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December 24, 2020

Volume 50 - No. 51

by lyle e davis

It all took place at Bishop Clarkson Hospital, Omaha, Nebraska. At least most of it took place there.

There was a 15 year old lad in for observation and tests that would shortly result in an appendectomy. While being pushed, prodded, probed and thoroughly checked from stem to stern he observed a new, younger patient being moved into his room.

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from the Winnebago tribe up near Sioux City. He was 12, had skin as brown as a hickory nut, jet black hair with bangs that just naturally fell over his forehead, the whitest teeth and widest smile you've ever seen. There was a sparkle in his eyes when he talked. There was also torment there when he was hurting. Which was often.

Like the 15 year old, they didn't really know what was wrong with the Indian boy named Joe. He would have intermittent bouts of excruciating pain. He would never

cry out. He would grimace, grab the sides of the bed rails, clump the pillow up in his hands and squeeze, but never a cry. After the pain went away he would talk and flash that wonderous smile of his.

They talked about all the things young lads talk about. Joe would talk about the reservation, about the rivers and creekbeds he would frequent when out running trap lines or fishing or hunting. He would talk about his new quarters in Omaha. Living conditions must have been pretty rough on the Winnebago

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reservation because he described his living quarters in Omaha as though they were a castle and its surrounding gardens. Yet the area where he lived was the slums of Omaha, skid row. There were many Indians living there, true. But they were generally derelicts, drunks, down and out beggars and thieves. Yet Joe thought this was heaven on earth.

Joe had no one to come visit him. His parents lived up on the reservation and his father had little, if any, work. They had no car so it would

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have meant a long bus ride to Omaha, finding a place to rent, a long bus ride back, and meanwhile they needed to eat. And they only had limited funds available. The options were limited. The easiest one, financially, was not to visit Joe in the hospital as often as they would like. As Christmas approached the parents and friends of the 15 year old had come to befriend "Little Joe" as he was called by most everyone. Each day they would bring in a small box, gift wrapped nicely, so that Little Joe might have something of a Christmas. He fairly tingled with excitement and his eyes sparkled even more as he watched the pile of presents grow higher and higher. The pains were coming more often now for Joe. They still hadn't isolated what was causing them. It was necessary to give him painkillers now as the episodes of pain lasted longer and longer.

The pain killers made him groggy and it was a while before he was able to flash the "Little Joe Smile" again.....but when he smiled....he smiled! On Christmas Eve day, Joe was having a difficult time. But even though he had been in great pain and even though he was still a bit

Give Us This Day Our Daily Chuckle This week, a compendium of wit, wisdom and neat stuff you can tell at parties. Enjoy! CHRISTMAS EATING TIPS

1. Avoid carrot sticks. Anyone who puts carrots on a holiday buffet table knows nothing of the Christmas spirit. In fact, if you see carrots, leave immediately. Go next door, where they're serving rum balls.

2. Drink as much eggnog as you can. And quickly. It's rare. You can't find it any other time of year but now. So drink up! Who cares that it has 10,000 calories in every sip? It's not as if you're going to turn into an eggnog-alcoholic or something. It's a treat. Enjoy it. Have one for me. Have two. It's later than you think. It's Christmas! 3 . If something comes with gravy, use it. That's the whole point of gravy. Gravy does not stand alone.

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groggy from the medication his eyes lit up brilliantly when he saw an elderly Indian couple enter the room. Upon closer examination it became evident that they really weren't all that elderly....it was just that they both appeared stooped, their faces heavily lined, their clothing, though clean, was shabby; they were old beyond their years. It was Little Joe's mom and dad.

refused payment.

As they neither had the money for a cab, nor did they understand the Omaha City Bus system, they had to walk from the bus station to the hospital, a distance of about 5 miles.

After mother and son had hugged one another and mother brushed away a tear, and after the stoic father had ruffled Little Joe's hair (it would have been unseemly for him to hug his son; Indian men didn't do that), they set up the little Christmas tree on the table by his bed. They adjusted the wooden cross nailed to the bottom so it stood upright, perhaps with a slight tilt to the left, but still, it was upright, after a fashion.

They had taken the bus down from the reservation to Omaha.

It had been a cold, blustery, punishing walk. Omaha winters are notoriously cruel. Yet Joe's mom and dad trudged on. They were used to cruelty. Somewhere along the way they passed a Christmas Tree lot.

Business was slow. Most folks had bought their Christmas trees already.

Joe's father had asked if there might be a small tree they could buy for 50 cents; when he explained it was for his son who was in a hospital room the Christmas tree vendor handed him a small tree, a bit on the scraggly side, but still a nice small Christmas tree. He bade Joe's parents a merry Christmas and

Pour it on. Make a volcano out of your mashed potatoes. Fill it with gravy. Eat the volcano. Repeat. 4. As for mashed potatoes, always ask if they're made with skim milk or whole milk. If it's skim, pass. Why bother? It's like buying a sports car with an automatic transmission. 5. Do not have a snack before going to a party in an effort to control your eating. The whole point of going to a Christmas party is to eat other people's food for free. Lots of it. Hello?

6. Under no circumstances should you exercise between now and New Year's. You can do that in January when you have nothing else to do. This is the time for long naps, which you'll need after circling the buffet table while carrying a 10pound plate of food and that vat of eggnog.

7. If you come across something really good at a buffet table, like frosted Christmas cookies in the shape and size of Santa, position yourself near them and don't budge. Have as many as you can before becoming the center of attention. They're like a beautiful pair of shoes. If you leave them behind, you're never going to see them again. 8. Same for pies. Apple. Pumpkin. Mincemeat. Have a slice of each.

Upon entering the hospital floor where Joe was staying, a couple of nurses raided the arts and crafts room and liberated a few strands of red, green, white and blue bits of yarn. Someone cut out a star from some drawing paper, another found some crepe paper left over from a Halloween party. True, it was orange and black but it was colorful. Together, they "decorated" little Joe's Christmas Tree.

Little Joe eagerly piled his presents under the little tree.

They enjoyed one another's company for several hours. Then Little Joe had a bad, bad pain. The nurses came and gave him a pain killer. It only partially worked. An intern came and examined Joe. He asked that the resident physician be called. They decided to do some type of surgery and Joe was taken to surgery within the hour. Several hours later Joe had awakened in recovery; they returned him

Or if you don't like mincemeat, have two apples and one pumpkin. Always have three. When else do you get to have more than one dessert? Labor Day?

9. Did someone mention fruitcake? Granted, it's loaded with the mandatory celebratory calories, but avoid it at all cost.. I mean, have some standards.

10. One final tip: If you don't feel terrible when you leave the party or get up from the table, you haven't been paying attention. Re-read tips; start over, but hurry, January is just around the corner. Remember this motto to live by: "Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, Glass of wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO HOO what a ride!" Have a great Christmas! •••• A smile is a sign of joy . .

A hug . . is a sign of love.

A laugh . . is a sign of happiness . .

And a friend like me? . . Well, that's just a sign of good taste. We'll be friends until I am senile

to his room, still groggy, but conscious. Again, his smile beamed when he saw his mother, his father, and his bed-mate, the 15 year old. This time, the father gently cradled his son and gave him a tender hug. It was no longer important whether it was "seemly" or not to hug his son. The mother stroked her son's face.

The 15 year old wanted to talk to Little Joe and ask him about surgery, the recovery room, the doctors.....but, he thought better of it and didn't interrupt the family visit.

The next morning the floor nurse, as nurses for centuries have done, awakened the 15 year old to ask him how he was feeling, while she took his pulse and other vitals. The 15 year old sleepily allowed as how he was feeling fine, though a bit tired. He noticed what looked like a tear in the nurses eye. His stomach froze.

He looked over at Little Joe's bed. It was not only empty but the bedclothes had been removed; Little Joe's chart, his nameplate, everything was gone. Except for the scrawny Christmas tree next to his bed, with gifts piled beneath.

He looked at the nurse's face. A

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Then we'll be new friends.

It Happened Like This . . .

It was a sweltering August day when the Greenberg brothers entered the posh Dearborn, Michigan offices of the notoriously anti-Semitic carmaker, Henry Ford.

"Mr. Ford," announced Hyman Greenberg, the eldest of the three, "we have a remarkable invention that will revolutionize the automobile industry." Ford looked skeptical, but their threats to offer it to the competition kept his interest piqued. Hi Greenberg continued, "We would like to demonstrate it to you in person." After a little cajoling, they brought Mr.Ford outside and asked him to enter a black car that was parked in front of the building. Norman Greenberg, the middle brother, opened the door of the car. "Please step inside, Mr. Ford."

"What!" shouted the tycoon, "are you crazy? It must be one hundred degrees in that car!" "It is," smiled the youngest brother, Max, "but sit down, Mr. Ford, and push the white button."

