Asian Avenue magazine - February 2017

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February 2017 Volume 13 Issue 2

valentine’s day Love it or dread it?

REMEMBERING Colorado’s beloved

hing ryder What is a chinese wedding tea ceremony?

Visit the temples of myanmar Restaurant peek

Volcano Asian Cuisine

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Dear Asian Avenue readers,

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Happy Year of the Rooster! This year’s Chinese New year has already started on 28 January and will last all the way till 11 February. On January 21, the magazine held our annual Chinese New Year dinner in advance and the event was a major success! We thank each and every one of our supporters for joining in the celebration. For those who missed the event this year, we hope to be able to see you next year!

February is also the month of love and romance with Valentine’s Day falling on 14 February. For our cover story, our editorial manager Samantha Quee shares the unique customs carried out in 5 different Asian countries and how some youngsters in China resort to “renting a boyfriend” websites to showcase the façade of being attached due to social pressures in their community. You can also know your primary love language, as well as special lodging destinations to bring your loved one this V-day.

For those who are still happily single, fret not! Our staff writer Tom Shieh shares an encouraging piece on finding gratitude in the single life and how everyone should be grateful no matter what relationship status we are in.

Last but definitely not the least, we also featured Volcano Asian Cuisines for our Restaurant Peek column this month. This famous restaurant serves Chinese fare to Denver’s Broncos team every Thursday of the week during the football season and has recently moved to a new location at Greenwood village. Go try their newly added Jiangzhe and Canto dishes, all handmade by chefs from Guangzhou and Shanghai!

We hope that everyone will have a wonder V-day celebration! Keep yourself warm during this winter season and drive safe!

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February 2017 | Publisher’s Note

asian avenue staff & support Publisher & Founder: Christina Yutai Guo President: Annie Guo Editorial Manager: Samantha Quee Copy Editor: Jaime Marston Cook Senior Designer: C.G. Yao Marketing Coordinator: Chun Guo Staff Writer: Joie Ha Staff Writer: Patricia Kaowthumrong Staff Writer: Mary Jeneverre Schultz

contributing writers Wayne Chan, Jim Ryder, Tom Shieh, Gang Xu

on the cover Valentine’s Day is celebrated all around the world.

Also known as Singles Awareness Day, in countries like China, this day may add extra pressure for singles in their 30s. Parents gather at parks to advertise messages for their children to find a match. Is this the new arranged marriage approach?

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CONTENTS EVENTS

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Event calendar

SPOTLIGHT

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In memory of of community leader, friend and wife: Hing Ryder

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February 2017

On scene

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Asian Avenue celebrates Year of the Rooster

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The beauty of Chinese calligraphy is shared in Denver

BOOK REVIEWS

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Human Acts by Han Kang My Third Parents: Orphanage to an American Dream by Fernando Kuehnel

CULTURAL TIDBITS

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The tradition of the Chinese Wedding Tea Ceremony

According to a Chinese folk story of Zhinu and Niulang, the two lovers were allowed to meet once a year on Valentine’s Day. Get ready for February, the month of love.

COVER STORY

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VALENTINE’s DAY IS

CELEBRATED THROUGHOUT

ASIA with various traditions

HUMOR COLUMN

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Roses are red... and they better be

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Interview with Peter Trinh, actor in Chinglish play

Things to do in Cebu, Philippines and why the city is known for Christianity and lechon (pork dish)

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Staff writer Joie Ha visits the temples of Myanmar

BETTER LIVING

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ARTS

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TRAVEL

Finding gratitude in the single life by Tom Shieh

RESTAURANT PEEK

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Volcano Asian Cuisine opens in new location with more Chinese traditional dishes

CHEF’S MENU

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Enjoy Japanese cheesecake this Valentine’s Day

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events upcoming Korean Embroidery: A Master of Tradition Now - February 18

Global Village Museum 200 W. Mountain Ave. Fort Collins, CO Cost: Free For more info, visit globalvillagemuseum.org.

“Korean Embroidery - A Master of Tradition” debuts at the Global Village Museum of Arts and Cultures. On display will be the elaborate artwork and handicraft of Jungji Doh, who was recently bestowed the title of “Master in Korean Traditional Embroidery” by the Korean Ministry of Culture, Sports, and Tourism.

The designation is one of the highest honors an embroidery artist in Korea can achieve. Doh has exhibited her intricate stitching in Korea, China, and Japan. This is her first exhibition in America.

Year of the Rooster with OCA Saturday, February 4, 5pm

The Empress Seafood Restaurant 2825 W Alameda Ave., Denver, CO 80219 Cost: $38 per person or $380 for a table (10 Seats) Corporate Sponsor (10 Seats): $600 For more info, call Benny Cheng at 303.888.0777 or Johnny Poon at 303.856.6981

Denver Jewish Film Festival February 8-20

350 S. Dahlia St., Denver 80246 For more info, visit maccjcc.org/film-festival

32 Jewish films will be showcased in this film festival.

In particular, Persona Non Grata tells the story of Japanese diplomat Chiune Sugihara who issued more than 2,000 visas to Jewish refugees in Lithuania so that they could travel to Japanese territory, risking his career and his family’s lives. His actions saved the lives of over 6,000 people during the Holocaust. Sugihara was caught between the unbending policies of Japan and his awakening moral responsibilities.

Ikebana is a Japanese expression signifying the respect and appreciation towards nature. Japanese observe life through the arrangement of plants.

During each class, participants receive hands-on instruction to put together an arrangement to take home. The class is conducted by Akiko Buckmaster & assistant Lois Krause. Akiko Buckmaster, born in Japan, is a master teacher at Ohara Ikebana School.

She has been teaching Ikebana in the Denver area for forty years.

Denver Sister Cities International Chinese New Year Dinner

America. The latest work by Kodo’s renowned Artistic Director Tamasaburo Bando offers a bold new exploration of Japanese drumming traditions.

Kodo explores the limitless possibilities of the traditional Japanese drum, the taiko, while forging new directions for a vibrant, living art form. Kodo has given over 5,600 performances in 47 countries on five continents, creating mesmerizing, riveting and spiritual experience enjoyed by millions.

Day of Remembrance 2017

Sunday, February 19, 1pm to 3pm History Colorado Center 200 Broadway, Denver, CO 80203 Cost: Free For more info, email dor@milehighjacl.org

Sunday, February 12, 4:30pm to 8:30pm The Empress Seafood Restaurant 2825 W Alameda Ave., Denver, CO 80219 For more info, visit www.denversistercities.org

The Shaolin Hung Mei Kung Fu lion dance troupe will kick-off Denver Kunming’s Celebration of the Year of the Rooster. Highlights will include: a silent auction with enticing items, contemporary and traditional music by Yueling and Ming Li, and of course a delicious 10 course banquet including dim sum, seafood, and black pepper filet mignon. Come join the fun!

Colorado Asian Club, Celebrating Chinese New Year by Jiangxi Performing Arts Troupe

Day of Remembrance 2017 commemorates the 75th anniversary of the signing of Executive Order 9066 that enabled the wartime incarceration of 120,000 people of Japanese ancestry in 10 “internment camps” across the country. The program will be a discussion of the post-war resettlement of incarcerated Japanese Americans in Colorado.

