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MDA Ambulance Dedicated in Rose Lubin’s Memory

By Robert Garber

A large crowd of friends, relatives, and community leaders gathered in the sanctuary at Congregation Ariel on Sunday, Jan. 5 to dedicate an ambulance for Magen David Adom (MDA) in the memory of Rose Lubin.

Howard Zavell had heard about Rose – who died while guarding the Shalem police station in Jerusalem during an attack on Nov. 6, 2023 – and, despite living in Chicago, decided hers was a story that had to be celebrated in Dunwoody, at a place that meant so much to Rose. He had already helped donate several ambulances, but something about this was special.

“Her story touched me differently than anything else since Oct. 7,” Zavell said, speaking at the event. “My wife, Anne, right away, upon us talking about her, said to me, ‘You’re going to donate an ambulance to her, I can tell.’”

Rabbi Binyomin Friedman commented that it was both a sad and celebratory moment.

“We’re happy that she’s being remembered in this way, and that her name will be perpetuated through all the good

deeds that will be performed by this ambulance, all the lives that will be saved, and all the generations that will have

come from it,” he said. “We’re just sorry it had to bear her name at this time in her life.”

(From left) Stephanie Lubin, Robin Lubin, and David Lubin accept plaques bearing Rose’s quotes from Howard Zavell.

Among the more than 150 people who gathered to celebrate Rose were several local leaders, including Dunwoody Mayor Lynn Deutsch, and State Reps. Esther Panitch and Long Tran – both of whom had recently been part of a delegation to Israel which Panitch helped lead, and both of whom had sponsored a House resolution honoring Rose in 2023.

“Having just come back from Israel, and being just a couple blocks away from where she was guarding the day that she was attacked really puts a lot of things in perspective,” said Tran. “I’m glad that this community continues to care, and do things like sponsor an ambulance, and do it in her name, and continue to remember her.”

“Once it goes into service, the ambulance -- which Howard and his friends made possible -- will help keep Rose’s memory alive,” said Richard Zelin, Midwest region director for American Friends of Magen David Adom. “As the rabbi mentioned, her name will be on the vehicle aimed at treating and saving lives for which she herself was dedicated as her role as a lone soldier and border policewoman.”

Almost everyone who spoke at the event couldn’t help but draw the direct connection between the kind of person Rose was, and the work that she did, with the role that the ambulance dedicated in her memory is destined to play.

“When I sat down to write my comments, the first thing that came to my mind was Rose’s legacy. What we are doing today, thanks to our dear donors, illustrates exactly the values that Rose lived by,” said Israeli Consul Royi Ende. “In a few weeks, this ambulance will travel in the roads of Israel, in Jerusalem.

It will travel through the same paths Rose did, wearing the Magav uniform.”

“She was probably the bravest person I’ve ever known,” said Rose’s father, David Lubin, discussing Rose’s actions on Oct. 7. “She opened up this gate and worked with people to bring ambulances in and out of Sa’ad to take the wounded to the helicopters to be taken out, airlifted, out of that area. And here we are, of all things, dedicating an ambulance, something she was truly connected to.”

“On Oct. 7, she was a hero – not because she killed the enemy or fired her weapon. Unusual to Rose’s heroic story, she did neither of those,” said Rose’s mother, Robin Lubin, who delayed her pre-prepared remarks to speak from the heart. “She saved lives, Jewish or not Jewish.”

“Rose did not judge people,” David Lubin noted, in the same vein. “She didn’t. And an ambulance doesn’t judge people. It doesn’t drive past the person who’s a terrorist, the Muslim, the Christian, the Baha’i, the non-believer, the Haredi, whatever it is – that ambulance goes to protect and help anyone – nonjudgmental. Rose lived her life that way, and we all should.”

The ambulance, which bears two quotes from Rose – one on each of the doors – and has a collage she made installed on the inside, will soon be patrolling the streets in Israel.

“Knowing that it’s going to change their lives when they’re at their worst and that it’s just going to help save their lives – I think that is something that stands by Rose so well,” said Lily Lubin, Rose’s younger sister. “Now that she isn’t here, there’s still a way for her to bring life towards others.” ì

The Lubin family, Howard Zavell, Richard Zelin, Royi Ende, and others cut the ribbon for the Magen David Adom ambulance dedicated to Rose Lubin.

Rothbaum Joins Ahavath Achim as Interim Rabbi

By Marcia Caller Jaffe

Dr. Mark Stern, president of Ahavath Achim Synagogue, announced the addition of Rabbi Michael Rothbaum to serve as associate clergy, along with the formation of a search committee to secure a permanent assistant rabbi.

Stern’s letter to the membership stated, “It is with great joy and sincere enthusiasm that we announce the arrival of Rabbi Mike Rothbaum as our new Interim Associate Rabbi through July 2025. With a focus on spirituality, pastoral care, and social justice, he will help while our new clergy search is underway. Rabbi Rothbaum and his husband, Anthony Russell, have made AA their spiritual home for the past few years. During our recent High Holiday services … their deep love of Torah and Yiddishkeit added to our spiritual experience. Rabbi Mike led services and offered kavanot (spiritual intentions), and Anthony lent his beautiful voice and Yiddish language talents to our  meshorerim (singing ensembles)

and in cantorial leadership during our services, and the beautiful rendition of ‘Hineni.’”

Russell, who is Black, was featured in a 2022 Atlanta Jewish Times article, “Atlanta’s Yiddish Musical Gem.”

Rabbi Rothbaum said, “What an absolute mechayeh to join the clergy team at Ahavath Achim! Since we walked in

Senior Rabbi Laurence Rosenthal (left) and Rabbi Mike Rothbaum became acquainted through Atlanta Rabbinical Association functions, and again on a post-Oct. 7 trip to Israel with the Jewish Federation of Greater Atlanta.

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the door as visitors, Anthony and I have felt profound love from the special members of this community and from Rabbi Rosenthal and Rabbi Sandler. For over 130 years, the AA has been a beacon in the Atlanta Jewish world for innovative education, ritual, and justice initiatives, rooted in authentic Jewish practice and communal service. To serve in a community guided by the dynamic and visionary leadership of Rabbi Laurence Rosenthal is a true blessing.”

Rabbi Rothbaum’s role will include: enriching the spiritual programming and worship experiences; providing compassionate pastoral care; and developing and expanding social justice initiatives.

AA’s Board of Directors announced the formation of a clergy search committee to recruit the next rabbi. It will be chaired by Sarah Cohen and Randy Weinstein, with Larry Gold, Nancy Levine, Rachel Joseph, Eric Miller, and Brandon Goldberg rounding out committee. They are also forming a consultants committee to help vet, interview, and work with the committee and candidates. They will be working with the The United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism (USCJ) and The Rabbinical Assembly.

Weinstein said, “Sarah and I are delighted to lead this search … we are excited to bring candidates who will embrace our traditional legacy and bring enthusiasm to supporting our members’ unique spiritual journeys.”

The goal is to identify a new assistant rabbi by late spring.

Ahavath Achim Senior Rabbi Laurence Rosenthal related, “I’ve known Rabbi Mike from various Atlanta Rabbinical Association functions. I was impressed by his thoughtful and deep Torah insights. Where I really became impressed was our Federation trip to Israel last January after Oct. 7. He brought a very thoughtful voice and compassion to the trip. He also created meaningful connections with some of the rabbis one wouldn’t normally expect. He’s a person of strong convictions who can listen deeply and make connections with people from very diverse backgrounds. I’m excited to see what he’ll do at Ahavath Achim.”

Rothbaum was previously rabbi at Reconstructionist congregation Bet Haverim, which states that they “provide contemporary experiences in which Jewish practices can integrate with social consciousness, intellectual curiosity, sexual orientation, and familial bonds.”

Rabbi Rothbaum is also on record in the Atlanta Journal-Constitution as representing congregation Temple Beth David, endorsing Senators Raphael Warnock and Jon Ossoff’s controversial vote to restrict shipments of arms to Israel.

On Dec. 28, AA Rabbi Emeritus Neal Sandler addressed the congregation to formally step back from the part-time role he held over the past few years. ì

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AJFF to Celebrate 25th Anniversary

By Bob Bahr

The Atlanta Jewish Film Festival kicked off its 25th Silver Anniversary celebration with a preview of this year’s festival before a capacity audience in The Temple’s social hall on Jan. 14. The AJFF has scheduled 50 feature films and documentaries from 20 countries during the festival this year, which opens on Feb. 19. There’s an additional 14 short films running in three programs.

The anniversary is being used by the AJFF as an opportunity to reposition itself in time of rapid technological and social change. However, the festival, and its executive and artistic director, Kenny Blank, sees all these challenges as an opportunity.

“The 25th milestone is a springboard for growth,” Blank notes, “expanding education, investing in filmmakers, enhancing access and driving innovation to deepen community impact.”

The festival is returning to the Cobb Energy Center for its opening night presentation on Feb. 19 of “Bad Shabbos.” It’s

an American comedy film that springs to life amidst the mishaps and unpredictable calamities of a Shabbat dinner on the Upper West Side of New York City.

On March 1, there will be a tribute to Jerry Lewis, the comedy great, who died in 2017. His son, Christopher, will be the

guest for screenings of Lewis’ 1960 production of “The Bell Boy.” He’ll also be on hand for a documentary surrounding the controversial unfinished 1972 film Lewis attempted to create about a clown and the children he befriends in Auschwitz.

The closing night on March 6 at the

Sandy Springs Performing Arts Center is “Cheers to Life,” a Brazilian dramatic comedy that follows a young couple to Israel as they rediscover themselves, their spiritual identity and each other.

Following the 80 screenings in six theaters around the city, 15 of the films,

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The Kenny Blank Vision Initiative is a $2.5 million fundraising campaign named for the festival’s director.

“Bad Shabbos,” a comedy about a Sabbath dinner that goes awry, is the festival’s opening night film.

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along with the three programs of shorts, will be available, virtually, in Georgia from March 7-16.

When tickets go on sale to the general public at noon on Feb. 5, you’ll be able to buy them, for the first time, on a newly released smartphone app. The program will also allow you to build a personal schedule for the films you’re attending, to receive breaking news about updates to scheduled events and audience awards voting. It’s available as both an Apple and Android app.

The app will also help the festival develop a more personal relationship with its many supporters as it pursues a campaign over the next year to raise $2.5 million to fund an expanded series of programs. The campaign, which is called the Kenny Blank Vision Initiative, is an outgrowth of a comprehensive review of what the festival wants to become in the future, a more active supporter of yearround programming and educational opportunities.

The AJFF is planning to expand streaming offerings and free screening events. It hopes to create classroom programming and curriculum development with its educational partners and will offer for the first time at this year’s festival a school field trip program on Feb. 27.

It’s expanding its filmmaker fund to support young creative talents with direct grants and mentoring relationships.

The new funding is also aimed at making a concerted effort by the festival to broaden its appeal beyond the Jewish community through stronger intergroup partnerships and community-focused events.

Kenny Blank has a long history of service on the board of the Arthur Blank Family Foundation that his father has generously funded. He welcomed the personal nature that the new initiative represents.

“I am deeply honored to have my name associated with this visionary initiative and humbled by the opportunity to continue shaping AJFF’s legacy,” he said.

The AJFF Board President Dina Gerson believes that the fund will be more than just a way to grow the reach of the annual festival, it will be a way to extend the work of the festival throughout the year.

“The Kenny Blank Vision Initiative transcends the festival, ensuring that our storied organization is positioned as a powerful engine for cultural growth, year-round audience engagement, and global impact,” Gerson said.

The new fundraiser is also in recognition of the new challenges that have beset the Jewish community locally, nationally and internationally since the attack on Israel on Oct. 7, 2023. The American Jewish Committee, an AJFF founding partner, took note of those challenges in the introduction to the 2025 AJFF program guide that was mailed earlier this month to the community.

In it, the local AJC chair, Belinda Morris, and Dov Wilker, AJC Southeast area director of the organization, noted that “unprecedented levels of antisemitism underscore the vital need for resilience and unity,” and have confirmed the missions of both the AJC and the AJFF.

“Now, more than ever,” Morris and Wilker wrote, “our roles are critical.” ì

A tribute to film comedy legend Jerry Lewis is scheduled for March 1.

Legendary Icons Remembered at Breman Museum

By Robyn Spizman Gerson

Leave it to The Breman Museum and Cultural Center to present music to our ears and a captivating evening that touched hearts and kept the music going.

“Songs For Someone You Love” was a musical benefit, a night of purpose and inspiration. A throwback to the days of the Copacabana, this musical tribute, held on Dec. 8, honored the memories of four devoted legendary community leaders joining the Breman’s Music Series. The gala’s Honorary Host Committee included the Levison, Blonder, and Asher families, all of whom have played an instrumental role in supporting the Breman’s mission. The evening featured a captivating musical performance by the multi-talented Jenny Levison and friends.

With a packed house, applause and standing ovations, Jenny Levison, along with her musically gifted friends, transported the audience back in time, featuring songs about love and life. Performers shared intimate stories of the people in their lives who influenced the love songs they sang.

The evening was originally planned with Lois Blonder, of blessed memory, who was chairing the event. As life would have it, Lois -- along with the late Breman benefac-

tors Jarvin Levison (Jenny’s father), Sandra Adair, and Tom Asher -- were celebrated posthumously for their unwavering support to The Breman. Appropriately named,

“Songs for Someone You Love,” the proceeds benefited The Breman’s music programming, helping the cultural center continue to bring exceptional performances well into

Jenny Levison and Mitchell Anderson at the “Songs for Somone You Love” musical benefit on Dec. 8 // Photo by Casey Ford

Leslie Gordon, executive director of The Breman, speaks during the musical benefit // Photo by Casey Ford

the future.

Program supporters that night include the Atlanta Mayor’s Office of Cultural Affairs, Fulton County Arts & Culture, The Molly Blank Fund and the Jewish Federation of Greater Atlanta.

This evening of love songs gathered patrons, supporters, family and friends who were welcomed as The Breman was transformed into a Copacabana club-like atmosphere with hand-stirred cocktails, a delicious dinner by Kosher Touch and a lively performance orchestrated by Jenny Levison and friends.

Jenny, well known as “Atlanta’s Soup Diva,” also a multi-talented actress, is best known as “Souper Jenny,” pouring love into her souper Jenny soups and life itself. Following the delicious fare, Jenny and her cast of singers, musicians and more shared a line-up of love songs. It was a fitting evening sharing these iconic individuals who loved The Breman, the individuals honored and everything it stands for with a musically magical and deeply meaningful momentous celebration.

Looking forward to The Breman’s future and in support of the music series, executive director Leslie Gordon said, “We are pleased to honor these irreplaceable patrons on this special night that will help The Breman keep the music playing for years to come, as we feel certain they would wish.” She added, “I love the fact that we’re together for one night celebrating each of these remarkable individuals who left a legacy for The Breman that remains undeniably instrumental in our continued success. Jarvin Levison and Sandra Adair attended the music series, loved and supported it. Jarvis was our guardian angel and did so much for the museum. Tom Asher made sure, for example, The Breman has incredible documents and artifacts that are now in the Cuba Family Archives. And Lois, who even celebrated her 90th birthday at The Breman, was involved in chairing and planning this event for others. Lois is a part of what makes this museum special, and we must keep the music going and celebrate them all tonight.”

As the performance began, a video montage played The Beatles, “In My Life,” and set the tone remembering with love

the fabulous four. Tom, Jarvin, Sandra and Lois embodied a love for The Breman and Jewish community. It was a powerful kind of love generously extended to anyone they encountered. Leslie Gordon added, “Each of our honorees had a magical spark that just made everyone feel special. Sharing the evening with someone you love is the ideal way to personify the devotion and passion these individuals devoted to The Breman.”

Jenny Levison’s brother, Michael, added, “When our father passed away, we knew how much the music series meant to him, and we are pleased to announce our family has committed the next 10 years to be the lead sponsor for the music series.”

He explained, “The series needs all of our support and encouraged donations from supporters to keep the music going.”

As the songs flowed, they ranged from, “I’ve Looked at Life from Both Sides Now,” to “Someone to Watch Over Me.” Yes, love was in the air. The imprint of these iconic legendary individuals was celebrated for the passion each brought to The Breman embracing our past, present and securing the future for the Jewish community. The vibe and applause at the musical extravaganza were resounding and an evening that will go down in Breman history as will the memories of the fabulous four. Love filled the room, and tribute was sensitively paid while acknowledging the deep-felt loss of each of these beautiful souls along with the magic of their lives.

As the evening ended, there was an awareness of how people come into our lives for a reason. They make us all better by their endless gifts, words and actions. When it’s a deep abiding love from people who changed so many lives for the better, it’s unforgettable. Such is the legacy of Tom Asher, Jarvin Levison, Sandra Adair and Lois Blonder. They defined community. Their love and devotion remind us of the unwavering support we can give each other and what matters most, which will ultimately help us all get through.

In keeping with the musical love song from “Wicked” … “We have been changed for good. Because we all knew you.”

For more information, please visit www.thebreman.org. ì

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The Indelible Impact of Mentorship

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“It feels so good to have a PAL (Jewish mentor). He’s a great role model for me as I’m growing up. He helps me make good choices as I’m deciding who I want to be.” - Little PAL, age 15

Every parent wants their child to live up to their full potential. Sometimes there are familial and external factors that can cause kids and teens to need additional support along the way, and that’s where a mentor can make an indelible impact on a child’s life. Each January, Jewish Family & Career Services (JF&CS) celebrates and recognizes the impact of mentoring relationships during National Mentoring Month.

A recent study commissioned by the Boston-based nonprofit organization MENTOR found that 54 percent of young people feel that having a mentor has supported their mental health, 74 percent of those who had a mentor said that that person contributed significantly to their later success in life, and that 92 percent are more likely to volunteer in their communities thanks to having a mentor.

