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BEYoND GiviNG Asbury's Chil dren are Making a Difference
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ast month I talked about young adults and the Church, just one aspect of our ongoing strategic study. This month we will consider another subject under study, one that is providing significant motivation. Weekend worship attendance is an important measurement tracked by most churches. That is true of Asbury and of the UMC in general. After we moved into our new facility in early 2004, we experienced an increase in attendance typical for churches that relocate. Attendance held steady for several years. Over the past several years, however, worship attendance has been slightly decreasing. Membership has continued to increase though at a somewhat slower pace. Declining worship attendance at mainline Protestant churches is a well-known national trend. It is true, measured simply on actual attendance. The decline is even steeper when considered against a significant population increase in the United States. This trend is partially offset by attendance growth in some nondenominational churches. But the net trend is downward. For Asbury this is something new; we are accustomed to a steady increase. An important objective of our study is to understand possible explanations. Our findings can be divided into two groups. The first group of factors are those experienced by other churches as well. That is, they are not specific to Asbury. People are busier than ever. Sometimes Sunday mornings are used for critical rest or for tasks not done during the week. Increasingly, school and sporting events for students are scheduled on Sunday morning, or are scheduled such that travel is required on Sunday. Sermons are available through the Internet and other media. That is often true for sermons of the pastor of the local church but it is also true of nationally known preachers. It is no longer necessary to come to church to hear high-quality sermons that are applicable to your life. Increasingly a person's preference in preaching and music is more specific, ie, niches develop. This will encourage searching for your personal preferences or needs. There is a decreasing number of Christians who believe that frequent, corporate worship attendance is a high priority. This next group of factors are more specific to Asbury though, of course, will apply to other churches also. Because Asbury assigns priority to our global and local outreach ministries, this first point might be surprising. We have a strong outward focus in those ministries but we do not pay as much attention to attracting new people (especially young adults or those who are not believers yet) or creating an environment for them where they feel they are expected and welcomed as our guests. This fact was born out by our internal studies, the Barna study, and a secondary external study. Another factor is that Tulsa has many quality churches for people to consider attending. The demographics of Asbury attendees are such that we are likely to be busier, and travel more for business and pleasure, than is true for the general Tulsa population. Asbury offers many opportunities to engage in ministry, serve, and experience Christian fellowship (adult communities and Grouplink small groups are two examples). As a result, for those with overloaded schedules, there will be times when attending corporate worship will be a lower priority. One example is that when pressed for time some will opt for attending their community or small group rather than worship. Finally, Asbury does not invest as heavily in the weekend worship experience as do some churches. One reason for that is simply historical. It is not how Asbury developed. Another reason is we offer many styles of worship instead of just one on which to focus, meaning that each service requires unique investment. Asbury has multiple generations, requiring different preaching and communication approaches in our services. Some of the factors above, and the list was not exhaustive, are beyond our control. Others are under our control or at least subject to influence on our part. The next step is to decide how to respond to what we have learned. Your prayers and support are requested and appreciated. If you have direct feedback to offer please email me at dyoder@asburytulsa.org. Dwight
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Contents A Word From Tom Harrison Three Asburians We Are Following Family Camp Baptisms The Joy of Life in the Church Thank You Letter Beyond Giving 50 Years of VBS Children's Ministry Interns Murdock Villa Few Words, Many Talents Scripture Lessons for Fathers and Teens Grandpa John Recipes of the Month Opportunities Special Announcements
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We need you! Do you have a story of what God has done in your life? Please contact us and tell us a little bit about what God has done. We will all be encouraged by hearing stories of what God is doing in the lives of those around us. Are you a writer or someone who enjoys writing? The Communications Department is always looking for someone to do an interview and write a story for us for Tidings. Have you noticed that we’ve been making some changes in Tidings? Please give us your feedback— both good and bad. Email kmains@asburytulsa.org or call 918.392.1140. Asbury Tidings is a monthly publications designed to tell stories of lives being transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. You may read back issues by visiting www.asburytulsa.org. Editor: Asbury Communications Department, 918.392.1140, kmains@asburytulsa.org Graphic Design: Tim Jurgensen, tjurgensen@ asburytulsa.org Photography: Mark Moore (mark moore.photo. net), Chris Lo (matchadesign.com), Lori Zeller (zellerphotography@sbcglobal.net) Guest Contributors: Bobby Baker, Holly Brobst, Todd Craig, Juan Cruz, Andy Erwin, Paula Goree, Diane King, Kara Kirby, Barbie Paige, Kim Renkema, Jeff Spatz, Abby Sluice, Charlie Stinson, Eryn Wallis, John Westervelt
A Word From Tom Harrison
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had a “first” a few weeks ago. As a man joined Asbury, he handed me a 1968 baseball card of Steve Carlton. He placed it in a glass holder so the card is protected. His color picture is on the front with his statistics on the back. He pitched in two World Series for the Cardinals. If they had retained him, I’m sure they would have played in more World Series. “Lefty” was traded to the Phillies (one year the Phillies only won 59 games – he won 27 of them). He had a Hall of Fame career – winning four “Cy Young” awards (for the best pitcher). He was traded because the owner of the Cardinals, Gussie Busch, got into a salary dispute with him over a few thousand dollars. The trade ranks as one of the worst in baseball history. Why would I write about this in June’s Tidings? To honor Asbury's 50 years, this month’s magazine is about our Children's Ministry. When I was 9 and 11 years old (1964 and 1966), I saw Steve Carlton pitch in Tulsa at Oiler Park. Tulsa was the AAA affiliate for the Cardinals. When he was called up to the major leagues, he went to St. Louis. Why am I such a St. Louis Cardinals fan? It’s because my dad used to take me to the baseball games there. I remember listening to Mack Creager do his wire-recreation for the Pacific Coast League. This childhood experience has led to a life-long interest and hobby. Dana had to “sign-up” to be a Cardinals fan when we got married. We took my 90 year-old grandfather to a week of games in St. Louis. Our kids went every summer with us to St. Louis to watch the Redbirds play. When Cox and AT&T stopped carrying the Cardinals broadcasts – I switched to a satellite dish company to get the Cardinal games. This baseball connection goes back to my childhood. That bond has only grown through the years (i.e. meeting Terry Rush, the Memorial Drive Church of Christ preacher who is an even BIGGER fan than I am – believe it or not).
Since children are so highly esteemed by Jesus, we must value them as much as He did. “Then little children were brought to Jesus for him to place his hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples rebuked those who brought them. Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.’ When he had placed his hands on them, he went on from there.” (Matthew 19:13-15) Asbury can respond by helping shape the heart of a child. “Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.” (Proverbs 22:6) Just as I was trained to love baseball as a child, I was also trained to know about God. My parents and the church worked together to help me understand the faith. We need this same combination today more than ever to reach young people. I believe that the decisions of a child or a young person can last their entire lives. I invite you to participate fully by volunteering in Asbury’s ministry with children and students. We are never more Christlike than when we do. Dr. Tom Harrison
Asbury and Walt Whitman Elementary Awarded at the Metro Chamber’s Partner in Education Reception Partner of the Year Award from Tulsa Public Schools Asbury’s goal at Walt Whitman Elementary is one of teamwork. It is the "regular" volunteers listening to kids read or having lunch with a student or going on a field trip. But it's also our "as needed" volunteers, like The Cat in the Hat Readers, Second Saturday and Carnival volunteers who come on special occasions. It's many people who have never been to the school—from those who provide the Birthday Blessing Bags, to the ladies who sew the lap quilts or the prayer ministry that prays for needs at the school, to Tweenagers filling emergency backpacks or the Children's ministry collecting books for a giveaway to UMW members donating school supplies and kleenex. It's many groups within Asbury. Thank you to all Asbury volunteers!
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Three Asburians We Are Following For One Year Christian: Thai New Year I would like to introduce you to one of the best-celebrated holidays in the world. Songkran is the name of the Thai New Year, and it lasts for three days officially. Unofficially however, it lasts more like six days. The holiday is celebrated by country-wide water fights. From what we can tell, there are definitely a few minor rules of etiquette that should probably be followed; however, these rules are easily broken and people generally react with a “ha ha, oh well” attitude when it happens. So, essentially there are no rules. You just have the right to soak any person walking around outside anywhere. When you drive down the road, you have to be careful because people are lining the streets with hoses, water guns, and buckets of water… just waiting to soak you.If you're walking along the side of the road, you have to be careful because there are cars driving by armed with buckets of water and water guns who are looking so soak you!! Pray for Christian as he continues to lead his team in ministry in Thailand – a bit more serious than the water festival!
Rachel: Redeemed and Summoned by God’s Name Isaiah 43:1: But now, this is what the LORD says— he who created you, Jacob, he who formed you, Israel: Do not fear, for I have REDEEMED YOU; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. Redemption has been the theme of my past month. I don't think there is a more beautiful theme. The definition of redemption is “the action of saving or being saved from sin, error or evil.” If I really think about it, this has been the theme of my time in South Asia. I am witnessing the redemption of God's people. I spent some time a few weeks at an aftercare home for women who have recently been rescued from sex trafficking. Some of them have been in this home for a few years and some have been there for only a few days. During my time at this home, we made Easter eggs, sang Sunday school songs and shared the resurrection. It was so much fun. As I was spending time with these girls I couldn't help but thank God for his goodness and provision. It is horrific that they were ever in need of being rescued, but GOD DID RESCUE THEM. These girls get to experience freedom and redemption in a way that most of us could never understand. They truly understand their freedom because they have been in horrific bondage, but they are now redeemed. They have been summoned by name. They belong to Him! How beautiful is this news? We serve such a good God. Please continue to keep these recently rescued slaves in your prayers and pray that they can come to know our Lord through their redemption.
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Kayla: Vida Estudiantil and “The Challenge” ¡Hola from Venezuela! I am so excited to tell you all what God did this month through our college ministry at Congreso, our national conference for students. The students ran, slid and rode on each other’s backs as we welcomed them through a relay race. I have never seen so many excited and energized people in my life! They were so happy to be there with their friends. The theme of this national conference was “El Desafío,” or “The Challenge.” Our main motivation for this week was to challenge the students to take steps of faith and trust God with new ways that they can live for Him and His glory. Some students were challenged to share their faith. Some to start discipling others. For some, their challenge was to be sent to share the Gospel with the nations, whether that is on their campuses, with their families or around the world. Many students are taking the challenge to do that in Panama and the Amazons this summer! God blessed me sweetly by showing me students who I’ve been pouring into all year come to Congreso to take their “Desafíos,” or "Challenges." You might remember me telling you about Marbelis, an engineering student here in Valencia who wasn’t sure about her faith when I first met up with her. When I first talked to her about God and her beliefs, she was a little skeptical and wary of anything concerning Christianity. After God graciously worked in her heart this year, she came to Congreso with a passion to serve Jesus and grow in her faith. On April 6th, Marbelis decided to be baptized. Now she wants to go to Panama and share the hope she has in Jesus with others! Liliana, an education student who I’ve been discipling, came to Congreso with our friend Virginia. God provided all they needed to come. Liliana told me that she felt that God was challenging her to find her joy in Him and to also take the step of faith to disciple someone else in our movement so that her faith doesn’t stop with her. She told me she is excited to become a leader in that way. Virginia told me that she felt God was challenging her to give Him the top priority in her life. God worked in powerful ways in the lives of Venezuelan college students. They are ready to share the love of Jesus with Venezuela, and they are also taking their faith to the world!
