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Cover Story

Ask the Expert Your Teeth

Reliance Investment Properties, LLC.

Healthy Teeth, Healthy Heart?

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Feature Story

Handmade for the Holidays

Mr & Mrs Michael Ellington – Mr & Mrs Santa Claus I BELIEVE

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Daily Devotion

Community Character

A Resolution for Life

At the YMCA

Ask the Expert Your Health

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Citizen Journalism

Friendly Faces

Nature's Nuances

Citizen Journalism

Impractically Perfect

Paige Albertson

An unforget Table christmas

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Recognizing Stroke Can Save a Life – FAST

Bringing Nature to Our Home for the Holidays

Simplifying Christmas

| PUBLISHER'S LETTER

ASHEBORO & MORE MARKETING, INC.

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t seems that this time of year has become less about what it should be, spending time with family & friends, and more about rushing about trying to get all the last-minute details tied up. Even as I write this, I am running late to get on the road for a trip to Nashville

where I am meeting with a potential publisher for a new magazine there. Luckily for me, the potential publisher is my sister Sally who I haven’t seen in a couple of

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ASSOCIATE EDITOR Melody McBride

years. This will be a text-book case of combining business with pleasure. While

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I am excited to see her again, I am thinking about all the things I will be leaving

STAFF PHOTOGRAPHER Seth Cheek

undone. Instead of worrying about what I am not able to do, I need to take a page out of John Lennon’s book when he said “Life is what happens to you while you’re

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busy making other plans.”

My point is simple, slow down. Enjoy the here and the now. Take in every moment and relish in this time that will too quickly pass. As a good friend of mine so eloquently puts it “be present.” On the other side of the coin, do sweat the small things. More often than not, people aren’t going to realize you forgot to do this or that, but they will remember the extra time and attention that you give them. On the plus side, a slower pace during these frenetic times benefits you in so many ways, the least of which is less stress.

In this, our 13th, issue of Archdale & Trinity Magazine, we’ve compiled some great holiday stories. One of my favorites is “An Unforgettable Christmas” on page 25. If your eyes are dry after reading it, you are emotionally stronger than I am. Then there is the story about North Carolina’s own Santa and Mrs. Claus, the Ellingtons on page 12. We’ve added some locally-made last-minute gift ideas and an article titled Simplify Christmas. My hope is that you will find this issue of the magazine enjoyable and a compliment to your holiday traditions.

Thanks for reading. I have to get on the road and rush, rush, rush to Nashville.

I have decided that, once there, I am going to slow down and really savor the time I spend with my sister and nephew.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

Dave

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Undoubtedly you’ve seen the signs on the side of the road – We Buy Houses. Unless you have a home that you want or need to sell, you probably drive right by these signs without giving them a second thought. I am the curious type, and I have always wondered about the signs, the business behind them and the people that run the business. With more and more of these signs popping up here in the Archdale & Trinity area, I figured business must be booming so I called the number and the phone was answered

by Chuck McConkey of Reliance Investment Properties, LLC.

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huck is a local resident. He grew up in High Point and graduated from T W Andrews High School. He majored in Business at North Carolina State University and spent most of his career in the Insurance industry.

After 9/11 the insurance industry changed dramatically and many of the things Chuck enjoyed about his job disappeared. He decided it was time for a career change.

He reflected back to the 80s when he had experimented with rehabbing and reselling homes. He remembered the enjoyment and pride that went into remodelling the home and later selling it for a profit. So in 2010, after being encouraged by a friend in Greensboro and attending a seminar on real estate investing, Chuck started Reliance Investment Properties, LLC with the help of his mentor, Jim Williams. Nine months after attending the seminar in Greensboro and studying intensively to learn as much as he could about the real estate industry and market, he bought his first investment property as the proprietor of Reliance Investment Properties.

So why would someone sell their home through Reliance Investment Properties? According to Chuck there are a myriad of reasons, but perhaps the most common is the homeowner’s inability to sell their home through traditional methods. It is no secret that this economy has created

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hardships for many people. Layoffs, divorce, a death in the family and any number of other factors have contributed to the need for people to sell their home. Some of the more prevalent reasons that people utilize Reliance Investment Properties to sell their home includes the homeowner’s need to relocate for work, being behind on their mortgage payments, the home needing extensive and expensive repairs, liens on the home and foreclosure. We have even purchased property from landlords who no longer want to be in the house rental business.“At the end of the day, we are able to provide the seller with relief from the uncertainty of when their house will sell and for what price” says Chuck.

Chuck says, "We specialize in finding creative solutions to real estate problems that others won't touch. We can pay all cash; take over your payments or lease-purchase your house. We handle all of the paperwork, make all the arrangements and close within a few days, if necessary. Most folks we talk to have the impression that selling a home in this market is a long and tedious process but it really doesn’t have to be at all. I believed that also until I studied the business and realized that there are a lot alternative methods to buy and sell property today. With us you'll get a quick sale with no hassles, so you can put your house worries behind you.”

