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Table of Contents pg. 16 2011 Holiday Gift Guide

mom 2 mom 8 The Childhood Pressure Cooker: Turn Down the Heat on Overstressed Kids 10 Santa Claus Isn’t Coming to Town: Christmas Gift Giving Around the Globe

moms R women 2 12 Spending the Holidays Away from Extended Family 15 Why You Should Become a Mentor

know 2 grow 21 Internet Safety: What Parents Need to Know

also in this issue editor’s note nana’s 2 sense life sentences business spotlight: new behavioral network 24 holiday resource guide 29 things 2 do 30 resource guide 3 5 6 23

Dear Readers,

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Being silly with friends this Fall at Six Flags! Left to right: Cameron, Kayden, Carson and Camille

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here is something that has always bothered me about this time of year… something I’ve never talked about before. I don’t like to write about controversial subjects because I don’t ever want to push my opinion on anyone…but I have to talk about this. I just have to. It’s about… Santa Claus.

I don’t have a problem with Santa Claus himself, my problem is with the parents that hold onto the lie and refuse to accept when it’s time to confess the truth to your child.

Recently, one of my friends posted on Facebook regarding how angry she was that a child at school told her son that Santa wasn’t real. Really? You’re angry with that child for telling the truth? She then went on to tell her child that the other child was a liar.

Wow…shameful.

I understand the “tradition” and excitement behind Santa and I’m not saying that he

shouldn’t be part of Christmas at all. What I’m saying is, don’t continue to drag out the lie just to save face. Also, there are many children who don’t believe in Santa, especially those with Christian beliefs. Why should we lie to our kids to cover your lie?

I know this may sound harsh, but the whole thing really irks me. Like I said, my problem really isn’t with Santa. It’s with those parents that go to great lengths to protect the BIG lie.

Unfortunately, the foundation of what Christmas represents has been lost in commercialism. After all, this is the season of giving. Let’s focus more on being generous and thankful, rather than on whether the fat man in the suit is really who he says he is.✲ Your Friend and Fellow MOM,

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y sister lives in Michigan so we do not see each other often. When we do, we talk, a lot. Like the time my sis picked me up in Ohio so we could drive to Florida together.

Someone told us it was a 12 hour drive. Heavy rain storms, road construction and detours got us there in 18. We talked the entire way.

The next day, I lost my voice. Two weeks of a painful sore throat; pharyngitis, the doc said. It was worth every word.

During my last visit with my sister, we had some great laughs sharing blankie stories. The weaning of the blankie can be painful depending on how attached the child is. My sister will tell you there is no need to ever take away their blankie. Her oldest grandson still has his blankie; I should say the remnant of his blankie.

He is 11. The blankie, “Night-Night,” as they named it, resides at grandma’s house. Mom does not allow him to bring it home. When the grandchildren stay at grandma’s they have their own room with all their “special” things.

Things mom doesn’t know about, because that’s what grandmas do.

The Night-Night started out as a baby blue Winnie the Pooh crib blanket. If you have ever tried to take away a child’s blankie, you know that trying to get hold of it long enough to mend or repair, much less wash it, is next to

impossible. Through the years my sister mended tears, trimmed frays and finally covered the shredding blankie with new fabric. It’s still the same blankie, though.

The blankie is now about a 2 foot elongated piece of white fluffy fabric with a unique built-in satin handle. Last week my sister accidentally washed the blankie with red towels. That’s right, a pink blankie. She was on her way to the store for bleach as she shared the latest blankie dilemma with me.

My sister defends saving the blankie saying in today’s world, there is nothing wrong with a child having something warm and cozy to make him feel safe and calm. Her grandson still takes what’s left of his Night-Night, rolls it up in a ball and tucks it under his head when he goes to sleep at night at grandma’s. I wonder how long he will keep it. I do believe that any blankie surviving past the ten year mark has earned the status of heirloom.

Best wishes for a warm and cozy holiday.✲ —Nana Jean Nana Jean is a South Jersey grandmother with two daughters and six grandchildren. Enjoy her stories about her 39+ years as a mom and 21 years as a grandmother as she shares her experiences and lessons learned with lots of laughs and tears along the way.

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A Home for the Holidays

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n invitation arrived recently that brought back some happy memories of my first job at a camp across the street from my childhood home.

It was a notice from Pat Guadano, a saloon singer extraordinaire who usually plays at Jersey Shore bars and I really like his sound. On the few occasions I was able to travel, I got a group together to listen to this man sing and play his guitar and it was always a good time.

But back to me.What caught my attention was not the concert, but the venue: Murray Grove Retreat and Renewal Center on Route 9 in Lanoka Harbor, my home town.

My parents had moved us down to this rural pinelands town situated close enough to Barnegat Bay to be laced with thick woodland paths, cool cedar streams and briny lagoons that were scenic, peaceful, and, in summer’s humidity, infested with clouds of mosquitoes. The property across the road was a Unitarian camp established in the 1700s.

When I worked there two summers in my youth, Murray Grove was a rustic old place, nothing fancy and the manager hired my older brother and me as janitors – dishwashing, sweeping, mopping and polishing floors. They offered me $1 an hour for my services, and my brother, $2.

Our nightly shift began at 10 and ended when we were done, usually in the wee hours.

The unequal pay did not faze me: I was 14, too young to get working papers and a steady job within walking distance was my ticket to financial freedom. With my earnings, I bought a new bike with a glittery emerald paint job and some groovy outfits to wear in 8th grade.

The rural town of my youth is gone now. Bulldozers and fire trucks

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arrived to raise old farm houses and burn down trees to put up cheap bi-level homes in massive ex-urban developments. After my father died, my mother sold our house to a motorcycle mechanic who cleared the wooded lot and poured tons of concrete over the whole front yard for a parking lot. None of my family stayed there. In 30 years, I never wondered what hapBy Fran LoBiondo pened to the camp at Murray Grove.

Happily, not much has changed. They still welcome all guests and they have a coffee house one night a month with local musicians. I picked up a friend and met my brother and his wife there. The saloon singer played to a polite audience quite different than his usual rowdy pub crowd. Many were afflicted with disabilities and traveled by bus from the local ARC center; they tapped their feet and smiled and showed a funky appreciation for the guitar man.

The old place looks the same. Old maples still line the drive. The kitchen is still open in the mornings, scenting the air with fresh-brewed coffee, pancakes, bacon. The original fireplace warms the community room on brisk evenings and the linoleum floor in the dining room still holds a shine.

Our family is spread far and wide now and we have no central base for large holiday gatherings. I am glad to see that if we ever need such a place, Murray Grove will welcome us back home.✲ Fran LoBiondo of Vineland has children in grade school, high school and college. A Purdue University graduate with a degree in Journalism, she has written about parenting, food and fun for 25 yrs.

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THE CHILDHOOD PRESSURE COOKER: Turn Down the Heat on OVERSTRESSED KIDS

ny parent with a child out of elementary school knows that we live in an achievement-obsessed, ultra-competitive education culture. From government-mandated standardized test scores to “tiger parents� to college admissions requirements, our kids are facing immense pressure to perform.

For many students, every minute of the day is devoted to school, studying, homework, and other “necessaryâ€? activities ranging from sports to service work—to the exclusion of free time and fun. There’s a great deal of fear from parents that their kids just won’t be able to compete‌and kids themselves are at risk of being overwhelmed by what’s expected of them. “Of course we want our children to lead fulfilled, successful lives, but subjecting them to relentless academic and extracurricular pressure is not the way,â€? says Patkin, author of the new book Finding Happiness: One Man’s Quest to Beat Depression and Anxiety and—Finally—Let the Sunshine In. “A lot of parents must know it’s not right that their kids are so overstressed, but they have gotten just as caught up in it as their kids.â€?

