been Administrator I have been deeply moved by the overwhelming commitment of the clergy and laity to do this. There is a willingness to do what it takes both to respond to people's needs and create a culture of safety for all people. This work is not yet complete. There is still much to do. People are still coming forward to speak of their experience of abuse. Our hearts break as we hear their anguish. Our next Bishop will spend much time leading us in this work. Our next Bishop will also spend much time in helping us plan together how we will be in mission and ministry in the third decade of the twenty first century. We have some amazing opportunities and plenty of challenges before us. God has gifted us with talented people and resources to make a vital contribution for his kingdom in the communities we serve. Our next Bishop will have the wonderful privilege of shepherding the Diocese to the next stage of its life.

The Gift of the Royal Commission I began this reflection with a comment about the Royal Commission. Australia will never be the same again because of the outstanding contribution of the Commission, the individual commissioners, the commission staff and most especially those who have so bravely told their story. This is an amazing gift. Our Diocese will be forever marked by its experience of truth-telling. Our call is to continue the good work long after the Commission is wound up.

Finally The Diocese owes a tremendous debt of gratitude to those who have served it through the Diocesan Council, the Professional Standards Committee, and the Bishop Nomination Board along with various other boards, councils and committees. I am grateful for the unstinting service of Archdeacon Sonia Roulston and the Diocesan staff. Nicki and I, along with our family, assure you of our prayers and wish you all the blessings of Christmas and much joy in the new year. +Peter

THIS EDITION 2 Reflections 4

Topics

Social Justice

Keeping Christ in Christmas

Samaritans Christmas Appeal

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Bishop of Grafton Announces Resignation

16 Q+A 18

Thinking About Faith

Looking Towards 2018

Ordinations 2017

Facing the Past, Shaping A Healthy Future

Around the Diocese

Christmas Service Times

What's On

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Bishop Sarah Macneil of Grafton announced her resignation in November The Anglican Bishop of Grafton, the Right Rev'd Dr Sarah Macneil, has resigned, effective from March 3 next year. She announced her decision in a pastoral letter to her diocese, saying she had hoped to remain until 2020, when she turned 65, but questions of health had forced an early departure. "I had both hoped and expected that I would continue in office until my 65th birthday in early 2020, and have been planning on that basis. "The medical advice we have received is that continuing to do what we are doing is simply not sustainable. As a consequence, I am retiring with effect from Saturday March 3 2018," Bishop Sarah wrote.

Bishop Sarah will lay up her pastoral staff in Christ Church Cathedral Grafton on Saturday March 3 2018. From March 4 2018 the Diocesan Archdeacon, Gail Hagon, will be the Administrator of the Diocese. In her letter, Bishop Sarah concluded, "Ian and I have been prayerfully and lovingly supported by you in our ministry here and it has been a privilege to serve you. We have come to know and love you and are disappointed that our time here has been shorter than we had hoped." In a post on the Grafton Diocese Facebook post a spokesperson gave "thanks to God for Bishop Sarah's wise, steady and loving leadership of the Diocese in a challenging time of our history."

IN BRIEF APPOINTMENTS The Rev'd Canon Katherine Bowyer was commissioned Dean of Newcastle Christ Church Cathedral on October 4 2017. The Rev'd Pam Fraser was commissioned Priest in Charge of the Parish of Merriwa on October 5 2017. The Rev'd Peter Tinney was commissioned Rector of the Parish of Taree on October 31 2017

The Rev'd Peter Adkins was commissioned Rector of the Parish of Bulahdelah Tea Gardens on November 7 2017

DIOCESAN OFFICE Carolyn Zdjelar was appointed the Finance Officer / Assistant Accountant. She commenced in the role on October 30 2017.

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Religious freedom is found in the absence of the need to discriminate By The Venerable Rod Bower Central Coast Regional Archdeacon At 10am on the 15th November 2017 the Australian Bureau of Statistics revealed the result of the postal survey on marriage equality. The result was that just over 61% of those who participated in the survey believed that all consenting adults, regardless of their sexual orientation, should have the right to civil marriage. I am a part of that sixty one percent, as in fact are the majority of Christians. The journey began in earnest for me when I was asked to administer the last rites to a dying man who happened to be gay. The family hid his partner away in another room because they were afraid that I would disapprove of their relationship or judge them in some way. I had noticed at funerals over the years that the surviving partners in same sex relationships were not treated with the same dignity and acknowledgement as opposite sex partners. They were often sat in the second row and if acknowledged at all it was as 'Steve's friend' or 'Alice's companion'. It occurred to me that if I did not try and do something about this injustice I would not be faithful to the fourth of the five marks of mission in the Anglican Communion: To transform unjust structures of society, to challenge violence of every kind and pursue peace and reconciliation. And so I became a vocal advocate for marriage equality. This has been a controversial issue within the Christian community with different expressions of the faith basing views in varying interpretations of scripture and dearly, deeply held and passionate views about human sexuality. These conversations will go on for some

considerable time. The result of the survey and the inevitable legislation for civil marriage equality does not affect what we Anglicans know as Holy Matrimony. A recent General Synod meeting reaffirmed that Anglicans believe that Christian marriage is between a man and a woman. While there will be continuing dialogue in this regard, it is difficult to envisage any changes to this in the foreseeable future. Those who, only several years ago, opposed the introduction of a bill of rights have now turned the debate toward the issue of religious freedom. While religious freedom is enshrined in the Australian Constitution, freedom of speech is not. There are conventions, which support the concept of freedom of speech and expression as well as anti-discrimination laws, which restrict and govern those very freedoms. Existing laws already restrict our ability to discriminate on the grounds of sexuality, however the church has some limited dispensation for anti-discrimination laws. Therefore it will remain legal for the church to teach that Christian marriage is between a man and a woman, but

not legal to vilify LGBIT people in order to promulgate that teaching. Likewise faith-based schools have responsibilities, especially if they receive public funding, to adhere to a curriculum. For example, in a civics class, a responsible educator should be required to inform students that the Marriage Act allows for same sex unions. While in the same school, in a class on religion, it would be perfectly acceptable to teach that that particular religion held that marriage is between a man and a woman. Current anti-discrimination law prevents commercial businesses from discriminating on the grounds of age, race, religion, gender or sexuality and there is really no viable legislative architecture that could provide exemptions from this requirement. It is important for us Christians to remember that perfect freedom is found in the ability to serve others, especially in the provision of a just and compassionate society for all, regardless of their age, race, religion, gender or sexuality. The Christian bias must always be toward those who are vulnerable to discrimination rather than in favour of those who have the power to discriminate.

"It is important for us Christians to remember that perfect freedom is found in the ability to serve others, especially in the provision of a just and compassionate society for all, regardless of their age, race, religion, gender or sexuality."

SOCIAL JUSTICE

Putting Christ back in Christmas MARK THORNTON SOCIAL JUSTICE TASK FORCE

Christmas, said G.K. Chesterton, is built upon a beautiful and intentional paradox; that the birth of the homeless should be celebrated in every home. The advent season, perhaps more so than at any time in the seasons of the church, provides an opportunity for joy and gratitude. It is a time when we are able to reflect on and celebrate God's incredible act of love in sending his Son into the world - "For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him" (Jn 3:17). It is a time of year in Australia which continues to bring families and communities together in celebration in a special way. But it is also a time when we are prone to notice the harsh contradictions of modern life and when the call to social justice can be heard anew; it is no secret that domestic violence spikes dramatically over Christmas, many older and disadvantaged Australians find themselves alone at this time of year, and as we move closer to December 25, many more are filled with dread at the financial burden another Christmas will bring. What's more, Christmas is often a time when we are exposed to some of the excesses of commercialism – many of which we are more than willing to admit are, at least at times, unhealthy. Research released by McCrindle last year suggested

that 81% of Australians think our shopping centres set up far too early for Christmas, with almost one in two preferring the Christmas set up to begin in late November or early December and 70% of those surveyed suggested commercialism is a top three Christmas gripe. Some responses from those surveyed included: "The commercialism of Christmas brings a lot of sadness (such as) high expectations from children for expensive gifts when often there is no money to spare." "The commercialisation is insipid, presents are a waste of money, and the religious aspect has no significance to me." "The true meaning of Christmas has been lost... a time of expense and often trouble with family members..." Such ambiguity is a challenge to us at this time of year to remember that the nativity presents us with an intentional paradox – we celebrate the birth of a homeless baby to a displaced mother, in the unlikeliest of conditions. We celebrate God's act of compassionate love not because of all the things we have but because of the joy relationship can bring, despite the brokenness of it all. Such responses of course should not deter us from sharing and celebrating the joy of being with others, and of sharing God's love in the world. Rather we should be

mindful that Christmas time is not always a good time for everyone, but that God's coming into the world doesn't exclude them – in fact, it's just the opposite. The nativity reminds us that God is for the vulnerable and the helpless and that Christmas time offers us an opportunity to be reminded of God's transforming power in the world, when we too live our love of Jesus in service to others, whether that's reconnecting with a loved one we've lost touch with, inviting someone over for Christmas dinner, getting involved in advocacy or just sharing God's love with those around us. Jarrod McKenna, a Christian leader and co-founder of Love Makes a Way, last year tweeted the following five steps to "Put Christ Back Into Christmas". They may well offer us another opportunity this year to live out the call to social justice in our local and wider communities: 5 Steps to Put Christ Back in Christmas: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

Share with the poor Renounce war Welcome refugees Love neighbours and enemies Live lives of enticing humble beauty. As we prepare for and celebrate the birth of Jesus into a broken world, it may be worth embracing this beautiful and intentional paradox.