There are a lot of preconceived notions about this type of house buying company, and Chuck works very hard to dispel them. Below are a few of the common concerns that people have and Chuck’s answer to each.

They are going to make me a lowball offer There are many factors that go into pricing a home. Some of these include market conditions, comparable housing prices (comps), holding costs, the condition of the home and the area in which the home is located. Chuck spends a great deal of time explaining the pricing process and coming up with a price that is fair and equitable to all concerned. In many cases, Reliance Investment Properties usually pays

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you close to what you would receive if you went through the traditional home-selling process, without having to wait for the right buyer to come along. “We work with sellers who need to sell or want to sell, but do not want to wait six to eight months to market, repair and renovate their home, pay real estate commissions, or wait for an approved buyer.”

I have no equity in my home, they wouldn’t be interested Because Reliance Investment Properties is part of a large network of real estate investment firms (Triad Mastermind Group), Chuck has options available to him that many real estate agents aren’t familiar with. This gives him the ability to purchase your home regardless of whether you have equity in it or not. “We require no fees or commissions and you are under no obligation. If you are not fully satisfied with the terms of our Agreement, we will not do business together and will part as friends”, Chuck says.

They probably don’t buy houses in my price range Reliance Investment Properties can handle the purchase of any home, in any price range.

Reliance Investment Properties doesn’t just purchase homes from people who need to relocate. If you need to sell your home because you have fallen behind in your mortgage payments or you are just looking for someone to take over the payments, Reliance Investment Properties might be an option. “Sometimes we can help, and sometimes we can’t. Each situation is unique and treated accordingly,” says Chuck.

If you are interested in having Reliance Investment Properties purchase your home, contact Chuck via phone (336) 802-1195 or visit the website at www.reliancehomes. net. He will call you to discuss your situation, go through all the options available to you, and make sure you understand the process completely. He then schedules an appointment to meet with you, tour the property and discuss your options.

If both parties are in agreement about moving forward, he will get back to you with up to three formal offers for your

home. The reason for the different offers is there are several ways to go, depending on what you are trying to accomplish.

1. All Cash – straight purchase 2. Some offers involve some seller financing 3. Taking over the mortgage payments Chuck often shows homeowners options they may not have considered. He doesn’t offer any legal advice, but he is very knowledgeable, and works with each homeowner to find the best solution in every case. “The beauty of working with us is we let the seller set the “closing date”; not us. That provides the seller with the peace of mind that their house is sold, will close on a date they choose and is not contingent on appraisals, inspections or bank approvals.” Our average time frame from our offer acceptance by the seller to closing with the attorney is 2-3 weeks and we have closed house purchases in as few as 6 business days.

After Chuck purchases a home, he immediately makes any necessary renovations. This requires that he stay on top of current trends involving home remodelling, so any renovations he makes increase the purchasing appeal of the property. Things as small as door knobs are considered because, according to Chuck, first impressions can take in even the smallest of details and buyers prefer the modern “updates”; such as the current trend of brushed nickel fixtures over brass. Once the home is in tip top shape, they thoroughly clean it and put it back on the market for rent or for sale. The neighbors are usually thrilled, too, because the improvements to the property increases their home value which then benefits the surrounding neighborhood as well.

By working with Reliance Investment Properties, you avoid the hassles trying to sell your house yourself. You can avoid the uncertainty of listing a house with a realtor and not knowing when, or if, it will sell. It doesn't matter if your house is in perfect shape, needs repairs, is vacant, or neglected. Of the houses he buys, Chuck converts about one out of three into a rental/lease option property.

“Many people also are not aware that real estate investors are involved with a large percentage of the housing purchases taking place today in North Carolina. We work very hard at staying current with recent state and federal legislation governing real estate investing and attend training every month to stay abreast of the latest trends” Chuck says The other side of Reliance Investment Properties business is financing homes for buyers. When they have a home that they have purchased and fixed up, they have an email list of buyers waiting for the chance to own their own home. A lot of homeowners have something on their credit that might prevent them from owning a home. The benefit of working with Chuck is he can offer someone a way to live in the home while they work out the financing in a rent-to-

own situation while repairing their credit. To get on their email list, visit their other website exclusively for buyers at www.relianceinvestmentproperties.com and add your name and information.

Chuck loves what he does because his services offer real value to his customers, evidenced by the many testimonials of those he has helped. He gets to work from home with his wife Keely, who handles the back office details including the analysis of the properties, bookkeeping and most other administrative duties. Together, they make an excellent team. As if that weren’t enough, his business affords him the opportunity to spend more time with his three sons Myles, Aidan and the newest addition to the family, Liam who is 3 years old. His older sons have the benefit of getting to learn the business earlier in life and the positive impact it can have on their future. For recreation, the family enjoys boating at Badin and High Rock lakes, fishing, riding their four-wheelers and hunting.

