Asbury’s 9/11 Day of Service and Remembrance Report by Asbury Church

october 2011

Report on 9/11 Day of Service and Remembrance

october 2011

ur daily Bible reading plan in conjunction with Asbury Theological Seminary this fall is entitled: “PERFECT.” It comes from the text in Matthew 5:48: “Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” This can be confusing! How can anyone be perfect? Only God is perfect. If we quote Matthew 5:48, we need to keep the context in mind. Jesus said only 28 verses previously: “For I tell you that unless your righteousness surpasses that of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the kingdom of heaven.” Nobody could surpass the righteousness of the Pharisees. Nobody can do what Jesus requires in Matthew 5. If we want to save ourselves but can’t be “Perfect,” how can we be saved? Paul tried. He was such a self-righteous Pharisee that he consented to murdering Christians. Only God is righteous! As Paul discovered, salvation is a gift from God. The only thing we contribute to our salvation is our sin. Paul explains in Ephesians 2:8-9: “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith — and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast.” It’s all about God’s grace. The most important understanding for a Christian is the concept of grace. When we get that right, our relationship with God comes alive. Grace liberates us! We no longer want to be unrighteous. It prevents us from trifling with God or by saying: “Well, I can’t help it. Sin is what I do.” We find that self-righteousness is just as bad (remember the older brother in the Parable of the Prodigal Son?)

Paul describes these two types of “righteousness” (“un-” and “self-”) in Romans 1-2. Neither are reflections of God’s grace. Instead, we find a new type of righteousness - it’s a gift of God (Matthew 6:33). Ephesians 2:10: “For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Once inside us (vs. 10), grace empowers us to grow, develop, and become effective in ministry, service, and outreach. Just as the cart doesn’t get ahead of the horse, so works can’t save us. However, we are created FOR good works (but not saved BY them). The Greek word for “Perfect” is “teleios.” (We get the word “telescope” from this term. It means to see towards something more and greater.) Teleios has a wealth of meaning: “growth, maturity,” and “complete.” When Jesus said, “Be perfect - be like God!” he stated something which was impossible for us to do. In the context of a rich man going to heaven and a camel going through the eye of the needle: When the disciples heard this, they were greatly astonished and asked, “Who then can be saved?” Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” (Matthew 19:25-26) With God’s grace, all things are possible. Sinners can be saved. The unrighteous can find God’s righteousness. The imperfect can find maturity. Our Christian faith is to be applied, not just appreciated. It calls us into action and into discipleship. Grace is not only for our salvation…it’s for our growing up into mature believers. We see that “Jesus is Lord” in our lives by our prayers, presence, gifts, service, and witness. Dr. Tom Harrison

Contents From the Desk of Dwight Yoder Senior Adults Pastor Gloria McGee-Denton Continuing Series on Governing Committee Finding Financial Peace Asbury’s 9/11 Day of Service and Remembrance Report Home Run or Running Home Children Grandpa John Volunteers Recipe of the Month Men’s Devotional Music Opportunities Special Announcements

Cover photo of Peggy George and Dale Holmes, two of 1784 volunteers for the 9/11 Day of Service and Remembrance. 1 3 4 6 7 8 14 16 18 19 19 20 21 22 30

Asbury Tidings is a monthly publications designed to tell stories of lives being transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. You may read back issues by visiting www.asburytulsa.org. Editor: Asbury Communications Department, 918.392.1140, kmains@asburytulsa.org Graphic Design: Tim Jurgensen, tjurgensen@asburytulsa.org Photographers: Don Kreutzweiser (donsimages.com), Chris Lo (matchadesign.com), Kelly Stocksen (kellystocksenphotography. com), Sarah DeNeui (buonasarahphoto.com), Sarah Adams (yellowchairphotography.com) Guest Contributors: Nikki Boyd, Kim Broadhurst, MaryPat Fennema, Joan Henning, Gwen Mohler, Marti Morris, Vicki Thompson, Brad Tuggle, Sonia Uribe

From the Desk of Dwight Yoder

Important Things Happening Around the Church

here are several things to tell you about this month. You’ve heard Tom speak of our need for improving communications. The subject has been discussed in this column several times recently. We are making progress and are thankful that a number of you have noticed and acknowledged our effort. Much thanks goes to our communications director Angie Brashears. A very important project is now underway. Asbury is working with the Barna Group on an “image and perception” study. The purpose of the initiative is to learn what people know about Asbury and what their perception is. We will be looking for participation from our current congregation, those who have left Asbury, those who have visited but decided not to continue attending, as well as people in our surrounding community who may never have even stepped foot on our property. We want to more effectively reach out to out to Tulsa and surrounding areas. Information from this study will be used to help us better communicate internally with our congregation. It will also aid us as we consider ways to make Asbury better known to those who have never visited us. Tom has talked about the challenges of effectively communicating within a large church made up of four generations. We expect to learn some useful things in that regard from this initiative. You will hear more about this study during the month of October, including an invitation to participate. I encourage you to take the time to answer the questions and to encourage others to do the same. Secondly, I want to introduce a newly sharpened focus on family ministry. This came from Tom and was the result of some thinking he did in 2010. Asbury has always had a strong emphasis on children and students. We’ve all heard many times from Tom, “kids come first.” Nothing is changing in that regard. What is new is a more intentional and directed effort at assisting families

in Christian development. Families are the primary disciplemaking unit in the church. It is not possible for the church, having access to children and youth only a few hours per week, to have the lead role in development. What the church can do is provide training, direction, and encouragement to parents, grandparents, extended family, and other interested adults so that they can take the lead in passing on the Faith. We have reorganized a large portion of our ministry staff to better support our discipleship development efforts. While this shift may seem to be a subtle one, it is in fact quite significant. Over the next six months you will be hearing more about this. My final subject picks up what was discussed in last month’s column. Tom is committed to encouraging our people to think about planned giving, specifically, to leave a portion of their estate to the ongoing support of advancing the Kingdom. He will be speaking at a luncheon on October 16. I encourage you to make reservations and attend. You will have the opportunity to hear Tom’s vision along these lines. Should you desire to get more detailed information about estate planning, the foundation board has arranged for some professionals in the business to be available at the luncheon. (I’m surprised how often people think that estate planning is for the old and/or the rich. All of us need to have a will or trust in place.) Thank you for all the ways you are supporting Asbury by your prayers, presence, gifts, service, and witness.

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See next page for more information on the Foundation luncheon.

Tom’s Vision for the Asbury Foundation, creating a legacy of faith Join us for a luncheon sponsored by Asbury Foundation. Tom Harrison will be speaking on why leaving a legacy is so important for Christians. Sunday, October 16 12:30 in the Family Room Through your estate planning, you can leave a lasting legacy of your life while helping to endow the ministries of Asbury United Methodist Church. Through your generosity, you can secure the future of our church’s ministry for tomorrow’s youth and adults. Your gifts will help your family witness the eternal importance you have given to the Lord’s work and represent a tribute of your spiritual heritage at Asbury. Please register online at www.myasburytulsa.org or by emailing Tresa Johnson at tjohnson@asburytulsa.org.

SENIOR ADULTS

Asbury Senior Adult Day Trip to Tahlequah by Gwen Mohler “I could say it was a well planned trip, and because of that, everything came together in a beautiful way. The outstanding part of the day for me, of course, would be the meal at the Miller’s Farm. The River City Players did an outstanding job on their presentation. They are a very talented group of young people.” -Rev. David Thomas “We thank you, God, for good Christian fellowship at Asbury.” - Gwen Mohler

t doesn’t take long to fill a fifty-five passenger bus with senior adults if you mention a good place to eat like Fannie Miller’s home-cooked Amish food and good entertainment with the River City Players NSU at Tahlequah. Asbury seniors take a trip about once a month. It gives us an opportunity to get acquainted. We have a lot of single seniors and couples that might not get a chance to travel if we didn’t offer the trips,so it is a great opportunity for our senior adults who are fifty five plus.

If you are over fifty five and our trips interest you, look for our bulletin in the rack next to the south desk, fill it out, and join us.

Here are a few comments we have received about the trip: “Thanks to all of you who organized such a great trip. The entertainment was lively and quite enjoyable, and the food was like having Thanksgiving dinner in July. Great day!” -Connie Liggans

“I appreciate the opportunity to see how other people such as the Amish live and what ambitious and hard workers they are to make a living. I was impressed with the energy and professionalism the young performers put into the show in Tahlequah— very well produced and executed.” -Loren Arnoff “I think the best part of this, and most of the trips, is the time for good fellowship. We get to visit with all the people around where we are sitting on the bus. Then we get to visit with different people when we have lunch or dinner together.” -Sylvia Dean

Join the Asbury Senior Adults as they travel by charter bus to the Chickasaw Cultural Center near Davis, Oklahoma. View a stomp dance, unique crafts, the spirit forest and gardens, and enjoy a special lunch on site. Afterwards, enjoy watching chocolate being made at the Indian Bedre Chocolate Factory in Pauls Valley. Registration forms available at the south desk. Deadline to register is Monday, October 17. Cost is $40 per person.