Asian Pacific Islander Community Health Forum Tuesday, February 21, 10am to 3pm

Asian Pacific Development Center 1537 Alton Street, Aurora, CO 80010 Cost: Free RSVP at www.facebook.com/asianhealthco

Sunday, February 12, 6:30 to 8:30pm Temple Buell Theatre 1350 Curtis Street, Denver, CO 80202 Cost: $15-$50 Purchase at: www.eventbrite.com

The performing arts troupe from Jiangxi province, homeland of Chinese Acrobats, will present traditional Chinese dance and acrobatics to celebrate 2017 Chinese New Year. The performance has won quite a few international acclaim and Denver is delighted to invite the group to perform in Denver.

The Asian Health Alliance of Colorado is organizing the second Asian Pacific Islander Community Health Forum on February 21.

Yo-Yo Ma Performance

Wednesday, February 22, 7:30pm Macky Auditorium, 17th & University Ave, Boulder, CO 80309 Cost: $60 and up Purchase at: www.cupresents.org/events/yo-yo-ma The world’s greatest living cellist gives a once-ina-lifetime solo recital on the Artist Series. From his partnership with the Silk Road Ensemble to his cross-disciplinary collaborations, Yo-Yo Ma is the only musician who can travel seamlessly between genres and cultures.

Kodo

February 14-15, 7:30pm

Invitation to Ikebana: Traditional Saturday, February 11, 2-3pm

TNewman Center, 2344 E Iliff Ave, Denver, CO 80210 Cost: $23-$78 Purchase at: www.newmancenterpresents.com/ kodo14

Denver Botanic Garden 1007 York St, Denver, CO 80206 Cost: $44 (public), $39 (members) $15 materials fee included

Kodo is the most well-known and respected taiko group worldwide. Kodo celebrates its 35th anniversary by bringing DADAN 2017 to North Upcoming Events| asian avenue magazine

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e r i b ng m e H m

By Jim Ryder

Tsui-Kwai Hing burst

into the world on September 7, 1962 in Kowloon, Hong Kong.

Her mother Tsui-Moon was in her mid-40s at the time and thought that after five children, they were finished.

Hing attended a Catholic girls’ school where she was a fidgety student, daydreaming about her future. Her love of music defined her at a very young age.

Little Hing always wanted to see her favorite operas and movies again, like The Sound of Music, which she saw 11 times.

Hing loved the water and was physically strong, so she joined a swimming club and worked as a lifeguard. She excelled at competitive ocean swimming and participated in many long-distance, island-to-island events.

To Hing’s dismay, her mother insisted that she quit swimming because her shoulders were becoming too broad to be feminine and her tanned skin would put

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off any potential male suitors.

Her mother was concerned that Hing’s fiery temper and sense of independence would keep her from ever finding a husband.

Hing responded by practicing her music, joined a singing club and formed a rock band. Her real love was for the grace and beauty of Cantonese Opera. A combination of Chinese history, myth, culture and philosophy are expressed through music, acting, and exquisite costumes.

She loved the stories that extol virtues like love, loyalty, courage, and patriotism. The opera still seemed completely out of Hing’s reach due to the expense of the training, and the extraordinary dedication and talent it took.

After high school, Hing went on to business school to sharpen her professional skills and increase her language proficiency.

In addition to her native Cantonese she became proficient in Mandarin and English.

The last unwed child in her family, Hing still lived at home at the age of 30. Her family thought of her as temperamental and willful and she continued to resist all attempts at matchmaking by her traditionally-minded mother.

Working as the assistant to the Managing Director of Concord Resources International in Hong Kong, Hing was asked to fly to Beijing and help guide a group from Denver on a threeweek trip across China to meet business leaders and tour factories. She eagerly accepted the assignment.

Soon Hing began to find one member of the group especially frustrating. Jim drank too much and laughed too loudly. At the end of the first week in Huazhou, one of the most beautiful and romantic places in China, one of Jim’s friends convinced him to ask Hing to dance. Two weeks later, he proposed. She thought

he was crazy but agreed to maybe visit him in the US. When they returned to Hong Kong at the end of the trip, Jim insisted that she tell her mom of his intentions and ask her about visiting the US. He accompanied her home and carried her luggage up to her flat. Hing spoke to her mom at length in Cantonese, her mom nodded genially at Jim and then went back to watching TV. As they left he asked, “What did you tell her about me? What did she say?

Can you visit me?” At last she admitted that she told her mom that he was the guy who carried her luggage.

Hing arrived in Denver two months later, in December 1992. Cold and lonely, Hing struggled with Denver’s Chinese food, a lack of independence, and no real sense of belonging.

Within a month Jim had to start traveling to London for a week or two at a time. Hing stayed home alone watching TV and wondering about the wisdom of her move. They fought, but she toughed it out. Then one day Jim told her they were moving to London.

She was ecstatic as London is a much more cosmopolitan city like Hong Kong. She thrived there, and

her talent was quickly recognized by a well-known opera star who asked Hing to be her apprentice. She was soon in great demand, and began singing Cantonese Opera professionally.

Then one day a little more than a year later, Concord went bankrupt.

When Jim told her they were moving back to Denver, she was very unhappy.

Back in Littleton, Hing got her Green Card, learned the public bus system and found her first job at a gift shop.

Jim eventually taught her to drive and she got her own car.

She went through a series of jobs trying to find the right fit and quickly found a Cantonese community in Colorado. Jim and Hing joined Sister Cities International, the Organization of Chinese Americans, and the Colorado Dragonboat Festival. There, she served as drummer for Dragonboat teams from 2001-2014. She also managed the performing arts stage from 2006-2010.

Inspired, Jim began to embrace his Celtic roots and became involved with the Colorado Irish Festival and Edgewater Celtic Harvest Festival. Hing discovered that bartending at the Irish Festival was just about the most fun she could ever imagine.

In Hong Kong she was known as Kate, at work she preferred Kwai, and among friends and family she was Hing. At the Irish Festival, she became Shannon O’Brien in honor of Jim’s great-grandmother. Hing’s effervescent personality, fake Irish accent and singing abilities made her a star attraction at the pub. She ran the show.

Hing organized community service organizations throughout the Denver area. She made many friends through her hard work, talent and selfless devotion to making the community a better place. She loved Hong Kong and America equally and did everything she could to help bridge the cultures.

During the last six years of her life, the Rocky Mountain Poison and Drug Center became Hing’s home. There, she found great friends.

While she suffered from anger, anxiety, and the agony of her treatments in her last year of life, Kwai Hing Ryder faced every challenge with courage, tenacity and a smile.

We are all better people for having known her. Jim has said that her courage will always inspire him - and so it should inspire us as well. She will be deeply missed.

Hing performs Cantonese opera

2014 OCA New Year Dinner

Dedication of Denver Kunming Sister Cities Peacock Statue at Denver Zoo with Mayor Hickenlooper

Kunming Takayama Denver Sister Cities Dragonboat Team in 2000

Hing with her husband Jim Ryder

2006 Denver Sister Cities International Friendship Dinner Hing Ryder| asian avenue magazine

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r te s o o R e th f o r a e Y s Asian Avenue celebrate

Ben Nguyen performs a hip-hop and contemporary dance.

Joanne Davidson receives the painting of a rooster by artist Master Hu.

Annie Guo, State Representative Paul Rosenthal and Christina Yutai Guo

Children receive a lucky red envelopes.

By Samantha Quee

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Asian Avenue magazine hosted over 160 community members on Saturday, Jan. 21 at their annual Lunar New Year dinner held at Empress Seafood Restaurant.

The event featured a 10-course feast, a lion dance performance by Colorado Asian Cultural Heritage Center Dragon and Lion Dance Association, calligraphy presentation by artists Master Hu Li Kun and Master Huang Qi Wu, and lastly a silent auction.

