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PARSHAT TOLDOT

BANKRUPTCY IN HALACHA PART 2

By Rabbi Daniel Mann see page 50

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WORD OF THE MONTH The announced molad of Kislev was Wednesday morning around 7:00 o'clock. Kiddush L'vana is said, according to Minhag Yerushalayim, from 3 days after the molad. This month, that is Shabbat morning, so the first opportunity for KL is Motza'ei Shabbat. That's the eve of 3 Kislev. Some people mistakenly think that KL has to be after three days of the month. Not so! Three days after the molad - which Motza'ei Shabbat is. The strict 7-days-after-the-molad people have their first op on Wednesady evening, December 4th. Motza'ei Shabbat KL sayers have this Motza"Sh or next Motza"Sh, but in the winter months, it is not a good idea to wait that long, because of possible rainy or cloudy nights. KL is a special mitzva/bracha and should be on one's agenda of must-do items. 2

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

06 14 18 24 26 28 30 32 34 46 48 50

Aliya by Aliya Phil Chernofsky

“Strength, Patience, and Hope” Rabbi Dr. Tzvi Hersh Weinreb Isaac and Esau Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks Probing the Prophets Rabbi Nachman Winkler Emes L'Yaakov? Rabbi Shalom Rosner

Making of a Mensch Rebbetzin Shira Smiles Toldot: Wells of Living Waters Rabbi Judah Mischel Simchat Shmuel Rabbi Sam Shor Esav Was Deserving of Blessing? Rabbi Aaron Goldscheider WEEKLY OU KASHRUT PAGE Divrei Menachem Menachem Persoff

Bankruptcy in Halacha - Part 2 Rav Daniel Mann, Eretz Chemda

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52 54 56 60 62 68 70 72 74 76 78

Avoiding Shabbat Rabbi Gideon Weitzman, Machon Puah Is Monk Fruit Considered Orlah? Rabbi Moshe Bloom "To Another Year" Rabbi Shmuel Goldin Parshat Toldot Rabbi Berel Wein Inviting Non-Observant Guests for Shabbat Rabbi Shimshon Hakohen Nadel

Prayer – The ORIGINAL Soul Food Rabbi Ephraim Sprecher

Fatigue Is the Enemy Sivan Rahav Meir Torah Tidbits This 'n That Phil Chernofsky Wells of Meaning Rabbi Benji Levy From Red Heads To Red Eyes Rakel Berenbaum Chizuk & Idud Rabbi Yerachmiel Roness

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TOLDOT STATS 6th of the 54 sedras; 6th of 12 in B'reishit Written on 172.7 lines, ranks 36th 4 Parshiyot; 2 open, 2 closed 106 p'sukim, ranks 29 (9th in B'reishit) Tied with Vayigash and Bo; shorter than each in words & letters and length 1432 words, ranks 34 (10th in B'reishit) 5426 letters, ranks 33 (10th in B'reishit)

ALIYA-BY-ALIYA SEDRA SUMMARY [P> X:Y (Z)] and [S> X:Y (Z)] indicate start of a parsha p’tucha or s’tuma. X:Y is Perek:Pasuk of the Parsha’s beginning; (Z) is the number of p’sukim in the parsha.

KOHEN FIRST ALIYA 21 P'SUKIM - 25:19-26:5 [P> 25:19 (16)] This is the history of Yitzchak b. Avraham; Avraham fathered Yitzchak.

Its p'sukim are below average in length

MITZVOT None of the 613 mitzvot are in Toldot, however, as we mention often, there are Midot and values and other lessons to be learned. This is one of 17 mitzva-less sedras, 9 of which are in Sefer B'reishit, 3 in Sh'mot, none in Vayikra, 2 in Bamidbar, and 3 in D'varim.

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Rashi quotes the Gemara that tells that when Yitzchak was born, scoffers said that

Avraham and Sara, who were old and childless for so long, had found a baby and claimed it as their own. Avraham invited the leaders of the nations, their wives and infants, and Sara miraculously was able to wet-nurse all the babies - not just her son Yitzchak. (The Gemara points to the plural "banim" in 21:7.) Then the scoffers accepted that Sara bore Yitzchak, but chided Avraham that Avimelech was the father (since Yitzchak's birth followed Sara's abduc- tion). A miracle occurred and baby Yitzchak was the very image of his father Avraham, until the scoffers proclaimed, "Avraham sired Yitzchak". A note on proper pronunciation. We go out of our way to write TO-L'DOT (in

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English) because of how common it is in the yeshiva world and among Anglos, to mispronounce the name of this week's sedra, twice. First, the word should be accented on the last syllable, not on the next-to-the-last syllable as is very common in certain circles. This mis-accenting is very common with people's names as well as the names of the sedras. Israelis and S'faradim don't have this problem. The Moshes they know, they call mo-SHEH. We (the aforementioned Anglos) say MO-sheh. And so on. Last week's sedra was cha-YEI sa-RA, not CHAyei SA-ra, as we would say. Which syllable to accent aside, the other problem with the pronunciation of this week's sedra is the SH'VA under the LAMED. Most common mispro- nunciation is TOL-dot (or TOL-dos). That treats the SH'VA as a syllable-closing SH'VA NACH which it is not. Rather, the first syllable is TO. The LAMED has a SH'VA NA under it and it attaches itself to the DOT syllable. So the two syllables are TO and L'DOT, which is why we often write it the way we do. sho-F'TIM is the other sedra so plagued. The wrong syllalbe accented goes for a majority of the sedras. BO and TZAV we get right. But not Mikeitz or B'shalach... and most of them. It isn't the end of the world to day TOLdot; it's just not correct. Yitzchak is 40 years old when he marries Rivka (3 years after the Akeida). The Torah emphasizes Rivka's family background. OU ISRAEL CENTER

Safe to say that most of us learned from

Shem b. No'ach (who outlived Avraham,

way back that Rivka was 3 years old when

by the way) who tells her G-d's message,

she married Yitzchak. This notion is based

that she will give birth to twins who will go

on the Torah's telling us of the birth of

in very different ways and become great

Rivka right after the portion of the Akeida.

adversarial nations.

Yitzchak was 37 at the time of the Akeida and the death of Sara Imeinu. He married

SDT

at 40, hence Rivka was 3 at the time.

Commentaries say that Rivka was unaware that she was carrying twins; she thought

However, Chizkuni (an early commen-

the turmoil within her existed in a single

tary of Torah and of Rashi) argues that

baby - THIS had her very upset; she was

if Rivka was only 3, there would be a

somewhat calmed by the Divine message

discrepany in the chronology of the rest

of her life. We have sources that indicate

commentator suggests that Rivka knew

she was 133 at the time of her death.

she'd have twins but did not see the benefit

Working backwards with various events,

of bringing a Yaakov into this world if it

we find that she was 14 when she married

meant also having an Eisav. Part of the

Yitzchak. The account of Nachor's family

reply to her question "why do I need this?"

- including Rivka, does not necessarily

is that her conclusion was wrong.

her

carrying

twins.

Another

mean that she was just born at the time of the Akeida. The Torah is just introducing

Eisav and Yaakov are born, Yaakov

us to Rivka in order to bring her into the

clutching the heel of Eisav. The boys grow

picture, so to speak, as Yitzchak is about

and develop different personalities - Eisav

to take over the mantle of Partiarchhood

is the hunter and outdoorsman; Yaakov,

from Avraham Avinu.

the mild, studious "tent-dweller". Yitzchak loves Eisav; Rivka loves Yaakov.

After 20 years of childlessness (10 until Rivka was of child-bearing age - based on the 3 year old opinion - plus an additional

SDT

10 years without a child), Yitzchak and

There are many different commentaries

these

relationships.

Note

that

Rivka pray to G-d. G-d hears their (actually

Yitzchak's

his) prayer and Rivka becomes pregnant.

providing food for him (or deceiving him -

She is having a "rough time" and goes to

based on various drashot). Rivka's love is

love

based

Eisav's

unconditional. Pirkei Avot says that only an unconditional love will endure forever. Yaakov is preparing a lentil stew for his father. (The Gemara tell us that this was 8

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the day that Avraham died; Yaakov was preparing a traditional mourner's meal for Yitzchak.) Eisav returns from the field in a state of exhaustion. He asks Yaakov for some of the food. In exchange for the food, Yaakov acquires the birthright, which is

insignificant

Eisav's

eyes,

but

meaningful to Yaakov. [P> 26:1 (33)] A famine hits the Land (like the one in Avraham's time - this is one of the many similarities between the lives of Avraham & Yitzchak) and Yitzchak goes to Avimelech in Gerar. G-d appears to Yitzchak and reminds him that he must not leave the Land. G-d also repeats his promises of the Land and of the large nation that will descend from him.

LEVI SECOND ALIYA 7 P'SUKIM - 26:6-12 Yitzchak dwells in Gerar. Yitzchak and Rivka pose as brother and sister (as did Avraham and Sara, and

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for the same two reasons). After a while,

with a delegation to Yitzchak in order to

Avimelech discovers that they are actually

enter into a covenant with him.

husband and wife and complains to Yitzchak about the deception. Avimelech

Not a rare experience through the

orders his people to leave Yitzchak and

generations - Jews expelled from a country,

Rivka alone. Yitzchak and family flourish

which subsequently regrets its actions

in Gerar and G-d blesses them.

because of the decline they experienced

SHLISHI THIRD ALIYA 10 P'SUKIM - 26:13-22 Yitzchak thrives in Gerar, which creates

without them. And we, somehow, kept going back.

CHAMISHI 5TH ALIYA33 P'SUKIM - 26:30-27:27

jealousy among the locals who fill in the wells that Yitzchak has dug. (There is

Yitzchak and Avimelech partake of a

great symbolism in the Torah's account

meal and exchange oaths. Be'er Sheva

of the wells, their names, their failures,

is reaffirmed as "the city of the Avot" by

and then their successes.) Yitzchak is

Yitzchak's actions. Another example of

driven away from Gerar. A new well that

the similarity between Yitzchak's life and

Yitzchak digs (Eisek) is taken over by

Avraham's.

the shepherds of Gerar, as is yet another well (Sitna). Only the third well (Rehovot) permits Yitzchak to live in relative peace. Some see this as a hidden reference to the 1st and 2nd Beit HaMikdash, which fell, and the 3rd which will stand forever. May we see it soon in our time.

R'VI'I FOURTH ALIYA 7 P'SUKIM - 26:23-29 Yitzchak sets himself up in Be'er Sheva. G-d appears to him and reiterates the promises for prosperity made to Avraham. Yitzchak builds an altar to G-d and continues to prosper. Avimelech, realizing that his own prosperity was due to the presence of Yitzchak, comes 10

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[S> 26:34 (2)] Eisav marries at 40 years of age - a (sub)conscious attempt to emulate his father. However wicked Eisav is, he is genuinely respectful and loving of his father. On the other hand, Eisav's choice of a wife disgusts both Yitzchak and Rivka. [S> 27:1 (55)] Yitzchak is old and blind

and calls Eisav to prepare for him a special meal and then receive a special blessing. While Eisav is in the fields doing his father's bidding, Rivka prepares Yaakov to receive the blessing instead of Eisav. She tells Yaakov to bring her two goats and she will prepare the dishes that Yitzchak loves. Yaakov hesitates for fear that Yitzchak will feel his smooth skin and realize that Yaakov has come to deceive him. Rivka dresses Yaakov in Eisav's garments and places a goat-skin on his neck to give it a rough feel. She gives Yaakov the food to bring to his father. It seems obvious that Yaakov was punished measure for measure for his deception of Yitzchak. The Brothers not only deceived Yaakov concerning the fate of Yosef, but they used a goat and a garment (exactly the two items that Yaakov used to deceive his father) to bring about their deception. If we accept the idea that Yaakov was supposed to get the bracha that Yitzchak thought he was going to give to Eisav, that it was G-d's will, and even G-d's command, according to Onkeles, to Rivka to â&#x20AC;&#x153;set it upâ&#x20AC;?, then why was Yaakov punished so severely?