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A member of the Escondido Rotary Club heard that student’s school grades were suffering because of remote learning and that students did not have a dedicated place they called “school.” They work at the kitchen counter or wherever they can, which is not conducive to focused learning. A concept came up about building folding desks for the students. The idea took off, and became a reality. It became quite a coordinated effort by a lot of people that resulted in the Escondido Rotary Club’s Student Desk Project building over 100 portable, collapsible student desks for students in the Escondido Union School District. In fact, on November 30, they delivered 102. After Escondido Union School District Parent Liaison

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questioning look of disbelief on his face. "Little Joe died this morning at 3am," the nurse said.

The 15 year old let out a scream and buried it in his pillow. He sobbed and sobbed. The nurse slipped silently out the door, tears flowing down her cheeks as well. The 15 year old continued to cry. He cried for Little Joe...he cried for Little Joe's parents...he cried for the pain Little Joe had to endure....he cried for himself.....he thought of the little Christmas tree left by Little Joe's bed and he cried even harder. It has been 67 years since all this happened. It was probably the biggest single reason that he never really enjoyed any Christmas after that. I remember it well.

I was the 15 year old.

Coordinator, Kimberly Israel, verified a need for home desk support, the Rotary Club of Escondido and the Escondido Rotary Foundation approved this project in early November. They used a proven desk building model that was generously shared by DreamBuilders, a faith based volunteer builder organization in Maryland. They received community support from the school district, J & W Redwood, Saroyan Hardwoods, Gearhart Cabinets, Home Depot, and Equity Builders Company. The over 30 volunteers came from the Escondido Rotary Club, the Escondido After 5 Rotary Club, and friends and family.

Conditioning provided the work space and the club was able to keep good spacing while working in a covered, but open air environment. Collectively, an estimated 400+ person hours were needed to complete this project. The approximate cost of the project, not including the cost of building the assembly jigs, was $4,813. The expenses were covered with approved funds from both The Escondido Rotary Club, the Escondido Rotary, and Foundation and some individual donations.

Aelott Air Conditioning Trucks Moving Assembled Desks to Schools

Aelott Air Conditioning provided work space and trucks. In order to maximize the time we had for mass assembly, key volunteers pre-cut wood parts at home and company wood shops. Other volunteers cut and prepared the nylon web handles, sanded and drilled hinge ledges, then installed the handles. The desk tops and ledges were cut to shape by volunteers at a professional cabinet shop, Gearhart Cabinets. The actual mass assembly took place over two days, Nov. 21 and Nov. 27. Aelott Air

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Intrigued, Ford pushed the button. All of a sudden a whoosh of freezing air started blowing from vents all around the car, and within seconds the automobile was not only comfortable, it was quite cool!

"This is amazing!" exclaimed Ford. "How much do you want for the patent?"

Norman spoke up. "The price is one million dollars."

Then he paused, "And there is something else. We want the name'Greenberg Brothers Air Conditioning' to be stamped right next to the Ford logo."

"Money is no problem," retorted Ford, "but no way will I have a Jewish name next to my logo on my cars!" They haggled back and forth for a while and finally they settled. One and one-half million dollars, and the name Greenberg would be left off. However, the first names of the Greenberg brothers would be forever emblazoned upon the console of every Ford air conditioning system. And that is why today, whenever you enter a Ford vehicle, you will see those three names clearly defined on the air-conditioning control panel: HI NORM MAX

Parkinson's Support Group Announces Group Meeting - The Inland North County Parkinson's Support Group is announcing their free monthly meetings for people with Parkinson's and their care partners. The meetings are held virtually on Zoom the first Monday of every month at 10am. To receive the Zoom invite, please contact Carol at hcmaher@cox.net.

The January meeting will be on Monday, January 4th, at 10am. The featured speaker at this meeting will be Marty Acevedo, who will be presenting "A Protocol for People with

A Florida Woman Stops Alligator Attack Using a Small .22 caliber Ruger Pistol

RUGER MAKES FINE GUNS. THEY HAVE BEEN IN THIS BUSINESS SINCE 1949. Another good reason to have a concealed weapons permit.

This is a story of self-control and marksmanship by a brave, coolheaded woman with a small pistol against a fierce predator. What's the smallest-caliber that you would trust to protect yourself?

Here's her story in her own words: "While walking along the edge of a pond just outside my house in the Villages discussing a property settlement with my soonto-be ex-husband, and other divorce issues, we were surprised by a huge 12-ft alligator which suddenly emerged from the murky water. It began charging us with its large jaws wide open. She must have been protecting her nest because she was extremely aggressive.

"If I had not had my little Ruger SR .22 caliber pistol with me, I would not be here today! Just one shot to my estranged husband's knee cap was all it took. The gator got him easily, and I was able to escape by just walking away at a brisk pace. The amount I saved in lawyer's fees was really incredible and his life insurance was also a big bonus!"

Parkinson's to ensure they receive medications on time during hospital stays."

Experience the Magic of Northern Lights - Now through Sunday, January 3rd, visit the Northern Lights on the grounds of the California Center for the Arts in escondido. The young and youngat-heart will enjoy tunnels of twinkling lights, giant LED Christmas trees, and blow-up figurines of favorite holiday characters! Guests are invited to wander along the walkways, taking in the holiday sights and sounds. Marvel as lights move to music in a display curated by local Escondido family, the Peace's, featured on ABC's "The Great Christmas Light Fight."

This event is on view daily from 4:30pm to 9pm. This self-guided holiday experience is completely FREE and open to all. It began on November 30th, where the 12-acre campus was transformed into a spectacle of light, hope, and joy after sunset each evening. (Donations are encouraged.)

Supervisor Desmond Featured at San Marcos Chamber - On Thursday, January 7th, from 12noon-1pm, San Diego County Supervisor for District 5, Jim Desmond, will be featured at the January Power Lunch. Hear the latest updates on important issues and happenings in our District. All registered attendees will get $10 in the

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The Birthday Boy

Thanks to everyone who took the time to wish me a Happy Birthday. There must have been a gazillion of you who took the time to contact me and send me your warm wishes and box after box of gifts. There's just one thing . . .

Maybe next year, could we cut back just a little bit on the Franckincense and Myrhh? I mean, Arabic gums and resins were JUST WHAT I ALWAYS WANTED . . . but, well, a guy can only use so much, y'know? Now, those of you who sent that shiny, yellowish gift called gold . . . that is ALWAYS WELCOME. I shall spend most of today moving all those boxes of resins and gums into the garage (with loving care, I might add,) As I do I shall remember each and every one of you with loving care, particularly those of you who sent that shiny, yellowish stuff. A guy can never have too much of that, if you know what I mean.

In any event, thanks again to all of you (even that beautiful woman who called up and sang Happy Birthday to me on my voice mail. Wish I had been here to answer the phone. I won't mention her name

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Local News

The Paper Carlsbad Investigators Arrest Suspect in Lisa Thorborg Homicide Case

On December 14, the City of Carlsbad Police Department arrested a 17-year-old male resident of Carlsbad for the November 23rd murder of Lisa Thorborg on the Hosp Grove Trail.

Since the November 23 homicide, investigators have worked around the clock to find a suspect and seek justice for Lisa Thorborg and her family.

As the suspect in this case is a juvenile, the law limits the information the Police Department can release. Also, to protect the criminal justice process, the Police Department will limit the release of investigative details that led to this arrest.

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rugged terrain and the community for coming together and sharing any information they had on the incident.

The investigation is continuing and at this time no additional suspects are believed to be outstanding. Investigators are working with the San Diego County District Attorney’s Office regarding prosecution. Palomar Medical Center Begins Vaccinations for Palomar Health Staff

Palomar Medical Center completed 167 vaccine shots Wednesday, December 16th and anticipates that they. should complete the vaccination program of staff within six weeks.

“We understand that the community has been on edge since that tragic day in November when Lisa was found on Hosp Grove Trail,” stated Investigations Lieutenant Jason Jackowski. “Our unwavering mission has been to find the suspect for Lisa, her family and the community of Carlsbad.”

Jackowski went on to say that investigators worked in all directions and followed any potential lead to arrive at this conclusion. The department would like to thank the San Diego Sheriff’s Search and Rescue Teams that aided the department in the search for evidence in

Man About Town

Mark Evanier is the brilliant writer who writes all the dialogue for the Garfield Cartoons and books; he also hires some of the top voice-over actors for tv commercials and programs . . . he knows almost everybody in Hollywood, both in tv and movies. And he writes a blog at: newsfromme.com.

Every Christmas season he posts an annual Christmas story that bring back a lot of great memories for many of us. But, here, let Marke Evanier tell you his story himself: I want to tell you a story…

The scene is Farmers Market — the famed tourist mecca of Los Angeles. It's located but yards from the facility they call, "CBS Television City in Hollywood"… which, of course, is not in Hollywood but at least is very close.