Trained by world famous Great Grand master Robin Chan Siew Kee from Singapore, Grand Master Siow Phieng and Master Albert Fong Kong Yip from Malaysia and Master Phong Vo from Colorado, the lion dance performance wowed the audience with their splendid performance.

As part of the tradition, the audiences also fed the lion “lucky money” in red paper envelopes or “laycee”, to signify good wealth and prosperity for the coming year.

After the lively dance performance, Asian Avenue magazine President Annie Guo shared the publications mission and vision and also accepted the legislative commendation presented

by State Rep. Paul Rosenthal. The commendation was signed by the speaker of the Colorado House, Crisanta Duran. State Rep. Rosen-

thal was also invited to say a few congratulatory words.

“I enjoy celebrating our diverse people and cultures. This lunar new year dinner is one of the many cultural events that I support. It is especially important to celebrate cultural and global diversity in today’s working and educational environment and I thank Christina Guo and the team in putting this event together,” said State Rep. Rosenthal.

During the dinner, Master Huang gave a live presentation writing Chinese calligraphy of Chinese couplets, which were handed out to the audiences. He wrote Chinese characters such as “chun”, which represents the spring festival and also “fu”, which signifies luck and prosperity.

Master Hu presented a painting featuring a rooster to Joanne Davidson, former journalist for The Denver Post. The rooster signifies the zodiac representing Chinese new year 2017.

Ben Nguyen played the keyboard during the dinner and also performed a contemporary hiphop dance.

The dinner is an annual fundraising event for Asian Avenue magazine, Colorado Asian Culture and Education Network (CACEN) and Rocky Mountain Chinese Weekly.

Constellation of Calligraphy Works: Fresh and Fragrant Chinese Ink and Characters

The inaugural Denver International Chinese Calligraphy Exhibition was held at Aurora Public Library from January 21 to 28.

By Mr. Gang Xu Co-Director of Confucius Institute Community College of Denver

The beauty of Chinese characters was shown at the inaugural Denver International Chinese Calligraphy Exhibition held at Aurora Public Library from January 21-28, 2017.

The United States of America is a great country full of diversity. With the motivation of enriching the local cultures and celebrating the traditional Chinese Spring Festival, Confucius Institute of Community College of Denver, Rocky Mountain Chinese Calligraphy Association, Chinese American Post, Aurora Public Library hosted the calligraphy exhibition.

More than 90 calligraphy works were collected from about 20 countries around the world. The visitors appreciated the variety of excellent Chinese calligraphy works.

To help facilitate and understanding the calligraphy art which is one of the highlights of Chinese culture, the following aspects were recommended to help visitors appreciate the art: Firstly, Chinese characters and calligraphy are unique and distinctive cultural genetics in the world. Steeped in history, Chinese characters originated around five thousand years ago. The earliest and embryonic forms were pictographs. Therefore, every component of each character is significantly expressed. With the lapse of time, a lot of changes have happened to the strokes and components of Chinese characters.

Secondly, with the evolution and development of history, five basic writing styles of Chinese calligraphy have been formulated. Sequentially, they are seal script, clerical script, regular script, semi-cursive, and running style.

At the same time, every Chinese character and calligraphy works are accomplished by using Chinese brush, ink, special paper, ink slab, which are called “Four Treasures of Study.”

From the perspectives of aesthetics, each dot and stroke, the structure of the characters, and overall composition of the calligraphy work are full of variations, which are the elements of beauty and attraction to the appreciators.

Meanwhile, they demonstrate the calligraphers’ own personal brushwork technique, temperament and pursuit. Furthermore, the flying, flowing, vivid, artistic and dynamic lines of the brushwork have also recorded and reflected the organic connection and civilization of Chinese history, literary art and philosophy.

This exhibition became a golden opportunity, wholesome platform and friendly bridge of mutual learning, cultural exchanges and inclusiveness among various countries around the world.

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Reviewed by Mary Jeneverre Schultz Stories of war bring terror, heartbreak, but also tales of perseverance that inspire awe. Human Acts is one of those stories of survival, told from the perspective of someone who died, as well as from the perspective of family survivors.

Scheduled for release in mid-January 2017, Human Acts is a “rare and astonishing” portrait of political unrest and the universal struggle for justice. It will be published in more than 10 countries.

In The New York Times Book Review, Porochista Khakpour describes the book as ferocious. She says, “[Han Kang] has been rightfully celebrated as a visionary in South Korea. Han’s glorious treatments of agency, personal choice, submission, and subversion find form in the parable. There is something about short literary forms---this novel is under 200 pages---in which the allegorical and the violent gain special potency from their small packages.”

Human Acts, published in the UK earlier this year, was a London Evening Standard bestseller and has received rave reviews in The Guardian, The Independent, and The Sunday Times.

Han works as a professor in the department of Creative Writing at the Seoul Institute of the Arts. She was a participant in the International Writing program at the University of Iowa and has also won the Yi Sang Literary Prize, the Today’s Young Artist Award, the Korean Literature Novel Award and the Manhae Literary Prize.

Nonfiction and fiction books are ways to learn about history, especially tragic events such as war. Partly based on true events, Human Acts revolves around a single catastrophic act in Korean history and the consequences that spiral in its aftermath. In the midst of the violent Gwangju Uprising in South Korea, a young boy named Dong-ho is killed. The story of this tragic episode unfolds in a sequence of interconnected chapters as the victims and the bereaved encounter suppression, denial, and the echoing agony of the massacre. Readers meet Dong-ho’s best friend who meets his own fateful end, an editor struggling against censorship, a prisoner and a factory worker each suffering from traumatic memories, and Dong-ho’s own grief-stricken mother. It is through their collective heartbreak and individual acts of hope that the tale of a brutalized people in search of a voice evolves.

An award-winning, controversial bestseller in Korea, Human Acts is a timeless, pointillist portrait of an historic event with reverberations still felt today. The book traces the harsh reality of oppression and the resounding, extraordinary strength of humanity.

This is Kang’s second book. Her first book, The Vegetarian, was published in South Korea nearly a decade ago. Literary critics found the debut novel baffling. This book was adapted into a Korean film that premiered at Sundance in 2010.

Kang has been publishing fiction and poetry for more than two decades. She remains relatively unknown to English-speakers.

To submit ideas for a book review, please contact Mary Jeneverre Schultz via Twitter @Jeneverre.

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Human Acts Title: Human Acts Author: Han Kang Pages: 224 ISBN: 978-1846275968 Price: $17.10 Author Han Kang

Reviewed by Mary Jeneverre Schultz

My Third Parents Title: My Third Parents: Orphanage to an American Dream Author: Fernando Kuehnel Pages: 197 ISBN: 978-1490449135 Price: $19.99 Follow Fernando Kuehnel on: Facebook at Facebook/kcharity Facebook.com/MyThirdParents Twitter.com/Fkuehnel Linkedin at Fernando-Kuehnel

Abandonment, lack of self-esteem and rejection would make any book feel like it would never have a happy ending.

Filipino author Fernando Kuehnel goes beyond expectations and overcomes the obstacle of being an abandoned orphan in the Philippines in his book, My Third Parents. After many years of staying at an orphanage in Manila, Philippines, Fernando and his two younger brothers were selected to immigrate to the United States and join a family in Green Bay, Wisconsin.