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Family Camp by Andy and Nicholas Erwin
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here aren’t enough great things I can say about the 5.6 grade Family Camp. For this to be only an overnight retreat, I was amazed at the blessings Nick and I received from it. God’s power and majesty is so great. He doesn’t need a week to do His work. Twenty-four hours is just about right. Nick and I have pretty much a typical father-son relationship. We’re both into sports, roughhousing, music, driving mom crazy… and did I mention sports? So, last year when we saw the sign up for Family Camp, a tough and rugged weekend, we knew it would be perfect for the two of us. We were ready to leave mom at home and have an all-guy weekend (even though there would be girls and other moms there). Nick had never been to camp before. So again, this was the perfect “starter camp” for him, only one night away from home. I had been to camp growing up. So I knew pretty much what to expect. Growing up Baptist, I went to Falls Creek nine years in a row through youth group and as a sponsor. But for Nick, this was all new to him. I think he had an idea what camp was but had never experienced it. Family Camp certainly isn’t a weeklong, chigger infested, unbearable heat, type of camp. It’s in early spring… a quick drive over to Tahlequah Friday after school then it’s over Saturday evening. Heart o’ the Hills (Salvation Army) is the official name of the camp. It is a perfect little setting in a perfect little place on the banks of the Illinois River. It was quite the experience to watch Nick’s expressions as we arrived. We pretty much had the run of the camp. There may have been one other small group there as well, but our paths never really crossed. It was very cool to have this area almost exclusively to us. Right away, before dinner, we were given an activity to do together. As a kid, “free time” is all that is important to you. But as a parent, I was impressed with the amount of activities planned in such a short period of time, all structured to give important one-on-one
time between you and your child. A quick dinner and a lesson in the dining hall, and it was time for a campfire. You can’t go to camp without a campfire. Don’t even think about a campfire without smores. We had it all! I think I knew it was going to be a great weekend, not just a good one, there at the campfire. We started singing praise and worship songs to the Lord. Really for the first time I saw my son praising God on his own. He would lift his 11-year-old hands toward the heavens singing the songs he knew from Sunday morning class. I was overwhelmed with pride, joy and satisfaction. I was bursting from within. What a blessing I was receiving! Saturday was filled with more lessons, activities and fun time… including a ropes course that we both thought was AWESOME! But when we look back at our favorite time during our stay there, we both REALLY liked our scheduled Prayer Walk. This was a chance for us to take a walk together in this beautiful place, stopping along the way to pray for different things. We would alternate praying. I would pray for one subject like our family. Then the next stop, Nick would pray for school and work. I have heard my son pray before at the dinner table and in bed at night, but this was different. It wasn’t a ritual prayer. This time it was different. He was actually talking to our Creator with meaningful thoughts and conversation. Again, blown away! This experience was only matched by one other activity. The children were off on a lesson while the parents were told to write a letter to their child. We were told to make it personal. I told Nick in my letter how much I was looking forward to seeing him grow up, go to high school, then a college student, get married, and God willing, be a parent. I was so very proud of him and all the things he had already accomplished. The kids later received this letter and then we came back together for one last lesson and praise. There were tears in my son’s eyes after reading the letter. I thought the letter was nice and all, but I didn’t realize it would mean so much to him. My wife later told me that Nick never knew I had those feelings about him. Being a dad and a parent isn’t always easy and decisions we make aren’t always the ones our children want. This letter wasn’t Dad saying NO again. It was saying all that is right with him. I can’t say enough about the wonderful children leaders we have at Asbury. To pack so much into such a small window of time is amazing. They are very good at what they do. Family Camp was an experience that allowed me to become a kid again while watching my kid experience new things and grow closer to God. Thank you to Asbury and to our Heavenly Father and Savior.
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chil dren's Baptisms Ashley Goforth Baptized January 15 10 years old I came to know Christ through the Bible and going to church. I had been talking with my friends who had been baptized and decided I wanted to be baptized. I talked to my mom about it and we set up an appointment with the church to talk about being baptized. My dad, mom, sister and two friends came to watch me be baptized. I talked to my friends about me being baptized; now they want to be baptized. At school I participate in Pom Squad with Union schools and am involved in martial arts. I enjoy running, bike riding and fishing.
Taylor Rhoton
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I told the other kids at church the day I was getting baptized because I was so excited. The Sunday school teachers and other kids were excited for me when I told them. At Asbury, my parents are involved with Small Groups through their community Covenant, and I get to play with another one of the other couple’s little girl every week. Her name is Zoe, and we’ve become good friends. I look forward to seeing her every week.
Baptized January 15 7 years old
I go to ballet class every week and we’re performing a ballet of Sleeping Beauty this summer, and I get to be a forest fairy. Last fall I played soccer, and I got a trophy.
I learned about Jesus at church and home. I wanted to be baptized so I could be with Jesus. He's my Lord and I want to praise Him. After I was baptized, it felt like I was with God. Being with God means spending time with Him and getting to know Him better. My family was with me, and we went
I’m in second grade. My best friend lives in the house behind my house, and we like to play outside and pretend we are cooking. I just turned eight years and went to the zoo with my mom and my grandparents and got my nails done with my mom and she let me get a design. I got a butterfly, and it looks very cute! My family went to eat at a special restaurant where the food is cooked in front of you. I got to help cook the dinner!
At Asbury, I sing along with God's songs and say my Club House Pledge that I learned at Sunday School. I take Cherokee class and was in the spelling bee. I play kickball with my friends. I'm on the soccer team and I am a Girl Scout. Art is my talent. I like to draw.
Brianna McConnell Baptized February 26 8 years old I learned about God by going to church with my family. I learned about God in my Sunday school class and from my parents. I’ve been going to Asbury since I was 3. I decided to be baptized because God tells us too. I thought about it a long time and
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talked to my mom and dad about it. My mom and dad were in the back with me. My aunts and uncles and all my grandparents were in the church to watch me be baptized. It was amazing and very exciting because I finally got baptized and learned more about God. I learned that day that God always loves us. That day I just felt happy and excited. After the service, my family went out to lunch at the Cheesecake Factory. The church gave me a photo of my baptism, and I’m going to put it in a photo frame on my shelf.
Jaimie Lynn Gray Baptized March 25 10 years old I decided to be baptized because I just wanted God to come in my heart. I met with Pastor Charlie Ryser to talk about it and understood even more about what baptism really was. My family was there, my mother and dad, my brother, stepmom, and my step grandma and grandpa. We didn’t plan anything special for afterwards. At school my favorite thing is going to the gym where we play games, play soccer and kickball, and climb the rope. After school, I just like coming home and watching tv.
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of those ‘Get Out of Jail Free’ cards? Well, if you get baptized, this is your ‘Get Out of Hell’ card.” I sat there a little surprised because I was happy about this but couldn’t believe Pastor Jim said a bad word in church ("hell").
Baptized April 15 8 years old My name is Ethan and I'm 8 years old. I accepted Jesus when I was about 5 when a good friend of mine told me about Jesus, and we prayed together at her house. My mom had been talking about what baptism is, and when she took me to another friend’s baptism I knew I wanted to do that. I was very excited to be baptized - I counted down the days leading up to it. What I remember most about that day was being NERVOUS! My heart was pounding; my whole family was there watching me. My pastor (Pastor Dub) recognized me in our church service right after my baptism and prayed over me. A little about me: I'm in 2nd grade and I love to spend time with my family: fishing and hunting with my dad (I love duck hunting!); playing soccer (I want to play goalie); wrestling with my brother and finding turtles and snakes in the woods! One of my favorite things to do is have a big family breakfast my mom cooks on Saturday morning of pancakes, all sitting around the table at our house. [note: "family" is Brian (dad) Amber (mom) Ian (brother, 11) Kate (sister 5)]
My 14-year old sister Alyssa and I were going to be baptized on the same day. When they called my name, I stepped down shaking all over. But when I got in the water and sat down on the stool, I thought, “Wow, the water is warm.” As I was sitting there I couldn’t stop thinking that I can’t wait to meet God someday. When I got out of the water, it was an amazing feeling. My mom and dad were also up in the baptism room with us taking pictures. It was a very special feeling having my whole family with me. All of my other family members from both sides were in the audience watching. The next day I told my friends all about my baptism. I told them why I wanted to be baptized. Their response to me was that they were baptized when they were babies, and they wished they would have waited until they were older so they would know more about Him and understood the real meaning. At Asbury I have participated in Summer Song, the children’s choir and VBS. In May, I graduated from 5th grade at Park Lane Elementary in Broken Arrow and was awarded the Fine Arts Student of the Year. I was President of the Student Council, a member of the Super Stars choir, the National Elementary Honor Society, and the Pioneer News Network. I also do competitive gymnastics.
Alexis Brashears
Will Sorrels
Baptized January 15 11 years old
Baptized March 25 12 years old
When I was younger we visited many different churches trying to find the right one for our family. I really felt like I couldn’t connect and that I wasn’t learning things I should know about the Bible. Then my mom got a job at Asbury, and we started attending church. When we went to our first Easter service, I really learned what Jesus did for us. He died on the cross and was raised from the dead. I also learned that God gave His only Son to the world.
My desire had always been to be baptized on my 12th birthday. I had originally wanted Pastor Tom to do my baptism, but since it was spring break, that just didn’t work out. I was all right with that; it was more important to me to be baptized near my birthday than who was going to do the actual baptism. Since my parents’ divorce, I had grown much closer in my relationship with Christ but wanted that relationship to grow even stronger. I felt like being baptized was the next step I needed to take.
After hearing this story I wanted to learn more. I got a Bible for my age, and instead of reading regular books, I started reading the Bible on my own. That is when I realized I wanted to be baptized. After reading my Bible I learned that God is the ruler over us. I couldn’t wait to go to heaven to meet and see Jesus, and to thank him for all He has done for me and the world. Before the baptism, I met with Pastor Jim Lenderman. He asked me, “Have you ever played Monopoly? Have you ever gotten one
My two brothers and mother were there with me. Afterwards, we went out to eat to celebrate. To commemorate the baptism, my mother purchased a cross for me. On the back is engraved “Promises kept.” That pretty well summarizes how I felt about that day. I attend Holland Hall and enjoy both lacrosse and soccer.
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by Jeff Spatz
I could feel all of the kids kicking and Ricinda and I shared a laugh as I placed my hand on her belly during service that morning in 1996. We had started to attend Asbury with more regularity anticipating the impending arrival of our triplets. That morning we had been “poled” in the old sanctuary on Sheridan and were having some difficulty seeing Tom preach, but we shared a private moment of joy and blessing as the kids awakened and danced. It was spring and it seemed that the world was filled with infinite possibilities. Both Ricinda and I had been raised in the church—she Lutheran and I United Methodist. We had always known that we had wanted our children to be raised with the same values and faith that held a place in our lives so we had joined Asbury. We were starting to feel a part of the Asbury family and would get the occasional nod of recognition as members remembered seeing us from weeks past. We had enjoyed the exploration lunch and taken the obligatory tour of the building with Dick Read who to this day doesn’t know that his humor and smile had such a welcoming effect on us. The day we joined Asbury, we knew we were bringing several children with us – and were glad we had picked a great village to help us raise our impending brood. So, on this day as the tulips bloomed, all seemed right with the world, and I knew that God loved me and had a special plan for Ricinda, me and our approaching three.
