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24 Holidays are the perfect time to start thinking about starting your own family traditions.

Holiday Jukebox: Five classic Christmas songs you’ve never heard of

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park ‘n’ play 18 Danville’s Osage Station Park

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meet ‘n’ greet 19 Mark Metz, publisher of Conscious Dancer,

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his wife Aspen, and their daughter Geneva. dress up 20 A chic maternity cocktail dress, local designer cc3Design, and more. the wheel deal 22 The all-new 2009 Volvo XC70 the back page 30 Diary of a Suburban Queen

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Publisher/Editor Everard Strong Sales Everard Strong, Catherine Beckker

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Writers Cathy Jetter, Kelly Pollard, Charles Donaldson

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Photography Jennifer Chaney, Lani Allen

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Birth Pangs I am writing this at 5:04 in the morning.

This issue—the first Bay Area Kids magazine—needs to be in our printer’s hands by 9:00 AM or we miss our printing window. I have been up all night, but I’m living on coffee and adrenaline. The Killers’ “Human” is blaring through my headphones (you will find that I am a huge fan of the Las Vegas group—one of their songs is featured in our “Top 5 Classic Christmas Songs You’ve Never Heard Before,” on page 16.) I am excited.

This is fun (I’ve spent the last fifteen years of my life involved with magazine production … trust me, I know what fun is.)

Bay Area Kids magazine was launched to fill a void I saw with local publications. As a father of two (my daughter is almost 4, my son is 18 months), I noticed a lack of any local resources that spoke to me and my family. Most publications were geared toward mothers (“by mothers for mothers”) or parents of older children. I wanted something that spoke to both my wife and me as a unit—as a family, and as parents of younger children. I wanted a publication that answered the two main questions in my life as a father: (1) Where do I take my children this weekend, and (2) What do I feed them for dinner tonight? Just kidding. Kind of.

There are other questions—lots of questions—that I know I share with other parents. Questions about our children’s learning capacities, their health risks, learning opportunities, social awareness, physical wellbeing, family involvement, fashion, vacation destinations, and the list goes on.

Join us then as we begin our journey; I promise to make the trip as enjoyable, enlightening, engaging, and entertaining as possible.

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The Cover Our Cover Model: Five and a half year-old Lexie lives in Danville, loves to play soccer, and is really enjoying kindergarten.

Clothes: Costume from Chasing-Fireflies.com, wings from Baby and Kids Company, Danville. (Boy’s outfit in above photo is from there as well.)

Hair stylist: Rebecca Leclere, Christine’s, www.completesalon.com Photographer: Jennifer Chaney, www.jchaney.com.

“I love working with Lexi! She is such a sweetie and really makes my job easy. You can’t go wrong with a fabulous little girl in a fabulous angel outfit ... that’s magic!”

Your Turn To have your son or daughter considered for our front cover, the child must be between the ages of 0 (newborn) and 8. Please send a recent digital photo of your child (head shot, facing the camera, if possible) to editor@BAKidsMagazine.com. You must include valid contact information. Winner will be notified by e-mail or phone. Winner will have to provide age verification (birth certificate) before allowing child to be photographed.

Sincerely, Everard G Strong Publisher, Editor, and Father estrong@bakidsmagazine.com p.s. With that out of the way, there are some people I need to thank, without whom Bay Area Kids would still be just a germ of an idea: My wife, daughter, and son, for your constant inspiration, support, and laughter … here we go! To Laura, Lani, Kelly, and Cathy for your insight, criticism, and involvement; to my parents, in-laws, and extended family and friends for your generosity. And to all the advertisers in this issue, a very very special thank you!

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Gifty Holiday Art Sale December 13-14, The Crucible Sparks will fly – literally – at this family-friendly event that mixes molten metal with holiday fun! There will be hands-on activities for children of all ages, familyfriendly fire performers, seasonal treats, and handmade gifts, from jewelry to dog collars, available for purchase.

And yes, Santa will be there, making an appearance worthy of the Crucible, accompanied by some very tall elves. Free admission. The Crucible, 1260 7th Street, Oakland (510) 4440919, www.thecrucible.org

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The Oakland Aviation Museum is home to Short Solent seaplane, featured in the movie Raiders of the Lost Ark

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Walnut Creek on Ice Through January 25, downtown Walnut Creek Outdoor ice-skating in downtown Walnut Creek? You better believe it!

For its fourth year of festive holiday fun, the rink has moved to the Clay Arts parking lot along Civic Drive. Every Wednesday will feature performances by local ice skating professionals. Go to their web site for times, dates, and rental fees. 1365 Civic Drive, corner of Broadway and Civic, Walnut Creek, IceSkateWalnutCreek.com

Build A Gingerbread House December 6-7, The Restaurant at Wente Vineyards Let Pastry Chef Lisa Shaver (The Restaurant at Wente Vineyards) guide you and your little ones in creating the best gingerbread house for your dining table centerpiece. The best part: if you mess-up, you can eat the evidence!

