Asbury Tidings - The Gift by Asbury Church

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My parents, Hugh and Kathryn, insisted that we go to church as a family. I was never crazy about the idea!

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There were some nice people

Christmas at Asbury

teenager, I found it quite boring.

Asbury University

Notes from the Journey

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The Gift of Salvation

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Asbury Pastors: How I Met Jesus

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Calendar

New Members

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there, but frankly, as a young Then a young couple, Larry and Verla Richardson, came to Rose Hill United Methodist Church. They were volunteer youth directors, and they were a LOT of fun! We had a weekend event called a “Lay Witness Mission” at Rose

Dr. Tom Harrison Senior Pastor

Hill. My mother told me I would attend. I was not happy with that news. Little did I know that one weekend would change my entire life! In the course of those 48 hours, I asked Jesus Christ to come into my life. Somehow, at church, I had never gotten the message that I was supposed to DO anything other than just endure the church services and goof off

The Tidings is published monthly to convey the message of transformed lives through Jesus Christ and to inform Asbury family and friends of the many opportunities made available through the ministries of Asbury United Methodist Church.

with the other kids. When I asked Jesus to come into my heart, I had the experience of a lifetime. I felt cleansed and forgiven. I had never done anything evil in my life. I was a “good” kid as far as people go, but I knew

All photos by Lisa Dunham unless otherwise noted. Cover design: Sandy Wagner

in my heart that I was a sinner. It was a very emotional experience for me. From that, I began to go on Lay Witness Missions as a witness myself. My story was very simple: “I once was lost but now am found; was blind

On the cover: Hart and Marti Morris’ grandchildren celebrate the greatest gift - Jesus Christ.

but now I see.” I did not know enough to preach a sermon but I knew that my life was different. My best friend asked me a few weeks later, “Tom, you’re different! What has happened to you?” I remember sitting in the Cleveland Jr. High School cafeteria, and with tears running down my cheeks being totally unembarrassed when I said, “I’m not sure exactly what has happened; all I know is that Jesus came into my heart.” Were it not for my parents, the Richardsons, the Rose Hill UMC, and those “Lay Witnesses,” I would not be in the ministry today. These people were all instruments of God’s amazing grace to a group of teenagers in 1969 at Rose Hill UMC. I was one of them. I will forever be grateful for them as we found the grace of Jesus Christ together. Dr. Tom Harrison, Sr. Pastor

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Asbury Christmas 2005 Fourth Annual

Christmas Tour of Homes Friday, December 2 and Saturday, December 3 11:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.

Tickets

$8 in Advance $10 at the Door (No children under 12 please)

Tour Homes

Dixie and Bill Keeth 5312 E. 101st Place Camelot Jeanette and Kent Young 5506 E. 101st Place Camelot Vivian and Larry Kouplen 8791 S. Richmond Thousand Oaks Jayne and Bill Mason 6449 S. Sandusky Livingston Park

Children’s Christmas Pageant: Special Assignments Sunday, December 4 ~ 6:00 p.m. Filling the sanctuary with songs of praise and all decked out in tie-dyed T-shirts and tinsel halos, the Cherubs, Joyful Noise, Joyful Sound, Music Makers, and Young Musicians will warm your hearts as each choir sings praises to the newborn King. The Young Musicians as Wisemen, Angels and Shepherds will tell the part they each played on that special night so long ago to “Little Angel” a new arrival in heaven. Don’t miss this special night!

The Many Moods of Christmas Sunday, December 11 ~ 9:15 & 11:00 a.m. Services This year the Chancel Choir will present The Many Moods of Christmas. This work by Robert Russell Bennett and arranged by Robert Shaw combines traditional Christmas carols with lush orchestration into four suites of incredible music. The choir will be accompanied by the Asbury orchestra, and Perpetual Light, our Ladies handbell choir, will be performing the music of Hart Morris, our Minister of Music. Make plans to attend one of the sanctuary services for this very special Sunday.

Rick Fraley in Concert Sunday, December 18 ~ 6:00 p.m. Rick Fraley, one of Tulsa’s finest pianists, will be our guest artist for a concert Sunday evening. Come and enjoy his beautiful piano arrangements of traditional Christmas music in the quiet beauty of our sanctuary.

Christmas Eve Services Saturday, December 24

Shuttles & Shopping

Complimentary buses will be available for people not wanting to drive their own cars. The first bus will leave from Asbury’s main entrance at 10:45 on both days. While you are waiting for the bus, enjoy our complimentary Tea Room. Be sure to visit the Christmas Shoppe in the foyer, displaying gift items for that special someone, and a bake sale featuring homemade goodies. There will also be a Christmas Shoppe at the Masons’ home. All proceeds benefit missions. Questions? Call 392-1122.

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5 p.m. 7 p.m. 9 p.m. 11 p.m.

Children’s Service in the Sanctuary Carols & Candlelight with Dr. Tom Harrison & the Chancel Choir in the Sanctuary Carols & Candlelight with Dr. Tom Harrison & the Chancel Choir in the Sanctuary Candlelight and Communion in Mason Chapel

Christmas Day Sunday, December 25 One Service ~ 10:30 a.m. in the Sanctuary Communities will not meet on Christmas Day

Asbury United Methodist Men Want You to Join the

BAND OF BROTHERS Basic Training for Soldiers in Spiritual Warfare

Men’s Retreat January 13-14 at Camp Egan To Register, call Roxanne at 392-1122. See page 30 under Men’s Ministry for details.

Oklahoma Wesleyan University at Asbury Asbury United Methodist Church has the privilege of joining with Oklahoma Wesleyan University to bring college credit to some of the Asbury University courses starting in winter of 2006. Our first semester begins on January 4 and goes through the middle of April. We will have these classes on Wednesday evenings from 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Classes are open to all. You may choose from an Old Testament Survey Class and a New Testament Survey Class. To be qualified to teach, some of our own people will become adjunct professors for the University. Three options are available at this time. (1) Full college credit for a threehour course (2) Audit the course (3) High school students who want to begin college classes. For more information please call Nancy Staab @ 392-1124. Learn more about Oklahoma Wesleyan at www.OkWU.edu

The Autobiography of God A Pastor’s Bible Study Wednesdays January 11 – May 24, 2006 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. The parables of Jesus provide amazing insight into the nature and character of God, as well as into the kingdom of heaven. Following an inductive method of Bible study . . .

Observation: What does it say? Interpretation: What does it mean? Application: How does it apply in my life? . . . Pastor Dick Read will lead participants using a variety of teaching and learning experiences. Through worship, teaching, media, table discussion, prayer and journaling, you will find the parables of Jesus come to life in new and fresh ways. Each week as you explore these fascinating stories from Jesus, you will find yourself struck by God’s love, grace and justice. In turn you will be drawn into a more loving and intimate relationship with the Lord. The reality of God’s very nature and character will ring true in your life in new and transforming ways. And you will grow in your confidence of knowing God’s Word, the Bible. The Autobiography of God is formatted in such a way that will be ideal for small groups of 6-8 people. Discipleship Communities are encouraged to participate together in table discussion groups to enhance their Believing Ministry opportunities. This class is just one of many offered through Asbury University. Brochures are available in the Welcome Centers.

Christmas Blessings from Asbury’s Communication Team. It’s a privilege to spread the news about all the good things happening at Asbury. front: Lisa Dunham, Juli Armour, Chris Lo, Lisa Tresch back: Jan Weinheimer, Sandy Wagner, Nikki Boyd, Lea Spencer TIDINGS 4

Notes from the Journey

Starting Place By Lisa Tresch

n an evangelism class I took many years ago, it was a requirement for us to write down our salvation story, memorize it, and then share it with the class. I cringed when I heard the assignment. My initial salvation moment wasn’t much of a story. At least I didn’t think so. So I fulfilled the assignment and wrote: I walked down the aisle of my church when I was seven years old to let everyone know that I had asked Jesus into my heart. But I really hadn’t asked him into my heart. I only walked to the front because my friend and I sat in the balcony and cooked up the whole idea during the offertory. Then, when I was 12=, I realized that I had never truly asked Jesus into my heart. So I walked the aisle. This time it was the real thing. My writing was less than eloquent, but I had judged my salvation story to be hardly worth the effort. It was uninspiring and void of high drama and definitely not the kind of tale you would tell to show someone how God changes lives. I wanted a better story. I wanted to trade with my friend Lisa who fell to her knees at age 16 after

several years of partying and shaking her fist at God. She had been a runaway, dabbled in the occult, and dropped out of school. Don’t get me wrong, I didn’t want her life--just her story. But I only had my story, and for quite a few years I buried it. If I think of my Christian life as a journey, then my salvation moment is like the starting place--the very beginning of the trip. It doesn’t define the journey; it just puts me on the path. I set out on that path early in life and without much fanfare, and honestly, without much idea where I was

headed. I’ve stumbled and fallen and shaken my fist at God when things didn’t go my way. Some days I’m a really lousy traveler. But the real beauty of my salvation is that it isn’t a story about me. It’s a story about God, and how he keeps walking with me and pointing me in the right direction and forgiving me when I veer off the path. Sometimes when people ask, “When were you saved?” I am tempted to respond, “Every day.” If I had to rewrite my salvation story to share in front of the class again, I might put it this way: I began my journey with God when I was a child, old enough to love Him but not quite old enough to understand where we were headed. Salvation did not usher in perfection. I am still a complicated being, filled with my own reckless humanity. But because of that moment when I walked down the aisle with visions of a dying Savior on the cross, I don’t walk the path alone. God continues to pour out grace and shower me with love and He promises that we will be together throughout eternity. It’s an amazing story if you really think about it. And one worth retelling.

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ill Duvall was raised by his mother, after his parents divorced when he was young. He learned to rely on God as a father figure in his life after looking for a father that was never there. He remembered his father taking him to a movie every other weekend, but he never had a strong relationship with him especially after he moved to Texas. Though his father was never around his mother made sure they were in church every Sunday and raised Will to be very active and involved in every church they attended. When Will entered junior high he found himself caught up in the party scene along with so many other young teenagers searching for something. The parties and alcohol were appealing for a time, but soon lost their flavor. He knew he could not do it any more. It was this realization that helped him make the decision to change high schools. At the new school, he made some great friends and became involved in church again.

