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Israeli Pride

GOOD NEWS MADE IN THE JEWISH STATE THIS PAST WEEK UNESCO ISRAEL TO BUILD MODERN HOSPITAL IN BULGARIA. A modern medical center for bone marrow transplantation with the know-how of Hadassah Hospital of Jerusalem will be opened in Varna, Bulgaria by the end of the current year. Also, a University of Haifa program will allow third-year Israeli students to finish their diplomas at the new facility.

CONSTRUCTING A HOUSE FOR THE SUSTAINABLE OLYMPICS. Thirty Israeli students have built an energyself-sufficient four-room house that will compete in the Solar Decathlon event in China in August. It is solarpowered as well as handicap accessible and will feature the renewable energy products of several Israeli companies and a garden irrigated by recycled water.

CHINESE FILM TO BE SHOT IN ISRAEL. A 22-member Chinese production company is arriving in April to shoot scenes in Israel for a Chinese epic called “Old Cinderella.” It is expected to be a blockbuster movie, thanks to stars such as Zhang Jingchu (“Rush Hour 3”) and director Lu Chuan.

RIHANNA RETURNS TO THE JEWISH STATE. Rihanna will be performing a concert in Tel Aviv as part of her “Diamonds” world tour. Although

not yet official, the concert is expected to be on October 22, in Tel Aviv’s HaYarkon Park. Her last visit to Israel was in 2010.

INVITED TO TEDMED. For the first time ever, a country other than the U.S. will be officially represented at this year’s TEDMED medical technology conference. The annual summit is normally an American-only event, but this year Israel will also showcase their achievements in bio-

technology. And on the final day, a satellite TEDMED event will be held in Israel.

This list courtesy Michael Ordman and verygoodnewsisrael.blogspot. com.

UNDERGROUND ENERGY FOR INDONESIA. Israel’s Ormat Industries has designed a 330-megawatt geothermal power plant in Northern Sumatra. It will also supply its Ormat Energy Converters, for which it will receive $254 million. The first phase of the plant will be ready for operations in 2016.

PAMPER YOUR POOCH. When Israelis go on vacation, they no longer have to consign Fido to a kennel. KelevLand – a one-of-a-kind dog hotel with elite accommodations – gives pooches the best possible treatment: from mineral water on tap to tummy rubs and acupuncture (and the Israeli-developed DogTV, of course).

“MARCH” DRAWS THOUSANDS. Eleven-thousand youngsters from more than 50 countries are taking part in this year’s “March of the Living” program, which began with a Yom HaShoah observance at Auschwitz on April 8 and will conclude on Israeli Independence Day in Jerusalem on April 16. A group of nearly 500 Holocaust survivors will accompany them and relate their experiences.

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ANCIENT WINE PRESS DISCOVERED. Israel Antiquities Authority workers have discovered a 1,500-year-old wine press during the construction of a wedding hall near Hamei Yoav, a city east of Ashkelon in southern Israel. It is one of the best-preserved examples of a Byzantine-era winemaking facility.

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High-tech Hijinks in the Land of Israel FIRST-HAND EXPERIENCE WITH SABRA INNOVATION

BY RON FEINBERG WEB EDITOR

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stumbled across a report recently that detailed how various countries around the world are dealing with economic woes brought on by the global recession.

It turns out that while many nations have struggled in recent years, Israel’s economic engine has continued to chug along mightily.

All the important indicators – job growth and earnings, the Consumer Price Index, industrial production and GDP – are sharply up and continue moving in the right direction.

Analysts, as they often do, offer a mixed bag of reasons for Israel’s success; but almost all agree that it’s the country’s high-tech sector that has fueled the Jewish homeland’s economic expansion.

It only takes a moment and a quick look around the web to see that

virtually all the major players in the high-tech world – Intel, IBM, Google, Cisco Systems, Microsoft – have expansive research and development facilities in Israel.

The country also boasts a number of homegrown companies that have been hugely successful, including Zoran Corporation, CEVA, Inc., NICE Systems and Radware. This group of innovative companies – along with dozens of others – make up a region that has come to be known as the “Silicon Wadi.”

I mention this all now as a long and rambling preamble to my personal introduction to the high-tech vibe that spills across Israel. It was a dozen or so years ago, during a trip to Israel with the Jewish Federation of Greater Atlanta, that I almost crashed and burned after bumping

up against a digital wall of my own making.

My problems started on a high note when I decided it might be fun to mix a little business with pleasure. I met with a colleague, the editor handling international news for the Atlanta Journal-Constitution, and pitched a few story ideas. We came up with a workable plan, but then I needed to be taught how to file stories and photos back to Atlanta on deadline.

Today, that would probably mean I’d be handed a laptop and a smartphone, spend five minutes with an IT specialist and be told to stay in touch. A decade ago, though, the digital world was in flux, and staying in touch involved a complicated series of websites, dialup modems, passwords, phone numbers and mistakes waiting to happen.

After a few days of fun spent mostly in Tel Aviv and an evening spent covering Ariel Sharon sharing his vision for the future, I found myself in a tidy pressroom set up for journalists inside the Binyenei HaUma, the International Convention Center in Jerusalem.

It was filled with the usual stuff: desks and chairs; paper pads and pens; a few TVs, lots of phones, and some desktop computers. I was home!

Well, not really. “Home” was on the other side of the world, and I needed to figure out how to get my stories and photos onto the web and back to the newsroom in Atlanta.

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I had a set of instructions. They had made sense when the IT specialist ran me through the list only a few days earlier. Now they looked like Greek.

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I managed to download a series of photos onto my laptop and even access the stories I had written earlier that morning. But each time I tried to call up the special modem set up to retrieve information, I would be disconnected.

Can you say “frustrating” in Hebrew?

Eventually, a couple of Israeli teens noticed I was having a problem (I think slamming my computer against a nearby wall is what captured their attention). It turns out

they had been hired by the convention center to help with digital issues, and they offered to work me through the list of instructions that now seemed to have been written by the Marquis de Sade.

I recall them whispering and pointing a bit, then suggesting I ditch the instructions and try another series of steps. I politely and diplomatically explained that my bosses back home had stressed that I was to follow their instructions to the letter!

To this, they smiled, said b’seder (“OK”), and went about trying to hook me up to the web. They, too, ended up where I had started – which is to say, exactly nowhere!

This madness went on for an hour, and my deadline was quickly approaching. Finally, one of the kids disconnected a cable connecting my laptop with a nearby phone and punched it into a port on the front of my desk. He then tapped a few keys on my laptop and, magically, I was home – at least digitally!

It turns out, much to my surprise and far beyond my ability to comprehend, that the entire pressroom came complete with dedicated lines linked to the internet. By simply moving the cable from the phone to the waiting port, I was essentially skipping over the first several pages of instructions I had been given in Atlanta and connecting directly with the necessary website. Who knew?

I’m pretty certain that Ilan and Reuven (those two teens) helped me make deadline that day, but they also taught me that sometimes it’s necessary to simply hand a man a trout instead of teaching him how to fish – especially if the clock is ticking and the man doesn’t even understand the point of a fishing pole.

But I’ll save that bit of wisdom for another day.

Meanwhile, it wouldn’t surprise me at all if Ilan and Reuven are living the good life today in Israel’s Silicon Wadi, just two of the high-tech wizards pushing the country forward and making life better for all of us.

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A Piece of Pi at GHA THE HOLIDAY THAT EDUCATES

BY Leah Levy

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he Greenfield Hebrew Academy celebrated Pi Day on March 14, and although a great time was had by all, there wasn’t a single pastry involved.

In honor of the irrational mathematical constant that is the ratio of a circle’s circumference to its diameter – and approximated as 3.14 – the fifth and sixth grades at GHA participated in a special program designed Sixth grade GHA student by their math teacher, Jennifer Klein. AfGideon Levy designs a shirt to ter a week studying the concept of pi and wear on March 14, Pi Day. the geometry of the circle, students kicked off the special day by designing their own pi-themed t-shirts, including such gems as “Cutie-Pi” (by Annie Intro) and “Pi-romaniac” (by Gideon Levy).

Then, while sporting their new duds, students rotated among the activity stations their teachers had set up. Sarah Topper, science teacher, presided over a table where students used measuring equipment to determine the diameter of York Peppermint Patties (which then disappeared, seemingly a scientific impossibility).

Meanwhile, Shari Sokol, who teaches language arts, assisted students in composing “pi-ku” poetry. The poets made use of the haiku form, but the subject was pi all around.

Also, Klein created a color code for each of the numbers 0 to 9, and using this code, fifth graders made a paper-chain representation of pi up to the 1,000th digit, while sixth graders used the code to make pi necklaces of colored beads.

Asked which activity was their favorite, students had many different responses. Bar Stern was proud of her pi-ku (“Pi is on the brain/Pi is on the plate—dessert!/Three-point-one cheese pie”).

Jaren Linowes said that he felt the chain was a really fun way to learn about pi.

“My t-shirt helped, because I decorated it with the first digits of pi, and I could just look down to see what came next,” he said.

Eliana Goldin valued all of the day’s festivities.

“What I thought was really cool,” she said, “was how we took all the different things we’re learning in school and connected it to our pi studies. And I memorized the first nine digits, too.”

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Leah Levy is a paraprofessional at GHA and the author of “The Waiting Wall,” a Sydney Taylor Notable Book for 2010.

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Getting to Know AYJAN

The Atlanta Young Jewish Attorneys Network STAFF REPORT

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he Atlanta Young Jewish Attorneys Network (AYJAN) is an organization focused on promoting relationships between Jewish attorneys of all ages in Atlanta. AYJAN’s bi-monthly meetings provide an outlet for sharing information about job openings and community events as well as “war stories,” current projects and recent articles authored by fellow Jewish attorneys.

The organization was founded

by Atlanta-based attorneys Jody Brown, Taylor English Duma, LLP; Raanon Gal, Ford & Harrison, LLP; Eric Fisher; and Jeffrey Fisher, Kilpatrick Townsend. The founders, such as Fisher and Brown, here offer details about this unique group as well as their personal thoughts on AYJAN. Purpose and Founding AYJAN was started in an attempt to promote relationship building

among young-ish (age 40 and under) Jewish attorneys in and around Atlanta.

We realized that the professionals with whom we meet in court or across a table negotiating a deal are likely going to be the people we see at our children’s school events, community functions and other social gatherings. Thus, AYJAN provides another platform for these individuals to get to know each other outside of the office.

One Member’s Personal Interest

According to founder Eric Fisher:

“During a particularly contentious business litigation dispute, I was embarrassed to learn that one of my adversaries was not only involved with many of the same community activities as me, but knew many of the same people as I did. Once we found this common ground, the litigation became much more civil, and all parties benefitted.

