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recently was asked to read the Torah at a congregation that very few members attend on Shabbat.
“But Dad,” I begged him, “I worked so hard for this event. I studied and I even helped my rabbi develop my “drash,” reflections on the significance of the parsha.”
As I turned to that portion in my chumash to re-read the tales of Abraham after Sarah’s death, I stumbled across “Vayera” and hesitated. It was a serendipitous pause.
What had happened? Why was my Bar Mitzvah endangered?
The chapter also details the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah and Abraham’s divorce from his concubine and their son Ishmael, who is considered to be the father of the Arab people. It is also the chapter in which we are told of G-d’s covenant with Abraham’s future descendants – the Israelites. While these stories are significant elements in Jewish history, their impact on Jewish belief is enormous. However, I didn’t hesitate just to read the chapter because of its importance. I stopped because suddenly I recalled that this was my Bar Mitzvah parsha. How long ago was it?
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“Tuli,” my father said to me, “let’s cancel your Bar Mitzvah.”
I doubt that it’s a congregation, really more of a chavurah, an association of a few friends. Every so often I perform as a baal-korey, the Torah reader, and this time around I would be reading Chayei Sarah.
Vayera is the Torah portion that contains the “akedah”, Abraham’s attempt to offer his son Isaac as a sacrifice to G-d.
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everyone in the town that our mood changed from joy to sadness. November of 1938 was a month of sorrow, a period when it became clear that Jewish existence was in peril.
Yes, this was the 75th anniversary of my Bar Mitzvah. It was a sad event that almost didn’t occur. A Bar Mitzvah is supposed to be a “simcha,” a joyous event. Mine, in fact, wasn’t. My Bar Mitzvah occurred the week when Hungarian forces occupied my home town, Mukacevo, and brought with them their anti-Semitic laws.
So great was the depression of
I was devastated.
First, Mukacevo, my hometown, ceased to belong to Czechoslovakia. It was, perhaps, the most liberal and democratic country that has ever existed in which Jews lived, prospered and freely exercised their faith.
The country was being destroyed.
The politicians – Chamberlain, Daladier, Mussolini and Hitler – handed my hometown over to Hungary, a German ally. We suddenly became subject to all the anti-Semitic laws that the Nazis had created and instituted in Germany and Austria. My school, the Hebrew Gymnasium, was closed because most of my teachers – all ardent Zionists – fled and made their way to Palestine. Really, how could one have a meaningful Bar Mitzvah without one’s teachers and friends? But because of my pleas, my father kept his promise and my Bar Mitzvah was still on, but in a scaleddown fashion. The simcha was reduced to a small kiddush that would be held in our home. After all, I was the oldest grandson for both my grandparents and my paternal grandfather was waiting to give me his most treasured possession, a gold Elgin pocket watch. He had brought it back from America where he worked for a number of years before World War I.
The second reason my Bar Mitzvah was almost canceled was because it was scheduled for Shabbat Vayera, which in 1938 fell on November 16. That was one week after the infamous Kristallnacht, the nationwide pogrom in Germany that was instigated by the Nazis. On November 9, the day after my birthday, the Nazis allowed – even encouraged – the creation of a night of horror. Jewish homes in Germany were broken into and ransacked, synagogues were desecrated and Torah scrolls burned. The following week was a time of mourning for Jews across Eastern Europe. In Hungary, we feared that another pogrom might be repeated in our new country. After all, Hungary was now an ally with Germany. The proverbial handwriting was on the wall, the destruction of European Jewry seemed imminent. In my hometown, it seemed like we were sitting shivah. The mood was no different than what Jews had experienced two millennia earlier during the burning of the holy Temples in Israel. It was a mood I was familiar with, one that was repeated every year on the ninth of Av when Jews would sit shoeless, reciting Jeremiah’s book of Lamentations. It was a somber and extremely sad mood as we annually
remembered the destruction of Zion. No wonder my father wished to cancel my Bar-Mitzvah. But I insisted and, unhappily, he relented. It was an afternoon dominated by sadness, very little schnapps or eating of cakes. And it was an afternoon of goodbyes as my last teachers made ready to flee the devastation aimed at Europe for the relative safety of Palestine. Instead of joy, my Bar Mitzvah was marked by deep sadness; everyone was anticipating the come of evil times. A few years later the full force of the Holocaust, a plague worse than any to befall Egypt, visited us in Hungary and across Eastern Europe. It hit all my family, from the young to the old. I knew then that it was the death knoll of my world. I survived and became part of a new, modern world; but I can only wonder today if Jews will survive where we are now. Will the Bar Mitzvahs of today mark a new and rejuvenated Jewish life? Or, to the contrary, will this period of greater freedom become the beginning of a new form of Judaism – a faith without its richness, once rooted in our ethnic-historical existence that, sadly, is being forgotten by most of us. Eugen Schoenfeld is a professor and chair emeritus at Georgia State University and a survivor of the Holocaust.
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Alas, my maternal grandparents, because of the partition, now lived in the newly created country of Russian Carpathia – a nation that lasted only four and a half months. Sadly, they weren’t allowed to cross the border into Hungary and take part in my festive day.
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A few years ago at a Lunch and Learn, I asked a Kollel rabbi if he was able to choose his own spouse and got an amazing answer. He was about to give up after his 99th arranged date when – Bingo! The 100th girl was “the one.” It was almost enough to make one lose hope and confidence, but not a man of faith.
AJT Contributor s your rabbi a “romantic”? Is there a beshert theme for couples destined to meet?
What are the threads of how these solid couples courted to make the important decision, or as Tina Turner crooned, “What’s Love Got to Do with It?” In a shallower time back home in Tennessee, as a child I remember how much scrutiny we unfairly placed upon the beloved rabbi’s family. His wife was a “brash” New Yorker, not known for white-glove southern gentility. The ladies analyzed her clothing, her canasta playing, her chewing gum popping, and her accent; and we reported on what the rabbi’s children brought to school in their lunch box. The magnifying glass was not so kind. I became fascinated with the topic some years ago after renting the movie “Arranged”, available in the Fulton County Library System. A young teacher suffers through a series of bizarre, unpleasant dates arranged by a professional matchmaker. A Muslim female coworker is in a similar predicament; the denouement is endearing with all sides winning in the end. More recently, NBC’s Rock Center did an unflattering segment, interviewing young adults in Crown Heights who were escaping a structured Jewish life, destined for early prearranged marriage (and the inability to study secular topics like science). The next day, NBC pulled the link from the internet.
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Most of us would hesitate at not having the luxury of time to examine and commit to a lifelong mate. R a b b i Shmary Gurary, Director of Development at B’nos Menachem School in Brooklyn, married a local Atlanta Chabad rabbi’s daughter. He estimates that 70 percent of today’s religious marriages are arranged by paid matchmakers versus 20-30 percent with friends and family doing the introductions – typically at age 20-22. Around the third and fourth date, the groundwork for a decision is being laid, the fifth date being the “clincher.” Rabbi Binyomin Friedman, of Congregation Ariel, was not looking for marriage. His wife of 31 years, Dena, was teaching the matchmaker’s child in Baltimore when the matchmaker exclaimed that she had a dream that Dena married Friedman, who was in his family’s petroleum business. They dated for 10 weeks, were chaperoned, and never at an event alone. F r i e d man at that time was “fuzzy” about his future involvement in Jewish life. After the wedding, he became a Post-Modern Orthodox rabbi. His advice for a happy marriage, “absolute commitment, divorce is not an option. Whatever it is, you can work it out.”
Chabad of Georgia’s Rabbi, Yossi New, through older siblings on both sides arranged a date at Prospect Park in New York with 19-year-old Dassi. New, 22 at the time, said it was love at first sight. He knew she was it.
tended a 45-minute drive through a circuitous route in New York traffic to two hours to spend more time with Wendy.
The next date was not smooth. Wendy announced that she would not marry the young Heller. Surprised by her boldness, Heller reminded her that he had not yet asked her; but he persevered. Eight months later they were engaged. Heller muses that it was somewhat of a “bait and switch.”
“I needed one minute.”
Dassi, concerned about the safety of being taken to a sketchy New York Park, needed a few more meetings to make the commitment; fast forward to nine children and 14 grandchildren. “Pick wisely,” New says. “Find a spouse who is humble and self effacing, and make her the most important thing in your life.”
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Dassi is just that and a wonderful teacher in her own
In terms of a more restrained courtship, New says it works because starting with respect is better than falling right into love. “At first you allow space and have borders, and don’t proclaim love,” New says. “After marriage it’s easier to retain the respect and transition into love. Respect is the defining dynamic.” Of course, he laughs at the extreme from “Fiddler on the Roof” where Tevye and his wife sing, after 25 years of marriage, “Do you love me?” with the response, “Well, I suppose I do …” Many Conservative and Reform Rabbis met their spouses through summer camp or Jewish teen organizations, and wellmeaning friends at first being “just friends.” B’nai Torah’s Rabbi Joshua Heller met his wife Wendy when friends arranged a muchneeded car ride back from camp. Rabbi Heller, with the bravado of a young man “big shot” with a rental car, ex-
That’s what you call a “wild goose chase”; but no one got goosed, I can assure you.
He was on the IT administrative side at the Jewish Theological Seminary, while she was pursuing a Masters in Jewish Education. When he later decided to be a congregational rabbi, she went into business and IT. Heller believes that if, “it’s meant to be, you will meet.” He and Wendy unknowingly overlapped several times in near misses, as they were both at the same concert in Jerusalem; he even went to her house for a meeting on a night she wasn’t home. Paths crisscrossed. According to Heller, “listening and respect” are the key to a happy marriage. Rabbi Neil Sandler, of Ahavath Achim, courted southern Susan in Jerusalem at Hebrew University. They met through mutual friends and knew each other for five months before dating. Both were committed to Jewish roots and values. Susan said she lived a “sheltered” life in Louisiana, exposed mainly to Reform Judaism. In Israel she began her spiritual journey by learning to speak Hebrew and keep kosher. Rabbi Sandler’s decision to become a pulpit rabbi came after the marriage. Susan felt that becoming a rabbi’s wife was a natural progres-
“Susan is seen as much more than a rebbetzin as she has a career where her own interests lie,” Rabbi Sandler said. “One has to ask, ‘Is the spouse ready for the attention of living in the spotlight cast on a rabbi and his family?’” Susan certainly is that and more; but she had to give up New Orleans oysters and jambalaya. (Although, she says, I make it with okra and trout – a form of cholent remoulade?) Temple Sinai’s Rabbi Brad Levenberg – married 13 years – started dating his wife Rebecca after a year of friendship in NFTY, the Reform youth movement. “Our story illustrates that shared memories and common experiences establish a ‘fast track’ for romance,” Levenberg said. “We started where many other couples had to arrive after months of dating. And because of that initial familiarity, it was easier to realize that the one I was looking for was by my side all along.” Rebecca cherished the “rabbi’s wife role” because she was so quickly welcomed into the community, the lives and homes of Sinai congregants. “It’s a joy to have such a close circle of friends,” Rebecca explains. Young Israel’s Adam Starr met his wife Talya as a 14-year-old friend at summer camp. Years later, when romance entered his mind, Talya asked him to fix her up with one of his friends. This could throw a wrench into the bravest of hearts. On a second false start, Talya mentioned that her roommate suggested that she go out with his roommate.
“Could he arrange that?”