His biggest struggle remained with his father. “I was looking for a father that’s was not there. It’s still hard,” he said. He continues to pray that he can forgive him for everything that has happened. “I’m not sure if I’m there yet but I’m getting close,” said Will. Through his struggles in his relationship with his earthly father he has strengthened his relationship with his heavenly Father finding much comfort. “Relying on God is the only thing I can do.” His elementary music teacher, Mrs. Henderson, planted the seed of music. His mother always wanted him to play piano, but that was not cool for little boys then. He began performing in plays and musicals. He even participated in the Tulsa Youth Opera. In the sixth grade he picked up string bass for the school orchestra and guitar in the seventh grade. When he entered high school he and his buddies formed a band, but none of them were drummers. Will decided he would give it a try and found he had a knack for it. “I was

always playing something or singing something,” he said. He had been leading youth worship at a smaller church before coming to Asbury three years ago. It was his uncle who gave him the opportunity to get involved in the music ministry. Now he leads worship for Breakaway on Wednesday nights and plays guitar for the 11:00 Chapel service Sunday mornings. “God has a plan for me to be a worship leader--big scale, like Chris Tomlin or David Crowder,” said Will. He feels God has called him to take his music ministry to Canada. He has always had a love for the country’s beauty and a heart for its un-churched population. “It’s always been there. God says, ‘This is where I want you to be. This is where you’re going to minister,’” he said. Through struggle and triumph and a firm foundation in Christ he is coming to know God’s good and perfect will in his life. -Melissa Breece

DO NOT CONFORM ANY LONGER TO THE PATTERN OF THIS WORLD, BUT BE TRANSFORMED BY THE RENEWING OF YOUR MIND. THEN YOU WILL BE ABLE TO TEST AND APPROVE WHAT GOD’S WILL IS- HIS GOOD AND PERFECT WILL...ROMANS 12:2

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was a good person, but I had strange thoughts about God and religion. I thought of Him as being distant and I never saw God’s working in my life. I tried to do the right thing,” said Bill Johnson in summarizing his life before Christ. After he married his college sweetheart Jodie Davis they moved to Houston and joined a small church they attended sporadically. “We had no clue [about God and faith].” In 1974 they moved to Lafayette, Louisiana where they joined a 400member church that was very active. Bill was involved in leadership which he admittedly did out of a sense of duty. Being a CPA, he ran the finances for the church and he knew what various members of the church gave. “I admired the pastor because he didn’t want to know what his parishioners gave. The top donor was well-todo, but the number two giver was a young couple with five children, a car that smoked, and they lived on the wrong side of the tracks. They taught a Bible study in their kitchen and I saw that they were literally putting their money where their life was,” explained Bill. Though they never knew it, that couple was a real and consistent witness to him. Bill joined a diet class composed of four guys, committed to weighing and reading the Bible each week. That discipline led Bill to an incredible discovery that was to change his life. “I was reading in Acts about Paul’s conversion. About that time there was a television movie entitled, ‘Peter and Paul.’ It was well-made and followed what I was reading. I had an epiphany one evening while reading in the book of Acts; I realized I was picking only the parts I wanted to read and that I wasn’t smart enough to pick what was right and what was wrong.”

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Jodie had accepted the Lord four months earlier and with his epiphany about the Bible; Bill made a conscious decision to not only accept the Bible as 100 percent true, but to also accept Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. “At that point, I saw that I had a clouded perspective. I started seeing what God had done in my life and what He would continue to do. The Bible became like a fragrant flower.” There were noticeable changes in Jodie’s and Bill’s lives after they were born again. They ran in a social circle where there was money, influence and drinking. “We threw away all the garbage in our lives. We poured out the alcohol and realized we simply didn’t need it. I thought, ‘How can I tell my kids not to do something when I do it myself?’ God began a cleansing work in us.” The Johnson’s received a call in April that also had a significant impact on Bill’s life and that of his family. His mother suffered severe health problems. He made the decision to return to Oklahoma both to aid his family and to share his Christian faith. He left a lucrative job and after seven weeks notice and training his replacement they returned to Oklahoma. Monetarily and professionally it seemed a foolish move, but in view of eternity, it was the right thing to do. “Mom died in 1991, but not before Jodie led her to Christ. While my dad had a severe illness prior to that time, he outlived Mom. He also received Christ before he died.” The years since their return to Oklahoma

nson h o J Bi ll d Go have been tumultuous with challenges in employment, finances and health. Nonetheless, those areas of life where Bill couldn’t see God working became visible and he decided to live by faith. Bill has lived through fluctuating situations these past years, but according to Bill, “God has always come through. I do struggle—with my quiet time, with what I feel I ought to be doing, with the need to work harder—but Jodie and I have decided to focus on faith and not let our questions or circumstances overwhelm us.” -Sandy Wagner Bill Johnson visits with friend Glen Grusendorf following the Wednesday Men’s Prayer Breakfast.

he had long blond curly hair, eyes the color of the sky, a ready smile, a sweet spirit and a generous heart. Her name was Amey Mason. Hart and I met her through our son, Brad, who is the Edison High School Choral Director and was her choir teacher. At the end of her freshman year Brad invited his Edison Chorale members to sing in Asbury’s Chancel Choir over the summer to keep their voices in shape. Amey took him up on that invitation and sang with the Chancel Choir for three years. She was an unusual teenager. She carried a day timer and actually used it! Amey came from a broken home and lived with her grandmother. From the time we met her she was pretty much on her own. She had a job, went to school and was active in our Music Ministry. When she joined the choir she jumped into the middle of a school of soprano “moms.” We loved her and she loved us. When it became apparent that she wasn’t getting financial help from her family these ladies charged in with help. She was overwhelmed with gratitude. At graduation time the choir showered her with gifts as Maribeth Blunt and Mary Flanagan helped her enroll at TCC and complete paper work to receive grant money for

Amey Mason God college. It ended too abruptly. During the early morning hours of January 19, Hart and I got a call from the police department telling us she had been killed by a drug-crazed young man. Our world was turned upside down. Her life of promise was ended. As the choir sang at her funeral and struggled through that horrible week feeling so helpless and so full of questions I began to reflect on Amey’s life. During her time here at Asbury she was surrounded by loving people who knew Jesus and pointed her to Him. She needed to belong some-

where—a place where she was accepted and loved; a place where hugs and affirmation were handed out freely, a place to learn about God. She needed a place to laugh and leave the cares of her world behind. She needed a safe place. She found it in the Chancel Choir. I never understood “belong, believe, become” until I watched it happen to Amey. I remember standing with Hart and Brad beside her when she joined and was baptized. It was a natural progression. She had been surrounded by believers and she wanted to become one. After her death we all wondered if we had done enough for her; if our lives had been the light of Jesus to her. Nearly one year later I can say, yes, we were that light. We each shared our experience and God’s love with her as she journeyed to Him, and that is all any of us can ever do. As Tom has told us many times, “You don’t have to close the deal. God will do that.” We just have to be ready for those “divine appointments” He prepares for us—ready to share our experience of how God works in our lives. We will always remember Amey for her beauty, her sweet voice and her gentle way. But most of all we will remember sharing our lives and love with her. -Marti Morris

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t’s cliché but true: God often works in mysterious ways. For Sandy Lembke, the death of her mother was the starting point for her spiritual journey. In July of 2003, Sandy’s mother passed away. The service was held in Buffalo, New York and was a joyful celebration of her life. Sandy was unable to attend but her sister, Shirley, told her of this uplifting and positive church. They both began looking for a similar church environment in their hometowns. Shirley found Granger Community Church in Granger, Indiana and began attending regularly afterward. In her search, Sandy thought of Asbury. She and her husband lived close to the Mingo facility and watched as Asbury’s building began taking shape. “I remember when the land was just a pasture. I’m a vegetarian and wondered what happened when the cows disappeared one day,” she laughed. “We watched during the construction process and were amazed when the church actually opened on the projected move-in date.” She began attending soon after. She says the ‘First Time Visitor’ parking, friendly greeters, and worship

music were what initially impressed her about Asbury. She started visiting regularly and decided to attend an Asbury Exploration luncheon to learn more about the church. “During Exploration, there was an opportunity to sign up to meet individually with a pastor. As a registered nurse, I work the 3:00 to 11:00 shift at St. John’s and none of the times listed worked with my schedule,” she said. Sandy called the church office and was told that Mark McAdow would be available at 9:00 on Monday morning, not a usual time for such meetings. “I felt special that he went out of his way to meet with me,” she shared. It was during their discussion that Sandy prayed to receive the gift of eternal life. She said that Mark later commented that the Monday morning meeting, though out of the ordinary, was certainly God’s time. After praying privately to accept Jesus, Sandy made her commitment public when she joined the church in June 2004. She is now actively involved in several areas of service including the card ministry, serving meals at the Ronald McDonald House, and the Stephen Ministry. It was the Stephen Ministry that

opened the door for Sandy’s husband, Paul, to begin attending Asbury with her. “He had a bad church experience in the past,” she said, “but he came to Asbury for the first time when I was commissioned as a Stephen Minister.” Paul and Sandy now regularly attend the 9:15 service together. She said they are impressed by the seemingly “little things” that Asbury offers. Because of Paul’s lack of mobility, the Lembkes aren’t able to go forward to take communion. She explained, “It’s great that the communion stewards are able to serve us in the pews.” She also fondly recalled a time that she asked for pastoral prayer for her sister’s dying pet. “It was a cat but it meant so much to my sister’s family. Pastor Tom said such a thoughtful prayer and it really touched her family when I shared what he had prayed. It was like nothing was too small.” Sandy said that it would please her mother to know that her daughters have each become actively involved in wonderful churches. She wishes that her mom were still living so she could see their growth in Christ but acknowledges that her mother’s passing must have been another one of God’s mysterious plans. --Emily Walton 10

i. My name is Mitch McKinnon, and I am a Christian. I have been one with the Father for two years and nine months. Some might ask, “That does not make sense, you are 35 years old, what happened the first 33 years?” I cannot compare my life events with scripture verses, but I can share my experience, strength, and hope. This how I came to my relationship with Christ and my rebirth with God the Father.

I was a pretty normal kid growing up. I had two very loving and supportive parents. I played soccer, basketball, football, and baseball, loved to go boating and camping with my Dad, learned how to cook from my Mom, earned my Eagle Scout award, graduated from Heritage Hall, earned my B.S. in Marketing from Arizona State University; got my first job with PetsMart, married the most beautiful and caring girl in the world, and witnessed the birth of my son and daughter. I was able to accomplish all these things on my own, or so I thought. You see, I grew up in the Episcopal church where I was baptized and confirmed, but it never sunk in. I believed that there was a God, but hated him whenever something did not go my way. I would always pray for something good to happen for me as opposed to God’s will being done. This belief system began early, continued throughout high school and college, and began to snowball once married. I became very selfconscious and felt inadequate the majority of my life. Always longing for others approval, thinking I never had it (little did I know that God’s grace was there for me the whole time). I always wanted more and especially what you had. Everything I had was not good enough and my friends were becoming more successful while I was backsliding. I hated this! It was not fair! It was this thinking that lead to increased selfishness and isolation from my friends and family. As the snowball gained momentum, many jobs came and went. I was wearing many masks to hide who I actually

Mitch M cK i n n o n God was and to make sure everyone else thought our family was perfect. I tried many times to change my circumstances, but I failed every time I attempted change on my own. Then one day, faced with potential divorce and financial bankruptcy, I was sick and tired of being sick and tired. I could not do it on my own anymore, I needed help. On a spiritual Walk to Emmaus, I opened my heart to Jesus Christ and asked him to forgive me. There weren’t fireworks or a certificate received, but the void I had in my heart was being filled. I still had the same problems to resolve, but I knew that with Christ’s love and grace I would get through them. Not on my own, but with His help. This was the biggest challenge of my life, since I did not know how to live life on life’s own terms and accept the outcomes, good or bad. I began to pray and to turn my life and will over to God every day. Through this new life, there was a statement I always remember, “Stick with the Winners.” I began to apply this to my spiritual life and the rebuilding of my family. I learned how to share my feelings, to ask for help in my Emmaus community, and to give back through working with Kairos Prison Ministries. I continue to understand that it’s not about the stuff in your life, but it is about using you life for God’s will. By doing this, the best “stuff” will come. -My Story by Mitch McKinnon

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irginia Huddleston loves to cook. And she’s good at it. No, not just good, she’s great! Sunday mornings, Tuesday staff lunch, Wednesday evenings and Explorations—they all have food that tastes just like home cooked. Cooking for the masses is an art and Virginia is talented.