If the reality of disengaged kids heading for burnout sounds worryingly familiar to you, this is the year to start doing things differently. Read on for tips to help you get started: Realize you are doing damage. It goes without saying that parents don’t set out to harm their children when they push them to succeed—it’s natural to want your child to realize his full potential and take advantage of every opportunity. But the truth is that parents’ high expectations put the most pressure of all on their children. A student who feels a few minutes’ chagrin at a teacher’s disappointment might beat himself up for days if Mom and Dad aren’t satisfied with his performance.

Accept that not all kids are the same. “The most important thing you can do to help your children is to love them for who they are,�

Patkin shares. “Never forget that kids develop at different rates, and that they also have different talents and abilities. No two children are ever going to be alike, and that’s a good thing! Our world needs variety and uniqueness.

Be willing to let some things go. All parents struggle with striking a balance between holding their kids accountable and letting them get away with too much. “Come to terms with the fact that your teen may never quite get up on time or make her bed before school,� Patkin advises. “And realize that neither of those things is likely to ruin her life. So instead of fixating on little things that weren’t completed perfectly, focus on your children’s successes!�

Teach kids to be easier on themselves. In any given middle school, chances are that a majority of students tend to focus much more of their time brooding over the test they bombed than celebrating the one they aced. And as a result of magnifying what they perceive as failures, these young people reinforce in their minds just how “subpar� they think they are. “Try to direct your child’s attention to all of the things he does well instead of allowing him to fixate on his few slip-ups and shortcomings,� instructs Patkin. “The best way to teach this is to model such behavior.

Discourage over-scheduling. Between school, soccer practice, dance class, church, friends, family, community service, and more, it’s easy for kids to become overextended. It’s not unusual for young people to crack under the pressure of what can be sixteen (or more)-hour days, and parents often don’t recognize the strain until their children become physically affected.

Focus on the importance of organization. The fact is, knowing exactly where everything is, what needs to be done, and the best way to

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Help kids work toward the big things. You don’t want your kids to make themselves sick over things like end-of-year exams or college applications, but at the same time, they can’t ignore these big tasks altogether and live a happy-go-lucky Pollyanna existence. Help them learn to approach major milestones with a plan and a realistic perspective that won’t give them ulcers. “It’s a good idea to sit down with your child at least a few times a year to talk about major changes and goals that are coming down the pike and how best to approach them,â€? Patkin asserts. “Always remember that the ability to cultivate happiness and balance is one of the best possible ways to set your child up for success,â€? Patkin concludes. “Yes, performance and doing one’s best are important—but not at the price of your child’s well-being.â€?âœ˛ Todd Patkin graduated from Tufts University and joined the family business and spent the next eighteen years helping to grow it to new heights. After it was purchased by Advance Auto Parts in 2005, he was free to focus on his main passions: philanthropy and giving back to the community, spending time with family and friends, and helping more people learn how to be happy.

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Santa Claus Isn’t Coming to Town: Christmas Gift-Giving Around the Globe

By Susan Vanden Berg o it’s Christmas Eve, and you are setting out cookies and milk for jolly old St. Nick, but your pajama-clad kids are getting concerned: How can Santa deliver presents all over the planet in just one night? Put their minds at ease, because the guy in red has a lot of help. In fact, kids from Athens to Zurich look forward, not to visits from Mr. Claus and Rudolf, but the anticipated arrival of festive characters such as Sinterklaas, the Christkind or the Three Kings. Families across the globe celebrate many beloved customs that can inspire us to deepen and appreciate our own gift-giving traditions.

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France On Christmas Eve in France, children place a pair of shoes by the fireplace, under the Christmas tree or near their family crè che (nativity scene). Wooden shoes, called sabots, were traditionally used, although today, any shoes will do. The shoes then await the middle-of-the-night arrival of Pére Noël (Father Christmas), or in some regions, Petit Noël (the Christ Child), who fills them with toys and candies. While sporting a long white beard and clad in red, Pére Noël is tall and slender, unlike his portly American cousin. He arrives with a sack full of goodies, and is helped in his deliveries by a single donkey instead of twelve reindeer.

Sometimes a little treat is left out for the Pére—and occasionally a glass of wine.

The Netherlands Holland loves to celebrate St. Nicholas’s Day, December 6, with parties and presents. On the evening of December 5, Dutch children anticipate the arrival of Sinterklaas atop his white horse, along with his side-kick, Zwaarte Piet (Black Pete).The children fill a pair of their shoes with oats and carrots for the horse and place them by the fireplace or near the door. In the morning they find their shoes filled with candy and surprises wrapped misleadingly in something like old socks or potato peelings. These surprises are often accompanied by short, funny poems composed by friends or family members that give hints as to what the gift may be.

Germany Similar to the Netherlands, children in Germany celebrate St. Nicholas’s day by putting out their straw-filled shoes to be filled instead with treats during the night. Not-so-nice children might be disappointed to find their shoes filled with sticks or coal by St. Nick’s stern sidekick, Knecht Rupprect.

Some families also welcome the Christmas man, Weihnactsmann, who brings gifts on Christmas Eve, or by the angelic Christkind, the Christ child.

Mexico and Spain In Spain, Mexico, and many other Spanish- and Portuguese-speaking countries, presents are given on the 6th of January. On el Día de los Reyes, or the Day of the Kings, families celebrate the coming of the Wise 10 | December 2011

Men to see the Christ child. In Mexico, children place their shoes near the family nativity scene or just outside a door or window, often leaving straw and water for the kings’ camels. In Spain, from young to old, all family members set out shoes on balconies or outside the door, perhaps leaving a glass of wine for each of the three kings, and oats or barley for the animals. They all wake in the morning to find their shoes filled with gifts, candies or trinkets.

Switzerland In Switzerland, St. Nicholas comes to deliver wishes of prosperity as well as gifts. Some homes are visited by Father Christmas, who is similar to France’s Pére Noël, accompanied by his wife Lucy. The main gift-giver, however, is the Christkind, or Christ child, who has come depicted as a golden angel. Families will leave a window open on Christmas Eve so that the Christkind can fly in and leave presents.

Sweden Sweden celebrates a long Christmas season beginning December 13th, St. Lucia’s Day, a beloved Swedish festival, and ending on January 13th.

Children open gifts on Christmas Eve that are brought by Jultomten. This sneaky Christmas gnome carries a huge sack on his back, but instead of carrying it all the way from the North Pole, Jultomten conveniently lives under floors of Swedish homes and barns.

Like gifts from Sinterklaas in the Netherlands, Swedish gifts are often accompanied by humorous little poems.

Greece The patron saint of mariners, St. Nicholas is often portrayed in Greece as being drenched with seawater—a far cry from our snow-loving Santa. He does bring some gifts on Christmas, but most gift-giving is done on January 1st, St. Basil’s Day. Italy Italian children may enjoy getting gifts on Christmas day, but like children in Spain and Mexico, the main gift-giving day is Epiphany, January 6th. They also leave their shoes or stockings out by the chimney before bedtime, but in Italian style, they do so for La Befana instead of for St. Nick. A woman seeking to atone for her lack of hospitality to the Wise Men, La Befana now searches for Bambino Gesù, the Baby Jesus, leaving gifts at every house along the way.

So as you tuck in your little munchkins this December 24th, let them rest assured that something special awaits them and that kids around the world have their fun too—even if they have to wait until January.✲ Susan Vanden Berg is a freelance writer and mother of two.

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Spending the Holidays Away From Extended Family

By Tiffany Doerr Guerzon

veryone has their own vision of the ideal holiday. But this time of year can be difficult for those living far away from extended family. Growing up, almost all of my family lived in the same town and my childhood holidays were a crowded, happy chaos with grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. Now that we live across the country from our relatives due to my husband’s job, it’s just us.

The first few years we were married, we dutifully traveled home for Christmas, alternating years between his family and mine. Then we had our first child. Soon after she was born, we realized that between inflated airline ticket prices, snow delays and crowded airports, it would be best to travel at other times of the year and spend the holidays at home. Our home.