Children growing up in nontraditional family situations—whether in single-parent households, or being raised by grandparents, legal guardians, or siblings—often face unique challenges. These children may lack consistent

mentorship or access to resources that help build confidence, resilience, and a sense of belonging. The PAL program is designed to provide them with the support, guidance, and connection they need to thrive within the Jewish community. It’s important for a Jewish child to have a Jewish mentor because it helps them build a strong sense of identity, connection, and cultural continuity. A Jewish mentor can share and reinforce the values, customs, and traditions of Judaism while also understanding the unique experiences or challenges Jewish children face. A Jewish mentor can serve as a positive role model, demonstrating how to integrate Jewish values and practices into daily life, whether through acts of kindrepairing the world (tikkun ), or celebrating Jewish holidays.

Since 1986, JF&CS has taken on the responsibility of aiding in the mentorship of our young Jewish generations in

“The PAL Program was designed to foster community, instill Jewish pride, and build a strong connection between mentors and their match,” said Sarah Bernstein, PAL and Young Professionals Program Manager at JF&CS, “but the impact of this incredible program reaches so far beyond that. Many of our volunteers go on to work in our community long after their time with the PAL program.”

As Atlanta’s only Jewish Big Brother/Big Sister program for nearly four decades, the PAL program has made countless matches of Jewish young professional mentors (Big PALs) with Jewish children between the ages of 5-17 (Little PALs). It has touched the lives of hun-

dreds of children, families, and volunteers and formed close relationships that, in some cases, have lasted decades.

For Big PAL Ilissa Paulen Feiler, the Jewish connection with Little PAL Chelsea (now 15) means everything. “You’re able to have a deeper relationship, because you have shared experiences,” she said. “It creates an extra bit of intimacy.” Ilissa was first matched with Chelsea in 2014. As a young professional, Ilissa served on the host committee of Havinagala, the longtime fundraiser for the PAL program. Her good friend, Carly Sonenshine, was helming the program at that time and encouraged Ilissa to become a Big PAL. Carly knew Chelsea’s mom, Laura, wanted Chelsea to have a Big PAL, and that Ilissa would be the perfect match. Ilissa took the leap of faith, which has had a positive ripple effect on all of their lives.

“Our family doesn’t have a dad, but Ilissa has been a rock for Chelsea,” said Laura. “We had some bumpy patches during elementary school, and Ilissa has been there—not only for Chelsea but as a sounding board for me, too.”

“I can’t thank Ilissa enough for having something to do with who Chelsea has developed into as a 15-year-old,” emphasized Laura. “She’s had a hand in encouraging Chelsea to be exactly who she is every step of the way, and helped gently guide her into who she is today. She’s been there for her no matter what phase of life.”

The feelings are mutual for Ilissa. Being with Chelsea over the last 10 years — from kindergarten to now nearly driving — has coincided with a lot of growth in her own life: getting married to her husband, Brian, and welcoming two

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Big PAL Ilissa Paulen Feiler, former Big PAL Carly Sonenshine, and Little PAL Chelsea at the Fox Theatre.

beautiful children.

“She prepared me for my own kids in certain ways,” reflected Ilissa. “Being around Chelsea has taught me to be a more patient and understanding person. I also get to enjoy a different type of relationship with her than I do with my children—instead of a parenting role, Chelsea and I have a really good friendship.”

Ilissa was named the 2025 Joel Libowsky Big PAL of the Year. This award honors exemplary Jewish mentors who

have had a superlative influence on their Little PALs and families. Big PALs are nominated by their Little PAL families and are chosen by Joel. Ilissa joins past winners Nate Rubin (2024), Sam Perlman (2023), Jason Zutty (2022), Kim Green (2021), and Robert Tinter (2020).

Joel, the award’s namesake, is a twotime Big PAL and longtime supporter and advocate of the program.

“The reason I am so passionate about the PAL program is that I have

seen firsthand the incredible impact mentoring young Jewish individuals has on their self-confidence and self-esteem,” explained Joel. “I’ve had the privilege of watching [my former Little PALs] Blake and Scott grow into amazing adults.”

“Being a Big PAL inspired me to be a better person every day and made me realize that I am truly happiest when I’m giving of myself to others,” he continued. “The positive impact of this program, both for the Big and Little PALs, is immea-

surable. Their lives—and mine—have been forever changed for the better.”

Havinagala raises critical funds for the PAL program. This upscale event takes place Saturday, Jan. 25, and is always a highly anticipated gathering of young Jewish professionals. Tickets and sponsorships are available at jfcsatl.org. To learn more about the PAL program, visit jfcsatl.org/pal.

JF&CS Marketing contributed to this report. ì

Big PAL Ilissa Paulen Feiler and Little PAL Chelsea enjoy a day at the pool.

Big PAL Ilissa Paulen Feiler and Little PAL Chelsea, serving as flower girl.

Ilissa Paulen Feiler, her husband, Brian, and Little PAL Chelsea.

Sentimental Siddur Presentations Connect Generations

By Marcia Caller Jaffe

For decades, some of the Jewish day schools have carried on the precious tradition of presenting young students with their own customized Siddur. Granted the “game has been upped” since this writer’s Epstein School experience with felt and glue in the 1990s, the sentiment still rings true.

Maggie Gallant Isenberg recalled, “We had no idea how special this tradition was to be. I received my Siddur at my bat mitzvah; the second-grade ceremony at Davis will truly be one of our most cherished memories. Between seeing the families present their designs to their children and read aloud their inscriptions and then … the musical performances by the kids, it brings tears to my eyes even still. I wish the whole world could have seen it.”

When she began designing daughter, Lucy’s, Siddur, Isenberg wanted to capture the essence of what “makes Lucy, Lucy (so loving and so much fun),” as well as celebrate the profound privilege of being Jewish. Isenberg felt lucky to have three of Lucy’s grandparents present and felt the presence of her recently deceased “Nana.”

She said, “I wanted the design to inspire her, as we say in the ‘Shema,’ to pray ‘with all her heart, with all her soul and with all her might.’ This event at Davis, I believe, further strengthened what we believe will be a lifelong bond with her faith and her people. What more could you want as a Jewish parent? Advice for parents … bring tissues, lots of tissues.”

Isenberg utilized her own PR agency’s Superjuice designer, Madison Mendel, to capture the essence of Lucy’s design, but also reflect what a privilege it is to come from the generations of proud Jewish people. She stated, “I could go on about this process, but I loved every minute of it. I had a fabulous artist embroider Madison’s designs with a company called Cinco de Mama.”

Parent Elaine Mebel Strauss, who spent her own early years at The Epstein School, now has two children at Davis Academy. She was stirred by son, Michael’s, engagement in the Siddur presentation process while harkening upon the tradition of Jewish women making needlepoint lifecycle gifts for their children.

She stated, “Having recently learned needlepoint, I wanted to use that for Michael’s Siddur cover. With some inspiration from the “The Nimble Needle,” I worked with Michael to design the cov-

er.”

Together, they chose a Magen David and inside each triangle were his areas of interest: science, math, music, Lego’s, skiing, and space. On the back, they used stripes with various needlepoint stitches and shades of blue. Between July and November, several months were dedicated to needlepointing. Strauss continued, “It felt like the needlepoint was attached to my hip for a few months as I took it everywhere! The Davis Siddur ceremony itself was incredibly meaningful and several rabbis from across Atlanta were represented and spoke at Davis during the school morning Kabbalat shabbat

service -- it felt like our kids and all of us were getting a big hug from the entire Jewish community of Atlanta!”

Davis Academy music teacher Michelle Gimpelevich’s daughter, Rozalia’s, Siddur cover began with a trip to the fabric store to select textures and craft the design. On Friday, Dec. 13, Michelle experienced Kabbalat HaSiddur in a new and deeply personal way. As a music teacher at Davis Academy for 11 years, this was her tenth time conducting second graders receiving their Siddurim — but her first as a parent.

She said, “My daughter, Rozalia Esther, worked with her grandmother, Luna “Nunie” Cygielman, to design her

beautiful Siddur cover. Surrounded by her grandparents, sister, Sasha, and my husband, Greg, and me — this moment beautifully blended tradition, creativity, and love, making it truly unforgettable.”

Parent Lauren Cohen, who owns her own craft business, found the Davis process a little “overwhelming,” starting from scratch (vs. Epstein where they provide a cover with the child’s name).

She stated, “I was working until the last second on my daughter’s design.” Cohen helps others and executes five to seven covers per year.

Isenberg concluded, “I can barely write about it without tearing up again!” ì

Michael Strauss’s mom went for the needlepoint tradition representing his specific interests.

Lucy Eisenberg had a professional designer and Cinco de Mama embroidering to execute her cheerful Siddur cover.

Parker Cohen’s mom, Lauren, owns her own craft business. Parker went for a pearl and star design.

Superstar Choir Performs at B’nai Torah

By Robert Garber

A much-anticipated reprise, the Jewish Family & Career Services Superstar Choir performed their second annual concert on Dec. 12, in a brand-new location.

“We’re very excited this year, because last year it was just a small … audience, and this year, because we moved it to B’nai Torah, we’ve got 170 people coming,” said Michele Fox, one of the choir directors. “It’s been an incredible experience working with this group of people. They’re so excited and so determined. Even though they’re challenged, they have learned all the words to all the songs and aren’t even using their books.”

The choir, which came about in 2023, is comprised of several clients who utilize IndepenceWORKS, JF&CS’s Community Access Group for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities.

“JF&CS reached out to me and said, ‘We’re thinking of doing this, what do you think?’ and I said, ‘I’m in,’ and I started re-

cruiting my wonderful choir volunteers,” said Cherie Aviv, a JF&CS volunteer and one of the choir managers, who also helped recruit the choir directors, Michele Fox and Carol Schemo. “They sing with a local choral group that sings in senior living. They came, picked out the

songs, worked with Richard Siegel, who’s the pianist, and with Andrew (Hamby), who’s a staff member – came up with the songs, and they rehearsed twice a week for about six to eight weeks.”

– and they sung them with a level of joy found only in those who have practiced singing to the point of perfection.

“The clients just love it,” said Aviv, “they feel inspired, they rehearse when I’m not there twice a week. It’s very uplifting. They get dressed up, they do their hair and makeup today – they’re getting it done in the room over there. They get their choir robes on. They feel so professional, and they are professional.”

“When we came back this year to start rehearsals again, they remembered us and were so excited to see us,” said Fox, “especially because they realized that they were going to be doing another holiday show.”

“It was a very small kind of homemade production, and it has grown over the years,” said Abby Lail-Frantz, community advocacy manager at JF&CS and the other choir manager, describing how the choir started. “But the idea is to put the spotlight on this population. Often people are afraid to stare, look at someone with a disability, look at someone who looks a bit different. We’re trying to do just the opposite. We’re putting them in a space where they get command of the room.”

And command the room they did. After having lunch together at the location and getting the chance to take some pictures to remember the event by, the choir members slowly filtered into the social hall, which had filled with people, many of whom were friends or relatives of choir members, but many of whom were community members interested in the show.

Then they began to sing a series of non-denominational holiday songs, selected by the choir members themselves

“They are such a gift for us,” said Schemo. “Each one of them has their own set of challenges, but when we get into the room and start singing, all of that goes out the window. Everyone sparkles, and they’re just so full of enthusiasm. And right now, with the world the way it is, this has been a breath of fresh air for us and them, because when we’re singing, nothing else really matters.”

The choir concluded with “Let There be Peace on Earth,” but sung it twice. First, they sang it by themselves, and then the whole of the audience was invited to stand and sing it with them. The choir applauded the audience as they did so, and over 200 voices harmonized, filling the hall.

Best friends and choir members, Todd and Lauren, were ecstatic to have gotten to perform together once again.

“I just felt really good, because when I perform up there it makes me feel like I accomplished something,” Lauren said.

“I feel happy, I feel excited to be there with my best friend Lauren,” said Todd. They both excitedly answered yes when asked if they’d do it again next year.

“We know that when we can connect our treasured clients with activities that really do tap into their talent, and their passion, and allow them to express themselves fully, that it brings joy, and light, and love to everybody else,” said Terri Bonoff, CEO of JF&CS. “And during these times, when there is so much darkness, I watched the people in this room, and we weren’t dark anymore. It truly does lift spirits, and not just for the choir, but for those of us who are blessed to be in the room listening.” ì

JF&CS Superstar Choir members getting ready to sing // Photo courtesy of Facebook

JF&CS Superstar Choir members walking into social hall to great applause // Photo courtesy of Facebook

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Shabbat Across Atlanta Planned for Jan. 31

OneTable, a North American nonprofit empowering people who don’t yet have a consistent Shabbat dinner practice to build one that feels authentic, sustainable, and valuable, announced Shabbat Across Atlanta wil take place on Jan. 31.

With generous philanthropic support from the Zalik Foundation and inspired by Atlanta community leaders’ desire to more frequently host or attend Shabbat dinners, this initiative will see Jewish homes across Atlanta open their doors to celebrate an evening of connection, reflection, and tradition.

“This is an exciting, community-wide and cross-generational initiative inviting Atlantans to create sacred spaces in time with the goal of uniting nearly 1,000 individuals from across Atlanta’s diverse Jewish community,” said Amy Bebchick, chief program officer at OneTable. “By embracing the traditions of Shabbat, we can disconnect from the noise of everyday life and reconnect with community, family, and ourselves.”

“More than Jews have kept Shabbat, Shabbat has kept the Jews. Shabbat is the cornerstone of a thriving Jewish family and community,” shared Helen and David Zalik. “A Shabbat dinner with family and friends can bring great meaning, joy and connection into your life — as it has for ours.”

Leading up to Jan. 31, Shabbat dinner hosts will have the opportunity to participate in several Shabbat education workshops to prepare them to welcome guests

Shabbat Across Atlanta will take place on Jan. 31 with the goal of uniting nearly 1,000 individuals from across Atlanta’s diverse Jewish community.

into their homes and engage in Shabbat dinner rituals filled with meaning. It’s expected that Shabbat dinners will take place in more than 100 homes as part of the initiative. Individuals who are interested can sign up for program updates at onetable.org/atlanta.

Shabbat Across Atlanta is open to everyone, regardless of age, and all are welcome. Along with the support from the Zalik Foundation, local organizations on the steering committee and numerous other community partners reflect a diverse array of Atlanta Jewish organizations.

Together they aim to:

* Inspire joyful Shabbat practice: Encourage people who may not

It’s expected that Shabbat dinners will take place in more than 100 homes as part of OneTable’s Shabbat Across Atlanta initiative.

regularly celebrate Shabbat to embrace the tradition by hosting or finding a meaningful and joyful Shabbat dinner.

* Strengthen Jewish community bonds: Use this shared Shabbat experience to foster deeper connections and relationships within Jewish Atlanta, bringing together diverse participants across the city.

* Deepen connections in Atlanta: Strengthen relationships within the Jewish community by connecting the beauty of Shabbat rituals and traditions.

“In collaboration with OneTable, the Zalik Foundation, and local Jewish organizations, Shabbat Across Atlanta will help the community build lasting connections far beyond the Shabbat dinner

table,” continued Bebchick. “In today’s post-Oct. 7 world, connections and building community are essential to navigating life’s challenges and bringing people together to create opportunities for new friendships, shared experiences, and a renewed sense of belonging.”

The steering committee members for Shabbat Across Atlanta include local lay leaders and representatives from The Zalik Foundation, Marcus Jewish Community Center of Atlanta, Jewish Federation of Greater Atlanta, The Temple, Chabad of Georgia, Atlanta Rabbinical Association, and Congregation Ohr HaTorah. ì

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Japan’s Kaneka Buys Israeli Medical Device Startup

Japanese conglomerate Kaneka Corp. has inked an agreement to buy Is-

Today in Israeli History

Jan. 15, 1958: Israel (Rudolf) Kastner is cleared by the Israeli Supreme Court of any wrongdoing in his activities during World War II as the head of the Judenrat (Jewish Council) in Hungary under the Nazi occupation.

Israel’s first astronaut, Col. Ilan Ramon, kept kosher and observed Shabbat during his mission aboard the space shuttle Columbia.

Jan. 16, 2003: The space shuttle Columbia launches with Israel’s first astronaut, Ilan Ramon. A piece of foam damages a wing on liftoff. As a result, Columbia disintegrates on re-entry Feb. 1, killing the crew.

Jan. 17, 1930: Sir John Chancellor, the British high commissioner, sends a 90-page dispatch to the Colonial Office that enumerates Arab grievances and urges an end to efforts to establish a Jewish national home in Palestine.

Jan. 18, 1991: The morning after U.S.-led allied forces launch airstrikes on Iraq at the start of the Persian Gulf War, eight Iraqi Scud missiles hit Israel. Seven people are wounded, and residential buildings are damaged in Haifa and Tel Aviv.

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raeli startup Endostream Medical, a medical device developer for the treatment of brain aneurysms, in a deal valued at about $100 million.

Following the acquisition, the operations of the Or Akiva-based medical device startup will remain in Israel and serve as Kaneka’s research and development center. Kaneka plans to keep Endostream’s 12 employees and hire additional staff to jointly develop devices for the treatment of cerebrovascular diseases that affect the blood flow to the brain, such as aneurysms and strokes.

Founded in 2015 by Danel Mayer, CEO, and Alon May, VP of Technology, Endostream has developed an implant device called Nautilus for the treatment of brain aneurysms. The device has a spiraling design made of nitinol, or nickel titanium, wire covered with a platinum based alloy coil sleeve to block and divert blood flow to the aneurysm.

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Five US-Israeli Clean Tech Projects to Receive $7.5M in Grants

BIRD Energy, which works to promote cooperation between Israeli and American companies, announced that the Energy Ministry, Israel Innovation Authority and U.S. Department of Energy will invest $7.5 million in five joint projects for firms from both countries in the fields of clean energy. The five approved projects are:

Tuviah Friedman is shown with nephew Amir Kangun in Vienna in 1950 during his Nazihunting days with the Haganah.