My Third Parents: Orphanage to an American Dream is the compelling story of one man’s journey to find what truly matters in life. Fernando Kuehnel went from a deprived boyhood in an orphanage, spending time on the streets of Manila searching the trash for food and scrap metal, to a new life in the United States, adopted (along with his two brothers) by an American couple.

A large portion of the book describes his life in the orphanage, with vivid early memories of abandonment and life as a street kid.

The dream of moving to the United States then begins to manifest for Fernando and his younger brothers.

Culture shock, language barriers, and lack of communication between cultures prevented Kuehnel from bonding with his first set of adoptive parents in the United States. Adjustment to an allCaucasian school was difficult as the Kuehnel brothers attempted to fit in and enjoy their teenage years in America.

Rejection came as a shock again when their first set of adoptive parents claimed they did not want Kuehnel and his brothers anymore after three years. The boys then moved to another home.

The feeling of rejection fueled Kuehnel to move beyond high school and aspire toward college – success and forward progress were his only options. He shared his ambition of becoming a doctor so he could show his first set of parents that he could be somebody.

This is a haunting autobiography and a story of inspiration for all who think it is hopeless to move beyond one’s current situation.

Kuehnel proved he could do it, and found a better place in life with grace and determination.

Connect with Kuehnel on Facebook through his charity. He has returned to the Philippines to help the youth in the orphanage that he once left behind.

Follow Mary Jeneverre Schultz on Instagram @Jeneverre.

Author Fernando Kuehnel

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Chinese Wedding Tea Ceremony

By Samantha Quee

Why tea?

Tea is used because it is China’s national drink and serving it is a sign of respect. Using tea is practical because not everyone can drink alcohol.

Lotus seeds and two red dates are used in the tea because they represent fertility. The ancient Chinese believed that putting these items in the tea would help the newlyweds produce children early in their marriage and often, which would ensure many grandchildren for their parents. Also, the sweetness of the special tea is a wish for sweet relations between the bride and her new family.

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There is a common Chinese saying, “Love is between two people, but marriage is between two families.” Indeed, for the Chinese community, there are many customs and traditions observed during wedding ceremonies intended to honor the family members of the bride and groom. The tea ceremony is one example very distinct to the Chinese, and still commonly practiced by Chinese couples all around the world.

Serving the Tea The Bride On the wedding day, the bride serves tea (holding the teacup with both hands) to her parents at home before the groom arrives. She does this out of respect and to thank her parents for raising her. She pours and serves the tea by herself without the groom.

The Newlyweds After the wedding ceremony, the newlyweds serve tea (holding the teacups with both hands), inviting the groom’s elders to drink tea by addressing them by formal title, e.g. first uncle or third aunt.

The general rule is to have the woman on the left side and the man on the right side. The people being served will sit in chairs, while the bride and groom kneel.

The newlyweds serve tea in order, starting with the groom’s parents then proceeding from the oldest family members to the youngest.

In return, the newlyweds receive lucky red envelopes (“lai see,” which means “lucky”) stuffed with money or jewelry. The helpers, who are usually women blessed with a happy marriage or wealth and chosen by the fortune teller or bride’s mother, also get lucky red envelopes with money from those being served. These envelopes are placed on the platter which holds the teacups.

Photos: Samantha and her husband, Moses serve tea to her parents-in-law at her tea ceremony last November in Singapore.

Valentine’s Day: T he Festival of Love February is here, and that means Valentine’s Day is arriving soon. With the festival of love just around the corner, stores are flooded with candy hearts, chocolates and stuffed animals.

Here in the United States, shelves brimming with teddy bears, balloons and sweet treats are typical Valentine’s Day fare, but not every country turns to these items to declare love. One nation even holds a special holiday for the loveless to mourn their single lives over black noodles.

Here is a look at how five Asian countries celebrate Valentine’s Day traditions.

South Korea

Valentine’s Day is a popular holiday for young couples in South Korea, and variations of the holiday are celebrated from February through April. The gift-giving starts on February 14th, when it is up to the women to woo their men with chocolates, candies and flowers. The tables turn on March 14th, a holiday known as White Day, when men not only shower their sweethearts with chocolates and flowers, but up the ante with a special gift.

Those who don’t have much to celebrate on either Valentine’s Day or White Day have a third holiday known as Black Day. On April 14th, it’s customary for singles to mourn their solitary status by eating dark bowls of jajangmyeon, or black bean-paste noodles.

CHINA

The equivalent to Valentine’s Day in China is Qixi, or the Seventh Night Festival, which falls on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month each year. According to a Chinese folk story, Zhinu, a heavenly king’s daughter, and Niulang, a poor

cowherd, fell in love, married and had twins. When Zhinu’s father learned of their marriage, he sent his queen to bring Zhinu back to the stars. Upon hearing the cries of Niulang and the children, the king allowed Zhinu and Niulang to meet once a year on Qixi.

During Qixi, young women prepare offerings of melon and other fruits to Zhinu in hopes of finding a good husband. Couples head to temples to pray for happiness and prosperity. At night, people look to the heavens to watch as stars Vega and Altair (Zhinu and Niulang, respectively) come close during the star-crossed pair’s annual reunion.

Taiwan

If flowers are symbols of romance, then Taiwan, famous for its flowers, boasts the most romantic celebration in the world! They celebrate it twice a year: February 14th and also on July 7th. Men are expected Taiwan Roses Day to give bouquets of flowers to their beloved. According to Taiwanese tradition, the color and the number of flowers given represent an important message.

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Red roses represent “an only love,” ninety-nine roses express “love forever,” and 108 roses say, “Will you marry me?”

INDIA

Valentine’s Day is relatively new to India, as television and radio influenced the culture with love-letter competitions in the 1990s. There continues to be some controversy around the holiday, as Indians still culturally consider love and marriage to be topics that involve the whole family, not just the couple. Public displays of affection are frowned upon in many places. Nevertheless, Valentine’s Day is becoming increasingly popular. Restaurants, discos, theaters, and bars are busier than usual as couples celebrate the day together. People may express their love to friends and family, as well as loved ones, and even propose on this romantic day. Gifts exchanged include chocolates, fresh flowers, cards, soft toys and candies.

Philippines

While Valentine’s Day celebrations in the Philippines are similar to celebrations in Western countries, one tradition has swept the country and led to thousands of couples sharing a wedding day on February 14th. Mass wedding ceremonies have gained popularity in the Philippines in recent years, leading hundreds of couples to gather at malls or other public areas around the country to get married or renew their vows en masse.

The Five Languages of Love There are officially five ways to express or receive love. The term was first coined by Gary Chapman in his book, The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate, first published in 1992.

The languages are Receiving Gifts, Spending Quality Time, Physical Touch, Acts of Service, and Words of Affirmation. We all “speak” one of them most fluently in each of our relationships – especially in a marriage. Wouldn’t it be great if you could know exactly which one is your dominant, and then act with people you love accordingly, every time you interact with them?

Words of Affirmation

One of your deepest needs is the need to feel appreciated.

Verbal compliments, words of appreciation, encouragement, kind and humble words are all ways to show love to you.

Quality Time

You enjoy doing things TOGETHER! It is not about just sitting in front of the TV together but really giving each other undivided attention. This means looking at each other, talking to each other, sharing your life with your partner.

Receiving Gifts

You are happy to receive things from your loved ones. They don’t have to be expensive. The gift is a symbol of “s/he cares about me” and “s/he thinks of me.”