That first year, I missed my family terribly and didn’t quite know what to do. So I tried to recreate the Christmas of my childhood. I duplicated everything down to cooking the whole turkey dinner…for the two of us and a toddler.

Without a gaggle of relatives to help, it ended up being me in the kitchen all day while my husband worked to keep our daughter occupied and out from under my feet. By the time we sat down to eat, everyone was cranky and exhausted.We then finished up Christmas Day by washing an enormous pile of dishes and cleaning the kitchen. Not the holiday I had envisioned.

After a couple of years, I decided that this would have to change. I wanted these few days

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to be about time spent together as a family, not about Mommy spending the day in the kitchen.

It hit me that although it was impossible to recreate my childhood experience, we could make our own memories. No longer tied down to dinner at a certain time at Grandma’s, we could tailor the celebration to fit us, and it could be anything we wanted. Anything. This realization was very freeing. We could go out or stay in. Cook or not cook. Open our presents whenever we felt like it.

Since then, we have forged our own way, and it isn’t always traditional. For example, one year when the kids were very small, we ate KFC for Christmas Eve (it’s poultry, right?) and on Christmas morning, we had breakfast at a pancake house then went to a movie. Little kids couldn’t care less about a traditional turkey dinner, ours were blissfully happy with fast food.

In recent years, I’ve ordered a readymade holiday dinner with all the trimmings from a local grocery store, adding a homemade touch like a pie or other special dessert.

We’ve made our own family traditions, building on them over the years as the children have grown. Some are carried over from our own childhoods, such as my family’s practice of opening just one gift on Christmas Eve or creating a Filipino Star Lantern from my husband’s culture.

We have certain things we always do throughout the holiday season, such as creating our own advent wreath and building ginger-

bread houses. The kids love baking cookies for Santa on Christmas Eve, something I probably wouldn’t have attempted back when I faced a long day of food preparation.

Sometimes we spend part of the holiday with friends or just relax at home, eating popcorn and watching Christmas movies or playing board games.We’ve even spent the whole day in our pajamas!

How we choose to spend our holiday varies from year to year. And it will continue to change; as our children get older we look forward to possibly spending the holidays skiing or sledding. I might even cook again when it can be a family project, but not until then. It’s continually evolving, and it’s ours.

We still miss our relatives during this time of year and we try to bridge the distance between us with Christmas Day phone calls or web cam conversations. Holiday memories can still be shared, even long distance. It’s not the same, but it helps. Although spending the holidays away from our families isn’t ideal, we have found that creating our own kind of Christmas can be wonderful too.✲ Tiffany Doerr Guerzon is a freelance writer and stay-athome mom of three children.

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Why You Should Become a Mentor

By Carolyn Leigh Kellerman

W

e have busy lives. We work, we cook, we clean, we take care of our family and then we feel like we have about five minutes a day to take care of ourselves. Who has time to volunteer, right? What if we each gave up just one hour a week to help one child?

It’s easy for most of us to run to our mother, husband or best friend for advice or to unload our troubles. We have a support system. But there are plenty of children in our community who do not have anyone to talk to. They need us. We are always there for our children, but what about that one child who doesn’t have a support system, a mentor?

Studies show that mentoring does make a difference. Children enrolled in mentoring programs have better attendance in school, improved grades and exceptional relationships. Once a child becomes comfortable with their mentor, a relationship is formed. Whether discussing topics about school, friends, home or life, the child has a chance to share and unburden their concerns with a caring adult, allowing them to focus more on their school work. In turn, when a child looks forward to the mentor’s visit, there is a greater desire to do well and share accomplishments.

Robert Jakubowski, the CEO of Big Brothers, Big Sisters of Burlington, Camden and Gloucester counties has been involved in the program for about 19 years. Jakubowski helps with programs and fundraising. “The opportunity came to work here, so I left another statewide non-profit, where I was the Executive Director. I have now been CEO for our local agency for over ten years.”

The children in Big Brothers, Big Sisters program range from age 7 to 18. Every child needs positive role models and mentors in their life.Think about the key people in your life… maybe a parent, teacher, coach or neighbor who made a difference for you.

“As a single dad, I see the challenges first hand that parents face raising their kids today. As the first role model for kids, parents have to show their kids the right way. But we can all use help reinforcing the positive [qualities] we want to develop in our children. So having a mentor in the life of a child can add to a child’s development,” explains Jakubowski.

Just an hour a week can change the life of a young student and ultimately affect an entire community. It’s easy to get involved. Visit the Big Brothers Big Sisters website at www.bbbsbcg.org and start the process.

You must be at least 18 years old, unless you are involved with one of the high school programs.

Beyond mentoring, Jakubowski says he can also use help from South Jersey moms who are interested in raising funds and assisting with special events and program committees. Moms are some of the best advocates for starting new school partnerships and relationships with companies and civic organizations.

Giving just a little time here and there can make a difference in a child’s life. This is the season for giving… the best time to start.✲

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2011 Holiday DVDs & CDs

PIgeOn FInDs A HOTDOg Pigeon finds a delicious hot dog, but a sly and hungry duckling comes along who also wants a bite. Who will be the more clever bird? $14.95

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The Jimmies have leapt to the top of the kiddie rock scene with their hilariously infectious music. 13 somewhat practical, mostly ridiculous tracks from big band to hip hop to backporch. $14.99, available at Barnes & Noble and www.gimmejimmies.com

Five decades after its historic debut, a timesless classic returns to dazzle audiences young and old. $29.99

Video Games

cOunTRy DAnce 2 for Wii Dance and sing to 30+ hits from your favorite country artists including Keith Urban, Blake Shelton, Carrie Underwood, George Strait, Miranda Lambert, The JaneDear Girls, Lady Antebellum, and more! $29.99

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Math is fun at the Counting Carnival! Learn about numbers and counting while playing exciting games with Cookie Monster and Big Bird! $39.99 for Wii, $29.99 for DS and PC.

Includes exciting games like CONNECT 4 Basketball, YAHTZEE! Bowling, SCRABBLE Flash, SORRY! Sliders, BOP-IT Boptagon, and MONOPOLY Crazy Cash. Available for the Xbox 360, PlayStation 3 & Wii. $39.99

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Games HOOT OWL HOOT! Players work together to get the baby owls safely back home before the sun rises. Age 4-10 yrs. $14.99, www.toysrus.com

ROAD TRIP This fast-paced wacky words game is fun for the whole family. The kids won’t be saying, “Are we there yet?” Age 8+ $24.99, www.daddyogames.com 16 | December 2011

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Beauty meets brains in this deceptively difficult puzzle. All of the gems are connected by a string. Twist and snap the gems together to create a complete sphere. Age 5 & up. $9.99, www.recenttoysusa.com

These incredible builders have easy-sticking magnets along every edge—for endless building possibilities! Set includes 48 pieces, plus metal tray. 3– 6 yrs. $24.95, Lakeshore Learning Stores, Cherry Hill

cOLOR DIscOveRy BOxes Fun-filled boxes give tots an irresistible, hands-on way to explore colors!

Features 4 delightful objects with exciting textures and bold patterns. 9 mths–3 yrs. $49.95, Lakeshore Learning Stores, Cherry Hill Visit our website and sign up for our e-newsletter

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Just when the dog tag couldn’t get any cooler, along comes this gunmetal guitar dog tag necklace, perfect for the boy who dreams of being a musician someday. $30, Things Remembered

Turns ice to snow. Soups, batters, creamed nut butters, smoothies and more. Commercially designed stainless steel blades make this blender one of the toughest on the market. $179.99, www.lequip.com

ZOZI.cOM Give the gift of an amazingly memorable experience! This service uncovers unique, one-of-a-kind local activities – and offers them at exclusive discounts. From adventures to classes on everything to unforgettable weekend getaways.