Free, but reservations are required.

Hours: Saturday, Dec. 6, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. and Sunday, Dec. 7, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Wente Vineyards, 5050 Arroyo Rd., Livermore, (925) 456-2400, WenteVineyards.com A Christmas Carol December 11-21, Center Repertory Company Continue a holiday tradition

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bringing the family to enjoy this funfilled-classic, with music and dance, wonderful special effects, scary ghosts, and entertaining life lessons.

Center Repertory Company, 1601 Civic Dr., Walnut Creek, (925) 9437469, CenterRep.org Whiskers!

December 13, 15, 17, 19, 20, Lesher Center for the Arts With story, lyrics, and music written

by Caroline Altman (Educational Director of the San Francisco Opera), Whiskers is a whimsical, lively musical adaptation of the classic story The Velveteen Rabbit, originally written by Margery Wiliams. Performed by the Galatean Players Ensemble Theatre, who are celebrating their fourteenth year of bringing this magical tale to the stage. Lesher Theatre, 1601 Civic Drive, Walnut Creek, (925) 943-7469, LesherArtsCenter.org New Year’s Eve Balloon Drop December 31, Chabot Space and Science Center This December 31, start a new tradition by joining in the fun at Chabot’s New Year’s Eve Balloon drop. There will be plenty of activities for kids of all ages and unique hands-on fun that only Chabot can offer – with two balloon drops! Best part? Party’s over by 4:00 PM, so you can enjoy all of the excitement and still have them

ZooLights December 5-January 4, Oakland Zoo This year’s anticipated event will feature over 120 animal structures. Enjoy a cup of hot chocolate and stroll around the zoo as your children identify all of the represented animals. If you’re in a dancing mood, Movin’ 99.7 will be providing music at the meadow show with a synchronized light show. For those looking to relax, hop aboard the Snowball Express steam engine train as it winds through the zoo, offering breathtaking views of the zoo after dark.

(Note: many of the zoo animals will be hidden away in their nighttime habitats.) ZooLight hours: Friday-Sunday, 5:30pm–9:30pm; Monday-Thursday: 5:30pm–9:00pm.

Oakland Zoo, 9777 Golf Links Rd, Oakland, (510) 6329525, OaklandZoo.org

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Train Week December 1-7, Habitot Children’s Museum Let your budding engineer or conductor loose inside Habitot Children’s Museum during Train Week, where children (1-6 years old) can ride small-scale locomotives, play train-themed games, decorate a giant train sculpture, make their own conductor hats, or just listen to captivating stories about life on the rails. Door prizes will be awarded daily at noon. Admission: $8/child, $7/adult.

Habitot Children’s Museum, 2065 Kittredge St., Berkeley, (510) 647-1111, Habitot.org

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Reservations go fast. Cost: $3/child for members, $3/child plus price of admission for nonmembers. Chabot Space and Science Center, 10000 Skyline Blvd., Oakland, (510) 3367373, ChabotSpace.org Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory January 16-18, Dougherty Valley Performing Arts Center Performed by kids who participated in Dougherty Valley’s Kids Take the Stage classes, this family favorite includes all of your favorite characters and songs that you’ve come to love.

Tickets: $13/Adults; $9/Youth and Seniors 65 and over. Dougherty Valley Performing Arts Center, 10550 Albion Rd., San Ramon (located in the Dougherty Valley High School campus, (925) 973-ARTS, www.ci.sanramon.ca.us/Parks/theater First Night Martinez December 31, 3PM–Midnight, downtown Martinez Celebrate New Year’s Eve within a family-friendly, alcohol-free festival atmosphere, featuring a very wide variety of performing arts, activities for the whole family, food, and community togetherness. Begun in Boston in 1976, First Night’s mission is to create a public celebration that revives the ancient tradition of marking the passage of time with art, ritual, and festivity in a present day context.

Activities include a Mardi Gras style procession through the streets, ice skating on a synthetic ice rink, Kent Family Magic Show, live music courtesy of nineteen local bands, a main stage featuring a variety of acts, world record holder juggler Dan Holzman, a drum circle, karaoke, recycled art projects, and more. Admission buttons: $8 adults 17 and over ($11 at the event); $5 youth 6-16 ($8 at the event); Free for kids ages 5 and under. Downtown Martinez, (925) 3728295, FirstNightMartinez.org BAK

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IF YOU GO Great Dickens Christmas Fair November 28 through December 21, 11am–7pm.

Cow Palace Exhibition Hall, San Francisco.

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pricing General admission: $22/ gate for adults, $10/children 5-11; children under 5 get in free. Group rates available.

Discount advance tickets available online.

Cow Palace parking: $10

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What the Dickens?

