The Paper 03-21-19

Volume 49 - No. 12

By R. L. “Pete” Peterson

One phone call changed Martha’s life forever. At 5:49 a.m., on a gray, rainy Saturday her cell phone ping aroused her from sleep, her daughter’s name blinking as she answered the call.

“Good morning,” Martha said, cheerfully.

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old grandson, Jason, ruined the joy Martha had hoped for.

“Gramma! Help! Momma won’t wake up. Her lips are purple, and she groans when I shake her.” His sobs stopped his words.

“Don’t worry, Little Man. I’ll be right there.” An expert in First Aid and CPR, Martha knew her daughter had overdosed. She wasn’t surprised. Scared, yes. But, surprised? No. She’d had a haunting

feeling for some time her daughter was abusing drugs. Work days missed because of ‘flu.’ The empty refrigerator. Requests for gas money. The boys dressed in the same rumpled clothing all the time. Martha ignored these signs because her daughter’s divorce had been painful, and she didn’t want to meddle.

Now, she ran to her car and careened down deserted streets to her daughter’s house some five

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miles away, arriving minutes before the ambulance. Her daughter lay on the sofa, her body limp, colorless, her skin clammy to the touch. Martha pulled on rubber gloves and rolled Sandra on her side, inserting her fingers into her daughter’s throat to make her retch.

Her two grandboys watched with big eyes and pale faces. The lady next door had come up the steps as Martha did. She’d dialed 911

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after 7-year-old Jackson had pounded on her door saying his momma was sick. Still in her blue pajamas and pink rabbit ear house slippers, she too, was pale-faced and helpless.

The EMT’s arrived. They were competent, professional and quick. They gave Sandra an injection, loaded her into their ambulance, and departed, their siren wailing - in and out in less than 6 minutes. As the ambulance disappeared, Martha opted to take her grandsons home with her, rather than add to their stress by visiting the hospital.

At 12:35 that afternoon, Sandra called, asking Martha for a ride from the detox center. Once home, Florida’s equivalent of Child Protective Services arrived.

The police officer with them arrested Sandra for child endangerment, leading her away as her sons screamed, begging the policeman to let their momma go, pulling at his arm, tears cascading down chubby cheeks.

The tall lady from CPS announced rather matterfactly that from that minute until Sandra proved “she

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was a worthy mother,” Martha would be sole guardian of her grandsons. She handed Martha a brochure. “Call this number if you have any questions.” Case closed.

•••• Unfortunately, Martha is not the only grandmother who has faced such a daunting situation. In fact, more and more children are being raised by grandparents in greater numbers and not by choice or chance. Increasingly, many parents are absent because of divorce, incarceration or incapacitated through drug use or otherwise incapable of caring for their offspring. As a result, grandparents take on child‐rearing responsibilities - often when they themselves are health risks due to age, or disability. Law officials say these interventions are necessary to assure the mental and physical stability of the child, yet these actions place great burdens on the grandparent.

A look at the numbers shows the increase of this trend. In 2011, fully 7 million grandparents lived in the same household as their grandchildren, up 22% from the year 2000. Today, some 2.7 million grandparents serve as the primary caregiver to their grandchild or grandchildren. The increase in spell out an important part of human body that is more useful when erect."

Those who spelled "SPINE" became doctors. The rest ended up in Congress.

Shotguns and Spoons

This week, a compendium of wit, wisdom and neat stuff you can tell at parties. Enjoy!

There's a name for people who run full speed into a 'push' door, but I prefer to be called by my first name.

I think when crap hits the fan you really should rethink why and where you have that fan.

When your gecko is broken you have a reptile dysfunction.

In just two days from now, tomorrow will be yesterday.

I may be schizophrenic, but at least I have each other.

When I was young my intent was to go to medical school. The entrance exam included several questions that would determine eligibility.

One of the questions was, "Rearrange the letters "P N E S I" to

Today I swung my front door wide open and placed my Stevens 320 shotgun right in the doorway. I gave it 6 shells, and noticing that it had no legs, even placed it in my wheelchair to help it get around. I then left it alone and went about my business. While I was gone, the mailman delivered my mail, the neighbor boy across the street mowed the yard, a girl walked her dog down the street, and quite a few cars stopped at the stop sign right in front of our house.

After about an hour, I checked on the gun. It was still sitting there in the wheelchair, right where I had left it. It hadn't rolled itself outside.

It certainly hadn't killed anyone, even with the numerous opportunities it had been presented to do so.

In fact, it hadn't even loaded itself.

Well you can imagine my surprise, with all the media hype about how dangerous guns are and how they kill people. Either the media is wrong, and it's the misuse of guns

by PEOPLE that kills people, or I'm in possession of the laziest gun in the world.

this trend began in 2007, during the Great Recession, and has gone up roughly 5 % a year, until today, it’s estimated in some segments of the population, 55 % of grandparents are now or have been, their grandchildren’s primary caregiver.

This is not a short-term phenomenon, either. Due to arcane sentencing guidelines and legal issues, what many were assured was a temporary solution are now serving as semi-permanent or permanent care givers; many arrangements have lasted 2 or more years; almost one-fourth (23%) are of even longer duration.

Race Is Not the Only Factor

What fuels this trend? According to the Pew Research Center, a plurality (47%), of co-residing grandparents are white, one-fourth (25%) are Latino and the rest primarily black. In the population as a whole, 31 % of white grandparents now provide such care and with blacks, 22%; Latinos follow closely at 20%, and Asians grandparents so effected is only 3%.

How many foreigners are in this trend? The majority of grandparents (80%), serving as primary caregivers at present, are native born Americans with some 20%

Alright, well I'm off to check on my spoons. I hear they're making people fat.

God created Iowa

God was missing for six days.

Eventually, Michael the archangel found him, resting on the seventh day. He inquired, "Where have you been?" God smiled deeply and proudly pointed downwards through the clouds, "Look, Michael.

Look what I've made."

Archangel Michael looked puzzled, and said, "What is it?" It's a planet," replied God, and I've put life on it.

I'm going to call it Earth and it's going to be a place to test Balance.

"Balance?" inquired Michael, "I'm still confused." God explained, pointing to different parts of Earth.

"For example, northern Europe will be a place of great opportunity and wealth, while southern Europe is going to be poor.

Over here I've placed a continent of white people, and over there is a continent of black people. Balance in all things." God continued pointing to different countries. "This one will be extremely hot, while this one will be very cold and covered in ice."

The Archangel , impressed by God's work, then pointed to a land area and said, "What's that one?"

" That's Iowa , the most glorious place on earth. There are beautiful rolling hills and prairies, rivers and

foreign born, a disproportionate number of these - 14 % - from Puerto Rico.

Income Is Disproportionate

Other studies show that co-residing grandparents (82%) have incomes ranging from the poverty line to $44,000 annually; only 12 % earn more than $70,000 a year – thus this scourge effects society’s most vulnerable population - the poor, the most.

Age is a Factor

How about age? According to the Pew Center study, 76% of white grandparents serving as primary caregivers are 60 years or older, compared to 10% of the black population and 9% Hispanic and 4% Asian. Fully 86% of grandparents so effected – regardless of ethnicity – are 55 years old or older; with only 9% yet to reach their 45th birthday. With low income families, one-fourth (25%) of the grandparents so involved are 70 years of age or older; 64% are single females. Martha, the lady whose grandson called her in an emergency situation that we visited earlier, fits this criteria.

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streams, lakes, forests, hills, and the plains." Then God Said, "This is Iowa , the center of America . The people of Iowa are going to be handsome, modest, intelligent, and humorous, and they are going to travel the world. They will be extremely sociable, hardworking, high achieving, carriers of peace, and producers of good things."

Michael gasped in wonder and admiration, but then asked, "But what about balance, God? You said there would be balance."

God smiled, "I will create Washington, D.C. Wait till you see the idiots I put there."

•••• I need to buy a new alarm clock.

The one I have keeps going off while I'm asleep.

•••• When butterflies are in love, do they feel human's in their stomach?

•••• I eat a lot of swordfish. I like to be ready in case there's a food fight.

•••• Two trucks loaded with a thousand copies of Roget's Thesaurus collided as they left a New York publishing house last Thursday, according to the Associated Press.

Witnesses were stunned, startled, aghast, taken aback, stupefied . . .

Copywight 2013 Elmer Fudd. All

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concert are $30/general; $20/adults 60+ and children under 12; $10/veterans, active duty military, and high school students.

The ticket office is open Tues-Sat, 12-6pm, and Sun, 12-5pm

Evelyn Madison The Social Butterfly Email Evelyn at:

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HVCCA Presents “Acoustic Eidolon” Concert on March 24th –The Hidden Valley Community Concert Association is pleased to announce their next concert will be the “Acoustic Eidolon”. This couple’s concert with a cello and guitar is a tour-deforce of acoustic music. Half the program will be instrumental and half vocal. Just back from a five-week tour in Germany, they have brought joy to tens of thousands of people through their music of all styles for over 20 years and 12 CD’s. “…superb musicianship!”

News Reporter, Washington, GA. Visit www.acousticeidolon.com. This concert will be held on Sunday, March 24th, at 2pm, in the Center Theatre at the California Center for the Arts, Escondido, (CCAE); presented by the Hidden Valley Community Concert Association (HVCCA). Tickets are available from the Center’s ticket office at 340 N. Escondido Blvd, by calling 800.988.4253, or online at artcenter.org.

Ticket costs for the “Acoustic Eidolon”

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She’s single and over 65.

In other words, the face of grandparents providing primary care to their grandchildren, is white, 55 years old and older, and predominately female.

•••• An Actual Case

Sharon Claiborne was a janitor/maintenance worker at JC Penny for 37 years, retiring in 2014 on a pension of $517.23 a month. With her Social Security check of $2,123.00, and her twobedroom house free and clear thanks to her husband’s life insurance payout when he died in 2013, Sharon felt that if she was careful, she could enjoy her retirement.

True, she had high blood pressure - controlled by drugs - and yes, she was pre-diabetic, but her doctor assured her that if she ate more protein and less carbohydrates and joined the Silver Sneakers program at her local gym, she’d be fine.

Sharon and Lacey had no children of their own, but Lacey had fathered a son in his first marriage, Willie. Sharon rarely saw Willie during her twenty-three-year mar-

Spin for Carlsbad Schools, at the Annual Fundraiser – The Carlsbad Educational Foundation (a 501(c)3, nonprofit organization) and Gelson’s Markets present “Spin for Schools: the 5th Annual Pedal for a Purpose 2019.” The community is invited to participate in this, the 5th annual fundraising event on the plaza at Omni La Costa Resort & Spa on Saturday, March 23, starting at 10am. This stationary bike-athon raises funds for music, science, and innovational education programs for the 11,000 students in the Carlsbad Unified School District. There will be music by DJ Extreme, high-energy spin instructors, activities for children, and a health and wellness expo. Riders receive VIP treatment in the form of massages, swag, drinks and nutritional snacks, contests, prizes, and more! The goal for teams participating in the event is to raise a minimum of $1,000 towards the $80,000 fundraising goal for Spin for Schools, of which 100% of proceeds help fund the 40+ programs the Foundation supports in the district. Spin for Schools is a high energy, fun, family event and a great day for our schools, local businesses, and the community to support our Carlsbad public schools. Gelson’s Markets is the presenting sponsor; and also featuring Fortis Fitness & YOGALUX. For

riage to his dad; for the first twelve years of their union, Lacey dutifully paid child support every month, until Willie reached eighteen. Over the years, for birthday or Christmas, Lacey and Sharon met Willie at restaurants to celebrate. This was the extent of Sharon’s involvement with Willie though she often suggested that Lacey invite his son to visit, but this never happened.

Fourteen months into her retirement, Sharon received a call from Child Protective Services. Could she be at their office the next morning? She could, and she was.

That afternoon, Sharon brought home two step grandchildren – 11-year-old Samantha and 8-yearold Clark. Willie had been sentenced to twenty-two years in prison on a drug violation. Sharon knew nothing of his arrest and other than hearing him tell his father he had two kids, she knew nothing about her step grandchildren. Yet, as next-to kin, she was named their legal guardian.

