How to Cope when Caring for an Elderly Relative
9th February 2015
If you’re caring for a grandparent, parent, other relative, or friend of the family, then read our guide to coping and getting the help and benefits you deserve.
Caring for a relative can have emotional, financial and practical implications – but you’re not alone. It’s ok to ask for help…. It is estimated that nearly 40% of England’s population will be over 50 by 2029. Thankfully, the majority of these individuals will be active and able to live independently. However, as people age, they will inevitably grow more dependent on relatives and outside assistance. This can happen slowly due to degenerative illness, or may happen suddenly due to an accident. Whatever the reason, it can be very difficult for a family carer to cope. If you have found yourself
caring for an elderly relative then it can seem quite overwhelming. You may experience feelings of guilt, stress, anxiety and frustration. When an elderly person requires care, it can cause disagreements between family members. Added to this is the emotional and financial strain of caring for somebody on a regular basis.
Carer’s Assessment As a carer, you are entitled to an assessment of your needs. This ‘carer’s assessment’ identifies the level of support you require to care for you relative properly. This is not an evaluation of you, or how capable you are, but an assessment of how much support you are entitled to.
Whatever particular issues you are dealing with, it’s important to remember that there is support available.
Has your relative had a Section 47 Care Assessment? The Section 47 community care assessment will evaluate your elderly relative’s needs. This is carried out by your local social services department, and includes provisions for care and home adaptions. This is separate to the carer’s assessment – it’s important that you request both to ensure you get the maximum help you are entitled to.