Kevin Patterson, who along with his wife produces the Great Dickens Christmas Fair (through December 21 in San Francisco’s Cow Palace), calls the fair an “improvisational participation event.”

Kevin should know about these things—his parents staged the first Renaissance Pleasure Faire, back in 1963; he’s been part of that world ever since (Kevin was born in 1960). In 1970, his family decided to branch off from the original idea and create something for the winter months—and the Great Dickens Christmas Fair was born.

“I was one of Fagan’s boys in the first festivals, literally going through the crowd picking pockets [Fagan is a scheming con artist in Charles Dickens’ classic book Oliver Twist]. He (Fagan) had a stage where he pontificated about proper behavior and morals—meanwhile we were picking pockets of the unsuspecting guests. We would then bring our loot on stage for Fagan, much to the astonishment of the audience.”

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Dickens Fair organizer Kevin Patterson highly recommends bringing your children in costume as they’ll have more fun.

Belrose Costumes, in San Rafael, has been providing for the Fair for years (TheBelrose.com).

Other options include Berkeley’s StageCraft Studios (estagecraft.com). There are also outfitters available on the premises during the Fair.

Be assured that the days of picking pockets are over, but the overall experience has grown since then—the Fair had to move out of its original haunts ion Pier 49 to its present location in the Cow Palace. great expectations Celebrating 29 years of immersive theater, the Dickens Fair is a faithful recreation of Victorian London as seen through the eyes of the author Charles Dickens (Nicholas Nickleby, Oliver Twist, A Christmas Carol, David Copperfiled).

For four weekends from November through December, guests can stroll down lamplit streets and encounter characters from Dickens’ books alongside everyday residents of London—with everyone bedecked in authentic era costumes.

Look close and you might spy Tiny Tim running down an alley, Ebenezer Scrooge being escorted by one of his three ghosts, or maybe … wait … Is that? … it is! … It’s Father Christmas! a tale of two cities Planning for the event begins almost as soon as the last one’s over (in the case of next year’s fair, which marks their thirtieth anniversary, plans are already in the works). “It takes roughly three weeks to build all the sets,” explains Kevin. Populating this stage is a logistical challenge in and of itself. Over 600 performers—some professionally paid but most volunteers—must attend workshops where they learn the proper etiquette, dialect, and social mores of Victorian London. “Authenticity is key,” says Kevin. Many of these cast members have been part of the fair for a very long time and have made their involvement in the fair their main Holiday tradition: “We’ve had people meet at the Fair, get married at the Fair, have children who attended the fair; and now their children’s children are attending the fair.

We are a big family here.”

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a child’s history of england Though just attending the Fair might be enough excitement for many children, there are several child-centric activities and attractions available: children can go on a special tour of London; frolic in the Sugar Plum Playhouse, catch a Punch and Judy puppet show (performed by Kevin’s brother Brian, a world-renowned Punch and Judy puppeteer), or learn how to dance at Fezziwig’s Warehouse.

Several games and craft booths are present too, where curious children can make ornaments or try their hand at creating authentic brass rubbings. And be sure to pencil in time for Father Christmas’ lap—he’s very eager to hear what children hope to find under the Christmas tree.

All of this excitement is sure to create an appetite—a good thing as you can dine on what many visitors consider the best fish and chips this side of the Atlantic.

There are also meat pies and other authentic recipes to salivate over and choose from. BAK winter 08 | East Bay

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IF YOU GO Ghirardelli Square is located at 900 at 900 North Point Street, on the West side of Fisherman’s Wharf, two blocks east of Van Ness Avenue and one block west of the Cable Car turnaround at Beach and Hyde Streets.

parking Validated parking is available onsite.

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Return of a Classic San Francisco’s Ghirardelli Square

by Everard G Strong

I first experienced Ghirardelli Square almost ten years ago, when I had recently moved to the East Bay area. A young single lad in the big city, I used to drive or take the BART into town and end up at the north end of North Beach. Meandering my way across the waterfront stores and bars, I ended most nights in Ana Mandera’s cozy upstairs lounge and bar, where a friend of a friend used to play as part of a jazz trio (if you haven’t experienced Ana Mandera, with its fusion of French and Vietnamese cuisine, you are missing on what is probably one of San Francisco’s best culinary secrets). I remember grabbing my cocktail and walking outside to their patio, which was part of the larger Ghirardelli Square. Most nights presented me with an amazing panorama of twinkling night skies, gently rolling waves, and the far off lights across the bay from Sausalito and beyond. On the lucky chance that I might be accompanied by a lady friend, the view provided instant romance.

Time passed, and romance led to marriage which led to babies which led to less and less opportunities to just head out to one of my favorite San Francisco haunts. That all changed, however, the day I brought my daughter (now walking) with me during the holiday

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season about two years ago. There was a huge Christmas tree, hot chocolate, free chocolate samples (peppermint bark), and carolers, all against the same backdrop that helped define my East Bay experience.