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An answer might be suggested in the

fat of the earth, much grain and wine.

form of an analogy. When one has to take

Nations will serve you; governments

drastic, life-saving treatments - "serious"

will bow down to you. You shall be like

medication, radiation, etc., what is done

a lord over your brother; your mother's

might be absolutely necessary, but there

children will prostrate themselves to

are often harsh side-effects.

you. Those who curse you are cursed,

SDT

When the Torah tells us

and those who bless you are blessed.'

that Yaakov gave his father

As Yitzchak finishes blessing Yaakov,

wine to drink, the TROP

Eisav returns from the hunt. He prepares

note under the word LO (to him) is a

food for his father and presents it with

MEIRCHA CH'FULA, double meircha.

a request (demand) of the blessing.

This rare note, suggests the Meshech

Yitzchak trembles greatly when he

Chochma, reminds us of the proper way

realizes that the bracha went to Yaakov.

to drink a cup of wine - not gulping it

When Yitzchak explains to Eisav that

down in one shot, but rather finishing it

Yaakov received (rightly so) the blessing,

in two "installments".

Eisav bitterly cries out and asks his father

SHISHI SIXTH ALIYA 23 P'SUKIM - 27:28-28:4 The blessing invoked by Yitzchak upon Yaakov, for bountiful produce and respected status among nations, has been borrowed by us to be recited on Motza'ei Shabbat V'YITEN L'CHA HA-ELOKIM... 'May G-d grant you the dew of heaven and the

for a blessing too. Yitzchak gives Eisav a blessing (not as exalted as Yaakov's). Eisav plans to kill Yaakov for this, the second time he has taken something away from him. Rivka hears (how? Ruâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ach HaKodesh, perhaps.) of Eisav's plans and encourages Yaakov to flee to Rivka's hometown until Eisav's wrath subsides. Rivka suggests to Yitzchak that he send Yaakov away to find a proper wife. Note that Rivka did NOT tell Yitzchak that Eisav wanted to kill Yaakov. Perhaps she felt that it would pain him too much to learn of Eisav's true character. Perhaps, Yitzchak would have refused to believe that his Eisav would contemplate such a thing. Instead, Rivka expresses another (legitimate) concern as her reason for wanting Yitzchak to send Yaakov away. Yitzchak calls for Yaakov and blesses

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him again and sends him off to Padan

a CHATAN (and KALLA) are forgiven

Aram to find a wife from Rivka's

when they marry. Strange source for a

family. He gives Yaakov "the blessing

significant concept.

of Avraham", thus providing for the continuity of what becomes The Jewish People.

SH'VII SEVENTH ALIYA 5 P'SUKIM - 28:5-9 Yitzchak sends Yaakov off to Padan Aram to Lavan b. B'tu'el, the brother of Rivka who is the mother of Yaakov and Eisav. (Unusual ID.) Eisav sees that their father has sent Yaakov to find a wife, because he does not want him to take a Canaanite wife. Yaakov goes on his way and Eisav takes as another wife, the daughter of Yishmael, Machalat b. Yishmael... Talmud Yerushalmi exclaims that this is Bas'mat, and asks why her name was changed. The astonishing answer is that all Eisav's sins were forgiven when he took a wife intended to please his parents. The Talmud generalizes and gives this as the source that the sins of

HAFTARA 21 P'SUKIM MALACHI 1:1-2:7 There is speculation as to whether Mal'achi is the name of an individual, or a description of "My messenger". Some say that Mal'achi was Ezra. Mal'achi is known as the last of the prophets. Mal'achi brings G-d's message to the people that He loves Yaakov (and his descendants), and hates Eisav, even though Yaakov and Eisav are brothers. Thus, the Haftara echoes the rivalry and relationship between the two brothers that is the substance of the sedra Toldot. The haftara refers to the respect a son has for his father. In this regard, Eisav was exemplary. Mal'achi criticizes the kohanim of the time for not being careful in the offering of korbanot. We can see this as a preparation for the building of the new Beit HaMikdash in the hopes that it will function properly and be a true honor to G-d. OU ISRAEL CENTER

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“Strength, Patience, and Hope”

hen I was a young boy, I had two distinct images of a strong man. One was of Charles Atlas. Do you remember him? If you do, you are no longer a youngster. Pictures of Charles Atlas appeared on the rear cover of the comic books that I voraciously read as a child. His muscular body was presented as the model of strength, and all of us “97 pound weaklings” were urged to correspond with Mr. Atlas, who, through his “dynamic tension” technique, could make similarly muscular men out of all of us. The other image was of a man I knew who attended the small synagogue that my father, of blessed memory, frequented every Monday and Thursday, when the Torah was read. I don’t think that anyone in the shul knew the man’s real name. Everyone referred to him as “the Shtarker,” the Strong Man. I was then no more than eight years old, so to my eyes, he was at least seven feet tall. He was certainly head and shoulders above everyone else in that tiny synagogue. His physical prowess was 14

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demonstrated when he lifted the Torah after the Torah reading concluded. He lifted it high and extended his arms so that ten or twelve of the Torah columns were exposed. My memory may deceive me, but I think that no one else in the shul was ever given the honor of lifting the Torah. No one else could compete with the Shtarker’s feat. Over the years, I have come to reflect upon the many “shtarkers” in the Bible. Samson is one obvious candidate for the title. But even kindly Abraham was a warrior, and a victorious one. Jacob was proud of his triumphant use of “my sword and my bow.” Moses was able to slay the Egyptian who tormented his Jewish victim. Joshua, Saul, and David were all “shtarkers” who led their people in battle. One biblical figure stands out as a “nonshtarker,” a gentle soul, perhaps even a pacifist. I refer, of course, to Isaac, the hero of the Torah portion we read this week, Parashat Toledot (Genesis 25:19-28:9). Isaac commits no aggressive acts, however legitimate they might be, and never even asserts himself verbally. I have long been conscious of the contrast between Isaac and the other major characters of the Bible. But only recently was I made aware of a fascinating problem. It was brought to my attention by Rabbi Yehuda Shaviv in his excellent book

on the weekly Torah portions, entitled MiSinai Ba (He Came From Sinai). Rabbi Shaviv concurs with my view of Isaac as a decidedly non-militant personality. But he is troubled by the fact that in the Jewish mystical tradition, the trait of gevurah, strength, is assigned to Isaac and not to the other Patriarchs. Thus, in Kabbalistic terminology, Abraham represents chesed, compassion, and Jacob stands for tiferet, harmony. It is gentle Isaac who carries the banner of gevurah. How are we to understand this perplexing attribution of strength to that patriarch who seems to least exemplify it? Rabbi Shaviv answers this dilemma with the following provocative sentence: “Forgoing the military option is itself a show of strength.” I can accept his formulation, but I choose to modify it slightly. The way I see it, there are two types of strength. One way is to exert power. Abraham chose that way when he waged war against the four kings in the story we read just a few short weeks ago. Similarly, Joshua and David found that way necessary in their struggles. But Isaac knew the secret of another way of demonstrating strength. He faced challenges that he could have met aggressively. More than once, he faced hostility. In our parasha, we read of the enmity he confronted at the hands of the Philistines, who stopped up the wells he needed to water his flock. In verses 13-22 of chapter 26, we read “…The Philistines envied him…They stopped up all the wells his father had dug…” What was Isaac’s response? Not war! Rather, “Isaac OU ISRAEL CENTER

departed…” He left the scene, he dug new wells, but again he faced violent opposition. “The herdsmen of Gerar quarreled with him…” They continued to stop his wells. In response, he dug another well and dug yet another well. He persisted, swallowing his pride and suppressing every impulse of striking back violently. Ultimately, he prevailed. Finally, he dug a well which was uncontested. Some find his patience in the face of his enemies frustrating. But Midrash Tanchuma finds it admirable and remarks: “Behold! See what strength Isaac possessed!” The Midrash validates Rabbi Shaviv’s contention that sometimes, “forgoing the military option is itself a show of strength.” There is a verse in the biblical Book of Proverbs which is particularly apt here. It reads, “Better to be forbearing than mighty; to have self-control than to conquer a city.” (Proverbs 16:32). Isaac’s method of achieving goals persistently but patiently is again demonstrated in a very different context in this week’s Torah portion. We are

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told that he was forty years old when he married Rebecca, whereas his children were not born until he was sixty. He suffered twenty years of disappointing childlessness. It would have been perfectly appropriate for him to take another wife, or a concubine, during those twenty years. After all, his father Abraham had done just that, marrying Hagar when Sarah could not bear him a child. Could Isaac not have assumed that Rebecca would have given her consent to such a move, as did his mother Sarah? Isaac rejected that option. Instead, again patiently and persistently, he chose to pray. He prayed fervently, year after year. The great medieval commentator Rabbi David Kimchi, or Radak, remarks: “He prayed consistently and for a long period of time because he loved Rebecca exceedingly. He did not wish to offend her by taking another wife. Therefore, he persisted in prayer until the Lord answered him.” There are many texts in our tradition that give support to Isaac’s way of demonstrating strength. One that particularly intrigues me is this Talmudic statement: “Who is the strongest of the

strong? He who transforms his enemy into a friend.” This was Isaac’s way. He asks us to strive to convert our enemy into a friend. Another text illustrates that strength is more about patient self-control than physical might. It is found in the Talmudic tractate Kiddushin 40a, where the tale is told about a certain Rabbi Zadok, who resists the attempts of a particularly powerful noblewoman to lead him astray. He exerts moral strength, and to him the Talmud applies the following biblical verse: “Bless the Lord, O His angels, mighty creatures who do His bidding, ever obedient to His bidding. Bless the Lord, all His hosts, His servants who do His will.” (Psalms 103:20-21) Isaac’s way recognizes the necessity for great patience and forbearance. If we adopt Isaac’s way, we must be prepared for a lengthy process before our challenges are resolved. In the words of Rabbi Abraham Isaac Kook, words which have been memorialized in a popular song, “An eternal people does not fear the long and arduous path.” Patience is necessary for those who follow Isaac’s way. But a wise woman taught us that patience is but another name for hope. That woman was Jane Austen, who put these words into the mouth of one of the characters in her great novel, Sense and Sensibility: “Know your own happiness. You want nothing but patience—or give it a more fascinating name: call it hope.” OU ISRAEL CENTER

on the Weekly Parsha from COVENANT & Thoughts RABBI LORD JONATHAN SACKS CONVERSATION

‫לעילוי נשמות‬ ‫פנחס בן יעקב אשר וגולדה בת ישראל דוד אייז ע״ה‬ ‫עזריאל בן אריה לייב ומעניה בת יצחק שרטר ע״ה‬

Isaac and Esau

t’s a haunting question. Why did Isaac love Esau? The verse says so explicitly: “Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebecca loved Jacob” (Gen. 25:28). Whichever way we read this verse, it is perplexing. If we read it literally, it suggests that Isaac’s affections were governed by no more than a taste in a particular kind of food. Surely that is not the way love is earned or given in the Torah.

had never encountered deception before, and was thus, in his innocence, misled by his son. Rebecca, who had grown up in the company of Laban, recognised it very well, which is why she favoured Jacob, and why she was later so opposed to Isaac’s blessing going to Esau. Yet the text suggests undeniably that there was a genuine bond of love between Esau and Isaac. The Zohar says that no one in the world honoured his father as Esau honoured Isaac. Likewise, Isaac’s love for Esau is evident in his desire to bless him. Note that Abraham did not bless Isaac. Only on his deathbed, did Jacob bless his children. Moses blessed the Israelites on the last day of his life. When Isaac sought to bless Esau, he was old and blind, but not yet on his deathbed: “I am now an old man and don’t know the day of my death” (Gen. 27:2). This was an act of love.

