Asbury Tidings - Laundry Love by Asbury Church

Inside Tidings

Behind the Sc enes One of the things that I see so well, and yet know that I have a limited perspective, too, is of

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Journey

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Laundry Love

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Calendar of Events

Perceptions

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New Members

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Family Room

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people who work behind the scenes to make our congregation go. I think of wedding hostesses, of those who usher and assist at memorial services, for those who prepare memorial service meals for a family, for those who work in children and student ministries, for Friendly Visitors who try to leave a

Pastor Tom Harrison

nice impression on first-time visitors, for those who take care of my membership rolodex, for those who prepare meals for college students, for those who go on mission trips all over the world, for those who drive shuttle buses, for those who run sound and screen, for those who rock the babies, for those who work on automobiles in Car Care ministry, for those who decorate t ables, for those who clean up in the Sanctuary, and for those who

Cover:

Doing the laundry is an act of love, it seems. No sooner has one load been

pray for others. These are just a few of the folks who never stand up and take a bow, who never get in front of the spotlight, whose names never appear in print, but who quietly and effectively serve Christ day after day. I see some of these

fluffed, folded and delivered, than the

people on a regular basis in their places. I want you to know how deeply

next load piles up, waiting to be washed

grateful I am for them. Without them the church would come to a total halt.

and dried. Even with today s modern appliances to streamline the process, the bottom line is that someone still has to do the laundry. While others may not acknowledge or show appreciation for those who execute this monotonous chore, it would soon become obvious if those in charge of laundry decided to go on strike.

The Apostle Paul spoke about the church being like a body (I Corinthians 12). The body has various parts, but the individual members of the body help serve a bigger purpose. Some of these bodily functions are certainly less glamorous than others, but they all work cooperatively for the same goal. When I see our people so consistently engaged in these places, I am tremendously grateful for them. And I also know that they receive back from giving. As Jesus said, It is more blessed to give than to receive. One of the best ways we show we are Christians is in our service. As Jesus said, Put it into practice. As James said, Faith without works is

This month s Tidings recognizes several of the many at Asbury who do the behindthe-scenes, often mundane tasks which allow ministry to happen in and through our church family.

dead. Or as Paul said, We were created for good works. Jesus said it like this: (Matt 25:37-40) Then the righteous will answer him, Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go

This has been one of the more difficult Tidings to complete. By the very nature of this month s theme, we have attempted to tell the stories of those who desire no

to visit you?

The King will reply, I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one

of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.

It s often the small

things that matter most. Or at least that s what Jesus said.

attention and who are happy to serve in the shadows. Our reluctant subjects

See you Sunday,

enable the limelight to shine on the One who has washed us whiter than snow.

Asbury Tidings is a monthly publication designed to tell stories of lives transformed by the power of Jesus Christ.

Preview of PROPOSED things to come!

North East Portico this view depicts the

North Exterior Elevation of the Rink this depicts the exterior

portico from the existing Breakaway entrance.

entry into the main foyer of the worship auditorium that is located at

This will provide protection from the elements for

the north end of the building. This entry has a canopy for protection

that entry and allow covered drop-off for

from the elements and a contemporary entry with vestibule that

approximately four vehicles at once.

compliments the interior design of this space.

Children s Expansion and Portico this view shows the additional 25,000 square foot proposed expansion to the children s area as well as the portico from the existing southern entrance. This portico will also provide coverage for approximately four vehicles at any given time.

View of Access to Rink from Children s Entrance this shows the perspective of the proposed parking and access to the rink to create

Proposed components not shown: Adult Remodel of Current Student Space and Covered Walkway to Chapel

a seamless campus. We are excited to show you the result of our months of design work and program development for our proposed expansion components. The bid packages will come back this month and we will know what the actual construction budget will be. Once those numbers are back and reviewed, we can determine exactly what we can afford to build and a presentation will be made to the congregation. 1

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Notes from the Journey

By Lisa Tresch

y friend Johnnie spent

the last few decades of her life tutoring non-

English speaking people in her clut-

good deeds during a church service,

Jesus brought with Him to earth

give her a corsage. Maybe write about

news of a different kind of

her in the church paper.

kingdom. God s kingdom exalts those

People should know what s going

who are willing to be servants in

tered living room. She would bake a

on here, I told her. They should know

the shadows--those who don t need

batch of cookies and straighten the

what great things you re doing.

pedestals or spotlights. Those who

cr ocheted afghans that were scattered

I remember sitting at her kitchen

are content to do their acts of righ-

ac ross her couch and chairs and wait

table with the literacy papers scattered

teousness without fanfare or notice are

for the knock at her door. Her husband

across it as she tutored me on how to

the ones that seem to fit well within

had been dead for many years and her

tutor the ESL students. I was young

this kingdom. Jesus told His disciples

chil dren were grown and gone. She

and full of zeal and wanting everyone to

to forget everything they had been

could have sat down and given up or

know what gre at things my friend was

taught and get ready for a kingdom

wallowed in the loneliness of her

doing for God. She looked up from

where those who are first will be last,

circumstances but she decided to do

the table over the tops of her glasses

those who are the least will be the

something else, so she took an ESL

and grinned. The only One that matters

greatest. As with most everything,

(English as a Second Language) course

already knows, s he said in a raspy

Jesus was talking about a change of

and began welcoming Hispanics,

voice. Now get your mind off all that

heart. He seems to be saying that in

Russians, Chinese and Koreans into

and let s get back to work.

order to please God, we must stop

her home. She devoted her life to

I didn t say any thing else about

clawing our way to the top of the

helping these people assimilate into the

getting her some kind of

heap and craving the applause of those

United States through language.

deserved recognition after that. I had

around us.

I thought she was remarkable,

made the mistake of thinking that

Johnnie did get her recognition.

and I pushed for her to be

she had been shy, or just waiting for

She got a corsage in a worship service

recognized. The church I was in at the

someone to notice her an d make a big

one Sunday morning and she smiled

time al lowed these students to meet in

deal out of her good works. That day, I

and accepted it graciously.

one of their rooms on Wednesday

realized that she saw things in a

evenings, and Johnnie was instrumen-

different light. The pat on the back

starting to understand how it was

tal in recruiting other volunteers to help

really meant nothing to her. Really

supposed to work. The greatest people

with the ESL p rogram. Most people,

nothing. She welcomed these stude nts

in the kingdom of God are those who

however, didn t know what was going

into her home--and into her life--

are willing to step back into the

on during those evenings, and they

because she loved them. Somehow,

shadows and listen for the applause of

didn t know wha t Johnnie did or how

that b rought more fulfillment than all

the only One that matters.

much of her life she poured into these

the recognition, the corsages, the

people. I wanted them to announce her

accolades.

By that time, however, I was

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My Friend Ken by John C. Westervelt

elda and I first met Ken

and Sheila Bays in the late 1950s in the Wed-

ding Ring Class at another church in Tulsa, when our children were in preschool. We soon became close friends. Our friendship continued when all of us moved to Asbury and the Joy Sunday school class. For many years, Ken and Sheila taught young children in Sunday school at Asbury. Today many families of those children remain friends of Ken and Sheila. They have been invited to the weddings of young people they first met in kindergarten. Nelda died 20 years ago. During

special man. I always imagined that Jesus had a smile of approval when

the ensuing weeks, months, and

He listened to Ken talk to Him about

years, most friends never talked about

the needs of his cancer victims.

Nelda. It was as if all her living had

A few years ago, Ken was

vanished. But not Ken. He called me

stricken with bladder cancer. He fought

almost every week and often talked

the hard battle and won. Then in 2006

about Nelda and the good times we

cancer returned to a bone in his leg. In

had together. Ken would ask about my

time, he was admitted to the hospital

children, grandchildren, and my widowed sister, whom he had met. Ken and Sheila finally had to give

to control the pain. He is now in the nursing facility at Methodist Manor. Recently, I visited with Ken and

up teaching children when they could

Sheila at Methodist Manor. They are

no longer hear well enough to under-

pleased with the facility and the

stand a child s words. They shifted their serving to Stephen Ministry. I was aware that Ken kept a

nursing staff. The Bays live a few blocks south of the Manor, which is a

On the day of my visit, Sheila sat in a chair close to Ken s bed. Nancy Parks and I were seated in nearby chairs. As we talked, I watched as Sheila, likely unaware, gently stroked Ken s arm. I thought, There is love of a parent for a child and of a child for a parent. Love is expressed and felt for a friend. God planned a growing intimate love for young married couples. Could it be that the deepest love is that of a spouse for a spouse when one of them is helpless and suffering?

big plus for Sheila as she maintains a

journal of all those at Asbury with

home and spends most of her time

Editor s note: Every fall the Tidings team

cancer and prayed for them every day.

with Ken. Despite the very painful

determines the themes for the following

I asked, and Ken obliged my request,

bone cancer in his leg, Ken and

year s publications. The Asbury staff was asked in September to submit story ideas to

to add my friends and relatives with

Sheila have countenances that reflect

fit the themes. Ken Bays name was submit-

cancer to his journal. Ken is Jesus

the presence of Jesus.

ted by several who believe he personifies Laundry Love.

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Just a Friendly Visitor

don t recall the exact date,

true Christian fellowship, laced with

in 1935, the same year Gene became

but it was during our regular

the love of Jesus, and offered a kind

a Christian. In 1942 the Bonds were

Sunday afternoon Friendly

word, said Albert.

married. Af ter retirement in 1988, Gene

Visitor calls that we selected an

He says this was a defining

and Irene along with son Ron and his

address in far West Tulsa. While driving,

moment in his life. He felt he was

family moved to Tulsa. Eventually, the

Irene and I began to question the

witnessing love in action. While this

family chose Asbury as their place of

effectiveness of our visits. We weren t

was so significant forAlbert, the

worship. Pastor Tom was a strong

considering that God was directing us

Bonds weren t even sure it made a

influence in our decision along with

and was answering our question when

difference. Albert laughs when he

finding a number of friends that were

Albert Kahl and daughter, Kayla, opened

thinks about it, I was standing there

already attending, said Gene.

the door. They were so surprised at the

with my arms crossed and a kitchen

response to their first attendance at

towel thrown over my shoulder. I m

volunteer they decided the Friendly

Asbury that very morning, said Gene

sure they thought I was unresponsive,

Visitor ministry was a good place to

Bond.

but I really was blown away by their

begin. Now, they are involved in other

kindness.

areas of ministry: Gene in Men s

That was a call where God was to show them that, yes, they were

I would like to say that I was

As they considered ways to

Prayer Breakfast and Habitat For

making a difference. They didn t know

changed in a flash that very moment,

Humanity and Irene providing food for

it that day, but now know that the

but I can t. I was letting situations in

funerals and helping with the Ronald

smallest task, directed by God can be

my life overwhelm me. I was not seeing

McDonald program.

fruitful.

any good from my circumstances and

And Albert? It was rewarding

was focusing on the bad, negative

when Albert asked us to stand with

started on that July Sunday afternoon.

things in my life. The Bonds came with

him as he reaffirmed his faith in Jesus

I had visited the Asbury 11 a.m.

love to share and what they found was

Christ and promised to be faithful to

Chapel service that morning. I returned

a very angry, broken, misdirected and

Him as expressed through his service

home and was doing dishes. A knock

misguided man with little hope.

as Asbury United Methodist Church,

Albert explained, My journey

came on the door and a delightful

The Bonds each had a firm

couple, Gene and Irene Bonds, was

relationship with the Lord. Irene had

standing there. They introduced

dedicated her life to Jesus

themselves, stuck out their hands in

Christ

said Gene. In January 2005 Albert became involved in Celebrate Recovery and has discovered release from many of the things that had previously overwhelmed him. God has changed Albert his attitude and prayer life. He wants to live his life for Jesus Christ. From a simple handshake and love in action to a saved life. That s what Asbury and Celebrate Recovery have brought to Albert Kahl. That, and a vital relationship with his adopted God-parents, Gene and Irene Bond. -Sandy Wagner

Albert Kahl greets Friendly Visitors, Gene and Irene Bond.

