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GOOD NEWS MADE IN THE JEWISH STATE THIS PAST WEEK ISRAELI POST-TRAUMA TEAM IS IN BOSTON. A team from the Israel Trauma Coalition has gone to the Boston suburb of Watertown – the epicenter of the manhunt for the Boston Marathon bombers – to help develop “a recovery process” for the local school system. SCHOOLING NOW AVAILABLE, EVEN IN HOSPITALS. World ORT’s Kadima Mada science program in Israel now encompasses educational facilities in all 35 Israeli hospitals with children’s units. In addition, the Swissbased SASA Setton Foundation has just made a $3.2 million investment to cover youngsters at psychiatric hospitals and mental health units.
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ANCIENT KEY UNCOVERED. Whoever it was that lost a door key on the way to the Temple in Jerusalem about 2,000 years ago will be pleased to know that it has been found during the construction of Jerusalem Road 21. JERUSALEM IS ON THE UP. Jerusalem Day celebrated the 46th anniversary of the reunification of Israel’s capital city. The largest in Israel with
804,400 residents, the city saw an 11 percent increase in tourists last year and a 300 percent increase in cultural events and festivals. This list courtesy Michael Ordman and verygoodnewsisrael.blogspot. com.
GAZA TODDLER LIVES AT ISRAELI HOSPITAL. Three year-old Mohammed was born with a genetic disorder that required the amputation of his hands and feet. He was subsequently abandoned, but doctors raised funds for Mohammed and his grandfather to stay at Tel Hashomer Hospital in Ramat Gan. IDF CLEARS JORDANIAN LANDMINES. Israel’s specialist mine-removal team has cleared dozens of landmines planted by the Jordanian army in 1967 outside the Arab village of Husan (near Bethlehem). The Arab Council supported the project and visited the site each day. The mines had killed four local children previously.
SONY INVESTS IN ISRAELI MEDICAL FUND. Sony Corporation has invested $10 million in Rainbow Medical, which in turn invests in the medical device inventions of serial entrepreneur Yossi Gross. Rainbow Medical
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STANDING IN UNITY WITH WOMEN OF THE WALL BY Rabbi Mark Zimmerman
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his week, we celebrated the holiday of Shavuot, which commemorates the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai. Our tradition teaches us that every Jew was in attendance for this magnificent, historic event, including all who ever lived in the past and all those yet to be born. The image is a very touching one: We were all present, and the entire Jewish people stood together as one. The whole Jewish people standing together as agudah achat – one unified group – has always conveyed a beautiful, inspirational lesson for us to emulate in every generation. Sadly, that was not the scene at the Kotel this past Rosh Chodesh, when more than 500 women came together to peacefully pray and read
words of Torah together at a service organized every month by the group Neshot HaKotel (Women of the Wall, or WOW). Participants have repeatedly encountered opposition, but this time they had even more obstacles to overcome than usual. Prior to the events, the Jerusalem District Court in a groundbreaking ruling upheld an earlier decision that women who wear tallitot at the Kotel plaza are not contravening “local custom” or causing a public disturbance, and therefore should not be arrested – as they had been in the past. The issue of equal prayer rights at the Kotel has become more prominent recently because of the frequent detainment of women taking part in these special services, and during the Rosh Hodesh Sivan (May 10) service
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at the Kotel – the first since the ruling – the scene was chaotic.
of support, saying that this is a complex issue and the sensitivities in Israel are different than they are here in America. I couldn’t disagree more, though; it’s not complicated, at all.
“The Women of the Wall’s actions are not at all contrary to halacha, but Charedim throwing rocks at people clearly is a grave sin in Judaism.”
A large police presence tried to keep the protesters and women praying separated. Charedi (ultraOrthodox) women had gathered in large numbers to fill the women’s section in an attempt to prevent Women of the Wall from holding their monthly service.
Meanwhile, Charedi men and children hurled stones and insults in the direction of the women trying to gather in prayer. It was absolutely appalling. I, like many of you, have long supported Women of the Wall and their efforts on behalf of religious pluralism in Israel. Yet when I expressed that support in the comments section of Jpost.com, I was attacked by all those people who deplore any expression of Judaism other than their own. But let me say it clearly. WOW’s actions are not at all contrary to halacha, but Charedim throwing rocks at people clearly is a grave sin in Judaism. There is no comparison. Halacha is dynamic, and there has never been only one authoritative interpretation of Jewish law. Our sages have taught us that there are shivim panim laTorah (“70 faces to the Torah”), and many modern Jews who support WOW are also living according to Torah. So those who say WOW and their supporters don’t accept the Torah are completely misguided. The Kotel belongs to all Jews – not just the Charedim, not just the Orthodox and not just Conservative or Reform, either. And beyond that, ethical, moral and civil behavior should be expected of all Jews and in all places, especially in a sacred space such as the Kotel.
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I have davened at the Kotel many times over the years, and 20 years ago I could lead an egalitarian Kabbalat Shabbat service in the Kotel plaza without incident. But today, there are Charedi thugs who can’t accept that anyone has a right to any interpretation of Judaism other than their own narrow definition of Judaism.
The article on the Jerusalem Post’s website where my comments appeared was titled “Western Wall rabbi: I am hurting and crying.” In it, Rabbi Shmuel Rabinowitz told the Jerusalem Post: “It wasn’t for this Kotel that we prayed. We don’t want a Kotel of disagreement.” Well, I certainly agree. The Kotel should indeed be for all of us, praying together in harmony, each in our own respective way. The Kotel belongs to all Jews, not just those who delegitimize us. We modern Jews who identify with more progressive streams of Judaism are tired of having our voices shouted down. And refusing to even acknowledge our observance of halacha is an insult that we should no longer tolerate. I encourage you to add your support to these brave women who are liberating the Kotel for the entirety of the Jewish people. Editor’s note: Rabbi Mark Zimmerman, spiritual leader of Congregation Beth Shalom, celebrates 25 years of service to his synagogue this year.
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WHY RECENT AIR STRIKES OVER SYRIA WERE NECESSARY BY HAROLD KIRTZ
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As best we know, the route for such weapons is by cargo plane from Iran to Syria, then from Syria to the Sudan, then by road from the Sudan through Egypt and the Sinai Desert to Gaza. These arrangements are the product of negotiations between the Iranian Revolutionary Guard, the government of the Sudan and Hamas, which rules over the Gaza Strip. At the same time, Iran continues to try to supply weapons to Hezbollah in Lebanon, in preparation for more hostilities with Israel. It was this effort that served as the impetus for the Israeli attacks in Syria several weeks ago. An Israeli military official stated that the Israeli air strikes were aimed at the supplies bound for Hezbollah and were not directly related to the ongoing struggle in Syria. According to the statement, the air raids were not to support or attack either the Syrian government or the Syrian rebels. With this and other concurrent developments, the picture in the Middle East is getting more and more muddled. But on this we can be clear: Syrian President Assad’s struggle to maintain control over Syria is creating opportunities for havoc among some of the most dangerous characters in the world. The double threat of Hezbollah and Hamas rockets aimed at the heart of Israel is challenging the strength and strategy of Israel to protect its citizens. Hezbollah has made known that they wish for the Syrian government to open up a front in the Golan Heights in its war against its own people. They hope that such an effort would bring Israel into the conflict, thus taking some of the pressure off the Syrian government. In fact, a Wall Street Journal article quoted Hezbollah leader Hassan Nizrallah as threatening to fight Israel through a front opened up in Syria.
Meanwhile, former Israel govern-
ment minister Dore Gold expressed concern that Iran will boost its presence in Syria through Hezbollah and its own forces with a direct effect on Israel. But as much as Israel wants to stay out of the Syrian conflict, Hezbollah would end up on the short stick of such an effort.
the Syrian regimes have sought to hijack the Palestinian cause in order to dominate Syria, occupy Lebanon and serve Iranian interests.
“The double threat of Hezbollah and Hamas rockets aimed at the heart of Israel is challenging the strength and strategy of Israel to protect its citizens.�
Israel attacked sites in Syria only because they had detected weapons bound for Hezbollah. But if needed, Israel could use a Golan Heights front – if one were opened by Syria – to take out many more caches of weapons that the Israelis believe would be bound for Hezbollah in Lebanon (or even to Hamas in the Gaza Strip).
Along these lines, commentator Eyal Zisser has stated that the Syrian situation has allowed Israel to change some of the rules at play. Whereas in the past Israel has not wanted to open up a hot conflict with Syria, the Syrian uprising has allowed Israel more freedom of response. Even though many advanced weapons have been turned over to Hezbollah, Israel has decided that it should and can now respond more forcefully to future transfers of such weapons. Also, Israel now has reason to believe that more egregious weapons – such as chemical weapons – could fall into the hands of Hezbollah and thus wants to put the brakes on such a development as much as it can. The recent strikes either were aimed at such weapons or were at least a test run to determine whether such an attack could be successful. Interestingly, Abdulrahman alRashed, the General Manager of AlArabiya News Channel, has presented his audience with an analysis that supports Israel’s actions, even though he hates to admit that. He stated that, throughout the years, Iran and
And despite Egyptian and Iranian condemnation of Israel’s recent air attack, it is certain that the Syrian people were happy that Assad’s warehouses and forces were shelled, regardless of Israel’s reasoning, as it meant fewer weapons aimed at them.