* Development of a system combining hydrogen and diesel to improve the efficiency of ship engines by Israel’s Lucy Borchard Shipping from Israel and American Newlight Marine Technologies of the U.S.

* Development of the next generation of green ammonia by Israeli Nitrofix and the American company ENERGY 1S1.

* Development of an efficient heat pump for residential buildings by Israeli company OASIX Energy and the American company EN-POWER Group.

* Development of emergency generators based on aluminum-air technology by Phinergy from Israel and the New York Electric Power Company (NYPA) will develop emergency generators based on aluminum-air technology.

* Collaboration on chemical recycling of PVC Israel’s Plasticback and the American company Freepoint Eco-Systems.

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Jan. 28, 1996: About 10,000 Ethiopian Jews demonstrate outside Prime Minister Shimon Peres’ office to protest the government’s decision, based on fear of AIDS, to throw out blood donated by thousands of Ethiopian Israelis.

Jan. 19, 2010: Mahmoud al-Mabhouh, a senior Hamas military commander, is suffocated in his hotel room shortly after arriving in Dubai. A police report blames a “professional criminal gang.” The Mossad is suspected.

Jan. 20, 2014: Israel signs a security cooperation accord with Kazakhstan, a former Soviet republic with a Sunni Muslim majority, building on two decades of pacts covering telecommunications, technology and science.

Jan. 21, 1968: Mapai, the dominant political party during Israel’s first two decades, joins with two smaller left-leaning parties, Ahdut Ha’avoda and Rafi, to form the Labor Party at a conference chaired by Mapai’s Golda Meir.

Jan. 22, 1979: Ali Hassan Salameh, the chief of operations for the terrorist group Black September, is killed by a Mossad car bomb in Beirut in revenge for the killing of 11 Israeli Olympians in Munich in 1972.

Jan. 23, 1922: Tuviah Samuel Friedman, a Holocaust survivor and Nazi-hunter involved in the search for Adolf Eichmann, is born in Poland. He works with the Haganah in searching for Nazis across Europe after World War II.

Jan. 24, 1965: Syrian police arrest businessman Kamel Amin Tha’abet at his Damascus home and charge him with espionage. Tha’abet is actually successful Mossad agent Eli Cohen, who is hanged May 18, 1965.

Jan. 25, 1904 : Theodor Herzl meets with but fails to persuade Pope Pius X during a two-week trip to Italy. “We cannot give approval to this movement,” Pius says of Zionism. “We could never sanction it.”

Jan. 26, 1919: Chaim Weizmann makes the Zionist case in a letter to Gen. Arthur Money, who heads the British military administration in Palestine. Without a secure home, Weizmann says, Jews face “a terrible catastrophe.”

Jan. 27, 2006: The first U.N.-recognized International Holocaust Remembrance Day is held on the anniversary of Auschwitz’s liberation. The U.N. General Assembly president calls the commemoration “a unifying historic warning.”

Jan. 29, 2004: Israel frees more than 430 Arab prisoners to win the release of an Israeli businessman abducted in Dubai in October 2000 and to receive the bodies of three soldiers who were captured and killed by Hezbollah.

U.S. F-4E Phantom II aircraft sit on the tarmac at Shiraz Air Base in Iran in 1977, demonstrating the American commitment to the defense of Baghdad Pact nations before Iran’s Islamic revolution in 1979.

Jan. 30, 1958: In Ankara, Turkey, Secretary of State John Foster Dulles says the United States is committed to the defense of the Baghdad Pact nations: Iran, Iraq, Pakistan and Turkey, plus the United Kingdom.

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Volunteer Mission Brings Toys to Israeli Children

By Cheryl Dorchinsky

In the midst of an ongoing siege against Israel and its way of life—now stretching into its second year—Israel faces unimaginable hardships. With approximately 100 hostages still missing, countless families shattered, and communities and economies decimated, the need for support has never been more urgent.

However, despite the overwhelming adversity, there is hope. After returning from a recent trip to Israel, this writer can say with conviction that even a small act of solidarity—whether it’s bringing much-needed foreign currency into local markets or volunteering to directly help those in need—can uplift the spirits of Israelis and heal collective hearts.

The journey began with a remarkable bat mitzvah project initiated by Addison, a young woman determined to bring smiles to the children of Israel. Partnering with the Atlanta Israel Coalition (AIC)—a nonprofit, non-partisan organization that supports Israel through educational initiatives, community programs, and addressing immediate needs—they developed a plan to deliver toys to children across Israel just in time for Chanukah.

The toys had to make it on and off planes through three countries to ensure they arrived safely amidst ongoing conflict -- the joy witnessed on the children’s faces was worth every obstacle. The demand was so great that the request for toys continued in Israel, and more were purchased thanks to the generosity of Atlanta Israel Coalition donors.

Throughout the visit, this writer had the privilege of meeting incredible people from all walks of life. In the Golan Heights, they witnessed the deep connection between Israelis and the support of the global Jewish community. Volunteering with J17, a vegan restaurant that had transformed into a vital food hub for soldiers, trauma survivors, and families of hostages, they provided thermals, hats, and other supplies to soldiers and participated in a barbeque at an IDF base—the same base where six beautiful young female soldiers were kidnapped.

One conversation still resonates: while serving food, this volunteer spoke with soldiers who expressed confusion about why Americans might hate them. They responded, “If Americans hated you, why would I be here, feeding you and bringing supplies? Many of us—perhaps most of us—love you. Please know

The Atlanta Israel Coalition helped brings toys to families in Israel who have been impacted by the ongoing war in Gaza.

that.” In that moment, the power of human connection broke through the distortions of media narratives.

This volunteer also had the opportunity to visit a settlement, which deeply challenged preconceived notions. They met four courageous families living in isolated conditions, farming to support themselves in the face of adversity. Their resilience served as a powerful reminder of the human spirit’s ability to thrive against all odds.

Throughout the trip, this writer met extraordinary individuals and grassroots organizations, including human rights advocate Bassem Eid and David Lang of Israellycool. The stories shared and the bonds formed with people from all walks of life left an indelible mark.

Profound acts of solidarity—tears, hugs, and shared pain—were witnessed, but so were hope and love. In those moments, this volunteer was reminded of what truly connects us: our shared humanity.

When individuals visit Israel, they send a powerful message to the people there: they are not alone. But if a trip isn’t possible, there are still many ways to show support. Educating oneself about the situation, advocating for the return of hostages on social media with the hashtag #BringThemHome, and speaking out against injustice are all important actions. Making one’s voice heard by contacting elected officials and expressing support for Israel is crucial.

Whether considering a visit to Israel or offering support from home, the Atlanta Israel Coalition is a trusted resource. Founded in 2018, AIC has been on

The toys had to make it on and off planes through three countries to ensure they arrived safely amidst ongoing conflict.

the front lines, supporting Israel through educational programming, advocacy, and direct action. To learn more about how to contribute, individuals can fol-

The volunteer trip included a visit to a remote kibbutz where four families have continued their way of life in the midst of an ongoing war.

low the Atlanta Israel Coalition online or email atlisraelco@gmail.com for information on donations or volunteering opportunities. ì

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Waiting and Watching

The dried wax has been pried out of the branches and the Chanukah menorah has been returned to a display case in our den. This was done carefully, to preserve the multi-colored, melted wax that over many years has dripped onto the Maccabi soldiers and the base of the menorah that my paternal grandmother and great-aunt brought back from Israel.

We are now two weeks into a new year (on the Gregorian calendar) and just days from the return of Donald Trump to the White House, as just the second U.S. president elected to serve two, non-consecutive terms in office (the other being Grover Cleveland).

I am filing this column on Jan. 13 — Day 465 since Oct. 7, 2023, when terrorists slaughtered 1,200 men, women, and children, and kidnapped more than 250 more from kibbutzim, towns, and a music festival in the “Gaza envelope” area of southern Israel.

At this writing, 98 men, women, and (two) children are being held hostage by Hamas and allied groups.

Barak Ravid, the well-informed global affairs correspondent for Axios, reported on Jan. 3 that, according to Israeli intelligence, about half of the hostages are alive, including three of the seven U.S. citizens, who either live in Israel or hold dual citizenship.

With everything going on in our individual lives and in the often chaotic world beyond our doors, I understand how the plight of the hostages might not be a daily thought for many in the Jewish community.

I continue to check daily for Facebook posts from the Israeli branch of my family tree, from the family of Tal Shoham. He turned 39 as a hostage and unless something changes, will mark his 40th birthday as a hostage before January ends.

Shoham was kidnapped on that Oct. 7, along with his wife, his son and daughter, his mother-in-law, and a cousin and her daughter, when terrorists overran Kibbutz Be’eri.

The women and children were freed after 50 days, during a hopeful week in November 2023 when Israel exchanged a larger number of Palestinian prisoners for the release of hostages. Shoham’s father-in-law, his mother-in-law’s sister and her husband were among those murdered on Oct. 7.

With the aid of various intermediar-

ies, Hamas and the Israeli government have held on-and-off negotiations about a ceasefire in the war in Gaza and release of hostages, each accusing the other of moving the proverbial goalposts.

Hamas says that it needs time — after 16 months? — to provide a full accounting of where all of the hostages are being held and reportedly has signaled that it wants to release only a portion of its captives.

A deal that would leave any of the hostages behind would cruelly compound the agony with which their families live.

Israel Channel 12 reported that during a recent closed government meeting, Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu said, “If there is a deal—and I hope there will be—Israel will return to fighting afterward. There’s no reason to obscure or conceal this because resuming fighting is intended to complete the war’s objectives. This doesn’t obstruct a deal; it encourages one.”

Inauguration day in the United States is Jan. 20 — what would be Day 472.

Trump vowed Dec. 2, on his Truth Social media platform, that if the hostages were not released prior to his taking office “there will be ALL HELL TO PAY in the Middle East, and for those in charge who perpetrated these atrocities against Humanity. Those responsible will be hit harder than anybody has been hit in the long and storied History of the United States of America.”

That last sentence, in particular, is an example of the hyperbole for which Trump is known, particularly given that the long and storied history of the United States includes the dropping of atomic bombs on the Japanese cities of Hiroshima and Nagasaki.

Trump repeated the threat during a Jan. 7 news conference, saying: “If those hostages aren’t back by the time I get into office, all hell will break out in the Middle East. And it will not be good for Hamas. And it will not be good frankly for anyone.”

Given that the deaths of untold thousands of civilians and the destruction of the infrastructure of the Gaza strip have proven to be insufficient motivation, what form of “hell” does he envision will move Hamas and company to return all 98 hostages — the living and the dead — to their families?

I would not dare to predict what will happen. In general, though, history has shown that “all hell” breaking out in the Middle East is not good for anyone.

Hopefully, by the time Chanukah begins at sunset on Dec. 14, 2025, the hostages still alive will light the candles with their families and the dead will have received a proper burial and mourning.

For now, though, all we can do is wait and see what happens. ì

Dave Schechter From Where I Sit

SPORTS

Former Olympian Gymnast Keleti Dies at 103

David Ostrowsky

For the Jewish athletic community, the new year was barely a day old when sad news came over the wire: Agnes Keleti, the renowned Hungarian and Israeli Olympic gymnast who won 10 medals between the 1952 Helsinki Games and the 1956 Melbourne Games, passed away at the age of 103 at a hospital in Budapest. The world’s oldest Olympic champion, Keleti was a week shy of turning 104 before succumbing to heart and breathing problems in the early hours of Thursday, Jan. 2.

Keleti’s Olympic glory and later stewardship of the Israeli gymnastics program, for which she received the Israel Prize in 2017, while remarkable, represent only one facet of her life story. Born in Budapest on Jan. 9, 1921, Keleti would excel in athletics and music before graduating from high school at the dawn of World War II in 1939. Two years after being barred from higher education due to admissions quotas for Jews, Keleti was banished from her hometown athletic club along with other “non-Aryans.”

Soon thereafter, Keleti faced a far graver situation as she had to find refuge in the Hungarian countryside to elude the Nazi regime that had descended on her homeland. Ultimately, Keleti survived the Holocaust by assuming a false identity and working as a maid in a remote village while her mother and sister likewise were spared the Nazis’ atrocities with the help of Swedish diplomat Raoul Wallenberg, who saved thousands of Hungarian Jews before being abducted by the Russians. Tragically, however, her father and several uncles weren’t so fortunate, as they perished at Auschwitz.

At the conclusion of the war, Keleti briefly worked as a cellist before resuming her quest to be a professional gymnast. After a last-minute injury dashed her hopes of competing for Hungary at the 1948 London Olympics, Keleti dazzled four years later at the Helsinki Games, taking home a gold medal in the floor exercise, a silver in the team competition and two bronze medals for the uneven bars and the team portable apparatus event. In the next Olympics in Melbourne, going up against gymnasts nearly half her age, including the legendary Soviet gymnast Larisa

The global Jewish community lost one of its most esteemed members when former Olympic gymnast

Latynina, Keleti was even more dominant, snagging four golds (balance beam, floor exercise, uneven bars and the team portable apparatus) and silver for the individual all-around and the team competition. The half-dozen medal haul made her not only the most successful gymnast at the Melbourne Games, but also the most victorious participant of those Olympics – in any event.

Speaking to the Associated Press on the eve of her 99th birthday in January 2020 at her elegant apartment in downtown Budapest, Keleti said, “It’s not the medals that are significant but the experiences that came with them. I loved gymnastics because it was possible to travel for free.

“The past? Let’s talk about the future. That’s what should be beautiful. The past is past but there is still a future.”

Following her record-setting Olympic performance in Melbourne, Keleti would indeed have a very bright future. Amidst the Soviet Union’s ruthless clampdown on her homeland in 1956, Keleti, along with dozens of other Hungarian Olympians, stayed in Australia well after the Melbourne Games ended. A year later, she immigrated to Israel where she worked with gymnasts at the

Wingate Institute for Physical Education and Sport in Netanya and coached the Israeli national women’s gymnastics team well into her later years. Accordingly, her aforementioned Israel Prize citation notes that Keleti was “one of the originators of artistic gymnastics in Israel and led the sport for over 50 years.”

Yet for all her breathtaking Olympic feats – not to mention being anointed the Hungarian National Champion in gymnastics 10 times and getting inducted into the International Women’s Sports Hall of Fame in 2001 and the International Gymnastics Hall of Fame in 2002 -- Keleti never had much use for being showered with lavish praise or medals on the podium. She simply loved gymnastics, and the unique opportunities, namely global travel opportunities that weren’t readily available to many of her contemporaries, the sport afforded her.

“For me, sports was really just a way to see the world,” Keleti, told the AP in 2012, three years before she would return to her home country to settle in Budapest. “Maybe that’s why I never got nervous. People said they got scared before competitions. That never happened to me. Gymnastics was just a part of my

life.”

Keleti is survived by her two sons, Daniel and Rafael, from her marriage in 1959 to Robert Biro, a former Hungarian physical education teacher whom she had met in Israel. He died before her. Her first marriage, to Istvan Sarkany, ended in divorce in 1950.

From a professional perspective, Keleti’s place in the pantheon of Jewish sports legends will be forever secure as her handful of gold medals leaves her tied with Polina Astakhova of the Soviet Union and Nadia Comaneci of Romania for fourth place on the Olympic list, behind Latynina, who earned nine golds, and Vera Caslavska of Czechoslovakia and Simone Biles of the United States, both with seven.

“She [Keleti] will be remembered forever for her inspirational story,” International Olympic Committee President Thomas Bach commented earlier this month. “Agnes Keleti has demonstrated the power of strong determination and courage to overcome tragedy when she, born to a Jewish family, survived the Holocaust and went on to win 10 Olympic medals after World War II, five of them gold. This is truly awe-inspiring.” ì

Agnes Keleti passed away earlier this month // International Gymnastics Federation

Carneiro Hosts Female Self-Defense Seminar

By David Ostrowsky

On the morning of Oct. 7, 2023, retired UFC fighter Roan “Jucao” Carneiro was getting ready for his sixth trip to Israel.

The one-time top-ranked middleweight UFC contender and current head coach at American Top Team Atlanta had grown enamored of Israel ever since November 2016 when he visited to watch one of his martial arts students compete in a tournament. Since then, Carneiro, who also operates martial arts academies in Sandy Springs and Alpharetta, had returned nearly every year to hold Brazilian jiu jitsu seminars, reconnect with friends, and explore popular touristy spots. But as the horrific events unfolded on that early autumn Saturday morning, it became quite apparent he wasn’t going back to Israel anytime soon.

Remaining stateside, however, didn’t deter Carneiro from supporting Israel during one of its darkest hours. Already heavily invested in the Greater Atlanta community through years of teaching self-defense techniques to hundreds – if not thousands – of local students and holding regular workshops with police departments in Norcross, Lawrenceville, and East Point that train law enforcement to use jiu jitsu in lieu of “excessive force,” Carneiro wanted to leverage his martial arts acumen and decorated professional career toward empowering a Jewish community that was becoming frighteningly more and more vulnerable. A prime opportunity to do so surfaced when his good friend, Rachel Seltzer, who happens to have a background in Muay Thai fighting, asked him about setting up a self-defense seminar specifically geared toward enlightening Jewish women.

“After the episode with Hamas attacking Israel, all over the world, the Jewish people became a target,” said Carneiro, when speaking with the AJT last week.

Without hesitation, Carneiro opened the doors of his Alpharetta gym to nearly 40 Jewish women so that he and his training partner, Rodrigo Artilheiro, who has also visited Israel on multiple occasions, could conduct a two-hour seminar focused on self-defense strategies.

“For me, it was a great pleasure to come and teach the Jewish community, especially females,” said Carneiro, whose martial arts career can be traced back to his adolescent days in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, where coincidentally he first became acquainted with members of the

Jewish community by helping with his grandmother’s catering company when it hosted events at the local synagogue.