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Finding Joy in Serving here is one unmistakable

odist Manor, and Emmaus. Pat is also

ministry, she says, Just do some-

thing you notice about

currently training for the Stephen

thing!

Pat Finch in the first

Ministry.

moments you meet her. She radiates

Some may say, My, you are

My heart is so full of love for God and people, Pat says. And when she

the love of God. And as you hear her

busy! But Pat just smiles and says

gives of herself she is blessed with joy,

share her heart, you can t help but get

she s the one who is blessed. I often

contentment and strength. Pat has

drawn into the joy and excitement she

get teased about raising my hand

discovered that true peace doesn t

has for serving her God and the people

whenever there s a need. Some of my

come from just being busy. It comes

around her.

friends have even said they are going

from surrender, walking with God and

to tie my hands next time someone

being willing to be used by Him.

asks for a volunteer!

-Nikki Boyd

You d think that a person who has so much joy would have a life story filled with ease and happiness.

Pat has participated in studies

But Pat s story is far from that. Death,

on the Holy Spirit and spiritual gifts

divorce, financial struggles, loss of two

and sees the importance of both when

family members to suicide, cancer

it comes to being used by God.

Pat has faced them all. She ques-

You have to have God s power

tioned God asking Him why He didn t

and enlightenment to know the

save her from such pain. But the time

hurt of another. My life experi-

would come when God would use her

ences have enabled me to give

hurt for good.

with compassion.

Pat was baptized at age seven.

When it comes to serving,

But years later while serving in ministry;

Pat thinks it s important for

she realized she hadn t experienced a

Christians to do it without

real walk with God. I was on a church

expecting anything in return.

staff and my life was empty. I was

God says, Go and serve. If

searching for something.

we re going to follow Him, we

Then a couple years ago, she

have to do what He says.

heard something during one of Tom

Just like Jesus healed, we

Harrison s sermons that penetrated her

can bring healing to others

heart. She heard the words, It s not

lives with our words and

about you. Pat finally surrendered and

actions.

said to God, Work Your will in my life. God stirred in Pat a desire to go

Giving her time and energy for the sake of

beyond herself and it wasn t long

others is contagious to

before her involvement in ministry

Pat. The more I do, the

began to grow: Children s Sunday

easier it gets. And there s

school teacher, member of Tapestry

a freedom in knowing I ve

community, Tweenagers cook, mission

done something for

work, Acts 29 Prayer Ministry, tutor at

God. For those who are

a local school, regular visits to Meth-

hesitant to get involved in

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Looking for Ways to Share he young girl s letter

personal mission statement: to share

giveaway. When he got to work, he

was full of prayer

the message of Christ s love. This

sent an email to about 50 co-workers

requests, but it began

verse sums up their heart for ministry:

soliciting money for turkeys. Within a

like this: Thank you again for being

Keep on loving each other as brothers.

couple of hours he had collected about

so kind and patient to use your time

Do not forget to entertain strangers, for

$500. By the time he finished the effort

to help us better understand the

by so doing some people have enter-

he had collected $720. He remem-

computer. God bless you.

tained angels without knowing it.

bered that Williams Companies has a

Remember those in prison as if you

corporate match, so he completed the

this and remembers why she treks

were their fellow prisoners, and those

paperwork for the match, which gave

down to St. Luke s United Methodist

who are mistreated as if you yourselves

him $1,440. When I got to John 3:16

Church each Sunday and Thursday

were suffering. (Hebrews 13: 1-4)

there was a radio promotion going on,

Janet Theis reads an email like

evening to teach a computer class to recently released prisoners.

Janet s work with ex-offenders

and the man coordinating it said there

through Operation Hope and Redemp-

was a corporate sponsor who would

tion Ministry was an answer to prayer.

match the $1,440 donation, Matt

have a passion for ministry and

She wanted to use her teaching skills

said. That made it $2,880, which

missions that goes back to their

to impact people and society and so

resulted in about 250 turkeys. Matt

childhood. Both were raised in homes

she prayed that God would open a door

tells the story in a matter-of-fact way,

where the love of Jesus was shared by

for her to do this in a new and different

which reflects the natural way in which

helping those in need. Matt s parents

way. He answered her prayer and now

he and Janet weave ministry within the

were missionaries in Korea where his

she spends two nights a week with

rhythms of their day.

parents ran a home for former street

people that many in society have

children many of them orphans.

disregarded and forgotten.

Janet and her husband Matt

Janet s parents were always finding

When I leave St. Luke s, I have

Many people think they must evangelize to bring people to Christ, Janet says. While that might ulti-

practical ways to help those in need,

such a good feeling that I made a

mately be true, the opportunity for

and now she finds herself immersed in

difference and gave someone hope that

evangelism usually comes after

ministries with the same purpose.

things will get better, says Janet.

relationships have been established

Quietly, but with great determina-

Each day they look for opportuni-

and people have seen you sharing

tion, both Matt and Janet spend hours

ties to minister, and sometimes God

of their days and weeks serving those

leads them to do something com-

who are in need. Through Operation

pletely spontaneous. The Tuesday

open for ways to share that love. They

Hope, Youth at Heart, John 3:16, Day

before Thanksgiving, Matt was driving

believe that you only have to step out

Center for the Homeless, Salvation

to work and heard on the radio that

your front door to find opportunities.

Army and other organizations who

John 3:16 was about 1,000 turkeys

-Lisa Tresch

serve the less fortunate, they fulfill a

short for the Thanksgiving Turkey

God s love. Matt and Janet keep their eyes

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Born in the Boston area, Tom attended church on and off throughout his life. But it wasn t until the loss of his son to a blood disease that he was brought to a true encounter with God. I

Using His Talents for God

figured out I m not in control, God is. His son s death seemed so unfair; he had recently gotten a great job and life seemed to be going so well. But as Tom worked through his grief, God brought him to a place of trust. Though struggles and pain are inevitable in life, Tom now knows he doesn t have to carry them alone. I don t have to wring my hands at challenges; I can pass the burdens of life onto God. Looking back, Tom can see how God orchestrated circumstances that have opened the door to service. I ve always had a talent to fix things, even since I was a kid, says Tom. He recalls using a bundle of tomato stakes to build sideboards for his wagon. Later in life he worked with Salvation Army s Boys and Girls club repairing resale furniture. Even his business fabricating gaskets for heavy machinery refined his woodworking skills. It s the same concept, you re just working with a different material. At the old Sheridan Road Asbury facility, a Children s Ministry staff member approached Tom about building a ping-pong table. It wasn t a coincidence that at that same time he was repairing one for the Salvation Army. It helped him make a new table from scratch and it is still enjoyed by our kids today. When Asbury moved to the new location Tom was eager to serve. He approached Joanne Miller, Director of Asbury s Preschool, I fix furniture, what can I do for you? What started with the repair of an easel has led to the construction of cabinets, staff mailboxes, stepstools,

om Monahan has left

marks of service all over the campus of Asbury.

You ve probably walked past some and not even known it. Throughout the ministry areas, God has used Tom s talent of woodworking and furniture rep air. Whether it s a bookshelf, a

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and over 200 shelves. With the help of Methodist Men, Tom constructed 24 bathroom partitions for the toddler area in just seven days! He has also repaired 500 chair arms for some of the adult community areas. Tangible things like hand-built shelves and stools are a great reminder that God uses all people with all different talents. And even the smallest of jobs have resounding importance in the kingdom of God. Tom sees his service as

repaired piece of furniture, or cubbies

part of his tithe. I love what I do, he says. God

for the children s area, Tom quietly

has put me in a place where I can be used.

serves by working with his hands.

-Nikki Boyd

nspirational. Gracious.

Working

Barnes, Alex Lochan, Gene Graves,

tives often used to describe a

Jeff Dowdy and TJ Hoke.

very special team of men who diligently

with a Servant s Heart

Maintenance Team Leader; Roger

Dedicated. These are adjec-

Each has specific duties as well

work among us. It has been said that,

as special projects. Each one is a

Individual commitment to a group effort

hard worker and willing to do anything

is what makes a team work. The

and everything asked of them, said

Maintenance Team at Asbury is a

Jeff Polk. In describing his team, he

perfect example of diverse individuals

recognized that the job they do

coming together to masterfully main-

requires a servant s heart

tain and serve the greater Asbury community. All these men are extremely

What does it mean to have a servant s heart? From a biblical perspective Jesus says, Whoever

valuable to me. They do an excellent

wants to become great among you

job at keeping the facilities new

must be your servant, and whoever

appearance, said Manager of Facili-

wants to be first must be your slave

ties Jeff Polk. The team includes eight

just as the Son of Man did not come

men Day Maintenance Team Leader

to be served, but to serve and to give

Alan Barnes, Jack Wagner, Night

his life as a ransom for many. (Mat-

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thew 20:26-28) Jesus himself

going over and above to assist on a

was needed for the missions area,

came to serve. It is a selfless

personal level. Pastor with Women

said Global Outreach Director Mary

attitude. What a great compliment

Darlene Johnson remembers a time

Ann Smith.

to have that said of these men!

I can t count the times when one

installed incorrectly. She asked Jack if

has come to the rescue. We couldn t

Alex and Jeff Dowdy say they love

he could come by her house and look

do ministry nearly as well if it weren t

what they do. I feel I am doing

at it and he came that same day and

for their flexibility and dedication, said

corrected it for me with such a pleas-

Charlene J. Giles, Director of Care and

ant attitude and that attitude has not

Marriage Ministry.

Reflecting on their job, both

something for the Lord. This is His house, not ours, Jeff said. Both take pride in ensuring the Sanctuary is ready for worship. Alex said he is inspired by having personal worship time while preparing the Sanctuary for corporate worship. As the many stories began to circulate they did indeed demonstrate that servant s heart. There were many instances of

when her washer and dryer were

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changed since I met him. Joan Henning, Volunteer Coordi-

Next time you walk through the spotless halls or use the immaculate

nator, is grateful for the willingness of

restrooms or worship in a beautifully

Gene and TJ in helping her unload

kept Sanctuary, say a prayer of

groceries for Celebrate Recovery in the

blessing on these men and their

sweltering heat of summer. Gene even

families, giving thanks for their servant

gave me his cell number and said I

hearts.

could call him directly to let me in.

-Sandie Hoyt

Roger and Alan have always been most gracious to do whatever

The Hopkins Family: Jan with Payton, five, and three-year-old twins, Katie and Emily.

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FOR WHOEVER EXALTS HIMSELF WILL BE

HUMBLED, AND WHOEVER HUMBLES HIMSELF

WILL BE EXALTED. . . MATTHEW 23:12

Nurturing Our Youngest

watched from my office window as a young, attractive woman opened her car

door for nursery check in. She escorted her daughters to

preparing 15 bottles per hour, and more, she returns to the Sunday

their Sunday school classes, picked

school classes to reunite with her

to carefully unload three beautiful

up her Clorox water bottle for sanitiz-

daughters, clock out, and move toward

young daughters under the age of four.

ing her room, and returned to 1912.

the parking lot with her own precious

Her noticeable strength told the story

She pulled her auburn hair into a high

cargo.

of how many times she had singly

ponytail to avoid little fingers that

done this routine.

enjoyed the touch of her pretty curls.

know her. I am one of the privileged.

She welcomed her faithful

She has been on the nursery staff for

The girls were adorned with

Only a very few Asbury members

matching pink coats, pink hats, and of

volunteers as they arrived early and

three years. Her quiet and humble

course, pink gloves. Their hair was

then opened the half door reflecting a

demeanor would never allow her to

brushed into soft curls that danced in

confidence that assures the families

expect recognition for the wonder she

the early Sunday morning breeze as

nothing will happen to their bundle

performs behind the scenes on Sunday

they entered the south entrance at

with her nearby.

morning.