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rowing up, she wanted to do something exciting. She dreamed of changing lives as a surgeon or traveling to foreign lands as an ambassador or war correspondent. Maybe she would be a police detective or military chaplain. But when Asbury’s newest pastor accepted Jesus, everything changed. When He gave her a heart for full-time ministry, nothing else seemed as thrilling. Gloria McGee-Denton grew up all over Texas and Oklahoma, attending nine different schools by her senior year. Her home life didn’t offer much spiritual influence and often she was not allowed to attend church. She recalls, “I grew up outside the body of Christ and outside of a relationship with Christ.” Even so, when she was allowed to attend, her dad would give her offering money. Gloria was captivated by the stories of Bible heroes, of their faith and their faithful God. And she would often memorize church bulletins because it was the only “Christian literature” she could get her hands on. Gloria attended her first Vacation Bible School at age 8. (Except for being scolded for wanting seconds on Kool-Aid and cookies, she loved it!) During the altar call she felt God tugging at her heart. She was just about to make her way across a crowded pew when she heard the speaker say that “knowing Jesus would make life easier”. “I immediately changed my mind,” Gloria says. “My parents, both small business owners and organic farmers, had taught me the easiest road isn’t always the best road. I didn’t need any Jesus making life easier.” But several years later as an 8th grader at another VBS, Gloria once again felt that tug. That night she gave her whole self to Jesus. She recalls praying alone in her bedroom asking Him to be Savior, Lord and Leader of her life.

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Gloria jokes that she didn’t plan to marry because “she didn’t want a man slowing her down or holding her back while she was busy trying to change the world.” Even so she often prayed for the man she might marry, just in case God wasn’t listening to her plans.

ministry to focus on her health. So she became as she describes “a very, very active volunteer” and part-time church secretary in Marietta, Oklahoma.

She and Carter met in college and recently celebrated their 12th anniversary. Gloria says she and Carter share the same call to share Christ’s love. He is an active lay person and has served as a youth minister and worship leader. And that thing about a man slowing her down? Gloria says Carter has done the very opposite. “I’m a better person, better pastor and better disciple because of him.” Gloria and Carter are raising two children whose birth parents aren’t able to care for them. Seventh grader Kiara is on the Honor Roll and excels in band. She is a natural athlete and very artistic. Gloria says, “She’s got a special something with young children. They love her, she loves them.” Kalissa, age 5, is in kindergarten and is their ‘little preaching princess’. “She’s been known to take the helm of her Sunday School class, quieting the kids to tell them about Jesus,” says Gloria. “She enjoys nursing home and hospital visits and thinks all grape juice is pretty much for communion.” She loves to perform and has the “gift for gab”.

“This church did more to love us than I’d ever experienced,” she says. “They nurtured us through the most dangerous and life-threatening points in my illness and then a major surgery.” It was here that Gloria was formally recommended as a candidate for ordained ministry and they soon moved to Texas for seminary. Gloria has served as Director of the Wesley Foundation at SEOSU in Durant, as well as youth and associate pastor to several churches throughout Oklahoma. At Asbury, her primary role is Pastor to Children’s Ministry. It involves “lots of caring and loving, teaching, and a little preaching”, as well as supporting the prayer ministry and missions programs. A self proclaimed “recovering workaholic”, Gloria enjoys cooking, reading, writing and outdoor sports. And a little known fact about Gloria is that she is a clown. “I’m just plain silly,” she says. “I love to laugh and see others laugh, and I sometimes sink to the level of a junior high boy.”

“I started as the world’s greenest, most naïve and idealistic youth director,” says Gloria. But during that time she became very sick and soon left full time

Gloria loves the body of Christ because “it’s family”. “God’s people have done for me much as I’ve done for our two daughters,” she says. “They’ve raised me up in the faith when my own parents weren’t able to. Family isn’t always pretty; it isn’t always neat, tidy and clean. Family is sometimes just plain disappointing and embarrassing. But the church, the people God places around us, they make us who we are.”

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Continuing Series on Governing Committee Bill and Claudia Abernathy by Nikki Boyd

ill and Claudia Abernathy met at Auburn University and fell in love almost immediately. After a year of a dating long-distance, they married in 1979. Though Claudia describes their first meeting as a “chance encounter”, it’s certain she would agree God had a plan for their life together. Both grew up in strong Christian homes and both made a personal decision to follow Christ at age nine. Since that time their faith has been the integral part of their lives. Claudia says, “Having a personal relationship with Christ has brought comfort beyond measure throughout my life. Without Him beside me, the most difficult times would have been impossible to navigate.” “The biggest thing to me is that I don’t fear death, and actually look forward to the time when I will be with the Lord,” adds Bill. “Perhaps more visibly to others would be the way I try to live my life day to day.” When the Abernathys moved to Tulsa in 1987, they assumed it would be for just a few years. And as opportunities opened with Bill’s job, they still planned to retire elsewhere. But as the years passed, they remained and by the mid-nineties, Bill and Claudia’s hearts were settled, calling Tulsa “home”. And home it is, indeed. Since 1988, they have been investing their lives in many facets of Asbury’s ministries. A short list of Claudia’s involvement includes the Community Life Council, “Walk Thru the Bible” event, and many mission programs. She has served on staff to coordinate and expand Asbury’s prayer ministry, organized the “Prayer Walk” from Asbury’s old location to new campus, and is currently serving on the planning committee for our “50th Anniversary” celebration. Bill is very passionate about his involvement in Global Outreach. Currently he serves as captain of the Caspian Ministry Team, Asbury’s outreach to a Muslim unreached people group in Central Asia. He has been involved in this effort since its beginning in 2001, leading about ten VIM trips. There are still hundreds of people groups in the world who have no Christian influence among them. Bill adds, “At least one third of the world’s population live in areas where they are unlikely to ever hear the name of Jesus in their lifetime unless someone makes an effort not now underway to reach them.” So this coming year, he will also be involved with a task force to improve this mission focus and better communicate it to Asbury’s congregation.

And, since 2008 Bill and Claudia have been Asbury’s Lay Leaders. The couple asked to serve in this capacity is approved each November at the Annual Conference and are members of all the church’s governing committees - Finance, Staff-Parish Relations, Trustees, and the Ad Council. They will finish out their service at the end of 2011. Lay Leaders are not a governing body themselves; their purpose is to represent the congregation at each monthly meeting. They are also available to the congregation to hear their concerns and take them to the proper governing committee. Bill explains that Lay Leaders are to be an “additional set of eyes and ears for the pastoral staff”. They meet monthly with the senior pastor to discuss their perspectives on issues that arise, pass on concerns from the congregation, and hear updates from him. “Attending the governing committee meetings goes a long way towards keeping us involved and aware of what is going on, and we try to be proactive members of each committee,” he adds. Claudia has witnessed the Lord at work while representing Asbury’s people as a Lay Leader. “Even in this economic downturn, the church continues to grow,” she says. “The congregation of Asbury is very special in their continual commitment to serving God. There is a very special Spirit evident when one enters Asbury and that continues to bless me.” It is their prayer that this blessing would continue to be on Asbury, as it has for so many years, and that God would bring growth in numbers, in stewardship, and in outreach to those yet to know the hope of Christ. When you look at Bill and Claudia’s service over the years, it’s obvious that being a “Lay Leader” is not just about representing Asbury’s congregation at committee meetings. It is following God’s lead, getting involved in ministry and impacting your world – to bring Him glory and make disciples. And that is the calling of every believer.

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Finding Financial Peace by Sonia Uribe

s humans, we have the tendency to believe that if anyone has financial problems, it is because they love shopping and spend all their money. But that is not always the case. I know there are people out there like me. When my friends asked me for money, I wanted to help, whether I should or not. Because I didn’t have cash readily available, I let them use my credit card. I trusted people. And most of the times, these “friends” never paid me back. I lost their friendship and still didn’t have the money I needed to pay my bills. About this same time, my mother was diagnosed with cancer. She still lived in Colombia, and it was very expensive to pay for her treatments. To make a bad situation even worse, I had to take a four month medical leave from my job because of a procedure needed on my arm. I was grateful to receive 60% of my regular salary but was still short of money and continued using my credit cards. Although I worked overtime, I ended up being unable to pay my bills. My credit cards were maxed out; I had no more line of credit available. At this time, I made one of the best decisions of my life. My son and I moved out of our apartment and in with one of my friends. She introduced me to Asbury and began telling me about Financial Peace University (FPU) and Dave Ramsey. I researched the class on the internet. Pride, however, was still in the way of reaching out for help. I began thinking “I don’t need him to teach me how to manage my money; I work in accounting! I always do my budget and can handle this by myself.”