“By expanding the number of attorneys I know, particularly those who are my contemporaries and share common interests, I believe being a member of AYJAN will be beneficial to my clients, decrease the level of stress in my daily work and expose me to community events of which I was unaware. [And] in the past year, through AYJAN, all of this has come to fruition.”

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“In this difficult job market, attorneys have used AYJAN’s events as a venue to explore job opportunities, and have found success in doing so.

From new graduates who are simply looking to land interviews to government employees who are ready to transition into the private sector and even experienced attorneys are simply hoping to find a new firm – an AYJAN event can and has proved fertile ground to learn about all of these options.”

Goals, Second Year and Beyond AYJAN started this year with an event called “Pro Bono Work and Volunteerism in 2013” and would like to focus more on getting attorneys exposed to work they can do outside the office – both with legal and Jewish nonprofits. As membership continues to grow, the group members will naturally develop bonds with more of their contemporaries.

And in addition to providing fun events, AYJAN would like to mobilize members to get more involved with community events. Participants believe this group will truly become a force for positive change in the Atlanta legal community as well as the Atlanta Jewish community.

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Abraham the Hebrew WHAT DID HE STAND FOR?

BY Eugen Schoenfeld AJT Contributor

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ecently, we gathered as families and friends to celebrate Passover. The seders of this festival begin with the Abraham saga: his migration

from his home, G-d’s prophecy that his seed would be enslaved for 400 years in Egypt and that they would eventually be redeemed.

But who is this man that we call our father? Was he a real person, or is he merely a part of our existential legend, like Job, who the sages

declared to be an exemplar? Is Abraham our Romulus and Remus – someone who we designated as the exemplar of our ethnic pater familias?

Honestly, whether Abraham is a real figure in history or merely a legend is immaterial. What is important is that Abraham became the “ideal” Jew. He personifies (at least in my view) the three dimensions that constitute the essence of being a Jew. The Ethnic Dimension Indeed, Abraham is the first person to ever be identified with the word “Hebrew.”

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When the kings of Sodom and Gomorrah were defeated in a battle and the victors looted the city, they also enslaved Lot, Abraham’s nephew who dwelled in Sodom. A survivor of the violence, the Bible relates, came and “told Abram [whose name was later changed to Abraham] the Hebrew” of the event.

Admittedly, some scholars contend that the word ha’ivri could have also meant that Abraham was a stranger who came from across the river Jordan rather than a “Hebrew.”

For instance, Professor Robert Wolfe proposed that in Abraham’s case, the word “Hebrew” does not reflect an ethnic identity, but rather comes from Habiru, a nomadic people who lived in Egypt.

I, however, choose to associate the word “Hebrew” with a unique identity, as I consider the Hebrews as an ethnic group and a nation descending from Abraham Ha’Ivri. Of course, one’s acceptance of this Hebrew identity – that is, tying his link to that golden chain of ethnic identity –necessitates a willing declaration that is performed through the bris: When he circumcises his son, each father attests that with that act he ties his son to the historical continuity that was started by Abraham.

As for the value in making this connection, noted 11th-century commentator Rashi tells us that the maintenance of the Jewish identity during the Egyptian enslavement merited the Hebrews’ redemption.

To wit, they kept their modes of dressing, their language and their customs, which kept them from assimilation into the Egyptian majority.

The Faith Dimension Perhaps no other story has had as compelling an affect as did the Akedah – the Binding of Isaac. According to the tale, G-d demanded Abraham take his son Isaac to sacrifice in the mountains of Moriah.

Abraham’s willingness to do so is taken as a sure example of Abraham’s unquestioning faith. He did what he assumed was G-d’s command because it was just that: G-d’s command.

That story is, for Jews as well as Christians and Muslims, a reason to claim attachment to Abraham as the ideal “person of faith.” Jews have traditionally believed that Abraham’s unquestioned faith brought merit not only to him but also to his progenies; after all, He declared to Abraham afterwards: “…because you were faithful, I shall make your descendants as many as the stars in heaven.”

Meanwhile, Christianity – which proclaims that the principal road to salvation is faith alone – also sees Abraham as the epitome of the “faithful man,” as his faith brought him salvation. What’s more, Abraham became an archetype of the true Muslim, too, and not because he was the father of Ishmael, but because Abraham’s unquestioned faith led him to submit to G-d’s will which is a teaching of Islam (specifically, submission to Allah’s will).

Personally, I cannot accept the primitive view of G-d as a deity who needs and depends on our faith. To me, it is strange that G-d, who is sufficient unto himself, needs to be assured of his power and needs to test his faithful so that He can prove to himself (and sometimes to others, as in the case of Job) the love and faithfulness of his subjects.

I believe that when we define Him in this manner, we do not enhance G-d; to the contrary, we diminish Him. We endow Him with a quality that is detestable even among humans. Do we really want to believe that, like man, G-d seeks to satisfy his ego?

Yes, we need faith, but not as the means of proving anything to G-d.

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cially in times when nihilism seems to rule our point of view. We need to have faith in the existence of the transcendental force that gives us love and trust in the continuation of a future and He does it freely not for his sake but for our sake.

Thus, to me the Akedah does not represent G-d’s need to test our faith, especially not through the sacrifice of children. In fact, I believe in the belief set forth by Isaiah: that G-d does not need nor does He want any sacrifice at all.

Of course, my opinion begs the question: What, then, is the Akedah?

What does the story tell us?

with G-d, hence he had the courage to challenge Him with regard to his plans for Sodom. He questions God’s intent: “Shall not the Judge of all the earth do justly?”

Abraham thus set the path for our ancient prophets. They became the social critics of their time; it was their task to challenge those in power and judge whether they were moral. It was their task also to challenge the nation on whether we maintain the dictum to be our brother’s keepers.

Of course, while loving one’s neighbor is a desirable act, it is secondary to the principle of justice. Our sages told us in one of the midrashim that when G-d created the world, He chose it to be founded on the principles of justice and mercy. And did not Micah and Isaiah declare that three qualities that God wants in man are justice, mercy and humility?

suggest that all those who seek to identify themselves with Abraham must first and foremost accept Abraham not as the man of unquestioned faith, but as the proponent of human morality based on justice. This world cannot survive neither by love and faith alone – it depends primarily on action based on justice.

This perspective, I propose, was the way of Abraham. He dared to challenge God: “Are your judgments based on the principles of justice?”

Eugen Schoenfeld is a professor and chair emeritus at Georgia State University and a Holocaust survivor. For more on the thoughts expressed in this article, see his book, “Faith and Conflict.”

Following this reasoning, let me

In my eyes, it stands for the rejection of the common practice: the worship of Molech, the cruel and unloving god who demands the flesh of children. The Akedah should be taken as a warning of accepting any faith that advocates inhumanity in any form.

The Moral Dimension To me, the most important lesson that the Abraham saga teaches is the importance of morality – not only in human inter-personal relationships, but also in the relationships that we have with animals and the natural world. This is a part of the covenant that we undertook at Sinai – in effect, the essence of Judaism – and was foretold by G-d to Abraham.

Foreshadowing the events still to come at Mt. Sinai, G-d basically tells Abraham that the foundation of monotheism lies in morality. The Torah relates that G-d, musing unto himself, said: “For I have known him [Abraham] to the end that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the Lord, to do righteousness and justice…”

Jumping a few years into the future to the covenant, we see that it is founded on the principle of morality and, like all covenants (which are essentially contracts), it is defined by a reciprocal relationship. That is, if G-d demands us to be moral, we in turn can demand G-d also to be moral.

Abraham understood the reciprocal nature of man’s relationship

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For, in the end, the future of human life is not determined through prayer and faith alone, but first and foremost by our relationship with each other and with the world in which we live.

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Again, this is about creating a mood in the facility your event is held.

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Lighting is something that will help in creating the guest experience you’re trying to achieve. Lighting behind the buffets/chef-attended stations and along the walls and corners can be a dramatic addition to your event.

oney, he’s only turning 7. This is not his bar mitzvah!�

I had to remind my wife that while we might be in the business of putting on beautiful special events, this birthday is just the midway point (more or less) to our son’s 13th birthday. Still, in the course of overproducing our family celebration, people around the office nicknamed my better half “Phaedra,� after the “Real Housewives of Atlanta� personality who, in a recent episode of the show, went egregiously over-the-top with her own child’s party.

Then, amazingly enough, my wife actually bumped into Phaedra at a clothing store in Vinings on the day before the party. The two started chit-chatting about the show, life around Atlanta and, of course, pulling out all the stops for their kids’ birthdays. In the blink of an eye, they’d spent 45 minutes discussing events (and clothing) and sharing ideas for blowing out an event for a young person without the hefty price tag.

Want in on their wisdom? Here are a few hints: 1. Hire a special event planner.

Even if you settle for just a “day-of� planner, it will make all the difference.

Whether you hire a person with 20-plus years of experience or someone new to the Atlanta market, this is the start of creating an event built for success. These professionals help with all the details and will be there to assist on the big day. Hiring a planner will allow you to be a “guest� at your family celebration.

2. Instead of paying a fortune for an elaborate design package, be aware that you can obtain a festive look by renting colorful linens for the event. Linens are priced by the piece, but will make a tremendous impact on the presentation.

If you have the budget for a more elaborate or sophisticated design schematic, please make sure your designer, caterer and planner have a detailed meeting so that nothing falls “through the cracks.�

4. Give thought to the food and beverage for the adults. While some clients are not interested in the quality and presentation of the food, rest assured that their guests will be very focused on the food and service.

Remember that while it may be a kids party, you need to make sure there is appropriate adult food offered and presented in an adult way.

Plus, make sure alcoholic beverages are offered for the adults.

Even for my son’s seventh birthday, my one requirement was that there was great food and a Bloody Mary bar for the adults. After all, everyone could appreciate a tasty Bloody Mary on a Sunday afternoon.

5. Select your caterer based on reputation and take the time to go meet with them before signing a contract. Catering, which includes service (service, and service!) and cuisine, are the backbone of the event.

Caterers work hard for their clients, and you should work hard in getting to know which caterer is appropriate for your event.

Remember to enjoy the ride! Life goes by quickly, and we need to thank G-d for all of life’s precious moments.

Editor’s note: David S. Covell is CEO of Saratoga Event Group and President of Avenue K-Glatt Kosher Events. He also has a background as a Certified Public Accountant in New York and offers consulting in the hospitality industry.

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6. Kids love dessert. While you may not want to have an elaborate spread for the kids (we recommend spending that money on the adults), you should not overlook the desserts.

A “candy bar� with apothecary jars filled with favorite sweets can be a big hit. Let’s face it: The kids are jacked up already, so let’s get them jacked up a little more on sugar; then you can happily send them home to their parents.

Meanwhile, a chef-attended dessert station for the adults is also a nice touch.

7. Entertainment should be not just about the kids, but about the adults too. A combination of music that is good for all guests will be well-received.