For many of us, grandparenting means occasional weekends together, afternoon play dates, evening babysitting, perhaps a summer visit, certainly phone chats and text messages by the hundreds. Sharon was up for that,

more information about the event or to register as a rider or a captain, visit Pedal.Carlsbaded.org, contact Taylor Beveridge at Taylor@CarlsbadEd.org or at 760.929.1555. For more information about the Educational Foundation, visit www.carlsbaded.org.

Carlsbad/North County Travel Club Meeting, 3/26 – The next meeting of the Carlsbad/North County Travel Club will be held on Tuesday, March 26th, at 4pm, in Swami's Restaurant, 1506 Encinitas Blvd., corner El Camino (Trader Joe's Center). We will be discussing and planning a trip to Israel, the Holy Land. We will also have the latest updates on cruise and tour promotions. All interested travelers are welcome.

There is no fee to join the club.

For reservations or information, call 760603-8030.

CalFresh Senior Food Program Presentation & Application Processing – On Wednesday, March 27th, at 11:30am, the Gloria McClellan Center will host a CalFresh Senior Food Program Presentation by Feeding San Diego followed by application processing and assistance at 12noon. Bring valid ID with date of birth (driver’s license, passport, etc.) and a proof of address (utility, water, or telephone bill). To be eligible, applicants must be at least 60 years old, a resident of San Diego County, and meet the federal income guidelines. The Center is located at 1400 Vale Terrace Drive in Vista. The Center is a one-stop hub of services that range from lunch, travel/trips, transportation, exercise, classes, clubs, and various other activities for Vista’s older adult community. For more information, visit gmacvista.com or call (760) 643-5288.

March Into Spring Luncheon at McClellan Center - The Gloria McClellan Center will hold a “March into Spring Luncheon” on Thursday, March 28, at 1400 Vale Terrace Drive in Vista. Join us at 11:00am for entertainment by Blues

but with full responsibility for two strange children, she was naturally apprehensive. She was responsible for preparing their meals – she hated to cook- buying their clothes, attending parent/teacher conferences and PTA meetings.

All new to Sharon. The demands on her time seemed to never stop now. A drastic change from taking care of only herself. Welcome to the world of “kinship care.” Like many other grandparents forced to take care of their grandchildren, Sharon was caught in the cruel vice of arcane law and ‘family responsibility.’ According to the law, she had a legal duty to care for the two children she hardly knew, because as a ‘family member’ she was their next of kin. Sharon felt this was unfair to her and she was angry – not at the grandkids – this was not their fault, but with the system that foisted this situation on her. She not only had to forego the traditional grandparent/grandchild relationship, but give up her leisure time, sacrifice any travel plans and greatly modify her daily living routine for the day-to-day maintenance of a home for two school age children. Her life now revolved around meals, homework, doctor’s appointments, and monthly budgets – the whole ball of wax.

Pharoahs. Lunch is baked salmon with dill sauce, herbed pasta, California blend vegetables, diced melon, and milk. Alternative menu is tortilla soup, house salad with diced turkey and marinated vegetables, a roll, diced melon, and milk. Suggested donation is $4 for those 60 and older, and an $8 charge for those younger than 60.

Reservations are required by 1:00pm one day prior at 760.643.5288. The Center is a one-stop hub of services that range from lunch, travel/trips, transportation, exercise, classes, clubs, and various other activities for Vista’s older adult community.

San Marcos Chamber Events Coming Soon – On Thursday, March 28th, from 57pm, Phil’s BBQ will host the San Marcos Chamber’s Sundowner Business Mixer, at 579 Grand Avenue, San Marcos 92078.

The event is sponsored by EDCO, edcodisposal.com. On Sunday, April 7th, from 9am-5pm, the Chamber will present the San Marcos Spring Festival and Street Faire along Via Vera Cruz. On Tuesday, April 9th, at the Educate and Update program from 7:30-8:30am, the Special Guest Speaker will be Captain Dave Brown of the San Marcos Sheriff’s Station. For information about all these programs, contact the San Marcos Chamber of Commerce, 904 W. San Marcos Blvd., Ste. 10, San Marcos, 92078.

“LIFE" Lectures at Mira Costa College The “LIFE” lecture series continues at 1pm, Friday, March 29th with a presentation by Jeffrey Murico Ph.D., Mira Costa Faculty, bringing us up to date with reviews of early Islamic history/comments on the world’s fastest-growing religious groups; “Introduction to Islam”. A brief refreshment period before the 2:30pm presentation which is “Robotic Surgery at Tri-City” by Jason Phillips, M.D. , Tri-City Medical Center. Learn about the Robotic Systems precise surgery using computer-enhanced technology. Come and enjoy fellowship at our refreshment breaks along with new learning experiences. You may purchase a

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The tragic circumstances that required Sharon to step into a parent’s role – not simply that of grandparent – brought Sharon face-to-face with other stress factors - coping without a partner, dealing with her own grief at losing that partner, and feeling the sting her grandchildren dished out, as well as being jerked from a life of relative ease to one of survival.

Many experts say that while challenging, raising grandchildren can also be rewarding. Dr. Tyson Withers of Bucknell University writes, “Yes, grandparents may have to deal with colicky babies or moody teenagers, but they also experience a much greater connection to their grandchild’s world, since by necessity they become involved in their school and leisure activities.”

For many this means rolling back the years and becoming rejuvenated by the constant companionship of younger people. Dr. Withers says, “If grandparents adjust their attitude, and go with the flow so to speak, they’ll derive immense satisfaction from providing their grandchildren with a safe, nurtur-

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The Paper • Page 4 • March 21, 2019 NCTD Delays Eliminating North County Bus Stop

North County Transit District has decided to postpone the removal of about 90 bus stops, saying it needs more time to address concerns and to post notices at each of the locations to be eliminated.

In a press release NCTD Communications Officer, Kimy Wall, said, “We are unfortunately behind schedule in deployment of signage at stops slated for removal.”

Notices must be posted at each stop at least 30 days in advance, she said. As a result, the service that had been scheduled to end April 7 will now end April 21.

NCTD has 30 bus routes with 1,800 stops. Plans call for the elimination of 27 stops in Oceanside, 18 in Escondido, 13 in Encinitas, 11 in Carlsbad, 10 in Vista, seven in Solana Beach and three each in San Marcos and San Diego.

Each city is represented by one of its city council members on the transit district’s board of directors.

Bus ridership has declined across the country for at least the past decade, as people turn to online ride-hailing services such as Uber and other transportation alternatives.

Stops to be eliminated are underused, have other stops nearby, and

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have limited or no facilities such as benches and shelters, district officials said. Most have five or fewer riders per day and don’t comply with the requirements of the Americans with Disabilities Act.

Other factors considered included proximity to schools, medical services and disadvantaged communities.

A full list of the stops to be eliminated is posted on the district’s website, www.goNCTD.com.

Palomar Medical Center to End Relationship with Kaiser?

It has been learned that Kaiser Permanente has been officially notified by Palomar Health that its current agreement with the health care firm will not be renewed unless a better deal can be negotiated.

Robert Hemker, Palomar’s former chief executive, had notified Kaiser Permanente that the inland North County health system will “not extend” its current hospital services agreement between the two parties beyond its current term, which ends on Sept. 30, 2022.

Palomar had borrowed heavily to build the nearly $1 billion Palomar Medical Center Escondido and had counted on its partnership with Kaiser to bring in enough revenue to cover the cost of operations and service its debt.

sive homes in some area . . . a nice place to live . . . but it gets really hot there in the summer.

Man About Town

I almost feel guilty about writing of the lovely weather we're finally having in California, knowing so many of my family and friends in the mid-west are suffering through either cold, snowy weather, or, worse, the floods that come after the melting snow of a heavy winter.

We had some heavy rains but it seems, at least temporarily, they have ceased and Mr. Sunshine is out and about.

Last Saturday, as planned, we drove over to Valley Center - a town about 10 miles east and north of us. We drive into the foothills of the mountain range and then drop down into a valley which, not surprisingly, someone decided to name Valley Center. It's a largely agricultural town - lots of citrus, avocados, some cattle - beautiful and expen-

I had a map of how to get to the orange grove that offered oranges at 25 cents a lb and grapefruit at 40 cens a lb - which you harvest yourself. The place needs some signage to find it. I had to stop and ask neighboring ranchers for directions . . . but we finally found it. 900 citrus trees, mostly oranges. When we arrived we were notified they'd changed the pricing to a simple $4 a big - they provide the polyethylene bag and off you go into the orchards.

I have a bad lower back so wasn't able to comfortably walk the orchard and harvest the oranges so it fell to my ex-wife, Mary, to do the picking. I found a chair and waited while she wandered through the orchard.

Clever girl that she is, she would pick most of her oranges up off the ground. They were clearly fully ripe. That's why they fell from the tree. They weren't bruised or damaged . . . and were huge. She'd pick the occasional orange off a tree but the bulk of them were ripe oranges that had fallen to the ground.

Probably 12-15 cars in the parking lot; I noticed a lot of Asians were harvesting - whole families, all of whom appeared to be having fun.

Palomar said it did not want to break totally with Kaiser but wanted to negotiate a more fair agreement.

“The contract no longer works for us,” Palomar CEO Diane Hansen said in an email sent by a Palomar spokesman. “The contract is more than six years old, and things have changed in that time … The intent is to come to an agreement on a new contract that works for both sides, not end the agreement.”

In a written statement, Kaiser called Palomar an “excellent plan hospital for Kaiser Permanente members for the past 15 years.”

Partnership, the health care giant said, will continue “at a minimum through the end of the contract.”

Beyond that, Kaiser’s intentions are not clear. Today, Kaiser operates a large medical office complex in San Marcos on Craven Road. City records show that Kaiser was granted entitlements to build not just medical office buildings, but also a full-service hospital, on the 38-acre parcel which is only partially built out.

When asked whether Palomar’s decision to renegotiate has any impact on its long-standing hospital plans for inland North County, Kaiser said all options are open.

“We are currently exploring all possible alternatives for North County inpatient services, including contin-

We paid our $4, chatted briefly with the owner, hoisted our quite heavy bags (one broke so the owner gave us two more) into the car and headed home.

Upon arriving home I immediately had to sample our prizes.

As sweet as honey and twice as good! Glad we made the trip. Got me and Mary out of the house and office and into the countryside and, as a bonus, we are now loaded with super sweet oranges.

The only problem is, I'm a diabetic and have to be careful of my sugar intake. I had one orange and soon began to feel the "drowsies" - which I always get when I ingest food, particularly if there is too much sugar.

And that was from one orange!

Bless her heart, Mary would soon bring me another orange which I had to decline as it would be too much sugar for my body. An hour later she brought me yet another orange and, again, I had to decline.

(Mary has a memory problem).

The owner said his season is only from February to March so I reckon we'll make at least one more trip before the season ends. A relatively short drive and now that I know where they are, easily reached.

The rest of Saturday was just kickback time. Got some work for The

uing to contract and the construction of a new Kaiser Permanente hospital on entitled land adjacent to Kaiser Permanente’s San Marcos medical offices,” the Kaiser statement said.

So far, no building plans or permits are on file with official agencies that would have to approve such plans.

It’s clear that the current relationship between the two entities has not produced the kind of patient volume that the public health care district expected.

According to numbers provided by Palomar, it has consistently projected that Kaiser would use, on average, more than 100 beds per day at Palomar Medical Center Escondido. However, in the past three years, Kaiser has never averaged more than 75 beds in a calendar year. In 2018, Palomar projected that Kaiser would fill an average of 114 beds per day, but its records show that Kaiser patients occupied only 50 beds per day, on average.

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Paper done, but not a lot.

Sometimes Saturdays are just for resting up.

One week ago we pulled off a major coup, one that any CIA agent would be proud of. We snookered Evelyn Madison into a surprise party in observance of her birthday.

She thought she was going to dinner with me but instead wound up with about 60-75 family members and close friends - all of whom took great pleasure in surprising her one her late middle early birthday. (Her actual age is a closely guarded secret, known only to a few hundred hardy souls).

As she thanked the assembled throng she had a few tears of happiness to dry. Clearly, she was touched. As were we all. She is a very special lady.

