Asbury Tidings - Looking for Something More?

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Coming Up

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Journey

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Looking for Something More

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December Calendar

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New Members

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Discipleship Communities

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Family Room

Merry Christmas from the Tidings Staff

It is our privilege to bring you the Good News of the transforming power of Jesus Christ.

Chris Lo, Sandy Wagner, Nikki Boyd, Lina Holmes, Jan Weinheimer, Lois Lai, Lisa Tresch and Juli Armour

Something More Looking Ahead...

I have never been very good at haggling.

Wrangling with sales people can save lots of money, but I would always feel bad about doing it. As a result, I have not always been the best shopper. Combine that with a “less than average” knowledge of cars, and you wind up with a really bad car deal. Our second Pastor Tom Harrison child had just been born; we had a lot of expenses, and slight income. Our little car was just too old and small for us. When we were pastoring in Sallisaw, I came to Tulsa to buy a car. (By the way, the dealer was not an Asbury member.) I made a purchase that could probably be best described as “dreadful.” There was not actually sawdust in the transmission— but it was close. I paid far too much for very minimal results.

It was a mid-December day. Some members of the church rang our front doorbell. They told us they wanted to show us something in our driveway.

It was a brand new 1984 Buick Regal. They had learned of my deal, felt pity, and had bought us the car. I was speechless. They even paid for the tag, title and tax. I even remember the tag number; “SYA 700” (Sequoyah County).

This Tidings edition is about “looking for something more.” Most blessings in my life have been found in relationships and in events, not in material possessions. But I can tell you that one Christmas in 1984 when we were in desperate need for safe, reliable transportation, and when I felt we were “up a creek without a paddle,” we got “something more.” I will never forget it.

Nor will I forget what someone later whispered to me about our benefactor, “That was the nicest thing he has ever done for anyone.” I recall our benefactors being almost as excited about it as we were. This couple just beamed.

“Getting” is great. It is second only to “giving.” Someone who has to “get” is a person who has a need. Someone who gives often does so from their abundance. As Jesus told Paul, “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35). I think I understand a little of both worlds of “getting” and “giving.”

I agree with Jesus. But sometimes, receiving is a memorable and life-changing experience, too.

I will always remember that December day when I got something more.

Tom Harrison, Sr. Pastor

On the Cover: Eden Wagner watches with anticipation.

In the October Tidings, members of Asbury’s staff of fered stories of answered prayer. The month, we encouraged other staff members to share remembrances of when God gave them something more. Perhaps these stories will cause you to explore times when God gave you something you neither expected nor deserved.

We pray that remembering these gifts will be a special way to prepare for the Christmas season.

Asbury Tidings is a monthly publication designed to tell stories of lives transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. photo by Christy Capps

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Advent at Asbury Sunday, December 3 Hanging of the Green 6:00 pm in the Sanctuary Asbury’s Music Ministry

Sunday, December 10 Children’s Christmas Pageant 6:00 pm in the Sanctuary Featuring 300 singing children and the Young Musicians in “The Toy Store”

Sunday, December 17 SAVIOUR: The Story of God’s Passion for His People Presented by the Chancel Choir & New Covenant Orchestra 9:15 and 11:00 am in the Sanctuary

Prayer and Healing Service 5:00 pm in Mason Chapel

Rick Fraley in Concert 6:00 pm in the Sanctuary This gifted pianist presents an evening of Christmas music

Sunday, December 24 Morning Worship Service 9:15 and 11:00 am in the Sanctuary 8:00 and 11:00 am in the Chapel

Christmas Eve Services 5:00 pm - Children’s Service in the Sanctuary 7:00 and 9:00 pm - Carols & Candlelight with Tom Harrison & Chancel Choir in the Sanctuary 11:00 pm - Candlelight & Communion in Mason Chapel

and to begin the new year...

Sunday, December 31

Come and Go Communion 6:00 - 8:00 pm in Mason Chapel

Friday and Saturday December 1 and 2 11:00 am - 4:00 pm Tickets are $8 in advance or $10 at the door (No children under 12 please) Complimentary buses will be available for people not wanting to drive. Buses will leave from Asbury’s main entrance at 10:45 and 12:45 only, both days. While you are waiting for the bus, feel free to enjoy our complimentary Tea Room.

Then step over to our Christmas Shoppe where you will be able to purchase an array of homemade goodies—cakes, cookies, candies, wrapped and ready for gift giving! Homes on this year’s tour include: Alicia and Mike Knapp 8021 S. Fulton Avenue Mary and Steve Area 7910 S. Braden Avenue Judy and Richard Edmonson 7924 S. Braden Avenue Mary Kay and Dick Secrest 6442 S. Pittsburg Avenue All proceeds benefit missions.

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Notes from the Journey The Gift of Something More

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n September 30, 2006 I received a gift. It was thrust into the palm of my hand on a Sunday afternoon, and at the time I didn’t realize the significance of it. That’s the way it is with gifts sometimes. You receive one graciously but don’t understand how much you need it until you have had some time to look at it, think about it, and wonder what it might be like if you didn’t have it.

The gift is actually two large pieces of drawing paper, with two very similar pictures outlined in pencil and then colored with crayons. They’re pictures of rocks, and something that looks like giant seaweed, and in the top corner there is sunshine with two eyes and bright red smiling lips. The artwork is rudimentary, and there is nothing conceptually striking about it. Both of the drawing papers got shuffled around in the crowded car on the way home, and so they are wrinkled and creased.

But my gift is precious to me because when I look at the drawings, I see something amazing. I see the artist.

She is sitting in her room in the orphanage with a wide smile on her face despite the desolate conditions that surround her. This is Suray Children’s Home, which is an orphanage about twenty minutes outside the capital of Baku, Azerbaijan. Sanura is there because she is handicapped, as are all the children in the orphanage.

Her condition is known as achondro-

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By Lisa Tresch plasia, or dwarfism. She is there because in some cultures, poor families with handicapped children

have no resources to care for those children, and they are overwhelmed by the thought of raising a child like this when they can barely feed themselves.

And so they take them to orphanages where they will live their lives in environments that might not be much better than their homes. In her room, flies buzz around in droves and the odor of human filth permeates the hallway outside her door. I noticed the drawings that were placed on the tiny desk beside her bed, and told her that they were very good. Later, as we were leaving the orphanage, our host thrust the rolled up drawings into my hands – a gift from the artist.

God gives us glimpses into

worlds that we cannot imagine, and then reminds us that He is there, even in the darkest corners of those worlds.

His light breaks through the darkness in the form of people who are willing to enter those worlds, whether it is for a lifetime or a couple of weeks, or just for a Sunday afternoon. And sometimes, the most amazing thing happens: those of us have come to shine the light of God’s love receive a gift from those who live in the dark places. In an instant, boundaries are stepped over and walls are broken down.

Christmas seems to filled with the rush of looking for something more – whether it is one more gift to finish the list, or more décor to make the house look festive, or more social engagements so we don’t have to feel the loneliness of the season. But all that searching can’t compare to the “something more” we get when we open ourselves to giving and receiving God’s love with everyone, everywhere. It sounds so simple, maybe even trite. But it is the highest calling of the Christian life. I keep the drawings in a prominent place because they remind me that God calls me to something more than a monotonous existence, plodding through each day without purpose. He calls me to look around and pay attention so that I won’t miss the most wonderful moments of the journey and the gifts that I receive from them.

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took my seat on a late flight home to Atlanta and immediately requested a red wine. I wanted to feel nothing. My body was exhausted and I relished the idea of a quiet, dark, numbing twohour flight. This was always my safe haven after one of my many trips to Oklahoma City visiting my ill mother.

My thoughts always went to my dad on those return flights. Dad was the father I always could parallel to my Heavenly Father. At any age in my life, his presence ignited a calming spirit of hope, strength, resolve, and peace.

Dad’s life was centered for years around caring for my mother. Her comfort mentally, physically and spiritually was his endless focus.

I never saw his discouragement or sadness in this hopeless battle. I was puzzled how he could survive such an impossible environment.

I struggled with my faith. I felt Dad was being punished and ignored. Of all the people I knew, he was the godliest man ever created. For the first time in my life, I felt anger toward God. I don’t recall a regular prayer time in those years, just a lonely, empty and lost existence.

My Bible collected much dust on the nightstand, which I would dust along with the bedroom furniture oblivious to how close it lay to my tearful nights.

As the plane began to descend, I looked out to a very big, dark and rainy abyss. My thoughts were blurred with scenes of mother trying to breathe and dad fighting to help her breathe. I noticed his anger in several exhausted attempts to deliver some relief…turning up the oxygen, turning on a fan, pulling her upright, and changing the positioning of her pillows. I remember the wonder which occurred often during these visits…Is this the end?

After the long reflection of that visit, I began

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to pray a child-like prayer. I confessed my doubt, my anger, my fears, and most of all my disobedience when my life turned away from the world I so deserved and enjoyed. I missed mother; I hurt for dad, and didn’t know how to live in this world I was so unfamiliar with.

Soon after that flight, my husband and I relocated to Tulsa. I spent many days in that environment that no longer appeared impossible. Mom’s weak, but familiar smile encouraged me as it did when I was a small child and reluctant to go into my kindergarten class many years earlier.

I sat nights by her hospital bed while dad slept on the sofa with my young son, Brandon, on his chest. Those were the most peaceful nights, observing mom resting quietly and recognizing the soon- to- be relationship my son and his Pop-Pop would enjoy. I learned to change my prayer “style” and thank Him for those sweet blessings. I grew closer to my Heavenly Father in those hours than I had ever experienced in my entire life.

Mom passed quietly and peacefully one early morning in May. We were with her and caught a loving goodbye glance before she gave up her very tired earthly body.

I no longer question “why” about anything in this life. Faithfulness and obedience must be my focus. He will take care of everything else.

Mom loved the beautiful Psalms. As a child, I recall her preparing for the many adult Sunday school classes she often taught. Her favorite was always Psalms 121….” I lift up my eyes to the hills…where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of Heaven and earth.”

-Vicki Ihrig Childcare Team Leader

GREG LYNN AND his friend Miguel reunited after many years. Miguel played the role of a Roman soldier taking the census (sign in) during Asbury’s Fall Festival.

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God Helped Us Find Hope in a Hopeless Situation

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hen we found him living in a stripped out van on the street a few blocks from our church, Miguel didn’t have much hope. He was only nine years old, had no mother, his father was in prison and he had been kicked out of his foster home. He had fallen through the cracks of a broken system. Wanting to help this child, a group of us decided to let Miguel live inside our church in Brooklyn, New York. Someone got him back in school, someone made sure he was fed, and we all made sure he was loved and cared for. This was my first experience with Miguel and the beginning of a long relationship. Through the years in Brooklyn, there were literally thousands of other stories or situations without much hope, but this one is full of hope and it has led to Asbury.

One particular family on staff took Miguel in to live with them, and even brought him when they moved to Mannford, Oklahoma. With that, I knew we’d keep in touch and his chances of a “normal” life were much greater.

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high school, he was rushed to the hospital in Tulsa with the diagnosis of total kidney failure. He almost died.

By God’s grace and mercy, he pulled through. He managed to graduate, even when he had to have dialysis three times a week. Not necessarily a “normal” life, but not bad considering the alternative.

