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Emerson wrote that life is a journey and not a destination.

Back when a lot of us were kids and thinking about backpacking through the ‘60s, that sentiment was voiced a bit differently, but the idea is still the same: you’ll always have the best time if you take your time.

Coincidentally, right now is a superb time to test that philosophy on a real live journey.

April through the first week of June is what the travel pros call “shoulder season.” You may be familiar with the term, but it was news to me.

Shoulder season is defined as the time between peak and off-season travel, and if you are ever going to get a deal on tickets, hotels and the rest, this is it; this and a three or four week “shoulder season part two” in the Fall. But we’ll discuss that later.

So let’s get started.

I don’t have a whole lot of money, but even if I did my preferred way to travel anywhere in the Continental United States, parts of Canada and Mexico, would still be by car. (Unless it’s an emergency or grandchildren are involved.)

A car is absolutely the best way to take your time and see it all, I think. Here’s why: • YOU ARE THE BOSS. This is theoretical, of course, unless you’re traveling solo.

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way to Missouri once, I took a turn after Gettysburg and wound up in Grantsville, Maryland, at a Mennonite hotel and had a far more relaxing, enlightening and entertaining time in four days than I could have imagined for the whole trip. I got out of being late by claiming car trouble.)

• YOUR CAR IS YOUR SUITCASE. If you fly, pack light. If you drive, throw in a second choice, or third, for each occasion, with accessories. Toss your golf clubs in. No problem, no extra fees.

• YOU MAY SAVE MORE MONEY. During shoulder season you’ll find great deals on airfare, and AMTRACK has senior discounts that will save you money.

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And let’s throw in the concept of a rental car to save wear and tear on your own, and a hybred for crazy cost efficiency.

Every major car rental company--Avis, Hertz, Enterprise, all of them, offer hybred vehicles, with 50+ mpg performance, for you to drive. They are roomy. They are comfortable. They handle great and go a lot faster than you should go.

I have a friend who rented a Prius for a trip to Alaska. She was driving through British Columbia when suddenly traffic was stopped for hours by wildlife crossing the highway. The photographs she took knocked me out.

FLY ME TO THE MOON But lets say you are traveling overseas, or maybe the idea of driving just doesn’t fit your plans. Making a big trip by air is daunting, Here are some points you need to consider: It’s a fact that seniors pay more for travel insurance, but we are also more likely to need it. If you’re heading overseas find out exactly how all of your medical insurance works. Pay attention to an item called “Evacuation Insurance,” which, if the unforseen or unthinkable happens will get you back home.

Speak to someone from Medicare.

Take a full supply of any medications with you. Be sure and leave them in their original containers. Finding a pharmacy and filling a prescription isn’t necessarily hard, but the terminology may be a barrier. A great idea is to ask your primary care physician to give you a precise list of generic names for your prescriptions before you go.

Pack an extra pair of glasses. If you wear contacts you probably have multiple spares. Pack a magnifying glass.

Take notes. Buy a little book and jot things down. Keep the day and time. This data can be of inestimable value later, even if you’re just telling stories about your trip.

Pack light, and try to include things in your wardrobe that you can wash, hang up and wear.

Pack your things in a roll-aboard suitcase. Keep it small and light. And just check all the other luggage. One of the worst parts of any trip is moving big heavy bags, or--horror of horrors--multiple heavy bags, from gate to gate.

Just pack it right, check it and forget it. If it comes back to you, or if it doesn’t, maybe it was meant to be.

I just started wearing hearing aids, digital types. They’re okay, but the batteries are short-lived and kind of pricey. Batteries overseas are harder to find and costlier.

Rick Steves, who handles hundreds of European trips every year, has a blog and a syndicated TV show, advises, “Just showing your grey hair can snag you a discount at many sights, and even some events such as concerts.”

He added that in Britain discounts are called “concessions,” and senior discounts are often noted as “pensioner’s rates.” Don’t question it; take it!

One of the best pieces of advice I’ve heard about travel--which I’ve never taken but will--is asking for assistance at and between gates when you are flying.

Flying to New England, I had to change Gates in Atlanta last year. I got off the plane with a guy I’d spoken to, lost track of him, and then waved at him as he passed me, with his luggage, on a little electric shuttle bus. He rode, I walked, because he asked.

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Family. Business. Adventure.

Most people aim for two of the three. If you are lucky, you get all three.

Dan Sullivan Jr. is one of the lucky ones. He, with 10 other family members, run Collette, a tour operator that spirits thousands of people to exotic spots on seven continents.

Dan’s tale began in 1962 when he was 10. His father, Dan Sr., and brotherin-law Arthur McWilliam had bought Pawtucket-based Collette Travel from Jack Collette. The business, which began in 1918, ran bus trips throughout New England and Canada – generally, shortterm stints. The company’s first tour, three weeks to Florida, cost $61.50. Dan Sullivan Sr. saw Collette Travel as a way to support a wife and then six children.

In this truly mom-and-pop enterprise, everybody helped. As a pre-teen, Dan Jr. helped with large-scale mailings and the sundry administrative tasks of a very small office. His mother, Alice, recalls, “Our first office was so tiny that if you took a step backwards, you fell down an open hole that was stairs to the basement.”

As a young boy, though, Dan felt the fun of travel. In 1964, Dan went on a Collette trip to New York City.

“I loved it,” Dan recalls.

The group went to the World’s Fair, Radio City Music Hall, and a Broadway play. Dan was hooked on the adventure behind the business.

By the time Dan graduated from Fairfield University with a major in marketing, he had entered the business full-time.

Collette’s home office consisted of he, his father, and Doris Brown. Optimistically, he saw the business as a good job in an emerging industry – even though in that era some might have disagreed with his assessment of group travel as an emerging industry. But, over time, Americans were starting to take off, passports in hand, traveling on adventures their parents never dreamed of.

Throughout the 1980s, Collette expanded, because, says Dan, “We felt the demand from our customers. They wanted to go abroad.” In 1986, Collette sponsored its first independent, international tour, to Switzerland. Collette still ran bus trips throughout New England and CanMay 2014

ada, but Collette guests were just as likely to board planes or cruise ships first. And the tours included four-star hotels, interesting meals, and knowledgeable tour guides, befitting the new breed of Americans thirsting for adventures abroad. In fact, Dan, who first discovered the fun of travel on a trip to New York City, was part of that new breed.

Today, Collette has carved a niche in the world of international travel. Last year, it sponsored more than 5,000 trips, with 60 percent overseas. The average group consists of 36 guests. A recent company subset, Collette Explorations, organizes smaller group tours geared to more seasoned travelers. Trips, moreover, attract all ages to explore the world’s greatest destinations. Indeed, if you name your destination – Antarctica?

Australia? Africa? – Collette probably has a tour that will take you there. The website, www.gocollette.com, lets you search by destination. Dan annually leads at least one tour – this year it will be a New York City getaway. His son, Dan IV, is planning to go on a cruise with travel agent partners; daughter Jacqueline is going to Northern Ireland. Dan’s daughter Nicole just welcomed her second son; presumably next year she will be heading off somewhere interesting, with babies in tow.

As for the rest of the family, Dan’s mother, Alice (now with 17 grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren) is the chairwoman of the Board. Some family members work for Collette Cares, the company’s philanthropic arm, which supports children, both locally and globally. Since 1997, Collette Cares has distributed more than $7 million. Locally, they primarily support the Pawtucket Athletic Program for middle schools, the Pawtucket Soup Kitchen, and Amos House.

Pawtucket, the birthplace of Collette Travel, remains the home base of Collette. Its office on the banks of the Blackstone River organizes the network of buses, guides, itineraries and contracts that take us far from home.

Dan Sullivan Jr. and his father Dan Sullivan Sr.

The Collette family in 1993 at the 75th anniversary celebration. (photos courtesy of Collette Travel)

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closer, and more fun, than you think I often think of the many places where I’d like to travel. Some are tropical paradises that invoke images of serene surroundings where you’re able to relax and put your feet up while staring at a mesmerizing sea of blue. Others are more involved and bring me to places rich in history where my craving to learn is satisfied as I experience things I’ve only read about in books or seen on television. I long to visit Rome and Sicily, or the Great Pyramid of Giza in Egypt, and dream of walking on the Great Wall of China or through the Tarkine Rainforest.

There are many reasons why people enjoy traveling, an activity that continues to grow in popularity—

particularly among older adults and recent retirees.

Whatever your reason, I say go for it. And when you do, your first stop should be to look at the incredible opportunities created and offered by Road Scholar to make your next trip one you’ll never forget.