Another little known fact: she is the brains of this here outfit. If it weren’t for her The Paper would not exist. She makes it happen and keeps it all organized

She’s had a rough year - a broken hip and hip replacement surgery an ill puppy, an injured puppy, ill kitty, bacterial infetion, and not as much time with a not so secret admirer (me) as we would both like. But she (and I) make do with circumstances as we face them.

Happy Birthday Evelyn!

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ing, and structured home environment - where they can grow and feel loved.”

Sounds great, huh? In Sharon’s case, life’s circumstances changed her existence greatly. She was forced to institute major changes in her routine in order to care for her step grandkids. Her first action was to institute a weekly family meeting, “So we could talk about what was going on with us, and how-to best handle it. I said I was sorry for the rough life they’d had and admitted I had lots to learn since I’d never even been a parent. This reduced the tension, but it was only the beginning.”

The family meeting was a wise move on Sharon’s part. Raising grandchildren triggers a range of emotions. The positive ones, like the joy of seeing grandkids learn and grow, and relief at providing a stable environment, are easy to acknowledge. It’s tougher to admit to feelings of resentment, guilt, or fear.

In Sharon ‘s case, she had weekly meeting with a therapist, learning to accept her misgivings and ease up a bit on herself. That she’d fail

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parking permit in Lot 1A and park in Lots 1A or 1C for $1.00. The lectures are in the administration Building 1000, Room 1068 at the Oceanside College Campus, 1 Barnard Drive. Visit miracosta.edu/life or call 760.757.2121, ext. 6972 for further information.

Bring Your Dancing Shoes and Baila with Los Guevara at CCAE – Live music, tacos and tequila in our Lyric Court at this free community event. Our Musica en la Plaza music series continues on the last Friday in March, March 29th at 7pm, when Los Guevara performs at the California Center for the Arts, Escondido (CCAE). Los Guevara is made up of four talented musicians. With Israel on the violin, Honorio on the huapanguero, Ulises on the jarana, and Guilolermo on the arana, the band blends together to bring you Latin music that is sure to get you up on your feet and dancing. Although no RSVP is required and admission is free, you can RSVP at http://artcenter.org/event/musica-en-laplaza-los-guevara/. Seating at bistro tables is also available for $12/seat or $40 for a table for 4. Table seating is very limited, so purchase your seats early at https://bit.ly/2N3Ba0i. During musica-enla-Plaza, there will be food trucks and Center bar will be open as well. For more information about musica-en-la-Plaza or to purchase a reserved seating, visit http://artcenter.org/events/category/espano l/. The Center is located at 340 N. Escondido Blvd. in Escondido. The ticket office can be reached at 800.988.4253.

Tickets can also be purchased online by visiting http://artcenter.org/.

Parkinson’s Support Group Meeting, April 1 – The next monthly meeting of the Parkinson’s Support Group for all North County Inland Communities will be on Monday, April 1st, for persons with Parkinson’s and their caregivers. Free

in her new role was a paramount fear, which still plagues her, as do thoughts of what will become of the step grandchildren if something happens to her. At the insistence of her social worker, Sharon enrolled her grandchildren in counseling and waits outside as they see separate therapists.

Over the past five years they’ve had rough times – Clark’s scrapes with law enforcement and school authorities are not over; headstrong and quick to anger, he almost naturally rebels when told at school to turn off his cell phone, or that his time cards must be filled out completely before he’s paid by the burger joint where he works after school.

This past spring Samantha, seventeen, became pregnant and left to live with her boyfriend’s parents.

This has been hard on Sharon.

She readily admits to being resentful not only toward her granddaughter, but toward the boy and his parents. She worries about how fast her retirement money has melted away. She took out a loan on her house, now she’s afraid she’ll lose it since with her current income level, she’s not able to repay the loan.

Finances is a real concern for monthly meetings are held on the first Monday each month from 10am-12noon at San Rafael Church, 17252 Bernardo Center Drive, Rancho Bernardo, in the Parish Hall. The first hour features a speaker relating to Parkinson’s and the second half consists of breakout groups of people with Parkinson’s in one area and caregivers in another area. Our featured speaker for this meeting is Attorney Kimberly R. McGhee who will present “Estate and Disability Planning, Conservatorships, and Asset Protection.”

Come learn, share, meet, and enjoy the free refreshments with other involved Parkinson’s persons. If you have any questions, please call Brigit King at (858) 354-2498 or Carol Maher at (760) 7498234.

Rady Children’s Hospital’s Next Education Series Program – “An Insider’s Look Beyond the Spectrum” is the title for the next Education Series program to be held on Tuesday, April 2nd, 68pm. Seats are limited, but there is still time to register for our next Education Series. You don’t want to miss this insider’s look at our preeminent Autism diagnostic, treatment and family programs led by world-class clinicians and researchers.

Rady Children’s renowned and comprehensive autism diagnostic, treatment and family programs are all integrated within the Autism Discovery Institute. Our specialists and physicians will join us for an evening of immersion into ADI’s neurological, developmental and genetics-centric approach to effective early detection, diagnosis and treatment of Autism spectrum disorder. There is hosted parking and complimentary reception.

Rady Children’s Education and office Building, 7960 Birmingham Drive, San Diego 92123. Questions? Contact foundationevents@rchsd.org or 858.966.8227.

Woman’s Club of Vista Night Owls Announce Meeting - All are welcome at The Woman’s Club of Vista GFWC Night Owls, which meets the first Wednesday of every month at 6pm at the Thai One On

many of today’s grandparent caregivers - sometimes great-grandparents. Many are forced to dip into their retirement finances, deferring their dreams for the dreams of their grandchildren.

Help Is on the Way

While Congress continues to duke it out on most issues, legislators came together in a bi-partisan fashion last year in support of grandparents and other relatives raising children — also known as grandfamilies. In July, President Trump signed into law The Supporting Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Act, first introduced by Sen. Susan Collins (RMaine) and Sen. Bob Casey (DPa.) in May of 2017. It’s aim? To improve the lives of kids and older adults by providing support and resources.

What This Means

What does the new law mean to the more than 2.7 million grandparents who’ve stepped up to raise children when their parents were unable to do so? First, it establishes a Federal Advisory Council to support grandparents and other relatives raising children.

and Human Services is the lead agency, coordinating the work of the council. Its charge is to identify, promote, coordinate and disseminate information about resources and best practices to help relative caregivers meet the health, educational, nutritional and other needs of children in their care, as well as to maintain their own physical and mental health and emotional well-being.

This last part, maintaining the mental and physical health of the caregiver is vital. Sharon entered the fray, so to speak, with high blood pressure and pre-diabetic.

Today, she has full blown diabetes and her blood pressure is out of control since she has neither the time nor the will to exercise. Plus, it’s easier to eat fast food than go through the hassle of buying and preparing more healthy meals.

The council will not provide meals for the grandfamily; it will give nutritional counseling and education and develop a process so the public can provide comments and recommendations to care givers.

To document its progress, the council is tasked with issuing a report to Congress in the first six

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The U.S. Department of Health

Restaurant, 485 S. Melrose in Vista.

Members share the Club’s business while socializing over appetizers and/or dinner.

The Night Owls members contribute to projects, helping various non-profits locally and worldwide. Some of the groups include the Women’s Resource Center, Operation Hope, and Gently Hugged.

Questions? Contact Chairwoman Marilyn Rudoff at WCV.owls@gmail.com.

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wights weseweved.

I went on a diet, swore off drinking and heavy eating, and in fourteen days, I had lost exactly two weeks.

THE ARGUMENT

A man left work one Friday afternoon. Being payday, instead of going home, he stayed out the entire weekend partying with the boys and spent his entire paycheck.

Pictured l-r: Marilyn Rudoff, new members Jennifer Gehrisch and Laura White, Club members Dolly Cooper, Judy Pantazo, and Vanessa Clark.

Grandmothers Club to Meet on April 4th - The Grandmothers Club will meet at noon on Thursday, April 4th in the Carefree Mobil Home Park Clubhouse at 211 N. Citrus Ave, Escondido, for a potluck luncheon and an auction. Bring any small items you would like to auction off. Please bring a dish to share. You do not need to be a grandmother to attend so come join us. You do not need to bring a dish on your first visit. For more info, call Kathy Diaz, 818-219-3040.

MiraCosta Horticulture Club Meeting Announced - The Mira Costa Horticulture Club is meeting on Saturday, April 6th, at 12:30pm, at MiraCosta College, 1 Barnard Dr., Oceanside, 92056, Bldg 3400, Azatlan Rooms A and B on 2nd floor above book

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When he finally appeared at home, Sunday night, he was confronted by a very angry wife and was barraged for nearly two hours with a tirade befitting his actions.

Finally, his wife stopped the nagging and simply said to him, “How would you like it if you didn’t see me for two or three days?”

To which he replied, “That would be fine with me.”

Monday went by and he didn’t see his wife.

Tuesday and Wednesday came and went with the same results.

Thursday, the swelling went down

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months of operation and again in two years on best practices, resources and other information for grandfamilies — as well as to identify gaps in service needs.

Funding for the council is still in the ‘what if stage,’ due to cuts in social service budgets. It suggests that grants will be issued to states to provide each caretaking grandparent with a monthly stipend of $312 a month. (Several states already provide furniture discounts, health care and monetary aid – Arkansas, via an act passed when Bill Clinton was governor, pays $313 per child, plus blankets, linens, clothes and other welcomed aids; Connecticut pays $477 per qualified claim, as well as clothing and health and dental care.)

Another Case Study

“I don’t care how much money the state gives you,” says Cookie Branson, “it’s not enough. With counseling costs, tutoring, customized clothing, special equipment, school supplies, doctor visits, dental work – the list goes onand-on – it’s damn expensive.

We’re lucky we had the money, but now I’m worried it’s affected our retirement and ruined Clyde’s health.”

Clyde and Cookie Branson were on the cusp of their golden years before being pressed into caring for their grandchildren. After operating his own Heating and Air Conditioning business for 31 years, Clyde sold out to an employee, and Cookie retired from her legal secretary’s job.

They planned to travel, reignite their relationship with their only daughter, and spend time with their two grand kids.

These grand plans were badly shaken when the sheriff in the adjoining county called. Their daughter, Agnes, had been arrested for solicitation. They were stunned to learn this was her fourth arrest, that her addiction to opioids had taken her down a long and tortuous tunnel. She’d lost her husband. Her job. Her car. Her home. Her two daughters, 6 and 7, were living with her in an abandoned house with no utilities along with at least 6 other addicts.

At the sheriff ’s office later that day, Cookie and Clyde were told they’d have full custody of their granddaughters, until their daughter proved she was a responsible parent. This is yet to happen as

we’ll see.

“We were absolutely blown away,” Cookie says. “Our grandbabies weren’t babies any more. They were supposed to be in the first and second grade, but we had no record they’d ever attended school. We’d been estranged from their mother, so those kids didn’t know me from a waitress in a restaurant. Their wardrobe was the dresses they wore, tennis shoes and dirty pink coats. I cried all the way home.”

Cookie had plenty to cry over the next few years. A medical exam showed the youngest granddaughter – Maxine – was severely malnourished, needed extensive dental work and required a roster of tutors to teach her how to study, and overcome her slow start in school. She was given to long crying jags and violent outbreaks of temper.

The other granddaughter, Brenda, did better in school, but was diagnosed with severe juvenile diabetes requiring a special diet and regular doctor visits. Also, Cookie’s resentment toward her daughter grew when she was given a 5-year prison term for grand theft auto.

“I certainly didn’t expect to raise kids at my age,” Cookie says. “It’s been the hardest thing ever.” Her ordeal was made even worse recently when Clyde was diagnosed with cancer.

What about California?

Almost 100,000 Californians have primary responsibility for their grandchildren. Of this group 65,000 are over the age of 65, and 20,600 of these grandparents provide solo care for their grandchildren, for some 19,800 grandchildren.

In San Diego County, it’s estimated 22,000 grandparents provide such primary care due to military service of their parents, opioid addiction, divorce or other legal issues. The majority of these grandparents are over 65. Not an easy way to spend the Golden Years.

Does California Offer Monetary Aid?