But for Carneiro, who opened his first gym in Atlanta 18 years ago this June, -- while he was still fighting professionally -- this inaugural self-defense seminar didn’t just stem from his strong ties to Seltzer and the Jewish community. His investment in the welfare of Jewish women across Atlanta is also fueled by his burning desire to somehow give back to Israel, a land that had provided him with such immeasurable joy in recent years.

“After the first time, it became a habit to go there [Israel] every year when I had a chance,” explained Carneiro. “I love it. People have always been very hospitable with me. They treated me very well. Always when I went there, I had a blast.

“I can’t wait [to go back to Israel]. I pray daily for this war to stop. As soon as things start to get calm, I definitely will be back. It’s on my plans to come back this year.”

While he surely misses taking in the majestic sights of Old Jerusalem and

the stunning beaches of Tel Aviv, which bear some resemblance to the shoreline of his hometown, it was those marathon jiu-jitsu training sessions, during which he embodied the same uncompromising discipline and mental fortitude that propelled him to knocking off worldclass opponents in Switzerland, France, Belgium, Japan, Korea, and New Zealand during his glory years.

“Every session I was there with them it was five to six hours per day,” he proudly shared. “It was not time to play around. It was very intense.”

When he takes a moment to reflect on his illustrious UFC career, during the pinnacle of which he was one of the most feared middleweight fighters on the planet, Carneiro offers a freshly unique perspective.

“What I miss is the commitment for the training,” admitted Carneiro, whose last time in the cage was in New Zealand in 2019. “Other than that, not really much. Back then when I started, it was because I loved martial arts, not because I wanted to be famous or make money. It was all about my pride.

“It’s totally against my principles. I grew up with the martial arts habits where you had to respect your opponent, people around you, and always be a good example for the young ones. I feel nowadays people don’t do that anymore. I always try to help the community. Make society more protective – that’s my mantra, that’s my goal.”

As for his noble work enlightening Jewish women, Carneiro sees last year’s session in Alpharetta as not just a onetime opportunity, but rather, the first of many programs.

“It was great,” the 46-year-old former UFC fighter exclaimed. “I’m still going to do another one, probably soon.”

Added Seltzer, “in a time when the Jewish community feels scared, afraid, and lonely there is nothing more comforting than someone outside our community wanting to help and support us. Roan “Jucao” Carneiro is that person. With his background as a UFC veteran, black belt in Brazilian jiu jitsu, I look at him almost like a superhero protecting us and teaching us. We are so thankful for him and his advocacy.” ì

Since he has retired from the UFC, Roan Carneiro (right) has established himself as a fixture in the Atlanta community by teaching hundreds of residents the art of self-defense // Photo Credit: Roan Carneiro

Hadassah Metulla Holds 2025 Board Installation

Hadassah Greater Atlanta Installs New Board

The Metulla Group, one of five groups under the umbrella of the Hadassah Greater Atlanta (HGA) chapter, held its 2025 installation of officers on Dec. 22, 2024. Mindy Cohen and Lara Rush were installed as new co-presidents.

Metulla Group members reside in Dunwoody, Roswell, Norcross, Alpharetta, Duluth, Cumming, Suwanee, and Gainesville. Events and programs are held in the daytime, evenings, weekdays and Sundays. Programming includes mitzvah projects, monthly book club meetings, theater parties, new member welcome brunch, mahjong tournaments, fashion show and silent auction luncheon, Chai Society membership tea and holiday gift wrapping.

Hadassah members’ goal in the Atlanta area is to work together to fur-

ther Hadassah’s lifesaving work in the U.S., Israel and around the world, while fostering leadership, empowerment and volunteerism. Chapter successes include Best Strokes, Chesed Student Awards (recognition of teen activists), Starfish Walk, advocacy and educational programs, book talks and more, all to benefit Hadassah›s hospitals, youth-atrisk in Israel and more.

Cohen said, “Having lived in many cities around the United States, I have always found a home in Hadassah.”

Rush explains, “Hadassah supports Israel, fights against antisemitism and stands up for women’s health.”

For more information about Hadassah go to www.hadassah.org.

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The Hadassah Greater Atlanta installation of officers for 2025 took place on Sunday, Dec. 15, 2024. Hadassah, the Women’s Zionist Organization of America is today 300,000 strong, across the country and across the generations, with 6,000 members in Georgia. This is proof of just how big an impact Hadassah has when bringing philanthropy and women’s leadership together.

The installation was conducted by Linda Hakerem, a member of the Hadassah National Portfolio Council Leadership and a Hadassah Greater Atlanta board advisor. Linda first thanked Nancy Schwartz for her outstanding years as president of Hadassah Greater Atlanta. Next, Hakerem installed the incoming board, which is being headed by Terry Nordin, as the new president. Each member of the executive board was given a special piece of candy and the audience called out, “Oh! How sweet it is!” to express their joy at the new slate.

Terry Nordin, the new president for Hadassah Greater Atlanta, stated, “I’m so proud to represent the 3,000 Hadassah members in the Atlanta area as we continue to address women’s issues, support Israel and advocate against antisemitism, both here in the U.S. and abroad.”

Paula Zucker, president of Hadassah Southeastern Region, spoke about Hadassah’s many projects. She explained how on Nov. 25, 2024, Hadassah asked U.N. leaders to blacklist Hamas for committing crimes against humanity. Hadassah led a group of 65 organizations, including but not limited to, the Hadassah Foundation, the Dinah Project, I Believe

Israeli Women Global Movement, International Council of Jewish Women, Israel Women’s Network, Jewish Women International, and National Council of Jewish Women, who spoke out strongly on the first day of the United Nations’ annual 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence to help deter future acts of gender-based violence in conflict by advancing justice and accountability.

These organizations continue to be frustrated by the United Nations’ failure to use available tools to hold Hamas accountable. Hadassah asked the United Nations to encourage all nations to adopt an international protocol for responding to conflict-related sexual violence.

“On Oct. 7, 2023, Hamas brutally raped, sexually abused and mutilated Israeli women and girls,” reiterated Paula Zucker. “Hadassah and our partners call on the Secretary General and other U.N. leaders, during this year’s 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, to stand up and show that sexual violence against women and girls will never be tolerated or excused. Hadassah remains committed to standing up for women everywhere.”

Hadassah believes that every international agency and organization, especially the U.N., must do its part to ensure that sexual violence is not justified or excused. This includes holding perpetrators accountable for their use of violence and taking appropriate action. For more information about Hadassah, go to www. Hadassah.org.

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The incoming 2025 Executive Board of Hadassah Greater Atlanta. From left: Linda Liss, Nancy Schwartz, Suzy Wilner, Faith Shatzman, Rosalie Agrow, Stephanie Pure, Judy Bart, Anita Otero, Terry Nordin (new president) and Linda Hakerem.

Hadassah Metulla 2025 Board members: (from left) Sharyn Lazarnick, Amy Mittelberg, Jana Ross, Alexandra Weinstein, Lara Rush, Mindy Cohen, Stephanie Pure, and Nancy Shwartz

JNF Taps Siegel for Lead Role Berman Commons Hosts Israel Summit

By Marcia Caller Jaffe

The Jewish National Fund in Atlanta announced that Andy Siegel would take the reins succeeding Mark Kopkin in October of this year.

Beth Gluck, JNF Executive Director Greater Atlanta, stated, “Under the leadership of our current president, Mark Kopkin, Jewish National Fund-USA has prioritized building a strong pipeline of donors and leaders. As a result … Andy Siegel was elected last year to succeed Mark as president when he steps down after three extraordinary years of service. Andy brings a wealth of fundraising expertise, a vast network within the Jewish community, and an unwavering commitment to JNF-USA’s vision. His leadership promises to build upon Mark’s legacy and guide us to new heights in advancing our mission.”

Siegel, who runs Siegel Insurance Inc, is active in Ahavath Achim Synagogue where he served on the board for seven years, co-chaired the Brotherhood, and served as Gabbai and usher.

Siegel initially became involved in JNF as a trustee, and then served as a board member. He stated, “During my board tenure, I grew to better understand the many things JNF does to help support Israel’s land and people. We all know about planting trees; but JNF does so much more, including community building, water solutions, helping the disabled and those with special needs. JNF was there to help the people of Israel right af-

ter Oct. 7 and continues to evolve as the needs change. My passion for JNF grows as I learn more about the organization and all of the people it benefits.”

Kopkin was elected president of JNFAtlanta in October 2022. His term was set to end in September 2024, but the Board asked him to remain for another year.

He looks forward to the Gladys & Jack Hirsh Breakfast for Dinner for Israel on March 2, adding, “In 2022, we had our largest turnout of 287 people with continuing record turnouts until 2024 to 500. We hope to host another record of 600. I’m proud of JNF's history as well as what JNF is doing locally -- springing into action with our post-Oct. 7 Resilience Campaign.”

After meeting their fundraising goals, JNF-Atlanta initiated a rebuilding campaign, and now a re-imagining campaign. Kopkin explained, “Israel was an amazing country before the invasion and massacre of Oct. 7 and JNF is focused on supporting the people and land of Israel in becoming even better once this war is over."

The March 2nd event’s theme is “hope” -- the meaning of Israel’s national anthem – “Hatikvah.”

Kopkin headed the nominating committee tapping Siegel. He added, “More importantly than Andy being my insurance agent and a decades-long friend, he is a first-class businessman, an unbelievable father, husband, brother, and benefactor I have every belief that he will lead us to greater heights.”

Oy Vey VR, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to enriching lives of seniors through virtual reality, hosted a remarkable program for elderly residents at Berman Commons, a Jewish HomeLife community. The event combined inspiring speakers, interactive activities, and cutting-edge VR technology to create a meaningful connection to Israel and its defenders.

The program began with two distinguished speakers: Sharon Freeman of the Israeli American Council, and Dylan Rice of the Consulate General of Israel’s Office.

Freeman shared firsthand accounts of life in Israel during wartime, offering a moving perspective on resilience and hope amidst challenging circumstances. Rice provided an insightful update on the ongoing conflict in the Middle East, helping attendees gain a deeper understanding of the region’s realities and complexities.

The event also featured:

* Thank You Card Station: Participants wrote heartfelt messages to Israel Defense Forces soldiers, expressing gratitude and support for their courage and dedication. These messages will be sent directly to the soldiers, serving as a powerful reminder of the global community standing behind them.

* Photo Booth: Residents captured special moments in front of a backdrop

of the Western Wall, creating keepsakes to share with IDF soldiers and as personal mementos of the day.

* VR Tour of Jerusalem: The highlight of the event was an immersive virtual reality experience that transported attendees to Jerusalem. From exploring its ancient streets to visiting bustling markets and spiritual landmarks, the VR tour brought the “City of Gold” to life in an unforgettable way.

“This event was a beautiful blend of tradition, education, and technology, allowing our residents to connect with Israel in a deeply personal way,” said Lisa Minor, executive director of Berman Commons. “We’re grateful to Oy Vey VR for their dedication to creating such impactful experiences that celebrate heritage and bring communities together.”

Oy Vey VR is committed to enhancing seniors’ and dementia patients’ lives through innovative virtual reality programs that promote cognitive stimulation therapy, lifelong learning, and Jewish connections. This event reflects the organization’s mission to use technology as a bridge for understanding and engagement.

For more information about Oy Vey VR or to learn about upcoming programs, please visit www.oyveyVR.org or call 404-569-7254.

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Berman Commons hosted an Israel Summit that provided insight in the ongoing political crisis in the Middle East.

Local businessman Andy Siegel has been selected to succeed Mark Kopkin in October 2025 as president of JNF-Atlanta.

Psychedelics May Aid the Spirit and Body HEALTH & WELLNESS

By Bob Bahr

In recent years, psychologists and medical researchers have developed a renewed interest in intense religious experiences. These experiences sometimes resemble the ecstatic visions of Ezekiel, the Jewish prophet of the sixth century BCE.

The holy scriptures record a halfdozen of his highly imaginative narratives, the most famous of which has G-d as a divine warrior riding his war chariot drawn by four creatures -- each of which had four faces and four wings -- beside which is a wheel within a wheel full of human eyes. Was it divinely inspired or could he, like such Biblical figures as Isaiah, Daniel, or Elisha have been under the influence of what, today, we call psychedelic drugs?

Could the kinea bosem, a substance that was a component of the anointing oil used by the ancient Israelites in their Tent of Meeting have been marijuana? Perhaps, according to the liberal rabbi and CNN commentator Jay Michaelson who wrote last January for JTA that in

the record of Jewish prophecy and revelation he found ample analogues to psychedelic experiences.

“Likewise, today.” Michelson continued, “many psychedelic users search for a language, conceptual framework and community through which to understand the profound experiences they have had.”

Psychedelics may help the development of spirituality as well as the body.

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That’s also part of the mission of a recent new initiative at Emory University, which has established its Center for Psychedelics and Spirituality, the first such institution to fully combine a clinical practice of psychiatry with the spiritual experience of patients to better understand the rapidly developing research around psychedelic medicines.

A small pilot study completed by the center last fall is typical of the research work the center has undertaken. It involved administering a single dose of 25 milligrams of psilocybin, a psychedelic drug derived from hallucinogenic mushrooms.

The drug was given to seriously ill cancer patients to ease their symptoms of hopelessness and chronic pain. It was felt there was as much to be learned from what was measurable of the physical effects of the drugs as there was to learn from the immeasurable, spiritual dimensions of the drug-induced experience.

During the several hours in which the substance took effect, the patients were monitored not just by a mental health clinician but by a religious chaplain with special training to help the patient manage whatever spiritual insights that might arise during the experience.

The Rev. Caroline Peacock, director of spiritual health at Emory’s Winship Cancer Institute, described for “Health Wanted,” the WABE podcast, the role the spiritual guide takes on during the monitoring of the lengthy psychedelic vision.

“If the patient is talking about some kind of higher power or experience with G-d or something with some kind of religious or spiritual component, a person who’s a spiritual health clinician is trained to hear that with some objectivity.”

Psilocybin-assisted therapy of this sort has had the effect of decreasing anxiety and fear in those who may be facing serious or even deadly threats to their

health. It has also been shown to aid serious cases of depression. But the drug is just one of several treatments that have been developed during what has been called the “Psychedelic Renaissance” of recent years.

The drug MDMA, which is known recreationally as “molly” or ecstasy, has shown to have a dramatic effect on those suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), particularly by veterans afflicted by memories of their combat experiences. Ketamine, which was originally used as an anesthetic during surgery, has also been effective in treating drug-resistant depression and bi-polar conditions. In some cases, it took only three sessions with the psychedelic drug to produce dramatic results.

But the new Emory center seeks to go beyond just a search for cures for the body. Dr. Roman Palitzky, director of research at the Emory facility, described for the WABE podcast the three areas of his work.

“The first is understanding the spiritual and religious impacts of these powerful interventions that we use. Another is really within the clinical psychology domain, trying to improve the actual psychotherapies that we use that are part of these interventions. And the third and rapidly growing bucket is trying to understand what happens when these treatments don’t go as we would like them to, for the people who have adverse effects, and how can we be responsible and accountable to those patients.”

It’s not just at Emory that the spiritual dimensions of psychedelics are being explored. In recent years, health researchers and religious leaders convened the Jewish Psychedelic Summit. It was developed with Rabbi Zac Kamenetz, founder and CEO of the nonprofit, Shefa, which has encouraged psychedelic use as a reflection of Jewish spiritual traditions. Approximately 1,500 people attended. ì

The use of psychedelic drugs is carefully monitored in the clinical setting.

Rabbi Jay Michaelson believes the Jewish spiritual tradition may have had a psychedelic component.

Klein Connects Prospective Parents to Eggs & Surrogacy

By Marcia Caller Jaffe

Orly Klein’s journey with surrogacy began a few years back when she volunteered to support international parents in navigating their fertility journeys. She became known as “savta,” or surrogate grandmother. Now she operates the VIP boutique agency ALMA, working with a limited number of clients to connect egg donors and surrogates with intended parents.

Klein started during the pandemic in specific cases where parents couldn’t travel to the U.S. where she could obtain court orders as temporary guardian to pick up newborns and care for them in her home until their parents were free to travel. She also volunteered as a fertility buddy with the Jewish Fertility Foundation (JFF), which supports women facing infertility and undergoing IVF.

Having faced her own fertility challenges, she connected with these women and said, “I believe that every person should have the opportunity to pursue their dream of parenthood – and my mis-

sion is to support them.”

Klein’s work varies by case. For some, she guides them through each step from the beginning. If they need an egg donor, she connects them with an agency or arranges for an in-house donor through clinics. Other cases include couples who

have viable embryos, but the woman may be unable to carry a pregnancy due to medical or gynecological reasons, so they seek out a surrogate. This could be same-sex couples, or an individual.

Once the embryos are ready and tested, she matches them with the right

Asurrogate. Thus, the surrogacy process is available to heterosexual couples, individuals, and same-sex couples. Intended parents provide the gestational carrier with a base compensation, which currently ranges from $50,000 to $55,000 for a first-time surrogate. Intended par-

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Orly Klein poses with Alexandra Wetzel, one of her coordinators, at a SEEDS for Society for Ethics meeting.

ents cover all pregnancy-related expenses, as specified in the contract. Funds are held in escrow and distributed to the surrogate monthly. Surrogacy is conducted under a contractual agreement.

Especially adept at working in the Jewish sphere, Orly related, “For Orthodox Jews who require an egg donor, I can provide a Jewish donor with rabbinical certification. The entire clinical process, from fertilization to embryo transfer to the surrogate, can be overseen by Puah, ensuring it aligns with religious guidelines. “Puah” is a Canaanite name for “little girl” and stems from the midwife, Puah (Miriam), who refused to kill Hebrew males as ordered by Pharaoh. Puah is now an institute that focuses on halakah, Jewish law. Another view by Martin S. Cohen, from “The Observant Life,” poses that in order to prevent inadvertent incest, some prefer a non-Jewish donor.