"The nativity reminds us that God is for the vulnerable and the helpless and that Christmas time offers us an opportunity to be reminded of God's transforming power in the world, when we too live our love of Jesus in service to others."

Put Christ back in Christmas by giving the gift of joy to local children in need this Christmas

5 local ways you can put Christ back in Christmas 1. Give the gift of joy to local children in need this Christmas Thousands in our local community will face Christmas with no special occasion or gift. At Samaritans, we hear so many heartbreaking stories from parents doing it tough. They tell us Christmas just isn't what it's cracked up to be. At Christmas time local businesses put up Christmas Trees in the lead up to Christmas where people can leave donated Christmas presents. These gifts then go to Samaritans Christmas Assistance where families, who cannot afford to purchase Christmas presents for their children, are invited to visit and select free toys. If you would like to participate by setting up a Giving Tree at your business this year please call Samaritans on 1300 656 336. Alternatively, drop your unwrapped present under the Diocesan Office Christmas Tree at 134 King St, Newcastle.

2. Give the gift of hope to a stranger Christmas is wonderful time, but for some it's also challenging. Many organisations aim to raise much needed funds to support those in need. Samaritans have launched their Christmas Appeal, as too have Anglican Overseas Aid and ABM. Research an organisation that is right for you and donate today.

4. Share the joy of Christmas Samaritans and churches are hosting very special Christmas events throughout Advent and Christmas, including Christmas lunches for those in need and refugees. Find out what is happening in your local area in 2017 and volunteer your time to put a smile on someone's face this Christmas. It is guaranteed to put a smile on your face too!

3. Give the gift of sustainability This Christmas consider how you can make an impact on the world in which we and future generations live and become more enlightened about environmental justice. Buy Fair Trade products or buy Australian made. Resolve to stop using throw away items and replace them with reusable and environmentally friendly ones.

5. Give yourself the gift of happiness For many of our readers 2017 has been a big year. We encourage you to give yourself a gift this Christmas... attend a carols event and sing with joy, join in Messy Christmas shenanigans at your local church, or simply take some much needed time out for prayer and reflection. The team at Encounter wish everyone a joyous, safe and hope-filled Christmas.

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Wrapped with Love volunteers, Conrad and Bernadette.

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"Keep Christ in Christmas" is a familiar saying this time of the year. Yet it's just so easy to forget the real reason for the season. It's so easy to get caught up in the commercialisation and chaos of Christmas, there are presents to buy and wrap, Christmas cards to make and send, and lights to hang. This edition Encounter rounded up some of our own Christmas heroes and angels who are keeping Christ in Christmas.

Gift wrapping Heroes Wrapped with Love volunteers, Conrad and Bernadette Each year Samaritans runs gift wrapping at Stockland Glendale where the community can choose to have their Christmas presents wrapped in exchange for a gold coin donation. A team of hardworking volunteers give up their time in the busy lead up to Christmas - wrapping hundreds of presents and raising thousands of dollars for Samaritans! Husband and wife, Conrad and

Bernadette, are some of the "Santa's Little Helpers" you will find busily working away at Samaritans gift wrapping. They have kindly donated their time over the last seven years. Conrad explains what keeps him coming back to help every year. "It's probably just the joy you see on people's faces. They are very happy just to have some form of wrapping on their presents. It's a great way to

give back to the community and one of the most uplifting things you can do at this time of year." Wrapped with Love will take place at Stockland Glendale from Saturday December 16 to Sunday December 24 2017. Pop by and get your Christmas gifts wrapped for a gold coin donation and meet some of the wonderful volunteers.

"Conrad and Bernadette are some of the "Santa's Little Helpers" you will find busily working away at Samaritans gift wrapping."

Christmas Hamper and Gift Project Kerrie Duffey and the Parish of Telarah-Rutherford Volunteers For most people Christmas is a time of great joy and happiness as we come together with family and friends throughout the festive season, celebrating with gifts, food and festivities. But for some, the realities of the Christmas season are much less festive. Kerrie Duffey and the Parish of Telarah-Rutherford are all too aware of the pressure Christmas time can bring to families. For more than ten years the parish has been delivering Christmas hampers of hope to families in need. The hamper project began when previous Rector, the Very Rev'd Katherine Bowyer, and parishioner and teacher at the local school, the late Janice Fleming, realised a

need at the school and commenced providing pantry staples each month to families in need. The project evolved over the years with demand for assistance reaching a weekly basis, and also the addition of the Christmas Hamper and Gift delivery to many great families. Today the parish has a close relationship with the local Primary School and assist families in need of food, clothing, uniforms, back to school needs and anything at all that they can assist with to make life easier. At Christmas they make up food hampers and include Christmas gifts for the children, and where possible the parents also. "It is a wonderful collaborative effort

between our parish volunteers and the teachers," project volunteer, Kerrie Duffey said. "The teachers all combine to help us by collecting food and gifts and then delivering to the families usually on the last day of the school term. There is always a very upbeat positive vibe in the church hall on packing and delivery day. "I feel it makes us all aware of the command to "love one and other", it helps us to see what is real about Christmas," Kerrie said. Kerrie decided to get involved in the Christmas Hamper Project over 12 years ago to assist her friend Janice Fleming with the once-a-month deliveries. Kerrie was encouraged ď ľ

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Kerrie Duffey, overseeing Hamper packing at St Christopher's last Christmas

to become a part of the project so she could "love my neighbour" and help out someone in need. "Having raised four children who in turn have given me nine grandchildren I am all too aware of the pressure Christmas time can bring to families," she said. "As a Christian I do look at Christmas a little differently to many people. To me Jesus is the reason, not the tree the gifts and the feasting; although they are all components of a fabulous family time. "I hated the thought of children going without at any time, let alone at Christmas." Kerrie's finds the project fulfilling and rewarding as she works with her fellow parishioners, local stores and teachers from the school. Kerrie is joined by many other fabulous volunteers including the Rector's

Hamper packing: Wendy Watt and Margaret Graham choosing toys for last years Hampers

Warden, Rod Watt and his wife Wendy, a group of very committed parishioners, Melinda Weyer, Marlene Waite, Anne and Bob Saxon, Dawn Valance, Jan Hodges, and last but not least Kerrie's very patient and long-suffering husband, Brian. She describes the "unfailing good humour and positivity" of their parish priest, Mother Moira. "Mother Moira always talked about taking Church to the people as they don't always come to us," Kerrie said. However for Kerrie the most rewarding aspect of the project is knowing she has helped locals in need. "The most rewarding aspect is the look of relief on the faces of the mums knowing a great deal of Christmas is taken care of for them," Kerrie said.

Another huge reward comes during January when she meets some of the families in the shops or in the streets. "My heart just fills with warmth and love when I hear the children speak about how fantastic to receive their gifts," Kerrie said. "A young mother of six children brings me to tears on many occasions. She is such a fiercely loving and protective mum and goes without so much to see her children have food at all times, and gifts at Christmas. "She hugs me wherever she sees me and claims we help her keep her family together and happy. Jesus asked us to love our neighbour, this project is fulfilling this request," Kerrie concluded.

"Having raised four children who in turn have given me nine grandchildren I am all too aware of the pressure Christmas time can bring to families. I hated the thought of children going without at any time, let alone at Christmas."

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St Andrew's Mayfield Christmas Pavement Art Twenty years ago, Fr John Dring invited the local Primary Schools of Mayfield to come to St Andrew's and hear the Christmas story. The format is very simple, the schools bring their Year 5 and 6 students to the church hall, they are given chalk and instructions to draw pictures of the Christmas story. These pictures are to be the Christian Christmas story and not pictures of Santa Claus. "We have plenty of concrete paths around our church, so the students move out and create their master pieces. It is wonderful to wander around and watch them come up with an idea and draw it as a team," Fr Mark Cooper said. "After they have finished we all go into the church to sing some Christmas carols and for me to tell them about the first Christmas all those years ago in Bethlehem. "I like to make the scene real and visual for them, so I talk about what it must have been like in a stable with all those animals. You could probably have smelt the poo. "I also tell them about how much God loves us that he would become a vulnerable baby. He took a big risk that first Christmas." They all then head back to the hall. While the students are in the church, members of the congregation judge the chalk art works. The school with the best drawing is presented with the trophy. The trophy has the name of every school that has won it for the past 20 years. The local Catholic schools have won the trophy more often than the public schools. Last

year Islington Primary joined the parish for their second time ever and produced the winning art work. The morning is finished with a sausage sizzle and a drink for the students before they head back to their schools. "Thanks to Fr John's initiative we continue to have the opportunity to tell the story of angels, shepherds, a baby in a stable and God's love for us all," Fr Mark said.

Leading up to Christmas the church grounds are decorated by the chalk pictures drawn by the children in our area. "Occasionally I see the odd child bring their parents to show them the Christmas picture they drew. I am sure they will remember this for many Christmas's to come," Fr Mark concluded. ď ľ

"Thanks to Fr John's initiative we continue to have the opportunity to tell the story of angels, shepherds, a baby in a stable and God's love for us all."