In California, a relative or non-relative extended family member caring for a dependent child is eligible to receive a monthly foster care maintenance payment cur-

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Hometown Hero Cory Iverson

This week a solemn ceremony took place in Escondido unveiling the big green signs to designate a portion of I-15 in Escondido, as ”CAL FIRE Firefighter Cory Iverson Memorial Highway.” It was an honor and privilege to carry ACR 205, to create this designation recognizing, along with firefighters and other first responders from across California, a hometown hero who made the supreme sacrifice.

Cory Iverson leaves behind his amazing wife, a young daughter, and another daughter born after his death. While we have lost a local hero, they have lost a huge part of themselves that won’t be replaced.

During his career he received many awards, including recognition as "2010 CAL FIRE Firefighter of the Year.” He exemplified professionalism, work ethic, dedication, and of course, love of family.

Also, he was a man of faith. He devoted his life to sharing the love of Jesus. He was a great friend to many, inspiring others to always strive for something greater. He led by example.

Assembly Republican Leader Marie Waldron, R-Escondido, represents the 75th Assembly District in the California Legislature, which includes the communities of Bonsall, Escondido, Fallbrook, Hidden Meadows, Pala, Palomar Mountain, Pauma Valley, Rainbow, San Marcos, Temecula, Valley Center and Vista.

Cory Iverson, an Escondido native, was just 32 years old when he died fighting on the front lines of Ventura County’s devastating Thomas Fire in 2017. An 8-year CAL FIRE veteran, he had worked 7 years with the Harmony Grove Fire Department before joining CAL FIRE in 2009. He was brave, steadfast, and committed to being the best firefighter he could be, always striving to learn and do more. He even became one of those front-line fire fighters dropping from helicopters onto the edge of the surging flames.

Collecting With Jeff

I know that there are many readers of Collecting with Jeff that have stashed away collectible items for years. They hope and pray that if they keep items long enough that the items that they purchased for a dollar or two will now be worth thousands. After all, that is what usually happens. Right?

Well, not so fast. Yes, some collectibles may be worth a significant amount more after several years.

Others will probably stay flat, and yes, others may actually decrease in value.

That can easily occur. Many collectors will be extremely disappointed when they learn that what the items they had hoped would pay for their grandchild’s education, or even a long-anticipated cruise to Europe, will only buy them a cup of coffee or a Chai Latte tea at Starbuck’s.

So when you drive along I-15 from the 78 Interchange to Via Rancho Parkway, remember and pray for CAL FIRE Firefighter Cory Iverson and his young family, and for all our first responders who are out there each and every day protecting all of us.

were extremely popular after World War II, as American soldiers returned from Germany and brought Hummels home to their families. The first wave of Hummel collectors have mostly passed away, and the younger generations have not expressed a keen desire to purchase Hummels. There are a couple exceptions. Figurines taller than 12 inches, and those made before 1949, can still command more money, even in the thousands of dollars. But those are the exceptions.

Lladro Statues have taken a similar downward swoop as with Hummels, but not to the same degree. Some Lladros can still fetch more than half of their original price. I hope you dont have a lot of Beanie Babies or Cabbage Patch Dolls around the house.

However, the reverse can happen as well. In today’s collectibles market, there are new types of items that are now the rage, and considered too hot to pass up.

Commemorative plates have lost their value as well. It was common to see plates memorializing events by such noted artists as Norman Rockwell and LeRoy Neiman among others. There have been plates of the Statue of Liberty, the World Series, and athletes like Michael Jordan. Some of Rockwell’s popular paintings have been on commemorative plates, especially after he passed away in 1978.

Another type of collectible that has seen its better day is porcelain Hummel figurines. They first were produced in 1935, based on drawings by a German nun Maria Innocentia Hummel. They

Jeff Figler is a professional certified appraiser. His latest book The Picker’s Pocket Guide to Baseball Memorabilia has been #1 on Amazon. He can be reached at info@jefffigler.com or at 877-472-3087.

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just enough where he could see her a little out of the corner of his left eye.

•••• I just got me a Chinese backscratcher.

(Her name is Lin Hua).

•••• C'mon! You're not fat! Chin up!

No . . . the other one.

•••• I'm on two diets now.

I wasn't getting nearly enough food with just one.

•••• I think senility is going to be a fairly easy transition for me.

•••• Police came around today and complained my dogs were chasing people on bikes.

My dogs don't even have bikes.

•••• I asked the librarian if she had any books on paranoia.

She whispered, "they're right behind you . . .

•••• A man on his Harley was riding along an Australian beach road when suddenly the sky clouded above his head and, in a booming voice,

God said, "Because you have tried to be faithful to me in all ways, I will grant you one wish.

The biker pulled over and said, " Lord, build a bridge to Tasmania so I can ride over anytime I want."

God replied, "Your request is materialistic; think of the enormous challenges for that kind of undertaking; the supports required reaching the bottom of the Pacific and the concrete and steel it would take! I can do it, but it is hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things.

Take a little more time and think of something that could possibly help mankind."

The biker thought about it for a long time. Finally, he said, "Lord, I wish that I, and all men, could understand women. I want to know how she feels inside, what she's thinking when she gives me the silent treatment, why she cries, what she means when she says nothing's wrong, why she snaps and complains when I try to help, and how I can make a woman truly happy."

God replied: "You want two lanes on that bridge, or four?"

•••• Q: How do you tell the difference between a Labrador Retriever and a marine biologist?

A: One wags a tail and the other tags a whale.

•••• I'm afraid I've inherited mom's Boom without dad's Shaka Lakka.

Yes officer, I did hit a pedestrian, but instead of dwelling on that why not focus on how many I've missed •••• Well, it is my great pleasure to wish one and all a very belated Happy St. Patrick's Day . . . the one day of the year when we all gather together to salute the patron saint of Norway.

We Norwegians take great pride in Patrick Olaffson . . . a handsome lad if there ever was one. As you lift your glass of schnapps on high tonight . . . remember the many foine, foine deeds the lad did when he was walking this here planet.

Rejoice! Then then remargaret, then remary - tis a foine, foine custom St. Patrick bestowed upon us.

Ya shure you betcha!

•••• A man and a woman were having a quiet, romantic dinner in a fine restaurant. They were gazing lovingly at each other and holding hands.

The waitress, taking another order at a table a few steps away, suddenly noticed the man slowly sliding down his chair and under the table, but the woman acted unconcerned.

The waitress watched as the man slid all the way down his chair and out of sight under the table. Still the woman appeared calm and unruffled, apparently unaware her dining companion had disappeared.

The waitress, thinking this was a bit risqué behavior that might offend other diners, went over to the table and tactfully, began by saying to the woman,"Pardon me, ma'am , but I think your husband just slid under the table."

The woman calmly looked at her and said: "No, he didn't. He just walked in the door."

•••• JUST IN: The sun came out and dried up all the rain. No sign of Itsy.

Spider family worried. Details as we receive them.

•••• I think it's true that absence makes the heart grow fonder because I skipped school a lot and I loved it.

•••• I can never remember whether or not I'm supposed to mess with Texas.

•••• Dear Ugly People, You're welcome.

Sincerely, Alcohol •••• Dear Customers, Yes, we ARE making fun of you in Vietnamese.

Sincerely, Nail Salon Ladies •••• McQuillan walked into a bar and ordered martini after martini, each time removing the olives and placing them in a jar.

When the jar was filled with olives and all the drinks consumed, the Irishman started to leave.

"S'cuse me", said a customer, who

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Historically Speaking

by Tom Morrow

coach John Madden HAS never forgiven me."

We lost Fred last year, but what a character we had while he was in our midst.

••••

A character most unforgettable

In my "Most Unforgettable Character" list, the late Fred Swearengen of Carlsbad had all of the qualifications to hold that title.

During World War II action in the Pacific, Navy dive bomber pilot Swearengen held the Navy Cross, the highest battle honor of the Navy. He also was awarded four Distinguished Flying Crosses and four Air Medals. .

"You got an Air Medal for every five times you flew against the enemy," Fred told me a few years back. "I guess the Navy figured if you survived that many flights, you deserved it. Hell, if you got to chow on time, the Navy recommended you for a medal."

During the war, Fred was stationed aboard Vice Adm. Marc Mitscher's carrier flagship, the USS Bunker Hill.

He was trained as a dive bomber pilot at North Island Naval Air Station and, because of the war time shortage of accommodations, he was berthed at the nearby historic Hotel del Coronado.

"When not flying (at sea), pilots would gather in the ready room and play cards. If there was an attack, we'd just keep right on playing, but when those 20 millimeter shipboard guns starting firing, we'd usually stop because that meant the enemy was getting damned close."

Fred recalled the time the Officer of the Day came in the ready room for some pilots to move 10 planes forward on the flight deck so that an incoming squadron could land.

"I tried to get out of the detail by hiding behind a big high-backed chair, but I got caught and the O.O.D. ordered me to go topside and move planes."

Fred said when he got up on the flight deck, a Japanese kamakazi plane came straight out of nowhere, slamming into the Bunker Hill. Everyone left in the ready room where Fred had been just 10 minutes before was killed in an exploding ball of fire. Another kamakazi hit about 20 seconds later. In all, 400 sailors were killed, with 700 to 800 wounded. The Bunker Hill was lost.

In civilian life, Fred spent 21 years officiating for the National Football League between 1960 and 1981. He officiated Super Bowls III and XIII, but he'll be most remembered by sports fans for making the call that became a legend in football history -- "the immaculate reception" by Pittsburgh Steeler running back Franco Harris when they played the Oakland Raiders.

"Because of that call, my name is boldly written on every crapper wall in Oakland. (Then) Oakland Raiders head

WWII ACRONYMS – Of all the G.I. verbiage created during World War II, there were two or three that became prominently known through the Allied Forces: “SNAFU” and “FUBAR,” and to a lesser extent: “SUSFU.”

Troops and Sailors used these phrases from the lowest of enlisted to the highest commanders. It is believed to have started by the U.S. Marines.

Earliest use of the acronym appeared at the beginning of the war. Editors used SNAFU in a September 1941 issue of “American Notes and Queries.” That same month, Time magazine used the term in the June 16, 1941 issue: "Last week U.S. citizens knew that gasoline rationing and rubber requisitioning were SNAFU."

Keep in mind when you get a group of service personnel, especially males, they can come up with some rather creative lingo. “SNAFU” became so prominently used that today it has become common place in our everyday commentary. It’s been used by radio and television commentators, but if they knew what it actually meant, they might take pause.

Most reference works, including the Oxford English and Random House Unabridged dictionaries place the origin date of SNAFU in the early 1940s, generally attributing it to the U.S. Marine Corps. FUBAR came later during the chaotic days of WWII.

The acronym “SNAFU” was originally used to sum up particular chaotic situations, especially when referring to military strategy or unclear commands.

“SNAFU” means “Situation Normal: All F***** Up.” It became so common place that a G.I. comic strip was titled “Private SNAFU.”

The lesser-used of the two, but still understood on all Allied fronts was “FUBAR.” It doesn’t take much imagination to decipher: “F***** Up Beyond All Recognition.” It too can be found in most dictionaries. But the two acronyms aren’t alone. A lesser-used one is “SUSFU” – “Situation Unchanged: Still FXXX Up.” It was (and still is) used by the military as well as in the civilian business world.

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was puzzled over what McQuillan had done, "what was that all about?"

"Nothin' , said the Irishman, "me wife just sent me out for a jar of olives!"

•••• An old, blind cowboy wanders into an all-girl biker bar by mistake. He finds his way to a bar stool and orders a shot of Jack Daniels. After sitting there for a while, he yells to the bartender, 'Hey, you wanna hear a blonde joke?'

The bar immediately falls absolutely silent.

In a very deep, husky voice, the woman next to him says, 'Before you tell that joke, Cowboy, I think it is only fair, Given that you are blind, that you should know five things: 1. The bartender is a blonde girl with a baseball bat.

2. The bouncer is a blonde girl.

3. I'm a 6-foot tall, 175-pound blonde woman with a black belt in karate.

4. The woman sitting next to me is blonde and a professional weight lifter.

5. The lady to your right is blonde and a professional wrestler.

Now, think about it seriously, Cowboy. Do you still wanna tell that blonde joke?'

The blind cowboy thinks for a second, shakes his head and mutters, 'No...not if I'm gonna have to explain it five times.'

•••• When and if you have teenagers it is important to teach them they should always have a dog in the house.

