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A Great Way to Get Away Okay, so I have a confession. Well, two, actually. First, I absolutely love this time of year—when our days become longer and blessed with more and warming sunshine. When the brown grass and leaf-less trees we’ve stared at for months give way to vibrant greens. I feel re-energized and eager to get out and about. That brings me to my next confession: I am terrible at buying things for myself. I just don’t do it (well, outside of the occasional mechanic’s tool or two, but those have a purpose). Instead, I am drawn to spending what limited recreational dollars we find ourselves with on just that—recreation. Or, to be more precise, family experiences that create memories we’ll carry with us forever. For me, as I’m sure may be the case with many of you, visiting a new (or even familiar) place or enjoying a unique experience is more enticing than dinner at a restaurant or a night at the movies. And, being that so many different things are easily accessible from Rhode Island, the possibilities seem almost endless. More often than not, when planning a day trip, you’ll find me and my wife wrestling with two kids under the age of 6 to get them in the car and out the door. There are bags of snacks and juice boxes, coloring books and crayons and no doubt one of my daughter’s stuffed Minnie Mouse dolls that just had to come along. I love to drive, so that is our preferred method of getting from point A to point B. But I realize not everyone enjoys the journey as much as the destination, and that as we age, our comfort level of driving multiple hours in a single day diminishes. Regardless of your interests, I can all but guarantee there is something you’d truly love to do within 2-3 hours outside of the Ocean State. Something you feel would make for the perfect day trip. So, whether you prefer to hop in your car and head on your merry way, or work with an agency that specializes in group excursions and handle all accommodations, we’d like to introduce you to some interesting options to consider as the weather continues to improve. I know that most people think of a travel agency as a great resource when planning a vacation or trip overseas, but did you also know that many also offer

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complete day trip packages? In fact, it’s an area that’s not only grown in recent years, but has become increasingly popular among older adults. “We work with individuals and groups of all ages, but those aged 60 and older make up about 50 percent of our clients,” said David Hodgkinson, a travel agent with Donovan Travel. “I find that seniors tend to prefer group travel with specific itineraries and all accommodations arranged for them.” David works out of Donovan’s Cranston office; the agency also has locations in East Greenwich and Woonsocket. With more than 30 years’ experience in the travel industry, David specializes in trips to Italy and group travel. He’s a wealth of information. “What clients find most appealing about booking a day trip through an agency is that it provides an opportunity to travel without worrying about driving, directions, admissions or meals—it eliminates the task of planning everything,” said David. “A group day excursion also enables travelers to mingle with other passengers and build camaraderie, which can add to the overall experience.” With so many elements to planning even a day trip, the benefits of working with a professional are plentiful. When asked what people find most helpful through an agency, David didn’t hesitate. He pointed to a travel agent being akin to your personal “advocate,” someone who monitors all arrangements, changes in schedule, price decreases and finding the best deals possible around your interests. “So many of our clients are repeat customers; seniors really prefer the one-on-one interaction of an agent as opposed to dealing with an online source or travel marketplace,” he said. “Customers may also be hesitant to put their credit cards online and prefer dealing with a local business—all of our clients know they can contact us quickly and get a live person and a quick response. We aim to provide the best customer service possible and value for a client’s investment.” In looking over the day trips Donovan Travel is offering in the coming months, two immediately stood out to share with PrimeTime readers and lovers of New England. On Saturday, May 7, you can travel by Luxury Fox Coach to the new Yankee Stadium in New York to see the hometown Red Sox battle the rival Yankees. In an atmosphere sure to feel like a playoff game, you’ll arrive with plenty of time to visit storied Monument Park and view pre-game warm-ups before taking in the action from a Terrace Level reserved seat. And as someone who has made this exact trek and purchased tickets the traditional way, the cost of $119 per person with everything included can’t be beat.

Now if baseball isn’t your thing, don’t worry, there are some other great options. July 9 brings with it a trip up north for an authentic Maine lobster bake, and much more. Before descending on Foster’s Clambakes for a feast of New England clam chowder, cultivated mussels, Maine clams, fresh lobster, barbecued chicken and all the fixings, you’ll first visit scenic

Nubble Light and York Village. There, you’ll have time to browse the many boutiques or stroll the spectacular coastal walkway known as Ocean Drive. And once at Foster’s, you’ll also enjoy live musical entertainment. If that’s not enough, the day ends with visits to Stonewall Kitchens, Where Pig Fly Bakery, and Yummie’s Candies. The experience is just $90 per person. Each of these day trips, along with an August day excursion to Martha’s Vineyard, are offered through David’s colleague, Jean Kramer. If you’d like to learn more, she can be reached at (401) 829-0461. “There’s a high level of positive feedback we receive about the trips we help plan for our older clients; everyone here gets a lot of personal satisfaction when clients are happy and come back to us,” said David. “We encourage everyone to travel while they are able—travel lets us connect the dots of life through real-life experiences. Anyone looking to plan a special trip should never hesitate to call me at (401) 9427700.” And, to not discriminate against those who enjoy getting behind the wheel and exploring on their own, another wonderful way to spend a day is by heading down to the Connecticut Wine Trail or to one of the many vineyards in Stonington. Less than an hour’s drive from the Providence area, Stonington features some great places laced with old fashioned New England charm.