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July 6, 1996 Ricinda and I sat for yet another day at Hillcrest hospital. She had been in the hospital for several days in preterm labor that would not stop. I still remember the OB’s words as he said, “I’m sorry—that’s the ballgame.” I felt like someone had reached into my chest and physically ripped my heart out. We cried inconsolably as we realized that Betty, John Ross and Gwendolyn would not be coming home with us. They just wouldn’t hold off coming any longer, and we knew they were too young to survive. Our parents were already on their way from out of state and my next thought was to call the church, just as church goin’ folk have done for hundreds of years. You gather your family and call the preacher when someone goes to be with Jesus. Pastor Tom didn’t know us well at that point, and he arrived late on a Saturday afternoon at our hospital room. I was surprised to learn that there is a special baptism service for stillborn infants. Tom baptized each of the kids with the same care that he shows every Sunday morning and, with tears streaming all around, we committed our children to the Lord. Strangely enough that day I never felt like the Lord had forgotten me. Instead, I had to believe that somewhere in that horrible day
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there was a plan, and less than a year later as my daughter Emma lay curled up in my arms. A scrawny little thing, she came home from the hospital at 5 pounds 1 ounce, I couldn’t decide if she looked more like the most beautiful girl in the world or a fruit bat.
and I were the odd Sunday room leaders for one of the 4 year old classrooms (no pun intended). One Sunday Kim Renkema came to our classroom and caught us before service, and then it happened… we were the first volunteers in a church to ever be fired. It seemed that there was another couple who were willing to do both odd and even Sundays, if we didn’t mind stepping aside. We knew we could find another way to stay involved, and it wasn’t long before Heidi Sanchez approached us with a bit of information she had picked up from the grapevine. “Oh by the way,” she said grinning eagerly, “I understand that the two of you may have some drama experience.” With that, our secret was out. Both of us had been theatre majors in college, and there was no use denying it. She and Kim wondered if we would mind leading big group and doing drama for the children. It seems that it’s even harder to get people to get up and act before a crowd of children than it is to get someone to teach a class and follow the prepared curriculum.
Losing a child can alter your thinking and behaviors. In our house it yielded some strange practices. Some parents diligently check on their children as they sleep and nearly panic if they realize that the baby has nor cried in several hours. I never did this, because I felt as if everything was ok if I didn’t know otherwise. I was not anxious to rush into another devastating situation. (see the Heisenberg effect.) We wanted to have Emma baptized in front of the entire congregation as soon as possible. We learned what a special thing it is to commit your children to the Lord and to the spiritual care of hundreds of Asbury members. Two years later Claire was born, and we again called on Tom to do the honors. Our family was growing and together we had found a church home. It was time to start volunteering in children’s ministry and helping out in the classrooms on Sunday mornings. Being crammed in the parlor at the old church with kindergarteners was challenging, but I could color a drawing of the resurrection with the best of them and had become a true pro at getting finger-paint out of a white dress shirt. We also added another daughter to the mix. Cora had come, and we had the three children that we had expected years before. Due to an unexpected bout of the stomach flu for momma and baby, Cora’s baptism had to be postponed for a few weeks. Because of other events scheduled for the service her baptism was scheduled immediately following the 11 o’clock service. Tom invited the congregation to stay if they wished, and I remember being pleasantly surprised at how many people we didn’t know personally decided to come down front and join us. At this point we were beginning to realize how much Tom really enjoys babies in general, and baptisms specifically. He even left the stage to take Cora around and show her off to the congregation. Claire – then 3 -didn’t think much of the idea, and demanded that Pastor Tom bring her Mommy’s baby back to us. She didn’t realize that the congregation was part of our family. With the move to the new building and the expansion of children’s classes, we became even more involved. We moved from being room helpers to being room leaders on Sunday morning. Ricinda
During that time we grew very close to many of the wonderful staff members in children’s ministry. On Sundays we would get in front of the children and put our spin on the Bible story for that day. It was great fun to watch the staff scream when I would walk in with a running chain saw to explain the story of the vine and the branches to the children. I enjoyed the stunned look on the faces of the staff when I would do something outlandish to make a point for the kids. In turn, they enjoyed deciding that lesson of the week was on circumcision so they would let us handle it. Eventually even security stopped getting up to approach us when I would walk into the children’s area carrying an axe or giant snake. We were having a great time, but all the while, a most amazing thing was happening. We were connecting with kids. By using our talents, making them laugh and engaging them in a different way, we were bringing the Word to these kids, and they were remembering the stories from the Bible. As for me, as I was writing the scripts for our Sunday morning skits, it was the first time that I had ever taken multiple translations of the Bible and looked at them side by side. My understanding was much deeper because I would read scholarly articles regarding the verses that we were presenting. Ricinda and I worked on Sunday mornings and Wednesday nights. She worked with choir and programming and I was the de facto children’s ministry tech
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department. Special events, overnights and VBS rounded out our scheduled Asbury activities. Asbury had truly become our church home and the Children’s Ministry staff and volunteers had become our community. We worked together, cried together over the loss of family or setbacks in the lives of the kids to whom we ministered and shared in the joy of bringing another generation into the life of the Church. Then in 2006, a strange thing happened and surely won’t happen again. Ricinda gave birth to A BOY! Hazah; I had a son. After the customary Spatz kid stay in NICU we had our little man to take home, and there was our community of Children’s Ministry staff to welcome him into the nursery. We also wanted them to be with us at his baptism, but Sunday morning is not the best time for 8 or 10 staff members and volunteers to walk away from their assigned duties and attend a baptism in the sanctuary. Not to be deterred, we came up with a great idea! We would hold Will’s baptism at Wednesday Night Live, the kids worship service held in the chapel on Wednesday evenings. It’s loud and fun and a great mid week spiritual pick-me-up for the kids and adults alike. Not sure how Tom would react when asked if he would come to the chapel on a Wednesday night to baptize Will, we quickly learned that Pastor Tom will walk uphill barefoot in the snow to baptize an infant.
love the Lord. Our extended family was there, our faith community of Children’s Ministry was there and Pastor Tom was there to lay hands and water on our 7th child. My hair is all gone now and the beard is turning gray but we’re as involved as ever. VBS is on its way and there’s always another event activity to be part of. Emma is a freshman in high school now and will be up front with dad for VBS this year. She is truly an outreach wonder always bringing someone else to church and telling many people about her faith. Our four children are God’s gift to us, and I feel that God has entrusted to me, at least for a little while, the care and nurture of the children of Asbury. I always come back to Proverbs. “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” I now know that the plan that God had for us wasn’t just showing our kids the way but setting a whole generation on the right road.
That night we gathered together with our extended family in front of 80 children as well as those whom we had come to regard as our church community and dedicated William to the Lord and all there promised to “Order our lives after the example of Christ… and raise this child in the way that leads to life eternal.” It was a very special time. Many of the children there hadn’t been at a baptism since their own, but that night they learned how we welcome children into the life of the church and how every one of us is charged to bring up the generations behind us to know and
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BEYoND GiviNG by Abby Sluice
Each month in the elementary-aged classrooms of Children’s Ministry, our students focus on a different virtue, learning that a virtue is something God does in us to change the world around us. For the month of May, our virtue was responsibility. Every Sunday’s lesson built on the idea that responsibility is showing you can be trusted with what’s expected of you. The memory verse that was used throughout the month was, “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much,” Luke 16:10. Long before last month’s lessons were even taught, two fourth grade students from our Belong 4.5 classroom showed, on more than one occasion, they can be trusted to make the most of what God has given them. Racheal Yadon and Andrew Carter both have ties to the Carpenter’s Workshop community, led by Chuck and Connie Coggins. In addition to leading this community, the Coggins are also missionaries. Chuck is president of HELPS, a humanitarian
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organization designed to bring health, education, leadership and planning services to people all around the world. Since 2005, they have worked with the Father’s House ministries in Ruiru, Kenya. The Father’s House provides a home and schooling to children through 8th grade. In Kenya, public education stops in 8th grade and continued education requires tuition. In November, 2011 the Coggins learned that the Father's House did not have the money to pay for the seven children in their home that would be eligible for high school; seven children that had become part of the HELPS family. While the adults of the Carpenter’s Workshop worked on ways to support the children, so did Racheal and Andrew. With Christmas fast approaching, Racheal knew she would be getting her annual
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gift of $200 from her grandfather. In the past, that money had been used to buy the latest electronic toy. Not so this year. Without blinking an eye, Racheal donated her entire Christmas gift to support the children in Kenya. Her mother, Mary, told me that Racheal “did not want praise or recognition for this. She just wanted to make sure those kids were safe and did not have to go back to the terrible situations that they had come from”. When Racheal was asked what led her to donating her money, she continued that sentiment and added, “I couldn’t imagine being homeless and by myself in the 9th grade! I decided I have enough toys and things and they needed the money more than me!” Andrew had similar feelings. In February, Andrew celebrated his 10th birthday. He knew that not only would his family celebrate his birthday but that he would be having a party with his friends. Following the example his older sister set when she was younger, Andrew decided that he would ask his friends not to bring presents to the party, but instead, donations to help the children in Kenya. He thought he might collect just over $100. He had no idea that he would raise $215, which is what he presented to the Carpenter’s Workshop on February 29th. Was this the first time that Racheal and Andrew had done something like this? The answer is no. A few years ago, Racheal
donated her life savings ($65) to Kids Against Hunger and made other donations to HELPS to buy Christmas clothes for the children at Father’s House. Racheal’s monetary donations are not the only way she serves. She has volunteered at Murdock Villa assisted living (a monthly outreach that 4th-6th graders participate in) and worked on the church wide 9/11 day of service. She says she “loved doing both” and “learned that even if you’re just a kid that you can make a difference. Every little bit helps”. Andrew echoes those sentiments, saying that “just the thought of helping others” makes him “feel good inside and out.” And, sometimes helping others means taking a pie in the face. For two years, Andrew has sold raffles that have entitled the winner to throw a pie in his face. The money collected is then donated to the Jenks Community Food Bank. The first year, he ended up raising $105. Word soon spread through family and friends, and this past fall, the raffle raised $487. Like Racheal, Andrew wasn’t looking for praise or recognition for his actions. In his own words, “the Bible says it is better to give than to receive.” A virtue is something God does in us to change the world around us. Clearly, God is doing something in both Racheal and Andrew that is changing the world around them.
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Vacation Bible School. When you hear those words, what comes to your mind? Did you attend VBS every summer while you were growing up? Was it where you had your first real encounter with Jesus? Do you ever think of your favorite teachers at VBS and the impact they had on your life? When Asbury was founded, the mission of the children’s ministry was “to supplement the family in its effort to lay spiritual foundations so that all children know, love and follow Jesus.”* The programs for children were always a priority, from the first days at Key Elementary to the present. This included not only classes on Sunday, but quickly expanded to include VBS. The first summer the congregation was in the newly dedicated church building on Sheridan, a VBS was held. That was June 1966. Jean Hackler was the director, but she was assisted by our pastor emeritus, Bill Mason.
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From that humble beginning, VBS at Asbury has continued to grow. In 2011, there were 767 children attending, led by the children’s programming team as well as a leadership team of 33 adults, 208 adult volunteers, and 178 teen volunteers. Those who have been here for several years will tell you about some big highlights during worship like having our own “Indiana Jones” repel down from the catwalks or actually feeling it rain in the sanctuary. There were mascots like giant snowmen, giant chickens or even an astronaut. VBS mission projects have ranged from collecting shoes for people in Tanzania to collecting money to collecting boxes for operation Christmas Child. One year, significantly more money than our goal was raised and Fred Sanchez shaved his head, thereby sparking a large group of girls to donate their hair to Locks of Love. At every VBS, mountains of crafts are created and snacks are devoured, but the underlying goal of VBS is the same as all of children’s ministries—that children be made aware of, and grow in, their understanding of God. We hear over and over from our youth that VBS was the point where they made this commitment. Research shows that a person’s moral foundations are generally in place by the time they reach age nine. After that they tend to refine their views on truth, integrity, justice, and morality but their foundations have been set early. VBS is a place we can set them up for a foundation in Christ for the rest of their life. One such child was Melissa Renkema. She was five years old. She and her leader went to find her mother, both had tears in their eyes. Melissa had prayed a prayer and given her life to Christ forever.