Prices vary, www.zozi.com

JeWeLRy By JOHAn One-of-a-kind, exquisite rings for men and women. The Interchangeable Inlay system transforms the appearance of the ring. Each ring is custom-made to match your specs. $65 and up, www.Jewelrybyjohan.com

gRAnDcAMP ADvenTuRes The Longbeard’s Treasure Hunt activity features a note from a colorful pirate character as well as treasure maps, clues, coins and special action cards for grandchildren to play with their grandparents. $54.99, www.grandcamp.com

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suPeR DuPeR QuIcK TAKe ALOng MInI-BOOKs Quick Take Along MiniBooks, are pocket-sized print resources for speechlanguage pathologists, special educators, teachers and parents. For children with special needs and communication or language delays. Prices Vary, www.superduperinc.com

geL PRO MAT A floor mat may not sound like the most glamorous holiday gift, but they truly do make a difference in the lives of their users, from the average home cook to renowned celebrity chefs. $79.95 & up, www.gelpro.com

gIFT-A-nATOR Choose a theme and a price point and Gift-a-Nator will create and deliver artfully packaged gift arrangements that are upscale, chic, trendy and fun in two weeks. $50 and up, www.gift-a-nator.com

Hickory Farm’s Party Planner Gift Box is a flavorful array of savory Summer Sausage and smooth and creamy cheeses. With each one sold, HF will donate $5 to Share Our Strength’s No Kid Hungry ® Campaign. $45, Hickory Farms stores or www.hickoryfarms.com

For Him QuIxx HeADLIgHT ResTORATIOn KIT Restores yellowed and hazy headlights to their original crystal-clear and scratch-free finish. The complete all-in-one-box solution includes everything necessary to achieve professional results. $20, www.quixx-usa.com www.southjerseymom.com

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POTTeRy BARn sLeePIng BAgs The Shaggy Dog Sleeping Bag features a playful pup’s furry face that doubles as a pilow, adding comfort and fun to this cozy sleeping bag. $89, www.potterybarnkids.com

BeLveDeRe WALL QuOTes Belvedere Designs offers an array of Designer Wall Quotes, Vinyl Wall Art, Auto Decals and Custom Vinyl Letters to make your house a haven that reflects your style and inspires you every day. Prices Vary, www.wallquotes.com

FITness geAR FROM PeLIcAn The i1010 & i1015 cases protect your cell phone, iPod and other devices from drops and sweaty gym clothes, swim trunks or towels tossed in your gym bag with these water-resistant and crushproof cases. $36.95, Dick’s Sporting Goods and www.amazon.com December 2011 | 17

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THe BeRensTAIn BeARs geT ReADy FOR cHRIsTMAs The family attempts to assemble a Nativity scene. Brother, Sister, and Honey Bear search the Bear family tree house to find their manger scene, a family “bearloom,” in this memorable and fun lift-the-flap Christmas story. $6.99

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Bedtime is extra-special with these cute matching mother-daughter pajamas – plus matching PJs for her doll too! Ultracozy two-piece matching pajama sets are made in warm flannel. $18-$49, www.thecompanystore.com

The 2011 Hess Toy Truck has more features than ever – the two vehicles in the set are both packed with sound and light features! $26.99, Hess and Hess Express retail stores

AMeRIcAn gIRL DOLL American Girl has introduced a wide array of fun, high-quality toys and books to please the girl on everyone’s list, from the beautiful 18-inch Cécile and Marie-Grace historical dolls from 1850s New Orleans to engaging activity books. Prices Vary, www.americangirl.com

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Celebrate the Christmas season with this oversized, double-sided puzzle. This sturdy and glossy puzzle features the nativity scene with Jesus, Mary and Joseph on one side and a snowy landscape on the other side. 54 pieces, measures 2’ x 3’. $14.99, www.weebelievers.com

This 3-in-1 super soft pillow, blanket and travel buddy is perfect for naptime, travel and bedtime. Easily unrolls into a comfy pillow, which contains a cozy blanket stuffed inside! Ages 12mo+ $9.99-14.99, Babies ‘R’ Us

sPeeDsTeR RAcecAR The Speedster Racecar responds to shape-code commands that serve to light up the different parts of the vehicle, such as the engine, transmission, shock absorbers, etc. $30, www.fatbrain.com

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APPLe PARK BAMBOO LOungeWeAR These cute, super comfortable pajamas are made with eco-friendly sustainable bamboo. $44, www.applepark.com

JOHn DeeRe FOOT TO FLOOR TRAcTOR The John Deere foot to floor tractor features a wide base for great stability. This rugged plastic tractor has a narrow seat that makes it easy for tots to climb on and off. Your child provides the footpower, John Deere provides the fun! 18 months & up. $29.99, www.amazon.com 18 | December 2011

My BFF™, the best friend forever doll™, gives girls the opportunity to become virtual “doll makers”, allowing them to design their ideal playtime companion at their own computer. With a few simple clicks of the mouse, girls can create a special best friend that is just right for them. $149, www.mybffdoll.com

From the popular children’s show Chuggington, the set features an interactive technology that allows included engines and destinations to actually recognize and interact with other Chuggington Interactive engines and trains. $24.99 & up, Toys R Us

OuT OF PRInT cHILDRen’s T-sHIRTs Classic literature offers timeless memories for adults and introduces the power of literature to children.

Out of Print children’s t-shirts are available for ages 2 to 6. $22-$24, www.outofprintclothing.com

DORA’s vAcATIOn ADvenTuRe This set features a buildable van to take everyone on vacation, Boots actionable figurine, a new build and dress Dora figurine with two changeable skirts and plenty of holiday accessories! Age: 3+ $29.99, Toys R us

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This handy jar will count your coins and digitally display your savings. It remembers your balance, even if you have to replace the batteries. $9.99, Toys R Us

The Cat machine-styled flashlight with underglow night light will light the way at the construction site day or night. $15, www.amazon.com

TROy BLOx Place the walls on the game board so that all the enemy’s knights are shut out while your own knights are safe inside the city. Ages 7 & up. $19.99, Young Minds, Marlton

FunJAMAs Funjamas™ , made from the softest organic cotton around, transforms standard bedtime into an adventure that kids and parents will look forward to night after night. $42, www.funjamas.com

vTecH InnOTAB InnoTab combines reading, educational games and creative activities in a touch screen tablet format. Features include eBooks, learning games, ArtStudio software, photo viewer/editor, apps to listen to music & more. Age 4-9. $79.99, Target, Walmart & Toys R Us

TIny RevOLuTIOnARy These tees evoke a sense of social responsibility in children and adults. From the controversial, animal, environment to rights and war. Infant to adult’s XL. $20-$35, www.tinyrevolutionary.com

ROcKIn’ RIDeR HORse Children will enjoy rocking and will be entertained by the moving mouth and sound effects on this talking plush rocker. $37.99, Target, Walmart and Toys R Us

MeLIssA AnD DOug RAInFOResT FLOOR PuZZLe The foliage and animals living in the rainforest are featured in this picturesque floor puzzle. 4’ long when assembled, the 100 cardboard pieces are extra-thick for increased durability. $12.99, www.melissaanddoug.com

ReD TOOLBOx Red Toolbox has one-of-a-kind products that offer “quality time in a box” for kids and their families. Includes tools specially designed to fit a child’s grip. Prices Vary, www.red-toolbox.com

WeeBLes TuRn ‘n TuMBLe HOMe PLAyseT This fun filled home features silly sound effects and 4 lively songs. Turn the knob to send a wobbly pal right down the slide or left onto the balcony then into the garage to zoom off in their car! Age 12 mths & up. $29.99, Toys R Us

neRF DART TAg sHARP sHOT BLAsTeR This lightweight blaster features a carabiner styled clip which can be hooked on belt loops.