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Christmas Assistance Angels Helen Fielder-Gill and June Butterworth Samaritans Christmas Assistance Centre will provide thousands of presents to children in need this year and it wouldn't be possible without our team of volunteers working behind the scenes to pick up donations from the Giving Tress spread across Newcastle. Volunteers also assist with sorting the toys and greeting people we support at the Assistance Centre. It is the compassion of Samaritans volunteers that helps save Christmas for families who are struggling with the added financial burden the festive season brings. June, who has been volunteering with Samaritans for over 20 years, explains what her work helping others means to her. "So many lovely people come in to seek assistance. Some of them are very distressed but we are able to help them and that's the main thing. For me it's giving back. It gives me great joy to help people and see their happy faces."

Helen Fielder-Gill, Samaritans Coordinator and June Butterworth, Volunteer at Samaritans Christmas Assistance.

"So many lovely people come in to seek assistance. Some of them are very distressed but we are able to help them and that's the main thing. For me it's giving back. It gives me great joy to help people and see their happy faces."

St Thomas' Cardiff Christmas Food and Gift Packages For over 20 years the Parish of Cardiff has been committed to serving their community and during the Christmas season their generosity becomes even more apparent. Each year a group of volunteers put together food and gifts packages to help people less fortunate during Christmas. One of the volunteers from Cardiff, Leanne Kibble, describes the St Thomas' as a very caring community. "We believe that putting together these food and gift packages as part of our commitment to share where we can. We deliver food to the Teralba Relief Centre on a weekly basis," Leanne said.

"I know lots of other parishes do the same as us. Being an Anglican or any religion makes you think of others less fortunate." As a mother of five children, now grown-ups themselves, Leanne has been adamant at instilling in her children to be mindful of others. "As a child I remember my large family of ten people receiving food parcels and small gifts from the local Salvation Army. To this day I never walk past a Salvation Army officer without giving a small donation." At Christmas the parish strives to give food suitable for Christmas in the hope they can give someone a nicer

Christmas lunch, including tinned ham, puddings, tuna, tinned fruit. "Some people even donate lollies and chocolate," Leanne said. "In 2015 we donated 1440kg of food and in 2016 we donate 1200kgs. "This year so far we have nearly collected 900kgs of food. Things like cereal and milk , pasta, tuna and even toiletries are often very welcome donations." If you would like to donate gifts or food to the St Thomas food hampers, Leanne would be very happy to pick them up. To reach the parish please contact 4954 8550 or visit them at 7 Thomas Street, Cardiff.

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Samaritans Christmas Lunch in the Park Heroes Maxine and Faye Samaritans Christmas Day Lunches will be happening very soon; these community celebrations give a "family Christmas table" experience to those who may not otherwise have the means to mark the occasion. Over 300 volunteers will dedicate their Christmas Day to others who may be less fortunate or have no family to spend Christmas with. Volunteers are the real heroes of Christmas – without them we wouldn't be able to prepare and serve over 1500 plates of lunch. Maxine is one of the many Christmas heroes who volunteers at Samaritans Christmas Lunch each year. She shares what inspires her to keep volunteering at Christmas time. "I have been a team leader at Samaritans Christmas lunch for over ten years now – and I love it. "My teenage niece Faye joins me every year as a table server. It's a tradition of ours and I always marvel at the fact that each time I check with her if she wants to come back again to help and she says, "I really want to do it Aunty Max - I love to see the happiness just a few of our hours gives." This is from a teenager! "There are familiar faces each year. Not necessarily because they are homeless but rather they haven't any other family to share the day with. We are their family and I can't tell you how powerful the feeling is by just giving a few hours of our time to make someone else's day a happy one." Each year Samaritans hosts three Christmas lunches on Christmas Day, at various locations including Newcastle Foreshore Railsheds,

Maxine and her niece, Faye, volunteering at Samaritans Christmas Lunch in the Park last year.

Singleton Senior Citizens Centre and Wyong Race Club. Over 1000 guests attended Newcastle's Christmas Lunch in the Park in 2016 and this year they are hoping even more will join them! The annual event hosted

by Samaritans began 17 years ago as a simple lunch and has since grown into Newcastle's largest Christmas celebration. Guests enjoy a free Christmas Lunch, entertainment and a visit from Santa! 

"There are familiar faces each year. Not necessarily because they are homeless but rather they haven't any other family to share the day with. We are their family and I can't tell you how powerful the feeling is by just giving a few hours of our time to make someone else's day a happy one."

SAMARITANS CHRISTMAS APPEAL

Spreading joy to children in need this Christmas PETER GARDINER CEO SAMARITANS One of the highlights of Christmas for me is seeing the smiles on faces of children as they sit around a Christmas tree.

Warehouse was a hive of activity with people coming to choose gifts for their loved ones and Christmas Day lunches fed over 1500 people.

Children radiate joy at Christmas and while many enjoy the season with family holidays, delicious feasts and special gifts, there is a large number of children in our diocese who go without.

Our Christmas volunteers hear varying stories of hardship from people seeking assistance at this time of year. One particular story stands out in my mind, of a single mother Cath* who fled her violent partner and was facing Christmas with nothing.

Christmas at Samaritans is wonderful, but it's also challenging. We see more than four times the number of people who would usually seek help. Many are embarrassed that they can't provide a special Christmas for their children. Samaritans is proud to be able to bring joy to so many children at Christmas. Last year was my first Christmas leading Samaritans and I certainly felt the full generosity from the church communities in the diocese. Not only were gifts and food donated from parishes, but the church collections and money donated contributed enormously to Samaritans work. The wider community within the diocese also came together like nothing I'd seen before. Carloads of gifts were delivered every day from local businesses, our Christmas

Her children were very young and the thought of having nothing special for them at Christmas was devastating for Cath. When Samaritans Christmas volunteer Sharon met with Cath, she described the devastating sight of a broken mother. "When I met her at the door, she was crying and very stressed. She had very recently fled her violent partner and was left with no money and no possessions. She had no family or friends to turn to for help anymore and she thought she was going to have nothing to give her kids on Christmas Day," Samaritans volunteer Sharon said. "There are no words to express the look of pure joy on her face when I showed her the toys and told her about the food and assistance we could give her."

These people are our neighbours, our friends and the people we see in our communities. Hardship can strike anyone at any time and consistently we band together as a church community to help the less fortunate. I'd like to take this opportunity to thank all of you who have already so generously offered support to the Samaritans Christmas Appeal. You are bringing joy to children in need across our region and as Christmas draws nearer, we do very much need your help. There is a leaflet enclosed in this edition of Encounter. If you haven't already donated and you are in the position to do so, I would appreciate any amount you are able to donate towards the Samaritans Christmas Appeal. As we celebrate the spirit of Christmas with loved ones and marvel at the joy we see in the faces of children around us, let's also remember the families that aren't so fortunate. Together, we can give the gift of joy to local children in need this Christmas. *Name changed to protect identity

"Children radiate joy at Christmas and while many enjoy the season with family holidays, delicious feasts and special gifts, there is a large number of children in our diocese who go without."

Bring joy to children in need this Christmas by generously donating to the Samaritans Christmas Appeal

Give the gift of joy to local children in need this Christmas Donate a gift to the Samaritans Christmas Warehouse and give joy to someone in need this Christmas. A small donation of food, cash or gifts this Christmas can make a massive difference. The Diocesan office will have a Christmas Giving Tree again in 2017. You can drop in your unwrapped gift to the Anglican Diocese Office, 134 King Street Newcastle before Friday December 15, 2017. IDEAS FOR GIFTS While many people enjoy giving the traditional soft fluffy toy at Christmas time, the desperate need is for gifts for teenagers or adults, this is our biggest shortfall!

Leave a gift in your will to the Church

Teenage Girls: Toiletries, cosmetics, beach towel, backpacks, purses or bags, hats or a gift voucher (Target, Big W, etc). Girls: Watch, dolls, books, games, doll prams, textas or craft items. Teenage Boys: Cricket set or other sporting equipment, beach towel, radio, watch, CD player, Ipod or MP3 player, portable DVD player, backpacks, wallets, caps or a gift voucher (Target, Big W, etc). Boys: Football, books, games, cars, any active sports items, action figures.

Adults: Toiletries (male and/ or female), towels, hats, socks, vouchers, backpacks, bags, ornaments (picture frames, candles). Please remember that many of our clients can not necessarily afford battery operated items. Other: Gift wrapping/wrapping paper. Food: Samaritans is always in need of non-perishable food reserves and they need your help to restock the shelves, especially at Christmas Time. Please don't wrap gifts. The gifts are wrapped once the gift has been chosen.

Once you have made provision for your loved ones, you have the opportunity to make a lasting gift to God, by leaving a bequest to his church. A gift in your Will is one of the most valuable and lasting ways you can continue to support its mission and ministry within your community. Contact Linda Wilson at the Diocesan Office for more information on 4926 3733.

Q&A

"I'm dreaming of a

Christmas..."

FR MARK COOPER RECTOR OF MICA MINISTRIES I'm dreaming of a peaceful Christmas. The angels sang "Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace among those whom he favours". We talk a lot about peace at Christmas time but ironically we complain that it is the busiest and most hectic time of the year. I dream of a peaceful Christmas. A time when we can slow down to reflect on the amazing choice that God, who created life, the universe, and everything, made to become a vulnerable baby in the poorest of families surrounded by the least acceptable of society. A time to prepare for that day when Jesus will come again, this time in glory and splendour.

I also dream of a peaceful Christmas that envelopes the whole of humanity. We often hear the story of the unofficial Christmas truce in World War I when soldiers of both sides put down their arms, walked out into No Man's Land singing Silent Night, sharing chocolate, and playing an impromptu game of football. My dream is not that wars might cease for one day but that the peace of Christmas would bring us to our senses and a lasting peace might finally break into our world. This Christmas I will seek out moments of peace to reflect on the choice God made to become a baby and I will pray earnestly for peace on earth.