Little did Sandy and I know that our paths would cross with Miguel’s again a few years later. We found ourselves living and working on the north side of Tulsa. Miguel found himself seriously ill after his body rejected a transplanted kidney. By showing God’s love, we had an opportunity to help turn a “hopeless” situation around again. We opened up our home to Miguel. He lived with us for about two years until we moved back to the New York area. My life experiences have shown me that loving and serving God is not a job but a way of life.

Our lives took us different directions since that time. Sandy and I had our three children and immersed ourselves into the lives of those around

us. Miguel has continued to live and work in this area. But, we had lost track of our friend. A couple of months ago, I received a phone call from Miguel asking for help. He had been in an accident that hurt both knees and was recuperating in a facility. He is well again, and has started coming to Asbury. He has been attending Celebrate Recovery and is enjoying fellowship with those of us that have lived through the trials and tribulations that life and choices can bring. My relationship with Miguel has given me an unexpected gift. . .seeing that each day of life is a blessing in itself.

Second, that I recognize God’s power through my own humility. We weren’t sure how helping that little nine-yearold boy would turn out, but we just knew we should. And we also learned that in our lives in Christ it takes both BEING before DOING. -Greg Lynn Student Ministries Manager

ANYONE WHO IS AMONG THE LIVING HAS HOPE. . . ECCLESIASTES 9:4

God Showed Me a Better Way

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have always been very reluctant in sharing my personal testimony because I didn’t have a special “ah-ha” moment.

I heard someone say recently that their salvation came in installments; I felt that was a good way to describe mine.

I have been a believer since I was in the fifth grade (many moons ago), but I haven’t always “walked the walk” so to speak. However, throughout my life, God has revealed himself to me many times. I just didn’t realize how much he was trying to get my attention.

(Guess, I’m a slow learner.)

Going through a very painful divorce after 22 years of marriage, and having my only child leave for college the same year seemed like the end of my world. I was angry and bitter about

it all and finally one day my youngest sister said to me, “You need to get over it, we want our sister back.” I have been so blessed with a very close family and I took my little sister’s words to heart.

When I finally began to pray about it, and could even pray for my exhusband, I started seeing things in a totally different light. God was trying to reach me then too, and spoke to me through my little sister. Other times throughout my life, I would “drift away” but God would gently (sometimes painfully) nudge me back.

Not until I came to Asbury did I truly feel like I was really “walking the walk.” Working on staff at Asbury has been the most wonderful part of my spiritual journey. Wow, have I learned a lot! When Tom asked me to be his assistant (almost seven years ago), one of the things he said to me was, “Vic, I want you to be an extension of me.”

I thought, “Oh my goodness, what a challenge and what big shoes to fill.

But, I have learned it has been more of an honor and blessing than a chal-

lenge. Every morning in my prayer time, I ask God to give me wisdom and grace for whatever situation arises, so that I might handle it in a way that is pleasing to Him and also as good reflection on Tom. Through prayer and leadership from Asbury, I have grown. I am very thankful for my Asbury family.

When I looked back on the periods of growth in my spiritual journey: giving of my time and attention for awhile and then drifting away again, I think of one of my favorite scriptures: Philippians 4: 5-7 “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

I was always a worrier, worrying that I didn’t measure up and wondering how God could love me when I messed up so many times. I’ve learned that if I worry about nothing and pray about everything, life sure is a lot easier.

-Victorian Williamson Executive Assistant

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I’ve Learned He’s Always Close to Me “

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know whom I have believed…” My story is so simple that I hesitate to even call it a “testimony.”

I’ve never had a road-to-Damascus experience, that “a-ha” moment, or conversion at an altar call—I just don’t ever remember not believing in Jesus.

“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” (Jeremiah 29:13) My dad was killed in an auto accident when I was four years old (my sister was seven and my brother, one) and my mother never remarried. I certainly didn’t understand at that age why God didn’t prevent that accident and still don’t, although I’ve since learned there are some questions that have no answers.

But as I grew up and needed a “father” to turn to, I had conversations with Abba Father in my head, and I still do.

When He’s right there in your head, he’s never far from your heart or your mind. In many respects my faith is still that of a little girl, unquestioning, just knowing He’s my friend, my Father, and more, my Savior.

“They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching, to fellowship, the breaking of bread, and to prayer.” (Acts 2:42) I have always believed that my week goes better when I am in worship on Sunday. I need the fellowship with other believers and the assurance that comes in hearing God’s Word from 11 ASBURY TIDINGS

the pulpit. I grew up in the Methodist church with regular attendance in Sunday school, church and MYF. We preferred the Presbyterian Church in Columbia, Missouri during college and then I was fortunate to be able to learn from Dr. Norman Vincent Peale at Marble Collegiate Church in New York City where I worked for TWA after college.

When I moved to Long Island I was the only protestant I knew, so I attended Catholic mass with friends every Sunday.

“Are ye able, said the Master?”

We were transferred by American Airlines to Tulsa in 1978. I was invited to Asbury by our next door neighbor four days after we moved in, and to my first United Methodist Women meeting four days after that. It was hearing Bill Mason’s passionate prayers and sermons that rekindled my spiritual growth as an adult. I learned from him that if you aren’t growing and serving, you are going backwards. Our three sons were all nurtured at Asbury. It was almost impossible to say “no” to Betty Ogilvie’s request to help with

Sunday school, and lifelong friendships grew in UMW and various circles. I joined the Chancel Choir in 1998, an incredible opportunity to serve. My faith journey has grown immeasurably through singing scripture and glory to God, as well as by Cynthia Bedford and Marty Morris’s women’s Bible studies.

“Jesus loves me, this I know!” I was hired by Sally Ryser in 1985 to work with Asbury Preschool/Mothers Day Out. I still love working with Joanne, an incredible group of teachers and “Grandpa John” who are “family.” I am blessed in so many ways to have partnered with our wonderful families in sharing Jesus’ love with their children.

“The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.”

(Deuteronomy 31:8) God is always faithful to answer our prayers, but the answer isn’t always “yes” and the timing is always His. No request is too big or too small to take to Him….safe birth of our middle son following his emergency home birth during an ice storm (he’s now 27 and a father himself); just one more Christmas with my mother (she died the next March); a safe pregnancy for our diabetic daughter-in-law (our adorable granddaughter Rebecca was born in April); safe travel by car or air; jobs for our sons. I don’t know what lies ahead, but I do know that He will be with me, and He isn’t finished with me yet.

-Susan Rizotti Assistamt Team Leader Preschool/Mother’s Day Out

I’ve Found He is Always Faithful

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hile it took me some time to realize the truth of the above statement, God has proved His faithfulness to me over and over. “…for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Thy faithfulness.” Lamentations 3: 22b-23 I grew up in Small Town USA and within a mainline denomination.

Within this denomination I learned lots about God, Jesus, doctrines, and traditions but did not know that God wanted to be Lord of my life and know Jesus Christ as my Savior. As a result while I tried hard to do what I thought was necessary to get to heaven, I was never sure it was good enough.

In 1974, while getting my bachelor’s degree in nursing, some friends of the family began to talk to us about being “born again,” God Who heals today and the baptism in the Holy Spirit. It was all very troubling because I thought I was a Christian and as a nurse believed that the miracles of healing had long passed.

In the spring of that year, my youngest son developed asthma and it was very frightening. I remember having to take him to the emergency room for several attacks, but then I began to think, “If this healing stuff is true, maybe God would heal my son.” So I decided that when he began to have an attack, I’d pray and only take him if the respirations got above a certain point. The first time after that, the respirations increased but then slowly his breathing became normal. I said “Hm-m-m.” to myself. The next few times the same thing happened until he had no more

PARISH NURSE ADRENA Mahu checks Pastor Darlene Johnson’s heart rate. attack. Needless to say, I began to ponder God as Healer.

However, this did not satisfy my questions about a new birth and the Holy Spirit. So my questioning heart continued until I became so tired that finally I just asked Jesus to be Lord of my life. He honored my request and my life took a drastic change – the most significant of which was a tremendous desire to study and know Him through His Word.

My hunger was insatiable.

Since that time I cannot say my life has been a “bed of roses.”

But I can say that God has been extremely faithful through some very difficult trials and dreams that have been shattered.

Through Him I can do all things (Philippians 4:14)– overcome difficulties, walk through grief, minister to others, and live life knowing that some day there will be no more tears, no more crying (Revelation 21: 4 ). I will

(along with many friends and loved ones who have also experienced new life in Christ) be home with Jesus. As the saying goes “God is not finished with me yet” but He is still working and “growing me”.

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Jami Found that God was the Key to a Fuller Life

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od reveals Himself in awesome ways. Look at a sunset or a snowflake; hear the power of a thunderstorm and you experience the glory of God. But sometimes God quietly speaks in the middle of the ordinary, in an unexpected moment.

Asbury staff member Jami Moss recalls hearing that still, small voice of God. She was living far from the good that God intended for her life and times were rough trying to make it on her own. “I was leaving my house one morning. At the moment I turned the key to lock my door, the thought rushed over me, ‘Is this all there is? Is this what it’s all about?’ I knew there had to be something more to my life.”

While she was turning that key, God was already at work orchestrating details that would finally bring her hope and change the course of Jami’s life.

She hadn’t always been so spiritually isolated. As a child, Jami had the influence of her grandma to point her to God and take her to church. But in her teen years, she began to stray and eventually turned her back on the things of God. Now on her own and at a crossroads, God was whispering to Jami’s heart.

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Within the week, a godly couple that Jami hadn’t seen for a long time came into the convenience store where she was working. They visited over the course of a couple days and invited her to church. That Sunday, Jami gave her life to Christ. Hungry to grow, she immediately began to get involved in the life of the church.

Knowing Jesus has transformed Jami’s life. Anger used to be her first reaction to difficulty. “I was so mean,” she says. “I needed His presence to help me get to the root of my motives; to get the impurities out.” Jami likens God’s hand to a wine press. “After the grapes are pressed, the wine would be repeatedly poured over cheesecloth, filtering the flesh out. That’s what God is doing in me, using the ‘strainings’ in my life to filter out my flesh and make me more like Him.” God continues to reveal Himself through Jami’s relationship with her husband of three years, Cary. “God is always checking my heart, teaching me to be more sensitive with my words and actions.” Jami realizes that love is a choice and she daily prays, “Lord, help me to love Cary and do whatever I do for him as unto You.” Jami currently serves as coordina-

tor of Asbury’s 5.6 Sunday school, Wednesday night programming and events. She desires to see fifth and sixth graders realize their purpose in Christ and to help make them disciples now, before high school. “I want them to see me in every light and see how God works in every situation.” This spring Jami will complete a Bachelor of Science degree in Church Administration/Leadership from Oklahoma Wesleyan with hopes to teach Biblical studies at the university level.

When asked about a favorite scripture, Jami quotes Philippians 4:19, “And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.” She adds, “My need was Christ. You will never know a need that Jesus can’t fill.”

God knew Jami’s need long before she turned that key. He heard the quiet desperation in her heart and made a way. He offers the same for everyone. That’s why we shouldn’t take God’s whispers for granted. God speaks in grand and glorious ways but His still small voice is just as powerful to bring about change in us and lead us to something more.

-Nikki Boyd

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he most formative experience of my Christian life was my call into ministry.

This was not what I would expect to be a typical call, because it happened before I had accepted Jesus as my personal Lord.

My family had been attending church for many years. I had become active in the youth program, as well as volunteering. I enjoyed volunteering because it allowed me to avoid all the usual questions about my spirituality.

