Encounter October/November 2017

ENCOUNTER OCTOBER/NOVEMBER 2017 | ISSUE NO. 474

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THINKING ABOUT FAITH

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Meet the next generation of young believers and trailblazers shaping the next generation of church in Newcastle

Encounter's Emma Clark discusses the impact and importance of the voice of young adults in our church family

How can the church work alongside and support victims, survivors and programs in our community to make a positive impact?

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REFLECTIONS

Engaging Complex Questions as a National Church BISHOP PETER STUART bishoppeter@newcastleanglican.org.au

At the recent General Synod of the Anglican Church of Australia, the Dean of Sydney proposed a resolution that stated the Scottish Episcopal Church (our sister Church) had put itself out of Communion with the Anglican Church of Australia.

During the debate the language of the resolution was modified to express the hope that impaired relationships would be restored. The revised motion was carried 140:99 with the vote in the House of Bishops (the Diocesan Bishops) being 12:6.

The matter in question was the decision by the Scottish Episcopal Church (SEC) to change their canon law to allow clergy of that Church to officiate at weddings of couples of the same gender. The Primus of

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the SEC said, "This is a momentous step. By removing gender from our marriage canon, our church now affirms that a same sex couple are not just married but are married in the sight of God. ‌ They can express in marriage a commitment to lifelong faithfulness to one another and to the belief that a calling to marriage is for them too a calling to love, forgiveness, sacrifice, truth." He also said, "But this same decision is difficult and hurtful for others whose integrity in faith tells them that this decision is unscriptural and profoundly wrong.

For them this new chapter will feel like an exclusion – as if their church has moved away from them." Their vote on the decision was 96:37 with the bishops voting 4:1.

In response to the decision of the SEC, three Australian bishops, along with a number of other bishops, consecrated a missionary bishop with a breakaway Anglican group to minister in Scotland and England.

Prior to the General Synod, at least four Australian bishops have referred the actions of their colleagues to the Appellate Tribunal as a matter of church discipline and law.

In the 1950s and 60s, the Church of England was at the leading edge of reform repealing the criminalisation of homosexual acts in private. At the Lambeth Conference in 1998 the full membership of all baptised people in the church was affirmed regardless of sexual orientation.

Many countries in which the Anglican Church ministers have approved civil marriages for people of the same gender. Some parts of the Anglican Communion have allowed for the blessing of those civil marriages. The SEC is the first to fully change its canon law. Every change along the way has been hotly contested within the Anglican Communion and has been a cause of deep anguish.

These pastoral debates are not new for the Anglican Communion. We hold many of our formal discussions in a parliamentary style where there are voices in favour of a proposition and voices against a proposition.

Prior to the debate there are theological papers, conversations, conventions and lobbying. There were sharp differences of opinion about permitting the use of contraception and about the possibility of a person who had been divorced being able to marry again.

Debates about the ministry options available to women engendered much rancour.

What is evident in the votes at the Australian and Scottish General Synods is that there are substantial minorities that hold a different view to the majority. Our General Synod is theologically conservative as are all the official decision making bodies of the Anglican Church of Australia, except the Appellate Tribunal. 40% of the General Synod did not support the motion about the SEC. The SEC has a different make-up to ours but there is clearly a significant group that is disquieted by its recent decision.

One of the responses on the same gender marriage question has been for people to argue forcefully that the scriptures and the theological process of the Anglican Church of Australia lead to only one conclusion.

Our theological processes require

17th Session Of The General Synod of the Anglican Church Australia. Photo: Chris Shearer, Anglican Media Melbourne

us always to have reference to the Book of Common Prayer and Ordinal of 1662 together with the 39 articles.

The SEC is not bound to a similar framework. The Australian Anglican constitution recognises that on matters of doctrine the Appellate Tribunal and the House of Bishops may not have a unanimous view. It is possible that on any question there is a diversity of views and this is the case within our church on same gender marriage.

In the course of its work, the General Synod recognised that the doctrine of our church, in line with traditional Christian teaching, is that marriage is an exclusive and lifelong union of a man and a woman. It also recognised that the nature of marriage is the subject of ongoing conversation within the church and wider community and that we need to listen to each other with care and respect, and acknowledged the experiences and genuine concerns of LGBTIQ+ people within the church and the community. The General Synod has asked its Doctrine Commission to facilitate a respectful conversation in our church by means of a collection of essays on marriage and samesex relationships that explores key scriptural and theological issues including the relationship between the State's definition of marriage and

the church's doctrine of marriage.

It will also look at the case for and against same-sex marriage and/or the blessing of same-sex unions.

During the course of the General Synod deliberations I recalled that in times past there have been scholars and thinkers within the Diocese of Newcastle who have made considerable contributions to national discussions on theological and ministerial issues. Between 1927 and 1934 Burgmann, Lee and Elkin produced a scholarly journal, The Morpeth Review, once a quarter aimed at exploring the conflicts between work and family, different social groups, church and state, religion and secularity. They actively promoted the engagement of faith in matters affecting the broader community and were unafraid of developing a political theology. This work partly moved to Goulburn when Burgmann became the Bishop of Canberra and Goulburn. As I read about their work I was reminded of Bishop John Moyes of Armidale. He too was a strong social advocate addressing banking policy, workers conditions, the place of alternate political views and the inclusion of people of different racial backgrounds in Australian society. He strongly opposed the Vietnam War. Despite of what we have been

through as a Diocese and because of what we have been through as a Diocese, we have contributions to make to the debate on theological, ministerial and missiological issues in the Anglican Church of Australia.

Our context with ministry in an industrial city, as well as in suburban and rural centres, together with a rich history of work within a broadly incarnational and sacramental approach to the Christian faith, enables us to bring particular insights to these critical discussions.

I look forward, for example, to a rich discussion about a theology of creation and a theology of work as we think about land and people directly affected by our regional commitment to mining. That topic will be one in which there will be a diversity of views which directly affect people's lives and livelihood.

We will continue to have valuable contributions to make to public discourse as Australian society continues to change and institutional religion is moved to the margins. My hope is that the clergy and people of the Diocese will happily be part of these conversations as we join in shaping the culture within the church and the community.

With every blessing +Peter

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THIS EDITION 2 Reflections 4

Topics

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15 Under 30

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Thinking About Faith

18 Q+A 20 Domestic Violence and the Church 22

Mental Health Month

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Anglican Care

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Around the Diocese

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What's On

31 Recipe Puzzle Cover Photo: Young pastors from Anna Bay Jack Torr, Josh Govan and Liam Kearton.

Photo by KMackay Photography.

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TOPICS

Bishop Nomination Update

By Archdeacon Sonia Roulston Chair of the Bishop Nomination Board "The saying is sure: whoever aspires to the office of bishop desires a noble task." 1 Timothy 3:1 Times such as these, as we seek to discern our fourteenth bishop, are very important times for this Diocese, as the quote above indicates.

At our last Synod we voted for a new Board to begin the work of discernment on behalf of the Diocese. The members of the elected Board are a diverse group: a mix of clergy and lay, men and women, who between them represent the breadth of the theological spectrum of the Diocese. Most importantly, we take our responsibility as a Board very seriously, and are working together very well, with plenty of robust conversation as we make our decisions.

The new process for discerning our bishop – a board bringing a shortlist of names to the Synod – is quite unlike our previous processes. There is greater responsibility placed on the Board for due diligence checks, interviews, and confidentiality. It is the Board that will then present a

small number of nominees to the Synod for our consideration. The selection criteria the Board are using is that developed from our Consultation period with the Rev'd Sandy Jones. You can find these in the Information pack on the Diocesan web-page www.newcastleanglican.org.au/ bishopdiscernment The Board extends its grateful thanks to all those who have nominated people for its consideration. From this pool of nominees I can say that some have accepted nomination, some have not accepted nomination, and some have not replied (which the ordinance deems to be a reply in the negative).

Our Diocesan Office staff have handled all of these nominations and replies and treated them in the strictest confidence. We ask you to join in this by respecting the confidentiality of the nomination process. This will be a sign of our respectful care for those who are entering a time of discernment with us.

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IN BRIEF APPOINTMENTS

DIOCESAN OFFICE

Rev'd Peter Tinney has accepted the appointment of Rector in the Parish of Taree. He will be commissioned on October 31 at 6pm.

Rev'd Canon Katherine Bowyer will be commissioned as the 16th Dean of Christ Church Cathedral Newcastle on Wednesday October 4 at 7pm.

Rev'd Canon Julia Perry has been appointed Director of Formation for the Diocese of Newcastle (0.5FTE).

Julia commenced in August.