Reliance Investment Properties is not a large foreign company buying up properties to make a fast buck. This is a local company owned by local people, helping local families and employing local contractors along with their employees.

They provide a service to the community which makes them feel good, and at the end of the day, that’s what it’s all about. . The key thing to remember when buying or selling a home is that there are many options and talking with Chuck at Reliance Investment Properties is a great place to start. 

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| ASK THE EXPERT-YOUR TEETH

Healthy Teeth, Healthy Heart?

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id you know that when follow your dentist’s of gum disease. It is also the main reason people age 35 and instructions and brush and floss, it not only older lose their teeth. Your risk increases as you get older, but keeps your teeth and gums healthy, but may staying on top of your dental health should start in childhood.

Teach your kids to brush regularly, floss every day and make

ultimately keep your heart healthy, too?

Research shows a number of links between sure to get regular dental check-ups, it can help you prevent

the state of your mouth and your heart. In fact, gum disease.

we now know that people who develop gum disease either

If you notice any of these symptoms, call us immediately —

gingivitis or periodontitis are nearly twice at risk for heart they could be early warning signs of gum disease.

Sour taste in your mouth

disease.

Can Gum Disease Give You a Heart Attack?

Persistent bad breath

“There is a very logical reason why the two may be

Bleeding gums

connected,” says Peter M. Spalding, DDS, associate professor in

Swollen, tender gums

the department of growth and development at the University

Loose teeth

of Nebraska Medical Center College of Dentistry in Lincoln.

Sensitive teeth

Some types of bacteria normally occur in your mouth, but if you are not taking care of your teeth by flossing and brushing

Pain when chewing Preventing gum disease — or treating it with deep cleanings,

to remove plaque, your risk for gum disease increases. Once medication, or surgery — may even help you prevent problems gum disease develops, you have created an environment for with your heart later on.  bacteria that does not normally grow in your mouth. Because gum disease causes them to bleed, bacteria can move into your bloodstream, setting up an inflammatory process in the blood vessels.

How is this related to your heart? This bacteria moving through your bloodstream may increase your risk for heart disease by contributing to the formation of clots or increase plaque build-up in your arteries that can interfere with blood flow to your heart. It will take long-term clinical trials to more directly identify gum disease as a cause of heart disease.

Meanwhile, researchers are also uncovering possible links between gum disease and stroke, osteoporosis, diabetes, respiratory disease, and even preterm babies.

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| FEATURE STORY

Mr & Mrs Michael Ellington – Mr & Mrs Santa Claus I BELIEVE

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By Karen York, elf

arly Christmas morning as I snuggle in bed, I awake bright eyed as I realize it's Christmas Day! I wonder what gifts Santa has brought for me. Then reality sets in and my excitement starts to fade, because I am an adult and no toys are left under the tree. Christmas Day is not the same when you are all grown up and your children are grown up too, but in your heart you still want to believe.

Christmas holds a special place in my heart, because I was born on Christmas Eve. I secretly believed I, when I was little, that I was part elf. This leads us to the story I am about to relate of two special people who wondered into my life.

Michael and Schotsi Ellington, also know as Santa Michael and Mrs..Schotsi Claus.

In a world where it's hard to find things to believe in; Santa is not out of reach. So, Yes I believe.

My friend Santa Mike's (Michael Ellington) journey began with a haircut.

Schotsi, his wife said, "Mike, I think it's time you cut off that long pony tail." Michael's quick reply was, "Fine, I could do that but I am going to grow a beard instead." Schotsi responded, "That will work, I like beards."

What they did not know was they were on their way to becoming a part of Santa-ology.

In 2008, as Michael's beard was growing longer, Schotsi noticed that he favored Santa.

"People were taking second glances, and children were in amazement when we were out and about shopping. Look, I think that's Santa," Schotsi described. She decided it was their calling to become the Santa and Mrs Claus.

"We can't do anything half way, it's going to be the best," Schotsi said. So, with that thought in

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mind, Schotsi and Michael went to Hancock's Fabric Store in Durham to design their wardrobe. Schotsi, I learned is an avid seamstress. Michael described ladies walking by them, looking, staring, leaving and then coming back to ask him, "Do you play Santa?" His reply, "No, I am Santa." With excitement in their voice, the lady asked, "Will you come visit our children at the church play school?"

The Ellington's were booking visits. Word of mouth began to spread there was a Santa and Mrs Claus in town, and more Christmas bookings came their way.

Restaurants like the Cutting Board, the Village of Yesteryear at the NC State Fair, Company Christmas parties, family Christmas parties, Westbook Studio, plus numerous visits to homes of special needs children and adults.