Acts of Service

Valentine’s Day in the Philippines

HOW TO SAY “LOVE”

Love may be a universal language, but the words in which we can express those feelings are not exactly the same. Foreign languages add beautiful variety to the world. Learn how to express love in these different Asian languages.

Tagalog (Philippines) – Mahal kita.

Mandarin Chinese – Wo ai ni.

Korean – Saranghaeyo.

Japanese – Daisuki desu.

Thai – Phom rak khun (to female) / Chan (to male) Vietnamese – Anh yeu em (to female) / Em yeu anh (to male) Swahili – Ninapeda wewe.

Indonesian – Saya cinta kamu.

Hmong – Kuv hlub koj.

Hindi – Main tumse pyaar karta (to female) / karti hoon (to male)

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For you, actions speak louder than words! You prefer your partner to do things for you such as cooking a meal, giving a massage, cleaning the room. You like your partner to initiate the acts of service and put effort into doing them to show that s/he cares.

Physical Touch

You love to receive a hug, a kiss, squeezes on the shoulder, a pat on the back, a touch of the face, and an arm around the waist... Touches can be 10 times as powerful and comforting as any words!

Want to know what is your primary love language? Take the quiz on www.5lovelanguages.com.

Desperate times lead to...

In this age, you might think arranged marriages are already a thing of the past. However, in China, anxious parents are finding means and ways to find a partner for their children who are still single after the age of 21. Some children, who are desperate to appease their parents, even resort to finding fake partners for major occasions.

surprised to know that the ages range from as young as 17 to under 40.

There is also a board on the website where interested parties can key in their specific purposes for the rental. I saw one requesting for a partner to go on trips together, while another sought a partner for a wedding.

Rent-a-Lover Services in China

Every Saturday and Sunday between noon and 5pm, regardless of the weather, the People’s Park in Shanghai is crowded with mothers and fathers studying the Lonely Hearts messages that adorn the grounds.

On the walls of the avenues, on trees and on washing lines, hundreds of resumes are hung by parents often without the knowledge of their children. The Shanghai Marriage Market is just one of several such open-sky marriage markets in China.

Despite the thousands of parents that visit the market over a weekend, the success rate remains low.

Chinese parents often say that seeing their children married and their grandchildren born are their final tasks in life, and at the marriage market they take personal charge of that mission.

Many parents reportedly return, month after month, year after year, in hope of a response.

Whether selling a kiss online, or accompanying a stranger overnight for a fee, none of the “rent-a-lover” services popping up on some Chinese websites sound at all family-friendly.

Yet the budding market in China aims to help young singles address the most traditional of values: respecting their elders, meeting their demand to find a mate, and forming a family while their elders are still alive.

On www.Taobao.com, China’s biggest online marketplace, women can choose from hundreds of temporary companions and reserve them for hours or days at a time by simply paying a deposit.

According to the latest listings on one of China’s largest social networks, www.QQ.com, the going rate for a temporary partner starts at roughly RMB1000 (USD$143). The demands for the service peak during the Chinese New Year, when young people face the pressure of bringing a partner home to meet the family, and also during Valentine’s Day when the streets are flooded with couples in love.

Although the exact number of renters is hard to come by, there is certainly rising interest in the industry. Online searches for the term “rental boyfriend” rose by 884 percent between 2012 and 2013, according to Taobao. Although there are also girlfriends for rent, a quick look online shows that the majority of people advertising themselves as fake partners are male.

Out of curiosity, I went online, keyed in keywords such as “boyfriend rental” and “lover rental” and was shocked to find out that there was an online website dedicated to the service.

On www.89yn.com, there are photos of both women and men, complete with their profiles for all to see. You might be

Parents Advertising Single Sons and Daughters

At the People’s Park in Shanghai, parents read (and write) messages posted on trees and walls to see if they can find a match for their single children.

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You Are In Charge of Your Own Happiness!

In 2007, Chinese authorities coined the derogatory term “leftover women” to shame or scare urban professionals into marriage, with the ultimate aim of creating “high-quality” babies. Single women above the age of 27 are known as “shengnv” or “leftover women.”

Jessica Piper Littleton, CO Administrative Staff Age: 30

AAm: How do you feel about being single at your age?

Jessica: I do not think that marriage is a must in life. I have had a boyfriend for more than two years, and we both feel that there are still many other things to pursue in life. We both feel that as long as we are happy with each other, a marriage is just a legal status and means nothing to us.

I think I am lucky that my parents do not place any pressure on me to get married. I do have Asian friends whose parents might nag, especially if they do not have a boyfriend after 30.

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We talked to three single women in Colorado who shared with us their views on being single and how they feel that they are in charge of their own happiness.

Ya Hui Chen

Mabel Seow

Broomfield, CO PhD Student Age: 28

Denver, CO Freelancer Age: 35

AAm: How do you feel about being single at your age?

Ya Hui: I am very fortunate that even though I am 28, and am considered “leftover” in China, my parents never pressure me into finding a partner. My priority now is my studies and all other things can wait. Women nowadays are financially independent, have their own careers and hobbies, so we have way more options than before.

AAm: How do you feel about being single at your age?

Mabel: I have no qualms about being single at my age. I dated a few men during my younger years, and realized I could not commit to a long term relationship. I am perfectly happy being single. I think at this age everyone should have the freedom to choose what kind of life that they want to lead, and not have to conform to social norms. Nobody will mock you if you are single here, but back home in Malaysia my relatives do remind me once in a while to find a partner. I am not bothered by that at all.

Stock photo (women interviewed not pictured)

Top 5 Valentine’s Day Purchases Valentine’s Day is not always about giving lavish gifts.

In fact, according to the National Retail Federation (NRF), more people participated in exchanging less expensive gifts in 2016, proving the adage that “it’s the thought that counts.” Here are the top five gifts, the percent who participate, and how much they spend on average.

Purchase Percent Amount Candy 50% $26.22 Greeting Cards 48% $17.81 Evening Out 38% $87.25 Flowers 36% $40.57 Jewelry 20% $166.08 NRF also found out that in 2016, only about 55% of Americans celebrated Valentine’s Day, but those who did spent an average of $146.84, up from 2015’s average of $142.31. The biggest consumers of Valentine’s Day merchandise are between 25 and 34.

In total, Valentine’s Day spending hit $19.7 billion in 2016.

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Roses Are Red… And they’d better be

By Wayne Chan

Ahh, I love that spring is right around the corner. The that have dual uses. birds are chirping, the flowers are blooming, and even So, what does a guy do to try and top himself every the gophers in my back yard seem to be leaving my wife’s year for Valentine’s Day? It’s not easy. There’s a virtual rose bushes alone. landmine of cultural no-no’s waiting for any type of gift Speaking of roses, the spring bloom must also mean you might think of. it’s that time of year again – Valentine’s Day! How about yellow roses instead of red? In Chinese culAnd now comes all the pressure. ture, yellow roses are what you might give to someone Pressure, you say? Well, yes, and let me explain. if you were planning to break up. That’s problematic. In I’ve been married for nearly 30 years now. The first few Western culture, yellow roses are a symbol of friendship years, Valentine’s Day was a fun, romantic day for two and optimism. “Friendship and optimism?” Are we husyoung people in love. Now? We’re still band and wife or pen pals? in love, I’ll have you know. Any woman Here’s another cultural no-no. In Giving a pair of shoes who can put up with her husband buyChinese culture, giving someone for Valentine’s Day is ing a dorky, battery-powered, portable an umbrella as a present is anothair conditioner that wraps around his culturally unacceptable er sign of breaking up, so that’s no neck and can still bear walking next to good. as well. Chinese him must truly be in love.