That way they’ll always know someone is happy to see them.

•••• I ate a whole box of thin mint chocolates. Didn’t lose a pound.

I don’t think they work.

•••• Well, that's cool. It only took 6 months, but all my clocks are finally right.

•••• I bet narcoleptics call all of their clothes pajamas.

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store. There will be a workshop on creating egg carton greenhouses. The main speaker will be Jim Davis, an entomologist and owner of American Insectaries. He will give an overview and identification of insects and discuss beneficial insects that eliminate those pests without using pesticides. After the speaker is finished there will be a raffle of plants and garden items.

For more information call 760.721.3281 or check the webpage MCHClub.org.

NCA Bird Club Meeting on April 6 North County Aviculturists, a club for pet bird owners and breeders, presents Cathy Kelly who will be demonstrating fun foods and healthy dishes to prepare for our Parrots, Finches, and Canaries. Yum! She could have a special guest to help her out, too. And while Cathy chops and mixes, we'll be making toys! For every 3 you make, keep one for your own birds and

give us two for the Opportunity Table. Join us on Saturday, April 6th at 6:00pm in the Vista Masonic Lodge, 761 Eucalyptus Ave, Vista 92084. There is no charge for admission and refreshments will be provided following the talk. We appreciate your donations of either food to share or cash. Find more information at www.ncabirdclub.com

Escondido Senior Travel Upcoming Schedule – The Senior Travel Service is part of the Escondido Senior Center at 210 Park avenue, Escondido 92025. Phone 760.745.5414; Hours: Mon-Fri 9am12noon. The next Travel Meeting will be on Monday, April 8, at 1pm in the auditorium of the Senior Center. Senior Travel only accepts cash or check for payment.

No Credit Cards. Payment due for Day trips should be 4-6 weeks in advance.

Payment due for overnight trips should be

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rently around $688 to $859 per month, depending on the age of the child. This is intended to offset the costs of providing food, clothing, extracurricular activities, and other necessities for the child.

A relative caring for a child who is not under care of the juvenile court is ineligible to receive foster care payments; they may apply for the California Work Opportunity and Responsibility to Kids (CalWORKs), a Non-Needy Caretaker Fund for relatives. This is a non-income-based payment available in each county. This currently pays a maximum of $369 or $387 per month per child, based on the region, and is adjusted based on numerous factors such as two or more children, and may change annually.

Grandfamilies Will Continue to Grow

Experts predict the number of grandfamilies will continue to grow, due to an increase in older adults, but poverty, substance abuse, (especially opioids), parental incarceration and other hard-to-pin down causes.

If you’re pressed into service as

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Trips coming up are: Monday, April 1, Casino Pauma, $10. Tuesday, April 16th, Knott’s Berry Farm Heritage Tour; travel to Anaheim for a 2-hour tour highlighting significant moments in history with 2 docents. Lunch after that will be at the famous Knott’s Chicken Restaurant with pie included, and time to shop at the marketplace shops before coming home; $89/person. Sunday-Wednesday, May 1922, Grand Canyon Adventure; $711/single, $552/double. (See office for payment plans) Spend 2 nights in Williams, AZ and 1 night at Boulder Station in Las Vegas.

Take scenic train ride to the Grand Canyon visiting the Railroad Museum and complete a 3-hour tour of the Grand Canyon Rim, lunch will be provided. Take a tour of the Grand Canyon Caverns. Admission to Grand Canyon IMAX Theatre included; all breakfasts plus 1 lunch included.

the primary health-care provider for your grandkids, how can you reduce the stress and be a better grandparent? Here are 5 hints.

First, take care of yourself. This is vital. You probably had no plans to raise kids at this stage in your life. At times, the physical, emotional, and financial demands may feel overwhelming. That’s why, first and foremost, you must take care of yourself.

Being preoccupied with the daily demands of raising grandkids makes it easy to let your needs fall by the wayside. You can’t be a good caretaker if you’re overwhelmed, exhausted, and emotionally depleted. Get plenty of sleep. Eat right. Exercise. Stay positive.

Hint 2: Keep calm, centered, and focused. That’s pretty basic, but so necessary. Don’t give up your hobby; establish a ‘me time’ to nurture yourself. Choose activities that trigger relaxation and deep breathing, such as yoga, or meditation.

Hint 3: It’s okay to lean on your grandkids for help. Kids are more astute and capable than we give them credit for. Even little ones can pick up after themselves and

S.D. County African Violet Society April Meeting – The next meeting of the San Diego County African Violet Society will be on Tuesday, April 9, at 10:30am in the Vista Public Library Community Room, 700 Eucalyptus Avenue, Vista. At this meeting there will be a nationally known guest speaker, Mr. Leonard Re, who will demonstrate “How to Take Down and Repot an Overgrown Violet.” Also he will show how to cut down a long neck on a violet. There will be a Culture Class presented by Ms. Pamela Tucker on “The Use of Pumice with African Violets,” with sample bags for everyone in attendance.

Refreshments will be served. Visitors are welcome and encouraged to attend a friendly, fun atmosphere to learn how to care for African Violets. For additional information contact Barbara Conrad, bconrad999@yahoo.com.

Easter is Coming; Services Announced Sunday Worship Service 8am and 10:30am; 9am Bible Study for kids and adults.

Wednesday Lenten Services, 12noon and 7pm; Palm Sunday April 14th; Maundy

Other trips planned are Wednesday, July 24th, Del Mar Horse Races, $77/person. Go to Hunter Steakhouse for lunch, choice of 3 entrees. Then to horse races at Del Mar with Clubhouse seating. Wednesday, September 18, Big Bear, $73/person. Travel to the mountains in Big Bear for shopping and lunch on your own in downtown Big Bear. Then board for a narrated cruise on the lake before heading home. MondayThursday, October 21-24; Reno; $328/Double; $418/Single (See office for payment plans). Travel Pictured l-r: Jean Smithers, Rebecca Buchen, to Reno for a 3-night stay at the Judy Jackson, Rosa Ruiz, Sue Walsh, Joy Stefano Silver Legacy and a four-day and Kathy Shattuck excursion. Tuesday, a docent tour Thursday 7pm; Good Friday 7pm; Easter with lunch at an old “Brothel House.”

Wednesday visit Lake Tahoe for several hours to enjoy the shops, lunch on your own or casinos. On the way home stop at Bishop and visit Schat’s Bakery.

do simple chores. Contributing in this way helps your grandkids feel important.

Hint 4: Join a support group.

Unlike first-time parents, you’ve done this before and learned from your mistakes. Don’t underestimate what you know. Studies show that grandparents who cope well with the added stress of raising grandchildren seek out support. Find someone you can confide in about your situation. This will allow you to work through your feelings and reach longerlasting solutions to problems. If you deny or ignore these feelings, they’ll raise their ugly head at the most inopportune time, often affecting your relationship with your grandkids.

Hint 5: Search out childcare help.

If you’re a church, synagogue or other religious organization member, let these people know you need babysitting help. Library story time hours are great diversions for your grandkids. Chatting with other parents at the playground makes you a part of the community. Seek out reliable teen babysitters and inquire of any babysitting swap programs.

Connect with parents who have children. You may feel you’re from a different generation but the joys

and tribulations of raising children quickly form common bonds.

One general rule: Never ever lie to your grandkids about their situation, no matter how bad it may be.

Your grandkids are dealing with issues as well - loss of regular contact with their parent or parents is a bummer. It’ll take time for them to adjust. In the meantime, they may act out. If they’ve suffered emotional neglect, trauma or abuse, these wounds do not disappear once they’re in a safe place.

They need time to heal.

Your primary job is to create a stable, comfortable environment for your grandchildren. Concentrate on this. Keep you mind together and hope for the best. The time will come when all this will be over. Really. As the experts say, this too shall pass.

The author, Richard “Pete” Peterson is a regular contributor to The Paper - he has yet another great story coming soon!

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Hi Everyone. My Name is Cooper.

The Puppy Coalition Foundation rescued me from a county dog shelter and brought me to San Marcos Kennels where I am temporarily while they find me a family.

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My volunteers said maybe lyle davis at The Paper might put up my little ad and that maybe the person who is supposed to find me among all the dogs in the world would see my little ad and find me.

Could that be you?

I do have an adoption fee of $175 to cover (some) of my expenses which include a comprehensive physical exam with distemper, heart worm, fecal and blood tests, and neutering.

If you would like to meet me and see me for yourself at San Marcos Kennels, please call or text my volunteer Bruce at 760-612-9156 to arrange that.

I am about 18 months old and roughly 60 pounds. I am a happy guy and would make a best new buddy. I am super friendly to everyone, like all dogs, and don't bark much. I am ready for my new family!!!! If a family has a some kids over 5, that would be great because I am still a puppy and have energy to burn and love kids. My favorite thing is to play fetch the ball and walk with my friends.

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Gertrude is pet of the week at your Rancho Coastal Humane Society. She’s a 5 year old, 13 pound, female, Domestic Long Hair cat with a Silver and Tortoiseshell coat.

Gertrude likes to warm up to strangers at her own pace. She needs a home with adults and maybe some older kids. She was transferred from another shelter through the FOCAS (Friends of County Animal Shelters) program.

The $100 adoption fee for Gertrude includes medical exams, vaccinations, spay, and registered microchip. For more information call 760-753-6413, visit Rancho Coastal Humane Society at 389 Requeza Street in Encinitas, or log on to SDpets.org.

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morning services at 8am and 10:30am.

King of Kings Lutheran Church, 2993 MacDonald St., Oceanside. Visit the website at Kingofkingslc.org, or call 760.757.2525.

Contemporary Women Participated in Walk for Animals - Seven members of GFWC Contemporary Women of North County (CWONC) joined over 1,500 pet lovers on February 23rd at Kit Carson Park in Escondido and participated in the 2 mile “Walk for Animals” to raise money for the San Diego Humane Society.

Team CWONC raised $845 and the Humane Society reported over $100,000 raised in Escondido! Visit www.cwonc.org.

Carlsbad Chamber to Host 2019 Green Business Expo – On Wednesday, April 17th, from 3pm to 7pm, the Carlsbad Chamber of Commerce will host the 2019 Green Business Expo at the famous Flower Fields at Carlsbad Ranch, 5704 Paseo Del Norte, Carlsbad 92008. The goal of this event is to bring together and showcase green businesses in the area that have helped make Carlsbad one of the most sustainable cities in the world, as Carlsbad was ranked 5th place by the Sustainable Development Solutions Network report of U.S. cities in 2017. The Green Business Expo will closely coincide with International Mother Earth Day to further recognize and celebrate sustainability and the outdoors. “Hosting this event at the famous Flower Fields will be the perfect place to honor nature and this beautiful, local landmark,” said Bret Schanzenbach, President and CEO of the Carlsbad Chamber of Commerce. “During the event, the fields are expected to be in full bloom, which will make for an exciting environment to celebrate the Earth.”

Organized by the Chamber’s Green Business Committee, the mission of the event is to promote, support and educate Chamber members and event guests on the

appropriate balance between economic, environmental and social aspects within the community to ensure sustainability for current and future generations. If any local green businesses are interested in showcasing sustainable practices, there are only a few spots left to be an exhibitor!

Exhibitor registration is for Chamber members only. The cost is $129 and includes a reserved exhibit space. The event is also open to the public with a required $10 donation to the Flower Fields Foundation, which provides educational programs for children in the local community. To learn more about the Green Business Expo, register as an exhibitor, purchase tickets and for a list of exhibitors, visit: https://www.carlsbad.org/event/greenbusiness-expo-2019/.

4th Annual “Dancing With Our Stars” on April 13th at CCAE – The 4th Annual Dancing with our Stars is a celebration benefitting the California Center for the Arts, Escondido (CCAE). This year it will be on Saturday, April 13th at the CCAE. Tickets are now on sale. Join us for an evening of glitz and glamour as ten community and business leaders tango, salsa, samba, cha cha and waltz their way across the dance floor to compete in the California Center for the Arts, Escondido’s 4th Annual “Dancing With Our Stars” Fundraiser on Saturday April 13!