Includes four Velcro Tip DART TAG darts. $7.99, Toys R Us & www.HasbroToyShop.com

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My LITTLe POny PInKIe PIe’s Rc cAR The easy-to-use two button remote puts girls in control of the adventure, allowing them to drive the car forward and spin the car around. $19.99, www.HasbroToyShop.com

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For Her

WILLOW cReeK MeMORy BLAnKeT Send your treasured items like a son’s infant hat he wore home from the hospital to Willow Creek Studios where they will be handcrafted into a one-of-kind memory blanket. $95 and up, www.willowcreekstudio.net

sAssI MOMMA BAg The transformable Sassi Momma “D’imorga Handbags” are a diaper bag, an ordinary handbag, a laptop bag, or an overnight bag in one! Prices vary, www.sassimomma.com

MIgHTy MOIsTuRe DAy & nIgHT MOIsTuRIseR Your all-in-one moisturiser; a lightweight texture with heavyweight actives. With this one bottle you can throw away your day and night creams, serum and primer. $48, www.mamamio.com

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The City Bag comfortably holds keys, wallet, cell phone & more. Features a zip top, interior pocket and adjustable webbed strap. Other styles to choose from. Made in USA. $55, www.chilewich.com

A staple for any woman’s purse, this compact also doubles as a fashion accessory. The elegant satin silver finish provides a backdrop for extraordinary debossed leaves accented with hand-set crystals. $20, Things Remembered

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Have your feet looking and feeling all comfy and cozy with these Cosmo Slipper-Flops. The faux fur foot bed will provide comfort & style in every step with the interchangeable straps. $35.99, LiveLaughLoveGifts.com

SPARKLEMOM jewelry is fun and packed with sparkle. Offering birthstone necklaces for moms, mothers rings, birthstone earrings, mommy bracelets and stamped and engraved charm necklaces and charm bracelets. Prices vary, www.sparklemom.com

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Blamtastic’s chapstick formula is petroleum free, paraben free, USA made and is NOT tested on animals and has SPF 15. Made by kids for kids. $2.99, www.blamtastic.com

yOOHOO & FRIenDs sOFTsOAP The Softsoap bar soap line locks in moisture and was specially created to excite your senses.

Available in Juicy Pomegranate & Mango Infusions, Coconut Scrub and Sweet Honeysuckle & Orange Peel. $3.99-$4.99, retail stores

The cuddly plush YooHoo & Friends characters make a unique and funny sound when you squeeze their tummies.

The corresponding free, interactive “virtual world” makes learning fun and teaches kids about endangered animals in their natural habitats from all over the world. $9-15, www.yoohoofriends.com

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Don’t let its small size fool you – this marshmallow shooter can go the distance! Ages 6+ $9.95, www.marshmallowville.com

The new Orbee-Tuff Glow Bone features Planet Dog’s award-winning Orbee-Tuff material which is non-toxic and made in the USA. It is also extremely durable, bouncy, recyclable and even mint-scented. $11.95, www.planetdog.com

sOFTy sOAKeRs Simply place Softy Soakers in water and the plush expands from practically nothing into a full size, eight-inch plush animal. $10, www.auroragift.com

ZAZZLe.cOM Mothers can now buy and/or create unique baby clothes with Zazzle.com—the leading website dedicated to quality customized products. Sizes 6 months & up.

Prices vary, www.zazzle.com

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For Baby 20 | December 2011

Swaddling recreates the secure and cozy feeling of the womb — and using swaddles made of natural cotton muslin enhances that blissful feeling.

Aden + Anais swaddling blankets are fashionable and useful. $49.95 for a set of 4, www.adenandanais.com

eLKs & AngeLs WeLcOMe BOOTIes Australian-based brand, Elks and Angels, makes sheepskin products for little ones. Made from the highest quality of materials, inherent beauty and craftsmanship. $39, www.elksandangels.com Visit our website and sign up for our e-newsletter

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INTERNET SAFETY: What Parents NEED to Know

By Victoria M. Lees ust as you wouldn’t send young children out into a crowded mall unattended, you shouldn’t allow them to wander the Web unsupervised. Two dangers lurk on the Internet for minors: social networking and surfing [or researching] on the Internet. And when the Internet becomes mobile with iPhones, iPods and Blackberries, the danger increases.

According to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, “approximately one in seven youth online (10 to 17-years-old) receive a sexual solicitation or approach over the Internet.” Strangers hide on the Internet. These “invisible” strangers comb social networking sites—especially chat rooms—looking for young people. Since you do not readily see them, the strangers can pretend to be any age or gender.

The picture icons used by these strangers are deceptive, usually a cute cartoon character, pet or even a young child.

School research projects take on new meaning when surfing the Internet. Innocent Google searches can turn up web sites that parents do not want their children viewing or reading. Sexually explicit and graphically violent material, hate groups, illegal activities such as promoting drug and alcohol use in minors, gambling and bomb construction are readily available on the Web. The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children states that “thirty-four percent [of children] have had an unwanted exposure to sexual material.”

Luckily, there is some help for parents who wish to protect their young children while online.

First and foremost, speak to your children about talking to people on the Internet. Make sure their friends’ list contains only relatives, schoolmates or neighborhood children—that you have seen. Just like in real life, tell your children they should never “talk” to strangers on the Internet. Make sure they understand that because you cannot “see” the person you are talking to, that person could be any age. Tell them to never give out any personal information or share photographs with strangers over the Internet—especially in chat rooms. It’s not a good idea to announce a family vacation online either.

Help your children add photos and names to the phone numbers on their cell phones so they know exactly who is calling them. Inform them never to answer a call from an unknown phone number or any “new” number that comes in. Advise your children to allow the call to go to voice mail and then listen to the message together to determine if the call is legitimate.

Keep the computer in a high traffic area of your home— never in the child’s bedroom. And turn off mobile handheld Internet devices at night. Keep them in the kitchen or hallway ready for the next day’s use.

Schedule certain times when the children may use the computer, such as after dinner when you are around.

Be in the same room when your child is on the Internet. Better yet, make the experience interactive. Learn a new fact together, visit a children’s e-zine, or talk to grandma on Facebook.

Filters and parental control software are available online and at electronics stores. Generally, parents should look for programs that can impose time limits for individual family members on all Internet capable devices, including mobile units and block access to certain web sites. You can purchase web browsers that are age appropriate. In his book, Protect Your Child on the Internet: A Parent’s Toolkit, John Lenardon informs readers that they should look for parental control software that “has been in existence for at least two years and is updated regularly.”

Two helpful Internet safety websites are loaded with information for parents and children. A wealth of reports and Internet connections is available on http://kidsafe.com/127/facts-about-Internet-safety/. A list of kid-friendly sites to explore can be found at www.protectkids.com.

The Internet is not childproof. Tips, software and filters are no substitute for parental supervision when children of any age are on the Internet.✲

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children with autism Set free

electing a summer camp can be a daunting task for any parent. Worries and questions, ranging from sunscreen to structure, all come to mind. But, when you are the parent of a child with special needs, the idea of summer camp is overwhelming.

Michelle Nerestant of Moorestown had been searching for just the right camp for her 12-year-old daughter, Jacqueline, for a while.

The youngest of four children, Jacqueline has severe autism.

Nerestant learned about the Explorer’s Summer Program, a camp operated by the New Behavioral Network (a division of The NBN Group) at Westfield Friends School. “It was an experience that not only touched my daughter’s life, but mine as well,” says Nerestant. “We saw her experience activities like horseback riding and water play for the first time, that under other circumstances, she would not do.”

“Rarely do you find people who are willing to hear what your child needs,” explains Nerestant. “They wanted to know.They asked me questions about her: ‘What can we do to make her experience wonderful? What does she like? What is her favorite color?’ The counselors really took the time to get to know her.”

Jacqueline was never confident in water play. “Now she puts on her bathing suit and says ‘water, water!’” Another milestone, according to Nerestant, is how vocal her daughter has become. “She is saying hello and good morning. Even now, months later, Jackie calls out the counselors’ names when we drive by the school!”

Since camp, Nerestant has seen positive changes in her daughter in terms of confidence, assertiveness and independence.