THE REV'D ANGELA DUTTON RECTOR SCONE I'm dreaming of a Christmas filled with sugar and spice and all things nice. In reality, for many of us who are on our own, the two most lonely days of the year are our birthday and Christmas. How ironic that it is on my birthday I am being asked to write about Christmas. We often forget that for some people, Christmas can be a difficult or sad time for all manner of reasons while we go about obliviously proclaiming a time of happy families and great joy as we once again celebrate God's love for us through the birth of our Saviour Jesus Christ. I don't actually remember the last Christmas I shared with family; as an adult they have been few and far between. The seemingly easy option for those on their own or struggling at this time of year is to be like

Ebenezer Scrooge and hold our own private pity party and spread our lack of Christmas spirit onto others. The other option we have is to take the lemons of life and turn them into lemonade. We can accept an invitation extended to us or we can open our eyes and our hearts to see who else around us in on their own and invite them to share Christmas with us. I am very grateful for and blessed by the many Christmases I have spent with others both in whatever rectory I have been living in and in the homes of others; and for the joy and love of Christ we have shared together. In Matthew 25:31-46 we learn that whatever we do for another we do for Christ so when we share hospitality with others we are really

sharing hospitality with Christ. No matter what our circumstances, let us be challenged to open our eyes and hearts to share Christ's love on this special celebration of the birth of our saviour with another who would otherwise be on their own.

THE REV'D ANDREW EATON RECTOR WALLSEND I'm dreaming of a hope-full Christmas. In his 1974 book Canterbury Pilgrim, then Archbishop of Canterbury Michael Ramsey wrote that "the joy of Christmas shines in a world that is darkened by sadness." Who would have thought such words would ring so true in 2017. Considering the parlous state of the world's climate, politics and social cohesion, and the darknesses of the church brought into the light by the Royal Commission, perhaps there has never been a time where we needed the joy of Christmas to shine more brightly. But amidst the seeming darkness of the age, I am hopeful. Hopeful for the church that it will repent, kneeling at the foot of the crib and cross,

seeking forgiveness in the knowledge our God has abundant forgiveness and mercy to give. I am hopeful for the next generation of Christians who will discover the wonder and mystery of the God in the beauty of an incense-filled, candle-lit Midnight Mass this year. And I am hopeful for our world, for the young people who will put the environment and the poor and the refugee and the marginalised and especially each other before themselves. If we come humbly to the stable in Bethlehem this Christmas, and "kneel in the darkness and cold that is the symbol of our blind and chill human hearts, and say in a new way: 'yours is the kingdom, the power and the glory forever'", then we might just be

in a position to be the hope and joy and light of Christ that our world so desperately needs.

"Considering the parlous state of the world's climate, politics and social cohesion, and the darknesses of the church brought into the light by the Royal Commission, perhaps there has never been a time where we needed the joy of Christmas to shine more brightly."

Redeeming Innocents 2017 CHRISTMAS APPEAL

The Twelfth Night of Christmas is also Epiphany, when Christ is revealed to the Wise Men. After this revelation, Joseph and Mary flee to Egypt with Jesus, to avoid the â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;Massacre of the Innocentsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;. Today, facing similar crises, many parents do the same, fleeing danger in places such as Syria (see photo), Myanmar and South Sudan. In other circumstances, there is no option to flee, and parents have to protect their children in different ways. This Christmas, we invite you to support our partners as they help to protect vulnerable children.

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THINKING ABOUT FAITH

The Church's Biggest Challenge in 2018 THE REV'D CANON DR JULIA PERRY DIOCESAN DIRECTOR OF FORMATION Go in peace to love and serve the Lord – today! The challenges for the church in 2018 are exactly the same as the challenges which we face in society. Of course the church will hopefully look at the challenges with the eyes of Jesus. This world is God's world, our role is to be and spread God's love and justice and mercy. There are obvious needs – the blind, the lame, the thirsty, the naked, the captive. We can add those with mental health struggles, the underemployed, the abused (by family, the authoritative, strangers), the isolated and chronically ill… For us the response is obvious too – we are God's hands, we have God's voice, we have the character of Christ. The challenge is how are we to do this! What sort of model or models might be the best vehicle for Good News in our contexts? •

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We could try the first models – a group of people called from their jobs to follow and learn and then teach (stipendiary clergy?). An itinerant charismatic model – or the resulting structure of institutional hierarchy (which need to be complimentary not adversarial!). Perhaps a later model of setting up tents and holding rallies – good teaching, good care and follow-up.

As models of ministry began changing with Jesus – so they will

change now – not change for change's sake, but because as the world to whom we want to take the Gospel changes, we must change so that the Good News we know, is known. Our challenges are about "singing our song in a strange land". That psalmist's wisdom spoke to those being unwillingly taken where they didn't want to go and for many in the church the world around us is changing in ways we don't want it to go. The challenge is not for us only to sing to each other – but to try ways that our fabulous song is sung in our very own strange land. My ministry experience underlines for me the importance of care of soul starting with the care of person! To quote a previous Diocesan Director of Evangelism – be nice to people – and don't make them guess why! I've also learnt a hard lesson, that adapting our worship service style will not invite people to faith because those not with us have no awareness of whether what we do in church is new, old, contemporary, goth or anything else. We may not need to change the worship we know, we do need to change how we are known in our communities. It took me a long while to understand what "the road to hell is paved with good intentions" meant. It means and includes all those really good things we do – which inhibit us from doing the most important task. A massive change set to take place is for clergy to work five days instead of six days a week from New Year.

A challenge is to discern together what will no longer happen as it has in the past! A challenge is not to have clergy (or laity) work the same ministry and administration regime in less time! A challenge is to discern which tasks MUST be dropped and which tasks MUST be nourished or initiated so that mission and evangelism will happen in our communities. Does the model we have now still form the best foundation for mission? More parishes will not be able to afford the conditions for full-time priestly ministry. It seems to me that we are embarking on a journey "back to the future" "Transition for congregations comes about when they stop thinking of themselves as a small non-profit organisation with a priest as CEO, and start thinking of themselves as a religious community of disciples who are each engaged in ministry, some of which they pay a priest for." Our worship, study and prayer will continue. They will undergird our faith and witness. They will be foundational in our desire to share the Gospel. The greatest challenge is for us to step outside our homes and church to live and talk the Gospel in our communities without delay – today! Go in peace to love and serve the Lord – today!

"There are obvious needs – the blind, the lame, the thirsty, the naked, the captive. We can add those with mental health struggles, the underemployed, the abused..."

LOOKING TOWARD 2018

What is your New Year's resolution? THE REV'D MOIRA EVERS RECTOR TELARAH RUTHERFORD In the creation of its Mission Action Plan, the parish of Telarah and Rutherford decided that the ethos, "Feed the Hungry" was to become central to its mission to the local community. Inspired by Matthew 25: 31-46, the Judgement of the Nations, we were determined to develop ministries that fostered a dynamic connection with our neighbours through works marked by hospitality, compassion and generosity. Fiacre's Feast, our free community garden, was established to work alongside an emergency food relief program which we run in partnership with Samaritans. The closure of St Luke's, Telarah, while difficult, provided us with another way to be "church," connecting with our community, through the establishment of a vibrant little op shop. In 2018 we look forward to working with Rutherford Rotary in constructing a garden shed, not just any ordinary garden shed, but a shed that will provide laundry and showering facilities for the homeless in our neighbourhood. My New Year's resolution is to work with parishioners in consolidating these vital ministries which, I hope, will help revitalise the parish and strengthen its engagement with the local community through works of mercy that provide relief, comfort and dignity to those who hunger for food and friendship, justice and equity.

THE VERY REV'D KATHERINE BOWYER DEAN NEWCASTLE CHRIST CHURCH CATHEDRAL My first New Year's resolution isn't a new resolution but a renewed one: of commitment to a church that is safe, welcoming, and inclusive, where all are treated with respect. We must not forget the stories and courage of victims and survivors and their families, and as we live into 2018, it's vital that we continue the work of safeguarding and ensuring safe places for all. My second resolution flows on from that â&#x20AC;&#x201C; it's about welcome. The Cathedral sits on a hill, overlooking the city, and I'd love to welcome more people to come and discover not just the amazing building, and all we do here as a parish, but to discover God who's at the heart of all we do. When Bishop Tyrrell's chaplain wrote about the first Cathedral building on this site, he talked about the magnificent view from the doors of the Cathedral. Sometimes I stand at the doors of the Cathedral and marvel at how much that view has changed, and I pray for all the people of the city, that they will discover God's incredible love for them. We are also looking forward to the Installation of our new Diocesan Bishop in our Cathedral in 2018.

THE REV'D DANIEL CONNOR PRINCIPAL CHAPLAIN, NSW POLICE FORCE I can't blame my current role in this regard, but if there was such a thing as a "New Year's Ebenezer Scrooge" that would be me. I've always been "Bah Humbug!" about New Year's celebrations and, in particular, New Year's resolutions. What my work with the men and women of the NSW Police Force has taught me is that my poor attitude towards New Year's resolutions was due to how I was incorrectly measuring time. I was counting years when I should've been counting days. I was being cynical about all those hollow New Year's Eve promises I've seen people make in the past. I should've been counting each sunrise as both a new day and a new opportunity to make a positive difference in the people God brings my way. Many police officers end their shift weary and bruised by the events of the day. I am constantly impressed by their determination to keep pressing on, and their faith in the transformative power of dawn, "Yeah, today was tough, but tomorrow's another day!" So, I'm going to ask you to hold me to something. I'm going to step out of the comfort of my personality here and make a New Year's resolution. I resolve to stop counting life and positive transformation by years and take a lesson from those I serve. This coming year I resolve to delight in each sunrise as a new day and a new opportunity to start afresh. Feel free to ask me how I'm going. If I groan, remind me that I get another chance at it tomorrow!