To say Road Scholar has a unique history would be an understatement. Founded in 1975 as Elderhostel by friends Marty Knowlton, a free-spirited world-traveler and former educator, and David Bianco, a university administrator, the nonprofit’s goal was to fill the void of limited opportunities for older adults to engage in intellectual activities while remaining active.

“After a four-year walking tour of Europe, Marty

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was so impressed by the Scandinavian tradition of older and younger generations learning together, he wanted to create similar opportunities for Americans,” says James Moses, president and CEO of Road Scholar. “At the time, David was director of residential life at the University of New Hampshire and inspired by Marty’s passion, the two created Elderhostel to offer a wide variety of classes to older adults alongside traditional college-age students at hundreds of colleges and universities across America.”

Inspiring extraordinary stories across the country of elders on campus sharing dorm space with students the age of their grandchildren, Elderhostel changed the way older people thought of themselves—helping to break free of many senior stereotypes.

“We helped people realize that they were beginning the best part of their lives and that their lives were full of promise and opportunity to live the dreams they’d harbored for a lifetime,” says Moses. “We now continue this tradition with even more remarkable learning adventures across North America and around the globe.”

We helped people realize that they were beginning the best part of their lives and that their lives were full of promise and opportunity to live the dreams they’d harbored for a lifetime

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– James Moses, president and CEO, Road Scholar

For the more adventurous, Road Scholar offers a variety of physical-based trips, such as an opportunity to hike the Canadian Rockies. (Photo courtesy of Road Scholar) | PrimeTime

Now known as Road Scholar, and considered the nonprofit world leader in educational travel, the organization offers 5,500 adventures in 150 countries.

Alongside local experts, travelers are able to get behind-the-scenes and see the world in a way that can’t be done on their own or through more traditional vacations. From cultural tours and study cruises to walking, biking, hiking and much more, Road Scholar offers something on everyone’s wish list.

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Road Scholar offers more than a dozen trips exploring Alaska, including a breathtaking view and trip through Glacier Bay. (Photo by Carl Studna) travel alone. There are also opportunities for families, friends and groups looking to travel together to reserve an adventure exclusively for their own experience.

“In addition to single room accommodations, we offer roommate matching for any solo traveler wishing to share a room during their experience,” adds Moses. “Couples also find our trips to be an enriching personal growth experience—allowing them to grow closer while learning together and sharing in discovery while developing new friendships with others who share their interests.”

Road Scholar offers learning trips on almost any topic you can imagine. Some of their most popular programs include its people-to-people adventures in Cuba, Cuba Today: People and Society, and the Cuban Art Revolution: Meeting the Artists and People of Cuba. Each offers opportunities to meet with local residents, musicians, artists, community leaders and more for a rare opportunity to experience the island’s natural beauty and welcoming people.

There are trips exploring local culture, history and cuisine in destinations such as Italy, France and the UK. The one that caught my eye, The Best of Italy: Rome, Florence and Venice, offers travelers an opportunity to experience the food, beauty and history of each city while learning about the legendary artists, scientists and philosophers who called them home.

And, I was struck by their Maya and More: History and Culture of Honduras, Guatemala and Belize trip to learn about the Mayans and their modern-day descendents whose art and architecture rivaled the ancient Egyptians and Greeks.

Of course, if there is a U.S. destination you’ve always wanted to visit, Road Scholar has you covered there, too. With Signature City New Orleans: America’s City of History, Culture and Celebration, participants become immersed in the city as expert instructors lead you through the city’s renowned architectural styles, culture, music and, of course, food.

“The feedback we receive is overwhelmingly positive—many have made us an essential part of their lives and take trips every year,” says Moses. “Most everyone who takes one of our trips says they’ve learned something new; stepped out of their comfort zone; had their perspective of the world changed, or fulfilled a lifelong dream.”

Further expanding on its unique offerings, Road Scholar also has what’s become an extremely popular Intergenerational program—also known as Grand-

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parent Travel. With more than 100 tours throughout the U.S., Europe, South America, Africa and Asia to choose from, grandparents are able to share their passion for educational travel with a grandchild while strengthening their unique bond.

For those concerned about the potential physical demands of a trip, every Road Scholar program is assigned an activity level so participants know ahead of time what their experience will be like—whether you’ll be strolling a few blocks or hiking a few miles.

“We strive to develop a broad selection of trips at each level,” says Moses. “From easy programs that stimulate the mind while going easy on the body to moderate and sometimes challenging experiences— our most rigorous offerings for both body and mind— there’s something for everyone.”

Perhaps most impressive, there are no hidden costs on Road Scholar adventures. When participants enroll, they know exactly what’s included. With the exception of the occasional meal on some programs, Road Scholar trips are all-inclusive. Not including airfare, the average cost for a U.S. trip is $173 per day,

while international adventures average $351 per day.

“Because we’re a nonprofit, you really can’t beat the remarkable value that we offer,” says Moses. “From expert-led lectures, field trips, comfortable lodgings and meals, to gratuities, taxes and a travel assistance and insurance plan, we take care of every detail so participants can focus on their experience.”

Through its Massachusetts call center, staff advisors are available to answer questions on any of the organization’s thousands of programs. According to Moses, “they are a great resource for helping with special requests, travel arrangements and so much more.”

Road Scholar’s call center can be reached at (800) 454-5768 while their website, www.RoadScholar.org, is chock-full of helpful information and detailed trip descriptions, including available dates, pricing, and participant reviews. There’s even a message board where you can chat with folks who have already experienced a trip you may be considering.

Representing one of Road Scholar’s most popular people-to-people adventures, Cuba Today: People and Society, participants enjoy an up-close look of the vast culture in Havana. (Photo courtesy of Road Scholar) PrimeTime |

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When the Gawf family held a reunion recently, it was anything but typical.

For starters, one wouldn’t expect a former NFL player and two time Olympic skier from out west to bring together five generations from as far away as Florida to a skilled nursing center in Rhode Island. That is however, exactly what Jeremy Bloom did.

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Ruth Gawf Branum, 104, Rubye Gawf Cox, 110 and Rose Gawf Shlos, 101, spend time with Jeremy Bloom, founder of Wish of a Lifetime (Photos by Anne Cabral)

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loom is the founder of Wish of a Lifetime, a non-profit organization that fosters respect and appreciation for seniors by granting life enriching wishes. During time spent travelling throughout the world as a competitive skier, Bloom couldn’t help but notice how people from other cultures revered their elders. Only in his teens at the time, those memories left an imprint. A few years later, Bloom created Wish of a Lifetime in honor of his grandparents. The non-profit has granted hundreds of wishes to seniors throughout the United States.

When the organization received an application on behalf of 101 year-old Rose Gawf Schloss, it took no time putting the wheels in motion for the reunion Rose desired with her two sisters. Rose, who lives in a Brookdale Senior Living facility in Sarasota, Florida, hadn’t seen her sisters, Ruth and Rubye, in ten years. At 104, Ruth lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma with her daughter and 110-year old Rubye, lives at Silver Creek Manor, a 24-hour skilled nursing center in Bristol, Rhode Island.

Despite the distance and the challenges, Bloom and his crew jumped at the chance to make Rose’s dream come true.

“I live in San Francisco but when I heard about this wish, I said ‘I will be there no matter what.’ I couldn’t miss it,” said Bloom to a crowded room of Gawf relatives ranging from six months old to 110. Since Rubye’s failing health prevented her from being able to travel, Bloom arranged for a private plane to fly the sisters and their extended family to Bristol. Once there, the staff at Silver Creek Manor welcomed them with open arms.

With daughters and sons, grandchildren and nieces and nephews in attendance, Rose, Ruth and Rubye held court, enjoying every minute of their four-day reunion. The fete even caught the attention of People Magazine, which featured the trio in an April edition. It was an impressive gathering where evidence of longevity, prosperity and good will was abundant.

“When I spoke with the reporter at People, he kept asking me what my family’s secret to a long life is,” said Rubye’s daughter, Bristol resident, Betty Gilbert.

“There is no secret. We’ve always been busy people, involved in life, church and family. My relatives always chose to be positive, no matter what happened. We laugh a lot. We just have a good time together.”

Looking at photographs sent by Northeastern State University in tribute to Rubye, a 1925 graduate who majored in English and minored in French, it’s easy for the stories recounted by Betty and the others to come to life. Story after story

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Back Row: Carlisle Cox, Rubye’s son, Anne Cabral, Silver Creek Manor’s director of quality assurance/AIT, Betty Gilbert, Rubye’s daughter, Kimberly Ciociola, Silver Creek Manor administrator and Jeremy Bloom, founder, Wish of a Lifetime founder. Front Row: Ruth Gawf Branum, Rubye Gawf Cox and Rose Gawf Shloss (Photo by Katie Geagan)

of seven kids raised on a farm in Oklahoma kept the group laughing. The stories told of a close family, full of energy and love – one that’s remained that way through two World Wars, the Great Depression and into the millennium. There were stories of loss, like the brother who died during World War I, and stories of accomplishment, like Rubye’s Teacher of the Year award, each told with love and appreciation for being able to share them once again.