With all this attention, the Ellington's were on the fast track to becoming celebrities. Michael said, "Everywhere we go, we are famous. We are like rock stars."

Being "The Clauses" became serious business.

"There's a whole lot more to being a Santa than just putting on a red suit and having a white beard." Michael said. "Even Santa's have to go to school."

Deep in research the Ellington's found there was a need for quality Santa's.

The Ellington's signed up for a seminar at The International University of Santa Claus in California. There Michael received his Bachelor of Santa diploma - also known as a BCS degree. He was then invited into the schools alumni association, "The Red Suit Society." It is never ending for the knowledge you need to be a great Santa. Michael is also a RBS - which means a "Real Bearded Santa". His beard is all naturally grown and is naturally white, having a full beard, he is Santa all year long. I asked, "What would a Santa need to know?" Michael replied, "The history of Santa and Mrs. Claus, all the reindeer, how Santa lives at the North Pole, and the numerous questions that are asked. An important

tip was how to maintain a proper wardrobe. The ability and knowledge of how to work with children of all ages and special needs children and families. The need to know how to offer the best options for events and special visits.

Also, being sensitive and knowing how to respond to difficult requests of a particular toy or game, and requests for wanting parents to get back together." "You can't promise just anything, he says, but you can tell a child that Santa loves them and give hope."

Schotsi also attended these classes. Mrs. Claus is an important part of Santa, as she helps many children overcome their fear of Santa. I have seen her gentleness and comfort with children, as she says "Come give me a hug, it's been forever since I have seen you." She is a great

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transition to meeting Santa. She studied the options for the wardrobe and since she loves the art of stitchery, has hand made a lot of their pieces of clothing.

Schotsi said, "Our very first suit we found on eBay came from a former Rockefeller Center Santa. What a great find."

How did the Ellington's meet?

Schotsi, being from a military family, was born in Austria. Her family later moved to southern Alamance County, North Carolina, and graduated from Southern Alamance High School. Michael is s native of Alamance County.

He is a graduate of Williams High School. She is a pediatric home health care nurse. Schotsi said, "We were high school sweethearts." Michael responded, "I took her to the Senior Prom." After high school they went their separate ways to fulfill their career choices. "Time went by and eventually with modern technology of social media, I found Schotsi on My Space. We have been together ever since," Michael said.

How do I know they are the real Santa and Mrs. Claus?

Back in October of 2011, our phone rang at York's Studio of Photography, Inc. My husband, Craig York answered the phone, "York's Studio, how may I help you?"

"Schotsi said, "Craig, this is Mrs. Claus, Santa and I want to talk to you about Santa's kitchen."

Craig quickly replied, "I promise I have been good." Schotsi said, "We want to come visit you and Karen to talk about being part of your Christmas special." The funny thing was, we were wanting a Santa and Mrs. Claus to be the finishing touch to having a real magical experience with our event.

This concept was expanded to make a one hour playtime with Santa and Mrs. Claus, complete with a letter from Santa, making, decorating and baking real cookies with Mrs. Claus in her kitchen, helping paint toys with Santa in

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his workshop, hearing Santa read a special story by the fireplace, and then sharing a cookie that was made fresh out of the oven.

The finally, listening to what the children wish for Christmas, and then opening an early special present brought from the North Pole. It's truly a magical experience for the children, parents and us each time.

You never know where you are going to see the Ellington's.

Each time the response is always, "There is Santa and Mrs. Claus." I am definitely a believer, as I have experienced this in public when being with the Ellington's, and in our Santa's Workshop and Mrs. Claus Kitchen. They both live the life as Santa and Mrs. Claus and speak, wink and give out special cards that say "You've been caught being good." Adults and children alike are ecstatic with joy and wonderment.

In closing, I believe we can all enjoy our childhood, and share hope and happiness year after year. So, when you go to bed this coming Christmas Eve, after you have placed your milk and cookies by the Christmas tree, when Christmas Day arrives, before adulthood calls, take a minute and remember what is was like to be a child anticipating the magic of Christmas.

You can find the Ellington's at their web site, www. yourcarolinasanta.com. They are truly the real Santa and Mrs. Claus.] You never know where you are going to see the Ellington's. Each time the response is always, "There is Santa and Mrs. Claus." I am definitely a believer, as I have experienced this in public when being with the llington's, and in our Santa's Workshop and Mrs. Claus Kitchen. They both live the life as Santa and Mrs. Claus and speak, wink and give out special cards that say "You've been caught being good." Adults and children alike are exstatic with joy and wonderment. ď‚?