Of course, while Israel’s actions may have been popular on the Arab street in Syria, the Jewish State’s primary interest was in degrading the capability of Hezbollah. Thus, Israel should be supported – even if tacitly – for its actions by Western countries and all peoples interested in the defeat of terrorist organizations such as Hezbollah. Harold Kirtz is past president of the Jewish Community Relations Council of Atlanta.
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fter the transatlantic cruise my husband Dan and I took for our recent anniversary trip, the time we spent in Europe ended up stimulating more introspection about my Jewish identity than I had anticipated. On the day we were scheduled to go wine tasting in Tuscany, our guide took us to a popular piazza (plaza) in the Chianti region of Italy. He wanted us to see a famous store that has been doing business in the same place in Greve since 1729. An enormous stuffed boar stood outside the Antica Macelleria Falorni butcher shop. Our guide – Bill, an American expatriate – explained how wild boar used to roam around the beautiful hills in the wine country and that hunting boar was a
sport that provided locals with many meals. He was surprised when my husband and I didn’t jump at the opportunity to stand next to the stuffed pig at the entrance of the shop for him to snap our photograph. I considered telling him how confusing it would be to explain to my religious grandchildren why their grandparents were posing with a non-kosher animal, but I didn’t. Instead, I walked into the butcher shop, where I was immediately overwhelmed by what I saw and smelled. Hundreds – maybe thousands – of fat pig’s legs were hanging from every inch of the ceiling. You can see for yourself by going to your computer: Google “Greve butcher shop” and see any of the many websites that have photos.
As a non-pork eater, I know very little about pigs or boars or the many ways there are to slaughter, carve and prepare these animals for human consumption. And frankly, learning about this is not on my bucket list. My husband Dan, however, was fascinated by all the cutting and carving tools used by the butchers. He spent a lot of time looking at the knives and studying the anatomy charts of the swine. Our guide couldn’t wait to sample the wild boar salami, sausages and other products waiting on the top shelf of the deli counter, and the shop became crowded with tourists and natives who had the same idea. They came to buy the packages of pork, the cheese that was aging in the cellar and the wine from grapes grown and pressed throughout Tuscany. Meanwhile, my only interest was to buy mementos for my grandchildren, so I went to a nearby souvenir shop and purchased several postcards with pictures of something else the region was known for – Pinocchio. Note that Carlo Lorenzini, the Italian journalist and author of the popular children’s fairy tale, was born and died in Florence. I intuitively knew my grandchildren would appreciate colorful cards depicting the wooden-boy puppet and its long nose rather than anything to do with pigs. Thankfully, Dan and our guide were ready to leave the butcher shop by the time I chose the cards, and we were on our way to a vineyard.
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Vino, on an Intellectual Level
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The hilly landscape in the northwest part of Italy was breathtaking; low-growing grape vines covered the ground. After enjoying the gorgeous scenery we ultimately turned off the scenic country road and drove to the top of a hill, where we joined a large group of tourists to learn about growing and harvesting grapes for wine. Allow me to preface the following by saying that Italians, as a group, tend to be more emotional than people from other cultures, and the
woman conducting the tour fit that stereotype. “I want all of you to understand that working here is more than a job for me and everyone else,” she said, gesturing with her hands. “We are all passionate about what we do.” We heard how long it takes to grow the grapes and walked through the rooms where the vines were stored and the grapes hand-picked. I admit it was a surprise to see the different sizes of the barrels in which the wine ages before it ends up in bottles on the shelves of, say, your neighborhood Publix. Later, once our education about wine was finished, our large group climbed from the cellar and was led into a restaurant-like room for wine tasting and a light lunch. With visions of dangling pig’s legs still infiltrating my consciousness, I ordered a vegetarian dish. We were seated at a round table with a retired military couple from the Netherlands and an American couple from Buffalo Grove, Ill. Five wine glasses were lined up at each of our places, and we were taught how to pay attention to the color of each wine – especially on the edge of the liquid – and then to swirl it before raising it to our noses to breathe its scent. Finally, we were given permission to actually bring the glass of wine to our lips. But before we had permission to actually taste the wine, we were instructed on the importance of swishing the wine side-to-side and to be mindful that the liquid touches the front and back of our mouths before swallowing it. I tried to follow the directions exactly, even though it reminded me a bit of using mouthwash. Arlene Appelrouth earned a degree in news-editorial journalism from the University of Florida and her career as a writer and journalist spans a 50-year period; she currently studies memoir writing while working on her first book.
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Legends and Jewish Identity
TALES OF OUR YOUTH BECOME TENETS OF OUR BEING BY Eugen Schoenfeld AJT CONTRIBUTOR
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At the time of this discourse, my grandson Alex was just 12 years old and a voracious reader. The night before my visit, he had stood in line with many others to make an early purchase of the newest Harry Potter book and thus continue enjoying the youthful magician’s exploits at the school of magic, Hogwarts. Now, Alex was in his bedroom reading; his aim was to complete the book in one day. I was very proud of Alex’s linguistic proficiency, and later on I would shep nachas from his achievements, particularly his high marks in school.
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The ones that I liked in particular were the stories about the Ten Lost Tribes; that is, the ones that constituted the northern kingdom of Israel. The men of these tribes – unlike us in the shtetls and the ghettoes of Europe – were free, tall and strong; according to legend, red-haired giants who lived somewhere in central Asia, kept apart from the rest of the world by the river called Sambation, which could not be crossed because of the boulders that it threw into the air.
For instance: During Shabbat Torah readings of my youth, I remember the women in the balcony gathering in small groups around an older woman (perhaps my grandmother), who would read aloud from a book called Tzena Urena or another tome of ma’aseh. Also, in small villages like ours, a traveling maggid would entertain his disciples before mincha with various wondrous tales.
Living in a predominantly Jewish shtetl and attending a school in which the language of instruction was Hebrew, my early childhood heroes were David, Solomon, Bar Kokhba and Gideon (just to mention a few), and my favorite book was the children’s
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In my dreams, I imagined that I was a part of Bar Kokhba’s army and I, like he, was so strong that I could wrest a tree by its roots while riding bareback on a horse. I imagined myself possessing the strength of Judah Maccabee, fighting the enemies of the Jews; and standing next to Elijah, fighting the priest Baal. These stories and many more formed the infrastructure of my Jewish identity.
The rabbis in the Talmud often stopped their deliberation about a point of law and eased the dryness of their exposition with interspersed tales. Indeed, we Jews have a long tradition of telling tales – or, as we called it in Yiddish, the telling of ma’aseh.
Not that I seek to disregard the English literary hero; as a matter of fact, I read the story of the heroic exploits of young Jim Hawkins in Robert L. Stevenson’s “Treasure Island” – but I read it in Hebrew.
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Reflecting on Harry Potter and Alex’s interest in the character, I was reminded of my own excitement and eagerness to read stories about my heroes and their magical exploits. The difference between my grandson and I, of course, is that I read in Hebrew about ancient Jewish heroes rather than in English of imaginary English heroes.
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edition of Sefer Ha-Aggadah (The Book of Legends). I am convinced that my strong Jewish identity was a function of this internalization of Jewish history through the legends and my identification with the various Jewish heroes.
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converted later in life from Judaism to the Anglican religion as a matter of convenience, his family was faithful to their Jewish tradition in spite of having been forced by the Inquisition to leave Spain. Disraeli, like all Sephardic Jews, had a rich tradition of Jewish learning. Even after his conversion, he retained his Jewish identity so completely that the members of Parliament would refer to him as “the Jew.” In fact, on one occasion when colleagues made unpleasant remarks about his Jewishness, he retorted and chastised the offenders: “When my ancestors were writing the Book – yours were still running in the forests clad in animal skins.” Alas, we know not what specific tales influenced Disraeli as a boy, and the books that influenced me are no longer available – even in English. A few years ago, I went to several Atlanta Jewish book stores, including synagogue gift shops, seeking books of Jewish legends – but, to no avail. I found ample books about “how Jeremy prepared for Shabbat” and our holidays, but I could find nothing that resembled my old Ha’Aggadah. And still more disappointingly, I came up short when I searched for Jewish tales on the internet – I couldn’t even find books about the Wise Men of Chelm. How can we induct our children into Jewish historicity? I know from personal experience the great contribution of the legends to my identity, and my pride in our achievements has sustained me through the Holocaust and beyond. Eugen Schoenfeld is a professor and chair emeritus at Georgia State University and a Holocaust survivor.