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Saltwater Farm Vineyard is a coastal winery housed in a 1937 World War II-era airplane hangar; Stonington Vineyards offers tours of a working winery and a chance to learn how wine is made while also featuring an on-site art gallery displaying the works of regional artists. There’s also Jonathan Edwards Winery, which is an old dairy farm that’s been converted to a state-ofthe-art winery and a tasting room situated in a traditional New England barn. Find out more about these vineyards, and others, by visiting www.ctwine.com. So, whatever your pleasure, get out there and have fun. We live in one of the most beautiful parts of the country where there truly is something for everyone. These are just some gentle suggestions to help you get started. ■

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uddy and Edyie Rapone are quite the team. Not only have they been happily married for the past 40 years, but together they have orchestrated the highly successful Fun Seekers for the past 16 years. The Fun Seekers offer various trips year round for seniors, ranging from daylong bus trips around the region to weeklong trips to the west coast and Europe. “Seekers” only need to worry about getting themselves to the pick up destination; Buddy and Edyie coordinate all the rest from transportation, food to the day’s schedule. The trips are so popular that nearly every trip sells out with more than 100 people attending. Only a week after the 2016 trip schedule was released nearly every trip had booked an entire bus and was taking reservations for a second. Before the Fun Seekers, there was Ellie and Friends, a similar program that was done on a much smaller scale. When Ellie, a friend of the Rapone family, had decided to retire from planning trips she reached out to Buddy and Edyie, believing they would be perfect for the job. “At that point I had never been on anything other than a school bus,” Edyie said. “She told me to go on one trip with them before deciding whether or not to take it over.” Having loved the program, Edyie and Buddy, now 60 and 64 respectively, took over in 2000 changing the name to Fun Seekers to better represent the people coming on their trips. What started as a small group of friends traveling together, has

travel become a sensation for seniors throughout Rhode Island and even some in Massachusetts and Connecticut. The group is also seeing younger generations interested in their trips. The Fun Seekers began with only one trip a month, but now host several a month and have traveled further and further from the state to places such as Hawaii, Alaska and Italy. Their next trip is a cruise the Panama Canal in March. The Fun Seekers have nearly 500 people signed up for their mailing list since taking over. “We’ve never had a bus that wasn’t full,” Edyie said. “Our group has expanded beyond our imaginations.” Even their “mystery trips”, which go to an undisclosed event or place, are also very popular. Edyie said that even before reaching any destination, the bus trips have bingo, trivia and other fun activities, which can be just as much fun and entertainment as the trip itself. So, those attending a mystery trip know they will have a good time no matter the final destination. “The inner child of most people loves surprises,” Edyie said about the mystery trips. “I think the anticipation is the best part of it, knowing there is fun to come.” Each trip tries to provide a new experience, a little adventure, and a day of relaxation for all seekers. Buddy and Edyie, who also both work together at their company Lanzi Furs, put in hours upon hours for months at a time to plan out a year’s worth of trips, to ensure they have covered every detail and can take the worry out of travels for their seekers. The trips offer an opportunity for seniors who want to keep their quality of life, but may not be able to take similar trips on their own. It offers a time for seekers to forget their aches and pains and any problems for a day of friends and fun.

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Approaching Singularity You’ve probably seen those photo spreads of people who resemble their dogs. The owners often look like caricatures of their pets, or vice versa. Deeply furrowed brows, pendulously droopy ears and lobes, broad fleshy nostrils. The resemblance can be so uncanny you’re sure that one (or both) of the photos has been retouched. This man-dog study is less often presented in a husband-wife format. Couples who have lived together for a long time similarly begin to share each other’s features. On my husband Jagdish’s and my 25th anniversary trip to India, I began to realize that facial contours are not the only thing couples synchronize as they age. My “aha” moment, which I’ll share in a minute, reminded me of some studies that document another synchronization of cohabiters. Groups of young women who live together have been shown to migrate to common monthly cycles—that of the alpha female. I had a friend who put so much credence in this that she became obsessed with being the woman whose cycle everyone else unwittingly adopted. Getting back to my recent “aha” moment. My husband and I have reached that age where we generally get up once or twice a night to use the facilities. At home, I’m not usually aware of his middle-of-the-night comings and goings. For one thing, Jagdish often comes to bed quite a bit later than I do. For another, we use separate bathrooms. When we travel, all of this changes. We almost always retire at the same time and we rarely have two bathrooms. Which is how it finally dawned on me: 25 years of marriage is apparently enough time for a husband and wife to synchronize their nighttime pee schedule. I have no idea whose timing we’ve settled on, though most who know us would assume I’m the alpha in the household. For Jagdish’s sake, I hope he doesn’t start sharing my hot flashes at four am. Once I got this notion in my brain, I started to wonder: “In what other ways have we become eerily alike?” The next time I heard my husband clipping his toenails, I furtively glanced at the big digit on my right foot. The nail was quite long in the tooth, but I convinced myself I had at least a week before it would require attention.

