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again. My father was a big fan of Alabama football. So am I. My wife bleeds houndstooth.

As it happens, I was born during the third quarter of Coach Bryant’s Liberty Bowl. His farewell game. The Crimson Tide did battle with the Fighting Illinis. I came into the world after Jesse Bendross ran an 8-yard touchdown and Peter Kim kicked a field goal.

At the moment of my earthly presentation, there was a television in the corner, broadcasting the game. My father was sitting before the TV. His nose, an inch from the screen.

My mother was huffing. Throughout my delivery, the doctor would occasionally ask my mother, “How are we doing?”

At which point my father would answer, “Twelve to fourteen. Alabama’s ball. Third down.”

All my life I wanted to attend the University of Alabama. It was the emerald city at the end of the proverbial rainbow. The big dream. All my friends attended Alabama. I married into an Alabama family. I went to games with my pals. I smuggled alcohol into BryantDenny Stadium in well-known orifices of my body.

But guys like me don’t go to college. I am an academic nobody.

After my father died, my educational life became a colossal shipwreck. I became a dropout and an abject failure. I was a faceless ‘neck working construction, playing music in beer joints. I was one of a million guys with an Alabama “A” on the back of his 27-year-old Ford.

I went to community college as a grown man. Got my high-school equivalency. Tried to make something of myself. But there is only so much lipstick you can put on a goat.

When I finally finished college, I tried to further my education by enrolling in a small university which shall remain nameless. I dreamed of becoming a teacher someday. Maybe English or literature.

But admissions turned me down. Educational deficiencies, they said. Which was code for “sorry white trash.”

For years I believed there was a ceiling above me that could never be transcended. I believed I was without value. I hated myself.

But somehow I started writing. Somehow I became me. Despite my own deficiencies. Somehow, there were other plans for me. lievable statistic that: “Nearly 8 out of 10 drivers today demonstrate aggressive driving behavior” which often leads to road rage.

By definition, road rage is: “Aggressive or angry behavior exhibited by a driver of a road vehicle, which includes rude gestures, verbal insults, physical threats, or dangerous driving methods targeted toward another driver in an effort to intimidate or release frustration.”

Keep in mind, road rage is not always reported because not all road rage ends in injury or death.

In fact, road rage occurs anytime a driver hollers or yells an insult or gives an obscene physical gesture from their automobile to another vehicle and mutual tempers boil over.

Road rage is not always a physical altercation, although it may very well lead to that, or worse.

Therefore, the statistics of road rage is thought to be much, much higher than the record high levels already recorded.

Continue your multiple-choice quiz below, and learn new insights about road rage.

TAILGATING IS AMONG THE MOST COMMON PRELUDES TO ROAD RAGE TODAY. Which demographic below commits the most tailgating incidents?

A. 17-18 (Younger Z generation) B. 19-24 (Older Z generation) C. 25-39 (Millennials) D. 40-59 (Gen X) E. 60-74 (Baby Boomers) F. 75-plus (Post War)

In an analysis of 10,037 police reports and also the Foundation for Traffic Safety, the correct answer above is “C” Millennials, age 25-39, who commit the most tailgating on our roadways.

Second, is “D” Gen X age 40-59. And the (least) tailgaters are Baby Boomers (age 60-74) and the Post War generation (75 and above).

Aside from crash fatalities, road rage deaths due to gun violence have doubled compared to pre-pandemic levels.

FAILING TO ALLOW OR PREVENTING ANOTHER VEHICLE TO MERGE MAY CAUSE FRUSTRATION, ANGER & ROAD RAGE. Ignoring (or purposely preventing) another vehicle to safely merge into traffic is a common everyday scenario and can often lead to impatience, frustration, and vocal or physical confrontation. On congested public streets with heavy traffic (especially on Valley Parkway in Escondido), I always see a poor driver trying to merge from a shopping centre parking lot or a fast food

Restoring California’s Failing Mental Health Programs

California’s mental health system is struggling to keep up with demand. Those seriously in need of treatment are trapped in a rotating cycle that takes them from living on the street, to the emergency room, sometimes to jail, then back to the street. Since more serious cases get the most attention, people with milder symptoms don’t receive needed care and often fall into the same cycle.