“My mother and her sisters haven’t seen each other in years and neither have the rest of us. It’s so nice to get together now for a happy event. This is just wonderful,” said Betty, brimming with gratitude.

Ruth however, may have been the one that expressed her feelings best. When the plane touched down, she said “I feel like Cinderella.” For most girls, like Ruth, Rose and Rubye, that is a wish of a lifetime.

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safe and sound in our senior years

Joyce and I have had the good fortune to travel to every continent except Antarctica and have visited over three-dozen of the United States, including Alaska and Hawaii.

In our younger days, we traveled on our own. We read Frommer’s “Europe on $5 A Day,” picked up travel brochures and borrowed books from the library.

We ordered “Trip Tics” from AAA and planned our routes to Canada, Nova Scotia, Washington, D.C., and all of the New England states. We planned our own train trip from Providence to Atlanta, New Orleans, Chicago, Boston and back to Rhode Island.

We booked our own flights and hotels to London, the Caribbean, and California.

We were young, energetic and adventurous, but as the years went by, we came to depend more on travel agents and group tours, relying on someone else to do the planning, reservations, and worrying for us.

There are a number of reputable companies that cater to senior citizens, planning group tours that appeal to us and make our trips more leisurely and enjoyable.

Personally, we have traveled with Vantage, AAA, Trafalgar, TravCon, InTrav, the Cruise Brothers, and our own University Alumni Association.

Friends swear by a variety of senior hostel and education programs that combine sightseeing with learning.

Advantages of Group Travel It begins with the planning. The travel agent will listen to your needs, interests, and most important, budget.

You’ll get a brochure outlining the itinerary in detail, plus all of the amenities.

On our tours to Iceland, Peru, China, and other challenging physical trips, sightseeing groups were arranged by physical abilities. Joyce saw Machu Picchu from the bottom, while my group climbed to the top.

On most group tours, after checking your luggage, you are met at the airport by your guide, who travels with you to your destination, where you are met by a knowledgeable local guide who speaks the language and knows the area.

After identifying your luggage, you board a motor coach, sit back and relax, while porters load the luggage. Upon arrival at your hotel or ship, the guide checks you in and hands you your key. You are greeted with a cold beverage before going to your room, where your luggage arrives shortly after.

The first dinner is usually an orientation session, where the “understandings” are explained, the itinerary described, and special needs addressed.

The first evening is yours to relax from your flight. After breakfast, the first item on the agenda is a tour of the city (or the ship), pointing out the highlights. Major sites are visited during your stay. (If you are in Paris, you know you’ll see the Eiffel Tower and Notre Dame.) Guides are also great for taking pictures.

The city tour allows you to see a number of sites that you may wish to return to on your own. You don’t have to go on the museum tour, but may wish to wander around the city on your own, or visit relatives or friends who live in the area.

Tours are arranged based on the most popular attractions. Some are extra, and not part of the trip package. Some travelers prefer to hire their own local guide and head out on their own. We prefer to stay with the group, taking advantage of the knowledge of our local guide. They always have interesting little stories to tell.

While most meals are included (always breakfast), there are opportunities for you to arrange a special meal at a restaurant of your choice. We have found that the taxi driver or concierge are not the best sources (they get a kickback) and rely on our guides for their recommendations.

If you are on a cruise ship, you will have a variety of options at each port, arranged by degree of difficulty. Joyce and I usually take different trips. She’ll take a bus (excuse me, “motor coach”) tour, while I go for the more adventurous hiking or swimming package. At dinner, we share our experiences.

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New England is full of vacation-friendly destinations ideal for daytrips or weekend getaways. From flower garden tours, winetastings and music festivals, to art shows and relaxing trips to the beach, enjoyable events for individuals, couples, and groups are just a few hours – or states – away.

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Discover New England, the official tourism organization for Rhode Island, Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont, and Maine, lists ideas that make planning a fun adventure as simple as a couple clicks of a mouse. But, don’t forget the sunblock and a pair of shades, as many excursions take place outdoors.

Flower and garden enthusiasts will get the chance to experience nature in full bloom with “Lilac Sunday” on May 11, which is Mother’s Day, at the Arnold Arboretum of Harvard University in Boston, Mass. The Arboretum is the oldest public arboretum in North America and one of the world’s leading centers for the study of plants. The event is easy to get to via a quick ride aboard an Amtrak train, and features dance performances, picnicking and activities for children.

Starting mid-May and continuing through June, Kinney Azalea Garden in Kingston, R.I. is also blossoming. The gardens, which were created

by Lorenzo Kinney Jr. during his retirement, allow guests to explore six acres that feature more than 500 varieties of azaleas and rhododendrons.

Another option includes a Celebration of Peonies at Hildene, a mansion in Manchester, Vt., built

by Robert Todd Lincoln, President Abraham Lincoln’s son. Following the event, visit Manchester Designer Outlets for some shopping.

Speaking of shopping, the weekend of May 24 and 25 offers two similar art festivals that feature an array of New England artists, giving guests the opportunity not only to view art and fine crafts, but purchase them as well. While the Westerly Art Festival: Virtu Art Show at Wilcox Park in Westerly, R.I. highlights at least 185 artists; the 23rd annual Memorial Day Craft Fair at Mill Falls Marketplace in Meredith, N.H., will host more than 100 artists. Food and live entertainment will be available at both events.

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Begin your journey to healthy living here It is 9:00 on a Thursday morning and the lobby of the West Bay YMCA is already abuzz with activity. Duffle-bag toting seniors and toddler-toting mothers arrive as others depart with faces wet with perspiration and that healthy glow that comes from daily exercise. While 9:00 may seem early to some, the doors of the “Y� have already been open for four hours by this time of day as fitness-minded members take full advantage of the many programs available here at this bustling branch of the YMCA. While one might only associate the “Y� with young families, what is often overlooked is how incremental older adults are to the YMCA’s goals and activities.

In fact, the YMCA has sought for decades to address the needs and wishes of this important group of individuals who now, more than ever, know that a high quality of life is inextricably tied to healthy living and healthy aging. Seniors are an active, vibrant and socially connected segment of our society, and they are coming in increasing numbers to the West Bay chapter of the “Y� to enjoy programs that are created to meet their unique needs.

Under the watchful guidance of highly trained, certified, nationally accredited and amiable instructors, participants at the “Y� can benefit from a varied and carefully selected menu of programs geared specifically towards older adults. In addition to the indoor track, rooms full of weights and exercise equipment, and the swimming pool (kept at a balmy 86° for those battling arthritis), there are numerous community rooms that have been recently reconfigured and designated just for senior activities.

Some of the ongoing activities, many of which are “evidence basedâ€? programs that are monitored with pre- and post-assessments for success, include: • Enhanced Fitness classes – exercise classes designed to alleviate symptoms of arthritis • Matter of Balance – classes that address the issue of maintaining overall balance and reducing the risk of falls • Water Running – classes held in the heated pool that offer more resistance, lower impact and aerobic benefits without the dangers of falling • Virtual Cycling – stationary bike riding while watching virtual tours projected onto a screen – the Italian countryside anyone? • Traditional Yoga, Pilates and Strength & Conditioning classes • “Yâ€? Life Team Challenges – group competitions held over a 16 week period; great for building healthy bodies and lasting friendships; and • “LIVESTRONG at the Yâ€?– a program designed to support cancer survivors and those receiving ongoing cancer treatments.

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Spring in New England Wine connoisseurs will be in all their glory from May 14 through 18 at the 18th annual Nantucket Wine Festival on Nantucket Island in Massachusetts. Noted as one of the most distinguished wine and food events in the United States, it showcases world-class wines and award-winning food.

Winemaker Paul Draper of Ridge Vineyards will be honored as the 2014 Luminary of the Year.

Music lovers won’t be disappointed at the Misquamicut Springfest at Misquamicut State Beach in Westerly from May 9 to 11. While blues and rock and roll bands occupy two stages, participants are invited to indulge at the outdoor international food court. The family-friendly event will feature carnival rides, a petting zoo, martial arts demonstrations, police K-9s, as well as fireworks on Friday night.

Other events have unique themes, such as the annual Rhode Island Sheep and Fiber Festival at Bristol’s Coggeshall Farm Museum on May 17, “Moose Mania” in Greenville, Maine, a month-long celebration of the moose that incorporates various events beginning mid-May, as well as “Duckling Day” on the Boston Common in Massachusetts on May 11. This event is a nod to the classic children’s story, “Make Way for Ducklings,” as children are encouraged to dress as their favorite characters from the story before gathering in gaggles to enjoy activities.