Giving a pair of shoes for ValenTruth be told, I threw that thing out tine’s Day is culturally unaccepttradition says that because I couldn’t bear the looks of peoable as well. Chinese tradition says giving a pair of shoes ple (mainly my wife) staring at me while that giving a pair of shoes implies I was wearing that ridiculous contrapimplies “packing away” “packing away” your love. Sheesh! tion.

I’ve read that if you give a pair your love.

Sheesh!

Valentine’s Day used to be so easy. of shoes as a gift and then ask the Buy her some chocolates. I love her. She recipient to refund you one dollar, loves me. Easy peasy. then it breaks the curse.

But after a few years, chocolates just don’t have the So, let me get this straight…if I give my wife a pair of same panache. The health-conscious world we live in $500 Jimmy Choo designer shoes, and she gives me back now indicates that giving a gal a box of chocolates is like one dollar, then it’s like she bought the shoes instead delivering a diabetic sugar bomb. of me giving it to her? She just bought a pair of Jimmy Do you know how many calories there are in just one of Choo shoes for $1? these chocolates?!? And whoa! Look at all those carbs!

Sorry, dear.

OK, I’ve got it. Gift certificates! You can’t offend anyHow about a bouquet of red roses? Roses are fine, but one with gift certificates, right? It might not be the most after a few years of roses, it starts to get predictable. I romantic thing, but then again, I wouldn’t have inadverdon’t enjoy spending $75 on a bouquet of roses that tently broken up with my wife either. eventually wind up in the trash. I generally prefer gifts

”

I don’t think so!

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Chinglish:

A comedy on miscommunication due to crossed signals and culture clashes In our January issue, Asian Avenue spoke with director, Steve Wilson, who shared his involvement in Chinglish, and some interesting facts about himself. For our February issue, we had the chance to speak with actor Peter Trinh, who plays two different characters in the play and we find out how he prepares his Mandarin lines and Chinese accent for the roles.

Peter Trinh, 34 • Vietnamese. First generation American. Denver native.

• Bachelors in Theatre, Metropolitan State University of Denver (2007).

• 1st performance: The Laramie Project for Metro Theatre, directed by Christie Montour Larson • Characters in Chinglish: Bing, Judge Geming Chinglish is a hilarious comedy about the challenges of doing business in a country whose language and underlying cultural assumptions can be worlds apart from those of the West. The play tells the adventures of Daniel, an American businessman from the Midwest, who hopes to establish his family’s sign-making business in China. Through a comic exchange, he learns what is lost and found in translation.

Peter Trinh

By Samantha Quee

AAM: Tell us about the character you play in this show.

Peter: Bing poorly attempts his hand as a translator, a job his uncle Cai gave. Geming is husband to Xi, Vice Minister of Culture and is also the Mayor of Guiyang China.

with Xi, who has betrayed him for his sake, and in turn her own.

AAM: What’s the biggest challenge about taking on this role and why?

Peter: These roles and the show as a whole will have to be as accurate as possible with the ManAAM: How do you prepare for darin dialogues and consistency both characters? of accents.

Peter: Both characters require extensive preparations with Man- AAM: Without giving anything darin lines and Chinese accent. I away, what’s your favorite line plan to go over my Mandarin of dialogue? lines with my personal resources, Peter: “Wo ai niao.” (Frog loves to and record the pronunciations. pee.)

Growing up, Hong Kong martial arts films have always been a AAM: What do you think makes passion of mine. I plan to watch Chinglish stands out from othseveral, undubbed, to get a feel er plays you’ve been involved for the language and accent. in?

Peter: It is mostly in a language To add on, I find it interesting that other than English.

Chinglish’s scriptwriter, David Henry Hwang, double casts these AAM: Any personal story/misroles together. I find it indicative hap on miscommunication of Shakespearean themes where due to crossed signals and culthe “fool” becomes the valor. tures?

Peter: I once had a pair of KoreAAM: What do you love about an men come up to me speaking this character?

Korean to me, obviously mistakPeter: Bing is naïve, and clueless. ing me for someone else. When There is comedy in his ignorance. I told them I didn’t speak in KoI also like Geming’s innocence. It rean, they realized their mistake, poses contrast to the last scene and ran away.

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Volcano Asian Cuisine 9632 E Arapahoe Road Greenwood Village, CO 80112 Tel: 303-662-8111 Guess who feeds the Broncos sushi and Chinese fare every Thursday during their football season each year? If your answer is Volcano Asian Cuisine, you are absolutely right! Not only is this Chinese-Japanese restaurant favored by Denver’s favorite NFL team, it is also popular among the local community, offering authentic Chinese, Japanese as well as American-influenced Asian dishes.

Recently relocated, Volcano Asian Cuisine is now housed within the plaza along East Arapahoe Road in Greenwood Village. While they retained both their Chinese and Japanese menu, the hibachi cooking station has been removed and replaced with more traditional Chinese dishes.

Owner Jay Zheng says, “We decided to bring more cultural Chinese foods. Our Chinese menu has expanded with twice as many dishes.

We now have more Jiangzhe and Canto dishes, all handmade by our chefs from Shanghai and Guangdong. For fans of our hibachi-style menu, we can still prepare them in the kitchen upon request.” Jay is also the founder of the National Association of Asian American Professionals (NAAAP) Colorado chapter.

Highly influential in the Asian community here, Jay started his restaurant business in late 2010. “Food is something that brings everyone together, and I felt that it is a great platform for people from all walks of life. I love to see different ethnicities and nationalities come together and exchange cultural ideas over a satisfying meal,” Jay says.

New to the menu are the pan-fried mini buns. A delicious Shanghai snack, the mini buns brought back fond memories of my col-

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By Samantha Quee lege exchange days in Fudan a few years ago.

Handmade by their Shanghai chef, each bun is filled with juicy vegetables and ground pork.

Every bite bursts with flavor. Be careful! Do not eat these while they are still piping hot as the soup might burn your tongue!

I also greatly enjoyed the Fish in Wine Sauce, made with high-quality flounder fillet, cooked in specially prepared wine sauce. The smooth and tender fillets work well with the sauce, elevating the flavor of the entire dish.

Jay also introduced me to the Seafood Tofu Hot Pot, which is a sensation during this winter season. Served piping hot in a mini clay pot, I enjoyed pairing the dish with a bowl of rice, as the gravy is filled with the essence of the seafood ingredients cooked over low heat for a period of time. I love tofu, and this one-pot dish has definitely become my new favorite comfort food.

Volcano Asian Cuisine also serves crab rangoons, a classic American creation. These crab and cream cheese filled wantons are deep fried to the perfect crunchiness. While diners can find variations at almost every Chinese restaurant and buffet, Volcano’s version uses the best cream cheese, which gives a sweet taste instead of sour. The dish is a hot favorite among the American patrons, along with their Sesame Chicken.

Voted Asian Avenue magazine’s Best Asian Fusion Restaurant in 2012, Volcano Asian Cuisine has continued to serve fresh and delicious food to the local community consistently. “We are confident that our customers will enjoy our new menu, and welcome everyone back to our latest location,” says Jay.

NEW LOCATION!