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Even at that age she began to understand what it means to believe in Jesus Christ. As she continued learning and being mentored, she grew to understand even more what it means to become a disciple of the Living God and to belong to the family of God. Another young lady who was impacted was Lindsey Saul. When she was just 6 or 7 years old and attending VBS, she gave her heart to Jesus during worship time at family fun night when they sang songs for their parents. She remembers being really excited. She didn’t fully understand the decision then, but has gained more understanding now after maturing here at Asbury. She is so grateful that she had the opportunity hear about Jesus at VBS and prays for the kids who will be attending this year. Jordan Burdick has always attended Asbury VBS as a kid and is now a teen helper. After VBS 2011 where she spent weeks learning the drama and performing it over and over each day of VBS, she posted this on her Facebook: I wondered, "Why do all of these kids want us to sign their shirts? We're not famous! We're hot, exhausted and would love to take a break! What's the point?" Then a little girl
walked up to me and told me that after our skit, she chose to follow Jesus. Suddenly, it wasn't a burden, but a blessing. Each year Asbury has the privilege to sponsor children from the Youth at Heart program to attend VBS with us. The YaH van picks these children up from apartment complexes in Tulsa and transports them to VBS each day. One year a sixth grade girl was so impacted by the week of VBS that she wanted to return on the last night for our family fun night. Because her mother wasn’t able to bring her, she walked to Asbury so that she wouldn’t miss the closing program. VBS. Yes, it’s a place to have fun. But more importantly, it provides an environment where God comes first and where each child’s relationship with God is a top priority. The joy of a solid friendship with Jesus is reflected in every activity. *Page 189, The Heritage of Asbury United Methodist Church
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Chil dren's Ministry Interns by Eryn Wallis and Kay Mains
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nterns play a valuable role in all areas of Asbury, and the children’s ministry is no exception. Many of these students grew up at Asbury, gaining a foundation of faith for their lives. Coming back to the children’s ministry as interns, they are able to give back to the church and sow into the lives of the children here. But internship provides more than just a fun experience. It is a chance for these students to learn and discover a new interest or find a career they had never seriously considered. This hands-on work experience may eventually become part of their resume. Asbury is able to provide them with an environment to relate their classroom experience, combined with what they learned at home and at church, in real-life situations. They learn about responsibility. And caring. And how to handle stressful situations. And they gain confidence in their ability to handle “life.” One of our interns, Sarah Danks, tells us her parents met in the singles group, so she has been a part of Asbury since birth. Jamie Landers’ family was also here before she was born. Josiah Lynn is a “newcomer,” as he has only been here since second grade! Sarah Lesikar recalls finally getting old enough to climb the rock wall. Katie Cornett talks about how much she loved the music and crafts at VBS. All of them desire to impart that excitement into the kids they work with. What’s the best part about interning in the children’s ministry? Well, according to Andrea Lenhart, it’s getting to stay involved at Asbury and getting to know the kids. Madison Barnes sums it up
as, “It’s the joy of the little kids. They are happy all the time. I love to see it. I can’t come to work as an intern without leaving happy.” Bailey Amis adds, “It’s a good chance to get out of the youth building and really get to know the rest of the church.” They understand the importance of the children’s ministry here at Asbury: Megan McTigue: “It gives the kids a foundation for their faith. If they don’t have something to build on, it could set the tone for the rest of their lives. We are here to lead kids to Jesus and prepare them for a true relationship with Him.” Marcus Shields: “It shapes the future of the church and potentially the WORLD!” Madison Barnes: “It’s the very first thing that you get into. It’s your very first introduction to church, God, community and fellowship. It’s a stepping stone. It’s very important.” Asbury has always placed a strong emphasis on providing an environment where God comes first and where each child’s relationship with God is given top priority. Now, we are seeing the fruits of that ministry in the interns we have raised up. Traditions, crafts, music, and even the way we reference Bibles may change, but God still blesses those who train His children: parents, teachers, volunteers and interns.
Back row: Sarah Danks, Jamie Landers, Alex Perkins, Megan McTigue, Marcus Shields Front row: Katie Cornett, Madison Barnes, Sarah Lesikar, Andrea Lenhart, Nicole Renkema, Jeneva Lynn
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urdock Villa. If you spend any time in the elementary wing of Children’s Ministry, you will hear the monthly visits to this assisted living residence being advertised and talked about. So, what exactly is Murdock Villa and what does it mean to the 4th-6th grade children of Asbury? Murdock Villa is a public housing complex operated by the Housing Authority of the City of Tulsa. Residents of Murdock Villa have varying physical and mental disabilities. Children’s Ministry of Asbury has been faithfully serving these residents for the past eight years. Once a month, a group of no more than 10-12 students and two staff travel to Murdock Villa and spend the afternoon serving a group of residents a snack, assisting them with a seasonal craft project, and finally, end the day with four, intense games of BINGO. If you think I’m being dramatic, you need only come one Sunday to see what I say is true. The residents like things done a certain way and are not shy to let you know if you have forgotten something (never will I make the mistake of forgetting scissors and glue sticks again!) or are not calling the numbers for BINGO loud enough. Before you get the wrong idea of our Murdock friends, they are also very quick to offer our children a smile and thank you for coming each month. They remember, month to month, who visited and ask after those they haven’t seen in awhile. The residents of Murdock Villa obviously look forward to the monthly visit. But as always, when you give, you also receive the blessing.
• Malik Harry, 6th grade: “My favorite part about serving is “BINGO!” (Let the record show that Malik is one of the residents’ favorite BINGO callers. They really enjoy his loud, clear voice.) • Alex Ewing, 5th grade: “ Through going to Murdock, I learned that I like being around older people.” • Sadie Cramer, 5th grade: "Serving at Murdock Villa, I know that I am there to serve others, not just for my own fun or enjoyment. I go there knowing that I will have to work, but I like it because I can see the results in the happy faces of the people. I want to bring that joy and the love of Christ to other people in other places. I am excited about going to serve on missions around Tulsa and around the world." • Sean Bowdle, 4th grade: “Serving at Murdock has made me more eager to serve in other places like 2nd Saturday.” • Anna McMullen, 4th grade: “My favorite part is talking and getting to know the people.They are really sweet!” • Trenton Dale, 4th grade: “Since serving at Murdock, I learned that I can be kind and generous.” It is clear that our students get just as much out of our visits to Murdock as the residents. By allowing our children to participate in missions while they are still young, we’re enabling them to not only learn what Jesus calls us to do but to put it into action. For more information on how your child can become involved, contact Abby Sluice at asluice@asburytulsa.org or 918.392.4583
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by Holly Brobst
“God opposes the proud, but shows favor to the humble.” – James 4:6 As I started my interview with Dr. Rex Smith, one thing was clear: he is a humble man. A man of few words who assured me he is not very interesting. “I would think that I’m a hard interview,” Dr. Smith explained. “I really don’t talk a lot.” As I finished my interview, another thing was very clear, he was wrong. Dr. Smith, a retired dentist, practiced right here in Tulsa for 40 years, raised his family here and continues to constantly give back to the community. Retirement certainly hasn’t slowed him down. Turns out, he’s quite the chef, a master gardener, an avid tennis player, a “life master” in bridge and most importantly, the owner of Lucy, a goldendoodle who undoubtedly keeps him young. Lucy, named after Lucille Ball for her red hair and curly top knot, was adopted 5 years ago. “When I retired, I was looking for things to do,” explains Dr. Smith. “Having a therapy dog was one of them.” After obedience school and the completion of PAWS (Pets Are Working Saints), a six month program for therapy dogs offered at Asbury, Lucy and Dr. Smith got to work. Every week the duo makes their rounds at Clarehouse, a home that provides hospice services. They also make a monthly stop at Little Light House, which serves families of children with special needs. “Lucy has a nice smile,” Dr. Smith says. “So in turn, she makes everybody happy.”
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To end their weeks, they stop by Asbury, not just to visit Smith’s wife, Mary Ann, the Director of Global Missions, but to, according to Dr. Smith, “therapy the staff”. “He loves Lucy so much.” Mary Ann Smith says, “He can’t understand there might be somebody else that wouldn’t love a dog as much as he does. So he took it upon himself to start visiting the church staff.” Volunteering is in his blood; and Lucy’s too. Aside from their therapy work, Dr. Smith, a master gardener, takes Lucy to Global Gardens, an after-school program in partnership with Union Public Schools and Asbury. The program is dedicated to empowering students and communities through hands-on science education. “The students plant gardens. But they do more than that,” he explains. “They are basically mentored to make decisions, to figure out costs, they learn life skills. It’s a good program over there.” While Dr. Smith gets down and dirty helping plant flowers, construct raised beds and anything else they need, Lucy runs the 10-acres, taking in all the attention she can get. On other days, their gardening skills are put to use at the Linnaeus Teaching Gardens. Dr. Smith describes the gardens as one of the gems of Tulsa that everyone should see. There, he joins nearly 250 other Linnaeus gardeners, where he pulls weeds and plants flowers every week. While therapy and gardening are passions of his, Dr. Smith admits
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his greatest passion is cooking. He’s earned a reputation for being an incredible chef and pie maker. He even jokes about his past mission work, “I’ve been on several mission trips as a dentist, but probably more as a cook.” He now puts his chef’s hat on once a month as a volunteer for Free International Lunch (FIL), an outreach to international students at The University of Tulsa. When he’s not cooking for them, he’s whipping up gourmet meals at home. His wife Mary Ann (literally) eats it up, “It’s wonderful to come home and have dinner already fixed. He does not like to make salads, though. I make the salads and he makes everything else. I think he just thinks it’s too much trouble.” Dr. Smith says his favorite dish to cook is Shrimp Boil. It’s a combination of shrimp, corn, potatoes and sausage all in one pot.
Then, it’s poured onto a table with newspaper and eaten with your fingers. For dessert, he and Mary Ann both agree, nothing beats his Coconut Meringue Pie, best when served hot. As a dentist, he sees no contradiction with baking pies and keeping a healthy smile. He says the bigger concern is with the scale. Mary Ann would agree, “Coconut Meringue pie is one of my absolute favorites! I just try to be very careful about how much of it I eat, because he makes it fairly frequently and it’s not very kind to my waistline.” Active members of Asbury for more than 40-years; The Smiths are very involved in their church community, Dr. Smith volunteers as an usher on Sunday mornings and this month the couple will jet off to Estonia on one of their many mission trips. Boring? I don’t think so.
Coconut Meringue Pie Crust 1 ½ Cups Flour 3 Tbsp Sugar ½ Tsp Salt 6 Tbsp Butter
2 Tbsp Crisco 4 Tbsp Ice Water 4 Tbsp Vodka*
Mix together flour, sugar, salt, butter and Crisco. Add ice water and vodka. Roll out crust and form in pie pan, bake at 450 for 12-15 minutes, then at 350 for an additional 12 minutes.
Filling ¼ Cup Corn Starch ¾ Cups Sugar 2 ½ Cups Milk ½ Cup Cream
3 Egg Yolks (save egg whites for topping) 1 Tbsp Butter 2 Tsp Vanilla 2 Cups Shredded Coconut
Mix corn starch and sugar in pot on stove over medium heat. Stir in milk, cream and egg yolks. Bring it to a boil, let boil over medium heat for one minute (until it thickens), then remove from heat and add butter, vanilla and coconut. Pour filling into baked pie crust.
Meringue Topping 3-4 Egg Whites 2 Tbsp Sugar
Pinch of Cream of Tartar Shredded Coconut
Whip eggs, sugar and cream of tartar until stiff. Add meringue topping to pie and sprinkle shredded coconut over the top. Bake all together for an additional 8-10 minutes at 350, until topping browns. *Vodka tip from Dr. Rex Smith: Too much liquid in pie crust will make the crust tougher after it bakes. Vodka gives you the liquid needed to mix and roll with ease, but will evaporate during the baking process, leaving you with a nice flakey crust. All the alcohol bakes out, making this a pie for all ages to enjoy.
