Spectrums Magazine Holiday Guide 2013 for the Autism Community

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HOLIDAY HOSTING Helpful tips for family members for hosting an autism-friendly celebration.

EDUCATIONAL TOY GUIDE Resources for finding educational gifts for the person on your list who has autism.

TRAVELING WITH SPECIAL NEEDS Whether it’s by plane or train, we have tips that will help make your holiday travels smoother.

GREAT EXPECTATIONS Lowering the bar on holiday expectations we place on ourselves, our families and our children.

CALENDAR OF EVENTS Light shows, plays, live music and theatre—there is something for everyone to celebrate the season.

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The line snaked through a festive velvet-roped barricade with a palpable feeling of excitement in the air. I remember being incredibly impatient, shifting weight from one patent leather Mary Jane shoe to the other. My sateen dress swished as I stood on tiptoe to get a better estimation of my wait-time. As a 5-year-old, I would wait all day if I had to in order to bend Santa’s ear.

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However, for children on the autism spectrum, even entering the doors of a mall where Santa is stationed is impossible. Forget long lines, camera flashes, holiday music, the screams of unwilling participants and the flood of crowds. The season can feel like a month-long opportunity to magnify differences between how a family with special needs and a neurotypical family embraces the hustle and bustle of December.

Many of us will still try to reach the unattainable bar set around the holidays—struggling to find balance between what is expected and what is realistic. From travel, staying with family, the “perfect” holiday card photo and the simple pleasure of sitting on Santa’s lap, we hope this issue’s content will help keep things in perspective.

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I admit to falling hook, line and sinker into holiday consumption and the frazzled, frantic feelings it brings. The last-minute gifts for teachers and therapists, holiday hosting, baking for the neighbors, sewing one last present, painstakingly decorating each corner of the house with holiday cheer…

And while I don’t feel the emotional letdown come Dec. 26, I do question my overcommitment each year. I vow to find new traditions and commitments that have long-lasting effects after the lights come down and the decorations are packed away.

Our first annual Holiday Guide is packed with helpful tips, real-world advice and information to help families embrace the season, make new memories and feel the power of saying “no.”

Hopefully, it gives you permission to be gentle with yourself and accept that sometimes a bar set low brings unexpected memories and traditions.

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HOLIDAY HOSTING:

How family can create a welcoming environment for visitors on the spectrum

By Rhonda Day The holiday season is a wonderful time of the year, and what grandmother doesn’t just love wrapping her arms around a grandchild, hugging and tugging at the child with every move? When grandparents live outof-town, they find it even more difficult to keep their hands off of a child or children they haven’t seen in a while.

I know how much I love to hug, kiss, snuggle and hold my grandchildren. I can’t get enough of them, and holidays are the perfect time to spoil them and hug them even more.

But beware—loving touches, hugging and kisses can create an explosive situation resulting in outbursts and anxiety!

As we approach the holidays, I think about the many parents who deal with challenging situations with their children on the autism spectrum. Often, grandparents are not exposed to some of the challenges of a child with autism that occur on a daily basis for parents. That’s why it’s so important for grandparents to better understand how they can help support parents with children on the autism spectrum during the holidays. And any parent with a child on the spectrum can tell you that it is usually more challenging during the holidays with all of the excitement, increased noise and bright lights.

A child with autism often finds the holidays especially difficult, and you may find that he has more meltdowns than normal.

Whether your grandchildren are visiting with you, or the grandparents are visiting at their adult child’s home, the environment is new and stimulating. There are more people in the house and more noise, lights and excitement than normal wherever you go. If you travel for long distances to visit with family, the togetherness can be longer just a few hours, and that creates new challenges.

So what can you do to make it easier on everyone?

According to the Parent Coaching for Autism website, there are some ways to make it easier for kids to cope, whether she’s your child or grandchild. Being sensitive to the child’s needs is vital for a happier holiday experience. It’s important for grandparents to understand and respect the needs of the child—and respond to the parent’s direction when interacting with the child.

Consider some of these ideas to make the holidays more enjoyable and less stressful for everyone:

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If you’re traveling, be sure to pack plenty of comfort items like snuggly blankets, comfortable clothing, books, portable games and other familiar items. Remain flexible and allow children to retreat from the main family group into a quieter room for some downtime when needed. It is never rude when a child needs a break from the group—it’s good common sense.

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Some children with autism are very sensitive to light, and the holidays are often lit up quite a bit.

Consider keeping a pair of sunglasses handy— use them for traveling, viewing bright lights, shopping in a brightly lit store or mall, or even inside the home if a house is brightly decorated.

Take along a pair for yourself and other children so the child is not alone in wearing them.

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Grandparents especially love to hug and touch—and children on the spectrum are often frightened and upset by touching and hugging.

Use a signal to remind grandparents or other adults not to touch children who are afraid of touch, or quickly take the lead by saying, “Please don’t hug right now—we’re enjoying some quiet time.” Find what works for your child, and communicate that to all friends and family. For older children, it’s possible to teach them to politely let people know they don’t want to be touched with a non-verbal signal like holding up a hand, or by simply saying, “I don’t want a hug right now.” Respect the child’s feelings—this is continued on next page www.spectrumsmagazine.com

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a tough one for grandparents who may not see their grandkids often and can’t help but hug them. But it’s important to keep a distance with some children.

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Noise is a major problem for some children.

Minimize noise and allow children to wear earplugs or headphones during larger family gatherings if necessary. Keep music low and avoid over-crowded rooms of people talking.

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Find a restful place for kids when the crowd grows and noise is high. A quiet bedroom, a sunroom or an office may be a good place for a short rest with a snuggly blanket and quiet time. Make time and places for children who need it—and watch for signs of over-stimulation before they escalate.

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Food is the star attraction at most family gatherings—but food can cause upsets and outbursts from some kids on the spectrum. If there is nothing served that the child enjoys, it can be upsetting and frustrating. Make sure to consider the child’s diet and appetite during the holidays, and don’t force a child to indulge in typical holiday menus when he may not want to try new foods. Holidays are not the time to force children to eat new foods. Also, watch his intake of sweets, sugar and caffeine during the holidays that can trigger outbursts and anxious feelings.

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Some children with ASD are very sensitive to smell. When visiting in other people’s homes, let them know ahead of time. Unscented products are usually preferable if this is the case. Children on the autism spectrum may react negatively to fresh Christmas trees, candles and other holiday smells.

Be aware of what triggers problems for the child, and try to avoid them rather than handle them after an incident occurs.

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Try to minimize stress and anxiety for parents and grandparents, too. Children can sense stress, and it causes them to worry and become upset. Crowded rooms, busy malls, heavy traffic and unfamiliar people can create anxiety for children on the spectrum, so plan ahead. Avoid large crowds, shop on less busy days and times with the child and find a way to eliminate stress for you and your child.

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If stimming behaviors are exhibited (repetitive behaviors like opening/closing a door), explain why it’s important to allow the child to continue the activity. These activities bring comfort to children on the spectrum and help them cope with the changes around them. If others are uncomfortable, they can excuse themselves discreetly from the room if necessary, but don’t try to force the child to stop the behavior.