The process of selecting surrogates conjures up images of leafing through notebooks looking for genetic qualities. Intended parents can indeed select donors based on appearance (like eye and hair color), academic achievements, family medical history, and genetic profiles. Donor photos are available. Although

they cannot meet the donor, parents may choose either an open donation, allowing the child the option to contact the donor upon reaching 18, or a fully anonymous donation. Whether parents choose to share the surrogacy story with their child is a personal decision.

Intended parents can request multiple births, but most doctors no longer recommend it, according to Klein. All procedures take place at a clinic, where the intended father can either provide sperm in person or have it shipped in compliance with FDA regulations.

Orly believes she is the only Israeli who owns a surrogacy agency and manages the entire process from start to finish. She defines ALMA as “a comprehensive destination, providing everything intended parents need under one roof, with complete transparency and personal, compassionate touches. As a dedicated fertility and surrogacy consultant, I provide unwavering support and guidance, especially within the LGBT, Jewish, and Israeli communities.”

Orly was born and raised in Israel and moved to Johns Creek 11 years ago. For more information, please visit www. almasurrogacy.com. ì

Recommendations for female gestational carriers:

* Age 21 - 40

* Had at least one healthy pregnancy and delivery

* Legal U.S. resident

* Live in a surrogacy-friendly state

* BMI of up to 32

* Had no more than TWO cesareans

* Be in overall good health

* Non-smoker/no drugs

* Stable home environment with supportive relationships

* Not receiving welfare

* If a Jewish surrogate is needed, she must be unmarried

Sabra Orly Klein matches egg donors and surrogates with intended parents.

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Mayer Tackles Heart Challenges with Courage

By Marcia Caller Jaffe

Robin Friedlander Mayer recently found a groundswell of support when she documented on social media her openheart surgery with compelling photos and updates. A native of Mobile, Ala., at birth, she was diagnosed with a Ventricular Septal Defect (VSD), or heart murmur, with the knowledge that surgery was in the offing. She was monitored throughout childhood, but didn’t manifest any symptoms.

At age 30, during a routine cardiology appointment, a test showed concern. This led Mayer to the Mayo Clinic where she consulted with an adult congenital cardiologist who noted that the VSD closed on its own; however, an enlarged right ventricle, tricuspid regurgitation, and mitral valve prolapse were discovered. She then began seeing a congenital cardiologist at Emory where she was told that she would need open heart surgery in three to five years. She miraculously made it 15 years.

Mayer explained, “A year before my first surgery, tests confirmed what I felt. My heart was twice the size and was working twice as hard as it should. I was always tired, unable to walk inclines without being winded, unable to sleep lying flat or bend over.”

The surgeon was able to repair her tricuspid valve. Unfortunately, he attempted to repair her ASD/unroofed coronary sinus, but the patch would not hold. Mayer added, “I needed to get off the bypass machine. Our hope was with some heart defects repaired, everything would be OK. Overall, I had an easy recovery. My big complaint was a racingheart feeling which was actually extra

beats. My heart rate at-rest was between 40 and 140.”

Four months later, she had a pacemaker inserted. The extra beats continued, and she had an ablation.

In the fall of 2022, she started having the same symptoms again. Her congenital cardiologist at Emory listened to her, explained test results, and planned for her to have the best quality of life

possible, as he referred her to Texas Children’s Hospital. He felt confident that she would have a successful repair there. TCH is ranked No. 1 for adult congenital cardiology.

In Texas, she was on the adult congenital heart disease floor. The surgery took place on Rosh Hashanah, Oct. 3, 2024, and was successful. The surgeon, who Mayer described as “world-renowned, kind and brilliant,” was able to fix her unroofed coronary sinus.

Mayer related, “I was in the ICU 9/12 days. Twice a day, my team of cardiologists, surgeon, NP’s and nurses spent 25plus minutes with me discussing how I felt, what tests needed to be run and results. I never felt rushed or like a burden. My recovery wasn’t as smooth as expected, but I had phenomenal care. I had several complications. The most traumatic was tachycardia where they called a “code,” and I was shocked with paddles (fully awake and asking if I was dying). My sweet mom was in the room with the chaplain by her side. My heart rate went from 70 to 254. I felt dizzy, hot, and had a headache. I was terrified!”

The paddles temporarily slowed her heart rate, and she was treated with IV medicine, then her heart rate was out-

paced with her pacemaker to bring it back down.

Mayer is still on several medications to keep the heart rate under control. She hopes to wean off the medicine this spring. She concluded, “I am grateful for the fantastic care, my pacemaker, and ultimately, for surviving. I am three months post-surgery. I feel really good! My heart is the healthiest it has ever been. I will continue to be monitored forever.”

Mayer described sharing her experience as cathartic. “It was also a great way to let my loved ones know about my progress. The ACHD Facebook support groups were helpful and supportive,” she said.

She updated traditional Facebook with ongoing “thumbs up” photos and especially the video of her walking out of the hospital. “Adam, Rachel, my parents and friends were amazing. I’m lucky to have them. My advice is to find a doctor you trust and rely on family and friends who offer to help and appreciate them.”

Robin and her husband, Adam, have been in Atlanta 25 years. Their daughter, Rachel, who was at her bedside in Houston, will graduate with a master’s degree in May. They are members of Temple Sinai where Adam is the immediate past president. ì

Robin Mayer pictured with husband, Adam Mayer

Facebook lit up with “likes” when Robin posted a photo of her walking out of the hospital.

Daughter Rachel came to Houston to provide bedside support.

After her long journey, Robin Mayer reports that her heart is healthier than ever.

Local Rabbi Seeks Kidney Donation

By Marcia Caller Jaffe

Congregants traditionally think about a rabbi as one who helps others cope during health struggles; so, it may seem ironic for a rabbi to ask for medical help.

Congregation Etz Chaim’s Assistant Rabbi Jonathon Adler went into kidney failure (ESRD, or End Stage Renal Disease) in January of 2024, after having spent many years with progressively worsening chronic kidney disease (CKD). He is currently on dialysis and spends around 15 hours a week in treatment which he can do from home. He also does monthly blood work to regulate medication.

He said, “The disease, as well as its treatment, is exhausting. Shabbat naps have taken on a new meaning since this happened. The best outcome for me will be to receive a kidney transplant: and the best outcome for transplant success is from a living donor. Living kidney donation, also known as ‘altruistic donation,’ is an incredible mitzvah. The Mishnah, in Sanhedrin 4:5, teaches ‘anyone who saves a life is as if they saved an entire world,’ and this is an example.”

There are currently approximately 3,000 people waiting for kidney transplants in Georgia. The average wait time is at least two years. Adler is on the transplant list at Piedmont Hospital, and also New York’s Mount Sinai Hospital. Sinai is working with Renewal organization, based in New York’s Orthodox community, that helps match altruistic kidney and liver donors with recipients. Both hospitals have robust kidney transplant programs with very high success rates. Most people are born with two working kidneys, but function well with one.

Until he finds a donor, Adler will remain on dialysis which limits travel, energy level, and the time he has to devote to his job and community. His overall health will likely decline while waiting. For most patients, dialysis is only an option for five to 10 years. For Adler, the sooner, the better. He stated, “The sooner I receive a transplant, the healthier I will be, which should result in a better outcome.”

Adler explained the halakhic concern about the potential donor placing themselves at risk. “The hospital’s screening process is so thorough that complications for the donor tend to be low. The hospital works hard to ensure that the donation screening and process is as easy as possible.”

The surgery is laparoscopic (performed through a couple of small holes in the abdomen, assisted by small cameras), and most donors go home one or two nights post-surgery. There is no cost to the donor. All testing, surgery, and hospital bills are covered by the recipient’s insurance. To be eligible, donors must be at least 18 years old and in good health. There is no age maximum to be considered for donation. The tests check antibodies in the blood, as well as general health, to determine suitability for donation and, most importantly, to see if the organ will be “a match.”

Adler concluded, “After I receive a transplant, G-dwilling, my life will change. Although I will not become an Olympic-level athlete, I will have a lot more energy and, since I will no longer be on dialysis, a lot more time. I will have to take anti-rejection medication for the rest of my life, and I’ll have to follow up regularly with my

doctors. That said, kidney transplants are life changing. The recipients I have spoken with describe having their lives back. For me, this means a lot more time and energy to be able to devote to my job as the assistant rabbi of Congregation Etz Chaim in Marietta.

Adler urges people to get tested, because if you’re not a match for him, it might be a match for someone else. To get tested to perform this mitzvah, email (rabbiadler@etzchaim.net) or call Leanne Whitehead, social worker at Piedmont Hospital at 404-605-4605. ì

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Embrace RF is the groundbreaking, skin tightening treatment that is revolutionizing the world of aesthetic medicine. Offering unparalleled results in the realm of skin tightening by combining FaceTite, a new procedure that provides results comparable to a surgical facelift, with Morpheus8 radiofrequency microneedling. If you are interested in improving your facial contours but are not ready or eligible for surgery, Embrace RF may be just the aesthetic solution for you.

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Embrace RF is the groundbreaking, skin tightening treatment that is revolutionizing the world of aesthetic medicine. Offering unparalleled results in the realm of skin tightening by combining FaceTite, a new procedure that provides results comparable to a surgical facelift, with Morpheus8 radiofrequency microneedling. If you are interested in improving your facial contours but are not ready or eligible for surgery, Embrace RF may be just the aesthetic solution for you.

Dr. Peter Abramson is a double board certified facial plastic surgeon, specializing in facial cosmetic and reconstructive procedures for over 25 years. His office offers a variety of options to meet your aesthetic goals.

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Rabbi Jonathon Adler asks the community-at-large to consider getting tested to perform the ultimate mitzvah of donating a kidney to transplant.

There are about 3,000 Georgians on a list to receive a kidney transplant. Adler is on the Piedmont Hospital list as well as a New York-based Jewish organization.

JFF Raises Awareness of Reproductive Advocacy

Nearly 40 people gathered at the home of Michele Hirsch on Wednesday, Dec. 4, to learn about advocacy strategies in this post-Roe world. The Jewish Fertility Foundation was awarded a grant from the Jewish Women’s Fund of Atlanta (JWFA) to create a three-series event entitled, “A Post-Roe World: Education and Advocacy.”

In partnership with JWFA and the National Council for Jewish Women (NCJW), JFF offered the second event in a series which aims to launch a PR advocacy and educational campaign following Alabama’s ruling on fertility rights. The goal is that the participants will learn about the current legal landscape and advocacy steps to support women’s rights.

The evening’s program featured a four-person panel which included Lila Bradley, a named partner of Claiborne | Fox | Bradley | Goldman LLC; Dr. Mimi Zieman, author & NCJW Atlanta Reproductive Rights Chair; Nannette Herlands, clinical nurse; and Julie Cohen, JFF senior manager.

Bradley opened the program with a recap of the Alabama Supreme Court decision in February and spoke about the newly created Georgia Fertility Network, a new advocacy group that aims to protect access to fertility treatments in Georgia. Zieman spoke about the ways in which she and NCJW have advocated for fertility and reproductive rights. Herlands walked the attendees through what it’s like to work in an abortion clinic and provided a medical perspective on the ever-changing climate around reproductive care. Finally, Cohen brought a unique perspective by describing her personal infertility experience and what it has been like to be on the ground in Alabama

during this challenging time.

Elisheva Engler, JFF national program manager, stated, “It was so wonderful to bring four different perspectives and voices to this panel. Each panelist brought such a unique element to this conversation, one which is essential to have in this ever-changing climate.”

Dr. Daniel Shapiro, a reproductive endocrinologist and JFF medical advisory council member, remarked, “Gatherings like this are the ways to make

change.” With the main goal of bringing awareness and advocacy strategies to the forefront, this event is another way JFF provides tools to the community to shift the needle and create that change.

JFF is a national nonprofit founded in 2015 in Atlanta, with nine local locations and provides financial assistance, emotional support, and educational programming to those experiencing infertility. JFF-National was created in 2023 to accommodate the needs of those living

outside the JFF locations. JFF-National offers an array of peer-to-peer national support groups, educational webinars, and community-building programs. For more information about the Jewish Fertility Foundation or to find out how you can contribute to the organization, please visit jewishfertilityfoundation.org or email elisheva@jewishfertilityfoundation.org. ì

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Jewish Fertility Foundation hosted an informative program on Dec. 4 that covered reproductive advocacy.

The Lowdown I Bet You Didn’t Know … Lynn Deutsch

Atlanta is chock full of interesting “movers and shakers” - some bent on creativity, empire building, activism, the sciences, and/or just plain having fun and living the good life. Lean in to hear some of the “off the cuff” remarks as to what makes our spotlight Lynn Deutsch, Mayor of Dunwoody, tick.

Deutsch was born in Atlanta and raised in Memphis, Tenn., where she grew up at Temple Israel. She earned bachelor’s degrees in government and journalism from the University of Texas at Austin and later obtained a master’s degree in city planning from the Georgia Institute of Technology.

Lynn has been deeply involved in her community for many years, serving on the Dunwoody Planning Commission and numerous boards and committees at her synagogues, children’s schools, and within the broader community.

In 2011, Lynn was elected as a Dunwoody City Councilmember, serving until her election as mayor in 2019. Reelected in 2023, she is both the first woman to serve as mayor and the first to be elected to two terms in Dunwoody.

Lynn is a graduate of the Arts Leaders of Metro Atlanta program and the Atlanta Regional Commission’s Regional Leadership Institute. She also serves on the Legislative Policy Council of the Georgia Municipal Association and is Chair of the Policy Committee for the DeKalb Municipal

Lynn and husband, Barry, raised their three children in Dunwoody and are members of Temple Emanu-El. They recently became grandparents — a role Lynn describes as “the most joyful yet!”

Ask “Her Honor” why she believes dinosaurs roam the earth, or at least Dunwoody.

One fun thing people don’t know about me is …

We were in the middle of a heated controversy about inflated dinosaurs. A friend dressed up as a dinosaur and came to our council meeting. After a few minutes, her costume started to deflate –which made the

The thing I like most about Dunwoody is …

Our community and how we support each other in good times and bad.

The most fun thing about being a mayor is …

I love spending time with our community’s children — whether at schools, meetings, or the library. I always encourage them to say hello when they see me. They always stop to chat, and we have the best conversations!

The most difficult thing about being a mayor is …

Disappointing people. My goal is to make sure that you know that I listened, heard your concerns and did my best to address them even if we don’t agree on the solution.

I’m streaming and reading …

I just finished “The Diplomat” which was fantastic. I am getting ready to start “Uncomfortable Conversations with a Jew” by Emmanuel Acho and Noa Tishby.

If they made a movie of my life _____ would portray me …

Reese Witherspoon, she is about my height, funny, serious and Southern.

I would look back and tell a 21-year-old Lynn … Life will be a wild ride. Hang on and enjoy every minute. Don’t wish for time to go quickly.

Most exotic vacation?

New Zealand.  I would like to go to Africa. For now, though we spend most of our vacation time visiting children and family.

Best advice you received?

My mom always says, “Bloom where you are planted.”

My last fashion disaster was …

I was logging onto Zoom for a meeting, when I was notified that they were actually at City Hall for an in-person meeting. My outfit that day wasn’t the usual put together look that I strived for.

My kids would say ….

“Mom can find anything we lose but doesn’t know where her phone or keys are.” However I get credit for getting them into a Post Malone concert.

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Atlanta Ballet Lauds Schreier’s Talent

By Marcia Caller Jaffe

Since 2019, Atlanta has claimed an artistic treasure with the talented arabesques of Claudia Schreier, choreographer-in-residence at Atlanta Ballet. She has directed dance, opera, and film across the U.S. and internationally by creating more than 50 works for various companies, including San Francisco Ballet, Boston Ballet, Miami City Ballet, Dance Theatre of Harlem, Vail Dance Festival, Richmond Ballet, Guggenheim Works & Process, ABT Studio Company, Juilliard Opera, New York Choral Society, and New York Choreographic Institute.

Her works for Atlanta Ballet include “Nighthawks,” “Carnivale,” “Fauna,” “Pleiades Dances,” and “First Impulse,” named a 2019 Standout Performance by Pointe Magazine. In other words, the audience doesn’t see Claudia on stage, but they swoon over movements, design and vision in mapping out dancers’ details.

What some may not know about Schreier is that she’s a Harvard University graduate; and charoset is her favorite food. She stated, “The best charoset has to balance the acid and sweetness and just the right amount of walnuts. I have fond memories of Rosh Hashana and Passover back home.”

On a more professional note, her Atlanta Ballet contract has been extended

to 2026. She is married to filmmaker Adam Barish with whom she shares a daughter. They reside on the north end of the BeltLine and have collaborated on many projects like a work for the Miami City Ballet in 2022, and created a music video, “Force of Habit,” during the pandemic, which was shot in Atlanta. The video can be viewed here: https://www. youtube.com/watch?v=NNC7M4tq5Kk.

Backing up to her childhood in Manhattan and then Westchester County, she started dancing (creative movement) at age 3 at the YMCA in the “East 60’s.” She describes her parents as “Jewish father, into classical music, and mother, a tall, graceful Jamaican woman.”

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Thus, she draws from both cultures. After college, Schreier did administrative work at Alvin Ailey by day, then danced in the studio until 11 p.m. In June of 2017, she left her day job for a fellowship at New York University. Now, her choreography is sought after -- through word of mouth, the grapevine, and invitations from various directors. She recalled, “My path was atypical … at that time, Harvard did not have a dance program, as they do now. But there, at Harvard, is where I stumbled upon a high level of mentors and a community dedicated to collaboration and engaged in culture.”