Community stars include Escondido Deputy City Attorney, Jessica Lujan; City of Escondido & Food Columnist, Jamie Zeller; Lisa Ruder of the Escondido Charitable Foundation; Escondido Business Owner of Rosemary-Duff Florist, Rozanne Reguly; Don Deleon of the Grand Restaurant Group; Pauline Gordie of CSL Staffing in Escondido; Phil Gibbs of Realtor Pacific Sothby’s; Garret Imerson with Edward Jones & PresidentElect of Escondido Rotary After Five

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The Pastor Says . . .

eases the discomfort of not knowing anyone. I wish more people who attend church would invite those who do not.

Pastor Sam Brumit Mission 316, San Marcos

Duke is a 1-year-old Great Dane looking for a new home. He is a big guy with a whole lot of love to give! Duke is shy with new people, so he will take a little time to warm up, but his previous owner says he is a very good boy who gets along with children. In his previous home, Duke has been known to escape from the yard and guard his food and toys, so his new family will need to ensure he has a secure yard and continue his positive reinforcement training. If you think this handsome hunk could be the right fit for your family, come visit Duke at our Escondido Campus! His adoption fee includes his neuter, permanent microchip identification, current vaccinations, 30 days worry free insurance from Trupanion Insurance and a certificate for a free veterinary exam! Duke is available for adoption at San Diego Humane Society’s Escondido Campus at 3500 Burnet Drive. To learn more about making him part of your family, please call (619) 299-7012.

WHY GO TO CHURCH

Recently, someone who read a brief article I wrote for The Paper decided to come and visit Mission 316. It was a delight that the influence of the printed page led to someone to reach out and attend our worship service. It was a delight to meet her and hear her story.

It made me think about some of the reasons people choose to go to church.

There are actually several obvious ones. (There are also many reasons people don’t visit, but that would require a different article).

Sometimes people visit churches because someone invited them. As a matter of fact many, if not most people, come to services as a result of the “ask” of another. The presence of someone we know – in the congregation – can help people feel more at home. Having someone to sit with

Another reason people decide to go to church is curiosity. Perhaps they hear of a particular event of a church nearby. Maybe the church is reaching out in practical ways and they want to get involved in the experience. Churches would do well to involve themselves in service to the community and help others experience “making a difference” in their world.

Perhaps one of the most significant reasons people decide to visit a church, simply stated, is need. Something happens in their life, and they decide to find out if there is help available, spiritually speaking. Those going through a difficult season can find hope through faith, prayer and being a part of a fellowship of likeminded people on the journey.

Mission 316 is a safe place to begin that journey. We welcome guests like the woman who stopped in recently.

Sounds like she’s coming back! _______________________________

Mission 316 is a non-denominational church which meets at 3 Civic Center Drive in San Marcos – directly across from the San Marcos Public Library.

The service starts at 10 AM. 760.659.0316 for INFO.

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San Marcos • Mayor Rebecca Jones

Building and maintaining public amenities

Do you ever wonder bonds that were issued to finance about some of those infrastructure development. line items are on your taxes?

Today, more than 50 percent of all taxable properties within San Marcos Community Facilities Districts are in at least one CFD. Special taxes (CFD), commonly referred to as are levied annually against Mello-Roos Districts, help to finance properties within these districts to the maintenance of San Marcos’s finance authorized public services public amenities and local facilities and facilities. The special tax then including storm drains, street lights, appears on the property tax bill traffic signals, medians and issued by the County of San Diego. parkways.

To learn more about Mello-Roos taxes These community districts set aside that may be on your property, visit more than $5.5 million each year for police and fire protection facilities www.san-marcos.net/cfd or contact and services. Other neighborhood the San Marcos Finance Department specific CFDs pay debt service on at (760) 744-1050, ext. 4506 or CFDInfo@san-marcos.net.

Escondido • Mayor Paul “Mac” McNamara Greetings Escondido!

The big event this week was the City Council Action plan. The city council, minus John Masson, who is recovering from surgery, along with the City leadership which was principally the department heads and above, met to discuss what our goals should be for this next year. It was a free flow discussion within a construct that had a moderator.

I thought when we finally got to the “meat” part of the program we had some good ideas as to what our project priorities should be and

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Club; Entrepreneur, Henny den Uijl and Edgar den Uijl, the Director of Operations and Marketing of DRTV Marketing Company. All 10 stars will be paired with professional dance instructors from regional dance studios including Arthur Murray Studio Escondido, Trilogy Dance Studio Rancho Bernardo and Tierra Caliente Academy of Arts, Vista.

Dance couples will compete in the Center’s 1,500-seat concert hall, emulating the format of the popular reality show, Dancing with the Stars. Celebrity Judges include Escondido Dentist, Dr. Enil Bliesath, CEO of Palomar Heatlh, Diane Hansen, Jesse Lozano of the Jesse Lozano in the Morning Show on Star 94.1, and Rick Morton of Morton in the Morning on Z90. This year, we are also honored to have two master of ceremonies hosting our event. This year’s emcees include last year’s “Dancing with our Stars Judges Choice” winner and KUSI News’ journalist, Elizabeth Alvarez and from the AJ & Sara morning show on Sunny 98.1, Producer and on-air personality, Hula Ramos.

VIP tickets can be purchased for $175, and include premium seating, a VIP dinnerreception with hosted beer and wine and early bidding for premium silent auction items. Reserved show only tickets are $30.00 and can be purchased online at www.artcenter.org/events or by calling (800) 988-4253. Tickets include a postshow party with D.J. and dancing under the stars.

Proceeds benefit the Center’s education and outreach programs, which serve over 85,000 people each year, including Center Stage performances for youth and Art

what our focus areas for this year should be as well. Many of them were points that were made during the campaign. But if I had to sum it up into one phrase, I would state it as - we need to build community, change the narrative of the city and focus on economic growth. Now there were a lot of subsets to that phrase but I think you can imagine what they would be to achieve those points.

Finally, we agreed that our summary of action would not be official until John had a chance to review it and add input.

We think we know some of his passions for the city and we covered them but it’s important that he has his personal input as well.

Vista • Mayor Judy Ritter

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Gain a better understanding of how the city you live in operates.

Register for the Vista Leadership Academy which begins April 10. Learn about city growth management, traffic plans, city finances, and other city services that impact your lives every day. The eight week Academy is free and is held once a week from 5 pm to 7 pm. Participants must be a Vista resident age 18 or older or a Vista business owner or representative.

Participants will learn how decisions are made, how City funds are allocated, how

City departments operate, and you’ll even go on a citywide bus tour.

You may think you know the city you live in, but the bus tour guides participants through projects and areas that you may not know about. You’ll also have the opportunity to meet the City Council. I encourage you to register soon as the class fills up quickly.

Submit an application online at CityofVista.com/leadership or call the City Clerk’s Office at 760.639.6125. Class spaces will be offered on a first-come, firstserved basis.

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Oceanside • Mayor Peter Weiss

The City of Oceanside will receive $2.6 Million in funding from the Federal Bureau of Reclamation’s WaterSMART's Desalination Fund.

The funding will be used to construct two extraction wells within the Mission Basin as well as brine minimization treatment components. The project will increase

the supply of locally-sourced water as well as reduce the volume of brine discharged to the Pacific Ocean.

The project will increase local water supply at a lower cost than alternatives such as purchasing imported water or desalinating seawater. The City has a goal to develop 50% of the City’s water supplies locally by 2030 and is well on its way to achieving that goal.

Semper Fi, “Mac” - Paul P. McNamara, Mayor of Escondido

Discovery field trips (art, drama, dance and music) for K-12 students. Proceeds also benefit free community events such as Second Saturdays (galleries and museums open for free activities), 4th of July festival, Dia de Los Muertos Festival and Winter Wonderland Festival. The 4th Annual Dancing with Our Stars is generously sponsored by Bellamy’s Restaurant in Escondido. Additional Sponsorship opportunities are still available. More information is available at www.artcenter.org/event/dancing-with-our-stars/ or by calling 760.839.4124.

San Marcos Republican Women’s Meeting, April 1st – At the April 1st meeting of the San Marcos Republican Women their speaker will be Tod Lenhoff, founder and president of Lenhoff Financial Group, Inc., a full-service investment, insurance and tax practice, serving clients throughout L.A. and S.D. County. He will be discussing tax laws and strategies that could be helpful in meeting individual needs during this month when finances are at the forefront.

The meeting will be held at the St. Mark Country Club, 1750 San Pablo Drive, Lake San Marcos 92078. Registration and social at 11am; meeting starts at 11:30am.

Reservations should be made by mailing/delivering your check for $30, payable to RWC-SM, to Susie Glass, 1164 Sunrise Way, San Marcos, 92078. After Wednesday, March 27th, reservations incur an additional fee of $5.00. Group reservations with checks must be mailed together in a single mailing.

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You just can’t get our wine at Amazon. part I.

Last Sunday we visited the “Anza Borrego Super bloom,” took a soak at Agua Caliente County Park and stopped for a tasting at Vulcan Mountain Winery on Wynola road en route to Santa Isabelle for a well deserved round of Mountain Berry Pie a la mode. Sommeliers Mel (Melanie) and Christine served a merry crowd in the Vulcan Mountain tasting room. We finished tasting five excellent reds and concluded with a sampling of their signature Apple potables. First the sweet and spicy Pommier followed by blending the Pommier with their

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sparkling apple Pomme D’Amour.

Before ringing up our tasting tab Mel asked if we would like to purchase any of the wines we tasted.

An un-named member of our group said in a loud voice “Naw, were just here to find out what we like.

We’ll buy the bottles on Amazon.”

After a shocked moment everyone realized it was only a joke. Mel bagged the two bottles we purchased and smiled when she handed me the bag “you just can’t get our wine at Amazon.” Mel made an excellent point. There are just some things that just are not available on the Internet.

Commodity products, especially small items like jewelry and electronics that are inexpensive to ship and require no professional installation, are naturals for the Internet.

Retail boutiques that once anchored the ground floor of housing developments and strip malls have been driven out of business by Internet shopping. Big box stores like Best Buy, Staples, Sears, Kmart and even Wal-Mart have struggled to stay alive in the ever expanding retail presence of the WWW. We’ve watched our neighbor across the street, Fry’s, have employees start parking in the front to give the appearance that they have some customers. Inside the huge store it’s dead. Best Buy almost went under four years ago before new management made some changes that brought them

She is survived by her sister, Nickoletta, husband, Fraser, after 66 years of marriage, her two nieces, Alexis and Alyse, children Scarlett, Scott, Theodore, Nicky, and Pogi - a Bichon-Poodle.

She was the proud Grandmother of Michael, Kyle, Collin and Wyatt, and Great Grandmother of Aiden, Sammy, and Ayla Marion (born on the same day as Marion, September 16th.)

Marion Darlene Gladwin 9/16/1931 to 01/27/2019

Marion Darlene Gladwin, 87, of Escondido, CA., passed away from complications of a stroke, at Redwood Terrace, with family and friends by her side.

Born September 16th, 1931, in El Centro, to Ruby Pearl and Nikolas Simakis. Her family moved to Escondido in 1944, with Marion’s new stepfather, Theodore Bolin.

Marion attended Sawyers Secretarial College in Los Angeles while working at Hughes Aircraft, and taught ballet.

She returned to Escondido to marry her high school sweetheart, Fraser Gladwin, in 1952, when he returned from the Korean War.

She worked hard through the years at the Unemployment Office, San Clemente’s Highway Patrol, the DMV and San Pasqual High School.

She and Fraser kept in touch with their Esondido High School mates and were known for their bi-annual reunion

back. Now it appears they are still swimming against a very strong current and their long term viability is questionable. The Internet is a very efficient way of allowing people to shop and receive some types of goods. It allows for volume purchasing and distribution. It reduces the cost of personnel, transportation, energy and time. It is here to stay and will only get bigger. We are only beginning to see the impact of this retail revolution. But to the point made by Mel last Sunday, there are still some things you just can’t get on Amazon.

By far the biggest single commodity that is difficult to source from the Internet is “service.” It’s the face to face interpersonal relationship that is required to accomplish some

parties at their home.