Parents are typically very sensitive to the triggers and challenges for their child. Unfortunately, grandparents may not always be as aware of these things, and even though they are attempting to create a festive holiday event for everyone, they may inadvertently create a situation that spurs outbursts and stress for the autistic child.

Make everyone as aware as possible of what upsets a child on the spectrum, and take proactive steps to make it a happy holiday for everyone. Don’t deprive a child with special needs from celebrating, but be flexible and use good common sense to make sure it’s a special time for the child as well.

Rhonda Day is the mother of two adult daughters and a grandmother of five. She is a freelance writer and editor living in Virginia. Visit her website at http://rhondawday. com. This article was reprinted with permission from http://richmondmom.com/2011/12/15/celebratingholidays-with-an-autistic-child/

Respect the child’s feelings—this is a tough one for grandparents who may not see their grandkids often and can’t help but hug them. But it’s important to keep a distance with some children.

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By Karen Krejcha By accepting children on the autism spectrum, their learning differences and social culture, we help nourish self-esteem, and can often open the door to more receptive, enriching and empowering play.

to take things apart and need toys with durability. A considerate gift means considering the recipient.

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Support the child’s special interest. Does the youth you are buying for have a special hobby or fascination? Trains, horses, cars, dinosaurs, animation, stuffed animals? Purchasing a toy that engages the child and appeals to a child’s special interests increase the likelihood that the toy will be used repeatedly. It also provides playmates a wonderful opportunity to use the appeal of that special interest to relate to the child.

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Think about developmental ability rather than age when looking at learning toys. Focus on building confidence and independence while developing skills.

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Concrete minds crave clarity and predictability. In her 2012 book, Asperkids, An Insider’s Guide to Loving, Understanding and Teaching Children with Asperger Syndrome, Jennifer Cook O’Toole, an Aspie mother to three Asperkids, emphasizes that the way children on the autism spectrum think is different than their neurotypical peers. “Our concrete-seeking minds crave clarity and predictability. Most of our days are trying to navigate a world that is counter-intuitive to the way are brains are hardwired, so we seek comfort in toys and activities that help calm us.”

Cause and effect toys are logical and appeal to more concrete minds.

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Think about toys which engage but do not aggravate the senses. A lot of learning comes from what we take in through our senses, however almost all children on the autism spectrum have sensory challenges and sensitivities. For those that use motion to regulate themselves, consider toys that allow swinging, climbing, spinning or bouncing. For kids with smell or hearing sensitivities, avoid toys which are scented or make sudden unpredictable noises.

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Think of toys that are calming and tactilefriendly. For children experiencing sensory overload that need a break to calm, toys like bubbles, stress balls and soft fidget toys can help. Consider a play tent as a quiet area and keep items like visual timers,

Here are 10 points to consider when purchasing toys for children on the autism spectrum.

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Children with autism often engage in play in different ways than their neurotypical peers, and that’s okay!

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Medical and educational professionals agree that play is very important in a child’s developmental process. Through play, children practice a variety of skills, many of which show learning, planning and interpersonal development. Children with autism may be seen playing by themselves or playing with toys in ways that are different than their typically developing peers.

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As adults, you have the opportunity to use play to get into a child’s world. Accept from the outset that just because a child may be neurologically wired differently doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t want to have fun, be creative or feel supported. Try to gauge the child’s developmental stage, and use positive reinforcement during play to encourage the learning process.

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Consider the child you are buying for, keeping safety in mind. As the saying goes, if you’ve met one child with autism, you’ve met one child with autism!

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weighted blankets, soft huggable stuffed animals and toys with tranquil music that are kept inside the tent.

Consider portability. It is often challenging for children with autism to break routine, wait in lines or deal with unexpected circumstances. Create a to-go bag of portable toy favorites that travel with you. Suggestions include a drawing pad, crayons, flashcards, tablet with apps, special interest comfort toy, hand fidgets, autism chew toys (for children who are very oral), puppets (to roleplay), a visual timer and a favorite book.

Think about skill-building. Whether you choose a paintby-numbers art project, a card game, a board game or puzzle, think about incorporating different learning skills through play whether it be gross motor, fine motor, verbal, reasoning or memory.

Think about toys they love that can help you build social interaction and get into their world. When you see a child stacking blocks of the same color, lining up cars or categorizing their collection, remember that imaginative play comes in many forms. To those not on the autism spectrum, repetitive tasks may seem mundane and unimaginative. To children who are autistic, predictability is comforting and calming, and prepares for the development of higher level learning.

If your child lines up cars or stacks toys in a pattern, play along and make your own pattern. Instead of stacking by color, stack by size. Instead of lining up by type of car, line up alphabetically. Then take that a step further by creating a visual map or diagram and building to that visual model.

Remember that turn-taking, sharing, social interaction and manners can all be modeled while still showing respect to a child’s preferred style of play.

In conclusion, whether buying for a boy or a girl or on the autism spectrum, all kids want to have fun. When you buy toys that inspire a child, they’ll in turn inspire you too!

Karen Krejcha is co-founder and Executive Director of Autism Empowerment, a Vancouver, Wash.-based nonprofit dedicated to making life better and more meaningful for individuals and families in the autism and Asperger communities locally, regionally and worldwide. She is a member of the Spectrums Magazine editorial advisory board, a 2013 Washington state Jefferson Awards winner for Public Service and a 2012 recipient of the Global and Regional Asperger Partnership Distinguished Spectrumite Medal. She and her two sons are each diagnosed on the autism spectrum.

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Florida-based Autism Toys and More was created to provide parents with the same educational and developmental toys that a therapist uses.

BionicBox www.bionicbox.com The educational uses of BionicBlox are many: creative play, social and collaborative building (a favorite of science museums), counting, geometry, higher level math, architecture and engineering.

Fun and Function www.FunandFunction.com Occupational therapist and mother began Fun and Function to meet the needs of special needs families. From move and work to sensory play and weighted items, visit their comprehensive website for great gift ideas.

PlayAbility Toys http://www.playabilitytoys.com PlayAbility Toys are created specifically for children with special needs. Our toy ideas come from parents, teachers, and therapists who support children who are autistic, blind, have muscular dystrophy or are challenged by a variety of cognitive and physical disabilities.

Toys ‘R Us Toy Guide for Differently Abled Kids www.toysrus.com/guide Toys selected by experts to aid in the development of children with physical and cognitive disabilities.

*This list is provided as general information about autism as a service to the community. Spectrums Magazine doesn’t recommend, refer, or endorse any resource, therapy, service provider. Always consult the advice of your medical, legal, or educational care team.

Sensitive Santa: ANNUAL EVENT ALLOWS EVERYONE TO CELEBRATE

By Courtney Freitag He has the same smooth white beard, jolly red suit and sparkling eyes. However, this Santa is experienced with the various dynamics of seeing children on the autism spectrum: gentle touches, quite and soothing voice and patience.

Butch Bernhardt and his wife Roberta look forward to this time of year ever since they began playing “Sensitive Santa” and Mrs. Claus three years ago.

And this year’s festivities on Dec. 14 from 2-4 p.m. encourage children of all ages and their siblings to attend.