Naomi Lewis and Liz Studdert have been appointed as Survivor Support Coordinators as part of the Professional Standards team.

Robyn Morallis, Finance Officer, has decided to retire. Her last day will be September 28.

TOPICS

Anglican Primate Renews Apology Over Child Sexual Abuse The Anglican Primate of Australia, Melbourne Archbishop Philip Freier, has apologised for church failures that allowed child sexual abuse by people in positions of power and trust inside the church over the decades.

In his opening address to the General Synod Dr Freier said the church apologised "for the shameful way we actively worked against and discouraged those who came to us and reported abuse.

"We are ashamed to acknowledge that we only took notice when the survivors of abuse became a threat to us. We apologise and ask forgiveness for the Church's failure at many levels to listen to and acknowledge the plight of those who have been abused, to take adequate steps to assist them, and to prevent abuse from happening or recurring."

Dr Freier spoke on a number of social issues, including reconciliation, the Royal Commission, euthanasia, climate change, refugees, poverty, same-sex marriage, domestic violence, and the challenges facing rural and regional Australia.

The 17th General Synod, which was held September 3-8 2017 in Maroochydore Queensland, focused on child protection at a critical time for the Church and for the wellbeing of children in Australia.

A Commissioner of the Royal Commission into Institutional Responses to Child Sexual Abuse, Mr Robert Fitzgerald, told the Anglican General Synod child protection must be a common purpose and a common cause that unites the Anglican Church.

"There may be a day when this

17th Session Of The General Synod of the Anglican Church Australia.

Photo: Chris Shearer, Anglican Media Melbourne

Church has to live with difference and not come to agreement on certain matters. There may be certain matters where it is appropriate for dioceses to act differently. But I want to say to you that today is not that day and this is not that issue," he said.

"The community at large, victims and survivors expect this Church to be able to finally form a nationally consistent approach on these important issues.

"If there is a common purpose and a common cause that unites this Church, surely it must be child protection‌ "There is nothing biblical or unbiblical about this matter‌ the message of the Gospels and the message of Christ is clear: that our preference and our option in terms of care must be to the vulnerable and I say to you that there are no people more vulnerable today than the children and those who have been abused."

The Anglican Church of Australia passed national rules to protect children that are binding on all clergy and church workers and include regular independent audits that will be published publicly. The church's triennial General Synod, meeting in Maroochydore, Queensland, passed the Safe Ministry to Children Canon unanimously.

Garth Blake, SC, who led the national church working group with the Royal Commission, told the synod it had been confronting for the Anglican Church to hear the extent of abuse. The new rules provide a code of conduct binding on all clergy and church workers, and standards for screening people and for dealing with "persons of concern", usually sex offenders.

The week-long synod also considered two other important bills about redress for victims and holding current and retired diocesan bishops to account.

Encounter Wins Awards For Excellence During August 25-27 the Editor of Encounter, Louise Mackay, attended the Australasian Religious Press Association Conference held in Auckland, New Zealand.

Part of the conference was the 2017 ARPA Awards for Excellence. These awards judge publications from

across Australia and New Zealand published in 2016. Encounter is proud to receive a Bronze award for Best Regional Publication.

Congratulations to all those involved in the ongoing outstanding quality of Encounter.

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Meet the next generation of young believers and trailblazers shaping the next generation of church in Newcastle.

Jack Torr - Age 18 Young Pastor, Anna Bay In 2016 the lights of an old abandoned church in Anna Bay were turned back on. Spearheading its revival were three young men from the Parish of Nelson Bay, including young pastor, Jack Torr.

At just 18 years of age, and currently completing his HSC, Jack volunteers his time at All Saints, Anna Bay where he is a young pastor. Describing the role as "challenging, rewarding and life changing", Jack preaches the word of God on a fortnightly basis at the revived church. "Volunteering at the church allows me to meet the needs of people that may not have any other place to go," Jack said.

"Being a young pastor has been lifechanging," he said. "It has opened my eyes and heart to new and exciting experiences. Thus changing my perceptions and attitudes on life and how you don't have to live your life according to the stereotypical social expectations."

Inspired by Jesus and his pastor, the Rev'd Kesh Govan, Jack loves connecting with new people and being able to share the gospel.

"After preaching one time at church, a lady came up to me with tears in her eyes and said, "that was a

beautiful talk". I replied, "It wasn't me talking, it was God speaking through me".

"This moment was special as I got to connect with this lady, who I don't believe was a Christian, and I got to explain to her the gospel, which was an amazing experience," Jack said.

The Rev'd Kesh Govan has been not only an inspiration to Jack, but also a mentor. "Pastor Kesh has been a major mentor in my life as he has been by my side through the development of me becoming a young pastor. I have learnt from him that even though you're a pastor you can still have fun, whist impacting the lives of others."

Jack is passionate about helping others, and interacting with other young people allows him to have a positive influence on the youth.

"This influence instils self-esteem, team work, leadership skills and

confidence. In doing this, I am giving back to my community and making it a better place, one small step at a time," he said.

Jack believes the role of youth in our church is very important, "As we all work together we can impact the lives of others". ď ľ

"Being a young pastor has been life-changing. It has opened my eyes and heart to new and exciting experiences. Thus changing my perceptions and attitudes on life and how you don't have to live your life according to the stereotypical social expectations."

- Jack Torr

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Joshua Govan - Age 18 Young Pastor, Anna Bay "I was born ready" is young pastor, Joshua Govan's personal motto.

And ready he was! Alongside fellow teenagers, Jack Torr and Liam Kearton, Josh took on the momentous role of reviving an old church at Anna Bay in Port Stephen's. It's no surprise that Josh has taken on such an inspiring and fulfilling role in the church as he has learnt a lot about life from watching his dad, the Rev'd Kesh Govan.

"Faith is very important to me as I have always lived in a Christian home, growing up in a rectory. My faith has helped me through some difficult times in my life," Josh said.

Following in not only his father's footsteps, but also his Granddad’s, Josh thrives on having the opportunity to "make a difference in people's lives".

"My granddad, who I called "Dada", was an inspiration to me because of his love for his family and his years of service in helping his local community," Josh said.

"Like them, I am passionate about

seeing people's lives change for good".

However, for Josh speaking in front of a congregation for the first time was nervewracking, "Preaching for the first time was terrifying. It was the longest walk up to front of the church," he said.

"But after the service, when people say that my message really spoke to them, that has been one of the most significant achievements of my role so far."

For Josh, having the opportunity to be a good role-model for the youth at Anna Bay is extremely fulfilling.

"The youth at All Saints, Anna Bay run nearly all of the services and come up with new ideas on how to move the church forward."

"If we are going to look to the future then youth must have an equal role in the life of the church with adults."

Liam Kearton - Age 18 Young Pastor, Anna Bay Meet Liam – one of the young pastors and founders of All Saints, Anna Bay. At just 18 years of age, Liam preaches and leads services alongside Jack Torr and Josh Govan at the bornagain church in Port Stephens.

Describing his role as life-changing, Liam explains that one of the biggest challenges has been learning how to connect with the Anna Bay community where he serves. "We are trying lots of different ideas to see which ones work and which don't," he said.

However being a young Pastor has enabled Liam to build up his "courage

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and confidence in standing up in front of people and talking front of church". Liam is passionate about music and using music to reach out a new generation. He believes that his role as young pastor at Anna Bay is an important one as he "has the opportunity to use his gifts and give back to the church".

Liam describes the role of being a young pastor as a privilege. "I'm really grateful to our church for giving us this responsibility," he said.

"The experiences I'm having are helping me to shape my future and to understand what is important for life."

"The youth in church are the next generation and I believe they need to have an input in what goes on in the life of every church as they will be the next generation of church leaders," Liam said.

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Megan Wallace - Age 17 School Captain Bishop Tyrrell Anglican College Megan Wallace not only has the very important role of School Captain at Bishop Tyrrell Anglican College, but she also plays an active role in leading a group of students in fundamental fundraising events at the College.

Describing her work as rewarding, exciting and challenging, Megan leads her cohort and leadership team for fundraising events such as barbecues and the annual College Trivia Night. Megan also helps out at College events such as the Fathers and Mothers Day breakfast, the Winter Fair and school music nights.

"It is so inspiring to look around and see the smiles on the faces of the students, parents and staff at the College. They really are a second family and strong support network that helps you through all the highs and lows," she said.

"I also love seeing events that my cohort and I have pulled together as a team and worked so hard on all come together to deliver a successful event." This year Megan and her team raised money for SNUG (Special Needs Unlimited Group) to go towards supporting families living with rare disorders.