Marion had many friends who would tell you she could brighten anyone’s day. She looked for the best in everyone. She was a true optimist an artist, had a wonderful imagination, and was a talented dancer. In retirement she continued her passions: Ballet, Barre Exercise, Collecting Antique Dolls and she was a member of the Cameo and Southwind Doll Clubs of San Diego.

activities. Some things still require detailed knowledge and hands on experience. You can buy a toilet from Amazon but someone needs to hook it up.

Years ago we could see the handwriting on the wall. Computers, peripherals and components were becoming low cost commodities available everywhere. The most valuable “commodity” we could offer was our knowledge as to how to operate repair and upgrade them and how to match their configuration to an end user’s needs.

How that changed our business and our industry next week in part II of “You just can’t get our wine at Amazon.”

Death Notices There were no deaths reported to The Paper this week

We will miss her sorely but are so grateful she danced into our lives and brought so much sunshine and love.

When remembering Marion, hug a frriend, family member, or buy dance lessons for that future ballerina.

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9006863 The name of the business: Leviathan Fishing LLC, located at 4344 Arbor Cove Circle, Oceanside, CA. 92058.

This business is registered by: Leviathan Fishing LLC 4344 Arbor Cove Circle Oceanside, CA. 92058 This business is conducted by a Limited Liability Company.

First day of business n/a /s/ Lincoln Peterson Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/15/2019 3/21, 3/28, 4/04 & 4/7/2019

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First day of business n/a /s/ Cecilia Acevedo, President Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/12/2019 3/21, 3/28, 4/04 & 4/7/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9006660 The name of the business: Buzzico, located at 8070 La Jolla Shores Dr., Ste 388, La Jolla, CA. 92037.

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First day of business n/a. /s/ Samuel Pinto Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/27/2019 3/07, 3/14, 3/21 & 3/28/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9004522 The name of the business: BBG Studios, located at 3772 Mission Ave., Suite 101, Oceanside, CA. 92058.

This business is registered by: Barbara G. Bolin-Gorman 221 N. El Camino Real, #7 Oceanside, CA. 92058 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business n/a. /s/ Barbara G. Bolin-Gorman Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/20/2019 3/07, 3/14, 3/21 & 3/28/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005369 The name of the business: Insight Orthodontics Dental Office of Alexander Nee, DDS, Inc, located at 337 S. Rancho Santa Fe Road, San Marcos, CA 92078..

This business is registered by: Alexander Nee, DDS, Inc. 1421 Melanie Lane Arcadia,CA. 91007 This business is conducted by a corporation..

First day of business 4/28/2014 /s/ Alexander Nee, President Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on3/1/2019 3/7, 3/14, 3/21 & 3/28/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9006861 The name of the business: Torabis Group, located at 380 S. Melrose Dr., #356, Vista, Ca. 92081, This business is registered by: Torabis, LLC 380 S. Melroe Dr. #356 Vista, CA. 92081 This business is conducted by Limited Liability Company.

First day of business 3/01/19 /s/ Michael Thomas Minney, Member Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/16/2019 3/21, 3/28, 4/04, and 4/11/2019

+ FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9006785 The name of the business: Sign Designs, located at 3308 Par Dr., Oceanside, CA. 92056.

This business is registered by: Szilvia Bolla 3308 Par Dr. Oceanside, CA. 92056 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business 3/14/2019. /s/ Szilvia Bolla Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/14/2019 3/21, 3/28, 4/04 & 4/11/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9004231 The name of the business: Tropical Illusion Palapas, located at 127 Smilax Rd., Vista, CA. 92083-8201.

This business is registered by: Robert Daniel Sotelo 605 North Nevada St. Apt B Oceanside, CA. 92054 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business 11/05/18. /s/ Robert Daniel Sotelo Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/15/2019 2/28, 3/07, 3/14 & 3/21/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9002941 The name of the business: N ManJarrez, located at 223 Smilax Rd.#128, Vista, Ca. 92083.

This business is registered by: Roberto H. Gerbacio 223 Smilax Rd., #128 Vista, CA. 92083 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business n/a. /s/ Roberto H. Gerbacio Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/1/2019 2/28, 3/07, 3/14, & 3/21/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005441 The name of the business: Lashing Vibes, located at 197 S. Las Posas Rd., Ste 10, San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is registered by: Brenda Vlaney Gutierrez Alatorre 10 Creekside Dr., Unit 225 San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business 3/01/2019. /s/ Brenda Vlaney Gutierrez Alatorre Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/01/2019 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 & 4/04/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005583 The name of the business: Mi Segundita, located at 1417 S. Escondido Blvd., Escondido, CA. 92025.

This business is registered by: Jose Prado Estrada 1132 N. Broadway #6 Escondido, CA. 92026 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business 3/04/2019. /s/ Jose Prado Estrada Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/04/2019 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 & 4/04/2019

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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005617 The name of the business: Web Auto, located at 758 Woodlawn Ave., #B, Chula Vista, CA. 91910 This business is registered by: Juan Velazquez 758 Woodlawn Ave. #B Chula Vista, CA. 91910 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business n/a. /s/ Juan Velazquez, Owner Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/04/2019 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 & 4/04/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005990 The name of the business: The Undergrowth, Undergrowth Goods, located at 2967 Lexington Circle, Carlsbad, CA. 92010.

This business is registered by: Michal Kristen Strawbridge 2967 Lexington Circle Carlsbad, CA. 92010 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business n/a. /s/ Michal Kristen Strawbridge Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/07/2019 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 & 4/04/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9004111 The name of the business: Oceanside Plastics, located at 5205 Mandarin Dr., Oceanside, CA. 92056 This business is registered by: Axel Mnich 5205 Mandarin Dr. Oceanside, CA. 92056 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business 2/14/19. /s/ Axel Mnich Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/14/2019 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 & 4/04/2019

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ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME 37-2019-00006633-CU-PT-NC TO ALL INTERESTED PERSONS: Petitioner Esther Lopez filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Present name: Esther Lopez to Proposed name Esther Leal Estrella THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition for change of name should not be granted. Any person objecting to the name changes described above must file a written objection that includes the reasons for the objection at least two court days before the matter is scheduled to be heard and must appear at the hearing to show cause why the petition should not be granted. If no written objection is timely filed, the court may grant the petition without a hearing.

NOTICE OF HEARING: April 9, 2019, 8:30a.m., Department 23.

The address of the court is: 325 S. Melrose, Vista, CA. 92081. A copy of the Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once each week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: San Marcos News Reporter, dba, The Paper, 845 W. San Marcos Blvd, San Marcos, Ca. 92078. Dated 2/5/2019. /s Sim Von Kalinowski, Judge of the Superior Court 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 &4/04/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005836 The name of the business: MJ Ariya Properties, located at 1806 Goodwin Dr., Vista, CA. 92084.

This business is registered by: Vanthasin Saythong 1806 Goodwin Dr. Vista, CA. 92084 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business 1/1/18. /s/ Vanthasin Saythong Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/06/2019 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 & 4/04/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9006115 The name of the business: Sayulitas Mexican Food San Diego, located at 1460 S. 43rd Street, Ste E, San Diego, Ca. 92113.

This business is registered by: Maria D. Rodriguez Alvarez 3847 Birch St. San Diego, CA. 92113 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business n/a. /s/ Maria D Rodriguez Alvarez Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/08/2019 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 & 4/04/2019

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Call Now! 760-290.3611 Dr. Gary Loos 1645 S. Rancho Santa Fe Rd. Ste. 102 San Marcos ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME 37-2019-00008737-CU-PT-NC TO ALL INTERESTED PERSONS: Petitioner Ceilidh Anastassia Richardson filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Present name: Ceilidh Anastassia Richardson to Proposed name Anastasia Leonidovna Grishukova THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition for change of name should not be granted. Any person objecting to the name changes described above must file a written objection that includes the reasons for the objection at least two court days before the matter is scheduled to be heard and must appear at the hearing to show cause why the petition should not be granted. If no written objection is timely filed, the court may grant the petition without a hearing.

NOTICE OF HEARING: Date: April 30, 2019, 8:30a.m., Department 23.

The address of the court is: 325 S. Melrose, Vista, CA. 92081. A copy of the Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once each week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: San Marcos News Reporter, dba, The Paper, 845 W. San Marcos Blvd, San Marcos, Ca. 92078. Dated 2/15/2019. /s Sim Von Kalinowski, Judge of the Superior Court 3/07, 3/14, 3/21 & 3/28/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005313 The name of the business: Spa Doctor San Diego, located at 1148 Canary Ct., San Marcos, CA. 92078.

This business is registered by: Stephen George Goetzee 1148 Canary Ct. San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business 10/04/98. /s/ Stephen George Coetzee Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/28/2019 3/07, 3/14, 3/21 & 3/28/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9004796 The name of the business: All Smiles Visitation and Exchange Services, located at 1889 Matin Cir. #166, San Marcos, CA. 92069 This business is registered by: Amy Louise Cooke 1889 Matin Cir. 166 San Marcos, CA. 92069 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business: n/a /s/ Amy Louise Cooke Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/22/2019.

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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005557 The name of the business: Rainbow Massage, located at 738 W. San Marcos Blvd, Suite 101, San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is registered by: Lian Kui Pan 1616 Palm Ave C San Gabriel, Ca 91776 This business is conducted by an individual First day of business n/a. /s/ Lian Kui Pan Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/04/2019 3/07, 3/14, 3/21, & 3/28/2019

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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9006229 The name of the business: Fantasy Cruises and Tours, located at 1155 Prospect Place, Vista, CA 92081.

This business is registered by: Constance Peterson 1155 Prospect Place Vista, CA. 92081 Robin Hawkins 1166 Phillips St. Vista, Ca. 92083 This business is conducted by a General Partnership.

First day of business n/a. /s/ Constance Peterson Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/11/2019 3/21, 3/28, 4/04 & 4/11/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005771 The name of the business: Gervais Creations, located at 1838 Yettford Rd., Vista, CA. 92083 This business is registered by: Patsy Ann and Theodore Joseph Gervais 1838 Yettford Rd. Vista, CA. 92083 This business is conducted by a Married Couple.

First day of business 10/01/2018 /s/ Patsy Ann Gervais Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/06/2019 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 & 4/04/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005643 The name of the business: BBS Manufacturing dba Business and Company, located at 1905 Diamond St., San Marcos, CA. 92078.

This business is registered by: BBS Manufacturing Inc. 1905 Diamond St. San Marcos, Ca. 92078 This business is conducted by a corporation.

First day of business 3/01/19. /s/ Angela Diaz, Secretary Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/05/2019 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 & 4/04/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9003222 The name of the business: Pacific Edge Insurance Agency, located at 1938 Kellogg Avenue, Carlsbad, CA., 92008.

This business is registered by: Steven Douglas Whitley 3830 Margaret Way Carlsbad, CA. 92008 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business 5/31/06 /s/ Steven Douglas Whitley Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/05/2019 2/28, 3/07, 3/14 & 3/21/2019

LEGALS Legals

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CITY OF SAN MARCOS IFB CIP CONBID 19-01 NOTICE TO BIDDERS CIP NO. 88505 88529 88265 88263 88264 CREEK DISTRICT INFRASTRUCTURE PROJECT FEDERAL AID CONTRACT NUMBER: BRLS-NBIL(522) AND BRLS-5381(033)

PUBLIC NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that the City of San Marcos, hereinafter referred to as Agency or City, invites sealed bids for the above stated Project and will receive bids via an online bid management system, PlanetBids up to the hour of 2:00 p.m. on May 16, 2019 at which time the bids will be publicly opened and viewable online. A representative of Agency will also be onsite at City Hall at the time of bid opening to read the electronic bids. Bids received after the hour and date for the bid opening will not be accepted.

WORK DESCRIPTION The work generally consists of furnishing all work, equipment and labor for the construction of two (2) box girder bridges, an earthen levee, linear park, habitat restoration, road widening, grading, building removal, utility relocation, water and sewer lines, storm drain, pedestrian and trail improvements and other general surface improvements.. A detailed Scope of Work can be found in the IFB Documents.

LOCATION OF WORK The work to be constructed is bounded by Discovery Street, San Marcos Boulevard, and SR78.

With main road and bridge work located on Discovery, Via Vera Cruz, and Bent Avenue.