Asbury. Laughter filled the parking lot

Behind the half door hides a very

Jan Hopkins will return the next

as Mommy and daughters scurried

private and protected world for only the

Sunday. She may have fewer volun-

into the quiet church entrance. I

newest Asbury members. Their every

teers and several extra babies, but the

couldn t help but smile as I missed the

need is recognized, recorded, and

half door will open on time and her

simplicity of being a child.

reported to the appropriate parents on

reassuring smile will be there to greet,

their return. She knows every child s

assure, and manage that hidden world

nursery office where Mom clocked in

name, temperament, bottle, pacifier,

for her special babies.

to begin a five hour work day. She

and favorite blanket. She often

moved quickly to prepare room 1912

cuddles two babies in a rocking chair

babies with sweet spirits that nurture,

for a busy day with numerous babies

with her foot bouncing another child in

love, and protect.

she was responsible for that morning.

his carrier all to a familiar rhythm.

The children were rushed into the

She hurried across the room with her

The morning ends much like it

usual poise knowing the exact amount

began. After caring for 15 infants per

of time she had before opening the half

hour, 30 diaper changes per hour,

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God continues to surround our

I m guessing in Jan s personal world, He does the same for her. -Vicki Ihrig

Teaching the Children to Serve

tragic car accident left

for ministry with which she reveals her

Jamie Mendoza s

servant s heart. The residents who

brother-in-law, Raul

come each month all know and love

Mendoza, mentally and physically disabled. He was moved to Murdock Villa, a high-rise apartment building for disabled adults, where he lived for nearly ten years. During the summer of 2005, shortly after Raul passed away,

Jamie. People see the light of Christ and what we at Asbury are all about because of Jamie, said Jami Moss, Asbury s 5.6 Team Associate. Jamie is humble, compassionate and consistent. She is such an asset to

Asbury s fifth and sixth graders began

Asbury because she is one of the

a monthly service project visiting the

foundational people who hold us up.

residents of Murdock Villa. Jamie

It s an awesome place to serve

jumped at the opportunity to serve the residents in memory of Raul. Jamie and the 5.6 students travel to Murdock Villa after church one Sunday each month. They spend an

y name is

because of people like her. Jamie has been a Christian for

believer in Jesus

personal touch. They range from

decorating Christmas cards and miniChrist. I have been

the example set by her parents. Now,

service for their two boys, Turner and Luke. Visits to Murdock Villa have become a family outreach for the Mendoza s. Watching the children learn to serve others is Jamie s favorite part of

Christmas trees in December to clay

delivered from a de-

each visit. She loves teaching the

pots to decorate with paint pens and fill

children how to help people in need.

structive with flowers in the relationship spring. Jamie s craft

She is always on hand to help the

projects have become an excellent tool

reaching out and helping the residents than the adult volunteers are, Jamie said. After every visit, I m so glad I was there. There s a place for everyone to serve in the church. You just have to find the place where you fit, Jamie said. We are meant to serve. With a church this large, everyone needs to do their part. Jamie is now also serving on

Ministry First and Second grade

church. She learned to serve others by

setting the same example of Christian

which each resident adds a creative

The kids are more comfortable

staff at Asbury. She is the Children s

crafts that Jamie has designed and

typicallyI m seasonal and are projects to and a grateful

handicapped woman in a wheelchair.

was raised in the faith and in the

she and her husband, Ernest, are

Valerie Smith

young niece befriended a multi-

as long as she can remember. She

hour helping the residents make the

prepared ahead of time. Her crafts are

she watched in amazement as her

children teach the craft. One Sunday,

(KRS) Team Associate. The Children s Ministry is one of the things that drew Ernest and Jamie to Asbury four years ago. She is so excited to be sharing her gifts and passion for Jesus Christ with the parents and children in KRS. If you would like to know more about Asbury s outreach to Murdock Villa, please contact Jami Moss at 392-1166 or email jmoss@asburytulsa.org -Christy Capps

with alcohol and today I struggle with an eating disorder,

low self-esteem, social anxiety, and relationship issues. ASBURY TIDINGS

NOW THAT I, YOUR LORD AND TEACHER, HAVE WASHED YOUR FEET, YOU ALSO SHOULD WASH ONE ANOTHER S FEET. . .JOHN 13:14

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Blessed to be a Blessing ive years ago, Jim Light, owner of LaMode Clean-

ers called Asbury s Music Ministry and offered to clean the choir robes at no charge to the church.That first year the 175

robes were taken to the 41st Street LaMode location in two cars and a truck. Jim delivered them back to the church before Sunday, each wrapped in clear poly bags and looking pristine. The Music Ministry has been the grateful recipient of his generosity since then. Ten years ago, Jim, an Oklahoma State University graduate in Radio and Television Sales was tired of his job. He had worked for 18 years in the sales market when the offer to buy LaMode Cleaners surfaced. Because of the uniqueness of the offer and his friendship with the owner, Jim found it hard to pass up. He basically had to start from scratch in this new business. With the assurance that the former owner would stay on and teach Jim everything he knew about the dry cleaning business, Jim made the purchase. He quickly discovered that making a living in the cleaning industry is not an easy task. When Jim bought the business in the mid- 90s men and women wore suits to work everyday suits that had to be dry cleaned on a regular basis. Casual Friday became casual everyday and the dry cleaning business was hit hard. In addition to fewer clothes to clean, there were also lots of dry cleaners in town. Jim has built his business on the quality of his work. He enjoys the hours in by 6 a.m. home by 3 p.m. being his own boss and the challenge and fulfillment of making the business work. About five years ago Jim participated in Leadership Tulsa. One of its objectives stresses that businesses give back to the community. Jim took that a step further and said, What can I do for my community and my church? Asbury has blessed me so much that I wanted to do something for the church. As a dry cleaner it seemed a natural thing to clean the choir robes. As part of the Leadership Tulsa program, Jim was required to intern with a non-profit organization. He chose Volunteers of America and looked at his business to determine how he could help the community. Because of former sales connections with KOTV, the News on Six, he approached them and Volunteers of America with the idea of partnering to help the homeless in our area. Project Warmth became a reality. During the month of January KOTV, the News on Six and LaMode Cleaners receive gently used blankets, comforters and quilts for Project Warmth. Jim and his crew stay after hours and come in on days off to clean the blankets before the Volunteers of America distribute them to the homeless. Occasionally people donate blankets that are in pretty bad shape. Jim cleans them and then takes them to the SPCA or the German Shepherd Rescue. Not one blanket goes to waste. Since that beginning Jim and his crew have cleaned over 15,000 blankets. Though Jim s life has not been easy, neither personally nor in his career, he still finds ways to bless those who have blessed him, to be an example of Christ for all who know him. -Marti Morris ASBURY TIDINGS

Dedicated to Making Worship Happen ome 9:15 each Sunday

Lord will not put on him more than he

advance toward his great desire,

morning, an entourage of

can handle and that God will be his

Andrew has just started his first

mostly-young-folks

strength when he is weak.

semester at Tulsa Community College.

awaits the close of Asbury s first

As much as Andrew loves the 11

Andrew told me that his favorite

worship service. Once the room is fully

Chapel worship, his greatest love is

place to be is in his home so it goes,

available, these servant leaders begin

found in the water and in the air, for

There s no place like home! And

setting up for 11 Chapel worship. Sound

you see his first love is the study of

Andrew was quick to follow up on the

and music equipment is moved in and

and interaction with water animals and

location of his home, declaring, I ve

meticulously assembled. The array of

birds. While not being able to work

got three homes: at my house with my

signature candles --sprinkles of light to

full-time due to his physical disability,

Dad, Asbury and the Oklahoma

catch the eyes of the soon-to-arrive

Andrew has committed himself to

Aquarium. That s where I like to be!

worshipers--are taken from storage and

volunteering at two local animal

set into their assigned places, Com-

habitats. While volunteering at Safari

working with full devotion in the

munion elements are displayed; sound

Joe s Zoo in Adair, Andrew grew to

Chapel, be sure to give him a big

checks are made; projection screens

love working with the birds and even

Thank you Andrew! and Welcome

are tested; and, ushers arrive early to

had his favorites: Blue, Sarah and

home, brother!

greet those who arrive for their weekly

Shelby. One of the reasons Safari Joe

-Dick Read

worship gathering.

placed Andrew with these mimicking

In the midst of the pre-worship

feathered friends is because he knew

hustle is the service s self-appointed

Andrew would not teach them

Chapel Manager Andrew Schouten.

profanity, thus saving Safari

Andrew first came to Asbury in January

Joe embarrassment during

2000 to participate in the Wednesday

show times.

evening young adult 2:6-7 Bible study.

Presently, Andrew is a

Soon after, he began participating in the

devoted volunteer at the

new 11 a.m. Living Room Service, what

Oklahoma Aquarium in

is now the 11 Chapel Sunday morning

Jenks, where he particularly

worship service. Andrew quickly found

loves interacting with the

his role in service as a set-up volunteer,

marine mammals. Andrew s

which progressed into an I ll do

greatest desire is to be a

anything! volunteer.

Marine Biologist. He ll tell

Andrew s biggest challenge in

you that in high school

the past year has been a diagnosis of

biology lab, while most

Parkinson s Disease. Yet, even on

other students were

those tough Sundays when the

aghast at the dissection

muscles aren t working full-force,

of marine animals, he

Andrew s loyalty and determination

was fascinated. I think I

brings him to the Chapel to ensure that

was the teacher s pet,

all is prepared for worship. Andrew s

says Andrew because

assurance from God s Word is that the

he loved it so much. To

So whenever you see Andrew

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photo

ana has always had the ability to think deeply about

matters. I ve learned to trust her judgment and instinct. She is not a gregarious, hand me the microphone person, but ince the first time I saw Cathy,

she likes small groups and excels in

I loved her. She was a

one-on-one relationships. She is

cheerleader with beautiful eyes (still consistent, steady, and highly engaged beautiful!), but she was different happy, with her friends. She is not a mile wide personable, caring, approachable pretty but she is a mile deep. good character traits for a ninth-grade girl! Dana s college and master s And, over the 41 years since we degree is in the area of social work. She

without sounding way too

met, she has continued to reveal facets of

corny? She has always been the driving

who God has made her to be in ways that

spirit behind my success. As a high

surprise and delight me on a regular basis!

school student she saw a deeper need in

wants to help others. She is a mother, first and foremost. She loves our children and She has a love and a hope for they know it. Her love has provided

me, the cynical college student, and

everyone she meets. She is remarkably

dared to lead me into a personal

creative and energetic.

relationship with Jesus. Sally was raised

them a security that I have known and experienced, too. When Dana is around In all of her relationships, she leads us, we all feel safer and more confident.

never knowing anything but the love of

with God s love, perhaps most evident in

Christ and the church. She is one of my

her relationships with her husband (moi),

anchors. Ironically, in our own ways we

children and children-in-law.

are both shy, bookish types and have

She is like her mom was in this way. I m grateful that God brought us th

hat can I say about Sally

together. We are approaching our 30

Christian, wife, mother, (and soon, anniversary. I m looking forward to the

found it humorous that God would call me

grandmother), artist, teacher, friend,

into ministry and her to be a minister s

daughter, sister, aunt, cousin Cathy is

wife. Sally has often sacrificed her

many things to love. But most of all, for

personal aspirations to blend into the life of

me, she is my one and only!

being married to a Methodist minister.

Cath, will you be my Valentine again?