Jacqueline now cleans up her area and puts her things away. “We are building on the progress she made at camp. We always knew the potential was there. To see her blossom into this confident, assertive young lady is so

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Jacqueline, 12, and mom Michelle of Moorestown

important to us. That is what we knew she could be and they brought that out in her,” says Nerestant.

Jennifer Bailey, MSEd, BCBA, Behavior Analyst, New Behavioral Network, and Explorers’ Summer Camp Director, says, “Our staff does a really nice job of engaging the campers in both therapeutic and recreational activities. We work on social skills and engaging the children in fun activities that they do not normally do. We also work a lot on sharing, turn-taking, being part of a team and conversation skills,” she adds.

Beth Dridi of Riverside sent her 9-yearson, James, to Explorers’ Summer Camp this past summer for four weeks. Diagnosed with autism, James was able to work on his social skills with the ABA (applied behavior analysis), social skills programs that the counselors did throughout the day.

“The camp is so effective because it is run by well-trained, specific to autism, experienced staff members,” says Dridi. “Their patience, understanding of autism, and the knowledgeable strategies they implemented were remarkable. Two typically developing children also volunteered as peer helpers and allowed the campers to interact and practice appropriate social skills with them.

James came away from camp with increased empathy and awareness of other

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people. “When he is around people who have an understanding of the disorder and have strategies for the behavioral issues, he blooms like a beautiful flower. When this support is removed, he can regress rapidly,” explains Dridi.

Dridi has also seen positive behaviors from camp carry over into the school year for James, a student at Baker Elementary in Moorestown.

“Recently, at recess, a classmate was crying for a turn on the swing set,” says Dridi. “James jumped off his swing and called out the child’s name and said, ‘Here you can have my swing.’”

Dridi is hoping to send James back to the Explorers’ Summer Camp next summer. “I would recommend New Behavioral Network — their services and their camp — to anyone who needs ABA (applied behavioral analysis) intervention,” says Dridi.

“The wonderful thing about the design of our camp is that we give these children the camp experience they may not be able to have elsewhere,” says Laryssa Horodysky, BCaBA, Behavior Analyst, New Behavioral Network, and lead consultant for children ages 7 to 10 at Explorers’ Summer Camp.

“We understand what it takes and we set them up for success and reinforce all of their positive behaviors.”

The Explorers’ Summer Camp is a fourweek, full- or half-day program dedicated to providing a fun and therapeutic environment to children, ages 4 to 15, with autism spectrum disorders, ADHD and speech and language deficits. For more information on next year’s summer camp, please call The NBN Group at (856) 874-1616 and ask for the New Behavioral Network department.✲

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Affordable gifts for just about anyone. Contact via email at blsjewelry@hotmail.com THIRTY-ONE GIFTS! Need a gift? Place order & give gifts for free!

Host party & earn $$ while others buy gifts.

Join our team. Jessica Martin, (856) 767-0274, jlmartin31@verizon.net or Stephanie Joseph, (856) 783-8840, stephanieloves31@gmail.com.

Use Code SJMOMS31 for BONUS FREE GIFT! BELL’S DRIVING SCHOOL Building confident, safe drivers for over 15 years, Bell’s Driving School offers instruction for beginners as well as those needing to improve their driving skills. Makes a great holiday gift for students! (856) 457-7730, (856) 498-3563, www.bellsdrivingschool.org MOORE CREATIVE PHOTOGRAPHY Will your family be home for the holidays?

This is a great time for a family portrait.

Family and children, maternity and newborn; glamour and boudoir. “Fine portraits today because things change.” (856) 415-1000, moorecreativephotography.com NOOKIE PARTIES Sample the latest romance enhancement products while having fun & earning FREE Hostess Rewards, including a 2 night vacation! Ask about “The Nookie Mobile” where you can privately shop in our mobile romance boutique! www.NookieParties.com; (856) 397-2234 SPECIAL WINE GIFTS Wine on My Mind is the premiere destination for unique and unusual wine accessories and gifts. From wine-themed decor to decorative wine accessories, we have the wine related gifts to make any occasion special. www.wineonmymind.com, 877-466-7648 Visit our website and sign up for our e-newsletter

PERSONALIZED PRODUCTS MAKE A SPECIAL GIFT Great gifts to choose from with FREE PERSONALIZATION! Place an order or host a party and earn free products for yourself or as a gift. Ask me about joining my fun team!

Pamela Davis (856) 364-5880, www.myinitials-inc.com/PamelaDavis doTERRA CPTG ESSENTIAL OILS Take care of your family the natural way with the Family Physician Kit. Start your own health biz for only $150. Contact Liz Jordan www.mydoterra.com/lizjordan or (856) 296-1901 AFFORDABLE HANDBEADED JEWELRY! Custom or ready-made jewelry, cell phone charms, book marks and trendy hair bands.

We will work with you individually or come to your holiday party or event. (856) 354-9208, beccasbling@comcast.net BONBON’S PARTIES $10 off Kid’s Parties when BonBon’s Entertains. Princesses * Super Heroes * Characters to delight your children and make happy family memories. Face Painting * Glitter Tattoos * Balloon Art – Call Bonnie @ (856) 701-8734 LOOK YOUNGER. LIVE HEALTHIER. MAKE MONEY. Start your own business and turn your household expenses into income with Arbonne’s Swiss premium health and wellness products.

Holiday shop or host party and receive 20-80% discount! Anti-aging * nutrition/weight loss * cosmetics. hina@myarbonne.com; www.daretobelieve.myarbonne.com FOXFIRE ACCESSORIES Offering an extensive selection of quality fashion jewelry, sterling silver, watches, scarves and handbags at unbelievable prices. All jewelry 50% off in December. Open every day.

36 S. Broad St, Woodbury. (856) 848-9898 www.southjerseymom.com

ORGANIZING JUST GOT FUN! We offer excellent incentives and free products whether you host a party or join our team. Shop TODAY at www.clevercontainer.com/clevermeggin or email Meggin Olivo at clevermeggin@comcast.net for more info!

AT HOME AMERICA If you “like” FREE you’ll LOVE our hostess benefits and Start for FREE Programs.

Ask me how YOU can have it ALL with AtHome America. For all your decorating needs or career opportunity. Francine Kowalczyk (609) 828-7410, www.athome.com/ francine or FrancineAtHome@comcast.net DISCOVER THE TREASURES ON BROADWAY A unique blend of new & consigned apparel and accessories including Louis Vuitton, Coach, Burberry, Prada, Tory Burch, Sweet Romance Jewelry, Mary Frances, & more! Girls Night Out Parties too! (856) 218-1414, www.TreasuresOnBroadway.net EXPRESS YOURSELF! Award Winning interactive DVDs based on communication and self-expression. Infants, toddlers and young children enjoy the fun-filled DVDs – 40 basic signs in American Sign Language, the alphabet, classical music & more. $26.99, available at www.expressyourselfbaby.com LONGABURGER® MAKES UNIQUE GIFTS FOR ALL! Baskets, candles, pottery, wrought iron, fabric accessories, even customizable NFL and collegiate baskets! Order now for guaranteed Christmas delivery. Call Ginger Murray, Independent Longaberger Consultant today at (856) 451-2266. Happy Holidays!

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HAIR SNAPS MAKE A GREAT GIFT FOR GIRLS Shop local this holiday season! Girls of all ages love our custom hair accessories and jewelry.

Visit www.kellyandjaime.com. Follow us on Facebook: Hair Snaps by Kelly & Jaime.

Contact us via email: hairsnaps@hotmail.com

LINDT CHOCOLATE Earn extra income and delectable discounts with Lindt’s new home sales party program.

Crystal Ervin, Independent Consultant, Lindt Chocolate RSVP; (267) 971-1974, www.mylindtchocolatersvp.com/crystalervin, letsgetchocolatewasted@mail.com

MICHE BAG IS THE DESIGNER HANDBAG WITH INTERCHANGEABLE OUTSIDE COVERS! It’s your new favorite accessory! One Bag, Endless Possibilities! Host a party & get FREE products! Become a Miche Rep & earn extra $$. So You. So Now. So Miche.