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A few days later, I found myself measuring my earlobes in the bathroom mirror. I may have shrunk an inch and a half in height over two years, but I’m certain my lobes are getting longer. Come to think of it, they remind me an awful lot of my husband’s. Please, Lord, don’t let me start growing hair in those canals and have to trim it like he does. Jagdish is charming and lovable, but I have no desire to approach singularity with the schedules of his various bodily functions. Consider for instance his snoring. It usually starts three to four hours into his sleep cycle. I’ve taken to using earplugs even when I go to bed ahead of him. On our anniversary trip, at the hotel in Agra, I woke up in the middle of the night. I was aware that someone’s snoring had roused me, despite my earplugs. I was about to give Jagdish an elbow to wake him up, but to my horror, I realized it was my own snoring that was rumbling inside my head. I made a mental note to get my husband some earplugs when we returned home. I shudder to think of what other synchronization awaits us in the years ahead. Seriously. What woman wants to admit that she’s become so old and so much of a caricature that the face she sees in the mirror each morning is no longer her own? It’s her husband’s. ■ Copyright 2016 Business Theatre Unlimited Elaine M. Decker’s books—Retirement Sparks Redux, Retirement Sparks Again, Retirement Sparks and CANCER: A Coping Guide—are available at SPECTRUM-INDIA, on the East Side of Providence, on Amazon.com, including Kindle editions, and by special order through your local bookstore. One of her essays appears in the anthology: 70 Things To Do When You Turn 70. Contact her at: emdecker@ix.netcom.com.

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What’s new in France for 2016 France has brought us so much culture and art and, at the same time, championed the modern concept of a vacation. To get the most out of your next visit, be mindful of these changes and developments for 2016. In Paris, the Eiffel Tower’s first level - after a $38 million renovation - is decked out with new shops, eateries, and a multimedia presentation about the tower’s construction, paint job, place in pop culture, and more. The highlight is the breathtaking, vertigo-inducing glass floor that lets you experience what it’s like to stand atop an 18-story building and look straight down. Just a few blocks away, the Rodin Museum is now fully open after a threeyear renovation. Elsewhere in Paris, the Carnavalet Museum - which covers the history of Paris and has a great exhibit on the French Revolution - is undergoing renovations in 2016. While it will remain open, some of its rooms may be closed. The Louis Vuitton Foundation is the latest entrant to the Paris art scene. Its cool glass, sailboat-like building, set in the Bois de Boulogne park, features modern and contemporary art. All over Paris, more museums are offering free apps that serve as an audio guide for their collections. There’s also more online ticketing (which, depending on the museum, can save time in line). There are also some fresh budget options for getting into Paris. A new EasyBus shuttle service runs from Charles de Gaulle Airport to Paris, with dirt-cheap fares (www.easybus.com). Uber now provides airport transport, and may save some money over a taxi, but because they can’t use the bus-only lanes as normal taxis can, expect some added drive time. In Normandy, Mont St-Michel is a true island once again at high tide. It’s reachable by a new super-sleek bridge rather than the old causeway that blocked the flow of water around the island. In Bayeux, a new minivan service (Bayeux Shuttle, www.bayeuxshuttle.com) offers service to and from Mont St-Michel, which is a huge help to those “sans” cars. While there are more than 100 castles you can visit in the Loire Valley, you might want to skip the Chateau d’Azay-le-Rideau, which is under renovation until spring 2017. It remains open, but some wings may close temporarily and scaffolding may cover parts of the exterior. To the southwest, in the Dordogne, some of the Grotte de Font-de-Gaume prehistoric cave tours can be reserved in advance by email or phone, but space is extremely limited. Sales of advance tickets open on January 2 for the entire year - and everything is usually sold out by March. For

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Lascaux II, a replica of another prehistoric cave, reservations are highly recommended in July and August and accepted only two to five days in advance by phone. For those who want to get above it all, Chamonix’s gondola over the Alps to Italy has opened again after years of closure (at the Helbronner stop). The new gondola, called Skyway Monte Bianco, offers an amazing ride as you head into Italy - it rotates 360 degrees as you sail along. A new museum in Chamonix, the Mountaineering Center (part of Espace Tairraz), showcases local ascents and has an interactive climbing simulator. In Alsace, the Unterlinden Museum in Colmar has reopened after a multiyear restoration, and its masterpiece, Matthias Gruenewald’s gripping “Isenheim Altarpiece,” is back on view. Minivan tours of Route du Vin wineries are no longer offered from Colmar, but an alternative is Ophorus Tours (www.ophorus.com), which leaves from Strasbourg. Their tours visit several wine villages and include wine tastings and time to wander. This year also marks a milestone in France’s WWI history - the 100th anniversary of the Battle of Verdun. The Memorial de Verdun WWI museum is scheduled to complete its renovations in February and will offer the best historic exhibits on this battle anywhere. In 2016 it will be easier to see ancient Roman sights in Provence. In Avignon, a direct express bus now goes to Vaison-laRomaine, a picturesque town chock-full of ancient ruins. And at Pont du Gard, there are two new options for seeing the Roman aqueduct in the summer. There’s an after-hours program that lets visitors enjoy the sight until midnight, and in July and August, half-hour tours through the water channel at the top of the aqueduct are offered six times a day in both French and English. In the Riviera, Nice’s new tramline makes getting around the town center easier than ever. Nice’s Russian Cathedral, long closed for renovation, hopes to reopen early this year. But some changes aren’t for the best: During summer, swimmers should watch out for swarms of jellyfish, which are becoming more prevalent due to the warming sea. Ask before you dip. And with the dollar about 15 percent stronger than the euro compared to a year ago, enjoying France will be particularly affordable in the coming year. ■ (Rick Steves (www.ricksteves.com) writes European travel guidebooks and hosts travel shows on public television and public radio. Email him at rick@ricksteves. com and follow his blog on Facebook.) (c)2016 RICK STEVES DISTRIBUTED BY TRIBUNE CONTENT AGENCY, LLC.