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The Quiet Fight
FEMALE LAY LEADERS IN AMERICAN ORTHODOXY AJT COLUMNIST
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ast week, a favorite teacher of mine sent me an article from The New York Times, “Whither Moral Courage?” by novelist Salman Rushdie. The author wrote of activism nowadays and how we as a society ignore most of it. “We find it easier, in these confused times, to admire physical bravery than moral courage – the courage of the life of the mind,” says Rushdie. And with that, we lose sight of all the accomplishments of the morally courageous – those who fight for the future; who fight quietly behind the scenes; who fight not with violence, but with peace. Today, American Orthodoxy (and that to the right of it, which I will not be dealing with in this article) is the only denomination in Judaism that does not traditionally have female lay leaders; but, in quiet peace, some brilliant and inspirational women have decided to change that. Yeshivat Maharat, a rabbinical school for “confirming Orthodox women as halachic and spiritual leaders,” is graduating its first class this year. Three splendid women have dedicated the past four years of their lives to training to be a maharat, a halachic communal leader. Learning in their beit midrash, they been a part of the most powerful activism – taking initiative. In what I can only understand to be a divine signature of approval, all three graduates have already been hired, and their work in feminist activism has only just begun. I know that at least my friends and I are personally excited to see this institute flourish as time goes on as well as for Orthodox women to make their way into the rabbinate, as they have in every other denomination. It’s an opportunity I am so thrilled for and one I even hope to be a part of. So you can imagine the dismay I felt when the Rabbinical Council of America put out a formal condemnation of the program. The graduates’ many years of quietly making a place in our world were disregarded with one violent swoop.
Who can see and remember years of training when there’s a long, dismissive article right in front of their face? That sort of intellectual “activism” is hard to fight against – especially in Orthodoxy.
What would Rushdie say now?
“It’s a vexing time for those of us who believe in the right of artists, intellectuals and ordinary, affronted citizens to push boundaries and take risks,” he wrote. “Speak up. Every little bit counts.” To speak up for the work these women are doing: It’s our job. They’re not making a name for themselves (though they may rightfully do that along the way), and they’re doing more than learning for the sake of learning (although they are certainly spiritually inspired). They are carving a path, a path for us so that we can live in a world of equal opportunity for every walk of Judaism. We don’t necessarily have to feel comfortable with it now, and I’m not saying that every woman must become a female rabbi or that we should all follow one. But we have to acknowledge the good they’re doing and support them. The support is crucial. Whether you’re Orthodox or unaffiliated, equal opportunity is something we can all understand. The devastation of not being able to fulfill your life’s goal would be overwhelming, and that’s a universal truth. So if we have the opportunity to help someone else to not be closed off to their life’s goal, or to a higher spiritual place, what’s stopping us from doing our part? Rushdie made a powerful point: Don’t get caught up in glitz and glam. It’s what’s driving the activism that’s important. And equal-opportunity Torah study sounds like a pretty worthwhile incentive. So, American Orthodoxy, I have but one question: I’m ready for equality; are you? Atlanta’s Eden Farber, 16, was recognized in the Jewish Heritage National Poetry Contest of 2010 and has published op-eds and poetry in Modern Hippie Magazine and the NY Jewish Week’s Fresh Ink for Teens section.
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FROM THE PALESTINIAN STANDPOINT, THERE IS ONLY PAST – NO FUTURE BY Lital Shemesh
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participated in the Dialogue for Peace, a project for young Israelis and Palestinians who are politically involved in various frameworks. The project’s objective was to identify tomorrow’s leaders and bring them closer together with the aim of bringing peace at some future time. The Dialogue involved meetings every few weeks and a concluding seminar in Turkey. On the third day of the seminar – after we had become acquainted, removed barriers and split helpings of rahat lokum (known more commonly as “Turkish delight,” a halva-like Arab delicacy of almonds) as though there was never a wall between us – we began to touch upon many subjects which were painful for both sides.
The Palestinians spoke of road-
blocks and the IDF soldiers in the territories, while the Israelis spoke of constant fear, murderous terrorist attacks and rockets from Gaza. The Israeli side, which included representatives from the political right and left, tried to understand the Palestinians’ vision of the end of the strife – in short, we said, “let’s talk business.” We delved into the issues to better understand how we can end the ageold and painful conflict. What red lines are they willing to be flexible on? What resolution will satisfy their aspirations? Where do they envision the future borders of the Palestinian State that they so crave? We were shocked to discover that not a single one of them spoke of a Palestinian State – or, to be more precise, of a two-state solution. They spoke of one state: their state. They spoke of ruling Jaffa, Tel Aviv, Akko and Haifa and the overall “pain of the Nakba” (literally “the tragedy,”
in this case the establishment of the State of Israel). In other words, there was no future for them. Only the past. “There is no legitimacy for Jews to live next to us” – that was their main message. “First, let them pay for what they perpetrated” – that was their demand. In the course of the “dialogue” – which escalated to shouting – the Palestinians asked us not to refer to suicide bombers as “terrorists” because they don’t consider them so. “So what do you call someone who dons a vest and blows himself up in a Tel Aviv shopping mall with the stated purpose of killing innocent civilians?” I asked one of the participants. “I have a 4-year-old at home,” answered Samach from Abu Dis (near Jerusalem). “If G-d forbid something should happen to him, I will go and burn an entire Israeli [part of the] city, if I can.” All the other Palestinian participants nodded their heads in agreement to his harsh words. From our side, Amichai – a religious student in Jerusalem – weighed in: “Three weeks ago, we gave birth to a son,” he said. “If G-d forbid something should happen to him, I would find no comfort whatsoever in deaths of more people.”
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Israelis from the full gamut of political parties participated in the seminar: Likud, Labor, Kadima, Meretz and Hadash (combined Jewish/Arab socialist party). All of them reached
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the understanding that the beautiful scenarios of Israeli-Palestinian peace that they had formulated for themselves simply don’t correspond with reality. It’s just that most Israelis don’t have the opportunity to sit and really converse with Palestinians, to hear what they really think. Our feed of information comes from Abu Mazen’s declarations to the international press – sentiments which he consistently contradicts when he is interviewed by Al Jazeera, through which he paints a completely different picture. I arrived at the seminar with high hopes, and I return home with difficult feelings and despair. Something about the narrative of the two sides is different from the core. How can we return to the negotiating table when the Israeli side speaks of two states and the Palestinian side speaks of liberating Palestine from the Jordan River to the Mediterranean Sea? How can peace ever take root in a platform which grants legitimacy to terrorism? Lital Shemesh is a rising star in the Israeli media who openly expresses her political aspirations to reach the Knesset. She worked as editor-in-chief for the Yedioth Youth Magazines, reported for the Israel Broadcasting Authority and the Hot CableTV News channel and is CEO and founder of a web-based girls magazine “Pinkish – Everything that Girls Love.” This article translated by Baruch Gordon.
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FIDF Atlanta Raises More than $250,000 NORM RADOW HONORED FOR SUPPORT SPECIAL FOR THE AJT
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he Atlanta Chapter of the Friends of the Israel Defense Forces (FIDF) held its Annual Gala on May 7 at the Georgia Aquarium. More than 450 guests attended and showed their support for Israel’s soldiers, raising more than a quarter-million to go toward FIDF wellbeing and educational programs for the brave men and women of the IDF.
IDF soldier Sarice Holley, a native of Atlanta who made aliyah to serve Israel, is greeted by her grandparents. PHOTO/Edward Zeltser
Prominent participants at the event included FIDF National Director and CEO, Maj. Gen. (Res.) Yitzhak (Jerry) Gershon; FIDF Deputy National Director, Col. (Ret.) Pinhas “Pinkyâ€? Zoaretz; Israel’s Naval AttachĂŠ, Capt. Ronen Nimni; Gala Co-Chairs, Ilene and Adrian Grant, Elaine and Alan Tanenbaum and Abe Schear; Host Committee Chair, Felicia Voloschin; and Keynote Speaker, Head of the IDF Command and Staff College, Maj. Gen. Yoseph Baidatz. “We are overwhelmed by the generosity from our 2013 Gala event sponsors and attendees,â€? said FIDF Atlanta Executive Director Caryn Liss. “We want to truly thank everyone for supporting the brave soldiers of the IDF, whose job is to look after Israel. It is our job to look after them, and I am so proud of our Atlanta community for stepping up to do so.â€?