Call Donna Today! (609) 820-1715. www.BagLadyDirect.com

OUR MOJO CUSTOM RHINESTONE DESIGNS Custom, handmade rhinestone car decals and apparel. We will turn your idea, art or logo into a custom rhinestone design. Hassle-free fundraising programs. No minimums!

(856) 371-2898, www.ourmojo.com

THE PERFECT GIFT FOR LOVED ONES WHO ARE HARD TO BUY FOR Custom handpainted glassware is the perfect gift. Full dinnerware accessories: s & p, butter dishes, carafes, wine glasses, oil bottles, & more! Visit Crafts By Marianne online today at www.craftsbymarianne.com or call (732) 473-0750.

GREAT GIFTS FOR HOME AND HOLIDAY— HUGE SALE! Host a party and enjoy Simply Good Design for free. Need extra income, join my fast-growing team. View my online store: www.janeanneilson.willowhouse.com or call Janean (856) 304-3420.

PRESERVE YOUR MEMORIES Convert your precious heirloom & family photographs into priceless storybooks to be treasured for generations to come.

Free consultation now available. Visit www.mycmsite.com/catherinemontgomery or call Catherine today at (973) 539-4754 TUPPERWARE GIFTS FOR ADULTS & KIDS! All the standards you love, plus new arrivals like Hello Kitty and Disney. Visit our new store at 3440 Haddonfield Rd in Pennsauken, or online at www.my.tupperware.com/ lindaestilow. Questions? Call Linda at (856) 662-6703 today!

AVON Get all your holiday gift needs in one place!

We have products for skincare, cosmetics, bath&body, fragrance, apparel, Christmas, and baby items. Get FREE products! Ask me how!

Visit www.youravon.com/jeffreyrichard or Call Aubrey (856) 217-9786.

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GET THE BEST VOCAL TRAINING What do Stevie Wonder, Michael Jackson and over 130 Grammy winners have in common?

They all use the most sought after vocal technique – Speech Level Singing! The Izabela Adams Voice Studio, Maple Shade. (856) 779-7077, www.izabelaadamsvoicestudio.com TASTEFULLY SIMPLE Tastefully Simple: The food you love, the time you deserve. Contact Lisa: FREE taste test at home/work, corporate gift giving, hassle-free fundraising, business opportunity consults. tastefullysimple.com/web/llozada-shaw; (856) 224-0879 or (215) 380-4215; id#0076036

DINE MAGGIANO’S LITTLE ITALY Elegant and comfortable dining rooms, generous portions, smiling faces to greet you and a knowledgeable service staff are just a few of the things waiting for you at Maggiano’s.

Family Style Dining-Banquets-CarryoutDelivery. www.maggianos.com, (856) 792-4470 FILOMENA LAKEVIEW RESTAURANT Whether it’s Dinner For 2 or a Group Celebration, the Historic Filomena Lakeview Restaurant is perfect for any occasion.

Join us for lunch or dinner 7 days a week.

1738 Cooper Street, Deptford. www.filomenalakeview.com BHAN THAI Thai Fusion Cuisine: Enter as strangers— leave as friends! Wonderful food & wonderful atmosphere!!! 4330 Dearborn Circle, Cambridge Crossing, Mt. Laurel (856) 234-4202; open 7 days! Gift cards available! www.BhanThaiCuisine.com Visit our website and sign up for our e-newsletter

RELAX CHILDREN’S THEATRE SHOWS Don’t miss Broadway Theatre’s adaptation of this beloved children’s story. Santa Claus is Coming to Town Dec 15-17. Follow Kris Kringle’s entertaining journey from childhood to adulthood! Tickets $9.(856) 384-8381, pitmanbroadwaytheatre.com NEVER DRIVE TO THE DRY CLEANER AGAIN! Bernie’s Mobile Dry Cleaning provides a timesaving service that simplifies busy lives.

Convenient pick-up and delivery of dry cleaning, laundry & alterations. Superior customer service. 116 Wilson Rd, Turnersville.

(856) 245-7161

BALANCE AND HARMONY FOR MIND, BODY & SOUL Experience serenity amidst seasonal stressors; eliminate holiday overindulgences to start 2012 off right; Create peace and joy within.

Individually tailored sessions or YLEO Therapeutic Grade Essential Oils.

Andrea Regal, Subtle Energy Therapist. www.HealersUniverse.com; (856) 904-5566 VISIT MORRIS ARBORETUM TO SEE THE HOLIDAY GARDEN RAILWAY DISPLAY Be wowed by twinkling lights along a ¼ mile track featuring 7 loops and tunnels with 15 different rail lines in the lovely winter garden of the Morris Arboretum. Morris Arboretum of the University of Pennsylvania. (215) 247-5777; www.morrisarboretum.org

GET YOUR BODY READY FOR THE HOLIDAYS Try a Body Wrap to get you ready for your little holiday dress. Gift certificate sale on Black Fri, Nov 25th. Visit www.essentialbodywork.com to order and for other offers.

DANCETOUCH WORKSHOP Join DanceTouch celebs from season 8 of the hit FOX tv show, Tadd, Wadi, Caitlynn and Marko! Supporting Rancocas Valley dance team, workshop ages 11-up; Jan. 22 at Double Tree Hotel, Mt. Laurel. For details www.facebook.com/DanceTouchCollective

MAGIC SHOW The Amazing World of Magic 2011 Edition. Dec 28-31. Tickets: $12-$15. See magic & mystery presented in a humorous fashion! Fun for all ages; more than 2 hours of magic fun! pitmanbroadwaytheatre.com; (856) 384-8381

LIVE IN JOY YOGA & WELLNESS Relax, renew & restore your body, mind and spirit. We offer Reiki, Thai Bodywork, Massage & Yoga classes for kids and adults! See our website for schedules & specials! (856) 546-1006, www.liveinjoyyoga.com

CALL REDEFINED SPACES FOR ALL OF YOUR HANDYMAN SERVICE NEEDS! Relax and enjoy your new space! Offering repairs & installs of doors, windows, kitchens & bathrooms; painting, drywall and trim work. Licensed (#13VH048180) & insured.

Serving South Jersey. References available.

(609) 670-0604

3D ULTRASOUND AND WOMEN’S SPA A tranquil destination for women in all stages.

Bellyssimo offers 3D/4D ultrasound services, non-pregnancy and pregnancy spa services & treatments, prenatal and wellness classes and a boutique! 3069 English Creek Avenue, EHT. (609) 910-2105, www.bellyssimo.net

ESCAPE DAILY LIFE Absolute Haven is: an escape from daily life, a massage, an experienced staff, a facial, a natural break for your body & mind and really the place you should be right now.

(856) 753-9993, www.absolutehaven.com

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WARM UP THE SEASON WITH A GIFT OF WELLNESS Give your loved ones a chance to relax and renew all year at vir tu Spa in Washington Twp. Choose from a 1 hr massage, facial or pedicure every month for a year. Call for pricing and details! (856) 728-7722

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Students at our special education schools experience a school day as it should be—filled with discovery, achievement, learning and friendship. Here, they have people they know they can count on—outstanding teachers, therapists, counselors, psychologists and job coaches who constantly encourage and support them.

Our students feel cherished, well cared for and respected for a very good reason—it is part of our mission and our commitment.

Our schools are welcoming places where students feel at home and are able to enjoy a rich and rewarding social life.

With individualized attention, on-site therapies and vocational training, our schools deliver unparalleled services for students with special needs. New Jersey Department of Education certified special education teachers, licensed therapists and counselors provide expert, advanced instruction and support … along with plenty of smiles.

These unique services are provided at NO COST for families.

Find out if private special education is the right fit for your child.