“Our experience with families who have children experiencing special needs is that they don’t have the

same opportunity to see Santa and get that important photo,” Roberta said. “Going to a mall or a store can be tough on these kids, with all the noise and distractions.”

Last year brought in about 100 children and 32 families, according to Brenda Tyrrell of the ARC. “I just thought of ‘Sensitive Santa’ as I know many children have sensory issues and dislike crowds, my Lil’ Bob included,” Tyrrell said. “I also know the pictures in the mall with Santa are very expensive, and most of our families don’t have a lot of extra.

This is a free event where the children can play, have a snack and visit Santa in an accepting inclusive environment.”

Tyrrell, the mother of a son on the autism spectrum, said the event is organized by the first letter of families’ last names. This prevents children with special needs from waiting in long lines for their special time with Santa.

“Some time in line cannot be avoided, but my goal is to keep this to a minimum,” Tyrrell said. “We will take them out to a corner in the church where they will be able to quietly meet with Santa and have their photo taken.”

Families are encouraged to bring their own camera; however, a photographer will be on hand to capture the images as well. Each child will receive a small gift from Santa, have a snack afterward and talk with

Pictured left to right: Christina Stebbins, Melissa Bernhardt and Kristi Klingenmier.

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IT’S NOT THE DESTINATION, IT’S THE JOURNEY: Help for lessening the bumps in the road of holiday travel

By Melinda M. Thompson It’s that time of year again: time to think about hitting the road or the “not-so-friendly skies” to visit family and friends for the holidays. Perhaps this year, your family is planning the “perfect holiday family escape” to a sunnier climate for a little rest and relaxation?

Sounds great in theory, but even a trip to a crowded mall of shoppers can be complete sensory overload to someone on the autism spectrum.

How do families find that balance, replicate important routines and take the trip to see relatives—all while making sure your child has the required down time and understanding they need?

staff to talk to and arrangements that can be made before a trip is key when planning a trip with special needs travelers. With checklists, tips and contact information, we have got you covered and on your way!

PLANNING Decide on your method of transportation. Will you travel by car or public transportation, like a train or bus? Will you need to fly, and if so, how will that trip through the Transportation Security Administration (TSA) screening look for your child? Will you be traveling during peak traffic times or busy travel days? Perhaps it’s possible to leave a day or two earlier to avoid a little chaos. What will your child need to occupy him or herself? Sometimes choosing an airline like JetBlue with individual TVs on every seat is just the ticket to keeping a child happy and focused!

Get kids involved in the planning and preparation.

Have your traveler pack his own backpack, and fill it with things that will be exciting to open once on the road. Let he or she choose a new coloring book and crayons or a new book or magazine. Give the child on the spectrum a sense of control by packing items that provide comfort such as video games, headphones, cards, gum, snacks and a personal travel blanket and pillow. Pack chargers and extra batteries to ensure electronics are ready to go!

ACCOMMODATIONS Traveling during the holiday season can be stressful.

However, with proper planning, research and consideration of how a child or family member does best when they are outside their routine and comfort zone can ease the process. Knowing their needs and preparing for a reaction to possible over-stimulation or what might cause a potential melt-down can really make all the difference when planning a seasonal trip.

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Family friendly hotels are everywhere these days.

Many include breakfast and wheelchair-accessible rooms, and are more than willing to accommodate a special need or dietary request. Sensory diets can be kept in place while traveling by choosing hotels with indoor pools or hot tubs.

Plan where you will stay ahead of time.

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a thorough conversation with your hosts to ensure he or she have a clear understanding of your child’s limitations, needs and accommodations that will make it a happier stay for everyone. (See our story about holiday hosting on page 6).

getting to the airport,” according to the TSA website.

Travelers may call TSA Cares toll-free at 1-855-7872227 prior to traveling with questions about screening policies, procedures and what to expect at the security checkpoint.

It is okay to ask them to talk to their children or other invited quests beforehand. Sometimes a simple explanation of what autism is or why someone is in a wheelchair is all a family member needs. Knowing how it affects a family member creates better compassion and understanding for everyone. Don’t forget to include downtime or outings to take a break from family and crowds that help everyone recharge.

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TRAVELING BY PLANE The Internet is a wealth of information for preparing to travel by plane. From social stories, books, videos and the new program TSA Cares, a lot of support and assistance have been implemented for travelers with special needs. TSA Cares’ purpose is to avert potential difficulties involving security screening of travelers with disabilities. You can print out a special “Notification Card” to give screeners as a “heads up” in a discreet way allowing parents to communicate the special needs without alarming or worrying your child.

The website includes information categorized under the extra assistance needed: Autism or Intellectual Disabilities, Passengers Who Have Difficulty Being Touched, Waiting in Line and Disabilities and Medical Conditions, as well as information for Children with Disabilities.

Review the specific information and inform the TSA officer how to approach and screen your child.

Children with disabilities CAN be screened without being separated from their parents or guardians. You can even request a passenger support specialist ahead of time by calling a toll-free TSA Cares hotline. This special helpline number is “designed to assist travelers with disabilities and medical conditions, prior to

Going by car can provide more flexibility and allows you to travel at your own pace, create a schedule that works for your family and make stops as needed.

However, it can be long, boring and tiring for kids who are not use to riding for long periods of time. Being prepared with the pre-packed backpacks—games, phone apps, snacks—will help keep passengers busy.

If you can take an extra day or two, talk to your travel companions about a special stop or sight-seeing destination along the route. Feed their interests with a stop at a landmark, park or museum that will tap into a specific source of excitement. Check with local tourism or chamber offices for local insight to make memories along the way. Traveling to another state?

Give passengers a map to follow along or use a smart phone with roadside maps and attractions.

For some families, driving at night when children are sleeping can help alleviate some of the “Are we there yet?” questions from the backseat. Looking at a route to take into account any construction or road closures is a good pre-planning tip as well.

TRAVELING BY TRAIN Before traveling by train, call ahead to ensure that your designated stops have wheelchair mobility or accessibility. Information, accessible seating and bedroom space can be secured in advance, and more details are available on the Accessible Travel of www. amtrak.com.

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CAR TRAVEL TIPS & APPS

Roadside America Smartphone App (iOS): $2.99 and up www.roadsideamerica.com/mobile/roadside/ios/ The Roadside America App for iPhone was created by America’s foremost experts in roadside attractions and oddities. It’s packed with easy-to-use, in-depth info and maps for the nation’s funniest and weirdest must-sees— over 9,500 eye-popping places when you unlock the entire USA and Canada. iExit Interstate Exit Guide App (iOS and Android): $.99 http://goo.gl/FIqyU2 iExit tells you what’s coming up in real time when driving on the interstate. It’s designed to easily communicate which upcoming exits have what you need, whether that’s gas, a hotel, a rest area and more.

Mad Libs (iOS): $.99 http://goo.gl/705vWu The game you loved as a child is still that fill-in-the-blank word play that still has the ability to entertain all ages and keep the “Are we there yet” at bay.

PLANE TRAVEL TIPS & APPS

TSA Cares: 1-855-787-2227 • http://goo.gl/QSZMzV Call prior to traveling with questions about screening policies, procedures and what to expect at the security checkpoint.