A member of St James', Morpeth, Megan believes that faith contributes to her day to day life. "For me, faith means accepting people for who they are and treating others how I would like to be treated. Faith has taught me to treat people with respect and to be the best me I can,

and encourage others to do the same."

One instance that has really stuck with Megan was bumping into a parent at a College evening. "I had given this parent a tour of the College on one of our Open Days. They had since enrolled their child at the College and spoke of how happy they were here, and how friendly and lovely I was.

It was great feedback to receive as I always strive to lead by example in all aspects of my life," Megan said.

One of the biggest challenges for Megan is balancing her captaincy commitments with her school work, along with ensuring the whole year is engaged and no one is left out. At just 17 years of age, this is a big commitment, so she finds support in her many mentors.

"My mentors have been integral to my development and ability to cope during my final year of school. My mentors have encouraged me to speak my mind and to make positive changes in my community," Megan said.

Megan believes that youth have an imperative role in our society, "They are the future".

"I believe that as a youth, we need to learn, lead and serve for a successful future. By learning from others we gain valuable knowledge and experience and this assists us in bettering our leadership skills.

"Leadership is such a wonderful aspiration, as it requires many skills that assist later in life e.g. organisation, confidence, public speaking and people skills.

"I also believe in the importance of being humble and serving others by helping, supporting and respecting each other." ď ľ

"Youth are the future. I believe that as a youth, we need to learn, lead and serve for a successful future. By learning from others they gain valuable knowledge and experience and this assists them in bettering their leadership skills."

- Megan Wallace

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Jasmine Horrocks - Age 24 Youth Leader, Parish of Wyong Jasmine Horrocks is a Youth Leader and Co-ordinator in the Parish of Wyong on the Central Coast.

An invigorating and encouraging role, Jasmine enjoys having the opportunity each week to share the good news of Jesus. "I love seeing youth have that "light bulb moment" when they come to understand just how good and amazing this news is," she said.

At 24 years of age, Jasmine leads a group of youth in her church. One of the highlights of her role has been taking the youth to KYCK (Katoomba Youth Convention).

"This year we had a smaller group than usual but I was so encouraged and proud by the way they looked out for each other, asked big questions and wrestled with what was said in the talks."

Jasmine is passionate about making disciples through sharing the good

news of Jesus with all people. She finds at times her mentors play an important role in shaping her youth ministry work.

"It's great to receive wisdom and guidance from an older Christian who has struggled through the same types of things and is still standing strong in Christ," she said.

However, she still feels that our biggest challenge is youth engagement in our church.

"A struggle of mine has been reminding church members that we need young people in our church and to do this we need to be active in inviting and welcoming families, as well as supporting and promoting our youth and children's ministries," she said.

"They are not secondary to the actual church service but are an integral and vital part!

"Youth are the next generation of Christians and it's vital we not only include them in our church but actively welcome youth in and point them to Jesus."

Elizabeth Brown – Age 30 + 1 Families' Worker, St. Peter's East Maitland "Busy, cute and fun!" That is how Elizabeth Brown describes her role as the Families' Worker at Saint Peter's Church in East Maitland. Not only does she play a key role in modelling and encouraging others to support families in ministry and assisting parents in teaching the Christian faith to their children, she also directly leads a number of ministries in the church.

"We have a big focus on all-age ministry, particularly with our family service, Petrus, which has learning and worship opportunities for people of every age," she said.

Elizabeth directly leads Play Time - a friendly neighbourhood playgroup; Music Time - a program developed to teach children rhythm, rhyme, and gross motor skills; Fun Time - a youth group; the Talitha and Esther Communities - Bible studies for young girls and women; as well as God Time and Church Time – the children's faith development programmes. She also preaches on

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a monthly basis in the usual Church services.

One of Elizabeth's most significant achievements has been establishing some of these new ministries, including Fun Time, Music Time, Esther and Talitha.

"It has been really satisfying to see a need, and to then be able to fulfil it in a meaningful way.

Nothing however, could have been done in these areas without my priest, Fr David Battrick's direction, encouragement and support."

Elizabeth loves the special moments in her ministry work, "Those special moments when a young person's face comes alight with a new understanding of faith - when you can see that they "get it" in a genuine way, and that something for them has changed. Absolutely nothing compares to that!"

Recently the young girls' Bible study group, Talitha, held an "ask any question day". The girls could write down any question about faith they

had, and Elizabeth would answer them.

"These girls were more focused on this day than they ever had been before," Elizabeth said.

"Their questions were insightful, heartfelt and sincere, and the girls actually started answering each other's questions toward the end.

It was so meaningful for them to be able to express themselves, ask real questions, and to grow in understanding.

"I was especially humbled to see the wisdom with which the girls responded to each other's questions.

I was so proud of them!"

Elizabeth believes youth in our church is vitally important. "Not only are the youth our future, but as a multigenerational Church, we all learn from each other, the older people can be inspired by the younger, and the younger people can receive wisdom from the older," Elizabeth said.

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Mark Thornton - Age 27 Social Justice Task Force For Mark as a young person in the church it can sometimes feel pretty isolated. He faces the challenge of finding other "under 30s" to fellowship with, and feels that faith "sometimes gets a bad rap in society, as an unnecessary add-on at best, and as an embarrassing and outdated false-hood at worst."

However, for Mark this has been inspiring as it has led him to "try and find ways to proclaim the good news to other people my own age". This is where he found the Social Justice Task Force.

"With initiatives like the Social Justice Task Force, I'm reminded that faith is about life and hope - that society, and we as members of it, can do better; we can create a community

that is a good place for all its members.

"I love that as a member of the Task Force, I get to work collaboratively with communities to shape mission in real and meaningful ways, especially for those who are marginalised and most in need. It's really exciting to be able to live out the Good News of the Kingdom by working to change our society for the better," he said.

Mark is passionate about transforming unjust structures in our society while also proclaiming the good news. He finds sometimes it has been a struggle to stay motivated in his faith without being able to share it with others his age. Mark draws motivation from his mentor, a youth minister at his church in Cooks Hill.

"His commitment to his faith and his desire to share that with others, to teach and form young people as followers of Jesus is inspirational and aspirational. Being able to assist him in his ministry at Cooks hill has helped me appreciate how difficult, rewarding and vital youth and families' ministry can be."

Mark advocates that young people are incredibly important, "We're the future of the church.

"What I think is important though is that we don't dismay at the lack of representation but rather that we work for and with young people to make the church an inviting and welcome place; a place where Jesus is accessible and real to them."

Sam Chiswell – Age 23 Youth Ministry Co-Ordinator, ANeW Church "Youth are the next generation of leaders and we need to invest heavily in them". Meet Sam Chiswell, Youth Ministry Co-ordinator at ANeW Church. Aged 23, Sam is extremely passionate about the role of youth in our church.

"Youth today are an odd bunch. They live in a world which pressures them to be apathetic and cool, yet lots of them are deeply passionate in their interests. We need to disciple these youth in a way that points them to Jesus and equip them to use their passions to enjoy and serve him," he said.

And this is exactly where Sam steps up! As Youth Ministry Co-ordinator at ANeW, Sam leads and trains a team of five other youth leaders in the planning and running of the parish Friday night youth group and social events throughout the year.

His role also includes a weekly bible study group for boys in years 9-12 and some shared responsibilities in a junior high Sunday School team.

"I've been stoked to serve alongside such an awesome crew of

University-aged youth leaders, some of whom were in bible study groups that I led back in Tamworth five years ago," he said.

"I've been particularly encouraged seeing one of our Year 11 students step into a junior leadership role that was beyond her comfort zone. She took it on not really knowing what would be involved. She's quickly become a crucial part of our team and it's been great seeing her spur the younger girls on in their faith."

Sam recognises an ongoing struggle in helping the youth a feel a part of the wider church family.

"Part of this stems from youth group being on a different night in a different building to church. We don't want the youth to feel like Friday nights are the only place they're catered for," Sam said.

"I love seeing them already being actively involved in church on a Sunday - serving on sound desks, crèche teams, acting in bible dramas and doing bible readings.

"But the struggle is still real, breaking through the apathy of the teenage world and helping them engage with the church as brothers and sisters in Christ." ď ľ

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Emma Clark – Age 25 Youth Mogul, MICA Ministries At the young age of 25, Emma Clark from MICA Ministries wears many hats. Emma runs a youth group at MICA, is on her Parish Council, is a Synod Representative and serves at St Mark's Islington. Emma also runs the Social Justice League, a new ecumenical group for young adults, and she is a member of the Social Justice Task Force, the Hunter Ecumenical Social Justice Network and the Encounter editorial committee.