My daughter now provided a built-in excuse for me to come back. Unfortunately, with the birth of my son, we didn’t get to make the trip last year.

For those who haven’t been down to Ghirardelli Square ever (or in a while), it has received an update.

Many of the art galleries are still present (as is Ana Mandera, thank goodness), but there are some new additions worth the trip this holiday, especially if you have children in tow. One of their newest additions is Peekadoodle Kid’s Club – a membership-based kid’s club that includes classes for children, a kid salon, and an indoor playground. Parents can shop at the boutique, enjoy a cup of gourmet coffee and some tasty tidbits, or just relax in the lounge. It’s also a great place to host your next birthday party!

Other stores include ElizabethW, Helpers Bazaar, Richter’s Glassworks and Music Boxes, Yap Wraps (for you four-legged best friend), One of A Kind (featuring unique woodwork), and Lola of North Beach, which boasts an impressive array of chic stationery and greeting cards.

To complete your shopping spree (or to take a midspree break and relax), head on over to Ghirardelli and splurge on a steaming cup of hot chocolate, an ice cream sundae, or handmade fudge. After your energy boost, take a stroll outside and soak in the view.

Breathe it all in, and then, reenergized and refreshed, go back about your merry way. BAK

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holiday shopping ideas Noah’s ark giclee Zerafina ($145) Columbian artist Pily Torres is fast becoming a household name with her playful imagery and bold colors. An uplifting addition for any child’s bedroom décor. Available at Zerafina.com, an online retailer based out of San Ramon.

Baby Gift Basket Grow-A-Tree ($75) A wonderful First Gift for your favorite baby. Kit includes Baby’s First Bear, silver rattle, tree-to-be Ginko blloba tree kit, aluminum name tag, and blanket.

Available from Walnut Creek’s GiftBasketsbyConny.com, (925) 698-2270.

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pirate devil duckie Archie McPhee ($8.50) Once your pirate is done sailing the seven seas, he can tell his new bath buddy all about his dastardly adventures. McPhee.com Red Beard’s revenge pirate ship playhouse PoshTots.com ($52,000) No, we didn’t add one too many zeroes behind the price tag. But look at what you’re getting for your money: the envy of every child (and most adults) in your neighborhood. Each ship comes complete with Captain’s Quarters, a crow’s nest, a cannonball-riddled mast, rigging, working doors, waterproof recycled composite roof, a carved wolf figurehead, and an ornate helm and rudder.

Captain’s Quarters is big enough for adults and includes benches with leatherette cushions. Ample storage. Not included: eye patch, parrot, gold dubloons, and maps to buried treasure. PoshTots.com

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built-to-order Modern Dollhouse Miss Schumetta’s ($750, unfurnished) Malibu-based Schumetta McLendon uses green building techniques to create custom dollhouses that will delight young girls and collectors alike. With several models to choose from (her Beach House is shown), McLendon likes to get girls involved in the design, in the process teaching them about mathematics and introducing them to sustainable practices. “We can teach sustainable architecture to the younger generation through play,” she says. www.schumetta.com BAKidsMagazine.com

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for the kids ten little fingers and ten little toes Mem Fox (author) and Helen Oxenbury (illustrator) A first-time collaboration, the two authors’ graceful, rhythmic prose highlights gorgeous and engaging illustrations. The whimsical book reminds us that babies from different cultures around the world all share a unique ability to bring joy to their families— along with ten little fingers and ten little toes.

18 months—3 years. Penguin Books [Cathy Jetter]

local author cloud boy Rhode Montijo Stockton native Montijo provides both words and pictures in this beautifully-illustrated story about a lonely Cloud Boy who discovers a unique—and creative—talent that brings happiness to other children, bringing happiness to himself in the process. A short (32 pages) but sweet story about belonging and sharing. 3 to 6 years. Simon and Schuster

for Mom and DAd the snowball: warren buffet and the business of life Alice Schroeder There are four main lessons to be taken away from this enlightening, insightful, and inspiring book about the World’s Richest Man (his current net worth is over $62 billion dollars): first, invest in the stock market for the long term; second, don’t invest in anything you don’t understand; third, don’t buy real estate buy companies); fourth, a dollar today can be worth a lot more down the road, spend it wisely. Random House

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15 story time if you give a cat a cupcake Laura Numeroff (author, Felicia Bond (illustrator) A continuation of her succesful If You Give … series—If you thought a mouse and his cookie had issues, just wait till you’ve read the adventures one sweet treat inspires for this little kitty and her friend. Fans of the series will recognize this friendly feline from If You Give a Pig a Pancake, who now gets to star in her very own tale of cause and effect. The extravagant parable will resonate with parents who live by the “give an inch and they take a mile” rule of raising children; kids will get a giggle as the story’s details are made larger than life through Bond’s wacky and wonderful illustrations. 4 to 8 years.