Today, only about a third of Californians with mental illness receive the care they need, and 31 of California’s 58 counties with a “high need” for mental health services report a shortage of mental health caregivers. That must change quickly if we are to get a handle on this serious public health/safety problem.

That’s why I joined Senator Scott Wiener as co-author of Senate Bill 964. Sponsored by the Steinberg Institute, the bill will create a “Behavioral Health Workforce Preservation and Restoration Fund.” SB 964 develops new coursework in our colleges and universities that focuses on behavioral health, creates an online job board where licensed providers can post job openings, eliminates bureaucratic barriers that prevent trained workers from entering the field, and requires a comprehensive analysis of California’s behavioral health workforce so we can meet the state’s growing needs. The bill also provides hiring and performance-based bonuses for workers and a stipend program for students in Master of Social Work programs with special focus on public behavioral health.

Implementation of SB 964 will revitalize and expand California’s behavioral health workforce, and increase access to care for thousands of untreated or under-treated Californians dealing with serious mental illness and substance abuse problems. Ultimately, better care for the mentally ill will not only restore thousands of lives, it will lead to less homeless, less crime, and better, safer communities for all Californians.

Assemblymember Marie Waldron, R –Valley Center, represents the 75th Assembly District in the California Legislature, which includes the communities of Bonsall, Escondido, Fallbrook, Hidden Meadows, Pala, Palomar Mountain, Pauma Valley, Rainbow, San Marcos, Temecula, Valley Center and Vista.

5th District Supervisor Jim Desmond

Ending Homelessness

Homelessness continues to be a major issue facing San Diego County, with approximately 8,427 individuals experiencing homelessness across the County.

Pollsters at UC Berkeley’s Institute of Governmental Studies asked nearly 8,500 Californian voters, including 872 San Diegans, to choose two leading concerns they would like state leaders to address. The top two statewide concerns were:

1. Housing Affordability 2. Homelessness

Whenever I meet with groups or people in our community, the most frequently asked question I receive is, 'What is being done about homelessness?' With nearly 50% of the homeless population living in California clearly, there's a problem.

My office is always looking at ways to get people off the street, into housing and treatments, if necessary. Last week, I brought forth action that will address these issues with a simple, yet impactful approach. It’s called the “ByName List.” encing homelessness, by consent and updated in real-time. The list will transform the strategy to end homelessness from an anonymous issue into one focused on each individual’s needs. It will also allow for providers to be much more effective at treating and knowing each person.

For example, if a homeless individual is in Chula Vista and receives treatment and a few weeks later then end up in Oceanside, homeless service providers will now have that person’s medical history that will get them what they need and address any problems going forward. It will save taxpayers money and will help get people off the street.

Another benefit to the list is it will allow us to find out if the homeless programs in San Diego County are effective, or if we need to look at

To contact

North County Office – by appointment only 325 S. Melrose Ave., Suite 5200 Vista, CA 92081 Mon.-Fri., 8:00 a.m.-5:00 p.m. Website: www.supervisorjimdesmond.com Email: Jim.Desmond@sdcounty.ca.gov

Travel Troubleshooter

Q: I paid for a vacation rental in Paradise Island in the Bahamas through Vrbo. I also purchased trip cancellation through CSA Travel Protection on the Vrbo site and have confirmation.

Unfortunately, one of the members of my party is unable to travel for medical reasons. I called CSA to file a claim, but they have no record of my policy. A representative also told me they have been having problems with Vrbo confirming trip insurance but not sending the info to CSA.

CSA said that I am not covered as far as they are concerned.

I reached out to Vrbo again. An agent told me to contact CSA. I even copied and pasted my insurance confirmation in the correspondence, but he wasn't interested. I also asked him for his badge number, but he said he wasn't allowed to provide it.

To resolve the problem, I would appreciate a trip insurance policy so that I can take the necessary steps to obtain a refund or a full refund directly from Vrbo. Attached are copies of the trip insurance confirmation and the cost of the rental. Can you help me, please? -- Sam Maniar, Hudson, Ohio

A: If you paid for a travel insurance policy through Vrbo, you should have one. What Vrbo does -- or doesn't -- do with your money once it confirms the policy is not your problem.