Rashi, citing a Midrash, suggests that the phrase translated as, “who had a taste for wild game,” and referring to Isaac, in fact refers to Esau, and should be read “there was hunting in his mouth,” meaning that he used to entrap and deceive his father by his words. Esau deceived Isaac into thinking that he was more pious and spiritual than in fact he was.

Isaac, who loved Esau, was not deceived as to the nature of his elder son. He knew what he was and what he wasn’t. He knew he was a man of the field, a hunter, mercurial in temperament, a man who could easily give way to violence, quickly aroused to anger, but equally quickly, capable of being distracted and forgetting.

Bolstering this interpretation, some suggest that Isaac, having grown up in the household of Abraham and Sarah,

He also knew that Esau was not the child to continue the covenant. That is manifest in the difference between the blessing Isaac gave Jacob in Genesis

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27 (believing him to be Esau), and the blessing in Genesis 28 that he gave Jacob, knowing him to be Jacob.

He is strong, wild, unpredictable, possibly violent. It is impossible that he should be the person entrusted with the covenant and its spiritual demands. But this is my child. The first blessing, intended for Esau, is about wealth – “May God give you of the dew of heaven and the fat of the earth” – and power, “Let peoples serve you, and nations bow to you.” The second blessing, intended for Jacob as he was leaving home, is about children – “May God Almighty bless you and make you fruitful and increase your numbers until you become a community of peoples” – and a land – “May He give you and your descendants the blessing given to Abraham, so that you may take possession

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of … the land God gave to Abraham.” The patriarchal blessings are not about wealth and power; they are about children and the land. So Isaac knew all along that the covenant would be continued by Jacob; he was not deceived by Esau. Why then did he love him, encourage him, wish to bless him? The answer, I believe, lies in three extraordinary silences. The most pointed is the question, What happened to Isaac after the binding? Look at the text in Genesis 22 and you will see that as soon as the angel has stopped Abraham from sacrificing his son, Isaac drops out of the picture completely. The text tells us that Abraham returned to the two servants who accompanied them on the way, but there is no mention of Isaac. This is a glaring mystery, tantalising the commentators. Some go so far as to say that Isaac actually died at the binding and was brought back to life. Ibn Ezra quotes this interpretation and dismisses it. Shalom Spiegel’s The Last Trial is a booklength treatment of this idea. Where was

Isaac after the trial? The second silence is the death of Sarah. We read that Abraham came to mourn for Sarah and weep for her. But the primary mourner is the child. It should have been Isaac leading the mourning. But he is not mentioned in the entire chapter 23 that relates to Sarah’s death and its consequences. The third is in the narrative in which Abraham instructed his servant to find a wife for his son. There is no record in the text that Abraham consulted with Isaac his son, or even informed him. Abraham knew that a wife was being sought for Isaac; Abraham’s servant knew; but we have no idea as to whether Isaac knew, and whether he had any thoughts on the subject. Did he want to get married? Did he have any particular preference as to what his wife should be like? The text is silent. Only when the servant returns with his wife-to-be, Rebecca, does Isaac enter the narrative at all. The text itself is significant: “Isaac had come from Beer Lahai Roi.” What was this place? We have encountered it only once before. It is where the angel appeared to Hagar when, pregnant, she fled from Sarah who was treating her harshly (Gen. 16:14). An ingenious Midrash says that when Isaac heard that Abraham had sent his servant to find a wife for him, he said to himself, “Can I live with a wife while my father lives alone? I will go and return Hagar to him.” A later text tells us that “After Abraham’s death, God blessed his son Isaac, who then lived near Beer Lahai OU ISRAEL CENTER

Roi” (Gen. 25:11). On this, the Midrash says that even after his father’s death, Isaac lived near Hagar and treated her with respect. What does all this mean? We can only speculate. But if the silences mean something, they suggest that even an arrested sacrifice still has a victim. Isaac may not have died physically, but the text seems to make him disappear, literally, through three scenes in which his presence was central. He should have been there to greet and be greeted by the two servants on his safe return from Mount Moriah. He should have been there to mourn his departed mother Sarah. He should have been there to at least discuss, with his father and his father’s servant, his future wife. Isaac did not die on the mountain, but it seems as if something in him did die, only to be revived when he married. The text tells us that Rebecca “became his wife, and he loved her; and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.” That seems to be the message of the silences. The message of Beer Lahai Roi seems to be that Isaac never forgot how Hagar and her son – his half-brother – Ishmael had been sent away. The Midrash says that Isaac reunited Hagar with Abraham after Sarah’s death. The biblical text tells us that Isaac and Ishmael stood together at Abraham’s grave (Gen. 25:9). Somehow the divided family was reunited, seemingly at the instigation of Isaac. If this is so, then Isaac’s love for Esau 22

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is simply explained. It is as if Isaac had said: I know what Esau is. He is strong, wild, unpredictable, possibly violent. It is impossible that he should be the person entrusted with the covenant and its spiritual demands. But this is my child. I refuse to sacrifice him, as my father almost sacrificed me. I refuse to send him away, as my parents sent Hagar and Ishmael away. My love for my son is unconditional. I do not ignore who or what he is. But I will love him anyway, even if I do not love everything he does – because that is how God loves us, unconditionally, even if He does not love everything we do. I will bless him. I will hold him close. And I believe that one day that love may make him a better person than he might otherwise have been. In this one act of loving Esau, Isaac redeemed the pain of two of the most difficult moments in his father Abraham’s life: the sending away of Hagar and Ishmael and the binding of Isaac. I believe that love helps heal both the lover and the loved.

Shabbat Shalom Covenant and Conversation 5780 is kindly supported by the Maurice Wohl Charitable Foundation in memory of Maurice and Vivienne Wohl z”l. These weekly teachings from Rabbi Sacks are part of the ‘Covenant & Conversation’ series on the weekly Torah reading. Read more on www.rabbisacks.org.

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he precise identity of the last prophet in Trei Asar, the navi Malachi, is shrouded in mystery, with the G’mara in Megilla (15a) quoting various opinions, including those identifying him as Ezra or as Mordechai. Most scholars, however, agree with the majority opinion of the Rabbis that Malachi was a separate and distinct individual who prophesied during the period of Bayit Sheni. And, although the exact time of his activities is also in question, most contend that Malachi was the last of the biblical nevi’im, so that his prophecies remain the last words of G-d delivered to the nation of Israel. As such, it is interesting to analyze this week’s haftarah, the first perek in Sefer Malachi, and find messages directed to the navi’s contemporaries but also meaningful for the future exiled generations who would, after all, lack the prophetic connection to Hashem that the people had throughout biblical times. Much of the haftarah focuses upon the Kohanim, the “priests” who attended Hashem in Bayit Sheni. The Second

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Temple had already been built and was fully functioning, once again making Yerushalayim the center of worship for the Jewish nation. The Beit HaMikdash that Hashem had described as the place He chose “l’shaken sh’mo sham,” as the dwelling place of His “NAME”, was serving all of Israel once more. Likewise, the kohanim, had returned to their rightful post as servants of Hashem in the Bet HaMikdash. But rather than sanctify the “name” of G-d that dwelled there, the kohanim are accused of being “bozei sh’mi” those who scorned and defamed His holy name. But what has this to do with our parasha? The navi Malachi begins his words by stating that Hashem had chosen Ya’akov over Eisav, much as Yitzchak chose to confer the bracha of Avraham (birkat Avraham) on Ya’akov and not on his eldest, Eisav. Hashem’s choice of Ya’akov, the navi states, was based upon the fact that he hated Eisav (“v’et Eisav saneiti”) and as a result, the land of Edom was doomed to destruction. However, Malachi emphasized that Hashem’s

anger at Edom would not automatically provide Israel with redemption. It is essential that the Jews earn G-dâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s favor by properly worshipping Him as He commanded them to. The corruption of the sacrificial rite that ran rampant at the time is the focus of the prophetâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s harsh words against the Kohanim for their encouragement of the belief that perfunctory ritual in the Beit HaMikdash is all that was necessary. Their practice of offering sickly animals as sacrifices while saving the healthy ones for themselves was abhorrent to G-d. Malachi paints the picture of what the Kohanim should be: they must be more than ritual functionaries; they must be teachers and arbiters and they must be the ones to spread the knowledge of Torah and, through that understanding, the knowledge of Hashem. The prophetâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s message closes with the reminder that the tribe of Levi had a special covenant with G-d and, over the generations, they turned people away from sin. It is THIS that Hashem demands of the Kohanim. And it is this that Hashem demands of Israel. Israel must earn the favor of G-d and not take for granted that, due to His anger at Eisav, He will embrace Israel. This last prophet of Israel prepares the nation for the long galut that would follow by reminding them that it will not be the sacrificial rite that will preserve them in the Diaspora, but the Torah taught by the Kohanim who, when doing their job, fulfill their responsibility as agents of Hashem. OU ISRAEL CENTER

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Emes L’Yaakov?

aakov is known for the midda of Emes- truthfulness, as is stated in Micha (7:20): “Titen Emes L’Yaakov, Chesed L’Avraham.” Really? Yaakov, the same individual who in this week’s parsha seems to have to engage in deception in order to obtain the brachos from his father Yitzhak? Hakadosh Baruch Hu had no other way to grant Yaakov the brachos other than by having Yaakov deceive his blind father? Yaakov always tried to act in an honest manner. We are told of his conduct in Lavan’s home. (see Rambam, end of Laws of Sechirus). He had opportunities to take advantage of situations for economic gain, yet he refrained. He was a straight and honest individual. He exhibited his disapproval of the behavior of Shimon and Levy toward the people of Shechem during the fiasco with Dina. So why is it that Yaakov who exemplifies the characteristic of honesty has to engage in this act of deception in order to attain the brachos that were intended to be granted to him all along? Rav Yaakov Kaminetzky in his sefer 26

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“Emes L’Yaakov” (a most appropriate source for this topic), offers an interesting explanation. Avraham was known for his midda of chesed. He excelled in hosting guests and he prayed on behalf of the city of Sedom. Therefore, Avraham’s nisyonos (tests) required him to go against his grain and conduct himself in a way that was not so caring and sensitive to others. Avraham was instructed “Lech Lecha” – to leave his aging father and hometown; to expel Hagar and his son Yishmael from his home and the ultimate test, to sacrifice his son, Yitzhak. After spending years spreading the word that G-d is caring, sensitive and merciful and that the act of sacrificing a child which was prevalent during that period was not what the Almighty desired, he was then instructed to act against everything he believed in and stood for. Hashem tests us with situations that are against our nature to show that we would oblige l’shem shemo, for His honor and not out of our own convenience. As with Avraham, Yaakov’s nisyonos were – to serve Hashem where he was uncomfortable. In situations which are not straightforward in their truthful appearance. Being untruthful for Yaakov was like worshipping idolatry. It was so difficult for Yaakov to deal with Lavan and to act in a deceiving manner when dealing with his father.