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Above, Jarrod Becasen, a Palomar Health Infection Preventionist gets his vaccination.

Farmers Market is a quaint collection of bungalow stores, produce stalls and little stands where one can buy darn near anything edible one wishes to devour. You buy your pizza slice or sandwich or Chinese food or whatever at one of umpteen counters, then carry it on a tray to an open-air table for consumption.

During the Summer or on weekends, the place is full of families and tourists and Japanese tour groups. But this was a winter weekday, not long before Christmas, and the crowd was mostly older folks, dawdling over coffee and danish. For most of them, it's a good place to get a donut or a taco, to sit and read the paper.

Above, Palomar Medical Center Pharmacists pharmacists are mixing the vaccine into syringes. California Department of Insurance arrests mother and daughter in $210,000 Operation Double Trouble disability insurance fraud scheme

Investigation found alleged fraud occurred between 2014 and 2017

Hazel Edwards, 59, of Menifee, and her daughter Laquinta Lowe, 38, of Chula Vista, were arrested on multiple felony counts of insurance fraud and grand theft after allegedly submitting fraudulent disability claims to receive $212,307 in benefits. The Department of Insurance began an investigation dubbed Operation Double Trouble after receiving a referral in 2018 from AFLAC, Edward’s insurance company. The investigation revealed that from 2014 through 2017 Edwards and Lowe submitted fraudulent disabili-

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singing "Let It Snow," a cappella.

They were young adults with strong, fine voices and they were all clad in splendid Victorian garb. The Market had hired them (I assume) to stroll about and sing for the diners — a little touch of the holidays.

Letters to the Editor Reincarnation

Dear editor,

I completely appreciated your recent story on reincarnation by Friedrich Gomez. I had no idea of the growth rate in the belief of reincarnation throughout the Christian sect, America's culture and worldwide. Quoting historical giants always gets my attention, and how he builds intrigue and curiosity makes you unable to put down the story. His exploration of reincarnation in biblical text is more than brilliant. /s/Miguel Romero Escondido, CA.

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I asked, "Do you know 'The Christmas Song?'" Again, a "No."

I said, "That's the one that starts, 'Chestnuts roasting on an open fire…'"

For me, it's a good place to get out of the house and grab something to eat. I arrived, headed for my favorite barbecue stand and, en route, noticed that Mel Tormé was seated at one of the tables.

Mel Tormé. My favorite singer. Just sitting there, sipping a cup of coffee, munching on an English Muffin, reading The New York Times. Mel Tormé.

I had never met Mel Tormé. Alas, I still haven't and now I never will. He looked like he was engrossed in the paper that day so I didn't stop and say, "Excuse me, I just wanted to tell you how much I've enjoyed all your records." I wish I had.

Instead, I continued over to the BBQ place, got myself a chicken sandwich and settled down at a table to consume it. I was about halfway through when four Christmas carolers strolled by,

"Let It Snow" concluded not far from me to polite applause from all within earshot. I waved the leader of the chorale over and directed his attention to Mr. Tormé, seated about twenty yards from me.

"Oh, yes," the caroler chirped. "Is that what it's called? 'The Christmas Song?'"

The singer was about 25 so it didn't horrify me that he said, "No."

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"That's Mel Tormé down there. Do you know who he is?"

"That's the name," I explained. "And that man wrote it." The singer thanked me, returned to his group for a brief huddle…and then they strolled down towards Mel Tormé. I ditched the rest of my sandwich and followed, a few steps behind.

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(Patti Thompson) because I respect her privacy (Patti Thonmpson) . . . but it was very touching. And what a voice! Celine Dion is in trouble! Time to get busy. Lots to do today. Those boxes of frankincense and myrrh, y'know. •••• I have the most loving wife. Last night I woke up to her holding a pillow tightly over my face to protect me from covid9. •••• Where is your husband? He’s in the Garden. I didn’t see him.

You have to dig a little. •••• 4 out of 3 people struggle with math. •••• I thought growing old would ake longer. •••• When I was a kid I waned to be older. This crap is not what I expected. •••• My wife says I only have two faults. I don’t listen and some other crap she keeps rattling on about . . . •••• I’m so busy I don’t know if I found a rope or lost my horse. •••• Patience is a virtue. It’s just not one of MY virtues. •••• A great philosopher once said, (it may have been my very own self): "Be what you is, not what you isn't. Cause when you is what you isn't You isn't what you is." •••• If You Don’t Feel You Are at Your Brightest .. Take Heart. Witness these comments: (On September 17, 1994, Alabama's Heather Whitestone was selected as Miss America 1995.) Question: If you could live forever, would you and why?

Answer: "I would not live forever, because we should not live forever, because if we were supposed to live forever, then we would live forever, but we cannot live forever, which is why I would not live forever," --Miss Alabama in the 1994 Miss USA contest.

"Whenever I watch TV and see those poor starving kids all over the world, I can't help but cry. I mean I'd love to be skinny like that, but not with all those flies and death and stuff." --Mariah Carey

,"Smoking kills. If you're killed, you've lost a very important part of your life," -- Brooke Shields, during an interview to become spokesperson for federal anti-smoking campaign

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"I've never had major knee surgery on any other part of my body," --Winston Bennett, University of Kentucky basketball forward.

"Outside of the killings, Washington has one of the lowest crime rates in the country," --Mayor Marion Barry, Washington, DC . "That lowdown scoundrel deserves to be kicked to death by a jackass, and I'm just the one to do it," --A congressional candidate in Texas ..

"Half this game is ninety percent mental." --Philadelphia Phillies manager, Danny Ozark

"It isn't pollution that's harming the environment. It's the impurities in our air and water that are doing it.." --Al Gore, Vice President

"I love California . I practically grew up in Phoenix .." -- Dan Quayle “We've got to pause and ask ourselves: How much clean air do we need?" --Lee Iacocca

"The word "genius" isn't applicable in football. A genius is a guy like Norman Einstein." --Joe Theisman, NFL football quarterback & sports analyst.

"We don't necessarily discriminate. We simply exclude certain types of people." -- Colonel Gerald Wellman, ROTC Instruct

"Your food stamps will be stopped effective March 2020 because we received notice that you passed away. May God bless you. You may reapply if there is a change in your circumstances." --Department of Social Services, Greenville , South Carolina "Traditionally, most of Australia 's imports come from overseas." --Keppel Enderbery

"If somebody has a bad heart, they can plug this jack in at night as they go to bed and it will monitor their heart throughout the night. And the next morning, when they wake up dead, there'll be a record." -- Mark S. Fowler, FCC Chairman •••• 1. The dumbest, useless thing I ever bought was a 2020 planner.

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As they reached their quarry, they began singing, "Chestnuts roasting on an open fire…" directly to him.

A big smile formed on Mel Tormé's face — and it wasn't the only one around. Most of those sitting at nearby tables knew who he was and many seemed aware of the significance of singing that song to him. For those who didn't, there was a sudden flurry of whispers: "That's Mel Tormé…he wrote that…" As the choir reached the last chorus or two of the song, Mel got to his feet and made a little gesture that meant, "Let me sing one chorus solo." The carolers — all still apparently unaware they were in the presence of one of the world's great singers — looked a bit uncomfortable. I'd bet at least a couple were thinking, "Oh, no…the little fat guy wants to sing."

But they stopped and the little fat guy started to sing…and, of course, out came this beautiful, melodic, perfectly-on-pitch voice. The look on the face of the singer I'd briefed was amazed at first…then properly impressed.

On Mr. Tormé's signal, they all joined in on the final lines: "Although it's been said, many times, many ways…Merry Christmas to you…" Big smiles all around. And not just from them. I looked and at all the tables surrounding the impromptu performance, I saw huge grins of delight…which segued, as the song ended, into a huge burst of applause. The whole tune only lasted about two minutes but I doubt anyone who was there will ever forget it. I have witnessed a number of thrilling "show business" moments — those incidents, far and few between, where all the little hairs on your epidermis snap to attention and tingle with joy. Usually, these occur on a screen or stage. I hadn't

expected to experience one next to a falafel stand — but I did.

Tormé thanked the harmonizers for the serenade and one of the women said, "You really wrote that?" He nodded. "A wonderful songwriter named Bob Wells and I wrote that…and, get this — we did it on the hottest day of the year in July. It was a way to cool down." Then the gent I'd briefed said, "You know, you're not a bad singer." He actually said that to Mel Tormé.

Mel chuckled. He realized that these four young folks hadn't the velvet-foggiest notion who he was, above and beyond the fact that he'd worked on that classic carol. "Well," he said. "I've actually made a few records in my day…"

"Really?" the other man asked. "How many?" Tormé smiled and said, "Ninety."

I probably own about half of them on vinyl and/or CD. For some reason, they sound better on vinyl. (My favorite was the album he made with Buddy Rich. Go ahead. Find me a better parlay of singer and drummer. I'll wait.)