Virginia had never cooked for massive crowds before but that was about to change. Her Asbury connection happened two ways: through her grandson Shawn (who she adopted at six months) and her niece Lisa Turley. Initially, Shawn wanted to attend Asbury’s youth program so she, too,

began to attend though, somewhat irregularly. And through Lisa, she got to know Mark and Robin McAdow. “Lisa even kept their children when they went to Estonia to adopt Hannah. When they returned Robin discovered she was pregnant with Lauren. I would talk to Lisa and tell her that I had extra food

and suggest she pick it up and take it to the McAdows.” That kind gesture to them soon led to work at the church. At Mark’s suggestion, she was asked to help Anne Keller with the Tuesday staff lunches. “Soon I began helping with Sunday morning breakfasts. Eventually, Anne decided to quit and devote time to her husband’s business. I was then offered a part-time position at Asbury.” That was six years ago. Now she is full-time Kitchen Coordinator and has a very satisfied clientele. Even more significant than Virginia’s magic in the kitchen is the love she has for God that is reflected in her desire to serve others with a willing heart. She clearly remembers a day in the Granite, Oklahoma church she and her family attended when God called her to be His own. “My children were about preschool age. I was at church on a Sunday morning and I felt the Holy Spirit nudging me. When the pastor gave the altar call, I thought, ‘I have to do this.’” Though she had been attending the church for years, she had not made the conscious decision to accept Him as her Lord and Savior. She responded to His call and was soon baptized. “That was the happiest experience I’ve ever had. It was euphoric and it seemed to last three or four years. When that initial euphoria left, I was devastated. Soon I came to realize that there was a maturing process. I still know He’s there and loves me,” she said. Another significant event for Virginia was attending the Walk to Emmaus. “That event made me realize how many people really do care. They take their time, their money to pour out blessings on those who attend. I have a deep appreciation for the Christian community in general,” she said. The screen saver on her computer has the phrase: God is in Control. Virginia needs to remember that. Life has not been easy for her—divorced and raising Shawn on her own, she has faced her share of heartache and tragedy. She is now facing multiple problems at her home—piering, leakage (under the slab) and the subsequent damage and repairs that accompany it. She needs to remember that God is in control and this too shall pass. “There are so many people at my house working. It’s unbelievable and the costs just keep rising.” With her job as full-time Kitchen Coordinator and a catering business on the side, Virginia has little time to volunteer. That bothers her, but she tries to help the various ministry groups navigate in the kitchen and become self-sufficient. Her friendly demeanor and kind spirit make volunteers feel part of the family. She’s quick to show them shortcuts, share good menus and her culinary secrets. That she thrives in this position is obvious. “How could you not love this job?” she asked. “I get constant reinforcement. I love the feeling I get when I see the little kids come through the line on Sunday morning, so excited to get biscuits and gravy. If one person enjoys the food on Sunday morning, Wednesday evening or in Exploration, then it’s worth it.” -Sandy Wagner

Virginia’s Favorite Christmas Recipes Sweet Green Beans 2 cans whole green beans Drain and put in casserole dish Mix 1 stick melted butter 1/2 cup brown sugar 1/2 teaspoon minced garlic Pour over green beans. Add 2 strips blackened bacon on top. Cover and bake for 1 hour at 325.

White Christmas Pie Make an 8-inch pie shell with high fluted edge Filling: Soften 1 envelope of unflavored gelatin in 1/4 cup cold water. Mix together in saucepan: 1/2 cup sugar 4 tablespoons of flour 1/2 tsp. of salt Gradually stir in 1 1/2 cups of milk. Cook over low heat, stirring until it boils. Boil 1 minute. Remove from heat. Stir in softened gelatin until dissolved. Cool. When mixture is partially set, beat with a rotary beater until smooth. (This is where I went wrong the first time I made this... you need to put this mixture in the refrigerator while you fix the following ingredients. If this custard mixture is not completely cool, it will melt the whipping cream and egg whites when you try to fold them in and it will not set up.) After this mixture is cooled and partially set: Blend in 3/4 tsp. vanilla and 1/4 tsp. amond extract. Gently fold in 1/2 pint heavy whipping cream that has been whipped until stiff. Beat until frothy: 3 egg whites and 1/4 tsp. cream of tartar Beat into egg whites slowly: 1/2 cup of sugar. Beat until stiff and glossy and fold into custard mixture. Fold in 1 cup of moist shredded coconut. You can take pieces of red and green maracschino cherries and make little holly designs in the center. Save a little bit of coconut to sprinkle on top. Chill until set (about 2 hours) and serve cold.

I WILL GIVE YOU THE TREASURES OF DARKNESS, RICHES STORED IN SECRET PLACES, SO THAT YOU MAY KNOW THAT I AM THE LORD, THE GOD OF ISRAEL, WHO SUMMONS YOU BY NAME. ISAIAH 45:3 (NIV)

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here is nothing, nothing in this world that compares to the moment you first realize Jesus Christ is whispering your name. You know it as well as you know your own hands, your own heart, your own home. The keeper of all eternity has fixed compassionate eyes upon you, and heaven fairly holds its breath as you make the most important decision of your life. Do you remember that moment? Can you take yourself back to that place where time stood still, and it was just between you and God? If I close my eyes and shut out the world, I can still remember a little towheaded, nine-year-old girl sitting in the pew with her friends. The full impact of the gospel had just sunk in, and the invitation time could not come soon enough. Love was whispering my name, and I had to go. In the past few weeks here at Asbury, Love whispered another little girl’s name. She had to go, too. Taylor Cox, daughter of Donnie and Gayla, asked Jesus to come into her heart

one warm September night, in her own room, with mom and dad by her side. What started out as a typical Sunday in the Cox household soon turned into one they will always remember. Sunday mornings are a little crazy for most church-going families, and at Taylor’s house it’s no exception. Getting Taryn (17 months), Tyler (5 1/2 years) and Taylor (8 1/2 years) out the door in time for Bible study and worship is no small feat. Being raised in committed Christian homes, however, Donnie and Gayla know the benefits far, far outweigh the costs. They step up to the line and pretty much sink one for the home team every week. That particular morning, Taylor once again found herself in Jennifer Ruley’s H2O (third/fourth grade) class, hearing about how much God loves us and sent His son to show us the way home. That’s when the whispering began. Taylor knew Jesus was reaching out to her, and she was ready to respond. Af ter several hours of reflection well into the evening, this gentle-spirited little ballerina climbed

out of bed and led mom and dad back to her room. Christian parents around the world pray and long for the experience Donnie and Gayla were wrapped in that night. Taylor shared with them the time had come to ask Jesus into her heart, and she wanted to pray the ABC’s of salvation: Admit, Believe, Confess. There was unspeakable joy, tears, and thanksgiving, that Taylor had heard her name and answered “yes.” Now there are three Coxes tuned in to the hearts of the younger ones, waiting and watching for signs that their names are being whispered, too. Taylor’s favorite Bible verse is found in Philippians 4:4. It says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” (NIV) That’s exactly what Taylor’s doing, and planning out just how she’s going to help her family and friends find their way home. In her own words, Taylor says, “You need to obey God as much as you can. Go to church. Invite your friends. Asbury teaches God’s words in a way you can understand.” Maybe Love is whispering your name. Come find Taylor. She can help. -Debbie Wallis

Photo by Christy Capps

ies, fruitcake, and underwear. These are some of the most cliché gifts on the market for Christmas. Right up on the list is getting the Fruit of the Month. This consists of a company sending you a different type of fruit every month for an entire year. Sam Thomas has found a gift that gives much more fruit than Harry or David can give--his salvation! Sam grew up as one of six children in a typical Catholic family. It was typical until all of their lives were turned upside-down when his mother died after a long battle with cancer. “Through my teenage years and into my 20s I was very mad at God.” Sam and his wife, Tina, started coming to Asbury in the ‘90s after their oldest daughter, Jessica, was born. They decided to become members of the church shortly after that. They went through the membership class and then reluctantly had to meet with one of the ministers.

The two of them were meeting with Dick Read in his office when the million dollar question arose--”Have you confessed Jesus as your Lord and Savior?” “I actually contemplated lying to him so I didn’t have to deal with it. When it came time for me to respond, thank God, I answered honestly because I needed to reconcile some things at that time,” said Sam. He asked Christ into his heart that day. The old wounds and anger were instantly healed. Even though Sam did not receive a fruit-of-the-month with his Salvation, he did get the fruit of the Spirit when he accepted Christ. “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” Galatians 5:22-23a Seeing the fruit of the Spirit in your life is not always instantaneous. It is all part of the Christian journey. The Holy Spirit began to work through Sam and show him areas that needed to be changed. One of the changes he

has seen is in the area of self-control. “I work construction and chewing tobacco is a pretty accepted thing. I was on the construction site and the Holy Spirit literally knocked me over the head and told me it was time to start taking care of myself,” said Sam “I bent over the front seat of my truck and prayed to God take that desire from me. That was over six years ago and I have not touched the stuff since.” Another “fruit” that Sam has seen grow exponentially is love. “It was a process to learn this, but love is a big one for me. A friend of mine named Matt talked to me about how God is love. He asked me to think about the person that I loved the least. It was easy for me to pick someone that I was mad at,” said Sam. “Matt said that is how much you love God. Ow! It really made me think and I know it is constantly a process to love people and be humble.” Even though pears, apples and oranges are good, Sam knows that Jesus is the greatest gift. -Jeremy Burton

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od has given me the greatest gifts and none of them involve material things. They are all about relationships. When I look back on my life, I can clearly see all the people God has placed on the highway of my journey. They are hitchhikers on this road of life and I stop by and pick them up. They bless me and I bless them. Some stay, some go, but none leave my mind or my heart. Let me tell you about some of these gifts, these sojourners in this life of mine. The first and foremost gift is the gift of eternal life through faith in Christ Jesus our Lord. Most of the people in my life have been pointing me to Him in one way or another—even before I was born. I was born into a family with a Christian heritage as far back as I can trace. My great-grandmother, grandmother, mother and aunt were all faithful, praying, Bible- studying, church-going Christians. My mother always made sure my sisters and I attended church on a regular basis. These family members are definitely gifts from God. They are my heroes, mentors, best friends and fellow heirs in Christ. I am so glad we will get to spend eternity together. My sisters and I have always shared a strong bond and our faith in God is central to that. As small kids, we used to all lay in bed together and Kellye would pray for our future—that we would be happy and that things

would be different in our marriages and in our families. Kristye would take me to FCA, Bible studies and helped me find a church when I went off to college. No doubt God intervened in our lives and brought us up successfully in spite of a family wrought with several generations of alcoholism and divorce and the devastation that goes along with it. Next God placed in my path was a devoted Christian cheerleading sponsor, during those crucial years of junior high and high school and she became my mentor. She had a huge impact on my life, not only because she prayed with our squad every day, but because of the way she lived and the things she believed in and talked about. I will be forever grateful to her for pointing me to Christ. My best friend from ninth grade on was also a gift from God. She prayed silently before meals, read her Bible before bed at sleepovers at my house and at cheerleading camp. My senior year of high school, she brought me to a revival. I remember a guy telling us to close our eyes and bow our heads. He said, “If you are 100 percent sure you are going to heaven, raise your hand.” I didn’t. I couldn’t. I was appalled at the question. How dare he ask that? No one can know for sure, I thought. Only God knows. I hoped I was going to heaven. I was pretty sure I was going to heaven, maybe 90 percent sure, but 100%—no way. I thought that since I loved God and went to church and called myself a

Christian and lived a good life that He’d let me in. All the years of church, I’d somehow missed the true message—that no matter how good I was or how much I loved God or how much He loved me. I would not get into heaven by myself. (Romans 1:16) It wasn’t until my freshman year of college that I learned the truth –that the only way to heaven was through faith in Christ (John 14:6) and that it wasn’t because of one thing I did (Eph 2:8-9). JB Bond, pastor of a small church called Countryside, became like a father to me, offering unconditional love, praise and encouragement. He has a passion for Christ and a true love for God’s Word. He spoke the truth over and over and over until it finally clicked. At last I could raise my hand and say, “Yes, I am 100 percent sure I am going to heaven.” (I John 5:13) What a gift, the free gift of eternal life. Now my goal is to share that message with others. Just like JB, I want to spread the Gospel message lovingly, clearly, simply, gently, and so consistently that it just can’t be missed. These are just a few of the people God has placed along my highway. There are also the wonderful gifts of my husband, Michael and my three children (Matthew, four, Mason, two and Katye, one). We are thankful for God’s intervention in both our lives and ever so blessed that he chose us to stop the cycle of alcoholism, selfishness and divorce that plague both our families. This task isn’t easy. The odds are against us, but we’ve been given so many people to help us on our journey. -My Story by Kerrye Morrison

How I met Jesus.