Sally and I have always seen ourselves

-Dub Ambrose

as partners. She is my harshest critic,

next 30. -Tom Harrison

my biggest supporter, my lover and always my best friend. She helps me feel like I m the luckiest man on the face of the earth. -Charles Ryser

tephenie is easily my best

friend, my greatest encourage

and I am blessed to spend a life of mini

with her. My friends and family have a

given me a hard time about being picky

used to joke with them that I only had th

requirements when looking for the girl th might spend the rest of my life with. 1)

must love Jesus. 2) She must love me She must look good in jeans. I had not

realized how deeply the first two require

could be met until spending the last five half years with Stephenie(the third, of course, is a bonus). I have not known time ministry without her, and could not

y wife is the most remarkable woman I know. While keeping her life focus intently on the Lord

imagine doing it without her love and su

Jesus, Cindy is amazing at balancing all of life s demands. She s an outstanding wife and my

I pray that God would give patience, gr

closest companion, an unbelievable mother, a diligent servant to Jesus, a dear friend to many, and an and humility to be the same support for extraordinary professional real estate agent. Most would say Cindy s most notable attribute is that she is Stephenie in her work for the Kingdom an enthusiastic optimist, which is birthed out of her love for Jesus. Cindy sees good in virtually everything,

whether that be with college students, th everyone and every situation. It s hard to be a grump in the Read household with Cindy at the hub of our

social work, or with her family and frien family! Our daughter Rachel is quick to say that Cindy is a P31 a Proverbs 31 woman. David and I Steph, I love you! 10 years was not to wholeheartedly agree Cindy is a woman of full devotion and loves to live life to the fullest. I am thrilled to to wait (Genesis 29:14-30). be living my life alongside of hers! -Todd Craig -Dick Read

ASBURY TIDINGS

thank God for Patty, my wife of 50

years, who has been my partner

in ministry from the very beginning. It seems that all through her life she has felt called to be in ministry. During the summer of her first year at OCU she served as the Youth Director and Secretary at Mayfair Heights Methodist Church in Oklahoma City. We were married in 1956 and have shared together in ministry since that time. God has blessed her in many ways, but the one thing that stands out for me is how she has been a Prayer Warrior through the years. She attended all the worship services on Sunday morning and night so she could undergird me in prayer(and oh, how I needed it, and still do) and so she could be with all the people of the church. -David Thomas

eautiful inside and out that s

how I love to describe my

bride Robin. We first met in a ministry setting, The TU Wesley Foundation, where we shared in college ministry together. As a native Tulsan, I had always thought it would be great to marry an ORU girl because they all seemed to be beautiful, talented and godly. Robin certainly is that and much more. I found out later that Robin came to ORU from New York for a Christian education and to marry a pastor! God answered both of our prayers at TU! Robin, too, is called to ministry, which makes for like-minded hearts and goals. Her support as a pastor s wife is priceless and endless. She is my helpmate, prayer partner, lover and friend. I thank God daily for my precious bride. You re the best! I love you Honey. -Mark McAdow

rior to entering seminary, I had

spent 12 years selling for our

family business office supplies, printing and office furniture. I called on customers and prospective customers in their places of business everyday. Upon coming to Asbury I spent most evenings visiting in the homes of those visiting Asbury. Jayne was a tremendous encouragement to me in all aspects of being a pastor, even though it meant being out of the home many evenings to call on others. Jayne never complained about my being gone so much or asked why I wasn t there to help with the children. Instead, when I would come home around nine o clock, she would greet me warmly, asking about my day.

Jayne is also my chief encourager

ragement

ministry

and critic. From the beginning I

ve always

understood her criticism as efforts on her

icky. I

part to help mold me into the best pastor-

d three

minister-preacher that she and the Holy

rl that I

Spirit could produce. I was able to accept

1) She

her correction and criticism because I

me. 3)

knew that she loved me and wanted only the best for me, for us.

not

I thank God every day for bringing

uirements

Jayne and my children into my life.

five and a

-Bill Mason

wn full

not

support.

t s been said, Behind every great man, there is a great woman.

Not necessarily that I am a great man,

but that I have a great and wonderful teammate that has always been my best cheerleader. Not many women would follow a man who would give up a

, grace

wonderful job in the oil industry, take a two-thirds cut in salary, go back to work full-time, work with him in raising two kids, and watch him pour over the books for

for

nine and a half years to complete his education. And she always told me, You can do it, you can do it, you can do it.

Mary Helen walked with me side-by-side. You see I have a partner, one that knows all about me and loves me anyway. For more than 43 years she s been

s, through

my best friend, companion, lover, soulmate and I have grown far beyond loving her I literally adore her.

riends!

For me, this godly woman is summed up in my thoughts by Proverbs 31: 28, 29, Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises

t too long

her; Many women do noble things, but YOU surpass them all. Happy Valentine s Day Sweetheart and all my love forever. -Sonny Plischke

ASBURY TIDINGS

Traveling the Road to Recovery While Serving et-up, take-down. Sounds

to do something and was promptly

Recovery has been life-transforming for

pretty simple until you do

introduced to Ron Schwabe, who got

him. I have now completed the CR

it once a week for 52

his clutches into me so that I could

program and am privileged to lead a

weeks a year, holidays included. The

help with setup and breakdown each

12-Step group and help lead open

duties include setting up tables for

week. Since I had recently retired and

discussion groups on Monday nights.

dinner and later, dessert time as well

had an abundance of extra time, I had

Parts of my past would seem pretty

as chairs for worship in the Breakaway

the one thing needed for the job. I could

dark to some, but in this ministry God

auditorium. Following Celebrate

be there early and stay late. This was

has taken what Satan meant for evil

Recovery the chairs and CR materials

great for me because I needed to have

and turned it for good. It is a blessing

had to be gathered and put away so

my time occupied with something

to serve here.

that youth activities could continue

constructive and beneficial.

After graduating from high

Ron became interested in CR after

school, I left home and took on the

hearing a testimony of how this ministry

responsibilities of creating my own

assumed the responsibility for this

had changed someone s life. Knowing

mistakes, but I always knew that there

chore. He gathered a team of volun-

he was ready for change, he also knew

was a God around to help me with

teers and they have performed effi-

he d get from it only in direct proportion

life s tragedies whenever I would ask

ciently for over two years. One of those

to what he put in. When the opportunity

for help, said Michiel. When I joined

volunteers is Michiel Connor who

arose to lead the Set-Up Team I offered

Asbury, I did this with Pastor Darlene

quickly became a dedicated volunteer

to do it. That was over two years ago.

Johnson and when I started the 12-

as well as close friend of Ron.

And he does serve in his community,

Steps I renewed that commitment with

in CR and with the Red Cross emer-

Glen Grusendorf. During my continued

bulletin notice for Celebrate Recovery.

gency prepareness program, Ready

participation and involvement with CR I

He didn t know anything about it, but

When the Time Comes.

have prayed for and received recovery

unhindered. One man, Ron Schwabe,

In July 2005, Michiel saw the

he knew he was in need of help to

Even though CR will continue to

from my separation from Christ.

overcome his addiction to alcohol

be the thrust of Michiel s volunteer

which was destroying his marriage and

energies, he is also co-president on his

anger issues, it doesn t matter.

his life. Even I picked up on the

community and is certified to participate

Celebrate Recovery provides the venue

recovery part of the title. I had been to

in the PAWS (Pets Are Working Saints)

to allow God to do a mighty work

enough AA meetings to know that I

ministry.

within an individual s life. And as both

was one of those people. One thing I

Both men, Christians since an

Whether dealing with alcohol or

Ron and Michiel discovered, value

also realized was that since this was

early age (Ron, 16 and Michiel, 12)

received is greatest when involvement

taking place in a church, my higher

drifted from the faith and in recent years

through service is added to the

power probably was not going to be a

returned, making their spiritual home

process.

power pole or a phone booth.

Asbury and growing into health through

The next day I attended my first CR meeting, said Michiel. Because

their participation in Celebrate Recovery. According to Ron, he has always

As Michiel said, After 63 years, I have accepted Christ into my life and am gratefully benefiting from the many

of my nature I preferred to be part of it

felt welcome and at home in Asbury. It

true blessings that God was always

rather than just attend. I volunteered

is my church, he said. And Celebrate

waiting to bestow upon me. -Sandy Wagner

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Michiel Connor and Ron Schwabe

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Jan Reynolds tutors Youth at Hear t children

Focusing on Each Special Child Jan has found a special place for the

through the Seekers community. She

big church a large

past four years. She has been involved

and Mike are communication leaders

building, a large member-

in one-on-one tutoring for children from

for the class. Mike has developed a

ship and many varied activities.

Normandy Apartments who are part of

class website which Jan helps update

Nonetheless, Jan Reynolds says

the Youth at Heart program.

to keep everyone informed on prayer

t is evident that Asbury is a

since she and husband Mike joined in

Youth at Heart is a United Way

requests, information, and activities.

2003 they never have felt lost in the

agency that provides educational and

crowd.

recreational after-school and summer

natives; however they did not meet

programs for youth ages six 18 who

until they were students at Oklahoma

niche to serve in and her work has led

live in Tulsa s public housing communi-

State University. They now have two

her to several of the smaller communi-

ties and low-income apartment com-

daughters and four grandchildren.

ties that come together to make

plexes. Once a week 20 to 25 children

Asbury a glorious whole. She doesn t

come to Asbury to work with a volun-

always raised in the church. She

consider her weekly volunteer work

teer tutor. Jan says it is great to

credits her grandmothers for teaching

anything spectacular. It is more like

develop a personal relationship and to

her through Bible stories when she

behind the scenes work, but her

offer consistent assistance to a child

was young.

dedication has significant impact.

needing help with learning. Jan says

onto her girls through routine Bible

Actually, Jan uses her talents to be a

this is a perfect fit for her now that she

story discussions and nightly prayers.

part of a number of scenes. She says

is retired. I have taught classes of 30

She and Mike ended the day by each

she is not a star but is more like a link

children, but being able to focus

praying with one of their daughters

in the chain.

intensely on one child is special.

then switching bedrooms and praying

Jan has found more than one

She has been an administrative

Youth at Heart is an outgrowth of

Jan and Mike are both Tulsa

Jan says she is One of those

She passed this learning

with the other.

volunteer working in the office doing

the Destination Discovery ministry.

data input until arthritis in her hands

Asbury has been providing volunteer

has always been her calling. She

forced her to give up keyboarding.

service for program participants for over

strives to be a doer of the word and

She continues with other office duties

25 years. Current Board C hair for Youth

fulfills this desire by playing a key

working anywhere I am needed. As

at Heart is Asburian Pat Calhoun.

supporting role in many ministries at

a former elementary school teacher,

Another area Jan serves in is

Jan feels working with children

Asbury. -Liz Reece ASBURY TIDINGS

asbury opportunities

bagged cans into the fenced area, and be a

on cooking for one, and discovering God s

part of helping the children in our church and

plan for your life as a single. Suitable for

general information

the community. Also, recycle unwanted paper

people who live alone due to any

products. Two bins are available, located in

circumst ance. Beth Dennis, facilitator.

Breakfast Served from 7:00-9:15 am. in the CLC Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuit s & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. $2 for adults & $1 for children 12 & under

Mason Chapel

Sanctuary (Contemporary Communion)

11:00 am Sanctuary (Traditional) Sign interpreter provided 11:00 am Mason Chapel (Contemporary) Sundays for Children and Students 6 Weeks - 4 Years

the CLC. Call 1-800-GIVE-LIFE to schedule

births, deaths, marriages, baptisms and

your appointment, or you may make an

military listings.

appointment online at www.givelife.org and

New Additions to the Library

7th, 8th & 9th Grades 10th, 11th & 12th Grades

9:15 am only

Adult Discipleship Communities

Thank you to all who continue to contribute

noncertified adult CPR by the American Red

books to our Library.

Cross for local disaster response. Free. Call

Journey - Tulsa s Century of Christian Faith, Leadership & Influence Available for $40 in the Gazebo.

February 21 or March 21) CLC, 5:00 - 6:00 pm Adults: $5; children (2-12) $3; Maximum: $20 per family

access Hands of Love Sign Choir Sundays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm. 2821

hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 492-1771, selcting option 2, and leaving a message for the pastor on call. The Gazebo is Open ...each Sunday morning between services. Perceptions and Asbury Bible Study and Prayer Journals on sale, as well as selections in Pastor Tom s Book Club. Asbury Wear is also for sale. Extra Mission: Possible dogtags are available for $1. Recycling Hey church family! Keep collecting those aluminum cans and bringing them to the church when you come! Once a month our resident can man, Jim Schulz, picks them up from the east side storage area and takes them to the recycling center for us. Gently toss your well-

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who are ill or going through hard times. Contact Gwen Mohler at GRMOHLER@aol.com for more information. Alzheimer s Support Group

bible study Brochures with more details about RoadMap courses being offered are available at each of the Welcome Centers or online at www.asburytulsa.org

administration conference room. Christian hope, support and education for friends and family of those with Alzheimer s or other dementia. Cancer Support Group Second Sunday of each month, 4:00-6:00 pm, Parlor - For those living with cancer and their

Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by

be in prayer for you. When you enter the

Usually meets 1st and 3rd Mondays at 11:00

Third Thursday, from 1:30-3:00 pm in ups tairs

Surgery or Hospitalization Scheduled?

calling Ruth at 392-1146 so your pastors can

Prayer Card Sending Team

encouraging words and our prayers to those

and Wednesdays, 6:30 pm

Wednesdays through April 25. (No dinners

392-1191 by February 5 to register.

am in Rm 1621 to send cards with God s

8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am

Asbury Family Dinners

Ready When the Time Comes Saturday, February 17 from 9:30 am - 2:30 pm. Rm 2820. Training on shelter, food and

9:15 or 11:00 am 9:15 & 11:00 am

enter sponsor code asburymethodist.