And there are plenty of options for those who want to kick back and soak up the sun. The Ocean State earned its name for a reason, as it has more than 40 beaches. At least seven beaches in South County not only offer great views and restaurants within walking distance, but they are also handicap accessible. Visitrhodeisland.com lists all locations, as well as cites nearby, activities such as restaurants, vineyards and wineries, breweries and distilleries, plus ideas for sightseeing and places to spend the night.

For people looking for indoor fun, as well as a chance to make some cash, casinos are a good bet. Twin River Casino in Lincoln, R.I. is ideal for daytrips, while Foxwoods Resort Casino in Ledyard, Conn., and its neighbor Mohegan Sun, located in Uncasville, Conn., both offer in-house hotel accommodations.

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Block Island

Block Island lies 12 miles off the coast. There are 17 miles of beaches, miles of peaceful hiking trails, galleries and boutiques, kayaking, biking, sailing, fishing and dining. There’s something for everyone. Block Island on your destination list this summer!

Cape Air announces new island service Cape Air, one of the nation’s largest regional airlines, will begin seasonal service to Block Island. Beginning on May 22, the Thursday before the start of Memorial Day Weekend, Cape Air will offer daily flights between Block Island Airport and T.F. Green Airport.

“After several years of collaboration with the Rhode Island Airport Corporation, we are thrilled to be able to start seasonal, scheduled service to Block Island. Cape Air specializes in connecting passengers to some of the most desirable destinations in the U.S. and Caribbean – Block Island fits our model perfectly,” said Linda Markham, President, Cape Air. Block Island has a short runway, which limits the type of aircraft that can land at the airport. Cape Air has acquired Britten Norman Islanders that are specifically suited to the needs of this market. The Britten-Norman Islander is a nine passenger, high-wing, twin-engine aircraft with the capability to land on short runways.

Now in its 25th year, Cape Air is one of the largest Cape Air’s CEO and Founder Dan Wolf independent regional airlines in the United States annually flying over 735,000 passengers to destinations around the world. Based in Hyannis, MA, Cape Air also operates flights under the Nantucket Airlines brand.

Book flights to Block Island now by visiting capeair.com, or by calling 800CAPE-AIR.

Sail away and enjoy the ride The Block Island Ferry, and is the only year-round ferry service to Block Island. Based in Point Judith, the traditional ferry service is a 55 minute trip. The sail from the mainland on the Hi-Speed ferry is a 30 minute cruise.

Interstate Navigation company announced the extension of the Newport hi-speed ferry service to Fall River, MA. The seasonal Newport ferry service will now originate from Fall River. The hispeed ferry service will depart daily from the Fall River State Pier, next to Battleship Cove, arriving at Perrotti Park, downtown Newport. The ferry will continuing on to Block Island.

Parking for the ferry is easy and convenient. Reservations can be made to bring your car to the island.

Sit back, relax and enjoy your journey. During your voyage, enjoy freshly made bagels, muffins, scones and coffee. Or, soak up some sun and enjoy a cocktail.

The ferry offers several convenient arrival and departure times.

Having too much fun to leave? Just take the next ferry home.

Interstate Navigation Company provides safe, convenient and reliable transportation. The crew is U.S. Coast Guard certified and are committed to the safety of passengers and cargo.

Block Island awaits . . .you are only an hour’s journey (or halfhour) away. The Nature Conservancy included Block Island to its list of “The Last Great Places” For more information visit www.blockislandferry.com or call 401-783-7996

When you get there: 6th Annual Taste of Block Island May 30 – June 1 and September 26-28 Sponsored by the Block Island Chamber of Commerce Fun island events and activities – Buttons will be available for purchase at the Block Island Chamber of Commerce or aboard any Interstate Navigation Block Island Ferry, or the Block Island Express Ferry for $5 per For more information call 800-383-2474.

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Take the grandkids (or go without them!) to Manisses Animal Farm and Petting Zoo to see exotic animals up close - camels, llamas, sheep, goats and emus. Even adults will see animals that they have never seen before.

And don’t miss North Light Fibers, a small mill producing different blended yarns from exotic fibers such as alpaca, yak, bamboo, camel and soy silk. Feed the alpacas and tour the mill. Tours, 10am Mon.-Sat. and Sunday, 12pm.

Beautiful Beaches Crescent Beach is 2 1/2 miles on the island’s east coast from Old Harbor, where the ferries dock. It is an easy to walk from the ferry landing. Admission is free. The Frederick J.Benson Pavillion, a concession stand where chairs, cabanas, umbrellas and boogie boards can be rented, is located at Crescent beach, with showers and bathroom facilities.

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Let’s Eat! With lots of restaurants, Block Island has everything from a casual cafe to fine dining. Don’t miss the seafood!

For the adventurer Go horse back riding with Rustic Rides Farm on West Side Road, 401-4665060. Or, experience Block Island from above. Try parasailing with Block Island Parasail and Watersports, located on Old Harbor dock, across from the ferry landing. No experience necessary, but reservations are. blockislandparasail.com, 401-864-2474 Not to be missed The Mohegan Bluffs, a spectacular sight, is about 200 feet above the sea and nearly three miles long. along the southern shore. Visitors can climb down the steep staircase of over 100 steps. The Southeast Lighthouse, located on the bluffs, is a National Historic Landmark. It was moved from the edge of the Bluffs in 1993 due to erosion. The grounds are open and the museum, which is operated by the Block Island Southeast Foundation, offers tours.

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Tips for taxpayers who missed the deadline The IRS has some advice for taxpayers who missed the tax filing deadline.

• File as soon as possible. If you owe federal income tax, you should file and pay as soon as you can to minimize any penalty and interest charges. There is no penalty for filing a late return if you are due a refund.

• Penalties and interest may be due. If you missed the April 15 deadline, you may have to pay penalties and interest. The IRS may charge penalties for late filing and for late payment. The law generally does not allow a waiver of interest charges. However, the IRS will consider a reduction of these penalties if you can show a reasonable cause for being late.

• E-file is your best option. IRS e-file programs are available through Oct. 15th. E-file is the easiest, safest and most accurate way to file. With e-file, you will receive confirmation that the IRS has received your tax return. If you e-file and are due a refund, the IRS will normally issue it within 21 days.

• Free File is still available. Everyone can use IRS Free File. If your income is $58,000 or less, you qualify to e-file your return using free brand-name software. If you made more than $58,000 and are comfortable preparing your own tax return, use Free File Fillable Forms to e-file. This program uses the electronic versions of paper IRS forms. IRS Free File is available only through IRS.gov.

• Pay as much as you can. If you owe tax but can’t pay it all at once, you should pay as much as you can when you file your tax return. Pay the remaining balance due as soon as possible to minimize penalties and interest charges.

• Installment Agreements are available. If you need more time to pay your federal income taxes, you can request a payment agreement with the IRS. Apply online using the IRS Online Payment Agreement Application tool or file Form 9465, Installment Agreement Request.

• Refunds may be waiting. If you’re due a refund, you should file as soon as possible to get it. Even if you are not required to file, you may be entitled to a refund. This could apply if you had taxes withheld from your wages, or you qualify for certain tax credits. If you don’t file your return within three years, you could forfeit your right to the refund.

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SAFE TODAY. HEALTHY TOMORROW. Celebrating Older Americans Month 2014 Each May, we observe Older Americans Month, a tradition that dates back to 1963 when President John F. Kennedy declared May as Senior Citizen Month.

This year, the U.S. Administration for Community Living (ACL) has proclaimed the theme for Older Americans Month 2014 as “Safe Today. Healthy Tomorrow.”

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), 20 million persons 65 and older went to emergency rooms between 2009 and 2010.

More than 25% of these visits were injury-related. The main categories for unintentional injuries are falls and home accidents, car accidents, medication overdoses, and fires.

As we honor then tens of thousands of older Rhode Islanders this month, let’s work to prevent the unintentional injuries that can deprive us of years of independence and good health. This month’s column represents a checklist of practical steps for you to take to avoid the most common preventable injuries.

Falls pose the most serious risks for injury. Falls are the leading cause of death due to injury among elders and are the culprit behind 87% of fractures suffered by seniors. National studies show that one-third of persons age 65 and older fall each year. However, falls are NOT an inevitable consequence of growing older.

The National Safety Council offers these tips.

• Clean up spills immediately.

• Make sure electrical cords and telephone cords are not in traffic areas.

• Remove throw rugs or use non-skid mats.

• Arrange your furniture to ensure clear paths throughout your home.

• Install handrails on both sides of staircases.

• Install grab-bars in your bathrooms.