The course totally changed my life; I have hope again. I am focused on being totally free from debts within another year.

Even though my living expenses were less because I was living with my friend, the stress and frustration of my financial situation intensified. I finally made the decision to register for the 12 week FPU class. The course totally changed my life; I have hope again. I learned to do my budget in an entirely new way. Dave Ramsey’s teaching is based on the Bible so you immediately notice that difference. Dave not only teaches how to get out of debt but also how to invest and retire with a good income, not relying on your social security check. It has been six months, and I have paid off a tremendous amount of debt. Finally I feel like I can move to my own apartment again. I am focused on being totally free from debts within another year. I want my son to understand these principles as well, so I took him to some FPU classes as well as a live event in Oklahoma City where we were able to meet Dave Ramsey. I have always dreamed of owning a nursing home in my country. Thanks to FPU, I see that dream getting closer every day. That dream motivates me to work harder to be free of debts and work at turning my dream into reality.

FINANCIAL PEACE UNIVERSITY This program is not a quick fix for financial worries. It is a 13 week program which requires real commitment. By teaching you money management basics, FPU can give you hope and provide a solid plan to walk you from the financial bondage of debt into true Financial Peace. The next class will begin in January 2012.

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1784 NUMBER OF VOLUNTEERS

23 8

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NUMBER OF BUSES

23 NUMBER OF WORKSITES

576.38

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MILES DRIVEN BY BUSES

466

PAIRS OF GLOVES USED

283

1100 10

CURBS PAINTED

PALLETS OF FOOD PACKAGED FOR KIDS BACKPACK PROGRAM

864

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TRASH BAGS FILLED

500

BAGS OF MULCH SPREAD

110

TREES AND SHRUBS PLANTED

2 MONTHS TO 90 YEARS THE RANGE OF AGES FROM THE YOUNGEST TO THE OLDEST VOLUNTEERS

1500

BOTTLES OF WATER DRUNK

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211

HATS KNITTED

111

FLEECE BLANKETS MADE

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HATS DECORATED

2500

ENCOURAGEMENT CARDS WRITTEN

5,352,000 STEPS TAKEN IN THE NAME OF JESUS (AVERAGE 3,000 STEPS PER VOLUNTEER) T IDI NGS, O C TOBER 2 011

by Vicki Thompson

uring baseball season next year, an exciting new movie will be released with the hope of changing lives through God’s healing power. The stewardship of this movie has been placed in the path of many sinners that have been saved by the grace of God. It’s the story of a man who runs away… and finds his home. I could write an entire article on how this movie came to be and how God has opened many doors to let it happen. But instead, I want to share an amazing journey that led me to the inside track of this movie and writing this article. Last year was very difficult for my family. We lost three immediate family members in less than four months: my dad, my husband and my daughter-in-law, which left my nineyear-old grandson without a mom. Without a solid foundation in Christ, I cannot imagine how one family could sustain such grief. But this is not a story of survival. It is about my journey with God, a journey that leaves me in awe of His daily presence in my life, and in the lives of those who choose to pay attention. Every morning I wake up with joy in my heart

because I know He has something special for me to see or do. But it’s my choice to notice, and my choice to do His will. I grew up learning that God has a plan for us, not to harm us but to prosper, and we are the only ones that can make a mess of His plan. Since my long-range planning skills have not led to impressive results, I decided to make sure God has my undivided attention. My husband and I had just retired and had planned to dedicate our retirement years to outreach programs. While we were finding the perfect fit for us, he became ill and lost his battle with severe depression in March 2010. My husband was very intelligent and was a great leader in his industry. I was excited that he would be able to use his talents to serve the Lord full time. I’m more gifted at being the woman behind the man. After he died, I questioned why he was taken home when he was so close to making a difference for God. After all, he was the talented one. How was I going to serve without his special gifts? God definitely had some explaining to do.

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A friend gave me the book, ‘Same Kind of Different as Me’, and my question was answered in one quote, “When someone is precious to God, Satan pays attention”. That was healing for me and what Satan didn’t count on was that Hell hath no fury like a really ticked off woman. As I prayed, God reminded me that scripture tells us there is nothing Satan can do that He can’t defeat. I claimed that promise. And so, the journey begins. I couldn’t focus on any one of the many outreach programs, so my journey started by simply reading the Bible. You know, God’s instruction book for daily living. It’s all there. I’ve been reading it faithfully for years. But what I never noticed before was what I found written between the lines: “TRUST.” Blind trust. As I started trusting Him more, he started to open doors without me knowing to knock. The past year has been filled with stories that are explained only by saying “It’s a God thing” or it’s “Whispers from God.” One door that opened unexpectedly was my neighbor approached me with an invitation to join him and a few other Christian friends to attend a meeting regarding a movie that would help promote the ministry, “Celebrate Recovery”. What? I had just moved to this neighborhood and only met this neighbor once or twice and how did he know I was a Christian and feeling led to work with this particular outreach program? How Holy Spirit spooky is that? Again, I think the Holy Spirit is working amongst us sinners without our permission. Several people that attended the meeting got together and formed an LLC to help raise money for this film called, “Home Run”. My passion for Celebrate Recovery started when I brought a family member to a meeting because I thought they could benefit from the program. What I discovered was that everyone can benefit from a Christian 12-step ministry based on the Beatitudes because everyone has some kind of hurt, hang up or habit. I am going to start my first 12-step study this fall. I only wish I had started one before I ever tried to become an adult on my own. I am so thankful I attended the meeting and never doubted my decision to join the LLC. I filtered my decision through prayer, scripture, consulting with

Christian friends and making for sure this decision was not self-promoting, either personally or financially. A couple of weeks ago one of the other investors called and asked me if I wanted to go to California to the Celebrate Recovery Summit at Saddleback Church. Our role at the Summit was to help roll out and promote the new movie to the CR leaders throughout the country so they can start their promotion in their local community. This movie has the blessings of John and Cheryl Baker, co-founders of CR and Rick Warren, the author of ‘The Purpose Driven Life’. By the grace of God, my life has gone from knowing nothing about CR to being a part of a ministry that Celebrates Hope, Surrender, Grace and Recovery through God’s healing power. I believe God has given me supernatural power to do things I never felt I could do on my own. He has definitely given me the courage to speak out. I’m just a small investor in a small movie that can make a huge impact on many. So sports fans, while you are running home, plant as many seeds as you can and let God do the rest, it’s His plan. P.S. I still feel like I am more gifted being the woman behind the man, I just didn’t know it would be ‘The Man’. “Home Run” will be playing in theaters during baseball season 2012 Homerunthemovie.com Facebook: Home Run, the Movie

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CHILDREN

“Why Not Wednesdays?” Summer Fun by Kim Broadhurst

ith record setting temperature highs this summer, we put forth our best effort to keep Asbury’s children cool through our “Why Not Wednesday” program. Ninety kids were in attendance to kick off the summer at the roller skating rink where the kids delighted in an ice cream treat and drink. One of the biggest advantages of having the rink all to ourselves is that our beginner skaters along with our more advanced skaters felt comfortable and enjoyed the friends they brought and the new friends they made. Even some parents joined the kids on the rink, most of them were something sturdy for our beginner skaters to hold onto, but nonetheless brought back many memories of their youth. While the weeks rolled on, the temperature was not the only thing that was rising, but as was the fun! Over two-hundred of Asbury’s children headed over to the church in their PJs with their slippers, pillow pets and stuffed animals for the annual “Mega Movie Morning”. The kids had the opportunity to not only see one of three blockbusters including Yogi Bear, Toy Story 3 and Gnomeo and Juliet, but to enjoy the best popcorn in town (provided by our wonderful youth).

with inflatables, hula hoops, four square and plenty of basketball games. Our students joined us to help referee the 150 children that showed up with excitement and anticipation of a day just for them. We also celebrated our kids with a craft room with many choices, and a full concession stand. We then spent our final Wednesday as a “Family Bingo Night”, with plenty of prizes and fun to go around for everyone. Parents, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles and children got the opportunity to see who could blow the biggest bubble or toilet paper wrap their partner in the shortest amount of time, a great way to wind up our Wednesdays with great Family Fun! Now to start the new school year, Pastor Dick Read led the Class of 2024’s Kindergarten Blessing Service, a special time for our families to relieve some anxiety and give encouragement to the upcoming Kindergarteners. The service was followed with a reception in the CLC filled with cake, punch, and many stations set up for the children to create an “All About Me” book to document this special occasion.