At the event, FIDF honored Norman Radow for his commitment to Israel and for becoming actively involved with FIDF when his son, Neil Radow, joined the Forces in 2012 as a combat soldier in the Artillery Corps. “By all of us being here tonight,� Radow told attendees, “we are making a difference to Sarice Holley and to all the soldiers who stand between what we believe in and live for and those who seek to destroy it. In a real way, our support for the FIDF helps ensure our very survival as a civilized society.�
FIDF Atlanta Chairman of the Board Garry Sobel said:
“It was truly an honor to host such a tremendous event, as the Atlanta community demonstrated its unwavering support for the brave young men and women of the IDF and for their families. I believe that our guests left with a clear understanding of the mission, programs and importance of the role of the FIDF for Israel’s future.�
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FIDF Atlanta Chairman of the Board Former combat soldier Gary Sobel (left) present honoree Sarice Holley, who was granted Norm Radow with his award. one of FIDF’s IMPACT! acaPHOTO/Gabriel Weiss demic scholarships, addressed FIDF supporters at the event, saying: “It filled my heart with pride that my home, Atlanta, is now adopting my other home, my combat intelligence unit.�
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education
Math and Science Geeks Can Party, Too!
Yeshiva Atlanta Honors Top Student Athletes
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STEM EVENT SHINES WITH MAYIM BIALIK
o celebrate Yeshiva Atlanta’s Science, Technology, Engineering and Math (STEM) Initiative and the Legacy Foundation’s Science Upgrade Challenge Grant backing it, event co-chairs Robyn Regenbaum and Dr. David Jeffrey – along with the brothers of Hebrew Order of David Lodge Carmel and Lodge Magen David – created and produced “Chai + Pi = YA’s Big Bang,” featuring Mayim Bialik, on May 5. Held at the Georgia Tech Scheller School of Business Atrium and Auditorium, Chai+Pi began with a private reception for the program sponsors and coordinators. This was followed by a larger reception, which featured multiple STEM-oriented programs and organizations, both local and international. Bialik, known best for her role as Amy Farrah Fowler on CBS’s “Big Bang Theory,” was the afternoon’s featured speaker. An observant Jew, she is also a scientist, having earned a Ph.D. in neuroscience from UCLA. Her keen interest in STEM has led to her serving as spokesperson for several advocacy organizations, including DeVry University’s HerWorld Initiative. A long list of very generous individuals and businesses sponsored the event, which attracted more than 300 attendees of all ages. The event, plus matching funds from the Legacy Heritage Foundation, raised more than $100,000 towards the program’s $600,000 goal, kicking off YA’s STEM initiative with a “big bang”!
INAUGURAL BLEICH SCHOLARSHIPS AWARDED
eshiva Atlanta held its annual sports awards celebration on the evening of April 29. The first of the evening’s highlights was the naming of the first Dr. Jack Bleich Scholarship Award winners: Yifat Kadosh and Gary Friedlander.
To be named a winner of the Bleich Scholarship – named for a former assistant basketball coach at the school – a student athlete must be committed to honoring the school, community and Judaism; possess a high moral compass, which shows seriousness about who he/she is and what he/she represents; and show a desire to live a balanced life physically, academically, spiritually and emotionally. Kadosh played volleyball for four years, soccer for two and basketball for one, while Friedlander played baseball for four years. Dr. Paul Oberman, head of school, said of the winners: “Both Gary and Yifat were mainstays of their respective sports team, but more importantly, they were mainstays of the school as a whole, always serving as role models of what a YA student can and should be.” Two other students received high honors as they were named Student Athletes of the Year: Becca Sirota (four years volleyball, four years basketball) and Ben Brasch (four years basketball, one year soccer). Additionally, senior Ethan Solomon’s basketball uniform number was retired, and senior Levi Siegelman’s was officially inducted into the Whittenburg Wrestlers’ Hall of Fame.
YA Educator Wins 2013 MIT Inspirational Teacher Award
AL WOLMER NOMINATED FOR MOTIVATIONAL METHODS SPECIAL FOR THE AJT
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l Wolmer, Head of the Math Department at Yeshiva Atlanta, has been selected to receive a 2013 Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) Inspirational Teacher Award. Students at MIT nominate the high school teachers who inspired them through dedicated and motivating teaching. Wolmer was nominated by MIT student Noam Buckman (YA Class of 2011) who shared input about his teaching with the selection committee.
YA Head of School Dr. Paul Oberman (left) and Math Department Head Al Wolmer
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As part of his nomination statements, Noam wrote these thoughts: “Thank you, Mr. Wolmer, not only for taking the time to teach me on a very high level but also for motivating me to strive as a mathematician. You really opened my eyes to the world of engineering and applied mathematics, as well as the world of higher-level math.”
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In presenting this award to Wolmer, MIT expressed its gratitude “for inspiring one of his brightest students to become one of [MIT’s] students. [Wolmer’s] inspiring work has contributed to the success of his students and, through them, to the success of our Institute and to the future of our world. We offer our most sincere appreciation and gratitude.” Wolmer, who has been a member of the YA faculty for the past 11 years, recently announced his retirement to start a consulting practice.
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Epstein’s Zack Cohen Places Second in C-SPAN Video Contest VISIT BY NEWS PROFESSIONALS FOR SEVENTH GRADER SPECIAL FOR THE AJT
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big red bus visited The Davis Academy on May 9, when representatives from C-SPAN came to The Davis Academy on May 9 to present seventh grader Zachary Cohen with his second-place prize in CSPAN’s national studentCam contest. Only one other student from the state of Georgia placed in the competition. C-SPAN’s studentCam invites middle- and high-schoolers to produce a five- to eight- minute documentary on a national issue. This year, students used cameras to answer the question, “What’s the most important issue the president should consider in 2013?”
Zack Cohen was awarded second place in C-SPAN’s national studentCam contest.
More than 3,500 students in 44 states and Washington, D.C. submitted a total of 1,893 entries to C-SPAN this year— nearly 60 percent more than the number of entries received in 2012. Students worked in teams or as individuals to address a wide range of public policy issues, from bullying to troop withdrawal to the national debt. Cohen’s project, “Education: Take A Spin” focused on the importance of education funding. For his efforts, Cohen was awarded $1500, and as his Davis Academy faculty advisor, Kendrick Phillips was awarded $125 to spend on digital video equipment for the school. Editor’s note: Zack Cohen’s second-place-winning video can be viewed at studentcam.org.
GHA’s Mini-Entrepreneurs Set Sights High
FIRST GRADERS EARN OVERNIGHT ZOO ATLANTA TRIP SPECIAL FOR THE AJT
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reenfield Hebrew Academy first graders Rebecca Robins and Rachel Urbach were determined to help their entire class achieve their goal of raising enough funds to pay for a spectacular overnight field trip to Zoo Atlanta.
GHA first-graders Rebecca Robins (left) and Rachel Urbach raise money for a field trip to the zoo.
The pair put their teachers’ lessons into practice by enlisting the help of a small staff (their moms), who helped bake cookies and prepare lemonade to sell in their local Dunwoody community. The young aspiring businesswomen raised more than $100, which they personally delivered to their teachers the next morning to earn themselves and their classmates the desired zoo trip.
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As part of the learning process, students discussed ways to raise funds, cost and budgeting. As an entire class, they created and sold unique magnets. The effort came up slightly short of the monetary goal, but Robins and Urbach wanted to continue to contribute in their own way.
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from the jcc
The Sunshine School Honored
It’s Almost Time for Fun in the Sun!
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MJCCA’S EAST COBB PRESCHOOL RECOGNIZED
he Marcus Jewish Community Center of Atlanta’s (MJCCA) awardwinning East Cobb preschool, the Sunshine School, recently received the prestigious recognitions of National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) re-accreditation and Bright From the Start’s “Quality Rated” designation. The School was also selected as a model program to film lessons showing examples of implementing the Georgia Early Learning Development Standards (GELDS). Sunshine School Director Raye Lynn Banks explains this honor: “The Sunshine School was asked to be a filming site – one of only nine in the state of Georgia – to be a model program exemplifying how to teach lessons, and show how GELDS can be implemented through classroom activities,” she said. “These videos will be resources to appear on the Bright From the Start website so teachers can learn how to use GELDS in the classroom. They wanted us to model lessons that people can learn from.” One of the MJCCA’s two preschools, the Sunshine School is located at Temple Kol Emeth in Marietta. It has more than 60 years of expertise in early childhood (six weeks through five years) learning and a nationally-acclaimed, pluralistic, Jewish-values curriculum, “An Ethical Start.” “We are so proud of our wonderful East Cobb preschool,” Gail Luxenberg, MJCCA CEO, said. “We know that the Sunshine School team worked hard in preparation for this process and we are so pleased with the results. Thank you to Kim Sucan, Raye Lynn and all of the great staff for their help in this process. We know our parents are confident that their children are attending a school whose excellence is recognized by a national agency.”
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Banks, speaking of the three honors, said:
“I felt like we had won the lottery. We were being filmed, we had received word of our NAEYC re-accreditation, and we had the Quality Rated visit, which we received the results of a short time later. “People would say, ‘I Googled “best preschools in East Cobb” and The Sunshine School would come up.’ We feel so fortunate that we can continue to provide the best early childhood experience to the East Cobb community.”