Yitzhak’s mida is gevura and din. He is tested by challenging his midas HaDin. In the gemara in Shabbos 89b, we are told of a future conversation between Hashem and the Avos, whereby Hashem informs them “your children sinned”. Avraham and Yaakov can come up with no defense of Am Yisrael’s behavior. Yitzchak, however, steps up to the plate and defends Am Yisrael by utilizing midas Harachamim. Although Yitzhak usually exemplified Midas HaDin , on this occasion he passed his test and was able to invoke the Midas Ha’Rachamim.

proves that he is willing to do whatever it takes to fulfil his responsibility as a God fearing individual, even if it places him in uncomfortable situations. May we all be able to overcome every challenge with which we are confronted, and exhibit our love, appreciation and total faith in our Creator under all circumstances.

Yaakov epitomizes the characteristic of honesty and truthfulness. He experiences several encounters throughout his life where this trait is challenged, precisely to test his commitment to Hashem. Yaakov

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ne of the main goals of learning is to make us into a mensch. Our challenge is to glean from each Passuk, each Rashi, lessons to enhance our lives, and interactions with others. A case in point, is the first Passuk in Parshat Toldot. “These are the generations of Yitzchak son of Avraham; Avraham gave birth to Yitzchak.” Clearly, the redundancy in the Passuk needs to be explored. Rashi, quotes a Midrash, that says since the scoffers of the generation said that Avimelech fathered Yitzchak, the Chumash emphasizes that he was Avraham’s son. Indeed, Hashem made a miracle, to fashion the appearance of father and son in an identical way to prove to others beyond a shadow of a doubt, their biological connection. Although, Rashi responds to the problem in the Chumash, we are now bothered by why Hashem would do a miracle just to quite scoffers! R. Leib Mintzberg in Ben Melech explains that the Passuk is teaching us the appreciation of life. The Passuk begins with the life of Yitzchak, and the fist thing that is mentioned is that Avraham Avinu gave birth to him. This is the first milestone in his life; he was born in a miraculous fashion. The scoffing is just underscoring the miracle that was present at his birth. A person first and foremost, needs to be cognizant of the constant 28

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miracles that Hashem bestows upon us, to acknowledge them, and to give thanks for them. It is so easy to take everything in life for granted. The first word we say upon awakening in the morning, is modeh. Grammatically, the first word we should say is ani; woe, unto a person, notes R. Pincus, if the first word out of our mouths in the morning is ‘I’! What do we learn from the Midrash that Hashem responded to the scoffers, and made their appearance identical? R. Baruch Ezrachi in Birkat Mordechai explains that the miracle was not done for these people, it was done for Avraham Avinu. Avraham Avinu loved every person as if they were son. When he heard that there were people that were making fun, he was not bothered by what they said, as much as who they were. It bothered Avraham Avinu that there were people in this world who could disbeliever, and say such cruel things. In order to take away the pain of Avraham Avinu Hashem performed this miracle. Further, notes R. Ezrachi, it is fascinating to note, that Hashem was not concerned about what these types of people would say when He said ‘naaseh Adam’ in the plural. Hashem, is more concerned with the way Avraham Avinu would feel when he heard people making fun of him. Sensitivity to others is the hallmark of Yiddishkeit.

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Toldot: Wells of Living Waters

he Tzadik Reb Mordechai Yosef Leiner of Ishbitz, the Mei Hashiloach, was an original thinker. He had a unique Derech in Avodas Hashem, and gave the world a Torah commentary that blends Peshat and Sod, advancing a way of seeing the mystical interpretation as the basic understanding of the text. After the Histalkus or passing of the Mei HaShiloach, his son Reb Yaakov, who also was a creative expert in the secrets of the Torah, succeeded him. Known as the “Beis Yaakov”, Reb Yaakov’s phenomenal genius was matched by his Yirat Shamayim. However, after the initial excitement of his ascending to the position of Rebbe, some of the Chasidim began to murmur amongst themselves. The new Rebbe was breaking with tradition of his father and doing certain things differently. He changed the order of Niggunim sung at gatherings, the parts 30

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of davening that were accentuated by his father, how the Seudos of Shabbos were conducted, and the style of Divrei Torah. One of older Gabbaim approached the new Rebbe and expressed the concern of the Chasidim: his path was not in-sync with his father’s legacy and his way of serving G-d was breaking from the family tradition. Beis Yaakov responded, “You are mistaken. My Derech in Avodas Hashem is very much the same as my righteous father’s. My father did his own thing, and I am doing mine.” ~ “The Philistines stopped up all the wells that his (Yitzchak’s) father’s servants had dug in the days of Avraham, his father, and they filled them with earth.”(26:15) Rabbeinu Bachaye interprets: the wells dug by Avraham represent the revealing of wellsprings of faith buried within the hearts of those whom he and Sarah Imeinu had met and affected. Throughout their travels, masses were inspired by their uplifting message and profound lessons in monotheism. However, after the death of Avraham, these “wells” were filled with “dirt”. Yitzchak went down to Gerar and made efforts to re-dig his father’s wells.

Although Yitchak prospered and merited Divine blessings along the way, we don’t see evidence that Yitzchak’s work in perpetuating the religious revolution, his ‘re-digging of the wells’, had succeeded. Reb Simcha Bunim of Peshischa zy’a was one of the Mei Hashiloach’s primary influences. He explains that the Pelishtim (Philistines) had been inspired by Avraham Avinu and they mimicked his ways. However, they went through the motions of what Avraham taught, without internalizing or considering the deeper goal and intention — namely, to cultivate a personal relationship with the Ribbono Shel Olam. Since the Pelishtim failed to ‘dig their own wells’ and relied on the spiritual work of others, their sense of inspiration did not last. They reverted to their old ways when Avraham passed away. Reb Simcha Bunim taught: “Any movement in Avodas Hashem must have an inner life force, without which, the Avoda will not have lasting power, nor will it ascend on high.” When we mimic the Avodas Hashem and pathway of others, we are are akin to spiritual Philistines. Yidishkeit is meant to be lived by each of us in a personal and unique way. There is no canned or scripted screenplay. Each of us are charged to engage in Torah and Mitzvos — to struggle, ponder, question, explore and enjoy Yidishkeit — authentically. We are to use the blueprints of those who came before us, but we are to dig our own wells. OU ISRAEL CENTER

SIMCHAT SHMUEL

BY RABBI SAM SHOR

Program Director, OU Israel Center

ur Sedra this week contains the challenging episode of Rivka Imeinu, disguising her son Yaakov as his older brother Eisav, in order to seemingly deceive an elderly and frail Yitzchak to bestow upon Yaakov the blessings of the first born. What is the significance of this troubling episode? How could it be that Yaakov Avinu would come to receive these blessings in such a manner? How could it be that Rivka would facilitate this entire episode?

B’mirma is equal in numerical value to the word afikoman.

In the subsequent pesukim, Eisav approaches his father, having prepared his favorite foods, in anticipation that his father will indeed bless him, he is shocked to hear Yitzchak’s reply:

This novel approach of course takes into account the midrashic suggestion that each of the Avot fulfilled the entire Torah through ruach hakodesh, even though they had not received the Torah and were not commanded to do so.

“Ba Achicha B’Mirma, vayikach birchatecha-” Your Brother came cunningly, and took your blessing. “ The Ateret Yehoshua of Dzhikov, zy’a offers a fascinating insight- the word

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When Eisav approaches his father with this meal, Yitzchak answers him that it is Pesach night, and I have already eaten a meal which your brother served me, which included the Afikoman- I therefore am no longer allowed to eat from your meal, as one is prohibited to eat any additional food on Pesach night, once they have consumed the Afikoman.

Rabbi Moshe Weinberger, shlita, points out that on the Seder night, the matza which is set aside as the Afikoman, is one half of the matza which is broken for Yachatz,

at the beginning of the Seder. Yachatz, as explained by Rabbi Weinberger, is an acronym for the words: Yadav, Chelkat Tzavarav- his hands and the smooth of his neck- a reference to the parts of Yaakov’s body, which Rivka covered with fur to disguise him as Eisav! So what are we to learn from both this episode of disguise and deception, as well as it’s connection to the Afikoman of Layl HaSeder? On the Seder night, many have the custom that the Afikoman is hidden for the children to find, or to take it and “steal it” in exchange for a finder’s fee or present upon its return. Rabbi Weinberger points out that there is an important message hidden within this custom. Yaakov Avinu, the ultimate Ish Emet, did not feel it was right for him to receive the blessing, he was not the bechor and therefore did not see himself as deserving to be blessed accordingly. So too, many of us may feel that we are unworthy or not deserving to learn the depths of Torah, to delve into penimiut hatorah- the inner secrets of Torah. Rabbi Weinberger suggests that on the Layl HaSeder, we too must step out of our comfort zone like Yaakov Avinu and hide or steal the Afikoman, to realize that yes, we too, are worthy to learn the secrets of Torah.

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Esav Was Deserving of Blessing?

oth twins, Esav and Yaakov, want the blessing. Their mother and father are not of one mind on who deserves the blessing. This is one of the most critical and one of the most mystifying chapters in the Torah. Critical because the events will unfold in such a way that only one son will carry on the leadership of the Chosen People. And mystifying because it seems unreasonable that Yitzchak would choose Esav to receive the blessing. Esav had just married out of the faith. This caused great pain to Rivkah and Yitzchak: “And when Esav was forty years old he took as a wife Judith the daughter of Be’eri the Hittite, and Basmath the daughter of Elon the Hittite; and they were a bitterness of soul to Yitzchak and Rivkah.” (Bereshit 26:35,35 )In these words

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the Torah attests to Esav’s intermarriage with the local women; an act of defiance towards his parents and grandparents before him. Guilty of this sin, and others enumerated by the Sages, why would Yitzchak wish to confer the blessing on him? A number of Torah commentators insist that Yitzchak was well aware of Esav’s unseemly conduct. However, it can be argued, he wished to confer blessings on him for this very reason. Because Esav had a tendency for indulgence and aggressive behavior, Yitzchak wanted him to turn those traits toward the service of God. He believed in Esav and in his potential to transform his negative characteristics. Chassidic masters expound on this approach:

‫ויאמר הנה נא זקנתי לא ידעתי יום מותי‬ )‫ב‬:‫(בראשית כו‬ According to one translation of this verse, Yaakov wishes to impart a blessing before leaving this world. The great Chassidic master, Rebbe Zvi Elimelech of Dinov points to another interpretation. Yaakov actually says,’ I never knew’ - in the

past tense - ‘the day of my death.” Yaakov seems to be implying something else. The Rebbe suggested that Yaakov was sharing with his son a window into the way he had served God throughout his life. There are those whose service to God is based on fear and punishment. They remind themselves regularly that they will one day face God in judgment. This idea is actually based on a teaching in the Talmud which instructs a person tempted by sin to contemplate his/her day of death (Berachot 5a). Yaakov relays to Esav that this was never his way. Such thoughts are only a last resort. “I never needed to conjure up such frightening thoughts of death.” The pasuk can be understood to mean: ‘ I have not known - in my past or throughout my life - the day of my death.’ My relationship with God has been saturated with joy. The ‘yirat Hashem’ that has permeated my relationship with the Almighty consisted of awe and wonder that has engendered simchat hachayim. The Chassidic master Rebbe Chaim Chernovitz, author of Be’er Mayim Chaim, offers an analogous approach to the Rebbe of Dinov. He detects two critical motifs embedded in Yitzchak’s directive to Esav. Let us examine the verse in which Yitzchak instructed Esav to procure meat in preparation for receiving the blessing:

‫ועתה שא נא כליך תליך וקשתך וצא השדה וצודה לי‬ ‫ציד‬ )‫ג‬:‫(בראשית כז‬ “And now lift your weapons, your sword OU ISRAEL CENTER

and bow, and go forth to the field and hunt game for me.” (Bereshit 27:3) Why, asked the Rebbe, did Yitzchak use the word ‘now’, which apparently is unnecessary? He answered that the word ‘now’ is a term which alludes to the notion of teshuva or returning to God. The midrash (Bereshit Rabbah 21:6) says: “The term ‘ata’ ,now, always refers to teshuva.” ‘Ata’ connotes that at any moment, even now, one can change. Yitzchak was intimating to Esav that he could do the same. The words that follow in this pasuk are also puzzling. Why does Yizchak need to tell his son to take weapons for his hunt. Is this not obvious? Also, why does Yiztchak specifically say ‘lift’ your weapons; it should have simply said, ’take your weapons.’ The Rebbe suggested that Yiztchak asked Esav to take his ‘weapons’, meaning , his aggressive and forceful personality traits, and lift them up, elevate them to be used positively and productively in serving God. The most elevated form of teshuva is when one uses all of one’s varied traits and strength le’shem shamayim, ‘for the sake of Heaven.’