Starr took his stand and said that he was intending to ask her on a date for himself. Starr still charms his
wife with flowers for shabbas. Tayla did not know she was going to be a rabbi’s wife until after marriage. Starr admires how she opens their home for meals and as a teen hangout. They have four children, ranging in age from six months to 16 years old. Starr recalls their wedding in January 1999 in Connecticut; guests came to perform their “schtick” in Falcon “fan gear” for Super Bowl Sunday. Little did they know, they would end up here in the Falcon’s home base. Maybe they expected the Falcons to be a little more reliable. Starr advises couples to be proactive in dealing with issues. “Sweeping under the rug doesn’t work,” he said. “Problems do not magically disappear.” The Temple’s Rabbi Peter Berg met his wife Karen also at summer camp where she was the waterfront director. At the time, Rabbi Berg was not leaning towards being a pulpit rabbi. They married two years later. Karen, a high school English teacher, is now an SAT coach, so she can be more flexible rearing their three children. Rabbi Berg’s “Aha!” moment came when the obstetrician looked at the sonogram and stated, “The baby looks fine,” followed by a pause. “Actually the other baby looks fine too.” Elisheva Ingber met Karmi Ingber, spiritual leader of the fast growing Kehilla Congregation, passing out flyers while studying in Jerusalem. Elisheva was on a Hillel trip and took the whole group to see the talented young guitarist perform. Elisheva, the daughter of a Holocaust survivor, was not a religious Jew at that juncture. Based on meeting Karmi’s circle of friends, she was impressed as to how “smart, normal, cool, and interesting a religious life could be.” Six months later they were married. She notes that she made the decision to become observant by what she wanted for herself and not “for” him.
She advises that romance should lead from the top down.
“Head first: are your priorities on the same track? Second: go with the heart, emotions and comfort level.” Seven children later, Elisheva says, “Showing each other true respect and love are key elements; but the passion in marriage is kindled by practicing the laws of family purity. Medical professionals and therapists reinforce that periods of abstinence keep romance alive.” The Ingbers make a great team. If you haven’t attended a Kehilla event, you should. California-raised Brooke Rosenthal, wife of Ahavath Achim’s Laurence Rosenthal, also had several “near meets,” since they both unknowingly worked in the Jewish Federation building. He opened the door for her; she asked him where the vending machines were. Friends tried to get them together despite the passing logistics. Both hung out at the same music venues on Sunset Boulevard; both were on a spiritual path (she had just returned from Israel; he was starting rabbinical school), and both were grieving over the loss of their fathers. Brooke was half-heartedly on Match.com when she just picked up the phone and said, “Let’s go to lunch.” Eighteen months later, they were married. She advises young people to make sure to balance the practical with the romantic, “Don’t gloss over what you want out of life. Matching the key issues is as important as the heart.” She compliments Rabbi Rosenthal for his sentimental gifts on holidays – even though she knows he gets them at 11 p.m. the night before. “Breakfast in bed is always a big hit!” Getting through the rocky times in marriage, she cautions, “Don’t get stuck in your own point of view. Otherwise it’s just defense and offense.” The Rosenthal’s stay busy with four children, all under 8-years-old.
There is a tidbit of knowledge you should know about rabbis and dating. In 1998, Orthodox Rabbi Yaacov Deyo invented speed dating in Beverly Hills. He brainstormed with entertainment industry executives who developed game shows. They calculated how to use excel spreadsheets to keep track of singles and twirled his grogger (noise maker) at 10 minute intervals to force the room of singles to switch partners; so noted in a New York Times article by Pagen Kennedy. He is responsible for inspiring Jewish and Gentile matches all around the world where couples table hop for maximum efficiency. Deyo has a trademark for Speed Dating and is proud of the zichus (merit) created by his good actions. Being a progressive town, including attitudes about gender roles, Atlanta also has many female rabbis with unique challenges and motivations – to be explored in a future column. With my outdated college minor in Sociology and many decades of life experience, I maintain that our rabbis have exceptionally happy marriages. Perhaps they had friendship first or friends who knew them well put them together. Rabbis are by nature compassionate, complimentary and have counseling “thought processes” which enriches coupling. Maybe a higher spiritual destiny brought them together. G-d has to know who can handle seven children. “Love is as perennial as the grass” (Desertera 1927) – especially in our Land of Jewish Milk and Honey. After 35 years with the Atlanta Newspapers, Marcia currently serves as Retail VP for the Buckhead Business Association where she delivers news and trends(laced with a little gossip). On the side, Marcia is Captain of the Senior Cheerleaders for the WNBA at Philips Arena.
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iriam Feldman is an educator with a vision who has created a school with a mission. The founding principal of Temima High School wants to educate Jewish women at every level, offering support from the cradle to the grave. The groundbreaking ceremony for the Orthodox girls high school in Toco Hills, takes place, Sun., Nov. 3 at 4 p.m. Mrs. Feldman’s dream of having a school which includes a women’s center within the walls of the new 18,000 square foot building will be one step closer to reality.The 18-year -old school currently holds classes in portable trailers on the campus of Torah Day School of Atlanta. “It is the only private school in Atlanta that doesn’t have its own build-
ing,” said Jean Katz, who, with her husband Richard, has been involved with the school for years. “The girls have gone to school in awful conditions, but that hasn’t stopped them from becoming successful,” she said. The Katzes, became interested in Temima when Atlanta Sholars Kollel Rabbi Menachem Deutsch invited Dick to a Temima graduation ceremony. “My first thought was ‘you have to be kidding me,’” reminisced Mr. Katz whose children were well past high school age when the invitation came. “But my wife was out of town and I went. That graduation knocked my socks off.” The successful Atlanta businessman was impressed, wanted to leave a legacy and he accomplished that with a pledge large enough to have the school named after him and his wife. But, it was considered unusual that the Katzes, major donors were
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not active in Atlanta’s Orthodox community. Temima, the Richard and Jean Katz High School for girls, has a reputation for excellence. Although the majority of its 53 students are from Atlanta, girls from other Orthodox communities also enroll and board with Atlanta families. Rabbi Deutsch, who is credited with recognizing and acting on the need for a girls only school, formed a committee to begin the process. He speaks in superlatives about Temima, which he claims is, “the best orthodox high school for girls in the country.” In addition, a unique self improvement program, called SIP, is what differentiates Temima from other schools that serve orthodox girls. Developed by Mrs. Feldman, the SIP program prepares students emotionally and philosophically for life. There is a common misconception that Orthodox schools only prepare their graduates for marriage. The majority of Temima graduates not only earn bachelor’s degrees from secular universities but more than 70 percent have also received graduate degrees. Julie Silverman, Temima’s director of development, pointed out that – despite the physical limitations of Temima, which has been meeting in portable trailers – the school has produced an “incredible cadre of alumnae.” One Temima graduate is currently in medical school. Another is a lawyer. Careers as speech therapists, occupational therapists and other professional categories are the norm, Mrs. Silverman said, adding that 97 percent of Temima graduates earn bachelor’s degrees and between 70 and 80 percent earn graduate degrees. One thing that differentiates Temima grads from students attending other college-prep private schools is that Temima graduates attend seminaries in Israel for one or two years prior to completing their secular education. “Our school encourages girls to be the best they can be. They pursue that dream, coupled with living a vibrant Orthodox Jewish life,” Mrs. Silverman explained.
The dual curriculum is rigorous. A typical school day lasts for nine and a half hours. In addition, there are many team building programs designed to teach time management skills and how to live and work within a community. The mission statement, which can be found on its website, read as follows: We are dedicated to realizing each student’s potential in a wholesome and safe environment. Our progressive educational program mirrors the philosophical framework of our name, Temima, meaning complete. We not only fully prepare students for higher education in seminary and college, but also bolster each young woman with spiritual support and individualized attention. Temima offers an excellent secular education and a deep understanding of Jewish original sources, enabling young women to connect with G-d throughout their lives.The Temima message is that G-d expects each of us to make complete use of all our G-d given gifts. Principal Miriam Feldman is an icon in the Orthodox Jewish world. She was born into a family with “yichus,” which refers to one’s lineage. Her father, Rabbi Yacov Weinberg, was the head of the Ner Israel Rabbinical College, or yeshiva in Baltimore. Her grandfather was the founder of that yeshiva. Holder of dual Bachelor’s degrees from an Orthodox Teacher’s College and Notre Dame University, she also earned a Master’s degree from Loyola University, Mrs. Feldman, who has been an educator since 19-years-old, was named one of the “50 Most Influential Jews in America” by Jewsweek. Sunday’s groundbreaking ceremony is open to the greater Atlanta community. It will take place at 1839 LaVista Road. A reception will follow in the social hall of Beth Jacob. Arlene Appelrouth earned a degree in news-editorial journalism from the University of Florida and her career as a writer and journalist spans a 50-year period; she currently studies memoir writing while working on her first book.
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Time to Say ‘Enough is Enough’
COLLEGE BOARDS IMPORTANT, BUT SHOULDN’T DEFINE WHO WE ARE AJT CONTRIBUTOR
we all may be going a bit too far with the “Good score = good life” idea.
ust how deep you’re part of the system becomes clear when you receive a text from the College Board wishing you luck on your exams.
I understand that I’m not exactly a perfect example to talk about the burdens of the American education system. I’m not in it, but that’s a story for another day.
Just to be clear, I’m probably cramming for the SATs as you read this column. I’m not proud of that, but I’ll be taking the exam soon and want to be prepared.
I believe, however, that I could walk up to anyone my age in America and in five words or less learn their sleeping pattern, how much they believe in themselves, and what their parents’ expectations of them are.
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Truth to tell, a lot of my time – also my peers – is devoted to memorizing strategies, reading passages and practicing filling in those little bubbles on the test. Okay, the bubble bit is a little overstated! But as much as I’m learning from analyzing random paragraphs about ant farmers and sailors, what I’m learning from the SATs and what it says about life is much deeper. Basically, I’m learning how to judge myself. I was talking to a good friend the other day, and we were discussing the upcoming exams. She said she wasn’t taking it in November because she wants to push off the stress – she just can’t handle it right now and is hopeful she can pull it together a few months down the road. The saddest part of the conversation is that I knew exactly what she meant. In fact, I’m doing just the opposite of what she’s planning, but pretty much for the same reasons. I’m traveling later in the year, so I don’t want the emotional and mental stress then. I’d rather take the test now when I can handle a little more anxiety than usual. Recently I asked someone why I should even care about the SATs. “Because you want to go to a good college,” they responded, “and have a good job, find a good spouse, and have a good life.” Well, I must admit that all those things sound mighty nice. I’m not anti-good life, or anything. I just think
The SATs aren’t just a test we take; they’re a measure we all hold ourselves to. Suddenly, many teens in America are judging themselves on the same meter, working on the same skill-development, and striving to reach the same numbers. What strikes me as odd about that is that all the teens in America aren’t the same. So why are we trying to be? It seems to me that no student in their junior year of high school is concerned whether or not their creativity is thriving, if they are feeling artistically enriched, or if they are learning things they are interested in. It seems the only thing that matters right now is how we all do on the SATs. Well, enough is enough. We can’t rest all of our life’s goals on the SAT exam – especially if it doesn’t test who we are as people. Let’s be human for a little while. I’m not saying that while you’re reading this I’m not studying for the SATs; I most probably still am. I’m saying that we, the youth of America, have to remember that the system doesn’t define us. Atlanta’s Eden Farber, 16, was recognized in the Jewish Heritage National Poetry Contest of 2010 and has published op-eds and poetry in Modern Hippie Magazine and the NY Jewish Week’s Fresh Ink for Teens section.
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Turow, Toobin, Matthews and More
MJCCA BOOK FEST FEATURING BRILLIANT LEGAL MINDS WHO KNOW HOW TO SPIN A YARN
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awyers will be the focus, in one fashion or another, of several special sessions of this month’s MJCCA Book
Festival.