The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource.

8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am

K-6th Grades

American Red Cross Blood Drive Sunday, March 11 from 8:00 am - 1:00 pm in

Welcome Centers. It includes hospital lists,

Welcome Centers...FREE! Suitable for framing.

(Traditional Communion) 9:15 am

Asbury Family News is available at the

Doors of Asbury posters are at the

Sunday Morning Worship 8:00 am

the south and east parking lots.

family and friends.

care and support Calm My Anxious Heart

Bipolar/Depression Support Group Second and fourth Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm,

Thursdays through April 12 from 4:00 - 5:30

Rm 1621 - For persons living with bipolar

pm in Rm 2821. Cost: $12. Have you ever been

disorder or depression.

stressed with anxiety or worry about the

Divorce Recovery

what ifs for your children, spouse, a friend,

Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those

job or career? If so, this is a study for you!

suffering from the early, highly emotional

Come find out the relevancy of a potato, a

stages of divorce and separation trauma.

mountain, a sampler, a quilt, strange books,

Divorce Rebuilding

four steps and a rocking chair to your stress

Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm - For those ready to

and anxiety. Discover what the Bible says

rebuild their lives after separation or divorce.

about contentment and ways to apply it to

Employment Transitions

your daily life. Facilitators: Rose Famer and

Need a second set of eyes to review your

Sue Shook. Call 392-1191 to register.

resume? Free male and female one-on-one

Living Alone and Surviving It!

support available through Asbury s

Thursdays, February 1 - March 8 from 7:00 -

Employment Transitions. Contact Barbara

8:30 pm in Rm 1506. Share practical ideas for

Wright at blwright1@yahoo.com

living alone with joy. Topics include: defeating

Grandparents Raising Grandchildren

loneliness, discovering you as a single

First and third Tuesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm, Rm

person, tips on home repairs and safety, tip s

1508.

Family to Family For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. 4th Tuesdays from 1:30 - 3:00 pm in the Parlor. Call Ruth at 392-1146. Prison Fellowship Support Third Tuesday of each month, 7:00-8:30 pm. For family and friends of people who are incarcerated. Meets offsite. Call Ruth at 3921146 for location. Asbury Bear Bags Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great

involved in awesome scouting adventures,

Rod and Charlene Giles, and other well-known

learning the fundamentals and participating in

Asbury leaders.

age-appropriate activities. They ll love the

E-mail your April and May Milestone

well as the frequent outings for the whole

Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to

family. Pack meeting is one Monday evening

patticooper@cox.net or call 392-1146.

per month during the school year from 7:008:30 pm in Rm 2820. Weekly den meetings are held according to the den leaders. Go to

more information, contact Beth at 392-1116.

Registration forms for all children s activities are available in the preschool

Asbury Exploration Come to a lunch/class to learn more about

a calendar and information on the Pack. Adults

becoming a member of Asbury. Sunday,

who wish to assist in or support the scouting

February 4, from 12:15-2:15 pm. Call 392-

program at Asbury should contact John

1191 to register. Childcare available for six

Curzon at John@thecurzons.net. Pack 10 is

weeks through 12 years.

sponsored by Asbury s United Methodist Men.

men discipleship Discipleship Communities

children

membership

www.helpfulseeds.org/asburyscouts.htm for

for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear to someone who is grieving. For

Milestone Wedding Anniversaries

opportunity for advancement and awards, as

Men s Prayer Breakfast Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC.

If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship

Join the Men s Ministry for a delicious

Community (Sunday School) why not visit one

breakfast, meaningful worship and life-

of our Welcome Centers and see what s

changing prayer! Cost: $3/person

available for someone just like you!

February 7

Tulsa District Attorney

and elementary lobbies. Core Hours through May 2007 Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided with no reservations needed: Sun

8:00 am - 12:00 pm

Mon & Tue

9:00 am - 12:00 pm

Tue, Wed, & Thur

6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Wednesday Night Live Through April 25 from 7:00 - 8:00 pm following children s choirs. Live from Asbury...It s Wednesday Night Live! WNL is a worship service - kid style - for 4 year olds through 4th graders. Worship, singing, character building, and Bible verses make this a fun night for all as we strive to help the kids live productive

February 14

Todd Johnson, speaker

February 21

Bill Johnson, speaker

Alpha (for Adults) and

February 28

Mark Springer, speaker

Alpha Sprouts (for Kids ages 4-12)

Home Improvement Ministry Workday

evangelism

Alpha is a place where you can ask any

Saturday, February 17 from 8:00 -9:30 am.

question and get solid answers to such

Workers meet in the CLC. The Home

questions as ..Who is Jesus? Why did

Improvement Ministry serves widows and

Jesus have to die? Why and how should I

single moms within the Asbury family. Our

pray? Why should I read the Bible?

Men s Ministry volunteers make themselves

Alpha Sprouts is a place where kids can come

available every other month to help folks out

to have fun while learning about Jesus. Now

with minor home repairs and/or home

families can share in the Alpha experience

improvement projects. Just pick up a request

together. The courses will run concurrently

form at any Welcome Center. A Home

every Tuesday night from 6:30 pm - 8:45 pm,

Improvement volunteer will contact you before

through March 27. (No meeting March 20). For

the workday and make final arrangements to

more information, go to www.asburytulsa.org.

get the job(s) done. Boy Scout Spaghetti Luncheon Benefit

and fulfilled lives as followers of Jesus Christ. (We will not meet February 21 or March 21 due to Ash Wednesday services and Spring Break). Murdock Villa Second Sunday of the month from 12:30 - 3:00 pm. (except April because of Easter). Cost is $5 for CiCi s Pizza. We ll eat then visit Murdock Villa where we will play Bingo and do crafts with special needs adults. It is an amazing time to witness in our local community. Limited to ten kids each month. Cub Scouts Pack 10 Attention parents of boys ages seven or in the first grade through age 10! Get your son

Guest Speaker, Tim Harris

Sunday, February 18 from 11:00 am - 2:00 pm

marriage & family

in the CLC. Cost: $4 per person or maximum of

8 Dates: Habits of Highly Effective

$16 per family. Asbury s Boy Scout Troop 10,

Christian Marriages

sponsored by the Men s Ministry, would like to

Second Tuesday of each month, February 13 -

invite you to its second annual Spaghetti

September 11 from 6:15 - 7:00 pm. Come join

Luncheon. Come celebrate Scout Sunday with

us for an inspiring monthly speaker, then

the scouts and enjoy a generous serving of

dinner on your own! NEW TOPICS this year as

spaghetti, bread and salad. Tickets may be

we explore: Commitment, Prayer, Fun,

purchased Sunday, February 4 and Sunday,

Awareness of His Needs/Her Needs, Shared

February 11 from 7:00 am - 12:30 pm in the

Power, R-E-S-P-E-C-T, Dealing Safely with

CLC Gallery or at the door the day of the

Anger and Getting Rid of Myths to Find

event. However, pre-purchasing is

Satisfaction. Speakers include several Asbury

encouraged to help with planning! The monies

pastors and spouses, Rev. Darlene Johnson,

earned enable Troop 10 to help send kids to ASBURY TIDINGS

Scout Summer Camp in Colorado who would

Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163 or

otherwise be unable to attend.

msistrunk@asburytulsa.org. Preference is for

Men s Spring Retreat Friday and Saturday, March 9 and 10 at Camp Egan. Mark this date on your calendar, men.

the e-mail version, but hard copies can be mailed if needed. Global Outreach Prayer Ministry

Watch future publications and the website for

News and prayer requests from our

details.

missionaries and ministries are sent each

Car Care Saturday

week to our prayer ministry list. If you would

September / Azerbaijan (OPEN) 12-13 days, $2,000 September / Tanzania (OPEN) Water Well Work, $2,500 October 13 20 / Monterrey, Mexico (OPEN) Construction & MBS, $950 November 7 11 / Rio Bravo, Mexico (OPEN) Construction & Medical, $550

March 17 from 9:00 am - noon outside the

like to join and become a prayer intercessor

VIM Leader Training / Lawton, Norman,

Student Ministry Breakaway entrance, north

for those serving around the world, contact

McAlester & Tulsa: March 3, April 28, August

side. This bi-monthly service is provided for

Missy at 392-1163.

25 & November 10

Asbury s widows and single moms by our

Global Outreach Ministry Teams

All costs approximate. For further details

men s Ministry. While the ladies wait in the

These teams specialize in certain areas and all

about Volunteer-In-Mission opportunities,

comfort of our Student Ministry cafe,

are open to anyone having an interest in those

contact Marilene Long, 392-1164 or

volunteers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and

areas. They are as follows: Caspian Ministry

mlong@asburytulsa.org

batteries. They also vacuum and wash the

(work in Azerbaijan), Latin America Ministry

vehicles and update the owners on what s

(work in Mexico, Costa Rica, and

running smoothly and what needs

Guatemala),College Missions Ministry,

professional attention. This free service gives

Communications, Estonia Ministry; Kami -

our men the opportunity to put their faith in

Tanzania Ministry, International Student

action through loving and serving those in

Ministry, Missionary Care, and Prayer. If you

need. No reservations required. Just come get

need further information call the Global

your vehicle in line by 11:30 a.m.

Outreach Office, 392-1117.

Men s Spring Golf Tournament April 2007. Watch future publications for more. Men s Bible Study Wednesdays from 6:15 pm - 7:45 pm in the

Mentor Moms/Young Lives First and second Tuesdays of the month, 7:009:00 pm in the Parlor. This is a support group for teenage moms, sponsored by Young Life.

Parlor. All men are invited to join us in a

we grow more in being a follower of Christ. Our Pastor to Men Dub Ambrose, will lead in discussions from the book of Matthew. Each week s lesson will be self-contained, so just come when you can.