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In the eyes of the chassidic masters cited above, Yitzchak was well aware of Esav’s shortcomings. However, evidently, Yitzchak felt that bestowing a blessing on his son would encourage him. Yitzchak did not merely have in mind to bless Esav, he wished to impart encouraging messages that would inspire him toward greatness: He imparted to his son the notion that a life dedicated to God need not be heavy or burdensome. Quite the opposite. A life in service to the Master of the World is replete with joy. True ‘Yirat Shamayim’ engenders delight and happiness. Second, even when one veers from a path of goodness and righteousness, the door is always open for return; every moment offers an opportunity to come back home. Third, every personality trait can be channeled into positive behavior and creative goals The lessons imparted by our forefather Yitzchak need to taken to heart in our own pursuit of a life dedicated to Torah and service to the Holy One Blessed Be He. (This dvar Torah is based on a piece from Rabbi Baruch Simon’s shlita, Imrei Baruch, Bereshit pp. 133-137).

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he Talmud (Pesachim 36a) relates that one may not bake milchig or fleishig bread. Since bread is generally consumed at every meal, one might forget that the bread contains milk and eat it at a fleishig meal (or vice versa). For this reason, Chazal ruled that milchig or fleishig bread is non-kosher and may not be eaten, even alone. However, the Talmud offers one exception: One may bake milchig or fleishig bread if it is made “ke’ein tura.” Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh De’ah 97:1) offers two explanations of “ke’ein tura”: Like the eye of an ox, i.e., a small amount. One may bake and consume a small amount of dairy or meat bread because it is assumed that the individual eating the bread will remember the meat or dairy status without difficulty. Rama (Yoreh De’ah 97:1) writes that the volume that one will eat in a single day 46

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is considered a small amount. In the shape of an ox, i.e., a unique shape. By baking the bread in a unique manner, the shape of the bread will serve as a visible reminder that the bread is not pareve.

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n this week’s Parsha, we learn that Yitzchak prayed, in the presence of his wife, because of Rivka’s barren state. The Torah employs the term “Vaya’ater” to express Yitzchak’s entreaty to Hashem – and Hashem responds with the same term, “Vayei’arteh,” best translated as Hashem ‘allowed Himself to be entreated’ (after Artscroll). How fascinating that the narrative so describes this mutual encounter between Yitzchak and Hashem! Our rabbis tell us that although Rivka also prayed for a child, only Yitzchak, the son of a Tzaddik, was answered. Clearly, the merit of Avraham played a role, hence the introductory description of Yitzchak as Avraham’s progeny. Rivka, by contrast, was the daughter of a wicked man. Rashi explains that the term “Vaya’ater” implies much and extended prayer. For, following the Radak, Yitzchak was

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insistent not to beget a child from any handmaiden, but only from his beloved wife Rivka. Nevertheless, asks the Netivot Shalom, why was this Hebrew term employed and not, say, “Vayitchanan” – ‘and he implored’ – as was Moshe’s plea to enter Eretz Yisrael described. And why record that Hashem reciprocated? Would it not have been enough to say that Yitzchak ‘knew his wife and she conceived,’ in the more common vernacular of the Chumash? *** To explain, the Netivot Shalom invokes the story of Menashe, King of Judah. As recorded in Divrei Hayamim (2, chap. 33), Menashe committed the worst of evils, destroying holy places and replacing them with idols. When punished, Menashe begs for mercy and Hashem responds (“Vaya’ater”) by forgiving him. In a Talmudic debate on this issue, Chazal remind us that since the letters ‘Ayin’ and

‘Chet’ are interchangeable, “Vaya’ater” can be written as “Vayachater,” meaning that Hashem ‘dug out’ or ‘broke through.’ That is to say that although Menashe was undeserving, Hakadosh Baruch Hu nevertheless responded to his plea by “exposing a small gap in the clouds of glory to let his prayers reach Him.” Thus with Yitzchak: He had every reason to despair and to give up after so many “unanswered” prayers. But he continued to entreat Hashem who, finally, dug a hole under the heavy metal obstruction that had impeded the prayers until now, to paraphrase the Netivot Shalom. Now Hashem responds in like manner, seemingly touched by the deep sincerity and authenticity of Yitzchak’s entreaties. And so, even when we feel undeserving and that the outlook is bleak, let us pray fervently in the knowledge that Hashem actually wants to hear from us and will answer us, like a good friend, in a mutual manner. Shabbat Shalom!

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Bankruptcy in Halacha – part II Question: I have $30,000 of credit debt (in the US). I lost my job, and my new job pays less. I do not see how I can pay the debt. What does Jewish law say about filing for bankruptcy? Answer: [We responded to the querier regarding his situation but are broadening (in brevity) the discussion. Last time we saw reasons for and against accepting the discharge of debt even though the original halacha disallows it. This time, we will explore practical issues including distinctions between cases. We cannot cover all elements and cases.] Poskim are quite lenient regarding debts owed by corporations. The Pitchei Choshen (Halva’ah 2:(63)) says that all agree that in doing business with a corporation, which are defined by corporate laws, people expect that the

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law of the land will govern, even if the owners and officers are religious Jews. This obviously applies to investors in a corporation, but it also should apply to suppliers and even workers. When an individual owes money to a financial institution (e.g., banks, credit card companies), the laws of bankruptcy apply. After all, they plan based on the expectation that a percentage of their debtors will go bankrupt, and they factor this is when setting interest rates. Bankruptcy is valid in regard to corporate as well as non-Jewish creditors, since the governing law in their regard is the law of the land. The matter is more complicated when an individual Jew lends money to another Jew, especially based on the latter’s need (see more on this distinction in Chelkat Yaakov, Choshen Mishpat 32) supplies goods to him on credit, or employs him. (When a creditor has a connection to the debtor or is a charitable person and can afford it, he could decide to forgive the money and count it as tzedaka, but that is his decision. We should also remember that

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the idea of forgiving debt is not foreign to Judaism, as according to Torah law, every seven years, debt is forgiven. When this is practically applicable is beyond our present scope.) If the one who is owed money did not make actuarial calculations and reasonably believed the debtor felt obligated to pay his debt, the matter of acting based on local practice is not so applicable. It is also unclear if the law, whose rationale is most societally compelling for growing the economy, is justified to contradict Torah law regarding personal consumer debt. Also, often a debtor knows he will be able to pay, just with difficulty. It is possible that the hardship of paying is not much greater than the hardship of loss to the creditor, and there are not moral grounds to not fulfill one’s obligation. If an individual debtor fully regains his ability to pay, it is morally correct to pay his fellow individual even if bankruptcy law does not require it. Bankruptcy applies in regard to all of one’s creditors. During the process, one is forbidden to pay creditors selectively; the court dictates payment. Therefore, if one has a moral right to file for bankruptcy due to corporate debt, the loss to the individual creditor is a necessary casualty, at least initially. However, nothing legally prevents the debtor, after the receiver takes

assets as instructed by the court, from paying those to whom he feels a higher moral obligation, which he should do as possible. (It can be difficult to deal with a case in which there are multiple such creditors and insufficient funds for them all.) Bankruptcy is an important tool of survival for an honest debtor. Unfortunately, some abuse the right, sometimes illegally by deceiving the court in a variety of ways. Even without deception, not every bankruptcy filing is halachically or ethically proper, and this can often create a chillul Hashem as well. These factors should play a major role in determining whether bankruptcy is called for. Therefore, one who is considering filing should not only consider its impact on his financial future and discuss legality and process with a competent and ethical lawyer, but it is proper to also discuss the details with a rabbi or other moral advisor.

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Avoiding Shabbat

treatment will not need to be on Shabbat and can be timed to avoid weekends. Some doctors have told me that they have never performed a Shabbat retrieval.

The same is true of the chagim, and it is advisable for a couple to steer clear of treatment during Tishrei or Nissan, otherwise there will often be an unavoidable clash between their treatment and the festivals.

e continue looking at the answers received related to the halachic definition of a couple undergoing fertility treatment, especially in relation to undergoing treatment on Shabbat. Rabbi Yaakov Ariel, the Chief Rabbi of Ramat Gan and a recognized authority in many halachic areas, including medicine and halacha, permitted the couple to undergo certain medical treatments on Shabbat but he preceded his comments with a general limitation. This is only in a case where the treatment has to be performed on Shabbat and cannot be brought forward to Friday or delayed until after Shabbat. In addition, the couple, and their medical team, must make every effort to ensure that treatment will not be on Shabbat. They cannot simply create a situation in which the treatment is performed on Shabbat out of convenience. Sometimes the doctor has a preference to push off a treatment to the weekend when the hospital is less busy. With careful planning and concern, often a 52

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Rabbi Ariel stated that if, despite all the coupleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s and doctorâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s efforts, the treatment will still be on Shabbat, it can only be permitted in a case when otherwise the couple would miss the opportunity to undergo treatment and another opportunity would only be available after a long time. Another possibility would be that the couple would have to incur a loss if they would miss the treatment. He wrote that the loss could be financial, emotional or physical, i.e. if the woman has already received hormonal injections and stopping the treatment may have detrimental consequences for her health, then the treatment can be done on Shabbat. This would also be the case if the couple would incur significant costs to change the date or cancel the treatment, then this is also a reason to be lenient and permit them to undergo the treatment on Shabbat. This would also be the case if the couple would

suffer serious anxiety or anguish due to the cancelation of the treatment. I would add that age is also a significant factor; fertility decreases with advanced maternal age. If the woman is in her late 30â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s there is more room to be lenient regarding treatment on Shabbat than for a younger patient. With the older patient, we are concerned that the decrease in fertility may be significant and fast-approaching, and so each month is critical. More on this next week. The Puah Institute is based in Jerusalem and helps couples from all over the world who are experiencing fertility problems. Offices in Jerusalem, New York, Los Angeles & Paris. Contact (Isr) 02-651-5050 (US) 718-336-0603 www.puahonline.org

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Is monk fruit considered orlah? Question: Monk fruit grows in China and is used as a natural sweetener. A mashgiach, who certifies a factory in China, discovered that the fruits harvested by the factory are always from the plant’s first three years. Does that mean that monk fruit is orlah? Answer: The mashgiach told me that at least two factories receive new monk plants each year. There are a few other factories that produce monk fruit in that area in China, and may be in other contries in the area.

poskim), it is not considered a tree at all—so there would be no issue of orlah. Even if we are concerned that it is a tree, as long as we are not 100% certain that the fruit is from an orlah tree, it is considered safek orlah; to date, we haven’t checked all of the factories producing monk fruit. Outside the Land of Israel, safek orlah is permitted. Since (1) there is a doubt whether the fruit is orlah and (2) there is a dispute as to whether the plant is indeed a tree, we can be lenient. If we should decide to grow this plant in Israel, a comprehensive study is called for to examine the plant’s characteristics; orlah in the Land of Israel is a biblical prohibition, and even safek orlah is prohibited.