Today, as I'm reading obits, I'm reminded of that moment. And I'm impressed to remember that Mel Tormé was also an accomplished author and actor. Mostly though, I'm recalling that pre-Christmas afternoon. I love people who do something so well that you can't conceive of it being done better. Doesn't even have to be something important: Singing, dancing, plate-spinning, mooning your neighbor's cat, whatever. There is a certain beauty to doing almost anything to perfection. No recording exists of that chorus that Mel Tormé sang for the other diners at Farmers Market but if you never believe another word I write, trust me on this. It was perfect. Absolutely perfect.

Just an example of how serious the San Marcos Dental Center is about providing a safe environment for you, their very important dental patient, is evidenced by the photo below showing staff wearing hazmat suits, fully masked, and all safety precautions taken to ensure your safety. Even Santa, front and center, is wearing a mask (under his beard).

2. I was so bored I called Jake from State Farm just to talk to someone. He asked me what I was wearing.

3. In 2019: Stay away from negative people. In 2020: Stay away from positive people.

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The Amazing Staff at San Marcos Dental Center, L-R,Hortencia, Hayate, Dr. Greg Hurt, Sandy, Lourdes (Lulu) Maria

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4. The world has turned upside down. Old folks are sneaking out of the house & their kids are yelling at them to stay indoors!

5. This morning I saw a neighbor talking to her dog. It was obvious she thought her dog understood her. I came into my house & told my cat. We laughed a lot.

6. Every few days try your jeans on just to make sure they fit. Pajamas will have you believe all is well in the kingdom. 7. Does anyone know if we can take showers yet... or should we just only keep washing our hands? 8. This virus has done what no woman has been able to do. Cancel sports, shut down all bars & keep men at home! 9. I never thought the comment, “I wouldn’t touch him/her with a 6-foot pole” would become a national policy, but here we are!

10. I need to practice socialdistancing from the refrigerator. 11. I hope the weather is good tomorrow for my trip to the Backyard. I’m getting tired of the Living Room.

12. The analogy "The curve is flattening so we can start lifting restrictions now” is like saying “The parachute has slowed our rate of descent, so we can take it off now.” 13. Never in a million years could I have imagined I would go up to a bank teller wearing a mask & asking for money. 14. The spread of COVID19 is based on 2 things: o How dense the population is. o How dense the population is. Interesting inspiring story

Every morning, the CEO of a large bank in Manhattan would walk to the corner where a shoe shine is always located. He sits on the shoe shine’s comfortable chair, reads the Wall Street Journal, and the shoe shine gives his shoes a shiny, excellent look. One morning the shoe shine asks the CEO: “What do you think about the situation in the stock market?”

The Director arrogantly asks in turn: “Why would you be so interested in that topic?” “I have a million dollars in your bank,” the shoe shine says, “and I’m considering investing some of the money in the capital market.”

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“What’s your name?” asks the Director. “John H. Smith.”

The Director subsequently arrives at the bank and asks the Manager of Customer Relations: “Do we have a client named John H. Smith?” “Certainly,” answers the Customer Service Manager, “He is a highly esteemed customer. He has a million dollars in his account.”

The Director comes out, approaches the shoe shine and says: “Mr. Smith, I ask you this coming Monday to be the guest of honor at our board meeting and tell us the story of your life. I am sure we will have something to learn from you.”

At the board meeting, the Executive Director introduces him to the board members: “We all know Mr. Smith, who makes our shoes shine in the corner, but Mr. Smith is also an esteemed customer with a million dollars in his account. I invited him to tell us the story of his life. I am sure we can learn from him.” Mr. Smith began his story:

“I came to this country fifty years ago as a young immigrant from Europe with an unpronounceable name. I got off the ship without a penny. The first thing I did was change my name to Smith. I was hungry and exhausted. I started wandering around looking for a job, but to no avail. Suddenly I found a coin on the sidewalk. I bought an apple. I had two options: eat the apple and quench my hunger or start a business. I sold the apple for two dollars and bought two apples with the money. I also sold them and continued in business. When I started accumulating dollars, I was able to buy a set of used brushes and shoe polish and started polishing shoes. I didn’t spend a penny on entertainment or clothing; I just bought bread and some cheese to survive. I saved penny by penny and after a while I bought a new set of shoe brushes and polish in different shades and expanded my clientele. I lived like a monk and saved penny by penny. After a while I was able to buy an armchair so that my clients could sit comfortably while I was cleaning their shoes, and that brought me even more clients. I did not spend a penny on the joys of life I kept saving every penny. A few years ago, when the previous shoe shine on the corner decided to retire, I had already saved enough money to buy his shoe shine location at this great place.” “Finally, three months ago, my sister, who was a whore in Chicago, passed away and left me a million dollars."

. Chuckles Cont. on Page 7

Native CA Wildlife Support

I introduced AB 1031 in 2017 to establish the Native California Wildlife Rehabilitation Fund. The bill allows taxpayers filing their returns to voluntarily ‘check off’ a specified amount to fund wildlife rescue programs. AB 1031 had bipartisan support and was signed into law by Governor Jerry Brown.

California’s non-profit animal rehabilitation organizations rescue sick, injured and orphaned wildlife and provide them with medical treatment, care, protection and nourishment with the ultimate aim of reintroducing them back into the wild. Since they are nonprofits, these organizations rely on voluntary funding to continue to protect and enhance California’s native wildlife. According to California Department of Fish and Wildlife (CDFW) Director Charlton H. Bonham, enactment of AB 1031 and the generosity of California taxpayers have resulted in more than $820,000 in donations to the fund by October of this year. A new competitive grant program has been established by CDFW to support 45 rehab organizations across California, including local organizations like the San Diego Humane Society. These non-profits care for wild animals ranging from bats and raptors to songbirds, fawns, bears, coyotes and many other native species. In 2019, nearly 112,000 orphaned or injured wildlife received

care.

To participate, eligible organizations are required to meet specific guidelines. They must document their status as non-profits operating permitted wildlife rehab facilities in compliance with Memorandums of Understanding along with participation in the Wildlife Rehabilitation Medical Database. As many of you know, animal welfare is a priority for me. I am a trained Project Wildlife Native Songbird Rehabilitator and my experiences raising orphaned or injured songbirds and returning them to the wild has guided me in the legislation I introduce and support. AB 1031 is just one example of bipartisan legislation that can benefit the entire state. Assembly Republican Leader Marie Waldron, R-Escondido, represents the 75th Assembly District in the California Legislature, which includes the communities of Bonsall, Escondido, Fallbrook, Hidden Meadows, Pala, Palomar Mountain, Pauma Valley, Rainbow, San Marcos, Temecula, Valley Center and Vista.

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5th District Supervisor

Merry Christmas

Jim Desmond

I’m focused on reflection and gratitude this holiday season. As I reflect on the changes brought in 2020, there’s a lot I’ve missed in light of our new normal. I’ve missed going out to our different communities in District 5 and interacting with all of our wonderful constituents. I’ve missed our in-person revitalization meetings in the unincorporated areas. I’ve missed the neighborhood Christmas parades, the lighting of the Christmas trees and everything else the holiday season provides around our County.

One of the biggest things I’ve learned during the COVID-19 pandemic, is not to take the small things for granted. A year ago, we were having a holiday open house in my Vista office with constituents coming together and spending time with our District 5 team. It was a great evening seeing so many people from our district. I was looking forward to hosting a similar event this year, but of course safety comes first. Let’s work to make it happen again next year. Politics in 2020 were inescapable for most of us. This is the perfect time of year to set our differences aside and

come together. In the coming year, while COVID will surely still be prevalent, I’m going to get back to basics of County government for the people of North County. Safe communities, quality roads and infrastructure, addressing homelessness, mental health and addiction for families and those who can’t help themselves, protecting taxpayers…we will continue to work for the people of North County! Merry Christmas to all. I can’t wait for the new year. I can’t wait to see everyone out in our community, and I can’t wait to see you, in person, again!

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Man About Town Cont. from Page 6

Christmas Eve! It is here! December 24h! The night went that old bird, Santa, makes his rounds and lights up the eyes of children throughout the world.

Sadly, this year may not be as bright for a lot of kids, given all that we have gone through with the pandemic.

Lots of folks have been laid off or otherwise lost ther jobs due to the pandemic. Money is likely tight in a lot of homes this Christmas. But we are tough. We will tough this battle out as well and we’ll come out stronger, eventually.