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to keep up the momentum, and that would be a substantial savings over some of the more expensive entertainment companies that are on the bar mitzvah circuit.

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here aren’t many places that can offer views from a penthouse ballroom; kosher-style catering and delicious menu options; customized and personalized décor capabilities; and a turnkey operation that can make your child’s bar or bat Mitzvah both impressive and easy.

But the W Atlanta-Midtown can offer all of these.

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Hosting any special event at this hotel makes for a seamless experience. The service and culinary teams are composed of seasoned veterans, all well-versed in their crafts.

Plus, you can reserve a discounted block of rooms for your outof-town guests, who will love staying in Midtown.

Our location is in the vibrant center of the city and within walking distance to some of Atlanta’s top attractions, including Piedmont Park, the High Museum, the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra and the Atlanta Botanical Gardens.

Bar mitzvah planning experts say that the current trend is customization – making your event personalized – and W Atlanta-Midtown specializes in this. Staff are able to take simple ideas and turn them into dazzling productions; for example, the hotel’s event planner, Gaylene Moldt, suggests creating a logo for the event.

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This can then be used for everything from napkins and stickers for favors to “GOBOs,” a lighted image projected onto the wall.

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“The logo can be as simple as the child’s name or initials in a nice font treatment, along with the date,” said Moldt. “You can give that to us, and we can have our A/V company turn it into a GOBO, which can then be projected in the child’s favorite color onto the wall of the ballroom or even in the lobby of our hotel. It makes an

impressive statement.”

Creating a club or lounge feel is also a prominent trend, and what better way to achieve it than in a 27thfloor “penthouse” ballroom? Views of Buckhead, Midtown, Downtown and Piedmont Park set a dramatic backdrop; add a colorful lighted dance floor, illuminated bar, soft seating and a DJ booth for the most exclusive lounge in town.

W AtlantaMidtown’s planning team loves to help with creative planning, down to the party favors.

“Another trend we’re seeing is with creative giveaways,” continued Moldt.

“Here’s one really fun and thoughtful idea: We can set up a coffee/hot chocolate station and as guests exit the event and hand them a customized tumbler – maybe with the event’s logo or just the child’s initials and the date – filled with the warm beverage of their choice.

“Guests will appreciate the thoughtful gesture for their ride home, and they’ll continue to use the gift.”

Finally, don’t forget about the preand post-mitzvah events. W AtlantaMidtown is perfect for hosting “welcome-to-town” dinners for visiting family members with its on-premises Spice Market restaurant; “getting ready” parties for the bat mitzvah girl and her friends at Bliss Spa or in a private suite; a day-after pool party in our WET Deck cabanas; or a simple brunch in one of the myriad event spaces.

Editor’s note: To learn more about the possibilities for your child’s bar or bat mitzvah (or wedding or other special event), call (404) 724-2588 or email gaylene.moldt@whotels.com.

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What to Look For in an Entertainment Company TIPS FROM THOSE WHO DO IT BEST FROM VIBE ENTERTAINMENT SPECIAL FOR THE AJT

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ust like with most services we buy today, finding what you’re looking for in an entertainment company for your next event begins with knowing what you want…

Do you want an established company with a great reputation, or a new company that promises something different? Are you working with a planner or going it alone?

best service we can provide. We’ve supported thousands of events – from charity programs like Amy’s Party, school dances and temple gatherings to the wonderful celebrations that the company is uniquely able to support.

One of our strengths is top talent, including MC’s Jamal, Kahlil, Philli, Omar and Chris – the hottest dancers and DJs. We also provide the best customer service in the business;

anyone who has ever worked with Brenda will be quick to tell you so.

In fact, referrals are the most common way Vibe comes onboard for new events, and the company values each and every one.

Vibe is one of the best resources to start your party planning. With a decade of experience, we know all the resources you’ll need to have a fantastic event. What’s more, we continue to offer new and exciting party

options to keep up with the trends, from lighting systems and games to party themes and talent.

Editor’s note: Call Vibe today at (404) 257-0206 and mention this article to hear the company’s special offers.

Also stay tuned for some exciting announcements from Vibe later this year.

In any case, looking for a company that’s easy to work with, that your planner knows, and/or one that adds value to the planning process is the best idea. For suggestions, ask your family, ask your friends, and ask the catering manager at your venue; check-in with all available sources of information; and, most importantly, check-in with yourself.

Make sure you are comfortable with any company you work with. To figure out if you’ve found the right one, consider these questions: • Does the company have a great reputation?

• Is the company experienced in bar/bat mitzvah/wedding/(insert your type of event here) entertainment?

• Are company employees responsive and flexible in meeting with you?

• Is the company able to accommodate changes or even their own potential business disruption?

• Do they have the talent to ensure a great party, even if there happen to be lots of parties on your date?

• Are they insured, dependable and good at what they do?

The answers to these questions will help you identify the right company for you.

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he sounds of our daughter’s first cry were still audible in the delivery room, but my wife Robin was already mentally designing the “Save the Date” cards for this child’s bat mitzvah.

After all, the cards would have to be sent out no later than 12-and-a-half years from that moment!

rowing money to pay for your event, is also a fair choice, and a home equity line of credit is a good way to do this. If you already have an equity line in place, no new application process is necessary; because this type of loan is a revolving line of credit, you have the ability to draw on it as funds are needed.

As usual, Robin was on the right track in getting the jump on this important task. Planning ahead is probably the most critical factor in preparing for any simcha, and answering the vital question of “how are we going to afford this?” is one of the first decisions you have to make.

That suits this purpose perfectly, as you won’t have to borrow the funds and pay interest until you need to use those funds. So when that deposit is due to the caterer or the event facility 18 months prior to the big day, you can take the amount from the line of credit.

Essentially, there are two basic ways to pay for a major lifecycle celebration, whether it’s a bar/bat mitzvah or a wedding: save, borrow – or use a combination of the two. And as you’re picking your poison, remember that you’ll likely be planning more than one simcha in coming years.

And even better, the interest paid on a home equity line of credit is often tax deductible.

Realistically, you need to be thinking how you’ll budget your financial resources to serve multiple events. In other words, some financial restraint and discipline will be in order.

If you decide to begin a savings plan for a forthcoming event, starting early is key. Break down your savings goal into “bite-size” pieces; for example, you might say to yourself, “If I contribute $200 per month to my daughter’s bat mitzvah fund, by the time she is 13, I will have saved $28,800.”

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I also recommend opening a separate account for each simcha. It helps you clearly track your progress relative to your goal. And in addition to that measure, I strongly recommend having the contributions to each of your “simcha accounts” made automatically on a periodic basis.

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We all know that things come up, and we can always find an excuse for not putting the money aside like we said we would. Periodic transfers between accounts on a weekly or monthly basis is a basic service that most banks offer at no charge, and this automated approach is crucial to insuring that your fund will grow no matter what else you have going on in your life.

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The most important thing to remember about planning and paying for your upcoming celebration is not to put your family into a financial bind with an event that is unreasonable given your family’s financial resources. Rest assured that your simcha will be special whether you choose to have a seated dinner at a large hotel or 12 kids over to your house for Stouffer’s cheese lasagna and a movie.

This past January, our family celebrated the bat mitzvah of the youngest of our three daughters. Our family sat in the front row of Temple Sinai, and our daughter Caroline beamed as she chanted the last lines of her haftarah.

I was imagining fireworks shooting out of the ark as I realized that we had successfully made it through our third and final bat mitzvah. Then my wife leaned over and said: “You know we have three weddings to save for, so you need to open an account for that on Monday!”

Editor’s note: David Perlis (dperlis@ signaturebankga.com) is a group vice president with Signature Bank of Georgia and has worked in the banking industry in Atlanta for 25 years.

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he 341-room Atlanta Marriott Perimeter Center wrapped up a multi-milliondollar redevelopment project recently, revealing elegantly redesigned guest rooms and suites, a new greatroom and restaurant; 3,600 square-feet of additional meeting space; a revitalized concierge lounge; and an enhanced new exterior.

This meeting retreat welcomes guests through a smoked glass fascia entry, set amidst lush landscaping in route to a new front desk and lobby, the epicenter of the hotel and a hot spot for mingling with friends and business associates. This unique venue also boasts diverse and multifunctional social spaces including personalized work stations.

Guests can enjoy lunch and dinner or grab their favorite libation at the day-to-night bar. What’s more, the new Twisted Oak Restaurant, located adjacent to the greatroom, compliments the multitude of amenities by serving a daily buffet breakfast and delicious breakfast menu.

Completely redesigned and refined guest rooms and suites are decked out with wired and wireless internet access, plug-in technology, 37-inch HDTV, and an array of upscale features; and the revitalized Concierge Lounge now features a window dining counter and plush soft seating. Complimentary breakfast, evening refreshments and WiFi are enjoyed by all concierge-level guests.

The additional gathering areas were added to the lobby level, increasing the hotel’s total to 18,400 square-feet of distinctive and versatile function space.

The two newly added meeting rooms were designed with floor-to-ceiling windows to welcome in natural light.

Ideally located in the heart of Perimeter Center, the hotel is within walking distance of Perimeter Mall and the Dunwoody Marta station and only 15 minutes from Downtown Atlanta.

Editor’s note: For more information or to book a meeting or special event with Atlanta Marriott, call (770) 3946500, or visit atlantamarriottperimeter.com.

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ake Lanier Islands Resort welcomes the chance to create the wedding of your dreams. We can adhere to cultural and religious dictates or venture into utterly unchartered territory so that your special day is completely and uniquely “you.”

Whether you elect to host an extraordinary afternoon affair or an extended “destination wedding” event that takes place over the course of several days, we can assure you that your special day will be truly one-ofa-kind.

Breathe in the crisp air of our lakeside grounds and marvel at the wooded surroundings that create an idyllic backdrop for your ceremony.

Our 1,500-acre property boasts expansive vistas, scenic hideaways canopied with pines and majestic yachts for your ideal outdoor or indoor wedding.

A COMING OF AGE CELEBRATION, PERFECTLY PLANNED. A convenient location near local synagogues and free shuttle service within two miles of the hotel. Newly refreshed event spaces, restaurants and lobby. Expert catering and event planning professionals dedicated to upholding your time-‐honored traditions ensuring a flawless celebration. Customizable packages and exclusive upgrades including double Marriott Rewards® points and complimentary event lighting. From Friday night dinner to Sunday morning brunch — and everything in between — here you’ll find all you need to bring your vision for your child’s Bar or Bat Mitzvah to life.

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Beyond the stunning setting, the unparalleled excellence of our staff and the variety of lodging choices for a destination wedding make Lake Lanier’s offerings beyond compare.