The work practices of farmers or corporations do not change a species’ classification: if a species is halachically classified as a tree, even if growers decide to cultivate it in a different way for convenience’ sake, this does not necessarily change its halachic status to be a vegetable. The monk plant tree produces fruit within the first year, so according to the Radbaz and others (mostly Sephardi 54

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A Kislev Contemplation: “To Another Year”

ome messages are simply too important to ignore. One such message, I believe, emerges from two words in the Talmud’s short discussion of the Chanuka Festival. While overwhelmingly vital and powerful, however, this communication is easily missed. We have to be sensitive enough and honest enough to note it. After briefly describing the Hasmonean victory over the Syrian Greeks and the miracle of the sole remaining cruse of oil, the Talmud states: “L’shana acheret, to another year, [the rabbis] established and rendered [these eight days] permanent festival days with praise and thanksgiving.” The Talmudic record is clear. Chanuka is not established immediately as a festival, but only in conjunction with “another year.” Faced with this assertion, many commentaries render the phrase l’shana acheret as “to the next year.” Chanuka is established as an ongoing festival, these 56

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scholars maintain, one full year after the Hasmonean victory and the rededication of the Temple; once the rabbinic authorities recognize the full significance of the events that have transpired under their watch. If this is the case, however, why doesn’t the Talmud use the specific language l’shana ha’ba’a, literally, “to the coming year?” Even if Chanuka is established only a year later, might the rabbis be teaching us a lesson through their use of the broader phrase l’shana acheret? A potential answer can be gleaned from the powerful observations of Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik (the Rav) concerning Judaism’s approach to time. This great scholar identifies three dimensions of “time awareness” as essential to the life of each Jew: retrospection, anticipation and appreciation: Retrospection refers to man’s ability to re-experience the past in the present. What for others is only a memory, the Rav maintains, must become for the Jew a “creative living experience.” To lead meaningful Jewish lives, our personal journeys must be actively shaped by the events, and populated by the personalities, of our peoples’ past. Anticipation, according to the Rav, speaks of man’s projection of visions and aspirations into the future. Within this

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dimension, the Jew enters the realm of foresight and expectation. He recognizes the need to act now, in order to propel his dreams, and his people’s dreams, forward. The third and final dimension of timeawareness, appreciation, is the most crucial of all. Here, the challenge is to recognize the unique nature of the here and now. So central is the dimension of appreciation, according to the Rav, that it lends meaning to the other two dimensions. “Retrospection and anticipation are significant only insofar as they transform the present.” The past and future are valueless to the Jew, the Rav maintains, unless they affect the way he/ she acts now. To go one step further, we might argue that appreciation is not only the most central of the three dimensions of timeawareness; but also the most difficult one to enter. To fully “appreciate” our times, we must learn to view our lives through the lens of history. The stipulations of appreciation thus form a fundamental imbalance: we must judge ourselves as we will be judged in the future; but we must render that judgment now. We are challenged to ask ourselves: One hundred, two hundred, five hundred years from now; how will our generation’s story and our generation’s contributions to Jewish life, be measured? Clearly, these are difficult questions to answer. Lessons from the past are easily accessed through hindsight. Visions of a glorious future are readily imagined. A 58

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true assessment of present opportunity, challenge and performance, however, can remain elusive. Such appraisal often seems to need the perspective granted by a shana acheret, another year. And waiting for a shana acheret is a luxury that we can generally ill afford. In our day, few within the committed Jewish community would argue with the fact that the establishment and development of the State of Israel has been a transformative event, unequaled in thousands of years of Jewish history. We are privileged to be part of a continuing grand experiment, replete with innumerable, ever-shifting facets: the ongoing return of a dispersed people from across the globe to its ancestral homeland; the cobbling together of disparate populations, vastly different from one another, into a working, functioning, governable democracy; the blending of Jewish tradition with democratic principle; the unaccustomed use of power by a people powerless for centuries; the forging of an ever-changing relationship between Diaspora Jewry and Israeli citizenry; the rapid rise of the newborn State into an economic powerhouse; the development, by necessity, of an everadapting, world-class, powerful military and security apparatus; the positive changes wrought in the psyche of Jews across the globe because of the very existence of a Jewish State; and so much more… And yet, a full appreciation of the extraordinary realities that mark our days can be difficult to maintain. Day

to day, caught up in our own personal concerns and challenges; frustrated by the bureaucracy that confronts us; disappointed in the politics that seem to “govern our government;” it is easy to lose historical perspective. It is easy to lose sight of the miracle that greets us every time we walk through the streets of our homeland. It is easy to forget that, as an acquaintance recently observed: If any Jew who lived between 70 CE and 1945 CE miraculously came back to life today on the streets of Yerushalayim; he/she would not ask, “When will Moshiach come?” He/she would ask, “When did Moshiach come?” Don’t get me wrong. Moshiach is not fully here quite yet. In fact, I firmly believe, the verdict is still out. Whether or not these miraculous days will turn out to be Reishit Semichat Ge’ulateinu (the beginning of the flowering of our redemption) will be up to us. Hashem is granting us an opportunity, one that had been unimaginable for thousands of years. What we do with that opportunity will ultimately determine its significance. Will we learn to live and work together towards the common good? Will we find a way to move forward as one, as we confront the many challenges that face

us? Will we put aside the petty differences that too often mark our religious and political discourse? Will we succeed in creating a truly sanctified society? While, as mentioned above, the verdict is still out on these issues- one thing is clear. As a first step, we must arrive at a full awareness and appreciation of our time. Only if we recognize the historic potential that marks our day, can we hope to realize that potential. Centuries ago, the Hasmoneans saved Judaism, only to ultimately fall victim to their own excesses and lost perspective. Could the Talmud be hinting at one of the reasons? Perhaps the rabbis are teaching us that: had our ancestors recognized the true significance of the Chanuka victories immediately, and not l’shana acheret,” they would have successfully retained their footing in a turbulent world. If we learn to fully appreciate the gifts divinely granted to us in our day, perhaps, this time, we will also learn to appreciate the challenges they bear. And, just perhaps, we will rise to meet those challenges together while there is still time, l’shana ha’zot, to this year.

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ibling rivalry is the name of the game. In fact the entire book of Beraishis can be described as a narrative of sibling rivalry. We have Kayin and Hevel, Shem, Cham and Yefet, Avraham and his nephew Lot, Yishmael and Yitzchak, Yaakov and Eisav, and Yosef and his brothers. It is as though the Torah wishes to inform us and impress upon us the true nature of human beings. I often think that that is what is meant when the Torah said that the nature of human beings is bad from its onset. We are, by nature, competitive creatures, and the competition always begins at home with those who are closest to us. We should, therefore, not think of our children as being angelic, but, rather, deal with them with their true natures, and recognize the pitfalls that natural sibling rivalry will always engender. Every child is a different world, and no two children â&#x20AC;&#x201C; even identical twins â&#x20AC;&#x201C; are the same. Because of this element of human nature, competitiveness is built in to the structure of all children. It is the task of education and the home

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to channel this competitiveness into positive behavior and creative goals. This is what the Rabbis meant by their statement that the competitiveness between scholars and wise men is a method for increasing wisdom and understanding generally. Without competitiveness there can be very little creativity or advancement in all forms of life â&#x20AC;&#x201C; technology, healthcare, finance, politics and human nature. The task, however, is to channel that competitiveness towards positive aims, and to limit it so that it does not descend into violence and tyranny.

Eisav will be redeemed by his acceptance of Yaakov and of the moral values and tradition of his family. Part of the problem of Eisav is not competitiveness but, rather, insecurity. He always feels his younger brother is tugging at his heel and preventing him from achieving the greatness that he

feels is his due. Because of this insecurity, he seeks fame and fortune in opposing the ideas and lifestyle of his own very family. He scorns his birthright because he feels that fulfilling its demands will only inhibit him. Eisav feels that only by being different than Yaakov can he achieve permanent respect. Therefore, as all of his plans crumble, he cries in anguish to his father that he wants the blessings that Yaakov has received, and he realizes that only in those blessings, which he will have to share always with Yaakov, can his destiny truly be fulfilled. This is what Yaakov himself tells Eisav at their last meeting, which we will read about in a few weeks: that eventually Yaakov will come to the mountain of Eisav, and then Eisav will be redeemed by his acceptance of Yaakov and of the moral values and tradition of his family. Throughout the books of Tanach we find this constant struggle of insecurity versus acceptance, and competitiveness versus conformity. We are uncomfortable when we see people who are different than we are. But the only way to achieve personal greatness is by realizing that our own inner security need not be weakened by competitiveness with others. Shabbat shalom, Rabbi Berel Wein

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Inviting NonObservant Guests for Shabbat

ecently, hundreds of thousands of Jews participated in the ‘Shabbat Project,’ an initiative that began in South Africa in 2013 and quickly spread worldwide. As part of the initiative, Orthodox families are encouraged to invite non-observant guests to their homes to experience a Shabbbat. According to their website: The Shabbat Project is a global, grassroots movement that’s united 1,000,000+ Jews around the magic of Shabbat. For those of us who have been inspired by the magic, majesty and beauty of Shabbat - and felt its warm embrace – it’s only natural to want to share that experience with others.