Everyone simply assumed that since I was volunteering that I had accepted Christ into my life. I was willing to go along with that assumption. It kept me in good standing with church leaders and allowed me to have a purpose for going to church, a place where I felt accepted. It also provided a method for my rationalization of self importance that I was a volunteer rather than just

y name is Valerie Smith and I’m a grateful believer in Jesus Christ. I have been delivered from a destructive relationship with alcohol and today I struggle with an eating disorder, low self-esteem, social anxiety, and relationship issues.

a student, allowing me to feel a step above the other teenagers in the program. And I was quite content to allow this to go on. There were, however, larger plans for me that I was unaware of.

I arrived at Camp Egan with few expectations. Rather than a week of fun, I endured small group sessions and evening worships. Since it was a district camp I was not allowed to manage the audio board as I was used to doing. I looked for fun where it was available in the lengthy free time that the afternoons provided. Three days went by fast.

I felt the camp was below average. The small group sessions had games that made no sense, the lessons didn’t seem logical, the challenges had no team building properties, and group leaders seemed inattentive. I kept myself hidden in the

crowd and was looking forward to the end of camp.

But one person noticed me. His name was Steve. I barely remember what he looked like, not the kind of adult volunteer a youth would immediately be drawn to. He was my cabin leader and I met him the first day of camp.

On Wednesday afternoon, right after lunch, we sat in a circle for prayer time. My request was typical and would have gone unnoticed at my home church. It was a prayer for my brother who a few months before had moved from my mother’s house to my father’s. After the prayer session, Steve quietly asked me to remain.

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He Showed Me His Call on My Life the depth of his prayer is still strong in my memory. He prayed for my brother Wayne and his relationship with my father, my mother, and me. He also prayed for the Lord to show me His will for my future and my career.

“That was stupid,” I thought as I left the room. I had known what I wanted to do since the fourth grade. I was going to be a marine biologist. I wanted to study sharks to understand how they lived, how they evolved, how they hunted and most importantly, to watch them eat.

That night we gathered in the chapel of the camp for a service. The devotion was about the prodigal son, and the focal point was that the father in the story ran. The leader pointed out that it was uncommon for men in the time of Jesus to run. The conclusion was a proclamation that God would run, would allow Himself to be embarrassed, even allow Himself to be killed all out of love for His people. This was followed by the song “When God Ran.” Between the devotion, the prayer

by Steve, and the song; something seemed to push through my spirit, and for the first time in my life, I began to worship. I closed my eyes and my heart was opened, and the warmth that I have heard described most concisely

by Wesley ensued. Words were formed on my lips, words that were not created in my conscience. “I am going to be a minister,” the words surprised me, but they were nothing compared to the rush of something that my newlyopened heart was unprepared for. Joy 15 ASBURY TIDINGS

hit, and tears flowed.

Allow me to explain one thing, I do not cry. My friends and acquaintances at the camp believed that something was wrong with me. They came by as I continued to worship one by one, asking me if I was okay. “I am great,” was the only response I managed.

Knowing I was going to be a minister was only the beginning. Over the next weeks and months I came to the understanding that if I was to be responsible for the teaching of others, the nature of the Lord, then I had better understand who the Lord is.

I began by observing the only people I knew to be in the place where I would be someday—the ministers at the church where I attended. I began with the youth minister. I knew their responsibilities during programs, but had no idea beyond the programs what they did. The church became my home away from home. After school and during the summers I spent my time at the church, watching and lending a hand. As I did, my understanding of the local church was beginning to expand.

Gradually I became friends with my ministers—Dick Read, David Welch and Jonathan Weibel—and learned from their knowledge, faith, biblical understanding and disciplines. These became an important part of my life. My relationship with Christ (which was nonexistent before my call) was causing me to take responsibility for my own spiritual growth. This growth continued through

college and seminary.

My time at Oklahoma State University was an eye-opening experience. People there challenged me by questioning my faith. At no time did I seriously doubt my call, or my Christian center. Actually, the questions became a catalyst by which my faith grew and was strengthened.

During this time I was able to minister to others for the first time.

Camp Loughridge in West Tulsa was looking for male counselors for their day camp. My first year, I lead a small group of fifth and sixth grade boys.

What I thought was just a summer job would change the focus of God’s call in my life. The children were so receptive to the nature of God’s call.

That summer I was able to influence in a small way the lives of future young men of the Lord. I learned to love camping and ministering to children so much that the next year I returned to the camp as a program leader. I stayed for six summers in a row, through college and most of seminary.

Seminary was the opening of a book filled with endless knowledge.

During my time there I learned theology, Bible study, preaching and teaching. The whys and hows of Christianity were answered and my questions were replaced by a compulsion to share my newly-found information. I am continuing to use this knowledge, which like my call is not stagnate, but is constantly growing and being influenced by its surroundings.

So, as a youth who found comfort in the church and my call to be a pastor at camp, I now face a future serving God with a true heart.

-Patrick Jackson Minister to Children

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t was a small Iowa town of about 10,000 people and the kids I rode the bus with and played kick ball with, walked beans with, went to church with, were all the same. My faith was nothing unique. It was ingrained. It was as natural as eggs for breakfast and putting mittens on before your coat. It wasn’t what I did, it was who I was, who we were as a family. Dinner didn’t start until dad said grace and Sunday morning was for church.

It wasn’t so much the practice of religion, though, that sticks with me about growing up in that small town. It was the practice of helping your neighbor. I remember the Sliwas or the Johnsons or the Sessions from down the hill coming over to help when the cows got out, and my parents, their three daughters in tow, helping them with broken fences and rotting roofs.

Faith displayed in community was living and working, rarely sleeping, in that small Iowa town.

When I was 13 we moved to Albuquerque. Doctors recommended that, due to the worsening asthma attacks experienced by my mother and me, we find a drier climate to call home. I didn’t fit. My baggy jeans and penny loafers were not received well by the teenagers in their Van Halen concert shirts, black jeans, and Stan Smith Addidas. Dad, a lifelong dairy farmer, found himself without cows to milk or neighbors to help. We joined a church and I had the same success connecting there. None. The faith that had been such a part of my life no longer seemed to fit. The kids on the bus, if they went to church, didn’t admit it or act like it. They weren’t the

same kids as the ones I had left. If God placed me in that spot to challenge me and use me to spread His word, I failed Him miserably. In order to fit in I started to hide my faith. It hadn’t been well received—and cast into a foreign environment without friends to support me—I was too weak to stand on His word. I did not go to Him in prayer for help, instead I relied on myself, turned my back on Him and gave into the world. I acted in ways I am not proud of. In high school and college I ran with kids who were both popular and often self destructive. I wore my new persona uncomfortably at first, but I slowly began to grow into it. By the time I was 20 I barely remembered the Heidi of my youth.

It wasn’t until our oldest son Alex was born that I began to re-examine my relationship with the Lord. When the thought hit me that he should be baptized I had to take a hard look at why I felt that way. The old convictions began to return. Now in Tulsa, my husband Fred and I came to Asbury because that is where my sister and her husband belonged. Dick Read plugged us right in as small group leaders in the youth department and together we began to re-emerge as believers. Through service at the church our faith was renewed, tried, and strengthened. I found a passion for helping kids connect. They need good Christian friends on whom to lean when things get tough as they always do. I began to realize that, had I gone to the Lord in prayer or thought to talk to my parents or sisters about my struggles back in Albuquerque, I probably would have walked on a narrower road.

He Was Faithful When I Wasn’t

My desire to help children and teens has only grown while being on staff. I find myself struggling to try and make this big church small. I want a place where kids not only become spiritually fed, but also develop lasting relationships with other kids and adults.

I pray daily for the struggles of children in our congregation. I try to give kids opportunities to share their faith, and practice ways to take what they learn in Sunday school to the playground or the soccer field or the dinner table. I want kids to experience the community I felt as a child. I want them to know that trust in God isn’t something to do, but a part of who they are. It is something to be shared with others…on the dairy farm or elsewhere.

-Heidi Sanchez Elementary Team Leader

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grew up in Wisconsin in what I considered a fairly average family. My parents got divorced when I was about 12. I was pretty much blindsided and didn’t even know they didn’t get along. My dad moved out of state and I don’t recall seeing a lot of him after that. In 1983 my dad got remarried and in 1984, my mom got remarried. I went from an only child to having two step-sisters and three step-brothers. Because of my mom’s remarriage, we moved and I changed high school. I decided I would make everyone else miserable since I was. I went to college at University of Wisconsin-Madison where I majored in partying. I was actually very successful at it and after being on probation for grades, I was asked to leave the university during my junior year. I was crushed that they would fail me, but looking back, God had a different plan for my life at the time.

I met Greg during college when he would visit his friend who lived on my dorm floor. It wasn’t until just before I left school that we started dating. Early in our relationship, Greg let me know he was interested in marriage. I laughed and let him know he would need a different girlfriend, however God quickly changed my mind. Until this point I had only been in a church one time with a friend. I was just coasting along.

Before Greg proposed, he let me know that his future wife would be a churchgoer; so I decided to give it a try. I met with the associate pastor for several

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He Showed Me Wonderful Christian Examples weeks in order to learn about Christianity. Rev. Jongsma spent a lot of time helping me learn what it meant to be a Christian. Having had no background, it took me a while to let go of my independence and to accept the Bible as true. When I met with the elders at Faith Christian Reformed Church in Elmhurst, Illinois to declare my intent to join the church, I don’t remember a lot of the questions, but I remember telling them that when I stepped into f aith, I just had a sense of peace, like a rainbow or the sun shining. I couldn’t define it any more than that. I made profession of faith in November of 1990. Greg’s parents, Bob and Thelma, had a large impact on me.

They had been married to each other a long time and they just lived well. They had good moral values and family was important. They welcomed me into their family even though I had done some questionable things in my past.

Greg and I dated for one and a half years commuting between Milwaukee and Chicago. We were married in August 1991. We attended Faith for the five years we lived in Chicago. I felt better about my life; I lived better and believed in God. I thank God regularly for my husband and my in-laws for how God used them in my salvation.

In October 1996, Greg came home from work at American and said he was reporting to work in Tulsa in four weeks. I had no idea what God had in store for my life.

We looked around for churches

for quite a while and finally settled on Asbury because of the great children’s activities there were for our girls. We joined the church on our fifth wedding anniversary. It was through Mother’s Fellowship, which started out for me as just a way to get out of the house and get a break from my three daughters, that I realized that there was much more to being a Christian than just going to church every Sunday. Esther Gene, the other mothers and the Bible studies we did taught me that it was possible to have a relationship with God. I learned that I needed to give up my independence I had developed and used to survive as a child. I surrendered it all to God. (Philippians 4:6-7) From there God has placed me in many challenging positions. I started serving under Karen Wuellner with the Sunday morning preschool the Sunday after we joined Asbury.

Later I worked as a MDO teacher and then moved to a position as a preschool assistant in 2002. In 2004 I began my full-time position. I am still amazed that God took me and grew me into this place. I still sometimes lack confidence about sharing my faith, especially with my family, but I am much more content in my life and am privileged to serve at Asbury--the place that helped me develop my relationship with Christ.

-Kim Renkema Preschool Programming Team Leader

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married my childhood sweetheart in August 1966 after graduating from high school. I was 18 years old and my life revolved around everything he wanted. All I ever wanted to be was a wife and mother. Neither of us had a clue what it meant to have a relationship with God. My mom made me go to church on Sundays, but I didn’t really get anything out of it. I believed there was a God, but that’s about as far as it went.