• Make sure that you have adequate lighting, including night-lights where you need them.

• Wear shoes with good support and slip-resistant soles.

• Keep frequently used items within reach.

Avoid using ladders or step-stools.

• Install an emergency call response system.

• Exercise to increase strength and flexibility.

Eat right. Get plenty of rest.

Auto accidents. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), the risk of being injured or killed in an auto accident increases once people turn age 75. As we grower older, our reaction times may be slower, or we may have physical limitations that affect our ability to operate a motor vehicle safely.

The Rhode Island Chapter of AARP conducts safe driving courses across the state to help seniors learn how to adjust their driving as they age. For information, call AARP at 1-866-542-8170, or go to www.aarp.org. AAA is another helpful resource. Call 1- 868-2000, or log on to southernnewengland.aaa.com.

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CDC offers these safety tips for older drivers:

• Wear your seat belt.

• Drive when conditions are the safest. Consider driving shorter distances and avoid driving in bad weather and at night.

• Map out the safest routes with well-lit streets, clearly marked intersections with left turn arrows and easy parking spaces.

• Leave a safe distance between you and the car in front of you.

• Avoid distractions while driving such as eating, talking on your cell phone, texting.

• Don’t drink and drive.

• Have your eyes checked at least once a year and always wear your glasses or contacts that are required as a condition of your license.

Wear sunglasses during the day if you need them – never at dusk or at night.

• Raise your seat and use a cushion if necessary to ensure good visibility.

• Don’t drive if you’re tired.

Fires. According to the U.S. Fire Administration, older adults experience a disproportionate share of fire deaths. In 2010, adults 65 or older represented 13 percent of the United States population but suffered 35 percent of all fire deaths.

Mental and physical frailties, greater use of medications, and living in poverty all heighten the vulnerability of elders to burns and fire deaths.

Fire safety tips include:

• Install working smoke detectors.

• Test the batteries when you change the clocks twice a year.

• Have fire extinguishers where you can get to them easily and quickly • Don’t wear loose clothing that can catch fire while you are cooking.

• Be very careful when you use candles. Make sure that they are out before you go to bed.

• Don’t smoke in bed.

Medication overdoses. As you get older, you may develop more health conditions and chronic conditions that will need to be treated with medications. At the same time, your metabolism and your ability to tolerate drugs can diminish over the years, Remember these medication management tips:

• Understand your medications and why you are taking them.

• Ask about possible interactions with other drugs, over-the-counter medications, herbal supplements and vitamins.

• Keep an up-to-date list of all medications and share that list with your doctor & pharmacist.

• Use one pharmacy. Talk to your pharmacist when you begin taking a new medication.

• Ask about possible side effects. Report any adverse medication reactions to your healthcare professionals immediately.

• Store medications properly, in a cool, dark, dry location.

• Look through your medicine chest regularly and discard any expired medications. Ask your pharmacist about discarding old medications.

• Take your medications as prescribed.

Happy Older Americans Month! Take charge of your environment. Stay “Safe Today” and be “Healthy Tomorrow.”

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WWII vets awed by Honor Flight reception Donald Thornton was in awe.

“The reception was overwhelming.

Just thinking about it brings tears to my eyes,” he said. “We went into the airport, I couldn’t believe it. There must have been 500 people there.”

Thornton, of Warwick, was one of 22 World War II veterans to participate in an Honor Flight on March 29, the fifth run by the Rhode Island Fire Chiefs Association, to the nation’s capitol. This flight was sponsored by VFW Post 183 in Warwick and dedicated in memory of Kenneth B. Goff, who went missing in action in Vietnam on Aug. 24, 1967.

Like previous Honor Flights spearheaded by retired Providence Fire Chief George Farrell, the veterans and their guardians assembled long before sunrise. With an escort of fire trucks and police, sirens blaring and lights flashing, two RIPTA buses then made the short hop to the airport terminal.

It was at the terminal that Thornton, who served in the Navy and was stationed in Washington state and Hawaii toward the end of the war, got the surprise he’ll be talking about for some time. Ranks of police and firemen from across the state saluted their entrance as drums and bagpipes played and people cheered.

Thornton couldn’t describe the emotion, which he said he felt again when a similar group of police, firefighters and military greeted their flight in Baltimore.

Family and friends of the vets packed the area, patiently waiting for the return flight from a day of visiting the World War II and Vietnam Memorial, Arlington Cemetery and other Washington sites. Senators Jack Reed and Robert Dole personally greeted the group in Washington, as they have done for other Honor Flights.

Farrell said another 24 WWII veterans would make the trip on the 70th anniversary of D-Day on June 6. He’s also planning to run a third Honor Flight on Sept. 27.

“Our goal is to get 100,” he said.

“We’re still looking for WWII vets.”

Each of the vets is matched with a guardian who makes contact prior to the flight, learning of any particular conditions the vet may require. Wheelchairs are available for all of them, although they may not be required. A medic accompanied the group as well.

Thornton’s guardian turned out to be retired Warwick fire battalion chief Ed Thurston. Thurston picked up Thornton at 4 a.m. to get the day started.

It was Thurston’s first honor fight.

“It was very moving,” he said of the airport reception. “I get choked up talking about it now.”

Thurston, who like other guardians paid for his flight, was impressed by the organization and the careful attention to the personal needs of each veteran.

But the visit to the memorial and recollections of the war were also painful for some.

Navy veteran James Loftin, 92, who served in several amphibious landings in North Africa and later Italy and France, remembers the Battle of Anzio as the worst. In a single day there were 955 American causalities, making it the highest single-day death toll for a U.S. division.

Loftin, whose youthful looks and easy smile belie his age, was emotionally moved as he remembered the carnage.

He also paused to reflect on war.

“I hope people learn something,” he said as his family gathered around his wheelchair. “We can’t be the policemen of the world. It won’t work.”

WWII veteran Donald Thornton, flanked by his guardian Ed Thurston and daughter Beth Gauthier, said he was especially moved by the greeting they received at Green Airport and when they arrived in Baltimore.

Talia Dinwoodie stayed up late Saturday to welcome home her greatgrandfather, Robert Morgan, one of WWII veterans who participated in the Honor Flight

If you know of someone who is a World War II veteran or a veteran with a terminal illness, please fill out an application and send it in. The goal for 2013 is to fly at least 20,000 veterans. And remember, every veteran flies free.

For further information – email: veteran-application@honorflight.org George S. Farrell 401-741-7999 Richard A. Susi 401-692-0795

WWII Navy veteran James Loftin, who will never forget the action he saw during amphibious landings in North Africa and Europe, was met at Green Airport by a large contingent of family (PrimeTime Photos)

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Planning a Trip?

Looking to do some traveling this year for your summer vacation? How about visiting a state that has lots to see and do, beautiful mountains and scenery, with some towns located no more than six hours or so from Providence?

When I traveled to Pennsylvania a few years back, I was meeting up with friends so I didn’t get the chance to see any of the major tourist attractions. But I did enjoy the scenic view of mountains and farmland as I traveled along the roadways. There was a peacefulness and beauty to this area that I’ll never forget. If you’re looking for a summer vacation destination, Pennsylvania has lots to offer.

With a state motto like “Virtue, Liberty and Independence,” you know this is a place that values its historical heritage. Naturally, there are a number of historical and cultural attractions for you to check out.

Here are just a few:

Philadelphia Museum of Art

Gettysburg National Military Park

Millions visit this location annually, known for three fateful days in July of 1863 when 51,000 soldiers lost their lives on the famous battlefield in the Civil War. Gettysburg is also known for the famous two-minute speech delivered by President Abraham Lincoln on Nov. 19, 1863. Take a tour of the National Park, walk the Soldiers’ National Cemetery and learn about an important time in our nation’s history. Tours are available by bus, bicycle, Segway, horseback, carriage and scooter.

On July 4, 5 and 6 of this year the 151st Gettysburg Anniversary Civil War Battle Re-enactment will be taking place.

Located at the south end of Fairmount Park, you’ll find this well-known museum, which houses some 300,000 exhibits, including Renaissance and Baroque works, 18th and 19th century works by Van Gogh, Renoir, Monet and others, 20th century artworks by Picasso and Matisse, samplings by American artists Thomas Eakins, Charles Wilson Peale and others, and Asian art, including Buddhist and Chinese temples, porcelain, jade and oriental carpets.

Leading up to the famous museum are some equally famous steps since they are the same ones Rocky Balboa sprinted up in all of the “Rocky” movies.

Valley Forge & Valley Forge National Historic Park

Located at the northwestern outskirts of Philadelphia, you’ll find this important Revolutionary War site. It’s the place where General George Washington and his army hunkered down from the winter of 1777 to the summer of 1778. Found on this site are Washington’s Headquarters, a National Memorial Arch, and some trails and recreational space to enjoy.