“Super Kids Day” was next in the line of events, and definitely lived up to the hype. Two hours of open gym time were filled

Roller skating

Mega Movie Morning

Family Bingo Night

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CHILDREN

Family Bingo Night

Mega Movie Morning

Super Kids Day

Family Bingo Night

Kindergarten Blessing Service

Roller skating

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GRANDPA JOHN

James – Brother of Jesus by John C. Westervelt

y name is James. I grew up in Galilee in the town of Nazareth. I had an older brother Jesus, three younger brothers, and three sisters. My father Joseph provided for us with his carpentry work. Of course, all of us were busy caring for the garden and animals. I remember well when I was eight and Jesus was twelve. We all went to Jerusalem for the Passover celebration. I hung out with my cousins along the way—running ahead and falling behind as we explored the countryside. On the first night’s stop on the way home, Jesus was missing. All of us looked among our relatives, but we could not find him. I was scared because I didn’t want to lose my big brother who was so good to me. Daddy told all of us children to stay with our cousins for the rest of the journey home. He said that Mother and he were going back to Jerusalem to find Jesus. My anxiety continued for a week as I waited for their return. The most exciting day of my life was late one evening when I could see three figures in the distance stirring up dust on the road from the south. As they came closer, I recognized Daddy, Mother, and Jesus. I ran to meet them. I assumed that Jesus was in big trouble, but I couldn’t tell that Daddy or Mother were mad. Maybe they were just glad to be home. Daddy and Jesus returned to their work in the carpenter’s shop. As Mother resumed her task of directing the work of the children, she seemed more pensive than I remembered, like she was pondering something in her heart. Not long after the birth of Simon, the youngest, Daddy died. Jesus stepped up to run the carpenter’s shop. My oldest sister Bernice, the one next to Jesus, helped mother with the younger children.

Jesus moved to Capernaum to begin his missionary work. We did not understand what he was doing, so we went to Capernaum to ask him. I remember when someone told Jesus that his mother, brothers, and sisters were outside, Jesus told the crowd of disciples surrounding him, “You are my mother, brothers, and sisters.” I felt hurt that he would say that. It was a matter of time before I understood that he truly loved all of God’s children. After Jesus had completed three years of ministry, the Pharisees conspired to have the Romans put him to death on a cross. Of course, we were devastated. On the third day he arose from the dead, and then I knew that he was Christ, the Son of God. Over the ensuing years, a Pharisee name Paul met Jesus on the Road to Damascus and was transformed. Paul told the Gentile world about Jesus the Christ. I headed up the Jewish Christians in the Jerusalem church. Paul returned from his missionary journeys to talk with me and the other leaders of the church in Jerusalem. Paul preached “Justification by Faith.” Having grown up with Jesus, I felt it was important to add works, so I wrote, “Faith without works is dead.” Christians have adhered to both teachings. If only one person understood Jesus’ message better because of my insight, then my life was not in vain. Note to the reader. The scripture tells us a little about James. In my imagination, I filled in the rest of his story. James 2:20 NKJV Other Jesus stories at www.jwestervelt.com.

Years later when all the children could help provide for the family,

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VOLUNTEERS

Home Improvement Ministry by Joan Henning

he Home Improvement Ministry is a little known ministry at Asbury with a mission to serve the widows, single moms and other ladies living alone trying to maintain a home. At times, these women need help with the simplest things–changing filters or those light bulbs in the ceiling, removing debris from the yard, painting, or simple repairs. Our Home Improvement Ministry does all of those things and more. Five times a year, they divide into teams and go out and bless these Asbury members by taking care of some of the needs they cannot do themselves. The recipients are so grateful; they are sometimes moved to tears. Having been on a mission trip to Rio Bravo with the Men’s Ministry, Joey Ragsdale wanted to serve on a regular basis – not just once a year around the holidays. He already knew through serving others you forget your own troubles. He was encouraged to try Home Improvement Ministry and arrived on August 20 with two friends in tow. His team worked on the a lady’s yard mowing, edging and removing debris. She wasn’t home, but he could imagine the delight on her face when she returned. They enjoyed the day regardless of the excessive heat.

Joey feels there is a strong connection that bridges the gap between serving and growing spiritually. One of his friends was baptized the next day. He expects both friends to serve with him again in October. This ministry team would love to serve more of our members, but it cannot be done without growing the team. Joey would tell you to experience it for yourself – just once, and you will keep coming back. The next Home Improvement workday is Saturday, October 15. Try it! You’ll find everyone gathering in the café in the Family Center (northeast entrance) around 8:30 am. Have some coffee and a donut or sausage roll, meet a few of the guys and go out with a team. You’ll be glad you did! For more information, contact Michiel Conner at 918.640.4382 or Del Ludlum at 918.798.1835.

RECIPE OF THE MONTH

Cornbread Salad 1 jiffy corn bread mix 1 pkg. Buttermilk Ranch dressing 1 c. sour cream 1 c. mayonnaise 1 bunch green onions, chopped

2 tomatoes, diced 1 green pepper, diced 2 cans pinto beans, drained 2 cans corn, drained 2 c. cheddar cheese

Bake corn bread as directed. Cool and crumble. Mix dressing, sour cream and mayonnaise; set aside. Mix onions, tomatoes and green pepper; set aside. Layer: ½ cornbread, 1 can beans, ½ vegetables, 1 cup cheese, 1 can corn, ½ dressing. Repeat. Make 3 hours before serving or 1 day ahead. This recipe was submitted by MaryPat Fennema. She tells us that she had attended a neighborhood 4th of July cook out/picnic. Since this recipe was something different, she began trying to find out who made it and requested the recipe. She later made this dish for a family get together. If there are any leftovers, they will only last for a day or two. Interested in getting more recipes from some of Asbury’s best cooks? The UMW Cookbook is available at the Gazebo for $20.00.

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MEN’S DEVOTIONAL

Wisdom: Truth or Consequences (Proverbs 1.8-33) by Brad Tuggle Now that Solomon has poured his foundation and explained why wisdom is so important, the next section of Proverbs 1 is a stark warning: Choose well, because decisions have consequences. His caution is clear: “When sinners entice you, do not consent… they will say, ‘Come with us! Come join us!’… Do not follow them…” And then Wisdom herself issues a warning: “I called, but you refused to listen; I held out my hand, but you paid no attention. You did not follow my advice and did not listen when I corrected you. So you will get what you deserve; you will get what you planned for others.” In The Great Divorce, C.S. Lewis describes an excursion by residents of hell to heaven. As they arrive, they are stunned by the beauty of heaven, but find they cannot enjoy it. As they observe the feet of heavenly people disappear into the lush, moist grass, those same blades of bermuda and fescue feel like spikes in the feet of the hellish people, because of what their choices have made them. And with the exception of one, they all choose poorly again: a round-trip ticket. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Wisdom concludes Proverbs 1: “But whoever listens to me will live securely and be free from the fear of danger.” In his 7 Habits book, Stephen Covey said it this way: “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space lies our freedom and power to choose our response. In those choices lie our growth and our happiness.” Newton’s Third Law applies to both physics and free will: there are actions and there are reactions – we reap what we sow. Today’s Equipping Point: Build a “wisdom filter” to help you choose well. It could be a trusted friend to call, a Post-It note on your dashboard, or a verse that pops up on your iPhone (try Titus 2.14, Eph. 4.22, or Joshua 24.15).

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“COURAGEOUS” MOVIE REVIEW Tom is wanting us to become much more intentional about stepping up to the responsibility of spiritual leadership in our homes, and Solomon’s letter to his son is the perfect textbook. In this vein, I want you to be aware of an upcoming opportunity to be truly inspired to lead your family well. The movie “Courageous” will premiere on Friday September 30, and I encourage you to save the date. The story is about a group of friends (all police officers) who, in the course of their daily work, see firsthand the injury and corrosion to families that don’t have strong leadership. Through difficult circumstances and tragedy, they recognize the need for a more intentional commitment to fill their roles as godly husbands and fathers. You’ll be very inspired by the film. I hope you’ll invite a friend, or better yet, your family as a commitment to “step up your game.” They’ll be just as inspired as you. See you that weekend at the movies!

MUSIC

The Gift of Song by Marti Morris

n most days of the week if you walk down the halls of Asbury, you will likely hear music—live music—coming from the choir room or if you are on the first floor, the orchestra room. Our volunteers spend many happy hours honing their gifts to share with the congregation. Singing or playing with a group is a bonding experience that can be matched by no other. Lifelong friendships are formed in these groups. It is a big commitment but one that reaps so many rewards. Recently one of the Chancel Choir members was losing her battle with cancer. On one of the hottest Sundays of our recordbreaking summer, the choir went to Barbara’s house after church to sing for her. We stretched from her sunroom into her living room. We sang and cried as we remembered how much she loved to sing with us. After we left I wrote the choir a thank you for taking the time to go. Maribeth Blunt responded: “What an experience! I’m so happy that we could do this for Barbara, but it was a huge gift for us as well.”