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After only four months of marriage he joined the Marines and was soon sent to Vietnam. I stayed here with my parents and worked as a beautician.

When he came back…he was a different person. Drugs, drinking, and other women became his lifestyle. We moved to California where he was stationed for the remaining two years of his enlistment. Our son Chance was born while we were there. After completing his four years of military service, he worked as a truck driver, a painter and an electrician.

I worked as a secretary, which helped during his slow times. Things were tough and we very were poor. We had no direction or goals and certainly were not looking to the future together.

At the age of 30 he died. Chance was only eight years old at the time. I had lost part of my identity and my first love. I had no real goals in life except raising my son and trying to make a living for us. I know now that God had a

life to Him, I attended a women’s retreat where the leader of the weekend told me God didn’t want me to be single forever. That He has someone very special for me. During the next five years, God was helping me grow spiritually, making me a godly woman for the man He had for me.

In August 1984, as a 35-year-old widow with a 15-year-old son, I was completely satisfied with my life the way it was. Then one Sunday our youth minister introduced me to a man who was visiting the church. That was the day I first met Mark Springer, my unexpected gift. He was divorced and was going to be working at the church while attending TU Law School.

We got married on Valentines Day 1986. Within a year after our marriage, Mark graduated from law school and got a job at a law firm in Bartlesville. Later the business where different plan for my life. I can look back Mark and I worked was sold and we now and see His hands on Chance and were both looking for new jobs at the same time. God provided even better me the whole time. jobs for us. Mark went to work in a God came into my heart through friends I had gone to church with while I CPA firm and I went to work for the school system. was growing up, and the prayers of my Mark and I love to run together. sister. It took some convincing, but He When we talk to young people about finally broke through. My life changed marriage we use running to illustrate from living day-to-day to setting goals meeting, falling in love and marriage. and extending myself past anything I We run in three or four races a year ever thought possible. I was falling in love with God and wanted to spend more and really enjoy the fellowship and and more time with Him. In I Corinthians challenge. There’s something special about lining up with hundreds or 7 the disciple Paul talks about whether to be married or single. He says it is his thousands of people and running among them. We learned from our opinion that it is better to stay single first race that you can’t just go out because you can focus on doing there and start running, especially at Christ’s work and not be concerned our age. To do well in a race you about the things of the world. I really must train and be prepared. As a thought that God wanted me to stay Christian you are running through life single for the rest of my life to serve toward the goal of Christ. You look Him. And I was ready for that!

Several years after committing my around and you see lots of people.

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Most are running at a different pace, but at some point you look over and see a person running at the same pace toward the same goal.

Our favorite time to run is in the evening after we get home from work.

When we’re running together we pace each other and run toward the same goal. That is getting back to the house to relax. When we apply this illustration to our first marriages, we realize that we were running, but not for the same goal, not even in the same direction!

Through the many moves, job changes, financial struggles, loss of my Dad and now taking care of our elderly parents, God always has His hand on us.

When I was five, I had a bad injury to my brain. He healed me.

When I was 20, I had a near critical ectopic pregnancy and was told I couldn’t have any children. A year later God gave me the gift of my son Chance and now, two grandchildren.

When I was 25 I had rheumatic fever and was seriously ill. God healed me from that.

Raising a daredevil, injury-prone boy on my own was not easy.

Jesus was always there for me.

All I had to do was reach out to Him. And, in His perfect timing, He gave me the most perfect, wonderful, godly husband. In Matt. 6:25 - Jesus tells us not to be anxious for what we need. He will take care of us. But to seek first His kingdom and righteousness and all these things will be given to you.

My Lord Jesus has truly given me the desires of my heart. My husband is my earthly love and best friend, but my Lord Jesus is my Heavenly Father and best friend.

-Teresa Springer Volunteer Systems Administrator

a light bar that had four huge light bulbs attached to it, so my sister Valerie and I were always seen squinting and covering our eyes in the home movies – literally blinded by the light. But there it was -a boy’s dream come true – new wheels! It came complete with a silver banana seat and the “coveted” speedometer – to measure speed and distance. It was my primary mode of transportation to Herbert Hoover Elementary School, Stockton’s Grocery Store, Happy House Gift Shop, Shoppers Fair and Gulf Mart (all located near 21st and Sheridan). The memory still brings joy to this young boy’s heart!

CHARLIE RYSER Pastor of Pastoral Care

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DICK READ Pastor of Discipleship

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s teenagers we were on the bus heading out for a weekend youth group retreat. We got to talking about heaven and how cool it will be to spend forever with Jesus. Sherry had just recently professed Jesus as her Lord and Savior and was excited about being a new Christian. We could see her face become somewhat confused when one of us mentioned how great it is that Christians have the promise of going to heaven at the end of our lives. After a few moments, Sherry caught on to what we were saying and literally jumped up from her seat, “You mean to tell me that I get to have Jesus AND go to heaven, too!?! Groovy!” (It was the 1970s.)

Sherry was the first person I had met that gave her life to Christ without knowing about “the icing on the cake,” the promise of heaven. She just knew that she wanted Jesus and was excited to learn of Jesus’ unexpected gift, the

gift of eternal life.

He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? (Romans 8:32) Along with the gift of Jesus comes a multitude of other gifts from God, gifts that we will continue to unwrap throughout our lives. Our God is a God of gift-giving and surprises!

As we continue to follow Him in faithfulness, we will discover all sorts of unexpected divine gifts, “To You, from God with Love.”

MARK McADOW Pastor of Prayer & Evangelism

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y most unexpected and favorite Christmas gift of all, had to be the bright new shiny Schwinn bicycle that I received on Christmas morning when I was about 10 years old. At that time, Dad had a Brownie movie camera with

have a hard time remembering when it actually started. I think it must been during my late high school days when my sisters and I were in those fun teen years with all of their emotional ups and downs.

My dad did something special for Christmas that always made it a surprise as we got older. There were always the wrapped packages under the tree and a few gifts out for each of us that were not wrapped from “Santa” when we lumbered down the stairs on Christmas morning, but then there was “Norman’s Box” that had magically appeared just when we thought our morning was finished. You never knew what size it would be. Most of the time it sat there, off to one side, unceremoniously wrapped - or should I say draped, with a simple sheet. It was the last to be shared after all the hoopla and wrapping paper had been torn and tossed and everyone’s gifts had been stacked into appropriate piles. My dad was often a man of few words. For whatever reason he just had a hard time expressing his deepest feelings unless it concerned a golf shot or sporting event he attended, or later by that special look in his eyes or his gentle smile. On special occasions he reverted to ASBURY TIDINGS 20

writing letters and his Christmas box.

He would sit there in a chair patiently sipping his coffee until all had quieted down and the paper and boxes had been placed in trash bags and the looks on our faces said, “Now what?”

That simple box wrapped in that simple sheet was now the focus.

What had dad decided we needed?

Tires, jumper cables, window scrapers, keys to a new car, frying pans and purses….you just never knew what was going to come out of that box along with his personal handwritten letters of love and encouragement!

Oh, the tears of joy and laughter that arose from us as we waited to see what he pulled from “Norman’s Box” to give to each of us.

How I miss that box and especially those letters. It recalls in me how our Heavenly Father had Mary wrap his special gift, Jesus, in simple strips of cloth and place him in a humble manger. It recalls in me how our Heavenly Father is still trying to get us to read his letters of love for each of us in the Bible and to receive that very special gift of love that he knows we need for our life. It reminds me of how often we overlook the best gift from God that is offered in the most humble of packages--Jesus.

BILL MASON Pastor Emeritus

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hristmas in the Mason house has always been a very special day.

Jayne has seen to it that our home is always beautifully decorated for the holidays. She was greatly relieved when I finally agreed to have an artificial tree. The main reason I wanted a live tree was that I liked to cut our lives tree in pieces and burn them in our fireplace. That nearly made her leave home. She was so concerned that I might cause our home to catch fire.

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Ryan Tanner was born to Robin and Ron Tanner.

As is our custom, our daughter who lives in Tulsa, would arrive in time for a light breakfast. We then would gather around the tree for the opening of our gifts to one another.

The Christmas of ’81 was gloriously different! We had our first baby to add to our joy.

When Robin and Ron arrived, Ryan was wrapped in a lovely blanket.

I found ribbon and a bow, putting both on the blanket. We placed Ryan among the beautifully wrapped Christmas gifts under the tree.

Now we were not so anxious to unwrap our gifts, but just enjoyed looking at Ryan in the soft lights of the tree.

Finally, Robin took the most special gift from God—her firstborn, from under the tree. Only then did we begin to call out the names on the gifts so each family member could open their gifts of love. We shall never forget Christmas of 1981.

TODD CRAIG Pastor with College & Young Adults

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his is not a Christmas story, but my birthday is on January 13 so I think I have a little room to fudge here!

While I was in seminary my friends and I would often play Playstation to get our minds off of our studies (sometimes too often). Our game of choice was FIFA, which is a soccer game. Each year a new version of the game comes out and we looked forward to playing the new edition each year.

My second year in school I headed back to Wilmore after Christmas break with a birthday gift that my mom had made me promise not to open until my birthday. The gift sat on my desk for two weeks.

My friends and I decided that we would spend an evening playing FIFA on the Playstation for my birthday.

So, we ventured out to Blockbuster to

rent the new version, only to find they did not carry it (in case you hadn’t heard, soccer is not real popular in America). So, we decided we would drive 30 minutes into Lexington to search the Blockbuster stores there.

After traveling to a fourth store, we gave up, rented a basketball game and returned to campus disappointed.

When we got back to the dorm, I decided it was a good time to open my birthday gift hoping it might brighten the evening. As I tore the paper off, I just began laughing! For two weeks, FIFA 01 had been sitting on my desk.

DAVID THOMAS pastor with Senior Adults

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y most “Unexpected Christmas Gift” was about 30 years ago in Shawnee, Oklahoma. I left our Associate Pastor, Reverend Gale Izard, in charge of the Christmas Eve service. He decided to have a “Come and Go Communion Service” with soft lights and music in the Sanctuary, a written devotional thought for the people to read before they came to the chancel for communion. We had a young man in the church who was a student at OU and was struggling with drugs and other personal problems. We had tried to help him at different times, but to no avail. He happened to attend the service with his parents that night.

God spoke to him in the quietness of that sanctuary, touched and changed his life completely. Later he became one of our youth directors at St. Paul’s Church in Shawnee. He finished school at OU, attended seminary and for many years was the Minister of Evangelism at Boston Avenue UMC here in Tulsa. He is now the Pastor of St. Paul United Methodist Church in Muskogee. Christmas Eve is a very special time for the Reverend Kevin Tully. What God has done in his life was an “Unexpected Gift” for all of us.

Jim Nation

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am truly blessed to serve as Asbury’s Facility Manager, knowing that God prepared me for and led me to that position over the course of 20 plus years. I have been married to the same beautiful, intelligent and independent woman for 26 years and together we are raising three gorgeous girls. Even though the two older girls are pretty much out of the house, I believe we continue to raise and nurture our children throughout our lives.

For most of my working career I have been associated with the heating, ventilation, air conditioning (HVAC) industry and unique to today’s business environment, the same company employed me for approximately 20 years. I started my climb up the business ladder as a service technician responsible for the repair and maintenance of commercial and industrial equipment. In 1990, God opened a door and I took advantage of an opportunity to work with the company’s electronics division. Over the next several years I continued to learn and developed my skills from installation to design, management and then sales. God opened one door after another. I was well respected in my field and was comfortable in my position. However, as is God’s way, the Holy Spirit placed in me knowledge that there was something more.