The park offers exhibits, tours and a historical film.

You can do some hiking, biking, walking, horseback riding, kite flying, cross-country skiing, running, boating, fishing, or bird watching.

Lancaster County

If you’re in the mood to step back in time and go on a horse and buggy ride touring the Pennsylvania Amish countryside, then Lancaster County is the place for you. Thousands of Amish people still live a simpler, slower, more peaceful lifestyle using windmills as their energy source and growing and tending their own crops. After taking a tour you can explore the many Amish-themed attractions and events, shop for handmade Amish crafts and enjoy some authentic Pennsylvania Dutch cooking.

Pawtucket resident Susan Vadnais fondly remembers her Bonanza bus trip to Lancaster County a few years back.

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“We got a glimpse of their lives while our bus drove through Amish country,” she said. “We left the 21st century behind and for a short time we went back to a time when there was no electricity, gas or automobiles. Children ran around wearing clothes similar to those on the old TV show ‘Little House on the Prairie.’ Women hung clothes on clotheslines and the men tended to the fields. It was nice to visit and learn about a very simple life.”

Hersheypark and Hershey’s Chocolate World

The town of Hershey’s main attraction is Hersheypark, boasting 90 acres of rides and entertainment, including 12 roller coasters and over 65 rides and attractions for both young and old. Originally built in 1906 as a recreational area for Hershey’s workers, it expanded to attract visitors from near and far. The Boardwalk at Hersheypark is open from Memorial Day through Labor Day weekend. For their summer season, admission prices are $59.95 for ages 9 through 54, $37.95 for seniors aged 55 to 69 and for children aged 3 to 8, $23.95 for seniors aged 70 and up, and children under 2 get in free.

Located just outside the main gate to Hersheypark is Hershey’s Chocolate World, a very popular attraction with nearly 3 million visitors annually. Guests can enjoy many activities, including the Great American Chocolate Tour Ride, free to all visitors. The newest attraction is Hershey’s Create Your Own Candy Bar – an interactive, hands-on attraction where you get to select your favorite candy bar ingredients, operate factory equipment and design the packaging for a custom candy bar.

There are many more interesting, fun and lovely places to explore in Pennsylvania. For more detailed information about tours, destinations, directions and prices, visit www.city-data.com/articles/Pennsylvania. html or www.visitpa.com.

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Memories of Marijuana – Or Dreams?

Colorado is reaping huge tax benefits, having legalized the retail sale of small amounts of marijuana for “recreational use,” and Washington State is joining them. New York’s governor is considering easing restrictions on the medical use of cannabis. Time magazine predicts more states will follow these leads. Medical marijuana dispensaries were opened in Rhode Island in 2013 and people have started sniffing around the idea of recreational use here, giving a new perspective on “Travel and Leisure.” Or taking a trip.

Hard as it may be to believe, I’ve never smoked marijuana. Not one puff. I therefore have difficulty visualizing the amount of Mary Jane that would qualify as recreational. Oh sure, I attended parties in Greenwich Village in the late ’60s where joints were being passed around. But at each one, enough strangers were present to prevent me from trying it. I’ve always been a control freak and I wasn’t about to loosen up unless I was surrounded by people I knew I could trust.

My brother, Rick, was stationed in Germany around that time as part of his ROTC commitment. After he was discharged, he and some friends crossed Northern Africa in a Volkswagon bus/camper. His travels included Morocco and the Canary Islands. You can probably see where this is headed.

When he returned to the States, he lived with me briefly in Manhattan. I learned to burn incense to cover the smell of his ganja. I worried that my upscale neighbors would send New York’s finest to the door of my brownstone studio.

Before long, I was buying incense by the bundle. That’s as close as I got to actually smoking weed.

After several months, Rick moved to his own apartment in the East Village.

I still saw him regularly at the Spanish lessons we took together. These began in Midtown, at the Latin American Institute, and eventually migrated to Flushing, Queens, where our instructor lived. By coincidence, I also lived in Flushing at that point, with my first husband. When the formal lessons ended, my brother and I engaged Sr. Alfaro for private ones once a week. Rick drove us there after work.

I remember one evening, going across the 59th Street Bridge when we heard a siren behind us.

“I hope we don’t get pulled over,” my brother said, off-handedly.

“What makes you say that?” I asked.

“You’re sitting on half a key,” he explained.

My first thought was, “Why would the cops care if I had a key under my fanny?” And then: “What the hell is half a key used to open?”

When Rick explained that was short for “kilo,” as in kilogram (of MJ), I broke out into a cold sweat.

“Honest, officer,” I imagined myself saying. “I didn’t even know it was there, plus I’ve never smoked it in my life.”

Yeah, right. Hair to my waist, skirt up to my gotcha, next to my “brother” who looked nothing like me. So that was it. I’d go to the big house for something I didn’t do, without even having had the benefit of ever getting high.

As the years wore on, I would occasionally catch a whiff of marijuana smoke as I walked through midtown Manhattan and later on sidewalks on Providence’s East Side. One evening last summer, I got light-headed sitting in our sunroom,

with the windows cranked wide open. I discovered that a neighbor’s college-age son and his friends were sitting on their back deck, smoking. I suppressed the urge to call over, “I know what you’re doing.”

After a while, I closed the windows. It was too ironic to imagine myself getting high, alone in my late ’60s, after having avoided doing it with strangers in the late ’60s. Which brings me back to those medical marijuana dispensaries that were opened in Rhode Island last year. My mother suffered from glaucoma and some peculiarities in my eye tests have me being checked for it regularly. A friend pointed out the upside if I ever get that diagnosis. It would qualify me to smoke pot legally.

I prefer to consider options with my eyes healthy. I can visit friends in Colorado, and maybe eventually in New York (more affordable). Heck, one of my classmates has a home in both states. (What did she know that the rest of us didn’t?)

Maybe when my friends and I turn 70, we’ll have a big girls’ slumber party. We’ll call it “MJ In Your PJs.” Kind of gives new meaning to “Sweet Dreams,” doesn’t it? I’ll supply the brownie mix. And lots of incense. You can join us if you BYOR (Bring Your Own Reefer), but please RSVP on the QT. Copyright 2014 Business Theatre Unlimited Elaine M. Decker’s books – “Retirement Sparks Again,” “Retirement Sparks” and “CANCER: A Coping Guide” – are available at SPECTRUM-INDIA on the East Side of Providence, on Amazon.com, including Kindle editions, and by special order through your local bookstore. One of her essays appears in the recently published anthology: “70 Things To Do When You Turn 70.”

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Crossing the Bridges of Time and Memory May is the month for Memorial and slave labor camps. You move from Day, originally for remembrance of a pre-war entrance, with its emphasis the aftermath of the Civil War and to on the Versailles Treaty of World War I commemorate both sides of the conflict to the Spanish Civil War, on to proud, with flowers at their gravesites. But like arrogant Berlin and thence to Vichy Armistice Day, it has spread out to em- France with an exit corridor featuring brace other wars, other combatants, lat- the newspaper and magazine accounts er generations who sacrified their lives of the end of Nazi rule, the Nuremberg to honor their Trials, and the country. May 8 is celebrations VE Day, the end In the month of remembering our of the defeat of the Second of imperial JaWorld War in mothers and their gentle sacripan. There is Europe, and May fices and in the month that closes plenty of food 10 is called by for thought, the USO “Armed with flowers in the cemeteries and there is a Forces Day.” book with an I made a pil- on American soil, it was, for me, a introduction grimage to the special sentimental journey...

by Doris SteaWorld War II rns Goodwin Museum, travel and an aunot across distance but rather across the tobiographical afterword by Kenneth bridges of time, to relive my own boy- W. Rendell explaining the process by hood memories translated from subjec- which he was able to gather the diverse tive recall into sharper focus and further contents of the museum through difand deeper understanding. A quite re- ficult journeys, coincidences, and his markable person a decade younger than own determination to what he labels his me, born in the year of the final victory, “sacred mission to restore the American has dedicated himself to collecting and sense of patriotism and to show the hersharing whatever materials might help oism of people who left peaceful lives to the visitor to respect the enormous ef- liberate the conquered and to save the forts of mind, body and soul that unit- world.” ed us as Americans, in tandem with the It is truly a noble commitment and world community of our allies. a moving exhibit, thought-provoking in I cannot on these pages sum up or the extreme. adequately list the vast array of posters, In the month of remembering our uniforms, sculptures, flags and pro- mothers and their gentle sacrifices and paganda items of all kinds. I can only in the month that closes with flowers in subjectively mention a token few things the cemeteries on American soil, it was, that impressed me. The German popu- for me, a special sentimental journey to lation must have been overwhelmed the world of my childhood, haunted by with materials designed and displayed a conflict shared by my uncles and cousto impress them with Hitler’s dream of ins who came home from battlefields in glory. You may recognize some of the Europe and Asia to take up their lives famous images such as Hitler wearing and to be brought back during this a medieval knight’s silver armor as he beautiful month by a grateful nephew. set out to save the world from ... what?