It appears there may be several bright lights at the end of the tunnel what with the release of the vaccines. As we get the world vaccinated and build the antibodies, perhaps we can put an end to this horrrible nightmare and begin to see 2021 turn around into a more positive lifestyle. Our family, like mot of you, will not be having large crowds over for the holiday. Low key celebrating, that’s what we’ll do. We’ll probably order Christmas Dinners and pick them up from one of our favorite local retaurants. We will support them in their ongoing battle to survive and, meanwhile, give the lady of the house a bit of a rest and not have her working over a hot stove and oven. We’ll probably watch a football game but not with much enthusiasm. I don’t know about you but football suddenly has become not terribly important to me . . at either the college or pro level. I’ll watch . . but often not for the whole game and usually with very little enthusiasm. It just isn’t the same.

Like you, I expect we’ll be making some phone calls to families and friends so we can at least wish them a Merry Christmas, if not in person at least by the next best way.

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Chuckles Cont. from Page 6

TWELVE COMMANDMENTS FOR SENIORS

This is a great resource upon which we can all draw . . . and a great service by Pala Casino. This covid and antibody testing is for all members of the public, not restricted to Pala residents.

A great big Thank You!

by Tom Morrow

#1 - Talk to yourself. There are times you need expert advice.

#2 - “In Style” are the clothes that still fit. #3 - You don't need anger management. You need people to stop pissing you off.

#4 - Your people skills are just fine. It's your tolerance for idiots that needs work.

#5 - The biggest lie you tell yourself is, “I don't need to write that down. I'll remember it.” #6 - “On time” is when you get there.

#7 - Even duct tape can't fix stupid - but it sure does muffle the sound. #8 - It would be wonderful if we could put ourselves in the dryer for ten minutes, then come out wrinklefree and three sizes smaller. #9 - Lately, You've noticed people your age are so much older than you. #10 - Growing old should have taken longer. #11 - Aging has slowed you down, but it hasn't shut you up.

#12 - You still haven't learned to act your age, and hope you never will. And one more:

“One for the road” means peeing before you leave the house. At the Bookstore:

Me: “Do you have any books about turtles? Worker: “Hardback?”

Me. “Yeah, with little heads.”

It’s been a tough year for all of us but Evelyn and I want to thank all of you, our readers, and our advertisers, for continuing to support us and to let us know when we have pleased you.

Our warm wishes go out to our friends at the Pala Casino who are doing a wonderful public service by offering free covid19 tests from 11am to 3pm as the Casino (call for an appoitment, 760.292.6111.) Because of all that has happened the times are subject to change as circmstances develop.

Historically Speaking

Some have asked what I've been doing in retirement.

Well, I applied for a building permit for a new house. It was going to be 100 ft. tall and 400 ft. wide, with 12 gun turrets at various heights, and windows all over the place and a loud outside entertainment sound

Chuckles Cont. on Page 11

My Christmas Dinner Memories:

One of my most vivid of holiday memories is Christmas dinner at big gatherings of family. Of the Christmas’ I spent before leaving home to venture into adulthood, the most memorably were those dinners spent around my maternal grandparents’ table.

Traveling the 80 miles west on state highway 2 to a small Southwestern Iowa town was a 90minute trip for us. Dad seldom ventured past the 60-mph mark. His philosophy on speed was: “If you need to get there in a hurry, just start out a little sooner.” That annual trip didn’t get underway until we had our Christmas morning ritual of Gift-giving under our family tree. That usually began around 6 or 7 a.m., depending what time we got to bed on Christmas Eve. The night before Christmas was special because Mom let us open one gift that was under the tree. She was the arbiter on such matters. Upon our arrival in the little farmmarket-town of Clearfield, the aroma of a special holiday feast was in the air as we invaded my grandparents’ home. Most prominent among those scents filling the air was that of the Christmas goose. Today, the tradition of serving goose for Christmas dinner has all but been forgotten, at least here in the West. In “A Christmas Carol,” Charles Dickens described the goose Scrooge gave to the Cratchit family for “its tenderness and flavor, size and cheapness being the themes of universal admiration." Even though you’d be hard pressed to find such a dinner bird anytime, goose remains the traditional Christmas meat of choice for many families in the East and in the United Kingdom and was so long before Dickens wrote of its succulence. For most families across America the menu has given way, for the most part, to turkey. Ham is a close second, but beef prime rib roast is gaining in popularity for the more non-traditional families.

In addition to the dinner as the foundation for bringing the family together, there was another reason for serving goose. The grease from the bird had a practical use: it served as medicine for a bad cold, bronchitis, flu, even pneumonia, or any other bronchial ailment, all of which were annual occurrences among the populace during those

bleak Iowa winter days. After the dinner Mom would skim off the grease from the roasting pan, put in a jar, seal it and stow it in the refrigerator until needed. When that time came, which nearly every winter assured its arrival, the ensuing chest congestion meant Mom would rub warm grease on your chest, then tie a rag around your neck. Most likely the next morning you’d be shed of most of the congestion. But, for the next day or two you’d smell like … well, goose grease. Nearly every one of my classmates’ had moms using the same remedy, so it went more or less unnoticed. The display on the dinner table was a sight to remember. Being the eldest grandchild I was awarded a seat at the big table. My younger sister and cousins were relegated to the small table in the front room. I outranked my sister by four years – a fact that did not amuse her.

Of the most memorable dishes of this annual feast were green bean casserole, a variation of fruit salads (depending upon which aunt could find what flavor of Jello), corn stuffing, big, freshly-baked biscuits, luscious sweet potatoes (or yams), cranberry sauce, and of course, the most important of combinations: plenty of mashed potatoes and gravy. Of course, pumpkin pie (with real) whipped cream for dessert. It was enough food to make you miserable for at least two hours after leaving the table.

Regarding last week’s column on Christmas gifts, I was reminded by one of our readers I was missing two important items usually found by at least one or two neighborhood friends with more affluent connections to Santa Claus: an Erector Set and/or Lincoln Logs. The Erector Set was the more expensive counterpart to Tinker Toys. Made of metal, they came in all number of piece counts, but if you couldn’t get one of the bigger sets, forget about it – there wasn’t enough pieces to make much. Lincoln Logs toy sets were invented by John Lloyd Wright in 1916. He was the second son of famed architect Frank Lloyd Wright. This popular set remains so to this day. It’s one of those items that has no need for directions. You just “build.” You still can find both of these toys on Amazon.

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Many of us probably felt that 2020 lasted a very long time. But now that 2021 is upon us, we can make a fresh start â&#x20AC;&#x201C; and one way to do that is to make some New Yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s resolutions. Of course, you can make these resolutions for all parts of your life â&#x20AC;&#x201C; physical, emotional, intellectual â&#x20AC;&#x201C; but have you ever considered some financial resolutions? Here are a few such resolutions to consider:

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Be prepared. At the beginning of 2020, nobody was anticipating a worldwide pandemic and its terrible consequences, both to individualsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; health and to their economic wellbeing. None of us can foretell the future, either, but we can be prepared, and one way to do so is by building an emergency fund. Ideally, such a fund should be kept in liquid, low-risk vehicles and contain at least six monthsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; worth of living expenses. Focus on moves you can control. In response to pandemic-related economic pressures, some employers cut their matching contributions to 401(k) plans in 2020. Will some future event cause another such reduction? No one knows â&#x20AC;&#x201C; and even if it happens, thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s probably nothing you can do about it. Instead of worrying about things you canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t control, focus on those you can. When it comes to your 401(k) or similar employer-sponsored retirement plan, put in as much as you can afford this year, and if your salary goes up, increase your contribution. Recognize your ability to build savings. During the pandemic, the per-

sonal savings rate shot up, hitting a record of 33% in April, according to the U.S. Bureau of Economy Analysis. It fell over the next several months, but still remained about twice as high as the rate of the past few years. Of course, much of this surge in Americansâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; proclivity to save money was due to our lack of options for spending it, as the coronavirus caused either complete or partial shutdowns in physical retail establishments, as well as dining and entertainment venues. But if you did manage to boost your own personal savings when your spending was constrained, is it possible to remain a good saver when restrictions are lifted? Probably. And the

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A Weekly Message from the Mayor of Your Community published in the belief that it is important for elected leaders to communicate with their constituents and that constituents have a means of hearing from their elected leaders.

San Marcos • Mayor Rebecca Jones

San Marcos Creek Project Construction Holiday Update

If you’ve driven by the San Marcos Creek area recently, you have likely noticed the exciting progress being made to our Creek and the surrounding roads.

We understand the current traffic shifts and construction activities are very different than what you are used to near the Creek. When traveling in the construction zone, please be mindful of the reduced speed limits. Please adhere to the posted speed limit for the safety of construction crews and others and be sure to follow all signage and detour information when traveling through this area. Beginning Dec. 24, construction crews will be on holiday break. Construction will resume on Jan. 4, 2021.

Learn more at san-marcos.net/creek. Stay connected by texting the keyword SMCreek to 484848 to sign up for text updates regarding road closures and construction. To sign up for email project updates, visit www.san-marcos.net/alerts and select “Creek Project.”