My life in Christ has been similar.

There were definite times God had stretched my boundaries and I had grown immensely, but then become comfortable. Our family attended another church on a regular basis and we were involved with our small group, missions and children’s’ ministry, but still there was a persistent belief that God had something more for me. On many occasions I discussed this belief with my wife, and we both agreed that we would be attentive and try to be responsive and faithful to God’s calling.

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colleague of mine had contacted Asbury’s administrative staff about HVAC services our company could provide to this new facility. Little did I know that during an office lunch and through the words “I wonder” God would open a door that would change my life forever. The very next day I was handed a small yellow post-it note with an email address and told that Asbury was looking for someone with knowledge of mechanical and electrical systems and that I should send in ‘ I thought, “What remy resume. ‘ Why should I take the time? sume?

I’m not looking for a job. I’ve heard about the politics in working for a church, I am comfortable where I am.”

Maybe it was the fact that someone was interested or maybe it was something that needed to be ‘ done, I updated my very old resume.

The email was sent to Asbury with my ‘ and for the next few weeks life resume returned to normal.

However, a seed had been planted and I would find myself thinking about the possibility of a career change. I thought this was probably normal, a result of updating my resume.‘ Surely this was not God continuing to show me His plan and move me in that direction. Then I was contacted about an interview with Asbury. Once again my mind was flooded with negative thoughts, but I convinced myself that interviewing would be a good learning experience and may prepare me for something in the future. Going into the interview I was safe; this was just for practice.

Tomorrow I would be back in my comfort zone. That was not the case.

Through our conversation during the interview, a wonderful group of people helped me understand that Asbury was not just looking for someone who could fill the position, but they were earnestly praying for God to send His person. Suddenly the words “I wonder. . . ” took on a new meaning. Could God have been preparing me through the years?

Could I be an answer to prayer?

That evening my wife and I talked for hours about the possibility.

Why take the risk? Why make the sacrifice? Why move out of the comfortable place? Also, we had two girls in college. We both agreed that God had always been faithful and blessed our family and that we should pray and seek His guidance. After a couple of days life returned to normal, but I prayed every day for God’s guidance and that I would be open to His will whatever it might be.

After a couple of weeks Asbury contacted me for a second interview.

Immediately my mind was filled with worldly thoughts. God had not provided any clear direction. However, God is much bigger than anything we can imagine.

During the second interview two wonderful, committed Christians helped me to see an Asbury with me in its future. Then I needed to make a choice, Okay God where is my sign? I need your help!

After several days, much discussion and a lot of prayers I was still unsure of what I should do. I was staring at the screen on my laptop when the screensaver popped up and it simply said, “HAVE FAITH.” At the beginning of 2004, I made a leap of faith, left my comfort zone and started a new career with Asbury.

It’s been nearly three years now and I truly believe that God led me to Asbury after years of preparation. He is using the gifts and talents that he blessed me with on a regular basis to support His ministries. He has continued to bless my life and through Asbury opened new doors and opportunities to serve Him. Have you ever felt that there was something more? Is God opening a door for you? Are you willing to leave your comfort zone? I encourage you to take that leap of faith and you will be amazed at how God uses you and blesses your life.

Our God is an Awesome God. -Jeff Polk Facilities Manager

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once heard that most people are driven by either fear or anger. Fear motivated my actions for more years than I care to remember.

Though I attended Methodist churches all my life, I never truly surrendered to the Lord until I “came to the end of myself” when my first son was three months old. I hadn’t slept more than three hours in a row for those three months, and l quickly

learned why they don’t allow prisoners to sleep in concentration camps!

After that initial surrender, I began a slow process of allowing Christ to be Lord of more and more areas of my life.

There were times my fears subsided as I basked in God’s love for me. One such time was during a Walk to Emmaus in April, 1985. I’ll never forget almost physically feeling God’s presence in my heart that weekend. Peace swept over me in waves.

Yet, subconsciously, I was still driven by fears: “What if this person doesn’t like me? What if I fail? What if I say or do the wrong thing as a parent or wife or friend?”

One of my biggest fears, though I never verbalized it, was “What if something happens to my husband Rod, and I’m alone?”

On Easter Day, 2001, Rod (healthy, age 53, with no family health issues) had a heart attack as we were walking through our neighborhood.

Hours later the shock began to wear off and my fears came to the forefront.

All by myself in the cardiac ICU waiting room, I begged God to heal Rod. Though I didn’t realize it then, my motive was partially selfish. “I need him, God. Don’t take him away!”

Then I heard a “still, small voice” in my mind. “Even if Rod dies, I will still be with you. And I am sufficient for all your needs.” Deep peace oozed through my entire body, mind and spirit as I accepted this truth. While I would never want to live without Rod, I could do even that through my faith in Christ.

Joyously, I can report that today Rod is active and fit. Our marriage of 35 years has never been healthier, partly because we treasure every day we have together. We love serving together in Celebrate Recovery and Marriage Ministry. Ever since that day in the ICU waiting room, I’ve known that I can conquer even my biggest fears with God’s help. He continues to invite me to trust Him more for victory over all my fears.

“God is love. When we take up permanent residence in a life of love, we live in God and God lives in us.

This way, love has the run of the house, becomes at home and mature in us….There is no room in love for fear. Well-formed love banishes fear.”

(I John 4:17,18 The Message.)

-Charlene Giles Director, Care and Marriage Ministries

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ave you ever experienced one week that challenges and transforms your life? It all started with a phone call. The doctors had found the source of my dad’s vision problems— a tumor at his brain stem. At this point in my life, my walk with the Lord was very comfortable and casual, I trusted in Him when I needed Him, but definitely wasn’t giving Him the time He deserved. I had loved the first four months on staff at Asbury, was ten days away from graduating from Oral Roberts University and 11 days away from my 22 nd birthday. This was supposed to be one of the best weeks of my life.

Reports from doctors came slow, they couldn’t tell us what the tumor was and how bad it would be. I wasn’t sure if I would be walking across the stage at graduation or flying home to be with my dad through

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brain surgery.

Confusion, doubt, and uncertainty overwhelmed me as I questioned suffering, cancer, and why God would choose this timing. Then came another blow, a student I loved and adored had turned up pregnant. I was broken and torn and ready to quit everything about my life. I felt I had given so much for the Lord in the past years and couldn’t understand why this would all happen to me. I questioned if there was something more to this whole God thing, and why God would seemingly put both challenging circumstances in my life during this one special week.

In my desperation, I searched the scriptures for help and hope. It was in the story of Job that I heard God speaking “I give and I take away.” I had to understand and trust that God doesn’t cause the suffering, however He always gives it purpose.

Over the next year or so God revealed those purposes. These struggles made me ask not only God, but others for help and provided an opportunity for me to receive the lifesaving support and prayers of the

Asbury pastors, small group leaders, and students.

Through my student that was pregnant, God taught me to look past behavior and love people for who they are despite their actions, a Jesus characteristic that is a necessity for youth ministry and life.

By the grace of God, my dad was able to attend my graduation; the tumor had even brought my somewhat divided family back together and taught us the power of prayer and miracles. The prayers were so strong my dad said he could often feel them.

A year after treatment of the cancerous tumor, doctors said it most likely was dead, but we would never see it get smaller. A follow-up MRI showed that despite the doctor’s prediction, that God had intervened and it had indeed shrunk! A few months later God continued to be faithful when on July 22, 2006 a year and half after my dad was diagnosed with cancer, he was able to come to Tulsa and walk me down the aisle at my wedding.

-Marsha Statesir Baker 7-8-9 Youth Associate

asbury opportunities general information Breakfast Served from 7:00-9:15 am. in the CLC Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donut s, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. $2 for adults & $1 for children 12 & under Sunday Morning Worship 8:00 am Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) 9:15 am Sanctuary (Contemporary Communion) 11:00 am Sanctuary (Traditional) Sign interpreter provided 11:00 am Mason Chapel (Contemporary) Sundays for Children and Students 6 Weeks - 4 Years 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am K-6th Grades 9:15 or 11:00 am 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 9:15 & 11:00 am 10th, 11th & 12th Grades 9:15 am only Adult Discipleship Communities 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 am and Wednesdays, 6:30 pm Surgery or Hospitalization Scheduled?

Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling Ruth at 392-1146 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church.

The Gazebo is Open ...each Sunday morning between services and Wednesday evenings from 5:30 - 7:00 pm.

Perceptions and Prayer Journals on sale (note: the sermon notes page on the bulletin is designed to fit in the Prayer Journal) , as well as selections in Pastor Tom’s Book Club.

Asbury Wear is also for sale. Extra Mission: Possible dogtags are available for $1.

Recycling Hey church family! Keep collecting those aluminum cans and bringing them to the church when you come! Once a month our resident “can man,” Jim Schulz, picks them up from the east side storage area and takes them to the recycling center for us. Gently toss your wellbagged cans into the fenced area, and be a part of helping the children in our church and the community. Also, recycle unwanted paper products. Two bins are available, located in the south and east parking lots.

Asbury Family News is available at the Welcome Centers. It includes hospital lists, births, deaths, marriages, baptisms and military listings.

Doors of Asbury posters are at the Welcome Centers...FREE! Suitable for framing.

New Additions to the Library The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource.

Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.

Journey - Tulsa’s Century of Christian Faith, Leadership & Influence Available for $40 in the Gazebo. These would make beautiful Christmas gifts.

incarcerated. Meets offsite. Call Ruth at 3921146 for location.

Asbury Bear Bags Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adult s. Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear to someone who is grieving. For more information, contact Beth at 392-1116.

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Hands of Love Sign Choir Sundays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm. 2821

bible study Roadmap brochures with more details about courses being offered are available at each of the Welcome Centers or online at www.asburytulsa.org Be watching for the new brochure which will detail the winter semester.

care and support Alzheimer’s Support Group Third Thursday, from 1:30-3:00 pm in Room 2821. Christian hope, support and education for friends and family of those with Alzheimer’s or other dementia.

Cancer Support Group Second Sunday of each month, 4:00-6:00 pm, Parlor - For those living with cancer and their family and friends.

Bipolar/Depression Support Group Second and fourth Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2821 - For persons living with bipolar disorder or depression.

Divorce Recovery Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma.

Divorce Rebuilding Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce.

Grandparents Raising Grandchildren First and third Tuesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm, Rm 1508.

Family to Family For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. Call Ruth at 3921146 for date and location of Christmas party.

Prison Fellowship Support Third Tuesday of each month, 7:00-8:30 pm.

For family and friends of people who are

Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies.

Fall Childcare Core Hours through May 2007 Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided with no reservations needed: Sun 8:00 am - 12:00 pm Mon & Tue 9:00 am - 12:00 pm Tue, Wed, & Thur 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Murdock Villa First Sunday of the month from 12:30 - 3:00 pm. Cost is $5 for CiCi’s Pizza. We’ll eat then visit Murdock Villa where we will play Bingo and do crafts with special needs adults. It is an amazing time to witness in our local community. Limited to ten kids each month.

Christmas Eve Family Service Sunday, December 24 from 5:00-6:00 pm in the Sanctuary. The 5th and 6th graders have the privilege of presenting the Christmas Story to the congregation at the 5:00 pm Christmas Eve Family Service. This special service is a traditional favorite. We would love instrumentalists, scripture readers and actors and actresses to make this a memorable evening for all involved.