MJCCA PRESCHOOL SUMMER DAY CAMPS
he MJCCA preschools (ages 6 weeks to 5 years) are gearing up for summer camp at both locations – Dunwoody (Camp Marie Benator) and East Cobb (Camp Billi Marcus). Led by certified, fully-trained teachers, these programs (available June 3 to August 2) provide a safe, nurturing and fun environment where children can make new friends, enjoy exciting activities and experience age-appropriate independence. Campers will enjoy arts and crafts, singing and dancing, games, gardening, stories, science activities, cooking, nature walks and water play. All activities are designed to enhance gross motor skills and sensory experiences, as well as increase independence. • Camp Marie Benator (MJCCA Zaban Park) – The MJCCA’s 52-acre campus offers unending exploration opportunities for its campers. Children will splash and swim in the outdoor pools and splash park; play soccer and other sports on the MJCCA’s ballfields; and enjoy feeding the ducks and story time by the beautiful lake and care for the organic garden. • Camp Billi Marcus (Temple Kol Emeth) – Children will meet lifelong friends and make everlasting memories as they play and explore at Camp Billi Marcus. The comfortable, inviting classrooms and enormous age-appropriate playgrounds offer endless opportunities for fun and learning. Campers will also acquire a love for making things grow in the beautiful, organic garden. The MJCCA preschool camps and traditional preschool’s half-day program provides students with the core curriculum and an excellent level of learning. The full-day program includes the core curriculum, as well as enrichment opportunities to round out the day and a healthy catered lunch.
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business & finance
Character Study: Joey Reiman THINKER, WRITER, HUMANITARIAN AJT CONTRIBUTOR
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he highlights of Joey Reiman’s life read like something out of a Hollywood screenplay. It’s no exaggeration to report he’s had a powerful impact on thousands of people as a businessman, writer, educator and humanitarian. In short, he’s lived his life as a mensch. And his remarkable journey began in a truly amazing way.
few new core beliefs that have guided his life:
the world might be like if companies sought to improve public life, not just their image and bottom line.
• You are what you think; as you think, so you are.
Maybe, he thought, he could find a way to help companies improve lives while also serving the interest of shareholders. That was the genesis and goal of his next endeavor: BrightHouse.
• The human mind has the power to envision and create amazing things and great wonders. • Each person has tremendous latent power in their mind. Putting the Power of Thinking to Good Use
A native of New York, Reiman attended Brandeis University. In his senior year, he wrote a screenplay and had the chutzpah to submit to Fedirico Fellini, the hugely successful and famous Italian filmmaker.
After returning to New York, Reiman wrote a musical and began an advertising career on Madison Avenue. He joined the firm of D’Arcy Masius Benton & He was subseBowles (DMB&B) quently offered a as the company’s summer internchief creative offiship on the set of cer and was evena Fellini film in tually transferred production in Italy to Atlanta, where but unfortunately in 1995 he joined Innovator Joey Reiman, father involved in a horforces with Joel of ideation, is CEO and founder Babbit and formed rific traffic accident of BrightHouse. that nearly severed Babbit and Reihis arm shortly afman, an Atlantater his arrival overbased ad agency. seas. He found himself with little to Believing that many agencies do in a small rural hospital in a forwere “ad-rich and idea-poor,” the goal eign country. of the firm was to embrace the idea of But something important hap- “thinking positively,” be creative and pened while he was recuperating: – just as importantly – match passion Reiman began to believe in the power with persistence. of ideas. It’s something that changed The agency prospered. Among the the way he views the world; he starthighlights were: ed to realize that if you can change your thoughts, you can change your life. • Being named Ad Week’s Agency of For example, although his injuries left him partially paralyzed, Reiman found himself visualizing his thumb moving as he lay in his hospital bed. He came to believe that if he could eventually move his thumb he would be able to move his shattered arm.
the Year for the Southeast region
The long months of healing proved transformative. Reiman became proof positive humans are resilient and that we all possess incredible recuperative powers, eventually regaining full use of the injured arm,. When he left Italy, he took along a
• Creating some notable – and controversial – TV spots
The Bright Ideas of BrightHouse The business, the world’s first “ideation” company, was formed to bring purpose to business and to work with leaders to create a world in which business could improve the world and be profitable. In Reiman’s mind, purpose is inextricably linked to business: It’s the positive impact businesses and their leaders seek to make in the world, and it illuminates everything in its path and defines and drives all organizational activity – innovation, communications, programs, mergers, acquisitions, HR measurement as well as recruiting and training. The Coca-Cola, Sun Trust Bank, McDonalds and Proctor & Gamble are just a few of the companies that in
recent years have embraced purpose as a part of their corporate culture. Reiman is certain that companies with this key element can be profitable and better the lives of people in meaningful ways. Over the years, he has received more than 500 awards for his visionary thinking, including the Lion at Cannes and the Gold Medal at the Houston Film Festival. Given the accolades and accomplishments, Reiman still thinks his greatest accomplishment is in being a “famillionaire” – a person whose wealth is family. He lives in Atlanta with his wife Cynthia and two sons, Alden and Julien. And to think all of this – the success, the companies, the ideas, the vision and the fulfilling home life – started in a small hospital in Italy. It’s something for all of us to think about. Al Shams is a Sandy Springs resident a former CPA and an Investment professional with more than 35 years industry experience.
• Winning 29 of 32 major presentations • Becoming the first ad shop in Atlanta to reach $100 million in business
In 1998, the company was sold to a British firm and Reiman once again had the time to do what he enjoyed most: thinking. He wondered what
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out & about
“The Experiment”: Different Directions, Both Progress FOLLOWING DR. JANET PAGE’S “GET MARRIED THIS YEAR”
Editor’s note: Our anonymous columnists, Andrew Singleman and Ellen Mazelman, are reading Dr. Janet Page’s “Get Married This Year” and following the steps therein on their dating journey. This month, they’re going forward, each in their own way.
Your Attention, Please
What Led Us Here
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BY Andrew Singleman AJT COLUMNIST
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achel and I have been dating now for just over four months now, and I can say beyond a shadow of a doubt that she is a much more private person than I am. Considering some good friends of mine know I write this column and read it, its anonymous status has even been questioned.
sized and lost my job. Let’s just say I wasn’t exactly “dating material.”
I care about and respect Rachel a great deal, so I tread a fine line every time I sit down to write about what’s happened to us since the last time you’ve heard from me. As a matter of fact, I’d say it’s an increasing challenge with each passing month – questions like “Have you used the ‘L’ word yet?” and “Could she be the one?” are inevitable.
Meanwhile, Rachel also got involved with the group. She felt joining the group gave her a chance to make some friends but also put her in a position where she would be pushed to confront her shyness. Going to an event where she didn’t know anyone was a big step – and I happen to be very grateful she made that effort.
All I’ll say right now is that I like Rachel very much and I’ll do everything I can to respect and preserve her privacy. So what’s next? Where do we go from here? How about going back to basics?
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Before you get married, you’ve got to date. And before you date, you’ve got to get out and meet people. In order to meet the people you’re going to want to date, you’ve first got to put your best foot forward – or, really, the best you forward. Of course, as the saying goes, “Nobody’s perfect.” In her book, Dr. Page emphasizes that if you’re looking for the perfect person, you’re wasting your time. And there’s also the saying though that there’s “always room for improvement,” and whether your goal is to get married, do some dating, or even just get out and make friends, that’s going to mean making some changes and taking some risks.
I think back to a personal low point: A year before I met Rachel, my divorce had just been finalized, and 16 three weeks after that, I was down-
It took a little time, but I thankfully put my divorce behind me and found work as an independent consultant. I was ready to meet people and live life again, so at that point, I got involved with the local Jewish singles group Atlanta Jewish Singles.
But what’s my point?
My point is that if you want things to change in your life, you are the one who is going to have to make it happen and work at it. Are you hung up on an old relationship? Are you too shy to introduce yourself to someone? No one is going to come banging on your door and say, “Hey, let’s get out and be friends and do something.” Take a look at what you’re doing. Is it working? If not, make a change. Dr. Page discusses a variety of things that could be holding you back and how to correct them. It isn’t an overnight fix, but it is a journey well worth taking. Eventually, if all goes well, you’ll end up in a situation similar to mine. I’m no longer looking for a relationship or wondering how and where to find one. I’m now focused on nourishing and growing one. It’s a series of steps – both Rachel and I took that first one, and now we’re on to the next.