Your correspondence with Vrbo clearly shows that you purchased an insurance policy. That turned out to be a smart move because the policy covers an unexpected illness. Since a member of your party can't travel, you should get a full refund for your stay.

The paper trail is confusing but it supports your position. Vrbo's system says, "the original purchase did not go through and was canceled." Yet you received a confirmation. But Vrbo also says it initiated a retroactive purchase of the trip cancellation insurance for you. So you should have been covered. I list the names, numbers and email addresses of Vrbo's executives on my consumer advocacy site, Elliott.org. It looks like you tried to contact them but never heard back. That's problematic.

There's only one way you could have known that you didn't have insurance -- and that is to monitor your credit card purchases carefully. If you're expecting a transaction and it doesn't go through, you'll need to make inquiries. That's especially important with insurance. And yes, even if you get a confirmation. representative told me. "Our customer relations team has been looking into what happened with Mr. Maniar's booking and speaking with CSA to get more information. We are also providing Mr. Maniar with a full refund for the cost of his booking as a gesture of goodwill, and he will be contacted by our billing team for next steps."

Vrbo refunded your stay.

Christopher Elliott's latest book is “How To Be The World’s Smartest Traveler” (National Geographic). Get help by contacting him at http://www.elliott.org/help

© 2022 Christopher Elliott.

Problem Solved

Q: I recently received a $6 bill from Hertz for toll charges from 2012. The company told me that a third party, Toll Processing Partners, conducted an audit during which it discovered a previous unpaid invoice. I contacted Hertz, and it suggested that I get in touch with Toll Processing Partners about the outstanding invoice. I called, but after keeping me on hold for 20 minutes, the company said it could not provide an invoice. I can't make payments on charges that are not correctly invoiced.

It's unfortunate their accounting system allowed this issue to occur, but it is their issue to resolve, not mine.

I just attempted to book a reservation through Hertz. It appears I am now on the Hertz Do Not Rent list. Hertz would prefer to lose business rather than simply write off a $6 charge. Can you help me get this straightened out? -- Marcus Hall, Simi Valley, Calif.

A: I can't believe this happened. Sending a 10-year-old bill is highly unusual. But banning someone by adding them to the Do Not Rent list over $6 is absurd. You're a frequent business traveler, so Hertz stood to lose a lot of money by putting you on the Do Not Rent list. And yet it did.

It wasn't your responsibility to chase down a third party involved in the transaction. After all, you rented a car from Hertz, not Toll Processing Partners. If you don't get a valid invoice, you should not have to pay.

How long can a car rental company hold you liable for your toll charges? Most businesses write off a debt after two years. (The government requires federal agencies to write it off after 24 months under most circumstances.) So Hertz was going way, way beyond normal business practices.

And how about your banning? Hertz is, of course, free to put anyone it wants on its Do Not Rent list

Historically Speaking

by Tom Morrow

Where do We Go From Here?

As a nation we’re more divided than ever before. Liberal against Conservative. Whatever you believe there seems to be a person somewhere close by who thinks just the opposite and neither of you seems to be willing to listen to the other’s point of view.

For the past five years I’ve been writing here in The Paper about our history, but are we going to have much of a future? … one that will be as good to our grandchildren as our past has been to us? Our so-called most powerful nation on earth isn’t anymore.

Liberal Democrat Bill Maher, who is more of a sage commentator than a professed comedian, recently pointed out more than a quarter of today’s American youth couldn’t qualify for our military because they’re too fat and out of shape … that includes a good deal of our 17 to 22-year olds. Maher and I are on opposite sides of the political spectrum, but I agree with him on many of his common-sensible observations such as the above mentioned.

How many of today’s generation know anything? On-street interviews indicate just how much many of our 20-somethings don’t know simple things they should have learned in school ... like “Where is Europe?” “What city is our nation’s capital” and “who is (today’s) president?” It’s sad to tally the number of young people who couldn’t answer those questions. When simple math is presented to many of today’s youth, blank stares look back at you.

Too many of today’s youth and even those sliding closer to middle age have their nose stuck into a smart phone. It’s frightening to know that many of those staring at their phone screens are not as “smart” as that piece of Yankee ingenuity they’re holding.