Cub Scouts Pack 10 Monday evenings during the school year from 7:00-8:30 pm in Rm 2820. Attention parents of boys ages seven or in the first grade, through age 10! Get your son involved this fall in awesome scouting adventures, learning the fundamentals and participating in ageappropriate activities. They’ll love the opportunity for advancement and awards, as well as the frequent outings for the whole family! Go to www.helpfulseeds.org/asburyscout s.htm for this fall’s calendar and information on the Pack. Adults who wish to assist in or support the scouting program at Asbury should contact John Curzon at John@thecurzons.net. Pack 10 iis sponsored by Asbury’s United Methodist Men.

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discipleship Discipleship Communities If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community (Sunday School) why not take a look at pages 32-33 and see what’s available for someone just like you!

Deaf Perceptions Discipleship Community New class: 9:15 am in Rm 2314, our nonhearing and hard-of-hearing will now have a Discipleship Community on Sunday mornings.

Please come and join us for Bible study, prayer, and fellowship. Hearing people are welcome, too!

CrossRoads Discipleship Community Birthed out of Celebrate Recovery, this new community of grateful believers have come to a crossroad in life and desire to grow through Bible study, service and fellowship. It meets Sundays at 11:00 a.m. in the Gym.

evangelism Alpha (for Adults) and Alpha Sprouts (for Kids ages 4-12) Alpha is a place where you can ask any question and get solid answers to such questions as …..Who is Jesus? Why did Jesus have to die? Why and how should I pray? Why should I read the Bible?

Alpha Sprouts is a place where kids can come to have fun while learning about Jesus. Now families can share in the Alpha experience together. The courses will run concurrently every Tuesday night from 6:30 pm - 8:45 pm, January 16 through March 27.(no meeting March 20). We will have a preview of Alpha and a Luau dinner party January 9 at 6:30 p.m. in the CLC (Community Life Center). Come join the fun and see what Alpha is all about. No commitments or course cost. Please call 3921191 to RSVP and/or register for Alpha or Alpha Sprouts. For more information, go to www.asburytulsa.org.

marriage & family Milestone Wedding Anniversaries E-mail your February or March Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to patticooper@cox.net or call 392-1146.

50+ Wedding Anniversaries Pastor Tom will be recognizing couples married 50 or more years on Sunday, February 11 in the 11:00 am service. If you not been previously recognized, please call Ruth at 392-1146.

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membership Asbury Exploration Come to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. Sunday, December 3, from 12:15-2:15 pm. Call 3921191 to register. Childcare available.

men Men’s Prayer Breakfast Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC. Join the Men’s Ministry for a delicious breakfast, meaningful worship and lifechanging prayer! Cost: $3/person December 6 Don Herrold, speaker December 13 Special Guest Tim Harris December 20 Todd Johnson, speaker December 27 Bill Johnson, speaker Prostate Specific Antigen Testing Sunday, December 10 from 8:00 am - 1:00 pm in the CLC. PSA is a protein enzyme found in all men, and the test measures the levels of PSA in the blood. An elevated PSA level may indicate prostate cancer or other urinary tract diseases. The Oklahoma Blood Institute recommends that all men have 2 PSA tests performed between the ages of 30 and 40 to establish a normal baseline. After age 40, all men should have PSA testing performed annually. Mark this date on your calendar, men, and watch for more details as the date approaches. A nominal fee will be charged.

Men’s Bible Study Wednesdays from 6:15 pm - 7:45 pm in Rm 2821. Final fall session, December 6th. First Winter session, January 10th. All men are invited to join us in a relaxed, conversational atmosphere, with lots of opportunity for dialogue and interaction as we grow more in being a follower of Christ. Our Pastor to Men, Dub Ambrose, will lead in discussions from the book of Matthew. Each week’s lesson will be self-contained, so if you are unable to come on any particular week, you won’t fall behind.

Spread the word on this, guys, so we can spread the Word!

missions/outreach Missions Dinner Tuesday, December 12 at 6:00 pm in the CLC. Cost: $5. Call Missy at 392-1163 by December 7 for reservations and childcare. News and information about our regional and global outreach efforts will be presented.

Christmas Food Basket Donations Donations are being accepted for Christmas Food Baskets that will be delivered to Youth at Heart and Operation Hope families. Cost for one basket is $35. Any donation amount is accepted. Checks are made out to Asbury and marked “holiday baskets.”

Christmas Child Adopt a Christmas Child by providing a gift for one of our Youth at Heart or Operation Hope children. Select names December 3 in your community or December 10 in the CLC Gallery.

Christmas Food Basket & Gift Delivery The unloading of food and assembling of baskets will begin at 2:00 pm in the CLC. If you are interested in volutneering to help with assembly or delivery on December 19, please contact Beth McCalman at 392-1116.

Eyeglass Donations Are you wondering what to do with those old eyeglasses? Donate them to missions! You may drop yours off in the Global Outreach office.

Friends of Estonia The national gathering of FOE will be held January 19-20, 2007 at Asbury. Anyone interested in learning more about the ministry in Estonia and making connections with the Estonian Methodists is welcome to come. The whole congregation of Asbury is invited to join us for dinner and worship on Friday night, January 19, at 6:00 pm. Please call Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163 for further information and reservations.

Mission Matters A monthly newsletter is available with recent news of mission happenings. If you would like to receive the newsletter, please contact Missy Sistrunk at 392-1163 or msistrunk@asburytulsa.org. Preference is for the e-mail version, but hard copies can be mailed if needed.

Global Outreach Prayer Ministry News and prayer requests from our missionaries and ministries are sent each week to our prayer ministry list. If you would like to join and become a prayer intercessor for those serving around the world, contact Missy at 392-1163.

Global Outreach Ministry Teams These teams specialize in certain areas and all are open to anyone having an interest in those areas. They are as follows: Caspian Ministry (work in Azerbaijan) , Latin America Ministry (work in Mexico, Costa Rica, and

Guatemala), College Missions Ministry, Communications, Estonia Ministry; Kami Tanzania Ministry, International Student Ministry, Missionary Care, and Prayer. If you need further information call the Global Outreach office, 392-1117.

Mentor Moms/Young Lives First and second Tuesdays of the month, 7:009:00 pm in the Parlor. This is a support group for teenage moms, sponsored by Young Life.

missions/vim Volunteers In Mission 2007 The projected schedule is now available.

Destinations for our VIM Teams include Cookson Hills in Oklahoma; Monterrey, Pitorreal, and Rio Bravo in Mexico; Quito, Ecuador; Lighthouse (Tallinn) Camp Gideon, and Parnu in Estonia; Azerbaijan; and Tanzania in East Africa. Please visit the Ministries/Global Outreach/VIM Link at the Asbury Website for more details or contact Marilene Long, 3921164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org

music Chancel Choir Wednesdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Choir Room New Covenant Orchestra Wednesdays, 6:00-7:30 pm, Rm 1510 Asbury Singing Ambassadors Tuesdays, 1:00 pm, Choir Room Children’s Choirs Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm Celebration Ringers Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30 pm, Rm 2506 New Creation Ringers Wednesdays, 4:45 pm, Rm 2504 Carillon Quartet Wednesdays, 5:00-6:00 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Ringers Wednesdays, 6:00-6:50 pm, Rm 2506 Perpetual Light Thursdays, 10:00 am-noon, Rm 2506 Resonance Bell Ensemble Thursday, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm 2506 Asbury Power & Light Sundays, 8:15-9:15 am, Rm 1510 Asbury Brass Quintet Tuesdays, 7:30-9:00 pm, Rm 1510 Saints of Swing Dixieland Band Thursdays, 2:00-3:00 pm, Rm 1510

prayer Prayer and Healing Service “A Time to Remember,” Sunday, December 17 from 5:00-6:00 pm in the Mason Chapel. Join

Rev. Darlene Johnson and the members of the grief support programs in a service of prayer and healing. The emphasis will be on grief and loss you and your family may have experienced within the past two years. There will be a time in the service where participants who so desire may light a candle in memory of lost loved ones. This special service can offer strength for today and hope for tomorrow.

Altar Prayer If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or right after the service, please come to the altar rail at the front of the sanctuary. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual - at the altar or in the Prayer Room.

College Moms in Touch Prayer Time Wednesdays, 11:45 am - 12:45 pm, Rm 1506 Families Prayer Together Every Wednesday from 11:30 am - 12:30 pm in Rm 1507. Call 392-1142 for more information.

Mason Chapel Prayer Room Accessible Monday through Friday from 8:00 am - 9:00 pm, Saturday from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm, and Sunday from 7:00 am - 9:00 pm. You can enter the room from the outside entrance of the southeast side of the Chapel, with the exception of Sunday from 7:00 am - 12:30 pm.

The Prayer Room can be accessed from inside the chapel during those hours.

Prayer Journals Available in Gazebo Asbury Prayer Journals now available in the Gazebo. This valuable tool is filled with scripture and resources designed to enhance your personal prayer time, plus a section for keeping sermon notes.

recovery Celebrate Recovery Mondays: Dinner at 6:00 pm; Worship from 7:00-8:00 pm; Small Groups from 8:00-9:00 pm; Dessert from 9:00-9:30 pm.

Hiding any hurts, habits or hangups? God never intended for you to live in bondage.

Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6:00 pm. Childcare available.

Celebrate Recovery Childcare Volunteers needed. Time commitment is one Monday evening per month from 6:45 pm to 9:10 pm. Please call 392-1103 if you can help.

NEW FOR STUDENTS! Life Hurts, God Heals If you’re tired of the burdens and secrets that keep you from really living, or if you know there’s an addiction you have to stop but just can’t, “Life Hurts, God Heals” is created specifically for you. Meet with a group of

students for 13 weeks who are facing tough issues just like you are, and learn how God can heal you together. Join any time! Check Student Ministries Area for details or call Marsha at 392-1157. (Adults, we need leaders!

Please call.)

recreation

Asbury Recreation Center Hours Sundays Mondays

7:00 pm - 9:00 pm 8:00 am - 8:30 am 4:30 pm – 7:00 pm Tuesdays 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Wednesdays 8:00 am - 8:30 am Thursday 4:30 pm - 7:00 pm Fridays 8:00 am - 8:30 am The workout room is available during classes scheduled during the above hours. Must be 13 years or above to use equipment and a liability form must be on file.

Single Adults Volleyball Tuesdays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Gym (Ages 18 and up) No children, please.

Adult Volleyball Sundays, 7:00-9:00 pm, Gym Coed adult volleyball. Must be 18 and above to participate. No children, please.

Inspirational Fitness Class – Rise Up to Health Mondays and Thursday, 4:30 pm and 6:00 pm. Enjoy a one-hour, total-body workout to incredible inspirational Christian music. Work your heart, mind and spirit and every muscle group in your body. Wear comfortable clothing and tennis shoes, bring water and a towel. Teens to older adults are welcome. Work at your own level. The joy of the Lord will be your strength. First workout is free, $5 for dropin. Mats and hand weights are provided.

Senior Sit and Fit Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays 9:00-9:30 am, Gym. Come join a time of stretching with fun and fellowship.

Walk in the Gym with Him Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:30-9:00 am in the gym. Come join a time of power walking with fun and fellowship.

Fitness Room Treadmills, stationary bicycles, strength training machines, and some free weights are available for use. This room may be used during other scheduled activities.

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senior adults Asbury Singing Ambassadors Come and join the senior adult choir. No auditions required. Rehearsals are Tuesdays, 1:00 pm in the Choir Room. Call 392-1148 for more.