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| DAILY DEVOTION

Impractically Perfect

I Reverend Peter Baldwin Panagore of DailyDevotions.org, is a native of Massachusetts, graduated with a Masters of Divinity degree in Divinity from Yale University in New Haven, Connecticut and with a B.A. in English from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst. St. John’s High School of Shrewsbury, Massachusetts, an Xaverian Brothers sponsored school, provided him with his preparatory school education.

In 2003, he was recruited to apply for the position of Pastor of the First Radio Parish Church of America (DailyDevotions.org).

FRPCA is America’s oldest continuous religious broadcast, founded 1926, and now reaching 1.5 million listeners, viewers and readers a week on T V, radio and internet, including American Forces Radio Network.

From 1999-2006 Reverend Panagore was a staff writer at Homiletics, the leading and cutting-edge nationwide worship preparation journal for mainline clergy. Homiletics has published more than a hundred of his sermons. He has also published short stories in anthologies, most notably, Chicken Soup for the Veteran’s Soul, by New York Times Best Selling editor Jack Canfield. Two Minutes for God was released by Touchstone/Fireside an imprint of Simon & Schuster, in early December of 2007 and landed immediately on the Maine Best Seller list.

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t is said, "Perfect practice makes perfect performance." The top time to improve skills is during practice so that those skills will come with ease when needed. Is perfection possible?

I saw a church sign that read - "Imperfect People Welcome, Perfect People Need Not Apply". It caused me concern regarding discrimination against perfect people, considering their minority status. I am kidding.

No one is perfect.

That sign reminded me that the Teacher once said, "Be perfect, like God in Heaven is perfect." That is some goal. "If you want to be perfect," the Teacher said, "go and sell all you have and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow Me." That's high standard. Who among us has done that?

Since none of us is without defect, spiritual perfection may be practically impossible, but similar to the saying about perfect practice, the spiritual life is about practice, too - maybe not perfect practice, but as close as we can come.

If every thought, action, encounter and prayer goes into shaping our spiritual lives making us reflect more or less of God's light, then isn't it important for us to practice loving behavior as often as possible?

How do we practice this? By loving God above all things, and loving your neighbor as yourself. Who said it was easy?

Let's Pray: Dear God, we are flawed. We make mistakes. Open our hearts that we might learn to love You above everything, so that all we do is out of love for You. Amen.

Here's a Thought: Only God is perfect.

Sources:

Matthew 5:48: "Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect."

Mathew 5:8 "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God." Mathew 19:21 "Jesus said to him, 'If you would be perfect, go, sell what you possess and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.'"

Deuteronomy 6:5: "You shall love the Lord your God with your whole heart, with your whole soul, and with all your mind" Leviticus 9:18: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself."

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| COMMUNITY CHARACTER

by katherine Petry

PAIGE ALBERTSON You wouldn’t know it by looking at her, but Paige Albertson is a champion.

She is a champion for the most vulnerable among us—abused and neglected children. She has served as a Guardian ad Litem volunteer since 2011. Paige was in law school and working as a legal assistant in the District Attorney’s office in High Point when she learned about the Guardian ad Litem Program.

She is now the Victim/Witness Assistant in the District Attorney’s office, and she’ll graduate from NC Central Law School in May. Paige finds time in her busy schedule to advocate for the children she represents by visiting them, investigating their circumstances to be sure their needs are being met and write reports with facts and recommendations so the judge will have information needed to make decisions for the children.

She pushes the system to find safe, permanent homes for children as quickly as possible.

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Words from Paige: I was blessed with amazing parents and a wonderful childhood. But once I started working in the criminal justice system, I quickly realized that is not the case for many children. Children end up in foster care for various reasons.

My job as a Guardian ad Litem is to advocate for the child.

I believe every child deserves a safe, loving home. Being a GAL has allowed me to help insure children get that.

I had never given much thought about being a Guardian Ad Litem. In fact, I didn’t even know what a GAL was until 2010. While working for the High Point District Attorney’s Office, I met Kathie Petry who was the GAL Supervisor. I asked her how I could get involved. Soon after, I filled out the application, completed the training, and was assigned my first case.

My very first case was a little boy. He was three-monthsold when he was placed in the system after his mother suffered a drug overdose. I would visit him monthly and every three months prepare a court report. Reunification with the parents is almost always the first plan. There are a ton of programs out there trying to help people succeed. The Department of Social Services and the GAL make referrals for drug treatment, parenting classes, treatment for mental illness, and many other helpful services. We love to see a parent straighten their life out and get their children back.

Unfortunately, that doesn’t always happen. That is why it is important to have quality foster homes. After two years in the system and four different foster homes, that little boy is now being adopted. The best part of being a GAL is when you see your child get the family he deserves.

A couple of months ago, I had the opportunity through the GAL program to attend a Darkness to Light luncheon.