The series, presented by Greenberg Traurig and PNC Bank, will feature several authors who are practicing and non-practicing attorneys, including: Scott Turow, Gregory J. Wallance, Jeffrey Toobin, Jim T. Barfield, Chris Matthews, Matthew Levitt, and Alan Dershowitz. Here’s what’s planned; unless stated otherwise, all programs will be held at the MJCCA in Dunwoody:
Scott Turow The Book: “Identical: A Novel” When: Sat., Nov. 2, 8:15 p.m. Cost: Member: $18 / Community: $24 At a glance: “Identical,” based loosely on the myth of Castor and Pollux, is the story of the complex relationships between a family and their former neighbors. The complex web of murder, sex, and betrayal – as only Scott Turow could weave – dramatically unfolds, until the chilling truth is revealed. Turow is the author of nine best-selling works of fiction, including “Innocent,” “Presumed Innocent,” and “The Burden of Proof.”
When: Tues., Nov. 5, 7:30 p.m. Cost: Member: $13 / Community: $18 At a glance: At the height of World War II, four lawyers in the U.S. Treasury Department discovered that the highly-educated, patrician diplomats in the State Department had covered up reports of the Nazi scheme to exterminate European Jewry. The lawyers would eventually charge the diplomats with being “accom¬plices of Hitler.”
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Chris Matthews The Book: “Tip and the Gipper: When Politics Worked”
Jeffrey Toobin The Book: “The Oath: The Obama White House and the Supreme Court” When: Thurs., Nov. 7, 7:30 p.m. Cost: Member: $18 / Community: $24 At a glance: From the moment Chief Justice Roberts botched Barack Obama’s oath of office, the relationship between the Court and the White House has been a fraught one. Grappling with issues as diverse as campaign finance, abortion, and the right to bear arms, the Roberts court has put itself squarely at the center of American political life. A New Yorker staff writer, CNN Senior legal analyst, and a New York Times bestselling author, Toobin brilliantly portrays key personalities and cases in his latest work. “The Oath” is an essential guide to understanding the Supreme Court today.
Gregory J. Wallance The Book: “America’s Soul in the Balance: The Holocaust, FDR’s State Department, and the Moral Disgrace of an American Aristocracy”
May 1944, a Jewish teen’s career as a promising concert violinist has been derailed, and he is on the run from the Nazis. Two young adults of radically different backgrounds are cast together and experience their own distinct coming-of-age epiphany as they painfully explore their increasingly complicated and awkward relationship.
Jim T. Barfield The Book: “Boxcars”
When: Sun., Nov. 10, 7:30 p.m. Cost: Member: $18 / Community: $24 At a glance: From the author of the New York Times bestseller “Jack Kennedy” – and Tip O’Neill’s former chief-of-staff – comes this firsthand, one-of-a-kind story of the friendship between President Reagan and the Speaker of the House. They were the political odd couple – the two most powerful men in the country, a pair who, in Matthews’ words, “couldn’t be more different or more the same.” Matthews brings this unlikely friendship to life in his unique voice, offering us a timely object lesson in how bipartisan cooperation can work.
Alan Dershowitz The Book: “Taking the Stand: My Life in the Law” When: Sat., Nov. 16, 8 p.m. Cost: Member: $18 / Community: $24 At a glance: America’s most prominent legal mind and the No. 1 bestselling author of “Chutzpah” and “The Best Defense,” Dershowitz, recounts his legal autobiography, describing how he came to the law, as well as the cases that have changed American jurisprudence over the past 50 years, most of which he has personally been involved in.
Matthew Levitt The Book: “Hezbollah: The Global Footprint of Lebanon’s Party of God” When: Tues., Nov. 12, 7:30 p.m. Where: The Temple
When: Sun., Nov. 10, 4:30 p.m.
Cost: Member: $13 / Community: $18
Cost: Free to the Community
At a glance: Hezbollah – Lebanon’s “Party of God” – is a multifaceted organization. It’s a powerful politi¬cal
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party in Lebanon, a Shia Islam religious and social movement, Lebanon’s largest militia, a close ally of Iran, and a terrorist organization. Drawing on a wide range of sources, Levitt examines Hezbollah’s beginnings, its first violent forays targeting Western interests in Leba¬non, and then its terrorist activities and criminal enterprises abroad in Europe, the Middle East, South America, Southeast Asia, Africa, and finally in North America. This program will be “In Conversation” with Emory Prof. Kenneth Stein.
Editor’s note: Most events will be held at the Marcus Jewish Community Center of Atlanta (MJCCA). To purchase tickets, call the MJCCA Box Office at (678) 812.4005, or visit online at www.atlantajcc.org/bookfestival.
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Book Festival Offering a ‘Grand Slam’
AUTHORS WILL EXPLORE JEWISH COMMUNITY’S LOVE AFFAIR WITH BASEBALL
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merican Jews and America’s love affair with baseball will be the focus of a sporty session at this year’s MJCCA Book Fest. Robert Weintraub, Larry Ruttman and John Rosengren will be discussing different aspects of America’s favorite pastime. The event will be presented by Greenberg Traurig and PNC Bank.
John Rosengren
At a glance: In the spring of 1946, Americans were ready to heal. WWII was finally over, and hundreds of players, including stars like Ted Williams, Stan Musial, and Joe DiMaggio returned home to get back to baseball. Weintraub brings to life the on-field action, as well as the littleknown tales of ballplay¬ers at war.
The Book: “Hank Greenberg: The Hero of Heroes” At a glance: Delving into the life and career of America’s first Jewish superstar, Hank Greenberg, Rosengren brings us a definitive portrait of a man who overcame the prejudices of a world in turmoil to achieve baseball immortality and become a hero to a generation of Jewish-Americans. As an outsider who rose to the top of the nation’s quintessential game, no one represents the American experience quite like Greenberg.
“Fathers and sons, grandfathers and grandsons – this is the perfect opportunity to come and learn about the role of Jews in America’s favorite pastime: baseball,” said Book Festival Co-Chair Marcy Bass . Wendy Bearman, the other festival co-chair added: “Whether you are a former baseball player, a budding baseball player, or a baseball spectator, this is the perfect opportunity to gain some knowledge, while enjoying peanuts at the ‘old ball game.’”
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Larry Ruttman The Book: “American Jews and America’s Game: Voices of a Growing Legacy in Baseball”
Robert Weintraub The Book: “The Victory Season: World War II, the Homecoming, and the Birth of Baseball’s Golden Age”
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Q&A With Author & Medium Rebecca Rosen ON CONTACTING THE OTHER SIDE, FAITH AND COMING TO ATLANTA
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uthor of the new book, “Awaken the Spirit Within: 10 Steps to Ignite Your Life and Fulfill Your Divine Purpose,” Rebecca Rosen sat down with the Atlanta Jewish Times to discuss how her unique calling as a spiritual medium, as well as the message of reawakening in her latest work. Atlanta Jewish Times: Can you tell me a little bit more about your work? Rebecca Rosen: I work as a spiritual medium, which means that I connect people with spirits from the other side and bring through messages to them. I give them validation, evidence, but the work really speaks for itself. I’m here to build a connection. AJT: When did you first discover you had this kind of power? RR: I was 20, a sophomore in college. I suffered from depression, which manifested through sleep eating. I prayed and prayed that I would find a way to heal, and finally my prayers were answered. I was in a book store and my grandmother spoke to me. She had killed herself and wanted to help me, since she couldn’t while alive, in order to redeem her bad karma. I was really skeptical at first, but she told me these things and my dad confirmed it. I connected to her through journaling. She would tell me predictive information about two years from then, and I had to believe.
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AJT: : Can you tell me a little bit more about the book that you’re presenting at the Atlanta Jewish Book Festival this year? What inspired you to write it?
AJT: How does what you do relate to your Judaism? RR: Rabbi Isaac Luria, a 16th century Rabbi coined the phrase tikkun olam, healing the world. You’re here to heal your soul from the inside-out, brighten that spark of light insight you. Then you have to bring that forward and serve others, which is what I try to do. AJT: Leviticus has a verse that seems to forbid witchcraft or sorcery of the like. Are you familiar with it? How do you understand it? RR: My brother, who’s a Rabbi, wrote a whole article about it, actually. He said that there seems to be historical evidence that Medieval Jewry did consult with mediums. I have interviewed a group of rabbis, who all agreed that some people divest this ability, and it’s okay to channel for healing purposes. There are always going to be people who disagree, but I think it all comes down to intention. I use mine for good. AJT: Was there any hint of this ability you remember from your childhood?
RR: Journaling is writing out feelings, whereas automatic writing is really channeling something deeper. I started with journaling which eventually evolved into automatic writing.
RR: When I was a kid I had imaginary friends, I would talk to them when I played. My mom thought I was crazy. Since it wasn’t nurtured, I had to shut it down. Most kids have this natural connection until they do outgrow it or are forced to shut it down, for social pressures.
AJT: Do you identify as Jewish? What does being Jewish mean to you?
AJT: Do you think this talent is hidden inside every child?
AJT: What exactly is journaling?
RR: Yes, I came last year for the book festival. I remember it was a very warm Jewish community. In someplace, audiences aren’t so receptive, but Atlanta was so open. There was a line going out the door for my book signing—it was really humbling.
RR: Well, I was raised conservative, and I do identify as Jewish. Jewish values really resonate with me. I’m more spiritual than religious, and the message I’m always getting from the other side is that all paths lead to God. Whatever path speaks to you and brings you closer to God is good.
RR: The book really wrote itself. I actually presented a different proposal to Random House publishers, the original was a relationship book, but they wanted something different. We’re all sleepwalking through life trying to keep up with the constant demands. But everyone here is really souls.
RR: We all are born with the sixth sense, to use our intuition. We make good choices following our heart, not our head. I think it’s a muscle that can be developed. I like to use the example of singing. We all sing, but we don’t all have beautiful singing voices. Now, we can train, take lessons, or practice, but that doesn’t mean we will have good singing voices—some people have a natural gift. AJT: Can you tell me more about your clientele? Do they believe you at first? RR: In the beginning I was very skeptical. It was the people coming that were open. I was 23 when I started my business; I couldn’t get a job in advertising, so I came to this gift. The information I would bring through was mind-blowing. It took time to shift even myself from skepticism to believing. I always say it’s healthy to be skeptical—the work will prove itself. AJT: You’re coming to Atlanta soon, yes? Have you been here before? What did you like about Atlanta?
What’s our soul’s purpose? You must remember who you are and why you are. And when I finished it the book—it woke me up. I needed to clean myself up before I served people. There was some stuff in my life that wasn’t working. I got a divorce, which was painful, but our paths were diverging. Sometimes the work to wake up is hard but to honor your truth you have to follow your own guidance. I had to walk that walk so that I can help others now. Editor’s note: Readers can see Rebecca Rosen in person at the MJCCA Book Festival on Nov. 3 at 7: 30 p.m. Register online, www.atlantajcc.org/ pldb-live/20450/
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arts & life
‘Not So Happily Ever After’
ATLANTA FIXTURE PERFECT PLACE TO REST, RELAX – AND READ BY DANA SPECTOR
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hey say it takes a village to raise a child. It also takes a community to heal, starting from the inside – out.