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ONE Lathryn Otoshi Otoshi’s One is wonderful on so many levels; it’s really not fair to limit this book to the youngest of readers. Primary colors serve as the book’s characters—Blue is quiet; Red likes to pick on blue; the other colors stand by and do nothing, Otoshi’s One can fast become a preschool teacher’s favorite classroom read: as Blue learns to be “cool” and Red controls his “hot” temper, elementary school readers can see the book’s imagery at work in their own lives. We also know a few junior high students who could benefit from the lessons in One … bullying stops when everyone counts. 18 months—3 years.

KO Kids books. [Cathy Jetter]

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As parents, we are inundated with advice from friends, family members, doctors, medical experts, magazine articles (gulp), online sources, and our own consciousness. Muddling through all of this information can sometimes feel daunting and very isolating—you’re not sure what, or how, these choices apply to your own unique circumstances, and what the ramifications might be if you make the wrong choice.

For the holidays, we have compiled a list of books that we believe cut through the information clutter to provide engaging, enlightening, and even entertaining perspectives on being a parent in the modern age. Treat yourself to one or more of these titles, or surprise someone on your shopping list.

DIRTY LITTLE SECRETs from otherwise perfect moms Trisha Ashworth and Amy Nobile “My seven-year-old-son walked in on us having sex. We told him we were doing karate in bed.” Acting as a confessional, Ashworth (who hails from Marin) includes quotes from mothers she compiled while researching material for her first book, “I Was a Really Good Mom …” (Chronicle Books)

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The Happiest baby on the block (DVD) Harvey Karp. MD Dr. Karp’s 5 “S’s” are true lifesavers for parents who have suffered through sleepless nights and countless panicky moments wondering why their baby is crying so much. His solutions are instant in their effectiveness.

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the three-martini family vacation

by Christie Mellor Mellor, who brought us the irreverently funny Three Martini Playdate, returns to push the parenting envelope one step further, this time tackling (literally) the family vacation. With a warmth that seeps through her sometimes acerbic humor, Mellor continues on her quest to help parents recapture their rightful place at the head of the family. (Chronicle Books) the poo bomb: true tales of parental terror Jeff Vogel An anti-parenting parenting book, Vogel offers a no-holds-barred, butt-naked, week-byweek glimpse into the first year of his daughter Cordelia’s life. In the process he voices what many parents are afraid to express: having a baby isn’t all it’s painted out to be. it’s not always pretty, but it is pretty funny. (Andrews McMeel)

Five classic Christmas songs you’ve probably never heard. (Go online to BAKidsMagazine.com for audio and video links for these songs.)

1. I Want a Hippopotamus for Christmas. Originally released in 1953, this charming song (sung by 10 year old Gayla Peevey), will have your child singing along in no time.

2. Don’t Shoot Me Santa. Las Vegas’ the Killers serve up a South-of-the-Border plea to the Man with the Bag. 3. The 12 Days of Christmas.

Bob Rivers’ irreverent—and hilariously spot-on—summary of the holiday season.

4. Honky the Christmas Goose.

Just saying the title makes you laugh. Funnier still, this 1965 ditty is sung by Johnny Bower, who used to play hockey for the Toronto Maple Leaves 5. Dominick the Christmas Donkey. “Hey! Chingedy ching,hee haw hee haw. It’s Dominick the Italian Christmas Donkey.” We kid you not.

BONUS TRACK: 6. Father Christmas (Give Me Your Money). The Kings sing about a Santa Claus bell-ringer getting mugged outside a general store by a bunch of kids.

For your listening pleasure. If you like your holiday music on the eccentric side, tune in your virtual radio to San Franciscobased Somafm.com, and click on their “Xmas in Frisko” station.

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Osage Station Park, Danville Let them write poems about the

Park Spotlights are unbiased inperson visits to various East Bay playgrounds. Our goal is to accumulate a database for our readers. Find out more, including maps, at BAKidsMagazine.com

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beauty of new fallen snow, feel free to wax rhapsodic about the beauty and splendor found in piles of freshly raked leaves. Go on and enjoy the endless rhythm of the rain … we’ll spread out our blanket and enjoy another perfect winter picnic at a nearby Bay Area park. This month we’re featuring one of Danville’s favorite play date destinations: Osage Station Park.

Osage Station Park is set on 35 of the 167 acres of parkland maintained by the town of Danville. With four tennis courts, four baseball diamonds, soccer fields, and a sizable barbeque and picnic area, there is plenty of opportunity for action throughout the weekends and summer.

However, don’t be distracted from the real attraction happening here—no tickets are required to climb aboard the “Train Station.”