A few days later Barbara’s daughter wrote: “I just wanted to write and say how much the family appreciates the time, talent and effort that each and every one of you took after a long Sunday morning, to brave the heat and come by and make such an impact on our family. What a special time for all of us, and I know we’ll never forget it. I told Hart, it’s the first tear I’ve seen my mom shed during this entire ordeal, so I know it was especially meaningful and moving for her. Thank you again for your special ministry and caring. Love, Janie .” Barbara died just a week later. The choir sang for her funeral via a DVD, performing one of the songs we sang to her that special Sunday. We will never sing that song again without thinking of our choir sister. “In the morning when I rise, give me Jesus. You can have all this world but give me Jesus.” This story does have a happy ending. We grieve now, but we will all be singing together again…this time in heaven.

“I just wanted to write and say how much the family appreciates the time, talent and effort that each and every one of you took to brave the heat and come by and make such an impact on our family.”

Chancel Choir Wednesdays, 7:00–9:00 pm, Choir room. Available for seventh grade through adults. New Covenant Orchestra Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm, Orchestra room

Celebration Ringers Tuesdays, 4:30–5:30 pm, Handbell room Asbury Power & Light Co. Sundays, 8:00–9:15 am, Orchestra room Children’s Choirs Wednesdays, 6:00–6:50 pm. Available for children age four (by September 1, 2011) through sixth grade.

Asbury Youth Orchestra Wednesdays, 5:30–6:00 pm, Orchestra room Perpetual Light Thursdays, 10:30 am–12:00 noon, Handbell room

Asbury Singing Ambassadors Tuesdays, 1:30–3:00 pm, Choir room. Available for senior adults.

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OPPORTUNITIES

Asbury Opportunities RECYCLING PAPER

GENERAL INFORMATION

Recycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are available, located in the south and east parking lots.

BREAKFAST

Served from 7:00–9:00 am in the CLC. Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. $3 for adults and $1 for children 12 and under. SUNDAY MORNING WORSHIP

8:00 am 9:15 am 9:15 am 11:00 am 11:00 am

FREE! Suitable for framing.

NEW ADDITIONS TO THE LIBRARY

Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) Sanctuary (Contemporary) CLC (Open House Worship) (Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting) Sanctuary (Traditional) Venue 68 (Modern with sign interpreter)

The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library. TOASTMASTERS

Toastmasters is a learn-by-doing workshop in which participants hone their speaking and leadership skills in a friendly atmosphere. Members learn communication skills by performing a series of 10 self-paced speaking assignments designed to instill a basic foundation in public speaking. Members also learn leadership skills by taking on various meeting roles. Every Monday that the church is open, 11:45 am–12:45 pm, room 2820.

SUNDAY EVENING WORSHIP

6:00 pm

DOORS OF ASBURY POSTERS ARE AT THE WELCOME CENTERS

Venue 68 (Modern)

SUNDAYS FOR CHILDREN AND STUDENTS

6 Weeks–4 Years K–6th Grades 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 10th, 11th & 12th Grades

8:00, 9:15 and 11:00 am 9:15 or 11:00 am 9:15 and 11:00 am 9:15 am only

ACCESS HANDS OF LOVE SIGN CHOIR

Sundays, 6:00–7:00 pm, Family Room

ADULT DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES

Adult Bible study, belonging, and serving together Sunday at 8:00, 9:15 and 11:00 am, and options during the week Tuesdays at 6:00 pm, Wednesdays at 6:00 and 7:30 pm

FRIENDS IN CHRIST COMMUNITY

Sundays, 11:00 am, room 1507

SURGERY OR HOSPITALIZATION SCHEDULED?

Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling Joan at 918.392.1176 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 918.492.1771, selecting option 6, and leaving a message for the pastor on call. THE GAZEBO IS OPEN

CDs of Tom’s message of the day are available immediately following the worship service - $3. Prayer Journals are also available for $5 each. UMW Cookbooks available for $20. Additional volunteers needed.

BIBLE STUDY BELIEVERS BIBLE STUDY

Wednesdays 6:00–7:30 pm. Year round: room 1508. Instructor: Don Herrold. Study on the Imperatives of the New Testament: Meanings, Objectives and Applications. WOMEN OF THE WORD

Wednesdays 10:00–11:00 am ongoing, year-round in room 2319. No childcare. Join Darlene Johnson as she leads an open Bible study focusing on the practical application of the Scripture sermon series.

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OPPORTUNITIES

CARE AND SUPPORT CHANGE YOUR BRAIN, CHANGE YOUR LIFE. GOOD NEWS ABOUT DEALING WITH ANXIETY, DEPRESSION

Recent discoveries in neuroscience confirm what God has been telling us all along about dealing with the sad and anxious things in life! Come hear Maribeth Blunt, Licensed Psychotherapist, share some simple tools to change your life for the better. Thursdays, October 27–November 17, 7:00–8:30 pm, room 2504. Call 918.392.1191 to register. No cost. SURVIVING THE HOLIDAYS

Experiencing grief and loss can be especially painful during the holidays, so let’s spend some “sharing” time together. We will have materials for you to take home to discuss ideas with family members and others about ways to spend the holidays during those particularly challenging times following a loss. There will be special programming for the children provided at the same time. Saturday, November 5, 10:00 am–12:00 noon, in the Parlor. GRIEFSHARE

Wednesdays, September 7–November 30, 1:30–3:00 pm, Room 2314. GriefShare is a special weekly video series and support group for people who are grieving the death of someone close to them. It’s a safe place to be around people who understand what you are feeling. At GriefShare, you’ll learn valuable information about recovering from your grief and renewing your hope for the future. Group sessions are offered three times per year. You may begin attending this group at any time...each video session is “self-contained.” Facilitators: Ann Peterson, Carolyn Moore and Claudia Kleeman. Cost: $13 for workbook. Call 918.392.1191 to register. S.M.I.L.E. (SINGLE MOTHERS IN THE LORD’S EMBRACE)

Third Thursdays, 6:00–8:45 pm, Parlor. Join us for a DVD series and book entitled “21 Principles of a Healthy Single Mom.” You will learn to apply specific, workable guidelines so you can flourish spiritually in the midst of overwhelming circumstances. Each principle/video session is self-contained, and you may begin attending at any time. $12 for book. Free childcare. RSVP to Kellie at asburysmile@ymail.com. HEALING HATS MINISTRY

An Asbury ministry created to provide hats to cancer patients who have lost their hair. Home spun with knots of love, woven together with help from above! Simply knit, crochet or sew a hat of your choice and drop it in the collection box located next to the Gazebo. Find more information in the literature rack attached to the collection box. Contact Sue at 918.455.2816 or HealingHatsMin@ aol.com for more information. VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS

regularly visit people who are homebound, in nursing homes or in assisted living facilities. If you are interested in being visited or doing visits, call Adrena at 918.392.1144, or contact the coordinator, Linda Pat Colgan at 918.366.3287 or jsclpc@yahoo.com. PRAYER CARD MINISTRY

Usually meets first and third Mondays at 9:30 am in room 1508 to send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. Contact Gwen Mohler at 918.258.5479 or grmohler@aol.com for more information. CARD DESIGNERS NEEDED FOR PRAYER CARD MINISTRY

Volunteers are needed to design encouragement cards. Cards can be designed at home and drawn by hand or on the computer. Contact Gwen Mohler at 918.258.5479 or grmohler@aol.com for more information. MILITARY CONNECTION

Please join us in praying for our troops in harm’s way and their families. Periodic care packages and monthly encouragement cards with God’s Word are sent to Asbury-related military personnel. The Prayer Ministry also covers them in prayer. Please call Jo VanDeWiele at 918.459.0888 with complete name and address or send to Gwen at grmohler@aol.com. SURVIVORS!

