Tips to Make Great Conversations with the Elders - Athulya Living

Tips to Make Great Conversations with the Elders

Do you feel compelled to initiate a conversation with elders? Do short chats and end up in awkward silences? Starting meaningful conversations that leave us wanting for more is difficult. Even more so, with the elderly. After a life full of adventures and adversities our seniors eagerly look forward to sharing those experiences. Some others crave for comfort through venting out their thoughts or opinions.

Let’s face it! Initiating gossips or conversations with a wrinkled and bent-over granny or a toothless grandad may not be the best of interesting activities. But it is a great opportunity to spend quality time with elders than spending time on electronic gadgets. And who knows? One might discover a hoard of treasures in an unexpected conversation with elders.

There are no special strategies as in the Art of War. But being patient, empathetic and alert will help you to forge a beautiful conversation and toothless smiles. How do we open-up the golden hearts of elders? How to facilitate easier conversations? Simple considerations such as,

• The current state of mind they might be in • Fear and anxiety due to aging • Reduced cognitive abilities leading to forgetfulness and repeated conversations • Physical fatigue and ability to sit for a long time • Hearing abilities forcing them to lip read These need not limit the cherished moments we can create with our loved ones.

Reassuring talks armed with positivity and understanding would encourage further open talks. Breaking the ice by asking about their experiences or going through memories together would help.

According to research, the quality of conversation precedes the quantity of social interaction. One of the ways to engage elders in conversation is through assisted living spaces that provide specially designed services and amenities to craft such conversations. Assisted living facilities are the dedicated living spaces that cater to all the needs of elders.

Devote the time that is needed for a wholesome and comfortable life for the elders. After all, it’s time for us to give back to them all the love and support they have been giving to us.