Air Travel Guide for Children with Autism http://goo.gl/SXjVPq The Autism Passport http://goo.gl/lDDvr3 A document for parents to give to caregivers while on vacation. It contains a brief description of Autism and has space for parents to fill out information about their child.

Social Story for traveling by plane http://goo.gl/jieUnV Courtesy of the blog Everyday Adventures, this social story is helpful to breakdown the steps of traveling by plane and through airports.

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one traveling companion. You must provide written documentation of your disability at the ticket counter and when boarding the train.

Another resourceful page is the Amtrak Kids Depot online, a fun informational webpage filled with games, stories, activities and links. Get kids excited about trains or buses by sharing history and social stories beforehand.

Trains make many stops, and packing small “activity bags” can be helpful to keep a child entertained at each station.

Also talking about the various stops, landmarks or cities through which you are traveling can create a nice dialogue along the way.

THEME PARK TRAVEL Visiting a theme park can be a once-in-a-lifetime experience if it is a good fit for your family. The sensory overload is magnified through lights, sounds, sound effects and larger-than-life characters around every corner. Preplanning and knowing your traveler’s triggers and interests are essential. The holidays are the busiest time of the year, so lines are longer and the parks are packed. Look at park maps ahead of time, and ask where good quiet spots and spaces away from crowds might be possible to recharge.

Disney theme parks have been in the news lately for the changes to their accessibility policies for those with disabilities. The Disability Access Service Card (DAS) is designed to accommodate guests who are not able to wait in a conventional line environment due to a disability (including non-apparent disabilities).

Read and research, call Guest Services and ask specific questions to ensure you are very clear about how the new passes work. There is no longer easy “fast access” to attractions. Guests with disabilities using special passes must have their photo taken, be with their group and go to assigned kiosk stations around the park to obtain a specific pass for a specific attraction. They will be given a reserved time to come back.

Creating memories from a family trip and spending the holidays together in transit is an experience one will never forget. Luckily, traveling with children and family members who have special needs has become much easier. There are ADA accommodations almost everywhere you go, and with the proper planning, you and your family can experience a magical holiday!

Melinda Thompson is a mother of two teenagers and a freelance travel writer. With a degree in Speech Communications, she has worked as a Parent Information and Training Specialist for PAVE and wrote a parenting column for eight years in Portland Family Magazine. Melinda’s stories have been featured in the Oregonian, the Columbian and numerous other local publications. She can be reached at: mommission@comcast.net

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other families.

“We did this originally to help these children experience Christmas like any other child,” Butch said. “However, we’ve found this is as important to our holiday season as it is to them. There’s something about seeing these kids light up when they see Santa. It’s really a blessing to be part of that.”

The Bernhardt’s daughter, Melissa, age 28, is deaf and chose to jump in the festivities along with a few friends, who help as Santa’s elves.

“She loves Christmas, so it was easy to convince her to be an elf,” Roberta said. “She’ll be joined by her friends Christina Stebbins, who is 25, and Kristi Klingenmier, who is 35. The three of them have been friends for years, and all three are hearing impaired.”

The event has grown from about eight children the first year to close to 100 by its third year. The Bernhardts said they aren’t sure what to expect this year. This is the only event to which they donate their time to and are excited to see what this year offers.

“Seeing the look on the faces of these kids when they see Santa is amazing—some are literally shaking with excitement,” Butch said. “You really get to be a part of the joy of the season. And to know you played a small part in allowing these families to have a photo of their child with Santa, that’s a rare privilege.”

Sensitive Santa, Mrs. Claus and his Elves Presented by the Parent-to-Parent of SW Washington group: www.arcswwa.org/programs/children-families/ parent-to-parent. Like the group on Facebook: http://goo.gl/KVu0Fv

Saturday, Dec. 14: 2-4 p.m.

Club Upside Play group at St. Andrew Lutheran Church 5607 NE Gher Road in Vancouver. For more information, contact BrendaT@arcofclarkcounty.org or (360) 953-1597.

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GREAT EXPECTATIONS:

Lowering the bar to increase confidence during the holidays

By Joanna Blanchard, MOTR/L

Two years ago on Christmas morning, my family experienced a first: opening gifts with everyone together in one room. We sat together as our son Dan, who is on the autism spectrum, opened present after present, tearing the paper and looking at us with excitement. He asked us for help to free his new toys from the confines of the store packaging. We froze, looked at each other in silence, tears filling our eyes. I remember thinking about how “normal” this felt, like my own childhood Christmases. It was a powerfully emotional moment.

Growing up, my family created magical holiday celebrations that created honored traditions.

However, as an adult I realized it is a pretty anxietyinducing time for many of us. My desire to make it an epic event for my kids and loved ones became a challenge after autism interfered.

The pure joy on a child’s face when opening presents fills a family with pride and is a Christmas morning dream. However, when your child shows little interest—or even distress—in these perceived “picture perfect” moments, such as answering the door to grandparents standing there, sitting down to a traditional dinner, or decorating the tree, it can be crushing to a mom with sugar plums dancing in her head.

The magic of Christmas was what made it so powerful as a child. Believing in things you couldn’t see feeling the power of faith and tradition can create such strong feelings of love and togetherness. Teaching our kids about the value of giving to someone else, spreading peace and goodwill, and being there for others is an essential part of making the holiday season a hopeful, uplifting time in our Western culture.

These were all things I wanted to impart on my children. I wanted Christmas to be about spirit, tradition, love and family. (Oh, okay, I also wanted to blow their MINDS with awesome presents and trees, and create that giddy delirium of wonder that I remembered as a child).

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You see, my husband and I had long given up expectations of these idyllic Christmas mornings.

Usually Dan had to be coerced into “opening” a present with me, then would run out of the room or pace around the periphery, either too overwhelmed or intimidated to join in. This became our norm over the years, and looked very different than other families’ Christmas morning rituals.

Families of children on the autism spectrum deeply want to share this sacred time of year, often making it difficult to “let go” of expectations for our kids—and also for ourselves. We learn quickly that the holiday season tends to involve activities and can place requirements on children that set their family up for disappointment: High expectations and emotions surrounding traditions including food, family, rituals and celebrations that are different from the rest of the year Different schedules, decorations and added activities (concerts, parties, assemblies, church programs, etc.)

“Hidden Rules:” Holidays are abstract concepts based on faith, stories and sentiments that are deeply meaningful and emotionally charged for many people. However, these can be confusing concepts for our more “black and white” thinkers.

The frenzied pace of activity and prep, combined with the constant overstimulation and onslaught of media and retail pressure, heighten anxiety Like birthdays, Christmas can be a big, fat, monthlong reminder that our child is far behind his or her peers. Other moms are buying age-appropriate toys like Legos and action figures, while we are still looking at baby toys, balls and chewy tubes.

Family members often ask what your child wants for Christmas, and may misunderstand or seem unsympathetic to a request.

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“What kind of a mother doesn’t know what her child wants for Christmas?” I would research for hours for toys that would be “good for him” or “therapeutic,” and create extensive lists on Amazon.

However, once my husband and I learned to change our expectations, Christmas got easier. We learned to let go of what we wanted, and adapted to what we had. Together, we decided what was most important and which traditions we needed to nourish ourselves during this time. We also considered what we wanted for our other child’s experience and our extended family. Then we consciously decided to work together and push through those experiences to which we would hold strong. Everything else we let go.