The Jewish community has proven its resilience against violent oppression through the eons, yet some still contentions remain within the community. That’s why 18 Sisterhoods, Brandeis, Hadassah, Jewish Community Relations Council, National Council of Jewish Women, ORT, Women’s International Zionist Organization as well as the Federation and JF&CS have gotten together to combat an oppression which is blind to age, race, gender, or creed: domestic violence. Domestic violence is a common crime that often hides in plain sight; sheathed behind makeup, disguised by excuses, covered up in silence. Jewish families are chockfull of variety. We can do and be anything we choose. If you put two Jews in a room, you’ll often find three very different opinions. We look to rabbis and teachers for inspiration, and guidance, but we determine our own actions.
tors. Everyone involved with the play has a personal connection to domestic abuse. Mira Hirsch
There will also be a discussion with Rabbi Analia Bortz, Shoshana Ben-Yoar and Wendy Lipshutz immediately following the play. Come take the next step in healing our community, and see “Not So Happily Ever After.”
Jennifer Friedman
Editor’s note: “Not So Happily Ever After” will show on Tues., Nov. 12 at Greenfield Hebrew Academy’s Performing Arts Center. Registration and Refreshments start at 6:30 p.m. and the program itself at 7:30 p.m. Tickets are $25 in advance or $36 at the door. For more information, visit www.JewishAtlanta.org/ShalomEvent or contact Stephanie Wyatt at swyatt@jfga.org or (404) 870-1625.
Wendy Lipshutz, LCSW
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Movie Review: ‘Gravity’ (Now in Theaters) THE VALUE OF LETTING GO BY Adina Karpuj
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n Warner Brother’s most recent film, “Gravity,” Sandra Bullock stars as a medical engineer on her first mission to space. Though her character, Ryan Stone, has a largely flat background, her development throughout the story proves to be dynamic as she faces myriad difficulties. While the majority of the movie is a one-woman-act, the film touches on the notion of companionship, and questions the thin, fragile line between caring for others and sacrificing one’s own wellbeing. After their ship is destroyed by a dangerous wave of shrapnel, Stone is faced with a grave decision: will she hold on to her fellow astronaut and risk both of their lives, or will she release him to save her own?
Similarly, the Talmud (Baba Metzia 62a) poses us with a controversial scenario: Two people are walking in the desert and only have sufficient water for one to reach civilization. Which of the two people merits survival, or do both share the water and die? While on one hand we are taught to never shed the blood of our fellow neighbor, we must also consider our own health and survival. These conflicting values fazed our sages and led to a difference in opinions. Ben Petura reasoned that watching your fellow human die is far worse than both of you dying, and thus resolved that the water should be shared. This ethical pillar appears in other parts of our tradition, and Talmud Sanhedrin 74a states: “Who says your blood is redder? Maybe your
friend’s blood is redder?” As humans, we have no authority to decide who is worthy of life and who is not. On the other hand, Rabbi Akiva taught that the owner of the water source should be the one to drink all of it, consequentially allowing their fellow to die. Akiva cited Leviticus 25:36 to support his argument: “That your brother may live with you.” Because the Torah specifically reads “live with you” rather than “live for you” or “instead of you,” Akiva reasons that if both the companions cannot live, then the owner must go on by himself, regardless of how painful losing his peer may be.
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As Stone faces her difficult decision, she is advised by her companion and fellow astronaut, Matt Kowalski (George Clooney), who encourages her to release him so that she may live on.
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While Kowalski only refers to her physical survival in this particular instant, there is an underlying tone of emotional and spiritual survival, too. Though it is often difficult to let go of the things in our lives that we feel bound to, being able to release familiar habits and embrace new perspectives enables us to grow as people and further develop our narratives. Rather than focusing on our past, like Lot’s wife in the Biblical story of Sodom and Gomorrah, we must trust in our own personal drive and intuition. Like Stone, we must release
past experiences that inhibit us from moving forward, and look toward the future. “Gravity”’s plot and motifs are both entertaining and thought provoking, and its incredible cinematography definitely merits the more expensive 3D ticket. Plus, Sandra Bullock’s acting is out of this world, literally. Enjoy! Adina Karpuj is a seventeen-year-old senior at The Weber School in Atlanta, Georgia. Originally from Chile, Adina moved to Atlanta with her family when she was four and has lived here ever since. She enjoys dancing, writing, running, and photography, and is passionate about social action, travel, and political advocacy. After graduating, Adina plans on spending a year in Israel, and hopes to study international relations and journalism in college.
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Warm Romance for Cool Days of Fall AWARD-WINNING ‘TALLEY’S FOLLY’ FEATURED AT CUMMING PLAYHOUSE BY DANA SPECTOR
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alley’s Folly”, the award-winning romantic comedy by Lanfod Wilson, is the current offering at the Cumming Playhouse through Nov. 3.
“Folly” won the Pulitzer Prize in 1979, and in 1990 the show won the New York Critics Award for Best Play of the 1980s. The play, starring Joel Altherr as Matt Friedman and Hailey Fowler as Sally Talley, is produced by the Company Players and directed by Gabriel Russo. “Talley’s Folly” tells the story of one night in the lives of two unlikely sweethearts, Matt and Sally, as they struggle to fall in love in 90 minutes, the length of the play. Matt, a Jewish accountant of 40, takes the lead in this moonlight sonata, set in a dilapidated boathouse on the grounds of the grand family home where a much younger Sally lives, somewhat unhappily. While on vacation in Lebanon, Mo. during the summer of 1943, Matt met Sally and saw her every day for a week. He has since sent her a letter nearly every day, and though the single reply from Sally gave him no hope for romantic encouragement, he has bravely returned one year later to ask her to marry him. Matt’s arrival creates quite a stir in Sally’s conservative Protestant household, where a Jewish man is not warmly welcomed, especially when his intentions are to court their daughter. Though he stays firm to his convictions, Matt has to be back in St. Louis in the morning, so things must be settled on this night. Little by little they crack their hard shells, like eggs (as Matt puts it) and reveal themselves. Each believes that there are ‘secrets’ to be uncovered before the night is through. The question is, as always, will love win out?
The Cumming Playhouse is inside the old Public School House. Warm, cozy, and full of theatre memories; the School houses the theatre, a small restaurant and museum. Better than driving downtown and having to deal with all the parking hassles, the Cumming Playhouse has events for everyone. Editor’s note: “Talley’s Folly”, Cumming Playhouse, through Nov. 3; 8 p.m. Thursday through Saturday; 3 p.m. Sunday; Tickets, $20; $15 for seniors, veterans, minors, and groups of over 25.
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Fall Fashion Preview Event from NCJW AWARD-WINNING RETAILER OFFERING ATLANTAS FIRST DIBS FOR CHARITY SPECIAL FOR THE ATJ
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all Bargainata is coming. For 45 years, Bargainata has been serving the community with affordable designer clothing, as recognized by awards including Best of Atlanta and Creative Loafing. At a special Preview Night beginning Nov. 6, shoppers pay a special fee of $25 in advance or $35 at the door. Proceeds from this sale help to fund programs which benefit Atlanta’s women, children and families. National Council of Jewish Women (NCJW) is a founding member of the Genesis Shelter, operates the Atlanta Jewish Coalition for Literacy, mentoring children who need help in reading in seven metro-Atlanta Schools and supports the Agape Community Center, The Hope House, the homeless and Lake Forest Elementary School.
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The Atlanta Section of the National Council of Jewish Women’s Fall Bargainata Sale starts with a Preview Night on Wed., Nov. 6, at 7 p.m.-10 p.m.; continues on Thurs., Nov. 7 at 11 a.m.-7:30 p.m. and Sun., Nov. 10 at 11 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. Call (404) 843-9600 or visit www.ncjwatlanta.org. Bargainata is located in the Hilderbrand Court Shopping Center 6125 Roswell Rd. Atlanta, 30328
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Messinger Honored with ‘Lifetime Achievement Award’ RECOGNIZED FOR DECADES OF WORK HELPING PEOPLE AROUND THE WORLD
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he Jewish Community Relations Council of Atlanta (JCRCA) honored Ruth Messinger, President of American Jewish World Services, with a Lifetime Achievement Award as part of its annual meeting in October at Temple Sinai.
a powerful personal message about what AJWS’s work has meant to her and to the world. Messinger’s eloquent remarks addressed “Building a Community of Conscience: Thinking Globally, Acting Locally”.
Messinger was recognized for her decades of work with marginalized people across the globe, helping to empower those in developing countries to live productive, self-sufficient lives.
She answered questions from the audience focusing on the role of social justice in our society and what it meant to be a Jewish agency for social change in parts of the world where there are few Jews.
Like the JCRCA, American Jewish World Services is a dynamic organization whose mission is rooted in Jewish values and is dedicated to helping individuals realize basic human rights and overcome poverty.
Messinger concluded with a story about a young student on an AJWS program where he had spent a summer working in a small remote African village.
The event was opened by JCRCA President, Elizabeth Appley, who welcomed the large assembly.
In his final week there, a man approached the student and said that he had decided he wanted to be Jewish although he had never met a Jewish person before. The student asked why and the man replied that it was “because being Jewish meant helping other people”.
“It is absolutely appropriate that as we meet to elect our new officers and Board,” she said, “we combine that with a tribute to one of our great American Jewish icons of social justice.” She thanked the co-sponsoring organizations and synagogues from across the metro area, including Temple Sinai, the National Council of Jewish Women, Hadassah, American Jewish Committee and the 14 other synagogues who joined in sponsoring the event. “The Jewish Community Relations Council of Atlanta’s mission is to convene a common table for all of these organizations and others across Atlanta,” Appley said, “to discuss and debate the great social issues of our day, to strive for consensus, and to raise that discussion to the next level by advocating directly with our elected officials for laws and policies that support social justice and equality.” Rabbi Elana Perry offered greetings from Temple Sinai, and offered a meaningful D’var Torah about the week’s portion, emphasizing the important symbolism of Rebecca at the well as a strong actor and doer. Melanie Nelkin, JCRCA vice president, chair of the Georgia Coalition to Prevent Genocide and national activist on genocide prevention and Darfur, introduced Messinger with
Lois Frank, JCRCA Board member, past JCRC Chair and past JCPA Chair, presented a beautiful shofar and engraved plaque to Messinger on behalf of the JCRCA, signifying her role in calling us all to action in order to end poverty, discrimination and oppression around the world. The evening highlighted the many activities the JCRCA is engaged in to convene a common table for Jewish organizations in the region, including bringing together the Holocaust Community Coordinating Council, chaired by Sara Ghitis, together with Hemshech and the Weinberg Center for Holocaust Education of the William Bremen Jewish Heritage Museum. The Council met in August representing more than 40 groups involved in Holocaust commemoration events in Atlanta. The JCRCA gathered the information to create a common calendar of events throughout the year that commemorate the Holocaust (available online at the JCRCA website). Appley announced the convening of the first community meeting of all the synagogue social justice and tik-
kun olam chairs on Nov. 20 at 7 p.m., bringing them together “to share what they are doing, to see how we can create a bigger impact together, and to help weave advocacy into their social action efforts.”
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Plans are also underway to reconvene the Israel Professionals Council
The conference will invite prominent national leaders, experts and dignitaries to speak to the Plenum on Israel and Iran, poverty, anti-Semitism, civility, the environment, genocide, discrimination, and more.
The JCPA is the national umbrella organization for 126 local Community Relations Councils across the country and 14 national Jewish organizations.