I was disturbed to learn one in 10 children are abused before their 18th birthday. This luncheon taught me that we have the power to prevent child abuse. As adults, it is our responsibility to protect children, but first we have to

open our eyes to what is happening around us. Yes, it is depressing and heartbreaking, and frankly it’s easier not to discuss. But if that is how it makes me feel, I can’t imagine being the child who has to live with it every day. Child abuse isn’t just something that happens elsewhere that we read about in the newspaper. These are children that your kids go to school with and play sports with. These children that need help are in our community, we shouldn’t be content to sit back and hope someone else will do something about it.

Hopefully other people who would like to help make a difference will volunteer their time to be a GAL as well. My advice to future GALs is not to be afraid to ask questions. If your instinct tells you something isn’t right, you need to dig deeper. For example, during a visit to a foster home I noticed a man I was unfamiliar with in a back bedroom. At first I was hesitant to ask who he was, fearing I would come across as nosey. But after reporting to DSS, the foster mother refused to give the man’s name so he could submit to a background check. We got the child out of that home immediately.

People get the impression you have to do big things to change the world. However, many people doing small things can change the world too.

More than 1,500 abused and neglected children in North Carolina go to court without someone to advocate just for them.

• Could you be a child's advocate in court?

• Could you speak up for their best interests?

• Could you work side by side with an attorney?

• Could you join other volunteers in the state to say "I am for the child"?

If so, becoming a Guardian ad Litem advocate could be a great opportunity for you!

To find out more about GAL, browse www.ncgal.org, find us on Facebook (NC Guardian ad Litem) or Twitter, or call 336-412-7591 to volunteer in Guilford County or 1-800-9824041 for statewide opportunities.

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| AT THE YMCA

A Resolution for Life

By Megan Clapp

It’s that time of year again… Time to think about your New Year’s resolutions. Do these resolutions sound familiar?

This New Year I plan to…

1. To lose weight 2. To get in shape 3. Eat better It is a common struggle to keep up your New Year’s resolutions throughout the year and some have a hard time even knowing where to begin. This year, why don’t you let the Randolph-Asheboro YMCA help you.

Whether you’re new to fitness, over-weight, have limited mobility, want to get more definition, or want to build muscle, the Y can help!

Step 1

– Join the Y. It all begins when you walk in the door and sign up for membership.

Make the commitment to a healthier you! With no contracts, you won’t feel pressured into a long-term financial commitment. Membership gives you free access to the indoor heated swimming pool, whirlpool, sauna, steam room, expanded fitness center, group exercise classes on land and water, basketball gymnasium, racquetball courts, Senior/Teen Center, free supervised child care, and much more You also get Member-Only priority registration and special reduced Member pricing on a variety of programs and events for all ages. Not to mention Member-Only events throughout the year! *2014 Annual Membership Campaign runs December 26, 2013 – February 14, 2014. Read on for membership specials.

Step 2 – Sign up for your free Fitness Orientation.

During this 1-hour session, a Fitness Instructor will demonstrate how to use the 12-station Cybex Circuit with personal settings to ensure proper form when using equipment. Sessions begin with a review of health history and cardiovascular warm-up.

Step 3

– Sign up for your free Wellness Connections visits. This is a series of (6) 30-minute sessions with a Fitness Instructor, once a week for six weeks, to help create a plan to

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reach your wellness goals. Members set individual wellness program focuses not on losing weight, but losing body fat. and fitness goals, while learning and implementing lifestyle There are no counting calories or limiting your calorie intake. modifications. Sessions include the following: This is a lifestyle change! This 6-week body transformation • Discuss health history, likes/dislikes, and program will be led by Wellness Director, Robin Hatch and Wellness & Fitness Staff, Karen Kiser-Kling. This program wellness goals will include the following:

• Create a wellness plan based upon member • Nutritional Information goals • Weekly workout plan

• Discussion Topics

• Weekly Weigh-Ins

• 20-minutes of supervised training each session • Body Fat Analysis • Included in membership – No extra charge to • Exercise Programs members • Nutrition Plans

Step 4 – Workout to earn your free t-shirt.

New members can earn a free YMCA Wellness t-shirt just by working out 12 times in your 1st 30 days of membership.

Each visit get your Welcome to Wellness card signed by a YMCA Fitness Center Instructor. Our fitness staff is very encouraging and knowledgeable.

Step 5 – Participate in fitness challenges throughout

the year. The Y offers fitness challenges throughout the year to track your progress and offers incentives to help you reach your goals. These challenges are designed to help keep you continuously active, engaged and motivated.

Step 6

The Randolph-Asheboro YMCA has many years of experience of helping people succeed in accomplishing their wellness goals. We want to set you up for success for life.

We’re in this together with you. Taking small steps towards a healthier you is where it all begins. This year, make a ‘Resolution for Life!’