For us it was the Christmas tree—it symbolizes so much more than a decoration to our family. Ask: What does your family love to do? Can you escape all of the external and internal expectations this year, and distill it down to the real symbols that will feed your family’s soul during this winter?

We approach December as a team, at the ready to comfort and work through the wailing, messy times together. (Temple Grandin calls it “stretching” the child–don’t surprise them, but prep them and stretch them). Here’s some ways that may help reduce stress for everyone during the holidays: Create social stories about your family’s traditions, faith, beliefs and what to expect around the holidays. One example could be “Christmas at Our House.”

Reach out to your school staff for help prepping around this time of year.

Decorate your house slowly and gradually throughout the month of December.

Don’t be afraid to cut back on social engagements, activities and obligations. This reserves emotional resources and physical energy to use in other areas.

Travel to home improvement stores to view lights, trees, holiday decorations and more.

Honor your child’s differences and model flexibility. Be sure to exhibit the same compassion you are asking others to show your child.

Communicate your expectations to family, friends, co-workers, visitors and neighbors. Is it more lights and less food? Be honest about what is too much and what will work within your family’s dynamics.

Don’t be afraid to start new traditions of your own!

(Every Thanksgiving, our family escapes to the coast to go fishing because it works for OUR family).

Take one year at a time. Next year could look very different for your family.

After a few years, it has paid off. Dan has also matured and eventually accepted and even loves the Christmas tree. (Complete with an episode of weeping when the tree comes down on Jan. 2.)

Just as you would for any challenging school or novel activity requiring good behavior, prepare and support your child. Have snacks, prep with social stories or intense sensory play beforehand, give extra time to process and model how it’s done.

Also check your own rigidity related to holiday rituals, foods and traditions. Can you show yourself and others some of the same compassion we will ask them to show our children? Demonstrate the same patience with your in-laws, your siblings, your neighbors and your co-workers during this highly social time.

Everyone has their own story. Can you listen for theirs?

Joanna Blanchard is an occupational therapist and the mother of two boys on opposite ends of the autism spectrum. She is the author of the Spectrums Magazine monthly online Ask the OT column. She is the owner of Everybody Stims Occupational Therapy in Vancouver, Washington and can be reached at joanna@ everybodystims.com.

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Our community has holiday events for everyone*, from live music and theater to historical celebrations. We have tried to capture a bit of something for everyone, from visits with Sensitive Santas and adaptive ski lessons to holiday bazaars and live performances. Build memories and create new traditions with one of the area’s activities that make this the most wonderful time of the year.

Readers should call ahead or email to discuss any specific or special accommodations to ensure it’s an activity that fits your family best. *

Music, Theatre and Live Performances 23rd Annual Tuba Christmas Concert Downtown will pulse with the melodic sounds of big brass as over 250 tubas play in unison in the heart of downtown.

Where: Pioneer Courthouse Square, 701 SW 6th Avenue, Portland When: Saturday, Dec. 14: 1:30 p.m.

Cost: Free More Information: http://goo.gl/BO6Ba5 13th Annual Holiday Concert Series with Aaron Meyer The Northwest’s own “concert rock violinist” will return to perform three shows with his six-piece concert rock orchestra featuring renowned guitarist and producer, Tim Ellis.

Where: First Congregational Church, 1126 SW Park Avenue, Portland When: Friday, Dec. 20: 7:30 p.m. and Saturday, Dec. 21: 2 p.m. and 7 p.m.

Ticket Prices:: $30 Adults, $25 Children, $40 Reserved Seating | All $5 More at Doors More Information: www.uccportland.org; (503) 228-7219 Natalie Cole Christmas Join the Oregon Symphony this holiday season when 9-time Grammy winner Natalie Cole returns after her sold-out concert last year. Natalie will perform a selection #1 hits, holiday songs, and songs from her album, “Natalie Cole en Español.”

Where: Arlene Schnitzer Concert Hall, 1037 SW Broadway, Portland When: Saturday, Dec. 21: 7:30 p.m.

Ticket Prices: $35-$127 | All Ages More Information: www.orsymphony.org; (503) 248-4335 Beaverton Civic Theatre presents If It’s Monday, This Must Be Christmas When: Through Sunday, Dec. 8 (various performances)

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Where: Beaverton City Library Auditorium, 12375 SW 5th Street, Beaverton More Information: http://goo.gl/AXR7TS Popovich Comedy Pet Theater- HOLIDAY CIRCUS! The most beloved family show in the world, featuring an amazing cast of house cats, dogs, parrots, even geese and mice!

Critics describe this all-ages show as a unique blend of physical comedy, world-champion juggling and the extraordinary talents of more than 30 performing pets.

Where: Aladdin Theatre, 3017 SE Milwaukie Avenue, Portland When: Thursday, Dec. 12: 7 p.m.

Ticket Prices:: $25+ (Check website for ticket information) More Information: (503) 234-9694; http://goo.gl/csVOtV Mark Bosnian’s Sing Free Now! Home for the Holidays Annual Christmas Concert features Oregon Music Hall of Fame inductee Mark Bosnian singing some of your favorite holiday songs while playing piano, guitar, accordion and ukulele.

Where: Taborspace, 5441 SE Belmont St, Portland When: Saturday, Dec. 7: 7 p.m.

Ticket Prices:: $15 More Information: http://goo.gl/roNxyB; (503) 238-3904 Christmas Through the Eyes of a Child The Portland Ensign Choir and Orchestra invites you to celebrate “Christmas Through the Eyes of a Child.” This concert benefiting Doernbecher Children’s Hospital Foundation will have Christmas music for children of all ages, including traditional sacred Christmas music and modern classics.

Where: Skyview High School Concert Hall, 1300 NW 139th Street, Vancouver Performances Dates: Saturday, Dec. 14 (Two shows): 2 and 7 p.m.

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More Information: (503) 476-5320; http://portlandensign. org

Sunday, Dec. 22: 2 p.m.

Ticket prices: $14-30 More Information: http://goo.gl/FCgXEs

Singing Christmas Tree For over 50 years, Portland’s Singing Christmas Tree has been a Northwest premier destination to kick off the holiday season. A musical extravaganza, the Singing Christmas Tree is a spirited storyline that comes alive with over 300 adult and youth choir voices, a live orchestra and local actors.

Where: Keller Auditorium, 222 SW Clay Street, Portland Performances Dates: Friday, Dec. 6: 7:30 p.m.

Saturday, Dec. 7: 2:30 and 7:30 p.m.

Sunday, Dec. 8: 2 p.m.

Ticket prices: $17-$77 (Check website for seating and ticket information) More Information: www.singingchristmastree.org

Portland Gay Men’s Chorus Holiday Connections The Holiday Concert of the Portland Gay Men’s Chorus has become one of Portland’s most cherished musical December traditions. Beauty, pageantry, humor and goodwill of the season as we sing and dance our way into your hearts with musical selections drawn from the array of holidays celebrated.