Editor’s note: For more information about the Jewish Community Relations Council, contact Ritchie Crownfield, JCRCA Administrator at info@jcrcatlanta.org; visit online at jcrcatlanta.wordpress. com or call (678) 222-3740. Board, slate of officers elected at annual meeting comprised of all Israel professional staff from across the region, in order to update connections, share information and work together to promote Israel’s best interests through communication, cooperation, and collaboration. Announcements will be forthcoming as to the dates for planned advocacy programming for the upcoming session of the Georgia General Assembly that will carry out the CRC’s continuing commitment to protect vulnerable populations, fight discrimination and oppression and support equality, educate the community about how to engage in social justice efforts, and provide strong support for the security and continuity of the State of Israel. These programs will encompass advocacy training and materials for grassroots activists, an opportunity for Jewish organizations to share their legislative policy priorities, and a panel of legislators and elected officials engaging with the community on the issues of greatest concern to the Jewish community. Larry Gold, JCRCA Board member, twice former CRC Chair, and current Chair of the Jewish Council for Public Affairs closed the meeting by urging people to plan to attend the JCPA’s national Plenum Conference to be held in Atlanta March 8-11,
Here’ a complete list of JCRCA board members and slate of officers for the coming year. Elizabeth Appley, president; Neal Dodell, Howard Friedman, Janice Ellin and Melanie Nelkin, vice presidents; Harvey Rickles, treasurer; Leah Harrison, secretary; Harold Kirtz, immediate past president. Board Members include Claire D’Agostino, Jon Barash, Steve Chervin, Sara Duke, Lois Frank, Larry Gold, Kim Goodfriend, Darryl Konter, Rita Loventhal, Rabbi Ellen Nemhauser, and David Raphael. Institutional board members include Sara Ghitis, Holocaust Community Coordinating Council; Russell Gottschaulk, American Jewish Committee; Marsha Kummins, Hadassah; Amy Rosen, JF&CS; Shira Rothman, Hillels of Georgia; Dean Robert Schapiro, The Temple; Marc Schwartz, Temple Sinai; Rob Thaler, ADL; and Jeff Willard, Tzedek Georgia. Thanks were extended to outgoing Board members who had completed their terms of office: Jeremy Berry, Martha Berlin, Isaac Rothbart, Rabbi Scott Saulson, Jane Schiff, Daniel Schorr, and Tobyanne Sidman.
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education
WellStar® stepUP Race to Embrace Tolerance Hits the Streets of Alpharetta RACE TO FUND THE EDUCATION OF GEORGIA’S YOUTH ON TOLERANCE, HISTORY SPECIAL FOR THE AJT
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id you know 160,000 students stay home from school every day, for fear of being bullied? On November 3, you can step up to make a difference. Join the Embracing Tolerance Program and WellStar® Health System for the WellStar stepUP 5K Race to Embrace Tolerance. Their stories are becoming all too common – young people taking their own lives or the lives of others because of the pain they feel from being bullied. Embracing Tolerance is a 501(c) (3) non-profit that promotes awareness of social intolerances to middle school and high school students throughout the Atlanta metro area. Their programs give pre-teens and teens the knowledge, empathy and responsiveness needed to combat bullying, racism and prejudice.
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“By using lessons learned by studying the history of the Holocaust (and genocides in Bosnia, Rwanda, and Darfur), students have the opportunity to create bridges between these historical examples and current events playing out within their own lives and in schools today,” states Steve Sutton, Embracing Tolerance’s Executive Director.
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The program also explores the roles played by heroes and bystanders during the history of genocides, as well as on school playgrounds across the country. Embracing Tolerance’s goal is to create more educated and tolerant citizens in Georgia’s youth by teaching them to accept the racial, social, and religious differences that exist among their peers. With public school system funding decreasing for extracurricular programs, advocates Steven Schaffer and Steve Sutton decided a road race would be a fun way to raise money to help put more students through the
program. WellStar® Health System is supporting the stepUP Race to Embrace Tolerance. “As long-standing member of the community, we believe that life welllived applies to all aspects of health. Not just physical. We are proud to be a part of this event,” states Katie Lopez of WellStar Health System. When Schaffer came up with the idea of planning a road race to help this charity, he had modest expectations at best. “I thought we would have success with 100 runners and a couple of sponsors. I am overwhelmed and thrilled at the number of runners and sponsors who have stepped up to participate. Having the community stand behind this type of education program is really special.” The race currently has 200 registered runners and notable race sponsors, including The Southeast Permanente Medical Group, Morgan Stanley the Frank Group, ADP, Raymond James the Fred Ross Team, Chrystal Springs and United Healthcare. This year’s goal is to raise enough money to provide transportation to and from the Congregation Gesher L’Torah in Alpharetta, where the Embracing Tolerance Education Program takes place. It’s a different kind of field trip that teaches a student now is the time to take action, step up and make a difference.
Editor’s note: The race will take place Sun., Nov. 3, with an 8 a.m. start for the 1 mile fun run and 8:30 a.m. for the 5k run at the North Point Village shopping center. To learn more and download a registration form, visit embracingtolerance.com.
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Standing Up for Their Beliefs
Helping Hands at Fall Festival
REMARKABLE WOMEN ZIONISTS FOCUS OF STORIES AT HADASSAH GATHERING
HADASSAH, VENDORS WORK TOGETHR TO RAISE FUNDS FOR HOSPITALS IN ISRAEL
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abriella Licsko, a lecturer and historian from Israel, recently spoke to Greater Atlanta Hadassah members on female Zionists.
She focused her remarks on women who helped shape the history of the Jewish state. They came from different countries and backgrounds, but all were willing to make extreme sacrifices for the causes they believed were important. Donna Gracia Mendez, who lived in the early 16th century, was one such pioneer. She was a wealthy widow in a time when it was dangerous to practice Judaism. In order to survive, she became a converso, a person who would convert to Catholicism but secretly practiced Judaism. Mendez would eventually use her money and influence to rescue fellow conversos. In 1558, she was granted a long-term lease on the Tiberias region of Israel from Sultan Suleiman, ruler of the Ottoman Empire. Her aim was to provide a safe haven for Jews to live in the area. Mendez also discussed Emma Lazarus of New York, who is most famous for her poem, “The New Colossus,” inscribed on the Statue of Liberty in New York.
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he Mt. Scopus Group of Greater Atlanta Hadassah was part of the 3rd Annual Fall Festival on Ponce in late October. Festival organizers pulled together a group of vendors who donated 10 percent of their sales to Hadassah. The international Jewish woman’s organization supports two state-of-the-art hospitals in Jerusalem. For more information about Hadassah and upcoming events, contact Susan Berkowitz at (404) 622-9601 or Marilyn Perling at (404) 294-1613, or by email at mtscopushadassah@aol.com
Lazarus’ “Songs of a Semite” (1882) and her play “The Dance to Death,” were inspired by the growth of virulent anti-Semitism in Russia and Germany in the early 1880s. World War II activists, Hannah Senesh and Vitka Kovner, were noted for their heroism. Senesh, a poet and playwright, left her native Hungary for Israel in 1939 and settled in Kibbutz Sdot Yam. During the war she served as a paratrooper with British forces. She was eventually captured by the Nazis and executive when she was only 23. Her poems and plays live on as testament to her faith in the beauty of life, notably “Eli, Eli,” put to music by David Zahavi. Kovner, born in Kalisz, in western Poland, joined a resistance movement in Lithuania. The group destroyed Nazi trains and eventually became part of a greater organization known as “The Avengers.” After the war, Kovner settled in Kibbutz Ein HaHoresh, where she lived until her death at age 92.
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Mendez also mentioned Golda Meir, the former Prime Minister of Israel, and Henrietta Szold, who founded Hadassah, the Women’s Zionist Organization of America, in 1912.
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arts & life
From Hollywood to Holy Hood CHABAD HOSTS EVENT WITH SCREENWRITER DAVID WEISS BY JEFF ZELL
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his is a story of boy meets Judaism, boy loses Judaism and then boy gets Judaism. It is also the story of Hollywood screenwriter David Weiss, who has written such hits as “Shrek 2,” “The Smurfs,” “All Dogs Go to Heaven,” and the “Rugrats Hanukkah” special. Last week, Weiss was in Atlanta to speak about his spiritual ride at an event hosted by Chabad of North Fulton entitled, “From Hollywood to Holy Hood.” Born and raised as a reform Jew in Ventura, California, Weiss left Judaism to become an Evangelical Christian youth worker at the age of 18, only to return to Judaism and become Modern Orthodox and Shomar Shabas later in life.
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tened to a lecture Weiss gave in South Africa while driving his family of 10 from Atlanta to New York City and decided he would be the perfect guest speaker to begin an annual Fall Event. “I listen to various lectures while the kids watch movies on this long drive and found David Weiss,” Minkowicz recalled. “My goal is for people to have a meaningful Jewish experience and with David they can have one that is both funny and inspirational.” About 50 people attended the Gallery Events Center in Johns Creek to hear Weiss speak about his journey. “I was a very scared and confused kid,” Weiss opines about his youth in a part of California where few Jews settle. “I never really understood Judaism and became an Evangelical Christian for 15 years. I converted at 18 having had Jewish experiences but mostly in a social and cultural
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Weiss’s road to Hollywood was a bit more direct than his path to Judaism. After wowing people with his writing of a short movie at USC Film School, many Hollywood agents vied to sign him as a client. “I decided to sign with the prettiest agent I could find,” he mused. “She also happened to be the dumbest.” He eventually got his big break when he was hired to help write “All Dogs Go to Heaven” in Ireland. It was in this Irish Catholic country that he met an Orthodox Jewish person on the set who started to introduce him to some Jewish concepts. As they talked and argued, Weiss began to realize he had an amazing connection to many Jewish beliefs and began to revisit his Jewish background. When he returned to California he met influential talk show host Michael Medved who invited him over for Shabbat dinners and eventually convinced him to attend shul more regularly. “I would go to shul on Saturday and church on Sunday and thought to myself, ‘When do I have time to go to Costco?’ The more I attended shul the more Judaism made sense to me and less stuff in the church made sense to me.” During this time his wife Eliana, who he had met in the Church, began going to synagogue as well and they both decided to convert to Judaism. The two became more and more immersed in the culture and eventually got to the point of observing Shabbat. “Hey when my wife first decided she wanted to have a Kosher kitchen in the house, I was not ready, but I did it because it was important to her. It’s kind of like the theme we put into Shrek 2, ‘love means what’s important to you is important to me.’ It is an act of love to decide to be interested in what your significant other is.
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way. People are interested in my story because I am a screenwriter. If it was a Falcons Cheerleader who had the same story people would be interested in her.”
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“Then when I was eating bacon and eggs at my favorite deli, I began to realize maybe I should not eat bacon out if I am in this wonder-
ful Kosher home. And then maybe I should not eat the eggs since they are cooked with this bacon and then I stopped eating at my favorite deli because it did not make sense to do so. And that really is my motto – take one step toward realizing your potential every day. Shema Echad, do one more thing each day and now I have a beautiful little Jewish family with two children.” Weiss then told the crowd that the way in which the world portrays Hollywood as controlled by Jews is very misleading. “There are a lot of people who were born Jewish in Hollywood, but they have gravitated away from observing. They are more secular Jews and do not observe many Jewish customs,” he revealed. Being an observant Jew can often be a hindrance to getting big breaks in the world of show business. In fact, when he got another big break by being hired as a script writer for the television show “Cybil,” he hid the fact that he did not work on Shabbat because that show did all their rewrites on Friday night and Saturday. When he eventually told the head writer that he could not write at these times, the man became angry. However, after offering to resign or promising to write 24/6 for the show, the head writer decided to keep him on. “It was there that there was this great kitchen on the lot created for Roseanne Bar and her show and this top of the line German chef who made the food for us, the cast of ‘Seinfeld,’ and the cast of ‘Third Rock from the Sun.’” Eventually, the chef realized that Weiss was the only person who would not eat his renowned chicken. He was initially resistant to cater to Weiss before deciding to prepare the food so that Weiss could also partake. And in that story you see the ironic plot twist in Weiss’s story come full circle – a German chef preparing a Kosher meal for an Orthodox Jew who came back to Judaism after meeting the first Orthodox Jew while shooting a move in Catholic Ireland. Sounds like a good script for a movie!