Looking like it just stopped by to pick up a pint-sized conductor, the perfectly proportioned engine and car are the definite focal point of the aptly named Osage Station. Once arrived at their imagination’s destination, passengers

can stretch their limbs as they rock and roll through the climbing structure’s elaborate maze of bridges, ladders and slides, while just across the cement path, a tiered water structure offers seasonally appropriate respite for weary train travelers. Potential paleontologists should certainly pack their shovels and pails—ancient artifacts are waiting to be discovered and reburied in the generously sized sand area, What you won’t find here are swings.

We’ve sworn off the debate of safety versus traditional playground trappings, but we have overheard many a mom remark how pleasant it is not having to deal with the dangers of flying feet, not to mention continuous cries for one more push higher.

The dining car has never served a real meal, but mature trees and wide grassy knolls provide a pleasant setting for a midday meal packed at home. Don’t forget to offer a lemonade toast to those less fortunate folks whose parks are snugly buried under an icy blanket of snow. Cathy Jetter

OSAGE STATION PARK is located at 816 Brookside Drive, Danville

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The Rhythm of Life For berkeley’s mark metz, his wife aspen, and baby geneva, life is one joyous celebration of music and dance.

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19 meet ‘n’ greet “Is it strange to dance so soon I danced myself right out the womb,” Cosmic Dancer, T. Rex The above lyrics are particularly apt for Mark Metz’ eight-month old daughter Geneva.

With parents deeply involved in the ecstatic dance movement—where dancing and body rhythms are an integral ingredient to a healthy mind, soul, and body—Geneva attended her first dance when only four weeks old (and loved it).

So strongly do Mark and his wife Aspen believe in the power of dance that a little over a year ago they decided to quit their day jobs—he as a freelance metal worker for architects and as an artist, she as an environmental scientist focusing on the Bay Area’s many watersheds—to launch Conscious Dancer, a lifestyle magazine.

According to Mark, the idea for the magazine came to him while he was relaxing at Harbin Hot Springs. “It just popped into my head,” he recalls, “we need a magazine called Conscious Dancer.”

That was late March, 2007. By April 1 the couple had registered the Web site, and started selling the site to advertisers and subscribers. Their first

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issue came out in the fall of 2007, and they just wrapped up their fifth issue.

Working on the magazine together has provided Mark and Aspen with their share of challenges and learning experiences: neither one of them had much experience with magazines, and neither were used to working with each other in a day-to-day capacity as they found themselves doing. During the process they each found their groove—Mark focuses on the editorial development and vision of the magazine; Aspen helps steer the creative process while keeping the back-end of the business on an even keel. “She grounds me when I start dreaming too high,” Mark confesses. “She reels me in.” They both work on ad sales.

For the moment, Geneva’s role is more inspirational, serving as muse for both her parents.

Someday, however, Mark hopes she will look at what her parents are doing, and take something away from it all: “I want to be able to show her that you can manifest whatever you want in your life if you put your heart into it.” BAK

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With Cathleen Chua Schulte as the company’s main designer (and namesake), their Spring 2009 collection focuses on contrast and texture, and features several pieces made of a striped and ruffled fabric that is sewn upside-down, letting the ruffles fall open like petals on a flower.

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As parents we want to shelter our children from harm and protect them from their environment in as many ways as we possibly can. To this end we outfit them in warm jackets for winter, protective gear for sports, provide them a safe place to live, and we want to transport them from activity to activity in the safest possible vehicle we can. Since most of us don’t have access to a military tank and they don’t typically allow them on our highways and byways anyway, we opt for the more practical and better looking solution—a Volvo.

The Volvo brand has always been synonymous with safety. For years, style was consigned to third or even forth place behind their priority of safety and function. A lot has changed in the past ten years: other manufacturers have also begun to focus more on safety.

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was a wake-up call for Volvo: the 2009 XC70 crossover is a successful result of the company’s reorientation.

A crossover is a vehicle built on a modified car platform, but with SUV space and utility features. Volvo’s first entry into this category was the XC70; their 2008 version launched the third generation XC70, making it the most refined model yet.

The XC70—a blend of comfort and flexibility packaged in

incorporates a rugged elegance paired with distinguished lines; athletic shoulders and pronounced wheel wells create a powerful and confident stance. The 2009 XC70 shares major components and systems with Volvo’s flagship S80 versus the smaller S60, the choice of the previous XC70 generation.

This upgrade allowed Volvo to lift the XC70 to a new level of performance and refinement.

The interior upgrades include a new height-adjustable integrated child booster cushion—a world first—with an extended inflatable airbag curtain. an expressive design—is also packed with safety features to protect our loved ones.

Available in two trims— 3.2 Wagon ($38,075) and the 3.0 T6 Wagon ($40,325)— the 2009 Volvo XC70 design

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look. Large, red vertical taillights are distinctive Volvo trademarks.

Looking In The interior upgrades include a new heightadjustable integrated child booster cushion—a world first—with an extended inflatable airbag curtain. “Ortho-posture” supportive seats, increased rear legroom and a Premium Dynaudio sound system with Sirius satellite radio. A Volvo Navigation system with a dual screen rear seat entertainment system is also available.