ORDINATIONS

Ordinations 2017

On December 9 2017, the Rev'd Michael Marklew, the Rev'd Amanda Brockwell, the Rev'd Helen Quinn, the Rev'd Greg Colby and the Rev'd Melinda McMahon will be ordained priest at Christ Church Cathedral. Encounter took some time to speak with the ordinands and asked them to reflect on their time as deacon. THE REV'D MELINDA MCMAHON

Even as I prepare for ordination to the Priesthood, my ministry of deacon has reinforced a truth I was taught during our intensive formation: "Even as a Priest, you

never stop ministering as a deacon." The characteristics of the Deacon is as a servant of God and the Church, never losing sight of the vulnerable, the poor, and the overlooked. In the ministry context in which I am placed, School Chaplaincy at Bishop Tyrrell Anglican College, there is tremendous opportunity to notice the often unnoticed, come alongside the socially vulnerable, and care for those who are struggling with the demands of life. Schools are very much a microcosm of our wider society - there are the weak, the strong, the vulnerable, the suffering, the sick and the challenged ... and of course, the challenging! So, as

I prepare for priestly ministry, the priority to be among the community, serving the very least, such as the child, will remain the priority. When asked 'how has Diaconal ministry changed me and my perspective'? I feel this service ministry has equipped me to never lose sight of Jesus' call for every believer to "Go out". I believe our ministry in the Church must always be to stir, motivate and equip our congregations for ministry among the community, especially those who have not yet experienced the Good News of Jesus. Diaconal ministry has fuelled my passion for this evangelistic mission.

EASTER ORDINATIONS REFLECTION THE REV'D GREG COLBY Beginning life as a deacon in July this year has proven an invaluable path in my progress toward priesthood. The path to ordination has viewed the diaconate as a necessary, albeit inconvenient step toward the real goal of becoming a priest. My time as a deacon has helped me to see that my ordination as priest will not cause me to cease being a Deacon, just as I did not cease being a baptised person when I was ordained deacon. This realisation is crucial to how I have come to view the diaconate – it is not merely a lower state prior to becoming a priest. Being a deacon is preparatory to, but not lesser than, being a priest, nor is it greater than being a baptised lay-person. As a deacon I have gained a deeper understanding of the vocation to servanthood one is called to in accepting the call to Holy Orders. Jesus says in the Gospel of Matthew, "You know that the rulers of the

Gentiles lord it over them, and their superiors exercise authority over them. It shall not be this way among you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant." He goes on to say that whoever is first among you must be a slave. What an upside down way to look at leadership. This upside down view of leadership is only present in the Kingdom of Heaven - God's Kingdom. Being a Christian leader means taking on Jesus' call to "love" and "feed" his sheep which requires a preparedness to get in amongst it – to be the one serving, not being served. It has meant, and I suspect will continue to mean, grabbing a dish cloth and helping in the kitchen from time to time. Being a deacon has helped me see that the Kingdom of Heaven operates as an upside down kingdom – the least shall be the greatest, the meek

shall inherit, debts are all cancelled and if we do not see this when we gather, it is not the Kingdom. John Stott once said, "Leaders have power, but power is safe only in the hands of those who humble themselves to serve", and this is the understanding of servant leadership which has been embedded in me by my time as a deacon. I pray that in my serving, God's name will be glorified and the Kingdom of Heaven will be proclaimed.

During Intensive Formation we have also had the benefit of the expertise of many different Clergy Persons and other professionals on many different areas of ministry, such as; • Remembering everything you are thankful for including difficult people, • Being an Ambassador of Christ, • Funerals and bereavement, • Using the three Prayer Books, • Liturgy and sacramental life, • Prayer and meditation, • Marriage preparation and the service, • Domestic violence, • Creative worship, • Pastoral care, • Faith formation, • Clergy self-care, • Messy Church, • Prayer and spirituality, • Strategic leadership, • Mission and evangelism. This program is supplemented by a ten week full-time work placement at the John Hunter Hospital in Clinical Pastoral Education. My time as deacon has brought changes in myself and my

perspective in several ways. One of the first was the sobering realisation of the gravity of becoming one of a long unbroken line of ministers in the Church of God, and all that this meant and required of me. Realising how much my becoming a deacon has meant to others, has changed my perspective from one of apprehension, to joyful exhilaration to be playing my small part in the life of Christ's body, the Church, as I participate in God's Kingdom coming here and now. My perspective has also shifted from disquiet to peace, through knowing that whatever path I take – God will be there. 

THE REV'D AMANDA BROCKWELL My time as deacon has prepared me for future ministry in various ways. These include providing opportunities to practise being in a leading role in regular church services, and at baptisms, weddings and funerals. This progressive familiarisation with the responsibility and various nuances of the role have fostered the competencies required for me to perform them. In particular, to carry out my first solo officiating role at a Graveside Funeral Service, complete with bagpiper, in the misty wooded landscape of Stroud Cemetery. Having had experienced mentors and supervisors to consult with, and be guided by, has helped immeasurably with this process. Completing my study of the Bachelor of Theology degree has meant that I have been able to make important links between theory and practice, and put these into action. The Intensive Formation schedule has been enormously beneficial in preparing me for future ministry in many ways. Not least in the nurturing of a sense of community amongst the ordinands.

ORDINATIONS THE REV'D HELEN QUINN I'm a deacon! I am the Rev'd Helen Quinn! I'm still trying to digest this and all that it entails, but my ordination to the priesthood is fast approaching. So how has it been to be a deacon? Strangely, I do feel a bit different. Despite having a few more responsibilities, including being able to conduct funerals on my own, I feel an inner calm which I seldom had before. I still have trouble with time management, juggling online university studies (a real challenge for someone from the paper, pen and lecture notes era!) my jobs in the parish helping Rev'd Mark and Rev'd Bill with services and the like, meetings, travelling to Newcastle for

formation studies and other Diocesan events as they occur, liaising with local Aboriginal Elders, spending time with my dear, mostly patient and tolerant husband, Dick and trying to look after our home, our little dog Josie and our three hens! But… I am actually less stressed. Because I can and do always find time for prayer, in fact prayer time is the most comforting part of the day. Early morning with the birds to start a new day, and Compline with reflection ensures a sound night's sleep. At other times it just happens, God is always there somewhere for me. As St. Paul reminds me daily from Romans 12:2, "… be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may discern what is the will of

God – what is good and acceptable and perfect!" My mind is constantly being challenged and renewed, and with prayer and contemplation I will continue to work in the hope of fulfilling God's purpose for me.

"Our journey has not been without its setbacks and pruning, but throughout it all, the sense of God's call on our lives, has firmly taken root, in not just my life, but also in the lives of my entire family." - The Rev'd Michael Marklew

THE REV'D MICHAEL MARKLEW I find bed time with my nine year old daughter very special. She often asks me the big questions right before lights out. Of course it is a ruse to avoid bed time that I cheerfully indulge. About a month ago, right before lights out, she stopped me to express her sadness, that she would again be leaving her friends at Church to start a new kids ministry in Stockton. After allowing her to express her sadness I said, "Abigail, do you remember being sad that there were no kids your age when we joined ANeW (the 10:30am ANeW church plant at New Lambton Anglican had only being going for about 6 months when joined) a few years ago? To which she responded with a solemn "yes". Do you remember what we did about it? "Yes Dad, we prayed", and what happened? "God made it grow". Now what are we going to do at Stockton, "we are going to pray" and what will happen? By this point she

had a grin from ear to ear and replied "God will make it grow". Obviously growing a kids ministry at Stockton will be a lot of hard work, and my family know this, but this sense of God always at work, and of ministry as the new norm for my family, has well and truly taken root. Our journey has not been without its setbacks and pruning, but throughout it all, the sense of God's call on our lives, has firmly taken root, in not just my life, but also in the lives of my entire

family. Alas, I fear I have not answered the question, let me try to express it this way. Four years ago I felt ready to lead a ministry, one year ago when I was Deaconed, I felt I would never be ready. Today, I know I will never be ready, but I also know that isn't my ministry that I am going to be doing anyway. 