Vista • Mayor Judy Ritter

Reflecti ng on my Blessing s and our Commu nity

This is a good time of year to reflect on my blessings and how grateful I am for family, friends, and the opportunity to live in our beautiful city! I am also thankful for the residents, businesses and community organizations that make Vista so unique. It is you, our residents, who make this city what it is today. Best wishes for a joyous holiday! During this time of year, many residents ask how to dispose of Christmas trees. The City’s residential EDCO customers may place their Christmas trees curbside on their regular collection day through January 10 at no extra charge. There are also several drop off locations around town. Check online at CityofVista.com or call 760.727.1600. Best wishes to all during this season.

Oceanside • Mayor Esher Sanchez

The Paper welcomes Mayor Esther Sanchez!

We are happy to have Oceaniside’s new Mayor writing a weekly column and keeping you, her contsituents, up to date on issues about and concerning the city of Oceanside and its sphere of influence.

Escondido • Mayor Paul “Mac” McNamara Greetings Escondido,

Well, we are almost at the end of the holiday season. I always have mixed emotions about this time of year. On the one hand, I love the Fall and all of its holidays, but on the other I like the promise of a new beginning the New Year brings. This year is no different except we are still in the middle of a Pandemic, and mending a hard-fought election season. So, it’s not business as usual or … is it? When I think back, and I would guess the same is for you, there was always something going on at the end of the year. And somehow, as a family, community, nation, we got through it. And so, I’m confident we’ll get through this year’s challenges. The good news is we once again have a chance to reset and try again. And when you think about it, isn’t that hope the theme of this holiday season? Stay informed, Be Kind, Remember your neighbor, and Stay safe!

If you have questions you’d like Mayor Sanchez to address in her column we urge you to call her at: 760.435.3057 or, if you prefer, you may send her an email to: esanhez@oceansideca.org

Again, welcome to Oceanside Mayor Esther Sanchez!

Semper Fi, Mac

Paul P. McNamara Mayor of Escondido pmcnamara@escondido.org

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It would have parking for 200 cars and I was going to paint it green with pink trim. Then I was gonna hire some idiot to stand on top of it and SCREAM as loud as he could three or four times a day.

The City Council told me: Forget it...AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN! So, I sent in the application again, but this time I called it a "Mosque."

Work starts on Monday. And here is the best part, it's going to be tax exempt!

I love this country. It's the government that scares me. •••• Today I was in a store that sells sunglasses, and only sunglasses. A young lady walked over to me and asked, "What brings you in today?

I looked at her and said, "I'm interested in buying a refrigerator."

She didn't quite know how to respond. •••• I was thinking about old age and decided that old age is when you still have something on the ball, but you are just too tired to bounce it. •••• When people see a cat's litter box they always say, "Oh, have you got a cat?" Just once I want to say, "No, it's for company! •••• Employment application blanks always ask who is to be called in case of an emergency. I think you should write, "An ambulance.” •••• The older you get the tougher it is to lose weight because by then your body and your fat have gotten to be really good friends. •••• The easiest way to find something lost around the house is to buy a

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•••• Did you ever notice: The Roman Numerals for forty (40) are XL. •••• The sole purpose of a child's middle name is so he can tell when he's really in trouble. •••• Did you ever notice that when you put the 2 words "The" and "IRS" together it spells "Theirs?" •••• Aging: Eventually you will reach a point when you stop lying about your age and start bragging

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•••• Some people try to turn back their "odometers." Not me. I want people to know why I look this way. I've traveled a long way and a lot of the roads were not paved. •••• You know you are getting old when everything either dries up or leaks. •••• Ah! Being young is beautiful but

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Year end, Christmas and Covid scams.

Merry Christmas everyone. Last week we talked about taking advantage of State and Federal tax codes by making sure your needed business or education related computer expenses get logged before January 1st 2021 to ensure they can be deducted from 2020 taxes. This, of course, assumes that you actually made enough money in 2020 to owe taxes. If you did, even at this late date we can help you get it done. It may be a little late to do your

Notes from Pala Casino

Pala Casino is doing something right! Very right!

They are providing top entertainment for an entertainment starved public. We attended the “Winter Dance Party” last Friday - featuring the tribute artists saluting Buddy Holly, Richie Valens and The Big Bopper. Dynamite Show! Top, friendly service from staff. All safety protocols enforced so you can feel safe at a Pala Casino event!

Tickets are available for our concerts and events at the Pala Privileges Center, or by calling 1877-WIN-PALA and asking to be transferred to the Privileges Center. Our main concert areas are the Events Center and Starlight Theater. While visiting Pala, you can purchase tickets at the Pala Box Office with no service charge. . No audio/video recording allowed.

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pre-Christmas shopping with us this year but there might be something that we can help you with. It happens every Christmas. Invariably a few of our friends get a surprise Christmas present from a thoughtful relative, a brand new HP or Dell “retail” PC, usually a notebook. It’s a nice gesture but if they had only given you the money instead, you could have bought a better computer for half the price and had the rest to squander on other things. That’s where we can help. Return the gift to the store for a refund then come in and get an HP/Dell/ Lenovo/Toshiba “enterprise” refurb with better quality, reliability and performance. You get a better computer for half the money and you get to keep the cash difference. It’s a win/win. Finally, after 25 years, we have our shop pretty close to our ideal of what a computer store should look like. The annual San Diego Union Tribune reader’s poll has listed us as the “Best” computer store in North County since 2015 but what really helps is that we are also the biggest. We have a 3000 square foot shop and we do nothing but Windows computers. We don’t look anything like any other computer stores. We more closely resemble the Reuben H Fleet Science Center in Balboa

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1. Pull your droopy pants up. You look like an idiot. 2. Turn your cap right, your head isn't crooked. 3. Let's get this straight; it's called a 'dirt road.' I drive a pickup truck because I want to. No matter how slow you drive, you're going to get dust on your Lexus. Drive it or get out of the way. 4. They are cattle. They're live steaks. That's why they smell funny to you. But they smell like money to us. Get over it. Don't like it? I-80 goes east and west, I35 goes north and south. Pick one. 5. So you have a $60,000 car. We're impressed. We have $150,000 combines that are driven only 3 weeks a year. 6. So every person in rural Iowa waves. It's called being friendly. Try to understand the concept.

7. If that cell phone rings while an 8-point buck and 3 does are coming in, we WILL shoot it out of your hand. You better hope you don't have it up to your ear at the time. 8. Yeah, we eat taters, gravy,

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beans and cornbread. You really want sushi and caviar? It's available at Jim's bait shop..

9. The 'Opener' refers to the first day of deer season. It's religious holiday held the closest Saturday to the first of November. 10. We open doors for women. That is applied to all women, regardless of age.

11. No, there's no 'vegetarian special' on the menu. Order steak. Or you can order the Chef's Salad and pick off the 2 pounds of ham & turkey.

12. When we fill out a table, there are three main dishes: meats, vegetables, and breads. We use three seasonings - salt, pepper, and ketchup. Oh, yeah.... We don't care what you folks in Cincinnati call that stuff you eat ... IT AIN'T REAL CHILI! 13. You bring 'coke' into my house, it better be brown, wet and served over ice.

14. You bring 'Mary Jane' into my house, she better be cute, know how to shoot, drive a truck, and have long hair.

15. College and high school football are as important here as the Cavs and the Knicks... and more fun to watch.

Letter to the Editor Cont. from Page 4

“Whistling Dixie!”

Just finished reading this week's fascinating cover story in The Paper (Dec. 17, 2020) titled "To Live and Die in Dixie" by editor/publisher Lyle Davis. A great piece of historical data yes, but it was also superbly written which heightened our reading pleasure and kept us glued! It's interesting how the article reveals that people can have and fly a Confederate flag in Brazil because they truly (do not) see it as a political or racist symbol, whereas here in the United States it is automatically assumed to be politically and racially offensive by everyone who has one. Whatever one's views, the cover story was (objectively and fairly presented) without personal commentary one way or another, to just inform and enlighten readers of a very fascinating and true historical account following the American Civil War. Beautifully researched. Wonderful style of writing. Great newsworthy cover story. I hope to see more cover stories by Lyle Davis. Escondido should be very proud to have such a local weekly magazine like The Paper. No other local newspaper offers brilliant, full-length cover stories

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From Geoffrey T. Lane, Oceanside, California. More on Whistling Dixie . . .

Attn: Mr. Lyle E. Davis/editor & publisher of The Paper.

Thank you so very much for writing such a wonderful front page article called "Whistling Dixie in Brazil."

I never knew nor was I ever taught in school about such an interesting historical fact as the thousands of post Civil War Confederates who relocated in Brazil where their descendants today still live and celebrate pre-Civil War southern customs and traditions such as Southern Fried Chicken, music, agriculture, dances, annual Confederate festivals, and even the first non-Catholic churches they established in Brazil. We've given several copies to friends down in San Diego and they were thrilled to learn such amazing facts! We hope to see more of your stories Mr. Davis! Wishing you and yours a very Merry and safe Christmas. -Longtime fans Arlene Ann Tibbets & friends, North San Diego County. Outta The Park?