A friend of mine told me of an encounter he had recently with a 16year old lad who had lost his smart phone. He asked my friend if he could use his phone. The youngster was directed to the land-line phone hanging on the wall. He went over to the phone, and for a couple of moments decided how to take it off the wall. When he got it in his hand he stared at it before finally asking my friend how to proceed in making his call. Many classic car owners don’t have to fear having their vehicles stolen because most of those classic cars have standard transmissions and few people under 40 know how to operate a “stick” shift. Admittedly, that’s an unfair comparison because nearly all American-made vehicles made since the turn-of=the-century have automatic transmissions.

“Many” schools at most levels, but certainly not all, teach or offer very little history and virtually no geography. Sitting at the dinner table one evening some years ago I began quizzing my youngest son about what he was learning in school … the various world locations around the globe. At the time he was a senior in an Oceanside high school, When I gave up on him being able to answer locations around the world I began with questions of locations of various states and cities here in America. I ask him which direction he’d go to get to San Diego. He paused. He had no sense of geographic direction because geography wasn’t offered in his school. I was a bit perplexed at that last question because the weekend before I had taken the family down to Harbor Island in San Diego for dinner.

During my early days at the old BladeCitizen a young 20-something asked me how to get to San Marcos because she was going to pitch an ad contract to a restauranteur. She was raised and went to school in Del Mar. She had no idea where San Marcos was. … a city some 20 miles from where she spent all of her (to then) life.

Today our society is faced with a serious lack of “common sense.” Consider the following: does it make sense to “defund” the police? Does it make sense to let criminals to walk free without bond? How ‘bout arresting parents for trying to address school boards? When schools experience budget crunches would it make sense to lay off white teachers first, regardless of tenure before less-experienced teachers of color as some unions in Minnesota have decided? And then there’s the growing problem of “gang looting?” Should students be made to feel guilty because of the color their skin? And most of all, how much sense does it make to open our southern border to anyone who wants to walk or swim across with little or no hindrance? Without borders we don’t have a nation.

For those of us who have served in the military, been loyal Americans, paid our taxes, tried to be good citizens, and obey laws, the Jan. 6, 2021 mob riot on our Nation Capitol building was an affront to our national pride, history and all loyal Americans.

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Road Rage Cont. from Page 6

eatery, such as Jack in the Box, with bags full of hot food to take home for the family. As the long line of cars in front of me come to a dead stop at a red light intersection, I always pause to let him/her merge safely – and almost 100% of the time, they smile and wave a gesture of thanks.

Unfortunately, according to the Foundation for Traffic Safety, that is not always the case with a driver (purposely and aggressively) shutting the other vehicle out by pulling close to the car ahead, which is stopped for a long red light.

AMONG MALE & FEMALE DRIVERS, WHICH GENDER IS MOST LIKELY TO (ALLOW) A VEHICLE TO MERGE INTO CITY TRAFFIC AS MENTIONED ABOVE?

A. Male drivers. B. Female drivers.

Correct answer above is “B” female drivers. While there are many courteous male drivers, female motorists are far more likely to “take pity” on a car waiting to merge into a long line of stopped cars at a red light intersection. Almost 40% of male drivers will (purposely prevent) or just ignore another vehicle hoping to safely merge. However, the female drivers win “hands down” in showing courtesy in this regard: “Over 70% of female drivers safely allow another motorist to safely merge.” (Foundation for Traffic Safety and also the NHTSA.)

IN SAN DIEGO COUNTY, WHAT ARE THE PRIMARY REASONS FOR INCITING ROAD RAGE? As cited at the top of this news story, San Diego County is among the most dangerous cities in America for road rage. In San Diego County, (among) the primary reasons for inciting road rage for our particular metropolitan region are:

1. Abruptly cutting off another vehicle. 2. Tailgating. 3. Talking on the cell phone while driving. 4. Abruptly changing lanes while speeding. 5. Rude gestures and/or cursing at another driver.

And it’s not just San Diego that ranks high in road rage, but California – as a whole -- is among the most dangerous states for road rage related shootings!