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EDUCATION
GHA Wolves Roar Again
SOCCER, VOLLEYBALL TEAMS WIN BIG AT CONFERENCE TOURNAMENT
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he Greenfield Hebrew Academy has been fielding great teams for the Metropolitan Atlanta Athletics Conference this year, and their efforts paid off; the GHA Wolves brought home some very impressive trophies recently. The boys’ soccer team, coached by GHA alumnus Gavi Abraham, brought home a first place trophy in the Division 2 championships. “We’re really proud of our soccer players, who had only two losses this season – and both were against Division 1 teams,” said Penny Eisenstein, GHA’s Head of Health and P.E. and Athletic Director. “Not only did we have a terrific team, but our support was incredible.” Eisenstein went on to praise Abraham and others. “Gavi was a wonderful coach, demanding and knowledgeable,” she said. “Our team parent, Rhena Spec-
tor, made sure that we never had to worry about anything. And our parents helped the team to shine by getting our players to either practices or games four days a week.”
The B team, also coached by Eisenstein, went undefeated (10-0) and took first place in the Division 2 championship.
The volleyball teams, meanwhile, had another record-setting year.
“Since 2001,” Eisenstein said, “our volleyball team has won 246 games, with only 45 losses.”
The A team, coached by Eisenstein – she’s also an alumnus – was undefeated until their very last game. They lost by only two points and took second place in the Division 2 championship (11-1).
GHA’s A team has had only two losses in three years, and both volleyball teams also enjoyed excellent support from team parents: Sheryl Jones for the A team and Judy Stolovitz for the B team.
“What’s most important is that our students grew as individuals as well as a team,” says Eisenstein. “Their work ethic, sportsmanship, teamwork, and skills grew tremendously over the course of the season.” Editor’s note: Devorah Chasen, Liana Slomka and other GHA students contributed to this report.
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FALL FESTIVAL A HUGE HIT AT TORAH DAY SCHOOL OF ATLANTA
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orah Day School of Atlanta held its Fall Festival late last month with over 300 people attending.
The day included hayrides around the facilities, a moon bounce, cooking demonstrations and tastings of healthful breakfast ideas for the family, a fun run and art booths – you could even get a flu shot. The middle school student-run canteen sold hot dogs, hot pretzels and popcorn. The Scholastic Book Fair with Clifford the Dog was also a big part of the festival. Pesha Izenberg, a relative newcomer to Atlanta and Torah Day School, came up with the idea for the fall fest. “Memphis has been hosting a Fall Festival for the past few years and it has always been a fantastic event,” said Izenberg, who lived in Memphis. “Since I moved to the At-
lanta community a year ago, I have been so impressed with Torah Day School and their phenomenal facility. I thought that creating a Fall Festival here would be a wonderful way to showcase our school to the broader community and provide people with a family and budget-friendly Sunday activity.” The festival was held in and around TDSA – in the school’s library, the gym, and on the 10-acres of fields that surround the facility. Charity was also part of the day. Girls in TDSA’s middle school sponsored a bake sale. All proceeds were donated to Ohel Sarah Institute for the Special Child, an organization in Israel that promotes rehabilitation, education and welfare for people with special needs. “We are so proud of their act of chesed, kindness, and positive teamwork,” said Chashy Alterman, TDSA’s 8th grade judaic studies teacher.
The students’ choice of what organization to donate funds to was inspired by Naomi May, a former TSDA assistant head of school, and mother of a special needs son. “We hope to build upon the Fall Festival for next year and to make certain this is a community event for everyone in Atlanta,” said Rabbi Joshua Einzig, TDSA’s head of school. “I know my wife Rena, and I, enjoyed the Fall Festival as much as our children. It was also very nice to see so many of our faculty members enjoy each other’s company and being with their students and their families. That warmth and inclusion is the hallmark of Torah Day School of Atlanta.”
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Body Shop Turned into Award-Winning Structure AMERICAN INSTITUE OF ARCHITECHTS IMPRESSED WITH OR HADASH SYNAGOGUE
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he Georgia Chapter of the American Institute of Architects Georgia presented Congregation Or Hadash (COH) with its 2013 Honor Award for the synagogue’s new building on Trowbridge Road in Sandy Springs.
he Society of American Military Engineers (SAME) Atlanta Post has awarded scholarships for the 2013 academic year to Betsy Berrson and Peyton Lingle, EIT.
The award is the most prestigious offered by the institute, reserved for overall excellence. It was one of only two given statewide in 2013. “The project was rooted in the acceptance of the existing structure as a compelling starting point,” said David Yocum, a professor of Architecture at Georgia Tech, “allowing for inventive re-use and unexpected indoor-outdoor connections.” Formerly a Chevrolet paint and auto body repair shop, the building is now a synagogue that includes a sanctuary, chapel, social hall, offices and classrooms. The site also featues courtyards and gardens for special functions and celebrations. “This honor is a result of the vision and talent of our architects, David Yocum and Brian Bell,” said Fred Wachter, COH President and Chair of the Building Committee. “We are thrilled that their unique approach of innovation and conservation is receiving the accolades it deserves.”
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LOCAL POST RECOGNIZES UP AND COMING ENGINEERS, BERSSON AND LINGLE SPECIAL FOR THE AJT
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Society of American Military Engineers Honors Scholarship Winners
azel Tov to Bat Mitzvah Marilyn-Rene Coughlin. The ceremony for Marilyn-Rene (Malka-Rivka) was held Aug. 2, 2013 at Chabad Enrichment Center. She is the daughter of Thomas and Chana Coughlin and the granddaughter of Jacob E. and Lucy S. Szczupak, as well as the late Marilyn and Greg Coughlin. Marilyn-Rene is also the great-granddaughter of Pola Spigielman, the late Rakhmil Strazynski, and Shlomo and Maria Szczupak.
The scholarships, in the amount of $5,000 each, were granted by the SAME Atlanta Post in honor of Sy Liebmann and Al Rowe, two long-term Post members. The Sy Liebmann and Al Rowe Post Scholarship Program awards one scholarship to a graduating high school senior and one scholarship to a current college student or post-graduate student. Due to Al Rowe’s Lou Gehrgi’s Disease, wife Donna Rowe presented the Al Rowe and Sy Liebmann 2013 Atlanta Post Scholarship on his behalf. Bersson is the daughter of Atlanta Post Member Bill Bersson, and is a 2013 graduate of Roswell High School. Bersson has been accepted into the Honors College at the University of Alabama, where she plans to major in Civil Engineering and minor in Environment and Water Resources Engineering. She aspires to work in clean energy and follow in the footsteps of her father and uncles to become a member of SAME. Peyton Lingle, EIT (Engineer-in-Training) is a current member of the SAME Atlanta Post’s Student Chapter. Upon graduating high school, Lingle became an Infantry Officer in the Army, and was later commissioned as a 2nd Lieutenant after graduating from North Georgia College in 1989. He spent five years on active duty, including his service in the 1990 Gulf War. Lingle continued to serve for another five years and eventually advanced to the rank of Captain. After working for a non-profit organization repairing over 550 homes of low-income homeowners in the city of Atlanta, he decided to obtain his BSCE and EIT Certification. In 2013, Lingle graduated from Southern Polytechnic State University and was awarded the Civil & Construction Engineering Department’s Outstanding Leadership Award. He will begin his MSCE graduate program at Georgia Tech this fall. Post scholarships are awarded annually to encourage and assist qualified students who wish to pursue a college education in engineering, architecture, science, math, and related degrees so that they, in turn, might further the goals and exemplify the ideals of SAME. Editor’s note: for more information about scholarships, please contact Beth Harris at bethharris82@yahoo.com or Heather Hawkins at hhawkins@wenck. com.
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Kicking Her Way to the Top MAYA COHEN A WORLD AND NATIONAL CHAMP IN TAEKWONDO
‘Random Acts of Kindness’ RABBI ESTREICHER OF YESHIVA ATLANTA FEATURED FOR 11ALIVE SPECIAL
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Think back to when you were 7 and, perhaps, you won a spelling test and a golden sticker; or maybe you got a little trophy for being the best swimmer on your neighborhood swim team. While admirable, these accomplishments pale when compared with what Maya Cohen of Milton, Ga. has managed to accomplish. Maya, just 7, has won two world titles and four national titles in martial arts and is currently ranked as the best in the country in six of eight categories! Last year she was the state and district (best of seven states) champion in three categories – Creative Forms, Creative Weapons, and Xtreme Forms – in American Taekwondo for her age group. She also placed second in traditional weapons, third in traditional forms, and fifth in sparring. Her trainers, Showtime Martial Arts’ Nate Andrade and Jimmy Bell of ATA Karate Atlanta Milton School are proud of their young student’s accomplishments. The ATA Karate Atlanta program strives to instill respect, selfcontrol, confidence, focus, physical fitness, perseverance and goal setting, all part of its self-defense lessons. Recently Maya, who along with her parents, is a member of Temple Beth Tikvah, was accepted into Maxwell Van Eck’s XMA team training; Van Eck is an ATA world champion. Maya is the youngest and second lowest belt child, one of three girls accepted out of a total of 18 kids in the special class. Determined and perseverant, Maya has already tried out for the XMA Demo Team, and will test for her first degree Black Belt in the spring.
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lenda and Trevor Edelson announce the engagement of their daughter, Toni Edelson, to Elan Mishael, son of Avie and Ahoova Mishael. The couple met at Walton High School and both graduated from the University of Georgia. The future groom is a Business Valuation Senior Associate at Duff & Phelps and the future bride is a Marketing Coordinator at Turner Broadcasting. A September 2014 wedding is planned.
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t may be an overused phrase, “random acts of kindness,” yet when these instances do occur, they can be both powerful and transformative. This is certainly the case at Yeshiva Atlanta, specifically in regards to Rabbi Daniel Estreicher.
Rabbi Estreicher, or Rabbi E as he is known to virtually everyone who is or has ever been at Yeshiva during the past 35 years, is a much beloved teacher, one who teaches with great passion and with little desire for attention or reward. This changed recently, but not in a manner seen often at YA. A local television station, 11Alive, airs a special segment each weekday morning called “Random Acts of Kindness” in which the station recognizes and honors individuals brought to its attention because of the kindnesses they have showed others. The station decided that Rabbi E was deserving of recognition after reading a letter written by YA students. The day of – the entire school was brought to the media center ostensibly to hear a special talk by Rabbi Asher Yablok, the school’s Dean of Judaics, on recent events in Israel.
Rabbi Daniel Estreicher with 11Alive’s Karyn Greer
Suddenly, a side door to the media center opened, and in walked 11Alive reporter Karyn Greer and a camera man. They began to lead the student body in cheers of “Rabbi E, Rabbi E!” With some of his children and grandchildren at his side, Rabbi E was asked to say a few words. For one of the few times during his 35 years at YA, Rabbi E was speechless, overwhelmed by the affection showered upon him by the students. Dr. Paul Oberman, Yeshiva’s head of school, was less reserved in his comments. “Truly the assembly was like a dream. I think it spoke as highly of our kids as anything we have done or will do. Watching them get so excited on Rabbi E’s behalf, chant his name, and speak so eloquently of their love for him brought tears to my eyes.” Editor’s note: To view the video capturing this event, visit “Yeshiva Atlanta” channel on Youtube and for the segment entitled, “Rabbi E - Winner of Random Acts of Kindness”
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Four Questions with Honest Tea’s CEO IMPACT OF JUDAISM ON SETH GOLDMAN AND HOW HE RUNS HIS COMPANY BY DAVID COHEN
Tea came to be, is a departure from traditional business books in that it is a comic. How does this reflect on Honest Tea’s culture as a whole?
juice which you use to make Honest Kids. It’s easy to see how organic, white grape juice fits into your company values, but why does it have to be kosher?