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Japanese Cheesecake Makes 8” or 9” round tin Prep Time: 30 mins Bake Time: 70 mins

INGREDIENTS

• 5 oz. fine granulated sugar • 6 egg whites • 6 egg yolks • ¼ teaspoon cream of tartar • 2 oz. unsalted butter • 9 oz. cream cheese • 3 fluid oz. fresh milk • 1 tablespoon lemon juice • 2 oz. cake flour or superfine flour • 1 oz. corn flour (cornstarch) • ¼ teaspoon salt

METHOD

1. Melt cream cheese, butter and milk

over a double boiler. Cool the mixture.

Fold in the flour, the corn flour, salt, egg yolks, lemon juice and mix well.

2.

Make the meringue by whisking egg whites with cream of tartar until foamy. You can beat with a stand mixer or handheld mixer. Add in the sugar and whisk until soft peak forms.

3. Take 1/3 meringue and fold into the cheese mixture, then fold in another 1/3 of meringue. After incorporated, pour the batter back to the remaining 1/3 meringue and FOLD GENTLY. 4.

Pour the mixture into an 8-inch round cake pan (lightly grease and line the bottom and sides of the pan with grease-proof baking paper or parchment paper).

5.

Bake cheesecake in a water bath for 1 hour and 10 minutes or until set and golden brown at 325 degrees F.

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February 2017 | Chef’s Menu

Most women enjoy receiving chocolates and candy during the Valentine’s Day holiday, but I personally find most of them a tad too sweet for my liking.

For those who do not have such a sweet tooth, you might want to try baking a Japanese cheesecake for yourself or your loved one this Valentine’s Day. This cheesecake is so soft and delicious, the health conscious can still eat it with confidence.

BAKING TIPS

• If you use an 8” pan, it is important to change of temperature that may line the sides of the 8” pan with parch- cause the cake to shrink drastically. ment paper, making sure the parch- It is normal that the cake will shrink

ment paper extends higher than the cake tin by about 1.5 inches.

• If a springform pan or loose base cake tin is used, wrap the base of your cake tin with two layers of aluminum foil to prevent seepage.

• Bake the cake on the lowest shelf in the oven to prevent cracks on top and over-browning.

• Leave the cake to cool down in the oven with the oven door open, about an hour. This is to prevent sudden

about ½ inch to 1 inch after cooling. If the cake shrinks a lot, the main reason is over mixing the egg white mixture with the cheese mixture.

• Remember, in the preparation process, to beat the egg whites until soft peaks form, fold very gently, and do not stir or blend.

• Refrigerate the cake (with or without the cake tin) for at least four hours or overnight.

• Enjoy!

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Cebu

or the Queen City of the South, is widely known for its Sinulog Festival

By Mary Jeneverre Schultz

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The beaches of Cebu show pristine, sandy areas for sun worshipers and beach-goers.

Cebu, gateway to the southern regions of the Philippines, stands as a junior version of Manila, a growing metropolis just two hours by plane from the capital.

Known as the birthplace of Christianity, Cebu is widely known for its Sinulog Festival, commemorating the history and transition of Cebuanos to the Christian faith.

“This tradition and festivity has been carried on for years and celebrated every third week of January,” said Harold Rainfroy, general manager of Mövenpick Hotel Mactan Island Cebu. “During this time, tourists from all corners of the globe visit Cebu to take part of the weekend festivities, such as the street parades, food and music festivals, cultural shows and more.

Built in 1565, Basilica del Santo Nino, stands as one of the oldest churches in the country and located at the heart of downtown Cebu. Faith tourists come

from all over to pay respects to Santo Nino also known as the Infant Jesus through lighting a candle or paying a small offering.

Since Cebu has not reached metropolis heights like Manila, most global corporations, hotels and chain restaurant have developed its properties in this southern city of the Philippines.

“Mövenpick Hotels & Resorts definitely saw the potential in Cebu and we realized that this was one of the key destinations we wished to add to our list of international destinations worldwide,” said Chief Development Officer and SVP Asia Andrew Langdon.

“The Philippines overall is a much desired destination for international travelers, but we have also seen that Cebu is a main destination for weekend travelers visiting from Manila or other main cities within the country.”

For non-religious tourists, the white sand beaches appeal to most. If you

want to frolic in the beach, tourists are encouraged to visit the summer season between March and May. “The hotel is located in Mactan Island, Cebu --- ranked as one of the world’s top ten beaches and island destinations,” said Rainfroy. “Cultural and historical sites are also just a few minutes away, as well as local marketplaces which feature Cebu’s handcrafted products and signature delicacies such as the lechon.”

Every city and country has its specialty cuisine. While Filipinos love lechon, which is roasted suckling pig, the natives definitely recommend tourists to sample lechon in Cebu. A trip to Cebu wouldn’t be complete without a taste of this roasted pig, marinated in secret herbs and spices that only Cebuanos seem to know about, resulting in a savory and flavorful dish that includes the pig’s crispy skin up to the tasty, fall-offthe-bone meat underneath.

In fact, international television host

The front view of the cross and murals in Cebu

This sign marks the spot of Magellan’s Cross

Warning tourists to stay cautious of pickpockets in Cebu

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During evening times, Mövenpick Hotel Mactan Island of Cebu showcases its outside areas for parties and nightlife.

Anthony Bourdain fell in love when he got a taste and called it “the best pork dish in the world.”

The great thing about Cebu is that, while being an island paradise, on the one hand, it’s also a sophisticated city, with a wide range of pretty decent restaurants to choose from. Street food abounds in Cebu and is amazingly cheap. You can buy all sorts of Philippine delicacies from the many street stalls scattered around Cebu City.

Daring to try unusual dishes, order SuTuKil - an acronym for sugba (grilled), tula (soup-based/with broth), and kilaw (raw, soaked/pickled in vinegar). This is a popular term for ordering a selection of fresh seafood and meat from the market and cooked any way you like it in a local eatery.

“Cebu is ground zero for sports and celebrities when triathletes and A-list personalities come for the Ironman triathlon event, usually scheduled either in end of July or the first week of August,” Rainfroy said. “Mactan Island has been the host venue of this prestigious triathlon since 2012.”

With its tropical setting and wide stretch of white sand beach and pristine waters, the island has become a leading attraction and the perfect place for athletes to rest and relax.

Adding energy and excitement to the action-packed weekend are the after-race activities around the area.

The tourism tagline:

“It’s more fun in the Philippines.”

For more information, visit: • www.cebu.gov.ph • www.movenpick.com/Philippines/Cebu: Hotel Mövenpick Cebu (formerly the Hilton Cebu Resort & Spa), +63 32 492-7777 • www.choosephilippines.com/go/heritagesites/766/basilica-minore-del-santo-nino-cebu • www.ironman.com/triathlon/events/asiapac/ironman-70.3/philippines.aspx Mary Jeneverre Schultz, born in Manila, writes about the Philippines through her travel blog – Jeneverrestravels.

Sign up at Jeneverrestravels.wordpress.com to check out her favorite destinations in Asia for free.

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New Friend at North Guni

M

yanmar (formerly known as Burma) is a country that not many people have explored.

Consumed with ongoing civil wars and ethnic conflict until 2011, Myanmar has only recently opened its borders to the international community.

Although Myanmar continues to face many problems, the culture and history of the country is rich and unique. Isolated from the world for about 50 years, Myanmar boasts a different culture than other Southeast Asian countries and houses many ancient sites that are in immaculate condition.

This past year, I was lucky enough to travel Myanmar and visit both the capital of Naypyidaw and the historic ancient city of Bagan.