CALIFORNIA AMONG THE TOP MOST DANGEROUS STATES IN ROAD RAGE SHOOTINGS! Gun violence on roadways and road rage shootings are increasing! Remember, incidents involving armed motorists are deadlier than they were 5 years ago.

Road Rage Cont. on Page 10

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME

STATEMENT

2022-9011696

The name of the business: The Perfect Pair

Wedding, located at 842 Windridge Circle, San

Marcos, Ca. 92078.

Registrant Information:

Clemence Catherine Jeanne Moreau

842 Windridge Circle Alabama Cont. from Page 6

Apparently, you can put lipstick on a goat. Apparently all things do happen for a reason. Apparently I’m not trash. Because here I am. In Tuscaloosa dadgum Alabama.

San Marcos, CA. 92078

This business is operated by an individual.

First day of business n/a

/s/ Clemence Catherine Jeanne Moreau

Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County

Clerk/Recorder of San Diego, on 5/19 /2022,

6/9, 6/16, 6/23 & 6/30/2022

Before the show, a member of the university English department shakes my hand. He says, “Welcome to the University of Alabama.”

And the heck of it is, I think I really am.

Problem Solved Cont. from Page 7

for any reason. But sending you into exile for $6 seems petty. Someone didn't check to see how much business you were giving Hertz. If they had, they would have quickly forgiven the debt.

I think you could have easily resolved this with a brief, polite email to Hertz. I list the names, numbers and email addresses of the Hertz executives on my consumer advocacy site.

I contacted Hertz on your behalf. A representative contacted you by email shortly afterward.

"Please accept my sincere apology for the delay in this toll charge being brought to your attention," the Hertz representative said. "Due to this, we have advised our Toll Processor to zero out the balance and not attempt to collect. We have also reinstated your rental privileges."

Christopher Elliott is the chief advocacy officer for Elliott Advocacy. Email him at chris@elliott.org or get help with any consumer problem by contacting him at http://www.elliott.org/help. This story originally appeared in the Washington Post.

Chuckles Cont. from Page 5

Procrastination is a good thing. You always have something to do tomorrow . . plus, you have nothing to do today.

•••• Gastroenterology Doctor to patient: “You don’t need a colonoscopy but I’m ordering one because, quite frankly, I don’t like you.” •••• If Dracula can’t see himself in a mirror, how come his hair is always so well combed? •••• Be decisive. Right or wrong, make a decision.

The road of life is paved with flat squirrels who couldn’t make a decision.

•••• Raise your hand if you put things in a safe place . . and then forget where that safe place is. ••••

Politicians have egos galore and always desirous of more, be it power or sex, they become mental wrecks, yet we elect them evermore.

They will swear by the Almighty, "Why I never lifted her nightie" "It wasn't a bribe." "No, I never imbibe." "I say this quite forthrightly." Now we both know he is lying, despite his fervent denying. So, whether Rep or Dem, its us or them, the situation demands rectifying.

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Road Rage Cont. from Page 8

The most recent, reliable statistics show that of all the 50 U. S. states: Texas, Florida, and California (in that order) lead all other American states in the number of road rage incidents (involving guns).

HOW TO PREVENT ROAD RAGE. Always be courteous to other drivers. You never know who is in the other car and if they are armed. Never put your life or family at risk.

Precautionary rules to follow:

1. Always keep a safe distance between you and other vehicles on the road. 2. Always use your turn signals to communicate your intentions. Never cut anyone off. 3. Give room for other drivers to merge. 4. Refrain from rude hand gestures and/or offensive or inflammatory language. 5. Practice patience at all intersections, in traffic, or waiting for a parking spot. 6. Refrain from using your high beams unless necessary to see. 7. Abide by the rules of the road at all times and be courteous to your fellow drivers.

ALWAYS REMEMBER: You have a family and loved ones who depend on you, and your safe return home. Road rage exists everywhere, all the time, so promise yourself that you will not be its next victim.

WHAT TO DO IN A ROAD RAGE SITUATION. You may be a perfectly courteous and respectful law-abiding driver and, still, you may fall prey to an irrational, drunk, or angry driver through no fault of your own. You never know who is in the other car; they may be a dangerous felon, someone high on drugs, suicidal, or armed with a deadly weapon.