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ow; what a difference a month – or even a weekend in NYC – makes! But let me back up for a moment... I met with Dr. Page this week and saw my parents last weekend, and they both had a very similar message: Make your announcement. Tell everyone you know that you are available and ready to date. They said the same thing but in very different ways, but in the end, the same way. Make sense? Maybe not to you, but to me, it did. Of course, all I could think of was a “Sex in the City“ episode where Charlotte got out her address book and called all of her married friends, set appointments with them and asked them to set her up on blind dates. It was her “announcement,” so to speak, in order to get married within that year. And although she didn’t end up getting married directly from one of these appointments, she did meet her spouse indirectly through this process. Interestingly, Dr. Page suggested a similar approach to Charlotte’s. She told me to start with Andrew, my counterpart, in this endeavor – ask him if he knows anyone worthwhile… and get your darn profile on JDate and Match.com updated and readyto-go! She gave me a homework assignment and some suggestions on what to write. After all, she and her colleagues did meet their soul mates via this route. My parents, meanwhile, had an odd suggestion. You are writing for the paper, they said; work it and use it. Basically, resurrect the old personal ads from New York Magazine. For those of you not familiar with the concept, hundreds of people would place a personal ad – no picture, just describing themselves and what they
were looking for – each week in the same section. I thought, “In this day and age, how ridiculous and preposterous – it could never work; not in today’s world!” But as I thought about it after meeting with Dr Page…why not? Make my big announcement! And where better to do it than in the Atlanta Jewish Times? Be the “oldschool” Charlotte. So take a leap of faith with me. No picture, and I can’t really tell you what I am looking for yet (although there is always the obvious). I’ll fill you in more after I complete another homework assignment from Dr. Page, her “Spouse Shopping List” which I apparently need to create this week. In the meantime, if you read something that might interest you, write to our editor, jmccurdy@atljewishtimes.com (he is going to kill me for this one) and tell us why I would like to go out on a date with you.
So here we go, my personal:
Single, Jewish, original New Yorker (which should tell you a lot, but don’t let it scare you away), and loves living in the South. Mom of 2 incredible kids, mostly empty-nester, 53 years old. My parents and family would tell you I am fabulous, gorgeous and perfect. My friends would probably tell you I am fun, funny and a riot to be around. I would tell you I look great for my age, have lots of friends (which tells you a lot about me), sometimes say more than I should, love to travel, love to be social and socialize, stay busy and go out with friends, and am successful. And did I mention I have two incredible kids? This month, I sign off as the 50-year-old Charlotte. Hope to hear from all of you nice Jewish men out there looking for, well, me! Until next month! And remember, if you have figured out it is me, it is between you and me!
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arts & life
Q&A: Israeli Saxophonist Uri Gurvich PLAYING ATLANTA JAZZ FESTIVAL, MAY 27 BY Elizabeth Friedly Assistant Editor
Gurvich won Israel’s Jazz Player of the Year at the age of 19. The honor led to his eventual enrollment at the Berklee College of Music, and he has since performed all over the world. The quartet is currently touring in support of their second studio album, “BabEl.” Drawing from the traditions of all five band members, this record has roots in Israel, Argentina, Bulgaria, Cuba and Morocco. In preview of the group’s performance, the Atlanta Jewish Times spoke with Gurvich about his passion for the genre as well as his new release. Atlanta Jewish Times: How has the music changed since your debut, “Storyteller”? Uri Gurvich: It’s from the same record label [Tzadik], so both records definitely have a strong Jewish theme. [But] it’s different on this new album; we have a player from Morocco that plays percussion. The direction is gonna be a little more Middle Eastern, but it’s the same core quartet on both albums and the same group we’re going to perform with in Atlanta. AJT: Speaking of which, have you been to Atlanta before? UG: Actually, it’s gonna be my first time, so I’m very excited. It’s great. AJT: Now, you’ve been to a lot of festivals. Is there anything in particular you’re looking forward to about the Atlanta Jazz Festival? UG: Well, the Atlanta festival is a very prestigious festival, and there
will be some friends there. Also, it’s considered one of the best in the country, so it’s very exciting; it’ll be great to be in the company of a lot of great musicians.
the prize was to go to Boston for the big conference of the International Association of Schools of Jazz.
of coming to New York. It’s the capital of jazz, throughout the world, so yes. I always had that in mind. I kind of planned it after going to Berklee. AJT: Any final thoughts on the new album that you’d like to add?
So I had the chance to go to that, and we really got exposed to a lot of great players and got familiar with Berkley, and eventually – in three years – I went there.
AJT: Back to the new album – what inspired “BabEl”?
UG: It really represents the mixture of different cultures, and I’m excited to bring the music here. Editor’s note: For more information on the Atlanta Jazz Festival and a complete listing of events, visit atlantafestivals.com.
UG: Well, the four of us, we come from different countries. Uri Gurvich I’m from Israel, my AJT: I understand piano player is from you’re living in New Argentina, the bassYork City now, ist is from Bulgaria, and the drum- which has a real history in jazz. Was mer is from Cuba. it a dream of yours to end up in NYC? So really “BabEl” represents this mixture of culture and languages that we have between us but [also that] we also kind of speak the same language of music. We all have different influences on the compositions. AJT: But this is still a jazz record, yes? UG: It’s definitely still a jazz record; a lot of folk music influences, but it’s all been done in this big sound called jazz, improvised music and music of the moment. It’s definitely a jazz record most of all. AJT: How did you become interested in the genre? UG: I started playing jazz as a kid, maybe like age14. I would just play in this jazz band in school, and I had a couple great teachers who were into jazz. They introduced me to a lot of records, to Charlie Parker and all these other musicians. AJT: And what was it like winning the Jazz Player of the Year at 19 years old? UG: It was fun, yeah (laughs). The great thing about it was, the prize was to go and study – my school in Israel is an affiliate of Berklee, so
UG: Definitely, yeah. I had a dream
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he 36th-annual Atlanta Jazz Festival, a month-long afair, is well underway. Among the happenings, of particular interest and excitement is the May 27 appearance of Israeli saxophonist/composer Uri Gurvich, playing with the Uri Gurvich Quartet.
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Kosher Movies: Marvin’s Room (1996) HONOR THY MOTHER AND FATHER BY RABBI HERBERT COHEN AJT CONTRIBUTOR
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oth of my parents died suddenly while they were still leading active lives. I never had to think about elder care or nursing homes, so it was not until a friend of mine asked me to accompany him on a visit to some assisted-living and nursing home facilities that I began to understand the dilemma that families experience when they are facing the reality of caring for a loved one who cannot take care of himself. Children want to do the right thing, but decisions are often made not based on what’s best but based on what is most affordable. There is a scene in “Marvin’s Room,” a serious drama with lots of comic relief, which captures this predicament. Two daughters, opposite in temperament, are visiting a senior care facility for their father. Marvin, who has been “dying for the past 20 years,” now needs full-time attention. One sister – Bessie – has been Marvin’s active caretaker for the past 17 years, ever since he had his first stroke. The other sister, Lee, has been absent all those years and even now does not want to make a personal sacrifice for her ailing father. She fears that her future will be compromised, stating unequivocally:
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ing together; I’m not going to give it all up now!”
undergo an epiphany in which they understand that living fully means giving to others, not just being concerned about one’s own needs. This, according to common interpretations of scripture, is the Jewish way.
What brings the sisters together after so many years apart is the sad news that Bessie has leukemia and may not be able to care for her father any longer. Bessie contacts Lee, who has two boys, and asks her to come with her kids so that they all can be tested as potential bone marrow donors. They may be able to save her life; and as a consequence, Bessie can continue to care for their father. But if Bessie dies, the responsibility will fall to Lee. That possible scenario is the catalyst for their visit to the elder care facility. Complicating the situation is Lee’s oldest son, Hank, who has been in a mental institution after deliberately burning down their house in an act of rebellion against his mother – who he hates and feels was the cause of his parent’s split. Hank idealizes an absentee and abusive father who he barely knew and his mother feels the brunt of this anger, so family dysfunction abounds.
For example, the Talmud tells us that it is better to visit the house of mourning than the house of feasting because the lessons learned at the latter are so profound and so meaningful for purposeful living. Moreover, the Bible exalts the commandment of honoring parents, which is defined in books of Jewish law as providing for the needs of parents, especially when they get older and cannot take care of themselves. This includes feeding them, clothing them, escorting them and respecting them.
“Marvin’s Room” gives us a window into the world of families faced with awesome decisions. It exposes the raw nerves of a group both challenged and confused by an inevitable future. Depicted are two contrasting points of view – one very dark and one optimistic – suggesting that confronting the mortality of a loved one can be a stimulus for reinventing one’s life and reordering life’s priorities.
In fact, Lee and Hank finally
“Marvin’s Room” provides a textbook case of varied responses to a life problem facing many, and in its own idiosyncratic way, recommends that love trumps all. Family endures when children and parents care for one another. Rabbi Cohen, former principal of Yeshiva Atlanta, now resides in Beit Shemesh, Israel. Visit koshermovies. com for more of his Torah-themed film reviews.