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It’s a great name, somehow quintessentially “shoe” – which meant, in my Eli Yale days, so long ago, “chic” or classy. You could judge a chap by his footwear. Well, I took that MBTA train, like a mythic or ghostly railroad journey on rusty tracks through thick woodlands with an occasional frame homestead adding a lonely touch to your travel, from my familiar Providence station, to the North End of Boston. I was visiting my son Reuben at his condo on Commercial Street, across from the Columbus park along the riverside marina. He was hosting a strange dinner party. George had been my roommate, assigned to me by the Powers that Were when the New Haven campus was all-male, and only beginning to acknowledge social change on the horizon, the mixing of classes. My George had come to this, his, promised land out of the prep school Hotchkiss, and me from our Hope High public school. During Freshman week, he went off to a Hotchkiss private party and handed me for consolation in my isolation a lovely children’s book by James Thurber, titled “The Thirteen Clocks”. It was an illustrated nonsense tale, but underneath its silly plot there was a theme. “Remember Laughter. You’ll need it even in the isles of Ever After.” George also liked to recite lines from W.H. Auden: “In the nightmare of the dark, all the dogs of Europe bark.” George fixed me up with a blonde girl wearing a beige cashmere sweater. We double-dated, once. On an early spring weekend, he invited me to his handsome family summer home in Watch Hill. His parents might come to our rooms, stir a batch of martinis, and hold forth in front of our glowing hearth, across from the French bay windows overlooking the mock gothic Harkness Tower. We had elite chambers, and we were a small generation: depression era youths with plenty of room and a plethora of advantages. I reminisced at Reuben’s table to George’s grown sons, about our shared first Yale year. After those four seasons of friendship, we went down differing pathways on campus, to separate “colleges” of stone or brick. Upon the occasion of a much later, 40th, reunion,

I sat with my Sophomore to Senior roommates but got up to greet George at a nearby table. He was in a wheelchair! I said a nostalgic hello to his wife. He gave me an amiable smile but added in a whisper, “This is not the girl you recall from our double date...” At this point, the two sons already middle-aged, in Reuben’s gracious digs, expressed both interest and surprise at my memories but also added some fresh information for me as well. “We never saw our dad in a wheelchair. We hardly knew his second wife. Our mom and dad had divorced, and this was his later spouse, we had barely even met.” The name “George” had been handed from grandfather to father to son, and I looked at my table companions for traces in their features of the George I had known, well, but briefly. It was all quite dramatic but subdued. “People you meet, even by accident or mere coincidence, come to figure as symbols in your life. You look backward at your personal evolution, and it seems somehow designed. I learned some lessons in poetry---not poems, but poetry itself--at Yale. I have learned other lessons from my students at Rhode Island School of Design. Now I am learning, as in the lyrics of a Robert Frost poem, from you all, the generation after ours in the silent Fifties, when conservatism was the courtesy of the culture. Call it repression or reactionary resistance to tomorrow.” We sipped our wine and I stared at my watch. MBTA has a limited schedule. I made my way mid-evening with stops along the dark landscape. Back in the land of refuge for those “distressed in conscience” I found Café La France. A lady named “Elizabeth” runs the counter service of daily soups and scribbles with chalk the motto of the day on the blackboard. She also sells the tickets for this limited alternative route, the commuter MBTA. Today’s selection said, “To Yesterday’s companionship and tomorrow’s reunion” with a credit to:.. Rita Hayworth! I had a spectacular and oracular rendezvous with destiny, the rescue of a few semesters from so long ago! ■

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Choosing the right hotel Hotels are travelers’ homes away from home. But travelers have different needs depending on their reasons for traveling. Business travelers may prefer hotels with computer centers, while travelers hoping to get away from the daily grind may find that a comfortable bed and a breathtaking view are the only amenities they need. Before booking a room, travelers should make a list of the amenities they prefer in a hotel or motel. Doing so can make it easier to find the perfect hotel room. While no two travelers are the same, identifying who you are as a traveler also can help you find a room to rave about. Solo traveler Men and women going it alone may want to find properties with a reputation for safety, which can provide peace of mind when going to bed at night. A solo traveler also may prefer a hotel that is in a lively town center and provides plenty of opportunity for socialization. Hotels that have common spaces or restaurants on the premises can facilitate conversation and interaction between guests. Business traveler Many business travelers biggest desire of a hotel is a place where they can get some work done. Look for rooms that provide desks, computer hookups and include WiFi connectivity. A common area with an operational business center also is a plus. Business travelers also may appreciate hotels that have meeting spaces so that clients can be courted in a professional space rather than a guest room. Also, hotels located in close proximity to business headquarters or close to public transportation are usually preferable to those traveling on business. Vacationers Vacationers primarily want to kick up their heels and relax. Look for hotels that pride themselves on pampering guests and making their stays as comfortable as possible. Amenities that set hotels apart include pools, spas, room service, concierge services that help guests rent cars or plan outings, and restaurants within walking distance to the property. Hotels that are located close to tourist attractions and theme parks may be great options for vacationing individuals and families. Hotels are in the business of making guests comfortable and accommodating various types of travelers. Choose a property that is best suited to meeting your specific needs. TF153039 ■