Her greatest achievement to date is seeing the Social Justice League from an idea to a reality, "It has been incredibly exciting," she said.

"We have a long way to go yet, but it's been really wonderful to link up with young adult Christians from other churches and to develop new ecumenical friendships."

Emma draws her inspiration from many people, particularly those who take action through faith. "I have many heroes and role-models, many of whom are leaders in our diocese or in dioceses around Australia.

"I've been privileged to have several

people in the church who have helped and guided me along the way. They have taught me what it means to persevere and to keep the faith even when it's a struggle.

"They have also taught me so much about the diocese and the Anglican Communion and where we fit in the world. I really wouldn't be where I am now without all of the people who have helped me along the way."

For Emma, one of the greatest privileges of her work is being able to hear people's stories. "I find I'm in a unique position to link between a very wide range of disparate groups," she said.

"I've had many opportunities to walk with people in their faith journeys and in some cases, to see them meet Jesus for the first time. Each time I've seen someone's faith deepen it has strengthened my own faith in God, and in the church."

Yet there are times for Emma where she finds there is a lack of youth in the church.

Madeline Pascoe – Age 20 St Martin's, Kahibah Madeline Pascoe has been a parishioner at St Martin's since it's opening when she was a little girl.

For Madeline, church is family. "Being such a small congregation we are all so close we can share our life stories and stories of faith."

"Being a part of smaller congregation of people has impacted me in many ways. The support I receive to reach my goals, the triumphs and failures we as a congregation face together and individually, is heart-warming," she said. And as the congregation faced the prospect of their church being closed, Madeline further witnessed the strength of that family.

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As a youth representative in her church, and as the first person confirmed at St Martin's, Madeline believes that youth play a fundamental role in the church's future.

"Youth are the future.

Without them what would happen to our churches? Youth bring so much to the community as a whole - with youth comes hope, hope for change and difference and churches need that sometimes".

"There are times when it can be quite lonely to be the only one from your age group in a parish or at diocesan events. There is also a level of stereotyping about young adults in the church that can be quite disheartening.

"I think youth and young adults are incredibly important to the church.

"A church is a family in community and it is important that all ages and all generations are represented. They contribute energy and enthusiasm to the wisdom of their elders."

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Toby Mills – Age 26 Deputy Residential Care Manager, Anglican Care Toronto Nursing Home Meet Toby –Toby is the Deputy Residential Care Manager at Anglican Care Toronto Nursing Home.

This role involves the provision of clinical and care leadership to a team of Registered Nurses and Care Staff, as well as engaging families and consumers of care services in the process of care planning. He also has two young children and loves spending time with them on his days off!

At just 26, Toby exemplifies drive and compassion in his career – and it is evident as he climbs the career ladder.

His greatest career achievement to date was progressing from Registered Nurse to Deputy Residential Care Manager. "I have been very fortunate to be given a chance in this role, and am constantly trying to repay that faith!"

Inspired by the desire to "work hard and selflessly for the betterment of others", Toby aims to provide quality services which assist residential consumers to maintain dignity and wellbeing during their time in care.

"I am able to interact with a wide range of people on a daily basis.

With these interactions I am able to utilise skills in problem solving, negotiation and education, in order to promote a high level of quality care throughout the facility at Toronto. It is these interactions which really make my current role special," he said.

In July 2016 Anglican Care undertook a process of decommissioning CA Brown at Booragul, which involved the transfer of 120 care recipients from the CA Brown facility to the Toronto site to allow for redevelopment to occur.

"This was a mammoth task and involved staff from numerous areas within the organisation. Leading staff through the initial change and then settling period which involved changes to roster, staffing roles, and care structures was both challenging and rewarding."

Not only do youth play an important role in our church, but youth are also fundamental in our workforce.

"We have an aging population which is impacting on the workforce.

Having more young people involved in the aged care industry, and actively engaging and participating the care of Australia's elderly is vital for the future," Toby said.

Serena Godwin – Age 25 Samaritans' Rutherford Emergency Relief, Parish of Telarah/ Rutherford Compassion for others is what drives Serena Goodwin, who is a volunteer at Samaritans' Rutherford Emergency Relief and a parishioner at Telarah/ Rutherford. Serena joined Samaritans to help accomplish the parish motto, "Feed the Hungry in Body Mind and Soul".

Currently in her fourth year of her Social Work degree, Serena has had

to step back from volunteering full time, but usually would be found assisting with client contact, food stocking and preparation, and volunteering at the op-shop.

"I am passionate about people and their needs, and learning how best to be able to help them," Serena said.

"The thought that the little that I do

means so much to those in need is what drives me to volunteer."

Serena has been blessed in having had two wonderful women rectors, the Rev'd Canon Katherine Bowyer and the Rev'd Mother Moira Evers.

"Their faith and their lives provide an inspiration for women within the Anglican Church." 

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Kimbalee Hodges – Age 29 Ministry Assistant, East Maitland Youth is central to church at St Peter's Church, and as Parish Ministry Assistant Kimbalee is dedicated to ensuring the youth ministry continues to flourish for years to come. "My role involves sharing God's love with the 18-35 year olds and newcomers to our parish," she said.

"We try to nurture and assist our young people to know God in a deeper way through prayer, liturgy and enjoyable experiences together.

"I'm really fortunate to be involved with youth ministry and ministry to younger people."

For Kimbalee, faith is central to her life. "It is the reason I get out of bed in the morning. It has been in the past few years, through adversity, that I've really come to know and love God in a deep way."

And sharing this passion for faith is her favourite part of her role, "Sharing Jesus' message with people who may not have a good understanding of his word or clarifying misunderstandings is really special," she said.

"To see the change in understanding in people after they understand the truth is really beautiful and immensely rewarding."

The most special moments for Kimbalee have been interacting with people in a way that brings them closer to God. "I've had a few people speak to me recently to share that they have found my relationship with God and his church very inspiring and that they would like to speak with me to learn more about this path. These encounters have been really special and important in my new role as minister."

Kimbalee recognises the Rev'd David Battrick and Elizabeth Brown, parish Families Worker, as key mentors in her role. "I am forever grateful to them."

Kimbalee was officially commissioned to the role in September at St Peter's. "This was such a wonderful event and I am so appreciate of the opportunity and the people who came out to support me," she said.

Claire Gummow – Age 20 Christ Church Cathedral Choir Claire Gummow describes herself as a "committed chorister". Her role in the church has always revolved around music, beginning in the Saint Nicholas Choir when she was six years old and then joining the Cathedral Choir in 2011. "I try to keep myself involved in the different music events that happen at the Cathedral," she said. Her biggest achievement to date is being Head Chorister of the Saint Nicholas Choir in 2012.

Claire loves being a part of the choir as she gets to meet a diverse range of people. "I love meeting so many people, different people who are passionate about different things," she said.

"Everyone in the choir has something to teach as well, and I find I learn something different from each of

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them."

Her faith shapes her life through the music sung in the choir. "Having the text of the Bible put with some incredibly beautiful music really gives an extra meaning to the words and phrases.

When we finish singing a piece of music and you hear the notes echoing within the nave is just beautiful."

For Claire, the main struggle she faces within her church is the amount of youth engagement. "There aren't many young people within our church, and if there are any it's because they're in the choirs.

"The church needs embrace change to bring young people in and have something that interests them. That doesn't mean that everything has to change, the young people just need their own place within the church where they can belong."

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Jesse Baker – Age 24 Youth Leader/SRE Teacher - Camden Haven Anglican Church Dietrich Bonhoeffer, John Calvin, Michael Bird, Nathan Killick and Chap Clark. These are just some of the names of people who have inspired Jesse Baker from The Camden Haven church to step up as a youth leader in his local church and community.

"Just as iron sharpens iron, one person has the great ability to sharpen another," Jesse said as he spoke of some of the mentors he learns from. "My mentors, who are vastly different than me, lead and guide me so that I may grow in character and learn to think differently than people at my life stage."

Jesse, who is 24 years old, thrives in his role equipping youth, leaders, and families for God's church and its gospel-centred mission of building the next generation of disciples who live for Christ every day.

He believes that youth are vital in our church, "The church is a multi-ethnic, multicultural and intergenerational community bound together in Christ.

Without youth, there is a significant hole in our church. Therefore, connecting with youth today is crucial."

However, his role as youth pastor has been met with its share of

challenges. "I am young in comparison to many other pastors in the Anglican Church today," he said.

"I find Paul's words to Timothy synthesise strongly with my current struggles: Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity" (1 Tim. 4:12).