‘Tweenagers Thursday, December 14 from 10:30 am - 1:00 pm in the CLC. Come enjoy a great program of Christmas music, presented by Mimi Larson, and a delicious lunch, too. If you’re ‘tween retirement and heaven...join us and bring a friend. Call Doni at 492-1771 to make your reservations by noon, Monday, December 11.

We hope to see you there!

Senior Adult Christmas Light Tour Monday, December 11 from 5:30 - 8:30 pm. Cost: $10 per person. Attention Senior Adults! Make plans now to be a part of one of the most fun evenings out you could possibly have in the month of December. We’ll gather in the CLC at 5:30 pm for a delicious dinner prepared by our church hostess extraordinaire, Virginia, and then load the people-movers for a tour of south Tulsa and Broken Arrow’s most exquisite light displays..We will then return to the church for dessert, coffee and more fellowship time until 8:30 pm. To sign up, call the Event Registration Hotline at 392-1191 no later than Wednesday, December 6. Participation is limited to 40 folks, so call TODAY.

singles Singles Meet and Greet Sundays from 8:40-9:10 am or 10:20-10:50 am in the CLC. All singles are invited.

Divorce Recovery Tuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma.

Divorce Rebuilding Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 2319 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce.

students 11th and 12th Students and Parents Join us for a special presentation of “What to watch out for…your first years of college,” presented by Dr. Everett Piper, President of Oklahoma Wesleyan University. Helpful stuff for both students and parents!

Metro Worship Wednesday, December 6 at Believers Church.

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to just worship Jesus. We meet from 7:00-8:30 pm. If you need a ride, meet at Asbury at 6:30 pm and we will be back by 9:00 pm.

Life Hurts, God Heals If you’re tired of the burdens and secrets that keep you from really living, or if you know there’s an addiction you have to stop but just can’t, “Life Hurts, God Heals” is created specifically for you. Meet with a group of students for 13 weeks who are facing tough issues just like you are, and learn how God can heal you together. Join any time! Check Student Ministries Area for details or call Marsha at 392-1157. (Adults, we need leaders! Please call!)

10th, 11th & 12th Breakaway Wednesdays, 6:30-9:00 pm - Breakaway area. Join us every Wednesday (except the first Wednesday of the month and holidays) for a time of connection, worship, learning about God, and some nights of just random fun. Don’t miss the food and hangout time afterwards. Come be a part.

7th, 8th, & 9th Grade Breakaway Sunday mornings, 9:15-10:30 am in the Breakaway Area. This isn’t your normal Sunday school. Come join us for worship, fun and games, interactive talk/lesson, and sometimes free candy and gift cards.

7th - 12th Grade Small Groups Don’t miss out on being a part of a small group.

It’s a place to grow in your relationship with Jesus, have some accountability, and just have fun. (It’s never too late to sign up. Just come to the Student Ministries Area.)

Questions? Call Marsha at 392-1157.

7th, 8th & 9th Grade Bible Study Every Wednesday night except the first one of the month, through December 13 from 6:308:00 pm in the Student Ministries Area. Come to the Student Ministry Café, hang out, have fun, and study what God’s Word has for us. It’s going to be awe-inspiring and you won’t want to miss it!

7th - 12th Small Group Parties Sunday, December 17. Contact your small group leader and discover what fun things you are going to do to finish off the year.

Boy Scout Troop 10 Monday evenings during the school year from 7:00-8:30 pm in Rm 2818. Attention parents of boys ages 11 through 17! Get your son involved this fall in awesome scouting adventures, experiencing the great outdoors and lots of other age-appropriate activities.

Boy Scouts participate in monthly campouts and in resident camp each summer. Individual

growth is developed in advancement through the ranks, from scout to Eagle Scout, and through public service. Go to www.helpfulseeds.org/asburyscout s.htm for this fall’s calendar and for information on the Troop. Adults who wish to assist in or support the scouting program at Asbury should contact John Curzon at John@thecurzons.net.

Venture Crew 909 Monday evenings during the school year from 7:00-8:30 in Rm 2201. Attention young men and women who have completed 8th grade through age 21. Come on board for high adventure....sailing, mountain climbing, sharp shooting, backpacking, caving, scuba diving, canoeing and much more! Annual high adventure trips have included backpacking in Yellowstone, white water rafting in the Grand Tetons, and canoeing in Canada. High adventure in the company of Christian advisors is the focus of this organization. The crew motto is from James 1, “Count it all joy when you face trials of all kinds for it will give you perseverance and that leads to maturity.”

Participants seek out new tests of their skills and grow physically, emotionally and spiritually. No previous scout experience is required, but many members have already att ained the Eagle in BSA or the Silver Award in GSA. This is a place for those who have gone as far as Boy Scout and Girl Scout programs can take them. However, simultaneous membership in BSA or GSA is fine. Go to www.troop909.org/venture for more information, or contact Bob Walter at blwalt6884@cox.net. Adults who wish to assist in or support the scouting program at Asbury should contact John Curzon at John@thecurzons.net.

women UMW Luncheon Thursday, December 7 from 11:30 am - 1:00 pm in the CLC. Attention women of Asbury.

You are invited to attend our monthly covereddish luncheon. The theme this month is “The Sounds of Christmas.” Following the feast, we will all be treated to a wonderful program of special music presented by our very own Asbury Singing Ambassadors in the Sanctuary. The scripture focus will be Luke 2:13-14, “Suddenly, a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, ‘Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.’” Bring a friend and let us ring in this joyous season together!

Christmas Tour of Homes Friday, December 1 and Saturday, December 2 from 11:00 am - 4:00 pm each day. (See page 3 for location). Cost: $8 in advance and $10 at the door. Please, no children under 12. Tickets may be purchased in the main office or from UMW members. This year’s Christmas Tour of Homes will be enjoyable for all who attend. You will tour four beautiful south Tulsa homes, each one filled with unique and very special decorations. We hope you will join us as we share family traditions, decorating ideas and the sights and sounds of the Christmas season!

And for those who wish to ride our shuttles to and from the homes, you’ll enjoy complimentary tea and cookies in the Tea Room (Asbury’s main foyer) while you wait, and the opportunity to browse our Christmas Shoppe to purchase homemade goodies. All proceeds benefit missions.

Women of the Word Wednesday from 10:00-11:00 am in Rm 1502.

Rev. Darlene Johnson, teacher.

Unveiling...The Real Me Friday, January 26 from 6:30-9:00 pm in the Sanctuary. Join the women of Asbury and our community for an evening of worship and encouragement, featuring Asbury’s Pastor to Women Darlene Johnson. Music will be presented by Ernestine Dillard. Watch the bulletin and January Tidings for more details!

Phone Buddies Ladies, do you want a “cheer me up” with your morning coffee? We have ladies that can fill that need by being your own “phone buddy!”

Call 392-1142. Lea or Shirley will return the call and get you set up!

Arts and Crafts Mondays, 9:30 am - 2:00 pm, Rm 2820. Women who enjoy crafts are invited to come any Monday morning...come and go any time.

Bring lunch to share. Contact Beverly Clarke.

An Inherited Crowbar

by John C. Westervelt

On a mild fall morning, I decided to fix the sticking, wooden door that covers the hot water heater compartment in my garage. When the original hot water heater was replaced about twenty years ago, I removed all the wood trim around the doorway to get the old tank out and the new one in. I nailed the pieces of wood trim together but attached the trim to the frame opening with five 2 ½ inch long quarter inch diameter lag screws for ease of later disassembly.

On this day, I removed the two screws on one side to pull the wood trim away, so I could use my saber saw to trim the sheet rock. My crowbar was a necessity for raising the wood into position to put the screws back in place.

A crowbar is a piece of steel one inch in diameter and two feet long. On one end is a three inch crook like a shepherd’s staff. The other end is flat and slightly bent.

Later in the day, nestled in a comfortable chair for thirty minutes listening to Joni Eareckson Tada sing before starting supper, I thanked my dad for my inherited crowbar and continued by thanking him for his character. He had no way of knowing what the seed he planted in a young son would produce.

From about 1910 to 1914, my dad and two brothers had a merry-go-round that operated in Norman, Oklahoma on the Fourth of July. It was taken to nearby towns for various celebrations. My dad had a four foot long, blue, wooden toolbox partially filled with tools used to assemble the merry-goround.

My dad and mother were married in the prosperous days of the 1920s and had three children a year apart with the last one born the same year as the stock market crash of 1929. My dad came out of the Great Depression of the 1930s with the blue toolbox and no money.

During World War II, my brother Wallace and I went to Oklahoma City’s

worship Online Worship Did you know that you can watch the 9:15 and 11:00 a.m. Sunday services online as they are occurring? Go to www.asburytulsa.org then click on “Watch Sermons” (by Tom’s picture).

If you cannot attend worship, you can log on and share the experience. Or if there is a sermon that you wish someone else had been able to hear, send them to our website where several weeks of sermons are archived.

Classen High School at seven in the morning and finished at noon. This let us join the work force depleted by men entering the armed services. Wallace worked at a bank. I worked for the telephone company.

My dad died suddenly in 1943 from a perforated ulcer. As a school teacher, Mother had no discretionary money, so she accepted the offer of my brother and me to pay the $150 funeral expense with savings from our parttime jobs. On that day, two teenage boys became men. And you know, I am completely satisfied with my inheritance - my dad’s character and his wellworn crowbar.

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Chris and Michelle Meyer and Savannah Dean

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Discipleship Communities

is 35-45. Teachers offer various colorations and personal experience.

Members of Discipleship Communites seek to nurture one another in living the life of a disciple as manifested through Asbury’s eight objectives. Communities are designed for warm fellowship, spiritual growth, Bible study, and serving others. Here you will find a brief description of Asbury’s Adult Discipleship Communities. General age ranges listed at the end of each description are not prerequisites. We encourage you to “shop around,” then connect with a community that best meets your needs.

Family Fellowship Ages 35+ Special emphasis is on building Godly homes and strengthening marriage and family relationships with an open discussion format. Beyond Sunday mornings we enjoy monthly socials, small group dinners, men’s and women’s Bible studies, and local mission work.

Sundays 8:00 a.m.

Joy 60s - 80s A loving, faithful group taught by Pastor Emeritus Bill Mason through scripture and thoughtful discussion. Committed to Jesus’ commandment, “Love each other,” members are active in 30-plus ministries. Members are married, single, working, and many retired. Socials include weekly Tuesday dinners.

Sonrisers Ages Vary The perfect way to jump-start your Sunday morning worship experience. Teacher Gail Knox dissects and analyzes the Word of God through the use of an interactive teaching style that encourages class participation and promotes spiritual growth.

Bible study is our Number One priority. With James 1:22 as the class motto, we are about learning the truths of God’s Word AND learning how to apply those truths in everyday life. Bring your Bible and join us for fellowship and study.

Sundays 9:15 a.m.

Casual Twenty-Somethings 20s A community based around friendship and fellowship for those in their 20s, with a fun, non-abrasive approach to studying the Word. (We begin at 9:30, not 9:15).

Chancel Choir Ages Vary Features an in-depth, interactive Bible study with a schedule that works around choir events, practices, and performances.

The group was originally designed for choir members and their spouses, but all are welcome.

Christian Explorers 45 - 60s A small community of warm and friendly Christians, whose focus is to study the Bible and discuss its pertinence to their lives in practical and realistic application, utilizing a variety of methods. We also enjoy fellowship, and community outreach projects are a high priority. All are welcome!