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The Longest Day The Longest Day is a signature event for the Alzheimer’s Association. Held on the summer solstice, teams across the globe honor those facing Alzheimer’s disease with strength, heart and endurance. From sunrise to sunset, teams participate by putting their passion to good work — doing what they love, trying something new or selecting an activity that honors a friend or family member. Join us as a team captain or team member and take part in your favorite activity like running or biking, playing bridge, baking, reading, dancing, and honor family members by doing some of their favorite things. The event is held on the summer solstice – June 20 – representing the idea that for those facing the disease, every day can seem like the longest day. Teams are asked to raise $1,600 and create their own event day experience. For just $20, you can sign up and get started at alz.org/tld At the Rhode Island Chapter, we are hosting an “All Day” Book Fair Bonanza at the Barnes & Noble, 1350 Bald Hill Road, Warwick, RI from 10 – 9 for The Longest Day. Join us - there will be something for everyone, Book Signings, Art Show, Movies, Children’s Reading time with local Celebrities, Food Demonstrations, and more. A portion of what you purchase that day and online from June 20 to 24 using the voucher (download at alz.org/ri) including items in the café will be donated to the Alzheimer’s Association. Download voucher to your mobile device or bring it with you to the store. ■ The Alzheimer’s Association Rhode Island Chapter, an affiliate of the National Alzheimer’s Association, is a private, nonprofit organization started in 1989 by family caregivers and interested community healthcare professionals. The Chapter programs and services include a 24/7 Helpline, Support Groups, Training for Families, Early Stage Engagement, Newsletter, Advocacy, Resource Library, Conferences, Lectures, and special fundraising events. If you are interested in receiving more information about Chapter programs, please contact Program Manager Annie Murphy mmurphy@alz.org or Development Director, Camilla Farrell, cfarrell@alz.org

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To Itemize or Not to Itemize Most people claim the standard deduction when they file their federal tax return, but you may be able to lower your tax bill if you itemize. You can find out which way saves you the most by figuring your taxes both ways. The IRS offers these six tips to help you choose: 1. Use IRS Free File. Most people qualify to use free, brand-name software to prepare and e-file their federal tax returns. IRS Free File is the easiest way to file. Free File software will help you determine if you should itemize and will file the right tax forms based on your answers. It will do the math and e-file your return – all for free. Check your other e-file options at IRS.gov if you can’t use Free File. 2. Figure Your Itemized Deductions. Add up deductible expenses you paid during the year. These may include expenses such as: * Home mortgage interest * State & local income tax or sales taxes (but not both) * Real estate and personal property taxes * Gifts to charities * Casualty or theft losses * Unreimbursed medical expenses * Unreimbursed employee business expenses Special rules and limits apply. Visit IRS.gov and refer to Publication 17, Your Federal Income Tax, for more details. 3. Know Your Standard Deduction. If you don’t itemize, your basic standard deduction for 2015 depends on your filing status:

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* Single $6,300 * Married Filing Jointly $12,600 * Head of Household $9,250 * Married Filing Separately $6,300 * Qualifying Widow(er) $12,600 If you’re 65 or older or blind, your standard deduction is higher than these amounts. If someone can claim you as a dependent, your deduction may be limited. 4. Check the Exceptions. There are some situations where the law does not allow a person to claim the standard deduction. This rule applies if you are married filing a separate return and your spouse itemizes. In this case, you can’t claim a standard deduction. You usually will pay less tax if you itemize. See Publication 17 for more on these rules. 5. Use the IRS ITA Tool. Visit IRS.gov and use the Interactive Tax Assistant tool. It can help determine your standard deduction. It can also help you figure your itemized deductions. 6. File the Right Forms. To itemize your deductions, use Form 1040 and Schedule A, Itemized Deductions. You can take the standard deduction on Forms 1040, 1040A or 1040EZ. Each and every taxpayer has a set of fundamental rights they should be aware of when dealing with the IRS. These are your Taxpayer Bill of Rights. Explore your rights and our obligations to protect them on IRS.gov. Additional IRS Resources: Publication 501, Exemptions, Standard Deduction, and Filing Information ■

Getting Started Education Series Family members, care-givers and friends of persons with Alzheimer’s Disease or a related memory disorder are invited to a four part series to learn, discuss and prepare at Brookdale West Bay, 2783 W. Shore Road, Warwick. You will meet others who share similar concerns and experiences. There is no cost to attend but pre-registration is requested. Call the RI Chapter at 1-800-272-3900 to reserve a seat. Part 1. April 6, 6:30 PM-8:00 PM Memory Loss, Dementia and Alzheimer’s Disease This workshop is designed to provide you with the basic infor-mation that everyone needs to know about memory loss issues and what they mean to all of us. Part 2. April 13, 6:30 PM-8:00 PM Understanding and Responding to Dementia Related Behaviors This workshop is intended to help care providers understand the many possible explanations for why behaviors may occur. Practical coping strategies for responding to these behaviors and com-munication techniques will be discussed . Part 3. April 20, 6:30 PM-8:00 PM Caregiver Wellness Program Designed for family caregivers and professional caregivers. Caregiving is a demanding task in which the self is “slowly given away.” Learning self-care is paramount in preventing burnout. Identify the signs and symptoms of stress. Learn strategies for preventing and coping with the stress of caregiving. Part 4. April 27, 6:30PM-8:00 PM Legal and Financial Planning on Alzheimer’s Disease Basic legal and financial considerations will be discussed when planning for the journey through Alzheimer’s Disease.