Our staff can help answer your questions. To find out more about what programs may be right for your child, call us at

Brookfield Schools

Park Academy And we make sure Garfield your Larc School —or visit our website at 1-800-697-8555 child is ready for it. www.privatespecialedsnj.com Copyright

HollyDELL, Inc. Kingsway Learning Center St. John of God Community Services

2011 The Coalition of Southern New Jersey Private Special Education Schools

Private special education is an option for many children, and provided at no cost to families.

Finding the appropriate educational option for your child can sometimes be a complicated process. We have access to education and legal experts who can help you navigate through the process. For more information or for help in understanding your rights, call us at 1-800-697-8555.

Give your loved one the gift of a clean car! EXCLUSIVE AUTO in Vineland, NJ offers full auto detailing!

Check out their

BRAKE SPECIAL and other services too!

• Headlight Restoration $35 • Headliners any color $175 & up • Scratch Removal • Window Tinting www.exclusiveautolubeandwash.com • Tires and More!

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For a complete list of events, log onto www.southjerseymom.com

To submit your event, send an email to calendar@southjerseymom.com.

Entries are due six weeks prior to the event and are filled on a first come first serve basis. Space is limited.

ATLANTIC COUNTY Caesars Tribute II - A Salute to the Ladies of the Ice December 3 Figure skating returns to Atlantic City. Caesars Tribute II created a special figure skating evening assembling a world-renowned cast of Ladies champions. Boardwalk Hall, Atlantic City. 1-800-745-3000.

Polar Express December 3 at 3 & 6 p.m.

The Hammonton Mothers’ Club will be partnering with The Eagle Theatre (208 Vine St, Hammonton) for a special holiday showing of Warner Brother’s The Polar Express. Children can wear their favorite pajamas and slippers. $8; age 1 & under free. Contact Sheryl at (609) 502-7588, www.hammontonmothersclub.com

BURLINGTON COUNTY Holiday Shop & Play Day December 1 from 11am to 2 pm Bring the kids to play while you shop, talk and learn. Little Sport, 121 E. Kings Hwy, Maple Shade.

(856) 234-6445, www.littlesport.net Donetsk Ballet’s The Nutcracker December 16 Experience this special holiday tradition! Performing Arts Center, Rancocas Valley Regional High School, Jacksonville Road & Ridgeway Street, Mt. Holly. Contact Chris Kerollis at (609) 267-0830 or Donetsknutcracker@gmail.com; www.mountlaurelballet.com A Winter’s Tea December 11 from 3 to 5 p.m.

Join us at the Moorestown Community House for crafts, live music, performances & of course, tea! Bring the whole family to this annual holiday celebration in support of Perkins Center for the Arts. www.perkinscenter.org The Great Adventure: A Journey Through the Bible Dec 3 from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Go on a journey through the entire Bible by going deep into each period of salvation history to illustrate www.southjerseymom.com

the amazing story woven throughout all of Scripture. This is an opportunity to learn how the key people, places, and events in the Bible fit together to reveal God’s Plan for humanity and much more. $50, includes lunch. Visit www.smlparish.org or contact Christine at greatadventure123@ gmail.com or (609) 654-8208, ext.

113. St. Mary of the Lakes Parish, 196 Rte 70 East, Medford.

CAMDEN COUNTY Holiday Open House & Shoe Drive Dec 16 from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Drop off your unwanted new or slightly worn shoes or slippers and in return, get a brand new pair of socks. Together we will make some needy children and adults smile.

All donations will be given locally.

Gifts, raffles and food. Creek Crossing Podiatry, 309 Creek Crossing Blvd, Hainesport.

(609) 261-9660 Camden Children’s Benefit Concert December 4 at 6 p.m.

Enjoy live music from choirs and local bands and help raise money for Kids in Camden. 100% money goes to buying gifts for the children. www.wix.com/camdenchildrensbenef/concert. Immanuel Baptist Church, Maple Shade, (856) 779-1807

CAPE MAY COUNTY A Christmas Wonderland, Ocean City’s Holiday Spectacular December 16, 17 and 18 Through dazzling costumes, familiar songs, special guests, toe-tapping numbers and special effects, this extravaganza will kindle the holiday spirit in all of us! Ocean City Music Pier, Moorlyn Terrace and the Boardwalk. $15/adult, $12/kids 12 & up.

Call for tickets and times.

(609) 525-9300, www.ocnj.us

CUMBERLAND COUNTY Soul of the Season December 10 from 6 to 9 p.m.

A great family holiday tradition event with over 30 galleries, shops and restaurants joining in to provide holiday shoppers a magical holiday evening. Horse carriage rides, free trolley, Santa’s Workshop & more. Downtown Millville. 1-800-887-4957 Christmas in the Café Dec 10 from 8a-7p & Dec 11 from 8a-2p Buy your most special Christmas gifts this year: handmade, from local artists. Shop and relax with a cup of tea or coffee and sit down for a delicious meal. Larry’s II Restaurant & Café, 907 N Main Rd, Vineland.

4th Annual William F. Milam Celebrity Banquet December 2 from 6 to 8:30 p.m.

This awesome evening includes celebrity meet & greet, banquet dinner, silent auction & more. $60/person. Benefits The SJ Youth Alliance. Meet Vai Sikahema, Reggie Dabbs, Dave Schultz, Seth Franco, Keith Elias, Jeff Deyo, Brian Propp, Irving Fryar, Barrett Brooks, Adam Bruckner & Mike Mamula.

Merighi’s Savoy Inn, Landis Ave, Vineland. 1-888-480-7592, www.sjya.com

GLOUCESTER COUNTY Mainstage Center for the Arts Holiday Concert/Family Festival December 17 at 1 p.m.

This treat for the entire family comes complete with hot chocolate, a visit with Santa, and a joyful holiday concert featuring the Mainstage performance groups, Harmony and Encore Show Choirs with High Pointe Dance Ensemble.

Lincoln Hall and the Dennis Flyer Theatre, Camden County College, Blackwood. $11/adults and $9/children under 12/senior citizens. www.mainstage.org, (856) 227-3091

things 2 do

December Calendar

WHS Project Graduation Santa Saturday & Craft Bonanza Dec 10 from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.

For $5 have a digital photo taken with Santa, play games, do crafts and have story time. For the adults, there will be crafter’s and vendors w/ toys, home products, jewelry, candles and more.

FREE. Williamstown High School, 700 N. Tuckahoe Rd, Williamstown.

For more info email GR1982@ aol.com 24th Annual WedgWood Women’s Club Christmas House Tour December 5 Residents put their homes on display to help kick off the holiday season and share its beauty.

Attend the tour 10a-3p or 5-9:30p.

Win fabulous prizes. $14 in advance and $16 the day of the tour. Call Sue @ (856) 227-5426 for tickets.

Holly Fair Dec 3 from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m.

Celebrate the start of the Christmas season with more than 30 area crafters with a wide array of unique gifts. Enjoy homemade quiches, soups, and sandwiches.

Poinsettias and fresh wreaths available. Bargains galore can be found in the Dollar Store featuring new and gently used household items, gifts and trinkets, and holiday decorations. Good Shepherd, 315 Highland Terrace (at Wildwood Avenue), Pitman. (856) 589-8209, www.goodshepherdpitman.org

SALEM COUNTY Yuletide Tour of Historic Salem December 1 from 1 to 6 p.m.

Visit 12 private historic homes plus churches, museums and demonstrations. $10. (856) 339-0400, www.facebook.com/ salemyuletidetou

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Cornerstone is an AMS member school. Call Today!

(856) 685-3258 or email Jlee.cms@gmail.com or visit www.CornerstoneMontessoriNJ.com.

GIFT IDEAS

GREAT PERSONALIZED GIFTS FOR ALL AGES At JUST FOR LITTLE PEOPLE (and others, too!) we specialize in new baby gifts both hand-painted or embroidered.

Beautifully wrapped and available for pick-up at our new Gibbsboro location, or we can ship it for you. Call (856) 627-8901 or check out www.justforlittlepeople.com.

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