2007 Opportunities April 21 28 / Monterrey, Mexico (OPEN) Construction & MBS, $950 April 25 29 / Rio Bravo, Mexico (OPEN) Men s Construction, $500

$40

Eyeglass Donations Are you wondering what to do with those old eyeglasses? Donate them to missions! You may drop yours off in the Global Outreach office. Campbell s Soup Label Changes Save Campbell s soup labels for missions. Please note that a different part of the label is now required. Please cut the UPC symbol and the Labels for Education symbol together. Turn these in for missions! Questions: Contact Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163. Mission Matters A monthly newsletter is available with recent news of mission happenings. If you would like to receive the newsletter, please contact

May 30 June 6 / Estonia (OPEN) Centennial Celebration, $2,400 June / Azerbaijan (OPEN) 12 13 days, $2,000 June 13 24 / Quito, Ecuador (OPEN) Construction & MBS, $1,500 June 14 25 / Estonia, Lighthouse (OPEN)

ASBURY TIDINGS

Asbury Singing Ambassadors Tuesdays, 1:00 pm, Choir Room Children s Choirs Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm Celebration Ringers

Wednesdays, 4:45 pm, Rm 2504 Carillon Quartet Wednesdays, 5:00-6:00 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Ringers Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm, Rm 2506 Perpetual Light Thursdays, 10:00 am-noon, Rm 2506 Resonance Bell Ensemble Thursdays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Power & Light Sundays, 8:15-9:15 am, Rm 1510 Asbury Brass Quintet Tuesdays, 7:30-9:00 pm, Rm 1510 Saints of Swing Dixieland Band Thursdays, 2:00-3:00 pm, Rm 1510

VBS & Construction, $2,400 June 21 July 2 / Estonia, Camp Gideon (OPEN) Construction & Programs, $2,400 June 28 July 9 / Tanzania, East Africa (OPEN) Medical, $2,600 July 7 14 / Pitorreal, Mexico (OPEN) Construction & MBS, $1,200 August (mid) / Estonia, Parnu (OPEN) VBS & Light Construction, $2,400 Fall / Cookson Hills, Oklahoma (OPEN) $40

New Covenant Orchestra Wednesdays, 6:00-7:30 pm, Rm 1510

New Creation Ringers

missions/vim

May 18 20 / Cookson Hills, OK (OPEN)

missions/outreach

Chancel Choir Wednesdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Choir Room

Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm 2506

relaxed, conversational atmosphere, with lots of opportunity for dialogue and interaction as

music

prayer Youth Mission Trip Prayer Wall Sign-Up Sundays, February 25 in the Chapel and March 4 and 11 in the CLC Gallery from 8:00 am - 12:30 pm. Lenten Season Prayer Services Wednesdays, February 28 - April 4 from 6:00 6:30 pm in Mason Chapel. Children s

programming is offered during that time, with

Ministries Area for details or call Marsha at 392-

remain safe on today s roads. It is designed to

the exception of March 21 (Spring Break

1157. (Adults, we need leaders! Please call.)

help you tune up your driving skills, learn

week). Come pray, reflect and prepare for the

about normal age-related physical changes

celebration of Easter. Holy Saturday Prayer Vigil April 7, 7:00 am - 7:00 pm in Mason Chapel. Altar Prayer

and how to adjust your driving to allow for

recreation Single Adults Volleyball Will return to Tuesdays, 7:00 - 9:00 pm, in the

these changes, and helps participants receive a discount on their insurance. Twe enag ers

If you would like someone to pray with you

Gym in March. (Ages 18 and up) No children,

Thursday, February 22 from 10:30 am - 1:00

during Holy Communion or right after the

please.

pm in the CLC. Come enjoy a great lunch and a

service, please come to the altar rail at the

Adult Volleyball

very informative program presented by Mayor

front of the Sanctuary. A pastor or member of

Sundays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Gym - Coed adult

Kathy Taylor. Music by Floyd Brunzel. If you re

the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with

volleyball. Must be 18 and above to participate.

tween retirement and heaven...join us and bring

you for your needs physical, emotional or

No children, please.

a friend. Call Doni at 492-1771 to make your

spiritual - at the altar or in the Prayer Room. College Moms in Touch Prayer Time Wednesdays, 11:45 am - 12:45 pm, Rm 1506 Mason Chapel Prayer Room

Inspirational Fitness Class

reservations by noon, Monday, February 19.

Rise Up to Health Mondays and Thursday, 4:30 pm and 5:45 pm. in Rm 2319 in January and February (returning

singles

Accessible Monday through Friday from 8:00

to the Gym in March). Enjoy a one-hour, total-

am - 9:00 pm, Saturday from 10:00 am - 3:00

body workout to incredible inspirational

Wednesday nights from 7:00 - 9:00 pm in Rm

pm, and Sunday from 7:00 am - 9:00 pm. Yo u

Christian music. Work your heart, mind and

2500. Are you looking for a unique, dynamic

can enter the room from the outside entrance

spirit and every muscle group in your body.

and committed community of Christian Singles?

of the southeast side of the Chapel, with the

Wear comfortable clothing and tennis shoes,

Join us for in-depth Bible study, Christ-

exception of Sunday from 7:00 am - 12:30 pm.

bring water and a towel. Teens to older adults

centered fellowship, faith lived out through

The Prayer Room can be accessed from inside

are welcome. Work at your own level. The joy of

service and expectant prayer. Come and be a

the Chapel during those hours.

the Lord will be your strength. First workout is

part of this new mid-week Singles Community.

Prayer Journals Available in Gazebo Asbury Prayer Journals now available in the Gazebo. This valuable tool is filled with

free, $5 for drop-in. Mats and hand weights are provided. Senior Sit and Fit

AC2 - New Discipleship Community

Solutions - Life Improvement Studies Sundays, Febraury 11 - March 4 from 3:00 4:40 pm in Rm 2820. All single and young

scripture and resources designed to enhance

Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from

married adults are invited to participate in one

your personal prayer time, plus a section for

9:00-9:30 am in the Gym. Come join a time of

of the most exciting relationship studies to

keeping sermon notes.

stretching with fun and fellowship.

come our way in a long time! Best-selling

Walk in the Gym with Him

recovery Celebrate Recovery Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6:00 pm. Dinner at 6:00 pm;

authors Henry Cloud and John Townsend

Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from

have developed a video series with course

8:30-9:00 am in the Gym. Come join a time of

titles such as What About Me? The Behavior

power walking with fun and fellowship.

Trap, and The Waiting Game. Facilitated by

Fitness Room

Tammy Beals and Jim Small, these sessions

Worship from 7:00-8:00 pm; Small Groups from

Treadmills, stationary bicycles, strength training

will help you develop healthy relationships, get

8:00-9:00 pm; Dessert from 9:00-9:30 pm.

machines, and some free weights are available

to the root of your anxieities, and get past

Hiding any hurts, habits or hangups? God

for use. This room may be used during other

painful experiences. Check out our website

never intended for you to live in bondage.

scheduled activities.

for each week s title and topic. Come as often

Childcare available.

as you can and bring a friend or two.

Celebrate Recovery Childcare Volunteers needed. Time commitment is one Monday evening per month from 6:45 pm to 9:10 pm. Please call 392-1103 if you can help. Life Hurts, God Heals (for Students)

Singles Meet and Greet

senior adults Asbury Singing Ambassadors Come and join the senior adult choir. No

Sundays from 8:40-9:10 am or 10:20-10:50 am in the CLC. All singles are invited. ASM Valentine Dinner and a Movie

auditions required. Rehearsals are Tuesdays,

Saturday, February 11 from 6:00 - 10:00 pm in

6:00 - 8:00 pm, Beginning January 17, Rm 1508.

1:00 pm in the Choir Room. Call 392-1148 for

the CLC. A dressy Valentine celebration has

If you re tired of the burdens and secrets that

more.

been planned just for you. The CLC will be

keep you from really living, or if you know

AARP Safe Driving Course

changed into an Italian bistro, complete with

there s an addiction you have to stop but just

February 23. Cost:$10 per person. Class size

music and a scrumptious dinner catered by

can t, Life Hurts, God Heals is created

is limited to 35 participants. First come-first

Zio s. Following dinner, a super-fun comedy

specifically for you. Meet with a group of

served. Call 392-1191 to register. The AARP

movie has been selected for your viewing

students for 13 weeks who are facing tough

Driver Safety Program is the nation s first and

entertainment. It will be an awesome adults

issues just like you are, and learn how God can

largest refresher course for drivers age 50

only night out that you won t want to miss.

heal you together. Join any time! Check Student

and older. It has helped millions of drivers ASBURY TIDINGS

Tickets may be purchased in advance or at the

Spring Break Mission Trip Payment Due

can t, Life Hurts, God Heals is created

door for $8 each.

February 18: Be sure and get your final

specifically for you. Meet with a group of

ASM Potluck Luncheon Sunday, February 18 from 12:00 - 2:00 pm in

payment in! Houston: $100; Redbird: $100. February 23: Mexico and Guatemala Spring

students who are facing tough issues just like you are, (13 weeks every Wednesday from

the Parlor. Come, bring your children and enjoy

Break Missions final payments are due. Mexico:

6:00 - 8:00 pm) and learn how God can heal you

a delicious lunch, courtesy of your fellow

$225 due to RIM; Guatemala: $700 in account.

together. Join any time! Check Student Ministries

singles! Just bring a family-szied food item, homemade or purchased. Great food, great fellowship, new friends. It just doesn t get much better than that. Divorce Recovery

Spring Break Missions Training Mark your calendar now for these mandatory training sessions:

Area for details or call Marsha at 392-1157. Adult leaders needed. (No programming February 21 due to Ash Wednesday Service.)

Spring Break Missions Training

10th, 11th & 12th Breakaway

Mark your calendar now for these mandatory

Wednesdays, 6:30-9:00 pm - Breakaway

Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those

training sessions:

Area. Join us every Wednesday (except the

suffering from the early, highly emotional

Mexico 9am-8pm Feb 24

first Wednesday of the month and holidays)

stages of divorce and separation trauma.

Bring $5 for lunch and dinner

for a time of connection, worship, learning

Guatemala 2:00-8:00pm Feb 24

about God, and some nights of just random

Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those

Bring $3 for dinner

fun. Don t miss the food and hangout time

ready to rebuild their lives after separation or

Mexico 12:30 - 8:00 pm Feb. 25

afterwards. Come be a part. (No programming

divorce.

Bring $5 for lunch and dinner.

February 21 due to Ash Wednesday Service.)

Divorce Rebuilding

Singles Passion Play Weekend

Guatemala 12:30 - 4:00 pm Feb. 25

7th, 8th, & 9th Grade Breakaway

Eureka Springs, Friday through Sunday, April 20 -

Bring $3 for lunch.

Sunday mornings, 9:15-10:30 am in the

22. Mark your calendars and watch future

Questions? Call Amy 392-1156

Breakaway Area. This isn t your normal

publications and the website for details.

7th & 8th Graders

Sunday school. Come join us for worship, fun

2:00 - 6:30 pm

and games, interactive talk/lesson, and

Feb. 25

Questions? Call Marsha at 392-1157.

students Metro Worship

Spring Break Missions Parent Meetings

sometimes free candy and gift cards. 7th, 8th & 9th Grade Sunday AM Prayer

If your student is going on a Spring Break

9:00 am - 9:15 am in the BAM Room. God

Wednesday, February 7 at Believers Church.

Missions trip, don t miss these mandatory

hears our prayers. Start Sundays off right by

Come join kids from all over the city in a night to

meetings:

praying with the 7, 8, 9 band, Mark and

just worship Jesus. We meet from 7:00-8:30

Guatemala: Saturday, February 24 at 2:00 pm

Marsha for the Sunday services, friends,

pm. If you need a ride, meet at Asbury at 6:30

Mexico: Sunday, February 25 at 6:30 pm

family, the Asbury congregation, Tulsa, the

pm and we will be back by 9:00 pm.

Houston and Kentucky: Sunday, February 25

U.S., and the nations. No sign-up necessary.

from 5:30 - 6:30 pm

Leaders and parents, we would love to have

7th Grade Confirmation Parent Meetings Sunday February 18 from 5:30 - 7:00 pm in the

Spring Confirmation

you there, too.

Student Ministry Area. If your student is going

Kickoff, Tuesday, February 27 from 4:00 - 6:30

through 7th grade confirmation, don t miss this

pm. Parent meeting from 5:30 - 6:30 pm. Want

Don t miss out on being a part of a small group.

mandatory parent meeting. Questions? Call

to know if Jesus is really real and what it

It s a place to grow in your relationship with

Marsha at 392-1157.

means to follow Him? For all 8th - 12th grade

Jesus, have some accountability, and just

students who have not ever completed

have fun. (It s never too late to sign up. Just

Sunday, February 4 from kickoff until the game is

confirmation and joined the church. Watch for

come to the Student Ministries Area.)

over in the Student Ministries Area. It s a party!

registration information in the February Tidings.

7th and 9th graders: 5:30 - 7:00 pm at Asbury.

Come and watch the game on the BIG screen in

Students will be confirmed during a special

10th - 12th graders: time and place vary.

the BIG room. There will be lots of inflatables,

service for all 2006-2007 confirmands on April

Contact Amy at 392-1156 for more information.

pizza, food, pop, pool, ping pong, video games,

29th at 6:00 p.m. Since there are only four

(No small groups February 4 due to

foosball, and a whole lot of fun. Bring $5, a bottle

meetings, students must attend all four, the

Superbowl parties or February 25 due to

of pop. Plus girls bring something sweet and

rehearsal, and the ceremony in order to be

Spring Break Missions Trainings.)

boys bring something salty.

confirmed. Mandatory meetings are February

7th, 8th & 9th Grade Superbowl Party

10th, 11th & 12th Grade Superbowl Party

7th - 12th Grade Small Groups

7th, 8th & 9th Grade Bible Study

27, March 13, April 3 and April 17 from 4:00 -

Every Wednesday night except the first one of

Sunday, February 4 from 5:00 pm until the game

5:15 p.m. Confirmation service rehearsal is April

the month, from 6:30-8:00 pm in the Student

is over. Starts at kickoff! Whether you like

22 from 5:30 - 7:00 pm. Registration due by

Ministries Area. Come to the Student Ministry

football or not, this is a great time to just come

February 25.