"Thus, as a 24 year old pastor, I need to remain confident and devoted to Christ daily while I persevere in using my gifts to teach the truth of the gospel diligently."

Jesse also teaches several SRE classes in his local school community. Last month he sat down with a 12 year old student and asked, "What do you think about Jesus' message of life?"

"I could tell that the student was thinking hard. The student was sad. She opened up about how life was meaningless. She could not understand the purpose of living.

"At that moment, I told her about Christ and his message of life. This situation occurs very often in youth ministry. Students are trying to understand the meaning of life.

"Thus, my role as the Youth Pastor is to lovingly proclaim this message of life." 

So, what can our Churches do to help?

By Jesse Baker The youth of today are crying for help and starving for relationships.

With this desire for community, they are searching far and wide.

They are living by an "anythinganytime-anywhere" ethos. They are a digital generation searching for truth and community in their devices. However, these synthetic relationships are often unsatisfying.

Students are crying out, "This life I live is meaningless." So, what can our Churches do to help?

I believe that we must diligently connect with this generation of authentic relationship seekers - a generation so dissatisfied

by their synthetic lifestyle. At Camden Haven Church we strive to build bridges between the youth and church. We are teaching seminars, and loving students unconditionally in the High Schools. We are building intergenerational networks for students to participate in. And we are bodily preaching the gospel on Friday nights to create pathways to Sunday congregations. In all these ministries, the word of Christ and our love for everyone has helped build an authentic relationship with 100+ students each week in the Camden Haven. As a rural community, we are thankful to God

for his powerful message which is transforming lives each day.

With all this in mind, I believe students must connect with the strangeness of God's word and a diversely inclusive community, especially in a world which is increasingly artificial. At first, God's word and people might seem strange. But, after a while, I believe this wonderment, intrigue, and revelation of true wisdom which transforms God's people, will stir their hearts and minds to consider and believe in the cure-reversing, death-defeating, sin-conquering, and evil-vanquishing message of Jesus.

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THINKING ABOUT FAITH

The impact and importance of youth in the church EMMA CLARK MICA MINISTRIES

I was recently reminded of the importance of church as a community. Every church whether at a congregation, parish or diocesan level functions as a community of faith. More importantly they are also a family of faith. Youth and young adults bring a very important voice to this family. They speak from a different perspective and they engage with God in different ways.

They are full members of this church family, and like any family it has its ups and downs.

No family is complete with just one generation. It is the interplay of conversation and shared experience between generations that binds us together. All too often young people and young adults are treated as a distinct group. They are a problem and a concern for the church. The question becomes not "How do we bring more diversity into our congregation?" but rather "How do we make the young people attend our church?" It suggests that those youth and young adults who attend

are segregated into their own congregation rather than being included in the church family as a whole.

We don't consider why they are important to our congregations, just that they are missing and we may want them to run youth ministry or swell the numbers of a youth group.

But it is not the chronological age of youth and young adults that is important to the church. It is the fact that they represent a generation that is all too often missing from our family of faith. Without its youngest members no church or family can be truly diverse or representative of the world.

The presence of young people in a church can change the conversation.

New questions can be asked and perhaps new ground covered. New ideas may be canvassed. They bring a different perception of the world, and from their elders they hear a different perspective of the world. It is this give and take of conversation that can make such a great impact on any church.

As a millennial in an ageing church I am very aware of the knowledge and history embedded in my church community. It is important to me that my participation in a church family includes hearing the stories of the parish. It's important that I hear the lessons my elders have to impart, and to be a member of the eternal conversation around faith and tradition.

I grew up in Newcastle Diocese.

In my parish I had many church grandparents, aunties and uncles; people who had no blood relation to me but were family nonetheless.

It was through them that I took my initial steps of faith. They taught me to serve at the altar and to fall in love with this world of tradition and ritual.

Every family has its issues and there is always a struggle to communicate between generations. Nonetheless it is worth all of the hard work. We learn from each other, and the presence of youth in any church can change the purpose and direction.

Youth will see things through a different perspective, they will have knowledge about different parts of the community and they can act as bridges to unite a traditional church with new and exciting initiatives.

In any family the younger generations have much to learn. Their understanding may be immature or uninformed, and as they grow their elders shape them and guide them into a deeper understanding of the world and of themselves. This is the same in any church. Yet the act of teaching the younger generations about faith can deepen and enrich the teachers' faith. Answering the hard questions encourages you to spend time developing a deeper understanding of your own beliefs.

Having youth and young adults in any congregation benefits everyone.

The youth join an eternal family that is united across two millennia through a common faith and they take their rightful place as the youngest members of this family.

They fill a gap that is missing in the congregation and they give new life and new hope by their presence.

They learn from their elders and discover a deeper relationship with God through community.

"Youth and young adults bring a very important voice to this family. They speak from a different perspective and they engage with God in different ways."

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Q&A

What do you want to see in the Church's future?

IMOGEN C COOPER 13 YEARS OLD Hi. As a young girl, I have ideas about the world. So, I have thought of some things that could improve the church.

The church is already good though-like the music/songs people play in church. They are nice to hear. When I was a little kid I used to go to Sunday school. I was always excited for it and I'm sure lots of other kids would be too. Now I don't go to Sunday school anymore, there are some things I've noticed that the church could improve on. One thing for example I would like to see are some more comfy seats. I have recently realised that in most churches they have wooden pews that are uncomfortable. So, I would like to see more comfy seats so everyone can be more happy and comfortable.

The second thing I would like to see is a screen at the front of the church.

On the screen, you could see the

readings, so when new people come they don't take the whole service trying to find what part of the book to read.

This way people can pay more attention to the service and know what is going on.

The church is cool and there would be other things that can improve the church.

But comfy seats and a screen are just two things I think we can all agree on that would make the church better than it already is.

COURTNEY LANE 14 YEARS OLD My name is Courtney and I'm 14 years old. I go to St Marks Church in Islington and also go to St Mark's Teens Youth Group every second Sunday. The things I would like to see in the future in church are more casual church services with some discussion and input from the congregation that relates to the

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readings. I would like it to be like Youth Group where we read the bible and talk about how it relates to our everyday life.

I would also like to see more modern, up-beat music for the hymns and maybe even some interaction from the congregation to make it fun, while we share the word and celebrate how great God is.

I would also like to see small groups visiting nursing homes and reading parts of the bible to the elderly who are lonely and unable to attend church.

Q&A HELENA CAKE 11 YEARS OLD I personally do not believe that anything about the Anglican Church should change. I love everything about going to church. I like the bible stories because they always teach me something new. I like the way everyone is so accepting of each other. I like the way each Chapel Service is unique and none is the same. I like the communion because it makes me feel very special. I like to pray because it helps me get things off my chest. But most of all I love it when we sing.

I also believe the work the Samaritans do is wonderful and they clearly care about the people that they are raising money for. I know this for a fact because around this time last year when my family and I were spring cleaning, we donated many things to Samaritans. The lady at Samaritans was a refugee from

Africa. She spoke to us about how hard it was for refugees to find work and how wonderful Samaritans had been in giving her that opportunity.

Donating was not as easy as we expected, because some organisations had many rules about what donations they would accept. The lady at Samaritans was so grateful for what we had to give and happily accepted our help. I hope that the future Church will continue to embrace its role in helping others in need.

Under 30: BTAC Students Lead and Serve Learn Lead and Serve is the motto at Bishop Tyrrell Anglican College, and in January 2017 eight students from Bishop Tyrrell ventured to Cambodia to do just that.

Visiting ministries in Phnom Penh and Siem Reap the students blessed the less fortunate and shared the love of Jesus with the children they met along the way. As a group, they were stretched out of their comfort zones and experienced many challenges, both personally and as a team, and as they overcame these challenges it became an amazing, rewarding experience to remember forever.

A new Cambodia team has formed for the next trip in 2018, and most recently hosted a Fashion Parade and Sale and raised enough money to purchase

a tuk tuk for YWAM (Youth with a Mission). The students are looking forward to their service trip where they will teach English in schools, visit orphanages and learn some

basic Khmer language. They are currently preparing puppets, songs and drama performances to entertain.

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SOCIAL JUSTICE

Domestic Violence and the Church THE REV'D MICHELLE HAZEL-JAWHARY RECTOR CESSNOCK The issue of Domestic Violence has been on the agenda of many in this Diocese since 2013 when clergy were visited by Dr Ree Boddè from the Anglican Diocese of Melbourne and encouraged to take part in helping to prevent Domestic and Family Violence, and any kind of violence in actual fact.

Whilst I haven't experienced domestic or family violence personally, I did experience many years ago in the public health system a workplace violence of physical assault and verbal abuse by a high-profile medic.