Looking ahead, Claudia is working with Leo Geyer, a doctoral candidate from Oxford University in London, on a magnificent major work, “The Orchestras of Auschwitz, “an opera/ballet. She said, “Geyer has unearthed these manuscripts from around 1943, found eight years ago,

Some sheets were marching music requested by the SS for use with prisoners. The musicians played for SS parties and themselves, which provided courage. The Polish national anthem was also woven in to give prisoners pride and resolve. The performance is scheduled for June. Schreier and Atlanta Ballet partnered with the Cathedral Choir Society in 2022 to present Berlioz’s “Roméo et Juliette” at the Washington National Cathedral. In 2021, Schreier released “Force of Habit,” a film commissioned by Guggenheim Works & Process and co-presented by Atlanta Ballet. She has contributed to programs at the White House, jazz at Lincoln Center, and the Kennedy Center, including the Kennedy Center Honors. Her work is the subject of two documentaries, most recently PBS’s Emmy Award-winning, “Dancing on the Shoulders of Giants,” (Capital Region). Schreier presented her TEDx talk, “Thinking On Your Feet,” at Columbia University in 2018. She is a recipient of the Princess Grace Award, Toulmin Fellowship at the Center for Ballet and the Arts at NYU, Lotos Prize, and Suzanne Farrell Dance Prize.

Witness Schrier’s creativity from Feb. 7-14 as Atlanta Ballet premieres, “The Right of Spring.” For more information, please visit https://www.atlantaballet. com/performances/the-rite-of-spring. ì

Claudia Schreier took an atypical route by not studying ballet at Harvard vs. a more focused higher education in dance. She noted that she applied, unnecessarily, to 14 schools // Photo Credit: Atlanta Ballet

Claudia Schreier draws on both Jewish and Black culture for some of her expression and emotion // Photo Credit: Atlanta Ballet

Youthful Energy is Essence of Boaz’s Art

By Marcia Caller Jaffe

Jen Boaz owned and designed her eponymous jewelry line for 18 years, until 2019 when she took the “palette plunge” and switched full-time to an art career.

Now labeled “contemporary, abstract, modern, bold, unique, and sophisticated,” Boaz identifies her media as “anything I can get my hands on, but primarily acrylic, textures, pastels, charcoals, paper and lots of mixing. Most of the time I just ‘go with it’ and see where the color scheme takes me.”

Boaz categorizes her art as two versions of herself: “colorful bright happy Jen; and chill, relaxed, calming Jen: so, I’d say that’s where the hues come into play!”

Growing up in Atlanta and graduating from Dunwoody High School, art was always her favorite course. She was on the arts and crafts staff for several sessions at Camp Barney Medintz and currently teaches Sunday school art class at Temple Sinai. Her degree from the University of Alabama was in studio art. Now from her Kirkwood home studio, Boaz doesn’t scale out or preplan her drawings but nestles right into serendipity. She works on multiple pieces concurrently: and a large piece might take a month to finish. She explained, “I don’t let my work out into the world until I want to keep it for myself. So, that’s how long it takes. It’s interesting to me that people ask that question.”

A music lover, Boaz names her works after songs (“Layla,” “Blue Jean Baby,” “Easy Like Sunday Morning”) and listens to music in the work process. When asked from where she takes her inspiration, she related, “This is always a challenging question for me to answer. The honest answer is the fact that I’m an artist making something from nothing is inspirational in itself. I’m motivated to create. I don’t know what the reason is. I like the act of making something from a blank slate. I crave the outcome of finished product. I love when people find the one for their home and space. It’s like it was meant to be.”

Jen describes some of her favorite pieces as:

• “Don’t Blame Me” - This girl is alive! Full of texture, energy and movement. She is pure happiness!

• “Accentuate the Positive” - the color scheme is perfect in every way. I wish I could remember what I used. This one, I could stare at forever.

• “The News” - One of my favorite black-and-white pieces. It’s full of texture and pattern. It gives me a sense of calm, but it’s also extra interesting!

Summing up her artistic journey, she said, “Being an artist is taking the risk of what comes with the job and following through on all the levels to make it happen. Having no financial support, doing it all on my own, believing in myself and doing the work to make my passion my career.”

Her parents, Susan and Marvin, have always encouraged and supported her ambition to be an artist. “Through all the years and tears, they’ve been there and have never given up on me. They’re my No. 1 people! I couldn’t do it without them,” she said. Then there’s her “best dog ever,” Bowie.

Jen organizes unique art parties for bachelorettes, or birthdays for up to 18 people for $50 a person where she supplies all the equipment, canvases, paint,

and drop clothes, and even cleans up after everyone leaves with a unique piece of art. Boaz’s work is currently on display at The Distillery of Modern Art, Robert

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CALENDAR

January 19 - February 2

Food Drive for Camp Jenny - Join Congregation Dor Tamid to help give children from Atlanta urban schools an opportunity to receive tutoring and support. Memorial Day Weekend the children attend Camp Jenny at Camp Coleman for hiking, sports, team building, arts & crafts, attention from big brothers and sisters, and lots of encouragement for the future. We need foods that kids can make themselves such as Ramen cups, mac and cheese cups, oatmeal packets, canned soup, peanut butter/ cheese crackers, and granola bars. Find out more at https://tinyurl.com/4du53p3z.

Wednesday, January 15

NCJW ATL Banned Book Club – 12 to 1 p.m. Please join NCJW for our Banned Book Club discussion of “The Story Teller” by Jodi Picoult. Bring a lunch! Find out more at https://tinyurl.com/2wbaw3va.

CDT Canasta Club – 1 p.m. Come to Congregation Dor Tamid for Canasta lessons and play! If you know how to play, bring your cards. Learn more at https://tinyurl. com/3euacrwt.

ACT and Impact: Krav Maga for a Change – 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. A unique 3-session series, from the IAC Atlanta combining education about activism and combating antisemitism with Krav Maga training to build personal confidence and resilience. Anyone looking to combine impactful social action with personal growth and self-defense skills. No prior experience is needed—just a desire to learn and make a difference! Register at https://tinyurl. com/29bsexmj.

Thursday, January 16

Special Showing of Nomadland Movie and Discussion - 7 to 9:15 p.m. Please join Rebecca’s Tent at a special showing of the 2020 Academy Award winning movie, “Nomadland.” The film tells the story of a woman who lost everything in the Great Recession and spends a year living in her van. Ticket sales will benefit Rebecca’s Tent: Spiegel Women’s Shelter at Shearith Israel. The movie will be followed by a short discussion on the issue of homelessness. Purchase tickets at https://tinyurl. com/2zvxnsvp.

Picklealoolza – 7:30 to 10:30 p.m. Pickle maker Mitch Skyer will teach us how to make pickles. We will also enjoy delicious noshes (hors d’oeuvres and sweets), unique drinks and a chance to socialize. You’ll even go home with your own jar of pickles! Register at https://tinyurl.com/apwy79s8.

Friday, January 17

AJC’s Atlanta Black/Jewish Teen Initiative 2024-2025 - 6 to 9 p.m. The Black/ Jewish Teen Initiative offers a unique experience to student leaders, allowing them to effect positive change within their communities and build relationships with peers. Throughout the program, students will have the opportunity to experience the rich history of the Black and Jewish communities, learn with where they intersect, and interact with others working for a better tomorrow. Register at https:// tinyurl.com/5n6szz2b.

Sunday, January 19

Congregation Dor Tamid Blood Drive – 9:15 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. Do a Mitzvah and donate blood! Register at https://tinyurl. com/3sddehhu.

PJ Library Intown: Shabbat + Learn - 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. Bring your family and join us for a meaningful and fun-filled Shabbat experience! For the big kids: We’ll read “The Shabbat Box” and guide each child in creating their very own Shabbat box. For everyone: Enjoy a lively music circle featuring Shabbat songs and engaging Shabbat education for all ages. This is the perfect opportunity to learn, create, and embrace Shabbat traditions together. Register at https://tinyurl.com/4te32dzw.

Rack’em Up for Sharsheret - 1 to 5 p.m.

Rack’em Up for Sharsheret is a fantastic opportunity to unite the Atlanta Jewish community together for an afternoon filled with Mah Jongg, exciting prizes, breast and ovarian cancer awareness and education, fundraising, shopping, snacks and solidarity. RSVP at https://tinyurl. com/mptnhxj.

Young Philanthropy Fellows: Cohort 2 Session – 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. Welcome to the Atlanta Jewish Foundation’s hands-on fellowship for Jewish youth. This fellowship program enables Jewish teens in Atlanta, ages 13-15, to truly affect change in the local community. Learn more at https://tinyurl. com/232828vy.

I’ve Got Levys in My Genes: An Introduction to Jewish Genealogy – 2 to 3:30 p.m. Gary Deutsch, the author of “I’ve Got Levys in my Genes: An introductory guide to Jewish Genealogy” will be speaking about getting started in your genealogy endeavors. He and the book are serious about Jewish genealogy, but he uses a light approach including examples of Jewish celebrities and stories with comedic themes. Purchase tickets at https://tinyurl.com/ yrt7nfd7.

Atlanta Chamber Players - 3 to 5 p.m. The Marilyn Ginsberg Eckstein Cultural Arts Program Fund presents the Atlanta Chamber Players! Find out more at https:// tinyurl.com/22f35xp5.

Monday, January 20

NCJW/ATL MLK Day Mitzvah Marathon – 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. We will be meeting at the NCJW office and other various locations for MLK Day mitzvahs. Register at https://tinyurl.com/4xnunc3e.

MLK Family Day of Service – 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. Celebrate MLK Day with meaning, movement, and music! Preschool-age children and their families are invited for a morning of social action, song, movement and a chance to make a difference in our community. Together we will answer Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.‘s challenge that we “do something for others.” Families will have the opportunity to participate in hands-on service projects benefiting organizations in the Atlanta community, move their bodies to music with Here We Grow, and get creative and maybe a little messy at learning and mitzvah stations. Register at https://tinyurl.com/4nu4t5ay.

Love Beyond Borders: One People, One Heart – 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. Featuring Maayan Rabinovich from Tel Aviv, Natalya Godschalk from Amsterdam, Rebbetzin Miriam Moskovitz from Kharkov, Ukraine, R’ Aliza Sperling, and more “Am ekhad, b’lev ekhad.” One people, one heart. Join Sivah as we check in with our Jewish sisters across the globe, expressing our love for one another and learning about each other’s stories. Get the Zoom Link at https://tinyurl.com/2p8y8uy2.

CANDLE-LIGHTING TIMES

Torah Reading: Shemot

Friday, January 17 Light Candles at: 5:36 PM

Saturday, January 18 Shabbat Ends: 6:35 PM

Torah Reading: Va’eira

Friday, January 24 Light Shabbat Candles at: 5:43 PM

Saturday, January 25 Shabbat Ends: 6:41 PM

Torah Reading: Bo

Friday, January 31 Light Shabbat Candles at: 5:50 PM

Saturday, February 1 Shabbat Ends: 6:47 PM

Wednesday, January 22

Empowering Families: Facing Teen

Suicide Together - 7 to 9 p.m. Parenting teens in today’s world can feel overwhelming, especially when it comes to addressing the critical topics of mental health and suicide. Join the Jewish Federation of Atlanta, Blue Dove, and JCFS for Empowering Families: Facing Teen Suicide Together, a free event designed to give parents the tools and support they need to navigate these challenging conversations with confidence and care. RSVP at https://tinyurl. com/pnjm9wxr.

ACT and Impact: Krav Maga for a Change – 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. A unique 3-session series, from the IAC Atlanta combining education about activism and combating antisemitism with Krav Maga training to build personal confidence and resilience. Anyone looking to combine impactful social action with personal growth and self-defense skills. No prior experience is needed — just a desire to learn and make a difference! Register at https://tinyurl. com/29bsexmj.

Thursday, January 23

19th Annual Balser Symposium - 9 to 10:30 a.m. The Balser Symposium and Celebration were started to honor Jack Balser, who, for 13 years, served as endowment director of Jewish Federation of Greater Atlanta. Through Jack’s efforts, the number of planned gifts in the community grew dramatically and more donors and professional advisors were educated about the importance of planned giving in philanthropy. Jack’s efforts decades ago popularizing this type of strategic giving continue to bear fruit today. This Year’s Balser Symposium Speaker: Paul Root Wolpe, Ph.D. Register at https://tinyurl.com/232828vy.

Friday, January 24

PJ Library East Cobb: Tot Shabbat with Etz Chaim - 5 to 6 p.m. Looking for a fun and meaningful way to celebrate Shabbat with your little ones? Join PJ Library East Cobb and Etz Chaim for Tot Shabbat—an engaging, family-friendly event designed just for children ages 0-5 and their parents. RSVP at https://tinyurl.com/4vs2fxmb.

Building a Better World - 6 to 8 p.m. Shabbat services, dinner & discussion at Congregation Or Ve Shalom. What did you always want to know and were too scared to ask? Answers by Rabbi Josh Hearshen and Rev. Susan Landry. Register at https:// tinyurl.com/yn28mx2v.

Saturday, January 25

Camp Jenny Trivia Night – 7 to 11 p.m. Camp Jenny is NFTY’s Southern Area and Southern Tropical Regions’ year-round mitzvah corps project, giving children from an urban school in Atlanta the opportunity to receive tutoring and support throughout the year which then culminates in a 4-day long camp experience at URJ’s Camp Coleman over Memorial Day Weekend. The students receive the love of big “brothers and sisters,” three nutritious meals a day, and encouragement for the future. They also enjoy activities such as hiking in the mountains, water play, ziplining, arts and crafts, and a variety of sports and team building activities. It costs $500 to send a single child to camp and our goal is to have Congregation Dor Tamid send 5 kids this summer! Help a child at https:// tinyurl.com/ymtyn695.

Havinagala: A Party for PAL – 8 to 11 p.m. JF&CS will be hosting Havinagala for hundreds of young professionals with light bites, drinks, entertainment, a silent auction and more. All proceeds benefit PAL, Atlanta’s only Jewish Big Brother/Big Sister program. Learn more at https://tinyurl. com/y25ku34d.

Sunday, January 26

Play Tamid – 9:15 to 11 a.m. Play Tamid is led by Rabbi Jordan and is open to the public (members and non-members of Congregation Dor Tamid). Enjoy crafts, songs, fun activities, and more for children under 4 (parent/guardian must attend). Learn more at https://tinyurl.com/56y37k6e.

PJ Library: Sunday Funday with Beth Shalom - 10:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Join us for a morning filled with music, joy, and family fun! Local children’s song leader Hannah Zale will kick off the day with an engaging concert that brings Joyful Judaism to life through music, guaranteed to get everyone singing and dancing. After the concert, stick around for exciting activities that the whole family will enjoy! Register at https://tinyurl.com/325we4f5 to secure your spot.

March of the Living – 11 a.m. CDT member Hershel Greenblat will share about his experience returning to Eastern Europe and participation in the March of the Living. Find out more at https://tinyurl.com/kpwnj6fw.

Building a Better World - 12 p.m. Meet at St. James to make care packages, have lunch and learn about The Trinity Table. Then join Congregation Or Ve Shalom. at Trinity United Methodist Church to distribute the packages and serve those in need. RSVP at https://tinyurl.com/yn28mx2v.

Family Game Day – 12:30 p.m. to 2 p.m. Come to CDT for a Family Game Day.  There will be board games, trivia, BINGO, Jeopardy, and crafts. Get more information at https://tinyurl.com/2s4zsvx5.

Keshet - North Fulton - 4 to 5:30 p.m. Join IAC for a true Israeli experience! We will meet for fun, learning, and, of course, community! We would like to open a few groups. Please register at https://bit. ly/3Rlcxi0 if you would like your child to be part of the Keshet family. Please indicate your child’s age.

AJC’s Atlanta Black/Jewish Teen Initiative 2024-2025 - 5 to 8 p.m. The Black/ Jewish Teen Initiative offers a unique experience to student leaders, allowing them to effect positive change within their communities and build relationships with peers. Throughout the program, students will have the opportunity to experience the rich history of the Black and Jewish communities, learn with where they intersect, and interact with others working for a better tomorrow. Register at https:// tinyurl.com/5n6szz2b.

Wednesday, January 29

Women’s Philanthropy POP Up Program – 6 to 8 p.m. POP Up (Philanthropy. Opportunity. Purpose) featuring the Holocaust Teacher Educator Program, a partnership between The Breman and the Museum of History and Holocaust Education at Kennesaw State University funded by Federation’s Innovation fund. Get more information at https://tinyurl. com/bde4ayck.

ACT and Impact: Krav Maga for a Change – 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. A unique 3-session series, from the IAC Atlanta combining education about activism and combating antisemitism with Krav Maga training to build personal confidence and resilience. Anyone looking to combine impactful social action with personal growth and self-defense skills. No prior experience is needed — just a desire to learn and make a difference! Register at https://tinyurl. com/29bsexmj.

Thursday, January 30

50s+ Singles Wine & Cheese Happy Hour – 5 to7 p.m. Meet someone new in the new year! 50s+ singles are invited to join us for wine & charcuterie at Abernathy Arts Center in Sandy Springs. Comedian Jerry Farber will be our evening’s emcee, come prepared to introduce yourself to the crowd! RSVP early at https://tinyurl. com/2tyhjxbm.

Neranenah Presents Billy Crystal’s Uncle Milt: Celebrating Milt Gabler & Commodore Records – 7 p.m. Neranenah honors the legacy of Milt Gabler, founder of Commodore Records, and the label’s pivotal impact on jazz and popular music. Enjoy live performances of tracks from the Commodore catalog by vocalist Karla Harris and renowned pianist Joe Alterman and his “little big band,” plus a virtual conversation with Billy Crystal, sharing personal stories and insights about his Uncle Milt, who started it all. Purchase tickets at https://tinyurl.com/mr5873es.

Tuesday, January 28

NCJW/ATL Lunch ‘n Learn – 12 to 1:30 p.m. Join NCJW/ATL for a Lunch ‘n Learn. Details found at https://tinyurl. com/4ppyy679.

Jewish National Fund-USA - Women For Israel Event Jewish National Fund-USAWomen For Israel Event - 7 to 9 p.m. Join us as we empower Jewish women to stand up and combat the rise of antisemitism. Hear how Jewish National Fund-USA is leading by example through building the World Zionist Village - a haven where Zionists of all backgrounds can come together to learn, collaborate, and grow. Learn how, through your support, we can make this vision a reality and ensure that a brighter future awaits for Zionists everywhere. Learn more at https://tinyurl.com/yjdb2tb5.