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hether you believe in God, Allah, Buddha, Mother Nature, Fate, The Great Spirit, The Great Pumpkin, or you are an agnostic or atheist, two universal truths were self-evident. One, raising children requires people who are young in age or young at heart. Two, grandparents have more fun than parents. Allow me to explain. Being a good parent requires patience, endless energy, flexibility, resolve, constant vigilance, effective communications skills, determination, focus, and an acute awareness of current social trends. Being a good grandparent merely requires a sense of humor and a desire to enjoy every moment as it is happening. As a parent of three children, my wife Kathy and I found ourselves immersed in a dizzying array of vocations. At different times, we were meal planners and chefs, foremen in charge of chores, teachers, disciplinarians, coaches, youth group leaders, transportation captains, spiritual advisors, event coordinators, loan officers, travel agents, advocates, storytellers, employment agents, and many other roles too numerous to remember. We were responsible for teaching life lessons of cooperation, compassion, honesty, hard work, effort, civility, acceptance, tolerance, patience (I was not to good at this one), and kindness. When did we have time to work, socialize, and negotiate the challenges of a relationship that has now lasted more than 45 years? While we were not always right, we did our best. It was amazing how much smarter we became as our children grew older. Talking with family and friends whose children are now also grown, this appears to be a common phenomenon. For most grandparents, their role carries much less responsibility and more opportunities to re-connect with the enthusiasm, innocence, and joy of youth. It’s definitely more relaxing. As the grandparents of Kailyn and Sophia, 12-year old twin granddaughters, and Nicholas, our six-year old grandson, we provide respite to busy and stressed out parents, serve as a link to our history, traditions, and,

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culture, and maybe, create a little mischief once in a while (more on this later). The grandchildren are allowed to and stay up a little later while savoring ice cream sundaes while spending the night at our house, eat an extra cookie, or take some extra time to just sit and talk. Although they are reminded to keep some of our joint adventures under wraps, occasionally the details of our escapades are unwittingly leaked to their disapproving parents. For example, for many years the children stayed with us on Saturdays while my daughter and son-in-law were at work. When each of the children reached approximately their third birthday, they became willing performers in a weekly ritual. After we made our bed, they used it as a trampoline. They were the circus act and I was the ring master and spotter. Unfortunately, our secret was revealed on day and I was reprimanded me for my actions. The circus tent folded, but my surreptitious smile at the rebuke is a fond memory. We have shared countless hours at the beach, picking strawberries, going to the drive-in, reading books, visiting museums, playing cards or board games, bocce, croquet and whiffleball, followed by a backyard picnic or barbecue. Sometimes, we even invite their parents. While my house may have slightly more relaxed rules, we respect the boundaries set by their parents and temper our discipline so as not to impinge on parental rights. Unlike when I was growing up, minor infractions are kept within the confines of our home. When I was a kid, the entire neighborhood was an unofficial “crime watch” organization. Neighbors and would delightfully report the slightest transgression to my parents. I vowed never to become a “rat” as a grandfather. Like many grandparents, we go to the girls’ softball games, buy many boxes of Girl Scout cookies (the girls claim that I’m their best customer) and support their numerous fundraising campaigns. Nicholas is our fledgling hockey star, so we drive to rinks across the state for his games. However, we pass on the 7:00 a.m. weekend games in Burrillville! Today’s parents face many more challenges in raising their children than our generation. They must monitor their Internet use, Facebook accounts, text messages, and other electronic media. They must pay close attention to their circle of friends and all those they interact with. Sadly, the freedom of movement that we enjoyed as children is a relic of a bygone era. As kids, we would roam our neighborhood, ride our bikes, and play endless pick-up games of baseball and basketball in playgrounds and on courts around the city. During the summer, it was not unusual to leave our house in the morning and return for lunch; have dinner and go out again; and play until “the street lights come on.” Nobody worried about who we were with or where we were. We did not spend precious time away from school or chores playing video games or chained to our smart phones waiting for the next social update. We did not need adults to schedule our games or settle our disputes. Our lives were much simpler and our parents’ job of child rearing was much less complex. If my children become grandparents, I hope that they will revel in the experience as much as Kathy and I have. May they feel the joy of spending precious moments with their grandchildren. After all, like blonds, grandparents have more fun. ■ Larry Grimaldi is a retired freelance writer living in North Providence. Comments can be e-mailed to lgrimaldi@cox.net.