From the regal rusticity of our flagship Legacy Lodge to the lavishness of private concierge service at our Legacy Villas to the cottage coziness of our Lake Houses, we believe the entire guest list deserves their own fair share of sweet dreams.

Activities and amenities abound at Lake Lanier Islands. With an endless array of delights and distractions that dot our lakeside landscape, guests of all ages can be entirely entertained. A well-spent morning at Tranquility the Spa, an afternoon of golf at Legacy on Lanier, an evening exploring the waters of the lake or an entire day spent splashing and laughing at LanierWorld – the possibilities are endless!

And if you’re hoping for an event so magical you can taste it, you’ll need to look no further than the fantastic food and beverage team at Lake Lanier Islands Resort. Whether crafting a deliciously delightful menu for a rehearsal dinner, delivering sinful late-night snacks to overnight guests, or putting out a spread that will make the reception attend-

ees believe they are in the presence of royalty, Lake Lanier chefs strive to impress.

What’s more, Lake Lanier Islands also offers exclusive kosher wedding packages that include lakeside ceremonies, a variety of reception locations and your choice of outside kosher-catering partner. We welcome your preferred vendor or are happy to recommend one of our own.

Regardless of your preference, expect impeccable service, a setting that will please your guests and an experienced team of wedding specialists to guide you through all of the details of your perfect day.

That first step a bride takes down the wedding aisle marks the beginning of a very exciting journey. At Lake Lanier Islands Resort, we believe all beginnings should be entirely memorable, exceptionally beautiful, and completely magical – like a dream come to life.

Imagine that step being taken down a stone path, bordered on either side by lush green grass, lined with chairs strung in flowers and ribbon. On either side of the aisle, the faces of loved ones are a mixture of beaming smiles and tear-filled eyes.

At the end of the aisle – set against a backdrop of blue skies, cotton ball clouds, and emerald waters – stands the groom framed by a majestic stone and timber arbor. A gentle breeze carries with it the scent of roses from the bride’s bouquet and an undeniable air of enchantment…

At Lake Lanier Islands Resort, we feel fortunate to bear witness to the realization of dreams on a daily basis. Every bride and groom has a special story to tell of their own “dream come true” right here on our shores.

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BY Sheri Sands

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With so many details to handle, it’s easy to have your creative energy sapped, and it’s also easy to get caught up in all the technical and practical needs and miss the ambience altogether. The right event planner will know how to make a room look great and capture that feeling you had in mind.

SPECIAL FOR THE AJT pring has sprung, and it’s time to party. Do you have a wedding or a bar/bat mitzvah on the horizon? What about a business event?

Whether it’s your first time or your 10th to host an event, you might want to consider hiring an event planner. A professional planner might seem like an unnecessary expense, especially on a tight budget.

But it’s not.

Here are six great reasons why:

1. You’ll Save Time!

Event planners take care of all the details. You may have a great idea and a big vision of how you want this special day to be, but then reality sets in: You’ll need a caterer, venue, A/V equipment, chairs, tables, linen rentals, decorations, invitations, entertainment, DJ, band, videographer, photographer and on and on?

Because there are so many details, it’s easy to get overwhelmed.

An event planner has the experience and contacts in all of these areas to save you hours of time on the phone and endless driving around Atlanta meeting with potential vendors.

Once you have shared your dream for your special event, they can get to work making the phone calls, visiting location sites and seeking out the best value and atmosphere to create your perfect event.

2. Believe It or Not, You’ll Save Money!

This might be the opposite of what you would expect. You think because you have to pay the event planner, you’ll be spending more money, right?

Not so; their experience becomes your savings!

Once your planner knows your dream, priorities and your budget, they can work with vendors to save you money on all kinds of things.

They have existing relationships with vendors already, so it’s easier for them to negotiate rates. They also have the experience and knowhow to ask for special discounts and negotiate the extras that your event deserves.

There are tons of details and decorating “tricks” that your planner can use. Your planner will know how to incorporate your color scheme throughout the entire space, how to set up the venue to give your event the right flow and how to accent the entertainment, guests and food!

tasks, so you will look like a star and actually enjoy the event, guests and entertainment! Your guests will have a great time and it will be a day to remember.

So remember: If you find yourself asking, “Can I plan, organize and manage this event on my own or should I hire an event planner?”, the answer is simple.

“Maybe I could do this on my own…but, if I hire a professional

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6. You’ll Get to Enjoy and Socialize with Your Guests When you’re planning an event, doing everything yourself is a very big job and can get extremely stressful. But as soon as you hire an event planner, you can breathe. You can spend your time focusing on your guests and the things you do best.

Then, when it’s time for the event, your planner will focus on the details, orchestrate the vendors and handle any “unplanned” or “unexpected”

Editor’s note: Sheri Sands writes for Atlanta’s Impress Express, greater Atlanta’s event management and promotional service specialist. Contact AIE for your next event via (404) 5632227 or atlantasimpressexpress.com.

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Your event planner has had experience with all types of vendors, networks with other professionals in the field and knows who the best is.

This takes away the guesswork and fear of wondering if the service staff will all show up or if the caterer will produce exquisite food.

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Venue 92’s unique design highlights include polished cement floors, enue 92 is metro Atlanta’s exposed ductwork, all-brick exterior, interior brick accents, large newest special catering kitchen, built-in events facility for custom bar, silver chiavari life’s special celechairs, natural wooded cerbrations. Whether it’s a wedemony space, an appointed ding ceremony or reception, bridal dressing room, garbar/bat mitzvah, shower, reden complete with a sevenhearsal dinner, anniversary foot-tall fountain and a huge celebration, birthday party covered cocktail terrace with or corporate event, our place Italian string lights – not to is suited to your event. The mention plenty of free parkVenue 92’s commodious building is loing. two-level cated only 30 miles north of design Atlanta proper in Woodstock.

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How Did Venue 92 Come to Life?

The owners of Venue 92 had previously operated Stylish Stems Floral Design for 10 years. In that time, they visited almost every venue in the metro Atlanta area, and they realized there were not many mod-

ern or large options when it came to event spaces.

Thus, when the commercial property where the facility now exists was discovered, it was quite the find.

In terms of a name, the owners knew that it had to be memorable and resonate with the building’s location off Highway 92, and so Venue 92 was born!

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thing blue.” The room offers a place for brides to relax with bridesmaids and get ready for the big day.

Another favorite feature is the two-level design connected via an open staircase. As many families plan their bar/bat mitzvah celebrations at the facility, the levels allow for a dedicated adult space upstairs while the younger crowd dances the night away on the main level.

And unanimously, everyone who has stepped The “Something through the doors has Of those who have Blue” Room agreed that Woodstock visited Venue 92 in the has been in need of a past few months, guests’ large special events facilchoice for the most standout feature of the building varies. ity for a long time and is glad that The bridal dressing room on the sec- Venue 92 has put down roots north ond floor seems to be garnering the of Atlanta. most compliments, though; with its soothing pale blue walls, the space plays off the popular Old English Editor’s note: Visit venue92.com or rhyme: “Something old, something call (770) 330-2672 for more informanew, something borrowed, some- tion on booking your event at Venue 92.

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iana Hayes-Moore, current owner and founder of Dunwoody’s Sweets ’n Dreams, began her career in the corporate world. But she eventually found out the coporate lifestyle wasn’t for her.

This entrepreneur had bigger aspirations, specifically in the form of one day owning her own business; she just needed that one big idea.

A mother of two, her inspiration came in the form of her daughters. She went on to create Sweets ’n Dreams – metro Atlanta’s haven for all things “girly,” with bright splashes of hot pink and indigo, under a rainbow of makeup.

Describing the business as family-focused, Hayes-Moore has worked with her mother, sister and brother to help bring Sweets ’n Dreams to life. Part-bakery, part-salon and part-play center, the business has had each family member leave their mark, whether it be in the cupcake recipes or party packages – of which there are six, including a Dream Spa Party and American Idol-themed activities.

Young girls can enjoy makeup sessions, imitating their favorite princess or pop star or a “mani-pedi.” And as a bakery, the facility also caters to the client’s sweet tooth with cookie and cupcake decorating lessons, but this isn’t just any sugar rush, as the offerings range from classic Marble and Confetti Cupcakes to specialty Carrot and Oreo Cheesecake Cupcakes and a variety of bars.

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What’s more, Sweets ’n Dreams also offers advance orders for any baked treat your heart desires. And best of all, the facility offers daycare and dropins for playtime even without the party!

Hayes-Moore and crew describe their mission thusly:

“To capture your daughter’s heart. Be it our delicious pastries, the euphoria of our parties or the feeling she’ll get just walking in the door, it’ll be an experience she never forgets.”

Editor’s note: Sweets ’n Dreams is located on 5500 Chamblee Dunwoody Rd., Ste. 5A, Dunwoody 30338. To book a play date or party – or even to just order cupcakes – call, (770) 674-8477.

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Graubart’s “Curious Vision” LONGTIME BOOKSTORE OWNER BECOMES FIRST-TIME AUTHOR

BY ALLEN RABINOWITZ

Special for the Atlanta Jewish Times

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t’s not hard to imagine Cliff Graubart as a major character in the “great Jewish-American novel” – perhaps an opus by Philip Roth, who happens to be one of the former’s favorite writers.

In this hypothetical work, Graubart would be the host of a literary salon where authors brag about their recent best-seller or complain about the difficulty of their latest work in progress. In the middle of a smoke-filled room, glass of port or sherry in hand, Graubart would act as the mediator of a literary dispute; or laugh with gusto as one of the scribes retold a humorous incident bound for a short story.

Imagining this scene is easy because, for a quarter century, Graubart served in the role of host for Atlanta’s literary community, holding gatherings dedicated to celebrating authors and literature. As the proprietor of the Old New York Book Shop in midtown, his autograph parties often brought out the crème de la crème of the city’s best writers, including Pat Conroy, Terry Kay and Anne Rivers Siddons.

Sitting in his Dunwoody living room on a sunny and crisp late-winter afternoon, Graubart reminisces

about those bygone days as if they happened last week instead of two decades ago. Surrounded by tomes of many of those author-friends, he also talks about his own recently published work of fiction: “The Curious Vision of Sammy Levitt,” a collection featuring the title novella and five short stories.

At the age of 71, he is a first-time published author. Although he had written a number of magazine articles over the years, the “Levitt” collection was a slowgrowing project.

“I wrote the stories a long time ago, then put them away,” he explained. “My friend Dan Sklar in New York asked how the book was going, and I told him I had written everything I could about the Sammy Levitt story, but it was too short.

write a screenplay.

“But then I thought to myself, ‘Are you stupid? Who gets a screenplay done? It’s not going to happen,’” he laughed. “If it’s great, they’ll steal it and you’ll see it on the screen under somebody else’s writing credit.”