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Scripture Lessons for Fathers and Teens by Charlie Stinson
Parenting is never easy, in fact, at times it will seem overwhelming, but none the less we must be intentional and deeply committed to the enormous blessing and responsibility we call parenthood. When times are especially difficult and your fears are running wild remember that God has far more invested in our children then we ever could, therefore we must always strive to trust Him and remember that He is in control even when our kids are not. Here are some Scriptures I feel are important for fathers to remember. “Fathers, do not exasperate your children…” (Eph. 6:4) – This is a trap that parents often fall into, especially when we are over tired, frustrated with our jobs, disconnected from our spouses, and/or struggling in our relationship with Christ. Typically it begins when we focus on something relatively insignificant and then make a bigger deal of it then necessary (i.e. messy room, unfinished chores, poor school performance). This often leads to an elevated argument or a one sided discussion with our teen. The issue is not one of accountability but rather our tendency to make a bigger issue of it than is warranted which our teens recognize and resent. The risk here is a disconnected teen that feels they can do “nothing right” and withdraws the amount of communication and “the what’s going on in their life” that they are willing to share with us. “Everything is permissible, but not everything is beneficial. Everything is permissible, but not everything is constructive. Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others.” (1 Cor. 10:23–24) – “The Believers Freedom” in reality is our teens life, we need to acknowledge the fact that they can (potentially) do anything they want, we simply cannot control their actions, and we don’t want to. But this doesn’t mean it is in their best interest to take advantage of this reality. Besides warning them of the potential consequences for certain actions and behaviors, it is important that we teach them that life is bigger than they are and they need to learn to live outside of their selves (if they truly want to be happy and successful in what really matters in life). “I can do everything (all things) thru Him…” (Phil. 4:13) – This is a verse that we should revisit with our teens on a regular basis. It can comfort them in times of difficulty (which are many), it reminds them that they are not alone, it can give them confidence to take on challenges they really don’t believe they are ready for (or
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qualified for), this verse can open a world of opportunity to them if we can get them to acknowledge and accept this reality. “Each should look not to his own interests, but the interests of others.” (Phil. 2:4) – The theme of unselfishness and ‘others centered’ is one that we need to constantly be speaking to our teens about because the secular world (especially the media) is telling them every single day that “it’s all about them”. This lie is a root cause for all kinds of undesirable behavior, and can be especially damaging in early social circles, new careers, and later on in marriage. “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up.” (1 Thes. 5:11) – This scripture is great for both parents and teens. Parents need to be continually ‘building up’ their teens and repairing the damage done by the wounds of the world. But just as important we need to teach and train our teens to do the same to their peers, their siblings, even their parents, and other adults in their lives. They need to know that adults need encouragement and support as well, that adults are not immune to the challenges and difficulties of life and that the best way to overcome these is thru faith in our savior, and a ‘little help from our friends” can go a long way as well. (Beatles circa 1967) “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young…” (1 Tim. 4:12) – One of the best lessons we can offer our kids is that they have value and much to offer this world. Not just in the future when they grow up, but right now, at this very point in their lives. And not only do we parents see and believe this, but God talks about this thru his word. Encourage them to be willing to offer what they have right now, to set an example and make to a difference in this world. “Don’t fall into stupid/foolish arguments…” (2 Tim. 2:23) – This scripture is equally import for husbands, wives, and teens. We waste far too much time focusing on petty issues that become significant arguments, most often between fathers and strong willed teens. But we are all susceptible to this trap, which unfortunately, often leads to frustrations and pain or hurt for both
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parties. Remind yourself, and teach your children, to keep life in perspective and don’t over react to irritations. Remember dads, there are far worse things than overtired wives and messy rooms. “Because the Lord disciplines those he loves…” (Heb. 12:6) – You should see a parallel here to dads and teens. Most dads are pretty good at disciplining their children, but not many are good at explaining why they discipline, or why it necessary and important. Take time to explain to your teen the why. He may not accept it at the time but it will help him understand what you are trying to accomplish. I have often told my son that my goal is not “to be his buddy”, even though I absolutely love buddying around with him; it’s one of the best parts of being a dad. But my goal, my job, and my responsibility, is to prepare him to be ready to take on the challenges that life will throw at him, especially when I am not longer there to walk with him. To do this I must hold him accountable for his actions, I must administer discipline, and I must teach him life lessons. Dads, always remember to design discipline for “correcting actions and teaching”, never as a means to simply punish. “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry…” (Jam. 1:19) – This is a powerful lesson for us to instill in our teens, especially our sons because so many men and young men struggle with the emotion of anger. If we can help our sons develop the discipline to listen, think, and contemplate, before expressing verbal emotions, think about how much better husbands and fathers they can become. “Above all, love each other deeply…” (1 Pet. 4:8) – We should constantly tell them that we love them deeply and that they should above all, love others deeply. This very simple action provides a solution to so many issues in life. “Young Men, be submissive to those who are older and clothe yourselves with humility towards one another…” (1 Pet. 5:5) – Respect and humility, two character traits that their peers and the world will not support. Therefore, it is critical that we emphasize the importance of both to offset what their world tells them. “Rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope….” (Rom. 5:3–5) – The importance of character is often lost on our world, yet it can be a defining factor in how our teens handle their adult years. Be honest with your teens; acknowledge how challenging life is and how the difficulties they face now can used to prepare them for the future. Impress upon them the importance of character and doing the right thing, even when it’s difficult or something they really don’t want to do. “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world….” (Rom. 12:2) – The lesson is simple, just because it appears that everyone is doing something, doesn’t make it right. Teach them to be bold and not afraid to buck the trend and to stand up for “Justice and Mercy”. It takes character and courage but ‘thru Him’ all things are possible.
“Do not repay evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right … live at peace with everyone … Do not take revenge … Do not be overcome with evil, but overcome evil with good.” (Rom. 12:17–21) – Your teens face this challenge on a regular basis, mean girls, tough guys, and bullies on both sides. It hurts when our kids are not included, or get ostracized by the cool group, or get picked on. When they are younger we see this and it hurts us as much as them. When they get older they tend to hide this from us and often seek a way to get even. Help them see the light here, let them know why revenge is wrong and not an acceptable solution, teach them to be forgiving, remind them to be inclusive, especially to those less socially adept then they might be. “The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love.” (Gal. 5:6) – Don’t just model your Christian belief, be intentional about explaining to them what you believe, why you believe, and how important it is to believe. Trust me on this one; they just can’t hear this testimony from you enough.
Comment and Closing Thoughts: These are some of the supporting scriptures that I repeatedly use in discussions with my own children and the teens that I have the privilege of knowing and working with through small groups and student ministry activities. You have probably noticed that these are all from the New Testament (NIV) but none of them are out of the 4 gospels. I firmly believe that the spoken word of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ should be the foundation for our teachings and should be used first and foremost. These scriptures were chosen to support ‘His’ word and to provide additional reference that our teens may not be as familiar with as what is found in the Gospels. In addition, I believe these verses to be both easy to understand and very applicable to the challenges that both our teens and parents face on a daily basis. Parenting is never easy, in fact, at times it will seem overwhelming, but none the less we must be intentional and deeply committed to the enormous blessing and responsibility we call parenthood. When times are especially difficult and your fears are running wild remember that God has far more invested in our children then we ever could, therefore we must always strive to trust Him and remember that He is in control even when our kids are not.
Three Final Reminders: 1. “Don’t let pride screw up your kids” - Todd Craig (pastor) 2. Anytime you discipline, explain the “why”, and more importantly always tell them that their actions never change how you feel about them (we hate the sin, not the sinner). Always close by telling them how special they are and how much you love them. 3. Spend more time telling them “what they do well” as opposed to what they need to work on or do better. Their nature is to only hear and remember the negative comments, combat this by striving for a 10:1 ratio of what makes you proud of them verses what they need to work on.
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GRANDPA JOHN
God’s Land by John C. Westervelt
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s a widower, my Saturday morning chores include the laundry. After sorting the clothes, I start the washing machine, turn and close the utility room door behind me. I receive the first news of the morning on a weather radio. On this same August date in 1936, the temperature climbed to 108 degrees in Tulsa. At this moment, it’s 68 degrees outside. At the patio table, I look beyond my pancakes to view the heavy dew on the grass and roses. The wind is calm. Unseasonable August rains have made all the vegetation lush. The rose garden is topped with a covering of red, pink, peach and white. The zinnias across the back of the yard create a low wall of gold and purple. I feel a sense of pleasure in owning this piece of land. Then I wonder, “Do I own this land, or is it on loan from God?” With the cool air keeping me at the table, my mind wanders to the beginnings of this parcel of the earth. Over a billion years ago, God began the formation of the earth. Geologists have discovered from drilling for oil around Tulsa that many millions of years ago the lot where my house sits was under a sea. Finally, God raised it up, and in time plants and animals covered the land. Then man came to enjoy this paradise. Man’s claim to land ownership is only recent. The French laid claim to my lot and all the land west of the Mississippi River, extending to the eastern spurs of the Rocky Mountains, to the Spanish territory on the south, and to the British frontier on the north. In 1803, a wise President Jefferson signed an agreement to purchase the 831,000 square miles from the French for fifteen million dollars. My lot sold for about a penny under this contract. Later, I found that the Abstract of Title for my lot records the transfer of the land in
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1852 from the United States to the Creek Tribe of Indians.The Creeks had been forcefully removed from eastern Alabama, southwest Georgia, and northwest Florida in the 1830’s to Indian Territory in Oklahoma. In 1903 my lot, surrounded by 120 acres next to the Farm Shopping Center in southeast Tulsa, was allotted to Lillie Wray, a three-year-old Creek Indian. An inch-thick stack of paper records other transfers of the deed, and on the final page, dated July 17, 1964, is the transfer to John C. and Nelda J. Westervelt.According to the deed, by man’s law, I own this land for this day. My contemplation continues as I consider God’s dynamic world. Lands moved to new latitudes, so that what once was tropical is now buried underneath Alaska. Though I understand that God’s creation is dynamic, as I view the glistening droplets of dew resting uniformly across the lawn, shrubs and flowers, it all looks so static. For a moment, I wish my life were static, with all those I’ve ever loved gathered around to quietly sit and enjoy the view. But then God reminds me that He didn’t design the world that way, so I might as well get up and get going. I’ll begin with the second load of laundry. This story was published in the September 1997 Tidings. With the arrival of a touch of arthritis in recent years, I replaced the dozen multicolored tea roses with low-maintenance red Knock Out roses. Likewise, the zinnia garden across the back has returned to grass. Now in my final days as steward of this land (I move to Crestwood at Oklahoma Methodist Manor in late June), I hold out hope of hearing “Well done good and faithful steward!”
Other stories at www.jwestervelt.com
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CALEB AND GRANDPA JOHN by Todd Craig A couple of months ago I asked my four year old Caleb how his day was. He responded, “Not very good”. When Caleb has been in trouble at school for not listening, this is typically the response I get. So I followed up with the question, “Well, why was it bad?” assuming I would be told he had trouble listening. Instead he said, “I cut Grandpa John’s shirt.” Wait, what? “What do you mean you cut Grandpa John’s shirt?” “I cut his shirt with scissors.” I started laughing at the absurdity of the whole thing (which my wife didn’t appreciate). Grandpa John is one of the nicest people I know. I wanted to ask, “Why did you do that?” but my wife quickly reminded me, “He’s three.” This provided us a great opportunity to teach “scissor etiquette” as well as respect of others. Caleb went home, got some money, and Grandpa John now has new shirt. But really, who cuts another person’s shirt?
RECIPES OF THE MONTH
These recipes are from the Asbury UMW Cookbook. Cookbooks can be purchased for $20 at the gazebo on Sundays or at the front office. They make wonderful birthday, wedding, and Mother’s Day gifts. Proceeds support Asbury’s church projects, scholarship program, and local and global missions.