Join the Y during our 2014 Membership Campaign (December 26, 2013 – February 14, 2014) and we’ll waive your new member joining fee! That’s a savings of $50-$100. We’ll also give you the option of a drawstring bag or a YMCA Member t-shirt, just for joining! Already a Y Member? Recruit new members to earn free stuff! There’s no better time to join the Y than during the New Year! Let the Y help you thrive in 2014!

– Register for YFit Camp. A new nutrition program offered in the New Year by the Randolph-Asheboro Listed below are some helpful tips from your Y to also help YMCA. Your nutrition has a direct effect on whether or not you with your New Year’s resolutions. you achieve your wellness goals.

This new

“New Year’s Resolutions Solution:”

• Do this for you! Setting personal goals rather than goals based on others’ perceptions will help you feel more successful.

• Have a Positive Mental Attitude! Believe you can accomplish what you set out to do!

• Assess Barriers: Know what might get in the way of you achieving your goals.

• Make sure you are doing something you like to do.

• Set one or two achievable goals that will help increase your stamina.

• Take one thing at a time to ensure that you won’t feel overwhelmed with your goals.

• Get a Work-out Buddy to help with accountability and motivation.

• Meet with a personal trainer for extra accountability and motivation.

• Always be willing to try something new, it can help you overcome a barrier.

• Reward yourself along the way to achieving your goals. 

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| ASK THE EXPERT-YOUR HEALTH

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Recognizing Stroke Can Save a Life – FAST

troke is a silent killer that occurs across all age groups, sexes and races. It doesn’t discriminate – acting fast in recognizing a stroke and seeking immediate medical attention can save a life.

Stroke is the third leading cause of death in the United States. Many people are aware of the dangers of high blood pressure, or may be able to recognize the signs of a heart attack. But most think a stroke can’t happen to them.

As a nationally-accredited stroke center, Novant Health Thomasville Medical Center knows that every minute counts when it comes to a brain attack. Recognizing the signs of stroke can help someone suffering one seek immediate treatment. A stroke occurs when blood circulation to the brain fails, caused by either blockage of a blood vessel or by bleeding into the brain. Blockage of a blood vessel in the brain or neck, called an ischemic stroke, is the most common type of stroke. Bleeding into the brain or the spaces around the brain causes the second kind of stroke, known as hemorrhagic stroke.

Call 911 immediately if you or a loved one experiences signs of a stroke, including: • Sudden numbness or weakness, especially on one side of the body; • Confusion or trouble speaking or understanding speech; • Sudden trouble seeing in one or both eyes; • Difficulty with walking, dizziness or loss of balance or coordination; • Sudden, severe headache with no known cause.

Some treatable risk factors for stroke include: High blood pressure. To lower your blood pressure, maintain proper weight, exercise regularly and reduce your salt intake.

Medications are also available. Ask your doctor about the best strategy for you.

Smoking. Cigarette smoking leads to the

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buildup of substances in the carotid artery, the main neck artery supplying blood to the brain. Blockage of this artery is the leading cause of stroke in Americans. Quitting smoking can reduce your risk of stroke, as well as lung disease, heart disease and cancer.

Heart disease. Coronary artery disease, valve defects and irregular heartbeat could result in blood clots that may break loose and block vessels leading to the brain. Talk to your doctor about whether medications or aspirin therapy might work for you.

Transient ischemic attacks (TIAs). TIAs are small strokes that last for a short time. They should never be ignored and can be treated with medication or surgery.

No one is immune to stroke. Be sure to know the warning signs and action to take – FAST. Talk to your health care provider about reducing your risk. 

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Take Note ///////

Unforgettable Christmas “My bittersweet, exceptional Christmas gift of 1971”

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The kids marveled at a tree kept in a new metal garbage formation.

Kathy always bought more than our children needed so she Since that bittersweet Christmas of 1971, I often can filled half full with water and placed in front of an air Since that bittersweet Christmas of 1971, I often reflect could give toys to the Fire Department for less fortunate reflect on the effect of Dan's loss. From the perspective of conditioner. Kathy always bought more than our children on the effect of Dan's loss. From the perspective of time families. That tradition still continues. As a family, we time passed, I realize that I was given an exceptional needed so she could give toys to the Fire Department for passed, I realize that I was given an exceptional Christmas savored the thrill of our children's wide eyes on Christmas Christmas gift. It was nothing less than: the years for my less fortunate That how tradition still continues.

As a thegift. wife It was lessold than the years for my wifetoand I and marveled the simplest toys generated morningfamilies. andnothing I to grow together; the opportunity spend family, most we savored the thrill of our children' s wide eyes on to grow old together, the opportunity to spend another 40 appreciation. It was that sweet. another 40 plus holidays with our children; the joy of Christmas Imorning marveled how to thebesimplest holidays grandchildren with our children, and the joy first of watching was not and originally supposed home ontoys that day.plus watching experience their wide eyed generated the most appreciation.

