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Vol. 50 • No. 30 • July 23-29, 2020
Rent a struggle for workers impacted by coronavirus by Matthew S. Bajko
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A shareholder of The Mix sued his business associates in 2019, and last month they filed a cross-complaint in court against him.
Mix responds to lawsuit by John Ferrannini
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he corporation that does business as The Mix, a Castro neighborhood bar, filed a cross-complaint last month against Lawrence “Larry” Metzger, who sued the corporation and two of its shareholders in October 2019. The cross-complaint, filed in San Francisco Superior Court, alleges that Metzger issued unauthorized checks of The Mix’s assets to himself, exercised personal control over its property, breached his fiduciary duty to the corporation by accepting a position at a rival business, and even sold The Mix’s alcohol there. As the Bay Area Reporter previously reported, Metzger is one of four owners of The Mix, located at 4086 18th Street, along with Ross Crum, Virginia Crum-Ross, and Linda Holl. Last September, Crum fired Metzger from his duties as a manager of the bar, in what the latter claimed was a breach of contract in an October lawsuit against The Mix, Crum, and Crum-Ross that alleged five other causes of action. These included that Crum removed an obligation of $175,000 owed to Metzger by The Mix (referred to as TDG Inc.) between 2016 and 2017 “at his sole discretion, without any information or consent of plaintiff or approval of the board of directors,” according to the initial court filing from Metzger’s attorney. On June 22, The Mix filed a cross-complaint alleging five of its own causes of action. “TDG will offer testimony and documentary evidence at the time of trial in support of its claims against Cross-Defendant Metzger and will seek an equitable set off of its damages as against those alleged or required to be proven by Cross-Defendant Metzger,” the court filing states. The court filing states that before 2015, Metzger attempted “to use an unauthorized rubber stamp of Crum’s signature to forge documents and transfer additional ownership properties in TDG to himself.” This matter was resolved with an agreement that assigned percentages of the ownership shares to the four owners and made Crum the president and Metzger the vice president of The Mix. Subsequently, “TDG discovered that CrossDefendant Metzger continued a pattern or practice of improperly using TDG assets for his personal benefit.” Specifically, Metzger issued three checks to himself from The Mix in the amount of $18,000 “without the knowledge or consent of other TDG shareholders or directors,” the filing states. At least one of those checks had been intended to pay The Mix’s “routine vendor bills.”
Association with arsonist was detrimental to bar, filing states
The court filing goes on to state that Metzger “engaged in numerous instances of conduct detrimental to TDG,” including his association with convicted arsonist David Munoz Diaz. Diaz, 29, was sentenced to four years and four months of incarceration in May on charges stemming from a 2018 incident when he allegedly lit a homeless person on fire. See page 8 >>
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n March, Dino Medardo Rosso was employed as a foreign language teacher at the San Francisco Waldorf School. He was also running a successful business tutoring adults who wanted to speak French or Spanish and overseas students in China looking to learn English. Then the coronavirus outbreak upended his life. The private school informed him it was ending his teaching contract as it prepared for a drop in enrollment due to the health crisis. His local private clients, whether restaurants offering language classes to their staffs or vacationers prepping for trips abroad, also dried up in light of people canceling their international travel and eateries being forced to close due to the virus. “My business tanked. As soon as they closed, I lost 90% of my business,” said Rosso, 42, a gay man who lives alone in an apartment in San Francisco’s LGBTQ Castro district. To stretch what income he is making, Rosso informed his landlord in April he would not be paying rent, which is more than $2,000 a month. He is taking advantage of an eviction moratorium city leaders imposed to assist those who have lost income due to the coronavirus.
Rick Gerharter
For rent signs are evident in the Castro as properties become available during the COVID crisis.
It was recently extended until September 30, and it allows renters to defer their rent payments until January 31, 2021. In a recent interview, Rosso told the Bay Area Reporter he doesn’t foresee being able to pay his rent through the rest of the year and is preparing to move out of his apartment early next year. His goal is to refurbish a vehicle into a mobile classroom he has dubbed the Little Blue
School Bus and drive it to vineyards, farms, and other businesses throughout California that want to hire him as a language tutor for their non-English speaking staff. He launched an online fundraiser in late May at https://www.gofundme.com/f/20rjwcnws0 and has netted close to $9,300 toward a goal of $50,000. See page 6 >>
Queer SOMA challenged by COVID by John Ferrannini
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an Francisco’s South of Market neighborhood – home of one of the city’s three cultural districts geared toward protecting LGBTQ heritage – has experienced an epidemic before, when AIDS ravaged the area. But the shutdown orders and other restrictions imposed due to the COVID-19 pandemic are presenting new challenges to a neighborhood that was already experiencing a decline in the number of queer spaces.
A virtual Up Your Alley
In spite of the disappearance of much of the “Miracle Mile” – the strip of SOMA bars and bathhouses that drew queers from around the world – the neighborhood is still known internationally for its street fairs. The Up Your Alley street fair Sunday, July 26, and the Folsom Street Fair in the fall normally draw thousands of members of the leather and kink community of all sexual orientations; but unlike bars, this year they have the option to continue in virtual space. As the Bay Area Reporter previously reported, it was announced the events would go virtual April 27 by Angel Adeyoha, the executive director of Folsom Street Events, which puts on both street fairs. The virtual Up Your Alley takes place from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m., with an after party scheduled from 7 to 10 p.m. Adeyoha told the B.A.R. July 21 that Folsom Street Events will provide as participatory an experience as possible. “The main thing in planning this is we want to feel connected,” Adeyoha said. “A lot of people with virtual events feel like they’re watching a show but we wanted to replicate the experience of seeing and being seen that we all love about the fairs.” Part of that connectivity will be several spaces people can engage in explicit chats with each other – some in groups, others in “private rooms.” “It’s going to be a few specific areas folks can
Rick Gerharter
Last year’s Up Your Alley street fair was a sea of men; this year will be a virtual affair.
experience – the main stage, which will have our DJs and dancers – a cruising and play area, and some of our partners are building areas for folks as well,” Adeyoha said. One of those areas is going to be the Queer Naked Dance Party, which is going to be hosted on a relatively new media platform called Joie de Vivre. “Think of it as Zoom, but nudity-friendly and sex-positive,” Adeyoha said. “People are welcome to wear whatever amount of clothing they want, or none at all, if they so wish.” Organizers are planning even more events for the virtual Folsom Street Fair, which is scheduled for September 27. These will include areas for storytelling. “It will be similar but much expanded,” Adeyoha said, adding that Up Your Alley “will be a great way to get a taste of what we have planned for Folsom.”
Blow Buddies shutters as other businesses struggle
As the B.A.R. previously reported at least
one bar – The Stud – already announced the permanent closure of its physical location, citing COVID-19. The B.A.R. reached out to 13 South of Market businesses that cater to the LGBTQ community to ask about the state of their businesses, of which three responded. The sex club Blow Buddies at 933 Harrison Street announced this week that it has permanently closed due to COVID. The move came just days before the Board of Supervisors voted to lift restrictions on gay bathhouse operations that the city had placed on adult sex venues in the mid-1980s during the height of the AIDS epidemic. [See story, page 2.] Rakesh Modi, a queer man who owns Club OMG at 43 Sixth Street (between Market and Mission streets), stated that the location of his bar presents particular challenges. While many Castro neighborhood bars have been able to reopen outside by partnering with area restaurants, that solution wouldn’t work as well for OMG, he said. See page 8 >>