BILL MASON Pastor Emeritus

MARK MCADOW Sr. Assoc. Pastor

DICK READ Pastor for Biblical Literacy

One of the more important aspects of my “walk with Jesus” is that I was raised by a Christian mother, surrounded by good parents who were Christian and a part of a Christian church all my “growing up” years. When at the age of 28 I made a conscious commitment of my life to Jesus there was that rich background to draw on. Living a Christian life led me to a Christian woman who agreed to become my wife and helpmate. Later we made the commitment to leave a life we thought would be how we would live for the rest of our lives and enter “full-time Christian service.” Upon completion of seminary training, the United Methodist Church directed us to Tulsa and a new local congregation called Asbury. It was at Asbury of Tulsa we raised our four wonderful children. Until this very moment, that decision to trust Jesus with my life, has daily guided and directed my thoughts, decisions and actions. Jesus is more alive and real in my life today than when “He stood at the door and knocked” and I invited Him in. Thanks be to God that He is with me each moment of each day making all things “new every morning.”

The year was 1969. The US landed a man on the moon and I gave my life to the One who made the moon, planets, the stars and each of us! I was 11 and attended a special Lay Witness Mission at Will Rogers United Methodist Church--my home church here in Tulsa. People from various churches led the weekend-sharing of their personal faith in Jesus Christ. Since I was raised in a Christian home, I knew about God, Jesus and even heard of the Holy Spirit, but I realized that I did not have a personal relationship with Jesus. They spoke as though you could know him intimately as a close friend or brother. When the altar call was given that Sunday night, I made my way to the altar (I could take you to the very spot today.). I told someone there that I wanted to give my life to Jesus. They prayed a simple prayer with me as I confessed my sin and asked Jesus into my heart. I felt a warmth all over and a new joy for living. I felt I had a new purpose--to live for Jesus--every day. Life has had its ups and downs since that day, but I have never questioned what took place in my life and the absolute difference it has made for today and all eternity. Have you given your life to Jesus? You’ll be blessed you did!

As a kid who was taken to church every Sunday throughout childhood, I heard the stories of Jesus. Yet, I don’t remember hearing anyone talk about “having a personal relationship with Jesus” or about “following Jesus” until I was a teenager. May 16 of my seventh-grade school year, I attended a youth rally with my church choir--the Salvation Army sponsored the event in Lincoln, Nebraska. It was there that a Cornhusker football player made the Gospel story so clear to me, like I was hearing it for the first time! This guy had the confidence to say this whenever he died, he KNEW FOR SURE he was going to spend eternity in heaven with God. I wanted that same confidence and he went on to tell us how we, too, could have assurance of salvation through Jesus Christ. The next morning in Sunday worship, at the prayer rail of our base chapel, I prayed with my pastor to give my heart to Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord. Jesus took the life of this junior high church kid and rearranged it with His purposes and His future. Every year, I celebrate May 17 as my spiritual birthday, the day I was “born again.”

TODD CRAIG Pastor with College & Young Adults

DARLENE JOHNSON Pastor with Women

My parents joined Asbury before I was born! I can’t think of a better place to grow up! Asbury’s children ministry has changed a lot since I was a child, but I continue to see some of the same familiar faces! There are many people that have invested a lot of time, love, prayer and suffered heartburn (Oh, just admit it, I made some of you crazy!) in my life! The defining moments of my life have happened outside of the church building. I don’t remember how old I was when I first accepted Christ’s forgiveness , but I remember the moment vividly. I was at home in my bed about to fall asleep. I am not sure I can explain it, but I had this moment when I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that I needed to ask His forgiveness and knew in the same way that if I did that I would be forgiven! In the same way, my call to ministry happened outside the church walls. Ironically enough the call came at a Memorial High School football game. I have learned two things from these experiences. First, God is not waiting for you to show up at church, sit in pew or attend Sunday community. He is waiting for you to slow down and to hear him say that He loves you and wants to forgive you; He is ready to meet you wherever you are! Second, while these defining moments happened for me outside of the walls of the church building, they did not happen outside of the church. The impact you have on others may never be seen.

When I was a child I participated in all the activities for the children, i.e., Sunday school, VBS, and all the Easter and Christmas programs each year. I had a special feeling in my heart when I was in Church and I cannot really tell you why, but I prayed and read the Bible all the time. I especially enjoyed reading the Bible to my daddy and he always purchased me Christian material to read. Sometimes the material was not that good but I would still read it. When I was between the ages of eight and ten I joined the church and when the pastor asked for my confession of faith I stated, “I just want to work for the Lord.” Now you must realize no one told me to say that and I really do not know where it came from, but I will never forget that day. After that Sunday I decided to memorize the Bible; of course it was too large of a task for a little girl, but that did not stop me. Everyday I would get the Bible, get into the middle of the bed, and begin in Genesis 1 “In the beginning God.” I did not succeed in memorizing the whole Bible, but I did become a student of the Bible. God indeed came into my heart as a little child, but at the age of 19, I had an encounter with the true and living God and my life has never been the same.

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DUB AMBROSE Pastor with Men My first memories of spiritual things are of my grandmother, “Bobo,” who was my dad’s mother. She lived next door to us when I was very young and would have me over for cookies, milk, and Bible reading. And, believe it or not, the highlight for me was the Bible reading! I particularly remember her reading to me about Moses and of his walking and talking with God. I also remember thinking in that little three or four year-old heart of mine, “I want to be a man of God like Moses!” I was raised in a religious family and when we converted to the Roman Catholic faith when I was ten years old, my faith became very important… altar boy, parochial school, even aspirations of being a priest! Years passed and we stayed loyal to the church. In college I went with Dad to some men’s breakfasts (Full Gospel Businessmen’s Group) and saw men who loved to worship and boldly spoke about and integrated their relationship with Christ into their lives every day. This resembled a Mosestype of faith to me and I wanted it! I’d studied the martyrs and knew what I was experiencing was NOT worth dying for, much less living for. So, after years of “straddling the fence” (hanging out at the periphery of the Kingdom), I prayed, “Lord, if there’s more, I want all You have for me, or I’m outta here!”I asked for Jesus to baptize me with His Holy Spirit and though He was already my Savior, now He was also my Lord. That’s when my life REALLY began to change.

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LINDA PETTY Pastor of Access I remember my mother reading to the three of us from the Bible every night when I was six years old. My brother and sister were younger. It was a very memorable time for me because it was then, I believe, God began to work in a little girl’s heart. I loved the beautiful language of the King James Bible and I loved the “life lessons” dealing with courage, forgiveness, trust and “doing the right thing.” I don’t recall the very moment I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior. It seems as if I had always believed. After reflecting on the early years however, it must have been the love of family and my mother in particular, who nurtured me in the faith. I remember going to church each week with anticipation and I remember my mother’s involvement as a leader. I am grateful to my family, many of whom have gone to be with the Lord, for their commitment to the faith. Without the many positive role models in my life, it would have been much more difficult to believe in a loving and just God. I know now, as I did as a child, God is real and His word can be trusted. I also know Jesus came to die for the sins of the world and the Holy Spirit is the power to live out our faith. Because of many caring souls who prayed for me and lovingly guided me on my journey of faith, I say with Job, “I know my Redeemer lives!”

DAVID THOMAS Pastor with Senior Adults I grew up in the Methodist Church, went through confirmation at age 12, but didn’t come to know Jesus Christ as my personal Savior until I was 15. After my father’s sudden death that summer, I drifted from the church and away from the Lord. I crowded Him out of my life. Then I began attending church with a girl friend (not near as sweet as Patty). I discovered later that a group of people in that church had me on their prayer list for six months before I went forward and placed my twisted life into the loving, forgiving and healing hands of the Savior. I’ll never forget that night and the long walk home. I felt like I could walk right into heaven itself. I knew the Lord and His gracious love. Shortly after that I felt the call into ministry. What a joy it has been! What a blessing it has been to share His love with others over the past 50 years and to be a part of the fellowship of the most caring people on the face of the earth. And then to know that this wonderful fellowship with the Lord never ends, for not even death itself can separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord! Praise His glorious name!

SONNY PLISCHKE Pastor of Care Several years ago in a conversation with a friend he said, “Sonny, I’ve been asked to give my testimony about how I met Jesus and I don’t know what to say. I don’t remember ever having a dramatic moment in my life like I’ve heard from others. I accepted Jesus as a very young boy and have always tried to live a life pleasing to Him.” My answer to him was simply, “How wonderful! Others have struggled over a lifetime before they have accepted the Lord, but you’ve had that blessings all of your life. What a wonderful thing.” This is where I find myself. I was blessed to have Christian parents who when Sunday rolled around we were in worship. After two years of catechism, I accepted Christ into my life at the age of 12. Now this is not to say that in the years that followed that I lived the type of life that was completely pleasing to God, but I was always growing in some way in His grace. The best thing that ever happened to me is when God sent my wife Mary Helen into my life. In the years that followed she was the kind of witness that everyone should have and she still is today. God, it seems, has always been the center of my life to the point that on a Saturday in February 1984 and I answered the call to ministry . . . and the rest is history. So, that’s my story, simply put, my life has been somewhat of a roller coaster with all the ups and downs, but I know that God has always been there for me.

JUDITH BANYA Pastor of Missions It was in a mission boarding school at the age of about twelve. Before that I attended a United Methodist primary school (elementary school as is referred to in this country). Sunday School, devotions at the beginning of a school day a lesson in Religious or Bible knowledge and church were just those things that went with school especially a Christian school. (They still are.) But to really meet and know the Lord, that kind of started to happen after primary school when I was in the boarding school. I have often used the word installment when I talk about meeting and knowing the Lord and that is because unlike most people who did not start with Christianity, meeting the Lord is mostly like a Damascus road experience. Mine happened gradually. As I had been told about the Lord in church, Sunday school and in class, and at the same time going through the rituals of baptism and confirmation to put me in the path of the religion, I was quietly wanting to have my own experience in order to confirm what I was been taught and brought up in. and so I basically challenged God to reveal himself to me. I cannot say everything that happened here but God did respond to all my challenges and requests for signs. By the time I finished high school all my experiences left me with no doubt in my mind of a God who knows me by name and truly loves me and that God is revealed to me through his Son Jesus Christ who I now know as my personal Savior.

hat’ll Be the Day” by Buddy Holly and the Crickets was on the Top Ten charts in 1957. I was 13, growing up in a large loving family in a small town on the eastern plains of Colorado. We spent Saturday nights polishing our good shoes and we went to church every Sunday. I was baptized by immersion and made my profession of faith that spring. It was a meaningful and sincere moment for me and I expected my life to be different afterward, but somehow it wasn’t. Over the next several years I experienced moments of God-awe , but there was no spiritual growth. I’m not sure I knew that there should have been. For the next 17 years I was busy with life—school, falling in love, marrying my childhood sweetheart and starting a family. We attended various churches sporadically but nothing really changed. By my late twenties, life had become more challenging. We lost a beloved parent suddenly, we moved frequently, we were in debt and we were lonely. The only really good thing—and it was an important thing— was our love for each other and our children. If anyone then had asked me about my beliefs, I would probably have said that prayer was for emergencies only because God was too busy for our everyday concerns. I would have told them that the Bible was a history book with interesting but irrelevant stories. Salvation, I would have responded, was the result of faith plus works—and then cross your fingers. Stewardship? Well, that was for those who could afford it, and we couldn’t. Besides, I thought the church existed to meet my needs.