Lyle, you knocked one out of Fenwick Park with this week's cover story "To Live and Die in Dixie" (Dec. 17 edition of The Paper). Damned good newsworthy item that I was never aware of. You also hit a homerun over the far fences with your past cover story "Doing Time in the San Diego County Jail" last month (Nov. 19, 2020). I hope you're aware that this creates a huge problem: We, the readers, are now expecting more stories from you. You see what happens when you strut your best stuff in front of your readership? There's a lot of "buzz" going on out here and you need to listen to your reader constituents: We want to see you write more cover stories. You and Friedrich Gomez are a "onetwo-punch" and unless you live in the delusionary world of "Never Never Land," you have to know that the two of go together like Thunder & Lightning. By the way, I heard from many of my U. S. Marine Corps buddies that you used to manage one of Dick Clark's radio stations. When and where? Editor’s Note: True. I managed KGUD Radio in Santa Barbara, CA., for Dick Clark. Knew him and “Poppa Clark” quite well.

We were curious as to your radio broadcasting background? And if you really have a pilot's license? Did you apply both these skills (radio broadcasting and flying) when you served in the U. S. Army? Editor’s Note: Yes, am both a licensed pilot ASEL (Airplane,

Single Engine, Land). Did not use these skill while in the military but did as a civlian, doing traffic reports for KBMB Traffic Control (weather permitting) from the air while with KFMB Radio, San Diego.) From Patrick Flannigan & his huge Irish Clan & your many fans of The Paper. Semper Fi.

Fans of Pala

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With the insane arbitrary shutdowns of all our restaurants (again) without science data to support it, "We the People" are fast closing-in on the "one-million" mark of voters registered to recall despotic Democratic Gov. Newsom who lives two lifestyles: one for himself and one for the rest of us. Our numbers are almost accomplished in beginning the process of having this two-faced Gov. Newsom "fired" and thrown out of his oligarchy office. With no longer any place left to socialize, eat, and enjoy social drinks, music and entertainment as it once existed with family, co-workers, and friends, well, word is fast-spreading of the wonderful "Alternate Universe of Sanity" that exists at Pala Resort & Casino!

With all the safe CDC protocols at Pala, "We the People" can STILL live normal lives on Sovereign Reservation Land that not even Gov. Newsom can "rape and pillage." We thank The Paper for its constant public service announcements about Pala Casino's exciting ongoing events! Groups of us have been enjoying the lifestyle there, and more Pala fans are jumping onboard.

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Department detectives confirmed with the reported health care providers that Edwards and Lowe were not admitted to any of their medical facilities and were not treated by them for the alleged injuries they reported. They also confirmed that the medical records submitted to AFLAC in support of the disability claims were not completed or generated by the health care providers and were in fact, fraudulent documents. During the course of the investigation, Edwards admitted to committing insurance fraud and she also admitted that her daughter, Lowe, was part of the scheme. Edwards and Lowe were arrested on Thursday, December 17, 2020. Edwards was booked into the Riverside County Sheriff’s Department - Southwest Detention Facility and Lowe was booked into the San Diego County Sheriff’s Department - Las Colinas Women Detention Facility. Bail for each is $50,000.

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What's Up Downtown Oceanside Oceanside Morning Farmers Market - December 24 and 31, Pier view Way & Coast Highway. Take home a little holiday cheer at our no-touch Oceanside Morning Farmers Market! Open every Thursday from 9am-1pm, including Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve, the farmers market is still operating as an essential service in three socially distanced sections. Find poinsettias and holiday plants in Sections A and C, and holiday decor and gifts in Section C.

A Christmas Carol: A Radio Play; December 19 thru January 3rd; online event. Scripps Ranch Theatre and Oceanside Theatre Company come together to share this holiday favorite. Premiering Saturday at 7pm, this FREE online event tells the Charles Dickens classic tale of miserly curmudgeon Ebenezer Scrooge and his visit from the ghosts of Christmas Past, Present and Future. Great fun for all! Now open at 101 So. Coast Highway, the 101 Marketplace offers antique, retro and historical items for your home and showcases

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Oceanside Landmark Sign Call for Artists; through January 13, in downtown Oceanside. Calling all artists and sign makers! MainStreet Oceanside is seeking proposals for an iconic Oceanside sign design for the Downtown Oceanside Property and Business Improvement District. Spanning the intersection at Pier View Way and North Tremont Street, this over-the-road-style sign will serve as a new landmark at the heart of the Sunset Market and create a destination that locals and visitors can enjoy for decades to come. For information on any of these items, contact MainStreet Oceanside, at 760.754.4512 or on the website at www.mainstreetoceanside.com. They are located at 701 Mission Avenue, Oceanside, 92054. DAR Chapter Placed Wreaths on Veterans' Grave Sites - Four members of the Santa Margarita Chapter, Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR), were honored to participate in the placing of wreaths on veterans grave sites at the Ft. Rosecrans National Cemetery. The usual ceremony for Wreaths

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Chapters of the California DAR Organization Donates to Gary Sinise Foundation -- Adele Lancaster, honorary state regent and member of the Santa Margarita Chapter, Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR), recently was privileged to visit the Gray Sinise Foundation in Woodland Hills. Accompanied by Sharon Maas, Nancy Wiard, Lillian Leslie, with a CSSDAR check for $112,000 from the Lancaster Administration, they were warmly received by CEO Elizabeth Fields and three other staff members. The office is just now opening to work on-site and with very strict Covid protocol. Lancasterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s state regentâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s project was to raise funds to supply kitchens, the heart of the home, for the special homes built by the Sinise Foundation for severely wounded veterans and

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Time is Running Out to Save 2X the Animals - Give today, for the Year-End Matching Challenge and save 2X the animals this holiday season! Don't miss your chance to help TWICE as many animals in our community, and please hurry! Now through December 31, your gift will be matched up to $100,000, thanks to generous support from the Resource Partners Foundation. That means your donation can double to help animals in need!

In 2021, the San Diego Humane Society will help nearly 50,000 companion animals and wildlife. And your gift to the Year-End Matching Challenge will go TWICE as far to provide each one with the second chance they deserve. Together, we can provide safe shelter, specialized medical care and rehabilitation, rescue from cruelty and neglect, adoption services, and so much more for pets and wild animals in need. Your gift DOUBLES until December 31! San Diego Humane Society, 5500 Gaines St., San Diego, 92110; phone 619-299-

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Virtual Training for Kittens, Cats, Puppies, and Dogs, in January - While the holiday season often feels bright and merry for people, your pets might feel differently. How do we help our pets cope with the changes during the holidays? Start small and quietly before they have a chance to become stressed or overexcited. If they start to become uncomfortable, let them move away or take a break, and move at a pace they feel comfortable and confident with so they will feel more enthusiastic about the experience. January is National Train Your Dog Month - but don't leave your cat (or rabbit or bird or iguana) out of the fun. All animals are trainable and, believe it or not, they all learn the same way. The San Diego Humane Society asks that you tune in to our social media channels throughout the month to learn more. All classes are online, and spread out throughout the month of January. Kitten and Cat Classes include "Kitten Socialization in Isolation" and "The Trainable Cat, Level 1."

Dog Classes include a Featured Class, "Level 1: Marvelous Manners." Other Puppy and Dog Classes include: "Meet the Trainer," "Puppy Socialization in Isolation," Puppy Preschool," Level 2, Superb Skills," "Shy Dog Class," Reactive Rover," "Feisty Fido," Fabulous Focus and Impulse Control," Live Online Classroom," and "Treating Separation Anxiety Seminar." All classes are online, on various days and times during the month. We're now offering the canine scent work and dog sport classes below on a rolling basis meaning you can sign up to join at any time and switch between days and times if the class runs on multiple days. Some classes can be purchased as single sessions, but most classes are offered as a three-session series you can use consecutively or in pieces to allow for flexible scheduling. Please note: If you purchase a multi-session class, you will need to register for each week that you would like to join. Your pass will allow you to register for three sessions. Please contact us if you have questions. These classes include "'Dog Sports: Yoga for Dogs," and "Dog Sports: Intro to Living Room Agility." Under the category "K9 Nose Work Classes" are "Puppy Noses—Intro to Scent Work and Enrichment," "K9 Nose Work: Basic—Intro to Search (food only)," and "K9 Nose Work: Intro to Search & Rescue Seminar."

Contact the San Diego Humane Society for information on dates, times, and all details on the Classes listed here for the month of January. Telephone 619.299.7012; or contact them at 5500 Gaines St., San Diego, 92110. Other locations are in Escondido, Oceanside, Ramona, and El Cajon, and can be reached at the same phone number.