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Sharing The Joy of Painting Grand Islander Artists Display Paintings and Pride at Gallery Event

For nearly three years, amateur and professional painters alike who reside at Grand Islander Genesis HealthCare in Middletown have been honing their skills thanks to the help of instructor Pat St. Onge. Recently, they unveiled their finished works with family, friends and staff at the center’s Gallery Event. Grand Islander first approached St. Onge after her husband’s rehabilitation at the facility following knee replacement surgery. During his stay, he brought in several of the paintings his wife had completed as the painting instructor at Michaels in Middletown. The recreation director and others were so impressed with her talent that they asked her to consider teaching a class to residents. St. Onge conducts two classes a month for Grand Islander’s long-term residents as well as two monthly sessions for those who are part of the Homestead Unit, which provides Alzheimer’s and dementia care. For each class of roughly a dozen participants, she brings in a sample painting, prop, or photograph to serve as inspiration, typically tied to a seasonal or holiday theme. Recent subject matters included a still life of a rose in a vase for Valentine’s Day and a leaf-covered path in the fall. St. Onge then explains the work and demonstrates step-by-step how residents can complete their own version of it, teaching them brushstrokes, color mixing and technique. Based on each individual’s capabilities, when needed, she’ll step in and help those

with fine motor or vision challenges complete some of the detailed work. The paintings are all acrylics on eight by ten-inch canvases. Today’s nursing centers host activities that are multi-purpose, empowering residents to address social, physical and emotional needs. St. Onge’s painting class checks all of those boxes. “It’s been a really wonderful experience,” says St. Onge. “We have residents who have never picked up a paint brush who love the chance to learn something new and professionals who have welcomed the opportunity to rediscover the joy of painting.” For St. Onge, the progress the painters make in a short time – sometimes even in one class – is amazing. “Many seniors can experience a loss of abilities, and this class shows them that they can still learn skills and excel.” While St. Onge knows how rewarding the painting classes have been to residents, they’ve been equally significant for her. “As an artist, you’re always asking yourself, ‘how does art matter?’ When I see the joy, sense of accomplishment, and connection the residents experience from painting, that’s my answer.” Grand Islander Recreation Director Lynn Cavanagh echoes the impact of the art on residents’ lives. “Each class, the residents start off with a blank canvas and don’t know where to begin, but their work always turns out great,” she said. “They’re so awed by their own work.” And by the work of others. “They’re so flattering and supportive to their fellow painters. It’s been very beneficial from a social aspect as well.” Their desire to share their talent prompted the Gallery Event, explained Cavanagh. “The idea originated from a Residents’ Council meeting. While we had produced and sold greeting cards and calendars made from their work previously to fund recreation programs, the residents said they thought it would be nice to display their paintings for everyone to see,” said Cavanagh. At the Gallery Event, each class participant selected three to five paintings to share. In the Commodore activity room, each cloth-covered table featured the works of two artists. The event was open to friends and family of the residents as well as the Grand Islander staff. “The artists were so proud to share their work,” said Cavanagh. With a keen understanding of the impact that the class made on each participant, she is keen to plan future Gallery Events. And, with a schedule that allows residents to complete two paintings a month, she should have no shortage of talent to display. ■ 18 | PrimeTime

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by DON FOWLER

The Arts in April 2nd STORY THEATRE

Director Ed Shea has chosen a satire of Catholic school life in the 1960s, using four actresses to play the nuns and the first-through-eighth grade girls at St. George’s School in Yonkers, in Casey Kurtti’s “Catholic School Girls”, which Shea calls “a sweet and profound portrait of girls maturing to the threshold of adolescence”. The play runs through April 24, with tickets at $20. Call 247-4200 for reservations to the charming theatre, located at 28 Market St. in the heart of Warren.

GAMM THEATRE

It may be spring, but Pawtucket’s Gamm Theatre is presenting “A Winter’s Tale”, directed by Trinity’s Fred Sullivan, Jr. for the month of April. “Celebrating the 400th anniversary of Shakespeare’s death, The Gamm takes an epic, exhilarating journey through one of the last and most strikingly beautiful of our favorite author’s play,” says Artistic Director Tony Estrella. “Gorgeously poetic with twists and turns, laughter, and unexpected surprises, ‘The Winter’s Tale’ is magical, emotionally complex, and breathtakingly theatrical.” 172 Exchange St. in Pawtucket. For tickets, call 723-4266. Senior tickets (62+) are $34 and $44.

PROVIDENCE PERFORMING ARTS CENTER

“Ragtime-The Musical” returns to Providence in an all new touring production April 8-10. The stories of an upper-class wife, a determined Jewish immigrant, and a daring young Harlem musician , set in turn-of-the-century New York, all come together, united by their desire and belief in a brighter tomorrow. “Ragtime” won Tony Awards for Best Book and Best Musical Score, and has won the hearts of theatre-goers of all ages. Tickets range from $52-$79. Call 421-ARTS for reservations. “Jersey Boys”, the story of Frankie Valli & The Four Seasons, returns to PPAC April 26-May 1, bringing back that great music that we grew up with.

I don’t know about you, but I’ve got a serious case of cabin fever. Fortunately, the Arts are alive and blooming during the month of April. FIRSTWORKS

If you have never been to a FirstWorks event, you are really missing the boat. This first class arts organization finds the best artists in the world and brings them to Rhode Island. Two events of note in April include “The River & The Thread,” starring legendary songwriter Rosanne Cash in an evening-length performance of songs from her three-time Grammy Award winning album. “The River & the Thread” will be at Veterans Memorial Auditorium in Providence on Sunday, April 10 at 6:30 p.m. Call 421-ARTS for tickets. FirstWorks is also presenting the Aurea Ensemble in a special concert, “Chromatic Fantasy: The World of Ciurlionis” on Sunday, April 24 at 2:00 p.m. at the RISD Chace Center’s Metcalf Auditorium. Email firstworks.org for reservations and information.

FESTIVAL BALLET

Festival Ballet Providence will present one of the most beautiful ballets ever written, “Swan Lake”, April 29-May 1 at the Vets. For tickets and information, go to TheVetsRI.com, or call 421-ARTS.