Donna Miller God The year I turned 30 we moved again, this time to Tulsa. It was April 1975, and for reasons only God knows, we decided to visit “that nice church” at the corner of 58th and Sheridan. “Methodist, wasn’t it?” We hesitantly entered the church but immediately felt something we couldn’t explain. We found the preschool classrooms for our sons and slipped into a pew near the front. “To all who’ve sinned and need a Savior, to all who mourn and seek comfort, to all who are lonely and need a friend, to those who are weary and need rest....” He was talking to us! Rev. Mason continued, “To whomsoever would come, this church opens wide her doors and her heart, and, in the name of Jesus, bids you welcome.” The tears began to flow. A few days later we had visitors from Asbury and we were invited to join their small group. Somehow these people mistook us for children of God! They welcomed us, they loved us, they listened and they shared their own faith journeys. They opened up God’s precious Word to us. Most of all, they prayed for us. In the 30 years since, there have

been countless opportunities for spiritual growth. If I could revisit those earlier questions about my beliefs, I would now confidently tell you that prayer is not for emergencies only. Rather we are told to come boldly before the throne of grace in time of need (Heb 4:16 paraphrased) Now I understand that the Bible is not irrelevant for our times, but rather God’s operating instructions for our lives and that every part of Scripture is God-breathed and useful one way or another—showing us truth, exposing our rebellion, correcting our mistakes, training us to live God’s way. (2 Tim 3:16 The Message) I now understand that we are not to be kept guessing about our salvation, but we are assured that by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast. (Eph 2:8-9 NIV) I would adamantly declare that stewardship is not for those with time and money to spare, it is about each of us trusting God with all that He’s loaned us— including our children. We are to bring the whole tithe into the storehouse. Test me in this and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it. (Malachi 3:10 NIV) I still have special moments of “God-awe” but, more importantly, I have an awesome life—walking daily with God. Jesus told us, I have come that you might have life and have it abundantly. Thank you Jesus… -My Story by Donna Miller

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or some people, the steady walk of faith doesn’t begin with a dramatic moment of conversion. Ruthie Lowrie was raised in church. Her father was the Sunday school superintendent and she can’t remember many Sundays when her family was not in church. “I don’t have a moment I can point to as a salvation moment,” she says. “I have felt the presence of God since I can remember.” Her life has been filled with dramatic moments, and Ruthie says that she has felt God’s presence most in the midst of tough times--the moments when she could have been broken and hopeless. She lost her brother, Robert, in World War II. A grandson, Nathan, died in 1999 along with 12 other students in College Station, Texas when a bonfire collapsed at Texas A&M University. In 2000 she lost her brother Tommy (Tom Landry) to leukemia. Her husband Neely suffered a heart attack in 1978, underwent heart bypass surgery in 1985 and in 2001 was diagnosed with cancer. 21

“If I didn’t have God’s spirit in me, I wouldn’t have had the strength to keep going,” Ruthie says. And she talks about the miracles. In the early 1970s she was diagnosed with lupus. Blood tests concurred with the doctor’s diagnosis. Their daughter, a medical technician, took a blood sample to her lab to look at the lupus germ. The blood sample came back negative. The doctor did another test and it also came back negative. The lupus was gone. “I have no doubt that God healed her,” Ruthie’s husband Neely says and she agrees. He saved her again many years later when the couple and some friends were birding at Lynn Lane Reservoir in 1997. It was a cold January day and Ruthie decided to wait in the car for the rest of the group. She turned the engine on, but the car wasn’t in park and so it rolled into the frigid waters. Just before it submerged, the window opened enough for Ruthie to climb out and swim to safety. The car plummeted to the bottom of the reservoir. “That is the time in my life when I have felt God’s presence the most. I

know he opened that window and gave me the strength to swim,” Ruthie says. Her walk of faith has been one of blessed assurance that God is near. He brought the Lowrie family to Asbury through the ministry of Bill Mason, who stopped at their house one day and asked if they had a church home. The couple was attending another Methodist church, but had just moved back to Tulsa. Now, 37 years later they are still at Asbury, a place that Ruthie describes as a “wonderful part of our lives.” God has made His presence known in Ruthie’s life through the joys as well as the heartaches. The joy of her marriage (she and Neely can’t imagine life without the other) and her three children and grandchildren give her even more assurance of God’s presence in her life. “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me,” she quotes her favorite scripture verse. And, she adds, another favorite verse goes like this: “For God so loved the world that He gave His Son…” It is a Gift that Ruthie cherishes. -Lisa Tresch

FOR GREAT IS YOUR LOVE, REACHING TO THE HEAVENS; YOUR FAITHFULNESS REACHES TO THE SKIES. PSALMS 57:10 (NIV)

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t was a different time and a different place. It was a long time ago, yet the memories are still clear. It was rural Connecticut in the 1970s, and most people around town did not go to church. And like most people around town, Dee Gibbs’ family was no different. Unlike the small towns in Oklahoma where it seems there is a church on every corner, there were not many houses of worship in this small town. Dee Gibbs was fortunate though, for she had found a friend who did attend church. She had found a friend with Christian parents. Since Dee’s family didn’t go to church, she began attending with her good friend. Every Sunday morning her friend’s parents would stop by and pick up Dee on their way to worship. Dee remembers walking down the two-mile stretch driveway to meet them at the edge of the road. She didn’t have to walk all the way down that long driveway, but she wanted to help make things a little easier for those who were picking her up. These parents were faithful to pick up Dee every Sunday morning. They were an older couple and in some ways, they became almost like surrogate grandparents to Dee. Did they realize at the time, what the impact of this small, simple act of service would be? Could God turn this simple gift of service into something bigger and greater? It was during her seventh grade

year and she was very active in the youth group at church. That winter, she went to a church-related ski camp during winter break. One evening at camp, a young high school counselor named Alea Garofalo, told Dee about the difference that Christ had made in her life. She shared with Dee her personal story about her relationship with Christ. She told Dee about the love of Christ, and how much God loved Dee. It was then that Dee accepted God’s great gift of love; she asked Jesus to come into her life. And indeed, He did just that—He gave her a new life in Christ. To this day, Dee often thinks of that young high school student, and whispers a prayer for her. She is grateful for that student who took a risk, and shared the gift of life with Dee. She often wonders, “What if she had not taken the time to share the gospel with me? What if Alea had not stepped out and taken the risk?” Dee is reminded of Alea whenever she hears the lyrics from that popular Christian song, “Thank you for giving to the Lord—I am a life that was changed.” Today, Dee is

involved at Asbury in the Spiritual Gifts program. She teaches classes on how to effectively use your spiritual gifts. From her own experience, she has learned that as you apply your gifts, God grows these skills and expands your inventory of giftedness. And to think, it all began because someone’s parents took a young girl to church. It all began because a high school student took a risk and shared her testimony with a 12 year-old girl. -Marcia Curley

hen I was young, my life was very empty and lonely. I had parents who loved me and took good care of me but, for some reason, I couldn’t connect with other kids. I had no friends through high school and didn’t go on dates or to school activities. I spent most of my time watching TV. Back then there were only three channels and I had the schedule on each memorized for every day of the week. In college, my loneliness just increased. I had no friends there either and my family wasn’t around. Then, a guy at college who had gone to my high school asked me to attend church with him. I had gone to church with my parents most every Sunday and wasn’t able to connect there either. But the church he took me to was different. The people accepted me and cared about me even though they didn’t know me. And they taught the Bible in a way that made sense to me. For the first time I understood the whole message rather than seeing it as a set of unconnected verses. I began to read the Bible on

my own, pray and trust God to help me each day. Then one day in my room, I asked Jesus to come into my life, forgive my sins and be my Savior and Lord. And just as He promised, He did! Since I gave my life to Christ, things have changed. I still have hard times, but He is there to help (and sometimes carry) me through them. He has helped me make friends and meet and marry my wonderful wife Pat, my best friend and life partner. I’m far from perfect but He is helping me grow to be more like Him each day. He has given me a deep peace and joy. I know that whatever happens, I’m never alone. Jesus is always with me; He loves me and is working everything in my life together for good. And I don’t fear death but look forward to it. I know that when I die, I’ll live eternally with Him! A bible verse that is especially meaningful to me is Matthew 11:28-29: “Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon

you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” Also in John 14:6 Jesus says “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.” And in Revelation 3:20: “Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and will dine with him, and he with Me.” An old song says: “Jesus is the answer for the world today. Without Him there’s no other. Jesus is the way.” He’s the answer for your life too. Why wait? Give your life to Jesus today! -My Story by Glen Wellendorf

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er spiritual journey started at age 11, survived bumpy roads, and led Betty Reymer to Asbury at a critical time in her life. Betty recalls a certain hymn that impacted her in such a strong way at that time: “Souls in danger, look above, Jesus completely saves; He will lift you by His love, out of the angry waves.” Love Lifted Me This was the essence of what convicted her at mid-life to return to church and focus her efforts on growing in Christ. Betty had faced her share of dangerous waves. She came to America from Germany at nine years old to become part of an adoptive family. She spoke no English and struggled communicating at school and with friends as she learned the language. Within two years of arriving in the United States her adoptive father died. Her adoptive mother had a lot to deal with and was not able to give the attention a young girl needed. Her mother did take Betty to church at a young age where she accepted Jesus. Years later when her mother moved to Tulsa, they sought out a church home and found Asbury.

“Since childhood I had fought feelings of insecurity, abandonment, and rejection,” Betty said. She had suffered abuse in Germany in her early childhood years. Her first marriage ended in a contentious divorce and she lost her children for a period. A second marriage proved the wrong move. Her mother passed away. At this low point, Betty says she prayed

Betty Reymer God to God, “You take over. I can’t take anymore.” Betty credits Asbury’s pastors and staf f with offering her guidance and acceptance and walking the walk with her. She notes, “When I turned my whole life over to Christ, I was set free to be me. I felt God’s love like a warm embrace. This was the acceptance and love I had been searching for all my life.” Betty immersed herself in scripture and has a wonderful ability to connect biblical truth to specific situations.