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ASSISTANT EDITOR
Pianist and Singer Michael Feinstein to Perform with ASO
Garfield Gives, Gets New Movie Role
BY Debbie Diamond
JEWS MAKING NEWS Compiled by Elizabeth Friedly
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ndrew Garfield, of “Spiderman” and “The Social Network” fame, recently showed his support for a great cause while attending the 16th Annual EIF Revlon Run/Walk for Women in New York City. He appeared with girlfriend and co-host of the event Emma Stone, and the couple walked hand-in-hand with their golden retriever, Ren. The event, which garnered the participation of more than 20,000, raises funds for women’s cancer research, counseling and outreach; since its creation in 1994, the run has distributed over $68 million. And speaking of worthy causes, Garfield also became the Worldwide Orphans Foundation’s Ambassador of Sport in 2012. Meanwhile, on the movie front, he just landed a role in Martin Scorsese’s long-in-talks project, “Silence” – guess one could call it a case of good karma that the generous celeb will star in this adaptation of Japanese author Shusaku Endo’s novel, greenlighted for June 2014. Garfield was born to a British mother and an American father – both Jewish – in Los Angeles. He grew up with his parents in Britain, where he began his acting career.
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hought of by many as the biggest draw of NBC’s singing competition “The Voice,” Adam Levine might finally be expanding upon his TV stardom. The singer and his longtime manager Jordan Feldstein (brother of Jonah Hill) have signed a development deal with NBC, for which the pair will be working on scripted, original programming for the network.
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rammy-nominated singer and pianist Michael Feinstein will join Principal Pops Conductor Michael Krajewski and the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra for an evening of favorites from the American Songbook at 8 p.m. on both May 24 and 25 in Atlanta Symphony Hall at the Woodruff Arts Center.
assistant for six years, which earned him access to numerous unpublished Gershwin songs, many of which he has since performed and recorded. Gershwin’s influence provided a solid base upon which Feinstein has evolved into one of the country’s finest interpreters of music legends like Irving Berlin, Jerome Kern, Johnny Mercer, Duke Ellington and Harry Warren. He has also become a popular performer, composer and arranger of his own original music.
He also sits on the Library of Congress National Record A multi-platinuming Preservation Board and Michael selling, two-time Emmy serves as the director of the Feinstein and five-time Grammy Jazz and Popular Song SeAward-nominated enterries for New York City’s Jazz tainer, Feinstein is widely at Lincoln Center and as the artistic recognized for his commitment to director of the Palladium Center for preserving the legacy of America’s the Performing Arts in Carmel, Ind. popular song. He performs more than He hosts the public radio program 200 concerts each year and has per“Song Travels” and is the subject of formed at Carnegie Hall, the Sydthe PBS special “Michael Feinstein’s ney Opera House and the Hollywood American Songbook.” Bowl, as well as at the White House In addition, Feinstein has also and Buckingham Palace. received three honorary doctorates; The roots of his work began in Coand his new book, “The Gershwins lumbus, Ohio, where a young Feinand Me,” is a tribute to the brothers stein began playing piano by ear as who most influenced his career. a 5-year-old. After graduating from high school, he worked in local piano bars for two years before relocating Editor’s note: Single ticket prices for to Los Angeles at the age of 20. these performances are $29 to $65 It was there, in July 1977, that the widow of legendary concert pianistactor Oscar Levant introduced Feinstein to Ira Gershwin. The young artist subsequently became Gershwin’s
and available online at atlantasymphony.org; by calling (404) 733-5000; or at the Woodruff Arts Center Box Office or any Ticketmaster outlet.
Another L.A. baby, Levine was raised in the state with parents Fred and Patsy. Both Levine’s father and maternal grandfather were Jewish, and the singer identifies strongly with his religion. Fun fact, though: He declined a bar mitzvah as a child due to his belief that modern parties place an overemphasis on cash. Well, he’s certainly got some to spare now!
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And besides his singing competition judgeship and potentially larger role in television, the Maroon 5 frontman has also released his own fragrance line. Yes, it seems like every star and their mother has one, but Levine insists his men and women’s scents bring something artful to the perfume game.
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MATZAH BALL SOUP FOR THE SOUL
What’s Mine Can Be Yours, Too NO LESS SPECIAL FOR DUPLICATION BY RACHEL LAVICTOIRE AJT Columnist
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he first step towards change is admitting you have a problem, right? Well, today I’d like to own up to one of my most unattractive qualities, something I’ve dealt with since I was very young: I’m extremely possessive. In kindergarten, I made Rachel Foody sit outside my blanket-fort for an hour while I played in it. A few years later, Jill Rubinger sat next to me while I single-handedly controlled the lives of our virtual “Sims” characters. And in fifth grade, we had a group in our math class called the “Pretty People” – which actually had nothing at all to do with being pretty – and no one could claim membership without my approval (which I never gave)! It’s fairly easy to blame these moments on immaturity or second-child syndrome. The sad truth is I had a habit of claiming things as mine – and only mine – and this problem stretched far past a reluctance to pass the Nintendo controller off to my brother. Unfortunately, I still deal with this compulsion: I want my things to be, well, mine!
For example, I will admit to some cunning conversation during my week of sorority rush this past January (though I am far from proud of it). Having decided which sorority to call “mine,” I felt it was necessary to help everyone else realize which sororities to call “theirs.” Even when talking to a good friend, I couldn’t help myself. “I don’t know what to do,” she told me, “I went to X today and I really liked them, but I also liked Y and Z.”
X was mine.
“Ya, I kinda liked X too. I’m really between X and Y,” I offered. Honestly, I’d made up my mind to put X as my first choice, and though I never lied to my friend, I certainly rescripted some of the thoughts I was having – focusing on my cons list for X and my pros list for Y, rather than the other way around. In the end, my friend chose Z, so I realize that my manipulation meant nothing; regardless, though, it wasn’t right. I don’t know why I’m prone to this sort of behavior. Morally, I know it’s wrong. I know things that are mine can also be someone else’s and that
Shabbat Candle Lighting Times shabbat blessings Blessing for the Candles Baruch Arah A-do-nai,El-o-hei-nu Melech Haolam Asher Kid-shanu b’mitzvotav V’zivanu l’hadlik ner shel Shabbat Blessed are You, Eternal our God, Sovereign of time and space. You hallow us with Your mitzvot and command us to kindle the lights of Shabbat.
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Blessing for the Wine Baruch Atah A-do-nai, El-o-hei-nu Meelech Haolam, Borei p’ri hagafen
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Praise to You, Eternal our God, Sovereign of the Universe, Creator of the fruit of the vine. Blessing for the Bread (Challah) Baruch Atah A-do-nai, El-o-hei-nu Melech haolam, Hamotzi Lechem min haaretz. Our Praise to You Eternal our God, Sovereign of the universe, Who brings forth bread from the earth.
Friday, May 17, 2013 Light Candles at: 8:15 pm Shabbat, May 18, 2013 Shabbat Ends: 9:15 pm Friday, May 24, 2013 Light Candles at: 8:20 pm Shabbat, May 25, 2013 Shabbat Ends: 9:21 pm Friday, May 31, 2013 Light Candles at: 8:24 pm Shabbat, June 1, 2013 Shabbat Ends: 9:26 pm
we have to share in order for thoughts to thrive and ideas to flourish. But there’s just something about someone stealing my individuality that really irks me. After all, it was my idea, my fort, my Sims characters – my everything! Perhaps I could learn a thing or two from this week’s parsha. Naso details the dedication of the Tabernacle, an event for which all 12 tribes have gathered together. First, as the passage reads, the tribe leaders bring a gift to the Tabernacle. “The chieftains of Israel, the heads of their fathers’ houses, presented [their offering]. They brought their offering before the Lord: six covered wagons and twelve oxen, a wagon for each two chieftains, and an ox for each one; they presented them in front of the Mishkan (Numbers 7:3).” In addition, each leader then brought his own individual offering for the dedication of the altar. G-d said to Moses: “One chieftain each day, shall present his offering for the dedication of the altar (Numbers 7:11).” The next 76 verses describe each of the 12 leaders’ offerings. The interesting point is that they’re all the same: one silver bowl, one silver sprinkling basin, one spoon of gold filled with incense, one young bull, six rams, six lambs in their first year, six goats and two oxen. That’s right: All 12 offerings were exactly alike – down to the weight of each silver item and quantity of each animal – and yet G-d insists that they all come separately. Once all 12 offerings have been made, the Torah reads: This was the dedication offering of the altar presented by the chieftains on the day it was anointed; there were 12 silver bowls, 12 silver basins and 12 gold spoons. The total of the cattle for the burnt offerings was 12 bulls, 12 rams and 12 lambs in their
first year with their meal offerings. And [there were] 12 young he-goats for sin offerings… The total of cattle for the peace offerings was 24 oxen, 60 rams, 60 hegoats and 60 lambs in their first year. This was the dedication offering for the altar, after it was anointed. Thus, in the end, they were aggregated… So why did G-d ask for them to be made separately? I see His request as a sign of His appreciation. One gift is no more or less important than the others, regardless of the fact that they are all the same. G-d took the time to accept each individual offering. Whether the silver bowl was from Nahshon on the first day or Ahiezar on the 10th, He saw the value of the contribution and welcomed it as a beautiful gift. It’s a perfect illustration of what I need to start realizing – that even if “mine” isn’t just “mine,” it’s still valuable. The idea, the fort, the Sims characters, the everything – “mine” can still be appreciated, even if someone else has the same, too. And perhaps this goes even one step further: Maybe it’s the culmination of everyone’s “mine” that provides value. Now that’s something to think about this Shabbat. Rachel LaVictoire (rlavictoire@wustl. edu) is a graduate of the Davis Academy and Westminster High School, recipient of the prestigious Nemerov Writing and Thomas H. Elliott Merit scholarships at Washington University of St. Louis and an active member of Temple Emanu-El and the Marcus Jewish Community Center of Atlanta. She was recently named to the board of St. Louis Hillel.