Cornerstone 30s - 40s Friendly and outgoing families “being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by His spirit” Ephesians 2:18-22.

Connecting with God, connecting with our world, connecting with each other.

Covenant 20s - 40s A community for couples seeking to build relationships, grow spiritually, and support missions. We are a vibrant group who enjoy laughing and learning together.

Deaf Perceptions All Ages God gave us all special gifts. We glorify His name in Sign Language. Deaf or hard-of-hearing, please join us on Sunday mornings. Hearing people welcome.

Disciples Ages 60+ A community with a pretty good attitude and balance — spiritually, emotionally, and socially. Marrieds and singles who have lived 60 years or longer. Not too big, average attendance

Friendship Ages 65+ The original Asbury Adult Sunday School Class. We incorporate topical Bible study with lively discussion. Socials are scheduled quarterly and/or on a seasonal basis. The highlight of each Sunday morning is when the two year-olds come in to sing with our community.

Happy Christians Ages 50+ Large group of marrieds and singles, both working and retired.

We laugh and learn together and we are growing! Intercessory prayer and support characterizes our fellowship, along with a heart for ministry and mission. We practice our class scripture, which emphasizes mutual caring and strengthening.

Jabez Mid 20s – Early 40s Young adults, single or married, who enjoy God and each other!

Classes feature Bible study with lots of discussion and application to real-life situations. Local and international missions, Bible studies, and social events create a fun-filled atmosphere.

This is a great place to develop new friendships and strengthen your walk with God. Check out www.jabezcommunity.com for more information.

Legacy 30s and 40s Young families who desire to build a Legacy through loving relationships with God, family and community. We are very active in volunteering in the Children’s Ministry at Asbury, as well as other areas in the church. Come learn more about this innovative community.

LinC 30s - 50s Class composed of married couples. Lessons are Bible-based discussions, including topics on practical Christian living, led by strong teaching.

Mariners Ages 55+ “Sailing For Christ” is the Mariners motto. Come sail with us and our teacher, Bill Mason, as we learn God’s Word and biblical principles for our lives.

Seekers Ages 55+ A large community of believers seeking God’s will for our lives through His Word. We enjoy serving together and sharing regular fellowship activities.

Storm Shelter 20s - 50s Singles, married or divorced all fit here as we offer love, support, and the Word of God as a shelter from life’s storms. We are light-hearted and fun-loving, but serious about God’s truth. As imperfect people coming to learn and better ourselves, we have a wide range of wisdom and life experience. Lessons based on open discussion.

Wordfinders Late 50s+ Finders of the Word of God in Bible-based study. Earnest community worship, intercessory prayer, caring, and concern for one another. Fellowship time preceding lesson hour. Socials occasionally. Guests welcome!

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Sundays 11:00 a.m.

The Ark 20s - 40s A fun and caring community consisting of married couples, most with young families. We seek to serve the Lord and support each other through exciting Bible-based learning, prayer, fellowship, and service and support to others locally and globally.

Bible 101 All Ages and Marital Status For all who are interested in learning how to study God’s Word.

Whether novice or seasoned pro, learn study techniques that will enhance your personal Bible study and spiritual growth. Age is not a barrier—no matter if 20-something or 80-something, for indepth Bible study-made-easy, join teacher Gail Knox in Bible 101.

Christians in Action (CIA) Singles - Ages Vary Widely A large, well-organized group participating in many diverse fellowship activities and mission outreaches in the community.

Couples for Christ 40s – 50s Emphasis is on meeting the needs of married couples for fellowship and social support, and encouraging the development of relationships. The lessons are Bible-based and focus on providing relevant and helpful instruction for family living, blended with contemporary Christian music.

CrossRoads Ages Vary Birthed out of Celebrate Recovery, we are community of grateful believers who have come to a crossroads in life and desire to grow through Bible study and fellowship. We wish to become all that God wants us to be and to reach out in service to others.

Ages vary and all (individuals and couples) are welcome.

Faithbuilders 40s – 60s An active group that enjoys Biblical teaching shared by a team.

All enjoy fellowship through socials, small group dinners, and Bible study.

Friends in Christ Ages Vary Bible-based class designed for developmentally disabled young adults. Focus on discipleship, service, and mission.

Harvest 40 + Preparing disciples for the harvest through study, service and fellowship, we take advantage of meeting after worship to reinforce the message in that day’s sermon with teaching, discussion, posing questions, and studying the Scripture used.

Regular activities include men’s twice-monthly meeting for study, accountability, and fellowship. “The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few.” Matt. 9:37 Mosaic Ages Vary Consists of married couples, singles, marrieds attending alone, and extended families – with diverse interests, gifts and needs.

We welcome and encourage visitors to join our caring community. With sharing and serving spirit s, we enjoy service projects, social activities, and food! We also have a passion for growing in faith and relationship with each other through biblical teaching and life application.

New Beginnings Singles Singles - Ages 55+ A ‘Rock’ solid family of mature Christians who thirst after the Word, growing in our knowledge of God and His love with indepth study of the books of the Bible, as well as active involvement in several Asbury mission projects. As a strong family, we are aware of each others’ needs and try to see that those needs are met. We love to have fun too—one might say we are an 33

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‘experience!’ Whether you are a beginner in the word or a ‘mature’ Christian, come grow with us!

Praise and Worship Marrieds and Singles 30s+ Come grow with this blend of singles and couples interested in discovering God’s teaching relevant to discipleship, family, and missions. Responding to God’s call on our lives, we mix fun social events with local outreach programs and Asbury ministries. Music and songs of praise begin each Sunday session, and we close with a Circle of Prayer time.

Purpose Driven Fellowship Singles 30s and 40s A fellowship of singles gathering for Christ-centered studies, activities, evangelism, and missions. We are energetic, caring, young professionals providing support to each other in our Christian walk.

Singles Class Act Singles - Ages Vary A group for any age single adult. If you are looking for an indepth Bible study and discussion, give this group a try.

Tapestry Ages 30-70s An in-depth study/discussion-oriented class, focusing on the relevance of the Bible in our daily lives. Open to individuals and couples, Tapestry acknowledges the value of each member ’s spiritual gifts and strives to encourage, support, and care for its members in their walk with the Lord – a tapestry of God’s love reaching out to the world around us.

The Vineyard 30s – Early 50s Sharing a common desire to glorify God by becoming and making disciples. The community is comprised of singles and married, many with children. Our emphasis is on a deeper relationship with God, through Sunday Bible-based studies, midweek small groups, and a variety of ministries and fun social activities.

Wesley 30s - 40s “If your heart is as mine, then let us go.” - John Wesley (founder of the Methodist Church). This group of young families focuses on celebrating God through study and service. Activities include outreach and fellowship. Focusing on our roots allows us to teach today’s youth that truly, “Faith without works is dead.”

James 2:20.

Women of Faith Ages Vary A community of women of all ages and all backgrounds: single, married, widowed and divorced. Emphasis is on Bible study and how the knowledge of God’s word applies to our lives as women, and how that knowledge allows us to touch the lives of others.

Midweek Communities Wednesdays - 6:30 p.m.

Carpenter’s Workshop Ages Vary Do you want to be involved in a discipleship community, but Sundays just don’t work for you? The Carpenter’s Workshop is where you will discover a warm, generous, loving, and diverse group of people studying God’s Word and other scripture-based literature. If you want to grow in God’s Word and in fellowship, you will fit right in! Childcare provided.

If you are not part of an Adult Discipleship Community, why not make it a goal for 2007 to find a place to believe, belong and become. Room numbers available at the Welcome Centers.

we rejoice... in appreciation...

Thank you to the volunteers for the time and energy spent in making the fall carnival a HUGE success! I feel that the adults and children who attended walked away with a deeper understanding of life in Bible times.

It was so neat to see the entire church come together for this event.

The children’s ministry, Dick Read, Mark McAdow, men’s ministry, UMW, Martha Harrisberger, Jan Steffensen and the quilting ministry, Todd Lesikar, Ed and Rita Lenfesty, Gary and Ruth Beatie, the kitchen staff, the communications staff, the Print Shop, the adult communities (Couples for Christ, Cornerstone, Happy Christians, Jabez, Legacy, the Vineyard and Wesley), the Music Ministry, the Volunteer Coordinator, the maintence team, our technical staff, even the security guards were helping with this event.

I also want to offer a special thank you to the businesses who donated to the fall carnival. Diehl Aeronautical, Edge One Signs, Hosier Orthodontics, McDonalds in Jenks, Glenpool, Sapulpa, and Tulsa - Pine & Peoria, Mobile Systems Integrators, Perry’s Food Store, Safari Joe’s, Sam’s Club at 71st & Mingo, Tin Star Southwest Grill, and Under the Sun at 91st and Sheridan.

The Bible verse for the “theme” of our carnival is from Acts 19:20.

“In this way, the word of the Lord spread widely and grew in power.”

I think it fit our vision for the carnival perfectly! Thank you again for the help and support and for making this event spectacular!

with those who have experienced the joy of a new baby in their family: Ryan Earl Crew son of Matt and Kristen Crew brother of Rhett October 3, 2006 Tyler Jacob Walderich son of Jeff and Lori Walderich brother of Jaden October 23, 2006 Owen Isaac Ruley son of Greg and Katie Ruley brother of Will, Abby and Ella October 27, 2006

we remember... those who have died and pray God’s comfort for those who have lost loved ones:

Shae Hedrick and Team

Betty McKeel mother of Simone Lewis October 7, 2006

2007 Discipleship Community Leaders Training Event

Dave Powley October 27, 2006

(Presidents, Belong, Believe, Become, Communications) Friday evening, January 12 Leadership Banquet featuring Pastor Tom Harrison Saturday morning, January 13 Morning Worship with Pastor Dick Read and special equipping workshops for your specific area of ministry leadership.

Workshops to be provided: Community Presidents as Spiritual Leaders Community Care Ministries Hospitality

Prayer

Believing Leaders, Teachers & Small Groups Coordinators

Mary Duke wife of Tom Duke mother of Darrell Duke grandmother of Thomas and Lauren November 6, 2006

thank you...

Thank you for the prayers, visits and calls I received during my recent illness.

Becoming Outreach Coordinators

Thank you to Pastors Bill Mason, Darlene

Community Treasurers

Johnson, Todd Craig and Patrick Jackson

Heritage Builders: How your Community can connect with the next generations

for calling on me while I was in St. Francis

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50 Years

we celebrate...

Tom & Lou Costello December 29, 1956

45 Years Roger & LaVonne Fleming October 21

40 Years Dave & Patsy Hair October 15

20 Years

photo by Lisa Dunham

Mike and Margaret Hosier November 15

65 Years Dale & Lois Nowlin December 21, 1941

60 Years

Mark & Suzy Cremer December 16

Paul & Marion Kerschner December 28, 1946

15 Years

Congratulations to all couples who are celebrating Milestone Anniversaries. (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) Report your Milestone Anniversary to patticooper@cox.net or call 392-1146.

Roger & Rebecca McKee December 23

10 Years Steven & Tiffanie Garrett November 9 George & Connie Dailey December 20

Ten Commandments Monument Thank you to Barney and Kay Welch who donated the Ten Commandments Monument in honor of their 60th wedding anniversary. Having this display fulfills a dream of our Pastor Emeritus, Rev. Bill Mason.

Thank you to the committee who worked to make this happen: Betty Wood, Russ McBroom, Julie Reynolds and Bill Mason.

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