Friday,

January 31

Shabbat Across Atlanta – 4 to 5 p.m. Congregation Or Ve Shalom is excited to collaborate with @onetableshabbat and dozens of other local Jewish organizations on January 31 for Shabbat Across Atlanta: #ShabbatAcrossAtlanta. RSVP at https:// tinyurl.com/yc245mtw.

KEEPING IT KOSHER

Chocolate Chip Crumb

Cake

Ingredients

Crumbs

1/2 level teaspoon cinnamon

1/3 cup brown sugar

1/4 cup white sugar

2 and 1/2 tablespoons oil

1/2 cup flour

2 tablespoons Gefen Cocoa

Batter

2 and 1/4 cups flour

1/2 teaspoon baking soda

1 teaspoon Haddar Baking Powder

1/2 teaspoon salt

1 cup sugar

1 and 1/2 teaspoons Gefen Vanilla Extract

3 large eggs

1/2 cup oil

1 cup soy milk

3/4 cup Haddar Mini Chocolate Chips

Cream

1/4 cup margarine, room temperature

1 cup confectioners’ sugar

1 teaspoon Gefen Vanilla Extract

1 tablespoon Gefen Cocoa

1/4 cup non-dairy whipping cream confectioners’ sugar, for sprinkling

Directions

Prepare the Crumbs and Batter

1. Make crumb mixture first. Mix ingredients together in a small bowl until crumbs form. Set aside.

2. Preheat oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit (180 degrees Celsius).

3. For batter, mix together flour, baking soda, baking powder, and salt in a mediumsized bowl. Place sugar, vanilla, eggs, and oil in the mixer and beat together on high speed for three minutes, until thick and lemony in color.

4. Add dry ingredients alternately with soy milk. Mix well.

5. Add chocolate chips last and mix well into batter.

To Assemble as a Layer Cake

1. Pour batter evenly into two 9-inch greased and floured round pans. Spread crumbs on top of one layer only.

2. Bake 30 minutes, or until cake tests done. Allow to cool.

3. Meanwhile, prepare cream: Beat margarine, confectioners’ sugar, and vanilla at high speed. Lower speed and add cocoa and non-dairy whip. Continue beating for two to three minutes until fluffy.

4. Spread cream on top of the layer without crumbs (I found it easier to do this after inverting the cake and smearing on the flat side).

5. Place crumb layer on top of cream layer. Sprinkle top with confectioners’ sugar.

To Assemble as a Bundt Cake

1. Pour batter into a well-greased (especially on bottom of pan) and floured pan. Sprinkle crumbs on the top of the batter (this will be the bottom when you invert).

2. Bake for 40-45 minutes.

Photography: Hudi Greenberger Food Styling: Renee Muller

Recipe by Brynie Greisman Kosher.com

JEWISH JOKE

The Vet

Solly took his happy little King Charles Spaniel dog to the vet.

“Dr. Cohen,” he said sadly, “I’m afraid I’m going to have to ask you to cut off my dog’s tail.”

Dr. Cohen stepped back in shock and said, “Solly, why should I do such a terrible thing?”

Solly replied, “My mother-in-law is arriving tomorrow, and I don’t want anything to make her think she’s welcome."

YIDDISH WORD

Cyberschmooze

v. To engage in long, animated and gossipy conversations on the Internet.

“Mildred has transitioned smoothly from the neighborhood gossip to the consummate Facebook gossip. She has turned cyberschmoozing into an art form.”

From the Yiddish “schmooze,” to talk intimately and cozily.”

Say Your Prayers

By: Yoni Glatt, koshercrosswords@gmail.com

ACROSS

1. “West Wing” Emmy winner

5. “Six Days of War” author 9. Be undecided, as an issue

13. It’s removal led to many Nabisco products becoming kosher 14. A neighbor of Niger

15. Basic building block

16. It’s Israel’s future?

17. Dollar alternative 18. ___ v’shalom

19. Tefila said several times a day

22. 25-Down, literally

23. What you’re likely to do when taking a nap

26. What a sculpture might be

27. Tefila said several times a day

30. I.M., the architect

31. Word after sand or speed

32. Some Twizzlers

33. Tefila said several times a day

37. Aussie mine find

39. What a sculpture might be

40. Uris novel, with “The”

41. Tefila said several times a day

44. Very good, slangily

47. Honeybun

49. Eric the Red, for one

51. Tefila said several times a day

54. “Swan Lake” skirt

56. Alka Seltzer sound

57. Israeli city that’s 43,560 square feet?

58. Confession words

59. Horne born in Brooklyn

60. Jazz musician Baker

61. Photos, briefly

62. They’re low for aces

63. Bear ill will

DOWN

1. Home of Nome

2. Soap up

3. Arid to the max

4. Request to be connected on social media

5. Arabian Sea country

6. Amora who debated Abaye

7. Hebrew song whose title is a repeated name

8. Pathfinder, e.g.

9. Was nervously active, in a way

10. Home of the Beta Israel, once

11. A daughter of Zelophehad

12. Insta chats

20. Joan ___

21. Protagonist of the “Street Fighter” games

24. Kind of designer

25. USD alternative, in the Middle East

28. ___-de-dah

29. Org. fining polluters

31. No later than, for short

32. Puck org.

33. Truly grand

34. Russian orbiter of old

35. Lyrical work

36. Agurot, e.g.

37. Honey Graham ___ (Quaker cereal)

38. Handle crudely

41. Got full, say

42. Like some arithmetic

43. One with a cure

44. Part of many a tefila

45. Part of the Ten Commandments?

46. Remove, in a way

48. Two former Israeli Prime Ministers

50. ___ Chayim (daily guide)

52. Sefer or Matza

53. Some hoppy brews, for short

54. You generally don’t leave one in Australia

55. Musician Davidi

OBITUARIES

Betty Braver

85, Atlanta

Betty Braver passed away peacefully on Dec. 31, 2024, 34 days after her 85th birthday. Betty was born on Nov. 27, 1939, in Dalton, Ga., to Helen and Jack Braver. She attended the University of Georgia and was a lifelong, diehard Georgia Bulldogs fan. She worked at Crawford Long Hospital for 37 years until her retirement.

Betty is preceded in death by her brother, William “Bill” Braver, and sister, Patricia “Patsy” Popky. She is survived by nephews and nieces, Dr. Howard (Beth) Braver, Elaine Braver (Rusty) Street, Nathan (Sharon) Popky, and Daniel (Shirley) Popky; cousins, Jan Levin Kelmachter, Dr. Jay (Debbie) Levin, Lauren (Cindy) Levin, Lynn (Ted) Kimerly, Rosalyn (Paul) Wexler, Natalie Kaminsky; and grandnephews and grandnieces, Louis Braver, Sarah (Daniel) Haas, Harrison Braver, Sam Popky, Rachel Popky, and Dana Popky.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Betty’s memory to the Howard Berger Memorial Fund, c/o Ahavath Achim Synagogue, 600 Peachtree Battle Ave. NW, Atlanta, GA 30327. The funeral was held graveside at Arlington Memorial Park on Friday, Jan. 3, 2025, at 1:00 p.m. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care, 770-451-4999.

Bonita Ellin

89, Sandy Springs

Bonita (Bunny) Ellin, 89, of Sandy Springs, passed away peacefully on Sunday, Dec. 22, 2024, with her adoring children by her side. She was born on Aug. 15, 1935, in Chicago, Ill., to David and Tillie Lubin. Bunny is survived by daughter, Elizabeth Stephan (Mark): sons, Richard Ellin (Ann) and Michael Ellin; grandchildren, Travis (Katee) and Daniel (Nicole) Ellin and Taylor, Blake (Emily), and Luke (Holly) Stephan; great-grandchildren, Madox, Isla, Duncan and Hunter Stephan; and many beloved nieces and nephews. Bunny was preceded in death by her husband, Mort Ellin.

At a young age, Bunny married Mort and began a career as a high school teacher but soon realized her true passion was raising her children. Bunny volunteered at Highland Park Hospital and worked for different charitable organizations to support their cause; she felt strongly about giving back to her community. Although she loved HP and her many, many friends, it was in 1979 that life took them on a different path to Atlanta, Ga. It was there that Mom found many new friends and a new career in banking as a loan officer. Her natural ability to problem-solve and get to know her customers on a personal level gave her the ability to soar in her career.

Bunny was creative beyond words; she painted in many different modalities and her artwork can be seen hanging in Hammond Glen where she spent the last eight years of her life. Bunny loved leading the book club, hanging out with her dinner buddies, playing Bingo, and being a part of the Hammond Glen community. Bunny was passionate, creative, loving, and kind and could tell you a story in such detail you could picture exactly what she was saying. She loved her family and friends and continually baffled us with her memory of every person she met. She will be missed by so many but those of us that were lucky enough to be a part of her life will forever be better for that!

A memorial service to celebrate Mort and Bunny’s life will be in Illinois, date TBD. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Capstone Hospice or the Breast Cancer Foundation. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care, 770-451-4999.

Zhenia (Emily) Greszes

101, Atlanta

Beloved wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, friend, aunt, sister, and everyone’s “Mama,” Zhenia (Emily) Greszes passed away on Dec. 27, 2024, on the second night of Hanukkah at the age 101 years old. She was known to those that loved her simply as “Mama” as she took on the role of grandmother to so many.

Her family, for whom she’d always been a guiding light, source of inspiration, and beacon of strength, celebrated and surrounded her with love just a few short hours before her passing.

Born on Feb. 25, 1923, in the Soviet Union, Zhenia and her family fled the pogroms and antisemitism to move to Cuba where she graduated with a degree in pharmacy from Havana University and met her beloved, Ben Greszes. Zhenia and Ben were married for 63 years and had three beautiful children. After struggling to immigrate, in 1961, they finally began their life in Atlanta, living as a family of five in a one-bedroom apartment after fleeing Cuba to find a better life in the United States.

In Atlanta, Zhenia and Ben took on every challenge together and built a meaningful life within the Toco Hills and Beth Jacob community, raising their children with a focus on Jewish education and values and regularly attending services. She held a variety of jobs, volunteered, and partnered with Ben in every business endeavor he took on. Ultimately, Mama became a grandmother and great-grandmother which she found to be her most fulfilling role.

Later in life, she took care of her beloved Ben for many years who suffered from Alzheimer’s. After Ben’s passing, Zhenia’s resilience was ever-present. She started a new season of life, learning how to drive, take on tai chi, and practice swimming to keep herself busy and social. She moved into the Renaissance on Peachtree and quickly became an active community member, participating in every activity offered, consistently raking in winnings for her great-grandkids during daily, high-stakes candy Bingo games.

Zhenia was a storyteller, an eternal optimist, a lover of music and dancing, “Wheel of Fortune,” and “Jeopardy,” Kahlua and dessert, playing Bingo and reading the newspaper, and most of all -- family and faith. Family was her everything and she lived for every moment, every party, every play, recital, wedding, graduation, bar mitzvah, and simcha she could soak in, down to her final hours watching her great-grandchildren play dreidel beside her.

Her love, comfort, and light will be forever missed by so many around her and shine through everyone blessed to be a part of her world. She is survived by her three children, Lidia Peljovich (Israel), Miriam Saul (Danny), and Mario Greszes, seven grandchildren (Jerry, Alan, Jamie, Courtney, Marshall, Sam, and Will), nine great-grandchildren (Alex, Jake, Drew, Ryan, Flynn, Benni, Ryan, Cori, and Olivia), and endless friends and extended family.

Funeral services were held at Crestlawn Memorial on Sunday, Dec. 29, with Shiva services observed at the home of Lidia and Israel Peljovich, led by Rabbi Feldman of Beth Jacob. Donations can be made to the The Davis Academy, The Epstein School, or the Atlanta Jewish Academy. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care.

Stefan Jan Lane

75, Alpharetta

It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Stefan Jan Lane. Stefan fought a brave battle with a glioblastoma, and unfortunately cancer won. On Dec. 26, 2024, Stefan passed away at home surrounded by his wife and children. Stefan was a loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend to anyone he met. One of Stefan’s sayings was, “I may not know you, but you are no stranger.”

Stefan was born on Nov. 5, 1949, in the Bronx, N.Y. He was the first born of Melvin and Irene Lane, and had four additional siblings, Robin, Randy, Bonnie, and Shari.

Stefan moved from New York to Georgia in the early 1980s and taught in Augusta. He soon moved to Atlanta and met his wife, Janet. Very soon after, he was the proud father of Zachary, Sam, Shari, and Meredith. Stefan’s greatest love was his family. He was very proud of the accomplishments of his children who continue his path today to helping others.

Stefan earned a master’s degree in construction trades, cooperative education, and manufacturing. He taught in elementary, middle, high school, and community college in construction, electrical, and plumbing skills. Stefan enjoyed sharing his knowledge and love of tools to anyone who would listen. When first meeting his future daughterin-law, Ilana, he proudly took her into his garage/shop to show her his collection of tools.

Stefan decided to take on new challenges in construction, and remodeled homes, hotels, and restaurants. Stefan was responsible for remodeling the hotels and restaurants across from Turner Field. After completing these challenges, he returned to teaching and retired in 2013. After retirement, Stefan continued to use his construction skills and restored the atzei chayim for the rescued Holocaust Torah at Congregation Beth Shalom. He was very careful to keep the integrity of the original style and preserved the name of the man who made the wooden shafts for the Torah scrolls.

Stefan had many varied interests including music. Stefan played the bass guitar in several groups throughout his lifetime. He also enjoyed building his own basses. While Michael, his future son-in-law, was bringing Shari back from their first date, Stefan was also returning home from playing a gig. Stefan had no problem asking Michael to bring his bass amp into the house. Of course, Michael kindly agreed while Shari stood in disbelief at her father’s request.

Stefan also loved building computers, airplanes, history, reading, playing Scrabble, and politics. He loved going to the movies and eating popcorn and drinking Diet Coke. Daniel, his son-in-law, and Stefan shared an interest in science fiction movies, “Star Wars” and Marvel. Stefan and Daniel loved watching these movies together.

In 2017, Stefan became a stroke survivor. Even after this southpaw lost movement in his left hand and leg, he continued with a new hobby of refurbishing old prewar Lionel trains. He wanted to build a train layout for his grandchildren to enjoy.

Stefan had a love for Judaism and Israel and visited Israel for the first time for his daughter’s wedding in 2023. Despite many health challenges, Stefan made sure to be there, and Daniel made sure Stefan was able to pray at the Kotel.

Family and friends were very important to Stefan. After his diagnosis, Stefan ate ice cream every night and was told how much he was loved. Stefan is survived by his wife, Janet, children, Zachary and Ilana Lane, Sam Lane, Shari and Michael Gower, and Meredith and Daniel Dzhanov, grandchildren, Eli, Ezra, Dahlia, and Ari, and a host of beloved family and friends. Stefan will be missed by all, but his legacy of strength, humor, generosity, and enduring love for family and friends will carry his memory forward with pride.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Stroke Association or to the American Cancer Society and Brain Cancer Research, or Congregation Beth Shalom. Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care, 770-451-4999

OBITUARIES

Eileen Sue Levy 78, Sandy Springs

Eileen Sue Levy (78) of Sandy Springs, Ga., passed away peacefully on Saturday evening, Dec. 28, after a lengthy battle with endometrial cancer. She was born on Aug. 15, 1946, in Baltimore, Md., where she grew up, the youngest of three children. She was predeceased by her parents, William and Rose Walpert, and her brothers, Fred and Harold Walpert, all of whom spent their lives in Baltimore.

While studying fine art at the University of Maryland, Eileen met Ralph for a blind date at a fraternity party weekend at Lehigh University in 1966. At the close of that weekend, Ralph told a fraternity brother that he wanted to marry her. Indeed, they married in 1968 and enjoyed over 56 years together. She is survived by Ralph and their children, Evan (Temi) Levy of Atlanta, and Michael (Nichola Jackman) Levy of Evanston, Ill., and grandchildren, Annie and Elisabeth Levy of Atlanta, and Ethan Levy, Ruby Levy, and Adam Levy of Evanston.

Ralph and Eileen moved to Atlanta in 1974, after Ralph’s Navy JAGC service in Jacksonville, Fla. She partnered with her husband actively supporting his career. She became the “first lady” of the King & Spalding law firm during Ralph’s tenure as managing partner and she enjoyed a similar role when he chaired the boards of two insurance companies. She was a Lion of Judah of the Atlanta Jewish Federation and served as president of the volunteer board of Atlanta Children’s Hospital. Eileen fostered close and mutually devoted friendships. She enjoyed bridge, mahjong, and travel (most of the U.S., including Alaska and many family ski trips to Colorado; Canada; Mexico and Costa Rica; the Caribbean; much of Western Europe; Israel; Australia; and New Zealand). But her primary work and greatest source of pride was devoted motherhood and caring for her family. She will be missed but never forgotten.

A memorial service for Eileen was held at Temple Sinai in Sandy Springs at 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, Jan. 2. (It can be viewed online at https://vimeo.com/showcase/tslifecycle). The service was followed by a private interment. For those so inclined, in lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory can be made to the American Cancer Society, Weinstein Hospice, or the Jewish Federation of Greater Atlanta. Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care, 770-451-4999.

Terry Levy Liebowitz

87, New Orleans, La.

Terry Levy Liebowitz, a beloved mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully on Dec. 23, 2024, in New Orleans, La. She was 87 years old. Born and raised in Augusta, Ga., Terry was a fighter, whose life was filled with devotion, accomplishment, and a steadfast love for those closest to her.

A proud graduate of the Academy of Richmond County and the University of Georgia, Terry’s intelligence and determination were evident in all her pursuits. Terry met Jack Liebowitz at college, beginning a lifelong love story with their marriage in 1958 until his untimely death in 2008. Together, they built a family filled with love and cherished traditions.