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Art in the Park for Adults, ages 55+ canvas painting class, no experience necessary. Sat., May 18, 9:30 a.m. $25/person; advance registration necessary. Arlington Memorial Park in Sandy Springs. (404) 389-9023 or erin.williamson@dignitmemorial. com.
Biggest Loser Challenge 3.0 Kickoff, for adults who want to make a positive lifestyle change under a professional trainer; two 45-minute sessions per week. Begins Tues., May 21. Zaban Park. (678) 812-4024 or laura.johnson@atlantajcc.org
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“What Is a Jewish Soul?” Dr. Eugen Schoenfeld discusses the themes of his recent Atlanta Jewish Times article. Sponsored by Shema Yisrael. Sun., May 19, 11 a.m. Free. JF&CS boardroom. (404) 943-1100.
Edgewise Speaker Series: Bob Bahr, former CBS reporter speaks on “The Chosen: Hollywood’s Look Back at American Jews.” Thurs., May 23, 10:30 a..m. Free. Zaban Park. (678) 812-4064 or lily.mahanaa@atlantajcc.org.
Etz Aviv Lakeside Picnic, barbeque and good company. Sun., May 19, 12 p.m. Private residence. (678) 521-5999. Sunday Matinee, viewing of the Academy Award-winning short documentary, “One Survivor Remembers.” Sun., May 19, 1 p.m. Anne Frank in the World exhibit in Sandy Springs. (770) 226-1558. BBYO Connect Summer Camp Send-Off, open to all Jewish 6th through 8th graders; pool party and supervised rock climbing, with snacks. Sun., May 19, 4 p.m. $10/person, $15/person after May 10. Zaban Park. (678) 812-4000. Fine Arts Showcase & “Spelling Bee” Performance, young artists’ galleries and poetry readings; followed by the premiere of the spring musical: “The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee.” Sun., May 19, 6 p.m. The Weber School. weberschool.org. Mon., May 20 Lessons from Our Matriarch Sarah, a special lecture with Rabbi Mordechai Pollock; all proceeds benefit Temima High School. Mon., May 20, 7:30 p.m. $25/suggested donation. Congregation Ariel Social Hall. (770) 390-9071.
“Famous Jewish Women You’ve Never Heard Of,” with Mt. Scopus Greater Hadassah, partnering with Sisterhood of OVS, welcoming scholar Barbara Rosenblit. Thurs., May 23, 7:30 p.m. Congregation Or VeShalom. RSVP to (404) 636-8582 or suzytib@ bellsouth.net.
Edgewise Speaker Series: Aaron Berger, director of the Breman Museum speaks to the organization’s rich history. Thurs., May 23, 10:30 a..m. Free. Zaban Park. (678) 812-4064 or lily.mahanaa@atlantajcc.org. Eagle Star Awards Gala, AICCSE honors those who have contributed most to the Southeast-Israel business and economic relationship. Thurs., May 30, 6 p.m. HP Graphic Arts Experience Center. aiccse.org. Fri., June 1
8th graders, high school and college graduates; provide grad’s name and school for recognition. Fri., June 1. Congregation Beth Tefillah. (404) 843-2464 ext. 104 or chabadga.com. Sat., June 2 Jewish Genetic Disease Screening, a simple blood test with genetic counseling for 19 preventable genetic diseases. Sat., June 2, 10 a.m. Free. MJCCA’s Zaban Park. sandra.bass@ atlantajcc.org. Atlanta Balalaika Orchestra Concert, traditional instruments from Eastern Europe in concert. Sat., June 2, 3 p.m. $10/members, $15/non-members. Zaban Park. (678) 812-4002 or box.office@atlantajcc.org
Dive Into Shabbat, summer series kick-off at the MJCCA pool and splash pad. Bring a picnic or purchase food. Fri., June 1, 5 p.m. Free. MJCCA’s Zaban Park. brian.glusman@atlantajcc.org. CBT Graduation Shabbat, honoring
First OVS Men’s Talmud Foundations Session, rabbi leading the lesson “Giving of the Torah.” Thurs., May 23, 7:30 p.m. Private residence. RSVP to office@orveshalom.org. Sun., May 26 Splash for Summer Sundays Kickoff, enjoy the MJCCA outdoor pool and splash park in this Sunday series, featuring various entertainers or events. Sun., May 26, 12 p.m. Zaban Park. (678) 812-4161 or brian.glusman@atlantajcc.org Mon., May 27 Uri Gurvich Quartet, celebrated saxophonist performing as part of the Atlanta Jazz Festival. Mon., May 27, 5 p.m. Piedmont Park. atlantafestivals.com. Wed., May 29 Congregation Ariel Annual Meeting, officer elections. Wed., May 29, 7 p.m.
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JEWISH PUZZLER by David Benkof
Across 1. Mighty as ___ 6. “Exodus” and others 11. “That’s the spot!” 14. Beliefs 15. “It’s ___ life” 16. Big name in sporting goods 17. “A Woman of ___, Who Can Find?” 18. Author Joseph (“Jewish Literacy”) 20. Everest guide 22. BlackBerry, e.g. 23. “___ I a stinker?” (Bugs Bunny line) 24. “___ worse than death” 26. Actress Amanda (“Hairspray”) 27. He starred in “Rise of the Planet of the Apes” 32. “___ in Ruins”: Uris 33. First anti-AIDS drug 34. Gluekel of ___ 39. Country where only a quarter of its 40,000 Jews survived the Holocaust 41. Actress Portman who played a “Star Wars” princess 42. Word with cruise or gym 43. “... l’hadlik ___ shel Chanukah” 44. Cut (away) 45. Big name in cosmetics 48. Not a Mitnaged 52. More boorish 53. “Ko ___ Hashem” (“Thus said the Lord”) 54. Logan airport symbol
55. ___ Gaon 60. Albright or Kunin 63. Columbia Jewish historian Salo 64. Beirut-to-Jerusalem dir. 65. Tevye portrayer Theodore 66. Pessimist’s words 67. It’s eaten with an egg before Tisha B’Av 68. Kosher symbol 69. Paris-born actress Anouk
28. Farmer’s prefix 29. Sounds on a kibbutz 30. ___ HaChareidis 31. Philanthropist Bronfman 35. Hebrew novelist Abraham 36. Israel’s only official religious municipality 37. Pre-euro money 38. Not even once, in a poem
40. Got ready to drive? 41. “So that he shall have no ___ of spoil” (Prov 31:11) 43. Prolific author Jacob (“A Rabbi talks with Jesus”) 46. Ruling threesome 47. “Aladdin” setting 48. Palm-shaped amulet
Down 1. Modifying wds. 2. “Evan Almighty” analogy 3. Emulate Groucho Marx 4. Love overseas 5. It’s often parsley 6. Posed for Annie Liebovitz 7. Having a knack for 8. “The ___ Land” (English/Yiddish musical) 9. Juan’s water 10. Air leak sound 11. “Chicago Hope” star Adam 12. “Book of Songs” author, Heinrich 13. Tips 19. The end of Chanukah? 21. Jerusalem Center for Public ___ 25. Left-of-center pro-Israel grp. 26. The “Exodus,” e.g. 27. Actor Klugman (“The Odd Couple”)
49. Build up 50. Yitzchak of the Palmach 51. Wrath 54. ___ Hamikdash (Holy Temple) 56. Org. for olim 57. A little liquor 58. Skye who married one of the Beastie Boys 59. Penny, perhaps 61. Abbr. on a baby announcement 62. Antlered critter
Last week’s answers
Chess Puzzle of the Week by Jon Hochberg
Challenge: Black to move: Checkmate in 2 moves
Last puzzle’s solution. 1) __, Qb5 2) BxQ, Bc2#
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Jon Hochberg is a chess instructor who has been teaching in the Atlanta area for the last 6 years. Currently, Jon runs after school chess programs at several Atlanta schools. He always welcomes new students, and enjoys working with children who have no prior chess knowledge. Jon can be reached at Jonhochberg@gmail.com to schedule private lessons.
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