Whilst reported with no action taken, this caused me to have a level of anxiety to which it was easier to leave the job than stay. And so, I know some of the intimidation, powerlessness and emotional trauma that is experienced through violence. We know it's not just the beatings that form domestic and family violence, other forms are physical assault and personal injury, sexual assault, intention to damage property, intimidation, torment, killing and harming of pets, threats of

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assault and financial abuse, spiritual abuse, emotional abuse, stalking and social abuse as well as sexist language and degrading jokes. All are behaviours of power and control, abuse and violence, affecting women, men, families, pregnant women, unborn children, indigenous, elderly, disabled, migrants and all cultures. And no matter what form it takes, victims and survivors understand the impact of this violence because it is a lived reality for them.

As the Church, we can work alongside and support victims and survivors and programs in our community that encourage women and men in equal versus unequal relationships, and build skills for positive change for relationships and families of those who have been controlled and abused through violence.

In 2015 at Synod, our Diocese committed to helping to prevent Domestic and Family Violence and we acknowledge that violence against women could also be carried

against men in similar ways as well as children. Statistics show that for many the effects of domestic violence will be catastrophic and also the damage to the physical and psychological wellbeing may be deeply damaging and life-long and on occasions fatal.

As a result of the motion, each parish has been asked to nominate someone in their parish to contact services in their local community to find out the relevant groups and services providers and a summary of their services and contact details. Names and address can be forwarded to soniaroulston@ newcastleanglican.org.au.

Place the information poster in your Church and appropriate areas so that people can access the information and service available in your local area. Also display the flyers that have been distributed to each parish, "Domestic Violence and the Bible". These can be downloaded from www.newcastleanglican.org. au/social-justice-task-force.

EASTER SOCIAL REFLECTION JUSTICE Be courageous and work alongside Neighbourhood Centres and other caring agencies and support all in need.

In the parish of Cessnock our Community Ministry leader, Sheila Turnbull, has been adventurous in approaching and nominating two high profile men in our community, the local State Member and the Mayor to become White Ribbon Ambassadors. Last year we gathered a group of men in the parish to attend a Chamber of Commerce White Ribbon breakfast and stand alongside other men and senior students from one of the high schools in the community to take the oath.

Our parish has raised funds to support Jodie's Place, a women's refuge named after a local young lady who was a victim of domestic violence. The refuge receives no funding. We also offer support to Carrie's Place which has an office in Maitland and now in Cessnock at Samaritans. Domestic and Family Violence is widespread in all communities and is a violation of human rights.

and abuse and those who are We know as the Church that we working at the coalface to support have great strength, courage and women, children, men and families commitment to help our community devastated by such tragedy. Let's recreate safe and supportive work together to make a positive communities that foster inclusion and impact. mutual co-operation to work against abusive behaviours.

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How will you take a stand this White Ribbon Day? PETER GARDINER - SAMARITANS CEO White Ribbon Day on November 25 presents a powerful opportunity to raise awareness of men's violence against women and to reflect on how we can do better as individuals and a community to combat this abhorrent behaviour that is devastating our nation.

Men's violence against women is a complex, complicated and wide ranging issue involving a multitude of factors embedded in our culture, our laws, our economy and, most intractably, in our cultural constructions of masculinity. It is because of the latter that men must both be addressed and involved in the effort to change attitudes and behaviours that allow this to happen in order to establish positive culture change.

White Ribbon Australia is committed to driving cultural change amongst Australian men and challenging the attitudes and behaviours in some

men that ignite disrespect towards women. What makes White Ribbon unique is that it works through the engagement of men, communicating with other men, about an issue where they are both part of the problem and the solution. This work has built on the amazing efforts of so many women in so many parts of the globe to stand up for their rights and to fight to have those recognised.

Samaritans is leading the way locally as the first Hunter-based workplace to be accredited in the White Ribbon Workplace Accreditation program. I am proud of our staff who have taken active and effective steps forward to ensure our workplace prevents men's violence against women and in particular to the male staff who have stepped up to become White Ribbon Ambassadors. The staff-led White Ribbon Committee was formed to drive positive organisational action and empower all staff to stand up, speak out and act to prevent men's

violence against women. Together, we are making a difference and shifting attitudes to create a culture where violence against women is simply never condoned.

As White Ribbon Day approaches, I ask you to consider the steps you can take to stand up and stop violence against women; not just on this day but every day. I encourage you to safely challenge negative behaviour, to talk to friends and colleagues about the issue and lead by example at home, in the workplace and in the community. If you witness a violent act, there are ways you can make a positive difference without endangering your own safety - by calling the police, asking others who are nearby to help or offering support to someone who needs it.

You can take a stand by taking the White Ribbon Oath. I will stand up, speak out and act to prevent men's violence against women.

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MENTAL HEALTH MONTH

Share the Journey THE REV'D MARK COOPER RECTOR MICA MINISTRIES

October is Mental Health Month.

I've always thought of October as a great time for getting out and doing things after winter has truly passed and the days are starting to get longer and warmer. I'm not sure this is why October was picked for Mental Health Month but it does make it easier to engage with the variety of events planned around our nation to raise awareness and help people cope with their mental health problems.

This year's theme for Mental Health Month is Share The Journey. We live in the paradoxical situation where we are increasingly becoming connected with people from all over the world through social media but less connected in our local communities to family, friends and neighbours. If we are to share the journey we will need to nurture relationships and spend some quality time with those who are nearest to us.

Connecting with others has the dual effect of improving the mental health of both parties involved so while you are helping out a friend, you are also improving your own mental health. Getting together to share the journey allows us to feel valued and loved, share the good things that are happening in our lives, and helps us to deal with the hard experiences that we face. There really is truth to the adage, "A problem shared is a problem halved".

While we all might have times of loneliness those in our community who are living with mental illness are more likely to experience it on a regular basis. This is mainly due to the stigma and discrimination they face because of the way mental illness is portrayed in the media, film, and television. Loneliness has a greater negative impact on people struggling with mental illness but the reverse is often true, seemingly small

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acts of kindness and times shared can have a very positive effect.

A few years ago the theme for Mental Health Month was Small Acts, Big Impacts. We shouldn't underestimate what effect little acts of kindness can have on a person who is struggling with their mental health. While these can be as simple as an encouraging card, sending flowers, or a kind word, the most effective act is to share some of your time. It is in sharing our time that we can share the journey, the good times and the tough times.

In my time as Chaplain to Mental Health in Goulburn one of the most frequent questions I was asked was, "What training do you have in Mental Health?". A fair question, but to some extent it misunderstands the nature of chaplaincy. At its core, chaplaincy is about pastoral care, and the pastoral needs of people are the same whatever situation they find themselves in, be it a school, a workplace, a hospital, or the Mental Health ward. I did however find Mental Health First Aid an important resource so I could understand a little of what those who were dealing

with mental health issues were going through. It equipped me with things to say and do that would be helpful and not harmful.

While most of us would like to offer help to someone who is obviously struggling with depression, addiction, schizophrenia or bipolar disorder we honestly don't know what to say or do, so we do nothing. In the same way taking a First Aid course does not make you a doctor or a nurse but gives you the skills necessary to administer basic lifesaving techniques until professional help arrives, Mental Health First Aid does the same. It gives you a basic understanding of what the person is experiencing, ways to start a conversation that are not threatening or dismissive and knowledge of where are the best places to go for professional help.

In this modern age I think every member of society should know basic first aid and mental health first aid. You can find a local course at https://mhfa.com.au. Why not make it part of your way of supporting Mental Health Month this year.

ANGLICAN CARE

The Benefits of Retirement Living

Have you thought about moving to a Retirement Village? With the number of Australians aged over 75 years projected to increase by about 4 million between 2012 and 2060, it's no wonder there is a dramatic increase to the number of options available to seniors as they look to enjoy their retirement years.

The older Baby Boomers will be reaching 71 years this year and the impact of this generation and their heightened expectations is having a vast impact on aged care providers.

As a well-informed and educated generation, the Baby Boomers are helping to shape our future aged

care services, with many dreaming of having the freedom to pursue their own interests without the hassle of maintaining the family home. That's where Retirement Living becomes a great option for people to consider - imagine having fewer responsibilities and more time to spend with friends and family.

Retirement Living is generally defined as a residential, multi-dwelling complex specifically designed for seniors aged 55 years and over, although at Anglican Care we find the average age of our new occupants is mid to late 70s. In addition to having more time to

spend with loved ones, other benefits to Retirement Living is the community environment. There is opportunity to be part of a community of likeminded people; enjoying the social interaction, companionship, physical and emotional security that it may provide can be priceless. Further advantages include no more tending to the lawn and garden, being able to "lock and leave" for holidays and 24 hour emergency call systems – giving a real sense of security.