Santa Fe Stew 1 lb. ground beef 2 cans Ro-Tel 1 can corn, drained
2 cans petite diced tomatoes 1 can Ranch beans 1 can pinto beans
1 can white hominy 32 oz. beef broth 1 lb. Velveeta cheese
In large pot, brown ground beef and drain. Return beef to pot and add Ro-Tel, corn, tomatoes, beans, hominy and broth. Cook until hot. Stir in cubed Velveeta cheese and serve when melted and soup is hot. Good with cornbread or Fritos. Submitted by David Gale
Baked Black Beans & Corn 1 T. olive oil 2 T. chopped green chilies ½ c. frozen whole kernel corn 1 T. ground cumin 1 (15-oz.) can seasoned black beans, drained 4 oz. sliced Monterey Jack cheese Preheat oven to 400⁰. Place olive oil and corn in a skillet and fry over medium heat until corn begins to turn brown. Add black beans, green chilies and ground cumin. Stirring frequently, cook mixture until all liquid evaporates. Pour mixture into an oven-safe dish. Cover mixture with thinly sliced Monterey Jack cheese. Bake for approximately 10 minutes or until cheese is fully melted or begins to brown. Serve hot. Yield – 4 servings. Submitted by Kevin Jeter This is a dish that I created. I love black beans and cumin, and frying the corn gives it an interesting flavor and a chewy texture. The dish has an obvious southwest influence but works well as a side dish to just about anything. I like to serve it with steak. It can be prepared ahead of time but the baking should wait until just before serving. It is easy and quick to make!
Buttermilk Pie ½ c. margarine, softened 2 c. sugar 3 T. flour
3 eggs 1 c. buttermilk 1 tsp. vanilla
9-inch unbaked pie shell
Preheat oven to 350⁰. Mix all ingredients and pour into unbaked pie shell. Bake for 45 minutes until golden brown. Submitted by Glen Scheid I'm not a big fan of buttermilk but this is so good! It is like a chess pie. When it is set, it is done. Let it cool completely. I got this recipe while attending OSU in Culinary Arts at Okmulgee. I used to make this at the fire station. Some of the men turned their noses up but, after one taste, they had a change of mind, or, should I say, taste buds. This pie around hungry firemen or field hands you could draw back a stub. I don't know how long it will last, but not very long!
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Asbury Opportunities RECYCLING PAPER
GENERAL INFORMATION
Recycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are available, located in the south and east parking lots.
BREAKFAST
Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and cereal. • Served from 7:00–9:00 am in the CLC • $4 for adults and $1 for children 12 and under
NEW ADDITIONS TO THE LIBRARY
The Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.
SUNDAY MORNING WORSHIP
8:00 am 9:15 am 9:15 am 11:00 am 11:00 am
Mason Chapel (Traditional Communion) Sanctuary (Contemporary) CLC - Open House Worship (Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting) Sanctuary (Traditional) Venue 68 (Modern with sign interpreter)
OJT (OVERCOMING JOB TRANSITIONS)
Unemployment isn't forever. You can help by telling people about OJT (Overcoming Job Transitions) which meets right here at Asbury. • Tuesday, May 15, 6:30–9:00 pm • Room 2319 • Contact Russ Knight at OJTJobs@gmail.com
SUNDAY EVENING WORSHIP
6:00 pm
DOORS OF ASBURY POSTERS ARE AT THE WELCOME CENTERS...
FREE! Suitable for framing.
Venue 68 (Modern)
ACCESS SUNDAYS FOR CHILDREN AND STUDENTS
6 Weeks–Pre-K K–6th Grades 7th, 8th & 9th Grades 10th, 11th & 12th Grades
8:00, 9:15 and 11:00 am 9:15 or 11:00 am 9:15 and 11:00 am 9:15 am only
ADULT DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES
SURGERY OR HOSPITALIZATION SCHEDULED?
Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling the church receptionist at 918.492.1771 so your pastors can be in prayer for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emergency line can be reached by calling 918.492.1771, selecting option 6, and leaving a message for the pastor on call.
CDs of Tom’s message of the day are available immediately following the worship service - $3. UMW Cookbooks available for $20. Additional volunteers needed.
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FRIENDS IN CHRIST COMMUNITY
• Sundays, 11:00 am, Room 1507
Adult Bible study, belonging, and serving together • Sunday at 8:00, 9:15 and 11:00 am • Options during the week - Tuesdays at 6:00 pm, Wednesdays at 6:00 pm
THE GAZEBO IS OPEN
HANDS OF LOVE SIGN CHOIR
• Sundays, 5:30–6:30 pm, Family Room
BIBLE STUDY Use the summer months to dig deeper into God’s Word with our new studies beginning for the Summer 2012 session. Check out our adult bible studies listed in our RoadMap brochures found at all welcome centers or online at www.asburytulsa.org/ AdultMinistries/Roadmap.aspx. Here are some ongoing studies you may attend at any time: BELIEVERS BIBLE STUDY
Continuous study of the Bible. Curently doing a survey study of the book of Romans. • Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm • Room 1508 • Instructor: Don Herrold
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WOMEN OF THE WORD
Join Darlene Johnson as she leads an open Bible study focusing on the practical application of the Scripture sermon series. • Wednesdays, 10:00–11:00 am (No childcare) • Room 2818
CARE AND SUPPORT
PRAYER CARD MINISTRY
GRIEFSHARE
A weekly support group for people who are grieving the loss of a loved one. The group offers a comfortable environment where the emotions and process of grief are understood and welcomed. Participants will learn practical strategies for grief recovery through the highly acclaimed GriefShare video series, study guide and group discussion. Individuals may begin attending this group at any time. • 13 Tuesdays, May 8–July 31, 6:30–8:00 pm • Room 1504 • Childcare available • Cost is $15 • Register online or call 918.392.1191 S.M.I.L.E. (SINGLE MOTHERS IN THE LORD’S EMBRACE)
Join us for a DVD series and book entitled “21 Principles of a Healthy Single Mom.” You will learn to apply specific, workable guidelines so you can flourish spiritually in the midst of overwhelming circumstances. Each principle/video session is self-contained, and you may begin attending at any time. • Third Thursdays, 6:00–8:45 pm • Parlor • Childcare provided • $12 for book • RSVP to Kellie at asburysmile@ymail.com HEALING HATS/BALL CAPS
VISITS TO ASBURY MEMBERS
Asbury has a group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are homebound, in nursing homes or in assisted living facilities. • Contact Lisa at 918.298.9014 or lisa_dalt@sbcglobal.net
An Asbury ministry created to provide hats to cancer patients who have lost their hair. “Home spun with knots of love, woven together with help from above!” Simply knit, crochet or sew a hat or decorate a ball cap of your choice and drop it in the collection box located next to the Gazebo. Find more information in the literature rack attached to the collection box. In addition, the following groups meet regularly for fellowship, while using their creative ability to make hats: • Crochet Group –– Second and fourth Tuesdays, 6:30–8:00 pm –– Room 1506 –– Contact Sue Fisher at healinghatsmin@aol.com or 918.455.2816 • Ball Caps (If you can cut and glue this is for you!) –– Fourth Tuesdays, 9:30–11:30 am –– Room 1507 –– Baseball caps and decorating items available –– Contact Sue Fisher at healinghatsmin@aol.com or 918.455.2816
Send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. • Usually meets first and third Mondays at 9:30 am • Room 1508 • Contact Gwen Mohler at 918.258.5479 or grmohler@aol.com MILITARY CONNECTION
Please join us in praying for our troops in harm’s way and their families. Periodic care packages and monthly encouragement cards with God’s Word are sent to Asbury-related military personnel. The Prayer Ministry also covers them in prayer. Send complete name and address to: • Jo VanDeWiele at 918.459.0888 or Gwen at grmohler@aol.com DIVORCE RECOVERY
For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. • Tuesdays, 7:00–8:30 pm • Room 1335 • Childcare available • Contact Malia Miller at 918.494.9596 or malia.miller@ sbcglobal.net DIVORCE REBUILDING
For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. • Thursdays, 7:00–8:30 pm • Room 1335 • Childcare available • Contact Jim Small at 918.697.4220 or divorce-rebuilding@ cox.net MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT FOR FAMILIES
For family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. • Usually meets the fourth Thursdays from 1:30–3:00 pm • Parlor • Contact Linda Lytle at 918.298.2707 or lllytle@wildflower.net ASBURY BEAR BAGS
Asbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included instead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury bear to someone who is grieving. • Contact Sue at suemorey@yahoo.com
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ODD SUNDAY
CHILDREN Registration forms for all children’s activities are available in the preschool and elementary lobbies. CORE CHILDCARE HOURS
Parents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided for children 6 weeks–12 years of age with no reservations needed: • Sunday 9:00 am–12:00 pm • Monday and Tuesday 9:00 am–12:00 pm • Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday 6:00 pm–9:00 pm SUNDAY MORNING VOLUNTEERS
Children’s Ministry is actively pursuing classroom, security and hospitality volunteers. We have two rotations: Alpha (1st and 2nd Sundays) and Omega (3rd and 4th Sundays) at both the 9:15 and 11:00 class times. • Contact Abby Sluice at 918.392.4583 or asluice@asburytulsa.org VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL
Kids at VBS will learn to trust our Father no matter what. They will come to know and trust God in everything through music, Bible theater, crafts, missions and Games. Kids will build bonds of friendship with each other and their crew leaders. • Tuesday through Friday, June 19–22 • 9:00 am–12:30 pm • Register online at myasburytulsa.org VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL – FAMILY FUN NIGHT
Let’s celebrate Asbury’s 50th anniversary! We will end our amazing VBS week with an evening of family fun. Come wrap up what we’ve learned all week in the Sanctuary and then go out into the church to dance at the sock hop, participate in a cake walk and pop walk, visit the “5 and Dime” candy store, and jump in the inflatables! • Friday June 22, 2012, 6:00–8:00 pm ROLLER SKATING DAY
Why not get rollin’ with Asbury? Meet your friends or bring some along to get out of the heat and skate the day away. Asbury has the whole place to ourselves! • Wednesday, July 11, 10:00 am • 1st through 6th graders (or younger if accompanied by an adult) • Admission $7.00 per person which includes your skates, a drink, and an ice cream treat • Broken Arrow Roller Sports, 551 West Oakland Place, Broken Arrow • Contact Leanne at 918.392.1183 or lcampbell@asburytulsa.org
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6th graders -Beat the summer heat and join us for some pizza and skating. Lunch will be here at Asbury, then we will take you to the Oiler’s Ice Center 6413 S. Mingo. Parents will pick up directly from the ice rink. • Sunday, July 15, 12:30 pm • Meet in the 6th grade room (2901) directly after church for pizza and fellowship • Cost is $12.00 • Contact Leanne 918.392.1183 or lcampbell@asburytulsa.org TODDLER ‘N ME
Toddler n’ Me is a special time for a parent and/or grandparent and their two and three-year olds to enjoy activities designed for everyone to have lots of fun just being together. Nursery will be provided for younger (over 6 weeks) and older (up to 6th grade) siblings. • Tuesday, July 17, 10:00 am • Children’s 2nd floor gathering area • Cost is $3.00 per child to help cover supplies • Register in advance • Contact Stephanie Long at 918.392.1171 or slong@ asburytulsa.org MEGA MOVIE MORNING
Take one…and action! Why not join us in your pajamas for a morning of movies? We will offer three movie choices, plus we will have a concession stand open with all your favorite snacks. Plan on bringing a few dollars to buy some yummy snacks and a pillow to sit back and enjoy some great flicks with friends. • Wednesday, July 18, 10:00 am • 4 years–6th graders • Children’s 2nd floor gathering area • Contact Leanne at 918.392.1183 or lcampbell@asburytulsa.org SUPER KIDS DAY
Our kids are SUPER, so let’s have a day to celebrate them. Drop off your kids for a super fun day of inflatables, open gym games and crafts. Don’t forget to send a little extra money for the concession stand. • Wednesday, July 25, 10:00 am • 4 years–6th graders • Asbury gym • Contact Shanon Brown at 918.392.1170 or sbrown@ asburytulsa.org • Adult volunteers needed FAMILY BINGO NIGHT IN THE CLC
“Bingo!” Get out of the heat and come play some bingo (and other silly contests) with your family and friends. Invite Grandma and Grandpa, neighbors and friends from school that you haven’t seen all summer. Concessions, including hot dogs and nachos, will be for sale. • Wednesday, August 1, 6:00 pm
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• CLC • No registration necessary • Contact Jennifer at 918.392.4582 or jbarnes@asburytulsa.org. CELEBRATION STATION
Celebration Station is a 52-week complementary children’s program to Celebrate Recovery. While adults explore topics that bring healing and wholeness, kids discover the same truths in ageappropriate ways through worship, crafts, games and activities. • Mondays, 7:00–9:00 pm • Faith Zone • Contact Eryn Wallis 918.392.4588 or ewallis@asburytulsa.org SPECIAL VOLUNTEERS FOR SPECIAL KIDS!