One of the most fascinating sites I saw in Myanmar was the Shwedagon Pagoda in Naypyidaw. Standing at 105 meters tall and completely gilded with gold, the Shwedagon Pagoda serves as one of the most iconic architectural wonders in Myanmar. Legend says that it was built when two traveling merchants, Taphussa and Bhallika, met Buddha and were given eight holy hairs from Buddha’s head. The travelers allegedly built the pagoda 2600 years ago with the help of King Okkalapa to house these spiritual relics. Throughout the centuries, royalty and common folk alike donated to expand the pagoda and continue to layer it with gold and decorate it with jewels. Topping the impressive golden figure are several precious jewels includ-

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Discovering

By Joie Ha ing 5,448 diamonds and 2,317 rubies.

At the very top lies a 76-carat diamond bud. Tourists and locals enjoy Shwedagon as an absolute architectural marvel.

Beyond its religious meaning, the Shwedagon Pagoda has also served as a place for protests of political significance. It is hard to find another monument in Myanmar with such political, religious, and historic depth.

Although we arrived at Shwedagon on a rainy day, walking the whole breadth of the pagoda was still breathtaking. Shwedagon towers above its visitors and the gold gives off a shine that makes it seem constantly illuminated. Surrounding the monument are other intricate pagodas and shrines that house many deities.

Circling the base of Shwedagon is a set of Buddha statues that visitors can pour water over in a ritual of cleansing and purification. Oddly, some smaller shrines and pagodas use bright and colorful flashing LED lights to outline their featured deity. These LED lights are used to add to the shine of jewels and gold, and act as a unique juxtaposition between modern and ancient worship.

Technically, you can walk across the circumference of Shwedagon in 10-15 minutes at a leisurely stroll. However, we were so transfixed by the enormity and magnificence of it all that we spent a few hours walking and sitting at various points to soak in the atmosphere. We admired the pagoda until sunset, where

the golden sun illuminated Shwedagon in what one can only call a holy light.

For the second part of the trip, we spent a few days in Bagan. Bagan is an ancient city filled with Buddhist temples and shrines that rest on a backdrop of beautiful green plains. From the 9th to the 13th century, Bagan served as the capital of what is now known as Myanmar. With each king and queen, there were multiple temples, shrines, and pagodas built in order to renew and reaffirm their dedication to Buddha. Over the course of four centuries, over 10,000 Buddhist temples were built. Approximately 2,200 are still standing today. The city was a hub of commerce, philosophy, and cutting edge technology. What remains now are dusty red temples, shrines, and pagodas contrasted sharply against the green foliage and brown earth.

Although Bagan is home to many ancient architectural wonders, there are still a limited amount of tourists visiting the area. Bagan only has one or two small streets with hostels and restaurants for tourists. Upon arrival, we took a horse-drawn carriage to our quaint hostel a bumpy 20 minutes away, and then spent the rest of the day exploring in our carriage with our friendly driver. He took us to the most popular temples and provided local information.

Each stop featured a considerable amount of locals trying to sell souvenirs. They claimed that their items were

ng the Temples of Myanmar Shwedagon Pagoda

Ananda Temple, Bagan

unique, handmade, and rare. Although they were definitely beautiful, after a few stops we realized that most everyone sold the same things. There were temples, shrines, and pagodas of all sizes and from various different time periods. We stood in awe at the opening of enormous temples that towered above us, and we also admired the small shrines that were on the side of the dusty roads. Most of the temples allow visitors to walk in and view the magnificent wall paintings and Buddha figurines. Some paintings and figurines are as wide and tall as the temple itself. Other temples allow guests to climb up a few stories to the very top and see Bagan from a lofty view.

While Bagan has so much to see, we opted to rent an electric motorbike to explore on our own the next day. There was no tutorial or license required, so you can imagine how we fared. Long story short, we fell off the bike quite a few times. Having the freedom to roam and spend time at our favorite sites was wonderful. We spent several hours at North Guni, one of the smaller and less visited, yet well-preserved temples. We climbed to the top to admire the view and made friends with a local stray dog. An hour or two passed sitting at the peak of the temple, feeding the dog, feeling the dry breeze on our cheeks, and watching the lazy afternoon sun slowly pass over us.

Before long, a group of four children discovered us sitting there. Seeing that we were tourists, they quickly climbed

up to try to sell us their wares. Having bought an exorbitant amount of souvenirs already, we had to politely decline.

However, we had a deck of cards on us and we ended up playing American card games on the temple floor for another few hours. Despite the language barrier, we were able to communicate through motions, broken English, and exaggerated facial expressions. The temples alone were amazing, but being able to play games with the local kids and share snacks with a puppy made it an overall heartwarming experience.

When the sun started to set, we got ready to return home. We bought a few souvenirs from the children anyways, pet the dog a few more times, and boarded our electric motorbike to make our way back. Sunrise and sunset at Bagan is one

of the most beautiful things one could imagine, and although it was cloudy when we were there, we were able to glimpse a bit of the setting sun that colored the temples a fiery red during its descent.

Myanmar has some of the most beautiful historic architectural wonders I have ever seen. However, I do caution potential visitors to be respectful of the environment and culture of Myanmar. The lack of tourists has contributed to the untouched architectural wonders and it is our responsibility to keep it as preserved as possible by practicing responsible tourism. Traveling to Myanmar and experiencing the ancient temples is a once in a lifetime opportunity and comes highly recommended. It is a place that definitely belongs on a travel wish list.

North Guni, Bagan

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Finding Gratitude in the Single Life “Marriage is like flies on a screen door. The ones on the outside are trying to get in and the ones on the inside are trying to get out.”

By Tom Shieh Somebody once jokingly said, “Marriage is like flies on a screen door.

The ones on the outside are trying to get in and the ones on the inside are trying to get out.” The truth of the matter is that we can find all contentment regardless of our relationship status – single, married, divorced, or “it’s complicated.”

Human relationships are a great magnifier. Everyone around us has a magical ability of being a mirror for us to see a certain angle of ourselves.

It’s easy to fall under the deception of “I will be happy when…” The reality is that if you’re not happy when you’re single, you are not going to be happy in a relationship. On the other hand, you put two happy people together, chances are they will experience greater laughter and joyfulness when their energies intertwine.

Often times in our Asian culture, we view those without a partner (even when it is by choice) as a condition that needs a solution – as if they need to cured from their lonely condition.

“Are you married?” “When are you going to get married?” The inquiry

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is asked with good intentions from both those in our inner circle and complete strangers, but there’s a hidden presupposition. Sadly, many single people fall in line with this type of thought. Unexpectedly, we perpetuate this feeling of loss, and mentally create a barrier to being grateful for all of the positives that come with a single lifestyle.

If you’re single today, rejoice! Be grateful.

Don’t let others rob you of your joy.

Being single doesn’t automatically mean there’s something wrong with you. You don’t have to allow others to transpose their own “ideals” on you. If you’re single, fully enjoy your singlehood. Live cheerfully in the present moment.

There are many benefits to being single. You have more time for discovery. You are free to explore and experience new things of your choosing. You can focus on yourself and become the greatest version of you. You can travel without hesitation. You don’t have to settle for being in a bad relationship. And, you

can often meet more people because you’re open to possibilities.

Similarly, there are many great benefits to being in a relationship as well.

Today, regardless of your relationship status, be thankful. Simply taking a brief moment out of every day and thinking about what you have to be grateful for can go a long way in improving your outlook on life.

Don’t compare yourself with others. Instead, appreciate where you are on your own journey. When your thoughts are positive, your actions will be positive, and your positive results will soon follow.

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