One of her favorite verses is Jeremiah 29:11, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” With this in her heart, Betty felt a rebirth. She was no longer ashamed. She was ready to help others with their journey. Betty is a Stephen minister, sings in the Ambassadors, has been part of many growth groups, has been a co-leader of NBC singles group, a friendly visitor, an Andrew caller and does care calling. Her retirement from teaching has given her even more time. She is always available to give a helping hand or a healing thought. Betty enjoys spending time with her granddaughters Michelle and Katelyn. Her daughter Lisa and family lives in Catoosa and her son Scot and family lives in Tulsa and are members of Asbury. Betty says the most important thing is for one to be open to hearing, reading and doing the Word in order to continue to grow. “With the Lord, I now find love and acceptance in friendships. I’m learning more about the Holy Spirit and allowing Him to use me in ways I never would have dreamed. After all, ‘He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.’” -Liz Reece 24

t age 20, I was my final year in college and was looking forward to the rest of my life-which, by the way, I had perfectly (or so I thought) mapped out. After graduation, I was going get a masterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s degree in international relations and then embark on an ambassadorial career. I was going to travel the world, even be a United Nations delegate. Somewhere in between, I would earn a Ph.D. in international relations and retire as a writer and lecturer. I believed I had a good plan! Then it all changed. Over a number of days, I suddenly felt a despairing sense of emptiness

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in my soul. I could find no reason for this bleak blanket that seemed to overwhelm me. As much as I tried, I could not shake it off. I was painfully aware of the God-shaped vacuum in my heart. It had always been there but I did not realize it until then. I had been brought up as a Methodist, my grandfather was a Methodist minister, I also attended a Methodist girls high school. I knew about Jesus but had not surrendered my life to Him. Now was the time. A few nights later, I knelt by my bedside and made Jesus Lord of my life. I then stepped into a joy and peace I had never experienced before, He put a song in my heart, which I am still singing today. Jesus gently stepped into my life and it has never been the same. What followed was an insatiable hunger for

Sola A k a la God the word of God and a fervent desire to pray. I discovered prayer to be communion with God and not just a religious exercise. I read my Bible so much that in a short time I had much of it underlined. As for my career plans, well, He had better plans. I was in the right direction but on the wrong road. I am called to be an ambassador not for the world, but for the Kingdom of God. I have traveled to 15 countries so far delivering His word and am currently studying for a graduate degree in Theology. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s been many years since that experience of emptiness and then fulfillment in Christ. Over the years, my hunger for God has increased more than ever; I realize that the most important aspect of Christian living is intimacy with Jesus. This is my current spiritual pursuit. I desire to enter into deeper communion and fellowship with Him and consequently become a better ambassador. Saint Augustine, one of the early Church Fathers once wrote, You awaken us to delight in your praise, for you made us for yourself, and our heart is restless until it rests in you. (The Confessions of Saint Augustine, Book 1, Chapter1). May your heart find rest in Him this Christmas season! -My Story by Sola Akala

er c n e p Lea S God My hope is built on nothing less Than Jesus’ blood and righteousness. I dare not trust the sweetest frame, But wholly lean on Jesus’ name. On Christ, the solid Rock I stand, All other ground is sinking sand; All other ground is sinking sand.

dward Mote wrote these words in 1834. Son of London pub keepers, he was often neglected and left to play in the streets while his parents tended to their business. He did not live in a Christian home and had no opportunity to hear God’s word. As a teenager Edward did come to know Christ. He had experienced years of loneliness and isolation but his encounter with Jesus gave him the foundation on which to build his life. Moved by the hope he’d found, he wrote “Solid Rock” while walking to work one morning and since then, this hymn has inspired hearts for more than 100 years. God has always had the desire to transform lives. And all who truly know Christ can testify how He makes beautiful things out of the disappointments, failures and ugly things in our lives, just like He did with Edward Mote. “Solid Rock” is one of Lea Spencer’s favorite hymns. The words ring true with her journey as well. At the age of eight, while visiting her

cousin, she responded to an altar call given during a Sunday school class and gave her life to Christ. But her home was not Christ-centered and Lea was not able to put down deep roots of faith as a child. Throughout high school and college, God continued to call to her, wooing her to Him. She experienced moments in His presence but bad decisions seemed to have power over her life. The breaking point came in her 20s. After battling a relationship crisis, Lea took some time off to visit her sister. On the plane trip home, she came to the end of herself. “I was at war with the control of my life. I gave it all back to Him,” she says. Right there at 30,000 feet, Lea released years of pain and for the first time she began to experience true hope. She soon got involved with Bible studies and began to invest in personal quiet time with the Lord. God put people in her life who mentored her and spoke truth into her life. Though her Christian life flourished through the years, inward battles and scars of past sins continued to wage war. But spiritual growth doesn’t come without battles. And we have to be willing to let God use those for our good and His glory. Lea recently experienced this when she sensed God prompting her to seek reconciliation with another. God restored their relationship and

soon after, Lea experienced “an outpouring of sweet peace.” And at that moment, as Lea found herself worshiping and praising God she realized, “I wanted more of this. I knew He was pleased because I was obedient. I was doing what He created me to do.” Lea’s desire to be used by God continues to be her heartbeat as she works as a member of Asbury’s Communications Team. As she helps oversee the Print Shop and its volunteers, God reveals spiritual needs and opportunities to minister to one another, even in the midst of bulk mailings and copy machines. Lea admits she’s wrestled with “long years of pain and dealing with sin.” She has struggled with codependency, guilt and isolation. But God continues to transform her and Lea longs to stay connected to Him. “I’ve looked up every scripture on God’s unfailing love and mercy. I dwell on these things and I listen.” Before Christ, Lea viewed every relationship with the attitude, “What am I going to get out of this?” Now she seeks God’s purpose. She desires to be a “jar of clay” that reveals His presence through her brokenness. “God is at work in me. I want to be a winsome witness.” Now that is something beautiful. -Nikki Boyd 26

long time ago, I was filling out a questionnaire for something or other and, after careful deliberation, I wrote the word “Pilgrim” on the line asking for my occupation. I don’t recall how that story turned out, although I suspect things didn’t go well; but, at least I’d told the truth Over the course of my life, I have wandered in and out of several religious traditions, to varying degrees of depth. I have thought of myself as Jewish, a Kabbalist, a latter-day Sufi, and a Buddhist. In my fifties, I finally had settled into some kind of easy going, laid-back, Zen-agnosticism. I was also very sick. I had been forced to add words like oncology, metastasis, and chemo-therapy to my vocabulary and things were not going at all well. In fact, my body was in revolt and I was dying. Joyce, who would one day be my wife, and others from my eclectic circle of friends had offered to pray for me during my sickness and they did so with a touching devotion. Strangely, I wasn’t uneasy about prayer, having a vague sense that, at worst, it couldn’t hurt, and at best . . . well, you never knew. I was in my doctor’s office for yet another seemingly meaningless round of blood work and the poking and prodding that seem to go along with being a cancer patient, when my doctor stuck

his head into the room and stated that, if I didn’t mind, well, he wanted to re-run a series of tests because there was something amiss with my latest lab work--words one never wants to hear from one’s oncologist. To make a long story manageable, suffice it to say that day, and borne out over subsequent months, we found that the cancer that was destroying me had been, in fact destroyed. The dreadful tumor within had, for want of a better word, just shriveled up and died. I have lived cancer-free ever since. I was at the epicenter of a miracle and, for all of my spiritual wanderings, I was totally unprepared for it. The Torah, the Kabbla, the Buddha and all of the Sufi saints had neither the language to describe what was happening within me and without me, nor the expectation that such a thing could happen. Matter of fact, my doctor, too, lacked the vocabulary. Joyce and my friends, though, not only had the explanation, they had the expectation and the mechanism-Jesus Christ, Son of the Living God, Risen Lord, great Physician and King. My agnosticism destroyed, I got off the elevator on the ground floor a devoted, and grateful, follower of the Christ, having given my life to Jesus somewhere between the third and first floor.

I called Joyce immediately to share my wonder and to find out just what I was supposed to do next. A poet and playwright of modest accomplishment, I had a new song to sing. I was a pilgrim no longer. I had arrived, although I still have the profound sense that I had been taken in hand and guided on the closing leg of the journey. I’ve heard it said that healing is often the dinner bell to salvation and it seems that is surely the case for me. It is a joyous experience but it is even more a humbling experience. In the first instance of my conversion, I had learned beyond a doubt that grace is both unearned and unearnable. It is freely bestowed because it is God’s nature. I learned that, anthropology aside, religious expectations are not “relative”, another way of saying that the Buddha has never made house calls. From my friends, I learned to be bold in prayer--faith that moves mountains prays no small prayers, something I strive to keep in mind when I pray for others. I’ve also learned that my story is not unique. I’ve spoken with dozens of people since that day in the doctor’s suite who have had a similar experience with similar outcome. God’s grace can never be called common place, but I’ve learned that it is expressed everyday--sometimes in ways we understand and sometimes in ways we find unknowable. Still, it is my story and I love to tell the story . . t’will be my theme in glory. Amen. -My Story by Scott MacDonald

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harles Emerson made a commitment to Jesus Christ at the tender age of ten. About that time he also fell in love with the steel drums. The love of percussion instruments lasted, but his initial commitment to God soon began to wane. Young Charles was into music and drama. He did some commercials as a teenager, even getting a call back to audition for the role of Pony Boy in “Outsiders.” But acting took a back seat when he felt God nudging him toward music. Now, playing various percussion instruments, he began a life-long profession in music. He attended the University of North Texas and completed his degree at Tulsa University where he received his Bachelor of Music Education. According to Charles, this began the “wilderness chapter” of his life. ”From then on I decided I wanted to go my own way. I married and was playing in a band, “Glass House.” Eventually, my wife and I went our separate ways. After the divorce was a very dark time in my life. I would return home from work and just sit in this room on the one piece of furniture, a rocking chair. That was my way of dealing with the situation. That lasted about six months.” During this time Charles was working as a professional musician in the band and several other groups. Eventually, he pulled out of his depres-

sion, but he continued making mistakes. “My brother and sister-in-law kept encouraging me to change my life, but I still wanted to do it myself. God let me. God was just waiting.” Charles met Charlene Giles through her son Austin. While teaching him lessons he also met Lynn and soon they moved in together. They lived like this for about one and a half years. “Charlene kept telling us, ‘You guys need to get married.’” Eventually, they heeded Charlene’s advice and married. They also joined a church and began to be more mindful of God’s direction, feeling that God wanted him to work with a church orchestra. “I still remember telling Lynn that this feeling about working with an orchestra was so strong. I began making phone calls to people in various churches, including a call to Hart Morris. About two weeks later, he called back. We met and talked and he offered me a part-time position as Asbury’s Director of Instrumental Music. I accepted. “In a short time, I had married, we bought a house, car and were expecting a baby. All of this was happening in the same year, far too many stressful events. It was not a pretty picture. Lynn and I were two people together and colliding. Since we hadn’t been doing

things God’s way, it was a disaster,” explained Charles. “The survival rate isn’t very good. And our marriage wouldn’t have survived were it not for the people at Asbury. We had a big blowup and even talked about the ‘D’ word (divorce). Steve and Lorianne Hopper were incredible. One day Lorianne came over and spent the whole day talking to us. We reconsidered and began working on our marriage. We attended the Intimate Life Weekend and became involved in the ministry of the church. Asbury saved our marriage, probably because it gave me the tools to understand that we’re both different people. As much grace as God has given me, I need to give back to my wife and vice versa.” The orchestra that began with 13 members has now grown, numbering over 70 talented musicians. But Charles isn’t content to rest there. He sees a wonderful ministry developing as bands birthed from within that group—Power and Light, Saints of Swing Dixieland Band—perform at area churches, senior facilities and other Tulsa venues. “This gives us the opportunity to minister, pray for people and share Christ,” said Charles. “Music has the ability to get you into places you otherwise couldn’t go.” And Charles Emerson plans to use his music to give back the grace God so patiently granted him by ministering to others through his witness and his music. -Sandy Wagner 28

asbury opportunities sunday mornings Breakfast Served from 7:00-9:15 a.m. in the CLC Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donut s, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. $2 for adults & $1 for children 12 & under Sunday Morning Worship 8:00 am Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) 9:15 am Sanctuary (Contemporary Communion) 11:00 am Sanctuary (Traditional) Sign interpreter provided 11:00 am Mason Chapel (Contemporary) Children and Students 6 Weeks - 4 Years 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am K-6th Grades 9:15 or 11:00 am 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 9:15 & 11:00 am 10th, 11th & 12th Grades 9:15 am only Adult Discipleship Communities 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am and Wednesdays, 6:30 pm The Gazebo is Open ...each Sunday morning between services and Wednesday evenings from 5:30 - 7:00 pm. Check out Pastor Tom’s book selections, Perceptions, and a variety of AsburyWear and other Asbury merchandise.