Do you have a heart to help children with special needs? If so, the Children’s Ministry needs you to volunteer. • Contact Dotti Westerberg at dottiwesterberg@hotmail.com or 918.381.0874
DISCIPLESHIP DISCIPLESHIP COMMUNITIES
If you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Community check out “Community Life” on our website, www.asburytulsa.org, or pick up a brochure at one of our Welcome Centers. • If you are 20’s to early 30’s, come check out our newest Sunday morning group at 9:15 am in room 2314, “Transitions”
MARRIAGE & FAMILY IMARRIAGE BIBLE STUDY BY ANDY STANLEY
Spend some extra time with your spouse this summer fine- tuning your relationship. Enjoy video with Andy Stanley teaching, followed by small group time with other couples. • Wednesdays, June 6–August 1 from 6:30–8:00 pm • Family Room (1300) ATTENTION ENGAGED COUPLES
If you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital meetings).
MEMBERSHIP ASBURY EXPLORATION
Come to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. • Sunday, June 3, 12:15–2:00 pm • Community Life Center (CLC) • Childcare available for children six weeks through sixth grade • Lunch provided • Call 918.392.1191 to register
MEN MEN'S MINISTRY - CAR CARE VOLUNTEERS
ENDOWMENTS Leave a legacy that continues to give forever to a ministry you want to support. There are endowments that support many areas of Asbury’s outreach including children, youth, music, missions, and training of pastors as well as a general endowment. You can easily impact a ministry through your will or a current gift. • Contact Dwight Yoder at 918.392.1113 or dyoder@ asburytulsa.org
If you like to work on cars, check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries, we have an opportunity for you! Put your faith and skills into action! Come join other volunteers as we perform basic maintenance check-ups on the vehicles of widows and single women of Asbury. Workdays are every other month, 5 times a year. • Saturday, July 14, 9:00 am–noon • Family Center entrance • To volunteer, contact Mike Nalley at mnalley16@cox.net MEN’S PRAYER BREAKFAST
HOSPITALITY We were recently asked, “why don’t you have volunteers holding the doors open on Sunday morning?” The simple answer is we have very few volunteers willing to do it. Most say Asbury is a friendly church, yet we don’t have enough friendly people willing to serve on Sunday mornings when the need is great to welcome folks who have possibly had little contact with people during the week. We need new volunteers to serve in a hospitality role as greeters and at Connection Corner where many people have their first experience at Asbury. The Gazebo needs new volunteers as well. Are you one of those friendly people? Contact the church office at 918.492.1771 to volunteer.
Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, lifechanging prayer and an awesome big breakfast. • Wednesdays, 6:30–7:30 am • CLC • Cost is $3 per person; first-time guests are free MATURE MEN’S MINISTRY R.O.M.E.O. LUNCHEON
Are you a “Retired Old Man” who wants to “Eat Out?” If so, then these luncheons are for you! A really awesome bunch of guys meet for good food and great fellowship. • Meet every second and fourth Friday, 11:15 am • Village Inn (71st and Memorial)
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• Open to anyone 60 years and up • Contact Bud at bdmathes@cox.net or Jim at robersonjim29@ gmail.com HOME IMPROVEMENT WORKDAY VOLUNTEERS
Home Improvement teams help widows and single women, who are Asbury members, with minor home repairs and/or small home improvement projects five times a year. If you are handy with a hammer, like to paint or clean out flower beds, please consider joining a team! You will be truly blessed. • Saturday, June 16, 8:30 am • Meet in the Family Room lobby for planning and assignments • Contact Michiel Conner at 918.640.4382 or michiel0930@ sbcglobal.net
MISSIONS/VIM 2ND SATURDAY
Looking for an easy way to make a difference and share Christ’s love in Tulsa? Join us for 2nd Saturday and choose between local mission opportunities. Families with children are welcomed and encouraged! • Saturday, June 9 • Venue68 • Head to the ministry sites, 8:45; teams work from 9:00–11:30 am; buses return to Venue68 no later than 12:15 pm • Contact Betty Higgins at carevets@aol.com CIRCLE OF CARE OF THE OKLAHOMA UNITED METHODIST CONFERENCE BOY’S RANCH & CHILDREN’S HOME
This is a time of change for the Boy’s Ranch in Gore, OK and Children’s Home in Tahlequah, OK. The Boy’s Ranch is a residential program that serves boys age 13–18 who are experiencing problems which prevent them from living at home and the Children’s Home services girls age 13–18. As the result of the lawsuit against Oklahoma DHS by a New York group, there are major changes expected in the care of children. The Boy’s Ranch and Children’s Home are taking proactive steps and changing to a Christian campus homes format. The cottages are being converted to be foster homes for sibling groups and foster care for older children. The independent living programs are also going to be expanded for 16 to 18 year olds. In making these changes, there are several ways that you can help: remodel bedrooms, bathrooms, build playground and chain link fence. Communities are encouraged to plan a work day or “working retreat” weekend with families. To check on the availability of volunteer facilities at the Ranch if you want to spend the night, please contact Barbara Wright at blwright1@yahoo.com. Communities could consider partnering to undertake projects. The Local Outreach office at Asbury can provide matching funds up to $2,000 per project. If you are interested in applying for these funds, contact Radhika M. Aussieker, raussieker@asburytulsa.org.
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VIM 2012 TEAM SCHEDULE
• June 2–9 –– Ecuador, MBS & Construction, $2,000 • June 7–16 –– Central Asia, Relationship, Teaching & Light Construction, $2,200 • June 14–26 –– Tanzania, East Africa, Medical, $2,800 • June 28–July 9 –– Estonia, Camp Gideon, Youth Camp, $2,700 • July 19–30 –– Estonia, Parnu, MBS & Light Construction, $2,700 • September –– Tanzania, East Africa, Construction, $2,800 • Fall –– Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light Construction, $60 • October* –– Monterrey, Mexico, MBS & Construction, $950 • November 7–11 –– Rio Bravo, Mexico, Medical, $700 * Tentative All costs apporximate. For more information about these exciting mission opportunities, contact Marilene Long at 918.392.1164 or mlong@asburytulsa.org. For information about the men’s Rio Bravo, Mexico opportunities, contact Jim Furman at jnlfurman@cox.net. VIM LEADER TRAINING
• September 15 and November 3 (Oklahoma City)
MUSIC SUMMERSONG
• SummerSong is June 11–15, 10:00 am–2:00 pm each day • Concluding program Friday, June 15, 7:00 pm, Sanctuary AMERICANA: A MUSICAL CELEBRATION OF OUR COUNTRY
The New Covenant Orchestra, the Chancel Choir, Perpetual Light and One Voice will present a concert of music from our American heritage and by American composers. Featured will be the music of John Williams, John Phillips Sousa, Mac Wilberg, the McGuire Sisters, as well as our soul-stirring national songs and hymn tunes. • Sunday, July 1, 6:00 pm • Sanctuary CHANCEL CHOIR
We have so much fun…singing, laughing and serving together. Come share your God-given talent with us. • Wednesdays, 7:00–9:00 pm
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OPPORTUNITIES
• Choir room • Available for seventh grade through adults.
–– Sundays from 7:00 am–12:30 pm, through the interior doors • Main Facility, Mason Chapel and Venue68 –– Monday–Friday, 8:00 am–9:00 pm –– Saturday, 10:00 am–3:00 pm –– Sunday, 12:30 pm–9:00 pm • To obtain door codes, call Pam in the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589.
NEW COVENANT ORCHESTRA
• Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 pm • Orchestra room
RECOVERY
PERPETUAL LIGHT
• Thursdays, 10:30am–12:00 noon • Handbell room
CELEBRATE RECOVERY
Come join this supportive group of people. Hiding any hurts, habits or hang-ups? God never intended for you to live in bondage. • Every Monday night: dinner at 6:00 pm, worship from 7:00–8:00 pm, small groups from 8:00–9:00 pm, dessert from 9:00–9:30 pm
CELEBRATION RINGERS
• Tuesdays, 4:30–5:30 pm • Handbell room
SENIOR ADULTS
ASBURY POWER & LIGHT CO.
• Sundays, 8:00–9:15 am • Orchestra room
SENIOR ADULT EVENING EVENT
PRAYER VBS PRAYER WATCH
Will you invest in the next generation with one hour of prayer as children and youth attend Vacation Bible School here at Asbury? Individuals, groups and families can sign up for one hour of on-site prayer by going to www.asburytulsa.org. “Jesus said, let the little children come to me and do not hinder them….,” Matthew 19:14 • June 19–June 22, 8:00 am–1:00 pm each day • Venue68 Prayer Room ALTAR PRAYER
If you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or immediately following a worship service, please come to the altar rail. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual, at the altar or in the Prayer Room. PRAYER ROOM RESERVATIONS
The leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you that the main facility Prayer Room is open not only to individuals desiring to pray in a quiet, meditative atmosphere but also to prayer groups within communities and ministries. Just call the Adult Ministries office at 918.392.4589 to reserve the Prayer Room for your group on a weekly or monthly basis. PRAYER ROOM DAYS AND TIMES
Our prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times: • Mason Chapel and Venue 68
What a night! Come join the Senior Adults as the evening begins with a delicious dinner in the CLC at 6:00 pm, then board and travel by shuttle to the Broken Arrow Community Playhouse to see “Kiss Me Kate,” Cole Porter’s biggest hit. This charming story follows two musical theatre actors—once married, now divorced—as they star together in a Broadway-bound musical play. Tensions mount and tempers flare until it seems no amount of acting can save the show. But when two gangsters arrive to settle an old score, success becomes a matter of survival. Witty, wondrous and wickedly entertaining, you won’t want to miss this musical comedy. Shuttles will return to Asbury at approximately 10:30 pm. • Friday, June 8, 6:00–10:30 pm • CLC, Broken Arrow Community Playhouse • Registration forms at the south information desk • Cost is $22 per person PROJECT TRANSFORMATION
Project Transformation is a summer literacy camp for underserved elementary age children in Oklahoma. This project allows volunteers to help children with reading and other skills. It is sponsored by the United Methodist Church. This year, Asbury is partnering with Southern Hills UMC, which is the site church. Won't you give a few hours of your week to listen to, encourage and make a positive impact on one of these precious children? Come share God's love. Everyone is welcomed to volunteer! • Monday, June 11, through Thursday, June 14 • For more information or to volunteer, contact Joanne Stadler at 918.622.3614 ADULT GAME DAY
Attention all adults! How would you like to get together on a regular basis with a wonderful bunch of fun adults and play cards,
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dominoes, or whatever board or card game you choose? Bring a friend and stay for as long as you like! • Every third Thursday, 1:30–4:00 pm • Room 2821
have our large group time with a worship band, fun games and God's Word. Then at 11:00 am, we have a small Bible Study group. Whatever your preference, don't miss out.