It was that sweet. grandchildren experience their first wide-eyed Christmas Lt. Dan Poyner had come to me with a request over Christmas morning. Life is precious and short, so Kathy I was not originally be ifhome on that precious and I have Thanksgiving.

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| FRIENDLY FACES

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| NATURE'S NUANCES

Bringing Nature to Our Home for the Holidays

By Faylene Whitaker of Whitaker Farms

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he cardinals are soaring from the feeders to the bare branches of the trees, the doves are eating under the feeder and the gold finches are chirping as I look out my kitchen window. No matter what season we are in Mother Nature always shows her beauty. I am always astounded by

the beautiful display she puts on, we can’t even begin to match it. The red camellia by the front door is all in bloom, the hollies have their beautiful red berries and the nandinas have all those wonderful clusters of red berries until I steal them to decorate inside the house for the holidays.

There are so many ways to bring nature inside our homes for the holidays. Rosemary on the window sill in the kitchen gives

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off a great fragrance along with some lavender and eucalyptus. A small pot of cinnamon, orange, and apple cider simmering on the stove will also smell wonderful.

Adding a bowl of lemons, oranges and some sprigs of cedar in a clear glass bowl will give you a feeling of sunshine. Most of my decorations are done with nature in mind. The mantle is done with pine and magnolia greenery along with my other decorations, the stairwell has bunches of pine, magnolia and eucalyptus tied together with red velvet ribbon, and of course around doorways are pine and cedar garland. The trees of course are evergreens from the North Carolina Mountains.

Poinsettias are beautiful plants to decorate your home with during this time of year. Never let them dry totally out or they will lose their leaves; keep the soil moist but not wet and keep out of drafts. Christmas cactus, cyclamen, and ferns are also great plants to use in live arrangements.

Add some sparkle to arrangements by adding some glittering ornaments or spikes.

Christmas is the time we also think of paperwhites and amaryllis bulbs. Remember after these

bulbs finish blooming you can dry them out and keep in a dark dry place for the next year.

Beautiful shrubs for the winter months are hollies, nandinas, camellias, soft caress mahonia, daphne odora (wonderful smell in the winter), along with all of the wonderful evergreens such as cedar deodar, grey owl junipers, blue spruce, and many other plants in the conifer family.

If you haven’t done it already, be sure to get the leaves up or mulch them so they can fall down into the grass to provide organic matter.

You can prune shrubs that won’t bloom in spring but be sure not to prune spring blooming shrubs now or you will be cutting off their spring blooms.

You still have time to plant your tulips and daffodils for next spring’s bloom.

Please be sure to keep your birdfeeders full and fresh water available for the birds. Remember if we get snow and ice the birds will not be able to find insects. Be sure that you don’t forget your other pets this winter. Keep them warm and safe.

Today the sky is cloudy and grey but I have been blessed with great health, a large family that surrounds me with love, a God who protects me and loves me even when I am not in the best of moods. There is always beauty around us if we only take the time to look. We can see it in the sky and sun, the smile on a child’s face, the hands of those who looked after us and the faces of those we love. May the Holidays bring you in touch with nature and with all those you love and who love you. I wish you all a very happy holiday season! 

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| CITIZEN JOURNALISM

Simplifying Simplifying Christmas Christmas

ByBy: Rebecca Flansburg Rebecca Flansburg

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very year it seems there are more and more things demanding our attention during the holidays. Run here, run there, run, run everywhere. Our To Do list becomes so big it threatens to need its own zip code. Wouldn’t it be great to be able to return to the time when Christmas was more about family and creating memories rather who can score more gifts? Are you dreaming of a simple Christmas?

Here’s why less is more and how you can get there.

1 Choose a live tree this year and keep decorating simple.

Rather than placing tons of ornaments and tinsel on the tree, place a simple strand of lights and a few ornaments that really mean something to your family. Some of our favorite ornaments are ones made by kids in school.

Precious memories always make for great tree décor.

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Suggest that everyone make gifts for family members instead of partaking in retail spending until your wallet groans. If you feel you must buy gifts, choose one large gift that can be for the entire family. The rest of the gifts could be ones you can make and give.

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Heirlooms, keepsakes and memories make great gifts too.

Gather favorite family recipes throughout the months leading to Christmas. Take those recipes and create a family cookbook. Include family photos or stories and you’ll have an awesome gift which will mean so much to those who receive it. It doesn’t have to beep, honk or need batteries to be a meaningful gift.

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Lastly, talk to your children about Christmas. Explain what it originally meant and what it means to you. If your family doesn’t celebrate Christmas, or celebrates in a different way, take time to explain how different families and cultures each have their own traditions.

A simple Christmas is within your grasp if you seek out ways to be peaceful and avoid the stress of the holiday. So how will you celebrate this year?

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