Where: Newmark Theatre, PCPA, 1111 SW Broadway, Portland Performance Dates: Thursday, Dec. 5-Saturday, Dec. 7 More Information: http://www.pdxgmc.org

The Christmas Revels 2013: Christmas in Old Europe Once upon a Wintertime in Old Europe, a town builds a wondrous clock to celebrate the cycle of seasons. When the extraordinary clock is completed, the town throws a grand Winter Solstice party to coincide with the annual Mummers competition.

Where: Scottish Rite Center, 1512 SW Morrison Street, Portland Performance Dates: Friday, Dec. 6-Sunday, Dec. 15 Ticket prices: Children (ages 4-12), $16; Student: $27; 65+ senior: $32; Regular price: $39 More Information: (503) 274-4654; www.portlandrevels.org/revels.php Oregon Ballet Theatre’s The Nutcracker Light the fire in a child’s heart and spark your own childlike wonder with this beloved trip into a land where toy soldiers fight rat armies, snowflakes come dancing to life, and the sugarplum fairy presides over it all with the wave of a wand.

Where: Keller Auditorium, 222 SW Clay Street, Portland Performance Dates: Saturday, Dec. 14-Tuesday, Dec. 24 Ticket prices: Check website for ticket prices and information More Information: (503) 222-5538 www.obt.org/season_nutcracker.html Northwest Dance Theatre’s A Nutcracker Tea A Nutcracker Tea is an abridged, family-friendly adaptation of the Nutcracker ballet for ages 4 and up. The classic story of Clara and the Nutcracker Prince is told with beautiful music, colorful costumes, and delightful dancing.

Where: PCC Sylvania Performing Arts Center, 12000 SW 49th Avenue, Portland Performance Dates: Saturday, Dec. 14: 2 p.m. and 7 p.m.

Sunday, Dec. 15: 2 p.m.

Friday, Dec. 20: 7 p.m.

Saturday, Dec. 21: 2 p.m. and 7 p.m.

It’s a Wonderful Life A new musical adaptation of Frank Capra’s classic film, It’s A Wonderful Life. Nominated for numerous PAMTA’s and loved by audiences, Stumptown Stages’ original musicalbased on a holiday classic is back for its second season!

Where: Brunish Theatre (Inside Antoinette Hatfield Hall), 1111 SW Broadway, Portland Performance Dates: Through Sunday, Dec. 22 Ticket prices: $35.25-$46.25 More Information: http://goo.gl/DAFLXo Portland Youth Philharmonic Concert at Christmas Features all four PYP ensembles and an Alumni Orchestra.

Where: Arlene Schnitzer Concert Hall, 1037 SW Broadway, Portland Performance Dates: Thursday, Dec. 26: 7:30 p.m.

Ticket prices: Check website for ticket prices and information More Information: http://goo.gl/8H6q0r The Big Horn Brass Holiday Concert The Big Horn Brass features some of The VSO’s best musicians as well as well-known vocalist Valerie Day. Where: Vancouver Symphony Orchestra, Lifepoint Church, 305 NE 192nd Avenue, Vancouver Performance Dates: Saturday, Dec. 14: 3 p.m.

Ticket prices: Students, $10; General admission: $25 More information: http://goo.gl/tygnfJ

Lights, parades and cultural Hanukkah Menorah Lighting Ceremony Public menorah lighting, children’s activities, music and Chanukah foods.

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Where: 920 NW 25th, Portland When: Wednesday, Dec. 4: 6-9 p.m.

Dates: Wednesday, Dec. 4 Cost: $10 adults; $5 kids; $36 family More information: (503) 226-6131; www.shaarietorah.org.

Kol Shalom Hanukkah Party Join Kol Shalom’s young and young in heart in a festive Hanukkah celebration. Kids Games, dreidel spinning, singing, group Menorah Lighting with candles ablaze, Latke eating and jelly doughnuts.

Where: West Hills Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, 8470 SW Oleson Road, Portland When: Saturday, Dec. 7: 2-4 p.m.

More information: (503) 459-4210; www.kolshalom.org Traditional German Christmas Market A traditional Christmas Market and light display in the charming Rediscovery Forest. Photos with Santa, live reindeer and pony rides.

Where: Oregon Gardens, 879 W Main Street, Silverton When: Through Sunday, Dec. 22 from 4-9 p.m.

Ticket prices: $5 per person; $4 for Garden Members; Free for children 4 and under Free More information: http://goo.gl/mOcr04; (503) 874-8100 Alberta Street Tree Lighting The 2nd annual living holiday tree lighting will be located in the courtyard at NE 18th and Alberta streets. The event will include the “flipping of the switch” and holiday music.

Where: NE 18th and NE Alberta streets, Portland When: Saturday, Dec. 7: 4:30 p.m.

Cost: Free More Information: http://goo.gl/BDIKIQ

Beaverton Tree Lighting Holiday open house featuring the City of Beaverton Staff Choir, children’s holiday workshop and a visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus. Holiday treats and entertainment by the Beaverton Civic Theatre.

Where: Beaverton City Library and City Park, 12375 SW 5th Street, Beaverton When: Friday, Dec. 6: 5-7 p.m.

Cost: Free More Information: http://goo.gl/UDZOTF Chelatchie Prairie Railroad Christmas Tree Special Train Where: NE Railroad Avenue, Yacolt When: Saturday, Dec. 7; Sunday, Dec. 8; Saturday, Dec. 14; Sunday, Dec. 15; Steam Weekend Saturday, Dec. 21 and Sunday, Dec. 22 Ride times: 9:30 a.m., Noon and 2:30 p.m.

Cost: See website for passenger information and ticket prices More Information: (360) 686-3559; http://www.bycx.com Christmas at Fort Vancouver Explore the lands and structures at the center of fur trade and military history in the Pacific Northwest. Learn about the diverse cultures who lived and worked here. Experience costumed programs, hands-on education activities, engaging living history events, creative media and a world-class archaeology collection.

Where: Marshall House, 1301 Officers Row, Vancouver When: Saturday, Dec. 14: 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Cost: Regular Fort admission More Information: (360) 992-1804, http://www.fortvan.org Christmas Ship Parade 2013 marks the 59th year for the Christmas Ship Parade on the Columbia and Willamette Rivers in Portland, an average fleet of about 55 to 60 boats between the two Columbia and Willamette River fleets. Both fleets will be out most every night for two weeks beginning Dec. 6. (No ships run on Monday, Dec. 9).

Where: Check website for Columbia and Willamette rivers schedule When: Friday, Dec. 6-Saturday, Dec. 21 More Information: www.christmasships.org Cost: Free Fremont Holiday Fest Visit with Santa returns to Beaumont Village along with a new Holiday Tree Lighting Ceremony, Santa Paws for dogs, hot chocolate stands, a new Golden Tickets holiday shopping program as well as music by Portland Timbre, entertainment and family fun.

When: Friday, Dec. 6 Where: Santa and Mrs. Claus arrive by fire truck at Grand Central Bakery, NE 45th and Fremont at 5 p.m. and visit with children until 9 p.m.

More Information: (503) 504-7799 (Reserve a time slot time for your children to visit Santa, or for dogs to visit Santa Paws: Katie@eventsbygather.com).