SENIOR WALK IN THE GYM WITH HIM
Come join us for Wednesday night Bible study; hang out, have fun and study what God’s Word has for us. • Wednesdays, 7:00–8:00 pm • Student Café
SENIOR SIT AND FIT STRETCHING CLASS
We are going to float the Illinois! Registrations due by June 10. • June 12; be at Asbury at 8:30 am—return around 4:00 pm • Cost is $25 • Bring your own sack lunch
789 GRADE BIBLE STUDY
All senior adults are invited to join us for power walking, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. Come give it a try. • Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, 8:30–9:00 am • Gym
789 FLOAT TRIP
All senior adults are invited to join us for a time of stretching, coupled with lots of fun and fellowship. No high impact workout here. We take it nice and easy. • Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00–9:30 am • Gym SENIOR ADULT MEAL & MOVIE
If you’re 55 years of age or over, our monthly meal and movie day event may be just the “ticket” for you! We get together at a different Tulsa restaurant each month, and then head off to see a “first run” movie. • The dates and times vary according to the movie selected, but those who express an interest will be contacted a few days ahead of time so they can make plans accordingly • For more information or to sign up for the call list, contact Sally Wood, sally-wood@sbcglobal.net
SINGLES SINGLES MINISTRY “MEET AND GREET”
All singles are invited to stop by the "Meet and Greet" area, grab a cup of coffee, and mingle with other singles. Come meet new people or catch up with those you know! This is a great opportunity for the community of singles to connect with others on a regular basis. • Every Sunday, 10:30–11:00 am • Breezeway outside the CLC COMMUNITIES
You are always welcome to join any other communities that are not “Singles Only”, as most are a mix of singles and marrieds. • Sundays, 9:15 am – New Beginnings Class, Transitions (mixed singles/married) • Sundays, 11:00 am – Ambassadors for Christ, Footprints (ladies only), Salt & Light, Christ Centered Singles, Single B.A.S.I.X.
STUDENTS JUNIOR HIGH SUNDAY BREAKAWAY
Sunday Mornings we have two great options. At 9:15 am, we
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VBS TEEN LEADERS
Teen volunteers (entering 7th grade through 19 years) are needed for VBS. If you are interested, register online by June 15. Remember to print out the form, sign it, have your parents sign it, and place it in the drop box in Venue68. • VBS dates are June 19–22 • Register online by June 15 VBS TEEN LEADER TRAINING
This training is mandatory. You will be able to pick up your tshirt that day as well. • Monday, June 18, 7:00–8:00 pm • Upstairs in Venue68 VBS TEEN LEADER PIZZA PARTY
If you volunteered at VBS, join us for a thank you pizza party and share your stories with us. • Thursday, June 21, 12:45–1:45 pm • Upstairs in Venue68
10 11 12 BREAKAWAY PICNIC
Join us for a picnic to get to know each other better. Hamburgers, hotdogs and Frisbee! • Friday, June 6, 6:00–9:00 pm • Hunter Park (located on 91st between Sheridan and Yale) DAYSPRING CAMP
It's five days for those who have completed 9th–12th grades that will challenge your heart, renew your passions and kick things into high gear. It's about relationships, serious fun and amazing worship. Wondering if there's something more…there is! • Monday through Friday, July 16–20
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• Sky Ranch • Cost is $255 • Registration due by June 13 HIGH SCHOOL SUNDAY MORNINGS
Join us every Sunday morning for a healthy dose of God’s Word. • Sundays, 9:15 am • High school room 10 11 12 SUMMER BREAKAWAY
10 11 12 Breakaway will look a little different this summer. We will still get together every week, sometimes at the Venue for worship and pizza, and other times we will be out of the building. Check the calendars for events, times and places. • Wednesday nights, 7:00–8:30 pm 10 11 12 SMALL GROUPS
Get connected. Are you looking for a way to get more connected? Are you looking for a place to grow in your walk with Jesus? Then being a part of a small group is where you need to be. Our small groups meet every Sunday night; times vary. Some of the groups meet in homes and others meet at the church. • Contact Todd at 918.392.1154 or Amy at 918.392.1156 7TH–12TH GRADE METRO WORSHIP @ VENUE 68
Come join youth from all over the city in a night to just worship Jesus. • The first Wednesday of every month, 7:00–8:30 pm • Venue68
WOMEN UMW JUNE UNIT LUNCHEON
The United Methodist Women will be presenting their annual awards to its members, including the UMW Special Mission Recognition recipient. Our program will include Rowena Mills, an accomplished flutist as well as a geosciences editor at the Society of Exploration Geophysicists. Courtney Loerke, the UMW scholarship recipient for 2011-12, will share experiences of her freshman year at the University of Central Oklahoma. Colossians 3:23. • Thursday, June 7, 11:30 am–1:00 pm • CLC • $7.00 for lunch. No reservations necessary HOME IMPROVEMENT WORKDAY
This outreach ministry serves widows and single women, who are Asbury members, by helping with minor home repairs and small home improvement projects. H.I. volunteers make themselves available every other month, five times a year. If you are in need of help and qualify, just pick up an application at a welcome desk,
fill it out, and return it at least ten days before the scheduled work day. A volunteer from the H.I. team will contact you and make arrangements to get the job done! You can also sign up by contacting Michiel Conner at 918.640.4382 or michiel0930@sbcglobal.net. • Saturday, June 16 • Sign up at least ten days before workday UMW GARAGE SALE
Come one, come all to the United Methodist Women's Annual Garage Sale, benefiting mission efforts in our community and beyond. You'll find gently-used toys, clothing, books, DVD's, jewelry, small appliances, furniture and so much more. Don't miss this great opportunity to buy good quality items at rock-bottom prices. See you at the sale! • Friday, July 13, 8:00 am–4:00 pm • Saturday, July 14, 8:00 am–12:00 pm • CLC • Donations accepted in the CLC on Thursday, July 12, 9:00 am– 5:00 pm (no underclothing, socks, shoes or computers accepted, and all clothes must be on hangers, please) CAR CARE WORKDAY
Single women and widows of Asbury, while you wait in the comfort of the Family Room café, volunteers from the Men's Ministry will check your tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries and do a basic maintenance check up. They will also vacuum and wash your vehicle, and then update you on what is running smoothly and what needs professional attention. This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith and skills into action by serving others. Workdays are every other month, 5 times a year. • Saturday, July 14, beginning at 9:00 am • Have your vehicle in line no later than 11:30 am • Family Center entrance • No reservations necessary • Contact Mike Nalley at mnalley16@cox.net WOMEN OF THE WORD
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Wednesdays, 10:00–11:00 am Room 2818 No childcare available Teacher is Rev. Darlene Johnson
WORSHIP 8:00 AM COMMUNION SERVICE
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Mason Chapel Traditional service with music led by Hart Morris Communion is served Dr. Tom Harrison preaches
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9:15 AM CONTEMPORARY PRAISE & WORSHIP
• Sanctuary • Contemporary music led by Mark Bennett and team • Time of prayer and the message will all carry a prevailing theme for the morning • Dr. Tom Harrison preaches 9:15 AM OPEN HOUSE WORSHIP
• Community Life Center • A relaxed atmosphere with engaging worship led by Dub Ambrose and team • Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast with an occasional live sermon from another pastor 11:00 AM TRADITIONAL SERVICE
• Sanctuary • The Chancel Choir, the New Covenant Orchestra and various
vocal and instrumental ensembles offer a variety of styles of music led by Hart Morris • Dr. Tom Harrison preaches 11:00 AM MODERN SERVICE
• Venue68 • Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by Chris Cleveland and team • Sign interpreters for the deaf are offered • Rev. Todd Craig preaches 6:00 PM MODERN SERVICE
• Venue68 • Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by the Ben Kilgore and team • Rev. Todd Craig preaches
Marriages, Baptisms, Births and Deaths • Jennings Ray Lowry, son of James and Leslie Lowry
MARRIAGES • Austin David Embry and Callie Leeann Cooper married 3/24/ 2012 • Renee D. Lamoreaux and Joe Gates married 3/26/2011 • Kristina M Kerwin & Turner G Land married 3/26/2011 • David Barry Ragland and Jensica Krestensen Wheeler married 4/14/2012 • George Lynn Gilliland Jr and Elizabeth Jodi James married 4/21/2012
BAPTISMS • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
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Ethan Brian Haapanen Jordan Walker Madison Verge Ian Scott Lee Sean Scott Lee Brenna Caroline Posey Dillon Blake O’Dell Lookout Luke Koslan Harrison, son of John and Carrie Harrison Trevor Rae Toole, son of Michael and Rae Toole Dawson Wesley Holmes, son of Wesley and Julie Holmes Jackson Patrick Davis, son of Rick and Rebecca Davis Libby Rose Odom, daughter of Jonathan and Emily Odom Sutton Sher, son of Robert and Heather Sher Lily Allison Clark, daughter of John and Jennifer Clark
BIRTHS • William Stephen Craig born 4/5/2012, son of Todd & Stephanie Craig, big brothers are Ethan & Caleb Craig • Andrew J. Dale Rice born 4/9/2012, son of Loreta & Michael Rice
DEATHS • Doyle Thompson died 3/22/2012, father of Nikki Latendresse • Troy Aldridge died 3/30/2012, father of Emily Killam • Heidi Sanchez died 3/31/2012, wife of Fred, mother of Alex, Nicholas & Olivia Sanchez • Patricia Gregston died 4/3/2012, wife of G. Dale Gregston • James Beaird died 4/10/2012, stepfather of David (Leslie) Hughes, grandfather of Michael & Hilary Hughes • Dan Phillip Scott died 4/14/2012 • Mary Katherine Clark died 4/25/2012
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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTS
Milestone Anniversaries 65 YEARS
45 YEARS
• Jack & Doris Bruin 06/07/47 • Rudy & Alice Gorishek 06/29/47
• Larry & Lois Christiansen 06/13/67
40 YEARS
60 YEARS • Fred & Joanne Setser • Bill & June Carr
06/28/52 06/30/52
55 YEARS • Carl & Joanne Weatherford • Brown & Becky Joyner • Cal & Doris Brusewitz
John & June Hawkins Jon & Bonnie Wynn Jim & Sally Hickman Don & Patti Cooper
Jack & Doris Bruin 06/07/47
Cal & Doris Brusewitz 06/25/57
15 YEARS • Marc & Victoria Wilson 03/15/97
06/15/57 06/23/57 06/25/57
50 YEARS • • • •
• Mike & Joanne McNulty 06/17/72
06/09/62 06/09/62 06/10/62 06/21/62
Fred & Joanne Setser 06/28/52
John & June Hawkins 06/09/62
10 YEARS • Roger & Patti Freeman 05/25/02 • Karl & Mary Alice Ahlgren 06/09/02
MILESTONE WEDDING ANNIVERSARIES Email your upcoming Milestone Anniversary (5, 10, 15, 20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars2@cox.net or call 918.451.1559.
Bill & June Carr 06/30/52
Jon & Bonnie Wynn 06/09/62
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Carl & Joanne Weatherford 06/15/57
Jim & Sally Hickman 06/10/62
Brown & Becky Joyner 06/23/57
Don & Patti Cooper 06/21/62
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New Members
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Terri Blake
Eric & Shannon Booker with Hailey & Austin
Randy & Emily Carpenter
Jim & Melissa Consedine
Rick & Rebecca Davis with Jackson
Stephen & Jill Garcille with Gavin
Tom & Renate Graham
Brett Kilgore
John & Robin Lincecum
Ralph & Heather Lujan
Carol McClure
June Owings
William & Shari Ramos with Brady and Blake
Aaron & Jolene Westwick with Griffin, Savanna & Graham
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EVERYONE WELCOME!!! Come join in the fun and celebrate the 50s.
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