RI PHILHARMONIC

Don’t miss conductor Larry Rachleff in his next to last concert, where the orchestra will perform works by Sibelius, Dvorak, and Nielson, with guest artist celloist Julie Albers on Saturday, April 9 at 8 p.m. Call 248-7000 for reservations. For those who wish an early evening out, there will be an open rehearsal on Friday, April 8 at 5:30 p.m. If you have never attended an open rehearsal, you are in for a treat. You may arrive and leave at your own time and sit where you wish. Watching Rachleff rehearse is a fascinating experience.

TRINITY REP.

“Artie, Louis and Bob”, a new play by Brown MFA grad,Katie Pearl will get its World Premiere at Trinity Rep April 7 through May 8. The play is based on her eccentric uncles and looks like a fun night out at the theatre.■

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“The Miracle Worker”, the classic Pulitzer Prize, Tony Award and Academy Award winner tells thetrue story of Anne Sullivan and her deaf and blind student, Helen Keller. 1245 Jefferson Boulevard, Warwick, April 1-17. Tickets are $39-$59. Call 921-6800 for reservations.

Tenor Michael DiMucci brings Broadway to Bristol Linden Place Mansion welcomes springtime with a concert featuring famous Broadway numbers performed by a pianist and singer Michael DiMucci on Friday, May 6 at 7:30 p.m. Well known pieces and duets from classic and modern shows will be performed by DiMucci accompanied by soprano, Aimee-Rose Willett and pianist, Phillip Martorella. Tickets are $20 for non-members, $16 for Linden Place members and $12 for Colt Circle members. To reserve tickets, call 401-253-0390 or go online to www. lindenplace.org. Friends of Linden Place is a non-profit organization responsible for the restoration and preservation of the historic house museum at 500 Hope Street in Bristol.

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A plate of mashed potatoes ranks among the most widely beloved side dishes I know. It’s easy to understand why. They’re an ideal comfort food: earthy and mild, rich yet also austere, filling and yet delightfully easy on the palate. They also go with virtually any main dish. Did I mention that mashed potatoes are also easy to make? The first step is to start with the right potatoes. I like ones that combine the slightly mealy quality of baking potatoes with the finer texture of waxy boiling potatoes. That usually leads me to the Yukon Gold variety, which also possesses a wonderfully rich, naturally buttery flavor. But you could also use common russet potatoes too. The next key is to cook the potatoes properly. Use salted water, which helps season them as they simmer to tenderness. And don’t cook the potatoes too long, or they’ll get too watery to give you the consistency you need. The way you actually mash the potatoes is another key step. I like to use an inexpensive ricer or a food mill, which gives them a uniform, smooth and slightly fluffy texture. Last but not least, there’s the matter of flavoring the potatoes. One of my favorite ways is to make them into what the French call “pommes aligot.” It’s a traditional preparation from south-central France in which the finely pureed potatoes are generously flavored with garlic and stirred together with warm cream, butter and a rich melting cheese to achieve a consistency that resembles a thick fondue almost as much as it does the mashed potatoes most Americans know and love. Sure, you can use my secrets for cooking and pureeing to make mashed potatoes any way you might like them (even using low-fat milk instead of the richer ingredients). But follow the recipe, and you’ll discover a new dimension of mashed potatoes.

FRENCH-STYLE POTATO PUREE WITH GARLIC AND CHEESE Serves 4

• 1 3/4 lbs. Yukon Gold or Russet potatoes, peeled, cut into halves or quarters depending on size • Kosher salt • 8 cloves garlic, peeled, 6 or 7 left whole, the remainder finely grated • 1/2 cup heavy cream, plus more as needed • 3 tablespoons unsalted butter, cut into chunks • Pinch freshly grated nutmeg • 6 ounces whole-milk mozzarella cheese or Cantal cheese, coarsely shredded • 1/4 cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese • Freshly ground black pepper Put the potatoes and whole garlic cloves in a large saucepan with enough cold water to cover the potatoes. Season with salt. Cover and bring to a boil over high heat, skimming off any froth that rises to the surface. Reduce the heat to a gentle simmer, partially cover the pan, and cook the potatoes until they are tender when pierced with a wooden skewer or a small, sharp knife, 20 to 30 minutes. Drain the potatoes in a colander. Return them to the same pan over medium heat. Partially cover and cook,

shaking or stirring occasionally, until excess water evaporates and the potatoes look dry, 3 to 4 minutes. Meanwhile, bring the cream to a simmer over medium heat. Transfer the potatoes to a bowl. Working in batches, rice the potatoes and garlic cloves back into the same pan. Alternatively, pass them through a food mill; or use a hand-held masher and mash the potatoes and garlic in the pan. Place the pan over medium heat. A little at a time, stir the hot cream and the butter into the potatoes. Stir in a little nutmeg and the grated garlic to taste. Still over medium heat, stir in the mozzarella or Cantal in batches, along with the Parmesan, until the puree looks stringy and resembles thick cheese fondue. If needed for a more fluid consistency, stir in a little more cream. Season to taste with salt and pepper. Serve immediately. (c) 2016 WOLFGANG PUCK WORLDWIDE, INC. DISTRIBUTED BY TRIBUNE CONTENT AGENCY, LLC.

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