David Cohen: Just as the beverage shelf did not need another sweet beverage, the business book shelf did not need another business-as-usual-business book. So we chose to tell our story in comic book form – it’s still a substantive book. My co-author is a Yale economics professor, but it is accessible to a much wider audience.
AJT: Besides Honest Tea products being kosher, what other Jewish influences have made their way into your products?
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n 1998, Seth Goldman co-founded Honest Tea with Barry Nalebuff. It started as a company that had a goal of producing a lowcalorie, semi-sweet beverage aimed at “more sophisticated, grown-up tastes.” Although the early years were tough, eventually the brand experienced great success and was bought by Coca-Cola in 2011. The story of Honest Tea is chronicled in a recently released graphic novel, “Mission in a Bottle: The Honest Guide to Doing Business Differently – and Succeeding.” Goldman was at Emory recently to speak about his book, the company he helped to create and how he strives to inspire change in the world one bottle at a time. After he spoke, the Jewish Times had a chance to sit down and ask him a few questions.
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DC: One of my favorite phrases from the Torah is “Justice, justice shall you pursue…” I take the message to mean that it’s not enough to pursue justice, but how you pursue justice is equally important.
profits to charity, but the business was focused on selling an unhealthy or environmentally extractive product, then we would only be performing half of our responsibility. At Honest Tea, we strive to make all of our interactions – with our consumers, with our suppliers, with the environment – consistent with our values. I use the word “strive” because, as the Pirkei Avot quote goes, “It is not your responsibility to finish the work but neither are you free to desist from it.” We should never fully achieve our aspirations – if we do, then we should have aimed higher.
So, if we had a business that gave away our
AJT: If you could give just three words of advice to an aspiring entrepreneur today what would they be? DC: Buy our book!
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ichael R. Bloomberg, businessman, politician, philanthropist, and current Mayor of New York, is the first recipient of the “Jewish Nobel Prize,” the Genesis Philanthropy Group award. This May, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu will present him with the one million dollar prize, created to recognize “exceptional human beings who, through their outstanding achievement, come to represent a fundamental value of the Jewish people—a commitment to the betterment of mankind.” Bloomberg said that he plans to donate the money to a charity fund. Mayor Bloomberg, through Bloomberg Philanthropies, works to advance five areas he sees as important to our culture: the arts, education, the environment, government innovation and public health. He has been the mayor of New York since 2002, and in that time, has boasted a great many achievements towards bettering the state. He was born and raised in a Jewish household, and his ex-wife and mother of his two children is Jewish. Mayor Bloomberg has been known to speak in favor of Israel and is seen as a Jewish role model in politics and business.
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A Little Money for Big Ideas MICRO-GRANTS OFFERED FOR CREATIVE IDEAS SUPPORTING THE JEWISH COMMUNITY SPECIAL FOR THE AJT
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he Charles and Lynn Schusterman Philanthropic Network (SPN) has launched #MakeItHappen, a new micro-grants initiative that invites individuals to submit ideas for creating Jewish experiences in their communities. Between October and December 2013, SPN will select up to 50 ideas from around the world to receive micro grants of up to $1,000. Five ideas could receive up to $5,000. #MakeItHappen is an opportunity for young Jews to seed, grow and act on new ideas —from hackathons to meet-ups, Shabbat dinners to service projects — that showcase the talent and creativity taking root in Jewish communities all over the world. The submission deadline is Dec. 6. Ideas will be selected on a rolling basis. “#MakeItHappen is designed to empower young people to take that initial or next step on a leadership journey,” said Lynn Schusterman, Chair of the Schusterman Philanthropic Network. “For many young Jews, these small grants embody a
‘first yes’ and a realization that the Jewish community values and is willing to invest in what they have to contribute to ensuring a vibrant Jewish future.” Among the first to submit an idea during the campaign’s initial launch was entrepreneur Adam Braun, who founded Pencils of Promise, his award-winning nonprofit organization, with just $25. “#MakeItHappen is a great concept,” said Braun. “Much like Pencils of Promise, it is built on a core belief that ordinary people can accomplish extraordinary things when given the opportunity. I’ve personally witnessed the power of small investments to create catalytic change, and the #MakeItHappen model has enormous potential to help people benefit their own communities and beyond.” Micro grants and other smalldollar investment models have taken root in recent years as a way to empower people to explore new experiences, gain valuable skills and even launch small businesses. SPN has successfully piloted micro grants through its ROI Commu-
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nity and REALITY program, as well as in select communities like Cape Town, South Africa, and St. Petersburg, Russia. These micro grants complement SPN’s larger-scale models of investment in programs and organizations and provide an additional way to invest directly in building the leadership capacities of young Jews. #MakeItHappen marks the first time SPN has created a pool of micro grants that is open to the general public, inviting anyone 18 years of age and up to submit ideas. The online application process can be completed in 10 minutes. Eligible ideas will be posted on the #MakeItHappen website where viewers can search by topic and location, “Like” their favorites and even contact the creators directly to volunteer to help make their favorite ideas happen. Terms and restrictions apply. “#MakeItHappen is exactly the type of opportunity that animates the Moishe House network,” said David Cygielman, CEO of Moishe House, which has 57 houses in 14 countries that engage more than 65,000 attendees annually. “It speaks to the entrepreneurial and do-it-yourself nature of the young adult Jewish population we serve and offers the chance to get creative with the real possibility of being able to put ideas into action.” For 25 years, SPN has supported and created innovative programs and initiatives to deepen the Jewish iden-
tities and leadership capacities of young Jews. #MakeItHappen reflects SPN’s commitment to experimenting with new approaches and technologies to achieve its vision of a diverse, dynamic Jewish future that is deeply connected to Israel and committed to making the world a better place. “We at Schusterman have long believed that while investments and support make change possible, people make change happen,” said Sandy Cardin, President of the Schusterman Philanthropic Network. “It has been a guiding philosophy of our work for 25 years. This campaign will enable us to invest in more young Jews, seed great new ideas, explore how our micro-grants strategy can be replicated online and ultimately show how small investments can lead to big change.” The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Philanthropic Network (SPN) is a global enterprise that supports and creates innovative initiatives for the purpose of igniting the passion and unleashing the power in young people to create positive change for themselves, the Jewish community and the broader world. Editor’s note: SPN includes the Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation, Schusterman Foundation-Israel, ROI Community and REALITY. For additional information, go to www.schusterman.org
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Not Your Sister’s Diary EXPLORE JOURNALING AS A TOOL FOR ILLUMINATION THIS KISLEV AJT CONTRIBUTOR
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n Nov. 3, we welcome the month of Kislev and an exploration of Enchanted Key number three – Jour-
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Back in the day, it was popular for girls to have diaries with crummy little locks and gold keys that kept no one’s prying eyes away from those intimate reflections of secret crushes and broken house rules. Diary musings were often viewed as meaningless fluff until the world read what Anne Frank wrote in the diary she was given on her 13th birthday. For two years and two months, she chronicled the experiences she had with her family while hiding during the Nazi occupation of the Netherlands. What insight into the human spirit she left as a legacy to us all. Today, journals are made for both men and women to enjoy the art and practice of journaling. It’s used for healing, as a tool for introspection, and many schools include journal writing as a means to develop oral language and speaking skills. Teachers report that journaling focuses students and allows for free creative expression, during “safe writing,” which is without correction of grammar, punctuation and spelling. The use of shared journals can deepen relationships between teachers and their students. A woman I know began a journal with her teenaged daughter. They passed the book back and forth daily, resulting in an appreciation and respect for the others’ feelings and struggles. Yet most journaling is done solo, often as a way to relieve stress or work through emotions. Doodling and art can craft a journal without words. One of our Journey Guides, Julia Cameron, prolific writer, teacher and author of “The Artist’s Way,” and other books, states that, “Journaling lowers stress, alters our brain hemispheres, allows discovery of an inner contact with a creative source and gives birth to imaginative insights.”
She developed Morning Pages – three longhand, stream-of-consciousness pages, written upon awakening each morning. I can attest to the “Dragon-clearing” benefits of journaling this way. Journaling at night brings the focus to the forefront prior to sleep and is counterintuitive for a good night’s rest. Before your feet hit the ground in the morning, you get to clear the path of conversations in your head, unfinished business, and resentments, while also inventing fresh, new possibilities for your life. Fifteen minutes of journaling each morning is all you need; but consider that and listen to the myriad of excuses your “Dragons” present to prevent you from doing it. Not only does journaling unblock mental and emotional clutter, but also continually points you in the direction of your “true north,” as Cameron calls it. Both your conscious and unconscious dreams and desires appear on the pages, again and again.
about that and share it with others. Dragon journal pages can contain all of the negative chatter and stress that taxes your energy and spirit. Release that and then create gratitude pages alongside. Jot down everything for which you are grateful. According to the Sefer Yetzirah, Kislev’s guiding part of the body is the belly, so enjoy your latkes with your turkey and your sufganiyot next to your pumpkin pie but let more than your belly feel full; journal to make this a time of spiritual contentment. That will be an enduring gift you give yourself and others.
for everything you have, even those things that seem to appear “negative,” because likely, you can learn from them or grow in some way. After you meditate on this, write down what occurs to you. Continue this practice through the month of Kislev and discover what possibilities for miracles and light you can create for yourself and for the world. Dr. Terry Segal is a licensed marriage & family therapist, Ph.D. in energy medicine, hypnotherapist and author of “The Enchanted Journey: Finding the Key that Unlocks You.”
Meditation Focus The sages state, “Who is rich? He who is happy with his portion.” Allow yourself to focus on your gratitude
There are two schools of thought when it comes to journaling, regarding hand written vs. computer. I support you in journaling any way you would like. Beware of what I have termed the “Ed Norton Syndrome.” It’s not a real malady, but just as Ed used to prepare to write and then would adjust his arms and flex his wrists, you can get hung up on the choices of journals, pens, and locations in which to write, and never actually get to the enchantment of putting pen to paper. Don’t overthink. Take action. Kislev is a perfect time of year to begin journaling, when our goal is to bring light to the darkness. I’ve already heard others anticipating the stress of this year’s unique coinciding of Chanukah with Thanksgiving. Consider relieving stress about the preparations that overlap these two holidays by writing your thoughts, feelings and solutions on the page. I just learned about The Jewish Writing Project. It offers a place to share with others through the written word, our experience of being Jewish. Perhaps you’d like to journal
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Fri., Nov. 1 “ORTBay” Auction, from ORTAtlanta, the second annual online auction. Over 200 name brand gift certificates for hotels, restaurants spas and more, plus other unique items to bid on to benefit global education. Nov., 1 -10. Info, www.biddingforgood.com/ORTbay. Sheinfeld & Laor Performance Opening, the first of three performances only with Israel’s rising stars Niv Sheinfeld & Oren Laor and their inaugural Tour of America, and an original Immersive Sound Installation by Canadian C.D.Howe. Fri., Nov. 1, 8 p.m. The Goat Farm Arts Center. Tickets, www.brownpapertickets.com/ event/434716.