Café, hang out, have fun, and study what

hang out and have fun. We will have tons of

Life Hurts, God Heals

God s Word has for us. It s going to be awe-

food and lots of door prizes. Bring $3 to help

If you re tired of the burdens and secrets that

inspiring and you won t want to miss it!

pay for dinner. Watch for details! Call Todd with

keep you from really living, or if you know

programming February 21 due to Ash

any questions, 392-1154.

there s an addiction you have to stop but just

Wednesday Service.)

ASBURY TIDINGS

(No

them. However, simultaneous membership in

not even Solomon in all his splendor was

Monday evenings during the school year from

Boy Scout Troop 10

BSA or GSA is fine. Go to www.troop909.org/

dressed like one of these.

7:00-8:30 pm in Rm 2818. Attention parents of

venture for more information, or contact Bob

boys ages 11 through 17! Get your son

Walter at blwalt6884@cox.net. Adults who

involved in awesome scouting adventures,

wish to assist in or support the scouting

experiencing the great outdoors and lots of

program at Asbury should contact John

other age-appropriate activities. Boy Scouts

Curzon at John@thecurzons.net.

participate in monthly campouts and in

the ranks, from Scout to Eagle Scout, and

Home Improvement Ministry Workday Saturday, February 17 Women of the Word Wednesday from 10:00-11:00 am in Rm 1502. Rev. Darlene Johnson, teacher.

resident camp each summer. Individual growth is developed in advancement through

Naomi Circle: set up; Esther Circle: clean up

Phone Buddies

women UMW Luncheon

Ladies, do you want a cheer me up with your morning coffee? We have ladies that can

through public service. Go to

Thursday, February 1 from 11:30 am - 1:00 pm

fill that need by being your own phone

www.helpfulseeds.org/asburyscouts.htm for

in the CLC. Attention women of Asbury.Bring a

buddy! Call 392-1142. Lea or Shirley will

an updated calendar and for information on

friend and let us start the new year together! A

return the call and get you set up!

the Troop. Adults who wish to assist in or

delicious luncheon will be provided at no cost

support the scouting program at Asbury

to you. However, there will be dontation

Mondays, 9:30 am - 2:00 pm, Rm 2821. Women

should contact John Curzon at

baskets set out if you would like to contribute

who enjoy crafts are invited to come any

John@thecurzons.net.

toward the cost. This month s theme is

Monday morning...come and go any time. Bring

Gardening in Tulsa. Following the meal there

lunch to share. Contact Beverly Clarke.

Venture Crew 909

Arts and Crafts

Monday evenings during the school year from

will be a fun, informative presentation by

7:00-8:30 in Rm 2201. Attention young men

Barry Fugatt, Director of Horticulture at Tulsa

Saturday, February 17 from 8:00 -9:30 am. The

and women who have completed 8th grade

Garden Center, and Jackie Parker will present

Home Improvement Ministry serves widows

through age 21. Come on board for

a book review. The Scripture focus will be

and single moms within the Asbury family. Our

high adventure....sailing, mountain climbing,

from Luke 12:27: Consider how the lilies

Men s Ministry volunteers make themselves

sharp shooting, backpacking, caving, scuba

grow. They do not labor or spin. yet I tell you,

available every other month to help folks out

diving, canoeing and much more! Annual high a dv en tu re

tr i ps

Home Improvement Ministry Workday

with minor home repairs and/or home

ha ve

included backpacking in Yellowstone, white water rafting in the Grand Tetons, and canoeing in Canada. High adventure in the company of Christian advisors is the focus of this organization. The crew motto is from James 1, Count it all joy when you face trials of all kinds for it will give you perseverance and that leads to maturity. Participants seek out new tests of their skills and grow physically, emotionally and spiritually. No previous scout experience is required, but many members have already attained the Eagle in BSA or the Silver A ward in GSA. This is a place for those who have gone as far as Boy Scout and Girl Scout programs can take

Our resident cartoonist is Greg Lynn, Asbury s Manager of Student Ministries. ASBURY TIDINGS

improvement projects. Just pick up a request form at any Welcome Center. A Home Improvement volunteer will contact you before the workday and make final arrangements to get the job(s) done. Car Care Saturday March 17 from 9:00 am - noon outside the Student Ministry Breakaway entrance, north

PERCEPTIONS

side. This bi-monthly service is provided for Asbury s widows and single moms by our men s Ministry. While the ladies wait in the

Observations on Everyday Life

comfort of our Student Ministry cafe,

by Pastor Tom Harrison

volunteers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash

First Time to Dance

the vehicles and update the owners on what s running smoothly and what needs professional attention. This free service gives

A fifteen year-old girl was not very pretty. She was short,

our men the opportunity to put their faith in action through loving and serving those in

overweight and crippled. She knew she d never be asked to dance,

need. No reservations required. Just come

but she still went to the school prom. She smiled as she watched all

get your vehicle in line by 11:30 a.m. Whirlwind for Willard Benefit Game Day

of her peers dance. Later that evening when a slow number was being played, a handsome sixteen year-old asked her to dance.

Friday, April 20. Mark your calendars and watch future publications and the website for

Shocked to the point of great big tears, she enthusiastically said, Yes! As they danced he held her tightly because she couldn t stand

details. Annual Women s Retreat

up on her own. It was a wonderful sight to see. Afterwards, a chaperone told the boy how much he admired

Friday and Saturday, April 27 and 28. Heart O the Hills Retreat Center in Welling, OK. Mark your calendars and watch future publications and the website for details.

his action. The attentive man said, I also noticed she whispered something in your ear as you danced. What did she tell you? The young man said, You re not going to believe this, but she told me that was the first time anyone had ever asked her to dance in

worship

her whole life. Teenagers can and do lead the way in caring and unselfish

Online Worship Did you know that you can watch the 9:15 and 11:00 a.m. Sunday services online as they are occurring? Go to

actions. I hope that our church and community will help our students to live in such considerate ways. Helping others in personal and tender ways touches all of our hearts!

www.asburytulsa.org then click on Watch Sermons (by Tom s picture). If you cannot attend worship, you can log on and share the experience. Or if there is a

Don t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an

example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.

Until I

come, devote yourself to the public reading of Scripture, to preaching and to 14

sermon that you wish someone else had

teaching.

been able to hear, send them to our website

message when the body of elders laid their hands on you.

Do not neglect your gift, which was given you through a prophetic

I Timothy 4:12-14

where several weeks of sermons are archived. Reprinted from Perceptions Volume IV

bible study and prayer journal On Sale at the Gazebo $5 Each

Perceptions by Tom Harrison may be heard every weekday morning on the following radio stations, or you may hear the daily Perception at www.asburytulsa.org

Prepare for worship by reading and reflecting on the Scripture references for Sunday s sermons.

ASBURY TIDINGS

KBEZ

92.9

7:47 am

KMOD

97.5

7:55 am

KWEN

K 95.5

7:43 am

KMYZ

104.5

7:47 am

KRAV

Mix 96.5

7:45 am

KHTT

106.9

7:55 am

Penny Allen

Fred and Ruth Blythe

Jamie and Emily Brown, Mitchell and Miles

Corbin Cooper

Roger and Carol Fisher

Janet Covert Jack and Carol Kackley, Rebecca and Jessica

Tera Crowe Todd Huston, Josh and Zach

Larry and Sandy Mocha and Bea Hidy

Glen Fisher

Robert and Patricia Phaneuf

ASBURY TIDINGS

Join the Family If you are interested in learning more about who we are, plan to attend one of the Exploration classes designed to tell you

Chuck Maddin

more about who we are and what we believe. We will spend our time looking at Asbury s Mission Vision- Objectives. Most of the time will be spent in talking about our

Grant and Sarah Fitz and Landen

8 objectives. Another part of the membership process is to spend time in a pastoral visit. We want for you to know at least one of our

Samantha Nigh

pastors so that if something were to ever take place in your life where you needed a pastor you would know at least one of us. Perfection is not required of Asbury members, but we do want to grow and get

Dallas and Jan Hodges and Lauren

better. As John Wesley, the founder of Methodism said, If your heart is as my

Michelle Reinsch

heart, lend me your hand.

Choose from one of the upcoming membership classes:

Not pictured: Greg Taylor

Doug and Brittain Keifer and Noah

New member photographers:

Sunday, February 4

Sunday, March 4

Sunday, April 1

Sunday, May 6

Sunday, June 10

Sunday, August 5

Sunday, September 9

Sunday, October 7

Sunday, November 4

Sunday, December 2

Allen H. Robison and Roxanne Shelton Whiteis

Classes are from 12:15 2:30 p.m. and lunch is included.

Call 392-1191 to make your reservation.

...we re glad you re here

ASBURY TIDINGS

Childcare is available.

we rejoice... with those who have experienced the joy of a new baby in their family: Sutton Hart Morris Son of Brad and Claire Morris Brother of Emma, Harper and Abby Grandson of Hart and Marti Morris December 12, 2006 Gabriella Ryan Mauldin Daughter of Bill and Branda Mauldin Sister of Barrett January 2, 2007

we remember... those who have died and pray GodÂ&#x2019;s comfort for those who have lost loved ones: Phyllis George December 25, 2006 Julia Bennett December 30, 2006

thank you... Dear Asbury family, How incredibly blessed we have been through the ministry of Asbury over the past 15+ years! We knew that when Horace retired in November, we would have the opportunity to move and live near family in Mississippi. Still, it was a difficult decision, made with much thought and prayer, for it meant leaving this incredible congregation. Though we know God has a place for us to worship, grow, and serve in Mississippi, we kiddingly have said that maybe we could When Asbury was recently transformed for the season of Advent, the behindthe-scenes team of Karen Dixon, Anna Wortham, and Susan Stanford was responsible. Thank you to the Decor Team and our wonderful maintenance staff (see pages 8-9) for all the hours they invested in preparing our facility for

just drive back to Tulsa on the weekends in order to worship at Asbury. We thank you for all the love and encouragement you have given us over the yars. In Christ, Horace and Carol Lukens 113 Sunflower Road

the holiday season.

Madison, MS 39110 ASBURY TIDINGS

What is Love? During this month of love, take a moment to consider these definitions from children.

When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That s love. Rebecca- age 8

When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth. Billy - age 4

One of the behind-the-scenes ministries at Asbury reaching hundreds of

Love is what m akes you sm i le when you re tired.

people is the Prayer Card Ministry. With the desire to bless those who are

Terri - age 4

sick, poor or in prison, these ladies gather regularly to personalize Love is when my mommy makes coffee

correspondence and pray for the recipients by name. They get frequent feedback about how much the ministry has meant to

for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.

others. A recent note said, Your care cards are so meaningful to my mother. When I visited her yesterday at the care center, she was returning from Bible study. She had her Bible and your latest card. She excitedly told me that she

Danny - age 7

Love is what s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.

had read her card to those attending the study and they just loved it. How

Bobby - age 7

wide the circle goes! Thank you for continuing to bring this light into her life. I If you want to learn to love better, you

don t know who got the ball rolling for the card ministry, but it was obviously God s idea.

should start with a friend who you hate, Nikka - age 6

Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they MISSION STATEMENT:

know each other so well. Tommy - age 6

The Prayer Card Ministry sends encouraging and uplifting cards always with .God s word to those who are experiencing grief, illness or loneliness.We have

You really shouldn t say I love you unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should

been called to ABIDE IN JESUS. Abide in me and I in you. John 14:4. We choose the WORD OF GOD ALWAYS, BECAUSE WE ARE PROMISED IT SHALL NOT RETURN VOID. All cards are handmade and personalized. God counts the

say it a lot. People forget. Jessica - age 8

And the final one Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he

name of utmost importance. God calls us to publish His word in an encouraging,

was asked to judge. The purpose of the

uplifting way. Our calling is to pray by individual name for the beloved children of

contest was to find the most caring child.