1. If you or your family are in a road rage situation, the best course of action is to remain calm and remain focused on your driving and getting to your destination safely.

2. Do not engage with the other driver. Do not return gestures or remarks made at you.

3. Avoid eye contact.

4. Be sure you and your passengers keep all your seat belts securely buckled in case of unexpected braking.

5. If someone is following you as the result of a road rage situation, avoid going to your home and try to pull into a police station, fire station, or another heavily populated area.

6. When you safely reach your destination, call 911 (or have one of your passengers do so if en route).

7. Write down or provide a fully detailed report of the incident, and prepare to appear in court (if necessary). announcement can save one human life, then its purpose has been achieved.

SPECIAL THANKS. Once again, I wish to thank all my reader fans who continue to send me great cover story ideas! Please keep all those wonderful story suggestions coming!

I have not met all of you. Many of you are anonymous, some online fans out-of-state, and even some in Europe. Nonetheless, you are all greatly valued. And all greatly loved. Each and everyone.

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Here’s a little secret. He’s already working on another! Stay tuned! More great stories from the pen and keyboard of Friedrich Gomez!

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The Pastor Says...

Pastor Richard Huls (Retired)

Our Obituary

A friend and I were discussing the news recently and he told me that the first thing he reads are the obituaries. I asked him why that was so interesting and he said, “I wanted to see if I was in the list and what was said about me. I also was curious about how old most of the deceased were. I always take satisfaction in knowing I have outlived them.”

I find it interesting that he amused himself with this information. When I read the obituaries of someone I knew,I am always amazed at how much is written about the person I never knew. Most families spend hours gathering the bits and pieces of a person’s life. It must be a challenge at times. How would the deceased feel, reading what others felt was important? Would one be flattered or incensed if an important fact was left out?

Perhaps it would be wise to keep a log of one’s own life, giving credit where credit is due and leaving out the superfluous. At least, when the time comes, as it will for each of us, the data will be there. On the other hand, it might be one last attempt on the part of the family to extol the virtues and accomplishments of a life. Of course, we would want to leave out the questionable information.

Personally, I feel it is a good idea to write out one’s own obituary in advance, leaving out the date of death, of course. Then what is important to the person is said for all to read and know.

There might even be some honest appraisal of disappointments and accomplishments. Either way, it would be the testimony of the deceased.

Such is the case of a retired group I oversee. Each is writing a synopsis of her/his life and what has been important. It gives one a chance to flatter the self or at least do some self analysis, or ask how one truly thinks of the self, warts and all.

Now, the next time you read an obituary, remember it is what others think was important. What do you want said about you? Think about that.

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Pastor Huls

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Say hello to miss Molly! She’s a gentle and sensitive soul with a heart of gold. She's looking for her human soulmate who will spoil her the way she deserves. Molly is affectionate, gentle, and very sweet with her people she is familiar with. Her favorite things include: long walks to sniff all the things, comfy places to rest, yummy things to chew and time with her favorite people. Is Molly the girl for you? She’s available for adoption at San Diego Humane Society’s Escondido Campus at 3500 Burnet Drive. To learn more about making her part of your family, please visit sdhumane.org/adopt or call 619-2997012.

Online profile: https://www.sdhumane.org/adopt/available-pets/animal-single.html?petId=557769

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT 2022-9016560 The name of the business: SD Hair Extensions Studio; SD Hair Extensions; located at 2151 Newcastle Ave., Cardiff, CA. 92007 Registrant Information: Slavic Gold LLC 2151 Newcastle Ave. Cardiff, Ca. 92007 This business is operated by a Limited Liability Company. First day of business 7/11/2022 /s/ Alena Sysoyev, Manager Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego, on 7/21/2022 7/28, 8/04, 8/11 & 8/18/2022

Seamus is pet of the week at your Rancho Coastal Humane Society. He’s a 7year-old, 15-pound, male, Domestic Short Hair cat with a Red Tabby coat.

Seamus has lived in the same home all his life. Now his owner moved into an assisted living facility and couldn’t take him along. He needs a new home.

The $75 adoption fee for Seamus includes medical exam, neuter, up to date vaccinations, and registered microchip.

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