Sat., Nov. 2 MJCCA Book Festival Kick Off, a 15day event and one of the South’s premier literary events, the Book Festival of the MJCCA features works from more than 40 of the year’s most sought-after and talked-about authors, celebrities, and influencers. Sat., Nov. 2. MJCCA. Tickets, www. atlantajcc.org/bookfestival Decatur’s Largest Outdoor Cocktail Party, Fox Bros. Bar-B-Q and Smith’s Olde Bar invite football fans to the third annual event hosted by Big Text Decatur for the UGA vs. University of Florida game. Includes food, football on the big screen, live music and a costume contest. Sat., Nov. 2, 12 p.m. Big Tex Decatur. Info, www.bigtexdecatur.com.
Sun., Nov. 3 Holiday Gift Fair, purchase gifts for family and friends from over 35 vendors. Including jewelry, handbags, art, books, Judaica, skin care and children’s clothing. Sun., Nov. 3, 8:30 a.m. Temple Kol Emeth. Info, vendorfair@kolemeth.net.
interests. Sun., Nov. 3, 9:45 a.m. $10/ person. Congregation Beth Tefillah.
textbook and materials). Congregatoin Beth Tefillah.
Atlanta Jewish Male Choir 10th Anniversary, audiences are treated to a milestone performance inspired by musical references in the Torah, primarily sung a capella. Proceeds will benefit the GHA Jewish day school. Sun., Nov. 3, 4:30 p.m. $20/ person. Greenfield Hebrew Academy. Tickets, showtix4u.com or (866) 9678167.
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Sat., Nov. 4 Introduction to the Book of Ezekiel, a class as lead by study group, embarking upon an in-depth textual study of the Book of Ezekiel. Sat., Nov. 4, 7:30 p.m. Congregation Beth Tefillah.
Tues., Nov. 5 Talmudic Thinking Class, “When the Talmud Retreated from Logic,” a class by Rabbi Sender Lustig, a member of the Atlanta Dayanut. Tues., Nov. 5, 5 p.m. Free and open to community. Congregation Beth Tefillah. American Idol According to Kabbalah, a class by Rabbi Avi Shlomo, a member of the Atlanta Dayanut Institute. This week we will discuss why the Torah is fixated on prohibiting idolatry, and its relevance to us today according to Kabbalah. Tues., Nov. 5, 5 p.m. Congregation Beth Tefillah. Live Cooking Demonstration, by the editor of the leading kosher magazine, Joy of Kosher. Learn how to create incredible dishes, brought to you by Chabad Women’s Circle. Tues., Nov. 5, 7:30 p.m. $14/person. Chabad of Cobb. Reserve, www. chabadofcobb.com
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“Law of the Land and Halacha” Lecture, Rabbi Ira Bedzow, a PhD candidate at Emory University and a member of the Atlanta Dayanut Institute, will deliver a lecture addressing how Jewish traditional law views and upholds American law, and the way it deals with conflicts of
“Life in the Balance: Jewish Perspectives on Everyday Medical Dilemmas,” a six week JLI course. Modern medicine has brought us near-miracles. It’s also brought us some of the most difficult decisions we’ll ever have to face. Presented by Rabbi Yossi New. Nov. 6, 13, 20, Dec. 4, 11. 7:30 p.m. $85/person (includes
Lunch ‘n Learn, “Gone with the Wind and the Battle of Jonesboro” lecture with Peter Bonner, of Historical & Hysterical Tours Inc. Fri., Nov. 8. Free. Georgia Archives. Mason Murer Gallery Opening, featuring the works of local, Jewish sculptor Steve Steinman, “Remade in America.” Continuing through December. Fri., Nov. 8, 6 p.m. Mason Murer Fine Art.
tion. Open to the community, sponsored by Congregation Etz Chaim and JF&CS. Thurs., Nov. 14, 7:30 p.m. Etz Chaim. RSVP, www.etzchaim.net/itcanhappen_RSVP
Sat., Nov. 16 Elegant Elf Marketplace, the third annual, two-day gift market. Fundraiser of The Sandy Springs Society with more than 50 selected vendors, including raffle prizes and a cafe. Sat., Nov. 16, 9 a.m. Lake Forest Elementary School. Info, www.sandyspringssociety.org
Sun., Nov. 17 Sun., Nov. 10 “On the Seventh Day Dr. Schoenfeld is Still Resting,” the second of two programs about the changing notions of sacred rest in contemporary Jewish tradition with Dr. Eugen Schoenfeld. Sun., Nov. 10, 11 a.m. Jewish Family and Career Services.
Mon., Nov. 11 Bob Bahr Speaker Event, “Cocoon The Movie - And The Messianic Idea in Judaism.” Part of the Senior Luncheon. Mon., Nov. 11, 12:15 p.m. Congregation Beth Tikvah.
Mon., Nov. 13 Camp David Symposium, “President Carter and the Role of Intelligence in the Camp David Accords.” Hosted by the Jimmy Carter Presidential Library and Museum with the Central Intelligence Agency. Moderated by CNN’s Jonathan Mann. Mon., Nov. 13, 9 a.m. Free. Carter Center Cecil B. Day Chapel.
Thurs., Nov. 14 “Israel: A Remarkable Story of Innovation,” a how and why presentation of Israel’s remarkable capacity for innovation. With speaker Shai Robkin, president and CEO of AmericanIsrael Chamber of Commerce in the Southeast. Thurs., Nov. 14, 7 p.m. Congregation Children of Israel, Athens. “It Can Happen to Anyone,” for adults only. A program on preventing teen drug and alcohol abuse and addic-
OVS Hanukkah Bazaar, Congregation’s Or VeShalom’s 38th annual hanukkah bazaar. Make room for good eats and gifts for holiday shopping. Includes international dinners auction; a raffle for prizes; and kids’ games and activities. Sun., Nov. 17, 11 a.m. $3/person. OVS. A Celebration of Education Theater Festival, a one-act play festival with performances by the GHA Players, the Christian Magby Co., the Atlanta Shakespeare Co., Rathskellar (Emory University’s Improv Troupe). Includes master classes on stage combat, movement, musical theatre taught by industry professionals. Sun., Nov. 17, 12 p.m. Greenfield Hebrew Academy. Tickets, showtix4u. com or (866) 967-8167. “It Can Happen to Anyone,” for teens only. Preventing teen drug and alcohol abuse and addiction, lunch followed by program. Open to community and sponsored by Congregation Etz Chaim and JF&CS. Sun., Nov. 17, 12:30. Etz Chaim. RSVP, www. etzchaim.net/itcanhappen_RSVP Rich’s Exhibit Opening, The Breman Museum is bringing Atlanta’s favorite store back for an exciting interactive exhibition that spans 150 years of this local legend’s history. Runs until May 27. Sun., Nov. 17. Breman Museum. Info, www.thebreman.org.
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Musician Louis Allan “Lou” Reed, age 71, passed away Sunday, October 27 in New York. He died of an ailment related to a liver transplant that he underwent in May. He was an incredibly influential musician who is said to have shaped rock n’ roll as we know it. He grew up in Long Island, New York, in a Jewish family and home. His musical career began in college—inspired by his professor at Syracuse University, Professor Delmore Schwart—but truly came to fruition with his immense role in the band The Velvet Underground, which despite sales had a vast influence on the rock genre. He is best known for his single, “Walk on the Wile Side.” Reed also had a strong Jewish connection (his song “My House” was inspired by Prof. Schwartz and related to Judaism and Jewish values), as well as a connection to Israel, where he performed in 2008. The importance of Judaism was evident in his music, although he has been quoted as saying that his highest form of spiritual enlightenment was always his guitar. His music was always pushing limits – his lyrics both complex and controversial. He said what no one was ever willing to say. Reed is survived by his wife of five years and fellow musician, Laurie Anderson. His musical gifts will be with us forever.
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Barry Bluestein Dr. Barry Marshall Bluestein died Oct. 1 at his home in Roswell at the age of 63. The burial took place Crest Lawn Cemetery in Atlanta. Dr. Bluestein was born Sept. 27, 1950 in Columbia, S.C., but grew up in a tight-knit community in Brooklyn, N.Y. His life was spent on a never-ending quest for knowledge and a passion for medicine, which led him to graduate from the University of South Carolina Medical School in 1976. He led a dedicated and noble career as a pulmonologist in Atlanta for 33 years in both Miami and Atlanta, and was a prominent member of the medical community. In retirement, he enjoyed reading, travel and spending time with his three sons and granddaughter. His favorite saying was, “The world has no use for a man with an excuse,” and he never made any despite battling Parkinson’s Disease for almost three decades. He is survived by his sons, Greg Bluestein of Atlanta, Max Bluestein of Washington, D.C., and Leonard Bluestein of Atlanta; his wife Patricia Gibbs Bluestein; his daughter-in-law, Sheryl Marbach Bluestein; and his granddaughter, Nicole Marie Bluestein. The family requests contributions be made to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research, Grand Central Station, PO Box 4777, NY, NY 10163-4777. Sign online guestbook: www.edressler. com. Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care, (770) 451-4999.
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Across 1. Anne Frank, technically 5. Highly capable 10. Fortas and Beame 14. Yiddish eight 15. Mitzvot, in a way 16. Jeans pioneer Strauss 17. Leave, as out of fear 18. Stiller’s comedy partner 19. “The Bedside Torah” author Artson 20. Mystery novelist (“The Ritual Bath”) born in St. Louis 23. On both sides of 24. “I could crush you like ___” 27. Bumped off, Biblically 28. He played “Meathead” 32. Early Eve? 34. A film like “Hannah Arendt” or “Rosa Luxemberg” 35. Al-___ Mosque (Jerusalem sight) 36. “Da Ali G Show” network 39. Brian Schatz is one for Hawaii 42. Uri Geller talent, supposedly 43. “At Seventeen” singer Janis and family 45. Son of ___ (Killer David Berkowitz) 46. Purim mo., occasionally 48. Fed chairman, 1987-2006 51. CD “Freilach in ___: Jewish
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Wedding Dances” 54. Give birth to, as a chick 55. Getting rid of 58. First woman judge of Canada 62. “Brian’s Song” star James 64. Fortifies 65. Yarmulke fastener 66. 2400 to Josephus 67. Go off on ___ (complain) 68. “American ___” (1974 Paul Simon hit) 69. Says, “Mah Nishtana?” 70. Farfel, e.g. 71. “Have they not ___?” (Judges 5:30)
11. Fed chairman, 2006-2013 12. Lisa on “Green Acres” 13. A famous Caesar 21. Small round fruits that are green inside 22. “She Done Him Wrong” actress West 25. ___ Ziona (Israeli city) 26. Arab shuk (Jerusalem tourist ___) 29. It often follows Hussein
30. Took the hook 31. “Fiddler on the ___” 33. Former Jewish Miss America Myerson 36. USY ___ (Secondary program for Jewish teens in Israel) 37. “Salome” of 1918 38. Type of mind 40. Schluf 41. “They tried to make me go to
___, I said, ‘no, no, no’” (Amy Winehouse lyrics) 44. Additional helping of food 47. Divides, maybe 49. Org. for kids with great grades 50. Negative contraction 52. Pump purchase 53. Way Israelis don’t like to wait 56. “The Jewish ___” (Matisyahu sobriquet) 57. Stared in wonder 59. Have ___ in one’s knowledge 60. Shekel predecessor 61. Eisenstein and Gershwin 62. ___ Awards 63. Times for Shacharit
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