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by Timothy Rodrigues
eaders of the Bay Area Reporter who regularly scan the obituary page for familiar faces - friends, ex¬ lovers, former tricks, that guy you used to see at the gym who has not been around for a while - will have to forgo that ritual this week. No obituaries were filed with the paper for this issue, a first since the AIDS epidemic exploded in San Francisco’s gay community. That doesn’t mean that there were no AIDS deaths in the past week; next week’s issue may have more obits than usual. Nevertheless, after more than 17 years of struggle and death, and some weeks with as many as 31 obituaries printed in the B.A.R., it seems a new reality may be taking hold, and the community may be on the verge of a new era of the epi¬ demic. Perhaps. “It is certainly refreshing, and I think we deserve a break like that. By the same token, it is hard to imagine that it will last forever,” Dana Van Gorder, director of gay and lesbian
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health for the Department of Public Health (DPH), told the B.A.R. “We all deserve a little bit of respite,” he continued. Derek Gordon, director of communications for the San Francisco AIDS Foundation (SFAF), who has been living with HIV for many years, talked about scanning the obitu¬ ary page, looking to see who had died, and feeling “it was just a matter of time before I would see my own face. “I remember my grandfather said he knew he was getting near death because he used to scan the obits,” he told the B.A.R. “I used to think how tragic because I was doing the same thing at 30.” Gordon cautioned that the epidemic is not over, but ac¬ knowledged that the decrease in the number of obituaries reflects a parallel trend in his personal experience. He said he no longer feels the same sense of “doom and despair,” and added, “I don’t have any [recent] obits to personally tell.” Dick Pabich, AIDS policy advisor to Mayor Willie Brown, and someone who has lived with AIDS for many years, has had the opposite personal experience. He has recently had two close friends die of AIDS, something he says he has not
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had to deal with for some time. “I have frankly had a concern that we are seeing a shift in the opposite direction,” he said, mentioning an increase in the number of people he knows who have died, gotten in¬ fected by HIV, or been diagnosed. While acknowledging that the lack of obituaries is sym¬ bolically very important, Pabich warned that it is important not to overstate the situation and said there should be no lessening of efforts to fight the epidemic. If current estimates are correct, 10 people may have been infected by HIV in the last week, and it is estimated that 15,000 people living in San Francisco are HIV-positive. Although scientists, reporters, and government officials have commented that AIDS deaths have been declining since the introduction of new anti-HIV drug regimens, several of those interviewed mentioned that many people cannot ob¬ tain, choose not to take, or do not benefit from currently avail¬ able treatment options. Also, the incidence of HIV/AIDS is in¬ creasing among youth, people of color, women, and the het-
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by Dennis Conkin gay San Francisco man says that Community United Against Violence (CUAV) has made an awful mistake - and that he’s not the batterer but the true victim in a tangled local gay domes¬ tic violence case. Louis Nevaer says that a CUAV domestic violence advocate, who provided victim-ofviolence services to his former partner, lied to a Family Court Commissioner when she accused Nevaer of assaulting her client after a stay-away order had been issued in the case. His small claims lawsuit in San Fran¬ cisco Superior Court over CUAV’s alleged “slander and libel” in connection with the case began Tuesday, August 11. A family court commissioner granted a permanent restraining order against Nevaer last April, and a June attempt by Nevaer to have it thrown out was dismissed without prejudice on procedural grounds. Nevaer will appeal that dismissal. Superior Court Judge Donna Hitchens, who supervises the Unified Family Court, also told Nevaer that her review of the case indicated that the family court commission¬ er had ruled legally and appropriately in the case, based on the facts as presented. “In my opinion. Commissioner [Mar¬ jorie] Slabach was very patient in allowing you to state your position,” said Hitchens, an openly lesbian longtime judge. Nevaer’s former partner Robert Brenner declined to talk with the Bay Area Reporter about the case. However, in a Family Court affidavit, Brenner said he was assaulted so badly by Nevaer without provocation March 16,1997
that he suffered a broken hand, bite wounds, and other injuries. Nevaer told the B.A.R. that he was the one who was seriously injured by glass shards from a sliding door during the inci¬ dent - in which he said Brenner “tried to murder me.” “I was taken by ambulance to San Fran¬ cisco General [Hospital]. I thought that night he was going to kill me,” Nevaer said. Nevaer said the incident was precipitated by Brenner’s alleged methamphetamine drug use during a sadomasochistic sexual scene, and that Brenner attacked him after he refused to participate in a sexual en-
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JLUUL1 ACT UP
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BAR Talk
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Classifieds
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GLAAD
11
Mailstrom Mister Marcus
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Open Forum
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Our Man Friday
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Out & About
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Out There
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Past Out
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Personals
48
Sapphistication
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Sports Complex
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