MANDATORY PRE-BID CONFERENCE A Pre-Bid Conference will be held for this project on April 9, 2019 at 9:00 a.m. The conference will be held at: Community Services Main Hall 3 Civic Center Drive San Marcos, California 92069 An authorized representative of the bidder must attend the pre-bid conference and sign the attendance sheet. For bidders partnering on the project, an authorized representative from one of the partners must attend and sign the attendance sheet.

A networking session for subcontractors and primes will immediately follow the pre-bid conference.

JOB SITE ACCESS Access to the job site tour will be offered on April 9, 2019 from 1:00 PM to 2:00 PM. Please park at: 430 Via Vera Cruz San Marcos, CA 92078 Safety vests are required.

ESTIMATED COST OF CONSTRUCTION: The Estimated Construction Cost is $68,963,100.

PROJECT FUNDING This project is funded in whole or in part with the following funds: 1 Local 1 Developer or Third Party Funds 1 Federal Highway Administration (FHWA), subject to the Federal Provisions in Exhibit D. 1 Grant: Proposition 84 - California River Parkways Grant Program DISADVANTAGED BUSINESS ENTERPRISE GOAL AND FEDERAL TRAINEE PROGRAM REQUIREMENTS This contract is subject to the following disadvantaged business enterprise (DBE) goal(s) and Federal Trainee/Apprentice requirements: Project Name Project IDDBE GoalTrainee Requirements Bent Avenue Bridge & Improvements BRLS-NBIL (522) 13% 11 Via Vera Cruz Bridge & Improvements BRLS-5381(033) 15% 14 It is the bidder’s responsibility to make sufficient portions of the work available to subcontractors and suppliers, and to make work available to DBEs and select work parts consistent with available DBE subcontractors and suppliers.

PREVAILING WAGE NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that, pursuant to the San Marcos City Charter and the San Marcos Municipal Code, payment of prevailing wages and compliance with the California Labor Code Sections 1770 et seq is required for this project. In addition, this Project is funded in part by a grant from the FHWA and the successful bidder will be required to comply with the Federal Davis-Bacon Act requirements. The Contractor will be required to comply with all of the terms and conditions (including Federal and State General Prevailing Wage requirements) prescribed for Contractor performing public works construction projects. In all instances where Federal, State, and Local Prevailing Wages for a given craft differ, the higher Prevailing Wage rate shall be paid.

The California Department of Industrial Relations determines the general prevailing wage rates for the State, which are available at the DIR website, http://www.dir.ca.gov, or from the City of San Marcos’ City Clerk Department. Federal prevailing wage rates are posted at http://www.wdol.gov.

DIR REGISTRATION Under SB 854, contractors and subcontractors performing work on public works contracts are required to register with the Department of Industrial Relations (DIR) on an annual basis (July 1June 30). All contractors and subcontractors submitting bids will be required to have registered in advance with the DIR and must meet the minimum program qualifications necessary to be eligible to work on public works projects pursuant to Labor Code section 1725.5 and Public Contract Code Section 4104.

TIME OF COMPLETION All work shall be completed to the satisfaction of the Agency in conformance with the Contract Documents within five hundred (500) Working Days after the date of commencement specified in the Notice to Proceed. Liquidated damages for this Project will be per the Special Provisions. A plant establishment period is required by this Contract.

AVAILABILITY OF BID DOCUMENTS The City uses PlanetBids to post and receive bids online. Only vendors that are registered with PlanetBids will be eligible to submit a bid for formal solicitations with the City. PlanetBids is accessible via the City’s website and the direct link provided below, and provides all Bid Documents at no cost to bidders. http://www.san-marcos.net OR https://www.planetbids.com/portal/portal.cfm?CompanyID=39481 NO BID SETS WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR PURCHASE. CONTRACTORS LICENSE The Contractor shall possess at the time the contract is awarded, a California Contractors License classification A, General Engineering Contractor.

BIDDER SECURITY Each bid must be accompanied by bidders security equal to 10 percent of the bid.

PD 3/21/19

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9002728 The name of the business: La Competencia Carniceria & Market, located at 675 E. Lincoln Ave., Ste N, Escondido, CA. 92025.

This business is registered by: Librada Almaraz Garcia 31975 Palos Verdes Dr. Escondido, CA. 92026 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business n/a. /s/ Librada Almaraz Garcia Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 1/30/2019 2/28, 3/07, 3/14 & 3/21/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9004582 The name of the business: True North Associates, located at 9988 Hibert Street #150, San Diego, CA. 92131.

This business is registered by: Kara Marie Courtney 300 Carlsbad Village Drive #223 Carlsbad, CA. 92008 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business n/a /s/ Kara Marie Courtney Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/21/2019 2/28, 3/07, 3/14 & 3/21/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9003100 The name of the business: Kikes Ice Creams, located at 2506 S. Santa Fe AVe, B5, Vista, CA. 92084.

This business is registered by: Enrique Espinoza 314 Smilax Rd., Apt 3, San Marcos, CA 92069 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business n/a. /s/ Enrique Espinoza Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/04/2019 2/28, 3/07, 3/14 & 3/21/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9006540 The name of the business: Our Lady of the Rosary of Manaoag Devotees, California, located at 27067 Toyon Ridge Trail, Valley Center, CA. 92082.

This business is registered by: Romy S. and Ruby S. Crena 27067 Toyon Ridge Trail, Valley Center 92082 This business is conducted by an Unincorporated Association-Other than a Partnership First day of business 3/12/19 /s/ Romy S. Crena, Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/12/2019 3/21, 3/28, 4/04 and 4/11/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005305 The name of the business: Vacation Lifestyle Consulting Group, located at 795 Trailside Place, San Marcos, CA. 92078.

This business is registered by: HWB Global Inc. 795 Trailside Place San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is conducted by a corporation.

First day of business 2/28/2019. /s/ Marilyn Okita, President Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/28/2019 3/07, 3/14, 3/21 & 3/28/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005302 The name of the business: Holiday Inn Express Escondido, located at 1250 West Valley Parkway, Escondido, CA. 92029.

This business is registered by: Jaybee Ontario, LLC 44 Skyward Irvine, Ca. 92620 This business is conducted by a LImited Liability Company.

First day of business n/a. /s/ Kiran Patel, Managing Member Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/28/2019 3/07, 3/14, 3/21 & 3/28/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9004524 The name of the business: AAA Services, located at 1132 Elm Tree Lane, San Marcos, CA. 92069.

This business is registered by: Alejandro B. Torres 1132 Elm Tree Ln San Marcos, CA. 92069 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business 1/1/2017. /s/ Alejandro B. Torres Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/202019 3/07, 3/14, 3/21 & 3/28/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005851 The name of the business: Magnolia Cleaning Servics, located at 1162 Madera Ln., Vista, CA. 92084.

This business is registered by: Magnolia Betancourth 1162 Madera Ln Vista, CA. 92084 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business 3/06/2019. /s/ Magnolia Betancourth Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/06/2019 3/14, 3/21, 3/28 & 4/04/2019 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9005928 The name of the business: Hawthorn Hedge Organics, located at 285 Glendale Avenue, San Marcos, CA. 92069.

This business is registered by: Melinda Cole Klein 285 Glendale Avenue San Marcos, CA. 92069 This business is conducted by an individual.

First day of business n/a /s/ Melinda Cole Klein Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/07/2019 3/21, 3/28, 4/04 & 4/11/2019

NOTICE OF PUBLIC HEARING (Planning Commission)

The Planning Commission of the City of San Marcos will hold the following public hearing in the City Council Chambers located at San Marcos City Hall, 1 Civic Center Drive, San Marcos, CA 92069 at 6:30 p.m., on Monday, April 01, 2019.

Project No.: TA19-0001 Applicant(s): City of San Marcos Request: The Planning Commission will review proposed amendments to the San Marcos Municipal Code, Title 20 to Flood Damage Prevention Overlay Zone (Chapter 20.255) and Variances (Section 20.525.070 and 20.525.090) to be compliant with current National Flood Insurance Program (NFIP) requirements.

Environmental Determination: A Notice of Exemption (EX19009) was prepared for this project in that the proposed Text Amendment is not defined as a “project” within the meaning of Section 15378 of California Environmental Quality Act (CEQA) Guidelines. Further, even if the proposed Text Amendment were defined as a project, the project would be exempt pursuant to Section 15061(b)(3) of the CEQA Guidelines because it can be seen with certainty that there is no possibility it would result in a significant effect on the environment.

Location of the Property: Citywide Assessor’s Parcel No.: N/A Further information about this notice can be obtained from Saima Qureshy, Principal Planner, by calling 760-7441050 extension 3222, or via email squreshy@sanmarcos.net. NOTICE: The Planning Division can be contacted at 760-744-1050, extension 3233 or ghenderson@san-marcos.net.

The City of San Marcos is committed to making its programs, services and activities accessible to individuals with disabilities. If you require accommodation to participate in any City program, service or activity, please contact the City Clerk’s office at 1 Civic Center Drive, San Marcos, CA. 92069, or call 760-744-1050, extension 3145.

Phil Scollick, City Clerk, City of San Marcos.

PD: 03/21/19.

STATEMENT OF ABANDONMENT OF USE OF FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME #2019-9005312 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME: Spa Doctor San Diego, located at 1148 Canary Ct., San Marcos, CA. 92078. The Fictitious Business Name referred to above was filed in San Diego County on 9/24/2015 and assigned File no. 2015-024903, is abandoned by the following regisrants: Blue Water Services, Inc, located at 1148 Canary Ct., San Marcos, CA. 92078.

I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct. (A registrant who declares as true any material matter pursuant to Section 17913 of the Business and Professions code that the registrant knows to be false is guilty of a misdemeanor punishable by a fine not to exceed one thousand dollars ($1000). /s/ Stephen George Coetzee, President This statement was filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 2/28/2019 3/07, 3/14, 3/21 & 3/28/2019

CITY OF SAN MARCOS IFB CIP CONBID 19-01 NOTICE TO BIDDERS CIP NO. 88505 88529 88265 88263 88264 CREEK DISTRICT INFRASTRUCTURE PROJECT FEDERAL AID CONTRACT NUMBER: BRLS-NBIL(522) AND BRLS-5381(033)

PUBLIC NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that the City of San Marcos, hereinafter referred to as Agency or City, invites sealed bids for the above stated Project and will receive bids via an online bid management system, PlanetBids up to the hour of 2:00 p.m. on May 16, 2019 at which time the bids will be publicly opened and viewable online. A representative of Agency will also be onsite at City Hall at the time of bid opening to read the electronic bids. Bids received after the hour and date for the bid opening will not be accepted.

WORK DESCRIPTION The work generally consists of furnishing all work, equipment and labor for the construction of two (2) box girder bridges, an earthen levee, linear park, habitat restoration, road widening, grading, building removal, utility relocation, water and sewer lines, storm drain, pedestrian and trail improvements and other general surface improvements..

A detailed Scope of Work can be found in the IFB Documents.

LOCATION OF WORK The work to be constructed is bounded by Discovery Street, San Marcos Boulevard, and SR78. With main road and bridge work located on Discovery, Via Vera Cruz, and Bent Avenue.

MANDATORY PRE-BID CONFERENCE A Pre-Bid Conference will be held for this project on April 9, 2019 at 9:00 a.m. The conference will be held at: Community Services Main Hall 3 Civic Center Drive San Marcos, California 92069 An authorized representative of the bidder must attend the pre-bid conference and sign the attendance sheet. For bidders partnering on the project, an authorized representative from one of the partners must attend and sign the attendance sheet.

A networking session for subcontractors and primes will immediately follow the pre-bid conference.

JOB SITE ACCESS Access to the job site tour will be offered on April 9, 2019 from 1:00 PM to 2:00 PM. Please park at: 430 Via Vera Cruz San Marcos, CA 92078 Safety vests are required.

ESTIMATED COST OF CONSTRUCTION: The Estimated Construction Cost is $68,963,100.

DOP: 3/21/2019

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2019-9006095 The name of the business: Cage and Lantern, located at 1748 Elfin Forest Rd., #261, San Marcos, CA. 92078.

This business is registered by: Marissa BV and Theodore Brett Kovach 1748 Elfin Forest Rd. 261 San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is conducted by a Married Couple.

First day of business 11/28/13. /s/ Marissa BV Kovach Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 3/08/2019 3/21, 3/28, 4/04 & 4/11/2019

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