Other features new on the third generation Volvo XC70 include a split rear seat (40/20/40), aluminum rails in the luggage area to anchor movable items, a hands-free Bluetooth phone interface, and a New Technology Package with active bi-Xenon headlamps. New for 2009, the 3.0 T6 trim comes with visible dual tailpipes, watch dial instrument cluster, cross-brushed aluminum inlays and 17-inch “Sargas” alloy wheels.

Safety First With safety once again at the forefront of Volvo’s design process, the XC70 incorporates a number

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The Importance of Holiday Traditions

Memories HIDDEN BENEATH all the gilding, glitz, and must-have gifts, there’s a lot more substance to your holiday routine than you might recognize. Take a little time (while you’re navigating the twists and turns of a lengthy line at a pre-dawn super sale) and make a list of the moments that your family has come to consider part of the holiday routine: singing (off-key) carols while searching for the perfect tree, building the (always crooked) gingerbread house, stuffing the turkey with great grandma’s recipe (even when no one likes the raisins)—these are the holiday highlights your children will hand down to future generations long after the latest and greatest gadgets have been forgotten. These are your family traditions. »

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psychologist Dr. Belinda Jo Lopes, is taking the holiday customs we are already familiar with, just a bit deeper. “If you are decorating the tree, think about adding a ceremony to make the ornaments a little more meaningful,” she says. Ornaments can represent important family events as well individuals within the family. Have family members make or choose an ornament that means something substantial to them, then let each share the significance of that ornament as it is hung. The stories, adds Dr. Lopes, let the family see aspects of each other’s personalities that might otherwise go unnoticed.

Development

The importance of these not-at-all trivial times cannot be overstated. Tradition is what binds the family together; the feeling of “we” and the special way “we” do things cements a child’s identity and sense of belonging. Traditions do not have to be elaborate or expensive to be important—it’s the predictable nature of the ritual that makes it valuable. The routines that root a family also give children a foundation for culture, commonality, and community.

Traditions, at their best, provide a unique family identity while challenging us to expand our very definition of what a family can be.

How, then, do we make the most of our family traditions? The first step, suggests licensed

“Choose traditions that make your family happy, because they will need to recur every year.”

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Once you have come together as a family unit, it is wise to consider developing traditions that expand the classic perception of family. “The next level of community is your friends and neighbors,” explains Dr. Lopes. “Family traditions can become more meaningful when they include those who live beyond the walls of your home.” Is there a busy neighbor who might appreciate a yearly Poinsettia to decorate the doorstep? Perhaps the lonely lady down the street would be grateful for an annual invitation to share a glass of wine. Remember, it’s the dependability of the tradition that makes it, well, tradition. “Choose traditions that make your family happy,” says Dr. Lopes, “because they will need to recur every year.”

Beyond the people we engage with on an everyday basis is a world community in need of tender loving care throughout the year, but may be especially hard hit over the winter months.

Food banks, churches, convalescent hospitals and many global charity organizations depend on the goodwill and generosity of individuals to make their holiday load a little lighter. Find an organization that holds special meaning to your family, and the tradition of involvement will bring rewards well past the twelve days of Christmas.

Involvement Keeping family members involved is also a key to finding meaning in traditions. Children especially should be involved in each step of whatever traditions your family holds dear. Dr. Lopes advises that involving children in traditions that extend to the outside community gives them the opportunity to realize that they are a part of that community, and that their contributions can make a difference. If you are baking cookies and breads for a local retirement home, have the BAKidsMagazine.com

children assist in choosing the types of treats to be prepared. Stirring, wrapping and labeling the goodies are all child friendly chores. And certainly, let them be the bearers of the “good news” when you arrive at the lucky recipients’ doorstep.

The sense of compassion that comes from offering kindness to others, especially people who are not part of our everyday circle, is an important lesson that makes the difference between narcissistic, self-centered beings and outwardly motivated, giving individuals.

Single parenthood, divorce, and the transient nature of our world can leave families feeling disconnected from the past and neglectful of the future. You don’t have to be a traditional family to give your family the benefit of traditions—it can all begin with just one person reaching out to connect with another And that is certainly something worth celebrating. BAK Dr. Belinda Jo Lopes is a licensed marriage and family counselor practicing in Walnut Creek.

Holiday Humor “ W h a t I d o n’ t l i k e a b o u t of fice Christmas par ties is looking for a job the nex t d a y.” P h y l l i s D i l l e r “I stopped believing in Santa Claus when I was six. Mothe r took me to see him in a depar tment store and he asked for m y a u t o g r a p h .” S h i r l e y Te m p l e “The one thing women d o n’ t w a n t t o f i n d i n t h e i r stock ings on Christmas m o r n i n g i s t h e i r h u s b a n d .”

