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Vol. 50 • No. 43 • October 22-28, 2020
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Tom Taylor, left, and his husband, Dr. Jerome “Jerry” Goldstein
The home of late lesbian pioneers Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon, center, sits atop a steep hill in Noe Valley with a large part of the second parcel undeveloped.
Tom Taylor, known for elaborate holiday lights, dies
SF moves to landmark historic Lyon-Martin house
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om Taylor, who was the keeper of the key to the rainbow flagpole at Castro and Market streets, and, with his husband, was known for elaborate Christmas light displays at their San Francisco home, has died. Mr. Taylor is survived by his husband, Dr. Jerome “Jerry” Goldstein. The couple had been together since 1973. As the Bay Area Reporter previously reported, comedian Bruce Vilanch quipped at their wedding that their love is “the oldest standing structure in San Francisco Bay.” The couple are long-term survivors of HIV who were told in 1983 to prepare for death. That wedding, held in October 2013, was a block party affair at the site of their 21st Street home in Dolores Heights and was officiated by rainbow flag co-creator Gilbert Baker and Dr. Robert Akeley, a founder of Bay Area Physicians for Human Rights. It was important for the couple to have a public ceremony “in the street where the SFPD stopped Tom Taylor and almost arrested him in 1976 because he allegedly had no right to live with me,” Goldstein told the B.A.R. at the time. Also at their home, the couple became known for their detailed holiday decorations, which the B.A.R. reported in 2014 were “a winter wonderland with wrapped boxes, stuffed animals, and glittering lights, while a 65 foot tall lighted Norfolk Island pine tree is the centerpiece.” The couple first bought the tree in 1988, Goldstein told the B.A.R. As the tree grew, the couple got more and larger decorations to make it look to scale. Terry Asten Bennett of Cliff’s Variety on Castro Street bid farewell to Mr. Taylor in a Facebook post late October 20, explaining what he did for the flag. “Rest in peace Tom Taylor. We are so grateful for everything you have done for our community. Tom quietly cared for the flag pole and Rainbow Flag,” Asten Bennett wrote. “He stored and modified the giant flags to make sure the flapping wouldn’t keep the neighborhood awake at night. He and his husband Jerry spent thousands of dollars and jumped through city bureaucracy to make sure the flag stayed lit at night. Every year he would transform the scrawny tree in front of their 21st Street home into a Christmas fantasy. You brought so much joy to our community, Thank you. You will be forever missed.” The Diversity Foundation, which the couple co-founded, took care of the flag, obtained new lighting for it, and even took care of the hats of the San Francisco Lesbian/Gay Freedom Band. Mr. Taylor retained custody of the key to the flagpole, which prevented unauthorized actions to the flag, such as lowering it or changing it. In 2015, Mr. Taylor and Goldstein were honored as recipients of the San Francisco LGBT Pride Celebration Committee board’s Heritage of Pride, 10 Years of Service Award. The couple began their political activism in the 1970s, Goldstein said at the time, protesting against Anita Bryant’s homophobic camSee page 8 >>
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Dancing to counter hate
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few folks braved the heat and sun and came to Mission Dolores Park October 17 for a We Are Family Here dance party to counter the planned (then moved) meeting of the white supremacist Proud Boys and to register and encourage every-
one to vote. The pro-Trump event, billed as a free speech rally, was held near Civic Center Plaza. The Dolores Park dance party was coorganized by Kelly Rivera Hart and Alex U. Inn, who is also a co-founder of the People’s March and Rally that was held in June.
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an Francisco officials are moving forward to landmark the home where the late lesbian pioneering couple Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin lived throughout most of their 54 years together. The Board of Supervisors unanimously voted in support of starting the process at its meeting Tuesday, October 20. The city’s historic preservation commission now has 90 days to take up the matter and send it back to the supervisors for a final vote on adding the property at 651 Duncan See page 6 >>
Former St. James ED tapped to lead LYRIC by John Ferrannini
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oni Newman, the former leader of St. James Infirmary, has been selected as the new interim executive director of the Lavender Youth Recreation and Information Center in the Castro, according to an October 19 news release. “After an extensive interview process with the board of directors, LYRIC staff, and LYRIC youth, it became clear that Toni is the leader for LYRIC at this moment,” LYRIC board co-chairs Adam Leonard and Phil Kim stated in the release. “The board’s unanimous decision to welcome Toni to LYRIC speaks to our confidence in her leadership and experience.” Jodi Schwartz, a queer woman who has been the executive director for 15 years, will continue to serve as president of the nonprofit and lead the $2 million capital campaign for the renovation of LYRIC’s purple house on Collingwood Street. “I am so grateful for the opportunity to join the dedicated and devoted LYRIC staff, board, volunteers, and donors,” Newman stated. “I am humbled at what has been accomplished and achieved by the current executive director, Jodi Schwartz, and this exceptional organization. I am excited at the opportunities and possibilities of who we can become as we seek to continue our legacy of a diverse society where LGBTQQ youth are embraced for who they are and encouraged to be who they want to be. I am a living example of LYRIC’s mission and vision.” In an interview with the Bay Area Reporter Monday, Newman said she was asked if she’d be interested in the position by a board member and is working as the interim executive director of LYRIC from her Los Angeles home. “It’s the Zoom era,” she said. “All my six interviews with board members, staff, and participants were all on Zoom done right here from my living room.” Newman said she is not interested in applying for the position of being the perma-
Courtesy Toni Newman
Toni Newman will be the new interim executive director of LYRIC.
nent executive director, which she said will open up in six to eight months. “We will transition to a permanent ED and I am not interested in that but I am very interested in helping the transition and helping LYRIC move forward as a unionized nonprofit,” Newman said. Newman, a trans woman, previously served as executive director at St. James Infirmary, which focuses on offering health care and social services to current and former sex workers and others, from May 2018 to February 2020, when she abruptly resigned, citing the impending move to Los Angeles in a contemporaneous interview with the B.A.R. St. James Infirmary has not stated to the B.A.R. on the record who is in charge there, going so far as to shut the door on an inquiring reporter earlier this year after giving conflicting information. Newman said she hears St. James does not currently have an executive director. “I have no clue. I’ve had interactions with
a few people but most are no longer there,” she said. “I know they don’t have an executive director – my title – yet.” St. James Infirmary confirmed there is no executive director as of October 19 in a phone call made in the late afternoon, but has not responded as yet to the question of who is in charge. Gay District 8 Supervisor Rafael Mandelman praised the selection of Newman in a statement to the B.A.R. October 20. “Toni Newman is an experienced LGBTQ+ nonprofit leader and I am looking forward to working with her as she guides LYRIC through this important transition period,” Mandelman wrote in an email. “LYRIC is a lifeline for queer youth in the Castro and across San Francisco and their services and space will be especially important to the community as we come out of the pandemic. I would also like to thank Jodi Schwartz for the 15 years she has dedicated to supporting LGBTQ+ youth in San FranSee page 8 >>