Though he was born in Brooklyn, N.Y., Graubart’s family moved to Washington Heights in northern Manhattan when he was 10. The mostly Jewish neighborhood of his 1950s boyhood serves as the background for much of “Sammy Levitt.”

In the novella, the titular character is being tutored for his bar mitzvah in the family synagogue’s new building when he spots a paint pattern on the rabbi’s new office door that, to Sammy’s eye, looks like the face of JeCliff Graubart sus. When he seeks the “But then, when I advice of a local priest, called it up on the computer, it was pointed out to me that an uproar ensues that continues unit was all in single-spaced; so I actu- til his calling to the Torah. ally had 100 pages instead of the 50 Admitting that the character of I thought that I had. When I realized Sammy was based on himself at that I needed to have one more piece, I age, Graubart adds: wrote ‘Short Timer,’ a military story, “I thought it would be a funny last year.” idea, and then I started writing it, Graubart’s initial idea was to and it became a coming-of-age story with some funny things in it. It turned out to be a little sadder because the kid has issues: horrible in school, no friends, etc.

“Then, instead of going to a rabbi, the kid goes to a priest. What a schmuck!”

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Graubart proudly says that he isn’t the only published writer in the house. His wife, Cynthia, is a cookbook author who has written several tomes on Southern cuisine, including a few with noted chef Nathalie Dupree, whose television programs Cynthia produced.

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Also on the topic of family, Graubart says his main inspiration to complete this collection was his children: son Norman, a textbook editor in New York, and daughter Rachel, who is studying dance at the Boston Conservancy.

“My kids kept asking me when I was going to finish the novel,” he

said. “It was important for me not to leave it undone, and [then] they find a box full of papers after I’m dead of something I tried to do but couldn’t finish.

“So I did [finish it].”

Graubart credits author and longtime friend Terry Kay with an assist in getting “Sammy Levitt” published.

“Terry was essential,” he claims.

“He read it and sent it to Mercer University Press. Although it’s a Baptist-oriented publishing house, the guy who runs it is a theologian who studied the Hebrews, and he said ‘I love all Jewish fiction.’”

The structure of the book is modeled after Roth’s “Goodbye, Columbus” in that it’s a novella and a series of short stories each exploring an aspect of Jewish-American life in a particular place and time. Like Roth, Graubart tackles the ever-changing cultural warfare between the different factions.

For example, in the story “Innocence Off Broadway,” a schism between two groups is explored as part of the American Jewish experience.

The main character is a first-generation American at the turn of the 19th century who leaves his father’s flourishing business in San Francisco to follow his muse to New York and write for the Yiddish Theatre.

While the young playwright wants to write about the contemporary urban life that recent immigrants are experiencing, the older producers tell him that their audiences are more interested in sentimental stories about the shtetls in Eastern Europe.

The story reflects the intergenerational strife of the new-versus-old as well as the divide between affluent German Jews – represented by the producers – and their poorer relations from the East, upon whom they looked down.

The Geographic Gist Although he’s spent more than four decades in Atlanta, the city plays no role in the story collection.

“It’s not me,” Graubart explained.

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“People can write about space ships or racing cars in Italy, but I don’t trust myself to do that. I don’t think I’m a great writer, but details in my work connect with people.”

He may not venture into the realm of fantasy, but Graubart is committed to writing fiction.

“Fiction frees you up to say anything you want to say,” he said. “People would say ‘Why don’t you write about the store?’ But I didn’t want to write about the store; I wanted to make things up.

“It gives you freedom – you don’t have to explain what happened. This is what happened, because I just said it.”

Before moving to Atlanta in 1971, Graubart attended the University of Toledo, served in the Army and then graduated from Georgia State University.

He moved back to New York for two years to work with his father in the family business as a furrier. But in the late 1960s, the fur business was dying.

Thinking that Atlanta was a city ready to boom, he came back and opened the Old New York Book Store, patterned on the used-and-rare book shops in lower Manhattan’s Fourth Avenue second hand book district.

“I had a picture of that kind of store in my head when I opened,” he said of the store’s original Piedmont Avenue location. “I had pictures of New York all over the place because I had more room than books – I really didn’t have enough (stock) to start.”

That problem didn’t last long, and his overstuffed business soon moved to the Juniper Street building.

Changing, Yet Remaining True Of all the Southern writers he’s known, he speaks of closeness with Pat Conroy, author of such bestsellers as “The Great Santini,” “Lords of Discipline” and “The Prince of Tides.” Graubart says Conroy had a

significant impact on his own work.

“Pat walked into my store in 1973, about two years before he published ‘The Great Santini,’” Graubart recalled. “I showed him some of my writing, and he said I should try to get it published, but I didn’t.”

Still, Conroy and Graubart became good friends. Today, they are partners in a publishing company that does reprints of Conroy’s books as well as those of other Southern writers who took part in the gatherings at Graubart’s store.

“There are people in my business who are angry and are proud of the fact they don’t have a computer – [but] not many of them. I understand it. They’re smart people, but they can be very stupid in certain situations.”

No matter what the future may hold, Graubart believes the hardcover book will endure. Though excited about the potential of e-reading machines and the capabilities they provide for educating the reader, he

nonetheless has faith in the physical copy.

“It’s like when television came in; they said movies would go out. Books will perhaps become gifts – you’ll read an e-book and love it, then go out to buy the hardback.

“I truly believe there will always be hardback books.”

“Pat wrote a chapter about me in his book ‘My Reading Life,’ which was about the books in his life,” said Graubart.

“The chapter is titled ‘Old New York Bookstore’ and is about autograph parties at the bookstore.

“It [my store] became the center for the literary community of Atlanta for 20 years.

There were always a lot of folks – like Pat, Stuart Woods and Terry Kay – there.”

Although he sold the book shop in 1996 when the owners of Einstein’s restaurant made him “an offer [he] couldn’t refuse” on the Juniper Street property, Graubart still keeps his hand in the business through booths at rare book shows and via e-commerce. Unlike many in the book business, Graubart has adapted to changes in technology.

The publishing industry has changed greatly over the last decade, with reading devices such as the Kindle, the iPad and the Nook supplanting books as the American reading public’s primary means of experiencing literature.

“Nobody [in publishing] knows, and they’re terrified,” Graubart said of the current state of the industry.

“E-books are the new paradigm. It’s not a matter of whether you like it or not, this is it. You don’t like computers, I understand, but computers are a part of our life now. I was in my late 50s when computers came in and I realized I had to get into it. “[So] I sell my books online now.

I have a few thousand books in my basement, and I sell books to Australia, I sell books to Oshkosh.

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have one. I can’t write about what it was like growing up as a Jew in Atlanta in the 1950s or ’60s.

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Kosher Movies: The Dark Knight Trilogy (2005-2012) FACING THE REALITIES OF OUR WORLD BY rabbi herbert cohen AJT Contributor

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uring my time as principal of Yeshiva High School of Atlanta, I had a conversation with a board member who was a Holocaust survivor concerning the Holocaust Museum being built in Washington, D.C. He shared with me his feeling that the construction of the Museum was an unwise use of community funds and claimed that money would be better utilized to support Jewish day school education.

I empathized with him, since part of my job was to raise money for the school; I too felt more community money should be directed towards Jewish education.

Then, a couple of years ago, I had the opportunity to speak with this friend again. It was then that he shared with me his change of heart about the Holocaust Museum. He now felt glad that the Museum was here to teach many subsequent generations about the Holocaust.

Years ago, he never envisioned there would be such a thing as Holocaust deniers, or that anti-Semitism would be alive and well in the world after the atrocities of the Holocaust.

Never could he have imagined leaders of so-called civilized nations calling for the annihilation of the Jewish state.

Along these lines of coming to terms with a new and more complicated world, director Christopher Nolan’s “Batman” trilogy of films presents a fascinating metaphor in which evil is real and ubiquitous. The reality of “bad” in these narratives undercuts our assumptions about the basic goodness of man and leaves us on edge.

just have to figure out what he’s after.”

The second and third films – “The Dark Knight” and “The Dark Knight Rises” – present two villains who are the personifications of evil: the Joker and Bane.

The former represents the chaotic nature of evil, while the latter represents the committed terrorist, for whom death and destruction are liberating consequences.

Bruce is ambivalent about how to deal with the Joker and Bane, and it takes him a long time to understand how vicious they are and how he must change his preconceptions about the nature of evil people.

This perhaps can give us some understanding of the biblical approach to unfettered evil, such as we find in Amalek – the archenemy of the Jews who attacked the old and weak as they were leaving Egypt.

Bruce Wayne, aka Batman, begins with a conventional understanding of the Joker’s criminal mind. He tells his butler Alfred:

“Criminals aren’t complicated. I

Portman Keeps “Jane” Afloat

Alfred wisely responds:

“You don’t fully understand. Some men aren’t looking for anything logical, like money.

They can’t be bought, bullied, reasoned or negotiated with.

Some men just want to watch the world burn.”

Also on this topic, the Ethics of the Fathers cautions us not to rejoice over the fall of the wicked, even though he is deserving of punishment. And finally, the Talmud recounts the story of Beruriah, the wife of Rabbi Meir: When her husband wanted to harm bullies who were constantly harassing him, she exhorted him to pray not that they die, but that these sinners repent.

The Batman trilogy comprises a brainy thriller. It asks us to leave our simplistic notions of good and evil at the door and to recognize that, in our new and dangerous world, we cannot ignore evil.

To be naïve in the face of absolute terror and evil places us at great risk.

Rabbi Cohen, former principal of Yeshiva Atlanta, now resides in Beit Shemesh, Israel. Visit koshermovies. com for more of his Torah-themed film reviews.

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JEWS MAKING NEWS

Rogen Pulls an April Fool’s Prank

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Director Lynne Ramsay quit after a dispute over delays, particularly in regards to her contract. Jude Law then followed suit and abandoned “Jane,” citing Ramsay as the reason he’d signed on. Finally, to top it off, Michael Fassbender was forced to withdraw due to time conflicts with his upcoming “X-Men” sequel.

The prank “Pineapple” reunion of Rogen with James Franco, Danny McBride, Craig Robinson and writing partner Evan Goldberg turned out to be a home-movie style promo for the group’s upcoming movie, “This is the End.”

atalie Portman’s newest film, the Western “Jane Got a Gun,” has been making headlines – but for all the wrong reasons. In a seemingly unprecedented period of bad luck, the movie lost its director as well as both leading men.

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over at the seder, we are bidden to spill out drops of wine from our cup when we recount the 10 plagues, as our cup of joy is never full when others have suffered; even when justice triumphs, we feel for the victim who suffers.

The “Star Wars” prequel trilogy and “V for Vendetta” leading lady is set to both star in and co-produce “Jane.” The movie now features Joel Edgerton taking over the role of her co-star and Bradley Cooper as the villain.

And within 24 hours of Ramsay’s departure, director Gavin O’Connor also stepped in to helm the project.