"Research your next lifestyle choice", is the advice Denise Rickman, Retirement Living Co-ordinator at Anglican Care gives seniors considering their next steps. "This will allow you to best enjoy the many benefits on offer, and investigate the different models and financial arrangements available to find what's right for you".

Below are some websites which will help get your research started: • NSW Fair Trading www.fairtrading.nsw.gov.au • Aged Care Guide www.agedcareguide.com.au/ retirement-villages • Retirement Village Residents Association rvra.org.au • Anglican Care www.anglicancare.com.au • Aged Care 101 www.agedcare101.com.au

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AROUND THE DIOCESE

Diocesan Leaders' Conference Thought-Provoking and Encouraging

The Diocesan Leaders' Conference this year was a friendly gathering of rectors, chaplains and formation students. Bishop Jeffrey Driver led the group in thought provoking and encouraging reflections on trauma, and on remembering into our future – being who we are called to be today.

In his last address, which stirred us forward he spoke of authenticity, building trust, making long term plans and sticking to them, and giving ourselves away. He also reminded the clergy, clearly, that the "privileged church era is gone", and that our call today is to be missional, to form our people in the faith, and for parishes

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and chaplaincies to be "working models of hope".

As those who attended the Convention can attest, Bishop Jeffrey was both truthful and encouraging.

We are most thankful for his time with us, his teaching, and his genuine care.

The clergy also heard from • Danielle Habib on Domestic and family violence; • One another as we reflected on various ministries and good news stories from across the Diocese;

13-15 October

Craft Exhibition and Sale: Administration Building Demonstrations, gourmet goodies, Christmas stall, China painting, pottery, jewellery Art Exhibition and Sale: Timbury Hall

Opening hours: Friday October 13 2.30pm–7pm Saturday October 14 10am–4pm Sunday October 15 10am–3pm

Official Opening by the Mayor of Lake Macquarie, Kay Fraser, at 5pm in the Chapel. Presentation of art prizes including cash prizes, followed by light refreshments.

More than 100 exhibitors of art and craft from Lake Macquarie, Newcastle and Hunter. Devonshire teas and light lunches available in Timbury Hall. Entry donation $3. For further information please phone 4950 8182 | 4957 5302 | 4023-7059

Anglican Care Village, Toronto Rd, Booragul

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Gill Fletcher and Archdeacon Arthur Copeman and the renewed clergy supervision program which will provide essential support and reflection for clergy in their ministries.

We concluded with a session with Bishop Peter on self-care, on clergy working hours and time for refreshment, and on changing our expectations of ourselves. Bishop Peter also encouraged the clergy present to be gathering in small groups for mutual encouragement and support.

Anglican Care Auxiliary Celebrate 60th Anniversary Presidents and members past and present came together for a special luncheon to celebrate the 60th Anniversary of the Hunter Anglican Care Auxiliary on September 4.

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St Luke's Wallsend Celebrates 150 Years On August 25 the Parish of Wallsend began their 150th Anniversary Celebrations with a special Anniversary Dinner.

The celebrations continued on August 27 with a Festive Eucharist held at St Luke's. Bishop Peter presided and preached at the service.

Some of the children presented a beautiful poster to the Bishop to be blessed in celebration of the 150th Anniversary and in recognition of God's love for us.

Current and former rectors celebrated at the dinner and Eucharist. Two of the parishioners who have been at St Luke's the longest, Colin Walker and Marge Mackie, with some of the youngest parishioners from Sunday School, cut the anniversary cake.

Antique Road Show held at Lambton

On August 26 Lambton Parish held an Antique Road Show. A variety of interesting antiques were on display, including silverware, a 19th century snuff box and a lockable whiskey decanter.

Mrs Robyn Greenwell, a local antique dealer gave an informative explanation of some of the items on display, and spoke of life in the "pre-plastic era", and how women in the 1800s were "behind the scenes" painters, decorators and producers.

Syd and Thea Woodington brought a marvellous photo display of the history of the church.

Also on display was a wonderful collection of Mrs Valerie Beal's many and varied hats. Gabrielle, one of her daughters, gave an in depth description of the hats as they were modelled by the ladies. Rev'd Maree Armstrong (right) helped model the hats, along with ladies from the parish.

The day was full of fun and laughter.

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Samaritans opens a new shop Samaritans has expanded its retail services with the opening of a new shop in Boolaroo. Samaritans staff, volunteers and members of the community were joined by Lake Macquarie Mayor Kay Fraser to officially open the shop and Uncle Bill, a Wirrigan Elder, who conducted a cleansing smoking ceremony.

Samaritans Shops play an important role in offering the community affordable and quality pre-loved clothing and items. They also provide a destination for the community to recycle and donate their bric-a-brac, books, linen and clothing to find a new home. Additionally, the service raises funds for Samaritans programs that receive little or no government funding, and also supports people in need with vouchers distributed through the Emergency Relief Centres.

Opening a fourth shop would not have been possible without the great success of the other three stores in Hamilton, Mayfield and Wallsend. It is through the generosity of the community in supporting and

donating to these stores that we see this growth. Samaritans shops are also largely staffed by volunteers and simply could not operate without their support. Thank you to everyone involved!

Any donations to Samaritans Shops are greatly appreciated and can be

dropped directly to the stores: 19 Beaumont St, Hamilton 131 Maitland Rd, Mayfield 145 Nelson St, Wallsend 15 Main Rd, Boolaroo Visit www.samaritans.org.au/ samaritans-shops to discover opening times and more detail.

Edna celebrates 100th Birthday with Bateau Bay church family Edna Newland, Bateau Bay's oldest parishioner, turned 100 on May 21.

The parish celebrated with a special morning tea after the morning service.

Edna has been a parishioner at Bateau Bay for at least 40 years and she has been involved with the church move around the coast to

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be finally located here at Tyrrell Place, Killarney Vale.

Edna has been an active member of the parish for many years and is now enjoying a more relaxing time, watching all the changes that continue to happen at Bateau Bay.

Once you have made provision for your loved ones, you have the opportunity to make a lasting gift to God, by leaving a bequest to his church.

A gift in your Will is one of the most valuable and lasting ways you can continue to support its mission and ministry within your community.

Contact Linda Wilson at the Diocesan Office for more information on 4926 3733.

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Diocesan Convention 2017

On August 12 200 people from the Diocesan community gathered at Bishop Tyrrell Anglican College for the Diocesan Convention. As in past years, as people left they spoke of an encouraging and educative day as we explored together what it is to the be the Diocese of Newcastle at this time in our life.

Bishop Jeffrey Driver, recently retired Archbishop of Adelaide, led our morning sessions, addressing the topics of "Remaining in the Grey Spaces" (Holy Saturday) and "Remembering in Zion".

In these addresses Bishop Jeffrey reflected with us on the trauma that is still very much part of our life as a diocese and in our parishes. He spoke of the women taking spaces to the tomb of Jesus as part of their grief, and of the presence of Jesus

with grief stricken followers on the Road to Emmaus. Grief and God's presence… being there… aiding… walking respectfully alongside – these are the themes Bishop Jeffrey reflected on with us.

There were many encouraging reflections from people on Bishop Jeffrey's leadership of us in the morning sessions.

In the afternoon, the Domestic Violence Task Force invited Danielle Habib to lead what was an excellent session on knowing about and responding to domestic and family violence.

As well as this we heard from the Bishop Nomination Board, and from Sue Williams and Canon Katherine Bowyer on our discernment and formation programs.

The day concluded with Bishop

Peter calling Anglicans to a deeply generous engagement with one another and the community as same sex marriage is discussed in our community. He said, "Our Diocesan family is the spiritual home for gay and lesbian people who take their place in our parishes week by week. It is also the home to parents, grandparents and friends of gay and lesbian people who are angry, frightened and apprehensive about the next weeks. They fear for the wellbeing of the people they love.

They need our special care and support. I see this as a season of being especially gracious to one another."

As always it was great for the Diocesan family to gather, hear from excellent speakers, and enjoy catching up with each other and renew friendships.

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Re-Hallowing of the Birdwood Flag Service On Sunday July 30, Christ Church Cathedral held a special service for re-hallowing the Birdwood Flag.

The liturgy celebrated the work of a past parishioner from the Parish of Georgetown, Dora Sparke.

Dora Sparke was known as a very active member of St Philip's Waratah in the first half of last century. Before she died in 1957 she gave the parish a set of communion vessels which featured her mother's jewellery.