access Hands of Love Sign Choir Sundays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 2821

biblical literacy Asbury University Classes are available for all levels of learning. Brochures are available at the Welcome Centers and on the website: www.asburytulsa.org Winter classes will begin in January. Watch for upcoming information.

care and support Pathways Through Grief Tuesdays, January 10 through March 14 from 7:00-8:30 pm in Room 2821. If you have lost someone to death in the last year or so, you are invited to this support group. The facilitators have experienced significant grief themselves. They know that even though grieving people share common feelings and experiences, each person travels through the grief process in a unique way. Each week there will be time to listen to materials written for grieving Christians, followed by a time of sharing. There are no magical words to end

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your pain, but we pray that we might comfort, support, strengthen, and encourage you on your journey. Military Connection Support our Asbury Troops! Christmas gifts are never more appreciated than when one is far from home. Asbury’s Military Connection plans to send a gift to each Asbury-related military person in harm’s way, and their family. To accomplish our goal, we need your help! Please make your check payable to Asbury UMC and send c/o Ruth. Then pick up a “Pray for Our Troops” magnet in the prayer room. Asbury Bear Bags Asbury Bears are not just for little kids anymore! Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear to someone who is grieving. For more information, contact Beth at 392-1116. Cancer Support Group Second Sunday of each month, 4:00-6:00 pm, Parlor - For those living with cancer and their family and friends Bipolar/Depression Support Group Second and fourth Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1508 - For persons living with bipolar disorder or depression Divorce Recovery Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Divorce Rebuilding Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Employment Transitions Need a second set of eyes to review your resume? Free male and female one-on-one support available through Asbury’s Employment Transitions. Contact Barbara Wright at blwright1@yahoo.com. Grandparents Raising Grandchildren First and third Tuesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm, Rm 1508 (Will only meet the first Tuesday in Dec.) Family to Family Usually meets the fourth Tuesday of the month, 1:30-3:30 pm, Parlor - (Will not meet in November or December.) For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. Joint informational dinner meeting with Mental Health Support Group, third Wednesday of each month, 5:30 pm at the Rib Crib, 81st and Yale. Mentor Moms/Young Lives First and second Tuesdays of the month, 7:00-9:00 pm in the Parlor. This is a support group for teenage moms, sponsored by Young Life.

children Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies. Core Hours for Childcare Parents who are involved in activities or classes during these hours will have childcare provided with no reservations needed: Sundays 7:45 am - 12:15 pm Mondays 9:00 am - 12:00 pm Tuesdays 9:00 am - 12:00 pm Tuesdays 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Wednesdays 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Wednesday Night Live Wednesdays, January 4 - April 26 from 7:00 8:00 pm. For preschoolers through 4th graders. Our action-packed evening will start with high energy games in the main building, followed by worship in the Chapel - kid style. This overall program is designed to help children build character and develop qualities that will help them live productive and fulfilled lives as followers of Jesus Christ. Dismissal is at 8:00 pm from the Chapel. We can’t wait to see your kiddos (and parents if you like!) in worship with us soon! Children’s Ministry Enrichment Training Tuesday, January 17 from 7:00 - 8:30 pm. Childcare for children six weeks through 6th grade. “Modeling Commitment for Kids” is the first in a series of four enrichment courses offered in 2006 by our Children’s Ministry for volunteers, parents and grandparents. The goal is to assist anyone with a heart for kids in gaining a better understanding and knowledge in areas that benefit working (and playing) with His children. We hope to see you all for a little fun, and a lot of learning! Children’s Choirs Wednesdays, January 4 - April 26 from 6:00 6:50 pm. Children’s choirs are for children ages three through sixth grade. Different choirs will be singing in all our Sunday morning services during the spring. Registration forms for NEW choir members will be available in each choir room. Returning choir members do not need to register again. We are so excited to be working with your children again! Spread the word! Children’s Choir is not just singin’. We play musical games, instruments and have lots of fun! Crew Leaders Wednesdays, January 4 - March 15 from 7:008:00 pm. Service and sacrifice are not only evidences of Christian purpose and growth, but also a prerequisite to an increasing relationship with the Lord. Crew Leaders is a Wednesday night program that allows selected fifth and sixth graders the opportunity to serve younger kids in our Wednesday night Kids’ Crew program. These leaders provide guidance for team games, music and story time, and serve as small group leaders during our teaching/follow-up

activities. Students interested must apply, be interviewed and accepted into the program. The number of participants is limited, so apply early. Contact Christy Capp s at 392-1166. Rock U Wednesdays, January 4 - March 15 from 7:008:00 pm. All kids are attracted to fun and games, and attracting kids is what we want to do! However, our ultimate objective is obviously far beyond just having a good time together. We desire to use God’s word and the conviction of the Holy Spirit to impact fifth and sixth grade kids’ hearts, and to change lives forever. Our Wednesday night program moves this process beyond the “teaching and discussion” model of early elementary to a more serious small group interactive Bible study program requiring personal responsibility and accountability. It’s good stuf f, folks! Don’t let your fifth or sixth grader miss out! Contact Christy Capps at 392-1166.

christian living Equip Your Teens...No Matter What! Financial Peace Junior Series - Dave Ramsey Call Nancy Staab at 392-1124 or email asburyfpu@yahoo.com if you are interested. Spiritual Gift Connection Advisory Sessions are held the second Thursday of each month in Room 2821 from 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm. Bring your completed Spiritual Gifts Inventory for discussion with an advisor. To take the Inventory online, prior to attending, see Asbury’s website. Call the registration hotline at 392-1191 to register for one of the Thursday sessions.

library New Additions The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. New additions are listed in a black notebook on the Librarian’s desk. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.

marriage & family Milestone Wedding Anniversaries Email your February or March Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to patticooper@cox.net or call 392-1146.

membership Asbury Exploration Come to one of these classes to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. Upcoming session: Sunday, December 4, from 12:302:30 pm. Call 392-1191 to register. Childcare available.

men Band of Brothers Men’s Retreat January 13 and 14 at Camp Egan. Cost: $25. After January 1: $45. Asbury United Methodist

Men want YOU to join the Band of Brothers Basic training for soldiers in spiritual warfare. Don’t be a POW to sin. Engage in the battle for your heart. Learn how to avoid spiritual and moral land mines. Avoid being spiritually missing in action! Call 392-1122 to register. Men’s Prayer Breakfast Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC. Join the Men’s Ministry for a delicious breakfast and fellowship. Cost: $3/person December Speakers: 7 Mark Springer, Speaker 14 Dub Ambrose, Speaker 21 Pec Clark, Speaker 28 Don Herrold, Speaker

missions/outreach Global Outreach Prayer Ministry News and prayer requests from our missionaries and ministries are sent each week to our prayer ministry list. If you would like to join and become a prayer intercessor for those serving around the world, contact Missy at 392-1163. Coupon Books for Sale Benefiting Youth at Heart The coupon book which has coupons for area businesses is on sale for $25. Proceeds benefit Youth at Heart. Make checks out to Youth at Heart. The books can be picked up in the church office during regular business hours. Sisters in Service The Sisters in Service Chapter meets the last Tuesday night of every month at 7:00 pm in Room 1507. Anyone in the community is welcome to join us in supporting women around the world. The book, Daughters of Hope, telling stories of women in the most difficult places is available in the Global Outreach Office, 392-1163. Christmas Food Basket Donations Donations are being accepted for Christmas Food Baskets that will be delivered to Youth at Heart and Operation Hope families. Cost for one basket is $30. Any donation amount is accepted. Checks are made out to Asbury and marked “Holiday Baskets.” Operation Christmas Child Adopt a Christmas Child by providing a gift for one of our Youth at Heart or Operation Hope children. Select names December 4 and 11 in your community or at the CLC Gallery .

missions/vim For further details about Volunteer-in-Mission opportunities, contact Marilene Long, 392-1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org. The first two for 2006 are: Monterrey, Mexico February 18-25, 2006, Construction and Mission Bible School - approx. $850 Costa Rica March 4-11, 2006, Light Construction and Mission Bible School - approx. $950

music Chancel Choir Wednesdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Choir Room Asbury Singing Ambassadors Tuesdays, 1:00 pm, Choir Room Orchestra/Concert Band Wednesdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Rm 1510 Celebration Ringers Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Ringers Wednesdays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 2506 Perpetual Light Thursdays, 10:00 am - noon, Rm 2506 Carillon Quartet Wednesdays, 5:00-6:00 pm, Rm 2506 New Covenant Ringers Wednesdays, 4:45-5:30 pm, Rm 2502 Wesley Ringers Sundays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Power & Light Sundays, 8:15-9:15 am, Rm 1510 Brass Quintet Tuesdays, 7:30-9:00 pm, Rm 1510 String Ensemble Wednesdays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 1510 Wednesdays, 8:00-9:00 pm, Rm 1506 Clarinet Choir Wednesdays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 1506 Dixieland Band Thursdays, 2:00-3:00 pm, Rm 1510

prayer Prayer and Grief Service Sunday, December 11 from 6:00-7:00 pm in Mason Chapel, led by Rev. Darlene Johnson. Women Praying Together Mondays, 11:30 am - 12:30 pm, Prayer Room. Join other women as they pray together. College Moms in Touch Prayer Time Wednesdays, 11:45 am - 12:45 pm, Rm 1506 Altar Prayer If you would like someone to pray with you after the worship service on Sunday, please go to the front of the Sanctuary and people will be there to pray for healing of your body, mind and/or spirit. They are available to pray with you at the altar or in the Prayer Room. Mason Chapel Prayer Room Accessible during core hours. You can enter the room from the outside entrance of the southeast side of the Chapel.

recovery Celebrate Recovery Mondays: Dinner at 6:00 pm Worship: 7:00-8:00 pm Small Groups: 8:00-9:00 pm Dessert: 9:00-9:30 pm Hiding any hurts, habits or hangups? God never intended for you to live in bondage. Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6:00 pm. Childcare available. CALENDAR

Celebrate Recovery Childcare Volunteers needed. Time commitment is one Monday evening per month from 6:45 pm to 9:10 pm. Please call 392-1103 if you can help.