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But is it permissible to invite a nonobservant Jew for a Shabbat meal, knowing that they may desecrate the Sabbath in order to attend? It is prohibited to enable a fellow Jew to violate a transgression. The Torah (Vayikra 19:14) states “…You shall not place a stumbling block before the blind.” The Talmud (Avoda Zara 6a-b) provides the example of a Nazir, standing on one side of a riverbed and another individual on the other side of the river, who stretches his arm across the river to give the Nazir the wine. The implication being that the Nazir would not be able to violate his nazirite oath without this individual. The individual is directly responsible. While Rambam (Peirush Ha-Mishna, Shevi’it 5:6) rules that even “assisting” one in a prohibition that could have been violated by other means is prohibited by the Torah, most authorities assume that “assisting” is only a Rabbinic Prohibition (See, for example, Tosafot to Shabbat 3a, s.v. Baba). Rabbi Moshe Feinstein (Igrot Moshe

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OC 1:99) was asked if it is permissible for a rabbi to encourage his congregants to attend services on Shabbat, knowing full well that they will drive to the Synagogue. Rav Moshe rules that doing so would be a violation of the Biblical Prohibition of placing “a stumbling block before the blind.” Rav Moshe goes as far as suggesting that one is even in violation of “incitement,” (Devarim 13:7-12). While technically this prohibition forbids instigating idolatry, based on Sanhedrin 29a, Rav Moshe applies this to instigating any Torah violation. A lenient approach is taken by Rabbi Moshe Shternbuch, who questions the very root of the prohibition of placing “a stumbling block before the blind.” Responding to a Ba’al Teshuvah who would like to invite his parents for Shabbat, Rav Shternbuch rules that he may invite them, and writes, “If one’s intent is only good, it is not called a ‘stumbling block,’ rather it is comparable to a surgeon who is not called one who ‘injures his fellow.’ Similarly, here, his intent is not for evil or to offer improper advice, rather through this, he hopes to direct them and bring them close to the true path… There is no violation of

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[‘Do not place a stumbling block] before the blind,’ since he did not command them to drive – just the opposite – he made them aware that this causes him pain...” (Teshuvot V’hanhagot 1:358). The Mishnah (Shevi’it 5:6) instructs what types of farm equipment may not be sold to a Jew who is suspected of working his land during the Shemittah year, and what types of farm equipment may be sold to such a Jew: “Theses are the utensils that the artisan may not sell during Shevi’it: The plow and all of its utensils, the yoke, the rake, and the hoe. But one may sell a sickle, a scythe, and a wagon and all of its utensils. This is the rule: All [utensils] whose use is specifically for a prohibited activity is prohibited [to be sold]. [All utensils which may be used for something] prohibited or permissible is permitted [to be sold].” The Mishnah allows one to sell equipment that may or may not be used to transgress a prohibited type of work during Shemitta. It is up to the purchaser to decide the use, and the seller is exempt from any liability (See Ritva to Avoda Zara 15b).

Similarly, with Shabbat guests, one may provide his guest with the choice to sleep over and refrain from violating the Sabbath. Rabbi Shlomo Zalman Auerbach ruled that one may invite a non-observant Jew who lives far from the synagogue and offer them a place to stay overnight, even should he decline the offer (Minchat Shlomo 2:4; Rivevot Ephraim 7:402). Many contemporary authorities have adopted this approach and rule that one may invite guests to arrive before Shabbat begins, and offer them a place to stay. Should they decline the offer that is their prerogative, and one is not held liable for participating in their desecration of the Sabbath. This allows one to invite guests and share the beauty of Shabbat with them, without violating the prohibition of enabling or assisting a fellow Jew to violate a transgression.

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Top-left: Yaakov with lentil stew t Next: one of Yitzchak's workers on a break from digging wells t Or, perhaps, Eisav coming from the field exhausted t Seder plate Rashi tells us that it was the first night of (the future) Pesach that Yaakov presented himself to Yitzchak for the bracha, explaining the two goats that Rivka prepared as the main dish and the Korban Pesach (which is why Yitzchak couldn't eat Eisav's food) t near Seder plate is a king on his father's back. The finger is pointing to the father, who would be AVI-MELECH t Rain cloud is part of the bracha that Yaakov received t The sword is part of the bracha to Eisav t The lion cub on the map of Israel GUR BAARETZ HAZOT - What G-d said to Yitzchak and what G-d says to every Jew - Live in this Land! t Tow truck: pun - Yitzchak lived in GERAR t Above truck is emblem of NAHAL, part of IDF. Combined with the truck it reads NACHAL GERAR, the place where Yitzchak settled after Avimelech kicked him out of Gerar t Teddy bear is holding the number 7 in one paw and an upraised hand in the other. Two meanings to the name Be'er Sheva. One is from the seven sheep that Avraham gave Avimelech as a token of the covenant between them, and the other is for the oath(s) that were taken in that agreement. SHEVA has both connotations t Towards the bottom is the Davka Judaica Graphic of Yaakov, the studious ISH TAM, dweller in the tent of Torah, and Eisav, the ISH SADEH, the man of the field, the hunter t two street signs represent Rechovot the meaning of the word streets, not the town by that name. They represent the 66

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third well that Yitzchak dug t C is 100 in Roman numerals. With a gate inside the C, you get ME'AH SHE'ARIM. That Yitzchak established Me'ah She'arim is consistent with the fact that he is recorded as being the first Charedi, as in VAYECHERAD YITZCHAK CHARADA G'DOLA AD M'OD he was very charedi t The emblem of Ben Gurion University stands for Be'er Sheva, the city in which it is located t Next to it is the emblem of the city of Rehovot - with microscope, book, and orange - is for the well of the same name t To its right is a photo of a Pygmy Marmoset, the smallest of all monkeys... represents the small KUF (monkey is KOF - KUF/KOF, close) in the word kATZTI, that Rivka said in expressing her disgust if Yaakov were to marry a local K'naanit t Upper-right is an artistic version of the Zodiac sign Gemini. Although it is the mazal of Sivan, it fits in with Toldot because of the twinship of Yaakov and Eisav t Below that is the lentil plant t And below that is a water drill, which stands for the attention paid in the sedra to Yitzchak's digging water wells that Avraham had dug t The increasing numbers in size and value stands for the Torah's statement that Yitzchak grew greatly t Goat - Goats are significant in more than one context. In Toldot, Rivka has Yaakov bring her two goats so she can prepare a sumptuous meal for Yitzchak. She also wraps goat skin around Yaakov's arms and on his neck. Later, Yosef's brothers slaughter a goat and dip his Kutonet Pasim in its blood to show Yaakov who would conclude that Yosef had been killed by a predator. Yehuda sends a goat to Tamar. Two identical goats are an important part of the Avoda on Yom Kippur in the Mikdash t And to the right of the goat is a well t There is a picture of a yoke. In Hebrew, OL = 70+6+30 = 106, the number of p'sukim in Toldot. So too the line, in Hebrew, KAV, 100+6 = 106. t Which brings us to 2 Unexplaineds, which are visual TTriddles

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RABBI EPHRAIM SPRECHER Faculty, OU Israel Center

Prayer – The ORIGINAL Soul Food

he Talmud (Berachot 26b) says, “Tefilot Avot Tiknum” – “Prayer was established by the Avot”. The Talmud then uses the following verse (Bereshit 19:27) to prove how Avraham established Prayer: “Vayaskem Avraham baboker el hamakom asher amad sham et pnei Hashem” – “And Avraham got up early in the morning to the place where he had stood before Gd”. The connection here is in the word “AMAD” – “Stood” and its association with the Amida Prayer. Strangely though, the Torah relates, just one chapter later (Bereshis 20:17), “Vayitpalel Avraham el Ha’Elokim” – “And Avraham prayed to Gd”. The word “VAYITPALEL” is directly related to “TEFILA” - “Prayer”. When proving that Avraham established Prayer, why didn’t the Talmud use this verse? Furthermore, in the case of Avraham’s Tefilah, Gd answered his prayer and miraculously healed Avimelech, the King of the Plishtim, and his entire 68

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household. Why isn’t this clear, explicit and successful Prayer our foundational model? The Talmud’s first proof text for Prayer offers us a profound lesson. Let’s take a deeper look at our original proof text: “And Avraham got up early in the morning to the place where he had stood before Gd”. What’s so special about this place? This place was of deep significance to Avraham. It was the place where he stood, argued and confronted Gd before the destruction of Sodom and A’mora. This is the place where Avraham stood alone, face to face with the Creator of the Universe, mustered all his courage to demand (Bereshis 18:23), “Hashofet kol haaretz lo yaaseh mishpat?” – “Shall the Judge of the entire earth not do justice?” And Avraham continues to challenge Gd, “Chalilah Lecha l’hamit tzaddik im rasha?” “How dare You kill the righteous together with the wicked?” By using this verse as a foundation for Jewish Prayer, the Talmud teaches us that the place of Jewish Prayer is NOT centered on miracles or good fortune. Rather, Prayer is the place where we confront Gd for what seems to us to be unfair and unjust. Prayer is the place where we struggle and argue with Gd

Who loves righteousness and justice but allows suffering, pain, and death of innocent children. Prayer’s place is where we, like Avraham, stand and see the distance between the world as it is and the world as it could be. This is where our Prayer begins. In our daily AMIDAH in the paragraph beginning with Shema Kolenu, one should add his personal pleas and petitions. The Yaaros D’vash emphasizes that such personal prayers may be in any language or style, for our feelings and devotion are more important than the form of the prayer! This is where hope begins, and where redemption begins. We have a lot of work to do. Let’s get started by having a daily conversation with Gd and telling Him our troubles. He yearns to hear from us. It’s the best therapy there is, and it’s free! Prayer is the ORIGINAL Soul Food! Through Prayer, we become Gd’s partners and messengers to demonstrate how to handle life’s difficult tests. We show our family and friends how to have Emunah and Bitachon (Faith and Trust in Gd), despite our pain and suffering. How does Emunah (Faith) differ from Bitachon (Trust)? Emunah means to believe that whatever happens to us, good or even Gd forbid, tragedies, ALL comes from Gd. Bitachon (Trust) is a higher level than Emunah alone, for even in the tragic events in life, I TRUST Gd that somehow these happenings are also part of Gd’s Plan for the Ultimate Good. OU ISRAEL CENTER

THE DAILY BY SIVAN RAHAV-MEIR PORTION

Fatigue Is the Enemy ‫יטנִ י נָא ִמן ָה ָאדֹם ָה ָאדֹם ַה ֶּזה‬ ֵ ‫ַעקֹב ַה ְל ִע‬ ֲ ‫ׂו ֶאל י‬ ‫ּאמר ֵע ָש‬ ֶ ֹ‫ַוי‬ .‫ִּכי ָעיֵף ָאנ ִֹכי ַעל ֵּכן ָק ָרא ְׁשמוֹ אֱדוֹם‬ And Esau said to Jacob, “Pour for me some of this red, red stew, for I am tired”; therefore he was named Edom. (Gen. 25:30) Much has been written about the differences between Jacob and Esau. The sages have noted Jacob’s good inclination and his decision to be an innocent and righteous man, as opposed to Esau’s evil inclination and the violent and cruel choices he makes. A seemingly trivial factor which influences Esau’s choices is fatigue. Fatigue is not only a modern ailment. Thousands of years ago, in Parashat Toledot, the Torah warned us about its dangers. One of the most important events in this parasha is Esau’s agreement to sell the birthright and future spiritual leadership to Jacob in exchange for a red lentil stew. What led Esau to make this choice? Why does he prefer the temporal stew to something eternal? Esau’s fatigue is mentioned twice in this narrative. First we are told that he was tired when he 70

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returned from the field and again when he asked Jacob to eat the stew he said that he was tired. Fatigue is both a physical and a mental state. It causes apathy and leads to a lack of concentration and difficulty in listening. Sleep deprivation and living on a sleep deficit results in poor judgment, lack of motivation, moodiness, and anxiety. So it is not surprising that the tired Esau could not focus on delicate spiritual matters. Rabbanit Yemima Mizrachi notes that the Code of Jewish Law opens with the instruction: “One should strengthen oneself like a lion to get up in the morning to serve his Creator.” A person must make the effort and overcome temptation when getting out of bed. While this may seem obvious, Mizrachi adds that in our times we must also be diligent about going to bed on time in the evenings. It is easier to keep the midnight oil burning than to call it a day because of all the things distracting us. We feel we have to check our WhatsApp, email, Facebook once or even multiple times before we allow ourselves to go to bed. So nowadays a person has to “strengthen himself like a lion” in order to go to sleep. Sivan Rahav-Meir is an Israeli journalist, currently on shlichut of World Mizrahi movement to the US. She is the author of #Parasha. To receive her daily insight on the portion of the week, text your name to: 972-58-679-9000

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THE NEW OLD PATH BY RABBI BENJI LEVY CEO Of Mosaic United

Wells of Meaning

hen famine strikes Israel yet again, Isaac is forced to flee to the land of the Philistines to find refuge, just like his father did previously: And Isaac dug anew the wells (be’erot) of water which they had dug in the days of Abraham his father and the Philistines had stopped up after Abraham’s death; and he called them by the same names that his father had called them. The Torah continues to describes the seemingly trivial incident of Isaac redigging these wells in great detail as opposed to the many pits that were in the area. There is a significant distinction between a well (be’er) and a pit (bor) which may explain the attention given to these diggings.