FACING THE PAST, SHAPING A HEALTHY FUTURE

Four ways to dismiss the truth about child abuse THE VENERABLE LES FORESTER REGIONAL ARCHDEACON PATERSON AND THE MANNING

"How is it that people can dismiss reports of abuse?" We are not the first people to ask this question. In the 1970's American school social worker Peggy Flandreau West described what she called the Discount Hierarchy. In the Discount Hierarchy Flandreau West spells out the steps of denial that allow us to think there is nothing we need to do in response to reports of abuse. I'm sure no one sets out to be dismissive of reports of child abuse. However, despite the media's focus on abuse in the church, I notice that it is possible for some folk still to disbelieve or discount reports of abuse. What thought processes allow people to do that? Existence At the base of Flandreau West's Discount Hierarchy pyramid is this dismissive belief: "These things can't or didn't happen", or "These people make claims in order to get money", or "It might happen elsewhere but not with us". Sometimes discounting belief comes in the form of "I can't believe Father X did it because I knew him, and he helped us as our priest". I wonder if there is a discounting opinion that goes: "It's important we don't scapegoat all clergy". The sad truth is abuse can happen in any church. Significance The next level on the Discount Hierarchy is to find ourselves saying "Well yes it may have happened, but it wasn't all that significant". This dismissive belief comes in a few forms: "It was only a few bad

apples". "I was abused and I got over it", "It happened to lots of people", or "It's time people moved on". Allied to this comment is another: "We've had the Royal Commission, made changes, now the church can get over it". The truth is significant abuse happened and the task of facing it is not about to go away. Addressing abuse and making church safe is the new normal. Solubility Another step up the Discount Hierarchy says, "Yes abuse happened. Yes, it is significant. But there is not much we can do", or "Abusers are clever. You'll never stamp it out completely", and "The authorities won't do anything". These "helpless" stories are very convenient, because if we convince ourselves that we are powerless to make any real change, then we may absolve ourselves of

any responsibility to take action. But there are things we can do. We can know the red flag signs of abuse, know who to contact, and we can then follow through. Responsibility The final step on the Discount Hierarchy involves shifting the responsibility to someone else, anyone else. It goes like this: "Yes significant abuse happens, and there are things that could be done by someone else, but not by me". This is the 'not my department' syndrome. However, in order to be kept safe children rely on the adults closest to them. That's us. To a child it doesn't matter whether or not we are legally required to report, or to do training. Even if we think we are "just helpers", the gospel of Jesus and children themselves place on us a moral responsibility to protect them.

"The truth is significant abuse happened and the task of facing it is not about to go away. Addressing abuse and making church safe is the new normal." 23

AROUND THE DIOCESE

All Saints Does Halloween Celebrating Halloween is gaining in popularity with Australian young people every year. It is a cultural phenomenon which some Christians find difficult to engage with. Tackling Halloween and taking advantage of this unique mission opportunity, All Saints Belmont decided to hold a Halloween Party and invite children and their parents from around the parish to attend. All Saints took the view that it wasn't promoting Halloween, but doing what Paul did on Mars Hill - telling people about the God who loves them and who is behind what they celebrate in Halloween. The message of the mission was "In Jesus we encounter perfect love, and perfect loves casts out all fear". The Rev'd Greg Colby rallied the parish volunteers to ensure that the five creepy craft tables and ghoulish food to feed the ravenous hordes all came together for what one young participant, Raya, called "the best time ever". The craft included pumpkin carving which the kids absolutely loved, especially as it meant getting their hands deep inside the pumpkin and digging its guts out. Another really popular table was the slime table which got so slimy that the tables needed to be taken out and gurnied to get them clean! Included in the party was a "Chatty Death's" segment where Death (or someone cleverly disguised as a mad doctor cowboy) interviewed Ghastly Saints such as Saint Lucy whose eyes were poked out to satisfy a jilted suitor, St Valentine who lost his head over

marriage, and Jesus, who declined to enter into the "here-after" as he was just down for a visit and would be returning to life in three days to be resurrected! The children, parents and parish volunteers all took the opportunity to dress up for the party. 80 people including 30 children, around half of whom had no previous contact with the parish, came along and had a great time and also heard about the gospel of love which casts out all fear. The Rev'd Greg Colby said, "It took a tremendous amount of planning and parish volunteers being involved to make this happen, but it was worth all the work to see the smiles, hear the laughter and to have so many people engage with our parish." Many of the kids and parents went out of their way to thank the close to 20 parish

volunteers for putting on the event. One mother even texted afterwards to say "thanks again for such a lovely evening". This same mother brought along a friend and her children who all now want to come along to church and Messy Saints. Parish priest, the Rev'd Janet Killen, remarked, "Whilst at first some in the parish were hesitant and needed encouragement to do anything involving Halloween, in the end everyone could see the power of taking a secular celebration and using that to present the gospel." Will All Saints be doing it again next year? You can count on it. View a full gallery of photos at www. newcastleanglican.org.au/all-saintsdoes-halloween

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Cockle Bay Parish Celebrates 60th Anniversary of All Saints Boolaroo On Sunday November 5 All Saints at Boolaroo celebrated the 60th Anniversary of the Dedication of the Church Building. The Parish began in 1904 in Lakeview Street, Boolaroo, in the Mission Hall, under Toronto Parish. In 1912 a block of land was purchased for 55 Pounds on the corner of Main Road, and Seventh Street. A parishioner, with his bullock team, moved the building from Lakeview Street, onto this land, it became the first All Saints commencing worship on September 22 1918. On November 2 1918 the building was dedicated. In 1922 Cardiff became a provisional district, which we then came under. In 1956 we became the Provisional District of Boolaroo. In 1966 this was changed to the Provisional District of North Lake Macquarie. Dedication of the new All Saints, was September 22 1957, the name being carried on. On the November 3 1968 the church was finally paid off and the consecration took place. This was changed to Parish Status on December 1 1968, becoming the Parish of North Lake Macquarie, with approximately 1400 families on the roll. The old All Saints became the

Parish Hall, and eventually was sold to the Vintage Car Club. North Lake Macquarie changed in 2000 to Cockle Bay Anglican Community, losing parish status. It has operated with a priest three days a week, with the rest of the Rector's time spent as an Anglican Care Chaplain. We also had Fr David Hesketh, who was also working with Mission to Seafarers, for a while. With this change the borders of the Parish changed dramatically.

Groups within the Parish over time, Sunday School, Ladies Guild, Mothers' Union, Young Wives, (Caritas), YAF CEBS and GFS. Quoting from the Rev'd Douglas Stewart in 1955, "May the advent of our new Church be the advent of a Church in all its glory, not only of brick and mortar but of living stones, made up by the faithful followers who are serving their Lord." May this be our prayer for the future.

Bishop Graeme Rutherford visits the Parish of Woy Woy This year, the Parish of Woy Woy translated the Feast of St Luke to October 29 in conjunction with a combined parish service. It was a great pleasure to welcome Bishop Graeme Rutherford as guest preacher and dedicator of the four beautiful new faceted glass panels that adorn the Chapel of the Holy Spirit. The panel's imagery is richly colourful and profoundly captivating to the onlooker. Some 140 people attended worship, including a number of young families from the Sunday evening congregation at St Andrew's, Umina. The parish Children and Family Worker, Anthea Haughain, led parents and children in the prayers of intercession, including the environment, the plight of refugees, the community, and schools.

The St Luke's Choir performed a magnificent rendition of All that thrills my soul is Jesus as a fitting conclusion to communion. After worship, most came across to the rectory and grounds to avail themselves of the hospitality on offer. The lunch hosted by the rectory family has become something of an annual highlight for the parish in recent years, and all went home well sated!

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Central Coast Walk Together for Diversity By Grace and Shannon Watkins Walk Together is Welcome to Australia's annual national celebration of Australia's diversity, designed as a tangible expression of the welcoming, fair and compassionate society we are committed to building. This year, we walked together in the name of freedom; the freedom to belong, the freedom to be yourself, and the freedom to hope. A group of 70 gathered under Brian McGowan Bridge in Gosford and heard from Fr Rod Bower. We loaded up with lots of colourful balloons, and walked along the waterfront with balloons and banners in hand, to the sound of a beating drum, up to the lawn in front of Gosford Anglican. We then listened to talks from freelance journalist Hannah Gierhardt, Primary school student Gracie Watkins (aged 11yrs), and poet Will Small, followed by a shared barbeque, face painting and music put on by Gosford Anglican Church. The inspiring speeches sparked many conversations and fuelled the desires of all participants to become more active in welcoming others,

and encouraging welcome among our communities. You can read Grace's full speech on the Diocesan website: wwwnewcastleanglican.org.au/social-justice-task-force

Morpeth Lecture 2017

Celebrating its 50th Anniversary, the Morpeth Lecture took place on Thursday November 2 at Christ Church Cathedral Newcastle NSW. Guest speaker Professor Terry Lovat addressed the topic Saving Islam from Jihadism: A Theological Analysis. The lecture explored the ease with which radical Islamist or Jihadist discourse has utilised Islamic sacred source material to promote its cause. The lecture attempted to present a more positive image of Islam by analysing the same material used by the Jihadists to show just how misplaced is their interpretation. The lecture series was founded to bring theological engagement into the issues of contemporary life. Photo thanks to Grant Killen.

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St Paul's Church Kincumber Celebrates 175th Anniversary The 175th anniversary of the completion of heritage listed St Paul's was marked with an open day on October 28 which kicked off with a re-enactment of an 1800s clergyman riding his horse from Frost Reserve to the church. Approximately 300 people visited the site from around the community to mark this hallmark occasion. A new history of the church written by local resident Bruce Fraser and illustrated by Vivienne Nelson (wife of a former parish minister) was launched at the event. Vivienne illustrated features of St Paul's in pen and wash. The local Family and History organisations had stalls, and guided tours of the church and the historic graveyard were run.