Terry was a stable pillar of her community, dedicating her time and energy to volunteering in her children’s schools, at her synagogue, and through various community initiatives. Her commitment to community included serving as a long-standing member of Adas Yeshurun Synagogue, where her leadership and vision were deeply valued.

In her professional life, Terry was a trailblazer, becoming one of the first in Georgia to earn the Qualified Pension Administrator designation. She retired in 2009, after a decades-long career highlighted by her excellence and professionalism.

In retirement, Terry embraced life, spending time with family and friends, and finding joy in everyday moments. She leaves behind a legacy of love, kindness, and strength.

Above all, Terry was a fiercely devoted mother, sister, grandmother, and greatgrandmother. Her family was her greatest source of pride and joy. She is predeceased by parents, Beatrice Levy Kaplan, Saul Levy, and Ben Kaplan, beloved husband, Jack Liebowitz, brother, Louis Levy; and is survived by her children, Steven and Donna Liebowitz, Laura and George Fuhrman, and Susan and Michael La Kier, grandchildren, Sarah and Michael Harris, Melissa and Jason Schwarz, Allison and Benjamin Schindler, Benjamin La Kier and Rachel La Kier, great-grandchildren, Eilah and Shai Schwarz and Henry Harris, and many nieces and nephews who will carry her fighting spirit forward.

A funeral service was held Dec. 26, 2024, at 1 p.m. at North Atlanta Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Adas Yeshurun Synagogue in Augusta, Ga., Shir Chadash in Metairie, La., Congregation B’nai Torah in Atlanta, Ga., or the charity of choice, reflecting Terry’s giving spirit. Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care.

Saralyn Bonowitz Oberdorfer 93,

Atlanta

Saralyn Bonowitz Oberdorfer, age 93, passed away Dec. 23, 2024.  She is survived by her children, Julie (Oberdorfer) Leibel (Steven) (Dahlonega, Ga.), Robin (Oberdorfer) Kottman (Stacy) (Dahlonega), and grandchildren, Lauren Leibel (Atlanta), Jaclyn Kottman Hittner (Stephen) (Wisconsin Rapids, Wisc.), Michelle Leibel (Los Angeles, Calif.), Jonathan Leibel (Atlanta), Ryan Kottman (Decatur, Ga.) and Joel Kottman (Dahlonega). She was preceded in death by her husband, Eugene Oberdorfer II (2019) and son, Mike Oberdorfer (2023).

Saralyn was born in Shreveport, La., on September 13, 1931, to Joe and Faye (Conway) Bonowitz. Growing up, Saralyn lived in many cities due to her father’s career as a professional Minor League baseball player. After graduating from San Mateo High School (San Mateo, Calif.), Saralyn attended Stephens College (Columbia, Mo.) for two years and then graduated from the University of North Carolina – Chapel Hill (UNC) in 1953, where she met her future husband, Gene Oberdorfer, to whom she was married for 65 years.

At UNC, Saralyn was involved in campus activities and was inducted into the Order of the Grail – Valkyries honorary. After graduating from UNC with a degree in English and teaching, Saralyn taught third grade for one year in the Atlanta school system before she and Gene began their family (Mike, Julie, and Robin), and was also a fashion model for various print advertising and Rich’s department store.

Over the years, Saralyn served as a leader of elementary and high School PTAs, North Fulton PTA Council, and the State PTA Board where she served as legislative liaison. That led to her appointment to the Georgia State Board of Education in 1976 – the first Jewish person to hold that position. While on the Board, Saralyn promoted public kindergarten throughout the state and worked to rid high school textbooks of sexism and antisemitism. Saralyn also served on the Board of Education’s television committee to make public broadcasting more available across the state. In 1977, Saralyn was appointed to the national PBS Board where she advocated for more educational programming for children. She lobbied the General Assembly to create the State Telecommunications Commission of which she became the chairman, successfully working to establish National Public Radio stations throughout Georgia. She then served for four years on the Atlanta Fulton County Public Library Board and was a founding member of the Sandy Springs Society, a philanthropic organization supporting the surrounding community.

Saralyn and Gene developed a semi-independent living program for developmentally disabled adults, including their son, Mike, that later became the Jewish Family & Career Services Independent Living Program. The Oberdorfers were founding members of Temple Sinai in Sandy Springs and later became members of The Temple in Atlanta. They were also supporters of the Department of Jewish Studies at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and avid Tarheel basketball fans.

During retirement, Saralyn enjoyed her six grandchildren at their homes in Dahlonega and Longboat Key, Fla., where she and Gene were avid supporters of the Holly Theater (Dahlonega) and the Asolo Theatre (Sarasota, Fla.).

Saralyn lived with dementia during her last five years but continued to enjoy conversations with family and friends, and singing and dancing to her favorite music. She also knitted hundreds of beautiful scarves, a hobby which she worked at every day, giving her purpose and enjoyment.

A memorial service celebrating Saralyn’s life will be on Friday, Jan. 17, at 2 p.m. at the H.M. Patterson & Son – Arlington Chapel at 173 Allen Rd NE, Sandy Springs, GA 30328. Visitation with the family will be at 1 p.m., prior to the service at 2 p.m., with a reception following.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Saralyn’s memory can be made to The Annandale Foundation, providing fee assistance for developmentally disabled adults at Annandale Village in Suwanee, Ga. (www.annandale.org).

Elsie Yahr Oppenheimer-Krause 94,

Columbus, Ohio

Elsie Yahr Oppenheimer-Krause passed away in Columbus, Ohio, on Jan. 5, 2025, at the age of 94, surrounded by her family. The funeral was held the same day at the Columbus Ohio Beth Jacob Cemetery.

Elsie was a loving mother to three, wife, grandmother to 10, great-grandmother to five, sister, and friend to so many. As we reflect on her 94-and-a-half years of life, in our minds we should hold the countless memories, laughs, and moments of joy she brought to those around her.

Born in Brooklyn, N.Y., to Eastern European immigrants, they settled in Columbus, Ohio, in 1936. Elsie cherished the friendships she made from her childhood, in grade school, and at South High School. She never met a stranger. Her sense of humor was one of her most treasured qualities. She had a way of making everyone smile, even when she was offering a playful jab or sharing a witty observation. Elsie welcomed everyone into her home with open arms, and our friends adored her.

Elsie was a successful real estate broker. She was deeply committed to her Jewish faith and community. She lived a life full of good deeds, hard work, and generosity. She was a lifelong supporter of Hadassah: The Women’s Zionist Organization of America, Beth Jacob Synagogue (Columbus, Ohio), and The Columbus Jewish Center. Since attending The Ohio State University, Elsie was an avid fan of The Ohio State Buckeyes, proudly sporting her scarlet and gray.

As we say goodbye to Elsie, we honor her life, her love, and the way she always lived with dignity and class. Yes, she did it her way — and what a beautiful way it was.

She is survived by her children: Dr. Stephen and Lori Oppenheimer, Lori and Ken Greenblott, Marc and Marcy Oppenheimer; grandchildren: Matthew and Andrea Oppenheimer, Brad and Sarah Oppenheimer, Eli and Rebecca Oppenheimer, Ian, Mia, Amy and Zoe Greenblott, Jenna Oppenheimer and Nichol Wolverton, Melanie and Ezra Weisel and Hallie Oppenheimer; great-grandchildren: Davis and Levi Oppenheimer, Nell and Bram Oppenheimer, and Julian Weisel; sister: Lee and Jack Weissman and sister-in-law Eileen Oppenheimer. She was preceded in death by her husband, Norman Krause, and parents, Morris and Ida Yahr.

In Lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Hadassah (hadassah.org), Congregation Beth Jacob (bjco-lumbus.org) and the Columbus Ohio Jewish Community Center (columbusjcc.org). Online guestbook at www.epsteinmemorial.com.

Dr. Martin L. Reish

90, Atlanta

Dr. Martin L. Reish, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and uncle, passed away peacefully on Jan. 7, 2025, at the age of 90.

He was born in the Bronx, N.Y., on March 27, 1934, and moved to Atlanta with his family in 1949. After graduating from Druid Hills High School, he attended Emory University, finishing in just three years, and then the Medical College of Georgia. He completed his M.D. in 1958, and one week after graduation, married Ralda Lefkoff, native of Atlanta.

Dr. Reish completed a medical residency in pediatrics at Grady Hospital, where he was appointed Chief Resident, and then went into private practice in Atlanta. Over the next five years, he and Ralda welcomed three sons. From 1966 to 1968, Dr. Reish served as a captain and doctor in the U.S. Army, stationed at Fort Belvoir, Va., after which, he returned to Atlanta. For more than three additional decades he served the children and families of Atlanta in his pediatric practice and was beloved for his care and gentle touch.

Martin served numerous cultural, educational, and religious organizations, including as a member of the Education Board of the Atlanta Jewish Federation, Board member and Vice President of Congregation Shearith Israel, and as a member of the Selection Committee for the Atlanta Jewish Film Festival. In his later years, he was a member of Ahavath Achim Synagogue and enjoyed regularly attending Shabbat services.

A lifelong sports fan, Martin grew up playing stickball in the streets of the Bronx, and avidly following the New York Yankees and the New York football Giants. In Atlanta, he played basketball at Druid Hills High School. He switched his allegiance to local professional teams as they launched, holding season tickets to the Falcons and Hawks, and regularly attending Braves games with his family. Martin was also an avid tennis player and loved to watch matches live and on television.

Martin is survived by his wife of 66 years, Ralda Lefkoff Reish; son, Kenneth (Sherrie) Reish; son, Gregory (Abby) Reish; grandchildren, Ethan (McKenzie) Reish, Lucy Reish, Allison Reish, and Isabella Reish. Martin was predeceased by parents, Edward Reish and Theresa Abramsky Reish; and son, Joel Reish.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Atlanta Jewish Federation or Ahavath Achim Synagogue. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care, 770-451-4999.

Allen Robert Stein

90, Atlanta

It’s hard to summarize the life of someone who often seemed larger than life.

Allen Robert Stein, 90, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, passed away on Dec. 31, 2024.

Allen was a man of integrity, drive, wit and intelligence. He was adored by his family and friends and revered by his employees, colleagues and customers.

He was born in Brooklyn, N.Y., on Feb. 20, 1934, to Lillian and Jack Stein and became the youngest sibling of Bernice and Howard by 12 and 10 years, respectively. His family suffered from financial hardship and, with both his parents working to try to make ends meet, Allen often felt sad, lonely, and worried. These early experiences shaped Allen’s character. The despair he felt as a child transformed into a deep desire and determination to succeed and live each day to the fullest.

He was able to meet these lofty goals with the unwavering support, patience and love of Merna, his wife of 69 years. Whether it was raising a family, travelling the world or watching “Jeopardy,” whatever they did, they did together. He adored Merna and referred to her as “my darling” and “my one and only.”

Allen was full of ambition and had an exciting marketing and merchandising career in retailing and manufacturing. His creativity, leadership and ability to connect with the customer made him a prized buyer, manager, and executive vice president at department stores including Gimbel’s, Sterns and The Hecht Company, and later, as executive vice president of Shaw Industries’ Sutton Division. Over the years, Allen motivated, influenced, and inspired (and probably at times, stressed out) those who worked with him. People were drawn to his keen sense of humor, unending charm and ability to strategize on the spot.

As much as he worked, Allen was also able to live out his belief that nothing was more important than family. He adored his daughters, admired his sons-in-law (who he lovingly considered his sons) and was amazed by almost everything about his grandchildren Alex and Sadie. He was generous with encouragement, advice, and praise.    Allen believed in surrounding yourself with good people, both professionally and personally. He and Merna enjoyed wonderful and fun-loving groups of friends in both Springfield, N.J., and Atlanta – and he was always happy to kibbitz with or befriend anyone at any time.

He is survived by his wife, Merna, daughters, Bari-Lynn Calais (Ian Buda) and Debra Mazur (Dan), and his grandchildren, Alex Calais and Sadie Mazur.

He will be deeply and dearly missed by all who knew him. In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Allen may be made to Ahavath Achim Synagogue: https://aasynagogue.org/support-us/donate/, Jewish Family & Career Services: https://jfcsatl.org/, or a charity of your choice.

A graveside funeral was held on Friday, Jan. 3, at 3:30 p.m. at Arlington Memorial Park, officiated by Rabbi Laurence Rosenthal. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care, 770-451-4999.

Dr. Arlene Lois Benuck Wildstein

88, Atlanta

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved wife, mother, sister, grandmother, and greatgrandmother, Dr. Arlene Lois Benuck Wildstein (Ahoova bat Rayna Devorah V’ Yaakov) on Sept. 13, 2024, at the age of 88. Arlene died peacefully in her sleep after battling a series of illnesses over several years.

Arlene was born on Feb.7, 1936, to Rose and Jack Benuck of Chicago, Ill. Throughout her life, Arlene had a love of learning and enjoyed a great sense of humor. She had gifted skills in interior design and loved music, art, and travel. Strongly committed to her family and Judaism, she was among the first women to have a bat mitzvah in the city of Chicago, a milestone that reflects her pioneering spirit and dedication to her Jewish heritage.

Arlene’s academic path began at Syracuse University and continued at The University of Chicago. In 1954, at the age of 18, she married Walter Wildstein, her beloved husband of nearly 70 years. Shortly thereafter, Arlene paused her education to start a family, and together they raised their three children, Caryl, Robert, and Sharon. With characteristic courage and reflective of her life-long dedication to learning, Arlene returned to Georgia State University at the age of 35 to earn her BA, MA, and eventually PhD in educational psychology--an unusual accomplishment for a woman of her generation. For many years, she was a practicing educational and forensic psychologist.

Arlene, along with her husband, Walter, were longstanding, active members of the AA Synagogue and strong supporters of the Atlanta Jewish community.

Family was the cornerstone of Arlene’s life and grew to include eight grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. She will be deeply missed by her husband, Walter; children, Caryl (Howard) Cohen, Robert (Sherri) Wildstein, and Sharon (Mark) Reich, all of Atlanta, Ga.; grandchildren, Benjamin (Meg) Cohen, Daniel Cohen, Joshua Cohen, Evan Wildstein, Elana Wildstein, Jacob Reich, Benjamin Reich, Micah Reich; and greatgrandchildren, Jonathan and Gabriel Cohen. She is the sister of Larry (Elaine) Benuck of Atlanta, Ga., and Irwin (Dorene) Benuck of Chicago, Ill.; sister-in-law of Gilbert (Lynn z’’l) Wildstein of Charleston, S.C., and Albey (Josie z’’l ) Wildstein of Atlanta, Ga. She will be lovingly remembered by her numerous nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and greatnephews.

Arlene’s funeral was held at Arlington Memorial Park on Monday, Sept. 16, 2024.  Rabbi Neal Sandler officiated.

Sign the online guest book at www.jewishfuneralcare.com. Donations in Arlene’s memory may be made to Ahavath Achim Synagogue or Lone Soldier Center (lonesoldiercenter.com), or an organization of your choice. May her memory be for a blessing. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care, Atlanta 770-451-4999.

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What is Your Life About?

Allen H. Lipis

I am reminded of a wonderful story about three men working on building a synagogue. The first man when asked what he was doing said, “I am just here to help.” The second man when asked said, “I am here because the pay is good.” The third man when asked said, “I am working to build a great cathedral.”

Now what kind of person are you? Are you just doing stuff without a plan, and most of what you do is meaningless? Or do you have goals that are meaningful for you? Do you care about what you are doing without knowing whether these things are worth anything to anyone, especially you, or do you really believe that what you are doing has meaning for you or for someone you love?

If you want to care about your life

so that it has value for you and those you love, then I suggest you buy an amazing book called “Man’s Search For Meaning,” written by Viktor Frankl and read it. The book was first published in 1946, right after Dr. Frankl, a psychiatrist, endured years of unspeakable horror in Nazi death camps. The book focuses on what is the most important reason for you to stay alive, and that is to find meaning in your existence. The meaning is for only you to determine and no one else.

Most of us live with the desire to find something meaningful to do, and it is only for you alone to decide. There are three ways to find meaning in your life. The first way is to create a work or do a deed. This way is obvious, you are creating, working to doing a mitzvah. The second way is to experience something or encounter someone, by experiencing nature, or a culture, or by loving another person. And the third way is the attitude we take toward unavoidable suffering. Even in suffering we can find meaning when confronted with a hopeless situ-

ation, like a Nazi concentration camp, which is what Frankl experienced.

The meaning we choose for ourselves is not some long-distance plan, although that can be very meaningful for some. For me, early in my life, it was very meaningful for me to run in the Peachtree Road Race, and it took me four years to work up to that accomplishment. On the other hand, it is now meaningful for me to select a list of 10 items to complete today, like going to the bank, changing the bed, calling my sister, or finishing a book. What is meaningful in your life can be a single item over many years, or a single item for a given day. There are many meaningful things you can say are important in your life, and they can change from moment to moment, day to day, or last a lifetime.

My wife is very meaningful for me to honor and love her, and celebrate the days we have been together, and that is also true for my children and grandchildren. On the other hand, it is meaningful for me to play my monthly Texas Hold ‘Em poker, although I am clearly not the

best player.

It is easy to find meaning in the good things we do: births, marriage and other celebrations. It is also easy to find meaning in work, in serving others, and in doing mitzvahs. But can you find meaning in tragedy, in the awful experiences we are forced to endure? Dr. Frankl suggest that we can remain optimistic in spite of the “tragic triad” of human existence: pain, guilt and death. We can turn suffering into a human achievement and accomplishment, we can turn guilt into a desire to change ourselves for the better, and we can find meaning in the way we accept even death.

The most essential point is that each of us has to find our own way, and in doing so find meaning in our life. Each of us is allowed to define what is meaningful to us, but what is important is to be clear about what we intend to do. There is no need to have a long-term plan, since we can change what is meaningful to us from moment to moment. The point is to be clear about what you intend to do with your life and get on with it. ì

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