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“Mail your packages early so the post of fice can loose them in time f o r C h r i s t m a s .” J o h n n y Carson “Never worr y about the size of your Christmas tree. In the eyes of children, they are all thir t y f e e t t a l l .” L a r r y W i l d e “ T h e r e’s n o t h i n g s a d d e r i n this world than to awake Christmas morning and n o t b e a c h i l d .” E r m a Bombeck

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Small Plates are Big News Tapas-style dining is a great way to get children to try new dishes Small plates and portions are transforming the way we eat. Across the country, from restaurants to homes, exciting menus of diverse small plates are being served instead of old-school one plate entrees.

These small plates are great for introducing new foods—or old favorites—to your children in portions that don’t overwhelm their appetites and taste buds. Able to pick and choose—and with portions that appeal to their smaller mouths and fingers, the following recipes can serve double service this holiday season: prepare them before a party for some tasty adult appetizers, or as the main course for your next family dinner.

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Whisk garlic, lemon juice, rosemary, olive oil, wine, salt and pepper together; divide into two bowls and marinate shrimp and chicken separately for 1 hour. Thread 2 to 4 shrimp per skewer and 1 to 2 tenders per skewer. Grill chicken about 4 minutes per side and shrimp about 2 to 3 minutes per side until pink. Remove kebabs from grill and serve with salsa of your choice. Serves 6.

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Jingle Bells, My Family Smells

by Kelly pollard

As children, we all had that must-have toy: when I was eight, it was a pink pajama-clad Baby Talk doll whom my parents’ tipsy friend guffawed at every time the doll uttered certain phrases he deemed as explicitly inappropriate—think cocktail orders and sexual innuendos.

In my teens, it was my future brother-in-law who landed the hot gift of the season, a Sega Genesis.

My sister and I took that over (our presents must not have measured up) and we sat bleary-eyed in front of the television for six hours straight playing Sonic the Hedgehog. (Even during an episode where our cocker spaniel bit my sister’s boyfriend on the lip, and my stepdad had to take him to the emergency clinic for stitches.)

So here I sit today, inhaling deeply as I skim through my sons’ out-of-control Christmas lists. I weigh the practical wishes against the outlandish.

A life-size dirt bike? Dream on, little buddy.

Where are those simple times when the success of a whole holiday rested on whether a mom could score a blond Cabbage Patch doll? There had to be years when my Christmas wishes were impossible, but selective memory blocks them out, and I only remember that gleeful moment when I raced out of bed before the sun rose to find my treasured toy. I wade through the greedy spell the holidays weave around my kindergartner and preschooler and hope I can somehow live up to my own high expectations of providing a meaningful holiday for all of us. Will the pricey Transformer toy they beg for really buy that kind of magic?

Now that the torch is passed and I’m the “responsible” parent trying to throw together a memorable Christmas for my family—one that doesn’t involve ER visits—I bow down to my mother.

Lucky for my parents, they’ve earned immunity from the hosting duties. Instead, they can show up with gifts for grandchildren and silently snicker while we maneuver through various toy assembly crises and dinner disasters.

The haggling over holiday duties in my family starts in the fall when my siblings and I hash out who plays host to the festivities:

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“I’ll take Thanksgiving if you take Christmas Dinner.”

“But we did Halloween.”

“How about I do Thanksgiving and bring mimosas to your house Christmas brunch?”

“Only if I can be in charge of green bean casserole and don’t have to carve the turkey.”

Somehow, it generally works out equally for everyone.

For reasons that defy logic, it’s always the person going through some life-altering moment whom gets stuck with a house full of relatives.

Like when I hosted Thanksgiving just weeks after my second son was born. I was feeling chunky, sleep deprived, and irritated because I was breastfeeding and couldn’t even overindulge on liquor like everyone else seemed to be doing.

Or when a sister had surgery just two days before her holiday hosting duty, and stayed glassyeyed in a fog of pain killers while barking orders at her husband on Thanksgiving.

Our twisted explanation—it’s easier in these situations to stay posted at home, even if it means we must polish our houses to sparkling and feed twenty of our dearest relatives.

It’s both the ecstasy and the agony of living so close to each other. We’ve all taken turns playing the ol’ “Our family unit is staying home for a quiet holiday this year.” Then we can’t help wondering what’s going on a few blocks away and if Uncle Mark brought his homemade bucket of sangria and which fathers are being forced to assemble new bikes or who received the cool toy of the season and are the kids giving the adults fair play time on the latest video game system?

With mere weeks until Christmas Day, the family has yet to agree on where we’ll tear through presents this year. If we stay true to our twisted traditions, I’m betting on my brother’s house, whose teenager is scheduled for surgery Christmas Eve morning. BAK Kelly Pollard is a TriValley writer and mother of two boys, ages five and four. You can find her at www.twoboysintwoyears. blogspot.com with more incriminating tales of her family.

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