Second Sunday of each month, 4:00–5:30 pm, Parlor - Reaching out to one another with God’s eternal perspective through the storms of life. For those living with life-changing physical illness. Friends and family too. Contact Rod at 918.740.4393. DIVORCE RECOVERY

Tuesdays, 7:00–8:30 pm, room 1335 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Childcare available. Contact Malia Miller at 918.494.9596 or malia.miller@sbcglobal.net. DIVORCE REBUILDING

Thursdays, 7:00–8:30 pm, room 1335 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Childcare available. Contact Jim Small at 918.697.4220 or divorce-rebuilding@cox.net. MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT FOR FAMILIES

For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. Fourth Thursdays from 1:30–3:00 pm in room 1507. Contact Linda Lytle at 918.298.2707 or lllytle@wildflower.net. ASBURY BEAR BAGS

Asbury has a group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who

Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with

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OPPORTUNITIES a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury bear to someone who is grieving. For more information, contact Sue at suemorey@ yahoo.com.

is required since space is limited to the first 10 students. Cost is $5.00. If you have any additional questions, please contact Shelley Hughes at 918.392.1172 or shughes@asburytulsa.org. CELEBRATION STATION

CHILDREN Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies. CORE CHILDCARE HOURS

Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided for children 6 weeks–12 years of age with no reservations needed: Sunday 8:00 am–12:00 pm Monday and Tuesday 9:00 am–12:00 pm Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday 6:00 pm–9:00 pm SUNDAY MORNING VOLUNTEERS

Children’s Ministry is actively pursuing classroom, security and hospitality volunteers. We have two rotations: Alpha (1st and 2nd Sunday) and Omega (3rd and 4th Sunday) at both the 9:15 and 11:00 class times. Please contact Joanna Edwards at 918.392.1166 or jedwards@asburytulsa.org for more information and to volunteer. BIBLE EXPLORERS

In this class you will learn how the Bible is written, discover how it is organized and see how to use it. It is designed for the 3rd grader and an adult (parent). We will meet in room 2818 from 3:30–5:00 pm for three consecutive Sunday afternoons, beginning September 25. You may come whether or not you received a Bible September 25. For more information contact Shanon at 918.392.1170 or sbrown@asburytulsa.org. MISSION MINDED CLASS

Wednesdays, September 7th through November 16, with no meeting on Fall Break (October 19th) 6:00–6:50pm. 4th – 6th Grade, Belong 4.5, room 2909. Join us as we explore missions’ opportunities in the Tulsa community. We will hear from different agencies one week and then help by creating something to meet their needs the next. If you’ve ever been interested in “what missions really are”, this is a good place to start. There is a $10 fee to cover the cost of supplies for our mission projects. For more information, you may contact Joanna at 918.392.1166 or jedwards@asburytulsa.org. MURDOCK VILLA

Sunday, October 16, 12:30–3:00 pm. Our 4th through 6th graders have the opportunity to serve at an assisted living housing project – Murdock Villa. The cost includes a pizza lunch. Sign up

Mondays, 7:00–9:00 pm, Faith Zone. Celebration Station is a 52week complementary children’s program to Celebrate Recovery. So while adults explore topics that bring healing and wholeness, kids discover the same truths in age-appropriate ways through worship, crafts, games and activities. Contact Eryn Wallis 918.392.4588 for details. SPECIAL VOLUNTEERS FOR SPECIAL KIDS!

Do you have a heart to help children with special needs? If so, the Children’s Ministry needs you to volunteer. Contact Dotti Westerberg at dottiwesterberg@hotmail.com or 918.381.0874 for more information. WEDNESDAY NIGHT LIVE

Join us on Wednesday nights for worship in the Chapel—kid style. We will combine music, high energy, verse memory and a Bible lesson in a setting that encourages kids to learn about worship. You may pick up a registration form in the Children’s Ministry area. For more information contact the age-appropriate staff member: Kindergarten, Stephanie L. at 918.392.1171; 1st and 2nd grade, Shanon at 918.392.1170; 3rd–5th grade, Jennifer at 918.392.4582. 2.3 BANANA PAJAMA PARTY

Friday, October 14, 5:00–9:00 pm. The 2nd & 3rd graders have gone bananas. We will start our evening on the 2nd floor of Children’s Ministry with dinner in our pajamas. Then we will have games, crafts and a video for some serious monkey business. Register by October 5th to help us plan. The cost is $12. For questions or more information contact Stephanie L. at 918.392.1171 or slong@asburytulsa.org. ODD SUNDAY

We’ll have a good ol’ time bobbin’ for apples, turkey bowling, and all those fun fall festivities! All 6th graders should join us in the gym on November 6 from 6:30–8:00 pm. The cost is $5. Contact Jennifer at 918.392.4582 or jbarnes@asburytulsa.org for more information. UPWARD BASKETBALL AND CHEER

Upward basketball and cheer promotes character and self esteem in every child by providing equal playing time, one-hour practice and game each week with devotions, an evaluation process to provide equal opportunity for improvement, and separate leagues for boys and girls. All participants must attend one evaluation on October 27, 28, or 29. Practices will be one night a week (Monday, Tuesday or Thursday) with games on Friday or Saturday. Practices

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OPPORTUNITIES begin December 5 and games begin January 6. The season will finish with an awards program on February 26. Parents are needed as coaches and referees. Registration and volunteer forms will be available in Children’s Ministry and online. Cost for basketball is $75 if you register on or before October 17. Any forms received or postmarked after that date will be charged $95 and placed if there is still room on a team. The cost for cheerleading is $65 with an option $15 for a mock turtleneck. For more information, contact Kim at kbroadhurst@asburytulsa.org or 918.392.1165. Registration begins September 1.

are in Christ and learn how we can work more effectively as a team. Registration required. Contact Jackie or Ron at 918.251.6665 or asburydynamicmarriage@windstream.net. Limited to first 14 paid couples. Cost: $120/couple. 10 GREAT DATES WITH YOUR MATE

Second Thursdays through November 10, 6:15–7:00 pm, room 1502. Gather to hear a variety of topics led by various speakers (30 minutes), and then have dinner out. Reserve childcare by contacting Eryn at ewallis@asburytulsa.org or 918.392.4588. ATTENTION ENGAGED COUPLES

DISCIPLESHIP DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES

If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community check out “Get Involved” on our website, www.asburytulsa.org, or pick up a brochure at one of our Welcome Centers. Looking for a homebased small group? Email JOdom@asburytulsa.org for information.

If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital meetings). MILESTONE WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES

Email your upcoming Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars2@cox.net or call her at 918.451.1559.

ENDOWMENTS

MEMBERSHIP

Leave a legacy that continues to give forever to a ministry you want to support. There are endowments that support many areas of Asbury’s outreach including children, youth, music, missions, and training of pastors as well as a general endowment. You can easily impact a ministry through your will or a current gift. Contact Dwight Yoder at 918.392.1113 or dyoder@asburytulsa.org.

Come to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. Sunday, October 2, from 12:15–2:00 pm in Community Life Center. Lunch provided, and childcare is available for children six weeks through sixth grade. Call 918.392.1191 to register.

HOSPITALITY

MEN

It’s the art of welcoming and treasuring people. It is extending the grace and welcome of God to all people. While we all should be extending this welcome and grace, there are specific positions within Asbury where we need volunteers willing to commit to serving once or twice a month. These positions include shuttle drivers, Gazebo cashiers, Connection Corner consultants, greeters and ushers. To volunteer, call Joan at 918.392.1176

Join with other men of Asbury as we build casitas (small houses) and help local churches. No building experience or skills are required, just a willing spirit! All men are invited to participate. This is a great trip for “first-timers,” but we have quite a few previous participants going as well. We anticipate a minimum of 30 men for this trip.

MARRIAGE & FAMILY SYNERGIZE YOUR MARRIAGE GETAWAY

Friday & Saturday, October 7– 8 (1:00pm Friday to 6:30 pm Saturday), Holliman Lodge/Camp Egan, Tahlequah OK (90 minute drive). Come explore what God may have in store for you as a couple. The weekend provides a fun-filled opportunity to learn, grow and seek a greater understanding of one another. We’ll identify who we

ASBURY EXPLORATION

MEN’S FALL RIO BRAVO MISSION TRIP

We will be flying out of Tulsa on Wednesday, November 9, and will return on Sunday, November 13. We will stay at the Volunteers in Missions headquarters which provide basically hotel rooms with four beds (two bunks), linens and towels and one bath per room. The cost is $595 per person for the first 30 men to register. $100 deposit holds your place, and the full balance is due by October 14. There may be incremental costs for additional airline tickets after the first 30 spots are taken. Scholarship/financial assistantance is available on an asneeded basis. Sign up deadline is Friday, October 7. This mission endeavor is a great way to serve others while showing the love of Jesus Christ. It is also a great way to get to know other

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OPPORTUNITIES men in our church, and you’ll return with relationships that will last a lifetime. Please consider being a part of this great effort to provide decent housing for those in desperate need. You won’t regret a single moment of fellowship and ministry. For more information, contact Frank Field at frank.field@williams.com or 918.630.0717, or Jim Furman at jnlfurman@cox.net or 918.625.1316.