Newcastle Anglican School Corporation Celebration Day 2017

On Wednesday November 1 more than 200 students from the four Newcastle Anglican Schools Corporation (NASC) schools converged on Christ Church Cathedral for their annual Celebration Day. The Year 7 students had arrived from Bishop Tyrrell Anglican College, Lakes Grammar â&#x20AC;&#x201C; An Anglican School, Manning Valley Anglican College and Scone Grammar School for three hours of engaging with each other and the Cathedral. The Scone Grammar chapel band kicked off the event with some rousing worship music before Bishop Peter officially welcomed everyone to the 7th annual gathering. The Rev'd Richard Loh then introduced Dean Katherine to everyone who explained briefly her role and the role of the cathedral in the life of the Diocese. The Rev'd Matt Shorten then jumbled everyone into different groups in a chaotic ice breaker that would surreptitiously have the students from different schools mingling. Once settled again students from MVAC read from the book of Nehemiah a tongue twisting reading that revealed

the theme for the day, "The joy of the Lord is our strength." Dean Katherine graciously unpacked the reading for the students, cleverly likening herself to the next Dr Who which came as no surprise to those of us who know her. She then organised the students into tour groups and they wandered around the well marked out points of interest. The Dean, Fr Scott Dulley, Mr Michael Hannah and Mr Greg Anderson were all at key locations with much knowledge to impart. After 30 minutes of organised chaos and timed movements to the sanctuary bell (thanks Mr Gummow) we all gathered again for some final prayers coordinated by the Rev'd Melinda McMahon. Our day concluded with a feast provided by the amazing Wallsend Parish and organised by the always lovely Lorin Livingstone who keeps the NASC ticking over. The students ate, drank and said hello to each other. A few phone numbers may well have been exchanged and another Celebration Day had come to an end. All the students boarded buses for what would be a long trek home for some. And all the chaplains and staff from the schools breathed a sigh of reliefâ&#x20AC;Śall had gone well.

CHRISTMAS SERVICE TIMES

Christmas Service Times NEWCASTLE CHRIST CHURCH CATHEDRAL Dec 24: 9am Eucharist (no Choir); 5pm Service for Children and Families with Carols; 7.30pm 'Nine Lessons and Carols' a service with traditional and contemporary carols for choir and congregation; 11pm Midnight Mass with procession and blessing of the crib Dec 25: 7am Eucharist; 8.30am Choral Eucharist; 10.30am Eucharist for Families (Children – bring a favourite present to be blessed!) CARDIFF Dec 24: 6pm Family Mass; 11.30pm Sung Mass Dec 25: 9am Sung Mass KOTARA SOUTH Dec 24: 7.30am Low Mass; 9am Sung Mass; 5pm All-Age Christmas Service; 11am Vigil Mass of Christmas Dec 25: 8am Sung Mass Dec 31: 7.30am Low Mass; 9am Sung Mass; 5pm All-Age Worship LAMBTON Dec 20: "Hard to be Merry" Christmas service. A time to stop, pray and reflect. Dec 24: 9am 4th Sunday of advent service; 7pm Communion and hymns followed by supper with St Nicholas Dec 25: 9am Christmas day service traditional MEREWETHER

MANNING BULAHDELAH & TEA GARDENS Dec 16: 5.30pm Carols in the Park Presented by Combined Churches Bulahdelah, Wade Park Dec 24: 8am Holy Communion, St Andrew's; 5pm Christmas Carols, St Andrew's; 8.30pm Evening Prayer with Holy Communion, St John's Dec 25: 6am Sunrise Christmas Service, Holy Communion, Bennett's Beach, Hawks Nest (please bring a chair); 8am Holy Communion, St Andrew's FORSTER TUNCURRY Dec 24: 5.30pm BBQ followed by Christmas Carols at 6.30pm, Forster; 7.30pm Communion service, Nabiac; 11pm Communion Service, Forster

Dec 24: 6.30pm Family Service at Belmont North; 11.30pm Eucharist at Belmont North Dec 25: 8am Eucharist at Redhead COCKLE BAY Dec 20: 7pm Christmas Carol Service, All Saints; 7pm Carols, Teralba Caravan Park Dec 24: 7.45am All Saints Boolaroo; 9.30am St David's Teralba; 11pm St David's Teralba Dec 25: 9am All Saints Boolaroo SOUTHLAKES Dec 23: 5pm Wangi (in the Uniting Church building) Dec 24: 9.30am Eucharist; 7pm Eucharist; 11.30pm Eucharist (Midnight Mass) Dec 25: 8am Eucharist SWANSEA

Dec 25: 9am Communion Service, Forster; 9.30am Communion Service, Tuncurry

Dec 24: 5pm All Age Worship, St Peters Church Swansea

TAREE

Dec 25: 8am Holy Communion, St Peters Church Swansea; 10am Holy Communion, Gwandalan Community Hall

Dec 24: 8am Holy Eucharist, Taree; 10am Holy Eucharist & Christmas Blessings, Old Bar; 6pm Family Christmas Eucharist & Blessing of the Crib, Taree Dec 25: 9am Birth of Our Lord – Christmas Eucharist, Taree THE CAMDEN HAVEN Dec 24: 6pm Kids Christmas commencing with free sausage sizzle, jumping castle, slushies, ice cream, concluding with a carol service; 11pm Til Midnight service with Holy Communion

TORONTO Dec 15: 6.30pm Christmas in a Minor Key Dec 24: 5.30pm Messy Christmass - A time of creativity, fun & food for all the family; 6.30pm Family Christmass - Holy communion and carols for all the family; 11.30pm Candlelight Christmass - The mystery of Christmas night and Holy Eucharist Dec 25: 8.30am The traditional sung mass of Christmas

Dec 3: 6pm A Celtic Blue Christmas

Dec 25: 8am Traditional service with communion; 10am Family service

MAITLAND

Dec 10: 7pm Festival of Nine Lessons and Carols

WINGHAM

BERESFIELD THORNTON

Dec 17: Christmas Carols in the Bush; 5pm Holy Communion; 6pm Free Sausage Sizzle and Jumping Castle for the Kids; 7pm Carols by Candlelight; 8.30pm Supper, Marlee

Dec 3: 6.30pm Blue Christmas, St Paul's Beresfield

Dec 24: 6pm Children's Service; 11.30pm Midnight Eucharist Dec 25: 8am Christmas Eucharist MICA MINISTRIES Dec 24: 7pm Family Service with Eucharist, St Mark's; 11pm Midnight Mass, St Andrew's Dec 25: 8.30am Eucharist, St Andrew's WALLSEND Dec 10: 5pm Carols on the Lawn

Dec 24: 6pm Totally Different Children's Service, Wingham; 10.15pm BYO Drinks & Nibbles under the Stars, Wingham; 11pm Traditional Christmas Eve Holy Communion, Wingham Dec 25: 7.45 am Holy Communion, Tinonee; 9.45am Holy Communion, Wingham

Dec 24: 5pm All-Ages Christmas Service with carols & nativity; 11pm Carols; 11.30pm Mass

LAKE MACQUARIE

Dec 25: 9am Christmas Day Mass

BELMONT Dec 24: 6pm All Age Worship, 11.30pm Midnight Mass Dec 25: 8am Holy Communion

BELMONT NORTH REDHEAD PARISH:

Dec 24: 5.30pm Christmas Play and Eucharist, St Michael's Thornton; 11pm Christmas Midnight Mass, St Paul's Beresfield Dec 25: 8am Christmas Eucharist, St Michael's Thornton; 9.30am Christmas Eucharist, St Paul's Beresfield Dec 26: 9.45am St Stephen Eucharist, Site of St Stephen's on Anderson Drive by Highway Interchange BRANXTON AND LOCHINVAR Dec 3: 5pm Advent 1 "Peace" service of readings and Advent carols, St John the Divine Branxton Dec 17: 9am Messy Advent Mass, St John the Divine Branxton; 5pm Carol Singing around Branxton Gardens - leaving from the Branxton church

CHRISTMAS SERVICE TIMES Dec 24: 6pm Messy Nativity and Mass, St John the Divine Branxton; 9pm Carols and Eucharist around the Crib, St John the Divine Branxton

KINCUMBER

STROUD Dec 24: 9am Advent 4 Eucharist; 10pm Carols and Night Mass

Dec 25: 9am Christmas Day Eucharist, Holy Trinity Lochinvar

Dec 24: 6pm Family Service, Kincumber Neighbourhood Centre; 6pm St. Bede's, Saratoga Dec 25: 7.30am Holy Communion, Kincumber Neighbourhood Centre; 9am Holy Communion, Kincumber Neighbourhood Centre

CESSNOCK Dec 8: 6.30pm Millfield Community Carols, St Luke's Millfield Dec 17: 6.30pm St John's Carol Service Dec 21: 6.30pm Blue Christmas Service, St John's Cessnock Dec 24: 6.30pm All Age Worship, St John's Cessnock; 11.30pm Midnight Mass, St John's Cessnock

TERRIGAL Dec 24: 5pm Eucharist for Children and Families; 11pm Midnight Mass Dec 25: 7.30am Sung Eucharist; 9.30am Holy Eucharist WOY WOY

Dec 25: 9am Carols and Eucharist WILLIAMTOWN, MEDOWIE & MALLABULA Dec 22: 4.30pm Messy Church, Holy Name Mallabula Dec 24: 10am Holy Communion, Holy Name Mallabula; 8pm Christmas Celebration, St Francis Medowie Dec 25: 8am Holy Communion, St Saviour's Williamtown; 10am Holy Communion Holy Name Mallabula

Dec 25: 8.30am St John's Cessnock; 8am St Luke's Millfield

Dec 24: 4.30pm Family Crib Service with Traditional Carols, St Andrew's; 11.30pm Midnight Mass, St Luke's

UPPER HUNTER

PARISH OF EAST MAITLAND

Dec 25: 8am Christmas Communion, St Andrew's; 10am Christmas Eucharist, St Luke's