The word bor consists of the two letters bet and reish alone, whereas in the word be’er, an additional aleph is embedded between these two letters. This letter aleph is emblematic of the word Elokim (God); both as an abbreviation and in the numerical oneness that it denotes. 74

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This distinction between the two words continues, when considering the practical difference between a pit and a well. A pit is a hole dug in the ground, serving as a container of sorts that must be be filled with water from the outside. A well also serves as a container of water, however, it is dug until a natural supply of water is reached, allowing it to self-sustain. This notion with regard to wells can also be understood in the symbolic sense. Just like Isaac exerted extensive effort in digging these pits until they became wells, so too, we should metaphorically dig wells of meaning in our own lives. We should ‘dig’ through the layers of materialism and human complacency in order to uncover the abundance of spiritual wealth that resides beneath the surface. Everywhere we dwell there is capacity to dig. In some places we need to dig deeper and in some places we need to take longer. In some places the digging is smooth and in others the diggers encounter obstacles. Ultimately, however, there is an opportunity to tap into a deep unlimited source in nearly every situation. Rav Kook discusses a similar idea in the context of the pioneers that established the State of Israel. He speaks of people doing backbreaking work, digging through the earth in search of fresh

water. Eventually some people give up. They have worked hard and only see dirt rather than the fruits of their labour. Exhausted and disappointed, they put down their tools and leave. Other diggers are still hopeful that they will reach water. They have faith that the work is not in vain and eventually they reach a trickle of water. The excitement is immense! But then they see that the water is dirty – filled with sand. This discovery is shattering – after their hard work they realise that the water is not fit for drinking. They too despair and with acute disappointment, lay down their tools and give up. Some, with even deeper faith, continue the challenge. They understand that the muddied water is still water and a sign that they have nearly reached their destination – they just need to dig a little deeper. This group renew the digging with even greater energy and effort until they bypass the grit and sand and finally reach the pure flowing water.

rather than tapping into our spiritual source. Ultimately, our basic mission in life is to metaphorically dig a well to achieve our greater mission in life. Though Abraham’s wells lasted the duration of his lifetime, the Philistines came and filled them with sand when he died. Isaac comes along and re-digs them and reaches the same depth, tapping into the same limitless source that his father did. Though at first, it may be hard to see fruition when we try to delve into the depths of spirituality in our own lives, and though sometimes the pits we dig are temporarily filled in, ultimately, if we continue to dig deep enough, our efforts and our faith will culminate in wells of meaning.

Rav Kook’s message, similar to that which we learn from Isaac in his redigging of the closed-up wells, is that of faith. Even when life is difficult, even if the water lacks clarity, if we dig deep enough, we will always find meaning. The Torah is often compared to water,1 because just as water nourishes our bodies, spirituality nourishes our souls. Our generation seems thirstier than ever before and yet we often attempt to quench that thirst with dirty water from a pit and when that pit dries up, we have to fill it with something else from outside, 1 See for example, Isaiah 55:1. OU ISRAEL CENTER

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From Red Heads To Red Eyes

e have a number of red heads in our extended family. It’s even a joke that when a new great-grandchild is born my father in law, after asking how mother and new baby are, will proceed to inquire as to the color of the newborns hair. “Is it red?” What’s so unique about red heads? Besides the fact that they sunburn faster, absorb vitamin D better, sense hot and cold more acutely and have a higher pain tolerance, they are thought to be more wild, vivacious and fiery. In our portion, in the section describing the birth of Rivka’s twins, Esau and Yaakov, the Torah tells us (25:25), that the first one came out “ With a ruddy complexion, and as hairy as a woolen garment ADMONI, KULO KADERET SEAR “ . The Torah tells us that Esau was a red head. Why would the Torah waste words to tell us this bit of information? Rashi says that the redness of Esau’s complexion portended his murderous nature. But is being born a redhead a self 76

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fulfilling prophecy to being a murderer? Can one move away from their inborn tendencies? We can find an answer to this question by looking closer at another redhead in the Tanach, none other than David. When Shmuel comes to Yishai’s house looking for the one who will take Shaul’s place, we are told that he was “ ADMONI IM YEFE ENAIM VTOV ROI”- ruddy with nice eyes and sees well”

All inborn traits, even apparently difficult ones, can be used for good Shmuel was worried that David, as a redhead would have a tendency to unnecessary bloodshed. But God lists other qualities of David- he has nice eyes as well. This could be referring to him being good looking, or rather to his way of looking at the world. He has soft eyes, possibly red eyes from crying in prayer- as he says about himself in Tehilim ( 6:7) “ I melt away my couch with my tears” . His unique eyes show that he was able to work on himself and become sensitive as well. He doesn’t let his redheadedness master him, he works hard to control the possibly destructive side of his personality. As the king and

ruler there were many opportunities for his redheadedness to take over, but the midrash says that when there was a question about whether someone should be killed, he did it only with a ruling of the Sanhedrin, the “eyes” of the nation. He didn’t let his wild side lead him. So it is important to learn that all inborn traits, even apparently difficult ones, can be used for good. We must take responsibility and learn ways to master our nature. Esau and David we’re both redheaded. Esau let his nature control him and therefore is for us the epitome of evil. David, on the other hand, used his personality wisely and became one of the best leaders. We could use another leader like him.

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ground. Add oil and process till moist. Line the pie pan with the mixture. 2 c. pumpkin puree 2/3 c. Brown sugar (packed) 1/3 c. Soy or rice milk 2 eggs 1 tsp ground ginger 1/2 tsp salt 1/4 tsp black pepper (optional) 2-3 Tbsp finly ginger(optional)

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Combine ingredients and fill pie crust. Bake about 40 minutes at 180 C or till knife comes out clean.

Since red heads are also called “carrot tops” I thought it appropriate to include a recipe with orange colored veggies. So I’m including a recipe for pumpkin pie for all those who want to serve it at a Thanksgiving dinner. It has ginger ( even freshly ground if you really like it) since red heads are referred to as gingers. And a bit of pepper as well, since they are referred to as being fiery.

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CHIZUK & IDUD for Olim & Not-yet-Olim

ast week, in Parshat Chayei Sarah, we read of the growing friction between Sarah Imeinu and Hagar. The two mothers of Avraham Avinu’s sons - Yishmael and Yitzchak – are at loggerheads with one another. Avraham receives a clear directive from G-d: He is to take Sarah’s side, and do everything that she tells him to. This quickly brings him face to face with an additional Nisayon, and he must muster the inner fortitude needed to cast out Yishmael from his home. This traumatic event has left reverberations throughout history, and till this day Yishmael’s descendants continue to bear animosity towards the Jewish People… In this week’s Parsha, this already familiar theme is continued: In order to attain the divine blessing, a painful process of separation and individuation must take place. Avraham had separated himself (Lech Lecha) from his homeland and his father’s house; he had been willing to distance himself from his own son, and yet this is still not enough. Similar to his father Avraham, Yitzchak will also not be able to impart the divine Bracha equally upon both of his two sons, and once again a similar historical animosity will ensue: “And Eisav hated Yaakov because of the bracha that their Father had blessed him and Eisav said 78

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BY RABBI YERACHMIEL RONESS Ramat Shiloh, Beit Shemesh

in his heart let the days of my Father’s mourning draw near and I will kill my brother Yaakov” (Bereishit 27:41). Here too, these negative feelings will continued on through the ages. As Rashi writes: Halacha Hi -Bi’yadua She’Eisav Soneh Le’Yaakov. Rav Moshe Feinstein zt”l explained that this historical insight bears the status of a ‘Halacha’ in the sense that it requires of us to take action. He explains that we are to be aware that the Christian World’s animosity toward the Jewish People, carries on to this day, and as a result we must apply extra caution even in our dealings with world leaders who are ostensibly in favor of the Jewish People, (Igrot Moshe, Choshen Mishpat 2, 77). Recent world events only authenticate these points, and in light of the anti-Jewish animus sadly found in every corner of the globe, the raison-d’etre of the Jewish State is more evident than ever. The Midrash tells us that for Rivka Imeinu the two brothers’ different predilections were apparent from the very beginning. “Vayitrotzitzu Habanim Be’kirba”. When Rivka passed near a pagan temple Eisav would try to wriggle out, and when she passed a place of Torah Yaakov would impatiently try to exit the womb. She quickly learned that her twins would strive with one another for the

inheritance of two worlds. “Two nations are in your womb and two kingdoms will separate from within you”.

As Yitzchak prepares to pass on the Divine blessing to the next generation, his impaired vision sets the scene for the well-known charade that will soon come to pass. This dichotomous picture, which was clear in Rivka’s mind, was not shared by her husband Yitzchak: “And it came to pass, that when Isaac was old, and his eyes were dim, so that he could not see, he called Eisav his elder son, and said unto him… Behold now, I have grown old; I do not know the day of my death…”, (Bereishit 27:1-2). As Yitzchak prepares to pass on the Divine blessing to the next generation, his impaired vision sets the scene for the well-known charade that will soon come to pass. What caused the ‘dimness’of the Yitzchak’s eyes? Was it simply old age? Rashi, on this pasuk, quotes the Midrash which claims that when Avraham tied Yitzchak upon the altar to offer him as a sacrifice to G-d, the angels on high shed tears! These tears fell into Yitzchak’s eyes and caused them to become dimmed. This viewpoint suggests that Yitzchak’s early history, his Mesirus Nefesh, critically affected his behaviour towards the end of his life. It was the Zechus of the Akeida that indirectly insured that

he made the right choice steering the blessing towards Yaakov. A second view brought by Rashi explains that Yaakov’s eyes were adversely affected by the smoke which was constantly wafting through the air in Yitzchak’s home, rising up from the idolatrous offerings Eisav’s wives’ regularly brought to Avodah Zara. This second suggestion assumes a simple and powerful fact of life: No one is an island. - The people – and society surrounding us have a crucial effect on our daily lives. This understanding, that everyone (Even Yitzchak Avinu) is greatly affected by the goings on around them, is one of the reasons Chazal always emphasized the importance of living in Eretz Yisrael. The reality is that we are continuously wrestling with both the Arab and Christian world for domination over the Holy Land. As Chazal tell us when one rises the other falls. On a broader level, we are sparring with them on a moralspiritual and theological plane as well. For our world view to prevail we need to be able to see clear and far. We cannot bear to have our eyesight dimmed by the ‘smoke’ rising from our surroundings. We must distance ourselves from the foreign influences which affect a minority living within a Gentile society and come home to OUR Land where we set the cultural and spiritual tone. It is within our power to make Jerusalem rise and never fall - by rising to the occasion and making Aliya! OU ISRAEL CENTER