HOME IMPROVEMENT WORKDAY VOLUNTEERS

Saturday, October 15, meet in the Family Room Lobby at 8:30 am for planning. The Home Improvement Ministry serves widows and single moms within the Asbury family. Volunteers make themselves available every other month to help with minor home repairs and/or home improvement projects. If you’d like to help, contact Michiel at 918.640.4382 or michiel0930@sbcglobal.net.

ASBURY SCOUTS VETERANS’ DAY CELEBRATION AND PANCAKE BREAKFAST

We are privileged to salute those men and women who have served their country as members of the armed services and those today who proudly wear the uniform of the Active, Reserve and National Guard forces. The Asbury Scouts Leadership Foundation and the Asbury Military Connection, along with the Asbury Prayer Card Ministry, invite you to join them in “A Salute to our Veterans,” to be held on Saturday, November 5, 2011, in the CLC. The Salute will include a flag ceremony, speakers, songs and videos, will start about 8:15 am and end at 10:15 am. To kick off the celebration, the annual Pancake Breakfast hosted by Asbury Scouts will be held that morning from 7:00–11:00 am. There is no admission charge, but donations are gratefully accepted. All proceeds will benefit the Asbury Cub Scouts, Boy Scouts and Venture Crew programs. Please come and help us celebrate! MEN’S PRAYER BREAKFAST

Wednesdays, 6:30–7:30 am in the CLC. Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, life-changing prayer and an awesome big breakfast, all for just $3 per person. First-time guests are free. MATURE MEN’S MINISTRY R.O.M.E.O. LUNCHEON

Are you a “Retired Old Man” who wants to “Eat Out?” If so, then these luncheons are for you! A really awesome bunch of guys are meeting every second and fourth Friday at 11:15 am for good food and great fellowship. The luncheons take place at Village Inn (71st and Memorial) and are open to anyone 60 years and up. For more information, contact Bud at bdmathes@cox.net or Jim at rober@cox.net. CAR CARE WORKDAY VOLUNTEERS

Car Care Saturday is an every-other-month work day provided for Asbury’s widows and single moms, through our Men’s Ministry. While the ladies wait in the comfort of the café, volunteers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash the vehicles, and then update owners on what’s running smoothly and what needs professional attention. This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith in action through loving and serving those in need. If you would like to volunteer to help, contact Mike at mnalley16@cox.net. The next event will be November 12.

MISSIONS/VIM SECOND SATURDAY

Looking for an easy way to make a difference and share Christ’s love in Tulsa? Join us for Second Saturday, October 8, at 8:30 am at Venue68 and choose between local mission opportunities. At 8:45 we head to the ministry sites. Teams work from 9:00–11:30 am, and buses return to Venue68 no later than 12:15 pm. Families with children are welcomed and encouraged! Contact Betty Higgins at carevets@aol.com for more information. OPERATION HOPE 10TH ANNUAL FALL FUNDRAISER

Come celebrate the success of Operation Hope Prison Ministry with a silent auction, hear success stories, enjoy a catered dinner, and the evening closes with a live auction. The event is at Asbury in the CLC on Friday, October 14 from 5:30–9:00 pm. Tickets: $40. For more information, contact Janet Theis at 918.625.1967. CIRCLE OF CARE-BOY’S RANCH RODEO, GORE, OK

Join the Rodeo “Stampede” on Saturday, October 15, for an afternoon of fun! Opening ceremony kicks off at noon, followed by quilt and basket auction, clogging, and gospel music. Rodeo with Circle of Care children and youth begins at 2:00 pm. Concessions open all day. Free admission and parking. Call 918.487.5281 for more information. OJT (OVERCOMING JOB TRANSITIONS)

Reaching out to job seekers; it doesn’t work if you don’t help us spread the word. Job seekers can get help with resumes, LinkedIn, and networking. We meet the third Tuesday each month from 6:30–9:00 pm in the Family Room. Contact Russ Knight at OJTJobs@gmail.com. A&W (ASBURY AND WHITMAN)

A&W is an outreach ministry of Asbury UMC to the staff and community of Whitman Elementary School. A&W volunteers help in a variety of ways: listen to students read, tutor math, be a lunch buddy, help in the library or with various school projects. Volunteer as often as you like. Contact Barbie Paige at 918.250.9194 or bepaige@hotmail.com.

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OPPORTUNITIES VOLUNTEERS IN MISSION 2011 OPPORTUNITIES

PRAYER

October 15–22 (tentative) Monterrey, Mexico, MBS and Construction, $950

ALTAR PRAYER

November 2–6 Monterrey, Mexico, Medical, $900 VIM TEAM LEADER TRAINING

November 5 (Training dates are in Oklahoma City.) For more information about these exciting mission opportunities, contact Marilene Long at 918.392.1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org. We also plan domestic teams in response to needs due to natural disasters.

If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or immediately following a worship service, please come to the altar rail. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual, at the altar or in the Prayer Room. PRAYER ROOM RESERVATIONS

The leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you that the main facility Prayer Room is open not only to individuals desiring to pray in a quiet, meditative atmosphere but also to prayer groups within communities and ministries. Just call the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589 to reserve the Prayer Room for your group on a weekly or monthly basis.

MUSIC PRAYER ROOM DAYS AND TIMES

CHANCEL CHOIR

Wednesdays, 7:00–9:00 pm, Choir room. Available for seventh grade through adults. We have SO much fun…singing, laughing and serving together. Come share your God-given talent with us.

Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times: Mason Chapel & Venue 68 Sundays from 7:00 am–12:30 pm through the interior doors.

Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm, Orchestra room

Main Facility, Mason Chapel, & Venue 68 Monday–Friday 8:00 am–9:00 pm Saturday 10:00 am–3:00 pm Sunday 12:30 pm–9:00 pm

ASBURY YOUTH ORCHESTRA

To obtain pass codes, call Pam in the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589.

NEW COVENANT ORCHESTRA

Wednesdays, 5:30–6:00 pm, Orchestra room PERPETUAL LIGHT

RECOVERY

Thursdays, 10:30am–12:00 noon, Handbell room

CELEBRATE RECOVERY

Come join this supportive group of people each Monday night at 6:00 pm. Dinner at 6:00 pm; worship from 7:00–8:00 pm; small groups from 8:00–9:00 pm; dessert from 9:00–9:30 pm. Hiding any hurts, habits or hang-ups? God never intended for you to live in bondage.

CELEBRATION RINGERS

Tuesdays, 4:30–5:30 pm, Handbell room ASBURY POWER & LIGHT CO.

Sundays, 8:00–9:15 am, Orchestra room CHILDREN’S CHOIRS

Wednesdays, 6:00–6:50 pm. Available for children age four (by September 1, 2011) through sixth grade. Come learn about God through music as we sing, play instruments, play musical games and prepare our Christmas pageant. ASBURY SINGING AMBASSADORS

Tuesdays, 1:30–3:00, Choir room. Available for senior adults.

SENIOR ADULTS OCTOBER TWEENAGERS PROGRAM AND LUNCHEON

Do you feel like having a good laugh? Diane Sears will present “Laughter Is God’s Medicine” with music by Harriet Roberson. Everyone age 55 and over is welcome to join us from 10:30 am–1:00 pm in the CLC. Lunch is $1.00. No advanced reservations required, but a donation to Tweenagers missions and other expenses is greatly appreciated. Come join us for fun and fellowship!

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OPPORTUNITIES ADULT GAME DAY

Every third Thursday, 1:30–4:00 pm, in room 2821. Attention all adults! How would you like to get together on a regular basis with a wonderful bunch of fun adults and play cards, dominoes, or whatever board or card game you choose? Bring a friend and stay for as long as you like! VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS

Asbury has a unique group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are either homebound or in nursing homes. If you are interested in being visited, call Adrena at 918.392.1144, or contact the coordinator, Linda Pat Colgan, at 918.366.3287 or jsclpc@yahoo.com.

DIVORCE REBUILDING

Thursdays, 7:00–8:30 pm, room 1335 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Childcare available. Contact Jim at divorce-rebuilding@cox.net. COMMUNITIES

Sundays at 9:15 – New Beginnings Class; Sundays at 11:00 – Ambassadors for Christ, Footprints (ladies only), SEGUE, Salt & Light. You are always welcome to join any other communities that are not “Singles Only”, as most are a mix of singles and marrieds.

STUDENTS SENIOR WALK IN THE GYM WITH HIM

Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:30–9:00 am in the gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for power walking, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. Come give it a try. SENIOR SIT AND FIT STRETCHING CLASS

Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00–9:30 am in the Gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for a time of stretching, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. No high impact workout here. We take it nice and easy. SENIOR ADULT MEAL & MOVIE

If you’re 55 years of age or over, our monthly meal and movie day event may be just the “ticket” for you! We get together at a different Tulsa restaurant each month, and then head off to see a “first run” movie. The dates and times vary according to the movie selected, but those who express an interest will be contacted a few days ahead of time so they can make plans accordingly. For more information or to sign up for the call list, contact Sally Wood, sally-wood@sbcglobal.net.