Portman, meanwhile, just finished up filming for “Thor 2: The Dark World”; the comic book sequel should appear in theaters this November.

Born Natalie Hershlag, Portman holds dual citizenship with the United States and Israel, her place of birth. She is the only child of Avner and Shelley Hershlag (who now works as her agent). Her paternal great-grandparents died in Auschwitz during WWII, while her maternal great-grandmother 24 served as a spy during the war.

eth Rogen – of “Knocked Up” and “50/50” fame – excited fans with the release of a trailer advertised as “Pineapple Express 2,” a supposed sequel to his 2008 hit which he both starred in and co-wrote.

But then we checked the date: April 1.

The clip bills the film as the “most anticipated sequel in human history,” but shows some of comedy’s biggest names goofing off with fake weapons in poorly staged action sequences.

Of course, the actual film isn’t much more serious: “This is the End” begins with Franco’s character hosting a party which goes awry thanks to the arrival of a global apocalypse. The actors will all play fictional versions of themselves.

Rogen began his stand-up career at 12, performing for bar mitzvahs and other gatherings. He grew up in Vancouver, British Columbia with his parents Sandy and Mark Rogen – the two of whom met at an Israeli kibbutz.

Goldberg and Rogen’s own friendship began while attending bar mitzvah classes together before Rogen relocated to L.A. for his “Freaks and Geeks” TV role at the ripe age of 16.

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“The Experiment”: Progress at the Quarter-Year Mark FOLLOWING DR. JANET PAGE’S “GET MARRIED THIS YEAR” Editor’s note: Our anonymous columnists, Andrew Singleman and Ellen Mazelman, are reading Dr. Janet Page’s “Get Married This Year” and following the steps therein on their dating journey. It’s been three months, and we have good progress on both fronts.

Flight of Faith

BY Ellen Mazelman AJT Columnist

BY ANDREW SINGLEMAN AJT Columnist

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aybe it’s the computer programmer in me, but when I boil it all down, I see life as all about simple arithmetic. We’re either trying to add or trying to subtract things from our life, and the solutions to problems seem to be a function of this addition and subtraction.

How do I get more free time in my day? Having more disposable income is a function of subtracting or decreasing expenses, increasing income, or both. And of course, there’s the ever-present “I want to lose weight” mantra – which is a matter of subtracting unhealthy foods from my diet, adding the healthy ones and adding an exercise regimen.

Naturally, my relationship with Rachel (and relationships in general) are also subject to this concept. I’ll start with the subtractions. Following Dr. Page’s principles, if you want to have love in your life, you’ve got to first identify, then remove (“subtract”) your “love blocks.”

Love blocks are those habits, beliefs and/or attitudes that are blocking love from being in your life. Are you wasting time in a bad relationship? Are you overly negative, a perfectionist, a hoper as opposed to a doer, or keeping old baggage and emotional clutter? These are just a few of the love blocks that need to be addressed.

In my case, there was some baggage and a bad habit or two that needed to be addressed. This column isn’t the forum to discuss those, suffice it to say I identified an area or two for improvement and went to work on it.

you think you should give, or give one big thing here or there, but [instead] to learn what your significant other likes, wants, and needs on a daily basis.

As part of this project, I am fortunate enough to meet with Dr. Page once a month. During one of our more recent sessions, she advised me that Rachel and I should take the “5 Love Languages” test.

This was a great idea! If I wanted to communicate to someone just how I felt about them, the best thing to do was to learn what actions they would respond to the most. What’s the point of buying someone gifts if what they really want are verbal affirmations or physical contact?

Rachel and I already have a lot in common and have been doing very well together, and the results of the test underscored that. We both have the same primary “Love Language.”

What is most important to us and what we seek the most in a relationship is spending quality time together.

So my addition has been to spend more time with the woman I already enjoy being with and want to spend time with. Lucky me!

With the arrival of spring, we’ve decided to get together at least twice a week to walk outside, agreeing we could both use the exercise. In addition, we’re looking into taking a mini-vacation or two together this summer. I’d say it all sounds like time well spent.

So the simple math in my life is to decrease the negative interactions and increase the positive ones. Hopefully I’ll earn a Ph.D. in simple math sooner rather than later.

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ow ironic that my article this month would end up in the “Simchas” issue.

Don’t get too excited, it hasn’t happened that fast; but maybe it is a sign of good karma and what is yet to come.

As I write my fourth installment, I’m listening to Bruno Mars’s “Marry You.” Music just breathes life into your home and makes everything flow better and feel happier. And by the way, if you haven’t seen the flashmob marriage proposal on YouTube, (Issac’s Live Lip Dub Proposal to the aforementioned tune) make sure you tune in; a little over-the-top, but very fun, and it just breathes love!

Speaking of which, since my last article, I have made great personal strides to share with you. Not necessarily about getting married, but personal conquests just the same. Of course, I haven’t read Dr. Page’s book yet and haven’t updated my JDate or Match profile (I promise, both by the next article!), but I did take some other very important steps.

I attended Dr. Page’s workshop and took some friends along for the ride. And the most incredible, complimentary and endearing thing happened: A woman at the workshop, not knowing who I was or that I was in the room, said she was there because she read my last article. Maybe I really have become the 50-yearold Carrie Bradshaw!

My editor said the only thing that would have made it better is if this person had been tall, dark and handsome and wanted to take me out.

Honestly, that didn’t matter to me; I was just so flattered and felt very celebrity-ish!

Then, there are the additions: the things of which we want more. In Dr. Page’s exact words from “Get Married This Year”:

Also in the last few weeks, I went on a trip to Europe to visit my son, who is studying abroad for six months. Now, to say that I am not a good flyer would be an understatement, and the thought of an eightand-a-half hour flight across the pond (and then another coming back) seemed, well…unfathomable!

While it was easier said than done – some days were more successful than others – my efforts were, in general, successful and have helped.

It’s important to not just give what

But I did it! And not only did I ac-

complish that, but I had a magical time. I spent wonderful time both by myself and with my son.

But let’s get to the crux of things.

In my last article, I talked about being fair to someone in my life who cared for me more than I cared for him; coming to him with honesty and handling the situation as best I could. It was something new to me after 20 years of not being in the dating world.

The exhilaration I felt making that trip to Europe and the personal conquest of the air travel made me realize that I can do anything. It gave me my voice and the courage to end a relationship that I knew wasn’t working. Both were liberating; I know that is was hurting another person that I did care about, but in the end, I know I did the right thing for him and me.

I have since also made a pact with my single girlfriends to get out and put ourselves out there. Even when we would rather stay home and put on our pajamas or just go for sushi, we instead go someplace where we might meet people, as Dr. Page suggests.

In fact, we were out this past Friday night. We attended Shabbat on the Rocks, an event put on by the JCC for Jewish singles at The City Club of Buckhead. It was surprisingly enjoyable: new people, nice people, wonderful rabbi and lovely service.

It does pay to go out of your comfort zone!

I also went out the rest of the weekend, once again being friendly and outgoing. I must say, I’m feeling lighter and more confident in my step these days. Hopefully this means good things are on the horizon!

In summation: Thank you to my son for a priceless trip and to my friends for the pact. Both of these two events have helped me in my quest to find my voice and make positive changes for the future.

Until Next Month, Your Fiftysomething Carrie Bradshaw

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The Simple Arithmetic of Romance

And remember, if you know me, it’s between you and me.

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MATZAH BALL SOUP FOR THE SOUL

Taharah Today EVOLVING EXPECTATIONS

BY RACHEL LAVICTOIRE AJT Columnist

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ccording to Nielsen, a company devoted to consumer research, the average American last month watched 144 hours and 54 minutes of television, spent 28 hours and 29 minutes surfing the internet, and played on a gaming console for 6 hours and 26 minutes.

That’s a total of 179 hours and 49 minutes, or 25 percent of the month. If you factor in eight hours of sleep per night, these numbers suggest that average Americans spends about 37 percent of their waking hours watching television or playing on their computers or gaming consoles.

And how much of this media-filled time is filled with junk? How many of the games are rated “T for Teen” or “M for Mature” and reward players for the number of “kills” they manage in a game? How many seconds pass between TV scenes filled with seduction and scandal?

Our daily lives are unfortunately filled with nonsense. I was hit with this reality while babysitting last year.

After having dessert, the kids wanted to watch some TV. Fine, I

thought. We’d spent the night flying paper airplanes, having drawing contests, and building Lego cars – surely an hour of being couch potatoes wouldn’t hurt.

The boys flipped through their Comcast channels, skipping over “Spongebob Squarepants” and “Fairly OddParents” before settling on what they told me was one of their favorite shows, “Victorious.” It was your average Nickelodeon program: a group of teens (including a boy and girl who really like each other, but won’t admit it) doing funny things in school.

I watched with the boys, eager to get updated on a favorite childhood channel’s current lineup. I took a minute to get acclimated with the characters: The show was about Tori, a 16-year-old girl, and all of her friends. They attend a performing arts school in Hollywood and, rather than algebra and chemistry, these kids were taking classes like dance and songwriting.

In the episode we were watching, the group was working to prove that their friend’s song was worth an “A” grade instead of the “B” it had received.

At first, the show seemed to be filled with a hodgepodge of traditional themes offered up by Nick for years: “friends help friends,” “you can do anything as long as you set

Shabbat Candle Lighting Times shabbat blessings Blessing for the Candles Baruch Arah A-do-nai,El-o-hei-nu Melech Haolam Asher Kid-shanu b’mitzvotav V’zivanu l’hadlik ner shel Shabbat Blessed are You, Eternal our God, Sovereign of time and space.

You hallow us with Your mitzvot and command us to kindle the lights of Shabbat.

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Blessing for the Wine Baruch Atah A-do-nai, El-o-hei-nu Meelech Haolam, Borei p’ri hagafen Praise to You, Eternal our God, Sovereign of the Universe, Creator of the fruit of the vine.

Blessing for the Bread (Challah) Baruch Atah A-do-nai, El-o-hei-nu Melech haolam, Hamotzi Lechem min haaretz.

Our Praise to You Eternal our God, Sovereign of the universe, Who brings forth bread from the earth.

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your mind to it” and “always try your best.” But I was stunned by the last scene of this particular episode.

Four girls stood atop a staircase in matching robes and called for the attention of the whole student body.

A band emerged out of nowhere and began to play. Then, after the first few notes, the girls stripped to reveal mismatched outfits: short skirts, short dresses, long socks, and lowcut shirts.

They sang, danced and harmlessly charmed their classmates as they strutted through the halls. Obviously, the teacher heard it, saw the excitement, and changed the song’s grade to an A. But why make the change? Did it have anything to do with the song?

If I was an 8-year-old boy watching the show, it would seem to me that several cute girls wore clothes that made them look even cuter and then excited their classmates, so the teacher changed the grade.