Dora was also seen very active in the wider church/community. She led the project to create the Birdwood Flag in 1916 and to send it to the Western Front – the first Australian flag used in WW1. She arranged for it to be hung in the Cathedral when it was returned after the war. Over the years the flag disintegrated, but

it was recently rediscovered and has now been restored.

Parish Council recently decided to loan the valuable Sparke vessels to the Cathedral where they could be

Open Day at the Historic St Paul's Church at Kincumber

To celebrate 150 Years of worship at the historic St Paul's Church at Kincumber, the parish is hosting an Open Day on Saturday October 28.

The Open Day will include the launch of a commemorative book, music, and tours of the church and graveyard.

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Historical Society, and Gosford Library Local Studies will be present.

This family fun day will be held from 10am, corner of Avoca Drive and Empire Bay Drive, Kincumber. All welcome. For further information contact Bruce Fraser (02) 4360 2231.

displayed securely. The vessels went to the Cathedral last Friday, where they were joyfully welcomed. They will be restored, and displayed along with the Birdwood Flag.

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Prayer Request Granted for L'Arche Hunter After more than 10 years of seeking, and praying for a house in Newcastle in which disabled and non-disabled people can live together as a community of L'Arche, this prayer request has been granted to the local L'Arche members. The Uniting Church in Glebe Road, Merewether, has agreed to lease their 5 bedroom house next door to the church to L'Arche NSW after renovations to the kitchen and bathroom have been completed.

L'Arche (the French word for "the Ark") is an international Federation of people with and without intellectual disabilities sharing life in Communities. Mutual relationships and trust in God are at the heart of our journey together as we celebrate the unique value of every person and recognise our need of one another.

L'Arche communities enable people with disabilities to take their place in the world, giving them the means to express themselves and contribute to society, making it more authentically

human. L'Arche was founded in 1966 and now has 151 communities in 37 countries. In Australia there are communities in Canberra, Sydney, Hobart, Brisbane, Melbourne, Adelaide and Perth, with Newcastle about to open a new community.

Community is established. L'Arche would be pleased to hear from any who have relatives or friends for whom this house would provide a safe and beneficial home. The contact address for such enquiries is: shirlcro@bigpond.net.au

Hopefully, at least 2 or 3 people with intellectual disabilities can move into the Merewether house in the not too distant future so a real

Those who would like to know more about L'Arche in the Hunter can visit the L'Arche Hunter website at www.larchehunter.org.au

AW Spring Celebrations: "Walls and gates can't stop the Spirit!"

Those who attended the annual Anglican Women Spring Celebrations were challenged about a program for women in the Gaza Strip. Brian Holmes, from Anglican Overseas Aid, spoke to attendees at Tuncurry, Cardiff, Merriwa, Branxton and Wyoming about the work of the Ahli Arab Hospital, which is owned by the Anglican Diocese of Jerusalem. On a visit in 2016 to Jerusalem and Gaza, Brian found that 'walls and gates can't stop the Spirit', as those in need are served with compassion and love.

The Ahli Arab Hospital is a haven of peace in the middle of Gaza, one of the world's most troubled places.

A Palestinian territory (41km long x 12km at its widest), with a population of 1.85 million, it has only one point of access, at its northern tip joining Israel. The political status of Gaza affects all aspects of life because of restrictions on the movement of materials and people in and out.

Electricity, medicines, food, water, fuel, and personnel are all restricted

to some extent. Despite this the hospital provides some of the finest medical care available in the region.

Apart from general medicine, surgery, community services and child nutrition programs, it runs, completely free of charge, a program for the early detection of breast cancer among women above 40 years of age. It is this program which Anglican Women will help support through

their 'Thank You Boxes' for coins over the next 12 months.

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They work with Anglican and likeminded agencies to create and strengthen partnerships in developing countries to overcome poverty, injustice and disaster.

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DATES FOR YOUR DIARY

What's On TWO BISHOPS' DIALOGUE An opportunity to gather as an Ecumenical and Interfaith community, with both Bishop Peter (Anglican) and Bishop Bill (Catholic).

Both Bishops invite you to join them in conversation about morals, ethics and good decisions.

Date: Tuesday October 10 2017 Time: 6pm - 9pm Venue: St Luke's Anglican Church, 11 Brown St Wallsend

Light refreshments will be provided.

To RSVP or for further details please contact Brooke Robinson at the Catholic Diocesan Offices on 4979 1111 or email brooke.robinson@ mn.catholic.org.au.

RSVP by Thursday October 5.

All welcome.

WEEKEND OF PRAYER FOR SCHOOL SCRIPTURE (SRE) The Weekend of Prayer for School Scripture (SRE) in NSW Public Schools is on again in 2017. Get involved at your church over the weekend October 21-22.

There are many ways you can get involved. You can pray for SRE teachers and schools in your church service, pray alone or in a small group, or raise awareness about SRE in your church. Why not put a notice in your church newsletter.

The Anglican and Catholic Bishops support the Weekend of Prayer.

"I would encourage everyone to join in the Weekend of Prayer for SRE," Bishop Peter Stuart said.

"Our communities send out our SRE teachers; we cannot let them go without our prayers and support," Bishop Bill Wright said.

For flyers and information go to www.huntersre.org.au

DIARY NOTES 1st Thursday of Each Month: Inner City Healing Mass The Anglican Parishes of Newcastle offer a healing ministry to the City, providing a supportive Ministry of prayer, anointing and the laying on of hands for healing. Mass held at 10am on the 1st Thursday of each month, St Peter's Church, 148 Denison Street, Hamilton. Followed by morning tea and fellowship.

October 2: Blessing of the Animals, Anna Bay Join us as we celebrate our Godgiven friends at our special Pet Blessing Service. The service will be outside in the church grounds and pets and their human friends are invited. Monday October 2, 4pm, All Saints Church, 169 Gan Gan Rd, Anna Bay

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October 4: Commissioning Dean Rev'd Canon Katherine Bowyer will be commissioned as the 16th Dean of Christ Church Cathedral Newcastle on Wednesday October 4 at 7pm.

October 13-15: Anglican Care Auxiliary 40th Annual Art & Craft Exhibition and Sale Anglican Care Auxiliary will hold their 40th annual Art and Craft Exhibition and Sale from October 13-15 in the Administration Building and Timbury Hall at Booragul Anglican Care Village. More than 100 exhibitors from Lake Macquarie, Newcastle and Hunter areas. Morning and afternoon teas and light lunches available.

October 30: Luther Fest 95 Theses of Martin Luther 500th Anniversary. Inviting all Churches and

all Christians. All Welcome. 2 short addresses: "Luther then" and "Luther now". Sing some hymns written by Martin Luther. Q&A Panel. German Beer and sausage. 7pm to 9pm, All Saints Anglican Church Regent St New Lambton November 2: Morpeth Lecture The Annual Morpeth Lecture will be held at Christ Church Cathedral at 6pm. Our Guest Lecturer will be Professor Terry Lovat. More details to come soon.

December 9: AGM of the Friends of the Monastery Stroud The AGM will be held on December 9 at 10am in the Old Monastery, Stroud. To be followed by an Ecology Day featuring birds, frogs and trees.

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Choc-raspberry magic slice Prep: 15mins | Cook: 55mins | Serves 10 Add this foolproof choc-raspberry slice to your repertoire. Take a few pantry ingredients - coconut, raspberries, chocolate and turn them into a slice that will have everyone raving.

INGREDIENTS 450g choc chip cookie dough 160g (½ cup) raspberry jam 225g pkt coconut flakes 395g can sweetened condensed milk 125g punnet fresh raspberries 95g (½ cup) dark chocolate bits 95g (½ cup) white chocolate bits Melted dark chocolate, to drizzle, optional METHOD Step 1: Preheat oven to 160°C/140°C fan forced. Line a 16 x 26cm slab pan with baking paper, with two long sides extending. Cut the cookie dough into 15 slices. Place the slices in even rows in the bottom of the prepared pan. Use your fingertips to press the dough together to line the base. Bake for 25 minutes or until golden.

Step 2: Spread the jam on top of the cookie dough. Sprinkle with the coconut. Drizzle the can of condensed milk over the top of the coconut to cover. Top with the raspberries and choc bits. Bake for 30 minutes or until golden around the edges and set. Drizzle with extra chocolate if desired.

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Under Thirty

BY THE REV'D JUDY WALSH PLM CESSNOCK How many words of 4 letters or more can you find using the letters:

UNDER THIRTY There are two 8 letter words, can you find them?

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