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Continued from previous page Gnome for the Holidays Alberta Street merchants invite participants to find festively painted gnomes hidden within holiday window displays.

Participants use a game card to seek out as many gnomes as they can find. Completed game cards will be entered into a raffle to win an awesome prize.

When: Saturday, Dec. 14-Sunday, Dec. 22 Where: Along NE Alberta Street, Portland More Information: (503) 683-3252; http://goo.gl/ED6o4Y Grotto Festival of Lights Presenting the sights, sounds and sensations of the season, The Grotto’s Christmas Festival of Lights is the largest Christmas choral festival in the world. The festival features nearly 160 indoor holiday concerts performed by many of the region’s finest schools, church and civic choirs.

Where: NE 85th and Sandy Blvd, Portland When: Nightly through Monday, Dec. 30 (except Christmas Day); 5-9:30 p.m. Grounds close at 10 p.m.

Cost: $9 general admission; $8 senior (65+); $4 children ages 3-12; ages 2 and under are free.

More Information: (503) 261-2400 www.thegrotto.org/christmas Happy Valley Tree Lighting The traditional Tree Lighting Event at City Hall. Visit with Santa, enjoy caroling, cookies and cocoa, horse drawn carriage rides and holiday music.

Where: 16000 SE Misty Drive, Happy Valley When: Sunday, Dec. 8: 4-6 p.m.

More Information: http://goo.gl/gkzNxO Cost: Free Lantern Tour of Fort Vancouver Experience live theater and take a lantern-lit journey with a Park Ranger. Peek into the past with costumed interpreters performing historical vignettes of a night at Fort Vancouver.

Where: Fort Vancouver National Site, 1001 E 5th Street, Vancouver When: Saturday, Dec. 7 and Saturday, Dec. 21: 7-9 p.m.

Cost: Admission price: $10 (ages 16+); $7 (15 and under).

Reservations required More Information: http://www.fortvan.org

Peacock Lane Since the 1920s, each house in this quaint southeast neighborhood has been decorating for Christmas. Mostly Tudors, the houses are adorned with not only beautiful sparkling lights, but also nativity scenes, rotating Christmas trees and stunningly life-like replicas of Santa and Frosty.

Where: 3229 NW Pittock Drive, Portland When: Sunday, Dec. 15 and Monday, Dec. 16 (Pedestrian Only Nights); Tuesday, Dec. 17: 6-11 p.m.; Special Hours: Tuesday, Dec. 24: 6 p.m.–midnight; Tuesday, Dec. 31 6 p.m.-midnight Cost: Free More Information: http://peacocklane.net Providence Festival of Trees 31st annual holiday event and a tradition for more than 20,000 people in the Portland metro area. Wander through our winter wonderland and view more than 25 uniquely decorated and themed Christmas trees.

Where: Oregon Convention Center, 777 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd, Portland When: Thursday, Dec. 5: Gala dinner and auction: 5:30-10 p.m.; Friday, Dec. 6: 10:30 a.m. to 5 p.m.; Saturday, Dec. 7: 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Cost: $6 adults; $5 seniors; $4 (ages 3-12); Children 2 and under free More Information: http://goo.gl/v4bJ0b Sherwood Winter Festival Community parade, holiday music from local choirs, the first tree lighting in the new Cannery Square Plaza, a visit from Santa, crafts, activities and more.

Where: 16300 SW Langer Drive off Hwy 99W, Sherwood When: Friday, Dec. 7 beginning at noon with the helicopter arrival of Santa. Parade at 4 p.m.

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Mt. Hood Pops Orchestra Christmas Celebration Founded in 1983, the Mt. Hood Pops Orchestra features players from all ages and walks of life. The programs are designed to appeal to family and individuals who enjoying listening to a mix of traditional pops and symphonic repertoire.

Where: Mt. Hood Community College Theatre, 26000 SE Stark Street, Gresham When: Sunday, Dec. 8: 3:30-5 p.m.

More Information: http://goo.gl/H41LmH 503) 669-1937

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Continued from previous page Storybook Lane at Alpenrose Dairy In partnership with 4-H of Multnomah County, this free event is a family tradition for people of all ages. Its old western town has been transformed into a winter wonderland where you are invited to peek at the animals on display in nostalgic Storybook Lane, stroll Dairyville’s vintage storefronts, enjoy refreshments, listen to local choirs sing, watch old holiday movies in the Opera House and have a visit with Santa!

Where: Alpenrose Dairy, 6149 SW Shattuck Road, Portland When: Fridays-Sundays, Dec. 7-9; Dec. 14-16; Dec. 21-23; Fridays: 3-6 p.m.; Saturdays and Sundays: 11 a.m.-6 p.m.

More Information: Check website for entertainment schedule and event information: http://goo.gl/vbxXTu or call (503) 244-1133.

West Linn Community Tree Lighting Cookie decorating, pictures with Santa, in-store specials, treats and more.

Where: West Linn City Hall and Cascade Town Square, 22500 Salamo Road, West Linn When: Friday, Dec. 6: 6 p.m.

More Information: http://goo.gl/nD0h7M West Linn Annual Holiday Parade It’s a Wonderful Life West Linn-100 Years is the theme of this year’s holiday parade featuring Santa at the Willamette Fire Station, cocoa and cider and Ugly Holiday Sweater Dash raising funds for the West Linn Food Pantry.

Where: Willamette Falls Drive, West Linn When: Saturday, Dec. 14. Parade begins at 10 a.m.

Cost: Free More Information: http://goo.gl/hUXInB Winter Lighting of the Woods Enjoy a magical walk down a lighted accessible path through the Maddax Woods to a viewing platform on the Willamette. Live music will also be provided.

When: Through Tuesday, Dec. 31 Cost: Free More Information: http://goo.gl/drQmD9 Winter Wonderland at Portland International Raceway Recognized throughout the Pacific Northwest as the “Largest Holiday Light Show West of the Mississippi,” the 21st annual Winter Wonderland will grab your attention with glimmers and glows around every corner.

Where: 1940 N Victory Blvd, Portland When: Through Wednesday, Dec. 25 (including Christmas Day). Sunday-Thursday: 5-9 p.m.; Friday and Saturday, 5-11 p.m.

Cost: $6-45 (check website for details) More Information: www.portlandraceway.com Zoolights Every holiday season, the Oregon Zoo transforms into a sparkling wonderland of more than a million LED lights.

Where: Oregon Zoo, 4001 SW Canyon Drive, Portland When: Through Sunday, Jan. 5, 2014 (closed Dec. 24 and 25).

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Cost: Tickets: $10 (Ages 12-64); $8.50 (65+); $7 (ages 3-11); Free admission to children ages 2 and under and Zoo members. Parking: $4 per car.

More Information: http://www.oregonzoo.org/visit/ zoolights

Artisan Markets, Fairs and Bazaars Children’s Healing Art Project Holiday Bazaar CHAP bring the healing power of art to children and families in crisis. The bazaar runs through Dec. 22. For $5 per hour/per art maker, everyone is welcome to enjoy unlimited art supplies to create their own masterpiece!

Where: 1910 SE 11th Avenue, Portland When: Through Dec. 22, Wednesday through Saturday: 10 a.m.-6 p.m.; Sundays: 11 a.m.-5 p.m.