recreation Asbury Recreation Center - Hours Mondays 8:00 am - 9:30 am Tuesdays 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Wednesdays 8:00 am - 9:30 am 8:00 pm - 9:00 pm Fridays 8:00 am - 9:30 am Saturdays 10:00 am - 11:00 am Sundays 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Single Adults Volleyball Tuesdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Gym Come join a time of exercise, fun and fellowship. Adult Volleyball Sundays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Gym Come join a time of exercise, fun and fellowship Junior High Basketball Thursdays, 6:00-8:00 pm, Gym Metro Area Basketball League. Players and coaches needed. Contact Janet at 392-1199 X 247 or jteel@asburytulsa.org Senior High Basketball Thursdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Gym Metro Area Basketball League. Senior Sit and Fit Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays 9:00-9:30 am, Gym. Come join a time of stretching with fun and fellowship. Pilates Saturdays, 10:00-11:00 am, Rec Gym Wednesdays, 8:00-9:00 pm, Rec Gym Learn how to care for your body, prevent injury, build strength and flexibility. Bring a nonslip mat. Therabands can be purchased in class for $3. Upward Coach/Referee Training Friday, November 11 from 6:00-8:30 pm; Saturday, November 12, 10:00 am - 12:30 pm Rm 2319. Please contact Janet Teel to register for Friday or Saturday. This mandatory training is for ALL returning and new coaches/ assistant coaches/referees for the 2006 season of Upward Basketball. Call Janet at 392-1199, ext. 247 or jteel@asburytulsa.org Lifestyle Weight Change with Christ Wednesdays from 7:00-8:00 pm. This class and Bible study is for men and women interested in setting goals and learning to use exercise and God’s Word to build a healthier way of living. Contact Janet Teel at 392-1199, ext. 247 or jteel@asburytulsa.org or Crista Grimes at cristagrimes@sbcglobal.net Adult Open Gym Mondays: 7:00-9:00 pm Fridays: 6:00-8:00 pm No Saturday Open Gym

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seniors Asbury Singing Ambassadors This choir for senior adults rehearses each Tuesday at 1:00 pm in the Choir Room. The Living Christmas Tree Wednesday, December 7 at 7:00 pm, Bethany Baptist Church, 100 N. Olive, BA. Cost: $10, includes tickets to “The Living Christmas Tree” and dinner at Asbury prior to leaving for the show. This is the only performance where reserved seats are available. Spaces are limited, so sign up soon. Call 392-1191 to register. ‘Tweenagers Thursday, December, 8 at 10:30 am in the CLC. Special program featuring Christmas Carols and the Dixieland Band! If you are between retirement and heaven, come and bring a friend! Call Doni at 492-1771 to make your reservations by noon Monday, December 5.

singles Singles Meet and Greet Sundays from 8:40-9:10 am or 10:20-10:50 am in the CLC. All singles are invited. Singles Bible Study Mondays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Rm 2820 Divorce Recovery Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Divorce Rebuilding Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce.

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10th, 11th & 12th Breakaway Wednesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm - Breakaway Area Join us every Wednesday (except holidays) for a time of connection, worship, and God. We will also have nights of just random fun. Don’t miss the food and hang out time afterwards. Come be a part! 7th, 8th & 9th Breakaway Sundays, 9:15-10:30 am - Breakaway Area 7th, 8th & 9th Bible Study Sundays, 11:00 am - 12:00 pm 7th, 8th & 9th Bible Study Wednesdays, 6:30-8:00 pm - Meet in the Student Cafe, hang out, have fun, and study what God’s Word has for us. Marsha will lead the 7th and 8th grade study and Mark will lead the 9th. It’s going to be awe-inspiring. You won’t want to miss it! Guatemala Spring Break Missions Training Sunday, December 11 from 12:30 - 2:30 pm in the Student Ministries area. If you are going to Guatemala, you must be at this mandatory training! See you there!

Small Groups Every Sunday night (except holidays). 7th, 8th from 5:30-7:00 pm at Asbury 9th, 10th, 11th, and 12th from 6:00-7:30 pm in homes. Don’t miss out on being a part of a small group! It’s a place to grow in your relationship with Jesus, have some accountability, and just have fun! Sign up in Student Ministries area. Metro Worship Wednesday, December 7 from 7:00-8:30 pm. for 7th-12th graders. Come join youth from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus. We meet the first Wednesday night of every month from 7:00-8:30 pm at Believers. If you need a ride, meet at Asbury at 6:30 pm. We’ll be back by 9:00 pm. College Bible Study Each Sunday night from 6:00-7:15 in the Student Ministry Conference Room. College Sunday Night Dinners 7:15-9:00 p.m. in the Student Ministry Cafe. Come fellowship and eat a home-cooked meal with other college students.

women Christmas Tour of Homes Friday, December 2 and Saturday, December 3 Wednesday AM Bible Study Wednesdays, 10:00 am, Rm 1502 Mothers’ Fellowship Mondays throughout the school year from 9:30 - 11:30 am in the Parlor. To register, call 3921191. Crafty Ladies December 14, 6:30-9:00 pm, Rm 2820 Women’s Monthly Luncheon Thursday, December 7 from 11:30 am - 1:00 pm, CLC. Program: God’s Timing and Wisdom. Jeremiah 33:3. Program: “The Sounds of Christmas” - Luke 2:13-14 with Hart Morris. Women Praying Together Mondays from 11:30 am - 12:30 pm in the Prayer Room. Phone Buddies Ladies, do you want a “cheer me up” with your morning coffee? We have ladies that can fill that need by being your own “phone buddy!” Call 392-1122. Lea or Shirley will return the call and get you set up! Arts and Crafts Mondays, 9:30 am - 2:00 pm, Rm 2820. Women who enjoy crafts are invited to come any Monday morning...come and go any time. Bring lunch to share.

Welcome to Asb ur Asbur uryy...

Barbara Bell Matt and Lisa Kepford, Mattie and Jordan

Roger and Kimberly Stokes and Kaylee

Edna Zakharian

Pam and Fred Reed Eric and Teri Stall, Corbin and Amy

Judy Adams

Stan and Rita Kirkendall

Ron and Tuesdye Fletcher, Dalton, Jared and Tyler Kathi Hudson

Reid and Alyssa Adams Rosanna Zakharian

Nancy White

James McCoy NEW MEMBERS 32

Dylan and Nicole McCants

Jack and Doris Bruin

Tom and Sharon Sowell

...we’re glad you’re here! Healing Help by John C. Westervelt The first Monday and Tuesday of October were Dads’ Night Out for Asbury’s weekday preschool. A father of a three-year-old asked, “Grandpa John, is your cough better?” Wondering how he knew, I said, “The cough is much better, thank you, but how did you know to ask?” The dad said, “My daughter prayed for your cough to get well.” From seven to eight o’clock, I 33 FAMILIY ROOM

As you walk the halls of Asbury you see lots of adults in Bible study, in prayer, in fellowship, and in small groups. For many of these adults, this type of activity is ‘the norm’, a habit developed, often times, in childhood. In our own elementary area we are hard at work helping kids develop those same habits that will carry them through the trials and tribulations of growing up and growing into the person God has created them to be. Every week hundreds of children have the opportunity to shop at ‘The Store’ (better name coming soon) located in the Elementary lobby. They don’t shop with money; however, they shop with punches. Punches are earned by memorizing scripture, bringing their bible, spending TAG (time alone with God) time each week, and bringing their non-Asbury friends to church. They can also earn punches for knowing the books of the Bible, the 10 commandments, the fruits of the spirit… the list goes on. Kids can then spend their punches on anything from a pencil to a skateboard, depending on how many they have saved and earned. This fall, however, about 40 of our very generous first through sixth graders have spent their punches in a new way; they have used them to feed the homeless. Available in the store for the past few months have been John 3:16 thanksgiving meals. In buying one, the child forgoes a toy or trinket to purchase a holiday meal for a needy Tulsan. I guess generosity is a habit we are developing, too. - Heidi Sanchez

visited in the classroom with one mother and a dozen fathers of threeyear-olds. Several told me that their son or daughter had prayed for my cough. Last year I hardly missed a day of my time with three-year-olds on Tuesday and Thursday and with fouryear-olds on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday; so I was disappointed in late September, when I caught a bug that turned into a weekend cough that kept me home on Monday and Tuesday.

I knew that Miss Jan (Wagner) and Miss Sue (Wetmore) prayed with the children during circle time, so I told Miss Jan about the children’s prayers and asked if they had prayed for healing of my cough. Jan said, “Yes, we did, and I am pleased to hear that the children remembered our request for your healing for their bedtime prayers.” God may have planned to use my well-worn immune system to heal my cough, but I think His pleasure was greater to also have answered the faithfilled prayers of some three-year-olds.

Changing the world...

were drooping and the pots and pans smelled like sulfur. The water in the washing machine had sat in there for seven weeks, so it, too, smelled like sulfur. There were shards of glass and ceramic everywhere. Luckily, most of us had worn our work boots. The shed in the backyard was in the same condition, but there were also items from houses other than the house we were working in, like a pink wooden elephant. There, next to the disheveled shed, were two toilets and a big metal rectangular box resting on top of them. This scene is not rare in Bayou La Batre, Alabama after Hurricane Katrina. That became evident to 39 of Asbury’s youth on a mission to Alabama on October 18-23. With ten adults, five vans, and a slightly uncomfortable bus, we spent the week doing hurricane relief.

Seeing the victims’ faces after we mucked out their homes or tore down their walls was enough to affect us for a long time. I saw that we really could have an affect the world, just a little bit at a time. It’s just like what Mark Fowler, our youth leader, always reminds us: “Youth can change the world.” I now see what he means. - Erin Tresch

photos by Erin Tresch

e followed each other into a one-story house. In the front yard, there were lawn chairs, books, and other everyday items that had been carried by the torrential hurricane. As I walked in through the back door, I gasped. The red walls were warped and the paint was peeling off. Magazines were disintegrating into the floor and stuff was lying around, unmoved since the hurricane that had ripped through the bayou. The floor was covered in molding items and the smell was unbearable. I walked into one of the bedrooms and the first thing I noticed was all the paintings, virtually untouched, on the bed and the overturned dresser. The clothes in the wardrobe were also, amazingly, in good condition. The counters in the kitchen

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Marriage Milestones

We Rejoice... with those who have experienced the birth of a new baby: Gabriella Ann Medina April 7, 2005 Daughter of Vincent and Melissa Medina Farah Emil Mamedova October 10, 2005 Daughter of Emil and Nargiz Mamedova and sister of Leila

“Let marriage be held in honor among all.”

A.B. and Gwen Steen December 23, 1950 55 Years

We Remember...

Dale and Pat Gregston December 9, 1950 55 Years

and pray God’s peace for those who have lost loved ones: Jeff Martin September 15, 2005 Son of Steve and Sandy Calvin and brother of Danielle Martin and Baylor Calvin Barbara Katapodis October 10, 2005 Wife of Leon and mother of John Dick Derrevere Husband of Lillian

October 18, 2005

The children of Asbury’s Preschool/ Mothers’ Day Out celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ in their 2004 pageant.

Burton and Freddie Howard December 27 - 45 Years

Trent and Terri Baker December 20 - 25 Years

Bob and Sandy West December 30 - 45 Years

Rodney and Tiffany Huss December 23 - 10 Years

Allen and Norma Robison November 7 - 40 Years

Tad and Tiffany Fifer December 29 - 10 Years

John and Ruthene Alexander December 11 - 40 Years

Congratulations to all couples who are

Tom and Sandie White December 30 - 35 Years Les and Janet Thomas November 1 - 25 Years

celebrating Milestone Anniversaries. Report your Milestone Anniversary to patticooper@cox.net or call 392-1146.

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Hebrews 13:4

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n those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. 2(This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) 3And everyone went to his own town to register. 4 So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. 5He went there to r egister with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. 6While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, 7and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn. 8 And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. 9An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them. “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. 11Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. 12This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.” 13 Suddenly a gr eat company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, 14 “Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.” 15 When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.” 16 So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in a manger. 17 When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, 18and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 19 But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. 20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which wer e just as they had been told. -Luke 2:1-20, NIV