Dec 17: 2pm St Martins Martindale

Dec 15: 6pm Carols on the Hill Dec 24: 4pm Family Christmas Service; 6pm Family Christmas Service; 8.30pm Early Midnight Mass; 11.30 pm Midnight Mass

WYONG

Dec 25: 8.30am Christmas Day Holy Eucharist

Dec 24: 5.30pm Family Friendly Service & free sausage sizzle; 8pm Nine Lessons & Carols

MAITLAND

Dec 25: 9am Holy Communion

Dec 24: 6pm Family Christmas Eve Service; 11.30pm Midnight Mass Dec 25: 9am Solemn High Mass of the Nativity MORPETH Dec 3: 5pm Advent Procession Dec 24: 9am Holy Eucharist; 4pm Brick Church Christmas: The Nativity Story and Lego!; 11.30pm Midnight Mass

PATERSON CLARENCE TOWN Dec 24: 9am St Barnabas' Booral; 6pm Family Service, St Johns Clarence Town Dec 25: Christmas Day Service 7.45am, St Columba's Karuah; 9.30am St Andrew's Seaham

Dec 25: 9am Christmas Mass

DUNGOG

MOUNT VINCENT AND WESTON

Dec 16: 7pm Blue Christmas, Christ Church Dungog

Dec 24: 5pm Sunday Family Service, St Paul's Kurri Kurri; 11pm Midnight Mass, St Paul's Kurri Kurri Dec 25: 8:30am Holy Eucharist, St Mary's Weston; 10am Christ Church Mt Vincent

Dec 24: 5.30pm Family Christmas service,Christ Church Dungog; 8pm Christmas Eucharist, St Peter's Bendolba; 11pm Midnight Mass, Christ Church Dungog

DENMAN Dec 24: 6pm St Marks Wybong followed by bring and share supper; 11pm Carols Singing, St Matthias Denman; 11:15pm service starts Dec 25: 8.30am St Matthias Denman; 10.30am St Matthews Mt Dangar MUSWELLBROOK Dec 17: 8:30am Holy Communion, St Alban's Muswellbrook; 10:30am Holy Communion, St Mark's Aberdeen; 4pm Messy Church, St Alban's Parish Hall Dec 24: 8.30am Holy Communion, St Alban's Muswellbrook; 6pm Family Christmas Celebration, St Alban's Muswellbrook; 11:15pm Carols Singing, St Alban's Muswellbrook; 11:30pm Midnight Mass, St Alban's Muswellbrook Dec 25: 7am Holy Communion, St Mark's Aberdeen; 8:30am Holy Communion, St Alban's Muswellbrook; 10am Holy Communion, St Paul's Spring Creek Dec 31: 8:30am Combined Parish Service, St Alban's Muswellbrook MURRURUNDI

Dec 25: 9am Christmas Eucharist, Christ Church Dungog

Dec 17: 5.30pm A Blue Christmas Service followed by refreshment in the church grounds

Dec 24: 5pm A Messy Christ-Mass for families, St Christopher's; 11:30pm Traditional Midnight Mass with Carols, St Christopher's

GRESFORD-PATERSON

Dec 24: 9am Holy Eucharist; 7.30pm Christmas Eve Eucharist and Carols

Dec 25: 9am sung Mass, St Christopher's

Dec 25: 9am St Anne's Gresford

TELARAH-RUTHERFORD

WOLLOMBI VALLEY Dec 24: 10am Traditional Lessons and Carols Dec 25: 9am Holy Communion

CENTRAL COAST GOSFORD Dec 24: 6pm Children's Service, Gosford; 6.30pm Carols, Mangrove Mountain; 11.30pm Midnight mass, Gosford Dec 25: 8am Mass, Mangrove Mountain; 9.30am Mass, Gosford; 10am Mass, Point Clare;

Dec 24: 5pm St Paul's Paterson; 7.30pm St Mary-on-Allyn

NELSON BAY Dec 3: 4pmâ&#x20AC;&#x201C;8pm Christmas Markets and Carols with Waratah Brass Band, All Saints Anglican (Anna Bay) Dec 24: 8am Traditional Service with Carols; 10am Evangelical Family Worship with Songs & Carols; 6pm Fancy Dress Christmas Crib Service; 11.30pm Midnight Mass (1st Christmas Communion) Dec 25: 8am Traditional Carols & Communion; 10am Evangelical Family Worship with Songs & Carols STOCKTON Dec 24: 11.30pm Christmas Eve Dec 25: 8.30am Christmas Morning

Dec 25: 9am Christmas lunch in the Hall for those who are alone at Christmas SCONE Dec 10: 11.15am Holy Communion, St Jude's Bunnan Dec 17: 11.15am Holy Communion, St Matthew's Gundy; 4.30pm Holy Communion, Moonan Flat Union Church Dec 24: 5pm Families Together, St Luke's Scone; 7.30pm Family Communion, St Luke's Scone; 11pm Holy Communion, St Luke's Scone Dec 25: 8am Holy Communion, St Luke's Scone

ANGLICAN CARE Dec 25: 9am The Christmas Liturgy, Anglican Care Chapel Booragul

DATES FOR YOUR DIARY

What's On AUSTRALIAN BONHOEFFER CONFERENCE 2017 13th Annual Bonhoeffer Conference will focus this year on contemporary issues including ecumenism, climate change and Islamism, examining how we might apply the writings of the courageous German theologian, Dietrich Bonhoeffer to these modern challenges. The theme for the conference is Worldly Christianity in Practice.

Date: Wednesday December 6 2017. Location: BBI-The Australian Institute of Theological Education, Pennant Hills. Time: 9:30am-4:00pm Price: $104.50 per person (including GST)- if paid after 6 November 2017 To find out more visit www.newcastleanglican.org.au/ december-6-australian-bonhoefferconference-2017

THE CREATION Join the Newcastle University Choir on Sunday December 10 for Joseph Haydn's masterpiece, The Creation. This mighty work depicts and celebrates the creation of the world as described in the Book of Genesis through powerful choruses and soaring solo passages. The choir of more than 120 voices will be joined by internationally-renowned Novocastrian soprano Miriam Allan

with tenor, Paul McMahon, bass, David Greco, and a 32-piece orchestra of selected musicians. Date: Sunday, December 10 2017 Time: 3pm Venue: Great Hall, University of Newcastle. Free covered on-site parking. Bookings: www.trybooking.com.au Find out more: www. newcastleuniversitychoir.com

ANGLICAN WOMEN LENT RETREATS Enjoy Lent Retreats on the shores of Lake Macquarie - Anglican Women have again organised the Silent retreats for women which are held each year in Lent. The venue for February 2018 will be the Catalina Conference Centre at Rathmines, situated on the western shores of beautiful Lake Macquarie, between Toronto and Morisset.

The Retreat Conductor is Fr Melbourne Nelson. The retreats will be held February 16-22 2018, with a number of retreats available. Cost for the full retreat will be $280. To find out more about the retreats please visit www. anglicanwomennewcastle.org.au

RECIPE

Christmas rocky road slab Treat your family and friends to this delicious Christmas rocky road slab filled with oreos, marshmallows and Cherry Ripe. Prep 0:20 | Cook 0:05 | 16 Servings INGREDIENTS 100g white chocolate 100g milk chocolate, chopped 100g mini oreo cookies, halved 100g raspberry jellies, chopped 50g pink and white marshmallows, halved 40g cherry ripe bars, coarsely chopped METHOD Step 1: Line a baking tray with baking paper. Step 2: Melt the white and milk chocolates separately in a heatproof bowls over a saucepan of simmering water. Stir with a metal spoon until chocolate melts. Pour in a marbled pattern over the lined tray. Step 3: Sprinkle chocolate with cookies, jellies, marshmallows and cherry ripe. Set aside for 1 hour or until completely set. Break into shards to serve.

OCTOBER PUZZLE ANSWER: UNDER THIRTY How many words of 4 letters or more can you find using the letters: UNDER THIRTY? Result: 170 words. The two 8 letter words were thundery and intruder.

POSITION VACANT Kids' Church Worker, part-time, casual. Medowie Anglican church is an evangelical church that has begun to attract families with young kids to our 4pm Sunday Service. We want to start a Kids' Church and are looking to employ someone to do this. They will work as part of a team with volunteers from our church. Assistance will be offered for the successful applicant to complete the Safe Ministry Training. This position is paid for three hours a week, comprised of two hours on a Sunday, 3.30pm5.30pm and another hour spent in preparation. A generous hourly rate will be offered. Any offer of employment will be conditional upon a satisfactory NSW Government Working With Children Check. Submit your application to davoneri@hotmail. com. For further information, contact David Davies on 4982 9173.

AMANA LIVING INCORPORATED SUBIACO, WESTERN AUSTRALIA Amana Living, the principal aged care agency of the Anglican Diocese of Perth, invites applications from suitably qualified and experienced candidates for the position of:

SENIOR CHAPLAIN Amana Living is one of Western Australia's largest not-for-profit providers of care, accommodation and support for older people and has been serving the community since 1962. Reporting to the Chief Executive Officer, the Senior Chaplain is the most senior clergy person within Amana Living and the leader of the Chaplaincy Team which delivers pastoral care services to Amana Living clients and their families, employees and volunteers. Position description and process for application are available via:

https://www.livehire.com/job/amanaliving/HMNQQ/ Please direct queries to Kristy McKay on (08) 9424 6301 or kmckay@amanaliving.com.au Applications are to be received no later than Wednesday,

January 10 2018 at 5pm AWST.