Cost: $5 per hour More Information: www.chap.name Da Vinci Arts Middle School Arts Fair The da Vinci Arts Fair offers the ideal shopping venue for out of the ordinary gifts made from all sorts of art forms. Patrons can shop from an intriguing array of more than 70 juried artists showcasing ceramics, clocks, clothing, sculptures, paintings, pottery, photos, soaps and wearable art.

Where: 2508 NE Everett St, Portland When: Saturday, Dec. 7: 10 a.m.-5 p.m.; Sunday, Dec. 8: 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

Cost: Free More Information: www.pps.k12.or.us/schools/davinci French American International School’s Christmas/Holiday Market Don’t miss this holiday market with its distinctly international atmosphere! Sample crêpes, pastries, wine and gourmet cheeses while shopping for unique and special gifts.

Where: 8500 NW Johnson Street, Portland When: Saturday, Dec. 7: 9 a.m.-4 p.m.

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More Information: http://goo.gl/OE7B0b Holiday Open House & Artisans’ Market Holiday shopping with FREE admission and children’s hands-on craft activities!

Where: Clark County Historical Museum, 1511 Main Street, Vancouver When: Saturday, Dec. 7: 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

Cost: Free More Information: http://www.cchmuseum.org Vancouver Community Library Book Sale Sale of gift-quality and collectible books. All items half-price on Sunday. Special pre-sale for members of Friends of the Library on Friday, Dec. 6 from 5-8 p.m.

Where: Vancouver Community Library, 901 C Street, Vancouver When: Saturday, Dec. 7: 10:30 a.m.-5 p.m. and Sunday, Dec. 8: Noon-4 p.m.

Cost: Anyone may join at the door: $7/individual or $10/family.

More Information: (360) 314-7985; cpalmer815.cp@gmail.com Check ‘Em Off, Check ‘Em Green Gift Event Environmentally-friendly gifts for everyone on your list. Buy from your neighbors, feel good about the gifts, check everyone off your list and enjoy the holidays.

Where: Marshall Community Center, 1009 E McLoughlin, Vancouver When: Saturday, Dec. 14: 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

Cost: Check website More Information: http://goo.gl/xlPi8E Holiday Market at Cornelius Pass Roadhouse Showcasing Northwest artisans’ handmade wares—ranging from jewelry to soap, clothing, purses, fudge and more. Vendors will be in the Barn, Barnyard, House and Imbrie Meadow.

Holiday treats and mulled wine available.

Where: Cornelius Pass Roadhouse, 4045 NW Cornelius Pass Road, Hillsboro When: Sunday, Dec. 8: Noon–5 p.m.

Cost: Free More Information: (503) 640-6174; www.mcmenamins.com

Food & Drink Breakfast with Santa at McMenamins This is an annual event for many families. And don’t forget to bring your camera to record the moment your little one sits to chat with Santa.

Where: Various locations, check website for details: http://goo.gl/ojqEGH When: Begins Saturday, Dec. 7: 9 a.m. and 11 a.m.

Cost: $17 (adults); $12 kids (ages 1-10) Brunch with Santa This family event is filled with fun activities, kids crafts, a silent auction, music, peppermint milkshakes, continental breakfast, photos with Santa and more! Proceeds benefit Clackamas Women’s Services.

Where: The Oregon Golf Club, 25700 SW Pete’s Mountain Road, West Linn When: Sunday, Dec. 15: 10:30 a.m.-2 p.m.

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Snow and Outdoor Fun Mt. Hood Adaptive Ski Program Mt. Hood Meadows Ski and Snowboard School’s goal is to make snow sports accessible to people of all abilities. The program caters to a full spectrum of skiers and snowboarders from beginner through advanced. Our trained instructors, guides, and assistants will help you access the slopes of Mt. Hood Meadows. Please join us to experience outdoor activity in a safe, friendly, and FUN way.

Where: Mt Hood Meadows Dr, Mt Hood Parkdale When: Seasonal, check website Cost: Varies, check website More Information: (503) 337-2222, ext. 1288; http://goo.gl/ ttoIGd Tubing at Cooper Spur Cooper Spur’s tubing park offers one snow-tubing lane and a snow carousel. The season generally runs December-March and the tubing park operations are dependant upon snow conditions.

Where: 11000 Cloud Cap Road, Mt Hood, Parkdale When: Seasonal, check website Cost: Varies, check website More Information: http://goo.gl/4ju8NR

Children’s Healing Art Project Holiday Bazaar November 30-December 22 1910 SE 11th Ave, Portland, OR 97214 Wednesday-Saturday 10-6 and Sundays 11-5 (Closed on Monday & Tuesday) Info@chap.name (503) 243-5294

CHAP brings the healing power of art to children in crisis and their families.

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Summit Ski Area and Sno-Park Summit is the oldest ski area in the Pacific Northwest, and was the first on Mount Hood. Since 1927, Summit has provided a safe, family-oriented area with easy access and affordability.

Where: 90255 Government Camp Loop Rd, Government Camp When: Seasonal, check website Cost: Varies, check website More Information: (503) 272-0256; www.summitskiarea.com

Hands-on for Kids Bubbles & Lights at the Water Resources Education Center Kids will bubble over with excitement during December’s Second Saturday. Discover why bubbles are shiny and how rainbows are created. Can you make a prism? Children must be accompanied by a parent or guardian.

Where: Water Resources Education Center, 4600 SE Columbia Way, Vancouver When: Saturday, Dec. 14: 1-3 p.m.

More Information: www.cityofvancouver.us/watercenter

Visits with Santa Santa House on the Bricks An annual tradition, visit Santa’s House in the middle of Pioneer Square in Downtown Portland.

Where: Pioneer Courthouse Square, 701 SW 6th Avenue, Portland When: Saturday, Dec. 7-Monday, Dec. 23: 9 a.m.-9 p.m.; Tuesday, Dec. 24: 9 a.m.-5 p.m.

Cost: Check website for schedule, line information and details More Information: (503) 208-HOHO; www.portlandsanta.com Sensitive Santa Prepare for the holidays with snacks and quiet play in the gym, as well as time for children and their families to enjoy a private meeting with our very gentle Santa in another room. Those families whose last name begins with A through K will see Santa between 2 and 3 p.m. If your last name begins with the letters L through Z, you can plan to come a little later and visit Santa from 3 to 4 p.m. We’ll have some of Santa’s elves and helpers there to make these visits go as smoothly as possible for all.

Where: Club Upside play group at St. Andrew Lutheran Church, at 5607 NE Gher Road, Vancouver When: Saturday, Dec. 14: 2-4 p.m.

More Information: Brenda Tyrrell, BrendaT@arcofclarkcounty.org Autism-friendly Visit with Santa Autism-friendly Santa hosted by the Autism Society of Oregon and Red Headphones. All ages welcome! You must sign up for a 15-minute block to meet Santa, so no one has to wait on line.

Where: 8835 SW Canyon Road, #310, Portland When: Sunday, Dec. 8: 1-4 p.m.

Cost: Free More Information: Registration required. http://autismsocietyoregon.org; 503-636-1676