I realize I’m being critical, but I’m simply trying to make a point: The creation of a strong moral life starts early. In recent years, it seems it’s all being pushed off-track by bizarre messages focusing on sensuality and the importance of being popular under the guise of living a “normal” teen life.

There are so many novels, so many classic works that focus on the dramatic fall from innocence experienced by every human being. But I’m not sure we experience that anymore; we can’t fall from a height to which we never climbed.

On the subject of innocence, this week’s Torah portion, Tazria-Metzora, outlines a series of laws pertaining to purity. First, we read about a woman giving birth. It says: “If a woman conceives and gives birth to a male, she shall be unclean for seven days…and on the eighth day, the flesh of his foreskin shall be circumcised. And for thirty-three days, she shall remain in the blood of purity (Leviticus 12:2-4).”

The passage continues to say that when those 33 days are over, the woman is required to give an offering to G-d in order to be freed from the source of her blood and considered pure. The succeeding laws outline purification after sickness, menstruation and ejaculation.

Specifically on the purification of a woman after her menstrual cycle,

the Torah instructs: “She shall remain in her state of menstrual separation for seven days…and on the eighth day, she shall take for herself two turtle doves or two young doves, and bring them to the kohen…and you shall separate the children of Israel from their uncleanness, so that they will not die on account of their uncleanness (Lev 15:1931).”

Such a law, at least in my opinion, is absurd. It seems unnatural to require a woman to purify herself due to a biological process. Related oddities of halacha – although quite different in practice – include laws regarding food, funeral services, and marriage.

Now, traditionally, the laws are meant to bring us closer to the spiritual state of taharah, or purity; essentially, closer to G-d.

But I’m a Reform Jew – I don’t bathe in a mikvah, nor do I pass on a good lobster. And I’m also a 21stcentury American teenager, hooked on crime shows and online shopping.

So how is it that I may ever reach this eventual state of taharah?

The answer, as far as I’m concerned, is in following the tradition, even if it’s not done through precise law.

To explain: Maybe I don’t keep kosher, but I clear my head to say thanks to G-d before cracking the shellfish in my hands. And maybe I don’t partake in spiritual baths, but I instead recognize my morning facewash as the refreshment I need in order to greet the beautiful day that G-d has given me.

The bottom line? At least for me, it seems I can reach purity through meaning, rather than law.

Rachel LaVictoire (rlavictoire@wustl. edu) is a graduate of the Davis Academy and Westminster High School, recipient of the prestigious Nemerov Writing and Thomas H. Elliott Merit scholarships at Washington University of St. Louis and an active member of Temple Emanu-El and the Marcus Jewish Community Center of Atlanta. She was recently named to the board of St. Louis Hillel.

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Tools for Exploring the Past SPECIAL INTEREST GROUPS & UPCOMING EVENTS

BY GARY DEUTSCH AJT Columnist

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ne great thing about genealogy is that nothing changes; even when you need to take a break for a while or life “gets in the way,” the past remains unchanged. I mean, as far as I know, none of my ancestors moved or remarried while I wasn’t doing research!

Sound appealing? If you’re a beginning genealogist, don’t overlook Special Interest Groups as a resource. SIGs, as they are more informally known, allow researchers to share information regarding a common interest. To get you started, jewishgen.org hosts many SIGs. Most of these SIGs are geographically based, but some are more topical. Two that fall into that latter category are the “Rabbinic Genealogy” and “Yiddish Theatre and Vaudeville Research” groups. I’m not quite sure what the latter’s schtick is, but there is obviously enough interest that it exists – and I guess that’s why they call it “Special Interest”!

Finally, one more parting tip, for both those getting started and those experiecned: The Jewish Genealogical Society of Georgia will feature Bennett Greenspan, President and CEO of Family Tree DNA, on April 28 at 2 p.m. at The William Breman Jewish Heritage Museum. Our guest will be speaking on using DNA to settle family disputes, connect to long-lost relatives and to garner an appreciation for where your ancestors came from and where they journeyed since our departure from Af-

rica.

Greenspan’s visit is sponsored by the Georgia Tech’s School of Computational Science and Engineering, Center for High Performance Computing, and Center for Bioinformatics and Computational Genomics. He will also deliver a research talk, “The Genomic Revolution Thirteen Years Later: Genetic Genealogy and Beyond,” on April 29 at 11 a.m. at the Georgia Tech College of Computing.

Happy digging!

Gary Deutsch is a former president and current webmaster of the Jewish Genealogy Society of Georgia. He hopes to provide readers with highlevel news, tips and tricks for beginners in the field of genealogy. If you have questions or comments about Jewish genealogy, please feel free to email him at Research@FamilyD. com. He is happy to provide guidance and suggestions but unfortunately cannot provide research at this time.

For Greenspan at the Breman: Adults $12, Seniors $8, Students $6. Parking is Free. To RSVP for April 28, visit atbreman33.eventbrite.com.

THE ONE PERSON WHO M EANS T H E W O R L D T O Y O U. TH E ONE NAME YOU C AN TRUST FOR HOME CARE.

So, what are these groups about?

Each SIG has a website which serves as a hub for all information that could be pertinent to members. Resources on these sites typically include specific databases, shtetl-specific info, Yizkor books, maps and ongoing projects.

Also, most of these SIGs have a listserv – a discussion group utilizing automated emails – for sharing hints, new releases of data and, most importantly, asking and answering questions. I recommend setting up your participation in “digest” form; by doing so, you will receive a summary of all the emails, as opposed to individual emails.

Note that you don’t even need to ask questions in these discussions to benefit from the emails. By reading other people’s questions and the accompanying answers, you will typically pick up something.

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Personally, I have always found getting involved in the projects to be very rewarding. So much of the available genealogical information on the internet is prepared or made available by volunteers, so when I can, I join projects. You don’t need to be an expert by any means; you may be able to lend a hand just by indexing records or checking someone else’s work.

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what’s happening

Fri., April 12

Tues., April 16

KSU Museum of History & Holocaust Education, the story of Kitty Weichherz as told through the journal, “In Her Father’s Eyes: A Slovak Child in the Shadow of the Holocaust.” Exhibit opens Fri., April 12. The East Cobb Library. (770) 509-2730.

10th-Annual Jack Hirsch Memorial Breakfast, also celebrating Israel Independence Day; presented by the JNF. Tues., April 16, 7:30 a.m. RSVP required. The Temple. (404) 2368990 ext. 851.

Friday Night Fever, sushi and scotch after service; a spirited night of singing and dancing. Fri., April 12, 6:15 p.m. Congregation Beth Tefillah.

(404) 843-2464.

Israel at 65 Celebration, celebrating Israel’s independence; kids’ activities, choir performances, Israeli dancing and more, with food available for purchase. Tues., April 16, 5 p.m. Free. MJCCA. (678) 812-4000.

Sun., April 14 B’nai Torah Artist Market, local artist display and sell original works; Goodfriend’s BBQ available for purchase.

Sun., April 14, 11 a.m. Congregation B’nai Torah. (404) 257-0537.

Food Roots with Farmer ‘D’ and Souper Jenny; growing, cooking and sharing healthy foods. Sun., April 14, 2 p.m. Free for members, $12/ non-members, $8/seniors, $6/kids.

The Breman Museum. RSVP via whatscooking1.eventbrite.com.

Dr. Eugen Schoenfeld Speaker, sharing his stories of survival in various concentration camps for Holocaust Remembrance Month. Tues., April 16, 6:30 p.m. Free. The East Cobb Library. (770) 509-2730.

The Blue & White Party, a community-wide event hosted in part by AJC Atlanta; kosher food provided by Pita Palace. Tues., April 16, 7 p.m. $10/ registered, $15/at door. W Hotel in Buckhead. hirschl@ajc.org.

Wed., April 17

Memorial Day for Israel’s Soldiers and Victims of Terror, a memorial service by the Consulate General of Israel to the Southeast. Sun., April 14, 7 p.m.

Ahavath Achim Synagogue. (404) 355-5222.

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Thurs., April 18 “Night” Book Discussion, author Elie Wiesel writes about his experience with his father in the German concentration camps. Thurs., April 18, 11 a.m. Free. The East Cobb Library.

(770) 509-2730.

“The Changing Relationship Between the American Jewish Community and Israel,” third of the “Celebrating Israel at 65!” four-part series, featuring speaker Richard Walter. Thurs., April 18, 7 p.m. $10/per session.

Marcus Hillel Center at Emory University. Info via (678) 812-3723 or atlantajcc.org.

Fri., April 19 Slam into Shabbat, serve, volley and slam on the tennis court with pro athlete Juan Arico and his skilled coaches; blessing by Rabbi Glusman.

Fri., April 19, 5 p.m. Free and open to the community. MJCCA. brian. glusman@atlantajcc.org.

“Miss Saigon” Opening, a play performed by the North Springs Drama Department featuring a live pit orchestra. Fri., April 19, 7:30 p.m. $15/ adults, $10/seniors and students, $20/VIPs. For tickets, visit northspringshigh.com.

Sun., April 21 OVS Men’s Club Trip to Sharp Shooters, gun range outing. Sun., April 21, 3 p.m. $60-$80. Sharp Shooters on Alpharetta Hwy. orveshalom.org.

Pianist Jeffrey Siegel Performance & Program, the concert will include “Keyboard Conversations,” a series of unique, concert-plus-commentary followed by audience Q & A. Sun., April 21, 4 p.m. $20-28/ person. MJCCA Morris and Rae Frank Theatre.

Tickets via (678) 812-4002 or atlantajcc.org.

Children of the Holocaust, from Am Yisrael Chai Atlanta, with keynote speaker and survivor Andre Kessler; featuring an exhibit, book signing and student accounts of March of the Living. Sun., April 21, 5 p.m. Free.

Congregation Beth Tefilah. RSVP via (888) 608-4988 or amyisraelchaiatlanta@gmail.com.

Wed., April 24 Curious Tales of the Talmud, “Finding Personal Meaning in the Legends of our Sages,” a six-week class with Rabbi Yossi New. Wed., April 24, 7:30 p.m. $85/after April 10. Chabad of Georgia. Register via myjil.com.

Thurs., April 25 NCJW Spring Bargainata, gently-worn, designer women’s and men’s clothing and housewares; proceeds benefit programs for Atlanta’s women and families. Thurs., April 25, 11 a.m. (continues April 28; preview night April 24, 7 p.m.). Hilderbrand Court Shopping Center, Atlanta. Info via (404) 843-9600 or ncjw@ncjwatlanta. org.

High Ground Annual Meaningful Conversations, “Violence and the Response of People of Faith.” with Rev. Joanna Adams, Imam Plemon ElAmin, the Rev. Joseph Roberts and Rabbi Alvin Sugarman. Thurs., April 25, 6:30 p.m. St. Luke’s. RSVP via trainingandcounselingcenter.org.