NOTICE OF INTENDED DECISION (Administrative)

The Planning Division Manager of the City of San Marcos has considered the proposed project and does intend to APPROVE the Director’s Permit DP20-0012 on January 4, 2021. Project No.: DP20-0012 Applicant: Wholesale Manufactured Homes Request: A request for a Director’s Permit (DP) to establish and operate a manufactured home sales office and outdoor showroom at an existing facility in the Transitional Zone (L-I/OP). The site contains an existing 3,540 square foot building and no new construction or expansion of the existing building is proposed. Environmental Determination: In accordance with the California Environmental Quality Act (CEQA), the City of San Marcos did find the project Categorically Exempt (EX20-080) pursuant to Section 15301 Class 1(a) of the California Code of Regulations (CCR), in that this is an existing facility with no expansion. Location of Property: 1412 Barham Drive, San Marcos, California 92078, more particularly described as: The northwesterly 165.00 feet of the southwesterly 175.00 feet of lot 8 in block 8 of Rancho Los Vallecitos De San Marcos, in the City of San Marcos, County of San Diego, State of California, according to map thereof No. 806, filed in the office of the County Recorder of San Diego County, on December 21, 1895. Assessor’s Parcel Number: 226-112-44-00. Further information about this notice can be obtained from Sean del Solar, Associate Planner, by calling 760-7441050 extension 3223, or via email SdelSolar@san-marcos.net. Notice: Any interested person may appeal the decision of the Planning Division Manager to the Planning Commission provided the appeal fee is paid ($20 for residents; $1,155 for non-residents) and a written appeal is submitted to the Planning Division Secretary within ten (10) calendar days of the date of the decision (due no later than 5:30 PM on January 14, 2021. The written appeal should specify the reasons for the appeal and the grounds upon which the appeal is based. The City’s Planning Commission will then consider the filed appeal/s at a later public hearing. The Planning Division can be contacted at 760-7441050, extension 3233 or Ghenderson@sanmarcos.net. The City of San Marcos is committed to making its programs, services and activities accessible to individuals with disabilities. If you require accommodation to participate in any City program, service or activity, please contact the City Clerk’s office at 1 Civic Center Drive, San Marcos, CA 92069, or call 760-744-1050, extension 3145. Phil Scollick, City Clerk, City of San Marcos. PD: 12/24/20.

NOTICE OF INTENDED DECISION (Administrative)

The Planning Division Manager of the City of San Marcos has considered the proposed project and does intend to APPROVE the Director’s Permit DP19-0028 on January 4, 2021. Project No.: DP19-0028 Applicant: University of Saint Katherine Request: A Director’s Permit to allow the continued operation if an 11,541 square foot college (non-traditional campus setting) with the addition of a 6,000 square foot office space an existing building at a Business Park located at 1645 Capalina Road. Environmental Determination: In accordance with the California Environmental Quality Act (CEQA), the City of San Marcos did find the project Categorically Exempt (EX20076) pursuant to Section 15301 Class 1(a) of the California Code of Regulations (CCR), in that this is an existing facility with no expansion. Location of Property: 1637 Capalina Rd, San Marcos, CA 92069, and 1645 Capalina Road, suites 500, 600, and 700, San Marcos, CA 92069 more particularly described as: Parcel 2 of Parcel Map No. 6293, in the City of San Marcos, County of San Diego, State of California, filed in the Office of the County Recorder of San Diego county on August 25, 1977, and Parcel 1 of Parcel Map No. 19814, in the City of San Marcos, County of San Diego, State of California, filed in the Office of the County Recorder of San Diego County on August 11, 2005. Assessor’s Parcel Number: 219-116-17-05, 219-116-1706, 219-116-17-07, and 219116-16-00. Further information about this notice can be obtained from Sean del Solar, Associate Planner, by calling 760-7441050 extension 3223, or via email SdelSolar@san-marcos.net. Notice: Any interested person may appeal the decision of the Planning Division Manager to the Planning Commission provided the appeal fee is paid ($20 for residents; $1,155 for non-residents) and a written appeal is submitted to the Planning Division Secretary within ten (10) calendar days of the date of the decision (due no later than 5:30 PM on January 14, 2021. The written appeal should specify the reasons for the appeal and the grounds upon which the appeal is based. The City’s Planning Commission will then consider the filed appeal/s at a later public hearing. The Planning Division can be contacted at 760-744-1050, extension 3233 or Ghenderson@san-marcos.net. The City of San Marcos is committed to making its programs, services and activities accessible to individuals with disabilities. If you require accommodation to participate in any City program, service or activity, please contact the City Clerk’s office at 1 Civic Center Drive, San Marcos, CA 92069, or call 760-744-1050, extension 3145. Phil Scollick, City Clerk, City of San Marcos. PD: 12/24/20.

STATEMENT OF ABANDONMENT OF USE OF FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME #2020-9019844 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME: G&V Group; Gniocchi, located at 301 Island Way, # 3, Oceanside, Ca. 92058. The Fictitious Business Name referred to above was filed in San Diego County on 11/04/2019 and assigned file no. 2019-9026702 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME IS BEING ABANDONED BY: Giacomo Giovanetti 301 Island Way, Unit 3, Oceanside, Ca. 92058. This business is conducted by an individual. I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct. (A registrant who declares as true any material matter pursuant to Section 17913 of the Business and Professions code that the registrant knows to be false is guilty of a misdemeanor punishable by a fine not to exceed one thousand dollars ($1000). /s/ Giacomo Giovanetti This statement was filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on . 12/5/2020. 12/24, 12/31/2020 and 01/07 and 01/14/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2020-9018633 The name of the business: SMYC; San Marcos Yoga & Wellness, located at 801 Grand Ave., #4, San Marcos, CA. 92078 Registrant Information: Kathleen A. Quinn 246 Richmar Ave. San Marcos, CA. 92069 This business is conducted by an individual. First day of business .10/27/2001. /s/ Kathleen A. Quinn Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 11/07/2020. 12/3, 12/10, 12/17 & 12/24/2020

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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2020-9018271 The name of the business: Yalda Brow Bar, located at 1001 W. San Marcos Blvd., # 150, San Marcos CA. 92078. Registrant Information: Yalda Bahar and Mustafa Wafa 526 Glen Heather Dr. San Marcos, CA. 92069 This business is conducted by a Married Couple. First day of business 10/21/2020 /s/ Mustafa Wafa Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 11/05/2020 12/3, 12/10, 12/17 & 12/24/2020

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2020-9019223 The name of the business: CJL Fine Jewelers; CJL Jewelers; CJL Jewelry; CJL Fine Jewelry, located at 727 W. San Marcos Blvd., Ste 109, San Marcos, CA. 92078. Registrant information: Capital Jewelry & Loan International, LLC 727 W. San Marcos Blvd., Ste 109 San Marcos, Ca. 92078 This business is conducted by a Limited Liability Company. First day of business 10/21/20. /s/ Alexander Korber, CEO Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 11/21/2020., 12/03, 12/10, 12/17 & 12/24/2020

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2020-9019718 The name of the business: Touch Stone Masonry, located at 2439 Mountain Crest Glen, Escondido, CA. 92027. Registrant Information: JLN Masonry, Inc. - Greg L. Fridell 2439 Mountain Crest Glen Escondido, Ca. 92027 This business is conducted by a corporation. First day of business 8/1/2015. /s/ Greg L. Fridell, Vice President Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 12/02/2020. 12/17, 12/24, 12/31/2020 and 01/07/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2020-9019748 The name of the business: Infinity Scope; Infinity Scope and Grumpy Chef, located at 18275 Reata Way, San Diego, Ca. 92128. Registrant Information: Infinity Scope 18275 Reata Way San Diego, Ca. 92128 This business is conducted by a corporation. First day of business 10/30/20. /s/ Abdul Rahman Ibrahim, President Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 12/03/2020. 12/17, 12/24, 12/31/2020 and 01/07/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2020-9020465 The name of the business:West Coast Sterile, located at 780 Calle De Soto, San Marcos, CA. 92078. Registrant Information: Grzegorz Adam and Eve Alice Sieminski 780 Calle De Soto San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is conducted by a Married Couple. First day of business n/a.. /s/Grzegorz Adam Sieminski Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 12/11/2020. 12/24, 12/31/2020 & 1/7 & 1/14/2021. FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2020-9019783 The name of the business: Lincoln Realty Associates, located at 1864 Jardine Court, Vista, Ca. 92081. Registrant Information: Kenneth Roger Snyker 1864 Jardine Court Vista, Ca. 92081 This business is conducted by an individual. First day of business .9/1/1994. /s/ Kenneth Roger Snyker Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 12/03/2020. 12/24, 12/31/2020 & 1/7 & 1/14/2021.

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