THE STRESSED TEENAGER

Is your child stressed and overwhelmed? Do you feel helpless? Come join this class to better understand and get some good advice for recognizing and dealing with your stressed teenagers. Sunday morning, October 30, in the upstairs blue room in the Venue at 9:15 or 11:00 a.m. All are welcome. 789 GRADE BREAKAWAY – SUNDAY MORNINGS

On Sunday mornings at 9:15 am, we meet in the BAM room (upstairs in the Venue) for a large total group experience of games, worship and teachings from God’s Word. If you like large groups and worship, be there. At 11:00 am, we meet in the green classroom as a smaller group and do a more in depth Bible study. 7 8 9 GRADE BIBLE STUDY

Wednesday night Bible Study is the place to be from 6:30–8:00 pm on Wednesdays. Come to the Student Café and hang out, have fun and study what God’s words has for us. 10TH–12TH SUNDAY MORNINGS @ VENUE 68

On Sunday mornings we meet downstairs in the high school room at 9:15 am for an in-depth Bible Study and discussion. Hope to see you there.

SINGLES SINGLES FALL LUNCHEON

Single Adult luncheon on November 13 from 12:15–1:30 pm in the CLC. Come enjoy food, fun and fellowship with other Christian singles at Asbury. $5.00 per person; kids 10 and under eat free. No reservations required. DIVORCE RECOVERY

Tuesdays, 7:00–8:30 pm, room 1335 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Childcare available. Contact Malia Miller at malia.miller@ sbcglobal.net.

10 11 12 BREAKAWAY

Every Wednesday night we come together for a time of connection and worship. Our desire is to explore who God really is and how our lives matter to Him. We get started around 7:00 pm and wrap up around 8:30. Plan on hanging out afterwards for pizza. 10 11 12 SMALL GROUPS

Get connected. Are you looking for a way to get more connected? Are you looking for a place to grow in your walk with Jesus? Then being a part of a small group is where you need to be. If you are already in a small group, don’t forget to re-sign up for your group. Our small groups meet every Sunday

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OPPORTUNITIES night; times vary. Some of the groups meet in homes and others meet at the church. Call Todd at 918.392.1154 or Amy at 918.392.1156 to get more info.

vacuum! Time is 9:00 am–12:00 noon. No reservations; just get your vehicle in line by 11:30.

10TH–12TH GRADE GUYS RETREAT

Wednesdays from 10:00–11:00 am in room 2319; Rev. Darlene Johnson is the teacher. No childcare available.

WOMEN OF THE WORD

November 5–6. Contact Todd Peterson at 918.392.1154 for details. 7TH–12TH GRADE METRO WORSHIP @ VENUE 68

Come join youth from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus. We meet the first Wednesday of every month from 7:00– 8:30 pm at Venue68. 7TH–12TH GRADE GIRLS ONLY NIGHT

All 7th–12th grade girls, get ready for an awesome night focused on being a young woman of God. Saturday night, November 5. Further details will be coming. COLLEGE COMMUNITY GROUP

Sunday evenings from 7:30–9:00 at the Briggs home. If you are a college-age student we would love to have you come join us. We eat a homemade meal together then open up God’s word. If you have questions please contact Todd Peterson at 918.392.1154 or tpeterson@asburytulsa.org.

VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES GET PLUGGED IN!

Volunteer opportunities have been updated and can be found at the information desks near the main entrances and Venue68. Updates are also posted on the website.

WOMEN UMW OCTOBER UNIT LUNCHEON

Thursday, October 6, 11:30 am–1:00 pm, CLC. When Asbury member and mother, Debbie Mizell, faced a tragic loss, she found grace, strength and compassion that allowed her to reach out to the family of the one responsible for her daughter’s death. Interviewed by Julie Wilson, this example of great loss and greater love is a riveting story you will not want to miss. $7.00 for lunch; no reservations necessary. 1 John 3:11. CAR CARE WORKDAY

Attention Asbury widows and single moms. Car Care Saturday is coming up on November 12. Our Men’s Ministry volunteers will check your tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries, and let you know what needs professional attention. They also wash and

CRAFTY LADIES FELLOWSHIP

Mondays, 9:30 am–1:00 pm, room 2821. Ladies, if you enjoy doing crafts and fellowshipping at the same time, this activity is for you. We gather on Monday mornings to work on our own individual arts and crafts, stop for a delicious pot-luck lunch, and continue on through until 1:00 pm. We have a wonderful time together and would love to have you join us. For more information, contact Betty Seetin, and stop by some Monday and check us out. HOME IMPROVEMENT WORKDAY

Saturday, October 15. The Home Improvement Ministry serves widows and single moms within the Asbury family. Volunteers make themselves available every other month to help with minor home repairs and/or home improvement projects. If you are in need of help, just pick up a request form at a welcome desk and return form at least ten days before the scheduled work day. A Home Improvement volunteer will contact you and make arrangements to get the job(s) done! WORSHIP

8:00 am Communion Service Mason Chapel. Traditional service with music led by Hart Morris. Communion is served and Dr. Harrison preaches. 9:15 am Contemporary Praise & Worship Sanctuary. Contemporary music led by Mark Bennett and team, time of prayer and the message will all carry a prevailing theme for the morning. Dr. Harrison preaches. 9:15 am Open House Worship Community Life Center. A relaxed atmosphere with engaging worship led by Dub Ambrose and team. Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast with an occasional live sermon from another pastor. 11:00 am Traditional Service Sanctuary. The Chancel Choir, the New Covenant Orchestra and various vocal and instrumental ensembles offer a variety of styles of music led by Hart Morris. Dr. Tom Harrison preaches. 11:00 am Modern Service Venue 68. Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by Chris Cleveland and team. Sign interpreters for the deaf are offered. Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast. 6:00 pm Modern Service Venue68. Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by the Ben Kilgore and team. Rev. Spencer Smith preaches.

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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTS

Marriages, Births and Deaths MARRIAGES

DEATHS:

• Jane Margaret Bullock & William Lantz Day Sr. married 8-6-2011 • Haven Ann Hoffman & Brandon Scott Brown married 8-20-2011

BIRTHS: • Zander Ray Benzel born 7-19-2011, son of Marissa Bruce & Steve Benzel. Siblings are Serra, Max, Hannah, Jack, Caden & Mishayla. • McIntyre Lee Abernathy born 8-4-2011, in Denver CO, son of Crystal & Nick Abernathy. Grandparents are Bill & Claudia Abernathy. • William Thomas Burnett Newman born 8-9-2011, son of Martha “Anne” & Gregory “Scott” Newman, big sister is Abigail. • Eve Elizabeth Smith born 8-29-2011, daughter of Abby & Spencer Smith. Big sister is Grace.

• Karumala Mathai John died 7-23-2011, husband of Leela John. Father of Leena John, Matthew John and Leejia Abraham. • John M Schwendimann died 8-3-2011, husband of Merle K Schwendimann. • Martha Wilson died 8-3-2011, wife of Tommy Wilson, mother of Julie Spencer. • Robert “Bob” Doebler died 8-5-2011, husband of Judy. • W. Neil Willits died 8-6-2011, husband of Delores. • Don G Chandler died 8-11-2011, husband of Patricia “Pat” Chandler. Adult children, Cory Chandler & Bret (Roxanne) Chandler & Carol McCloskey. • Allan E Tonding died 8-15-2011. Husband of Marian Tonding. Father of Amy (Bob) Daugherty and grandfather of Allan Cantrell.

Milestone Anniversaries 50 YEARS • Harley & Billie Drake • Roger & LaVonne Fleming

35 YEARS 10/06/61 10/21/61

10/23/76

25 YEARS

40 YEARS • Ed & Teresa Enlow

• Roger & Jan Steffensen

09/29/71

• Jim & Jody Koscielniak

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08/23/86

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTS

Harley & Billie Drake 10/06/61

Roger & LaVonne Fleming 10/21/61

New Members

James and Pat Bailes

Steven Bailes

Don & Nancy Baird

Gene & Dina Carson

Kandice Carson with Kaiden and Kloe

Ann Faubert

Gordon & Christine Gresh

Karen Hidy

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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTS

Karen Judkins

Josh & Kendra Lakey with AnnaBella

Roger & Dixie McClain

Shannan McClain with Brennan Stout

Karla Minardi

Tim & Caroline Neller

Garett Pearce

George & Kelly Reed

Robert Scott

Jeff & Gail Selvidge

Charlotte Stephens

Diane Thompson

John & Kim Barton with John and Evan

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