“Bolshevism?” The Bible? Always, the P.S. Among the material things on frown of self-importance and desire to display behind glass or simply open and dominate. There is a bust of the “ideal” tangible, there was an insulting caricaAryan masculine countenance. Nar- ture of Americans as stooped, dwarfish row, long straight nose, measurable people of color buying the Venus de skull proportions: it could be used as a Milo for $2! Imagine, when in fact Gorpoint of departure to despise the look ing was looting all Europe of its art! In of other “races,” and to justify wars of France, where the Resistance was slow occupation. The scowl of contempt for to form and uncertain, a downed pilot’s diversity. parachute was used to sew a bride’s The museum houses both Nazi tanks gown: most of the tokens of that terand weapons and also American and rible era are left for you, the visitor to British jeeps and rifles. There is a room figure out. devoted to the Resistance and Partisan armies, hidden behind civilian disguises.

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senior issues

Retirement and Alzheimer’s Retirement can be a very exciting time in one’s life. Financial responsibilities are not as great as they were when the “kids” were still at home. The mortgage may be paid off or will be soon. Vacation time can stretch out to be whatever amount of time we want it to be and if we are lucky, we get to do the kinds of things we have always dreamed about doing.

Retirees might be headed for a warmer climate during the winter months or perhaps it’s a “bucket list” trip to Africa or Europe. Maybe it’s spending quality time with your grandchildren or volunteering. Having time to hunt, fish or “play” in the garden appeals to many retirees as well. On those summer days it might be walking on Narragansett Beach.

But there are those in the retirement age bracket who are finding they are dealing with other pertinent issues within their life. Many older individuals are saddled with a myriad of medical issues that may limit their effectiveness in the work force or even restrict their activities inside and outside the home setting.

Men and women are extending their work life and we find retired people back in the work force with part-time jobs in fields unrelated to their training or work history. But for those individuals who are ill, infirmed or facing dementia or Alzheimer’s disease, this is not the case.

Statistics tell us that there are over 24,000 people diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease in Rhode Island (latest figures from 2010). Individuals and families who are facing this destructive disease are and will be facing years of care and challenges.

Alzheimer’s disease is a progressive, long-term, terminal illness. Once a diagnosis has been identified, someone could need specialized care for another 10 to 15 years. Nationally there are more than 5 million Americans suffering from this disease and by 2050 it is expected that more than 15 million will be diagnosed.

So, what is Alzheimer’s disease? AD destroys the physical structure of the brain that controls cognitive abilities. It affects short-term memory and the ability to make good decisions. Judgment is impaired and many times causes personality changes. Eventually, over a period of years, patients lose the ability to care for themselves. They are no longer able to handle ADLs (Activities of Daily Living), which include bathing, dressing, walking, eating, etc.

Some families and caregivers may be in a position to care for loved ones at home – to help them “age in place.” Families may consider adult day care, and for some, eventually assisted living, nursing homes and even hospice. These are not easy decisions to consider.

There are resources available in the Rhode Island area to assist as you travel this long road. If you are suspicious that a loved one might be showing the early stages of dementia or Alzheimer’s disease, contact your physician. The sooner you recognize what is happening, the sooner you will be able to help your loved one and yourself, as a caregiver.

DCPutnam Consulting is available to assist your family in clarifying the disease process; give you one-on-one, personal attention; and will help your family understand the behaviors and challenges you are or will be facing. If you, a family member or friend is struggling with Alzheimer’s disease or some other form of dementia, contact Doreen at 464-2372 or doreen@dcputnamconsulting.com to learn more about her services.

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The Mills of Apponaug

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Much of the growth in importance and prosperity that Apponaug achieved during the 18th century can be traced to the family that descended from Samuel Greene and his wife, Mary Gorton. Under their leadership, the village became an important center for a number of mills, eventually including a textile mill.

Very often, the Greenes of Apponaug worked closely with their numerous cousins, and the result was often beneficial to the entire area. Throughout the 18th century the many Greene relatives often worked together and complemented each other in various trade, industry and farming activities. While Samuel Greene’s son, Governor William Greene, resided in Cowesett, his brother Samuel and his nephew Caleb continued to run the old mills in Apponaug, and the descendants of James Greene operated successful forges in Potowomut and Coventry. One of the most famous of James Greene’s descendants was Major General Nathanael Greene, the Revolutionary War hero who did so much to bring about victory for the American nation.

Caleb Greene (1737-1813) inherited the old Fulling Mill, which his grandfather, Samuel, had purchased from Jeremiah Westcott in 1702. According to the research of the late Dorothy Mayor, Caleb Greene of Apponaug, a cousin and contemporary of Nathanael Greene, married Mary Tibbitts in 1760. Together they raised a large family of L0 children, many of whom settled in Warwick. As were his cousins, Caleb was a patriot and during the Revolutionary War was captain of the militia.

Caleb, sensing the need for other products in Apponaug, added a gristmill and sawmill to his enterprises.

In 1779 Apponaug was still known as Fulling Mill and the water in the cove and at Wood Point was much deeper than it is now. General Greene tells Jacob, “My

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Thanks to this activity, optimists at the time believed that Apponaug would someday become one of the most important ports along the East Coast. Unfortunately, the War of 1812 and a series of severe storms and hurricanes changed much of this by the 20th century.

Embargo, railroad change Apponaug The Embargo Act of 1807 and the War of 1812 had a profound effect upon the Captain Caleb Greene family of Apponaug. For many years Capt. Greene had witnessed prosperity, as had his father, Caleb, and his grandfather, Samuel Greene. As had so many other members of Warwick’s early families, Captain Caleb had taken to the sea to seek his fortune. For many years, this proved a good decision.

Unfortunately, the Napoleonic Wars, the Embargo Act and the War of 1812 ended the period of prosperity for much of New England. Eventually, because the restrictions on trade seriously infringed upon the profits made by Capt. Greene, he turned to his father’s textile mill to provide for his family, as the sea no longer gave him the profitable existence he once enjoyed.

In 1795, in more prosperous economic times, Caleb Greene Jr. built the house at 15 Centerville Road, shortly after his marriage to Sarah Robinson. Greene fathered a large family. In 1801 a second son, George Sears Greene, was born in the Apponaug house. In time, Caleb, as the maritime trade dwindled, found various plans for his sons’ education had to be changed in order to economize. George Sears Greene went to West Point rather than Brown University as a result. He later went on to become one of the more illustrious generals in the Civil War. When the once lucrative sea trade declined in Apponaug in the 19th century, the village began to take on a new direction due to the rise of the textile industry and the coming of the Stonington Railroad. Whi1e Apponaug Cove continued to be a significant avenue of trade it was soon overshadowed by the advantages the railroad offered in the shipping of goods to the interior of the country.

In addition to the changes in Apponaug’s textile industry, the railroad brought in a tide of immigration, which was to alter the old fabric of the village and bring in unimaginable changes. Prior to the coming of the railroad, Warwick had been almost totally inhabited by British Protestant stock. In the 1830s, the demand for labor to build the roads witnessed large numbers of Irish Catholics immigrating to Rhode Island. When the railroad was completed, some of the Irish remained in Warwick to work in the mills in Apponaug. Many others went to the western section and by the late 19th century became a dominant force in areas such as Crompton, Centerville, Clyde and Phenix.

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Father and son team hike Appalachain Trail for Alzheimer’s Hiking the Appalachain trail takes a lot of research according to Ryan Whalen, an energetic father of two, who works as a Food Service Director for Warren Skilled Nursing Center, Genesis HealthCare.

Ryan Whalen and his dad Mike Whalen teamed up to hike 65 miles on the Appalachain Trail to raise money for Alzheimer’s and do a little father and son bonding in the process. Ryan has been doing lots of research on the Internet about backpacking in general and the camping rules for each state – did you know Connecticut does not allow campfires? Aside from all the research, Ryan had also train in hiking around his house and through trails throughout Rhode Island. He even took his 3 and 5-year old daughters on some of his hikes.

Ryan’s career in food service began

when he was just 14 years old, working in various restaurants throughout Connecticut where he grew up. He decided to make a career in the culinary field by attending Johnson & Wales University.

Ryan started working in the nursing home industry in 2012 and “became aware of the hardships that people face that have Alzheimer’s disease.”