“The Jewish Landscape: Challenges and Opportunities within Israeli Society,” fourth of the “Celebrating Israel at 65!” four-part series, featuring speaker Dr. Shelley Buxbaum.

Thurs., April 25, 7 p.m. $10/per session. Marcus Hillel Center at Emory University. Info via (678) 812-3723 or atlantajcc.org.

Fri., April 26 “Boy in the Striped Pajamas” screening, film based on the New York Times bestselling novel. Fri., April 26, 4 p.m. Free. The East Cobb Library. (770) 509-2730.

Sat., April 27 Garden Faire, N.F. Master Gardeners’ “Swing into Gardening” event featuring pass-along plant sale, vendors, food and speakers. Sat., April 27, 9 a.m. Bulloch Hall in Roswell. (678) 397-0571.

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MAY THEIR MEMORIES BE A BLESSING

Bertha Kritz

Wendy Heyman Levin

92, OF ATLANTA

75, OF ATLANTA

Bertha Kritz, 92, of Atlanta, died April 4, 2013. She was preceded in death by her husband, Harry Kritz, and is survived by her daughter, Bella Kritz-Doebeli and sonin-law, Ernst; and son, Alex Kritz. Graveside services were held on Sun., April 7, 2013 at Crest Lawn Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The Jewish Towers, 3160 Howell Mill Road, Atlanta, GA 30327. Arrangements by Green Lawn Jewish Funeral Services at H.M. Patterson and Son, Arlington Chapel.

Wendy Heyman Levin (Bubbe), 75, of Atlanta died Thurs., March 28, 2013. Born in Cambridge, Mass. on Feb. 1, 1938, to Herbert and Evelyn Holtz, Wendy fought through a difficult childhood marked by the loss of her father when she was 10 years old. That didn’t stop her pursuit for education; she graduated from Wheelock College in 1959. Somewhere along the way, she picked up a love of laughter and inanimate frogs, building a collection of many dozens. In between laughs, she took a break from teaching and birthed two sons, John and Andy, after marrying her first husband Ben Heyman in 1959. In 1969, the family moved from New Jersey to Atlanta, where she raised her two boys. She became an avid volunteer, including stints as Boy Scout den mother, Little League team mother and president of ORT (Organization for Rehabilitation through Training). The absence of pure teaching represented a hole she decided to fill, as she returned to school to get her teacher’s certificate for Georgia at the age of 45. She then returned to her calling as a schoolteacher for the rest of her life. After marrying her final love, Merton Levin, in 1994, she finally overcame her fear of flying, traveling to many places around America and Europe. She also loved going to plays with her girlfriends, splurging on fried chicken and ribs, and continuing education. Bubbe’s true passion, though, was her grandchildren who survive her from the Heyman family: Bentley, Tyler, Eli, Talia and Charlie. She is also survived by her sons, John Heyman (and his wife Erin Heyman) and Andy Heyman; her stepdaughter, Rina Wolfe, and her husband Jack; her sister, Mary Udell, and her husband Dan; and 63 frogs that line her shelves around her home and jewelry box. An online guestbook is available at edressler.com. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Wendy Heyman Levin Scholarship Fund (contact Shellie at schmals.ashventures@gmail.com). The funeral service was held at 1 p.m. Sun., March 31, 2013 at Temple Sinai, 5645 Dupree Dr. NW, Atlanta, GA 30327, with Rabbi Brad Levenberg officiating. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care.

Charles V. Litt 69, OF CUMMING, GA. Charles V. Litt, 69 of Cumming, Ga. and Hollywood, Fla., died March 30, 2013. Mr. Litt was originally from Hillside, N.J. and graduated from Rider College in Trenton, N.J., later earning his law degree from Samford Law School in Birmingham, Ala. He worked as an attorney by trade in the commercial finance industry for many years.

Mr. Litt and his family were founding members of Temple Emanu-El and are currently members of Congregation Dor Tamid. He is survived by his wife of 46 years, Barbara W. Litt; daughter, Aimee Litt; son and daughter-in-law, Brian and Becky Litt; grandchildren, Hudson and Benjamin Litt; and cousin, Norma Temple. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to American Cancer Society’s Gwinnett County Relay for Life in support of Aimee Litt (relayforlife.org) or Embracing Hospice of Cumming, 8013 Majors Rd, Cumming, GA 30041. Funeral services were held April 2, 2013 at 2 p.m. at the chapel of H.M. Patterson and Son, Arlington Chapel, 173 Allen Rd, NE, Sandy Springs, GA 30328 with Rabbi Michael Weinstein officiating. Interment followed at Arlington Memorial Park.

Esther Smith WIFE TO RAYMOND SMITH Esther Smith died March 31, 2013, just a few days after her 67th wedding anniversary. She was born in 1920 in Atlanta, the daughter of David and Deborah Almeleh. She worked for the government as a member of the rationing board in her earlier years prior to moving to Dayton, Ohio for her loving husband Raymond. She was instrumental in gaining rights for victims of polio in Dayton, a cause she whole-heartedly took on after her daughter was stricken with the virus. She was a life member of Hadassah and an active member of Beth Abraham Synagogue in Dayton and Congregation Or VeShalom of Atlanta. She had terrific style and loved to entertain. Her presence was always felt, and she had the ability to make others laugh and smile.

She loved to travel and play tennis and bridge. She returned to Atlanta to be closer to her family, who were her greatest priority. She is survived by her husband, who was the love of her life, Raymond Smith; as well as her two daughters and their spouses, Deborah and Bruce Nelson and Barbara and Tom Ziff; her two grandsons, David Ziff and Zachary Nelson; her granddaughter and her spouse, Erin and Jake Slosburg.

The funeral service was held Wed. April 3, 2013 at 1 p.m. at Arlington Memorial Park in Sandy Springs, officiated by Rabbi Kassorla. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to Congregation Or VeShalom, 1681 N. Druid Hills Road, NE Atlanta, GA 30319.

Leona Rothstein Leona Rothstein, age 94, of Atlanta, passed away peacefully April 4, 2013. Survivors include her son and daughter-in-law, Martin and Sandra Rothstein of New York City; son and daughter-in-law, Dr. Alan and Sue Rothstein of Marietta, Ga.; and grandchildren Roger Rothstein, Sonnie Elahna Rothstein, Andrea and Cory Reavis, Sandy Rothstein and Greg Rothstein. Mrs. Rothstein was preceded in death by her husband, Samuel Rothstein, parents Reuben and Gussie Lisman, and brothers Jack and Irving Lisman, of blessed memory. A graduate of Hunter College in New York, Mrs. Rothstein was a career teacher who taught at PS173 in New York City for more than 30 years. During World War II, she moved to Washington, D.C. to work for the federal government, where she met her future husband, Sam. While Sam was on convoy duty during the war, she moved back to NYC, where she and Sam later made their home and raised their family. Mrs. Rothstein was a life long New York Yankees fan and keen observer of people. She moved to Atlanta in 2005 and enjoyed spending time with her Southern children and grandchildren. In her later years, her caregivers were all impressed with her quick wit, strong will and engaging smile. She passed away one month short of her 95th birthday. Sign online guestbook at edressler.com.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the William Breman Jewish Home or Weinstein Hospice. A graveside service was held Sun., April 7, 2013 at 1 p.m. at Cedar Park Cemetery in Emerson, N.J. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care.

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94, OF ATLANTA

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JEWISH PUZZLER

by David Benkof

Across 1. Sephardi Chief Rabbi Shlomo 5. “Ten Stupid Things Women Do to ___ Up Their Lives” by Laura Schlessinger 9. Early JTS Chancellor Adler 14. ___ Mare (whence Satmar Hasidism) 15. “___ Undercover” (Rhea Perlman children’s book series) 16. Ganef’s job 17. Blue hue 18. “Nes Gadol Hayah ___” 19. Congressman Eliot (D-N.Y.) 20. Author, “Eichmann in Jerusalem” 23. ___ and Jaron (Jewish pop duo) 24. Swellings 28. Evening prayer 31. ___ Nagila 33. Choose 34. Israeli historian (“Rethinking the Holocaust) 36. ___ large extent: 2 wds.

37. Lay tefillin 38. One of Teddy’s successors 39. Lerner and Loewe’s 1958 hit musical 40. Ben-Hur was chained to one 41. Hungarian sage who said “Anything new is forbidden by the Torah” 45. Numbered highway: Abbr.

46. 53, in old Rome 47. Czar’s edicts 48. Lower in dignity 50. To a tiny degree

51. He created the “wedge bob” 57. Levi Strauss material 60. River to the Rhine 61. Bok choy’s kin 62. Arm bones 63. “The Times They ___-Changin”’ (Bob Dylan) 64. “___ the jackpot!”

65. Mixture 66. Central ___ (coffeeshop on “Friends”) 67. Letters on dreidels

25. Musical themes 26. Zenith 27. The Empire State Building’s 1,860 28. “I say!”

29. Add fizz to 30. “Lost in ___” (Abbott-Costello film)

31. Half of Hispaniola 32. Torah ___ (publishers of “Being Torah”) 35. Part of BBI 39. Flask material 41. Insisted on 42. Rear

Down 1. “Kiddush HaShem” writer Sholem 2. Rudolph of “Saturday Night Live” 3. ___ early age 4. Second-place finisher 5. Jewish camp in Wild Rose, Wisconsin 6. “Fargo” director Coen 7. “___ Trek” (Shatner/ Nimoy franchise) 8. “___ Enchanted Evening” (“South Pacific” song) 9. Monterey Jack, for one 10. Anatevka matchmaker 11. Predetermine illicitly 12. Treat as a tool 13. Arch city: Abbr.

21. Rarin’ to go 22. ___ Ilan (moshave west of Jerusalem)

43. Sadat’s successor 44. Enjoys Mt. Hermon, perhaps 49. French location of a Holocaust refugee conference 50. Potok’s “My Name is ___ Lev” 52. Not give ___ (care less) 53. Attract 54. Senator Brian Schatz represents it, among other islands 55. “Enemies, A Love Story” Oscar nominee 56. After-taxes totals 57. Do some tape editing 58. Pipe angle 59. Direction of NYC’s uptown

Last week’s answers

Chess Puzzle of the Week

by Jon Hochberg

Challenge: Black to move: Checkmate in 2 moves

Last puzzle’s solution.

1) Nf5+, KxNf3 2) Bd1#

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Jon Hochberg is a chess instructor who has been teaching in the Atlanta area for the last 6 years.

Currently, Jon runs after school chess programs at several Atlanta schools. He always welcomes new students, and enjoys working with children who have no prior chess knowledge. Jon can be reached at Jonhochberg@gmail.com to schedule private lessons.

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