God who are in need of prayer. God alone gets the credit for His Word breathing

The winner was a four year old child whose n e xt

life into their situations, but their Father knows. His Spirit breathes love, peace and joy into their storms of life.

do o r

ne i g h b or

was

elderly

gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, Nothing, I just helped

Shown above: Jo Vanderwiele, Sammie Kendal, Gwen Mohler, Jan Reynolds, and Darlene Truman.

him cry. - Submitted by Gretchen Evans

ASBURY TIDINGS

Couples Married 50+ Years as of February 11, 2007

Jerry & Johnna Himes

2/27/1954

5 2 years

Irv & Colleen Rinehart

4/3/1954

5 2 years 5 2 years

Larry & Jeri Myerley

2/26/1956

5 0 years

Vernon & Maralee Jones

4/3/1954

Don & Marilyn Mullican

3/31/1956

5 0 years

Darrell & Murlene Hiatt

4/10/1954

5 2 years

George & Helen Schneider

4/7/1956

5 0 years

Roger & Joyce Clark

5/8/1954

5 2 years

Darryl & Doris McRight

4/25/1956

5 0 years

Ben & Joy Weddington

6/17/1954

5 2 years

Larry & Mary Metz

5/12/1956

5 0 years

Bill & Phyllis Taylor

8/22/1954

5 2 years

Paul & Sherry Vanscoyoc

5/18/1956

5 0 years

Vance & Mary Sharpe

9/4/1954

5 2 years

Clifton & Lamyrle Cox

5/18/1956

5 0 years

Merle & Marylou Howell

9/4/1954

5 2 years

Don & Barbara Thornton

5/21/1956

5 0 years

Ralph & Marion Daugherty

9/24/1954

5 2 years

Wayne & Sammie Kendall

5/25/1956

5 0 years

Ken & Sheila Bays

10/23/1954

5 2 years

Rollo & Elizabeth Brasuell

5/26/1956

5 0 years

Bill & Pixie DeWitt

10/31/1954

5 2 years

Kerry & Sue Freeman

6/1/1956

5 0 years

Howard & Joanne Ledbetter

11/17/1954

5 2 years

Jim & Nancy Harrison

6/2/1956

5 0 years

Charlie & Jeane Abbey

11/25/1954

5 2 years

Stanley & Shirley Dean

6/3/1956

5 0 years

Ron & Sue Shook

11/25/1954

5 2 years

Ronald & Phyllis Allison

6/8/1956

5 0 years

Charlie & Elaine Hack

12/19/1954

5 2 years

Leonard & Mary Stubbs

6/10/1956

5 0 years

Paul & Shirley Hockett

1/14/1955

5 2 years

Don & Pat Zwayer

6/21/1956

5 0 years

Fred & Nancy Gardner

1/15/1955

5 2 years

Reynard & Betty Spence

7/8/1956

5 0 years

Joe & Betty Oglesby

1/29/1955

5 2 years

Frank & Darlene Peterson

7/25/1956

5 0 years

Jim & Norma Morrison

2/12/1955

5 2 years

Jim & Maxine Dempster

8/17/1956

5 0 years

Vernon & Lennis Kolb

2/19/1955

5 2 years

David & Patty Thomas

8/31/1956

5 0 years

Robert & Ruscel Holtzapple

3/10/1953

5 3 years

Milton & Patricia VanDerwiele

9/1/1956

5 0 years

Gary & Celeste Zarley

3/28/1953

5 3 years

James & DeWanda Humphries

9/29/1956

5 0 years

Bill & Shirley Curry

5/30/1953

5 3 years

John & Barbara Cluts

9/30/1956

5 0 years

Don & Betty Kent

5/30/1953

5 3 years

Norm & Fay Dickason

11/24/1956

5 0 years

John & Beverly Baker

5/31/1953

5 3 years

John & Jo Keil

12/8/1956

5 0 years

Vic & Roberta Hairston

6/1/1953

5 3 years

Edwin & Rita Lenfesty

12/19/1956

5 0 years

R.D. & Mary Kirkland

6/3/1953

5 3 years

Tom & Lou Costello

12/29/1956

5 0 years

Glenn & Norma Hogg

6/6/1953

5 3 years

Ed & Jan Hines

1/19/1957

5 0 years

Jim & Charlene Yeager

6/7/1953

5 3 years

Paul & Linda Hancock

1/19/1957

Walt & Marion Neary

6/10/1953

5 3 years

Jerry & Kaye White

1/26/1957

5 0 years

Frank & Betty Schemm

6/18/1953

5 3 years

Arlyn & Shirley Daering

1/26/1957

5 0 years

Fred & Sammie Justus

6/20/1953

5 3 years

Karl & Mary Kay Ball

2/26/1955

5 1 years

Dick & Nevin Loerke

8/9/1953

5 3 years

Don & Ruth Bauer

2/27/1955

5 1 years

Ron & Pat Thomson

8/18/1953

5 3 years

Bob & Helen Frymire

5/21/1955

5 1 years

Dwayne & Awilda Godsey

9/5/1953

5 3 years

Jack & Phyllis Givens

5/22/1955

5 1 years

Robert & Mary Lynn Milam

9/6/1953

5 3 years

John & Shirley Ann Smith

5/31/1955

5 1 years

Ross & Ina Vrooman

9/26/1953

5 3 years

Mel & Mary Pearson

6/1/1955

5 1 years

Van & Nola Dickson

11/21/1953

5 3 years

Harold & Eleanor Shirk

6/4/1955

5 1 years

Cleo & Frankie Warren

11/26/1953

5 3 years

Bill & Dorothy Kisselburg

6/24/1955

5 1 years

Floyd & Vida Bruntzel

12/13/1953

5 3 years

Bill & Naomi Culver

8/12/1955

5 1 years

Ken & Carmen Finch

12/27/1953

5 3 years

Bob & Beverlyn Summers

8/14/1955

5 1 years

Richard & Phyllis Kurtzweil

1/9/1954

5 3 years

George & Maxine Clinton

10/4/1955

5 1 years

Wayne & Betty Crockett

5/31/1952

5 4 years

Bill & Glenda Horry

10/15/1955

5 1 years

Bill & June Carr

6/30/1952

5 4 years

Dean & Carol Carlile

11/6/1955

5 1 years

Dick & Gwen Mohler

8/1/1952

5 4 years

Joe & Pat Henderson

11/26/1955

5 1 years

Monroe & Janiece Reece

8/2/1952

5 4 years

Gary & Jackie Parker

2/4/1956

5 1 years

Dean & Marilynn Smith

8/17/1952

years

5 4 years

ASBURY TIDINGS

A.J. & Corrine Cobble

9/14/1952

years

Gene & Dottie Livengood

11/17/1946

Don & Dusty Clemons

10/7/1952

years

Paul & Marion Kerschner

12/28/1946

years

Dean & Regina Daniel

11/8/1952

years

Edison & Audrey Jeffus

2/2/1947

years

Paul & Deloris Messick

12/22/1952

years

Charles & Jean Hall

4/11/1945

years

Bob & Gladys Murphy

1/24/1953

years

Art & Hazel Clayton

6/15/1945

years

Jack & Shirley Miller

4/27/1951

years

Sid & Maxine Lee

6/23/1945

years

Bob & Donna Keener

5/4/1951

years

Bob & Marguerite Keasler

8/18/1945

years

Scott & Debbie Miller

5/18/1951

years

John & Joanna Neely

1/6/1946

years

Richard & Darlene Baker

6/10/1951

years

Ted & Virginia W ellendorf

1/10/1946

years

Jim & Bettye Craig

6/21/1951

years

Herbert & Betty Maresh

6/29/1944

years

Bob & Wanda Stotts

8/31/1951

years

Bill & Shirley Parkinson

2/25/1945

years

Jack & Pat Compton

9/29/1951

years

Abe & Evelyn Brentlinger

5/10/1943

years

Don & Terry Davis

11/3/1951

years

James & Doode Blazer

6/19/1943

years

Les & Evelyn Nienhuis

11/3/1951

years

Hart & Dot Hix

6/24/1943

years

John & Edna Middleton

11/22/1951

years

Vic & Betty Goodknight

6/26/1943

years

Bill & Donna Ritchie

2/9/1952

years

Bill & Betty Manley

9/10/1943

years

Alden & Sarah Miller

6/4/1950

years

Charles & Shirley Nelson

11/20/1943

years

Ray & Ada Miller

6/4/1950

years

Neil & Dolores Willits

1/6/1944

years

Clyde & Mary Johnson

6/11/1950

years

Al & Ruth Meyer

1/28/1944

years

Willis & Rosy Cunningham

8/20/1950

years

Gene & Joy Bortmes

2/5/1944

years

Keith & Betty Boyd

10/7/1950

years

Gene & Irene Bond

8/15/1942

years

Richard & Geri Dixon

11/22/1950

years

Dale & Lois Nowlin

12/21/1941

years

David & Janet Wehrenberg

11/25/1950

years

Herman & Nellie Kloehr

1/17/1942

years

Dale & Patricia Gregston

12/9/1950

years

Frank & Billie Marshall

8/20/1939

years

A.B. & Gwen Steen

12/23/1950

years

Frank & Bernice Sober

1/6/1940

years

Jerry & Imogene Headley

2/2/1951

years

Jim & Betty Jane Bailey

2/3/1951

years

Ray & Betty Gordy

2/17/1951

years

Sam & Gloria Phillips

6/2/1949

years

Tom & Lillie Hardcastle

7/2/1949

years

Congratulations to all couples who are celebrating Milestone

Joe & Mary Pottorf

7/31/1949

years

Anniversaries. (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) Report your Milestone

Gene & Betty Hobson

8/21/1949

years

Warren & Roberta Roberts

8/21/1949

years

Otis & Nell Osborn

11/12/1949

years

Jim & LaRue Coover

12/10/1949

years

Wallace & Barbara Westervelt

12/18/1949

years

Ernest & Mollie Achterberg

12/30/1949

years

John & Helen Schwenker

2/10/1950

years

Gordon & Chris Gresh

2/18/1950

years

Delbert & Nell Pool

5/20/1948

years

Howard & Vera McCloud

6/15/1948

years

Tom & Elizabeth Diehl

8/21/1948

years

Don & Ellie Baumunk

9/4/1948

years

John & Merle Schwendimann

9/10/1948

years

Bill & Janene Jones

10/1/1948

years

Don & Ellie Todd

10/2/1948

years

Dick & Joan Link

10/31/1948

years

Frank & Bonnie Nuding

12/19/1948

years

Jack & Rosemary Wiles

2/5/1949

years

Tom & Evelyn Porter

2/18/1949

years

Paul & Donna Wicker

4/6/1947

years

John & Mary Keefe

5/4/1947

years

Jack & Doris Bruin

6/7/1947

years

Rudy & Alice Jane Gorishek

6/29/1947

years

Murrel & Helen Cowherd

8/14/1947

years

Bill & Frances Rowland

10/10/1947

years

James & Fran Allen

12/20/1947

years

Phil & Jean Essley

12/28/1947

years

Glen & Catherine Kennedy

3/3/1946

years

Lester & Betty Kelsey

5/3/1946

years

Barney & Kay Welch

7/3/1946

years

Charles & Mary Johns

8/8/1946

years

Charles & JoAnn Goss

8/25/1946

years

Duane & Grace Lee

9/1/1946

years

Steve & Jo Moore

9/13/1946

years

Laneer & Jean Ham

9/28/1946

years

Anniversary to patticooper@cox.net or call 392-1146.

30 Years

Ron & Robin Tanner February12

25 Years 60 Years Dan & Cheryl Edison & Audrey Jeff us

Pease February 21

February 2, 1947

5 Years

Bill & Beth Shores February 2, 1947

55 Years

Bill & Donna Ritchie February 9, 1952