According to Sharean Verria, Regional Manager for Food & Nutrition at Genesis HealthCare, “Ryan gives back every day with the meals he prepares and the care he provides. He is so much more than a Chef to our residents.”

How did this all come about? After a long talk with his dad Mike, they decided to plan a hike to raise money for an illness they hold close to their hearts.

Ryan has been camping and hiking regularly for the past 2 years but Mike will be returning to the trail after a 30-

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Ryan created a website on YouCaring.com and his goal is $5,000 and all of the funds raised to go to the Alzheimer’s Association Rhode Island Chapter. The chapter provides free programs for families, education and training, early stage social engagement programs, advocacy, and a 24/7 Helpline. You can find The Whalen’s Hike for Alzheimer’s on Facebook or by visiting YouCaring.com to make a donation.

Ryan and his dad devoted a week in

April for their hike, walking about 8 to 10 miles a day.

“We are so inspired by all the wonderful people in our community who reach out to make a difference in the lives of people with Alzheimer’s disease,” says Donna McGowan, Executive Director of the Alzheimer’s Association Rhode Island Chapter.

Thanks to everyone in the community for supporting the The Whalen’s Hike for Alzheimer’s and the Alzheimer’s Association. If you would like information about programs or events, please contact the Alzheimer’s Association Rhode Island Chapter office at 800-272-3900 or visit our website at alz.org/ri.

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TrashVeo offers curb-side service for senior citizens New service provides help putting out weekly trash barrels and recycling bins “Our company was built on the concept of helping people. We certainly found a niche and filled a void for a simple service that can help so many,” says TrashVeo’s founder and CEO Dominic Pratt.

“It’s really heartbreaking to see seniors and anyone for that matter struggling with their trash each week.

Life is about enjoyment and if we can reduce the risk of falling or injury for 1 person each week we served our purpose.”

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Linn Health Care Center receives award The Linn Health Care Center in East Providence has been awarded a five-star quality rating from the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid. This prestigious honor is awarded to the top 10 percent of all nursing homes in the United States and means that a facility ranks “much above average” compared to other nursing homes.

The Five-Star Rating System was developed by the Center for Medicare and Medicaid to allow consumers to compare nursing homes and to foster improvements in the care provided by nursing homes. It is based on rigorous health inspections, quality measures and a survey of the staffing hours of registered nurses and other health care professionals.

“We are thrilled to receive this recognition from the Centers for Medicaid and Medicare and it is a direct result of the hard-working and dedicated staff we are fortunate to have here,” said David R. Velander, administrator of the Linn Health Care Center.

Linn Health Care Center is an 84-bed skilled nursing and rehabilitation center with semi-private and private patient rooms, which boasts a mission of ensuring that you receive the best treatment and care during your recovery from illness or injury in a homelike setting. It is a subsidiary of United Methodist Elder Care, which also offers independent living apartments and assisted living apartments and is located at 40 Alexander Avenue, East Providence.

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• The Ninigret National Wildlife Refuge in Charlestown is looking for volunteers to fill a variety of positions. They are needed to help with the Visitor Center’s environmental education programs for the general public, school groups, conservation groups and birding clubs, and to help maintain and monitor the refuge’s trail system.

• The Kettle Pond Visitor’s Center needs volunteers to staff the reception desk on the weekends. From 10 a.m. to 1 p.m., or 1 to 4 p.m., volunteers will answer the phone, and greet and provide information to visitors.

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Podiatrists kick-off “Socks For The Needy” The Rhode Island Podiatric Medical Association (RIPMA) kicked off their “Socks for the Needy” campaign on March 31 as part of their 100th anniversary as a medical association. “Socks for the Needy” will run through May 30. The aim of the campaign is to collect new socks for needy children and adults. There are collection bins at YMCAs throughout Rhode Island and at podiatrist’s offices.

“Podiatrists have long recognized the high incidence of foot conditions among the needy and homeless as their feet are often wet and they lack dry clean socks to wear,” said Dr. David Ruggiero, president of the RIPMA. “Our association thought a community outreach campaign like this was the perfect fit for podiatrists as we enter our anniversary year, providing foot health for Rhode Islanders for over 100 years. We give particular thanks to the YMCAs in Rhode Island, the Salvation Army and the Pawtucket Red Sox for participating as partners in our community service project.”

Major Wendy Kountz, RI state coordinator for the Salvation Army, said, “We identified socks as a major clothing need for our constituents. So we are delighted to serve as the distribution partner for the RI Podiatric Medical Association’s Socks for the Needy campaign.”

Those that donate a pair of new socks at their Y can enter to win one of 10 family packs of tickets (five tickets) and vouchers for food at the culmination PawSox baseball game on June 12 “Sox for the Needy” night.

Entry forms and an entry box are attached to the sock collection bin in YMCA lobbies. Additionally, anyone who attends the PawSox game on June 12 and donates a pair of new socks when they enter will receive a chance to win a baseball autographed by the PawSox team that will be raffled off at the game.

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Dr. Charles Cavicchio (left), executive director, and Dr. David Ruggiero, president of the RI Podiatric Medical Association, kick off the “Socks for the Needy” campaign with Paws (PawSox mascot) and Michael Gwynn, vice president of marketing, Pawtucket Red Sox.

Alzheimer’s Lunch and Learn Presentations For those concerned with risk factors associated with Alzheimer’s disease and what signs to look for, the Villa at Saint Antoine is offering a lunch and learn presentation free and open to the public.

It is estimated that about 5.3 million people nationwide are affected by this disease.

“Risk Factors for Alzheimer’s Disease” is being presented on Thursday, May 29 at 11:30 am. A light lunch will be served.

Seating is limited. To pre-register, call 401-7672574. The Villa at Saint Antoine is located at 400 Mendon Road in North Smithfield.

Doreen Putnam, Alzheimer’s Dementia Specialist from DC Putnam Consulting will be presenting.

screenings at the Cranston, East Side and the South County YMCAs. The screenings are tentatively scheduled from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. or 12 p.m. to 2 p.m.”

The Rhode Island Podiatric Medical Association is a non-profit organization that promotes the art and science of podiatric medicine and surgery among the general public and persons interested in the betterment of public health. Foot health information and a podiatrist locator can be found on their website at www.rifootdoctors.com or you can call for information at 941-1142. The RIPMA is affiliated with the American Podiatric Medical Association (APMA).

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THEME: TV FAMILIES ACROSS 1. Top of Lady Liberty 6. *Scrappy-Doo, Scooby’s nephew 9. Most vital part of idea or experience 13. D-Day beach 14. “Home of the brave” 15. Wash oneself 16. Committee or special group 17. Big ___ Conference 18. Gastric woe 19. *Ma or Pa or Laura 21. *Claire or Phil or Luke 23. Chinese “way” 24. O. Henry’s “The Gift of the ___” 25. Madonna’s iconic stagewear 28. Arizona Indian 30. Rub elbows 35. Animal house 37. Supernatural life force 39. a.k.a. Pleasant Island 40. Editing choice on computer 41. *”The Jetsons” genre 43. Largest organ of human body 44. Get ready to drive 46. Alpine transport 47. Pay attention 48. In this document 50. Show horse type 52. Like a fox 53. Toothy wheel 55. In the capacity of 57. *Danny or D.J. or Michelle 60. *Lorelai or Rory or Emily 64. Small and elegant 65. “Dear” one 67. Cut at an angle 68. Convert a book into a screenplay, e.g.

69. Schiller’s “___ to Joy” 70. Perpendicular to the keel 71. Combustible heap 72. This instant 73. *Tim’s “Home Improvement” son

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DOWN 1. Serengeti antelope 2. Arab League member 3. Called 4. Use crib notes 5. Sabbath loaf 6. Places 7. Don’t waste 8. Mostly vegetarian bear 9. Explore by touch 10. It makes one scratch 11. He plus she 12. ___ Royal Highness Queen Elizabeth II 15. Swelling on foot 20. Rumpelstiltskin’s machine, pl.

22. “Gross!”

24. Extra room charge 25. *Michael or Buster or Lindsay 26. Hindu queen 27. Support person 29. End to hostilities 31. Quite a party 32. Little Boy and Fat Man, e.g.

33. Architectural projection 34. *Peggy or Kelly or Al 36. Profligate 38. A long way off 42. Baghdad resident 45. Kind of hickory nut 49. Born 51. Involving the medulla oblongata 54. Match play?

56. Naked protozoa 57. Not a slob 58. Slightly open 59. Uh-uh 60. *The kids never did this on “The Simpsons” 61. Baker’s baker 62. Go through volumes 63. Lined with elm trees 64. Small loaf of soft bread 66. *Mike & Carol said it on “The Brady Bunch” pilot May 2014

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